90 Day - The Last Resort S2 Episode 12 - On Their Last Legs
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00:00Previously on 90 Day, The Last Resort.
00:07Think of what you want to relieve.
00:18Is it possible to move forward with this new circumstance for you, Brandon?
00:22Yesterday I found out Julia cheated on me with her ex, but if I run away now, I think
00:29it could be the end of this, yeah.
00:31I think I can, but I'm just sore at the moment because it's so fresh.
00:37Brandon is sleeping with her, but I just didn't hear him, okay?
00:42I want to hear him.
00:43Okay.
00:44I like to be still, I like to sleep, I like to sleep untouched.
00:47Apologize.
00:48I apologize for the way that came across.
00:52Let's hug together.
00:53Hug the angel.
00:54Hug the angel.
00:55Here you go.
00:56Stop.
00:58Don't do that.
00:59No, no, no.
01:00Don't do that.
01:01No, no, no.
01:02Don't do that.
01:03No, no, no.
01:04Don't do that.
01:05I hate you.
01:06Jesus Christ.
01:07I have evidence that she said, go fuck other women.
01:10I said, I don't want to go on a break.
01:11We should either separate or we should work on our relationship.
01:14He's not taking this seriously.
01:16I think this is a good place where we need to take some personal space before anything
01:21else nasty is said.
01:25Bullshit.
01:31Ari, is everything okay?
01:33No, it's not okay.
01:34I mean, today was very traumatic for me because everything Sophie's going through, I went
01:39through all of that.
01:40I don't like conflict and I've been with someone, constant conflict for five years.
01:44I just need a break from it.
01:47With the high note therapies, you know, like, honestly, I don't think that that's what you
01:56were apologizing for.
02:00What was it?
02:02All right, I'll tell you.
02:16I'll tell you.
02:46How's the shower state?
03:04The best shower I ever had.
03:06I had sand in my crack.
03:08Everywhere.
03:09Oh, it feels so good.
03:11The camping is nice.
03:13You don't like it?
03:15I like, you know, more resorts, like my king bed and fluffy pillows.
03:20Fluffy.
03:21Yeah.
03:22That camping trip was cray cray.
03:26What did you and Natalie talk about?
03:27I saw you guys like walking off in the sunset looking like little lovebirds.
03:31No, what the fuck are you talking about?
03:33I mean, I know you're just trying to help everybody.
03:35It's who you are and that's why I love you.
03:37You have a big heart and everybody loves you when they really get to know you and you're
03:42willing to drop everything and anything to help people.
03:45It's good to help people in life.
03:47Yeah.
03:48You feel good, you know.
03:49But I also want you to remember, you know, you know why we're here.
03:52We're here for us.
03:53We're here to work on our relationship and our marriage.
03:56I know.
03:57I think you need to chill out a little bit.
04:09A few days ago, during Sand Tray Therapy, Heidi suggested that Darcy come to the retreat
04:13and we do some family therapy all together.
04:16Because a lot of the issues that we're having, Darcy is the key factor.
04:20So Darcy's coming to the resort tonight, but I just don't know how it's going to go.
04:38I know that it's important for me to know what it really was, you know.
04:54All right.
05:01I wished that, you know, I told you I was going to have a bachelor party
05:07and that I didn't, well, touch any of the girls, you know, in a way that hurt you.
05:27The whole bachelor party incident was a critical turning point in Jasmine and I's relationship
05:35because after that happened, our whole relationship started going downhill.
05:42We went to a strip club.
05:45I always have to discover **** from other people.
05:49Woo!
05:53Whoa!
05:58You know, that caused a lot of problems.
06:00More fighting, less communication.
06:03We stopped sleeping in the same bed together.
06:06You know, after that happened, our bond, you know, went to pretty much zero.
06:13Part of us trying to work in our marriage is to move forward, you know,
06:18and I appreciate your apology and, Jess, it hurt me a lot,
06:22but I came here to leave everything in the past, start all over again, like have a new beginning.
06:32It really means a lot to me to hear from Gino
06:36that what he really wanted to apologize for was the bachelor party.
06:41He has owned this to me for a long time.
06:45I even thought that that apology will never come.
06:49It's a huge, you know, step.
06:53I do feel better now that I know the truth,
06:58but we still haven't made any progress to be intimate again.
07:02I cannot feel confident about our marriage until we improve our sex life.
07:10Okay, you know what?
07:13I want to get ready now for the dinner.
07:17I promised Stacy and Julia to meet with them.
07:21Okay.
07:22So I don't want to be late, okay?
07:24That's fine.
07:26Yeah.
07:28I'm gonna just get ready.
07:32Okay.
07:56Okay.
08:13Mommy.
08:14Hi, baby.
08:15Hey, how are you?
08:17I'm good.
08:18Mommy, I behave like a good boy.
08:21I know you're a good boy.
08:22Yes.
08:23Yes.
08:24I'm gonna say, don't worry, Mommy.
08:25I'm gonna have fun.
08:26And then when you come back, we're gonna play together.
08:29Mommy, don't worry, Mommy.
08:31Everything's okay.
08:33I love you, sweetie.
08:35Can I talk to your Aunt Kristen for a minute?
08:37Yes.
08:38You wanna have a play for a little while?
08:39Uh-huh.
08:40So how is everything?
08:41Well, the thing is, like, I was kind of hoping that by speaking to a professional, you know, therapist,
08:49we can work through some of the issues.
08:52But I feel like it's so frustrating, because all I want him to do is just be honest.
08:58But I know he's not.
09:02There was a person that I fell in love with, you know, and I'd like to see that person again.
09:06And so I'm hoping that guy will come back.
09:09But, you know, we'll see.
09:12The camping trip, it was difficult for me.
09:15Vinny got so mad at me for asking questions about him cheating.
09:18But I'm trying to work on the marriage, and it seems like Vinny is more than happy to just let it all go.
09:26And it's like, my heart is broken for our son.
09:29He loves both of his parents, and he loves both of his parents together.
09:37Bobby, show Mommy your toys.
09:41Nice, look at that.
09:44Wow, you made that?
09:46Yes, it's for you.
09:48I made you a really tall one.
09:51Oh, I like it. Can I tell you something?
09:53You're the best baby ever.
09:56You're the best Mommy ever.
09:58Oh, honey, thank you.
10:00Together, we're the best family ever, and we love each other, right?
10:03And Daddy's the best Daddy ever.
10:07Yeah, that's right.
10:09Daddy loves you. Mommy loves you.
10:11We love you so much.
10:16We love you.
10:35What's up, Gino?
10:36Hey, what's going on?
10:37How you been?
10:38Good, how about you?
10:40That's good, not bad.
10:42Last night, Jasmine came to me to say apologize,
10:45and basically asked me to talk to Gino.
10:48Me and Gino are very close. Gino can listen to me,
10:51and I'm going to be happy, I think, something, you know?
10:55How's your day?
10:56Not bad.
10:58I mean, there was a lot of drama, of course, today, it seems.
11:03You know?
11:04Trust me, nobody's perfect. Everybody has their own issues, you know?
11:09That is for sure.
11:11Jasmine, to be honest, like, last night we were camping,
11:15Jasmine come and tell me, like, I'm sorry, I apologize, you know?
11:20She apologized?
11:21Yeah.
11:22Oh, that's nice.
11:23She apologized, and I apologized to her back,
11:25and I tell to her, like, hey, stop disrespecting him.
11:30Jasmine, tell to me I promise you I'm going to change, you know?
11:35Jasmine said that?
11:36Jasmine said that.
11:37Jasmine said that.
11:38Yeah, I'm going to change. I'm not going to yell at him.
11:40Those are positive words.
11:41Only things need to be more intimidation, how you say it?
11:47Intimate.
11:51But I think you should give her a chance.
11:54I need her to put some effort on her part, and I haven't seen anything yet.
11:59We have to have multiple days in a row where we are not fighting
12:06and where she listens to me when I talk to her.
12:09Yes.
12:10And she can do it for at least, you know, a couple weeks.
12:16A couple weeks?
12:17A couple weeks.
12:19It's not a one-day deal or two or three days.
12:21You need to sign a contractor.
12:24A couple weeks is too much.
12:26No, it's not.
12:27A couple weeks?
12:28Jesus Christ, it's a short time.
12:29To be honest, I was thinking more like a month to three months of not fighting,
12:34and I'm not joking, because I've done it with other past relationships with ease.
12:40My ex-wife, I was with her for seven years.
12:42We didn't fight at all for seven years.
12:46Can you imagine that?
12:48Seven years?
12:58No.
12:59Like, we might have very small arguments, but they were tiny.
13:03Like, we didn't get in big fights.
13:05Not like I do with Jasmine.
13:27I know Jasmine's a different person.
13:30I understand that.
13:32But this has been the most difficult relationship of my life.
13:50Oh, my gosh, yes.
13:52And our queen.
13:54Hi!
13:55Hi!
13:56Beautiful.
13:57Okay.
13:58Beauty queen.
13:59Okay.
14:00Look at that.
14:01Oh!
14:02I love it.
14:03After shopping.
14:04Yeah, we're going to pop some bottles.
14:05Yes, after all the drumming, that freaking camping, and that's nice.
14:06Right?
14:07I deserve it.
14:08With the donkeys.
14:09I like it.
14:10I'm so glad that my favorite girls are here, but I'm really nervous.
14:11I'm so nervous.
14:12I'm so nervous.
14:13I'm so nervous.
14:14I'm so nervous.
14:15I'm so nervous.
14:16I'm so nervous.
14:17I'm so nervous.
14:18I'm so nervous.
14:19I'm so nervous.
14:20I'm so nervous.
14:21I'm so nervous.
14:22I'm so nervous.
14:23But I'm really nervous because no one knows that Darcy's on her way.
14:28I'm just going to enjoy the calm before the storm, before Darcy the Hurricane rolls in.
14:35Okay.
14:37Ready?
14:38Yes!
14:39Yes!
14:40Let me have some champagne.
14:41Yes, come sit.
14:43Let's go to have a seat in a chaire, not on a floor.
14:48I love your house.
14:50Same like yours, right?
14:53You all have a scene.
14:55Right?
14:56And where is your lovely and adorable husband, Florian?
15:00Florian, he already left.
15:01He went to go get his drink on.
15:03I really appreciate Florian offering to hug me with Gino.
15:08How was it in the tent?
15:09What did you guys do?
15:09Ah, well, I wish I could, like, give you good news right now.
15:16But so basically, we slept on the same tent,
15:20but no hugging, no cuddling, no snuggling,
15:23no nothing.
15:23And he's, like, running out of excuses,
15:26like, why we are not being intimate.
15:38Oh, my gosh.
15:39I'm shaking.
15:52Sex with you, even if you have a good behavior.
15:55Ah!
15:56Oh, my God.
15:59I'm so confused.
16:02He doesn't want to have sex with you at all, like, at all.
16:10It really breaks my heart to hear my husband has been
16:15lying straight on my face, telling me, like, oh, we're
16:19going to be intimate pretty soon.
16:21When he just confessed that he had no intention
16:25whatsoever to do that.
16:28That just means he doesn't even want to work on the marriage.
16:30He is look like he doesn't want to try.
16:34I wish Gino had the balls to say it out loud.
16:38Like, listen, I like you.
16:41Like, you are beautiful.
16:42I enjoy your company.
16:44You are funny.
16:44Your jokes, you're clean.
16:46You cook delicious.
16:47And forget about the sex.
16:49I know an open marriage is not conventional.
16:53But I'm willing to do whatever it takes to save our marriage.
16:58Because I really love him, and I don't want to lose him.
17:02I've been feeling so guilty about me
17:05considering an open marriage.
17:07But this is going to help our relationship,
17:10because I'm going to satisfy a need.
17:12And after hearing this, I do care about Gino.
17:15I still want things to work.
17:17I don't want to get divorced.
17:19But at the end of the day, you know what?
17:20It's like, I'm not willing to be in a sexless marriage anymore.
17:27I'm 100% sure that this is what I want.
17:29And I found a person.
17:35He's a friend.
17:44For my mind, for love, you can do everything.
17:46Takes more than love.
17:47You, you can die for Jasmine?
17:50I would.
17:51You'd die for her?
17:53Would you not die for her to sleep with her?
17:56Whoa, whoa, whoa.
18:17Like, who?
18:18What?
18:19Who, what?
18:20Where does he live?
18:20Who is he?
18:21OK, OK.
18:30Aw.
18:47But he has been very respectful of that.
18:49And I open myself to him.
18:51And I let him know that.
18:53If I don't see any progress, like sexually with Gino,
18:56I do want an open marriage.
19:00And he's like, I like you as a person.
19:03And if that's going to help, like, I'll bang you.
19:06I'm like, oh, wow.
19:09Oh, my god.
19:11He's saying like, what?
19:12Like, more or less, he said like, yes.
19:14Like, girl, like, sex is hell.
19:40Can we see a picture?
19:41OK, I'm going to show you a picture.
19:43This is a selfie that we took at the gym.
19:45Oh, wow.
19:46He's hot.
19:52Oh, my god.
19:54Really blue eyes.
19:56Yeah.
19:56He's handsome.
19:58I mean, look at how shiny you are.
20:00I mean, I haven't seen you smile like that with Gino
20:02since you've been here.
20:04What do you want from that relationship?
20:06Do you want something more?
20:07Oh, I would love it.
20:08I don't love him because love is a process.
20:12And honestly, I love Gino.
20:14I don't want to get divorced.
20:15And I do care about Gino.
20:17I still want things to work.
20:19I mean, what if Gino says no?
20:22Are you willing to walk away?
20:32I don't know.
20:34If I respond to you right now and I say, oh, it's over,
20:38I will be lying.
20:40Or if I say, OK, I'm going to stay.
20:41I'm going to try.
20:42I'll be lying.
20:44I prefer to talk to Gino and then to see how it goes
20:50and then make a decision.
20:51I do.
21:11No, I do love her.
21:12Yeah, for what I'm saying.
21:13I do love her.
21:15For my mind.
21:16For love, you can do everything.
21:17Takes more than love.
21:19For love, you can sacrifice your life.
21:24You can die for Jasmine?
21:27I would.
21:29You'd die for her?
21:30For you not die for her to sleep with her?
21:34Because I, yeah.
21:37F***ing easy to f*** somebody.
21:39F***ing easy, man.
21:42You give me.
21:43I have my beliefs and you have yours.
21:45You think you're like, you're f***ing so special?
21:50You're very stubborn.
21:51You know my point?
21:52You want to.
21:53I don't think so.
21:53You try to prove a point to Jasmine.
21:58You remember in sex therapy, it's
22:00not like I want an open marriage.
22:03I think it's try to tell to you, let's be together
22:09or you're going to lose me.
22:11Yeah, I think it's a warning.
22:13Warning, warning.
22:13It's a warning.
22:14Warning, yeah.
22:15You don't believe in warning?
22:17Depends to you.
22:18The one thing I'm not going to be
22:20is like forced into something.
22:25I think at this point, I've had several people tell me,
22:29oh, Gino, just have sex with Jasmine
22:32and everything's going to be OK.
22:34But that doesn't work.
22:35Like, you know, she'd be kicking my ass the next day
22:40or fighting with me the next day.
22:42And then we're going to be back to square one again.
22:45We're going to be back to the beginning.
22:48I hope.
22:50I hope it works out for us.
22:51You know?
22:51I hope so.
22:52I hope it works out for us.
22:53I wish.
22:54And I'm going to pray for you and Jasmine.
22:56I promise you that.
22:57No, no, no.
22:57Yeah, yeah, yeah.
22:58Yeah, I'm serious.
22:59I'm not joking.
23:00No, I'm not.
23:01You know, we're going to be together.
23:03Yeah, we're going to need the prayers.
23:04You know, we're going to be together.
23:05I'm happy this way.
23:07Do you want another drink?
23:08I can get us another drink.
23:09All right, thank you.
23:11Sounds good.
23:19Whoa, whoa, whoa.
23:32Oh.
23:40What?
23:41Yeah, she's with him because we need deep therapy
23:44between the three of us.
23:45For me, I like a middle.
23:46Like, I understand there's a side.
23:48I understand her side.
23:49I'm not going to, like, take a side.
23:51You picked my side.
23:52My side.
23:54I'm your wife.
24:10Can we call him?
24:14What?
24:15You're f***ing crazy.
24:16It's OK.
24:17Be here for you.
24:25Let me see what he's doing.
24:28Well, what we're going to talk about.
24:30Do you want to take a sip first?
24:31Sip before?
24:32I feel nervous.
24:33I just feel like we have this, like, secret.
24:35Oh my god.
24:36OK, I'm so nervous.
24:38Come here.
24:41I'm good.
24:44The gym is so boring without you.
24:45I know.
24:46Oh.
24:47So listen, I'm calling you because you
24:49know that I'm in this retreat, and I
24:52have made some confessions about our friendship,
24:56and that you're the person that I have considered
25:00for a potential open marriage with Gino.
25:03And I'm sorry to call you unexpected,
25:07but they are so curious to meet you.
25:11Oh my god.
25:12Oh my god.
25:13Now I'm really nervous.
25:14Now I'm nervous, too.
25:15So this is Stacy.
25:18Hi, Matt.
25:20Hi, Stacy.
25:21How are you?
25:22I'm good.
25:23How are you?
25:23Good.
25:24And this is my beautiful friend.
25:26She's Russian, Julia.
25:27Hi.
25:28Hi.
25:29Nice to meet you.
25:30We have a couple questions, if you don't mind.
25:32Yes.
25:33OK, all right.
25:34I'm shooting.
25:35Shoot.
25:35Go ahead.
25:36I love Jasmine, and obviously you know she's married to Gino,
25:40and they're having issues, and that's why she's here.
25:44So what do you want?
25:45Is this strictly platonic?
25:48Just for, you know, sex?
25:49Or something like maybe romantic and desire.
25:52Is there an emotional connection?
25:54I'm a, we're good friends.
25:57If something was ever to happen, that would be cool with me.
26:00But you know, when people get married,
26:02there's going to be ups and downs.
26:03So I want to see her happy, you know?
26:06We want to.
26:07We want to see her happy.
26:08Well, if Jasmine needs me, she knows where to find me.
26:13I'm sorry that we just called, I just called you,
26:15and you were not prepared.
26:17No, you're fine.
26:18At least I have a shirt on this time, you know?
26:19Woo!
26:21Woo!
26:22Show us those muscles.
26:23Take off your shirt.
26:24Woo!
26:27Take off your shirt.
26:29No, we have to go to a dinner with our husbands.
26:32No, we got to go back to our husbands.
26:34Bye.
26:34Nice to meet you, ladies.
26:35Nice to meet you.
26:39OK, what do you think?
26:40What do you think?
26:41Wow.
26:42He's hot.
26:43Go to her, like, oh.
26:44Oh, he's going to flip her.
26:45I'm not going to let you.
26:46Shut up!
26:47He's going to be like, come on, Jasmine.
26:49Like, your mouth.
26:50He's going to be like, woo!
26:52Oh, get it off!
26:54Oh, you're going to get it good.
26:55Oh, he's going to give it to you good.
26:59In general, open relationships, it's not for me.
27:02But hey, who am I to judge?
27:03Something's got to give.
27:04I mean, this new guy, Matt, seems like a good guy.
27:07And I want her to be happy.
27:09But I don't know how Gina's going to take it.
27:12Let's cheers to a fun night.
27:14Let's have dinner.
27:15Please, we support you, wherever you want to tell him.
27:18Let's go make a deal.
27:19I don't judge you.
27:20I appreciate it.
27:21I appreciate it.
27:22You're going to have some fun, right?
27:25Yes.
27:26Let's see where our husbands are.
27:27Let's go.
27:29Let's go.
27:30Oh, Sophie, come in.
27:32Hey, Sophie.
27:33Sophie.
27:34How are you?
27:35I'm good.
27:36How are you?
27:36Good.
27:37Thanks.
27:38You look nice.
27:39How you doing?
27:40I'm good.
27:40You?
27:40I was good.
27:41How you been today?
27:44I've been OK.
27:45It's a very overwhelming day for me.
27:47Yeah, I know.
27:48It was rough for you and Rob, you know?
27:50Yeah.
27:51So I'm glad you're here.
27:53Yeah.
27:54I'm glad you're here.
27:55I'm glad you're here.
27:56I'm glad you're here.
27:57I'm glad you're here.
27:57I'm glad you're here.
27:58I'm glad you're here.
27:59I'd rather focus on other people.
28:01Hello.
28:01Yeah.
28:01Hi.
28:02Hi, Sophie.
28:03Oh, look at you.
28:04Yeah, you look so gorgeous.
28:05Hey.
28:06Hi, girl.
28:08How's it going?
28:09You look beautiful.
28:10Jasmine.
28:11All right.
28:12Oh.
28:14I need a drink.
28:15Yeah, I need a drink, too.
28:17I'm all for that.
28:18Yeah.
28:19After a disastrous camping trip where I found out that Rob
28:22has been texting other women, me and Rob
28:24haven't spoken since our flight this morning,
28:26and I'm not even sure that he's going to come to dinner.
28:29It's been very stressful.
28:30Everyone's emotions have been very heightened.
28:32So I think it would be nice for everyone to just hang out
28:34and just have some together time without the constant drama
28:38and emotions everywhere.
28:40Well, today was rough.
28:42It was dramatic.
28:43Yeah.
28:43Oh, yeah.
28:44It was cool.
28:44It was something.
28:45I like the breathing exercise.
28:46I like that kind of stuff.
28:48We kept getting interrupted.
28:50I was like, I don't want to do this.
28:52Right?
28:53Are you talking about today?
28:54Yes, because I'm ready to breathe and do this.
28:57And it's like, are you attacking me?
28:59Yeah, you got attacked.
29:00I mean, what did I do?
29:01What did I just do?
29:02I was trying to do my breathing.
29:03And it's like, yeah, she said you always need male attention.
29:07Do you know Ari and Benny are coming tonight?
29:09I don't know.
29:10She doesn't want us to be on Benny's side.
29:12She wants us to be on her side.
29:14And I get it.
29:15But I'm friends with Benny, you know?
29:17And I'm not going to give that up.
29:18No, I'd ask her, do you want I stop to talk with him?
29:20She'd say no.
29:21By saying no, she's wanting to say to you, I'm jealous.
29:24That's what she really means.
29:25Like, she's jealous inside.
29:28I still confused why Ari called me out today.
29:31I nothing have against her.
29:33I talk with her, trying to help her, listen to her.
29:37And that's what I get.
29:39For no reason, I don't get it.
29:44I just keep telling you guys is today's
29:46going to be some fight.
29:48I don't want to be involved in that bullshit.
29:50Yeah, we're going to have fun.
29:52Let's be positive.
29:53Yes.
29:54Let's be positive.
29:54It's come the negative, it's come, you know?
29:56Cheers to happiness and fun.
29:58Happy night.
29:59Happy.
30:00Good night.
30:01Yes.
30:02Stace, everything is OK?
30:06What happened?
30:06Actually, guys, guess what?
30:09Darcey's here.
30:11What?
30:11What?
30:12Yeah.
30:12Get out of here.
30:13I'm going to meet my twin.
30:14But at the resort.
30:15Yeah.
30:16She flew in because we need deep therapy
30:19between the three of us.
30:20So she will be coming to dinner?
30:22She just texted she's on her way.
30:25I get to meet her?
30:26It'll be the fun Darcey tonight, I'm sure.
30:31I am happy that Darcey's on her way,
30:32because I feel like we need a lot of things
30:34we need to work through.
30:36But I'm also a little nervous, because I feel
30:39like we butt heads a lot.
30:41But at the end of the day, I'm here
30:42to work on my relationship with Florian
30:43and do the best I can for myself and my relationship.
30:46I mean, if that means having her here, great.
30:50I want things to change for the better.
30:52Now he's texting me, like, where's my brother?
30:54How you doing?
30:55Oh, she talks nice to him.
30:56Sometimes it's such a weird dynamic
30:58you have to experience for yourself.
31:00At 3 in the morning, she called Florian, texted Florian.
31:05You know, she wanted to, like, take him away from me.
31:08At 3 in the morning?
31:09Oh, yeah.
31:11Yeah, it's weird.
31:12She called me one night to tell me, like, Stacy's boring.
31:15Jory's boring.
31:16Come here, have fun with me.
31:17Yeah.
31:18Boring, like, oh, my.
31:20Really?
31:21Never.
31:35Look at this.
31:37Look at this handsome man over here.
31:39And look at this beautiful woman.
31:41Hey, Josh.
31:44We're going to join you guys.
31:45Oh, OK.
31:45Yeah.
31:46We can't let you guys be over here by your lonesome.
31:51You want something to drink?
31:53I do.
31:54I want, like, a hot tea, actually,
31:55because I'm a little chilly.
31:57It was warmer over there.
31:58Yeah, right?
31:59Like, I was way warmer there.
32:01So I saw what happened over at the campsite.
32:04How are you guys doing now?
32:09I think we've been just kind of taking our space right now
32:12a little bit since we got back.
32:14Sometime in Egypt, you know?
32:17After the camping event where, you know,
32:19Natalie claimed that I body shamed her, which I never did,
32:25you know, we have been taking some time apart.
32:28I think that there is a conversation that needs
32:30to happen between the two of us.
32:33But I feel like it would be better
32:35if we had this conversation in front of a therapist.
32:38So I'm hoping that, you know, we can have a peaceful night,
32:41like we can have a great dinner together.
32:43I guess table our issues and where we are
32:45and save those for therapy later.
32:49We'll hopefully work through it.
32:51Yeah.
32:51How about you guys?
33:01It's going to take some time to heal.
33:03But we're here.
33:03We're going to work this, right?
33:05So I want to give it that time.
33:07And I want to try.
33:08And maybe with the therapist's tips, maybe we can get there.
33:11I think you guys will work it out.
33:15Darcy, I mean, we're family.
33:17I love her.
33:18You know, we'll always be there for each other.
33:20But we have this weird dynamic where
33:22it's just constant competition.
33:24Like she's like, I'm seven minutes older than you.
33:26I know more than you.
33:27You know, yeah.
33:29She tries to like overpower me.
33:31Like I'm beneath her.
33:32I'm sorry, but we're equals.
33:34And it's been like this our whole life.
33:37But this is a twin thing.
33:39Like, I think it's a twin thing.
33:40Yeah.
33:42Yeah.
33:43Imagine having two Jasmines.
33:45Oh my god.
33:45Oh!
33:46Two Jasmines.
33:47Who's the pretty one?
33:48Oh my god.
33:49Oh, she's going to say she's the pretty one.
33:50No!
33:51Exactly.
33:52Man, one's enough.
33:53I don't want two Florians.
33:56I could not imagine two Jasmines.
33:58You know, she'd knock the house down
34:00because the walls would be shaking from just her voice.
34:03I don't want to deal with a bitch like me.
34:06I understand Stacey.
34:07That would be so overwhelming.
34:09Like, f*** you, Jasmine.
34:10No, f*** you, Jasmine.
34:11Oh my gosh.
34:12I'm so conflicted.
34:13Like, the heck no.
34:14The words not be right for that s***.
34:17Sometimes it pisses me off because he spends more time with her than he does with me.
34:21But I've told you numerous times, like, enough is enough.
34:24Like, stay with me.
34:26Like, you don't need to go to her every time she f***ing calls you.
34:28Like, he's like quick to f***ing answer the phone too.
34:31It's hard for me to be honest with you.
34:33And do you know it's my sister?
34:34She's not your sister.
34:35She's my sister.
34:37She's your sister-in-law.
34:38And that's different because—
34:40I see what he's saying.
34:41He's saying he's like a sister.
34:44He's got a really good connection with her.
34:46That's what I thought in the beginning, but now it's like a weird triangle.
34:49You have to understand, like, even—
34:50Boundaries.
34:51Even with siblings, there are boundaries.
34:53Yeah.
34:54And that is like—
34:55Enough is enough.
34:55For me, for me, I lost already, like, two sisters.
35:00And, like—
35:00He passed away.
35:01He passed away, basically.
35:02I'm very sorry.
35:03Sorry to hear that. I didn't know that.
35:04You know, my boy, then, like, for me, like, it's like, I don't know, it's very hard to, like, to separate that s***.
35:11I have four sisters and two passed away.
35:16It's very hard, you know, my boy, like, for me, it's changed my—
35:20Since my sister passed away for me, it changed my life.
35:25Nobody can replace my sister, you know, but, like, since I'm married to Stacy,
35:31like, I want to make Stacy happy, but I'm not going to cut their way, you know, my boy,
35:37cut their way, you know, my boy.
35:39Theirs is my sister.
35:43But, like, it's hard for me to deny theirs.
35:47I'm not asking you to deny her.
35:49I never asked you once to deny her.
35:51I know.
35:52I'm just asking for you to give me the respect I deserve as a wife.
35:55Separate wife from twin sister.
35:58Yeah, we're very similar, but we're not the same person, and that is upsetting to me.
36:06For me, I like a middle, like, I understand there's a side.
36:09I understand her side.
36:11I don't know, like, a middle, like, I can't, like, pick a side.
36:15You pick my side, my side.
36:18I'm your wife.
36:22She's your wife.
36:23What the f*** is wrong with you, Stacy?
36:24Shut the f*** up.
36:25Because I'm tired of it.
36:32Hey, guys.
36:35Hey, guys.
36:37Hey, guys.
36:48Hey.
36:49Hey.
37:02It's our day.
37:03Oh.
37:04Hey, guys.
37:06I made it.
37:07All right, we gotta say hello here.
37:09Hi.
37:12How are you?
37:13How are you?
37:14Nice to meet you.
37:15Nice to meet you.
37:16Nice to meet you, beautiful.
37:17Yeah.
37:18You're so pretty.
37:19They look the same.
37:20Yeah.
37:22I knew they were twins.
37:23Right, right, right.
37:24They really look the same.
37:25What's up, Flo?
37:27My brother.
37:29You're looking happy.
37:31You good?
37:32Yes.
37:33Hi, Stacy.
37:34Hey, Doris.
37:35Can we hug?
37:36Can we hug?
37:37That's right.
37:38That's right.
37:39Get it, get it, get it, get it.
37:40Come on, bring it.
37:41Come on.
37:42Can we hug?
37:43How you doing?
37:44Yeah, well, we're here to work on our issues, so.
37:45Tell me about it.
37:46Yeah, I know.
37:47Hey, how are you?
37:48Good to see you.
37:49Good to see you.
37:50Nice to meet you.
37:51Nice to meet you.
37:55Let me get that drink out of the way for you, Doris.
37:57Yeah.
37:58Come here, Stacy, Stacy, Stacy.
37:59Turn your leg.
38:00Okay.
38:01Oh.
38:02You guys sit here.
38:03Oh, thank you, Florian.
38:05My bestie.
38:07Oh, wow.
38:08You are one big family.
38:11Stacy and I have always had tension.
38:14I think we just tend to trigger each other to the point where it's becoming maybe irreversible.
38:20And I'm scared about that.
38:22All right, cheers.
38:23Cheers.
38:26There's a reason why the therapist wants me here.
38:29Because our twinness affects our other relationships.
38:31I know she came here for her and her husband, but I feel like if Stacy and I don't fix our twin bond,
38:36then she's not going to be able to fix her relationship with Florian.
38:39So I felt like in my gut, I needed to be here.
38:43Thank you for having me, guys.
38:45I appreciate it.
38:46Good to see you, family.
38:47I'm glad you guys to meet my other half.
38:49Yes.
38:50Ah, yes.
38:51Your other half, for sure.
38:52Yeah, the older twin by seven minutes.
38:54Oh, my God.
38:55I'm just joking.
38:56I'm just joking.
38:58So do we look alike?
38:59So do we look alike?
39:00Nope.
39:01Nope?
39:02Mm-mm.
39:03You have different energy.
39:04Completely different energy.
39:06You is, like, more, like, calm down, more relaxed.
39:09She's a couple?
39:10Yes, girl.
39:11Yes, she are.
39:13She, like, more the patience.
39:15Yeah.
39:16And you're like, yeah, let's do it.
39:17I'm like, oh, here we go.
39:18Let's get down to business.
39:19Yes, right?
39:20Yeah, the partier.
39:21Yes.
39:22Yeah.
39:23We love each other.
39:24We're family.
39:25But at the end of the day, we're here for therapy.
39:26So I'm here to work on my relationship with my husband.
39:29Like, yeah.
39:30And I'm here to work on our relationship.
39:32Yeah.
39:33Because we're twins.
39:34Exactly.
39:35Because we really need to get to a better place.
39:36Darcy, did you marry?
39:37Mm-hmm.
39:38Where's your husband?
39:40He's in Miami.
39:41Oh, you should have brought him.
39:42You should have brought Georgie.
39:43No, Stacey, because it's...
39:44Why not?
39:45It just didn't make sense right now.
39:46Because I feel like right now I need to focus on my relationship with Stacey.
39:50What upsets me is she likes to, like, infiltrate on my relationship.
39:55And she can't talk to her own husband.
39:56So she uses my husband.
39:58Anyway.
40:00Last year, Darcy and Georgie got back together, and they got married.
40:05But their relationship is really rocky.
40:08So I feel like a part of Darcy wants me and Florian to not be happy in our marriage.
40:15Because she's not happy in her own marriage.
40:17I've never met, like, twins.
40:19So, like, do you guys...
40:20Yeah, it's interesting.
40:21Do you guys, like, think the same?
40:22Or no?
40:23We have a lot of similar thoughts.
40:24That's so cool.
40:25Yeah.
40:26When we were younger, we used to have the same dreams.
40:27Same dreams, yeah.
40:28I wish I had a twin.
40:30You didn't know I was a twin when I met you.
40:33Actually, when they first met, he sent in my DMs, too.
40:38But I was like, wait, no.
40:40No, no, no, no.
40:42Tell the truth.
40:43He did.
40:44He liked your picture.
40:45He liked the picture.
40:46And he liked my picture.
40:47Yeah, Stacey.
40:49It was so long ago.
40:51I'm thinking he had, like, two accounts.
40:53He thought we were the same person.
40:55He thought we were the same person.
40:57So, he was hitting on both of you?
40:59He wasn't, like, hitting, but he was just, like, liking pictures and stuff.
41:02And I don't remember if he sent the message, but...
41:05But you weren't, like, sexually attracted to her, right?
41:08What the f*** are you talking about, Stacey?
41:09You're talking...
41:10You went too far.
41:12You're a little sassy.
41:13You're very sassy tonight.
41:14You're very sassy, Stacey, tonight.
41:16Yeah, I am.
41:21Okay, we have a fun night today, so...
41:23Yeah, let's have fun.
41:25I heard you're the life of the party.
41:27Let's have a party!
41:28Hey, have fun with Darcy.
41:30Go ahead.
41:31Go right ahead.
41:34Ay, ay, ay.
41:35The friction, my love.
41:37It starts increasing and increasing, and...
41:40I feel the heat.
41:41It's getting hot.
41:44Bring me the freaking popcorn.
41:45I'm ready to wash it.
41:48Darcy, can I ask you a question?
41:50Because I asked this Florian before, and...
41:53I say, who is more important?
41:55Darcy or Stacey?
41:56And what do you think he should answer for that question?
42:00I mean, he should obviously choose his wife, you know.
42:03But he couldn't pick up one.
42:05That was his answer.
42:06He couldn't pick up one.
42:10Stacey's a little bit...
42:11Debbie Downer sometimes.
42:15But he told me something here...
42:17That I was very f***ing shocked, Darcy.
42:20Okay, okay.
42:22Am I supposed to guess or something?
42:23You know what?
42:24I'm going to go home.
42:25I'm going to home.
42:26No, no, no.
42:27No, no, no.
42:28You can't start something and then not finish it.
42:30No, I'm not.
42:31You know what?
42:32I just want to go home.
42:34No, I don't want to finish what you're saying.
42:36No, no, no.
42:37I want to go home.
42:38Stacey, finish what you're saying.
42:39Stacey, please.
42:40Own it.
42:41Own your emotions.
42:42Own your vulnerability.
42:43I'm not ready to...
42:44I'm not ready to talk about this.
42:46I'm not ready to talk about it.
42:47Because it's upsetting.
42:48It's upsetting.
42:49It's upsetting.
42:50Why are you doing this to me?
42:51It's very f***ing upsetting.
42:52It's upsetting.
42:53And I want to go.
42:54I want to go.
42:55Florian, let me go.
42:57I'm good on my own.
42:58Just leave me alone.
42:59Darcy, don't follow me.
43:00No.
43:01I don't want you to f***ing follow me.
43:03Go with your f***ing dress and go party.
43:05I don't care.
43:06They're going to be okay.
43:07Florian, go.
43:08Yeah.
43:09Florian, Florian, Florian.
43:10Yeah, Florian, go.
43:11Darcy.
43:15It's like I want a twin, but now no.
43:17Yeah.
43:18Now I don't want a twin.
43:19I'm good.
43:20I'm glad I don't have siblings.
43:21I'm good.
43:23Stace.
43:24Stace.
43:25Just leave me alone.
43:26What the f*** is wrong with you?
43:27What did he reveal, Stacey?
43:28Finish what you're saying.
43:29I know what I know, and I don't want to deal with it right now.
43:32Nah, just leave me alone.
43:34Florian.
43:36What happened?
43:37What did you tell her?
43:38Stace.
43:39You know, Darcy, don't play dumb.
43:40What do you mean?
43:41Don't play dumb.
43:42I know.
43:43Don't play dumb.
43:44Did I trigger you by being here or something?
43:46Why can't you talk?
43:47Why do you keep shutting me out?
43:50Stacey.
43:51F*** this s***.
43:52Go for it.
43:53Go for it.
43:54Stop avoiding it.
43:56Done.
44:11I'm not dealing with this no more.
44:18She's giving me a headache.
44:20I don't know.
44:21I don't know what the f*** is happening to her head.
44:24I don't know.
44:25Well, my feet are f***ing killing me.
44:27Let me see.
44:28Stacey's acting like a f***ing baby right now.
44:31Like, she was saying that Florian told her something in confidence, in secret, that was so bad.
44:36I don't even know what she's talking about right now.
44:38Like, I have no freaking clue.
44:39For her to get up and walk away, to make a whole scene in front of the whole group, it's kind of disrespectful.
44:48Should we knock?
44:49No, no.
44:50I have the door.
44:53Can I come in?
44:54Yeah.
44:55You guys do whatever you want.
44:56Oh, come on.
44:59Bercy, shut the f*** up.
45:00Shut the f*** up.
45:01Don't tell me to shut the f*** up.
45:03Look at you with your f***ing little fringe.
45:05That's right.
45:06Cowgirl, yeehaw!
45:08You can call Florian all you want, hang out with him.
45:11He's my brother-in-law.
45:12He's your husband.
45:13Actually, you guys have a better connection than I have with Florian.
45:16So, well, take him.
45:18Take him.
45:19No, thank you, Stacey.
45:20I'm married, honey.
45:22Stacey, you need to chill.
45:23You're coming in way too hot.
45:25And this look isn't good on you.
45:28That's okay.
45:29I'm speaking my truth, and I will be heard.
45:32So, say it.
45:33Go ahead.
45:34I'm listening.
45:36You want to tell her what you told me?
45:41I told to Stacey, you told me one night, like,
45:44Stacey, you're treating her good.
45:46You should be more single.
45:47You remember that?
45:50I don't remember saying that.
45:51You said that.
45:52I remember whatever.
45:53Maybe we were beefing all together at that moment.
45:55I don't know.
45:56I don't know.
45:57How would you say something like that?
45:58Stacey, first of all.
45:59Do you remember saying to Florian,
46:00No.
46:01You're better off single.
46:02No.
46:03Don't blame me for this.
46:04Don't blame me for your marital problems, Stacey.
46:06No, no, no, no.
46:07I'm not married to you guys.
46:08Why do you call him at 3 o'clock in the morning?
46:10Like, come over, Florian.
46:12You want to f*** my man or something?
46:14Are you f***ing crazy?
46:16I've never, ever in a million years
46:18would even have that f***ing thing
46:20or that thought that you're thinking right now.
46:21That's disgusting.
46:22He's f***ing married to you.
46:24He's my brother-in-law.
46:25I'm allowed to have a relationship.
46:26You told Florian you're better off single.
46:28How dare you?
46:29How dare you?
46:30You don't want me to be happy.
46:31Maybe you don't look happy.
46:32I am happy.
46:33I am happy when you're not around.
46:40Then I'm out.
46:42Good.
46:43Bye.
46:44Deal with it.
46:45Bye.
46:46Mark those words.
46:51Deal with it.
46:58I don't remember telling Florian
46:59if he was better off single.
47:01And if I did, I'll own it.
47:03Because maybe he is at this point now.
47:05Because the way she's acting,
47:06I wouldn't want to be married to her.
47:1049 years old.
47:11And we're acting like this.
47:12Enough.
47:13You know what?
47:14I know what she said to you.
47:15She doesn't want to admit it.
47:20Do you ever...
47:21Do you ever think about
47:22like you're better off single?
47:24Stace, I hear...
47:25Stace...
47:26No, I'm asking you.
47:27I know, I know, I know, Stace.
47:28I know, I know, I know.
47:29Do you wish you were single?
47:30No, Stace.
47:31What the f*** is this question?
47:32Really? Why?
47:33Because sometimes I do.
47:34Stace, shut your f***ing mouth.
47:35Seriously.
47:36Like, enough.
47:37No, don't tell me to shut my f***ing mouth.
47:38Stace.
47:40Enough.
47:41It's enough, it's enough.
47:42When you married me,
47:43you married me.
47:44Not me and my sister.
47:45Stace.
47:46Stace.
47:47Stop acting like you married
47:48both of me and my sister.
47:49Stace, enough!
47:54Enough!
47:59I want a break.
48:02I want a break.
48:12Work it.
48:13Work it.
48:14Next time on 90 Day,
48:15The Last Resort.
48:16These seats are not comfortable at all.
48:18My nana hurts.
48:19I just had a vagina rejuvenation.
48:22It's tingling a little bit.
48:25I cannot see myself
48:27building my life without Gino.
48:29And on the other hand,
48:30I cannot see myself
48:32in a sexless marriage.
48:34I'm not going to tell you
48:35to blow up your life
48:36to have an open marriage.
48:38This is a conversation
48:39that you and Gino need to have
48:41before you guys decide to recommit.
48:44I need it.
48:45Now.
48:46Now.
48:47It's now or never.
48:51So yesterday was obviously a lot.
48:53You two were separate
48:55most of the time.
48:56Seems like he's the only one who
48:57has done maybe worse
48:59than anyone else here.
49:00And he gets to just
49:01skate off.
49:03I feel like I failed
49:04at my marriage.
49:05I feel like I failed
49:06at the resort.
49:07But,
49:08you know,
49:09what can I do?
49:14Hi Betty.
49:15Hi Ron.
49:16I think I have
49:17great news today.
49:18But I'm not sure
49:19I want to share
49:20that anymore.
49:22This is another lie.
49:23It's another lie.
49:24This is...
49:25She cheated on me.
49:26You know that?
49:27Yeah.
49:28You bring those up?
49:29One whole thing of lies.
49:31What are you talking about?
49:32Come back.
49:33You can't make things better
49:34by walking away.