90 Day The Last Resort S02E02
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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day, The Last Resort.
00:00:04Cheers everybody!
00:00:06No crying!
00:00:08Coming to this retreat,
00:00:10we are all here because we have serious issues.
00:00:15Let's try not to break up for at least the first few days.
00:00:20If we can get past these issues
00:00:22and she can understand where I'm coming from,
00:00:24I feel like, you know, she could be the one.
00:00:28Her man has been, like, messaging me on Instagram.
00:00:31What?
00:00:32Wait, wait, wait.
00:00:33He was, like, inviting me to, like, Vegas.
00:00:36This plan will fire.
00:00:38Because here we are.
00:00:41Look around at this ragtag bunch of failing marriages.
00:00:45I feel bad for the therapist.
00:00:47They got some work to do.
00:00:49I really want to have kids.
00:00:51Julia's telling me she no longer does.
00:00:53It's kind of, like, too much to talk about that.
00:00:56I don't think so, so...
00:00:59I feel like Florian's repeating patterns.
00:01:01One day I noticed he had makeup on his shirt.
00:01:04Wow.
00:01:05From a dog, you're making an elephant, you know?
00:01:09I'm not your little bitch.
00:01:10Listen, wife.
00:01:12I don't know, I'm, like, embarrassed.
00:01:14Embarrassed for what?
00:01:15Because I feel like my own husband...
00:01:19Jasmine will go out until, like, the next morning
00:01:23and say, oh, I spent the night at my friend's house.
00:01:28I don't think that's acceptable in a marriage.
00:01:40I love him a lot, but I do have trust issues.
00:01:44So I just really want us to at least give it one last try
00:01:47before we really decide whether we're gonna work or we're not.
00:01:50I've made some mistakes in the past, but I've apologized,
00:01:52and I've really done everything in my power to make it right.
00:01:55But recently I found out some information
00:01:57that just completely folded me.
00:02:00So if she's gonna hold me accountable for my lies,
00:02:03then she needs to reveal all of her secrets as well.
00:02:07He's gonna try to say that he hasn't been unfaithful,
00:02:11but I have all the evidence.
00:02:12Because you're a liar. You're a f***ing liar.
00:02:14Get the f*** out of this room.
00:02:17Oh, my God.
00:02:19I mean, the amount of disrespect that I get from him,
00:02:21it's unbearable.
00:02:23I had to leave my home with my son to get away from him.
00:02:52Oh, my God.
00:02:55Oh, my God.
00:03:21Oh, my God.
00:03:27Oh, my gosh.
00:03:34That was an interesting day.
00:03:36Yeah, it was.
00:03:39I feel like it could be less awkward if...
00:03:45One guy has been hitting on you for the last two months.
00:03:48Did you say he did speak to me at all?
00:03:50He didn't?
00:03:51No.
00:03:52Would you ever message Natalie and be like,
00:03:53you wanna come to Vegas with me?
00:03:55No.
00:03:56Yeah, no, that was weird.
00:03:58I'm f***ing bad, but I'm as bad as other people.
00:04:02No, we're not the worst here.
00:04:04So, is the one girl Stacy or is she Darcy?
00:04:08I don't know.
00:04:10You should probably look up who Florian's married to.
00:04:13Hold on, let me double check that.
00:04:16Because Florian could be married to Darcy or Stacy.
00:04:20I just don't know.
00:04:22Hold on, let me see.
00:04:25Okay.
00:04:26All right, so from now on, that's Stacy.
00:04:29Okay.
00:04:31I think she's really sweet.
00:04:33Sounds to me like he's been out here hooking up with females.
00:04:37Coming home with makeup on his shirt.
00:04:39Yeah, I don't like him.
00:04:40She should leave him.
00:04:47What do you wanna do?
00:04:49I'm hungry, maybe watch TV.
00:04:52What do you think about couples?
00:04:54What do I think about the couples?
00:04:56I think they're interesting, I think the stories are crazy.
00:05:03And I feel like they just have a lot going on.
00:05:09Tonight, at the first therapy session,
00:05:12I heard everybody else's major issues.
00:05:15Like, a lot of cheating, not having sex together.
00:05:18And, you know, Natalie and I, we're okay in that department.
00:05:22Our relationship, like, 70% it's sex, and 2% we fight.
00:05:29I feel it's actually 75% is fighting, and that kills everything.
00:05:37You're just too sensitive.
00:05:40I think we both have, you know, issues that we can probably work out
00:05:44and make us better.
00:05:46What do you think would make us better, like a couple?
00:05:49I don't know, like, that's what I'm trying to figure out.
00:05:52What do you mean?
00:05:54Well, like, you know, a lot of the times, you know, we'll get to a place
00:05:59and then I feel a lot of pressure from you for certain things
00:06:02that I just can't deliver.
00:06:04And then it makes me just, like, take steps back.
00:06:08I obviously want family.
00:06:12Like, I always wanted family and relationship and...
00:06:17We're rushing everything here.
00:06:21But, you know, I mean, that's why we're here, to talk these things out.
00:06:25You know, like, listen, this is three weeks,
00:06:28and in that three weeks, we're going to know,
00:06:30yeah, we're going to do this, or no, we're not going to do this.
00:06:33Yeah, we're going to do this, or no, we're not going to do this.
00:06:54How many socks did you pack for me?
00:06:58I have no idea. I'm telling you, pack your socks and panties.
00:07:01I'm not your mother, and I still take your...
00:07:04But you packed everything else.
00:07:06I packed everything. Why didn't you pack your socks?
00:07:09Can you please hurry up, and we will be waiting?
00:07:13OK, all right.
00:07:32You're working.
00:07:33I like when you're working.
00:07:36Last night, I out-controlled it.
00:07:38Honestly, I was...
00:07:39Well, I mean, we both were calling each other names.
00:07:41Yeah, but...
00:07:42I'm sorry for saying all the nasty things I said last night,
00:07:46because I didn't mean to say those things.
00:07:49I was upset and frustrated,
00:07:51because you were leaving the house
00:07:53and not telling me where you were going.
00:07:55We were arguing.
00:07:56I asked for your location. You didn't send me your location.
00:07:59By the second day, you told me you were with your friend.
00:08:02And that is a friend that we have in common.
00:08:04I told you, I am with Brandi.
00:08:07And that night, I was very mad,
00:08:09but I'm sorry that I made you worried.
00:08:13Let's be nice to each other, in front of other people at least.
00:08:18Please, if it is not too much to ask.
00:08:22When Jasmine left and went to sleep out,
00:08:26a friend of mine mentioned
00:08:28she was just hanging out with Brandi at her house.
00:08:33I wasn't 100% sure, you know,
00:08:36is she, you know, being honest with me?
00:08:39Because sometimes she wouldn't respond at all.
00:08:42But I've had the night to sleep on things,
00:08:45and, you know, I'm feeling a little bit better
00:08:49about the fact that I don't believe
00:08:51that Jasmine is sleeping at a guy's house.
00:08:57I'm not going to harp on yesterday. I'm in a good mood.
00:09:01I'll let it go.
00:09:03Just please be nice to me.
00:09:06Be nice.
00:09:08I know.
00:09:09Just...
00:09:10I excuse myself.
00:09:27Hi.
00:09:28Hi.
00:09:29How are you doing today?
00:09:30Good. Good morning.
00:09:31Good morning.
00:09:32I want to come in and check on you guys and see how you're doing.
00:09:36Yeah.
00:09:37Yeah?
00:09:38Yeah, you might want to do that.
00:09:39Okay, good.
00:09:40Vinny and I had our first group therapy session last night,
00:09:43and it did not go very well.
00:09:45The fact that we slept in separate rooms
00:09:47isn't exactly a great way to start a couple's retreat.
00:09:51Do you want to grab Vinny?
00:09:53Uh, he is not here.
00:09:55Okay, so is he able to come down here?
00:09:58Yeah, I can call him.
00:09:59Okay, let's do that.
00:10:03Our couples are illustrating a lot of difficulty
00:10:06in communicating right from the start.
00:10:08The first thing I want to do is check in on Ari and Vinny.
00:10:11Last night, you could tell that they're not in a good spot.
00:10:15Ari stated her concerns very concise,
00:10:18and Vinny responded with anger.
00:10:22So I'm a little concerned where they left off.
00:10:26Hey, Vinny.
00:10:27Yes?
00:10:28One of the therapists is here in our room.
00:10:30Would you be willing to come here now?
00:10:33Yeah, I'm coming.
00:10:34All right, thank you.
00:10:36No problem.
00:10:37Bye.
00:10:39I really wish that Vinny and I were in a better place
00:10:41where we could share a room.
00:10:43I mean, in a perfect world,
00:10:45Vinny could have come in and been like,
00:10:47you know, I'm sorry, I'm sorry I hurt you,
00:10:49the relationship at this point is broken,
00:10:51but, you know, broken things can be fixed.
00:10:55KNOCKING
00:11:09How are you?
00:11:11Hi, how are you?
00:11:12It's good.
00:11:14After last night, I feel like I'm very upset with Ari,
00:11:19but I'm hoping today we will be better,
00:11:23and then the therapy, she can help us communicate today,
00:11:28because every time we do a conversation,
00:11:31me and Ari, we're going to fight.
00:11:35So how are you doing today?
00:11:39Like, just yesterday, just I'm feeling like,
00:11:43just stress situation,
00:11:45but for now, just the main thing,
00:11:50just I need my eyes, like, open.
00:11:53I want my social media,
00:11:55that's the beginning for me, like, first step
00:11:58for next continuity.
00:12:02This is super frustrating,
00:12:03because once again, he insists that
00:12:05I give him back his social media passwords.
00:12:07I've been Benny's manager for his career as a performer,
00:12:12but then I found out that he was cheating on me,
00:12:14and I changed all his passwords.
00:12:16I was just angry with him,
00:12:17and it was, I was sort of getting back at him.
00:12:20Maybe it was a little vindictive,
00:12:21but I don't regret it,
00:12:22because I was so pissed off and so upset.
00:12:27I feel like I'm inside the glass in the box,
00:12:31like I can't do anything.
00:12:32I feel like she's blackmailing me.
00:12:35Benny, what do you mean by blackmail?
00:12:37Like, for me, blackmail, I don't know, maybe it's wrong.
00:12:40This is my second language.
00:12:41Blackmail means I have everything,
00:12:44your social media, everything,
00:12:46your email address, like, something,
00:12:48like, do whatever I say.
00:12:50Okay.
00:12:51You know, but for building trust,
00:12:54this is for me, like, in the trust,
00:12:56the beginning, she can give to me my trust back.
00:12:58I mean, how could I trust someone who cheats on me?
00:13:02So, with that being said,
00:13:03do you want this relationship to work?
00:13:07Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't.
00:13:09Okay.
00:13:10I mentally, I can't take it anymore.
00:13:12The circles.
00:13:13What makes you not jump off that merry-go-round in general,
00:13:16not just here?
00:13:17I have.
00:13:18I left for four months just to get away from the,
00:13:20you know, I had to leave for my own sanity.
00:13:25Has it helped?
00:13:27It's helped a lot.
00:13:31Has it helped you as a couple?
00:13:39No, it has not helped us.
00:13:40It has not helped you guys?
00:13:44So, one thing is, is that if you both said last night,
00:13:48I want to be in this marriage,
00:13:50but your actions and the way you talk to each other
00:13:53doesn't say that.
00:13:54Exactly.
00:13:55So, the social media thing,
00:13:57I now understand why you want it back,
00:13:59but you have never once said,
00:14:01I want my wife back.
00:14:04What do you want in regards to this relationship?
00:14:07Do you want it at all?
00:14:19All right.
00:14:20So, if that's the case,
00:14:21you got to do the work,
00:14:23and you got to listen to each other.
00:14:25But we're not going to get through all of this
00:14:27right here in this session.
00:14:28We do have an activity,
00:14:30which I think this will lead us into that,
00:14:32where you guys can start to have some conversations
00:14:34about these issues,
00:14:35and to see if we can find any area
00:14:37where you guys can find a common ground
00:14:40so we can build off of that.
00:14:42But let's put the internet and computer and social media
00:14:45and all that aside from today,
00:14:47because this process can't get going
00:14:49if we are stuck on the social media.
00:14:52We got to get to trust.
00:14:55With Ari and Benny,
00:14:56they had a lot of problems in their communication styles,
00:14:58and I think they go to the fight routines.
00:15:01So today, this exercise should give them tools
00:15:04to help them better communicate with each other
00:15:06in a different way than they're used to.
00:15:09So let's get off campus and see what happens.
00:15:12I think you guys will really enjoy this activity.
00:15:27Ari is still my obvious mother.
00:15:29Still I love her.
00:15:30Maybe without fighting,
00:15:32maybe we can fix the situation.
00:15:36You're teammates, you're not enemies.
00:15:38So go through this process with an open heart, okay?
00:15:43Okay.
00:15:57Hey, guys.
00:15:59Hi.
00:16:02Excuse my butt.
00:16:04Thought I was a little thinner.
00:16:09Well, let's just all have a good day today, enjoy yourselves.
00:16:13We're doing this therapy to improve our relationships.
00:16:18Well, thanks for the positivity, Gino.
00:16:20Yeah, it's sunny outside, beautiful.
00:16:23It's...
00:16:25warm.
00:16:27We left the resort and we are driving,
00:16:30and now we're, like, in the middle of nowhere.
00:16:32We're, like, in the boonies.
00:16:34This is how horror movies start.
00:16:37We are, like, a very big, happy, dysfunctional family
00:16:42that is going on vacation nowhere in the wilderness
00:16:46to receive therapy.
00:16:48We get lost in the desert,
00:16:50and we have to survive, and we are cannibals.
00:16:53I will eat Benny, for sure.
00:16:55Because...
00:16:56You like the muscle.
00:16:57The muscle.
00:16:58Maybe, like, that's gonna, like, nourish my body.
00:17:01That would be my first victim.
00:17:06Okay, guys, be careful with scorpions and snakes,
00:17:09because Brent told... What kind of snake here?
00:17:12Well, rattlesnakes.
00:17:14I think the Mojave rattler.
00:17:15I carry anti-venom in my purse, so I should be fine.
00:17:18Yeah?
00:17:19Yeah?
00:17:32Okay, what is that?
00:17:35I see a pile of rocks.
00:17:39What are we doing?
00:17:41Be a little scared.
00:17:44You lied to me.
00:17:46When I was 14 years old.
00:17:48No, it's you lying about it.
00:17:50Do you not get the difference?
00:17:51What I did when I was 14 years old.
00:17:53You don't get the difference.
00:17:54I have confirmation on the phone clear as day.
00:17:57Sophie messaging Callum.
00:17:58Her ex.
00:17:59Don't tell Rob about us having sex.
00:18:02No, I'm not doing that with you.
00:18:05The only reason you brought me to this country, okay,
00:18:09with lies that you were gonna be an amazing husband,
00:18:13blah, blah, blah.
00:18:14Yeah, I have been amazing.
00:18:15You don't appreciate anything.
00:18:16No, you brought me here.
00:18:17That's the problem.
00:18:18You are the biggest scammer in the world.
00:18:20Right.
00:18:34Hi, guys.
00:18:47Welcome, everybody.
00:18:48Hello.
00:18:49How are you?
00:18:50Hello, a little scared.
00:18:51You're scared?
00:18:52Little.
00:18:53Well, there may be something to be scared of.
00:18:55What kind of therapy are you gonna take us in the middle of nowhere?
00:18:59Snake therapy?
00:19:01I don't know.
00:19:02There's a huge pile of rocks,
00:19:04and I'm wondering, are we gonna throw these at each other?
00:19:07You just read my mind.
00:19:09Welcome back, everyone.
00:19:10I hope everybody had a good night, got some sleep,
00:19:13and ready for some exercise today.
00:19:16We're about to embark through the trails, through the mountains.
00:19:20This is called Compromise Canyon.
00:19:23So for the first part of this exercise,
00:19:25I want you guys to really think about an issue within the relationship
00:19:30that you want to work on.
00:19:32I'm gonna have you all go ahead and pick up a backpack,
00:19:36grab two rocks and a marker.
00:19:39You're gonna write your issue on both of your rocks,
00:19:43and then you're gonna give one of your rocks to your significant other.
00:19:47We will go ahead and put both of the rocks in your backpack.
00:19:51Let's head over, grab a backpack and a marker, and two rocks each.
00:19:58Today, this exercise should help them better communicate with each other
00:20:02in a different way than they're used to.
00:20:05It's so hard. I'm so different.
00:20:08It's not like pizza.
00:20:10They each essentially are carrying each other's problems,
00:20:13and so this kind of gives them a feel of how it feels
00:20:16to carry all this weight that is unnecessary.
00:20:20Can I pick this one?
00:20:23I want a thin one.
00:20:24Right, I'm picking the smallest one.
00:20:27I'm a Libra. I can't make a decision.
00:20:29What are you writing?
00:20:31Compassion.
00:20:33What does that mean to you?
00:20:35Like just taking into account how the other person feels,
00:20:39and not just like, I think both of us struggle with that.
00:20:42Like me, I need to think of how he might feel,
00:20:44and who is about mine.
00:20:46I think a lot of times we don't.
00:20:48You guys already have yours?
00:20:49Yeah.
00:20:50What did you put? Access?
00:20:52Yeah.
00:20:54My problem is access to Josh's life,
00:20:58because for now I'm kind of blinded.
00:21:01I don't understand, because my boyfriend
00:21:04doesn't even invite me to his house.
00:21:06If he would take me to his house,
00:21:08he would show that he really cares for me
00:21:10and that he takes me really seriously.
00:21:15What are you guys going to put on your rocks?
00:21:18Transparency.
00:21:20Because I don't know a lot about
00:21:21what the f*** Sophie's been doing.
00:21:23She's been living her life without me.
00:21:25Okay, that's a really good one.
00:21:27I know exactly what I'm going to put.
00:21:32You want me to write it?
00:21:34For what?
00:21:36For respect.
00:21:38R.
00:21:40B.
00:21:43What's yours?
00:21:45Transparency.
00:21:50Why didn't you tell me yours?
00:21:52Because I just told you mine.
00:21:55Look at my rock.
00:21:59Look at my rock.
00:22:00I just saw it.
00:22:01Yeah.
00:22:05You writing compassion feels like that's funny
00:22:09when I know you've been lying to me for so long.
00:22:11Like you'd f*** your ex, Calum,
00:22:14and you lied to me about that.
00:22:15And then you brought the guy to my face
00:22:17and you both stood there in the same room with me
00:22:19knowing that you'd had sex lying to me together.
00:22:23He thinks we're exes.
00:22:25We're not really even exes, right?
00:22:26It's barely anything.
00:22:27Yeah, I wouldn't even go as far as exes.
00:22:29You know, we were kids.
00:22:30I could mess around as kids.
00:22:32So there is an attraction.
00:22:33You guys did like each other at some point.
00:22:35Call it what you want.
00:22:38If you knew what it was like,
00:22:40and I'm sure you've got it with friends
00:22:41where you kissed a couple times when you were kids.
00:22:44I appreciate your input.
00:22:46I'm gonna finish talking to her.
00:22:51You lied to me.
00:22:52I'm not talking about the situation
00:22:53that happened when I was 14.
00:22:54I'm not. I'm sorry.
00:22:55But you lied to me, though.
00:22:57You lied to me.
00:22:59Before this retreat, I got confirmation,
00:23:02clear as day, text messages in Sophie's phone
00:23:05that her and Calum,
00:23:06the guy that she brought all the way from England
00:23:08to meet me, swore that they were just friends.
00:23:10That they'd f***ed.
00:23:12They'd had sex before.
00:23:14I just found out this about you,
00:23:15and you've been lying to me this whole time.
00:23:17That's what you want to think.
00:23:21Everyone has two rocks.
00:23:23The name of the game here is to be able to
00:23:26compromise through some of these issues.
00:23:29You're gonna come up to one checkpoint,
00:23:32and you're gonna think about how you can work on this
00:23:35as a couple.
00:23:37If you compromise through some of these issues,
00:23:40you can leave your rocks there.
00:23:43If you can't find any compromise,
00:23:45those rocks are staying with you.
00:23:47Let's leave the rock,
00:23:49let's release the burden,
00:23:51and be able to free ourselves so we can move forward.
00:23:53All right, let's break you guys up into groups.
00:23:56We'll start with Jasmine and Gino,
00:23:58Natalie and Josh.
00:24:02Gino and Jasmine are our partners.
00:24:04I like Gino.
00:24:05You know, I have good conversation with him.
00:24:07I'm not having much conversation with Jasmine.
00:24:10She doesn't let him even speak.
00:24:12She doesn't.
00:24:13It's like a radio. She's switching on, like, nonstop.
00:24:16Yeah.
00:24:18Stacy and Florian,
00:24:20and...
00:24:22Binnie and Ari.
00:24:25And then another two, Rob and Sophie,
00:24:27and Brandon and Julia.
00:24:30Ari and Binnie, they're, like, experienced in hiking and stuff,
00:24:33so at least we'll be safe.
00:24:36Darci and I got lost in the wilderness once,
00:24:39in high school.
00:24:41We were missing for, like, 12 hours.
00:24:43Our dad had to call the rescue.
00:24:45But we found our way out.
00:24:47There was, like, a horse trail that we followed the horse poop.
00:24:50You know, hopefully nothing like that happens.
00:24:52We don't get lost.
00:24:56This is a map of the trail.
00:24:58It's gonna lead you there and back.
00:25:00Good luck with your journey. You guys got this.
00:25:02Whoo!
00:25:04When I was 14 years old...
00:25:06And you lied. Lying is lying.
00:25:08Lying is lying. You didn't lie when you were 14.
00:25:10I don't think anyone here would care
00:25:12what their partner did at 14 years old.
00:25:14No, it's you lying about it. Do you not get the difference?
00:25:16Well, I did when I was 14 years old.
00:25:18You don't get the difference.
00:25:20The therapist, I want to talk to you to make sure you guys are OK.
00:25:23Like, do you want to take a step back?
00:25:25Yeah, I actually don't want to be around him,
00:25:27and I'm, like, really annoyed.
00:25:30So let's think about
00:25:32how we're gonna get through this moment,
00:25:34doing this hike.
00:25:36I can, but he's gonna be horrible the whole time.
00:25:38OK, let's... Rob, come over here.
00:25:40It's funny that she writes compassion on her rock
00:25:42and has zero for me.
00:25:44She's been lying to me about at least one thing
00:25:46this entire time.
00:25:48He's upset that I had sex with someone when I was 14 years old.
00:25:50It's not about the fact that she hooked up with him.
00:25:52It's about the fact she was...
00:25:54...lying to me the whole time.
00:25:57To my face, consistently.
00:26:01No, I'm not... I'm not doing that with you.
00:26:03I'm not doing it.
00:26:08We have no chance now
00:26:10because of some... when I was 14 years old.
00:26:15I'm just embarrassed
00:26:17cos I chose this person to marry.
00:26:19I'm so sorry.
00:26:21You don't deserve that.
00:26:24It's been very hard five years
00:26:26because of you lying.
00:26:30If she wants something,
00:26:32she wants something by force.
00:26:34I can't pretend.
00:26:36I feel like I'm trapped.
00:26:451.4.
00:26:47Miles? Yeah.
00:26:49I just find it...
00:26:51...crazy how much she's held against me,
00:26:53how hard she's came at me
00:26:55about anything that I've done.
00:26:57And she's lying to me the whole time.
00:27:01Today, we're here at the therapy retreat
00:27:03on a mountain in the middle of the desert.
00:27:05And Sophie's got the audacity to write
00:27:07compassion on her rock.
00:27:09Meanwhile, she's lying to my face.
00:27:11I saw the messages.
00:27:13Clear as day. Sophie messaging Callum, her ex,
00:27:15don't tell Rob about us having sex.
00:27:17It's lie after lie after lie,
00:27:19and then she deflects and gaslights me
00:27:21and says, oh, well, that all happened
00:27:23when I was younger.
00:27:25No, you lying to me is now.
00:27:29What would you like her to say to you?
00:27:31Rob, I'm sorry, I...
00:27:33An apology.
00:27:35I just didn't want to talk about it.
00:27:37I didn't want to tell you that
00:27:39because I didn't want it to be a big deal.
00:27:41It didn't mean anything.
00:27:43Like, any type of actual...
00:27:45Okay.
00:27:47Nothing wrong.
00:27:49I need you to do some breathing and relaxing for a second
00:27:51just to kind of get yourself to this calm state
00:27:53to get through this, and I'll go talk to her.
00:27:55But exactly what you're asking for,
00:27:57we'll talk about that, okay?
00:27:59You got this. You can go talk to her.
00:28:01I'm noticing the pattern here is
00:28:03Rob's getting really upset and worked up
00:28:05because he's not feeling understood.
00:28:07There's something that he needs to communicate.
00:28:09She then responds to
00:28:11how he's communicating in his tone
00:28:13and language,
00:28:15and she checks out.
00:28:17Can I talk with you?
00:28:19Yeah.
00:28:21You did your own hike.
00:28:23People react in different ways,
00:28:25and some of them are this concept of fleeing
00:28:27because they get so worried or anxious or scared,
00:28:29and we're seeing Sophie is
00:28:31fleeing these situations.
00:28:33She's taking off.
00:28:35Here we go.
00:28:37Good luck, guys. See you later.
00:28:39Bye.
00:28:41Bye, y'all.
00:28:43Oh, it sounds like
00:28:45it's about a mile.
00:28:47Oh, my God.
00:28:49My sneakers.
00:28:51Oh, well.
00:28:53I'll just buy new ones.
00:28:59Do you think
00:29:01we're going to see camels here?
00:29:03Camels?
00:29:05Yeah.
00:29:07No.
00:29:09What do you mean, no?
00:29:11Yeah, but not this desert.
00:29:13What kind of desert is that?
00:29:15Notice Rob and Sophie having a bit
00:29:17of a squabble, and next she storms
00:29:19away. This is only second therapy,
00:29:21and they already, like, blow up
00:29:23that, and that is not a good
00:29:25sign. They've got the rocks weighing
00:29:27us down, and then we've got Rob and
00:29:29Sophie weighing us down. If you're not going to
00:29:31attempt the challenge, your
00:29:33relationship's never going to get better, and you're
00:29:35never going to get anywhere. So don't
00:29:37drag us down with you, you know what
00:29:39I mean?
00:29:43I really need to pee.
00:29:45Me, too.
00:29:47There's no toilets out here.
00:29:49I mean, there are bushes. I'm holding it.
00:29:51I'm going to protect her
00:29:53from the snakes.
00:29:55It's a human need.
00:29:57Are you going to air dry?
00:29:59Go do it.
00:30:01All the wild.
00:30:03I mean, if you have to go, you have to go.
00:30:05Oh, gosh.
00:30:07I need to pee, like, for real.
00:30:13Oh, it's raining.
00:30:21Come on, guys. Rain is coming.
00:30:23Let's go.
00:30:25Because I want to
00:30:27protect my eyelash extensions
00:30:29and my hair extensions, babe.
00:30:31You and your eyelashes can do this.
00:30:33Like, nice.
00:30:35I don't have time to go this long. I don't want to get wet.
00:30:41I know, Rob.
00:30:43He's going to literally be in a
00:30:45horrible mood with me this whole time. He doesn't let
00:30:47things go. I can let things go. He's going to
00:30:49He already was starting to be rude. He was like, I'm not
00:30:51the f***ing one.
00:30:53That's his history, right?
00:30:55His history makes him respond like that.
00:30:57And I think right now, we diffuse this with
00:30:59I'm sorry, this is a lot of
00:31:01information for both of us, and I'm sorry
00:31:03that you're hurt. And I'd like
00:31:05if he's here with him, I want him to be able to
00:31:07say that to you right now. I think you both need that.
00:31:09I would like to do this and continue
00:31:11with what we're supposed to do. Let's walk back.
00:31:13I understand that I
00:31:15was wrong to not be honest with Rob
00:31:17about the extent of me and Callum's relationship,
00:31:19but at the same time, the way he's acting
00:31:21now is exactly why I didn't
00:31:23want to tell him. But I have
00:31:25come here to work on myself and try and be
00:31:27better, so I am going to go
00:31:29back to Rob and try and sort things out
00:31:31rather than just running away from it.
00:31:39I wrote about, like,
00:31:41respect. What did you write?
00:31:43I wrote affection.
00:31:45Like, for example,
00:31:47you know, when I go to grab your hand,
00:31:49you know, like, sometimes you pull away
00:31:51or when you came to meet me,
00:31:53you just shook my hand, you didn't hug me,
00:31:55you know, but you hugged everybody else and I'm your wife.
00:31:57So, like, if you could just do
00:31:59just small things to show me
00:32:01more affection, that would make our relationship
00:32:03a lot better, you know?
00:32:15Yeah, that's why I'm telling you nicely,
00:32:17just like how you asked.
00:32:19One, two, three.
00:32:21Hi.
00:32:23Oh, God.
00:32:25Hey,
00:32:27like that, like they're just playing and joking around.
00:32:29Can you do that for me?
00:32:31No, no, just I'm tired.
00:32:33Honey, see, like,
00:32:35for example, what they're doing, baby?
00:32:37That would mean a lot to me.
00:32:39OK, you want to do this? Yeah, I want to do that.
00:32:41Whoa!
00:32:47Ah!
00:32:49I weigh, like, 50 kilos.
00:32:51You can handle, I'm sideways.
00:32:53No, no, no, get down, get down.
00:32:55The stone spoke me.
00:32:57No, the stone is behind, it spoke me.
00:32:59OK, let's fix it.
00:33:01OK, come on.
00:33:03Let's try it again.
00:33:05OK, let's go.
00:33:07No, I'll put the backpack on.
00:33:09No, I'm not going to continue.
00:33:11Give me the backpack.
00:33:13I don't want to do that, but I'm just tired.
00:33:15No, this is what I'm talking about.
00:33:17This is ridiculous.
00:33:19OK, well, guess what?
00:33:21You're a baby.
00:33:23I'm a child.
00:33:25It's not comfortable.
00:33:27Yeah, but you chose to carry the biggest stones.
00:33:29You didn't need to do that.
00:33:31I really feel that you're just using this
00:33:33as an excuse to not be anywhere near me.
00:33:35It just adds insult to injury, really.
00:33:37I'm so sorry.
00:33:39I feel like we started something.
00:33:41You didn't do anything. It's ridiculous.
00:33:43It's a form of affection.
00:33:45You know, you're trying to reconnect.
00:33:47You think that this is my thing?
00:33:49I'm so sorry.
00:33:51You don't deserve that.
00:33:57Oh, my God.
00:34:07And I'm just embarrassed
00:34:09because I chose this person to marry.
00:34:11That's the problem.
00:34:13She forced me.
00:34:15If I don't want something,
00:34:17this is the one.
00:34:19It's control.
00:34:21I don't know if Harry and Benny
00:34:23are going to make it today, to be honest.
00:34:25Somebody is going to run away, probably.
00:34:27We're good listeners.
00:34:29I feel like, you know,
00:34:31we feel for other people.
00:34:33Kind of like the mom and dad of the group.
00:34:35What the f***?
00:34:37What the f***?
00:34:39I'm going to adopt
00:34:41Benny and Harry.
00:34:43Yeah.
00:34:45Marcus.
00:34:55You should do this therapy, you know,
00:34:57listen to her, everything,
00:34:59and Harry's going to listen to her.
00:35:01This is like day two, you know?
00:35:03It's like many days, you know?
00:35:05You understand it?
00:35:07If she wants something,
00:35:09she wants something by force.
00:35:11You know what I'm saying?
00:35:13You don't need to look at the bad things.
00:35:15You need to look at what you make
00:35:17you guys together, you know,
00:35:19to be you guys together.
00:35:21That's why I came here.
00:35:23We have a son.
00:35:25But for that,
00:35:27I need trust, you know?
00:35:29I can tell you that.
00:35:31I love somebody.
00:35:33Everything shut down, I promise you.
00:35:35I give a f*** for f*** email,
00:35:37I don't give a f*** for f*** social media,
00:35:39I don't give a f*** for my Instagram, you know?
00:35:41You should try for your son, to be honest.
00:35:43You should try.
00:35:45I try to
00:35:47communicate with her for
00:35:49fix it because of my son,
00:35:51but I can't move on from it
00:35:53because that's my freedom.
00:35:55I can't pretend.
00:35:57I don't know, I can't pretend.
00:35:59Oh, everything's okay, just okay, we can move on.
00:36:01I can't pretend it.
00:36:03I feel like I'm trapped.
00:36:07Alright, let's go.
00:36:17What do you want to do?
00:36:23You know, we've been dealing with trust issues
00:36:25since you've been in America.
00:36:27I need help. I need help to figure out
00:36:29how to trust you.
00:36:31Keep it in your hands.
00:36:33No, I don't want it anymore.
00:36:35I don't want it anymore. You take it from me.
00:36:37Stay.
00:36:39I want to be free.
00:36:41Stay.
00:36:55What do you want to do?
00:36:57Alright, let's go.
00:36:59Stick together.
00:37:01Definitely feel a connection with you and
00:37:03I'm a mom too and I get it.
00:37:07I feel really bad.
00:37:09I almost feel like guilty for, you know,
00:37:11the piggyback. Florian wanted to do that
00:37:13and I felt like that was a form of affection
00:37:15from him to do that.
00:37:17There's nothing wrong with that.
00:37:19We've been here and I feel like, oh, he's making some effort, you know?
00:37:21And I know you really
00:37:23wanted that
00:37:25but he couldn't make any effort.
00:37:27It's just, it's not right
00:37:29and you don't deserve that.
00:37:37You guys come here
00:37:39to be together, correct?
00:37:41Forget what happened.
00:37:43Work on the problem.
00:37:45In order to work on a problem
00:37:47you need to have a partner
00:37:49to work on it. If someone's not willing
00:37:51to work on it, nothing is getting solved.
00:37:53Before when I'm coming here, I tell you
00:37:55I swear it's not Avi's life.
00:37:57So many times, even when we started.
00:37:59You said swear on our son's life.
00:38:01I swear on Avi's life. I'm not move on
00:38:03if he not give it to me freedom.
00:38:05If he give it to me, give it to me. If he not give it to me, I don't know.
00:38:07Okay, Vinny, we agreed
00:38:09that social media, that was it.
00:38:11The therapist asked you not to talk
00:38:13about social media for one day.
00:38:15I don't want to talk about anything.
00:38:17Okay, so then continue.
00:38:19Let's go continue.
00:38:21Let's go, let's go. Sorry, guys.
00:38:35I think it's this way.
00:38:37I mean, like, now we're on our way
00:38:39by ourselves.
00:38:41And we're waiting Sophie and Rob
00:38:43all this time.
00:38:45Yeah, but I mean, they're kind of in relationships
00:38:47having an implosion, so I mean
00:38:49if that was happening to us, we might be in the same boat.
00:38:51I don't know how focused you'd be on challenges.
00:38:53I will be still continuing.
00:38:55We have a team, and to be honest
00:38:57I'm already so mad.
00:39:01I'm pissed.
00:39:03Because we wait you from
00:39:05all this time, and you not come to us
00:39:07and say, hey, don't wait me.
00:39:09Go alone.
00:39:11We wait him, and now we are missing
00:39:13our therapy because
00:39:15of another couples.
00:39:17I hear for you, I hear for us.
00:39:19Don't you have to pick
00:39:21such a big rock for my bag?
00:39:23Yes, I choose most heavy rock.
00:39:25Why would you do that?
00:39:27Why? I tell you why.
00:39:29Because you want me to compromise, don't you?
00:39:31I feel like we are lost.
00:39:33I think it's this way.
00:39:35No, I feel we lost.
00:39:43I see some flags.
00:39:47Let's see if we can compromise.
00:39:49Or if we can't compromise,
00:39:51we have to keep the rock.
00:39:53It's a heavy one.
00:39:55Mm-hmm.
00:39:57It's killing me, this rock.
00:39:59So I wrote on my rock
00:40:01independence with a broken heart.
00:40:05I feel unappreciated.
00:40:07I feel
00:40:09on value
00:40:11and unhappy.
00:40:13And to make it
00:40:15better, I need to feel
00:40:17that you support
00:40:19me as my partner.
00:40:23I support
00:40:25you by paying the bills every month
00:40:27in our home. I've been supporting you
00:40:29since you were in Panama financially
00:40:31and with emotional.
00:40:33I've been supporting you since you've
00:40:35been in Michigan. That is total
00:40:37support, so don't say I don't support you.
00:40:39I have a problem with that.
00:40:41The way I pictured things in my mind
00:40:43was like, okay, I'm giving up
00:40:45on my independence that I
00:40:47used to have in Panama
00:40:49by coming here, and I thought that it was
00:40:51going to be temporarily, you know,
00:40:53until my green card
00:40:55was processed. But now
00:40:57that I got my green card,
00:40:59reality has hit me, and
00:41:01I still don't have any
00:41:03sort of independence. I'm still in
00:41:05the same s*** situation.
00:41:07And the only
00:41:09difference is that, okay, now I have the green card.
00:41:11Even if I
00:41:13try to get a job on my own
00:41:15now that I'm able to, I don't even have
00:41:17a driver's license, and I don't
00:41:19have any sort of support
00:41:21coming from you.
00:41:23That's not true. I don't have
00:41:25independence. Everything, I rely
00:41:27on you.
00:41:29A lot of our arguments start because
00:41:31Juno doesn't want to drive me anywhere.
00:41:33So I don't have a car, I don't have
00:41:35a driver's license. I'm not asking
00:41:37for a lot of things like, hey,
00:41:39deposit, like, tons of money
00:41:41so I can have a car and use
00:41:43it as I want. I will
00:41:45be happy with any car.
00:41:47Traffic car, used car,
00:41:49you know, I don't care.
00:41:51To feel like I regain my independence,
00:41:53I
00:41:55need you to get me a car.
00:41:59I cannot live like this.
00:42:05I think
00:42:07this is the one.
00:42:09We got it.
00:42:11Here we go.
00:42:13We made it.
00:42:15Let's do the honor.
00:42:17Open the back.
00:42:19I think you guys
00:42:21go everybody couple, like, separate
00:42:23and figure out.
00:42:25We'll give you guys some space and we'll be over there.
00:42:27Over here. Good luck.
00:42:29Figure out our problems.
00:42:31So,
00:42:33I wrote on my,
00:42:35I wrote on my rock
00:42:37affection.
00:42:39Affection means to give love.
00:42:41You can give affection many different ways.
00:42:43So before we talk about our rocks,
00:42:45we're going to hold each other's hands
00:42:47and we're going to look into each other's eyes.
00:42:49Okay. Okay?
00:42:51Do you want to do it?
00:42:53Okay, yeah. For how long?
00:42:55I don't know how long.
00:42:57Okay. Three seconds.
00:42:59Should I go first?
00:43:01Yeah, go for it.
00:43:03All right.
00:43:05Trust.
00:43:07That's right. I chose trust.
00:43:09You know, we've been dealing with
00:43:11trust issues from since you've been in America.
00:43:13And since the cheating scandal,
00:43:15it was something that
00:43:17was very hard.
00:43:19Mm-hmm.
00:43:21And we've been dealing with trust issues
00:43:23since you've been in America.
00:43:25And since the cheating scandal,
00:43:27it was something that was very hard.
00:43:29Mm-hmm.
00:43:31And still is very hard to forget.
00:43:33Mm-hmm.
00:43:35I don't want to have to worry about you
00:43:37f***ing girls and, you know,
00:43:39having side chicks and stuff.
00:43:41I want to be able to trust you.
00:43:43I want to be able
00:43:45to grow old with you.
00:43:47I want us to reconnect
00:43:49and be back
00:43:51the way we used to be.
00:43:53I feel like we lost that.
00:43:55I want to get back to the way we used to be.
00:44:01Thanks for coming here
00:44:03to work together on this.
00:44:05You don't need to cry, please.
00:44:07I need help. I need help to figure out
00:44:09how to trust you.
00:44:11Huh?
00:44:13You want to take this off of me?
00:44:15Yeah.
00:44:17You want to take it off of me?
00:44:19What take it off?
00:44:21Keep it in your hands and don't cry, please.
00:44:23I don't want it anymore.
00:44:25You take it from me.
00:44:27What the hell?
00:44:29You take it from me.
00:44:31I want to be free.
00:44:33I want to be free.
00:44:35What the hell is wrong with you?
00:44:43I put one word,
00:44:45access, being more part of your life.
00:44:47You know, I feel like I've
00:44:49been giving you a lot of access.
00:44:51Could it be possible
00:44:53we visit your house and just
00:44:55you make a tour for me?
00:44:57He doesn't want me to investigate his house.
00:44:59And I do want to investigate
00:45:01his house.
00:45:09I want to be free.
00:45:13I want to be free.
00:45:15What the hell is wrong with you?
00:45:17I'm releasing.
00:45:19I'm releasing.
00:45:21Let me just release.
00:45:23Stace.
00:45:25Stace.
00:45:27I want us to release together.
00:45:31Okay, stop it.
00:45:37I need a hug.
00:45:39I can give you a hug
00:45:41ten times.
00:45:43Stace.
00:45:49If you love somebody, it's hard to see
00:45:51somebody struggling.
00:45:53I don't cry a lot, but when I cry,
00:45:55I know her.
00:45:57It's a big deal, you know.
00:45:59I know her like how many times
00:46:01she's breathed in a day.
00:46:03I know her very well.
00:46:07The one thing about Florian,
00:46:09he is a very committed person.
00:46:11He is committed to me.
00:46:13And this is what we need
00:46:15to make it through.
00:46:17I want to have a happy ending.
00:46:21How do you think you're going
00:46:23to trust me? How do you think I can work
00:46:25with this example?
00:46:27To leave this rock here, basically?
00:46:29I just need to see more action
00:46:31and
00:46:33not talk.
00:46:35You're going to see more action, okay?
00:46:37Not to try to go more out
00:46:39like late, you know.
00:46:41Every time you call, I answer the phone.
00:46:43It's going to change many things
00:46:45step by step, you know, little by little.
00:46:47You promise?
00:46:49I promise you.
00:46:51I can trust you for life.
00:46:53Yes, for life. Not for like part-time,
00:46:55but for life.
00:46:59What do you want to do
00:47:01with this rock?
00:47:03I want to leave it here.
00:47:05Okay, leave it here.
00:47:07Let's talk
00:47:09for the other rock.
00:47:11Don't leave it here.
00:47:15Okay.
00:47:27Okay, what is...
00:47:29Where we go now?
00:47:31Can I pet your dog?
00:47:33Hi, my baby!
00:47:35Oh my goodness!
00:47:37Oh, hello!
00:47:39We love you. We absolutely love you.
00:47:41Okay.
00:47:45Have fun. Bye, Lucy!
00:47:47Have a great day.
00:47:49Hey, guys. Look who's here.
00:47:51How are y'all doing? Everything going okay?
00:47:53Yeah.
00:47:55I was able to convince
00:47:57Sophie and Rob to move forward
00:47:59on this hike.
00:48:01I offered to go on the hike with them because I could see
00:48:03their stress between the two of them.
00:48:05Maybe I can guide them, offer some support,
00:48:07give a little mediation,
00:48:09just to keep facilitating it and moving it forward.
00:48:11But did you guys take a moment?
00:48:13I mean, look at this. Oh, yeah, we did.
00:48:17Even though I'm still very upset
00:48:19about Sophie lying to me,
00:48:21her and James come up to me and we talk
00:48:23and I decided to continue
00:48:25to do the hike.
00:48:27We did not magically resolve the issue
00:48:29at all, but that's the whole
00:48:31reason we're here, is to work through this stuff.
00:48:37We made it! Look at that!
00:48:39Thank God. We have a flag!
00:48:41Good job, guys.
00:48:43So this is what I think we need to do.
00:48:45Let's open up our
00:48:47backpacks, let's take out one
00:48:49of those rocks, and let's
00:48:51talk about it.
00:48:53Let's pick what he wrote for you.
00:48:55Okay. Make sure we're reading each other's,
00:48:57right? You should not have your own.
00:48:59What's on your rock?
00:49:01It says parents.
00:49:03What does that mean?
00:49:05I'm talking about my parents.
00:49:07Help me make them
00:49:09apply together for visa.
00:49:13So this is what I'm hearing.
00:49:15We don't know what control we have over your
00:49:17parents, but what I'm hearing from you,
00:49:19you want Brandon to support you more
00:49:21when it comes to dealing with our parents.
00:49:25It may not look like it on the surface,
00:49:27but Julia and I
00:49:29have a lot of issues, and we're just not
00:49:31dealing with them head-on.
00:49:33For example, Julia wants to bring
00:49:35her parents here to live in the U.S.
00:49:37permanently, but
00:49:39Julia's parents are divorced.
00:49:41They don't get along. It would just be chaos
00:49:43all around. With us being on such
00:49:45shaky ground right now, I think
00:49:47her bringing her parents here
00:49:49would be a disaster for us.
00:49:51Okay, that's perfect.
00:49:53We'll talk about that. I want to hear what he
00:49:55wrote for you. Julia, what do you have?
00:49:57Baby.
00:49:59Okay. What does that say to you? Do you know what that means?
00:50:01Yes.
00:50:03Okay. What he means is, like,
00:50:05human baby. Okay.
00:50:07I mean, how do
00:50:09we compromise on that, because...
00:50:11If you want, and I don't want, like, what point
00:50:13we are together.
00:50:15I mean, at a time
00:50:17you were, you said you,
00:50:19you know, were open to the idea of having kids,
00:50:21and... I'm open to talking about that.
00:50:23Are we beyond that?
00:50:25Are we beyond talking? Are you still
00:50:27open to talking about it? I'm open
00:50:29to talking about it, but
00:50:31do I want it? No.
00:50:35So we want to
00:50:37know where your brains are right now.
00:50:39Are we packing these rocks up? Do you feel
00:50:41like there's something around a compromise
00:50:43that can be had?
00:50:53In this moment, not at all.
00:50:55Okay.
00:50:57Let's pack it up.
00:50:59She's not gonna make a compromise on the baby.
00:51:01I'm not gonna make a compromise on parents.
00:51:05So we're gonna pack this up?
00:51:07I guess I really don't want to, but yeah.
00:51:29He doesn't gonna like my answer.
00:51:47Okay.
00:51:55Okay.
00:51:59I like being more part
00:52:01of your life.
00:52:05You know, I feel like
00:52:07I've been giving you a lot of
00:52:09access. Financially,
00:52:11emotionally, spiritually, I've given you
00:52:13a lot of access.
00:52:17Natalie is trying to portray
00:52:19that I don't do anything for her,
00:52:21but I help out a lot.
00:52:23I help out a lot with her living situation,
00:52:25with groceries, with medicines,
00:52:27with gas, with hair,
00:52:29and even for her career.
00:52:31I mean, the list goes
00:52:33on and on.
00:52:57I've been
00:52:59on and off girlfriend of Josh for almost
00:53:01three years.
00:53:03And it's weird for me
00:53:05because I haven't seen
00:53:07his house yet.
00:53:09It's like so mysterious.
00:53:11He doesn't want me to
00:53:13investigate his house.
00:53:15And I do want to
00:53:17investigate his house.
00:53:19We make this through this,
00:53:21and you can have access,
00:53:23and you can come over.
00:53:25You make it...
00:53:27Let's throw it away.
00:53:29Yes, we get rid of stone.
00:53:31You heard what I said, correct?
00:53:33It was enough, it's enough.
00:53:35I don't care.
00:53:37We make it through the three weeks,
00:53:39you come over. That's the deal.
00:53:41Okay, let's get rid of stone.
00:53:45Okay, let's do it magical way.
00:53:47Okay, by throwing
00:53:49these stones, we promise
00:53:51respect each other and give each other
00:53:53time, whatever it takes.
00:53:55One, two, three.
00:54:03Let's just get rid of stone.
00:54:05We're a little bit lighter.
00:54:11We're going to hold each other's hands
00:54:13and look into each other's eyes.
00:54:15Okay.
00:54:31Okay.
00:54:33Okay, go ahead.
00:54:35I came here for
00:54:37fixed situation,
00:54:39and in general, I love
00:54:41hugging, cuddling, talking,
00:54:43kissing, just like that,
00:54:45because she knows my personality.
00:54:47That's what she wants.
00:54:49I can give it to her.
00:54:51For me, it's very hard.
00:54:53If my brain hurts,
00:54:55if he doesn't tell me, I can't.
00:54:57I don't pretend like fake.
00:55:01Okay, then stop.
00:55:03Whenever you're ready to stop, you can stop.
00:55:05I'm a very good eye gazer.
00:55:07I can gaze all day.
00:55:09Okay.
00:55:11I'm going to ask you if there's some way
00:55:13that you can show affection to me,
00:55:17but I'm not sure if you want to do that
00:55:19because you don't want to hold my hands
00:55:21and even look in my eyes.
00:55:25When?
00:55:27Just now.
00:55:29Just we did it.
00:55:31Yeah, it's supposed to be an actual loving hold
00:55:33and you look lovingly into each other's eyes
00:55:35and you want to do as little time as possible.
00:55:37Oh, we did. You want more?
00:55:39Well, the point of what I wrote on my rock
00:55:41is that I asked you to show more affection to me.
00:55:43I'm your wife.
00:55:45We've been together five years.
00:55:47So is there something you think you can do
00:55:49to show me affection today?
00:56:03I want to feel free again.
00:56:05I want to be with you
00:56:07having the freedom
00:56:09to still be myself.
00:56:13I need you to get me a car
00:56:15and a driver's license
00:56:17so I am able to drive my car.
00:56:23It's not that I'm not buying you one.
00:56:25It's because I can't afford it.
00:56:27There's a difference.
00:56:29No, you can anything.
00:56:31You're incapable of anything in life.
00:56:33No, I can't afford it.
00:56:35You're exhausting.
00:56:37You know what?
00:56:39You don't appreciate anything.
00:56:41Put the rock in the bag and let's keep going.
00:56:43With a f****** man like you
00:56:45I will never get independence.
00:56:47I want to get my independence.
00:56:49The only reason you brought me to this country
00:56:51with lies
00:56:53with empty promises
00:56:55that you were going to be
00:56:57an amazing husband
00:56:59a father to my children
00:57:01I have been amazing.
00:57:03That's the problem.
00:57:05You are the biggest scammer in the world.
00:57:07Right.
00:57:09Keep your f****** rock.
00:57:13Because you never
00:57:15wanted f****** independence.
00:57:17You never wanted
00:57:19and you know what?
00:57:21I'm going to do it
00:57:23all by myself.
00:57:25Keep your rock.
00:57:27Let's let him take a second.
00:57:29You're great.
00:57:31That's it.
00:57:33Be confident.
00:57:35That was pretty intense.
00:57:45Sophie, what's your rock say?
00:57:47Transparency.
00:57:49I don't know how to
00:57:51prove it now.
00:57:53I guess just saying that I really will be more transparent
00:57:55about how I feel.
00:57:57What's that like to hear her say that to you?
00:57:59To be able to feel or hear
00:58:01that Sophie is willing to put any effort
00:58:03towards the relationship.
00:58:17Sophie, what's your rock say?
00:58:19Transparency.
00:58:21Okay.
00:58:23And when you think about
00:58:25compromise with that
00:58:27what do you think about?
00:58:29Being more open about how I feel.
00:58:31Okay. Is there compromise for you?
00:58:33Yeah. I mean I'll just try harder at it.
00:58:35I mean I don't know how to
00:58:37prove it now. I guess just
00:58:39saying that I really will be more transparent
00:58:41about how I feel.
00:58:43Not like run away from things.
00:58:45Rob, is there something she's saying? She's willing to
00:58:47try and she's going to do her best to be
00:58:49transparent and compromise with this topic.
00:58:51What's that like to hear her say that to you?
00:58:54It's a big...
00:58:56It means a lot and it says a lot
00:58:58just because I honestly haven't been able to feel
00:59:00or hear that Sophie
00:59:02is willing to put any effort towards the relationship
00:59:04for a long time. It's kind of felt like I'm the only one.
00:59:06That's amazing. Let's stay with that.
00:59:08It means a lot. It means a lot to you
00:59:10that she would say that.
00:59:14You hear him?
00:59:16Yeah. I think we can put that
00:59:18rock down.
00:59:20Ta-da.
00:59:23Rob?
00:59:25My rock says compassion.
00:59:27Okay.
00:59:29When I wrote it I kind of just mean like
00:59:31I think a lot of the time
00:59:33you know it feels like
00:59:35he does just see like how he
00:59:37feels and he throws it at me and
00:59:39like the past at me a lot and I think like
00:59:41seeing, I guess feeling
00:59:43how I feel. Maybe feeling like
00:59:45why is she so triggered? Why is she running away?
00:59:47Why is she like you know and kind of just having
00:59:49some like compassion for me and just make me feel
00:59:51like I believe it that he really
00:59:53understood. I want to be understood by him.
00:59:55Yeah.
00:59:57Can you help be empathetic when
00:59:59she's talking to you? Can you listen
01:00:01in a certain way that she needs?
01:00:09Yeah. I mean honestly
01:00:11I just want to figure out
01:00:13how to give her what she wants so that she
01:00:15Can you tell her that?
01:00:17I've been trying to figure out how to give you what you want.
01:00:21That's a huge step.
01:00:23Sounds like we're leaving that rock, Rob.
01:00:25What do you think?
01:00:29Oh, I should have threw mine.
01:00:31Go for it.
01:00:37It's unfortunate that
01:00:39she lied and that the can of worms
01:00:41that that opens up of what else
01:00:43did she lie to me about?
01:00:45But at the same time, you know in the past
01:00:47if I would have told her that
01:00:49But at the same time, you know in the past
01:00:51if I would have gotten into an argument with her
01:00:53Sophie would just run away.
01:00:55She'd be gone for days, weeks.
01:00:57But today, you know
01:00:59she did come back. She's here. I guess
01:01:01that's a sign that she's not
01:01:03so ready to walk away.
01:01:07Listen guys, we did great work here.
01:01:09You guys all did an amazing job.
01:01:11The mere fact that we're able to have these conversations
01:01:13and start talking about them, that's a win to me.
01:01:15Right? You're still carrying a rock
01:01:17and that's a win that we're going to continue
01:01:19these conversations.
01:01:21Let's go.
01:01:35Is there something that you think you can do today
01:01:37to show me affection?
01:01:41Maybe you should.
01:01:43Sure. Okay.
01:01:47Oops.
01:01:51Okay.
01:01:59Okay, so
01:02:01you wrote respect on the rock.
01:02:03So tell me how I can do something today
01:02:05to give you some respect.
01:02:17Okay.
01:02:25Okay.
01:02:29So the last thing
01:02:31that we have to do
01:02:33is we have to decide if we're going to carry the rocks
01:02:35or if we're going to throw them away.
01:02:37And that is the decision
01:02:39is based off of, do you feel
01:02:41like I understood you
01:02:43and I gave you the respect by speaking respectfully
01:02:45to you? Do you feel that I did that?
01:02:47Yeah, it's better.
01:02:49I can leave the rock.
01:02:51Okay, so you leave your rock then.
01:02:57Okay, so
01:03:09So in my case
01:03:11I feel that I have to continue to carry the rock.
01:03:15Because I feel that
01:03:17you were not able to show me
01:03:19any kind of affection today.
01:03:21I don't know, just I did.
01:03:23I did what I did. If he doesn't feel it,
01:03:25you can carry it.
01:03:29I think
01:03:31emotional repair definitely goes along
01:03:33with physical repair. Like one of my love languages
01:03:35is touch, sex,
01:03:37and so both
01:03:39Benny and I have to hold on to the affection rock
01:03:41because Benny still won't show me
01:03:43affection and he's using it as a form
01:03:45of punishment to deprive me of affection.
01:03:47I give it to you and then holding you
01:03:49so it's eyes we watch and I remember.
01:03:51You looked at me for less than 30 seconds and you said,
01:03:53I'm done. It's not affection. None of what you
01:03:55did today is affection.
01:03:57I don't have hope
01:03:59in this moment.
01:04:09I literally walked all the way to the driveway.
01:04:11I was about to start hiking down
01:04:13the road and leaving. I wanted
01:04:15to go home.
01:04:17I feel like you love her
01:04:19more than she loves you.
01:04:21Natalie,
01:04:23she doesn't even know me so I'm like, I don't understand why
01:04:25out of nowhere she's just sending for me.
01:04:27I could just air out her whole business
01:04:29about her man messaging me.
01:04:31I said what I said.
01:04:41Listen time.
01:04:45You see,
01:04:47I put it in the rock, listen, correct?
01:04:49Basically,
01:04:51I want to finish
01:04:53full my thoughts.
01:04:55You need to listen.
01:04:57It's about respecting each other.
01:04:59To listen.
01:05:01To listen your thoughts. You listen my thoughts.
01:05:03Not to cut you over. You cut me over.
01:05:05You know my point?
01:05:07I ain't gonna lie.
01:05:09I do tend to talk over Florian
01:05:11and I don't know if it's just
01:05:13me trying to help him
01:05:15because I kind of know what he's going to say and I'm just
01:05:17trying to help him
01:05:19get it out, you know, get out the words.
01:05:21I don't like it.
01:05:23I don't like when people talk over me so I get it.
01:05:25Obviously, it's a trigger
01:05:27for him and it's something I guess
01:05:29I kind of always did but now it's
01:05:31becoming an issue.
01:05:33This feels so heavy
01:05:35and not physically
01:05:37but also mentally
01:05:39and I feel like I'm willing to do whatever
01:05:41it takes to make us work.
01:05:43Okay, you trust,
01:05:45you give your words to me, I keep your words
01:05:47and I'm going to leave the rock here basically.
01:05:49It's up to you.
01:05:51Yeah, I think to throw away
01:05:53the rocks, you can keep the trust.
01:05:55The throne?
01:05:57The throne.
01:05:59The throne.
01:06:01The rocks, you can keep the trust.
01:06:03The throne? Let's do it together.
01:06:09Alright.
01:06:11You go first.
01:06:13Woo!
01:06:15Get out of here!
01:06:17Get out of here, the trust.
01:06:19This is a big one. Ready?
01:06:21We trust each other, right?
01:06:23Woo!
01:06:25Wow, I just got chills.
01:06:27When we decided to
01:06:29leave the rocks, we had a moment.
01:06:31We had a beautiful moment and I felt
01:06:33our relationship growing
01:06:35closer together in that moment.
01:06:37We were bonding again
01:06:39and I'll never forget that moment.
01:06:41It was beautiful.
01:06:43It was really beautiful.
01:06:45You have the map, right?
01:06:47I'm not quite sure where we're supposed to go.
01:06:53Oh my goodness gracious.
01:06:55We made it!
01:06:59We made it!
01:07:05Alright guys, see you later.
01:07:07Bye!
01:07:11Oh my gosh, so many rocks.
01:07:13It's crazy.
01:07:21We have never had a moment like that together
01:07:23and I feel like it was a blessing.
01:07:25That's amazing.
01:07:27Last night, you know,
01:07:29I felt like if we held on
01:07:31to the rocks, we really wouldn't be making
01:07:33any improvements and
01:07:35it's just like
01:07:37that's why we're here.
01:07:39You know, to take the baby steps to get there.
01:07:41I feel like baby steps is better
01:07:43than nothing.
01:07:47Did you get rid of any rocks, Rob?
01:07:49We got rid of both of them.
01:07:51Yeah, we got rid of both of us.
01:07:53Oh my, really?
01:07:55Awesome. We were fortunate to have
01:07:57the therapist with us the whole time.
01:07:59The whole time? Yeah, that's why maybe
01:08:01Oz is cheating a bit because he
01:08:03had to be there because I literally walked off.
01:08:05I wanted to go home.
01:08:07I literally walked all the way
01:08:09to the driveway. I was about to start
01:08:11hiking down the road and leaving.
01:08:13Why did you want to leave?
01:08:15Just because...
01:08:17That's how Sophie reacts.
01:08:19I just run away from stuff. When I get upset,
01:08:21I don't like to cry or be sad. I'll just leave.
01:08:23You're not confrontational.
01:08:25If I feel that's happening, I'm just going to
01:08:27dip. Because Rob
01:08:29is the opposite. I fly
01:08:31and he fights. He'll be like,
01:08:33we need to talk about this now. And I'll be like, no, I need to leave.
01:08:35Well, good job on getting past that.
01:08:37Yeah, thanks.
01:08:45I feel like you love him more than she loves you.
01:08:47I feel like you
01:08:49are the one who's pulling
01:08:51your couple.
01:08:53Natalie definitely has
01:08:55mean girl energy.
01:08:57And I've dealt with girls like her in school.
01:08:59I'm not going to let her disrespect me
01:09:01and like s*** on me.
01:09:03It makes sense if she was maybe feeling jealous
01:09:05because of the Josh thing, but I don't see how
01:09:07she could possibly know about that.
01:09:09And if Natalie did know that Josh was DMing me,
01:09:11then she should be putting that on
01:09:13Josh, not me.
01:09:16I feel like you deserve to have someone
01:09:18equal. Like, the most
01:09:20cool love is like both
01:09:22love each other.
01:09:27This is the issue, because she's
01:09:29ready to give up any time and just leave.
01:09:31And you keep going and going.
01:09:33I think we're both trying.
01:09:35You know, he's hurt me and I'm a bit
01:09:37more easily most regretful.
01:09:39And you don't, and I see it.
01:09:41I mean, I am. I'm here.
01:09:43You came here to work on this relationship
01:09:45that you have.
01:09:47And I am.
01:09:49Just like everyone else.
01:09:51Okay.
01:09:55Natalie, she doesn't even know me,
01:09:57so I'm like, I don't understand why out of nowhere
01:09:59she's just sending for me when
01:10:01what is she even talking about?
01:10:03If I was a lesser person and stooped down to her
01:10:05very immature level, I could just air out
01:10:07her whole business about her man messaging me
01:10:09and trying to fly me out to Vegas.
01:10:11But I don't need to do that, because I'm clearly
01:10:13more mature than her, even though she's three times my age.
01:10:17I said what I said, and I
01:10:19I check it already.
01:10:21So...
01:10:29Right now, we have a sexless marriage.
01:10:31It's just I have to be
01:10:33in the right mood.
01:10:35You're never in the right mood.
01:10:37I have to have emotional connection with someone
01:10:39and be fighting with someone every day
01:10:41in order to get to that point.
01:10:43You know what, you know?
01:10:45I'm getting the s*** out of this resort.
01:10:47This is it.
01:10:49Yeah. See ya.
01:10:51Psycho.
01:10:53That's what she is, a psycho.
01:11:09Good morning.
01:11:23Good morning.
01:11:25Morning.
01:11:27Alright, man.
01:11:29Come on, let's do push-ups.
01:11:31Before we go.
01:11:33You want to do push-ups with me?
01:11:35No.
01:11:37I don't do push-ups.
01:11:45I'm done.
01:11:47I'm done with push-ups.
01:11:57I'm done.
01:12:11Compromised Canyon took an emotional toll on us yesterday.
01:12:13And now Rob.
01:12:15He thinks he can't trust me, even though
01:12:17he's literally the one that's cheated on me
01:12:19in the past.
01:12:21And then when Nasty stands for me on the bus
01:12:23and he doesn't stick up for me,
01:12:25so yeah, I'm just feeling
01:12:27totally unsupported by Rob this morning.
01:12:39So, I feel like after the first date,
01:12:41nobody really likes you.
01:12:43Tell me who's not like me.
01:12:45Probably a lot of the girls.
01:12:47Julia, I don't think she likes you.
01:12:49Jasmine.
01:12:51I'm confused as for Gina and Jasmine, to be honest with you.
01:12:53Yeah.
01:12:55I don't know what's wrong with that girl.
01:12:57Cried too much.
01:12:59Emotional.
01:13:01Emotional. It's no cemetery here.
01:13:03It's like to figure out things together, to be happy, you know?
01:13:05But I see where Jasmine's coming from.
01:13:07He's married to the ghost.
01:13:09It's hard for me to pick and choose.
01:13:11And she's so embarrassing, because I like these girls.
01:13:23Oh, good.
01:13:25You made up your bed.
01:13:27Yeah.
01:13:29Proud of me?
01:13:31Yeah.
01:13:33Jasmine and I had a tough day
01:13:35at Compromise Canyon.
01:13:37And that's very disappointing,
01:13:39because I feel like we're not going anywhere.
01:13:41Like, this therapy sessions
01:13:43have not helped us yet.
01:13:45And, you know,
01:13:47I'm really worried
01:13:49about her.
01:13:51You know, I'm really worried
01:13:53about our relationship right now.
01:13:55It's rapidly
01:13:57going down the drain.
01:14:03Well, thank you very much for,
01:14:05you know, having this agreement
01:14:07and share the bed.
01:14:09I wish we could,
01:14:11like, both of us,
01:14:13like, enjoy it
01:14:15at the same time.
01:14:17Well, who knows, maybe by the end of the retreat
01:14:19we might be able to get to that point.
01:14:21Yeah, I want to rescue, like, a few
01:14:23positive things.
01:14:25But our intimacy is, like,
01:14:27going down the drain.
01:14:29Like, it's getting worse.
01:14:31Right now, like, we have a sexless marriage.
01:14:33And that's pretty awful.
01:14:35Just strange, you know.
01:14:37It's like, we don't even kiss very much
01:14:39anymore, like, not like we used to.
01:14:41Or hug each other, or be affectionate
01:14:43with each other.
01:14:45You know why
01:14:47he's not kissing you and hugging you?
01:14:49Because of the
01:14:51rejection.
01:14:55I am scared of taking
01:14:57the initiative, because every time
01:14:59I was approaching, like, getting close
01:15:01to kissing you, you will do this,
01:15:03you will push me away.
01:15:05It's just I have to be in the right mood.
01:15:07Yeah, but you are, you're never in the right mood.
01:15:09Well, what does
01:15:11that tell you?
01:15:13He doesn't want to
01:15:15be intimate with me.
01:15:17He rejects me. If I hug him,
01:15:19if I cuddle, if I try to
01:15:21snuggle, he pushes
01:15:23me away. It makes me feel like I have
01:15:25to beg for attention.
01:15:27I have to beg for love.
01:15:29Why?
01:15:31Why did you marry me?
01:15:33You can't go from
01:15:35not sleeping with each other to
01:15:37having sex. It has to be
01:15:39slowly getting to that point.
01:15:41I have to have emotional connection
01:15:43with someone and not be fighting with someone
01:15:45every day in order to get to that point.
01:15:47You're an emotional person
01:15:49and you're okay with
01:15:51watching pornography, you know
01:15:53that they are actors.
01:15:55Pornography has nothing to do with it.
01:15:57I'm not
01:15:59with a woman that's kind to me and nice
01:16:01to me and gentle
01:16:03with me. I don't have that kind of girl.
01:16:05Everyone here has a girl like that.
01:16:07Maybe we should
01:16:09not even stay in the same room.
01:16:11You know what?
01:16:13I'm getting the
01:16:15out of this resort.
01:16:17I cannot deal with this anymore
01:16:19because you are a person
01:16:21that constantly insults
01:16:23me. You never make me
01:16:25feel special and I'm tired.
01:16:27Yeah, I'm tired too.
01:16:29I deserve to be loved.
01:16:31I deserve happiness.
01:16:33This is it.
01:16:35This is it.
01:16:37Yeah. See ya.
01:16:47Psycho.
01:16:49That's what she is.
01:16:51Psycho.
01:16:53I can't do this anymore.
01:16:59How can I make it
01:17:01work if the person that
01:17:03I love, you know, just
01:17:05push my buttons
01:17:07and get the worst out
01:17:09of me.
01:17:11I don't know what to do.
01:17:13Should I stay here?
01:17:15Should I just go back?
01:17:17Jasmine, Tino doesn't realize
01:17:19that there is thousands of men
01:17:21that would jump into the vacancy to be with you.
01:17:33Right this way,
01:17:35your majesty.
01:17:37Let me pull the
01:17:39chair for you.
01:17:43Anything for you.
01:17:45This is after therapy,
01:17:47you nice...
01:17:51Yeah, I see somebody.
01:17:53Hey, guys.
01:17:55Yellow team.
01:17:57Oh, you're yellow too.
01:17:59Look at that.
01:18:01May I sit?
01:18:03Absolutely.
01:18:05Of course.
01:18:07Where is your husband?
01:18:09I don't know.
01:18:13Hey, buddy.
01:18:15Morning.
01:18:17Do you team
01:18:19in the morning? Coffee or
01:18:21what do you say?
01:18:23Tea?
01:18:25Hi.
01:18:27Good morning.
01:18:29You gonna sit with us?
01:18:31Yes.
01:18:33That's okay.
01:18:35You are so lucky, Brandon,
01:18:37that you have a beautiful girl
01:18:39near you.
01:18:43Sophie and I really got into it yesterday
01:18:45and today we're not in a good place.
01:18:47To see Sophie walk right past me, though,
01:18:49after her being outed as a liar
01:18:51and she's mad at me,
01:18:53it's just stupid.
01:18:55Sophie's also upset.
01:18:57I did call Sophie out
01:18:59for not trying as hard as I am.
01:19:01She's right. Sophie isn't trying
01:19:03when it comes to our relationship.
01:19:09How's it going? Do you mind if I sit with you?
01:19:11Please do, so I don't look so
01:19:13depressed.
01:19:15Are you doing okay?
01:19:17Or going down
01:19:19or what?
01:19:21Going down?
01:19:23Same with me.
01:19:25Today
01:19:27everybody have a day off from therapy
01:19:29and we glad we have a little break.
01:19:31Yeah, it looks like we're the only couple
01:19:33eating together today.
01:19:35I know there were a lot of issues brought up yesterday,
01:19:37but I didn't know there were so many
01:19:39in such a bad place they won't even eat together.
01:19:41Doesn't matter how much we fight,
01:19:43I never gonna miss a meal.
01:19:45You could eat a burger every day.
01:19:47It's true.
01:19:49It's true, right?
01:19:51No, I mix with pizza sometimes.
01:19:53Hey, Benny.
01:19:55Hey, how are you?
01:19:57How you doing?
01:19:59Hi, guys.
01:20:01How are you?
01:20:03Good morning.
01:20:05I wanted to dress up a little bit, feel good.
01:20:07You stole my husband.
01:20:09He wants to sit with you guys.
01:20:11I can feel it.
01:20:13Maybe I'll sit over there.
01:20:15How's Jasmine?
01:20:17We got in a big fight.
01:20:19Oh, no.
01:20:21So that's why I came here by myself.
01:20:23I hope you guys stick it out to the end
01:20:25and work it through.
01:20:27I mean, it's not easy.
01:20:29Hi.
01:20:31How are you?
01:20:33Nice to see you.
01:20:35Oh, look at you.
01:20:37You're a queen.
01:20:39What are you having?
01:20:41I've never been a big breakfast person,
01:20:43but this looks good.
01:20:45Let's sit together.
01:20:47Yes, I feel that.
01:20:49Hi.
01:20:57June and I had a very bad fight
01:20:59this morning, and he said
01:21:01very hurtful things, and he made me
01:21:03very mad.
01:21:05It makes me feel like I'm all by myself.
01:21:07I'm alone.
01:21:09I'm anxious and tense.
01:21:11I just need someone to listen to me right now,
01:21:13honestly.
01:21:19Yeah.
01:21:21How are you?
01:21:23I want to go home.
01:21:25I don't want to be here.
01:21:29I'm just
01:21:31going to try to calm down.
01:21:33I don't know why you're letting him bother you.
01:21:35He doesn't take
01:21:37accountability of his sexuality
01:21:39problems, and the way he makes me feel,
01:21:41it's like I am the problem.
01:21:43No one will ever love me.
01:21:45Yeah.
01:21:47Come on.
01:21:49Don't let him trigger you.
01:21:55Matt is a friend.
01:21:57He's one of my best friends in Michigan.
01:21:59I met him at the gym,
01:22:01and we
01:22:03started working out together,
01:22:05and after spending some time,
01:22:07we became friends.
01:22:11No, I...
01:22:13June doesn't know about Matt because
01:22:15I know he's going to think that
01:22:17it's more than a friendship,
01:22:19and I know it is not.
01:22:21I've never done anything with him, nothing,
01:22:23but at the same time, he's a person
01:22:25that in a short period of time
01:22:27has shown me that he cares about me,
01:22:29and he wants me to be happy,
01:22:31and that's how I ended up being his friend.
01:22:35I love him.
01:22:37I want to be with him, but at the same time,
01:22:39how can I make it work if
01:22:41the person that I love, you know,
01:22:43push my buttons
01:22:45and get the worst out of me?
01:22:49I don't know what to do.
01:22:51Should I stay here?
01:22:53Should I just go back?
01:22:55I don't really know the answer,
01:22:57but I think you guys
01:22:59should do some therapies together.
01:23:01I think you should try to work
01:23:03these things out with him.
01:23:05You know, you guys do have love for each other.
01:23:07But I don't know if love is enough, Matt.
01:23:09I don't know.
01:23:11You've been out there to work on your marriage,
01:23:13and I think you should
01:23:15give each other a chance,
01:23:17but you can't sit there
01:23:19and love kids forever,
01:23:21so eventually you're going to have to
01:23:23do what makes you happy.
01:23:25But, Jasmine,
01:23:27at the end of the day,
01:23:29Tino doesn't realize that there is
01:23:31literally probably hundreds of thousands of men
01:23:33that would jump in three seconds to be with you.
01:23:41What's up, guys?
01:23:43Next time on 90 Day The Last Resort.
01:23:45She told me
01:23:47you have a plastic eye.
01:23:49Why is she talking about my body?
01:23:51Let's go, guys!
01:23:53Woo!
01:23:55Hey! Get the party started.
01:23:57Hell yeah!
01:23:59Please calm down.
01:24:01Woo!
01:24:03Dance is time
01:24:05to do some dance.
01:24:07Julia.
01:24:09Too much.
01:24:15I mean, I have a phone.
01:24:17There's a million ways in the world to have fun.
01:24:19I can have fun without showing my penis
01:24:21to people, you know?
01:24:23Hi.
01:24:25Hey!
01:24:27Look at me.
01:24:29Where's your husband?
01:24:31Oh, he won't talk to me.
01:24:33Oh, wow.
01:24:35It's embarrassing, like,
01:24:37you know, as a husband, like,
01:24:39you don't treat your wife like that.
01:24:41Now I have to worry about, like,
01:24:43oh, I'm at this bar with this person
01:24:45who I'm married to,
01:24:47won't even acknowledge that I exist.
01:24:51How's your night going?
01:24:53Good. How's yours?
01:24:55I think that Josh likes Sophie.
01:24:57He likes Sophie.
01:25:01He was inviting Sophie to dance with us.
01:25:03He wants to dance.
01:25:05Yeah.
01:25:07I'm so glad.
01:25:09Oh, my God.
01:25:11Oh!
01:25:13Bitch is out of control.
01:25:15You...
01:25:17throw a glass on my feet
01:25:19and you are gonna apologize.
01:25:21You are gonna apologize.
01:25:23You are gonna apologize right now, Natalia.
01:25:25Apologize. Apologize.
01:25:27You wanna meet with crazy?
01:25:29I'm crazier.