Can One Trust Others After Betrayal?

How can one trust someone after facing betrayal in life? What understanding can help us to be capable of trusting people again and forget the past?

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00:00How can I find a trust in people again?

00:07I lost it now six years ago.

00:11I have a trust in myself, but I trust no more around.

00:17But who is responsible?

00:20Who is responsible?

00:21I know, I think it's myself.

00:22Friend is responsible, or you are responsible?

00:26Maybe our karmic account, due to our karmic account, she is one of the evidence, she is

00:33instrument.

00:34But we are suffering, so we are responsible for our, that we lost, we get that fail in

00:46that trust.

00:48So she is not responsible, we are our karmic account.

00:52So now if you believe that any another person, again I will lose some trust, it is not possible

01:01because due to our demerit karma, that evidence come and you get loss of trust.

01:10So for next time, another person, he should not get prejudice for everybody.

01:16Another person, he will not be giving any loss of trust.

01:25So don't blame for everybody, just whatever happen, accept and be trust on other person.

01:33And you find out, suppose not 100%, but 5%, 10%, if you trust on other person, you will

01:40get nothing is happened and whatever my prejudice was there, such prejudice, that person is

01:51not doing such bad thing with me.

01:54So your prejudice will slowly come out and you feel that all person will never...

02:08It is not going to be possible that all people that you trust are always going to break your

02:13trust.

02:14That will not happen.

02:18It is our opinion and prejudice that all people that you trust are going to break your trust.

02:23You try for another person, you feel that my opinion and prejudice is wrong, so you

02:29slowly will come out from your own prejudice and opinion.

02:34And the final and high understanding is like Mahatma Gandhi, he said that if I trust a

02:51hundred people, then a few people may mistrust me.

02:56But at least all the others, I trusted and it went well for me.

03:01So don't worry, when 6 years ago that happened, every year or every time, it won't happen.

03:13You came here, don't get any prejudice.

03:18If you trust here, you will get ultimate knowledge of Self-Realization.