Good Morning Pakistan 29 Nov 2024

ARY Digital

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00:00:00This morning has come, kissing your cheeks

00:00:17Swinging in the breeze, going round and round

00:00:22This morning has come, smiling like this

00:00:41It is humming like this, it is waking everyone up

00:00:46The bird that has come with flowers in its beak

00:00:56It is all wet, wet, wet, wet, wet

00:01:00It is all wet, wet, wet, wet, wet

00:01:05This morning has come

00:01:12It is all wet, wet, wet, wet, wet

00:01:17This morning, Pakistan

00:01:21Assalam-o-Alaikum, good morning, good morning

00:01:24Pakistan, how are you?

00:01:26How are you Cheetahs?

00:01:28Are you having fun?

00:01:29By the way, it is a matter of each other

00:01:30I also discussed this in the morning while coming here

00:01:33That money is important in this world

00:01:36Respect is important

00:01:38Name is important

00:01:39What is important?

00:01:41Or happiness, happiness is important

00:01:44By the way, it is a matter of each other

00:01:46If you have money in your pocket

00:01:48Then all your work can be easy

00:01:50You have to buy a house, buy a car

00:01:53You have to get an education

00:01:55Whatever work you have, you get it done with money

00:02:00And if we talk about marriage

00:02:03Then if you have cash in your pocket

00:02:05That is, if you have money in your pocket

00:02:08Then your favorite jewelry, favorite dress, favorite venue

00:02:12Anything related to marriage

00:02:15You can buy it with money

00:02:18Except one thing

00:02:20You can't buy a good relationship

00:02:22Because it is very lucky

00:02:24And they say that life is like gambling

00:02:29It is a gamble, it is a risk

00:02:32Dresses are made in the sky

00:02:33You have heard big phrases

00:02:35A lot of people like to get married

00:02:37You see love and understanding in your favorite jewelry

00:02:41But it is not in that scale

00:02:45That our family is like their family

00:02:48Everything should be the same

00:02:50All these things are not seen in love marriages

00:02:53But the arranged marriages

00:02:55Especially the concept of our country

00:02:58It is a part of our culture

00:03:00That our elders decide

00:03:03And they tell what is better for you

00:03:05A lot of kids, a lot of youngsters

00:03:07Don't have confidence in their choices

00:03:09Because sometimes they have experienced it

00:03:12And they say that no

00:03:13We have not been recognized yet

00:03:15In this part of life

00:03:17Who can be a better companion for us

00:03:20Who can be a better spouse for us

00:03:22Who can be a partner in a better life

00:03:24Because this is not an ordinary thing

00:03:26For the sake of if you want to get married

00:03:28And you need a partner to get married

00:03:31You don't get married just by thinking

00:03:34Because you are going to live your whole life with someone else

00:03:38That is, you were born in your parents' house

00:03:42Allah created you there

00:03:44You have to live with them

00:03:46Whether you like your siblings or not

00:03:49Mother and father are as much in love with you

00:03:52As you see your friends' parents

00:03:55But you have to stay with them

00:03:57It is a blood relationship, it cannot break

00:03:59But this relationship of marriage

00:04:02This relationship is to spend life with someone else

00:04:06You make it yourself

00:04:08And that's why you have to take this decision after a lot of thinking

00:04:12This is the most important decision of many important decisions of life

00:04:17All of them are fair

00:04:20So I don't know why

00:04:22Whenever I go to the market

00:04:24Whenever I go to a social gathering

00:04:26People relate so much

00:04:28That they hold me and say

00:04:30Look for a match for my daughter

00:04:32Look for a match for my daughter

00:04:34So I look at their face and say

00:04:36I have never done such a thing

00:04:38So why are they asking me?

00:04:40But you think

00:04:42When someone considers you as their own

00:04:44Your relative

00:04:46Your close friend

00:04:48So he holds your hand and says

00:04:50Look for something for my child

00:04:52Many boys' mothers also have a problem

00:04:55They don't get good relations

00:04:57So the work of the bridge

00:04:59People always say to their own

00:05:01You have to see

00:05:03Who knows someone who knows you

00:05:05And in this way

00:05:07Relationships of people around you have come

00:05:09My mother was like this

00:05:11My mother

00:05:13Everyone used to say to her

00:05:15Because of her

00:05:17She didn't do this professionally

00:05:19And it's not a bad thing to do

00:05:21But she

00:05:23And for the help of people

00:05:25For the help of people

00:05:27For social work

00:05:29She found many

00:05:31Relatives of my aunts

00:05:33Relatives, friends

00:05:35She got many people together

00:05:37And I was with them

00:05:39And now my sister does the same

00:05:41For people's social work

00:05:43This is a kind of very good help

00:05:45If you know people

00:05:47Our whole show today

00:05:49Is on this

00:05:51Because when people

00:05:53Ask me

00:05:55And I couldn't understand

00:05:57Then I felt a responsibility

00:05:59Today there are many

00:06:01Different ways to get a relationship

00:06:03There was a time

00:06:05There was an aunt

00:06:07She used to do the same

00:06:09The world has changed

00:06:11Technology has gone ahead

00:06:13And because of that

00:06:15The more difficult this work is

00:06:17It has become easier

00:06:19If your daughter

00:06:21If there is a person

00:06:23In your house

00:06:25Whose first marriage was not successful

00:06:27If there is a downfall in life

00:06:29Then you have to get married again

00:06:31You have to move on

00:06:33So do watch today's show

00:06:35Many people

00:06:37Are going to criticize me

00:06:39But still

00:06:41Those people who tell me

00:06:43To get a relationship for our children

00:06:45Today's show is for them

00:06:47Those bridges, those ways

00:06:49That we can give you

00:06:51We will give you in today's show

00:06:53The rest is God's work

00:06:55God knows better

00:06:57Good morning Pakistan

00:06:59Stay with us after the break

00:07:01A very interesting show is waiting for you

00:07:03And your luck too

00:07:05Music

00:07:15Welcome

00:07:17Welcome back

00:07:19Good morning Pakistan

00:07:21Today's show

00:07:23Is a different show

00:07:25And through today's show

00:07:27As I told you before

00:07:29People stop me

00:07:31And say

00:07:33I have a proposal for my son

00:07:35For my daughter

00:07:37And then I used to think

00:07:39How do I look like a matchmaker

00:07:41But

00:07:43The matchmakers are those

00:07:45Who people consider as their own

00:07:47By considering them as their own

00:07:49They are giving them such a big responsibility

00:07:51And today

00:07:53This bridge

00:07:55It can be through many mediums

00:07:57I am here

00:07:59Under one roof

00:08:01Because

00:08:03Because of social media

00:08:05This thing

00:08:07As difficult as it is

00:08:09It has become easy

00:08:11People's standards, people's choices

00:08:13Are very different

00:08:15No one compromises

00:08:17Everyone's life is getting more beautiful

00:08:19With time

00:08:21As they become aware

00:08:23Through different mediums

00:08:25I will tell you

00:08:27How you can find

00:08:29Relationships of your loved ones

00:08:31So I will start

00:08:33The typical

00:08:35Marriage bureaus

00:08:37Once upon a time

00:08:39There were marriage bureaus in the neighborhood

00:08:41Then it became a gay profession

00:08:43And properly

00:08:45In different offices

00:08:47You can see marriage bureaus

00:08:49It's a proper business

00:08:51And there is no harm in it

00:08:53Everything is business

00:08:55You have to pay

00:08:57You have to pay for counselling

00:08:59You have to pay

00:09:01What your elders used to do

00:09:03Now they are professionals

00:09:05So we have Alvina Asif

00:09:07Who is the founder of

00:09:09Humnava group

00:09:11Please sit in front of us

00:09:13How are you?

00:09:15Where is your marriage bureau?

00:09:17My marriage bureau

00:09:19Is on University Road

00:09:21And

00:09:23The founder of Humnava group

00:09:25Is Alvina Asif

00:09:27And the CEO is Saba Hashmi

00:09:29So Alvina Asif is you

00:09:31I thought you are introducing

00:09:33I am telling you

00:09:35I am the founder

00:09:37Exactly

00:09:39Basically

00:09:41It started online

00:09:43But now it's proper

00:09:45After introducing everyone

00:09:47I have a lot of time

00:09:49To tell people

00:09:51One medium is marriage bureau

00:09:53Let's move ahead

00:09:55Because of social media

00:09:57And as I said

00:09:59You people talk a lot

00:10:01Because of social media

00:10:03There are benefits

00:10:05One benefit is

00:10:07I have with me

00:10:09Faqiha Khan

00:10:11Who is the founder of

00:10:13Touring Official Global

00:10:15Which is a Facebook group

00:10:17Assalamualaikum

00:10:19How are you?

00:10:21Please tell us

00:10:23About your Facebook group

00:10:25How long is this group?

00:10:27This group is 5 years

00:10:29There are around 300,000 people

00:10:31And around

00:10:33500 marriages

00:10:35Over 500 marriages

00:10:37In these 5 years

00:10:39One medium is Facebook

00:10:41One more medium

00:10:43Which is very important

00:10:45This is an idea

00:10:47These are professionals

00:10:49Who want to do something for their community

00:10:51And if everyone

00:10:53Thinks about this

00:10:55Then these problems

00:10:57Will be solved

00:10:59So

00:11:01Many people do this

00:11:03But the purpose is

00:11:05To give you an idea

00:11:07That this can also happen

00:11:09So these two lovely ladies

00:11:11Are with us

00:11:13Who are doing a great job

00:11:15One is Tania Harris

00:11:17And the other one is

00:11:19Nosheen Kayani

00:11:21Who is a community group

00:11:23Called Rishta Fee Sabeel Allah

00:11:25Which is a WhatsApp group

00:11:27She is the one

00:11:29Who does this

00:11:31Please tell us about yourself

00:11:33Assalamualaikum

00:11:35How long have you been

00:11:37Creating this WhatsApp group?

00:11:39It's been 6 months

00:11:41And 400 families

00:11:43Have joined us

00:11:45Are you friends?

00:11:47Yes

00:11:49We will do something

00:11:51How did you take the initiative?

00:11:53Exactly

00:11:55The same

00:11:57Our friends

00:11:59Have joined us

00:12:01So we thought

00:12:03We will start this thing

00:12:05Fee Sabeel Allah

00:12:07The kids in the community

00:12:09Have grown up in front of you

00:12:11So you know them

00:12:13You trust them

00:12:15You know the family

00:12:17You build a bridge

00:12:19Exactly

00:12:21Families used to meet

00:12:23Now communities have formed

00:12:25Relatives are not like

00:12:27Uncle and aunt

00:12:29So that's why

00:12:31We created this group

00:12:33So in our show

00:12:35We want to give you an idea

00:12:37That you can do community work

00:12:39In this way

00:12:41You will get a lot of blessings

00:12:43Because

00:12:45People are shy about their kids

00:12:47They don't say

00:12:49For my kids

00:12:51Or especially

00:12:53For my daughter

00:12:55Parents don't say

00:12:57So

00:12:59We will move on

00:13:01You can see

00:13:03Different apps

00:13:05Available in the market

00:13:07For different things

00:13:09You will get

00:13:11And I have

00:13:13Richard Nixon

00:13:15Senior Business Development Manager

00:13:17Dil Ka Rishta Pakistan

00:13:19With you

00:13:21How are you?

00:13:23Thank God

00:13:25The problem is

00:13:27Our elders

00:13:29Are not so tech-savvy

00:13:31They were a bit shy about Facebook

00:13:33Downloading an app

00:13:35They don't know

00:13:37How to

00:13:39Operate

00:13:41So they need

00:13:43A youngster

00:13:45For this app

00:13:47You are right

00:13:49We are the largest social app

00:13:51In Pakistan

00:13:53Dil Ka Rishta

00:13:55It has grown so much

00:13:57That people appreciated our app

00:13:59So much that

00:14:01After Facebook and YouTube

00:14:03It is the

00:14:05Number one social app

00:14:07Of Pakistan

00:14:09Kids can download it

00:14:11People liked it

00:14:13I am not

00:14:15Marketing

00:14:17I am telling people

00:14:19That it is a medium

00:14:21There are different mediums

00:14:23Not just one

00:14:25You can go to the marriage bureau

00:14:27It is an app facility

00:14:29And you have an app

00:14:31There are many apps

00:14:33Downloaded in Pakistan

00:14:35Our main aim is

00:14:37To build a good relationship

00:14:39To give people platforms

00:14:41Exactly

00:14:43Many people will

00:14:45Criticize me

00:14:47But it is important

00:14:49Life must go on

00:14:51And when

00:14:53They say

00:14:55One thing doesn't work

00:14:57One job doesn't work

00:14:59It doesn't happen that

00:15:01You are jobless

00:15:03And you don't get a job

00:15:05You have to survive

00:15:07When you have to survive

00:15:09If the landlord

00:15:11Empties the house

00:15:13You find another

00:15:15Because you have to survive

00:15:17In the same way

00:15:19Your partner is important

00:15:21You have needs

00:15:23I don't know

00:15:25Why people

00:15:27Criticize so much

00:15:29If

00:15:31One marriage didn't work

00:15:33Divorce, marriage is over

00:15:35Separation

00:15:37Your spouse passed away

00:15:39You have the right to

00:15:41Marry again

00:15:43I liked their idea

00:15:45I called them here

00:15:47This

00:15:49Relation

00:15:51Department

00:15:53Muhammad Ali Sheikh

00:15:55His

00:15:57Company is

00:15:59Doosreebivi.com

00:16:01Assalamu Alaikum

00:16:03How are you?

00:16:05If you want to think of second marriage

00:16:07Instead of going here

00:16:09People come to you

00:16:11Because you do the same

00:16:13We are the only one in Pakistan

00:16:15This is a good idea

00:16:17It is dangerous

00:16:19You don't get messages

00:16:21You don't feel ashamed

00:16:23People come

00:16:25You have to bear

00:16:27Before the break

00:16:29I told them

00:16:31Today you and me are not good

00:16:33We have to do good

00:16:35Whatever people say

00:16:37I don't know how many people

00:16:39Will benefit

00:16:41Let's start

00:16:43I will start with you

00:16:45The oldest way

00:16:49How long is your company?

00:16:51It's been a year

00:16:53We are a new group

00:16:55I was on whatsapp

00:16:57We have an office

00:16:59There are some changes

00:17:01Not typical matchmakers

00:17:03What are the changes?

00:17:05What is the procedure?

00:17:07What is the transition

00:17:09In the marriage bureau?

00:17:11First

00:17:13We have an office

00:17:15We have set up a drawing room

00:17:17So that

00:17:19The girl and the boy's parents

00:17:21Decide in the first meeting

00:17:23If they want to approach

00:17:25In the next meeting

00:17:27You have set up a drawing room

00:17:29In your office

00:17:31You have an office

00:17:33And a drawing room

00:17:35No boy or girl

00:17:37Before going to someone's house

00:17:39You decide

00:17:41If they are going to come

00:17:43You can't invite everyone

00:17:45In this shot

00:17:47The appraisal system is ending

00:17:49Yes

00:17:51Absolutely

00:17:53If the girl's family

00:17:55Approaches you

00:17:57To get her daughter married

00:17:59Do you call the girl's family?

00:18:01Do you see the girl?

00:18:03I see her

00:18:05I don't believe in filter pictures

00:18:07I take her pictures with my

00:18:09Sample camera

00:18:11Male or female

00:18:13So that

00:18:15Whatever we are showing

00:18:17We go and see

00:18:19When we are satisfied

00:18:21It's not like the girl is

00:18:23Previous

00:18:25It's not like that

00:18:27You have to know the truth

00:18:29We tell you at the start

00:18:31We have a legal advisor

00:18:33Nadeem Shehzad Hashmi

00:18:35He is in the high court

00:18:37We verify the boy

00:18:39Whether he is in other activities

00:18:41Okay

00:18:43We tell the parents

00:18:45Investigation is your responsibility

00:18:47In simple words

00:18:49For example

00:18:51Your legal advisor

00:18:53Finds out

00:18:55If there is a criminal background

00:18:57If there is an FIR

00:18:59If there is a second marriage

00:19:01Marriage registration

00:19:03Fraud

00:19:05You find out

00:19:07Professionally

00:19:09You find out

00:19:11How many marriages

00:19:13Each and every

00:19:15When we are clear

00:19:17Our perception will be clear

00:19:19That's why we refer the parents

00:19:21Let's move forward

00:19:23You have seen the girl

00:19:25Similarly

00:19:27You call the boy's family

00:19:29In the drawing room

00:19:31You see the boy

00:19:33If you feel

00:19:35They are matching

00:19:37You call them

00:19:39Before they go home

00:19:41This is the third meeting

00:19:43Right

00:19:45Can you convince the girl alone?

00:19:47It's not like that

00:19:49It's the parents' instructions

00:19:51In their own house

00:19:53It's a meet up

00:19:55Okay

00:19:57In the next procedure

00:19:59They can meet

00:20:01In front of us

00:20:03There are discussions

00:20:05Their goals are set

00:20:07After that

00:20:09They decide

00:20:11If they want to do the next meeting

00:20:13Everyone has their own criteria

00:20:15Choices are changing

00:20:17Even in TV dramas

00:20:19Choices are changing

00:20:21Now they have to see this

00:20:23Even in shows

00:20:25They are changing

00:20:27We change our concepts after 3 months

00:20:29Similarly

00:20:31Relationships

00:20:33Things are changing

00:20:35Awareness

00:20:37People are understanding

00:20:39Their choices are different

00:20:41What are the latest choices?

00:20:43The girl said

00:20:45She wants this

00:20:47The boy said

00:20:49The boy's parents said

00:20:51In the short

00:20:53Window shopping has increased

00:20:55Like?

00:20:57Media

00:20:59More than yourself

00:21:01Go well off

00:21:03Each and every

00:21:05Lucking

00:21:07Fulfilled

00:21:09For example

00:21:11Let's start with the girl

00:21:13If you generalize

00:21:15The girl

00:21:17What are her wishes?

00:21:19For her son-in-law

00:21:21An authentic degree

00:21:23A well-off job

00:21:25I will ask you

00:21:27The marriage bureau

00:21:29A professional

00:21:31If you are through Facebook

00:21:33You can tell us

00:21:35According to your experiences

00:21:37Your experiences may be different

00:21:39Theirs may be different

00:21:41I will ask everyone

00:21:43Slowly

00:21:45Alvina

00:21:47The girl

00:21:49What does she see in the boy?

00:21:51First

00:21:53If the girl is 22-23

00:21:55The boy is 27-28

00:21:575-6 years

00:21:5910-15 years

00:22:01First point

00:22:03She does not want age gap

00:22:05This was not there before

00:22:07Now

00:22:09Earlier it was said

00:22:11The boy's earnings are seen

00:22:13Now looks are also seen

00:22:15They matter

00:22:17If you go together

00:22:19It feels like a couple

00:22:21There is no compromise

00:22:23What happens in their looks?

00:22:25Hair cut

00:22:27Hair is bald

00:22:29The girl should be fair

00:22:31What about boys?

00:22:33Good looking

00:22:35Good dressing sense

00:22:39Color fair

00:22:41Good education

00:22:43The question of salary

00:22:45Comes later

00:22:47Education

00:22:49Many educated people are jobless

00:22:51They do not get good jobs

00:22:53They are educated

00:22:55High qualified people

00:22:57They say it is an online business

00:23:01There should be a job in a time

00:23:05Government

00:23:07Is this a thing or

00:23:09Is it a business?

00:23:11It is well and good

00:23:13Multinational

00:23:15Designation

00:23:17These are the choices

00:23:19Of the girl

00:23:21What is the difference

00:23:23Between the girl's choices?

00:23:25I will ask after the break

00:23:27We have asked about the boy

00:23:29In the marriage bureau

00:23:31The girl's office

00:23:33What does the boy's office

00:23:35Write for a custom made girl?

00:23:37We will know after a short break

00:23:39Good morning Pakistan

00:23:51Welcome back

00:23:53If you are watching

00:23:55Today's program

00:23:57Is a program that

00:23:59Tells you the mediums

00:24:01How you can get your kids

00:24:03Married

00:24:05We went to

00:24:07Alvina

00:24:09Who has a marriage bureau

00:24:11Marriage bureaus are everywhere

00:24:13We searched

00:24:15For educated people

00:24:17We are asking them

00:24:19Professionally

00:24:21You work

00:24:25You must have

00:24:27A checklist

00:24:29Please share the checklist

00:24:31For the boys

00:24:33We shared the checklist for the girls

00:24:35In the last segment

00:24:37Now it is the boys' turn

00:24:39The boys

00:24:41Need 19, 20 and 21 years

00:24:43They want a girl this young

00:24:4519, 20 or 21

00:24:47A position holder

00:24:49A good degree

00:24:51A good university

00:24:53A good place

00:24:55There is no demand for dowry

00:24:57But they give it to their daughter

00:24:59It is told that

00:25:01They go to the office by bike

00:25:03Indirectly

00:25:05If there is a car, it is very good

00:25:07And

00:25:09If they don't give dowry

00:25:11They give a share in the property

00:25:13Islamic

00:25:15Sometimes

00:25:17No one says

00:25:19But such things are said

00:25:21They give a share in the property

00:25:23The boy's first priority is

00:25:25He has his own house

00:25:27But in the future

00:25:29You tell me

00:25:31What does the mother say

00:25:33What does the boy say

00:25:35You told the mother

00:25:37He has a bike

00:25:39He needs a car

00:25:41He needs a car

00:25:43A little materialistic

00:25:45Who talks about age?

00:25:47The boy or the mother?

00:25:49Sometimes both

00:25:51The boy wants a young girl

00:25:53And the mother wants a young girl

00:25:55From a beauty point of view

00:25:57Do you say anything?

00:25:59There is no compromise in beauty

00:26:01What is the standard of beauty?

00:26:03Color fear

00:26:05Thin and thin

00:26:07Heighted

00:26:09Generally

00:26:11The height of the girls is not so long

00:26:13That's why it takes so much time

00:26:15Oh

00:26:17So this happens

00:26:19And on education

00:26:21Be beautiful, come over

00:26:23And educated

00:26:25And rich

00:26:27Bring something

00:26:29The atmosphere is such

00:26:31If you give AC

00:26:33There are such demands

00:26:35Mother's

00:26:37The boy has no such demand

00:26:39He says we don't want dowry

00:26:41The boy says this

00:26:43We don't want dowry

00:26:45Sometimes mothers demand

00:26:47This happened

00:26:49Alvina has such demands

00:26:51Now I am going to the next medium

00:26:53Which is Facebook

00:26:55Facebook groups

00:26:57Are made for different things

00:26:59There are such groups

00:27:01Where women come and solve their hearts

00:27:03Gain their experiences

00:27:05How sad they are in life

00:27:07What they are getting

00:27:09So many things

00:27:11In our house

00:27:13Women live in a hole

00:27:15Which does not come out

00:27:17They have no idea

00:27:19And after reading all that

00:27:21They feel less sad

00:27:23So Facebook

00:27:25These are also groups

00:27:27How

00:27:29How can people participate

00:27:31Basically

00:27:33We join a group

00:27:35And many profiles

00:27:37Daily

00:27:39For example

00:27:41I want a proposal for my child

00:27:43How can I join your group

00:27:45Search on Facebook

00:27:47Tourings Global by Fakia Khan

00:27:49One thing I want to mention

00:27:51Because we were the first ones to make it

00:27:53There are many groups

00:27:55Whose name is Tourings

00:27:57How did you find out

00:27:59I changed my group name many times

00:28:01Tourings by Fakia Khan

00:28:03Tourings Global by Fakia Khan

00:28:05And

00:28:07There are around 300,000 members

00:28:09You can see

00:28:11296,000 members

00:28:13So I will go to your group

00:28:15And

00:28:17This group is 5 years old

00:28:19You join the group

00:28:21You are asked 2-3 questions

00:28:23You have to write

00:28:25Are you married

00:28:27For whom are you looking for a proposal

00:28:29You have to answer

00:28:31And you add them to the group

00:28:33Absolutely

00:28:35Are they eligible to join your group

00:28:37Yes

00:28:39It takes time to add

00:28:41Because

00:28:43Around twice a month

00:28:45We add members

00:28:47Regularly

00:28:49Once you are in the group

00:28:51Your membership is accepted

00:28:53You can post your profile

00:28:55Of your son, sister

00:28:57Whoever

00:28:59Cousin, friend

00:29:01If you don't want to post

00:29:03Everyday

00:29:05We are approving

00:29:07150-200 profiles

00:29:09Many people

00:29:11Contact us

00:29:13There are two types of people

00:29:15Some people

00:29:17Don't have a problem with posting

00:29:19But finding a proposal

00:29:21Is still a taboo

00:29:23And

00:29:25When you

00:29:27Tell someone

00:29:29That you are looking for a proposal

00:29:31For your brother or daughter

00:29:33People still think

00:29:35Should I say it or not

00:29:37Many people

00:29:39Post anonymously

00:29:41But if you are looking for a proposal

00:29:43How can you post it anonymously

00:29:45We accept many requests

00:29:47But you have to do it yourself

00:29:49Tell me in simple words

00:29:51Suppose

00:29:53I am

00:29:55Your member

00:29:57I can see

00:29:59All the members

00:30:01I can see

00:30:03Which match

00:30:05Is suitable for my son

00:30:07I will stay there

00:30:09I will contact them directly

00:30:11Or I will go through you

00:30:13We are a platform

00:30:15We will send them a message

00:30:17Many people

00:30:19Share their contact details

00:30:21Many people

00:30:23Have WhatsApp

00:30:25So they have their details

00:30:27Some people

00:30:29Don't want to share their number

00:30:31They share their email address

00:30:33Or you can message them directly

00:30:35Usually

00:30:37When we post in a group

00:30:39You get 100-200 inbox

00:30:41A lot of people contact you

00:30:43Because there are many people in the group

00:30:45They give their email address and number

00:30:47So that you

00:30:49Directly reach out

00:30:51So what I see

00:30:53According to my experience

00:30:55Is suitable for my son

00:30:57I will stay there and try

00:30:59Is it like this?

00:31:01So in this

00:31:03Like they are saying

00:31:05They have a legal advisor

00:31:07You are basically a bridge

00:31:09We are a platform

00:31:11We are a bridge

00:31:13We verify profiles when we are adding people

00:31:15We try to keep it as authentic

00:31:17As original as possible

00:31:19But two people

00:31:21Two families have to meet

00:31:23Talk to each other

00:31:25Exchange pictures

00:31:27Call home

00:31:29If they think it is right

00:31:31No need to call everyone

00:31:33Investigation should be done by yourself

00:31:35I think you are looking for it from any medium

00:31:37Investigation should be done by yourself

00:31:39Whatever medium it is

00:31:41We recommend

00:31:43Investigation

00:31:45Investigation should be done by yourself

00:31:47A lot of people connect

00:31:49Like that we have connected

00:31:51Over 500 families

00:31:53Like they told

00:31:55What are their criteria

00:31:57I want to ask you through Facebook

00:31:59What are the criteria here?

00:32:01You can have all kinds of people

00:32:03Who you approve

00:32:05There are not all kinds of people

00:32:07At this point

00:32:09Status wise

00:32:11Class wise

00:32:13Status wise

00:32:15Any kind

00:32:17No preferred area

00:32:19No preferred

00:32:21Religious

00:32:23Sunni or Shia

00:32:25We have also had

00:32:27Christians

00:32:29Hindus

00:32:31Not just

00:32:33Muslim community

00:32:35Targeting a particular segment

00:32:37Not just Pakistan

00:32:39Relations

00:32:41A lot of problems

00:32:43For outsiders

00:32:45Who want a match

00:32:47Their match is very difficult

00:32:49Because

00:32:51Their son is an outsider

00:32:53Their son is a grown up

00:32:55They need a girl

00:32:57Who is modern

00:32:59They need both Katrina and Sakina

00:33:01To understand both

00:33:03There are a lot of problems

00:33:05For both

00:33:07We have had such cases

00:33:09A boy and a girl

00:33:11Both were in the US

00:33:13But different states

00:33:15Both had different areas

00:33:17One was seen by their mother

00:33:19One was seen by their aunt

00:33:21They reached out through touring

00:33:23They got married in Pakistan

00:33:25This is good

00:33:29There are a lot of single parents

00:33:35There were

00:33:37Profiles

00:33:39They got married

00:33:41They published it

00:33:43They gave interviews

00:33:45One son was 10-12 years old

00:33:47One daughter

00:33:49They got married

00:33:51Both were single parents

00:33:53In my family

00:33:55My cousin's wife

00:33:57Had passed away

00:33:59He had 3 kids

00:34:01His wife

00:34:03Had divorced her husband

00:34:05She had 2 kids

00:34:07Now they have 5 kids together

00:34:09Now they are married

00:34:11They fulfilled each other's needs

00:34:13After their spouses passed away

00:34:15They fulfilled their needs

00:34:17Why don't these people think?

00:34:19It's a good thing

00:34:21It's not like

00:34:23You will get singles

00:34:25You will get profiles from different backgrounds

00:34:27I remember

00:34:29There was a profile

00:34:31In which the guy

00:34:33Was an orphan

00:34:35He lived with his mother

00:34:37He posted his profile

00:34:39There was a lady

00:34:41She was relatively well off

00:34:43She had her own house

00:34:45They reached out to her

00:34:47They got married

00:34:49Within 8 days

00:34:51They got married

00:34:53Sometimes those people

00:34:55Who don't have a spouse

00:34:57This is a good medium for them

00:34:59It's a good platform

00:35:01There are different stories

00:35:03Getting back to the criteria

00:35:05We have a fixed format

00:35:07In which

00:35:09You have to mention your requirements

00:35:11You have to tell everything about yourself

00:35:13What are your religious beliefs

00:35:15What is your education

00:35:17What are you currently doing

00:35:19What do your parents do

00:35:21How many siblings do you have

00:35:23All of that is put in

00:35:25Where do you live

00:35:27What is your background

00:35:29You have to mention your age

00:35:33So basically this profile

00:35:35Is what you post

00:35:37You write your requirements

00:35:39If we talk about the guys

00:35:41In the same profile

00:35:43Where you tell everything about yourself

00:35:45You write your requirements

00:35:47If you have a height

00:35:49Education

00:35:51Religious beliefs

00:35:53You need to mention that

00:35:55That's how the requirements come

00:35:57Over time

00:35:59Now that we have so many options

00:36:01Previously we didn't have

00:36:03If we talk about

00:36:05Old days

00:36:07We used to have a communication phone

00:36:09I think

00:36:11We used to get married to our father's children

00:36:13Someone got married

00:36:15Someone's cousin got married

00:36:17Someone's neighbor got married

00:36:19So basically we used to get married like this

00:36:21There were very few options

00:36:23Or through the university

00:36:25Now that we have so many options

00:36:27And communication is so easy

00:36:29There are a lot of options

00:36:31So choosing requirements is difficult

00:36:33When we go for shopping

00:36:35If you want to buy a small thing

00:36:37We want to survey the entire market

00:36:39Before we buy something

00:36:41So what are the requirements

00:36:43What do you see on Facebook

00:36:45Well educated

00:36:47People look for educated partners

00:36:51There are materialistic demands

00:36:53Because

00:36:55You should have a good looking partner

00:36:57You should have a certain height

00:36:59You should have a certain look

00:37:01That's all

00:37:03Girls

00:37:05They are mentioned

00:37:07You should be a beautiful girl

00:37:09You should be young

00:37:11Do you think there are any changes

00:37:13In the requirements

00:37:15If I talk about now

00:37:17Especially if we talk about girls

00:37:19The age of girls

00:37:21I have mentioned

00:37:23Girls of less age

00:37:25But if I see on Facebook

00:37:27People don't want much gap

00:37:29If they are 30 years

00:37:3125, 27, even 29

00:37:33They would accept

00:37:35Even if there is a gap of 1-2 years

00:37:37But you saw on Facebook

00:37:39The guys

00:37:41They don't want a very young girl

00:37:43Even girls

00:37:45They want less age difference

00:37:47So that

00:37:49They can understand each other

00:37:51They don't want to raise a kid

00:37:53They mention

00:37:55We don't want to raise a kid

00:37:57We want somebody educated

00:37:59Somebody who can have

00:38:01A good conversation

00:38:03Someone who

00:38:05A lot of people

00:38:07Used to say we want a home girl

00:38:09She should be a doctor

00:38:11But she shouldn't practice

00:38:13But now people want girls who work

00:38:15They allow working

00:38:17Earlier it was

00:38:19You don't have to study

00:38:21Now you have to take care of the house

00:38:23Some people say

00:38:25I want a partner who is working

00:38:27So that

00:38:29Inflation

00:38:31Everyone is understanding

00:38:33If two people are earning

00:38:35It's a better

00:38:37So you felt this change

00:38:39Earlier girls wanted

00:38:41To have a home

00:38:43Now people want girls to work

00:38:45It's a bit of sanity

00:38:47The girl understands

00:38:49He didn't work all day

00:38:51Now I do the same

00:38:53They won't understand each other

00:38:55I'm very happy to see

00:38:57A lot of couples

00:38:59Have changed over time

00:39:01Earlier

00:39:03Men used to sit in front of the TV

00:39:05And watch news

00:39:07But now I feel

00:39:09Men

00:39:11Do chores

00:39:13I feel

00:39:15Now girls

00:39:17Have understood

00:39:19Earlier

00:39:21Mothers used to say

00:39:23Who will tell dad

00:39:25But now they understand

00:39:27I'm tired

00:39:29You set the table

00:39:31If I'm cooking

00:39:33Or with kids

00:39:35Age gap

00:39:37Kids come later

00:39:39Age gap

00:39:41It's like

00:39:43Respect

00:39:45But he is your companion

00:39:47Your spouse

00:39:49If you are sick

00:39:51He will take care

00:39:53So

00:39:55Now people are

00:39:57Mentioning this

00:39:59We want somebody

00:40:01We should have

00:40:03Compatibility

00:40:05Now I'm going on break

00:40:07We will come back

00:40:09It's an idea

00:40:11If you

00:40:13Live in a community

00:40:15Where you are social

00:40:17You meet everyone

00:40:19You are safe

00:40:21You are happy

00:40:23The best thing

00:40:25Is

00:40:27You do something bigger

00:40:29You

00:40:31Meet your family

00:40:33Who

00:40:35I will discuss

00:40:37Good morning Pakistan

00:40:49Welcome

00:40:51Good morning Pakistan

00:40:53In the last segment

00:40:55We were talking about relationships

00:40:57As Fakia told

00:40:59During the break

00:41:01She was telling me

00:41:03What is the benefit

00:41:05This is also free

00:41:09There are no charges

00:41:11For joining

00:41:13Or posting

00:41:15It's free of cost

00:41:17For earning

00:41:19I do other stuff

00:41:21Now

00:41:23Before going to the next medium

00:41:25It's important to

00:41:27Tell you

00:41:29There are many desires

00:41:31But sometimes

00:41:33It's difficult

00:41:35I have a girl

00:41:37Jiah

00:41:39Wajiha

00:41:41Her mother wanted her daughter

00:41:43To get married abroad

00:41:45A lot of mothers

00:41:47Want their daughter to get married

00:41:49And go abroad

00:41:51You will agree with me

00:41:53Wajiha would like to tell

00:41:55What happened with her

00:41:57Assalamualaikum

00:41:59My

00:42:01Life

00:42:03Is dangerous

00:42:05For my parents

00:42:07And for me

00:42:09For others

00:42:11My parents

00:42:13Wanted me to get married

00:42:15Out of country

00:42:17USA

00:42:19Canada

00:42:21They were in contact

00:42:23With my relatives

00:42:25They told me

00:42:27That I have a good job

00:42:29They told me

00:42:31To get married

00:42:33They charged me

00:42:35250,000 rupees

00:42:37My mother agreed

00:42:39250,000

00:42:41She said

00:42:43She can't get a boy

00:42:45She has a family

00:42:47Her sister

00:42:49Her mother

00:42:51She liked the proposal

00:42:53She said

00:42:55Let's get married on video call

00:42:57For that

00:42:59Marriage is important

00:43:01My parents agreed

00:43:03We got married on video call

00:43:05We didn't know much

00:43:07We got married on video call

00:43:09They told me

00:43:11To get my passport

00:43:13I got my passport

00:43:15After a month

00:43:17They told me

00:43:19To stay with them

00:43:21For 10-15 days

00:43:23They took me to their house

00:43:25I didn't get good vibes

00:43:27From there

00:43:29My parents

00:43:31Saw me

00:43:33I talked to my husband

00:43:35On phone

00:43:37I felt

00:43:39There is a difference

00:43:41Between day and night

00:43:43We were talking

00:43:45At the same time

00:43:47He said

00:43:49I was sleeping

00:43:51My questions

00:43:53Increased

00:43:55He became stubborn

00:43:57He said

00:43:59I am not in USA

00:44:01I am in Dubai

00:44:03I have a small job

00:44:05I am a driver

00:44:07I don't have a salary

00:44:09My mother and sister

00:44:11Got me married

00:44:13It depends on you

00:44:15If you want to stay or not

00:44:17You can't

00:44:19It happened

00:44:21I didn't want to stay

00:44:23I am a divorcee

00:44:25I am a divorcee

00:44:29The one who is crazy

00:44:31For something

00:44:33He gets cheated

00:44:35Many parents

00:44:37Who

00:44:39Have an ideal

00:44:41In their mind

00:44:43They want to give good to their kids

00:44:45Sometimes

00:44:47To get something

00:44:49You fall

00:44:53We have collected

00:44:55Many things

00:44:57To tell you

00:44:59Either

00:45:01Reduce your demands

00:45:03Or demand

00:45:05A genuine demand

00:45:07I am going to a different medium

00:45:09Tania and Nosheen

00:45:11Will give us an idea

00:45:13And a guideline

00:45:15How other people do community work

00:45:17How did you

00:45:19Decide to

00:45:21Make a whatsapp group

00:45:23For the community

00:45:25We have common friends

00:45:27We all have daughters

00:45:29And sons

00:45:31We were looking for a match

00:45:33But we couldn't

00:45:35We have kids

00:45:37So we came up with this idea

00:45:39Let's make a whatsapp community

00:45:41Friends

00:45:43Cousins

00:45:45Let's add them

00:45:47As soon as we took this step

00:45:49We got a positive response

00:45:51Relationships started

00:45:53Whatsapp groups

00:45:55Are made sometimes

00:45:57Have you ever

00:45:59Sent a call

00:46:01No

00:46:03It's strictly bad

00:46:05Messages

00:46:07We are not lenient

00:46:09We have made rules

00:46:11We will not follow

00:46:13Was the whatsapp group

00:46:15Beneficial

00:46:17How many relationships

00:46:19Mostly

00:46:21People connect with each other

00:46:23We don't want

00:46:25Too many

00:46:27We are free

00:46:29They say

00:46:31Once you connect

00:46:33We will know

00:46:35We will

00:46:37Attend

00:46:39Because

00:46:41You and I

00:46:43Achievements

00:46:45When someone says

00:46:47We did it

00:46:49We met

00:46:51Good people

00:46:53Now

00:46:55It's increasing

00:46:57When you

00:46:59Heard them

00:47:01We got more motivation

00:47:03How to extend it

00:47:05Positive

00:47:07Response

00:47:09Everyday

00:47:11People are getting

00:47:13Benefit

00:47:15What's up

00:47:17Requirements

00:47:19Requirements

00:47:21Approach

00:47:23What's up

00:47:25Requirements

00:47:27Very tough

00:47:29Because

00:47:31Parents

00:47:33Requirements

00:47:35They don't understand

00:47:37Boy and girl

00:47:39I will tell you about girl

00:47:41Girl

00:47:43She doesn't want to live with parents

00:47:45They already

00:47:47Tell you

00:47:49If they know me

00:47:51They will call me

00:47:53Try not to be like this

00:47:55And other thing

00:47:57Girls demand

00:47:59More

00:48:01Three profession

00:48:03Doctor, engineer, army officer

00:48:05Means

00:48:07They are not getting out of it

00:48:09Our mothers used to say

00:48:11No other media

00:48:13But now

00:48:15Girls and boys

00:48:17Demand is so high

00:48:1922-24 years old

00:48:21Doctor

00:48:23Doing professional job

00:48:2522-24 years old

00:48:27Girl

00:48:29Doctor

00:48:31Doing job

00:48:33If you calculate

00:48:3521-22 years old

00:48:37Girl

00:48:39Graduates

00:48:41In my time

00:48:43Graduation

00:48:45Was

00:48:472 years

00:48:49Graduation

00:48:51After inter

00:48:53Now 4 years

00:48:55If you want to graduate

00:48:57In any subject

00:48:59Your degree

00:49:01After inter

00:49:034 years

00:49:05After O levels

00:49:072 years

00:49:09System changed

00:49:11It's difficult to explain

00:49:13They want a full package

00:49:15Not just

00:49:17Age

00:49:19Beautiful

00:49:21Full package

00:49:23No compromise

00:49:25Height

00:49:275-6

00:49:29Height

00:49:315-6

00:49:335-2

00:49:355-3

00:49:375-2

00:49:395-3

00:49:415.1

00:49:435.1

00:49:455.1

00:49:47Height

00:49:495-9

00:49:515-6

00:49:535-6

00:49:555-3

00:49:57Height

00:49:59Height

00:50:01Height

00:50:03Height

00:50:05Height

00:50:07Height

00:50:09Height

00:50:11Height

00:50:13Height

00:50:15Height

00:50:17Height

00:50:19Height

00:50:21Height

00:50:23Height

00:50:25What is the demand of girls for boys?

00:50:29First of all, they don't want a joint family system, they want to be separate.

00:50:32Okay, this is the point.

00:50:33Yes.

00:50:34And apart from that, they should be very well settled.

00:50:37There are some girls who demand that their father-in-law and mother-in-law should be very well educated or professional.

00:50:45This was so weird.

00:50:47Not just boys, but in-laws or father, mother-in-law should be well educated or professional.

00:50:54These kinds of demands.

00:50:56And we were so surprised.

00:50:58Parents, if you have a demand for a boy, no, no, no.

00:51:02And then we discuss among ourselves that we do their counselling.

00:51:08Because then you have to explain to them that you are wasting time.

00:51:1331-year-old ladies have grown so much, they are doctors.

00:51:17Yes.

00:51:18But because of this, their criteria didn't go down.

00:51:22Demand didn't go down.

00:51:24So because of this, day by day.

00:51:26And slowly, God willing, God willing.

00:51:31We have just started.

00:51:32Yes.

00:51:33And God willing, they will understand each other.

00:51:35We want to tell them the same from your platform.

00:51:38Keep genuine demands.

00:51:40Exactly.

00:51:41So dreamy, fantasy.

00:51:43You are watching social media, couples, internet, influencers.

00:51:49So even with that, demands are increasing.

00:51:52When they can get it, why can't we get it?

00:51:57So we are moving on to the next one.

00:51:59Now Richard, we are coming to you.

00:52:02Dil Ka Rishta, Pakistan.

00:52:07So now tell me, how do you join this app?

00:52:10Do you have to download it?

00:52:12What is the procedure?

00:52:14We were talking about people's requirements.

00:52:18People want to cater to everything day by day.

00:52:21So we thought why not make it a technology?

00:52:24Okay.

00:52:25We made an application, Dil Ka Rishta.

00:52:27Okay.

00:52:28In that, if you are looking for a match for yourself,

00:52:32you enter your number first.

00:52:36Okay.

00:52:37To register, we have a four part OTP.

00:52:40Okay.

00:52:41Your profile, you open it and no one else opens it.

00:52:44Okay.

00:52:45An OTP is received on your number.

00:52:47You enter that OTP.

00:52:49Okay.

00:52:50And make your profile.

00:52:51To make a profile, you put your name, education, caste,

00:52:55even though we have added a lot of other things.

00:52:57And you have put a place to put a picture.

00:52:59Yes, we have put a place to put a picture.

00:53:01And institute, from where you are studying,

00:53:03we have filtered it out up to here.

00:53:05So that the problems of compatibility,

00:53:07that you don't get a match,

00:53:09we want this thing,

00:53:10that comes in a technology.

00:53:11Yes.

00:53:12Okay.

00:53:13Now when they make their profile,

00:53:15we have a verification department.

00:53:17Okay.

00:53:18We have a whole team that works nationwide.

00:53:21On those people,

00:53:22who register their profiles with us,

00:53:25visit them,

00:53:26Okay.

00:53:27Verify with them.

00:53:28Okay.

00:53:29And to get involved their families.

00:53:31Okay.

00:53:32If there is a child,

00:53:33we meet her parents.

00:53:34If there is a son,

00:53:35we meet his parents.

00:53:36So when they meet through the app,

00:53:38do you have an office or something,

00:53:40where they can meet,

00:53:42before going to each other's house,

00:53:44or all these things.

00:53:45No, our business is totally technology based.

00:53:49Okay.

00:53:50If my team is going to someone's house,

00:53:52and verifying it,

00:53:53then we call it a verified profile on the application.

00:53:56Okay.

00:53:57We have verified them.

00:53:58Okay.

00:53:59We went to their house,

00:54:00we met their family.

00:54:01Okay.

00:54:02And in this system,

00:54:04basically the connections are family to family.

00:54:07Okay.

00:54:08And they connect themselves.

00:54:09Okay.

00:54:10Let's suppose they have a lot of requirements,

00:54:12so the things they have entered in their application,

00:54:16according to that,

00:54:17they will get the matches.

00:54:18Okay.

00:54:19We have top 5.

00:54:20How many marriages have you got?

00:54:21I will tell you the truth.

00:54:23And how do you know,

00:54:25that the marriage has been done through this app?

00:54:28This is what I want to tell you,

00:54:29that the privacy is so much,

00:54:30that families do not want to share their data.

00:54:32Okay.

00:54:33They don't tell.

00:54:34Okay.

00:54:35Around last,

00:54:36when we figured out,

00:54:37there were 51,000 people,

00:54:38who were married.

00:54:40But now,

00:54:41we have a little problem with privacy.

00:54:43Okay.

00:54:44We don't want that,

00:54:45if someone doesn't want to tell,

00:54:46they should tell us.

00:54:47Okay.

00:54:48Secondly,

00:54:49if someone doesn't want to put their picture on the app,

00:54:51they shouldn't put it.

00:54:52Okay.

00:54:53Yes.

00:54:54Without the picture.

00:54:55No, we have to do physical verification.

00:54:57Okay.

00:54:58When the families get connected,

00:54:59they can share their pictures.

00:55:00Okay.

00:55:01They can share with each other.

00:55:02Is this also an option?

00:55:03If you don't want to put it,

00:55:04then don't put it.

00:55:05Okay.

00:55:06If someone has a daughter,

00:55:07they don't want to put their daughter's picture,

00:55:08until they do the verification themselves.

00:55:10Ma'am,

00:55:11there is a very big community,

00:55:12which doesn't want,

00:55:13that our daughter's or daughter's pictures,

00:55:15come on the application.

00:55:16Okay.

00:55:17Okay.

00:55:18So, when it is verified,

00:55:19then families get together.

00:55:20Okay.

00:55:21They meet each other.

00:55:22Okay.

00:55:23And after that,

00:55:24both the children,

00:55:25whether they show their pictures or meet,

00:55:26both of them fail.

00:55:28Okay.

00:55:29Our work is,

00:55:30that we have made a software,

00:55:31which is so secure,

00:55:32Okay.

00:55:33that no picture of any child,

00:55:34or any girl,

00:55:35is made viral.

00:55:36Okay.

00:55:37No one can take a screenshot,

00:55:38of our application.

00:55:39Okay.

00:55:40We have put so much security,

00:55:41and privacy in it,

00:55:42Okay.

00:55:43that nobody can take the screenshot,

00:55:44from our application.

00:55:45Okay.

00:55:46And then,

00:55:47when both the families connect,

00:55:48Okay.

00:55:49I will tell you the method for that too.

00:55:50Okay.

00:55:51When one family,

00:55:52sends a request to the other family,

00:55:53Okay.

00:55:54on our application,

00:55:55if I have received a request,

00:55:56whether it is a girl or a boy,

00:55:57or if I myself,

00:55:58like a family,

00:55:59or like a profile,

00:56:00Okay.

00:56:01then I will accept it.

00:56:02Okay.

00:56:03Otherwise,

00:56:04I cannot do it.

00:56:05Okay.

00:56:06That family,

00:56:07cannot connect with me,

00:56:08until the online permission,

00:56:09is not there.

00:56:10Is not there.

00:56:11Okay.

00:56:12And after the written,

00:56:13documented permission,

00:56:14your numbers are exchanged.

00:56:15Okay.

00:56:16Without,

00:56:17without that,

00:56:18you cannot exchange,

00:56:19a single data,

00:56:20from our application.

00:56:21We are taking a small break,

00:56:22after the break,

00:56:23keep watching,

00:56:24Good Morning Pakistan.

00:56:25I don't know,

00:56:26because of today's program,

00:56:27so many relationships have happened.

00:56:28Good Morning.

00:56:41So, today we are talking,

00:56:43about experiences,

00:56:45today we are talking,

00:56:46about connecting relationships,

00:56:47about different platforms,

00:56:49the mediums available with you,

00:56:51with that,

00:56:52you can find a solution to this problem.

00:56:54Because,

00:56:55for many people,

00:56:56it becomes a problem.

00:56:57Okay.

00:56:58Right now,

00:56:59I have an experienced girl,

00:57:01who will share,

00:57:02her experience,

00:57:03her bad experience,

00:57:04with you.

00:57:05Whichever medium,

00:57:06she tried,

00:57:07to connect with,

00:57:08her relationship.

00:57:09So,

00:57:10I will introduce you,

00:57:11to Zainab.

00:57:12Assalamualaikum Zainab.

00:57:13Walaikumassalam.

00:57:14Yes, Zainab.

00:57:15What has been your experience,

00:57:16regarding the relationship,

00:57:17please share.

00:57:18Yes,

00:57:19absolutely.

00:57:20I would like to share,

00:57:21my experience,

00:57:22and,

00:57:23I would like to inform,

00:57:24all those girls,

00:57:25who think,

00:57:26that through social media platforms,

00:57:28we will get,

00:57:29a good relationship.

00:57:31Like every parent,

00:57:32my parents also wished,

00:57:34that I,

00:57:35at a certain age,

00:57:37should be bound,

00:57:38in my marriage,

00:57:40and should start,

00:57:41my marital life,

00:57:42from here.

00:57:43And,

00:57:44regarding this,

00:57:45many proposals,

00:57:46were coming to my house,

00:57:47and my parents wanted,

00:57:48that I should go in front of them,

00:57:49but I didn't like,

00:57:50the trolley system.

00:57:51Okay.

00:57:52And,

00:57:53I didn't like,

00:57:54that women,

00:57:55take trolleys,

00:57:56and go in front of people,

00:57:57and serve them,

00:57:58and then,

00:57:59they have to face,

00:58:00rejection.

00:58:01So,

00:58:02I tried,

00:58:03to reduce,

00:58:04the burden,

00:58:05of my parents.

00:58:06Okay.

00:58:07And,

00:58:08I tried,

00:58:09to use social media platforms,

00:58:10Okay.

00:58:11And,

00:58:12find a better,

00:58:13relationship for myself.

00:58:14Okay.

00:58:15In this effort,

00:58:16I used Facebook,

00:58:17Okay.

00:58:18where I made,

00:58:19a profile.

00:58:20And,

00:58:21I didn't,

00:58:22display my picture,

00:58:23there,

00:58:24but,

00:58:25I shared,

00:58:26all my details,

00:58:27there.

00:58:28Okay.

00:58:29After sharing,

00:58:30all my details,

00:58:31in a short time,

00:58:32a boy,

00:58:33contacted me,

00:58:34there.

00:58:35And,

00:58:36I found,

00:58:37that boy,

00:58:38reasonable,

00:58:39and nice.

00:58:40And,

00:58:41I thought,

00:58:42that I should,

00:58:43have a discussion,

00:58:44with him.

00:58:45Okay.

00:58:46I continued,

00:58:47my discussion,

00:58:48with him,

00:58:49through messenger.

00:58:50Okay.

00:58:51Then,

00:58:52we met,

00:58:53Okay.

00:58:54And,

00:58:55we decided,

00:58:56that first,

00:58:57we develop,

00:58:58our coordination,

00:58:59Okay.

00:59:00and then,

00:59:01we involve,

00:59:02our parents.

00:59:03Okay.

00:59:04Thinking this,

00:59:05we met,

00:59:06in a cafe,

00:59:07we visited,

00:59:08we went to,

00:59:09some restaurants.

00:59:10Okay.

00:59:11And,

00:59:12when our meetings,

00:59:13increased,

00:59:14we went,

00:59:15for dinner,

00:59:16and when he was,

00:59:17dropping me home,

00:59:18we were,

00:59:19sitting in the car,

00:59:20he tried,

00:59:21to hold my hand.

00:59:22Okay.

00:59:23So,

00:59:24I asked him,

00:59:25what are you doing?

00:59:26He said,

00:59:27it's normal.

00:59:28What happened?

00:59:29We have been in contact,

00:59:30for so long.

00:59:31So,

00:59:32we are not doing,

00:59:33anything like that.

00:59:34So,

00:59:35I told him,

00:59:36that I am,

00:59:37sincere with you,

00:59:38regarding marriage.

00:59:39Not that,

00:59:40I am here,

00:59:41to be your girlfriend,

00:59:42or to spend time with you.

00:59:43Or,

00:59:44I have been in contact,

00:59:45with you for so long.

00:59:46So,

00:59:47he said,

00:59:48it's a normal thing.

00:59:49We are not doing,

00:59:50anything bad.

00:59:51We are just,

00:59:52meeting casually,

00:59:53and interacting like this.

00:59:54And,

00:59:55he tried,

00:59:56to force himself on me.

00:59:57Okay.

00:59:58Which,

00:59:59made me very worried,

01:00:00that the guy,

01:00:01who was so sincere with me,

01:00:02and was dealing with me,

01:00:03so well,

01:00:04and was with me,

01:00:05suddenly,

01:00:06how did he,

01:00:07change with me?

01:00:08Okay.

01:00:09And,

01:00:10when he tried,

01:00:11to force himself on me,

01:00:12and try to harassment me,

01:00:13I started screaming,

01:00:14very loudly.

01:00:15And,

01:00:16I let go of his hand,

01:00:17and got out of the car,

01:00:18screaming.

01:00:19Then,

01:00:20at a certain time,

01:00:21I felt,

01:00:22that I wish,

01:00:23I had involved my family,

01:00:24in this.

01:00:25Exactly.

01:00:26And,

01:00:27I would have,

01:00:28made my parents,

01:00:29acknowledge this.

01:00:30So,

01:00:31I would not have,

01:00:32dealt with this scenario.

01:00:33I would have,

01:00:34avoided all these situations.

01:00:35Absolutely.

01:00:36Absolutely.

01:00:37Thank you so much,

01:00:38that you shared this.

01:00:39I just want to tell,

01:00:40the youngsters,

01:00:41that they have,

01:00:42a lot of awareness,

01:00:43nowadays,

01:00:44about technology.

01:00:45But,

01:00:46they don't have,

01:00:47white hair.

01:00:48So,

01:00:49the parents,

01:00:50the family,

01:00:51they have experiences,

01:00:52of life.

01:00:53And,

01:00:54they know a lot,

01:00:55compared to their children,

01:00:56they have seen this world.

01:00:57And,

01:00:58that's why,

01:00:59they involve their families,

01:01:00and count the feathers,

01:01:01of the flying bird.

01:01:02But,

01:01:03these youngsters,

01:01:04sometimes,

01:01:05they start to understand,

01:01:06that they know,

01:01:07everything.

01:01:08They say,

01:01:09you don't know.

01:01:10They say,

01:01:11this sentence.

01:01:12But,

01:01:13when they are mature,

01:01:14or,

01:01:15they stumble,

01:01:16then,

01:01:17they know,

01:01:18how important it is,

01:01:19to involve the elders.

01:01:20Because,

01:01:21their intelligence,

01:01:22has come from their experiences.

01:01:24So,

01:01:25through this girl,

01:01:26I would like to say,

01:01:27to all those children,

01:01:28that these platforms,

01:01:29that have been made,

01:01:30in fact,

01:01:31I would like to tell you,

01:01:32that you should,

01:01:33elaborate on this.

01:01:34Your Facebook,

01:01:35is a group.

01:01:36That,

01:01:37how important it is,

01:01:38to involve families,

01:01:39especially,

01:01:40for relationships.

01:01:41Absolutely.

01:01:42So,

01:01:43if,

01:01:44I tell you,

01:01:45about this case,

01:01:46or,

01:01:47apart from this,

01:01:48there can be,

01:01:49two more things.

01:01:50I will mention those things,

01:01:51as well.

01:01:52If,

01:01:53you talk to someone,

01:01:54if,

01:01:55you reach out to someone,

01:01:56or,

01:01:57someone reaches out to you,

01:01:58if,

01:01:59he wants to marry you,

01:02:00then,

01:02:01he will not date you.

01:02:02He will talk to you,

01:02:03on the phone,

01:02:04and then,

01:02:05he will bring his parents.

01:02:06Exactly.

01:02:07He will meet you,

01:02:08in front of your parents.

01:02:09He will not meet you,

01:02:10like this.

01:02:11Even,

01:02:12if,

01:02:13you meet someone,

01:02:14in some other way,

01:02:15or,

01:02:16if you start dating,

01:02:17or,

01:02:18if you like someone,

01:02:19then,

01:02:20if someone is sincere,

01:02:21he will say,

01:02:22after five months,

01:02:23my sister will get married,

01:02:24and so on.

01:02:25So,

01:02:26if someone,

01:02:27wants to marry you,

01:02:28if he is sincere,

01:02:29then,

01:02:30he will approach your parents.

01:02:31He will respect you.

01:02:32He will not meet you,

01:02:33like this.

01:02:34One point.

01:02:35Exactly.

01:02:36Secondly,

01:02:37one more thing is,

01:02:38Facebook communities,

01:02:39or,

01:02:40Facebook,

01:02:41in general,

01:02:42as I told you,

01:02:43there are many groups.

01:02:44So,

01:02:45one more community,

01:02:46named as,

01:02:47Two Rings,

01:02:48was created.

01:02:49The admin,

01:02:50charged 25,000,

01:02:51and,

01:02:52Okay.

01:02:53Money.

01:02:54Money.

01:02:55Yes.

01:02:56We do not charge money,

01:02:57at any stage.

01:02:58He charged money,

01:02:59and then,

01:03:00he said,

01:03:01you share your data,

01:03:02with us,

01:03:03and we will post it.

01:03:04And then,

01:03:05he blocked the profile.

01:03:06He also took pictures,

01:03:07of the girl.

01:03:08So,

01:03:09please,

01:03:10be very careful,

01:03:11who you are trusting,

01:03:12who you are talking to,

01:03:13and,

01:03:14where you are going.

01:03:15Yes.

01:03:16Third,

01:03:17one more thing is,

01:03:18that,

01:03:19some guys also do scams,

01:03:20and,

01:03:21those scams,

01:03:22are also monetary scams.

01:03:23I heard one,

01:03:24let me tell you.

01:03:25Okay.

01:03:26There is a guy,

01:03:27he approached me,

01:03:28he said,

01:03:29that,

01:03:30we became friends,

01:03:31whatever.

01:03:32So,

01:03:33he,

01:03:34took my phone,

01:03:35and,

01:03:36this and that,

01:03:37and,

01:03:38he also had my cards.

01:03:39So,

01:03:40he said,

01:03:41that,

01:03:42if you transfer,

01:03:43this much money,

01:03:44like,

01:03:45can you give me,

01:03:46this much money?

01:03:47So,

01:03:48there are people,

01:03:49like this also.

01:03:50So,

01:03:51if someone,

01:03:52is going to marry you,

01:03:53he will not,

01:03:54ask you for money,

01:03:55like this.

01:03:56So,

01:03:57please,

01:03:58a little,

01:03:59especially,

01:04:00the younger kids,

01:04:01use your brain,

01:04:02and involve,

01:04:03your parents.

01:04:04Absolutely.

01:04:05Especially,

01:04:06the girls,

01:04:07even the boys.

01:04:08I think,

01:04:09I would like to share,

01:04:10my experience with you,

01:04:11and,

01:04:12I am not showing my face,

01:04:13because,

01:04:14I cannot,

01:04:15ruin someone's life,

01:04:16by showing my face.

01:04:17The reason,

01:04:18I am doing this show,

01:04:19is to save you,

01:04:20from difficulties,

01:04:21and,

01:04:22to help you out.

01:04:23So,

01:04:24if,

01:04:25all these things,

01:04:26are helping you,

01:04:27then,

01:04:28this is,

01:04:29our aim,

01:04:30for today's show.

01:04:31So,

01:04:32the next girl,

01:04:33whose face,

01:04:34we will not show,

01:04:35but,

01:04:36her story,

01:04:37is coming to you.

01:04:38Rabia.

01:04:39Yes, Rabia.

01:04:41Assalamualaikum.

01:04:42Walaikumassalam.

01:04:43My story is,

01:04:44that,

01:04:45I had an arranged marriage,

01:04:46and,

01:04:47just like,

01:04:48every parent wishes,

01:04:49my mother also,

01:04:50wanted,

01:04:51that,

01:04:52now that I am old,

01:04:53I should get married.

01:04:54Yes.

01:04:55Someone told my mother,

01:04:56that,

01:04:57there is a woman,

01:04:58in the neighborhood,

01:04:59who gets proposals,

01:05:00very good proposals,

01:05:01you should contact her,

01:05:02for your daughter.

01:05:03Like every mother,

01:05:04my mother also,

01:05:05contacted her.

01:05:06She sent me my profile,

01:05:07and all the details,

01:05:08to her.

01:05:09Then,

01:05:10the matchmaker,

01:05:11brought a family,

01:05:12to our house.

01:05:13That family,

01:05:14was obviously good,

01:05:15but,

01:05:16her mother,

01:05:17and the boy's,

01:05:18mother and sister,

01:05:19were very strict,

01:05:20with my family.

01:05:21But,

01:05:22because the boy,

01:05:23had a very good,

01:05:24super store of his own,

01:05:25that thing,

01:05:26overpowered him.

01:05:27He was happy,

01:05:28because the boy's,

01:05:29earning is very good,

01:05:30he earns very well,

01:05:31he has a super store,

01:05:32and our daughter,

01:05:33will be happy.

01:05:34Then,

01:05:35he saw the super store,

01:05:36and he was very happy,

01:05:37that the earning is very good.

01:05:38Like this,

01:05:39the mother,

01:05:40and daughter,

01:05:41who were very strict,

01:05:42my mother-in-law,

01:05:43and my sister-in-law,

01:05:44that thing,

01:05:45they understood,

01:05:46that okay,

01:05:47the girl will adjust,

01:05:48it's not a big deal.

01:05:49Now,

01:05:50the wedding date,

01:05:51was decided,

01:05:52and the wedding day,

01:05:53started.

01:05:54But,

01:05:55when the wedding day,

01:05:56came,

01:05:57we noted one thing,

01:05:58that they said,

01:05:59that we will do the marriage,

01:06:00very simply.

01:06:01We were surprised,

01:06:02and worried.

01:06:03But,

01:06:04they said,

01:06:05that we don't like,

01:06:06such events.

01:06:07Right.

01:06:08And,

01:06:09they arranged the reception,

01:06:10in a small hotel,

01:06:11with a small gathering,

01:06:12for the reception.

01:06:13I was surprised,

01:06:14and worried,

01:06:15that why all this,

01:06:16is happening,

01:06:17very simply.

01:06:18Anyways,

01:06:19when I got married,

01:06:20and after marriage,

01:06:21when I talked to my husband,

01:06:22my understanding,

01:06:23was not there.

01:06:24He used to look,

01:06:25very strange and poor.

01:06:26He used to look,

01:06:27like a psycho,

01:06:28or a psycho.

01:06:29I don't know,

01:06:30why he is doing such things,

01:06:31and talking like this.

01:06:32And,

01:06:33my mother-in-law,

01:06:34used to tell me,

01:06:35that I have to live,

01:06:36with my husband.

01:06:37Anyways,

01:06:38after 2-3 months of marriage,

01:06:39I was adjusting,

01:06:40that now,

01:06:41my parents have done it,

01:06:42so I have to live with it.

01:06:43Similarly,

01:06:44I was cleaning the house,

01:06:45so once,

01:06:46I got an album.

01:06:47As soon as,

01:06:48I opened it,

01:06:49I felt,

01:06:50like a mountain,

01:06:51fell on me.

01:06:52It was,

01:06:53of my husband's,

01:06:54first marriage.

01:06:55He was with someone,

01:06:56and there was a picture,

01:06:57of his wedding,

01:06:58and he was looking,

01:06:59very happy.

01:07:00When,

01:07:01I made a lot of noise,

01:07:02and gave all the information,

01:07:03he said,

01:07:04yes,

01:07:05this is absolutely right.

01:07:06And,

01:07:07my mother-in-law said,

01:07:08that we had told this,

01:07:09to the relative.

01:07:10And,

01:07:11she had also told,

01:07:12your family members.

01:07:13The matchmaker,

01:07:14told us,

01:07:15that the girl's family,

01:07:16has a demand,

01:07:17that the boy's,

01:07:18first marriage,

01:07:19should not be mentioned,

01:07:20again and again.

01:07:21Because,

01:07:22we did not tell,

01:07:23the family members.

01:07:24So,

01:07:25that is why,

01:07:26we remained silent.

01:07:27And,

01:07:28that is why,

01:07:29we did everything,

01:07:30very simply.

01:07:31I was shocked,

01:07:32Yes,

01:07:33absolutely.

01:07:34When,

01:07:35I told my mother,

01:07:36the whole truth,

01:07:37while crying,

01:07:38she contacted,

01:07:39the matchmaker.

01:07:40And,

01:07:41she asked.

01:07:42Then,

01:07:43she said,

01:07:44yes,

01:07:45the boy's family,

01:07:46had told me.

01:07:47But,

01:07:48because of money,

01:07:49that I will get,

01:07:50good money.

01:07:51Because of this,

01:07:52they did not tell us.

01:07:53They deceived us.

01:07:54Anyway,

01:07:55I am so sorry,

01:07:56for that.

01:07:57Anyway,

01:07:58then,

01:07:59my house also broke,

01:08:00and I also got divorced.

01:08:01The point is,

01:08:02if that matchmaker,

01:08:03had told the truth,

01:08:04to my family members,

01:08:05then,

01:08:06my life,

01:08:07would not have been,

01:08:08ruined.

01:08:09That is why,

01:08:10you should avoid,

01:08:11the matchmakers,

01:08:12in the streets.

01:08:13And,

01:08:14genuinely,

01:08:15the offices,

01:08:16like Alvina,

01:08:17told us,

01:08:18they also have legal advisors,

01:08:19who find out everything.

01:08:20Now,

01:08:21if you are married for the first time,

01:08:22you get to know,

01:08:23from Nadra,

01:08:24that,

01:08:25yes,

01:08:26such a scenario,

01:08:27has happened.

01:08:28So,

01:08:29you should avoid,

01:08:30such things.

01:08:31That is why,

01:08:32I am telling you.

01:08:33Now,

01:08:34I will leave now.

01:08:35Like I told you,

01:08:36earlier,

01:08:37your and my,

01:08:38pull-ups.

01:08:39Okay,

01:08:40how long is the break?

01:08:41Okay,

01:08:42it is time for the break.

01:08:43So,

01:08:44in the next segment,

01:08:45whoever wants to pull-up,

01:08:46should watch that segment.

01:08:47Because,

01:08:48I am going to,

01:08:49doosrishadi.com.

01:08:50Right?

01:08:51This is it, right?

01:08:52Doosribibi.com

01:08:53Doosribibi.com

01:08:54Doosribibi.com

01:08:55Let's get married again,

01:08:56brother.

01:08:57Good morning,

01:08:58Pakistan.

01:08:59Welcome,

01:09:00welcome back.

01:09:01Good morning,

01:09:02Pakistan.

01:09:03Like I told you,

01:09:04before going on the break,

01:09:05get ready.

01:09:06Now,

01:09:07I don't know,

01:09:08whether I will pull-up or not.

01:09:09But,

01:09:10anyway,

01:09:11there is one more medium,

01:09:12with which,

01:09:13I would like to introduce you.

01:09:14Mr. Muhammad Ali Sheikh,

01:09:15who is the CEO,

01:09:16of Doosribibi.com.

01:09:17Now,

01:09:18tell me,

01:09:19how did you come to know,

01:09:20that,

01:09:21you are going to pull-up?

01:09:22How did you come to know,

01:09:23that you are going to pull-up?

01:09:24How did you come to know,

01:09:25that you are going to pull-up?

01:09:26How did you come to know,

01:09:27that you are going to pull-up?

01:09:28How did you come to know,

01:09:29that you are going to pull-up?

01:09:30How did you come to know,

01:09:31that you are going to pull-up?

01:09:32Now,

01:09:33tell me,

01:09:34what is this,

01:09:35and how did you come to know,

01:09:36that you have made this website?

01:09:37Actually,

01:09:38this is a platform.

01:09:39Actually,

01:09:40this is our division,

01:09:41of the Pakistani marriage organization.

01:09:42Ok.

01:09:43Since 2003,

01:09:44we are working.

01:09:45So,

01:09:46in 21 years,

01:09:47we have been in this field.

01:09:48Ok.

01:09:49We have seen,

01:09:50that people are facing problems,

01:09:51for so many years.

01:09:52There are males and females.

01:09:53Yes.

01:09:54The problem that is facing,

01:09:55on the male side,

01:09:56is their frustration.

01:09:57Their relations are not good.

01:09:58Sometimes,

01:09:59it happens that,

01:10:00you get married to your cousins,

01:10:01but there is no understanding.

01:10:02Exactly.

01:10:03You get married on your parents' insistence,

01:10:04but there is no understanding.

01:10:05Exactly.

01:10:06This is for them too.

01:10:07If you are already married,

01:10:08then you get married again.

01:10:09Yes,

01:10:10exactly.

01:10:11This is for them too.

01:10:12This is for them too.

01:10:13And,

01:10:14this is for those,

01:10:15who do not have spouses,

01:10:16or their life,

01:10:17is like this.

01:10:18Yes,

01:10:19this is for women too.

01:10:20We have such women.

01:10:21Why did you name it,

01:10:22second wife?

01:10:23Why did you name it,

01:10:24second wife?

01:10:25Because,

01:10:26this is a separate division.

01:10:27The next time,

01:10:28we will call you,

01:10:29and we will talk about it.

01:10:30That is also our division.

01:10:31Okay.

01:10:32So,

01:10:33this website,

01:10:34this platform,

01:10:35and their app,

01:10:36and their facebook.

01:10:37What is yours?

01:10:38We have a very good set up.

01:10:39We have our website too.

01:10:40We have our offices.

01:10:41Okay.

01:10:42We have more than 100 people,

01:10:43in offices,

01:10:44and staff.

01:10:45Oh God!

01:10:46And,

01:10:47we have 200 online staff.

01:10:48We have more than 100 office staff.

01:10:49And,

01:10:50we have 200 online staff.

01:10:51And,

01:10:52we have 200 online staff.

01:10:53Do you have so many other marriages?

01:10:54Do you have so many other marriages?

01:10:55Actually it's a division of Shadiya Organisation Pakistan, we have multiple sections in it.

01:11:00In Karachi, DHA, Gulshan-e-Iqbal, North Nazimabad, we have three offices.

01:11:04Now you tell me, who all come to you?

01:11:08If we look at the male side, most of the people come to us who are troubled by their wives.

01:11:13Or they have so much money that they can afford a second marriage.

01:11:18Now there are people whose wives…

01:11:21For example, we had a case the other day, his wife has cancer.

01:11:25His wife has cancer and he has four children.

01:11:29Now the thing is that the wife herself is saying,

01:11:31before I die, you get married again.

01:11:35Why? I want a woman to come to my house who can give my children love like a mother.

01:11:41So you want to find a good woman.

01:11:43Yes, I look for her myself. Because the doctor has given her a job.

01:11:46We also have such women who can't have babies.

01:11:51Okay, okay.

01:11:52Or it happens that one baby is born, but the next one can't be born.

01:11:55Or there is some other issue.

01:11:56There is some other problem.

01:11:57So they understand that…

01:11:58So wives also come to you?

01:12:00Wives also come to us.

01:12:02Okay.

01:12:03Husbands also come to us who are troubled for some reason.

01:12:06They are not able to get married to their wives, their parents forced them.

01:12:08Do people who get married secretly also come?

01:12:10They do.

01:12:11People like that also come.

01:12:12They don't get to know?

01:12:13They don't get to know, the first wife.

01:12:15We have a whole division in which we do counselling.

01:12:18We also have our own law firm.

01:12:20We have our own lawyers.

01:12:21And if the first wife gets to know, does she reach your office?

01:12:24Yes.

01:12:25Has it ever happened?

01:12:26No, it has never happened with us.

01:12:27Thank God.

01:12:28We actually take counselling in this way.

01:12:30We take guidance in this way.

01:12:32We make sure that there is no problem with both.

01:12:35They are hiding it from their first wife.

01:12:37But the second wife, the one they are marrying, she knows.

01:12:40101%.

01:12:41You don't hide it from her?

01:12:42Not at all.

01:12:43Okay.

01:12:44We are very open.

01:12:45We have very good documentation and everything.

01:12:47We make sure that families are also involved.

01:12:49Okay, this is about men.

01:12:51Do women also come whose husbands have passed away?

01:12:56Or it happens that sometimes not every woman can take her children and live a mountainous life.

01:13:04And she needs a decent companion with whom she can marry.

01:13:09Does it ever happen that a lot of men can't have children?

01:13:11They need a wife who has already had children.

01:13:16We have a lot of such people.

01:13:18There are two types of people.

01:13:19One, as you know, the husband has passed away.

01:13:22Or got divorced.

01:13:23Was married.

01:13:24There are also such single women who are in the underprivileged area.

01:13:28And they are looking for better financial support.

01:13:32To find a person who will support me.

01:13:34Or support my parents.

01:13:36There are also such women who don't have a brother.

01:13:39Their father is very old.

01:13:41Or got divorced for some reason.

01:13:43She cannot support.

01:13:44We also had a similar situation.

01:13:46A girl came to us.

01:13:47And she said, I want a husband who can send me to the UK for my studies.

01:13:53And I am ready to become a second wife.

01:13:55Is it done?

01:13:56Yes, it's done.

01:13:57I am ready and it's done.

01:13:59Okay.

01:14:00Her condition was that my father was a very good businessman.

01:14:03Now he is paralyzed.

01:14:04All business is gone.

01:14:05Okay.

01:14:06I want to establish myself.

01:14:08But I don't have the money.

01:14:09Yes.

01:14:10So, if a person is providing me all the support.

01:14:12If he can send me to the UK.

01:14:14If I can study over there.

01:14:15I will remain his wife.

01:14:17Okay.

01:14:18But I want to grow my life.

01:14:21You know that you don't have to stop life.

01:14:23Okay.

01:14:24A little while ago you said.

01:14:25Life should go on.

01:14:26Okay.

01:14:27That is what the concept is.

01:14:28That you have to run your life in the second wife.

01:14:31Okay.

01:14:33Now people will say that Bismil is going on.

01:14:35That's why Nidha called them.

01:14:38The drama of ARY is going on.

01:14:41So, okay.

01:14:42Are there any scams in this?

01:14:44In this.

01:14:46If you go to an ordinary matchmaker.

01:14:48Then there will be.

01:14:50But when you are going to a professional matchmaker.

01:14:52After whom there is such a big team.

01:14:54They have lawyers.

01:14:55They have a big set up.

01:14:56Okay.

01:14:57We also do direct meetings.

01:14:59We have a program called Nikah Ka Chowara.

01:15:01What?

01:15:02Nikah Ka Chowara.

01:15:03Your names are very interesting.

01:15:05Okay.

01:15:06We have a wedding party.

01:15:07In which we invite singles.

01:15:08Around 500-600 people.

01:15:09There is a gathering in one room.

01:15:11Direct one to one meeting.

01:15:12Nikah Ka Chowara is a specialized event.

01:15:15Which is only for second marriage people.

01:15:18So you create an event.

01:15:19All the interested people come there.

01:15:21In that gathering.

01:15:22Yes.

01:15:25You can see it on our Facebook page.

01:15:27You will also get its live.

01:15:29Okay.

01:15:30I don't know.

01:15:31If I don't do this program.

01:15:32Then I don't know what the world is.

01:15:35Now I am getting to know.

01:15:36Exactly.

01:15:37Very like.

01:15:38A lot of responsibility.

01:15:39Yes.

01:15:40There is a lot of responsibility in this.

01:15:42Because you have to verify on both sides.

01:15:44Now you said the word scam.

01:15:45Yes.

01:15:46You are going to an ordinary matchmaker.

01:15:48Or a person who is running on the internet.

01:15:50Who has no establishment.

01:15:51There is no registration from the government.

01:15:53There is no support from the government.

01:15:55Then anything can happen.

01:15:56We have made such a system.

01:15:58We are government authorized.

01:15:59Can people come for a second wife?

01:16:01Or can they come for a third or fourth wife?

01:16:03Yes.

01:16:04We have made a third wife.

01:16:05We have made a fourth wife.

01:16:08Nida you are gone.

01:16:10I am gone.

01:16:12Okay.

01:16:13We have such a system.

01:16:14We have such a system in women.

01:16:17In which wives are told.

01:16:19Like in Arab.

01:16:20Do one after the other.

01:16:21Do one after the other.

01:16:22That's fine.

01:16:23There is no problem in that.

01:16:24In Pakistan.

01:16:25Because in Indo-Pak culture.

01:16:27In Hindu culture.

01:16:28There is only one marriage.

01:16:29Then a woman becomes a Sati.

01:16:30After that.

01:16:32So.

01:16:33In Islam.

01:16:34There is a concept.

01:16:35It's a matter of each other.

01:16:36Whatever it is.

01:16:37I don't promote it.

01:16:38Do you do it?

01:16:39No.

01:16:40You don't do it?

01:16:41No.

01:16:42I don't do it either.

01:16:43Not at all.

01:16:44Not at all.

01:16:45I don't do it.

01:16:46You know.

01:16:47By putting your picture.

01:16:48By putting Yasir's picture.

01:16:49And then they will put me in the middle.

01:16:51Fight.

01:16:52Like.

01:16:53No.

01:16:54Nida has gone.

01:16:55To find Yasir's second wife.

01:16:56There is nothing like that.

01:16:57There is nothing like that.

01:16:58By the way.

01:16:59If Yasir doesn't have a number.

01:17:00He will get a call.

01:17:03This program.

01:17:04I will not run the TV.

01:17:06Today.

01:17:07I will only do it with her.

01:17:11No.

01:17:12Other than fun and jokes.

01:17:13The truth is.

01:17:14I was thinking of calling her.

01:17:15I was thinking of calling her.

01:17:16Like she said.

01:17:17A lot of women.

01:17:18Come and get their husband's second wife.

01:17:22If doctors have given them the answer.

01:17:24If she can't be a mother.

01:17:25She herself wants.

01:17:26To have children at home.

01:17:27If.

01:17:28It's like that.

01:17:29Husband's wife has passed away.

01:17:31Passed away.

01:17:32Or.

01:17:33Her understanding is not being developed.

01:17:35So.

01:17:36A lot of.

01:17:37See.

01:17:38There are advantages and disadvantages to everything.

01:17:40So why don't we take it positively.

01:17:42Instead of.

01:17:43That we are sitting thinking about this fun.

01:17:46There are a lot of things.

01:17:47We.

01:17:48Can also take it positively.

01:17:50No.

01:17:51In our group.

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