Stefan Molyneux
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Friday Night Live 27 September 2024

In this episode, we tackle the challenges of social interactions and romantic connections, emphasizing the importance of authenticity. I share personal experiences to highlight how anxiety can stem from projecting a false self. We explore the motivations behind attraction and the need for introspection regarding our values and contributions to relationships.

Listeners gain practical advice on overcoming social anxiety by prioritizing others' experiences. We conclude with a call to engage courageously and authentically in the complex dance of human relationships.

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Transcript
00:00:00Good evening. Welcome to Fantasy Island. Welcome, 27th of September 2024.
00:00:0927th of September 2024, shortly past the time of normal beginning.
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00:00:27It's doing aight. It's doing aight.
00:00:32Best way to spend a Friday night with your wife and me.
00:00:36Philosophy. Ménage à 1990.
00:00:40If I do say so myself. All right.
00:00:42All right, let's get to your questions.
00:00:45Sorry, there were a bunch of questions in the last stream,
00:00:48but they're gone. Oh, actually, could I get them back?
00:00:51I'm pretty sure I could, right?
00:00:53Oh, that's not it.
00:00:55Ah, Friday.
00:00:57All right, let me have a look back here.
00:00:59I should be able to go back.
00:01:03To get your questions.
00:01:09Oh, starting now? Yeah, that was the last one, right?
00:01:15Uh, no. I don't want to turn on a live chat.
00:01:17I don't know what the heck that means.
00:01:20One hour to go.
00:01:22All right. Peaceful Parenting available in Spanish.
00:01:28Arriba! So, PeacefulParenting.com.
00:01:31PeacefulParenting.com. Please share it with people.
00:01:33I would appreciate that.
00:01:35The condensed version is now available in Spanish.
00:01:39In Spanglish.
00:01:41So, that's good.
00:01:43So, that's good. I hope you will check that out,
00:01:45and I hope that you will share that.
00:01:47All right.
00:01:51What if I have trouble approaching women?
00:01:53When I want to, I feel a mental block and my mind goes blank.
00:01:56Then, I lose my train of thought.
00:02:03My first thought is someone in my past benefits from me staying single.
00:02:06Does this sound correct?
00:02:10Interesting.
00:02:13Hit me with a why if you have trouble talking to women you're attracted to.
00:02:18It's also known as being a man.
00:02:20I certainly did when I was single.
00:02:23I've mostly gotten over it with my wife.
00:02:31So, hit me with a why if you have trouble talking to women you are attracted to.
00:02:41I must know.
00:02:46You must tell me.
00:02:49Right.
00:02:54So, the first thing to recognize and remember, of course,
00:02:59is that this is a perfectly natural, healthy, and common phenomenon.
00:03:04It means that you care.
00:03:06If you didn't care about rejection, you'd be a sociopath, and that's not good.
00:03:11Really not good. You don't want that.
00:03:13You don't want to be free of fear.
00:03:15That means you're free of conscience and humanity.
00:03:18So, it just means that you care.
00:03:22And, in general, when I look back at the women I was most nervous to talk to,
00:03:28it's because I was approaching them for entirely the wrong reasons.
00:03:33And the reason that I was tense about talking to the women was I was lying through my teeth.
00:03:41Lies were exuding from me like snot from the nose hole of a narwhal.
00:03:47I was lying through my—oh, no, honey, I just—
00:03:51although you have a curvaceous and lovely body,
00:03:54I am just—I'm fascinated by your mind and your thoughts and your dreams and your desires.
00:04:05I often have attacks of conscience when I want to lie to get into a woman's pants.
00:04:10So, yeah, it's the lying. It's the lying.
00:04:13Why are you approaching the women? Why?
00:04:16Do they have a spark? Do they have a great smile?
00:04:18Do they seem to have a good sense of humor? Do they appear friendly, nice, positive, enthusiastic, affectionate, whatever?
00:04:23Or are they just pretty?
00:04:26So pretty. So pretty.
00:04:29They deserve to be in the back of a windowless van on the way to the cult combat.
00:04:35So, yeah, why are you approaching the women?
00:04:37Why are you attracted to the women?
00:04:38Why are you talking to the women?
00:04:39Is it for their virtues or their prettiness?
00:04:42And again, these two can be combined, and I get all of that, right?
00:04:45But maybe you have a mental block because you're lying through your teeth.
00:04:51And I say this with all humility, having done it myself.
00:04:55There was a girl I dated in high school.
00:04:59Oh, man, she just had a look that was staggering to me.
00:05:06I dated her, and I was constantly looking for intelligent comments.
00:05:12I remember once she made an intelligent comment, and I was like, yes!
00:05:16Turns out it was kind of like an eclipse.
00:05:19Nice girl. Nice girl.
00:05:22Just not a lot going on.
00:05:25The lobes were not lobing.
00:05:28Did not lub the lobes.
00:05:30And maybe you have a block because going after a woman for her looks alone
00:05:40is a disaster that your brain is trying to save you from.
00:05:44You got your balls rolling at the bowling pins of the pretty girls,
00:05:48and maybe you're getting blocked for that.
00:05:50Just possibility.
00:05:52Just a possibility.
00:05:55I never really had much difficulty talking to my wife at all
00:06:02because I have for 22-plus years, I mean, I've been incredibly blessed.
00:06:09I won't say necessarily lucky, but very happy to have such a great person in my life.
00:06:17She's never been tough to talk to.
00:06:20We've never had any challenges talking.
00:06:23I remember a friend of mine when I was younger was talking about how
00:06:29when she and her husband would go out for dinner,
00:06:32they'd see all of these couples just kind of staring at each other,
00:06:35and she said, you know, when I was younger I thought,
00:06:37my God, we're never going to be that.
00:06:39We're never going to be that couple.
00:06:40And she's like, yeah, but life happens, and yeah,
00:06:42I've had a bunch of dinners with my husband.
00:06:44We're just staring at each other with nothing to say.
00:06:46That has never happened.
00:06:48Thank you very much for the tip.
00:06:50That has never happened with my wife.
00:06:56She is great fun to talk to, very insightful, very creative, very funny,
00:07:02but still not funny.
00:07:03My daughter is the funniest person in the family.
00:07:05I mean, don't get me wrong, she's a teenager,
00:07:07so you have to have a little bit of a thick skin,
00:07:09but she's absolutely the funniest person in the family.
00:07:11Okay, it's not even close.
00:07:16But yeah, I mean, I remember when my wife and I first just accidentally went out.
00:07:20We weren't even supposed to go out.
00:07:21We were supposed to go out with the whole volleyball team,
00:07:23but everyone had to cancel for some reason, so it was just my wife and I.
00:07:26We just had this electric conversation and went on for like two and a half hours.
00:07:29And when I left, I actually carried the little fold, the little restaurant fold,
00:07:35I still have it, that they put the bill in.
00:07:37I've never done that before or since.
00:07:38So clearly I wanted to take something home.
00:07:40I wanted to take something home.
00:07:42And then in 11 months we were married, and I did.
00:07:45So maybe, just maybe, your nervousness is trying to keep you
00:07:56from getting into a disastrous situation where you're dating based upon a lie.
00:08:04So, I mean, it could be any number of possibilities,
00:08:06but that would be interesting.
00:08:09That would be interesting.
00:08:12Sexual shame?
00:08:13Yeah, so there is a kind of thing.
00:08:15Ah, my lovely brother.
00:08:17So I remember there was this girl that I really liked.
00:08:21Ah, the Don Mills Mall.
00:08:22It no longer exists anymore.
00:08:24That bothers me.
00:08:26You know, we're made for a lot more continuity than we have.
00:08:29We're made to hoe the back 40 around castles that have been around for a thousand years,
00:08:34and the only thing that changes are the seasons and the leaves.
00:08:37But everything changes.
00:08:38But everything changes.
00:08:39Everything gets scooped up and rearranged and undone and redone.
00:08:43That mall, I spent a lot of time at that mall, at the Don Mills Mall.
00:08:47I wasn't like the mall rats, you know.
00:08:49They're not there to shop.
00:08:50They're not there to work.
00:08:51They're just there.
00:08:54It wasn't because of that.
00:08:55It was because I had a variety of jobs.
00:08:57I worked in a hardware store.
00:08:58I cleaned offices in that mall, and I worked in a convenience store in that mall.
00:09:05And so I spent a lot of time at the Don Mills Mall.
00:09:08It was actually a great mall.
00:09:09It was a great mall, by the way.
00:09:11My mother and I used to go for dinner at this little restaurant at the top of the mall.
00:09:16It was actually not a very good restaurant at all.
00:09:18And I remember my mother had a piece of fried fish, and she was like,
00:09:22Ah, I must bring out the chef.
00:09:25I mean, she was in one of her grandiose moods.
00:09:27Lord knows I've never had that, but I hear it happens to the occasional mall.
00:09:31But she was in one of her grandiose moods, and she's like,
00:09:34You must bring out the chef.
00:09:36I must compliment him.
00:09:37And this guy came out, just kind of greasy and stained, and he's just like,
00:09:41Why does a customer want to talk to me?
00:09:43I think he looked stoned, and I just remember him like,
00:09:46Oh, yeah, thanks.
00:09:50Just kind of standing there like a slightly swinging sack of potatoes.
00:09:54But I spent a lot of time in that mall, and there was a girl.
00:10:00Typhling type.
00:10:01There was a girl in the record store.
00:10:05And I would go in and browse for records.
00:10:09You know when you're pretending to be doing something, but you're shooting,
00:10:12like you can't look at the girl, it's like an eclipse, or you can't stare at it,
00:10:15because your nipples will inflame, and not in the way that you pay for.
00:10:21But, you know, with the hot wax.
00:10:23Anyway, I don't have to get into details.
00:10:24We all understand what I'm talking about.
00:10:26I was looking at a corner of my eye.
00:10:28Stealing glasses.
00:10:29Stealing glasses.
00:10:30Stealing hearts and stealing glasses.
00:10:32And I remember I finally did get up to talk to her, and I was talking to her,
00:10:36and my brother came up and said, Wipe the drool off, stiff!
00:10:39And he just pretended to, you know, and it's just like,
00:10:43Because, you know, you're talking to a girl because you're attracted to her,
00:10:46but you don't want to bruise the delicacies by saying,
00:10:48Oh, oh, likes her, likes her.
00:10:51That's tense, right?
00:10:53That's tense.
00:10:55So there could be some shaming around that if you've had that in the past.
00:11:00Mostly gotten over it with your wife.
00:11:01I was just kidding.
00:11:02But, yeah, when you just find somebody who's so easy to talk to,
00:11:06and you just absolutely love and enjoy talking to them,
00:11:09you know, put a ring on it if they're fertile.
00:11:13All right.
00:11:14Hey, Steph, long-time listener, thanks for all you do.
00:11:17What would your advice be to someone who wants to meet a quality woman
00:11:20and get married, but is too afraid to go out and interact with women in public?
00:11:26Are you?
00:11:28Give me your age range.
00:11:29You don't have to tell me the exact age.
00:11:30Give me your age range.
00:11:31By the way, thank you, Graham.
00:11:32I really appreciate that.
00:11:33Somebody says, long-time listener.
00:11:34Somebody, I say, Graham.
00:11:36Oh, he's crackers.
00:11:38Making good money now and so pleased to be able to support you
00:11:40more than sharing philosophy.
00:11:4139 years old.
00:11:4338 years old.
00:11:45Never kissed a girl.
00:11:4739 years old and just had my first baby.
00:11:49Peaceful parenting is my bedrock, thanks to you.
00:11:51Love you, brother.
00:11:52You're like the dad I never had.
00:11:53That might be a conversation for another time.
00:11:55Thank you, Graham, and massive, massive, massive congratulations.
00:11:59Thank you, thank you, thank you.
00:12:03All right.
00:12:04Sorry, let me get to your questions.
00:12:10Somebody says, yeah, my son is the funniest person in our family.
00:12:12He's only one?
00:12:14Somebody goes, rubber bones, because he hates getting dressed.
00:12:16It's pretty funny.
00:12:19All right.
00:12:20If you asked a question previously and you want to re-ask,
00:12:22you can find it here.
00:12:23Okay, thanks.
00:12:24I'll check that.
00:12:25All right.
00:12:27Desiree, you don't need to give me an essay.
00:12:29I'm just asking for your age range.
00:12:41Not for me, but for a couple of friends.
00:12:43One is in his 30s, one is in his 40s.
00:12:46All right.
00:12:49If I help you, everybody who's listening to this now or later,
00:12:53if I help you, genuinely help you, lose your anxiety about talking to
00:12:57members of the opposite sex, I can assume, I'm just going to,
00:13:01I'm not even going to ask, I'm just going to assume that's worth a
00:13:04donation or two, because I can tell you, I can absolutely tell you how
00:13:10to avoid your anxiety about talking to the opposite sex.
00:13:17Hit me with a why if that's an issue.
00:13:19You want to be more comfortable talking to a girl if you're a boy,
00:13:24a boy if you're a girl, or whatever.
00:13:28Whatever.
00:13:29Hit me with a why if that's of value to you,
00:13:32and I will tell you something that is going to blow your mind
00:13:36and change your life.
00:13:37I am not kidding.
00:13:38Blow your mind, change your life.
00:13:40Might even get you blown as a whole.
00:13:42Change your pants.
00:13:44I'm definitely going to join a gym class to meet women.
00:13:47Do you want to share your AI fine-tuning approach?
00:13:50I don't think so.
00:13:51I don't think I want to do that.
00:13:53Yes.
00:13:54All right.
00:13:58So everyone thinks that finding it hard to talk,
00:14:01I'm just going to talk boy to girl, right?
00:14:03So everyone thinks that finding it hard to talk to girls,
00:14:05it's because of insecurity.
00:14:07It's not.
00:14:08It's because of selfishness.
00:14:11It's because of selfishness.
00:14:13The reason why you have a tough time talking to girls is because you're selfish,
00:14:17because you're making it about you.
00:14:19My insecurities, my fear, my desire.
00:14:22Oh, I don't want to get rejected.
00:14:23Oh, I, me, me, I, I.
00:14:26Shut up.
00:14:27Not everything in life is about you and your whole mirrors of self-regard.
00:14:30It's not about you.
00:14:32I learned this in software sales in my 20s, right?
00:14:35I built this amazing, beautiful, wonderful piece of software,
00:14:38and I had to go and sell it.
00:14:40Now, did I go and sell it from the perspective of, well,
00:14:44I really need money to make payroll, so you've got to buy my software,
00:14:48because it's about me and my needs.
00:14:50Don't reject me, and I've got to get paid, and I've got this great software.
00:14:53No.
00:14:54No, no, no, no.
00:14:55I had a great piece of software,
00:15:01and I wanted to share it with the world.
00:15:05You grok, right?
00:15:06You follow, right?
00:15:07It was not about me.
00:15:10It was about my software and the amazing benefits my software
00:15:16could provide to the world.
00:15:21It's not about me.
00:15:22It's about the software and the benefit to someone else.
00:15:26It's the same thing with philosophy.
00:15:27It's not about me.
00:15:29It's about the benefit that philosophy can provide to the world, right?
00:15:36That's what it's about.
00:15:37It's about the benefit that philosophy can provide to the world.
00:15:43If you make it about you, people will reject you.
00:15:48Can you imagine going to a used car lot?
00:15:52You need a used car.
00:15:55The guy's like, hey, man, you know, I've got this hookers and blow habit.
00:16:02You've got to buy the most expensive car on the lot,
00:16:04because I really need the commission, man.
00:16:07Vixen with three axes is waiting for me down at the Gentleman's Club
00:16:10by the airport.
00:16:13I need a little pouch of bacon soda, if you know what I mean.
00:16:15This is the most expensive car.
00:16:17It's like 23 grand.
00:16:18It's the most expensive car we've got.
00:16:20My commission on that is a sweet 2,300.
00:16:22I really need that.
00:16:23I really need that.
00:16:24I'm going to blow it all tonight.
00:16:25Blow it.
00:16:26You get it?
00:16:27Blow.
00:16:28Anyway, I really, really need you to buy this fucking car,
00:16:32because Desiree and Vixen with three axes are waiting for me,
00:16:36scissor kicking at the Gentleman's Club out by the airport.
00:16:40And we've got special on 14,000 vats of specialized P. Diddy baby oil
00:16:48with pheromones.
00:16:49So you've got to buy this car for me.
00:16:52Do it for me, man.
00:16:53Do it for me.
00:16:54Would you want to buy a car from someone who made it all about themselves
00:16:57and their needs?
00:16:58No.
00:17:01A good salesman connects what they are selling to genuine,
00:17:06legitimate, helpful needs of the customers.
00:17:10So if you're coming in and you've got 19 children,
00:17:13the guy's not going to sell you a sports car.
00:17:16If you're coming in as a young single man,
00:17:18he's not going to sell you a minivan,
00:17:20because he's going to figure out what you might want and provide it.
00:17:25That's good sales.
00:17:26Sales is not about you.
00:17:28It's not even fundamentally about the product.
00:17:30It's about the benefit that the product can provide the buyer.
00:17:39And dating is sales.
00:17:42You are selling yourself.
00:17:46So if you have a cure for cancer that costs 50 bucks
00:17:55and you go to someone with cancer,
00:17:58you're not afraid of getting rejected,
00:18:00because it's 50 bucks and it cures their cancer.
00:18:02They're going to buy it.
00:18:04And they're going to thank you.
00:18:05They're going to send up hosannas to you to the very Elysium skies themselves.
00:18:13No problem.
00:18:17Now, if you had a cure for cancer for 50 bucks,
00:18:21someone's dying of cancer and you say,
00:18:23you know, I'm just too nervous to approach them.
00:18:27I don't want to.
00:18:29I mean, I'm probably overthinking this, but I just, I can't.
00:18:37I just, I can't.
00:18:38Don't make me.
00:18:39I can't do it.
00:18:41My heart, like I can feel it pounding,
00:18:43like Mike Tyson trying to get out of the bone cage of my chest.
00:18:47It's just, I can't.
00:18:50So I'm going home.
00:18:51And you take your cancer cure and you go home and the guy dies of cancer.
00:18:55Aren't you an asshole for killing him with your insecurity?
00:19:01It's not about you.
00:19:03Dating, talking to girls, talking to boys,
00:19:05it's not about you.
00:19:08Not about you.
00:19:12It's about the benefit you can provide to the other person.
00:19:17Now, if you don't believe in that benefit,
00:19:20go work on yourself until you believe in it.
00:19:23Don't pass along fraudulent gifts.
00:19:26Don't be a scam artist.
00:19:27Don't be a con artist.
00:19:28Don't pass along fraudulent gifts.
00:19:32Work on yourself until you have something of undeniable value to offer.
00:19:37Then don't be a selfish asshole and withhold your benefits from the world.
00:19:44Philosophy is not about me.
00:19:47It's about the benefit that philosophy can provide to you and the world as a whole.
00:19:52Oh, but I don't know if I'm eloquent enough.
00:19:54I don't know.
00:19:55I'm bald.
00:19:56I don't know.
00:19:57I don't know if I can do it.
00:19:58Oh, shut up.
00:19:59Go and provide your benefits to the world.
00:20:01Shut up and stop making it about yourself all the time
00:20:04Go and provide your benefits to the world.
00:20:10It's about the happiness you can bring to a good woman and good man and your children.
00:20:18It's not about you, you, you, you all the, all the, all the time.
00:20:24It's exhausting.
00:20:26It's debilitating.
00:20:35Somebody's falling from a high, high, high building and you've got this giant inflatable thing.
00:20:41It just needs, you and your buddies need to push it over five feet so they don't die.
00:20:45And you're like, oh, I don't know.
00:20:47I mean, I don't know.
00:20:49I don't want to impose.
00:20:50I don't want to move it.
00:20:51Maybe somebody wants it to stay where it is.
00:20:53Dead.
00:20:58Dead.
00:20:59Good.
00:21:00Good job.
00:21:01Stop making it about you.
00:21:02And somebody splats on the sidewalk.
00:21:10Well, I do have fusion in a jar.
00:21:12Could solve all of the energy problems in the world.
00:21:14I do have fusion in a jar.
00:21:16Figured that out.
00:21:18But I don't want to impose.
00:21:20And I don't want people to think I'm being pushy.
00:21:22And I don't want...
00:21:23God.
00:21:25Just shut up and go sell your fusion in a jar.
00:21:29Stop making it about you.
00:21:32It's about the happiness you can bring to someone.
00:21:34Now, if you meet the girl and you can bring happiness to the girl,
00:21:39how dare you withhold that from her?
00:21:41If she can bring happiness to you too.
00:21:43And usually it works that way that if you really bring happiness to someone,
00:21:47then they will bring happiness to you.
00:21:54But the reason why it's tough to talk to girls is you don't believe
00:21:57that you can bring value to someone.
00:22:01It's like asking for a raise when you've just spent the last year doing a shitty job.
00:22:04It's a little tough, right?
00:22:06Why am I so insecure asking for a raise?
00:22:09Well, because you set fire to the company warehouse three times in the last four months.
00:22:14And you're this close to getting fired.
00:22:16If you provide value to a woman, it's very selfish for you to withhold that value from her.
00:22:32I mean, really, in life.
00:22:36You just have to make one person very happy in order for your life to be completely worthwhile.
00:22:41Just one person.
00:22:43Make one person really...
00:22:44Hopefully that person is a young man or woman of childbearing age and all of that kind of good stuff.
00:22:49Get kids out of it.
00:22:50Just make one person happy.
00:22:51That's it.
00:22:52Just make one person happy.
00:22:53And hopefully they make you happy and all of that.
00:22:57I mean, I love what I do, but my greatest pride and sense of meaning and happiness and joy
00:23:05comes from the fact that I make my wife very happy.
00:23:08I make my daughter very happy.
00:23:10I mean, I make you guys happy too.
00:23:11I hope.
00:23:12Although I know sometimes it stings a little.
00:23:14It's the same with me.
00:23:15If it's any consolation.
00:23:17Just make someone happy.
00:23:19Just go and bring laughter.
00:23:22You know, like there's all these things on...
00:23:25Did I save one?
00:23:26You know, all of these lists, right?
00:23:29All of these lifts.
00:23:31Lists that women have, right?
00:23:34I'm looking for a man in finance.
00:23:36Six, four, blue eyes.
00:23:39But I don't think I'll be able to find it.
00:23:43Can I search for it?
00:23:44List.
00:23:48Okay.
00:23:49I just tried to do a search and the screen just went blank.
00:23:52Wait, did it go down to the bottom?
00:23:54List.
00:23:55Oh, there it is.
00:23:56Okay.
00:23:57Are you saying I have nothing?
00:23:59Wait.
00:24:00Deep.
00:24:01Deep voice.
00:24:02May 21st.
00:24:03No, I don't think that's it.
00:24:04So, there's this woman and she was...
00:24:05She's, I don't know, some fitness girl.
00:24:06And she's like, I have this list, you know.
00:24:07Over 5'10".
00:24:08Deep voice.
00:24:09Good cheekbones.
00:24:10And, you know, just list and list and list, right?
00:24:11And, you know, the lists are fun, you know.
00:24:12Like, when I was a kid, my brother and I used to be like, if we got a million pounds each,
00:24:13what would we buy?
00:24:14And he was like, I don't know.
00:24:15I don't know.
00:24:16I don't know.
00:24:17I don't know.
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00:24:56I don't know.
00:24:57Oh right.
00:24:58Her list goes out the window.
00:24:59The list is not life in this instance.
00:25:00The list is nonsense.
00:25:04It's just nonsense.
00:25:09It all goes out the window.
00:25:12You know, there's a pretty funny, what do they call it, when, chadfishing, right, there's
00:25:29chadfishing, so chadfishing is when you get the picture of a really great guy, a really
00:25:34great looking guy, and you just wait for the women to swarm you, right, like a really good
00:25:38looking guy, and you just wait for the women to swarm you.
00:25:41And so some guy who was an incel wanted to put out this theory, he said, oh, well, you're
00:25:46an incel because you have right wing beliefs, right, you're a conservative, right, so this
00:25:52really good looking guy was like, yeah, I'm a MAGA guy, and the women are all like, teehee,
00:25:56that's fine, right, because he's good looking, right, or you're an incel because you don't
00:26:04have good personal hygiene, and then this really good looking guy was like, yeah, I
00:26:08don't bathe, and the women are like, teehee, I bet you smell good anyway, you know, or
00:26:13maybe because you don't have any charisma, and so this guy said absolutely nothing of
00:26:18any intelligence, nice weather, I like sports, like just complete nonsense, and the women
00:26:22are like, oh, you're so much fun to chat with, right, so it's all kind of funny, right, it's
00:26:26all just, it's sad, sad, but funny, sad but funny.
00:26:38So you have something of value to offer, or you don't.
00:26:47You have something of value to offer, now, if you don't think you have something of value
00:26:53to offer, any woman with any perception will know you're lying your ass off when you talk
00:26:59to her.
00:27:03You're the coke addict car dealer, car sales dealer, right, you don't, you're a car salesman,
00:27:07coke addict car salesman, don't be that guy, it's gross, it's gross, and you'll only get
00:27:14self-loathing men or women.
00:27:25So stop, stop making it all about you and your thoughts and your feelings, if you can
00:27:36make the woman happy, stop being a jerk and withholding that from her.
00:27:44Again, I understand there's got to be, oh yeah, the Chad guy, there was another Chad
00:27:50Fishing, right, the guy posted that he was convicted of assault against his girlfriend
00:27:57and the women didn't care, they didn't care.
00:28:03They didn't care.
00:28:07So a woman's list, it's just a filter for rage cells and the resentful, it's just a
00:28:14filter, that's all it is, just a filter.
00:28:16I have a list of preferences, well I'm upset with that, okay, so you're a hot-tempered
00:28:21guy who has no self-confidence and you're kind of angry at women, so, right, the list
00:28:26is, it's a wish list, it's comedy, it's not a real thing, it's not a real thing.
00:28:31And of course, we know that the list is not a real thing, because the list never, never
00:28:36seems to include moral qualities.
00:28:39I've never seen any of these lists, it's always finance, Chad jaw, six foot two, old money,
00:28:46deep voice, masculine intent, funny, cute, charming, witty, bleh.
00:28:53It's never about honest, courageous, virtuous, hard, like it's never, never about that.
00:28:57So it's just, it's a wish list, it's like, it is much relationship to women's actual
00:29:02dating strategies is like, I don't know, fantasy football pornography does, I don't know.
00:29:17So the way that you talk to women is, you have something to offer, you have something
00:29:22of value to offer, and you like the girl.
00:29:26If you don't have something to offer, don't talk to her, don't talk to her, otherwise
00:29:30you're just defrauding her, don't do it.
00:29:34And if you don't think you have anything of value to offer women, then you have to wait
00:29:39until you accept and believe that, right?
00:29:45Fix my loneliness is a hyena-like mating cry of the terminally depressed.
00:29:51Make me feel better about myself.
00:29:54I don't want to be lonely, help me, help me, oh my God.
00:29:57And that literally is like, hey man, I need, I need, I need, I need to get some drugs because,
00:30:03so buy my car, like, it's about your needs, your needs, your needs, right?
00:30:07No thank you.
00:30:10No thank you.
00:30:14Work on having and adding value.
00:30:17I mean, I always had a very strong belief that I'd be a great husband and a great dad.
00:30:23I mean, maybe not when I was a lot younger, but certainly from my mid to late 20s onwards,
00:30:29and certainly after therapy, which I started in my late 20s.
00:30:32So I was like, yeah, I'd be a good, I'd be a good dad.
00:30:36I mean, I knew I was good with kids because I worked in a daycare and they all adored
00:30:39me, as I really had great affection for them as well.
00:30:43But so I knew I was going to be good with kids.
00:30:51I knew I'd have a lot of fun as a dad.
00:30:53I knew I'd be a pretty good husband and a very good husband and all of that, so.
00:31:02Somebody says, we know women are lying when they say they want nice guys.
00:31:05Why believe them when they say they want six foot, six figures?
00:31:07No, no, no.
00:31:08So women want nice guys.
00:31:11Well, you know, that's a very bitter meme.
00:31:13It's like, how do I repel women?
00:31:17It's like, oh, just be nice.
00:31:18They hate that stuff.
00:31:19That's not true.
00:31:20No, healthy women want nice guys.
00:31:24The women who say they want bad guys are not healthy.
00:31:29They are very unhealthy, very toxic.
00:31:35So don't worry about those people.
00:31:37Don't worry about those people.
00:31:40Don't worry about those people.
00:31:46They are advertising their dysfunction and they're helping you stay away.
00:31:55All right, let me get to your other questions and comments.
00:32:01Yeah, of course, there are the women, women always want more pay and then they
00:32:06always want men who make more than they do, and it's like, no, sorry.
00:32:11Every time you get more pay, a man generally gets less pay.
00:32:14So women want more pay and then a man who makes more than they do.
00:32:19And it's like, I'm sorry, I don't know.
00:32:24I'll donate, but it will need to wait until October.
00:32:26OK. I can wait.
00:32:30Just kidding. All right.
00:32:35Like, yeah, you're just going to have to you have to pick a lane, right?
00:32:38If you want to make more money, that's fine.
00:32:40That's fine. But you really are going to have to accept that men aren't going to
00:32:46make as much money as you, especially when you want the government to force
00:32:49employers to pay you more, right?
00:32:51Somebody says since from the last stream, I was listening recently to one of your
00:32:55shows and you mentioned you love how Izzy interacts with authority figures.
00:32:58Can you name a particularly memorable example of Izzy interacting with an
00:33:01authority figure? I won't give any particular details, but in a situation of
00:33:06injustice where an acquaintance of hers was not able to stand up for herself, Izzy
00:33:11went. She went very strong in making sure that the rather shy acquaintance got a
00:33:21fair settling of accounts.
00:33:23So she's very, very fierce that way.
00:33:25And I appreciate that.
00:33:27Steph, what do you think of debating parental responsibility and peaceful
00:33:30parenting with Andrew Wilson?
00:33:32Well, the problem is that Andrew Wilson and I would be dealing with a very
00:33:35different methodology.
00:33:36So I would be dealing with reason and evidence and empiricism, and he would be
00:33:42dealing with theological absolutes.
00:33:44So I'm not sure if we couldn't agree on that.
00:33:47And therefore, the debate probably wouldn't go very far.
00:33:53All right.
00:33:55Boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom.
00:33:59I would rather see Steph talk to Chris Williamson about more in-depth life
00:34:03stuff.
00:34:03Chris Williamson reminds me of a young Steph.
00:34:06Hey, that's younger.
00:34:06No, actually, it's young.
00:34:07All right.
00:34:11Did we talk already, Chris Williamson?
00:34:18So I'm just going to see if, uh, once in a lifetime, there is water underground.
00:34:26Same as it ever was.
00:34:29Same as it ever was.
00:34:31Okay.
00:34:31So there's no questions there that I didn't get to.
00:34:35Oh, sneezy time.
00:34:36Is it sneezy time?
00:34:41Oh my.
00:34:43All right.
00:34:49Thank you for the tip.
00:34:51Uh, I'm not sure what it is about this conversation, but by God, do I feel the
00:34:55need to distract myself, even leave and go do chores or anything else, even though
00:34:59I love the advice you're giving and I've been thinking of ways I can increase my
00:35:01value on what I bring to the table.
00:35:05You don't have the right to withhold your gold from the world.
00:35:11You just don't have that right.
00:35:12It's wrong.
00:35:13It's absolutely wrong.
00:35:14You don't have the right.
00:35:15Do you know why?
00:35:15Because you only exist because other people did not withhold
00:35:18their value from the world.
00:35:19So your existence is predicated on the fact that your ancestors
00:35:23were able to woo women and men.
00:35:26Well, wooing men isn't that hard.
00:35:28So you only exist because your ancestors were not afraid to put their
00:35:36best foot forward and woo women.
00:35:38So you don't have the right to withhold your value from women.
00:35:41Otherwise you're just a exploiter.
00:35:43You're a kind of parasitical, right?
00:35:44You're like vampiric on everybody else's courage.
00:35:47And then you make it all about yourself and fumble and choke.
00:35:50And that's the end of your bloodline.
00:35:52You owe it to your children.
00:35:54You owe it to your children to make a case for you as a father and a husband.
00:35:59You owe it to the next generation.
00:36:00You owe it to the continuance of your bloodline, civilization, the West, whatever.
00:36:08You owe it.
00:36:10It is a requirement.
00:36:12It's not an option.
00:36:15Well, when I get over my indecision, you're only here because other
00:36:19people got over their bullshit.
00:36:21So get over yours.
00:36:23Go fuck it up.
00:36:26Go fuck it up.
00:36:27I've crashed and burned numerous times in talking to girls.
00:36:33I mean, I told you the story about the first girl I asked out.
00:36:37Queen of the school.
00:36:38Still remember her name?
00:36:39Queen of the school.
00:36:41I must've been 14 years old.
00:36:42And I said, Hey, would you like to go swimming?
00:36:46And she's like, with who?
00:36:48Crashed and burned.
00:36:53First time around.
00:36:54Crashed and burned.
00:36:56So, so what?
00:36:58What's wrong with that?
00:36:59What's wrong with that?
00:37:01You, uh, you want to wait to a guaranteed success before you try anything?
00:37:05Well, that's a great way to live in the grave long before you have to.
00:37:10You never want to live in the grave.
00:37:11You want to want to be dead meat when you go in the grave.
00:37:19Some better say is I have a lot of anxiety about my career and
00:37:22having children just had my first.
00:37:24I'm away from home for six, 12 to 16 days a month.
00:37:27And I'm worried it's going to be a problem for secure
00:37:29attachment of my sweet baby girl.
00:37:30My career treats me well, and I'm happy here, but I don't know
00:37:33how to navigate this challenge.
00:37:35Well, just ask for more time at home.
00:37:44Just ask for more time at home.
00:37:48No, I talked to Chris Williamson in 2020.
00:38:00Did I, did I have exciting?
00:38:05Good to know, you know, you've done a lot of interviews.
00:38:07When guy creates fake hot criminal Tinder profile to make a point
00:38:13and it goes horribly, right?
00:38:14Oh, this is from 2019.
00:38:16It's when I was, uh, I read more Chad 29 sup I'm Chad.
00:38:25You don't like me too bad.
00:38:27Things you should know about me.
00:38:28Cause you all see the ankle monitor.
00:38:36Nice.
00:38:38Nice.
00:38:40Oh my gosh.
00:38:41And the girls just, Chad takes a super aggressive approach with this next
00:38:47Tinder match, basically telling her to hurry up and read his profile.
00:38:50So they could get the unpleasantness out of the way and get straight to
00:38:53smashing, which is sex, right?
00:38:57That's pretty funny.
00:39:00Oh my gosh.
00:39:04The best is safe for last.
00:39:05However, when one of his matches completely blows past, he's
00:39:08Oh my gosh.
00:39:12So she says, read it that for real or joke or what it's real.
00:39:17It was only one kid.
00:39:19He was eight and my mind felt, Oh God, Oh God, Oh, that's horrible.
00:39:23And she says, wow.
00:39:24Not really sure what to say.
00:39:25I guess it's cool.
00:39:27How are you being honest about it though?
00:39:30Yeah, I'm not really sure what to say.
00:39:31I guess it's cool how you're being honest about it, though.
00:39:34Yeah, I'm not really sure what to say.
00:39:36I guess it's cool how you're being honest about it though.
00:39:39So what are you doing right about now?
00:39:40Anything cool?
00:39:41Oh, just bored, bored and on Tinder looking for fun and stuff yourself.
00:39:44Are you from?
00:39:44And then she just goes on.
00:39:46Oh God.
00:39:47Oh God.
00:39:49Oh, that's, um, you know, I'm telling you, I said this like, um, I said this a
00:39:57show or two ago, chivalry is gone because female nature, at least in its current
00:40:01incarnation is, uh, it's being revealed.
00:40:05This is, it's just being revealed to bear to people.
00:40:08I'm a pilot.
00:40:13So that's impossible without a career change.
00:40:16Yeah.
00:40:17Well, just, you know, I'm, I'm sure you get time off and spend as much time as you
00:40:19can.
00:40:20All right.
00:40:21Hi Steph.
00:40:22I just had a job interview with an absolutely amazing manager.
00:40:25A total contrast from mine.
00:40:26The job pays considerably more as well.
00:40:28I'm really hoping to get the job.
00:40:29Looking back, what would the science be that this manager was interested?
00:40:32Well, I, I don't know, but there's a very passive approach.
00:40:44I don't, sorry, maybe I'm misunderstanding something.
00:40:48So I assume that you called up the manager and said, that was an
00:40:53absolutely fantastic interview.
00:40:55I'm dying to work for you.
00:40:56I know I can provide a huge amount of value.
00:40:58I'm on tender hooks.
00:41:00If there's anything else you need to know, I'd be happy to answer any and all
00:41:03questions.
00:41:04Hire me.
00:41:04I will work like a Turk or whatever, like whatever you're going to say.
00:41:08So why would you be passive about this?
00:41:13Oh, modern wisdom.
00:41:15Okay.
00:41:15So, um, modern wisdom is the podcast and why YouTube deleted my 1 million
00:41:21subscriber channel.
00:41:23It was probably well over 2 million, except they kept suppressing it also.
00:41:27Thanks Steph.
00:41:28Just donated at free domain.com slash donate.
00:41:32I appreciate that.
00:41:33Very, very kind.
00:41:35Good looking guy.
00:41:40Should probably do that again.
00:41:43Rating explicit.
00:41:44That's right.
00:41:45Explicit nipple tastic philosophy is in the house.
00:41:55All right.
00:41:55Any other last questions, comments, challenges, issues, problems, praise,
00:42:00condemnation, salvation, desperation.
00:42:05All right.
00:42:07I discussed my value.
00:42:08I listened to a podcast from years ago about landing a dream job and how making
00:42:11the case for the value one can bring is very powerful.
00:42:18Um, and important in this process.
00:42:22He did ask one situational question where I told him I needed to think a bit more.
00:42:25We got back to it later and I gave a good answer though.
00:42:26I'm just worried that messed me up.
00:42:28No, if, if it's right, you can't mess it up.
00:42:31If it's a good fit and he's a good manager, you can't mess it up.
00:42:47Yeah.
00:42:47I mean, I read some, some biographies of Hitler.
00:42:50Um, when I was working on my novel, uh, almost, uh, because I really wanted to
00:42:55try and capture the, the hellscape of, um, the Weimar Republic in that novel
00:43:01and the rise of Nazism.
00:43:02So, um, yeah, I think, uh, thank you very much.
00:43:05I appreciate that.
00:43:06So it is, uh, you know, people are, people are curious and, and this again, the
00:43:12skepticism, uh, you know, once, once you break that dam and people realize that
00:43:16there's been a lot of big lies in society, they're going to go looking for more.
00:43:20And whether they'll find them or not, that's a, that's a journey, man.
00:43:25That's a journey.
00:43:28I mean, I remember, um, uh, Churchill in the unnecessary war.
00:43:31I did a show on this, like, I don't know, 17 years ago, uh, about a lot
00:43:35of the lies about world war II.
00:43:36And that's, uh, that's pretty wild stuff.
00:43:42Yeah.
00:43:42Cause if, if, if the lies are right here, right.
00:43:44The lies are right up against your face.
00:43:47Who's to say that they aren't further away.
00:43:49Right.
00:43:49The idea that you're being lied.
00:43:52Like, let me ask you this.
00:43:54Cause maybe we can make it a little bit more personal so that we can sort
00:43:56of understand it at this level.
00:44:00Have you, uh, Hey, Steph, just wanted to let you know the quality of the show.
00:44:08It hasn't wavered a bit.
00:44:08I haven't donated in a while due to financial worries.
00:44:10I appreciate that.
00:44:11And I, I know, man, everybody, please, please know that I understand that.
00:44:15And I sympathize and please don't donate what you can't afford.
00:44:18Absolutely not.
00:44:18Keep that for yourself and all of that.
00:44:21But, um, anything that's been on your mind lately, Steph?
00:44:23Oh yeah.
00:44:24Everything and always all the time.
00:44:26It's quite a carnival in here.
00:44:30Um, so if you've ever had someone lie to you, a big lie, a big lie, I was
00:44:43thinking, cause there was one in a call-in show recently, but it was a
00:44:46private call-in show, so I won't talk about it.
00:44:47But if you've ever had someone just a giant lie, then what happens is you
00:44:55look back, don't you skeptically over the entire relationship, like if you've
00:45:02been married for 20 years and you realize your wife cheated on you twice
00:45:06over the last year, don't you look back and say, Oh my God, what was going on
00:45:09before, right?
00:45:12If you've been in a relationship for 20 years and you find out that someone
00:45:16has some big, terrible secret, right?
00:45:22Then don't you look back and say, Oh my God, if they can keep this secret,
00:45:29what other secrets are they keeping?
00:45:30How much have they been lying to me?
00:45:31Right.
00:45:32So, so this is what's going on in society at the moment.
00:45:34This is the consequence.
00:45:37Everything is now in question because so many lies have been told.
00:45:44So many lies have been told.
00:45:50So many lies have been told that everything is now open to question.
00:46:07Did we ever publish this to our channel?
00:46:10Are you to delete my 1 million subscriber channel?
00:46:15So, yeah.
00:46:19All right.
00:46:19Somebody says, yeah, even aliens, UFOs, flat earth, reptilian overlords,
00:46:25the chemtrails, like people are just like, Oh my God, like we've been lied to
00:46:29about so much.
00:46:30What have we, what have we not been lied to about?
00:46:32And that's, you know, that's really kicking things open that formerly were
00:46:37accepted, right?
00:46:39Uh, somebody says when you were in the private sector, how did you receive
00:46:41corrections or improvement feedback from peers or reports people below you?
00:46:45As a solopreneur now, what is your opinion about feedback?
00:46:48I recall you asking for feedback from us listeners and even your daughter.
00:46:51So I guess you welcome it from people who work for you.
00:46:53Am I right?
00:46:54Yeah.
00:46:54I mean, I think James, you can say that I'm pretty often saying, um, how's it
00:47:00going working with me?
00:47:01Is there anything that I can do better or different or anything you need support
00:47:05on or anything that you'd like to work on to make your day working with me more
00:47:11enjoyable or anything like that?
00:47:12Right.
00:47:12So, uh, so yeah, I mean, I'm always looking for feedback.
00:47:18That's, you know, I always say with the show, you know, feedback, thoughts,
00:47:20comments, questions, issues, you know, whatever you, I can improve.
00:47:23And, you know, every couple of months I'll certainly do a big question about,
00:47:28uh, James has absolutely requesting feedback.
00:47:30Yeah.
00:47:30I just want to know how I can do things better.
00:47:33Uh, I'm proud of what I do and optimistic about how I can improve.
00:47:39It's a tough balance, right?
00:47:40Cause you want to say that I can improve without saying I'm not
00:47:43doing a quality job now, right?
00:47:44So I'm doing the maximum quality at all times.
00:47:48I try to do the maximum quality in a sustainable fashion, right?
00:47:51The maximum quality and always try to improve.
00:47:54And that tension is to me, what keeps things keep getting spicy, keeping it spicy.
00:48:02Oh, with regards to this.
00:48:03Yeah.
00:48:03I look back and try and trace potentially when the person started to lie.
00:48:07Yeah, for sure.
00:48:10I'm pretty sure Keith Knight believes in chemtrails.
00:48:12I found a website where you can build book collections and Keith's collection
00:48:15had a few books about geoengineering.
00:48:17I think chemtrails are real.
00:48:18China and Dubai openly admit weather modifications.
00:48:22I do think, uh, I know that China and Dubai have admitted
00:48:26weather modification for sure.
00:48:31So I, I did a whole show on chemtrails recently, which you can, we can look up.
00:48:40Um, it is kind of creepy watching these, these, these mosquitoes drop from planes.
00:48:49I just find that that feels very dystopian to me.
00:48:53So yeah, I, but I, what I do know is that there are vapor trails.
00:49:04Like, I mean that for sure.
00:49:04I know.
00:49:05And planes crisscrossing and the vapor trails that I understand.
00:49:08And they do come and they do start and stop depending on the thermoclines
00:49:11of the temperature or differently layered, uh, air temperatures and so on.
00:49:14Right.
00:49:15So thermoclines, I think that's water anyway.
00:49:19You know, so they do start and stop depending on various factors.
00:49:22So I'm, you know, some, some of that I think is people thinking, oh,
00:49:26they're flipping a switch and so on.
00:49:27But I think some of that's more natural.
00:49:28So, all right.
00:49:34Yeah.
00:49:34Contrails.
00:49:35That's right.
00:49:36The government admitted to chemtrails in Vietnam.
00:49:38It's just a matter of scale.
00:49:40Well, again, it, uh, it wouldn't surprise me.
00:49:43You know, I, I made a video, as you know, called the case against China during COVID.
00:49:48I got a lot of expertise in that.
00:49:50And, uh, but even I was a bit surprised when, I mean, a bunch of stuff went missing
00:49:56in Calgary and people that, that really went down the memory hole and that, uh,
00:50:02it seems that, uh, uh, America was funding the French built Wuhan, uh, the
00:50:09Wuhan lab, uh, which has about the same level of security as your average
00:50:16dentist's office, not kidding about that.
00:50:18But I, I was even, even I was surprised that the U.S.
00:50:21was funding or appears to have been funding bioweapons in China.
00:50:25That's wild.
00:50:26And that totally destroys any sort of left, right, and a free
00:50:31market and communist distinction.
00:50:36All right, let's see here.
00:50:38What am I missing here?
00:50:44All right.
00:50:44Chemtrails has put out to down a preview of quite the queue on Q and A's to general.
00:50:58Yeah, for sure.
00:51:02Wuhan is weird as hell.
00:51:03That's where the scrap metal from 9-1-9-11 went.
00:51:06Is that right?
00:51:07As a pilot, contrails are normal.
00:51:08Chemtrails, as they're called, are real, but there's lots of
00:51:10misinformation on how it works.
00:51:12Yeah, I mean, I'm aware that contrails are normal, um, but yeah.
00:51:21It's the idea that they put it on commercial planes, that they just have
00:51:24these, uh, chemicals or sprays on commercial planes and they attach it to
00:51:28the wings and then the pilots flip a switch.
00:51:30I think that would be pretty tough.
00:51:32I think that'd be pretty tough to, um, to keep quiet.
00:51:36I mean, I think that would be pretty tough.
00:51:38I mean, lots of retired pilots would just, the last couple of days of work,
00:51:42they just take, here's where we flip on the con, the chemtrails and here's
00:51:45where we flip off and so on with that.
00:51:46So, because you see commercial, isn't they talk about commercial flights, right?
00:51:50So again, I'm right.
00:51:52Uh, I am, uh, not an expert on this.
00:51:54Oh, it's private aircraft.
00:51:57And nth dimensional reptiles I struggle with, but chemtrails,
00:52:00my brain can understand.
00:52:01Yeah.
00:52:02It's like the, the, uh, the lizard necks and so on.
00:52:06I think those are just video artifacts from compression and so on.
00:52:09Right.
00:52:10Yo, Steph, big donation coming a few hundred from me getting my first
00:52:13YouTube paycheck of about 4k late October.
00:52:17Well, I'm very happy for you.
00:52:19I'm very happy for you that you're getting paid from YouTube.
00:52:23Can you believe it?
00:52:23Like back in the day, you said six or 7,000 people watching a live stream
00:52:28and I'd get super chats from that.
00:52:30Isn't that wild?
00:52:31Isn't that wild?
00:52:32But I still like the jazz club.
00:52:34What can I tell you?
00:52:36But thank you.
00:52:37I really, really appreciate that.
00:52:38Where is the art bell was right jar.
00:52:39Yeah, yeah, for sure.
00:52:42Yeah.
00:52:43Can the government of Canada was funding, somebody says, was funding
00:52:46gain of research or similar research in Saskatchewan with Chinese links.
00:52:49Was I think it was Winnipeg.
00:52:50I think it was Winnipeg.
00:52:54Uh, yeah, I, you know, I don't think there's any limit to the amount of
00:52:57creepy stuff that goes on, uh, in the bowels of, of statism.
00:53:01I really don't think that there's any particular limit to it.
00:53:03It's, uh, it's pretty wild.
00:53:06It's pretty wild.
00:53:08It's pretty wild.
00:53:09And by the way, by the way, sorry.
00:53:11I mean, all, all openness and, and, uh, uh, appreciation your, um, your
00:53:18success on YouTube is wonderful.
00:53:19And I'm actually, I'm thrilled for you.
00:53:21I'm absolutely thrilled for you and well done.
00:53:23Well done.
00:53:24Uh, if you want to, um, uh, share your channel here, I'm
00:53:28sure people would appreciate it.
00:53:30Doberman says Steph much appreciated for the call and show with the woman
00:53:33whose sister was addicted to drugs and her evil parents are believing
00:53:35a comment under those show under the show soon, just gathering my
00:53:38thoughts on why it was so powerful.
00:53:40Yeah, I'm doing some crackerjack call and shows lately.
00:53:43I did one with a woman yesterday where I was trying to get her to
00:53:46open her heart to her children.
00:53:49Ooh, that was something.
00:53:50Yeah, that was something I'm sure that'll go out at some point
00:53:53over the next week or two.
00:53:55But yeah, I've been doing some pretty wild call and shows lately.
00:53:57It's a very good, good call and shows lately.
00:54:01You'll be ordering a private call soon as well.
00:54:02Yeah, the private calls are pretty spicy.
00:54:04Uh, cause I can be pretty, pretty frank without having to worry about being
00:54:07sliced and diced and misinterpreted.
00:54:09So yeah, the private calls are very good in my, in my humble opinion.
00:54:12I think they're very important.
00:54:14So you can get those of course, a free domain.com slash call free
00:54:17domain.com slash call.
00:54:22All right.
00:54:23Any other last questions, comments, issues, challenges.
00:54:27Sorry.
00:54:27I'm not going to do a super long show tonight, but I did like six hours of
00:54:30call-ins today, so I'm a little full.
00:54:34How much are they?
00:54:35Uh, just talk to me on, uh, I'm still half and half.
00:54:38It's sort of an introductory price at the moment.
00:54:39It's probably going to go up cause everyone's like, oh, that's so little.
00:54:41I was expecting more.
00:54:42So just contact me on, um, uh, using the website and we'll talk about it from there.
00:54:50Boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom.
00:54:56Yeah.
00:54:56I don't want to talk about a price here because, um, when it changes, people will
00:54:59get mad, it's the kind of thing, you know, I was just realizing the other day that I
00:55:03haven't raised in, I don't even know how long, like half a decade or more.
00:55:08I haven't like, it's still three bucks a month, five bucks a month.
00:55:11I haven't raised it.
00:55:12So I may at some point have to up that just a smidge as well.
00:55:14Cause otherwise, you know, the, uh, the, uh, income decays, right.
00:55:22Uh, let's see here.
00:55:23I'm very happy that the world seems to be gradually taking an ancap slow turn.
00:55:26Do you see that as well?
00:55:27Yes, absolutely.
00:55:29Half yay is doing a lot.
00:55:30And even, even Mark Zuckerberg, Zuckerberg has come out as a quasi libertarian.
00:55:35Well, that was kind of predictable though.
00:55:38So how is it somewhat predictable that Mark Zuckerberg was going to come out as
00:55:45that Mark Zuckerberg was going to come out as more of a libertarian.
00:55:55A friend of mine did a private call and said it was the
00:55:57best money he had ever spent.
00:55:59Well, thank you.
00:55:59I appreciate that.
00:56:00And do thank your friend for that.
00:56:10So, uh, yes.
00:56:11How was it predictable?
00:56:15Yeah, he started working out.
00:56:16That's right.
00:56:17Yeah.
00:56:17He started working out.
00:56:18I assume maybe he's taken some, uh, DHEA or TRT or I don't know.
00:56:23I don't know.
00:56:23Whatever.
00:56:24Right.
00:56:24But yeah, I mean, the fact that he's just started to work out heavily, uh, you don't
00:56:28know what your beliefs are when you've got noodle arms, like you don't know.
00:56:32You don't know if you're just frightened of, of any assertiveness because you can
00:56:35get your ass kicked up and down the school hallway, you don't know what you
00:56:39actually believe if your body is weak.
00:56:42So out of curiosity, how long is the average wait time for a private call?
00:56:47Oh, not too bad.
00:56:48Actually.
00:56:49You'd be surprised.
00:56:49All right.
00:56:50Uh, I showed my wife the 2012 movie Les Mis yesterday.
00:56:54Thoughts on it?
00:56:54Oh, I thought it was terrible.
00:56:56I thought it was absolutely completely and totally terrible.
00:57:00Uh, it was appalling.
00:57:01I have an, uh, an amazing soft spot for the, well, I, I love the, I mean, Victor
00:57:08Hugo was called the master of human tears.
00:57:10He was so good at evoking emotion in his writing.
00:57:13And, uh, I love the novel Les Mis and I have an absolutely deep
00:57:19and special place in my heart.
00:57:21You, he thinks that man is me.
00:57:23He knew him at a glance.
00:57:24It's really a great musical.
00:57:26And it was really the first musical that I loved.
00:57:31It really is the first musical that I fell in love with.
00:57:35And this is because I dated a woman who was really into musicals.
00:57:40And she got me into even chess, uh, the musical, which is a pretty wild
00:57:45idea for musicals, just chess tournaments.
00:57:48What's it going to be the witness to the ultimate test of cerebral,
00:57:52of cerebral fitness, uh, Murray head.
00:57:56Uh, anyway, so I absolutely love the musical.
00:57:59Carl Wilkinson moves me beyond words.
00:58:02He played the priest, although he, he originally did the role of Jean
00:58:06Valjean, two, four, six Oh one.
00:58:10Yeah.
00:58:10And his falsetto and bring them home, bring him home is just
00:58:13fantastic and Yolrus and, uh, beautiful.
00:58:16I remember when I was working up North, the woman that I was, this
00:58:20is before we were dating, but we were sort of flirting with each other.
00:58:23And, uh, she said, who's better at revolution.
00:58:28And she, she gave me that, you know, you say you want a revolution.
00:58:33Well, you know, the John Lennon one, which is kind of hippie dippy.
00:58:38Uh, and then she's like, uh, read the blood of angry.
00:58:41I'm like, that's a better revolutionary song out of lame is then a stinky
00:58:45old, uh, noodle armed, uh, John Lennon.
00:58:48Right.
00:58:49But, uh, so I have a huge soft spot for the play limits.
00:58:52I've only seen it once.
00:58:53I saw it in New York many years ago, and it was just amazing.
00:58:57It was just amazing.
00:58:59And I did the woman I went with, who I was dating at that point, uh, was so
00:59:02moved that she almost couldn't breathe afterwards because it's a beautiful
00:59:06vision of heroism and strength and honor and defense of the weak and
00:59:13promotion of virtue and, and so on.
00:59:16But I really hated the movie and I hated the movie because the director had
00:59:24people sing the songs over and over and over again, and they sounded bad.
00:59:28Even really good singers like Hugh Jackman and, uh, Anne Hathaway, like
00:59:33people who are really good singers.
00:59:34And, uh, even, um, Russell Crowe, who's actually was in a band when he was
00:59:38younger, is not a bad singer, but just sounded terrible.
00:59:41They went more for big names and acting and they should have sung it in a studio
00:59:44and lip synced it so that it sounds beautiful.
00:59:47You don't want it to be here's here's like someone singing in the street.
00:59:51Nobody sounds good.
00:59:51Same Freddie Mercury sounds like crap singing in the street.
00:59:54You got to get a little echo studio.
00:59:56My God, make it sound beautiful.
00:59:58Make the recordings as beautiful as the music is.
01:00:01But instead the director was like, sing it again, again, more again.
01:00:05And it's like, oh my God.
01:00:07Horrendous.
01:00:09Horrendous.
01:00:11So yeah, I thought it was a absolutely, uh, appallingly, uh, bad.
01:00:16And I don't think, uh, I don't think Hugh Jackman was the guy.
01:00:20I really don't.
01:00:21Hugh Jackman was not the guy for it.
01:00:23Uh, you need somebody barrel-chested like Cole Malkinson.
01:00:28Can you hear the people sing, sing the songs of angry men?
01:00:38It is the music of a people who will not be slaves again.
01:00:43Oh, it's great stuff.
01:00:45When the beating of your heart echoes the beating of the drum.
01:00:50Oh, so good.
01:00:52There is a light about to break, but tomorrow comes.
01:00:58So good.
01:01:00Um,
01:01:11ah, so good.
01:01:16Will you join in our crusade who will be strong and stand with me beyond the
01:01:21barricade, is there a world you long to see?
01:01:25Oh, so good.
01:01:27So good.
01:01:28So yeah.
01:01:32All right.
01:01:33It's not many good movies these days that are not just blatant propaganda.
01:01:36Yeah.
01:01:37Yeah.
01:01:372016, 2017 was like the crossover year after that.
01:01:41It all went to crap.
01:01:47All right.
01:01:48Um, thank you for what you do and creating a community
01:01:52where three thinkers can gather.
01:01:53Oh, thank you.
01:01:54I appreciate that.
01:01:55Thank you for being here.
01:01:55The Silicon Valley people are also being recruited says someone by Peter Teal to
01:02:01set up this government structure based on the thoughts of Mencius mold bug,
01:02:05AKA Curtis Marvin, it's called neo reaction slash neo-cameralism.
01:02:10The idea is a mega CEO as philosopher King.
01:02:19What's your take on revisionist history?
01:02:21I saw a podcast with Douglas Murray getting defensive about people being
01:02:23critical about Winston Churchill's actions during world war two, world war one.
01:02:27Oh, Winston Churchill with Gallipoli.
01:02:29I mean, I know something about Churchill.
01:02:31I can't, I read, I can't even tell you how many books on Churchill because he's
01:02:34a character in my novel almost.
01:02:37So yeah, what he did in Gallipoli and in world war one was absolutely
01:02:40appalling and disastrous.
01:02:48A French version is always great.
01:02:51Phantom of the opera.
01:02:52Uh, I thought the first half was good.
01:02:56I thought the second half was just retarded.
01:02:58All right.
01:02:59Um, yeah, the, the, I love it when they layer over the songs, uh, and they all
01:03:04work together, uh, just gives you goosebumps, right?
01:03:07Are you looking forward to the, am I racist movie?
01:03:09Um, I mean, I probably watch it at some point, but, uh, but you know, it's, it's
01:03:19such an obvious grift and so obviously hypocritical that, uh, it's sort of like,
01:03:27you know, Democrats are the real racist stuff.
01:03:29It doesn't really mean much to me.
01:03:35There is a life about to start when tomorrow comes.
01:03:39Yeah.
01:03:39So good.
01:03:40So good.
01:03:41That that's like divinely inspired music.
01:03:45Did the guy from the rage call and ever talk about regret and send you a message?
01:03:49I really couldn't tell you.
01:03:50I'm so sorry.
01:03:51I'm so sorry.
01:03:52And not too many people get back to me about prior call-ins and, um, it's a little
01:03:56tough to remember because you just listened to it.
01:03:58And so it's fresh in your mind, but, uh, I live very much in the
01:04:01moment when it comes to call-ins.
01:04:03So, all right.
01:04:06Uh, last questions, comments, challenges, issues.
01:04:11It must be to be able to sing like Carl Milkinson.
01:04:13He actually did a whole album, Broadway songs.
01:04:16It ain't necessarily so in summertime and it's just, ah, beautiful, just beautiful.
01:04:23Just beautiful.
01:04:26Yeah.
01:04:26I mean the racism stuff, the Marxists didn't have any luck with class, so they
01:04:31just went with sex and then when that burned out, they went with race and
01:04:34they're just always trying to find ways to set people up for sex.
01:04:37It's a feels, feels very old hat to me, if that makes sense.
01:04:45Matt is subconsciously principled, but not as rational.
01:04:47Otherwise you guys are similar.
01:04:49I think.
01:04:51Yeah.
01:04:51And it's a good family man for sure.
01:04:52It seems to be a good family man.
01:04:58All right.
01:04:58Well, thanks everyone so much for dropping by.
01:05:00Sorry.
01:05:00It's not super long show.
01:05:01We'll see you next time.
01:05:01Bye.
01:05:07But, uh, we will of course talk Sunday morning and, uh, we'll do the first
01:05:12hour open and then the second hour we'll do donor only because, uh, there's
01:05:15a couple of things I'd like to talk about that are not really for the public eye.
01:05:18So let's get to that on Sunday, 11am.
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01:05:36And I hope that you'll avail yourself of that community.
01:05:40And I will get out to everyone this weekend.
01:05:42Uh, the people who've donated, uh, you get the history of philosopher series.
01:05:47I'm sorry.
01:05:47I've been a few days late in getting that out.
01:05:48I would get that out to everyone.
01:05:49It's not an automated process, but we'll, um, I'm sure I'll find ways to make it.
01:05:53So thanks for a glorious evening.
01:05:55I appreciate that.
01:05:56Love you guys for being here and we'll talk soon.
01:05:58Bye.