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00:00:00This morning has come, kissing your cheeks
00:00:17Swinging in the breeze, going round and round
00:00:22Smiling like this, this morning has come
00:00:41She is swinging like this, she is waking everyone up
00:00:46Yes, like a bird in a flower pot
00:00:56She is wet, she is wet, she is open, she is open
00:00:58She is wet, she is wet, she is open, she is open
00:01:00A little mischievous, a little mischievous
00:01:05This morning has come
00:01:11Good morning Pakistan
00:01:20Assalam-o-Alaikum, good morning, good morning Pakistan
00:01:25How are you? Are you fine?
00:01:27Today our show is a very lovely and cute show
00:01:32Because the possessiveness that we have in our family
00:01:37That is, no matter how much the sisters fight
00:01:41But if someone outside comes and fights
00:01:44The other sister or brother wants to break his face
00:01:48We are very possessive for our love
00:01:51We adore a lot and share everything
00:01:55From childhood to youth
00:01:58And then that time comes
00:02:01When we slowly, our comfort zone is our parents' house
00:02:06Our room, our kitchen, our courtyard
00:02:12Where we grow up playing around
00:02:16That seems secondary to us
00:02:19And we make the priority our in-laws
00:02:24When we start saying this
00:02:26Mom calls and says, when are you coming to stay?
00:02:30Mom can't come to stay
00:02:32She can't sleep
00:02:34It has become a habit
00:02:36When we start saying this to our mother
00:02:39Or sister, when are you coming to spend the day?
00:02:42There is no time, there is a lot of work at home
00:02:45This is for the children, this is for the husband, this is for the mother-in-law, this is for the in-laws
00:02:49So even the brothers and sisters get angry
00:02:53That our sister has spent her childhood here
00:02:56And now she is not ready to come
00:03:00Yes, there is busyness
00:03:02But your comfort zone changes
00:03:05You start feeling comfortable in your in-laws' house
00:03:09Your room, your bed, your mattress, your pillow
00:03:14Those habits that you have changed yourself
00:03:18When you come to your in-laws' house
00:03:20Because you get used to it
00:03:22And then the sisters get jealous
00:03:24What is this? You don't stay, you leave
00:03:28Then mom and dad get angry
00:03:30Why did you come after eating? You should have eaten here
00:03:33So sometimes
00:03:35If you ask the children often
00:03:37They get used to it
00:03:39Of their in-laws' food
00:03:41Of their in-laws' bed
00:03:43Of their in-laws' bed
00:03:45Of the house, of the bed
00:03:47Of that air, of that sun
00:03:51So today we will talk on this topic
00:03:54When we get used to spending life in in-laws' house
00:03:58When in-laws' house is more beautiful than the mother's house
00:04:02Then what will happen?
00:04:05What will be the goodness in those in-laws' house?
00:04:08What will be the special things
00:04:11That we warmly welcome our daughters and daughters-in-law
00:04:17So that they forget their mother's house
00:04:20Forgetting the mother's house is a bookish thing
00:04:23How to make it practical?
00:04:26The program is for those mothers-in-law
00:04:29Not for the mothers of daughters
00:04:31But for the mothers of sons
00:04:33Who want their children to live with them
00:04:37Their son, their daughter-in-law
00:04:40Their children should live with them
00:04:42Every elderly person wants
00:04:44That they should never be separated from their children
00:04:47But for that, those elders have to make some effort
00:04:51And what efforts should be there?
00:04:53Today we will tell you
00:04:55Sometimes we have to tell the younger ones to the elders
00:05:14Today, as I told you, it is such a lovely topic
00:05:17And this is especially for those elders
00:05:20Who create so much comfort level in their house
00:05:23Daughters-in-law don't want to go to their mother's house
00:05:26And they feel more at home
00:05:28So today we will ask some celebrities
00:05:32We will ask some ordinary people
00:05:34What are the small things
00:05:38Because of which they feel more at home
00:05:42I have with me right now
00:05:44Beena Chaudhary on one side
00:05:46And on the other side, Shajia Junaid
00:05:49Obviously, everyone knows that she is Junaid's wife
00:05:52She herself is an anchor person on a news channel
00:05:55So she has her own position
00:05:58But the topic is
00:06:01You feel more at home
00:06:04And in the mother's house, everyone is calling
00:06:07When will you come?
00:06:09The mother's house people have complaints
00:06:11So what are the small points
00:06:14Which you think are the reasons to feel more at home
00:06:17This is my question to both
00:06:19Should I tell first?
00:06:22She is a senior
00:06:24First of all
00:06:26When you get married
00:06:28You have to keep in mind
00:06:30This is my in-law's house
00:06:32And I have to feel at home
00:06:34You have to feel at home
00:06:36Some kids don't feel at home after marriage
00:06:40Because they don't accept it
00:06:42That this is my house and I have to stay here
00:06:44So when you keep in mind
00:06:47That was my house and a life passed
00:06:49Now the next journey is here
00:06:51And I have to stay here
00:06:53I have to adjust in good and bad situations
00:06:55So you adjust
00:06:57In our house
00:06:59Your mother's house is very lively
00:07:02You have a lot of sisters
00:07:04And in the in-laws' house
00:07:06There are less people
00:07:08And it is not lively
00:07:10So you are used to being lively
00:07:12And your heart wants to meet again
00:07:15You miss everything
00:07:17Even if it is not lively
00:07:19You miss it
00:07:21Because it is a part of your life
00:07:23You have parents there
00:07:25But
00:07:27God has given such a power in marriage
00:07:29As soon as you get married
00:07:31You feel
00:07:33This is my place
00:07:35I have to stay here
00:07:37This is my husband
00:07:39This is my mother-in-law
00:07:41So we try to love the people there
00:07:43The people you fall in love with
00:07:45Your heart wants to stay there
00:07:47Because you miss your parents
00:07:49Because you live there since childhood
00:07:51You love your parents
00:07:53You miss your siblings
00:07:55You feel sad to leave them
00:07:57You love that house
00:07:59You love the streets
00:08:01You love that house
00:08:03You love everywhere
00:08:05So your heart wants to go there
00:08:07If you come to a new house
00:08:09If you love that house
00:08:11Your heart will start loving it
00:08:13How will you do it?
00:08:15First of all
00:08:17Switch on your house
00:08:19And switch off the other house
00:08:21Especially
00:08:23You have to take care of your family
00:08:25There are some mothers
00:08:27Who are always busy with their children
00:08:29You have to give them some space
00:08:31So that the child is at home
00:08:33Otherwise the mothers
00:08:35Who are always pampering their children
00:08:37Like don't do this
00:08:39Call them
00:08:41Because they don't like it
00:08:43In the in-laws
00:08:45You have to give them some space
00:08:47The child has to live his life
00:08:49He will fall and get up
00:08:51Then he will get used to that house
00:08:53And the daughters of the in-laws
00:08:55Should get used to it
00:08:57If they don't get used to it
00:08:59Then it becomes difficult for the parents
00:09:01Relationship gets spoiled
00:09:03Relationship?
00:09:05Then they go to the parents' house
00:09:07And there is a problem
00:09:09If they go there after marriage
00:09:11Then the daughter becomes less
00:09:13Because in that house
00:09:15You have daughters-in-law
00:09:17And brothers-in-law
00:09:19So your freedom is less
00:09:21It is understood
00:09:23But if the daughters say
00:09:25That is our house
00:09:27Then it is okay
00:09:29You own that house
00:09:31But the new house
00:09:33Is your house
00:09:35It can never be less
00:09:37I want you to be happy
00:09:39And come back
00:09:41I don't want you to go to your parents
00:09:43And have food
00:09:45I want you to come back
00:09:47Now we are on vacation
00:09:49Now we are at our parents' house
00:09:51I feel like I am at my parents' house
00:09:53Exactly
00:09:55Nida
00:09:57I think the biggest factor
00:09:59Is your love for your in-laws
00:10:01That is your relation with your husband
00:10:03If he has developed
00:10:05Obviously
00:10:07You have accepted
00:10:09Marriage
00:10:11You were ready
00:10:13Then you got married
00:10:15Then your relation with your husband
00:10:17If it has developed
00:10:19Then you start liking him
00:10:21Then the rest of the factors
00:10:23Become very easy
00:10:25In-laws are not good
00:10:27Or there is another problem
00:10:29These things
00:10:31You compromise on them
00:10:33If your husband is with you
00:10:35Mutual understanding
00:10:37Has developed
00:10:39Your life partner
00:10:41Is giving you love
00:10:43You start liking him
00:10:45Then
00:10:47There is a sense of belonging
00:10:49Like Peena ji said
00:10:51After marriage
00:10:53Now this is my place
00:10:55This is my place
00:10:57I am going to live it here
00:10:59You get a feeling
00:11:01That you belong to here
00:11:03Your heart gets added
00:11:05That now I have to live here
00:11:07Third
00:11:09When you have kids
00:11:11You know
00:11:13With so much hard work
00:11:15You make a house
00:11:17You decorate
00:11:19Then when you have a baby
00:11:21You decorate the room
00:11:23You plan everything
00:11:25It feels like
00:11:27A new member is coming in your family
00:11:29You feel more
00:11:31From that house
00:11:33You feel more
00:11:35That this is mine
00:11:37This is the place where I am going to start my own family
00:11:39So
00:11:41These are the reasons
00:11:43Because of which
00:11:45You start liking your in-laws
00:11:47I believe
00:11:49No matter what
00:11:51No matter what
00:11:53Mecca is Mecca
00:11:55In my life
00:11:57You can't say
00:11:59I don't want to go to my parents
00:12:01That you are always ready
00:12:03I think
00:12:05Especially your parents
00:12:07Then you are always like
00:12:09Whenever you get a chance
00:12:11You feel like going there
00:12:13Priorities change
00:12:15Then your in-laws come
00:12:17Third
00:12:19When you go
00:12:21Your in-laws welcome you
00:12:23They give you the space
00:12:25And
00:12:27That kind of freedom
00:12:29That kind of confidence
00:12:31That you are going somewhere
00:12:33There is trust
00:12:35Where are you going
00:12:37There are restrictions
00:12:39Sometimes
00:12:41People don't like it
00:12:43The way it was at home
00:12:45You have to take care of a lot of things
00:12:47You have to see a lot
00:12:49That is a factor
00:12:51You don't feel comfortable
00:12:53Like you are in jail
00:12:55That you are going at this time
00:12:57But
00:12:59Even if they ask
00:13:01There shouldn't be a lot of involvement
00:13:03Even if your parents ask
00:13:05Normal involvement
00:13:07Some women
00:13:09There is no harm in this
00:13:11You go and say
00:13:13I am going to this place
00:13:15They will have a big heart
00:13:17It's always two ways
00:13:19You respect from both sides
00:13:21If you respect
00:13:23If you are new
00:13:25When you go to someone's house
00:13:27Your in-laws welcome you
00:13:29They give you space
00:13:31It takes time
00:13:33People change
00:13:35It takes time
00:13:37If you feel welcome there
00:13:39You automatically
00:13:41You feel like
00:13:43Joining us
00:13:45Our guest
00:13:47Mariam Noor
00:13:49Welcome to my show
00:13:51Congratulations
00:13:53Thank you so much
00:13:55Welcome to our clan
00:13:57How are you?
00:13:59I am fine
00:14:01How are you?
00:14:03How does it feel to be in this world again?
00:14:05I swear
00:14:07I feel like
00:14:09It was a different world
00:14:11I used to work
00:14:13Then I became a kid
00:14:15This is totally a new world
00:14:17There is a shift
00:14:19In the first 3-4 months
00:14:21You don't know the routine
00:14:23When do you wake up?
00:14:25When do you sleep?
00:14:27When I came here
00:14:29A member of the team
00:14:31Said I have to wake up early
00:14:33I don't know
00:14:35When to sleep
00:14:37When to wake up
00:14:39No routine
00:14:41How long?
00:14:433 months
00:14:45Thank God
00:14:47He is sleeping
00:14:49He has made his routine
00:14:51Thank God
00:14:53During IZA
00:14:55She used to wake up all night
00:14:57I used to try a lot
00:14:59Wake her up
00:15:01Don't let her sleep
00:15:03We used to do every effort
00:15:05She used to sleep in the morning
00:15:07She used to sleep
00:15:09She used to be wide awake
00:15:11She has made her routine
00:15:13She has made her routine
00:15:15But people say
00:15:17It disturbs her sleep
00:15:19If she has to sleep
00:15:21Wake her up
00:15:23She will not sleep
00:15:25She has been doing it for 3-4 months
00:15:27Then she will make her routine
00:15:31Today's topic is
00:15:33Parents are calling
00:15:35Come to us
00:15:37But our heart is at home
00:15:39Husband and wife are together
00:15:41Husband and wife are together
00:15:43It hurts
00:15:45What are these facts?
00:15:47Why does this happen?
00:15:49I want to tell people
00:15:51What should in-laws do
00:15:53To make daughter-in-law happy
00:15:55Because fights happen
00:15:57Daughter-in-law is always at home
00:15:59She is always asking her mother
00:16:01These are the things
00:16:03Which increases the fights
00:16:05I feel
00:16:07First you should
00:16:09Accept it
00:16:11If there is any problem
00:16:13You should be stubborn
00:16:15This is my house
00:16:17You should accept it
00:16:19You should forget
00:16:21That this is your in-laws house
00:16:23You should forget
00:16:25That this is your house
00:16:27It is your choice
00:16:29But you should accept
00:16:31That this is your house
00:16:33You should ignore
00:16:35And then
00:16:37You should accept
00:16:39That this is your house
00:16:41You should accept
00:16:43There are small problems
00:16:45At home
00:16:47There were fights
00:16:49It didn't hurt
00:16:51If you go to your in-laws
00:16:53You will get hurt
00:16:55You should accept it
00:16:57Second
00:16:59If you over-share
00:17:01With your parents
00:17:03With your mother
00:17:05You will get better
00:17:07And you will forget
00:17:09Because you have to be there
00:17:11You have to live there
00:17:13But your family
00:17:15Will have a problem
00:17:17I think
00:17:19I can't share anything
00:17:21I don't do a lot of sharing
00:17:23I don't do a lot of sharing
00:17:25Unless
00:17:27I don't share
00:17:29You should respect your in-laws
00:17:31Respect your husband
00:17:33Second
00:17:35If you get married
00:17:37Your in-laws will say
00:17:39You should respect your in-laws
00:17:41You should respect your in-laws
00:17:43You should respect your in-laws
00:17:45You know
00:17:47At a young age
00:17:4920-21 years old
00:17:51Girls don't understand
00:17:53Girls don't understand
00:17:55Now girls have become a little smart
00:17:57In our time
00:17:59In our time
00:18:01In our time
00:18:03In our time
00:18:05Mothers groom their children
00:18:07Our mothers didn't do that
00:18:09Our mothers said
00:18:11We are getting married
00:18:13We also didn't say anything
00:18:15When you get married
00:18:17I will talk about you
00:18:19We are 22 years old
00:18:21How old are you?
00:18:2324
00:18:25In your marriage
00:18:27In your marriage
00:18:29In your marriage
00:18:31You went to work
00:18:33You went to work
00:18:35You got the awareness
00:18:37The new generation
00:18:39The new generation
00:18:41They are also very smart
00:18:43They will not tolerate
00:18:45They will not tolerate
00:18:47They will not tolerate
00:18:49I think
00:18:51I think
00:18:53I think
00:18:55I think
00:18:57which I believe that earlier it would have been less
00:19:01because when you are financially independent
00:19:04you have responsibilities, you know how to manage things
00:19:07you can manage your own finance
00:19:09so when you are on strong grounds
00:19:12then obviously things are a little different
00:19:14I feel that girls, no matter how strong they are
00:19:18it depends more on how they are going in the family
00:19:22if they are not like that
00:19:25if they don't have awareness
00:19:27thankfully nowadays in-laws also have awareness
00:19:31that don't do this, don't do that
00:19:35so I feel it was more important for them to be aware
00:19:38even in our families, the girls who get married
00:19:41you should know how to be a good in-law
00:19:44so it was important for them to be aware
00:19:46it has come in many families now
00:19:48so your mother-in-law is not that strict
00:19:51she knows that I want my son and daughter-in-law
00:19:57we should live together
00:19:59so she is also a little behind
00:20:02you have to accept that
00:20:04son was a son and now he is someone's husband
00:20:07earlier he used to give time only to me
00:20:09now he has to give time to his wife
00:20:11and he has to give time to his wife first
00:20:13mother comes a little later
00:20:15but it's not that you ignore your mother
00:20:17give time to your mother
00:20:19but wife comes first
00:20:21and if he doesn't give time to his wife
00:20:23then how will his wife live there
00:20:25the relationship doesn't develop
00:20:27the relationship of mother and son is already developed
00:20:29Allah has made it
00:20:31so you have to make an effort with your wife
00:20:35and till now I feel
00:20:37girls are not bothered much
00:20:39they are also easy
00:20:41if you are bothering her a lot
00:20:43and then the boy is not giving time
00:20:45then she will say why are you going here
00:20:47when her life will be peaceful
00:20:49she will focus on her things
00:20:51she won't have time to see
00:20:53why did you do this with mother
00:20:55why did you do this with sister
00:20:57she has a lot of other things
00:20:59there are two ways
00:21:01we will come back after the break
00:21:03and then we will discuss
00:21:05actually today we have to find those facts
00:21:07that what attitude do in-laws have
00:21:09that girls don't want to go to their parents
00:21:11let's teach something to in-laws
00:21:13good morning
00:21:17good morning
00:21:27welcome
00:21:29welcome back good morning Pakistan
00:21:31how do you feel in-laws
00:21:33they made you drink a lot
00:21:35that you don't come
00:21:37you must have heard this sentence
00:21:39you have forgotten
00:21:41sometimes you call
00:21:43sometimes you stay away
00:21:45you don't even come to eat
00:21:47today I made your favorite food
00:21:49why don't you come
00:21:51why are you more attached to in-laws
00:21:53and some people have it
00:21:55and some people don't
00:21:57so what is this
00:21:59so we are discussing this
00:22:01there must be something
00:22:03from husband's side
00:22:05from mother-in-law's side
00:22:07that you enjoy staying in in-laws
00:22:09more than your parents
00:22:11so today we are discussing that
00:22:13there must be something
00:22:15in in-laws
00:22:17that you don't like
00:22:19that hurts you
00:22:21and you don't want
00:22:23to go to in-laws
00:22:25there are many small points
00:22:27that we will tell you
00:22:29openly
00:22:31so that you can know
00:22:33why your daughter stopped coming to in-laws
00:22:35so with me
00:22:37with me
00:22:39is Sara
00:22:41Sara can come
00:22:43in front
00:22:45Sara please come
00:22:47and tell us what is it
00:22:49Assalamualaikum Sara
00:22:51please sit
00:22:53I said let's start with you
00:22:55so Sara
00:22:57you like in-laws more
00:22:59and why don't you like your parents
00:23:01the reason is that we are 4 sisters
00:23:03the reason is that we are 4 sisters
00:23:052 sisters got married in upper class
00:23:07we got married in middle class
00:23:09we got married in middle class
00:23:11there is one day in a week
00:23:13it's a weekend
00:23:15the excitement of going to mother's house
00:23:17all sisters get together
00:23:19I used to show off in everything
00:23:21my 2 sisters
00:23:23where did you get this dress from?
00:23:25oh you got it from here
00:23:27we wore a brand dress
00:23:29do you know how much is this?
00:23:31we used to avoid it
00:23:33it's their fate
00:23:35it's not an issue
00:23:37we used to spend the day
00:23:39everything was fine till here
00:23:41but when we had kids
00:23:43and when it came to kids
00:23:45we used to feel bad
00:23:47our kids go to this school
00:23:49our kids go to that school
00:23:51why don't you make them sit here
00:23:53our kids have these toys
00:23:55they used to bring toys to mother's house
00:23:57I didn't understand
00:23:59that our kids are
00:24:01complicit
00:24:03it was fine till mother's house
00:24:05but when it came to kids
00:24:07they are upset
00:24:09because they are insisting
00:24:11we want this
00:24:13we want that
00:24:15when we go home
00:24:17our kids are upset
00:24:19aunty's kids have this
00:24:21aunty's kids have that
00:24:23why don't we have this
00:24:25it was a different story
00:24:27we understood
00:24:29but when it came to kids
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00:32:57when you have sisters
00:32:59if you have such a good bonding
00:33:01if you have such a good bonding
00:33:03you meet them on the same day
00:33:05but here she is having this problem
00:33:07when we all are sisters
00:33:09when we all are sisters
00:33:11we plan
00:33:13that one day we will meet somewhere
00:33:15sometimes at my house
00:33:17sometimes at my other sister's house
00:33:19earlier we used to meet only at mom's house
00:33:21obviously we were center of attraction
00:33:23but now we have shared things
00:33:25you can meet one sister
00:33:27I prefer that
00:33:29I prefer that
00:33:31so I don't feel burden
00:33:33so I don't feel burden
00:33:35so I don't feel burden
00:33:37mom is also burden
00:33:39mom is also burden
00:33:41I call mom there
00:33:43I call mom there
00:33:45this is the best idea
00:33:49sleep
00:33:51what is the story?
00:33:53I have always had a habit of getting up early in the morning
00:33:56because my mother is very strict about it.
00:33:58If it's 9 in the morning, she'll say,
00:34:01it's 11, get up.
00:34:02Yes.
00:34:02Okay?
00:34:02So, always...
00:34:04She used to be with us in school at 9 in the morning.
00:34:06Always.
00:34:07And my mother gets upset.
00:34:08You get up.
00:34:09If my mother has to cook at 12,
00:34:12and it's 1, she'll say,
00:34:13I can't cook.
00:34:14I'll say, why can't you cook?
00:34:15Is this the time to cook?
00:34:18So, my mother has been very strict about it.
00:34:19There's no one like this in the in-laws' house,
00:34:22that when I'm sleeping, no one disturbs me.
00:34:25Yes, when there's a need, they get up.
00:34:27So, that's why I run a lot.
00:34:28When I go to my mother's house,
00:34:29in the morning...
00:34:30Even if you sleep at 7,
00:34:32your mother will say, get up at 9.
00:34:33Okay, that's not it.
00:34:34Yes.
00:34:35But it happens that when you go home,
00:34:38you say, okay, I'll rest now.
00:34:40My sister has to look after Iza.
00:34:42My mother-in-law doesn't care
00:34:44where Iza is or what she's doing.
00:34:46She wants to be at peace.
00:34:47I'm saying, if you refuse your mother in the morning,
00:34:50she won't clean the room.
00:34:51She won't clean the room.
00:34:52What is this?
00:34:54She won't clean the room.
00:34:55All the lights and fans will be switched off.
00:34:56The lights will be on and the room will be clean.
00:34:58You're sleeping.
00:34:58Even I feel bad about this.
00:35:00My son will say,
00:35:01mom, let my room be clean today.
00:35:03I'm sleeping.
00:35:03I'll say, what do you mean?
00:35:04It won't be clean?
00:35:04It won't be clean.
00:35:05You can sleep if you want to.
00:35:06I'll make it clean.
00:35:07I'll even say, I'll do it when I wake up.
00:35:10The fans are off and the lights are on.
00:35:11You've been sleeping for an hour.
00:35:13She has to make it clean.
00:35:14She has to make it clean.
00:35:15My mother has to make it clean.
00:35:18It's a fun thing.
00:35:21Next,
00:35:22your own room.
00:35:25After marriage,
00:35:26I get used to my own room.
00:35:27I make my own comfort zone.
00:35:29This thing is here, this is here, this is here.
00:35:31It's in my nature.
00:35:32Even when I go for a shoot,
00:35:34I have to decorate a corner
00:35:35where my purse,
00:35:37other accessories,
00:35:39food,
00:35:40fruits.
00:35:42If I have to work on that shoot
00:35:44for a month,
00:35:45that corner is mine.
00:35:46Really?
00:35:47If I change places,
00:35:49I feel uneasy.
00:35:51I feel tensed.
00:35:52I feel like something is missing.
00:35:53Yes.
00:35:54Similarly,
00:35:55when I used to go to my mother's house,
00:35:58I didn't go to live there.
00:35:59In just 24 years,
00:36:00I stayed at my mother's house for two nights.
00:36:02Seriously?
00:36:03Seriously.
00:36:04Because I was so used to my room,
00:36:06my husband,
00:36:08my washroom,
00:36:10that what, how,
00:36:12where will this pillow come from,
00:36:13where will this bed come from.
00:36:15So, with everything,
00:36:17it's in my nature,
00:36:18that I fall in love with that place.
00:36:20I fall in love with that place.
00:36:22So, I feel that
00:36:24I will go,
00:36:25meet my mother for a while,
00:36:26hug her,
00:36:27talk to her,
00:36:27ask her how she is,
00:36:28and then come back.
00:36:30Because I want my own room,
00:36:32I want a peaceful environment.
00:36:33And I,
00:36:35I don't talk a lot in gatherings.
00:36:38I feel like time is being wasted.
00:36:39So, I feel like,
00:36:40let's go from here,
00:36:41and do something creative.
00:36:43So, in my room,
00:36:44I sometimes sew clothes,
00:36:47sometimes I paint.
00:36:50I don't want to waste time.
00:36:51Otherwise, it's so much fun,
00:36:53all the sisters, sisters-in-law,
00:36:54they are sitting here,
00:36:55chatting,
00:36:56talking about sugar.
00:36:57But I can't do that.
00:36:58I will do it for a short while,
00:37:00for 10 to 15 minutes.
00:37:01Then, after that,
00:37:02an alarm rings inside me,
00:37:03that this is a waste of time.
00:37:05Talking about her,
00:37:05talking about her,
00:37:06talking about her.
00:37:07So, nothing good is happening here.
00:37:09Okay, I don't know,
00:37:10I will go with you.
00:37:11I have my grandmothers,
00:37:12I will call them too,
00:37:13that please call them too.
00:37:14All the kids.
00:37:16Yes, all the kids.
00:37:17I am a little jealous.
00:37:18I am also very much interested,
00:37:20that all of them get together.
00:37:21But, like we go on picnics too,
00:37:23and I am very much interested,
00:37:24whether it's Raunak,
00:37:26or in-laws or in-laws.
00:37:27I say, I don't want to stay.
00:37:29Okay.
00:37:29I don't know,
00:37:30that even if I go on a picnic,
00:37:31I don't want to,
00:37:32no matter how comfortable the rooms are.
00:37:35Although, we go on vacations so much,
00:37:37you know,
00:37:37you can't come back home.
00:37:39But I say,
00:37:40if you are in the same city,
00:37:41I don't like the night picnic.
00:37:43That you are staying there at night,
00:37:46especially with the kids.
00:37:47My mother's house is also in my city,
00:37:49and it's a 15 minute drive from my house.
00:37:52Yes.
00:37:53So, I want my own room.
00:37:55Oh.
00:37:56And there is a lot of gathering downstairs,
00:37:59in my in-laws' house.
00:37:59My house was upstairs,
00:38:00my in-laws' house was downstairs.
00:38:01Everyone is sitting and talking,
00:38:02they are having fun.
00:38:03I will be upstairs in 15 to 20 minutes.
00:38:05Oh.
00:38:06Okay.
00:38:07I have come to take out some of my things,
00:38:08to start working.
00:38:09I feel,
00:38:10that no,
00:38:10this,
00:38:11something is going wrong,
00:38:12time is being wasted,
00:38:13something is not going well.
00:38:14We are just talking,
00:38:16he did this,
00:38:16he bought these clothes,
00:38:17he did this.
00:38:18What is this?
00:38:19Yes.
00:38:20This is not life.
00:38:20I like to talk a lot.
00:38:22Yes.
00:38:22When you are there,
00:38:24and especially,
00:38:25when you are talking about tea,
00:38:25about shoes,
00:38:26about men,
00:38:27about women.
00:38:28We are the same women,
00:38:29we talk about the same things.
00:38:30Okay,
00:38:30to gossip.
00:38:31Yes, to gossip.
00:38:32Sometimes,
00:38:33it's fun.
00:38:34Is there a break?
00:38:34Sometimes,
00:38:35you had gossiped,
00:38:36I used to call you,
00:38:37and you were only gossiping.
00:38:38My stomach is aching.
00:38:39Yes.
00:38:40It's fun.
00:38:41One break,
00:38:41I have said a break, right?
00:38:43Okay,
00:38:44I don't know.
00:38:44I said a break,
00:38:45I got lost in the conversation.
00:38:46So, let's come back after a break.
00:38:48Good morning.
00:38:55Welcome,
00:38:56welcome back.
00:38:57Good morning,
00:38:58Pakistan.
00:38:58Today, we are discussing,
00:39:00it feels so weird to talk about this,
00:39:03that one feels more at home,
00:39:05the family members complain,
00:39:06they don't come to our house.
00:39:08What is the reason?
00:39:09Today, we are trying to find out.
00:39:10So, with me,
00:39:11sitting in front of me is Zainab.
00:39:13And Zainab will also tell us,
00:39:15why she feels more at home,
00:39:18and why she doesn't want to go to her parents' house.
00:39:20Greetings.
00:39:21Greetings.
00:39:21And thank you so much for inviting me.
00:39:23You have raised those points here,
00:39:26that not everyone gets a chance to speak here.
00:39:29And a lot of girls have these issues,
00:39:32that at their in-laws' house,
00:39:34I will tell you a little background of my family.
00:39:36I had two elder brothers,
00:39:37and I am their only sister.
00:39:40And I am the single daughter of my parents.
00:39:42Yes.
00:39:43So, I am very pampered.
00:39:44I am very proud of my parents.
00:39:46I mean, I have grown up.
00:39:48Whatever I want to say,
00:39:49my parents have to fulfill it.
00:39:51Right.
00:39:51I mean, whatever my brothers have asked for,
00:39:53they have to bring it and give it to me.
00:39:55So, like this,
00:39:57I have always been in a family.
00:39:59I got married like this.
00:40:01My parents pampered me a lot.
00:40:03I got married to my mother-in-law,
00:40:04with a lot of pomp and show.
00:40:06After that,
00:40:08when I came to my parents' house after marriage,
00:40:11the start of the marriage was good.
00:40:15In the family, everyone was like brothers and sisters-in-law.
00:40:17Everyone was nice.
00:40:20After some time, my father passed away.
00:40:23Oh.
00:40:24Unfortunately.
00:40:25So, after that, the scene was completely opposite.
00:40:29I mean,
00:40:30the support that a girl gets from her parents in her parents' house,
00:40:35that was missing.
00:40:37I mean, my mother is still alive.
00:40:39But obviously, my father is the backbone of the family.
00:40:43So, that was missing in our family.
00:40:45Hmm.
00:40:46After that, I can say that my brothers were better,
00:40:50but obviously,
00:40:51the attitude of the sisters-in-law was not the same with me.
00:40:53Hmm.
00:40:54Now, when I used to come here from my in-laws' house,
00:40:57obviously, my mother-in-law was also like this.
00:40:59Because, in the beginning, there was a lot of scene like,
00:41:03you went to your mother's house,
00:41:04what did you eat?
00:41:05What did you do?
00:41:05What did you give?
00:41:06What did you take?
00:41:06I mean, there were a lot of questions like this.
00:41:08Hmm.
00:41:09Then, when the scene changed after my father's death,
00:41:12the things were completely opposite.
00:41:14And, things were not the same.
00:41:16And,
00:41:17I used to get such questions from my in-laws' house,
00:41:19that, what did you do?
00:41:20What should I answer from now on?
00:41:21Obviously, those things are not the same now.
00:41:23Hmm.
00:41:24So, that was a very embarrassing moment for me.
00:41:27I mean, when I go back to my in-laws' house,
00:41:29what will I say to them?
00:41:30I mean, in-laws' people are also weird.
00:41:32They ask everything.
00:41:32Why do they ask?
00:41:33Yes.
00:41:34What is the need to ask?
00:41:35What did you eat?
00:41:36What did you drink?
00:41:36What did you take?
00:41:37What did you give?
00:41:37And, it is something to be understood.
00:41:40You are not a father anymore.
00:41:41So, you should realise things.
00:41:43You should like the reality.
00:41:44They live in a fantasy.
00:41:45What did your parents give you?
00:41:47What is it?
00:41:48God has given you everything in your house.
00:41:49And, secondly,
00:41:50you should also tell your in-laws,
00:41:54that, why are you asking?
00:41:58I mean, it is okay.
00:41:59You can say it in a respectful way.
00:42:01That, no, you don't have to ask so much.
00:42:03They should know.
00:42:04You should definitely ask,
00:42:05what did your in-laws give you?
00:42:06What did they not give you?
00:42:07But, they must feel it, obviously.
00:42:09Yes, feeling is a different thing.
00:42:11The way they used to welcome you,
00:42:12if you don't get that,
00:42:14and your sisters-in-law don't welcome you in the same way,
00:42:18the protocol, the way it used to be.
00:42:20You don't feel it.
00:42:22You don't feel it.
00:42:23So, you should accept every aspect of life.
00:42:26And, if there is no one to take care of you,
00:42:28then you feel it.
00:42:30That could be the reason.
00:42:31Exits are only with parents.
00:42:33When parents leave,
00:42:34there are no more exits.
00:42:35So, you should accept this.
00:42:37Learn this, kids.
00:42:38If you want to live a happy life.
00:42:40True.
00:42:41And, it could be that,
00:42:42I don't know,
00:42:43you know better what you are going through.
00:42:44It could be that,
00:42:45you are so busy in your life,
00:42:47you have kids in front of you.
00:42:48You are not their priority anymore.
00:42:50Today, the priority is your mother.
00:42:52What is your mother's behaviour,
00:42:53that matters more.
00:42:55You have a life of your own.
00:42:57Stop taking her words to your heart.
00:42:59Yes, but a family's bounding,
00:43:02that is a different thing.
00:43:03That is missing.
00:43:04That is a different thing.
00:43:05But, after the parents leave,
00:43:06there is a difference.
00:43:07There is a difference.
00:43:08These are the parents,
00:43:09who keep the kids together.
00:43:10And, when the parents leave,
00:43:12the kids get lost in their own lives.
00:43:15Hmm.
00:43:16So, you should also get lost.
00:43:17Yes.
00:43:18In your in-laws,
00:43:19in your kids,
00:43:20in your husband.
00:43:21That is your universe.
00:43:22She is saying that,
00:43:23I am so lost in myself,
00:43:25that I don't go home.
00:43:26Yes, very good.
00:43:27And, not everything is the same.
00:43:29Mistakes are made.
00:43:30There are differences in life.
00:43:31That is true.
00:43:32Yes, next.
00:43:34Freedom.
00:43:35Freedom.
00:43:36Freedom.
00:43:37No, in this,
00:43:38it was that,
00:43:39the heart,
00:43:40I said that,
00:43:41in your in-laws,
00:43:42why does the heart hurt more?
00:43:43When your in-laws,
00:43:44have so much understanding,
00:43:46that you don't have a problem,
00:43:48where are you going?
00:43:49Where are you going?
00:43:50There is no stop and go.
00:43:51Hmm.
00:43:52And, they can understand.
00:43:53My friends are coming.
00:43:55There are sleepovers.
00:43:56I am going.
00:43:57So, they don't have a problem with this.
00:43:59Hmm.
00:44:00And, secondly,
00:44:01obviously,
00:44:02I am also working in the media.
00:44:03You know the timings.
00:44:04Sometimes,
00:44:05in recordings,
00:44:06it takes so much time.
00:44:07Hmm.
00:44:08That you are late.
00:44:09So, that kind of,
00:44:10you don't have that tension at home.
00:44:12That, okay,
00:44:13I will be late.
00:44:14So, someone will scold me.
00:44:15Someone will ask.
00:44:17Someone will ask a question.
00:44:18Where are you?
00:44:19So, when these things don't happen,
00:44:20they understand.
00:44:21So, automatically,
00:44:22it takes more time for you.
00:44:23Yes.
00:44:24True.
00:44:25When you can do your work
00:44:26with peace of mind,
00:44:27you can carry your profession
00:44:28in the same way
00:44:29as you are doing
00:44:30before marriage.
00:44:31Yes.
00:44:32So, those things
00:44:33get better.
00:44:34You feel more at ease.
00:44:35Yes.
00:44:36Then, you don't have
00:44:37any reasons.
00:44:38Obviously,
00:44:39you have your own house,
00:44:40you have a child,
00:44:41you have a husband.
00:44:42And, where everyone
00:44:43is understanding,
00:44:44then you don't feel like
00:44:45going together.
00:44:46Yes.
00:44:47That's true.
00:44:48Honestly.
00:44:49Exactly.
00:44:50You have your space.
00:44:51Yes.
00:44:52So, if you,
00:44:53like at home,
00:44:54if mom doesn't get
00:44:55permission,
00:44:56if she is getting it,
00:44:57then give mom
00:44:58a couple of kisses
00:44:59and ask for permission
00:45:00to leave.
00:45:01Yes.
00:45:02And, if she is
00:45:03getting permission
00:45:04for the same thing
00:45:05in your in-laws' house,
00:45:06and no one is telling you
00:45:07why your friends
00:45:08are coming
00:45:09to spend the night.
00:45:10Yes.
00:45:11What kind of a way
00:45:12is this?
00:45:13Then, you will feel
00:45:14that if you go
00:45:15to your mom's house,
00:45:16you will invite
00:45:17your friends there.
00:45:18Yes.
00:45:19So, you don't have
00:45:20any reason.
00:45:21Yes.
00:45:22So, you don't have
00:45:23any reason.
00:45:24Obviously.
00:45:25You are set.
00:45:26You have set
00:45:27your house,
00:45:28your child's house.
00:45:29Go to your mom's house.
00:45:30Yes.
00:45:31You have to take
00:45:32your child's house.
00:45:33Yes.
00:45:34True.
00:45:35Packing.
00:45:36If you have two kids,
00:45:37and they are small,
00:45:38and they are
00:45:39walking upstairs.
00:45:40And packing
00:45:41of everything.
00:45:42So, packing of everything.
00:45:43Diapers,
00:45:44blankets,
00:45:45so,
00:45:46the life you lose
00:45:47from that.
00:45:48And then,
00:45:49unpacking when you
00:45:50come back.
00:45:51Unpacking.
00:45:52Unpacking.
00:45:53That is the most difficult.
00:45:54Yes.
00:45:55And if you don't
00:45:56have a helping hand,
00:45:57if the girl has run away.
00:45:58And when you
00:45:59don't have a helping hand,
00:46:00you have to
00:46:01help her.
00:46:02In case,
00:46:03this is the thing.
00:46:04So,
00:46:05the problem is
00:46:06for them.
00:46:07The problem is
00:46:08that if you go to
00:46:09your mom's house,
00:46:10you can't sit
00:46:11with your mom.
00:46:12You are running
00:46:13after your child.
00:46:14Don't touch this,
00:46:15don't break that.
00:46:16And if there is
00:46:17a new place,
00:46:18you are bothering
00:46:19your child.
00:46:20You have to
00:46:21do more things.
00:46:22Yes.
00:46:23If you don't have
00:46:24a home,
00:46:25then your child
00:46:26will keep on running.
00:46:27So,
00:46:28you have to
00:46:29do more things.
00:46:30Yes.
00:46:31Next is,
00:46:32the fun of
00:46:33fighting with your husband.
00:46:34Oh my God.
00:46:35The face-to-face
00:46:36fun is not
00:46:37the fun of
00:46:38going to your mom's
00:46:39house.
00:46:40The husband also
00:46:41fights less.
00:46:42He is also
00:46:43missing you.
00:46:44There is no fun.
00:46:45There is no fun.
00:46:46So,
00:46:47the fun of
00:46:48sitting in front
00:46:49and fighting is
00:46:50the fun.
00:46:51And after sitting
00:46:52in front and
00:46:53fighting,
00:46:54the reconciliation
00:46:55also happens fast.
00:46:56Yes.
00:46:57I don't know
00:46:58why this used to happen.
00:46:59Earlier,
00:47:00when my husband
00:47:01didn't like me
00:47:02going to my
00:47:03parents' house,
00:47:04I used to
00:47:05feel like going.
00:47:06And after that,
00:47:07he used to say,
00:47:08go for God's sake,
00:47:09why aren't you
00:47:10going?
00:47:11Now,
00:47:12it's our turn.
00:47:13No, no.
00:47:14And then,
00:47:15it's human nature.
00:47:16We feel like
00:47:17doing what is
00:47:18stopped.
00:47:19Yes.
00:47:20In-laws,
00:47:21listen to this.
00:47:22If you stop
00:47:23and if you
00:47:24put restrictions
00:47:25that you go
00:47:26to your parents',
00:47:27then you will
00:47:28have to go.
00:47:29Yes.
00:47:30If you
00:47:31don't
00:47:32have
00:47:33restrictions,
00:47:34you will
00:47:35have to
00:47:36go.
00:47:37Because
00:47:38if you
00:47:39don't
00:47:40have
00:47:41restrictions
00:47:42and
00:47:43if you
00:47:44don't
00:47:45have
00:47:46a husband,
00:47:47you will
00:47:48have
00:47:49to go.
00:47:50Yes.
00:47:51If you
00:47:52don't
00:47:53have
00:47:54restrictions,
00:47:55school?
00:47:56I had a school for my kids, but my house was like Ronak's house, Yasir's house had
00:48:02brothers and sisters, and my house had sisters, so I got married first, they were all at home,
00:48:08they were all going on a trip to Malaysia alone, so I used to feel that in those times,
00:48:15then a time came when I stopped living, that I couldn't sleep at night until my husband
00:48:21So you get used to all this at the age of 21-22
00:48:25Yes, you get used to all this, and in a lot of life, as I am saying, there are a lot of
00:48:31other things going on in your mind to fight, and after going to your mother's house, especially
00:48:35after marriage, you can't pretend to be sad for no reason, your parents get worried, so
00:48:41fight in front of your husband, do whatever you want, in fact, you are angry because of
00:48:45you, I will get angry because of you for something else
00:48:48If you had fought and gone to your parents' house, then the fight would have increased,
00:48:51it would have increased, and the parents would have got worried that maybe the girl is not
00:48:56happy, and this is a very painful thing for the parents, when after marriage they realize
00:49:02that the child is angry
00:49:04Husband and wife fight and become alone, because of the fight between husband and wife, the
00:49:09parents get disturbed, they get disturbed
00:49:12That's why they say that it's better if you don't share small things, because you have
00:49:17to fight
00:49:18The fight is difficult
00:49:19The one who says that we don't have a fight at all, he is lying
00:49:22There is love, but there is a fight
00:49:25What is this?
00:49:26This is your breakfast
00:49:28Yes
00:49:29My habit was to have breakfast with my husband after marriage, that I can't have breakfast
00:49:35without my husband
00:49:36Oh brother
00:49:37And my husband
00:49:38His legs are burning
00:49:39My husband has to go somewhere late, so I am sitting, he will get up and have breakfast
00:49:43Oh
00:49:44He says, brother, you are still hungry, so I say, if you get up, we will have breakfast
00:49:49And if my husband has ever said that I will get up late, you have breakfast, so even if
00:49:54I make breakfast in anger, my breakfast doesn't go down
00:49:57Oh my God
00:49:58I didn't enjoy it, so I didn't have breakfast
00:50:00So it was a habit to have breakfast together, no matter what
00:50:04Even if I have lunch separately, that is on my work, I eat very little food at night
00:50:09But I have to have breakfast together, even if there is a fight at night, no matter what
00:50:13The boys are sleeping, I have to wake up in the morning and make tea for them
00:50:16Sohail, get up, let's have breakfast
00:50:17And these days, since I am so busy, they make tea
00:50:21So whatever happens, I don't even feel like talking
00:50:24So I say, get up, let's make tea
00:50:26You made tea with your own hands
00:50:28And I don't like my own tea
00:50:31Even though I make very good tea
00:50:33But I say, Sohail, the fun of your hands is nowhere
00:50:38And if you go anywhere, you will miss the tea
00:50:40So don't go
00:50:43This is a good tip
00:50:47Yes, the sense of belonging
00:50:52When your husband, your children, you know that you have to live there
00:50:59So you feel that you belong to this place
00:51:02Now your contact is here
00:51:04This is your place, this is your destination, you have to live here
00:51:07Then obviously you are living
00:51:09Like they said, your bedroom, everything is set in a routine
00:51:13Your kitchen is set according to you
00:51:15Now it is that kind of belonging that was there in the family at one time
00:51:18Obviously, when you have set your maintenance
00:51:23Your kitchen is set according to you
00:51:25Then you go to the kitchen, everything is there according to you
00:51:29Now when you go to the back of the house
00:51:31Then obviously things have changed there
00:51:34Sister-in-law has come here
00:51:35Sister-in-law has set her life on her own
00:51:37So you don't feel that belonging
00:51:40Like your room is set in the house
00:51:42So this is a factor
00:51:44That your house is not good
00:51:46If you get tired, you will get down in your house
00:51:49If you get peace, you will get it in your house
00:51:51You go home, you come back tired
00:51:54You sit all day, don't do anything
00:51:56But mentally, physically you get tired
00:51:58Because you are not able to relax
00:52:00The comfort that you get in your room, that is what happens
00:52:02You talk a lot
00:52:04You come back physically tired
00:52:06But mentally you come back very fresh
00:52:08I feel like my whole system has restarted
00:52:11That is after hugging your parents
00:52:13You have a different mindset
00:52:15I go to my sister's house and come back very fresh
00:52:18You look sad, you feel lethargic
00:52:22You go and hug them for 10-15 minutes
00:52:25Then you will be fine
00:52:26The one who doesn't want to come on screen
00:52:30I say tell us your story
00:52:32We are interested in your story
00:52:34Show your face
00:52:35Naila is with us
00:52:36Naila, what will you say?
00:52:37Assalamualaikum Naila
00:52:38Walaikumassalam
00:52:39Yes Naila
00:52:41My story, obviously I can only tell you the truth
00:52:45Because I am ashamed of my sister
00:52:48And it is painful for me
00:52:51Because no child can think like this about their parents
00:52:55Like I am in pain because of them
00:52:58And I have seen the environment of my house since childhood
00:53:02That my parents used to fight a lot
00:53:04Okay
00:53:05That was childhood, now we have grown up
00:53:08So much fight that my parents were famous in the whole family
00:53:13And because of this, there was never a relationship with the family
00:53:17Everyone used to think that if the mother fights so much, then the daughter will also be like this
00:53:21Because after my marriage, I got married with great difficulty
00:53:26Five years have passed since the marriage
00:53:29The fight between mother and father is in its place
00:53:32Wherever they sit, wherever they go to a party
00:53:35I mean, they don't even realize that their son-in-law has come to their house
00:53:39Oh
00:53:40And there is a lot of peace in my in-laws, Mashallah
00:53:43And I feel very good in my in-laws
00:53:46But when I come to my mother's house
00:53:48Of course, my parents, my house, my childhood has passed
00:53:51I can't leave that
00:53:53So whenever I come to my mother's house, there is a big fight
00:53:57And there is so much stubbornness in my parents that I get irritated
00:54:02Allah
00:54:03And when I go back to my house, my behavior changes mentally
00:54:10If I go to my house and argue with my husband about something
00:54:14Do you know what taunts he gives me?
00:54:16He tells me not to be my mother
00:54:18Just like your mother always tells your father
00:54:21Don't behave like that with me
00:54:23This is not the environment of my house
00:54:26Although I never fight with him
00:54:28But of course, I take the tension of my parents
00:54:30Sometimes it comes to the tongue
00:54:33People get worried
00:54:35So I don't care about my in-laws
00:54:37But I get this taunt from my husband
00:54:39My mother-in-law is very good
00:54:40I don't show them that this is the environment of my house
00:54:43But from somewhere or the other
00:54:45They find out
00:54:47Because you know, even on my wedding day
00:54:49There was a fight between my parents
00:54:51Oh my God
00:54:53So that somehow reached my in-laws
00:54:55Now the fight between my parents has become a taunt for me
00:55:00And if my mother calls me six times
00:55:03So you believe me
00:55:05I don't know how I avoid them
00:55:07I don't even want to go to my house
00:55:09And I make excuses and refuse them
00:55:11This time I go to my house once
00:55:13And believe me, I don't feel like eating there
00:55:16I don't feel at peace there
00:55:19I just go there to fulfill a formality
00:55:22That I am a mother and a father
00:55:24So it's not like that
00:55:26Parents are worried only because of the fights of their children
00:55:30Absolutely
00:55:32Children are also worried because of the fights of their parents
00:55:34And should parents think
00:55:36That by spoiling the relationship
00:55:38They have started troubling their generation
00:55:40There are so many long lasting impacts
00:55:42Psychologically
00:55:44It has such a bad effect on your child
00:55:46We don't see this
00:55:48When your child is learning from you
00:55:50He has to become what you are
00:55:52What you are doing
00:55:54Because you are his biggest role model
00:55:56So you feel
00:55:58No matter how well you explain to your child
00:56:00Son, you have to do this, you have to do that
00:56:02Until and unless you are not doing it yourself
00:56:04You can't train him
00:56:06He won't do it
00:56:08He will do what you are doing
00:56:10Not what you are telling him
00:56:12It's your responsibility
00:56:14If you have given birth to a child
00:56:16You have to give him a good environment
00:56:18You have to account for it
00:56:20Why don't parents understand this?
00:56:22It's a big burden for them
00:56:24It's a big burden
00:56:26If you become a taunt
00:56:28That you don't become your mother's role model
00:56:30We have to become our mother's role model
00:56:32I have a lot of
00:56:34Girls in my community
00:56:36They are worried about their environment
00:56:38They are worried
00:56:40That if there is a proposal
00:56:42I should somehow
00:56:44Leave
00:56:46If I get a proposal
00:56:48I am fed up of this environment
00:56:50There are a lot of people
00:56:52If I leave
00:56:54I don't want to create such an environment
00:56:56That girls are ready to run
00:56:58They don't want to run away
00:57:00They don't want to see
00:57:02If the next person has a child or not
00:57:04Girls run away from their homes
00:57:06Exactly
00:57:08If someone gives them a chance
00:57:10They get fed up of their environment
00:57:12They get fed up
00:57:14They run away
00:57:16They ruin their children's life
00:57:18Often fathers
00:57:20Are hitting their daughters
00:57:22Or abuse them
00:57:24So from there
00:57:26They try to run away
00:57:28They want to get married as soon as possible
00:57:30We are taking a small break
00:57:32Keep watching Good Morning Pakistan
00:58:02Message
00:58:04If you do this
00:58:06Your problems will be solved
00:58:08If you do this
00:58:10You will have a daughter-in-law
00:58:12Mariam
00:58:14You are worried about your house
00:58:16Yes
00:58:18My habit is
00:58:20If I get up
00:58:22I will fix my bed
00:58:24My bed is always ready
00:58:26Like you put it
00:58:28It is always ready
00:58:30I am always worried
00:58:32That I will leave my house
00:58:34I will come back
00:58:36You know how husbands are
00:58:38I am always worried
00:58:40That I will have to do so much work
00:58:42That I will have to set the house again
00:58:44Even if I go somewhere
00:58:46I call my husband and ask
00:58:48That I have a problem
00:58:50You must have ruined it
00:58:52Please fix it
00:58:54He says everything is fine
00:58:56Even Masha
00:58:58You know my habit
00:59:00If I have to remove my shoes
00:59:02I have to go somewhere
00:59:04And fix it
00:59:06I am worried about my house
00:59:08I don't care about my husband
00:59:10I am worried about my house
00:59:12You have OCD
00:59:14I have severe OCD
00:59:16I had an operation
00:59:18After the delivery
00:59:20From the next day
00:59:22I was fixing my things
00:59:24I came home
00:59:26The house was set
00:59:28I was working
00:59:30He started scolding me
00:59:32That you will do wrong with yourself
00:59:34I told him
00:59:36If I don't keep my child's things
00:59:38I will have a mental problem
00:59:40I came
00:59:42I set his things
00:59:44According to his needs
00:59:46Then I sat
00:59:48I love my house
00:59:50I have a problem
00:59:52With those women
00:59:54I have a problem
00:59:56What to do
00:59:58There are many
01:00:00I don't like it
01:00:02I want to ask them
01:00:04Love your house
01:00:06If you love something
01:00:08Maintain it
01:00:10It's a matter of habit
01:00:12Some people
01:00:14Don't have a habit
01:00:16But you should do it
01:00:18There are many
01:00:20I saw her
01:00:22The house is dirty
01:00:26I was reading
01:00:28There is a difference
01:00:30Between keeping the house clean
01:00:32And cleaning
01:00:34Keeping the house clean
01:00:36Is a good job
01:00:38It's a 24x7 job
01:00:40I have OCD
01:00:42The sink in the kitchen
01:00:44I have a problem
01:00:46With cleaning
01:00:48I go to the corner
01:00:50If the corner is clean
01:00:52Then it's a good job
01:00:58You go to the kitchen
01:01:00And the sink
01:01:02Is dirty
01:01:04I have a problem with that
01:01:06You don't even keep the utensils
01:01:08In the dirty sink
01:01:10That boy
01:01:12Asks
01:01:14Where do you find the gun
01:01:16Why can't I see it
01:01:18Look at this
01:01:20I can't see it
01:01:22Look at my fingers
01:01:24I can't see it
01:01:26How do you find the gun
01:01:28What is the need
01:01:30To tease your in-laws
01:01:32When you are such a good daughter-in-law
01:01:34They don't tease us
01:01:36Because we are very good
01:01:38I thought
01:01:40Why doesn't she go home
01:01:42That's why
01:01:44What is the bad thing
01:01:46About your in-laws
01:01:48When we were kids
01:01:50We were very strict
01:01:52About what to eat
01:01:54And what not to eat
01:01:56We had to wear socks
01:01:58Because it was very cold in Muzdan
01:02:00So we used to go to our in-laws
01:02:02And ask them to feed us
01:02:04And secretly gave us
01:02:06Toffees
01:02:08There was a shop in the corner
01:02:10The kids liked the things there
01:02:12And we used to get the ring
01:02:14What do you call it
01:02:16Slanty type
01:02:18And grandma used to bring it
01:02:20And she used to give us tea
01:02:22When I didn't
01:02:24Whatever the kids were saying
01:02:26There was a big house in our house
01:02:28And there was a corner
01:02:30Where my mother used to keep goats
01:02:32So the kids used to stay there
01:02:34And grandma used to say
01:02:36Let the goats play
01:02:38And the kids used to smell the goats
01:02:40And my mother used to say
01:02:42The kids get out of control
01:02:44And you put them in the goats
01:02:46And my kids become goats
01:02:48And they smell
01:02:50And then I used to avoid
01:02:52This also happens
01:02:54Grandma doesn't listen
01:02:56And if you say something
01:02:58Grandma doesn't listen
01:03:00She says keep talking
01:03:02Nothing happens
01:03:04How can you feed us
01:03:06Let her eat
01:03:08She didn't do this to us
01:03:10My mother had a trolley
01:03:12Where she kept all the junk
01:03:14And on top of the trolley
01:03:16She kept all the junk
01:03:20The slanty type chips
01:03:22Which we don't feed the kids
01:03:24So that they don't choke
01:03:26Eat it
01:03:28And if you say no
01:03:30Mothers get angry
01:03:32We didn't have any options
01:03:34But when kids become kids
01:03:36I used to feed them
01:03:38And take the kids
01:03:40Because I know
01:03:42They want to eat
01:03:44If I take them without feeding
01:03:46Their lunch is gone
01:03:48This is a family story
01:03:50Mothers
01:03:52Just want the kids to get
01:03:54Hooked on them
01:03:56But I like it
01:03:58I like it
01:04:00I like to pamper them
01:04:02You live in another city
01:04:04You go everyday
01:04:06When I go after 7-8 months
01:04:08And for a few days
01:04:10I want them to know
01:04:12This is her maternal uncle
01:04:14This is her maternal aunt
01:04:16Sometimes you meet
01:04:18And you pamper them
01:04:20There are some healthy things
01:04:22Which are not good for your kids
01:04:24Till a certain age
01:04:26My mother didn't do this
01:04:28She didn't do this to us
01:04:30She doesn't do this to the kids
01:04:32Sometimes
01:04:34At a certain age
01:04:36It's not good for the kids
01:04:38But if you tell your mother
01:04:40That this is not good for the kid
01:04:42She won't understand
01:04:44She won't do it
01:04:46Are you eating salad?
01:04:48How can I pamper you?
01:04:50I am feeding you milk
01:04:52You won't even feed me
01:04:54All the elders
01:04:56Have this argument
01:04:58You will get used to it
01:05:00You will get used to it
01:05:02You will get used to it
01:05:04You will get used to it
01:05:06You will get used to it
01:05:08You will get used to it
01:05:10You will get used to it
01:05:12You will get used to it
01:05:14You will get used to it
01:05:16You will get used to it
01:05:18You will get used to it
01:05:20You will get used to it
01:05:22You will get used to it
01:05:24You will get used to it
01:05:26You will get used to it
01:05:28She didn't do it
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01:10:36What should a mother-in-law do?
01:10:38What should a mother-in-law do?
01:10:40What should a mother-in-law do?
01:10:42What should a mother-in-law do?
01:10:44What should a mother-in-law do?
01:10:46What should a mother-in-law do?
01:10:48What should a mother-in-law do?
01:10:50What should a mother-in-law do?
01:10:52What should a mother-in-law do?
01:10:54What should a mother-in-law do?
01:10:56What should a mother-in-law do?
01:10:58What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:00What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:02What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:04What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:06What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:08What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:10What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:12What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:14What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:16What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:18What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:20What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:22What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:24What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:26What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:28What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:30What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:32What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:34What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:36What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:38What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:40What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:42What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:44What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:46What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:48What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:50What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:52What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:54What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:56What should a mother-in-law do?
01:11:58What should a mother-in-law do?
01:12:00A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:02A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:04A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:06A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:08A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:10A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:12A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:14A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:16A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:18A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:20A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:22A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:24A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:26A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:28A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:30A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:32A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:34A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:36A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:38A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:40A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:42A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:44A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:46A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:48A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:50A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:52A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:54A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:56A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:12:58A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:00A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:02A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:04A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:06A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:08A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:10A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:12A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:14A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:16A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:18A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:20A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:22A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:24A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:26A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:28A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:30A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:32A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:34A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:36A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:38A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:40A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:42A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:44A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:46A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:48A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:50A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:52A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:54A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:56A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:13:58A mother-in-law should take care of her mother-in-law
01:14:00My mother-in-law used to tell me
01:14:02My mother-in-law used to tell me
01:14:04My mother-in-law used to tell me
01:14:06You should behave like this in your in-laws
01:14:08Your mother-in-law should tell you
01:14:10Your mother-in-law should tell you
01:14:12Your mother-in-law should tell you
01:14:14Your mother-in-law should tell you
01:14:16Your mother-in-law should tell you
01:14:18Your mother-in-law should tell you
01:14:20Your mother-in-law should tell you
01:14:22Your mother-in-law should tell you
01:14:24Your mother-in-law should tell you
01:14:26Your mother-in-law should tell you
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