90 Day - The Last Resort S2 Episode 11
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00:00Gino, did you find a moment that you remember hurting Jasmine?
00:06Yeah.
00:07Previously on 90 Day, The Last Resort.
00:10Are you open to sharing it with us?
00:12I'd rather not.
00:15The first thought that comes to my mind is like, did you cheat on me?
00:24What's up, boys?
00:26How was your sleep?
00:27Uh, rough.
00:30Yeah? Do you guys like have trouble sleeping together usually?
00:33Yeah, I mean, yeah, I do. We do.
00:36I do not deserve to be treated this way.
00:39And it's offending me as a woman.
00:41I need somebody that's kind of just still.
00:45Good morning.
00:46Good morning.
00:47I was really looking forward to a fun camping trip with my wife.
00:50But Julia blindsided me.
00:53She's admitted to the one thing I can't like handle, hearing.
00:56You know, that she's cheated.
00:58Do you mind if we take a moment with Julia off to the side?
01:03Mm-hmm.
01:07A lot of things have been happening with Rob.
01:10I basically saw on his phone that he's been texting women the whole time during this resort.
01:17And then, look, also I found this.
01:20Swipe.
01:22He's not trying to do me.
01:24You're down to be adventurous.
01:27Let's explore.
01:29Mm-hmm.
01:30Asshole.
01:55Oh, my God.
02:19So what we're going to do is we're going to just sit.
02:21Mm-hmm. Okay.
02:22And talk.
02:25Yesterday I found out Julia cheated on me with her ex.
02:30And it wasn't good sleeping alone, you know?
02:34It made what I was already feeling worse.
02:37I think after something like this, I don't know if we can come back from it.
02:42But if I run away now, I think it could be the end of us, yeah.
02:48So, obviously, some things came up yesterday.
02:53And I really want to clear the air.
02:57I think that Julia, this was probably weighing heavy on her.
03:03And it's something she felt she needed to get off her chest, which I can understand.
03:08But at the same time, is that selfish or is it selfish for me to just not want to know?
03:14Because she could have taken that to her grave and I could just—ignorance be bliss.
03:20So, Julia, what was going on inside of you when you decided to share that?
03:25Was it to share the truth? Was it something different? What was it?
03:28Now it sounds like it was just to hurt me because, what, I didn't share something—
03:32I'm not trying to hurt you.
03:33I'm trying to relieve what I feel.
03:35I'm trying to relieve what is hurting me.
03:38I'm sharing everything that is bothering me, what is inside me.
03:43OK.
03:56Me putting myself out there and being vulnerable, especially with all these people around,
04:01I mean, I have difficulty with people in general.
04:05And so for me to just be completely open and put everything out there, it's hard already.
04:13You're the only safe space I have here and the only thing I know.
04:18And, um, for trying to want to feel like I want to push you away, it makes all this harder.
04:31So, yeah.
04:43Brandon and Julia, there's obviously hurt between them.
04:47But my experience seeing Brandon so far being very closed off and,
04:52especially the night before, totally going into shutdown,
04:55when he starts to cry, there's a part of me that feels a relief
04:59because I know he's getting somewhere now.
05:01He's finally breaking through, he's finally opening up,
05:04and he's able to feel safe enough to expose himself in a way and feel things
05:08and so this is huge.
05:09This is a great moment for Brandon to be here, able to do that.
05:15Let's first acknowledge that it makes sense that he would feel that way,
05:18and it makes sense that you would feel the way that you feel,
05:20and really to start this exchange of validating the other person's experience.
05:24That's called empathy, guys.
05:26Without it, we can't have a relationship.
05:29No matter how much love we have, we can't have a relationship if we can't see and feel.
05:34No matter how much love we have, we can't have a relationship if we can't see
05:37and take the time to put yourself in the other person's experience.
05:41Is it possible to move forward with this new circumstance for you, Brandon?
05:49I think I can.
05:55But I'm just sore at the moment because it's so fresh.
05:57Sure.
05:58It's a fresh wound now.
06:00And I just feel like it's going to take time for these feelings to go.
06:03Yeah.
06:10So that is a real circumstance that we need to address right now.
06:14Forgiveness is possible,
06:18but part of the forgiveness means that it's not used as leverage in the future.
06:30He won't move forward to make a big family, going to doctor and take second opinion.
06:35But how are we going to do that big step if we have that inside us?
06:40Great question. Great question.
06:42And that's the healing work that you're here to do.
06:46Can we leave all of this? Can we say everything that we feel and leave everything here?
06:53I'm going to try. That's all I can do, right?
06:59Yeah.
07:09Sophie, you deserve much better.
07:12You should go and face him and let everybody know who Rob really is and what you're going through.
07:20I believe that all this is hurting you even more because you are keeping it to yourself.
07:27And there is so much power on telling the truth.
07:32Me and Rob and all the other couples had, you know, spent the night in the tent.
07:35But yesterday, I had seen Rob messaging some girls on his phone.
07:39And I feel like he saw me looking because he looked over and like completely just closed his phone off when I was looking.
07:44So he knows he's not supposed to be doing that.
07:47And then this morning, my friend Kay sent me a screenshot of Rob having an active dating profile.
07:53It's just very disrespectful and hurtful to me when we're here to both try and be together
07:57and he's still just trying to be with any other girl online
08:00and doing the same behavior that affected us in the first place.
08:03And it's, you know, it's just hurtful.
08:08Rob, you're doing a great job cooking this bacon and egg.
08:16Morning.
08:17Morning.
08:23Um, I basically just want to say that it's been very difficult for me with my marriage with Rob.
08:32Um, and I've been trying very hard.
08:35I found out he's at this retreat and he's still messaging other women trying to have sex with them.
08:41And he's on dating apps.
08:43And he doesn't really give a **** to be here for me.
08:45I think he's treating this like a vacation.
08:47Show me.
08:48And also...
08:49Show me.
08:50I'm just...
08:51Because I don't know what you're talking about.
08:53I'm just...
08:56I didn't say anything because I don't want people to hate him.
08:59Because I do care about him.
09:02And you've done so much **** to me and I've kept it to myself because I do care about you.
09:06But the things I hear that you're telling everyone about me and how I moved out and not trying
09:10and that you're sad and...
09:12Oh, I love her. I'm trying.
09:13You're not trying.
09:14You're not trying.
09:15You're not trying at all.
09:16And you haven't tried for over a year, so...
09:17Yes, I am.
09:18I've been trying.
09:19Go ahead.
09:20You found out and now you're annoyed because I'm calling you out
09:22and you didn't think I would because you know how much I care about you.
09:24You just said I'm on dating apps.
09:25What dating apps?
09:26Oh, yeah, sure. I can show you.
09:27Sure. And it better be current, too.
09:30It better be current, too.
09:31Rob, you're not doing that, are you?
09:32I'm literally not on a dating app.
09:33This is exactly what I'm going through.
09:37Can I see it?
09:38Is that...
09:39I haven't even been able to get on that app in, like, two years.
09:43Okay, so that's not...
09:44And the only reason I even tried...
09:46The only reason I even tried...
09:48You just called yourself...
09:49The only reason I tried...
09:50You haven't been able to get on it in two years?
09:51Because you...
09:52We f*****g left two years ago.
09:53You told me to...
09:54You just said you haven't been able to get...
09:55You told yourself.
09:56Let me...
09:57Let me f*****g say it then.
09:58That I've been able to get on that in two years.
09:59Let me say it then.
10:00We got married two years ago.
10:01In two years, Zofie has been moved out and doing her own thing
10:03and she told me to talk to other women.
10:04But why did she move out?
10:05I'm telling you.
10:06Why did I move out?
10:07I'm telling you.
10:08She told me to talk to other women.
10:09And for f*****g five minutes, I tried
10:10and then I honestly felt like it just didn't feel right
10:12because I still wanted to work.
10:13Five minutes.
10:14That's why I found it on your phone there.
10:15I haven't done anything.
10:16Find it on my phone.
10:17When I saw that you was cheating on me...
10:18Let's be very f*****g clear.
10:19Let's be very f*****g clear.
10:20I was only on a dating app after Zofie told me
10:21to go talk to other women 10 f*****g times.
10:22Yeah, I tried.
10:23And I still f*****g deleted that f*****g
10:24because I care.
10:25That's why I'm here.
10:26You want to use that f*****g?
10:27You want to put me in the f*****g corner?
10:28Make me feel like I don't belong?
10:29You want to make me feel like I don't belong?
10:30You want to make me feel like I don't belong?
10:31Yeah, I tried.
10:32And I still f*****g deleted that f*****g
10:33because I care.
10:35That's why I'm here.
10:37You want to use that f*****g?
10:39You want to put me in the f*****g corner?
10:41Make me the dog, makes me,
10:43f*****g put me in a doghouse?
10:44And tell me to f*****g go talk to other women
10:47cause I ain't got nothing for you.
10:48You've told me 20 times you don't have anything.
10:51You know you don't invest in this relationship.
10:53Guys, I want you to go here.
11:02What are you saying?
11:02I didn't say anything.
11:03I said I don't like to be touched.
11:05Don't open your mouth about my body.
11:08OK, and I didn't say that.
11:10You say this is not true.
11:12How can you do this to me?
11:23Sorry, Sophie, why did you tell Rob to go date other women?
11:32I never said that.
11:34Wow, bro, I'm done.
11:36I'm done.
11:37I'm done.
11:37That is his.
11:39Are you serious?
11:40Hold on.
11:41Actually, actually, hold on.
11:42I think I texted in my phone still.
11:45Where's that?
11:46He's looking through his whole phone now.
11:48And I'm like, I could probably delete it.
11:51Oh, yeah.
11:52Oh, yeah.
11:53Oh, please.
11:56I'm sorry.
11:57Our hair, we all need to go to the salon.
11:58I know.
11:59Oh my god.
12:00I make it worse.
12:01I'm so sorry.
12:03Nah, bro, where is that?
12:05Yeah, I want to leave.
12:06I don't even care for this.
12:07Like, we're all going to wait around for Rob
12:09to find something to like.
12:10We're waiting.
12:11We're just waiting.
12:12And it's like, come on.
12:12Oh, man, I need another cup.
12:14No, it matters because I'm going to call her out at least
12:15on one lie because she just said that she never said that.
12:18Look, you look worried because you know you said that to me.
12:20No, Rob, no.
12:21No, why did you close my phone?
12:23Bro, it matters to me.
12:24So don't touch my phone.
12:26I'm going to find this shit because Sophie
12:28ain't going to walk away from here looking like Miss
12:30Innocent playing me.
12:39So I feel like we can look at this
12:42as a means for deepening trust.
12:44And I know that sounds crazy.
12:46You want to use that shit?
12:47You want to put me in the corner?
12:50Something big's going on over there.
12:55I'm going to go check on what's happening over there.
12:59Take a moment to yourselves and just join us when you're ready,
13:01OK?
13:10You're not going to bring anything else that I don't know
13:12about, are you?
13:20OK.
13:30Josh, come here.
13:33Come on.
13:34I keep saying to people that you cannot sleep next to me.
13:36What does that mean?
13:37Natalie, Natalie.
13:38Will you stop?
13:39But you insult me.
13:40How can you do it to me?
13:41Natalie, you need to stop.
13:43Stop fucking insulting me.
13:44Oh my god, Natalie.
13:45OK.
13:45Be by yourself.
13:46Be by yourself.
13:51So this morning, like, I had mentioned, you know,
13:54that I didn't really sleep well.
13:55I said, personally, I like to not be bothered
13:59or touched when I sleep.
14:00And she kind of took that and is now
14:03making this a much bigger issue than it is.
14:06And I don't know where it's going to go.
14:15It's disgusting.
14:17And he does that.
14:18Lucky I have people around.
14:19What's going on over here?
14:20But imagine when I'm by myself.
14:21We heard a lot of yelling.
14:24Yeah, there's a big fight going on.
14:25Yeah.
14:26OK.
14:27I wouldn't say it's a fight.
14:28I would say it's Sophie telling the truth
14:30and somebody getting upset about it.
14:32And someone getting mad about the truth coming out.
14:35Well, I think we need to find out what the facts are.
14:37I got to find it.
14:38Let's find it.
14:39But let's take a moment.
14:40She's looking at me crazy all morning with that?
14:45That's nuts.
14:47Your name was on it.
14:48I haven't been able to get on the app since, like, 2019.
14:52Because I had a picture of me sitting there
14:53with my hands over my nuts.
14:54And I think that the app kicked me thinking it was my nuts.
14:58So I haven't been able to even use that app in years.
15:04This is turning into, like, guy versus girl dynamic.
15:08You know, the girls are rallying around Sophie.
15:10And the guys are rallying around Rob.
15:13And it's turning into, like, this competition of, like,
15:16the battle of who's right and who's wrong.
15:19I don't know.
15:20But the true story is there.
15:21Do you believe him?
15:23Probably Sophie need to show more proof.
15:25I don't know.
15:29All right, man, I found it.
15:30You found it.
15:31You'll find it.
15:31She said right here, hi, as of March 4, 2023,
15:35me and you are on a break.
15:36And I give you permission to act single
15:37and will not hold this against you.
15:39Send me the screenshot.
15:40I'm going to go on the show.
15:41That's what she said.
15:42Good job, man.
15:43Send me the screenshot.
15:44I'll tell him.
15:44I'll tell him.
15:46I'll tell him, come on.
15:47Yeah.
15:50Hola, ladies.
15:51Hey.
15:52Hello.
15:53Just want to let it be known that Rob does have
15:57the screenshot that says you have permission to be single.
16:02When was that?
16:03I don't know.
16:04It was in March.
16:05Yeah, to when?
16:06Because we broke up for a few months.
16:08And that dating app was not from that time.
16:11OK, pause.
16:12I need you to pause.
16:13I need you to pause.
16:14It doesn't add up, so.
16:15So here's what I'd like to do.
16:18First, I would like to invite Rob to say what he needs to say
16:23to present what he needs to present.
16:25He's just going to shout at me.
16:26I will.
16:27I'm only going to allow this to happen
16:28if the temperature stays down, if the volume stays down
16:31in a communicative way.
16:36Are you ready for that?
16:38Yes.
16:38If he can talk to me respectfully, yes.
16:40OK.
16:41I would ask that just everybody, men and women,
16:44can just take a step back and let
16:46this be between Rob and Sophie.
16:48Girls and boys, if you want to talk on the phone,
16:50we can talk over there.
16:51Do you want us to stay, Sophie, or you feel more comfortable?
16:53I'll remove myself if he gets mad.
16:55OK.
16:58Rob, do you want to come over?
17:01Not really.
17:02I don't want to go sit by somebody who wants
17:03to make me out to be an enemy.
17:05Not really.
17:07I came here to be with my wife, hope for the best,
17:09and now she just flipped the whole everything on me.
17:14Oh, it's a bitch.
17:15She can't prove.
17:16I have evidence that she said, you're single.
17:19I won't hold it against you.
17:21And now somehow there was a timeline on that.
17:23Yeah, the timeline was she wanted a break for a month,
17:27and then five and a half months later,
17:28she still hadn't came home.
17:30So then I broke up with her.
17:31So at what point did was the-
17:32No, we was broken up for a few months,
17:34and then we started getting back together.
17:35Did we not?
17:36No, we didn't.
17:37We had sex one time, and then you went right
17:39back to living your best life.
17:41That's not true.
17:41You acted like you cared for five seconds.
17:43I moved out when I didn't want to be with you.
17:45That's when you said, well, if you fuck the girls,
17:47can you send me?
17:48That's why I wrote the text, remember?
17:49No, you said, you said, go fuck other women.
17:52I said, I don't want to go on a break.
17:54We should either separate, or we should
17:56work on our relationship.
17:57That's what I said to you.
18:05Well, first of all, I just want to say, when you're married,
18:09you can't break up.
18:12That's why I wanted to say we're
18:13separated, if I didn't want to break.
18:16That sounds like kid shit.
18:19There's so many ways we could communicate
18:21without having to be like him shouting at me,
18:23especially when he's in the wrong.
18:25He's getting angry because he looks bad.
18:28He doesn't think anything he does is wrong.
18:33This isn't what I came here for.
18:35I know.
18:36I don't think it's what either of you came here for.
18:37I came here to do a last ditch effort to make,
18:41and I'll be honest with you.
18:42I didn't have much hope, because she won't do anything
18:46towards this relationship.
18:48All she'll do is look at me and say, Rob, you need to fix it.
18:51He's not taking this seriously.
18:53What are you talking about?
18:54So wait, wait, wait.
18:55Oh my god.
18:56Yeah, listen to her bullshit.
19:02So I think this is a good place where
19:05we need to take some personal space before anything
19:08else nasty is said that maybe we don't mean.
19:15And we're going to reconvene by the 10th.
19:18I have something planned for us to at least move
19:21through some of this energy.
19:22This is not a couple's thing, OK?
19:24You don't have to talk anymore, but we
19:26got to get some of this out.
19:39You know, you had a real one.
19:49Bullshit.
20:08Babe.
20:14I just want to go home.
20:15I don't want to leave.
20:19Tell me what's wrong.
20:23Take deep breaths.
20:38No.
20:39No.
20:40No.
20:41No.
20:41No.
20:42No.
20:43No.
20:44No.
20:45No.
20:45Babe.
20:46Babe.
20:47Babe.
21:11I'm not taking this.
21:13Great.
21:13Why should I start yelling at you?
21:16I'm not returning to the group.
21:21It just seems like out of the blue,
21:22Natalie's like screaming and yelling at Josh, you know?
21:25No.
21:26It's like maybe one of those episodes
21:27where she kind of just out of the blue,
21:30like, starts talking some crazy shit, you know?
21:44What do you feel like Josh is saying?
21:47But he cannot gaslight my body and body shame me.
21:53Oh, boy.
22:17So I felt like I should just not accept it.
22:22What's going on over here?
22:38I didn't say anything.
22:39I said I don't like to be touched.
22:41I said it to everybody.
22:47I'm not.
22:48I'm not body shaming you.
22:49You're beautiful.
22:50And you have a beautiful body.
22:54I'm sorry if you misunderstood that.
23:00I'm sorry.
23:02I said I'm sorry for you being a bitch.
23:07OK.
23:10OK.
23:10And I didn't say that.
23:12You said this is not true.
23:13How can you do this to me?
23:16OK.
23:22So everybody knows this is why I cannot bring her anywhere.
23:27I can't.
23:28I don't know what to expect.
23:31With Natalie, like, I feel like I really
23:33have to be careful with some of the things I say.
23:35Because sometimes she'll just take the first two words,
23:38two or three words of where the story is going.
23:41And then it's just like, oh, I'm going to make
23:42up my own conclusion here.
23:44You know?
23:45It suffocates me a little bit, you know?
23:47And it's, like, makes me lose my voice in a sense.
23:49Like, I mean, you know?
23:51Like, why am I even saying anything?
23:54Because it's just like every single little thing
23:57is just, like, taken and twisted and just made
24:00to be, like, against me.
24:01So I'm really having a hard time expressing my feelings.
24:06But I'm such a good person.
24:07I know.
24:08I've been with him for three years.
24:09I know.
24:10Shh.
24:14Like, what do you want me to do?
24:16Natalie, Natalie, listen to me.
24:17Stop doing the trust to me.
24:18Just listen to me.
24:19Listen to me the full story.
24:20It's still, like, I don't want to sleep with my.
24:22Guys, like, I don't know what I'm doing.
24:23Let me talk.
24:24Let me talk sometimes.
24:26OK.
24:26It's still, like, I have problem example.
24:29I don't like to sleep close to people.
24:31I don't like people to touch me.
24:32Here is problem.
24:33It's new problem.
24:34Don't flip that problem on you, you know?
24:37I can understand Natalie.
24:41It's not easy for her.
24:42You want the truth.
24:43Like, other people to Natalie want to say to her, like,
24:46oh, you're crazy.
24:47You have problem.
24:48And you try, like, to blame in her.
24:49And, like, I feel sad for her.
24:51You know, like, sometimes people make mistake now.
24:54And, like, I want to see her happy, basically.
24:56No more, no more fighting.
24:57Natalie, calm down, OK?
25:02I said nothing about her body, nothing.
25:07Like, she understands all this.
25:09I don't, I don't know.
25:10Just because you say, I don't want to be touched,
25:12her interpretation of that action from you
25:15is, like, you're body shaming.
25:16Yeah.
25:18One more conversation, boom, done, OK?
25:21She's coming.
25:21She's coming.
25:22Oh, no.
25:22Oh, my gosh.
25:23I'm, OK.
25:24I, um.
25:25Calm down.
25:27Could be an illusion.
25:28Therapist Florian over there.
25:30Listen to me.
25:31I'm the lawyer.
25:32I can defense you, OK?
25:34OK, you're going to hear.
25:35I'm going to talk, OK?
25:39Try to not sleep with her in the bed.
25:41I just didn't hear him, OK?
25:42I want to hear.
25:43OK.
25:43Because I don't like to be touched.
25:45OK.
25:45One second.
25:46Eh.
25:46You're ruined like this.
25:47Let her talk.
25:48OK.
25:49I, I, I don't.
25:50I like to be still.
25:52I like to sleep.
25:53I like to sleep untouched.
25:54Has nothing to do with you or your body.
25:57You're beautiful.
25:57One second.
25:58You are beautiful.
25:59Let her hear him.
25:59Let her hear him.
26:00You are beautiful.
26:01And I apologize if you took that the wrong way.
26:03One second.
26:04Any type of body shaming is not what I meant.
26:06That is my thing.
26:07My thing only that I don't like to be touched
26:09has nothing to do with you.
26:10OK.
26:11You hear it?
26:12That's all that it is.
26:13Say again.
26:13Apologize.
26:14I want to hear it.
26:14Apologize.
26:15I apologize for the way that came across.
26:19Say thank you.
26:20She say apologize 10 times.
26:21She won't thank you.
26:23Go give her a hug or something.
26:24I, I don't think she wants one from me.
26:26Let's hug together.
26:27Hug the angel.
26:27Hug the angel.
26:28Eh.
26:29Eh.
26:29Why the hell did you stop?
26:31Give me.
26:31I was, I was scared.
26:32I was scared.
26:34Don't do that.
26:34No, no.
26:35Don't do that.
26:35No, no, no, no, no.
26:36Trash.
26:36Don't do that.
26:37No, no, no, no, no.
26:37Me too.
26:38Me too.
26:38Be sweet.
26:39She's not going to find no more.
26:41Jesus Christ.
26:44I'm at a loss here because I'm apologizing to her
26:48so that she feels better for something that I didn't say
26:51or didn't do.
26:52And she takes that and kicks me in the nuts.
26:56I mean, I feel like I'm trying to do
26:59what I can to be a better partner,
27:01to be a better listener, to be, you know,
27:03a punching bag at this point or whatever
27:06it is that she needs to be.
27:07But I'm trying.
27:08I am trying.
27:10You know, could I try more?
27:11Could I do more?
27:12I mean, I don't know.
27:19While Natalie calms down, we are all going to meet
27:23back by the tents.
27:24I have something planned for us to break this up
27:26and release some of this energy.
27:29OK.
27:29Cool?
27:30Meet me back there very soon.
27:32OK.
27:34Go back, guys.
27:36That's what it's like being married, huh?
27:38Just apologizing for nothing?
27:39Pretty much.
27:40Yeah.
27:41Let's come soft and sweet and normal.
27:44Let's come soft, OK?
27:45I yell sometimes.
27:46It's not nice, OK?
27:47OK?
27:47Like, just like, let's take it in a sweet way, you know?
27:51I think he's doing the right thing to tell you.
27:53He's tell you apologize.
27:55He's tell you I'm sorry.
27:56He's tell you everything.
27:58You love him or no?
28:04Yeah.
28:08I think you need to accept his sorry apologize.
28:10He's telling for his heart, you know?
28:12You need to forgive to him.
28:27George didn't.
28:29And he's been nice to me, and I trust him.
28:30So I'm kind of feel good, better.
28:35And let's go to enjoy the group, sweetheart.
28:39You're great.
28:43Let's see what the is having with that group.
28:58Yeah.
29:04He's horrible.
29:05He basically just showed everything
29:07that he's always done to me every day and to everyone.
29:11No, it's fine.
29:12It's fine.
29:14I came to this therapy to actually try
29:17the last time at our marriage, right?
29:18I actually tried to do.
29:19And in the therapy sessions, I'm, like, being vulnerable.
29:22I'm really trying.
29:23And you know I hate talking about my feelings.
29:25But I'm doing it, and I'm pushing through.
29:28He's here making friends with guys.
29:30He's not putting our marriage first.
29:31He's not even trying with our marriage, Mom.
29:33And there's no love there on his side, none.
29:37The minute that his image was blown, it's like,
29:39I was, like, his enemy.
29:41Like, he doesn't give a fuck that he's hurting.
29:43He doesn't.
29:44He just doesn't fucking care, Mom.
29:55Because I did something?
29:56What the fuck did I do?
29:58I got a fucking screenshot of me on a dating app?
30:01From when?
30:02Because I haven't been on a fucking dating app
30:03in a long time.
30:05What's the even point of this?
30:24Is that your mom?
30:25Can I say hi?
30:26Yeah, Mom.
30:27Jasmine wants to say hi.
30:28Hi, beautiful.
30:31I'm good.
30:32Listen, she's in good hands, OK?
30:37I know, baby.
30:38But she's OK.
30:40I know that you love her.
30:42We all love Sophie.
30:43But we have seen the real Rob.
30:48And we all got Sophie's back.
30:52She hasn't had breakfast.
30:53She hasn't eaten anything.
30:55And it really concerns me.
30:57So I'm going to bottle her for you a little bit.
31:01And I'm going to try to make her, like, eat a little bit,
31:04OK?
31:05Thank you, sweetie.
31:06I love you.
31:07Take care, my love.
31:08OK, baby.
31:08Let's go.
31:09So you can eat and drink some water.
31:13We are in the desert.
31:14You have to stay hydrated, OK?
31:16Let's go.
31:21We come to this resort to work on our marriage.
31:23And we agreed that we're focusing on each other.
31:25And that, you know, we wanted to build trust.
31:27We wanted to actually give this a go.
31:28So for him to still just be talking to all these other girls
31:31and then get a dating app, it's like,
31:33it just feels like, how are we ever
31:35supposed to work on our marriage if you just are never going
31:38to be accountable for anything?
31:41It's OK.
31:42Everything is going to be OK.
31:43Let's go.
31:48Ari, is everything OK?
31:50It's been hell.
31:51But, like, being here and, like, everyone just
31:53rewards, like, the bad behavior, the narcissism.
31:56Like, it's difficult. You guys all, especially Julia,
32:01you called Rob out on his s***.
32:02And but nobody wants to call Vinny out.
32:04I'm not calling out on his s***.
32:05I'm not even talking to him.
32:06Enough. Enough.
32:07Enough.
32:08Enough.
32:21OK, guys, if we can gather, please.
32:33We'll meet right here in front of the tents.
32:37It's like a showdown.
32:47If I could have the girls line up in front.
32:50Men in back, somewhat by your partners still.
32:55The campground this morning got out of control very quickly.
32:59Sophie's crying.
33:00I see Natalie in complete hysterics.
33:03This is complete chaos.
33:05Thankfully, I have the perfect tool
33:07for these people to disperse this energy
33:10and have them get through it.
33:11What's happening a lot of the time
33:21is that your nervous systems are trapped
33:23and they're stuck in these cycles.
33:25And you go into this stress response.
33:27So what we want to do is we want to shake it up.
33:30We want to let it go.
33:31We want to break the nervous system pattern
33:33and we want to release the stress.
33:36We are obviously dealing with a lot of tension.
33:40A lot of emotions right now have come up.
33:42And I think what's best at this point
33:45is to allow you some space to release some of that.
33:51So we're going to do a primal energetic release for you.
33:58This is our opportunity to yell if you want to yell,
34:02scream if you want to scream, not at each other,
34:06but just in order to move the energy through
34:10so that we can leave this camping trip
34:12with at least getting something productive out of it
34:15and letting something go.
34:19No, I don't want to scream.
34:22I've just been listening to people scream all day.
34:25My anxiety is already at an all-time high.
34:28The last exercise we need to be doing right now as a group
34:31is to be screaming into the void.
34:37I invite you guys to kind of tap into yourselves here.
34:40So let's take sunglasses off.
34:42Let's maybe even take bags off because you're going to move.
34:44I don't want anything to get jostled around.
34:47This is kind of a style of breath work
34:49that kind of starts from the floor up.
34:51So we're going to get the body involved, okay?
34:53You're going to go into this low squat stance.
34:57So what I want you to do is you're going to go
34:59one, two, three, four.
35:05That's your stance.
35:09Your goal is to feel as though you're pushing
35:12a large ball of energy all the way across the world.
35:16All the way across the world, okay?
35:18I want you to take this from your center and push it out.
35:21So it's...
35:21Whoo!
35:23Ha!
35:24Whoo!
35:25Ha!
35:26Make sense?
35:27Look like kung fu.
35:30I'm just so much curious to try new things, to be honest.
35:34It's a good release.
35:37I don't get it.
35:38Not your vibe, not your thing, huh?
35:40No, like kung fu.
35:41Kung fu?
35:43Oh, like, hyah!
35:45Hyah!
35:46It's this, too.
35:47Hyah!
35:51We're going to go one, two, hands in the center,
35:55like you're holding a ball of energy.
35:58That way.
36:00And then we're going to go...
36:02Whoo!
36:03Ha!
36:04Whoo!
36:06Ha!
36:07Gino, Gino, be careful.
36:09Too much power.
36:10Ha!
36:11Ha!
36:12Whoo!
36:13Ha!
36:14Whoo!
36:15Kung fu panda.
36:16Whoo!
36:17Ha!
36:18Ah!
36:19Ah!
36:20Ah!
36:21Ah!
36:22Ah!
36:23Ah!
36:24Ah!
36:25Ah!
36:26Ah!
36:28Ah!
36:29Ah!
36:30Ah!
36:31Ah!
36:32Ah!
36:33Ah!
36:34Ah!
36:35Ah!
36:36Ah!
36:37Ah!
36:38Ah!
36:39Ah!
36:40Ah!
36:41Ah!
36:42Ah!
36:44Whoo!
36:46Ha!
36:47Now, here's the key.
36:49I want you to really tap into your power here,
36:51and think about what you want to be releasing here.
36:55It's been a lot coming up.
36:57You've already been through a lot.
36:59You deserve this, to let this go, to have a release,
37:04to at least feel something.
37:08So when we do that, right?
37:10What happened there?
37:25I don't know.
37:40Are you OK?
37:49It's so stressful.
37:51I feel like I'm surrounded by a bunch of people
37:53that just stress me out.
37:57My anxiety is already at an all-time high,
37:59and I just don't want to be, like, letting it all hang out.
38:04Even though it's supposed to be calming,
38:06like that we're doing breathing exercises,
38:08sometimes, for me, the breathing has the opposite effect.
38:11It can bring awareness to stress that I'm already feeling.
38:14And right now, none of this is working for me.
38:19OK, let's take a break.
38:25Yeah.
38:38I mean, I have to just try to block out all these morons.
39:08Oh, there she goes.
39:14You good?
39:21OK.
39:24OK, let's do the therapy.
39:27Ari, is everything OK?
39:28No, it's not OK.
39:31I mean, today was very traumatic for me,
39:33because everything Sophie's going through,
39:35I went through all that.
39:38And I, like, I don't need other people
39:40to know about what I've been through, what it's been hell.
39:43But, like, being here, and, like, everyone
39:45just rewards, like, the bad behavior or the narcissism.
39:48Like, it's difficult. You guys all, especially Julia,
39:52constantly, he's doing this on purpose.
39:57No, you need constant male attention,
39:59and I'm sure you see that, that she does need that constantly.
40:04And, like, you know what?
40:05You called Rob out on his s**t, but nobody
40:08wants to call Benny out.
40:09I didn't call out on his s**t.
40:11I didn't even talk with him.
40:12Earlier today, you were there.
40:13I'm not there.
40:14I'm not there.
40:15I was talking with Brennan right there.
40:16I'm not even there when this happened.
40:18I don't need to be yelled at by you.
40:19OK, OK, enough.
40:20Enough, enough, enough, enough.
40:22OK?
40:23We came here to release.
40:26All we're doing is attacking each other.
40:28I mean, what is this?
40:29I'm not trying to attack.
40:30I'm trying to make a point.
40:32I have no clue what she's talking about.
40:38No clue who I need attention.
40:42Gina?
40:43No.
40:44Florian?
40:45No.
40:46Josh?
40:47No, thank you.
40:49I mean, what is she talking about?
40:52I think she is just disappointed with what
40:56happened with her and Benny, and she
40:58You know what?
41:03I think maybe I should just take a break,
41:04because I just, the negative energy
41:06that I'm getting, like, from, like, the whole day,
41:08it's just affecting me.
41:10Hey, I understand that.
41:11I definitely understand that.
41:13I don't like conflict, and I've been
41:15with someone with constant conflict for five years.
41:17I just need a break from conflict.
41:19I don't want to hear anyone yell.
41:21I don't want to fight with anybody.
41:22I need a break from it.
41:25Listen, if you need to take a break, by all means,
41:29take a break.
41:30I do.
41:31I'm just, I can't do conflict.
41:32You want to take space.
41:33Go take space.
41:33You don't have to do this.
41:34I don't want to do it.
41:35OK, all right.
41:43Nobody knows what I've been through for so long.
41:48I just can't do it anymore.
41:50Yeah.
42:12OK, so we're ready.
42:14Oh, yeah.
42:15Ready!
42:15Let's get into this.
42:17Feet apart.
42:18Woo!
42:19Let's go!
42:19Sit low.
42:20We got this, baby.
42:21Let's go.
42:22Get the energy here, y'all.
42:24Let's go.
42:26Close your eyes, please.
42:28And think about why you're here.
42:31And think about what you want to let go of.
42:33We're going to go.
42:34Hoo.
42:36Ha.
42:37Hoo.
42:39Ha.
42:40Hoo.
42:41Ha.
42:42The louder you can be, the better it'll feel.
42:44Ha.
42:45Hoo.
42:47Ha.
42:47Let it go.
42:48Ha.
42:49Hoo.
42:50Ha.
42:51Hoo.
42:52Ha.
42:53Hoo.
42:54Yeah!
42:55Let's go.
42:55Hoo.
42:56Ha.
42:57Think of what you want to release.
42:58Hoo.
42:59Ha.
43:00OK.
43:01Hoo.
43:01Ha.
43:02Hoo.
43:03Ha.
43:04I'll count.
43:063, 2, 1.
43:10Woo!
43:11Woo!
43:18Yeah!
43:23This is exactly what I need right now to scream
43:27all this frustration after all this mess
43:31with all these people fighting and yelling
43:33the whole freaking morning.
43:34The screaming is so releasing when you scream for a purpose,
43:40just to release the negative emotions.
43:44It really works.
43:45It really works.
43:48OK, you guys.
43:49This concludes and wraps up our camping trip experience here.
43:55I know a lot has happened out here.
43:58We're leaving some of it behind.
44:00And let's take something new back to our lives.
44:03Whatever that is for you, go ahead
44:04and hold it into your heart.
44:06But let's pack up.
44:08Let's go back to the resort.
44:09And I'll see you guys all there.
44:17Here, give me the bag.
44:19No.
44:19Take this, please.
44:20With the phone.
44:22Uh-oh, uh-oh, uh-oh.
44:23Behind you.
44:24Ah!
44:25Take the glasses, please.
44:26Take the glasses.
44:27Take the glasses.
44:28Take the glasses.
44:29Take the glasses.
44:31Do you need help?
44:32Yeah, let's do this.
44:34Girl power.
44:35Girl power.
44:37I feel like we three girls who are like,
44:40at the end of the day, sisterhood is stronger than anything.
44:43Maybe we'll be stronger than anybody.
44:45Yeah.
44:46You want to help?
44:47Grab that side.
44:51No, no, no.
44:52Just fold it this way.
45:08OK.
45:27Woo!
45:37Having sex at night, I think they were.
45:40Well, I like the donkeys.
45:41I like the donkeys, but they are wild.
45:43And I think that they were doing bad things at night.
45:47There was a lot of craziness.
45:49Definitely was a lot of craziness.
45:51I mean, woke up and, you know, all this stuff going down
45:54with Rob and Sophie.
45:55That was shocking.
45:57People were losing their shit.
45:59And I never had the chance to speak to you
46:02with the high-end therapies, you know?
46:06I could clearly see by your body language
46:08that you were about to cry.
46:12I saw some tears.
46:13And you were very sorry about something
46:17you either said or did to me.
46:21Then when Sarah asked you to participate,
46:25and you opened yourself, honestly,
46:29I don't think that that's what you were apologizing for.
46:35And you just make it up.
46:38And even Florian seconded me on that.
46:42I want us to be honest.
46:51What was it?
46:59All right, I'll tell you.
47:01I'll tell you.
47:15You ready?
47:16Yes!
47:17Yes!
47:19Next time on 90 Day The Last Resort.
47:22I want to have an open marriage.
47:24And I found a person.
47:27Can we call him?
47:29OK, I'm so nervous.
47:31How are you doing?
47:32I'm good.
47:33Take off your shirt.
47:39You can die for Jasmine?
47:41I would.
47:43You'd die for her?
47:44Would you not die for her to sleep with her?
47:47Because I've, yeah.
47:49You think you're like, you're so special?
47:54Stace, everything is OK?
47:57Darcy's here.
47:59What?
48:00What?
48:00She flew in because we need deep therapy
48:03between the three of us.
48:04A lot of the issues that Florian and I are having,
48:06like Darcy is the key factor here.
48:09I look the same.
48:10Yeah.
48:11Well, give me a hug.
48:13How are you doing?
48:13Well, we're here to work on our issues, so.
48:16Darcy asked this Florian before, who is more important, Darcy
48:20or Stacey?
48:21I mean, he should obviously choose his wife, you know?
48:25But he couldn't pick up one.
48:27Stacey's a little bit downer sometimes.
48:30You know what?
48:31You know, I just, I'm going to go home.
48:33I want to go.
48:34Stace, Stace.
48:34Florian, let's go.
48:35Stace.