Dulu Farisha Iris delulu nak jadi doktor bedah tapi dia masuk masscom pulak ? Banyak lagi kisah delulu atau trululu yang dikongsikan oleh Farisha masa zaman study dulu dalam episod kali ini!
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00:00 I think you can do anything as long as you really love me, then you know
00:05 Okay, you know what you're doing
00:08 If you do that, it's wrong
00:10 You don't have to look for it
00:12 Why? Does he still love you? Maybe he likes his girlfriend
00:14 Maybe he's like this
00:15 God will show you tomorrow
00:17 So you don't have to think too much
00:19 Do do do do do do
00:20 I think you're the type that's true to the past
00:22 Like you don't have a past
00:24 Yeah, I don't have a past
00:25 Right?
00:26 But what happened to you?
00:27 The past
00:29 Eh, where is it?
00:31 You know, I think he's the past
00:34 Right?
00:35 No, you're cursing me
00:37 I'm really a *****
00:38 No, it's not
00:40 Please!
00:41 No
00:41 Okay
00:42 You better be!
00:45 What's wrong with you?
00:46 Hello, welcome back to Pompuan
00:54 A podcast for women only
00:56 So today we're going to talk about
00:58 Topics that are happening in our lives
01:02 But from a woman's perspective
01:04 Get your
01:05 So today I have a special guest
01:08 Yes, from my past
01:11 Welcome Farisha Airis
01:15 Hi guys
01:16 Hi Leah
01:17 Suddenly she's tough
01:18 Suddenly she's tough
01:19 She was different just now
01:20 A little more, wait a minute
01:21 Why is it tough? How are you?
01:23 I haven't seen you for a long time
01:24 I'm getting more and more fat and fat
01:28 So I'm healthy
01:30 I'm good, I'm good
01:31 How are you?
01:32 Yes
01:33 How are you?
01:35 So when was the last time I saw you?
01:38 4 years ago
01:40 Wait, sorry, disclaimer
01:41 We're friends
01:42 So we said
01:43 I'm used to you
01:44 So when I want to say how are you back
01:46 I feel like
01:46 You're disgusting, don't do that
01:48 When was the first time we said I'm
01:52 We're how are you
01:53 How are you?
01:54 You're disgusting
01:55 If I remember it again
01:56 Oh my God, disgusting
01:58 You got no boyfriend
01:59 How are you?
02:00 It's hot here
02:03 It's hot here
02:04 Okay, so
02:06 How long has it been
02:08 We
02:09 Haven't seen each other for 4 years
02:10 We met in 2017
02:13 I don't remember
02:14 It's like a love story
02:17 Yes, we're right
02:18 So in 4 years ago or 5 years ago
02:21 5 years ago, 4 years ago
02:23 Even like the first week of the degree
02:27 I met you
02:28 That's why I haven't seen you
02:29 Yes, MCO
02:30 Yes
02:31 Is there a difference?
02:34 There's no difference
02:35 It's the same
02:36 I'm different
02:37 No, it's the same
02:39 Alhamdulillah
02:40 But if you want to know
02:42 She is
02:43 Queen of the Lulu
02:45 You don't want to claim me like that
02:48 No, this is what I know
02:52 You said something about me
02:54 No, I didn't say anything
02:55 I'm just listening
02:56 Okay, you're the one who's listening
02:58 Okay, that's why our topic today
03:02 The Lulu
03:03 Okay
03:04 You know what the Lulu means
03:05 Delusional
03:07 What is delusional in Malay?
03:09 I don't want to explain
03:11 I'm scared to explain
03:12 Okay
03:15 So I'm going to take some
03:18 You know Curious Cat, right?
03:19 I'm going to take a situation from Curious Cat
03:21 So I can ask on social media
03:23 Have you ever been delusional?
03:26 Okay
03:27 So they will share their story
03:29 So we will say
03:31 This story is delusional
03:33 Or delusional
03:35 So do you have a story of delusional?
03:38 No
03:39 You're lying
03:40 No, what I feel like I'm delusional
03:43 Everything has become a reality
03:45 Really?
03:46 Yes
03:47 So if you have a similar interest
03:49 I'm a little bit interested
03:51 I'm really lazy
03:52 This is the study period
03:54 Study period?
03:55 So far, you don't know
03:58 Alia
04:01 What should I do?
04:02 You're just studying
04:04 You know, right?
04:05 Yes, I know
04:07 Okay
04:10 The young period
04:12 Not specific
04:13 When?
04:15 Of course, you've been delusional
04:17 Don't lie
04:18 I have a story
04:20 About my future
04:22 Of course
04:23 You can hear my motivation
04:27 This is like
04:30 We're doing a talk
04:33 To inspire
04:36 Because I always wanted to be a doctor
04:40 I wanted to be a doctor
04:43 But now I can't
04:45 I'm in a medical school
04:47 I don't want to be a doctor
04:49 So
04:50 Now I'm working on it
04:54 To get a doctorate
04:56 To get a title
04:57 Yes
04:58 After that, I got a diploma
05:00 My WhatsApp name
05:01 If we don't save someone's name
05:04 They will receive our saved name
05:07 What should I write?
05:09 Don't say doctor
05:11 Yes
05:12 Dato' Dr. Sri Paduka Farisha
05:17 If I don't get a doctorate
05:19 I want to be a doctor
05:21 I want to be a doctor
05:23 Like that
05:24 So now you're working on it
05:26 You've finished your master's degree
05:28 Power
05:29 Power
05:30 I think 30 minutes is too short
05:34 I've finished my master's degree
05:37 Now I'm doing my PhD
05:39 Wow
05:40 God willing
05:41 Power
05:42 Yes
05:43 You balance your work and study
05:45 No, I don't have a job
05:47 To be honest
05:51 No, no, no
05:52 I have my own work
05:54 But I can negotiate
05:57 I understand
05:58 Because
05:59 Previously, I can do my master's degree
06:01 We can communicate
06:03 And deal with lecturers
06:05 Now I'm doing my PhD
06:07 Of course
06:08 We don't do coursework
06:10 So I'm just working on the research only
06:14 I understand
06:15 I don't have to go to class
06:17 I don't have to do 5 subjects
06:19 To score
06:21 I'm just working on the research only
06:24 I understand
06:25 So I'm okay
06:26 I can do all these things
06:28 I'm used to it
06:29 Do you remember your master's degree?
06:31 She's smart
06:32 She's smart
06:33 I heard the story
06:34 When she came home, I was asleep
06:36 I swear I don't want to hear it
06:42 I was like
06:43 These are the people who said she was asleep
06:45 And Dehkan
06:46 But
06:47 These are the people
06:48 No, I've never been to Dehkan
06:49 Okay, Dehkan
06:50 You
06:51 Aren't you the one who always go to the podium?
06:54 You're the one who taught me
06:55 Huh?
06:56 Yes
06:57 You're always at Dehkan
06:58 You
06:59 You're always at Dewan Tamin Sari
07:01 The Dehkan gathering
07:03 I don't remember
07:04 I don't know
07:05 You
07:06 I've never been to Dewan Tamin Sari
07:07 I've never been to Dehkan
07:08 After that
07:09 When you said I was like
07:11 The kids who sleep but score
07:13 No
07:14 No
07:15 I'm not the kids who score
07:16 I'm just like
07:17 Okay
07:18 Just like usual
07:19 Let's do it
07:20 I won't be the kind of person who's like
07:22 I want to go to Dehkan
07:23 I want to get 3.8
07:25 3.1
07:26 No
07:27 If I feel like that's all I can do
07:30 I can do it
07:31 I'm not gonna stress myself
07:33 Put pressure
07:34 Like
07:35 I can't
07:36 I can't sleep
07:37 I have to take an exam
07:38 I'm not like that
07:39 After that
07:40 I
07:41 I
07:42 Like
07:43 Ask
07:44 I like to ask my friends
07:46 Artika
07:47 Sajji
07:48 All my friends
07:50 At Tusembahari
07:52 Every night
07:54 So when I ask
07:56 Just to get
07:58 To get double confirmation
07:59 About a certain subject
08:02 But sometimes there are people who
08:04 Why do you ask
08:06 Simple question
08:07 Okay
08:09 So I'm like
08:10 It's okay
08:11 I get it
08:12 So I do it myself
08:13 Because
08:14 Diploma pointers are a bit
08:15 Bad
08:17 But it's not bad
08:18 It's not like
08:19 It's just bad
08:20 B below
08:21 Below 3 points
08:22 It's a bit too pumped
08:23 Too pumped
08:24 So Alhamdulillah
08:28 Okay
08:29 So don't judge a book by its cover
08:30 Alhamdulillah
08:31 I feel like
08:32 I'm at a place
08:34 I'm comfortable
08:35 I'm studying
08:36 Until
08:37 It's okay
08:38 I'm okay
08:39 So if you become a doctor
08:40 You'll forget me
08:41 Of course
08:42 I'll be like
08:43 Passing by you
08:44 Like who is this
08:45 Right
08:46 But if I'm a Tan Sri
08:47 If you're Tan Sri
08:48 Not my level
08:49 I'm not confident yet
08:52 Okay
08:53 Like you
08:54 You said you used to
08:55 In your
08:56 Title
08:58 I used to
08:59 Still working on it
09:01 To be a housewife
09:03 Allahumma salli 'ala Muhammad
09:06 Why?
09:07 Why don't you like it here?
09:09 Eh
09:10 What kind of question is that?
09:12 The producer is in front
09:14 It's okay babe
09:16 I love my job
09:18 You love your job? Okay
09:20 No
09:23 Still working on it
09:24 Looking for
09:25 Rich people
09:26 Who can take care of us
09:27 Don't babe
09:28 Why?
09:29 When you have a bad intention
09:31 In the middle
09:32 You'll be left out
09:33 What's wrong with my intention?
09:34 We want to be a housewife
09:35 We want to be a housewife
09:36 Not husband
09:37 Because you said
09:38 Because you said
09:39 I have to be rich
09:40 Okay like this
09:42 I'll give you a tip
09:43 If you want to be rich
09:44 Don't say it
09:45 Just say it in your heart
09:47 Oh
09:48 You say it like that
09:49 Because later
09:50 Okay we'll be quiet
09:51 Yeah
09:52 Because later
09:53 The producers won't hear
09:54 The producers won't hear
09:55 It's okay
09:56 I can forget about it
09:57 I'm just giving tips
09:58 If you want something
09:59 Even though your reason is funny
10:01 You can
10:02 You can
10:03 Manifest
10:04 Yeah
10:05 You can manifest it yourself
10:07 But when I ask
10:11 How do you want to be a man?
10:12 You say
10:13 A good man
10:14 Who can guide you
10:15 Like that
10:16 But later you add on
10:17 Rich
10:18 Like that
10:19 A good man
10:20 Rich
10:21 Like that
10:22 A good man
10:23 Rich
10:24 Like that
10:25 So when you said
10:29 You want to be a doctor
10:30 Did you tell anyone?
10:31 You're quiet
10:32 Like you know
10:33 You're a business master
10:34 Yeah
10:35 I don't like people
10:36 Talking about me
10:37 You don't like attention
10:38 I don't like attention
10:39 I'm sorry
10:40 You're a good person
10:41 Alhamdulillah
10:42 Good
10:43 Before this
10:44 Did you think I wanted attention?
10:45 No
10:46 No
10:47 You're lucky
10:48 I'm lucky right?
10:49 Yeah
10:50 I'm lucky right?
10:51 People know me
10:52 I'm lucky
10:53 They want validation
10:54 I want your validation
10:55 Because I'm quiet
10:56 You're okay
10:57 You're okay
10:58 You're just quiet
10:59 Yeah
11:00 There's a story
11:01 I want to tell
11:02 There's a story
11:03 I'll tell you later
11:04 Okay
11:05 There's a girl
11:06 I don't know her
11:07 She's my classmate
11:08 Oh really?
11:09 There's a girl
11:10 In our class
11:11 I always hear people
11:12 Talking about me
11:13 You know
11:14 She talks about you
11:15 In the whole class
11:16 And I don't know
11:17 Who that girl is
11:18 Like that
11:19 And then
11:20 She said
11:21 I
11:22 Do this
11:23 And then
11:24 I don't know her
11:25 How does she know your story?
11:26 I don't know
11:27 People usually
11:28 Talk about me
11:29 I don't know
11:30 I don't know
11:31 People usually
11:32 Tell their stories
11:33 And then
11:34 The world is upside down
11:35 The world is upside down
11:36 We live in
11:37 A world
11:38 That's upside down
11:39 God
11:40 Wants
11:41 You to put
11:42 Your head down
11:43 It's okay
11:44 So I let it be
11:45 I like to let them
11:46 Be
11:47 Whatever you want to say
11:48 God knows
11:49 Maybe she's been there
11:50 You've been there too
11:51 She's been there too
11:52 I don't know
11:53 I don't know
11:54 And then
11:55 I entered the same degree
11:56 As her classmate
11:57 Eh
11:58 Talk again
11:59 Ouch
12:00 Ouch
12:01 Ouch
12:02 Same class
12:03 And then
12:04 Are you friends?
12:05 Thank God
12:06 We're friends
12:07 Because
12:08 Throughout the degree
12:09 I'm like a stand alone
12:10 You know
12:11 I don't have friends
12:12 I'm okay
12:13 You're a CEO
12:14 So you don't have friends
12:15 Don't bother me
12:16 I feel lonely
12:17 And then
12:18 I
12:19 Did my own assignment
12:20 So
12:21 The bad
12:22 The
12:23 The
12:24 The part that's not good
12:25 Is
12:26 You have to
12:27 Find a group
12:28 Mate
12:29 Understand
12:30 So everyone
12:31 Knows
12:32 Her groupmate
12:33 For every subject
12:34 And then I'm like
12:35 I don't know who to enter
12:36 I look at the list
12:37 Okay
12:38 Which group is empty
12:39 I just enter
12:40 Anywhere
12:41 Yeah
12:42 So I entered
12:43 With my friend's group
12:44 Now friends
12:45 My friend
12:46 So when
12:47 This friend
12:48 I feel like
12:49 Something is off
12:50 She's like
12:51 Off with me
12:52 Okay
12:53 So it's okay
12:54 I don't want to confront
12:55 Why are you off
12:56 I'm not that kind
12:57 If someone
12:58 Talks about me
12:59 I'm not like
13:00 Why are you
13:01 Talking about me
13:02 I don't have that
13:03 I just like
13:04 What you say
13:05 And then
13:06 One fine day
13:07 She called me
13:08 At 3am
13:09 And then
13:10 Farisya
13:11 This is me
13:12 I know
13:13 I'm your slave
13:14 I said that
13:15 I don't know
13:16 If you've heard this story
13:17 Actually
13:18 Back in the day
13:19 I didn't like you
13:20 I really
13:21 Didn't like you
13:22 But
13:23 Random right
13:24 3am
13:25 I don't know
13:26 If I gave her
13:27 My advice
13:28 I asked for forgiveness
13:29 And then
13:30 She confronted me
13:31 But I hate to
13:32 Listen to
13:33 All those
13:34 Things that they do
13:35 Because I feel
13:36 Like I pity them
13:37 And
13:38 Of course
13:39 They don't know anything
13:40 So sometimes
13:41 When we hear
13:42 About people
13:43 We have our own opinions
13:44 So
13:45 Humans make mistakes
13:46 So I told her
13:47 It's okay
13:48 Don't say it
13:49 Don't say what you did
13:50 I'm okay
13:51 No
13:52 Now
13:53 I'm your friend
13:54 You're just nice
13:55 Not like
13:56 People say
13:57 In the past
13:58 Okay
13:59 Praise be to God
14:00 Maybe
14:01 I was
14:02 Always
14:03 Put
14:04 Put
14:05 Put
14:06 In my prayers
14:07 Say
14:08 In my prayers
14:09 I will say
14:10 Okay
14:11 If people don't like me
14:12 Let them realize
14:13 What they don't like
14:14 Because I don't know them
14:15 So
14:16 Some people
14:17 Who said
14:18 About my big mistake
14:19 Suddenly
14:20 It became like that
14:21 Call me
14:22 Text me personally
14:23 I'm not a slave
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15:20 I'm not a slave
15:21 I'm not a slave
15:22 Right?
15:22 We're all humans, right? We're all anxious, right?
15:25 And then after 5 minutes, we're like, "eh, it's okay. Just let it be."
15:29 Yeah, that's right.
15:30 Yeah.
15:30 We don't have to be scared.
15:31 Yeah, yeah.
15:32 So, like in the past, when you look at it, it's actually, on a positive side, it's because we're just thinking positively.
15:40 Yeah, right?
15:40 Right?
15:41 So, if we're angry about something that's positive...
15:45 It will be.
15:46 Yeah.
15:47 Exactly.
15:47 Right?
15:48 Okay, so, I want to read a few.
15:50 Your story is already there.
15:52 One.
15:53 This is about relationships, okay?
15:55 Hi, I'm a girl and I'm still studying.
15:59 I have a story to share. I'm not sure if I'm really loved or just used.
16:04 At university, I had a crush on my classmate.
16:08 No?
16:09 Okay.
16:10 Was it me?
16:10 Hey!
16:11 You're the one who sent this.
16:13 Okay.
16:14 He's my type. He's nice and gentleman.
16:19 I'm close with him. We always do our assignments and go out to eat and spend a lot of time together.
16:25 At university, he takes care of me.
16:28 Also, he'll get mad if I talk to other guys.
16:32 People will think we're a couple.
16:34 But the problem is, when I ask him, "What are we?" He always says we're best friends.
16:40 Poor thing.
16:41 I like him but I'm not sure if he likes me or just wants to be my classmate.
16:46 Okay.
16:48 Have you ever had an experience like this?
16:51 Actually, it's quite late at university.
16:53 No, I don't have.
16:55 You're a body type. I like it.
16:57 I'm just...
16:59 Like your friends who call it a "situationship".
17:03 No, babe. I treat men and women fairly.
17:08 But sometimes, there are people who misinterpret my behavior.
17:15 They think I'm shocked.
17:17 So, at the end of the day, I'm just confident.
17:21 I don't have any feelings.
17:23 I understand.
17:24 But do you think she's a virgin?
17:27 She...
17:28 She likes this guy.
17:29 No, I don't think she's a virgin.
17:32 But I think she should ask the guy.
17:36 She should ask him what are we.
17:37 He said we're best friends.
17:39 I mean, he should ask him.
17:41 And I think the guy is the one who's a virgin.
17:45 Why would she stop him from talking to another guy?
17:48 That's right.
17:49 She should ask him if he likes her.
17:52 But when she talks to another guy, he gets mad.
17:55 That's...
17:56 You're a virgin.
17:57 Virgin and toxic.
17:58 Yes.
17:59 I don't like that.
18:01 Don't stop me.
18:03 If you really like a jealous girl, you should date her.
18:07 Yes.
18:08 Don't make her your second choice.
18:11 But I think it happens.
18:13 I've heard it.
18:15 Have you ever experienced it?
18:16 No, I've heard it.
18:18 I've heard it.
18:19 You can just end the story here.
18:20 She's our friend.
18:24 No, I'm just kidding.
18:25 No, I've never experienced it.
18:28 But I've heard it.
18:29 When a couple is in a relationship, they don't want to declare that they're in love.
18:37 It's too much.
18:39 Maybe they're traumatized.
18:42 That's disgusting.
18:44 If you're traumatized, don't be in a relationship.
18:48 It's okay.
18:49 I just want to learn.
18:50 Just go and learn.
18:51 I used to sleep all the time.
18:52 You don't have to be in a relationship.
18:55 Yes, because we're in a relationship now.
18:58 What else?
18:59 Nothing.
19:01 Toxic ship.
19:02 Friendship.
19:03 Situation ship.
19:04 That's all.
19:05 Okay.
19:10 You'll have a lot of work.
19:11 It's okay.
19:12 You'll be a student.
19:14 But, it's okay if you take this story from a positive side.
19:21 There's a good guy who wants to be your friend.
19:27 Then, you'll get married.
19:29 Oh my god, I love that.
19:30 Where should I look for him?
19:32 Just ask him.
19:34 It's okay.
19:35 But, I don't like the way he talks to other men.
19:41 So, what are we to say that we're best friends?
19:44 It's not good.
19:45 I think these things are so immature.
19:49 That's all.
19:50 And, he's old.
19:51 He's old.
19:52 He's old.
19:53 I think she knows what she wants.
19:55 She likes him.
19:57 She likes him.
19:58 Why does she like him?
19:59 Is he her brother?
20:00 What does he do?
20:02 They're both students.
20:04 They're both students.
20:05 Classmates.
20:06 You're so stupid.
20:07 You're so stupid.
20:10 You're so stupid.
20:11 You went to the university.
20:13 You're so stupid.
20:14 You're so stupid.
20:15 You went to the university.
20:16 You went to the university.
20:17 You went to the university.
20:18 You're so stupid.
20:19 You're so stupid.
20:20 I'm not saying that the university is bad.
20:23 We're the bad ones.
20:24 We're the bad ones.
20:25 We're the bad ones.
20:26 We're the bad ones.
20:27 It's like...
20:28 You took a shower.
20:29 Then, you went down.
20:30 You're sweating.
20:31 You're dating in the middle of nowhere.
20:33 You're so bad.
20:34 You're wet.
20:35 Do you have a picture of when you were in the university?
20:37 Yes, I have.
20:38 The one where we were in love.
20:39 Oh, my God.
20:40 Our faces are oily.
20:41 It's oily near the T-zone.
20:45 Why did we think of that?
20:47 My face was so pink.
20:50 It's so sweaty.
20:52 Don't think about it.
20:54 Oh, my God.
20:55 You're the one who blamed me.
20:57 I'll show you later.
20:59 I'll find it later.
21:00 Don't.
21:01 No.
21:02 I'll show you.
21:03 It's off-record.
21:04 Okay.
21:05 Okay.
21:06 Next story.
21:07 Salam.
21:08 I know a guy.
21:11 When we first met, we clicked.
21:15 To be brief,
21:16 we just broke up with our exes.
21:19 So, we always express our feelings to each other.
21:23 It's been three months since we met.
21:25 We can see that we've developed feelings for each other.
21:28 I understand.
21:29 He asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend.
21:32 But I wasn't ready at that time.
21:34 He was okay with it.
21:36 I've become his crush.
21:40 I waited for him to propose to me.
21:42 I was so excited.
21:43 You were so excited.
21:45 I rejected him at first.
21:47 Then I asked him to wait for me.
21:49 I liked him.
21:50 But I found out from his friend that he was still talking to his ex.
21:56 His mom invited him to her house.
21:58 Now, he started to distance himself from me.
22:01 When I asked him, he said he was busy and promised to make it up with me.
22:05 I became suspicious of him.
22:07 I didn't know what to do.
22:08 What's wrong with you?
22:10 If you're suspicious, just raise your leg.
22:12 Don't question him.
22:13 But he didn't like it.
22:15 If you like him,
22:19 You're lying.
22:21 If I like him, he won't like me.
22:23 What else do you want me to wait for?
22:25 There are many men out there.
22:27 Am I right?
22:29 But in that situation, he was the one who proposed to me first.
22:33 He proposed to you first.
22:35 I felt sorry for him.
22:36 But it's not his fault.
22:39 But they were like...
22:41 The guy asked her to be his girlfriend.
22:43 But she rejected him first.
22:45 But I think it's her fault.
22:47 She rejected him.
22:48 Maybe it's her fault.
22:49 Maybe they just broke up.
22:51 So, they haven't healed yet.
22:53 I think so.
22:55 She's healing him.
22:56 What should I do?
22:57 But usually, men...
23:00 I'm sorry.
23:01 I'm talking about men.
23:02 But this is what I think.
23:06 Men who just broke up with their girlfriend.
23:11 They want to...
23:14 Rebound?
23:16 Rebound, make a new boyfriend.
23:18 Then, they go back to their ex.
23:20 No.
23:21 No, I don't think so.
23:25 I don't know why.
23:26 I think I'm neutral.
23:28 I don't think it's just men.
23:30 I mean, it's not about rebound.
23:32 Sometimes, they break up.
23:34 This is my way to move on.
23:37 And they'll definitely move on when they find someone new.
23:40 That's it.
23:41 But what if they go back to their ex?
23:45 Maybe...
23:46 It's like a rebound.
23:48 They have to go back to their ex.
23:50 Please, don't cry.
23:52 Am I the one who always go back to their ex?
23:55 Don't feel bad.
23:58 So, that's it.
24:00 I think...
24:02 Maybe...
24:03 Everyone has the right to do all those things...
24:08 As long as you're not married yet.
24:10 But the process of getting married is love.
24:14 That's it.
24:15 That's why I think men are not good for her.
24:19 So, you think men are not good for her?
24:21 Are you okay with your partner...
24:25 Being friends with her ex?
24:27 I'm okay with it.
24:29 That's weird.
24:33 You can just be with my ex.
24:35 I can't stand it.
24:36 If you think that way.
24:38 Why can't I?
24:40 Why can't I?
24:43 Why can't I?
24:44 Tell me.
24:45 Because...
24:46 If you're in a break up, you can just be friends.
24:49 If you want to think about it, it's like flashback.
24:54 Like a memory.
24:55 I don't want to know.
24:57 But they have a history together.
25:00 So?
25:01 Imagine...
25:03 Before this, your partner and your ex were in love.
25:06 Now, you're with your ex.
25:08 And you met your ex.
25:09 You're in a relationship now.
25:10 You don't have to go further.
25:13 I have to think with my opinion.
25:18 Okay?
25:19 She's so strict.
25:21 I think you can do anything as long as...
25:24 If you really love me, then you know.
25:27 You know what you're doing.
25:29 If you do that, it's wrong.
25:31 You don't have to look for it.
25:33 Why? Does he still love you?
25:35 Or is it just a girlfriend?
25:36 God will show you.
25:38 Really.
25:40 You don't have to think too much.
25:43 I think you're a true-to-life ex.
25:46 Like you don't have an ex.
25:47 Yes, I don't have an ex.
25:48 But what happened to you?
25:50 What happened to you?
25:52 What do you mean?
25:54 I think you're a true-to-life ex.
25:57 Don't you?
25:58 No, you're cursing me.
26:00 You're so mean.
26:02 I'm not.
26:03 Please.
26:04 I'm not.
26:05 Okay.
26:06 You better be.
26:08 What's wrong with you?
26:10 Be honest.
26:12 What's going on?
26:13 Nothing.
26:14 I think you're a true-to-life ex.
26:16 I think all women are.
26:18 Who's a true-to-life ex?
26:20 You're the one.
26:22 I'm the one?
26:24 Do you understand?
26:25 You're the one.
26:27 No.
26:28 I don't know.
26:29 I'm sorry.
26:30 Please.
26:32 Are you going to fight?
26:34 Go on.
26:35 Okay, next.
26:37 Last year, I met this one girl in college.
26:39 This is a guy.
26:40 We're close.
26:41 He has an on-and-off boyfriend.
26:43 He always complains to me.
26:45 Every time they have a problem,
26:47 I'm always there for him and listen to him.
26:50 He and his boyfriend are LDR.
26:52 So, we always hang out together.
26:54 He recently moved to Penang to continue his studies.
26:58 But we're still in touch and always call each other.
27:01 I'm not sure if he's still with his boyfriend.
27:03 Because he hasn't mentioned about his boyfriend for a long time.
27:06 But I think...
27:08 I want to surprise him by going to Penang...
27:11 ...and tell him how I feel.
27:13 Not him.
27:14 Why did you tell me?
27:15 He doesn't know that I want to surprise him.
27:20 But I think I'll do it.
27:22 But I'm not sure if I'll make the right decision.
27:26 Okay, first of all, Curious Cat.
27:28 Please state your age.
27:30 Please.
27:31 You think I'm a kid?
27:33 Yes.
27:34 I don't have time to think about your problems.
27:43 If you're at the age where you deserve to get married,
27:50 there's no problem.
27:51 I think this is temporary.
27:53 This is a story about a kid.
27:55 Enough.
27:56 Enough.
27:57 My goodness.
27:58 I'm so emotional.
28:00 I don't know what's wrong with you.
28:02 You can sit down.
28:04 Please.
28:05 Okay, fine.
28:07 I assume you're 27 years old.
28:12 Do you like surprises?
28:15 I don't like surprises even on my birthday.
28:17 Happy birthday to you.
28:19 Happy birthday to you.
28:23 I can't sing.
28:24 I'll cook.
28:25 We're not on air.
28:27 I'll cook.
28:28 So, you're 25 years old?
28:30 Yes.
28:31 We're 25 years old, right?
28:32 No, I'm 24 years old.
28:34 I'm a year younger than you.
28:37 Really?
28:38 We're siblings.
28:39 I'm so smart.
28:41 Praise be to God.
28:42 I'm 25 years old.
28:43 You're so annoying.
28:45 Anyway.
28:47 Where were you?
28:48 I was talking about surprises.
28:50 There's a man who has a pure intention.
28:54 I like that.
28:55 But, I don't ask for it.
28:57 I don't ask for surprises.
28:59 I want a cleanser.
29:01 A cleanser from...
29:03 It's okay.
29:05 I'll get a free promotion.
29:06 Anyway, about surprises.
29:09 It's like this.
29:11 If the woman doesn't talk about her boyfriend...
29:15 ...who's having a problem with the rain.
29:18 It means that they're still together.
29:20 But, this kind of woman...
29:23 Red flag.
29:25 That's right.
29:26 You already have a boyfriend.
29:28 Why do you want to tell him about your sadness?
29:32 Don't you want to be with a woman?
29:33 You're not...
29:34 I'm sorry.
29:37 This man is innocent and nice.
29:40 He wants to surprise you.
29:43 I think if he's a real man, he'll be rejected.
29:46 Let me give you an example.
29:49 This kind of thing makes a man...
29:51 I'm sorry.
29:54 I'm sorry.
29:55 Do you understand?
29:58 I'm talking about all the things that...
30:01 He doesn't trust women anymore.
30:03 He doesn't trust women anymore because of this.
30:05 Most of guys will be disappointed by this.
30:08 Because...
30:10 There are many men...
30:12 ...who have a pure heart.
30:15 That's right.
30:16 Actually, there aren't many bad men in this world.
30:19 Because women like to make noise and make it viral.
30:22 What's wrong with you guys?
30:24 You're making noise and making it viral.
30:26 You're making noise and making it viral.
30:28 That's how it is.
30:29 I'm sorry.
30:31 Anyway.
30:32 That's why I feel sorry for men who are seen as bad.
30:38 They don't want to tell their women about their sadness.
30:40 That's right.
30:41 Obviously, people will support women.
30:46 But...
30:48 It's up to you.
30:51 Anyway.
30:52 You can lift your leg.
30:55 Before you feel disappointed, it's better to cry for two days.
30:58 It's better than crying for a long time.
31:00 You don't have to go to Penang.
31:01 You can stay in your hometown.
31:03 You can find another woman.
31:04 That's right.
31:05 She's single, right?
31:07 There are many women in Bibi.
31:08 There are many women in Bintang.
31:11 It's okay. We can go to Baan 26.
31:15 Oh my gosh.
31:16 Do we eat this evening?
31:19 I think it's been two years.
31:20 I'm so happy.
31:22 Really?
31:23 You're a jerk!
31:28 It's the same.
31:35 How was it?
31:37 I feel that a good man is with a bad woman.
31:41 A good woman is with a bad man.
31:44 A good woman?
31:45 Yes.
31:46 But I think I'm a bad woman.
31:49 Because I can't be with a good man.
31:51 I can't. -What do you do?
31:53 I feel that he's annoying.
31:55 If he's too nice, you'll be surprised.
31:57 Oh my gosh. Please, can you stop?
31:59 You like bad boys?
32:01 You're toxic.
32:02 No.
32:03 Sometimes...
32:04 You're stupid.
32:05 No.
32:08 Maybe...
32:10 I know. A good man is boring, right?
32:15 I'm dangerous.
32:17 No one will look at me.
32:19 Anyway.
32:21 We'll protect her.
32:22 We'll blur her face.
32:24 Do you think I'm a criminal?
32:26 A good man is good.
32:32 But there's...
32:33 He's good.
32:34 He's good for us.
32:35 He can make us feel guilty.
32:37 But the problem is...
32:39 Sometimes, a good man...
32:41 All of these things...
32:43 ...are a process.
32:45 So, don't rush.
32:46 Do you understand?
32:47 If you want to lead me to good things...
32:50 ...you can just teach me...
32:53 ...slowly.
32:56 You can't force it in Islam. -That's right.
32:59 Don't say that in Islam.
33:01 I'll be scolded.
33:02 Help!
33:03 All of these things are a process.
33:06 If you want me to be a good person like you...
33:09 ...all of these things are a process.
33:11 It's the same when we're just born.
33:13 You can read the alibata.
33:15 But that's a process.
33:17 When can you master the alibata?
33:19 Five or six years.
33:21 Two or three years.
33:23 The most you can do is...
33:25 Months.
33:29 Months.
33:30 All of these things are a process.
33:32 So, don't rush into things.
33:34 That's right.
33:35 A good woman is a good woman.
33:39 A good woman is a good man.
33:41 But that's because a good man...
33:44 ...meets a bad woman.
33:46 So, at the end of the day...
33:48 ...he'll be more mature and can think wisely.
33:51 It's a learning process.
33:53 Don't worry, my dear.
33:55 God is a good man for us.
33:58 So, the conclusion is...
34:00 ...you go first.
34:01 She concluded...
34:03 ...that the man should go first.
34:05 So, you raise your legs.
34:07 That's right.
34:08 I think...
34:10 ...she told you that she has a boyfriend.
34:14 That's not a hint.
34:16 It's straightforward.
34:18 I have a boyfriend.
34:20 So, bye.
34:21 She showed her true self.
34:24 So, why do you want to...
34:26 ...hurt her feelings?
34:28 What for?
34:29 You're a jerk.
34:31 Do you have any advice...
34:36 ...for other women out there?
34:38 It's fun to hear you share your thoughts.
34:41 Is it?
34:42 But I think you're the one who can hurt me.
34:45 I'm not helping you.
34:47 Alright.
34:48 Anyway.
34:49 To all the women out there...
34:53 ...you...
34:56 ...should be better than you are now.
35:02 It was good in the past.
35:03 It was good in the past.
35:05 But let's move on.
35:08 And let's move on.
35:10 So, we can make the past...
35:13 ...a reality. -The past.
35:14 Yes, the past.
35:15 The past, right?
35:16 The past.
35:18 When did...
35:20 ...all these short-form things...
35:22 ...started to exist?
35:23 Don't you use TikTok?
35:25 Oh my god, sorry.
35:27 I use TikTok but...
35:29 ...not that often.
35:31 Like, every day, 24 hours.
35:33 If you want to see my TikTok...
35:35 ...people will say, "How long did you take to play TikTok?"
35:39 Really?
35:40 I think it's because I'm too busy.
35:42 When you play TikTok too much, you'll be busy with other people's stuff.
35:46 Stop it. Please.
35:48 And I don't know why...
35:50 ...everyone is chasing for fame.
35:52 Be positive.
35:55 Be a good person.
35:57 I'm not saying that you have to be a good person...
36:00 ...to be fully good tomorrow.
36:03 Be better day by day.
36:05 And...
36:06 ...don't be busy with other people.
36:08 Don't be busy...
36:11 ...with other people's stuff.
36:12 Their marriage.
36:13 If you want to tweet about someone...
36:15 ...you don't know where they live.
36:16 Their address.
36:17 Their phone number.
36:18 What's their parents' name?
36:19 Don't be busy with that.
36:20 So, just mind your own business.
36:22 Your life.
36:23 Your relationship.
36:24 Are your siblings healthy?
36:26 Are your siblings working?
36:27 Yes.
36:28 That's what you should be busy with.
36:31 That's all.
36:32 That's a powerful advice.
36:34 I think I'll...
36:36 ...do a PhD on...
36:38 ...a thesis on...
36:40 ...feminist issues.
36:44 The research.
36:45 It's beautiful.
36:47 But people will say that I'm...
36:50 Feminist?
36:52 Yes.
36:53 What do you think?
36:54 Do you have any specific ideas?
36:56 Any specific topics that I can focus on?
36:59 You're in the middle, right?
37:00 You're a PhD student.
37:03 I'm just a degree student.
37:04 Okay.
37:05 It's okay.
37:06 If I have any ideas, I'll be happy to hear them.
37:11 Really?
37:12 Thanks.
37:13 Okay.
37:15 Farisya has shared a lot of...
37:17 ...her stories.
37:19 Thank you so much, Farisya, for your time.
37:21 You're welcome.
37:22 Can I invite you again?
37:24 Sure.
37:25 But I'm a bit shy with white people.
37:27 Even though I'm a PhD student.
37:28 Can you speak Chinese?
37:29 Chinese?
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37:36 you can comment below.
37:38 Okay?
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