Khushiyan Hain Agarbatti ki Maanind, Janiye Haroon Rafiq Say
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Khushiyan Hain Agarbatti ki Maanind, Janiye Haroon Rafiq Say
Khushiyan Hain Agarbatti ki Maanind, Janiye Haroon Rafiq Say
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00:00I read a great research.
00:02Wow!
00:03I thought I should share it with you.
00:05Please.
00:05Of course, sir.
00:06It's a research by Harvard University.
00:09It's a research that took 80 years to do.
00:13Oh!
00:14You studied it overnight.
00:16Mr. Salim, it's like this.
00:17Some people work for the sake of humanity
00:20and they take 80 years.
00:21And then humanity takes advantage of it.
00:23This research was very interesting.
00:25Okay.
00:26In 1938,
00:29Harvard University thought
00:32that they should take a sample of students,
00:34male and female students,
00:36from Harvard University.
00:37They take a sample of children
00:40and observe their entire life
00:43until they leave this world.
00:46And we will hide their identity.
00:48We won't tell them, of course.
00:50And their consent was included in this.
00:53So they took a sample.
00:55Then another study started parallel to that.
00:59They took a sample of children from Boston,
01:02where there was a lot of poverty.
01:05They took children from those areas
01:06and started studying their lives.
01:08And they decided to study their entire life.
01:12Wow!
01:13Now, when 80 or 100 years have passed
01:16and these people have also left this world,
01:18then we will sit and do research
01:21to see what you do in your childhood
01:24and what results you get.
01:26Hmm.
01:26What results do you get
01:28when you make decisions in your youth?
01:30And from that, we came to know
01:33that smoking is injurious to your health.
01:36Absolutely.
01:37We came to know
01:39that people who do this,
01:41they get this.
01:42You say, if you eat this, you get this.
01:44Yes.
01:45So, this research was very useful.
01:48And we came to know the root cause of many diseases.
01:52So, the root cause that we came to know
01:55is a habit
01:57that smoking is not a bad thing.
02:00In fact, it is such a thing
02:02that happens with most people.
02:04And they don't know
02:05why they have this heart disease.
02:08In old age,
02:09why did my brain stop working?
02:12Why do I make wrong decisions?
02:15Why did these psychotic issues start with me?
02:18Why are all these things happening?
02:19So, the reason that came out,
02:22the real cause that came out behind it,
02:25was loneliness.
02:26But, Mr. Haroon, loneliness is very important for a person.
02:30Yes.
02:31The loneliness that you are talking about
02:33is that loneliness
02:34that you spend those moments with yourself
02:37at your own will.
02:38Wow.
02:39You take your time out
02:40to spend good time with yourself.
02:42I am talking about that loneliness
02:44that you feel lonely even when you are among people.
02:47Like in this show, Mr. Danish feels very lonely.
02:51Creative people always feel lonely among people.
02:54I have never understood this.
02:58Why do creative people
03:00put their sorrows, pain, worries,
03:03helplessness, helplessness,
03:05sorrows, pain,
03:06why do they put all these things first?
03:09Why do they feel
03:10that a happy person cannot be creative?
03:14Although, the world's most expensive commodity in arts
03:16is comedy.
03:18Yes.
03:18And our comedians also have a habit of saying
03:22that life is full of sorrows.
03:23But sorrows are in everyone's life.
03:24That is not true.
03:25The truth is that the loneliness that I am talking about
03:27or the loneliness that this study is talking about
03:30is self-inflicted.
03:32Yes.
03:33Absolutely.
03:34It is self-inflicted.
03:36How is it self-inflicted?
03:39If you decide
03:43that from now on,
03:45if there is a person below six feet,
03:47I will not be friends with him,
03:49then your options will be limited.
03:51Limited.
03:51You will say that if the skin color is like this,
03:53then I will be friends with him or I will not be friends with him.
03:55It will be more limited.
03:57It will be limited.
03:57As you keep eliminating insects in people,
04:01your options will be limited.
04:04As you keep looking at people's bad habits,
04:08that this person has this bad habit, that person has that bad habit,
04:10then you will become lonely.
04:12Exactly.
04:13Mr. Arun, everyone's reason can be different, right?
04:15Not to socialize,
04:17or to overcome loneliness.
04:19If there is any superiority in the complex,
04:21then there is some inferiority in the complex.
04:23You are absolutely right.
04:25Those who have a superiority complex,
04:27may Allah protect them, forgive them.
04:29They have been forbidden from it.
04:31If a person is good at looking, speaking,
04:34or has a sharp mind,
04:35then when he feels that it is because of him,
04:38that it is because of him,
04:40that is called arrogance.
04:41If a person says that he is very beautiful,
04:43then it is because of him that he is beautiful.
04:45That is called arrogance.
04:46If he knows that yes, I exist,
04:49but it is Allah's special favor on me,
04:51then arrogance doesn't exist, it ends.
04:53And many people have an inferiority complex,
04:55and it shouldn't exist.
04:56Now, when we talk about racism,
04:59I sometimes feel that in racism,
05:01some people who are being racist,
05:04they assume that they are better than me.
05:07Let's say, if someone is calling you black,
05:10then you call him white.
05:11Why do you assume that black is bad?
05:14Okay, such a beautiful sentence,
05:17there is another reason for being lonely.
05:20Gulzar Sahab has summarized it in a sentence.
05:22What a beautiful sentence it is.
05:24In life, we have options,
05:28but we deliberately choose such options
05:33in which we can depend on ourselves.
05:36Oh!
05:37What is their sentence?
05:39That sentence is,
05:41happiness is like a flower.
05:44Oh!
05:45Happiness is like a flower.
05:48Sadness is like a candle.
05:50Sadness is like a candle.
05:52Wow, sir.
05:53Sir, I remember this.
05:54When you light a flower, it dies.
05:58Yes.
05:58But a candle keeps on burning slowly.
06:03The day you change it,
06:07keep sadness like a flower,
06:10and light happiness like a candle,
06:14then you can come out of that loneliness.
06:17Because a good, happy,
06:20happy person,
06:22why are you unhappy in life?
06:27Did something go wrong?
06:28Did you regret it?
06:30You have to decide how much you regret it.
06:33But Haroon Sahab, there is an antithesis to what Gulzar Sahab said.
06:37What is that?
06:37Why is happiness and sadness burning a person?
06:41The candle is burning and so is the flower.
06:44The reason is that time moves in one direction.
06:48Wow.
06:48It doesn't want to come back.
06:50When the candle is burning, it can't become a candle again.
06:53When the flower is burning,
06:55the candle is burning and time is passing.
06:56How will you light happiness like a candle?
07:00It's a question, right?
07:01Yes, exactly.
07:01How do you swap these two things?
07:04It's a question.
07:05A man has given an answer to this.
07:08That man was on a ship.
07:11The ship was flown by an American government in 2009.
07:15As soon as it took off, there were birds in its engine.
07:19A film has been made on this, Sully.
07:22Sully was the pilot of the ship that was flying it.
07:25There was a passenger on that ship, his name was Rick Elias.
07:28Rick Elias.
07:29He was sitting next to the window
07:31and he could see that the engine was on fire.
07:33Wow.
07:34Imagine, you all sit on a ship.
07:36You are sitting on the ship and the engine is on fire.
07:40The engine stops for a while.
07:42The entire ship is in a state of turbulence.
07:46Suddenly, the pilot says,
07:49brace for impact.
07:51That means, get ready for a crash.
07:53Wow.
07:54And during that time, what that man went through,
07:59what he thought,
08:00he has described it in a very beautiful way.
08:04He says, I knew I was going to die.
08:07We were about to crash.
08:08The ship was going down and there was no sound.
08:11Because the engines were shut.
08:13The ship was silent.
08:15People were silent.
08:16People started to whisper.
08:18Yes.
08:20He says, the first thing that came to my mind
08:23was that there were so many joys in my life
08:29that I thought that one day I would celebrate this joy.
08:33Wow.
08:33But I postponed it.
08:35Whether it was tomorrow or the day after.
08:37Wow.
08:38Let me give you an example.
08:39His biggest regret was this.
08:41What are those joys?
08:43You bought a very beautiful bouquet from the market.
08:47Yes, sir.
08:47You kept it at home.
08:49You put it on the side and said,
08:52it will look beautiful here.
08:54It will look beautiful when you sit and look at it.
08:58Wow.
08:58You will enjoy it.
08:59Yes.
09:00When you won't be there.
09:01You paint the walls of the house.
09:04Yes.
09:04Make it green or white.
09:06Yes.
09:06It will look beautiful.
09:08You make a garden at home and put flowers in it.
09:10It will look beautiful when you sit here.
09:13Yes.
09:14It is in my mind.
09:15You will sit here.
09:16You will do it.
09:19Your biggest regret before dying would be
09:23that all the joys that you have postponed
09:25which are all around you.
09:26Yes.
09:27Your children, your family.
09:29The research of Harvard University says
09:33that don't let yourself be alone.
09:36How will you not be alone
09:38when your loved ones, your children, your parents,
09:41your friends, your siblings.
09:43The joys that you had to celebrate.
09:45Yes.
09:45You will spend time with them.
09:48And the joys that you have postponed
09:51that you will enjoy it again.
09:53But the simple meaning of this is
09:55that if you buy a suit from the market
09:57then don't save it for some occasion.
09:59Wear it at that time.
10:00Wear it at that time.
10:01Yes.
10:02But he is going to wear it at the event.
10:04No.
10:04He can't wear it at home.
10:05That's the thing.
10:06When you are leaving the world
10:07then you will be remembering that suit.
10:12We will take a short break now.
10:14We will meet again after the break.