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00:00:00 Le Cam Ouvre. All right, 20th October 2023, 21023.

00:00:06 And we are here on our Friday night live. Let's dive in with Nate.

00:00:15 Wait, half hand. Hair and makeup. Hair and makeup.

00:00:20 There we go. All better. All right. Do you have any thoughts on equality of

00:00:24 opportunity and equality of outcome?

00:00:29 Seems a little basic, Nate. Honestly, what is equality of opportunity? It means no voice,

00:00:33 no force, right? Equality of opportunity is no force barring you from competing.

00:00:38 Equality of outcome is micromanaging with violence what everyone's doing all the time.

00:00:47 Equality of opportunity is one rule. So you think of a running race, right?

00:00:50 And in that running race, you just say, hey, start here, run like hell, let's see who wins.

00:00:57 As opposed to everyone has to cross the finish line at the same time.

00:01:01 It's micromanaging, it's anxiety-based, it's tyrannical, and it's often violent.

00:01:05 Because what do you do with people who just run as hard as they can?

00:01:08 Right? You just got to trip them or cripple them or push them back or push them down.

00:01:13 Equality of opportunity is a meritocracy. And equality of outcome is a tyranny.

00:01:22 And there's really not anything more to say about that.

00:01:25 All right. How do I stop lying?

00:01:30 All my life I've had this problem. I lie for no good reason about small things and big things too.

00:01:36 I lie about the smallest things without even thinking, such as if I have completed some

00:01:39 task I promised to without even thinking about it. Then I'll have to scramble to cover the lie,

00:01:44 such as rapidly completing the thing. This has predictably led me to a very unhappy place.

00:01:50 One lie leading to another. Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive.

00:01:56 Lying about how I feel or what I'd like to do and then digging my hole even deeper by continuing to lie.

00:02:02 I seem to be very good at it since I've never seriously had any of my lies discovered.

00:02:08 Obviously, I should just tell the truth. But I've dug so many deep holes,

00:02:11 I'm afraid to tell the truth because of who it will hurt.

00:02:14 I, of course, know what I must do. Stop lying. I just don't have the will to do it.

00:02:19 I suppose I'm becoming an example, especially if I'm not able to pull myself out of this spiral I've set myself into.

00:02:25 I know the answer to my question. Simple. Just stop. At least the other listeners can hear or read this and maybe catch themselves early.

00:02:33 Please hold truth as one of your highest virtues or you will become as unhappy as me.

00:02:39 Well, does anybody here lie? Yes, I lie from time to time. Let me put a blatant why in there as well.

00:02:56 Song quiz. Let's deal with this one first.

00:03:05 Yeah, I mean, you never lie. That's a lie. I get you're joking. All right, come on. Let's do

00:03:13 Philosophy 101. Right? So there's two answers when people confess to a sin, right? Three answers.

00:03:25 One, it's the nature of man to sin. Two, you're a bad person who's doing bad things because you've made bad choices.

00:03:32 What is the philosophical free domain question or answer, you could say, as to why somebody has a

00:03:41 habit of lying? Why do you have a habit of lying? Why do you lie? Why do you lie like a rug?

00:03:47 Why? Who does it benefit? Yeah, yeah. I mean, obviously he feels that it benefits him, at least

00:03:56 in the short run. What is the answer? Human beings are innately bad and sinful and that's why you lie

00:04:01 and you need to pay us to save you from it. Or, well, you're just a bad person who made bad choices.

00:04:04 Yes, you got it. You got it. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:04:11 Parenting, well, I can say I inherited it. You were forced to lie to survive as a kid.

00:04:17 When somebody has a habit, the first thing we do

00:04:23 is say, what was the consequences of not having that habit as a child?

00:04:30 What is it that makes us lie as children? What is it that makes us lie as children? Why do we

00:04:35 lie as children? Why? I mean, all children experiment with lying, that's perfectly natural, but

00:04:40 why do we lie as children?

00:04:43 Yes, yes, yes. Everybody with the chillingly accurate and true statement.

00:04:55 To stay safe. Right, so why do we lie as children? We lie because we fear

00:05:02 mutilation or death if we tell the truth. Right? I mean, we fear mutilation or death if we tell the truth.

00:05:11 So, lying is a survival mechanism.

00:05:21 You know that meme, "Why are you running?" Right? So, lying is a survival mechanism.

00:05:25 Asking why a child lies is like asking why a baby zebra runs from predators.

00:05:32 Why does the baby zebra run from predators? Because it will die if it doesn't.

00:05:38 And if you're raised with a predator, then subterfuge is a great defense, right?

00:05:48 Does that make sense? Subterfuge is a great defense when you're raised with a predator.

00:05:51 I lied about stealing famous Amos cookies when I was like seven. Yeah.

00:06:00 Yeah. I lied about having an ear infection when I was in boarding school.

00:06:09 There were these, so we lived in these dormitories with like, I don't know, 40 kids in the dormitory

00:06:13 and there was, I really, really was tired, needed some sleep. The kids next door in the next

00:06:17 dormitory were making all this noise and somebody asked them, the matron, to deal with it. They

00:06:24 didn't deal with it. He was keeping us up, so I said I had an earache because it was too loud.

00:06:29 If it helps, says the person, I was never spanked or hit once.

00:06:36 Right? Probably because you were a good liar.

00:06:40 Is it any less punishing to tell the truth? I think not.

00:06:45 Now, what are the questions that lead us to lie?

00:06:50 Also, thank you very much for taking this. I will donate. Thank you.

00:06:54 freedomain.com/donate or right here in the app. What are the questions that lead us to lie?

00:06:59 What type of questions? There are two types of questions that lead us to lie

00:07:05 as children. And I don't view it as lying. I just, I view it as survival.

00:07:11 I used to hide stuff in my pants to make spankings less painful, then lied about how

00:07:16 much the spankings hurt. Yeah, it makes perfect sense to me. Things that criticize our parents,

00:07:21 those that cause fear of consequences. John says I lied to skip school, went so far as to put the

00:07:26 thermometer on a nearby light bulb to manufacture evidence. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Or you put it under

00:07:30 your armpit, you jog in place, then you got the gross thing of putting it back in your mouth,

00:07:33 right? I lie, I'd lie about how much I hurt myself, how much I got hurt, how much I got hurt,

00:07:37 then you got the gross thing of putting it back in your mouth, right? I lie, I'd lie about having

00:07:41 done my homework. Oh, yeah, constantly. Oh, absolutely. Absolutely. All right. So there's two

00:07:47 questions that make us lie. The first question is the aggressive question. Why the hell did you do

00:07:53 that? You know, that just people says, Wow, what are you? What are you doing? Right? Put that down.

00:07:59 What are you doing? Right? That aggressive question. We like, uh, nothing. Right? Right.

00:08:05 That's number one. And number two is the trap question, right? The trap question is

00:08:11 when did you stop beating your wife? Right? When did you stop? When did you stop? Why? Why? Why

00:08:18 are you such a hater? I remember this. I watched God, God help me. I know it's too late for God to

00:08:23 help me in this regard. But I watched an episode of Jersey Shore, where they were all finding ways,

00:08:30 novel ways to share bacteria in a hot tub. And someone was criticizing Mike, the situation,

00:08:37 Serino or whatever it was, right? And he's like, Why? Why? Why do you got to be such a hater?

00:08:42 Why do you got to be such a hater? Why are you a white supremacist? Right? Right. So

00:08:47 why are you such a hater?

00:08:50 Or is this hate speech, which has a question embedded in it, which is that there is such

00:09:00 a thing as hate speech, right? Is this hate speech? Well, that's a question, which is not

00:09:06 really a very good answer. You can't answer it because the question is really, is there even

00:09:11 such a thing as hate speech or is speech you hate, hate speech or whatever it is, right?

00:09:15 Because speech can't have emotions, right? There's no such thing as hate speech.

00:09:19 That's like saying color sound. These are two things that human beings can have emotions,

00:09:27 language cannot. Why are you gay? Yeah, yeah. Or as my daughter will occasionally say,

00:09:34 Why are you like this? Which I find very funny. She is just hilarious. We just did a yesterday

00:09:42 with one of our social media reviews, which was just hysterical. At least for me, I think I've

00:09:47 said for her too. It was very funny. So yeah. Why did you do this aggressively? And the no winning

00:09:58 questions, right? The no winning questions. Now, you know that society focuses a lot

00:10:08 on children lying. And there's only one thing that society hates more than children lying.

00:10:16 Do you know what the thing is that society hates more than children lying?

00:10:19 What does society hate more than children lying? That is right. You guys are on it. Yeah,

00:10:31 children telling the truth. Why didn't you do your homework? Because it's boring and pointless.

00:10:39 And actually, you're a terrible teacher. I feel completely unmotivated. I hate coming to class.

00:10:43 You're aggressive, you're weird, you're bossy. This stuff is completely relevant to my life.

00:10:47 And I'd rather be doing just about anything, including putting my face on a cheese grater

00:10:53 and nodding rapidly than be in this class. Oh, and by the way, if my parents don't pay your salary,

00:10:58 we go to jail. And then you come and tell us not to use violence to get what we want.

00:11:02 You rank bristly bearded fake hypocrite, right?

00:11:06 You know, if you don't want to call your mother and you don't call your mother and she says,

00:11:09 "Well, why don't why aren't you calling me?" Well, because I don't want to. I find you boring and

00:11:14 irrelevant. And it's kind of scary and traumatic. And I feel uneasy for the rest of the day. So,

00:11:18 yeah. Guess what? I don't want to.

00:11:31 Go kiss your aunt Edna. I don't want to. Why not? Because her breath smells really bad.

00:11:41 She pinches my cheeks too tight. And she's got weird bristly mole that I'm afraid is

00:11:47 going to spread to my eyeball. You owe me respect. No, I didn't choose you as a parent. And you don't

00:12:02 act in a way that makes me respect you. If you want me to respect you, you should act in a way

00:12:06 that engenders respect and not just yell at me for not giving you what you haven't earned. I mean,

00:12:10 if I took money out of your purse, you'd be really mad at me because I'd be stealing what I hadn't

00:12:14 earned. And you want me to provide you respect while doing nothing to generate respect within me.

00:12:19 And that's why I don't respect you because you suck. And you're a hypocrite. And you're a liar.

00:12:24 Right? So, the only thing that people dislike more than children lying is children telling the truth.

00:12:30 I'm just doing about all of this. Go apologize for calling that go fat, right? Yeah. Yeah.

00:12:38 Yeah. Don't tell the truth as a kid. Don't tell the truth as a kid. And so, of course,

00:12:46 when you tell the truth as a kid and you get in trouble for it, right? You get attacked and

00:12:49 criticized and yelled at and you -- and it's because you told the truth, right? And then they

00:12:54 say, "You should tell the truth." I don't want to share. Well, you have to. I don't want to do my

00:13:01 homework. It's stupid and retarded. Well, you have to. I don't want to go to this family function.

00:13:06 Well, you have to. So, what's the point of telling the truth? You either get ignored or you get

00:13:12 attacked. I'm not sure which is worse. I always prefer to be ignored as a whole as a kid, but yeah.

00:13:17 You know, your parents become friends with some other parents and you don't like the kid. Well,

00:13:25 let's go over to so-and-so's house. I don't want to. Why? I don't like him. Why? Because the guy

00:13:29 comes into my room and goes through all my stuff and doesn't have any boundaries. And he tried to

00:13:32 unlock my phone and he read some of my writing and mocked me and laughed at me and I don't like

00:13:36 him. He's weird. Well, find a way to like him because we like his parents. I'm being bullied.

00:13:45 Well, stay away from the bullies. Or, you know, I don't know if you guys remember this, but there's

00:13:51 that moment as a kid when you find out about how completely effed up adult life is and the adult

00:14:00 world that you live in is. And I remember very clearly finding out about the national debt.

00:14:03 Yeah, do you remember that? Everyone has something. What was it that you found out

00:14:09 where you're just like, "Oh man, this society is messed."

00:14:14 So I remember, I do, I remember learning about the national debt. I can't honestly remember how

00:14:21 I learned about it. Usually it's some over kid who's, an older kid who's putting you wires to

00:14:25 something. But I remember being like, "Wait, what? I'm in, I'm in debt? What do you mean I'm in debt?

00:14:36 Come on. I'm not in debt. I don't even, I'm not, I've never borrowed anything from anyone."

00:14:41 "Sorry, kid, you're in debt." "What do you mean I'm in debt? Why am I in debt?"

00:14:46 "Well, because all the adults voted for stuff they don't want to pay for and the debt's going to

00:14:50 pass down to you." "Come again, what?" "Yeah, they want all of this free stuff and they don't want

00:15:01 to pay the bill for it. So they've just borrowed a whole bunch of stuff and you're basically going

00:15:06 to spend the rest of your life paying it off." "Get the fuck out of here." "No, that's not a

00:15:15 thing. You're, you're fucking with me, right? Like that's not a...

00:15:20 The, oh, and by the way, your teacher is also, her salary comes from the threat of jail against

00:15:29 your parents." "What? Oh, come on. I'm in debt? And the teacher uses violence to get her salary?

00:15:36 Oh, and also she can't be fired. Oh, and also she gets summers off. And the reason that you get

00:15:42 summers off is because, I guess 150 years ago there was a harvest. There hasn't been a harvest

00:15:47 really that most kids have had to deal with for about 100 years, but it just kind of stays that

00:15:51 way because the system doesn't change because it's ringed with weaponry." I'm like, "What?"

00:15:55 And so when they tell you to be careful with your money, they're totally lying to you because

00:16:03 they've already sold you into kind of debt slavery for the rest of your life.

00:16:09 "Yeah, I'll be sure to do my fucking homework."

00:16:11 "Not parent yet. I suppose the right answer to the Aunt Edna question is, explain to the child,

00:16:23 how would you, how would it make you feel if someone said that about you? Try to get them

00:16:27 to empathize, but of course not lie." Oh, this is the lying guy, right? All right, lying guy.

00:16:37 "Answer me this." Oh my God. "Did you grow up with a father, yes or no? I don't mean like a father

00:16:45 around. You grew up, so did your father, your father lived with you and did you have any kind

00:16:51 of close relationship with your father? Not a string father? I guess you meant strong, right?

00:16:56 Not a strong father? I guess it's too late to ask for permission to swear. Did I, I already

00:17:04 that ship already sails, right? Shale got torpedoed." This is a 10 year style.

00:17:08 "I feel the urge because this stuff pisses me off." Oh man. Oh man.

00:17:19 "Permission to swear reaffirmed. Long day, six, seven days a week of working 10 to 12 hour days."

00:17:25 All right.

00:17:32 All right, here we go.

00:17:34 "How would it make you feel if someone said that about you?

00:17:41 Is there a more effed up feminine estrogen soy based selection of spineless syllables that have

00:17:59 ever skewered forth from somebody's mouth breathing hole? Dear Lord. That is a sentence

00:18:08 akin to reason as candy floss is akin to a central tunnel support on the New Victoria line.

00:18:19 How would it make you feel if someone said that about you?

00:18:27 Feels of a reals, right? Oh, it's whether somebody's upset. It's not whether something is true.

00:18:38 How would it make you feel if someone said that about you?

00:18:47 Okay, so then they're saying

00:18:49 that you shouldn't tell the truth if it upsets someone, right? Shouldn't tell the truth if it

00:18:57 upsets someone. Okay, well the reason I withheld things from you, mom and dad, is because you'd

00:19:02 get really upset if I told you what was happening. The reason I didn't tell you that I stole something

00:19:07 is because you're going to get upset if I tell you I stole something. So we don't say things

00:19:13 that could upset other people, so I have to lie to you so that you don't get upset.

00:19:19 Tell me the truth. No, because it'll just upset you. Oh, okay, that's fine.

00:19:25 I don't understand fundamentally what's wrong with calling fat people fat.

00:19:36 Well, how would you feel if someone said that about you?

00:19:43 Well, I don't want to call myself fat, so I'm not fat.

00:19:46 How would it make you feel if someone said, "Steph, you're bald."

00:19:50 Congratulations, I'm blue-eyed and have most of my own teeth and a strong chin.

00:19:55 What do you mean, how would it make me feel if someone said that about you?

00:19:59 If it's a true statement and you get upset at the truth, you have a mental health problem.

00:20:04 I mean, how would it feel to you if somebody said accurate information with you in an attempt to

00:20:13 keep you sane and grounded?

00:20:14 Steph, how would you feel if somebody said, "You're not as good-looking as when you were 20."

00:20:24 I'd be like, "Yeah, why would I be offended at a fact? The only people who are offended at facts

00:20:30 are people profiting from lies." And maybe if somebody had said to fat Aunt Edna that she was

00:20:36 gaining weight and getting fat, she might not have gotten fat, and maybe she'd have another 15 or 20

00:20:42 years to live. You know how the Asian culture handles women who are getting fat? I've heard

00:20:49 this from a number of Asian women. Do you know how the Asian culture is in general? And you know,

00:20:52 I don't want to blend them all together, but this is a fairly common phenomenon. Do you know how the

00:20:56 Asian culture handles women who are getting fat? You don't know? They relentlessly fat shame and

00:21:10 brutalize the women until they lose the weight. "Why are you so fat? Why are you so fat? You're

00:21:20 getting fat. Stop eating. I'm not giving you any more food. Drop the kimchi. You don't get tempura

00:21:27 anything." Right? Japan too? Yeah, it's especially the women fiercely guard that, right? And you

00:21:36 would expect that in Asian cultures because rice is very hard to grow and anybody who overeats is

00:21:41 enslaving everyone else, right? I believe in environmentalism when they take on two things,

00:21:46 obesity and female hyperconsumption. Until they take on obesity and female hyperconsumption,

00:21:53 I could care less what the environmental movement says because it's all just watermelon,

00:21:56 green on the outside, red on the inside. There's literally a Chinese plus-size shop called Fatty

00:22:03 Fat Girl. Yeah, I just did this with my daughter. I stored a little video of the plus-size stores in

00:22:11 China. "Love calories. Moo Cow. Fatty Fat Girl." My Indian co-workers told me straight up I got

00:22:19 fat for a period last at all, thankfully. Kimchi is good, yeah. Insurance rates go up at the

00:22:25 waistline, absolutely. Yeah. Why are you so fat? Stop being so fat. Stop being fat. I mean,

00:22:33 that's a little different from Milo's famous "Stop being poor," but yeah, just stop being fat.

00:22:36 But people might be upset if you tell them the truth.

00:22:41 Are they going to be upset if they get diabetes? Are they going to be upset if they can't walk and

00:22:48 have to get knee replacements because they've destroyed their cartilage? Are they going to

00:22:53 get upset if they have back problems? Are they going to get upset if they have a heart attack?

00:22:56 Oh, well, but that's later. It's their feelings now that matter, not their health later.

00:23:02 God, I can't stand this feels, feels, feels. Foggy, bullshit, acidic, spine- and soul-eating

00:23:11 maize have never upset anyone any time. God. How about this? Instead of how do other people feel

00:23:23 when I tell the truth, how do I feel when you bully me to lie?

00:23:26 See, you can't escape the upset because either the people who are telling the truth are really

00:23:32 upsetting other people, or they say, "Shut up and don't tell the truth," which really upsets the

00:23:37 people who want to tell the truth. So there's no elimination of upset here. You're just fucking

00:23:43 the truth tellers and rewarding the liars. And doesn't it prick their own conscience of not

00:23:53 telling Aunt Edna she's fat? If they're not telling her, they're accomplices.

00:23:57 Okay, you want to know the truth? You want to know the truth?

00:24:02 You want to know the truth about those who enforce lying?

00:24:08 Those who enforce lying have murder on their minds. Straight up. Those who enforce lying have

00:24:17 murder on their minds. It is a murderous fucking mindset. I'm not kidding. I'm not hyperbole-ing.

00:24:25 I'm not exaggerating. It is murderous. You don't tell someone who's gaining weight that they're

00:24:30 fat. You don't tell someone who's gaining weight that they're fat. You don't tell someone who's

00:24:35 gaining weight that they're gaining weight. You are an accomplice in their death.

00:24:41 You don't tell a smoker he's going to die from smoking, and you don't want to be around to watch

00:24:52 that happen. You don't put everything you have into the people you love to keep them healthy.

00:24:57 You don't tell someone who's drinking too much, "Hey man, you're drinking too much. I'm not hanging

00:25:02 with you to do this. You've got to sort this out. You've got to stop." You understand lies and dies

00:25:12 rhyme for a reason. Liars are killers. And not just the liars who

00:25:18 enforce lying on others in particular. They are killers.

00:25:23 Let me ask you this. Let me ask you this. Just out of curiosity, right?

00:25:32 Those who banished those who told the truth about war, what has happened to the world

00:25:41 since the people who were virile anti-war advocates, what has happened to the world

00:25:49 since the authentic and powerful anti-war advocates were deplatformed?

00:25:55 What has happened to the world? How many people have been slaughtered?

00:26:00 Lying is dying and censorship is murderous. "Cancel culture is a dress rehearsal for mass

00:26:07 murder." Of course. And people thought, "Oh wow, that was such an extreme statement."

00:26:19 Yeah. People who silence others have murderous intent deep in their hearts.

00:26:34 Because we can't live without the truth. You understand that? The truth is life.

00:26:38 If you keep people from the truth, you are pushing them towards death.

00:26:47 Safe and effective. Hundreds dead in Ukraine? No. Hundreds of thousands dead in Ukraine.

00:26:54 You know how so-and-so will feel if you withhold the truth?

00:27:04 They'll feel pretty dead. They'll feel pretty dead.

00:27:11 [Silence]

00:27:24 Censorship is... censorship is...

00:27:26 Okay, Steph, I have a deal for you. Give me one minute of actionable specific advice I can use

00:27:37 over the next few days and it will influence how I donate. I promise you this isn't a lie.

00:27:41 Stuff like your one-liner, "How will you feel when you bully me into... how will I feel when

00:27:45 you bully me into telling a lie?" Give me one minute of actionable specific advice I could

00:27:52 use over the next few days and it will influence how I donate. I promise this isn't a lie.

00:27:57 Do you mean with regards

00:28:05 to your lying? Is that what you are talking about?

00:28:09 [Silence]

00:28:20 Actionable specific advice I can use over the next few days.

00:28:24 Mental tricks and tips I can use to ensure I tell the truth.

00:28:31 [Silence]

00:28:40 Do you know what cures you of lying? It's not honesty that's a symptom. It's not

00:28:48 integrity that's a goal. What is it that cures you of lying?

00:28:52 [Silence]

00:29:00 Not being around assholes? No, that's the consequence of not lying. Not being around

00:29:04 dysfunctional people? That's a consequence of not lying. What is it that cures you?

00:29:08 What is the opposite of lying?

00:29:09 [Silence]

00:29:15 All right. Let me ask you a question.

00:29:18 [Silence]

00:29:21 Who can tell more truth, the master or the slave?

00:29:24 [Silence]

00:29:28 The master. Yes, the master.

00:29:31 [Silence]

00:29:34 Being forced to lie brands you as what?

00:29:36 [Silence]

00:29:41 A slave. That's right. You're a slave. Now, I'm not talking about when you're a kid,

00:29:46 but when you have an adult and some freedom and so on, right?

00:29:48 [Silence]

00:29:49 How do you escape slavery?

00:29:51 [Silence]

00:29:53 How do you escape slavery? It's the whole point of the show.

00:29:57 Has been from the beginning almost 20 years. How do you escape slavery?

00:30:02 How do you break the chains?

00:30:04 [Silence]

00:30:07 Run away? Well, that's a consequence. Nope. Nope.

00:30:10 Call evil what it is? Nope. You can't because you're a slave.

00:30:14 Seed the plantation? I like that quote too.

00:30:16 Practicing virtue? No. Oh, we have a very intellectual crew here tonight.

00:30:22 [Silence]

00:30:24 You've got chains that require everything you have to break. How do you break them?

00:30:30 [Silence]

00:30:40 How do you break them? It's not an intellectual thing.

00:30:42 [Silence]

00:30:52 Rage. What is the one thing a slave is never allowed to be? Very angry. Am I right?

00:31:00 What is the one thing a slave is never allowed to be? Very angry.

00:31:05 Slaves are not allowed to have anger. Right? If I'm wrong, please tell me.

00:31:13 [Silence]

00:31:16 Anger is the mark of the powerful.

00:31:22 The slave can threaten and get angry at and rage at the courtiers.

00:31:31 Can the courtiers get angry at and rage at the king?

00:31:36 [Silence]

00:31:45 Yeah, if they're suicidal. But their death will enforce other people never telling the truth

00:31:50 because they'll see the consequences, right?

00:31:52 [Silence]

00:31:55 If you are above angry and rushing enough, you can break chains with your bare hands.

00:31:58 A power differential.

00:32:01 [Silence]

00:32:04 The slave is allowed to feel humility, maybe a slight amount of affection.

00:32:08 He's allowed to feel fear. In fact, it's encouraged in him. But you are not allowed

00:32:15 to be angry.

00:32:16 [Silence]

00:32:26 The only way out of a life of lying is what I call SFA, serious fucking anger.

00:32:31 Now, I'm not talking about anything violent. I'm not talking about anything destructive.

00:32:35 But serious fucking anger.

00:32:37 Aren't you angry that you were forced to lie to survive?

00:32:44 Doesn't that piss you off?

00:32:45 Righteous anger. Yes. Righteous, holy, God-given anger, for want of a better phrase.

00:32:55 [Silence]

00:32:58 Jesus and the moneylenders.

00:33:00 Flipping tables, smashing money.

00:33:04 [Silence]

00:33:07 Serious fucking anger.

00:33:11 Because allowing yourself to get angry, again, no violence, no acting out, but allowing yourself

00:33:16 to feel angry is breaking the chains. It is saying, "I am no longer a slave." Because

00:33:23 slaves aren't allowed to get angry. I'm letting myself get angry.

00:33:26 [Silence]

00:33:31 Whoever forced you to lie, you're angry at.

00:33:34 [Silence]

00:33:38 My friend.

00:33:39 [Silence]

00:33:43 Whoever forced you to lie, you are angry at. Because they are using

00:33:50 violent threats. And all threats from parents are violent threats.

00:33:58 They are using violent threats to separate you from reality and set you in opposition to facts.

00:34:05 [Silence]

00:34:12 Lying that is compelled is begging for five more minutes without murder.

00:34:18 Good, this is actionable. That person is my mom and my dad encouraging me to lie to make her happy.

00:34:24 Now, do you know how much your dad hated your mom

00:34:31 to tell you to lie? Anybody who tells you to lie to someone hates that person. Anyone who forces

00:34:38 you to lie to the world hates the world. It's demonic. Demonic. I'm telling you, it's demonic.

00:34:43 There is no greater hatred than forcing falsehoods on the world.

00:34:50 How does someone get you to drink poison, right? Do they say, "Hey, here's some poison. It'll kill

00:35:00 you. Will you drink it?" How does someone get you to drink poison? Did they tell the truth?

00:35:10 They do not. They lie to you. "Here, have this drink. It's safe and effective." How do they get

00:35:21 you to drink poison? They lie to you. How does a con man steal from you? He lies to you.

00:35:27 They'll even sip it and pretend it's yummy, as you say, right?

00:35:36 We had a lying ritual where we would go up to dad when he got back from work and

00:35:43 get a kiss. Even when we didn't feel like it, it was just to make him feel better, right?

00:35:48 "You haven't gained weight. You look fantastic." Is cover-up for "Hope you die soon of diabetes."

00:35:58 There's a murderous intent behind forcing people to lie.

00:36:04 "You deserve this most wonderful ambrosia to be had at the end of a large meal to cleanse your palate

00:36:12 of life."

00:36:21 The peacemakers are de-platformed by those who murderously want war.

00:36:29 "Never settle equals die alone with cats."

00:36:39 Yeah. "You're beautiful no matter what. Hope you stay alone."

00:36:44 "Don't worry, honey, you can freeze your eggs."

00:36:51 "I'm trying to build a snowman."

00:36:56 I remember eating with another family, being flabbergasted that my dad told the

00:37:03 mom he didn't like the dinner. "Impossible in my house."

00:37:06 Yeah. "Travel girl, go find yourself in the sausage fest." I think of women flying in

00:37:20 helicopter blades made of giant sausages. That's how I travel. Hopping from sausage to sausage,

00:37:26 like Indiana Jones on a collapsing rope bridge.

00:37:34 "He's hot. He's hot."

00:37:36 Yeah. Yeah.

00:37:42 "What's the biggest lies?" Yeah, the baby won't remember the pains. Okay,

00:37:51 to cut off a third of his penis skin. Like, yes, like the skin. And come on, people,

00:37:55 donate a little here and there, can't you? Jeez, you know how hard I work in here?

00:38:01 Throw me a kibble or two, it won't kill you. Might even help. Might, you're about to,

00:38:07 thank you, I appreciate that. I appreciate that. You know, I was just, the other day,

00:38:13 no, was it yesterday? So yesterday, I looked at how many people had downloaded my novels.

00:38:21 It's a lot of people, man. It's a lot of people who've downloaded

00:38:29 my novels. I wonder how many of those people have donated for the years and years and years I spent

00:38:38 researching, writing, editing, and learning how to write those novels.

00:38:42 "Biggest lie?" Biggest lie that you see every day out in public that is shameless.

00:38:51 What is the biggest lie you see out in public every day that is shameless?

00:38:58 "We as a society care about kids." Yeah, but you don't really see that everywhere you look.

00:39:02 People pretending to be happy? A lot of people walk around pretty miserable these days.

00:39:08 What is the biggest lie you see every day? No, because you don't, fighting wars for peace,

00:39:14 I'm talking about like empirical, not in terms of language. What is the biggest lie

00:39:20 you see every day? "I'm a good kid." No, because you don't, fighting wars for peace,

00:39:27 what is the biggest lie that is empirically impressed upon you every day?

00:39:32 Yeah, people are mean to their kids, but you don't see that in your face. "Oh, look at that.

00:39:41 Look at that. Makeup." That is correct. Thank you for your tip, Khan, I appreciate that.

00:39:54 Makeup. It's makeup. It's the biggest lie. And you could certainly make the case that makeup

00:40:07 is the biggest lie with the greatest effect. Are you interested in that case? I don't know if you

00:40:15 guys are interested, we can talk about anything you want. I've got a couple of questions here.

00:40:23 FDR, oh, freedomain.com/donate, Tiparu sent for you, thank you very much. Makeup, push-up bras,

00:40:29 Botox, cosmetic surgery, filters, don't forget filters, man. And don't forget just headshots,

00:40:35 no body. Corsets. Spanx, right? You understand that of all the controversial things I posted,

00:40:48 do you remember some of the number one stuff that was considered controversial,

00:40:55 enraged people, and Pearl Davis is doing the same stuff, thank you for your tips.

00:41:02 Now, we'll attempt to action on this advice. Well, I haven't given you the action yet,

00:41:07 so hang tight, I appreciate that. So it's about makeup. It's about makeup.

00:41:17 One of the greatest anti-rational forces in the known universe is makeup.

00:41:22 Do you know why? Because makeup simulates orgasm, right? The red lips is orgasm, the

00:41:33 white eyes is orgasm, the flush in the cheeks is orgasm, or sexual attraction, right?

00:41:43 So when a woman is walking around half ejaculating into the eyeballs of every man

00:41:51 she comes in contact with, what happens to men's reason? When you are presented with

00:41:57 hypersexual stimuli, what happens, it's not even a theory, what happens to your reason

00:42:04 when you are presented with hypersexual stimuli as a man? It's out the window, it's gone,

00:42:10 absolutely, absolutely. The prefrontal cortex shuts down.

00:42:17 That's why obviously I try not to take my shirt off too often, because I'm trying to be rational

00:42:26 and I don't want the twin cannons of my flexing laser nipples to shoot out your neofrontal cortex

00:42:32 snipers. Traps are traps. So can you imagine how many tips Steph would get with makeup on?

00:42:48 "Got to watch out for those laser nipples." Well, you can't, because by the time they found you,

00:42:52 you can't watch out for anything. Boy, it was an exciting time when my daughter was young and I

00:42:56 gave her a laser pointer. "Keep that away from my eyeballs!" Since you've been hitting the gym so

00:43:01 hard, yeah? Well, it's self-defense. So makeup, what does makeup do? Makeup causes men to lose

00:43:10 their reason and it causes women to not have to increase their moral qualities.

00:43:15 Because women don't have to increase their moral qualities, men don't have to increase

00:43:24 their moral qualities. It's makeup versus philosophy, makeup versus morality.

00:43:29 Makeup is a subsidy for immorality to make it look better than it is.

00:43:36 Tell me if this is useful and makes sense.

00:43:51 I mean, my God, I can't tell you how many times, and when you see this, you can't stop seeing it,

00:43:58 so it's going to change your life. I can't tell you how many times you see women in these strapless

00:44:04 tops that make them look naked. Or, you know, horizontal landscape is for men and portrait is

00:44:12 for women in cleavage, right? Now, portrait was invented so women can show their cleavage.

00:44:20 Ah, the magical shadow wherein your brain falls into the abyss. Yeah, tight pants. I mean,

00:44:28 how late in the fucking empire of decay do we have to be where women walk around with thongs

00:44:35 in shorts that have the words, the word juicy printed across the butt cheeks?

00:44:41 [Sigh]

00:44:58 I don't know. The no bra thing is dicey for women because it causes more sagging, right?

00:45:03 You know, young women wear these tops that look like lacy lingerie. Yeah, absolutely.

00:45:08 Women in the gym, I mean, I used to go to yoga classes, Ashtanga yoga,

00:45:12 and I had to put those like horse blinders on so I could get some blood to my extremities.

00:45:18 Why have we lost our culture? Because we have makeup in many ways.

00:45:29 I mean, all of the associated things, not just makeup, but the heightened

00:45:34 sexual stimuli from women to men means that you don't have to choose a high quality woman,

00:45:45 which means that you don't have someone who's culturally versed in moral to transfer the

00:45:49 morals to your children. If you look at a culture or a religion or a mindset like Islam or other

00:45:56 ones, you can think of sort of the Amish, the Mennonites, the Hasidic Jews and so on.

00:46:01 The women don't live on looks and therefore the culture gets translated down through the

00:46:05 generations. The cultural passage goes on because the women can't strip men's brain

00:46:11 of their reason and have to provide moral qualities which they then pass to their children.

00:46:28 Many women are dressing as though society's already collapsed. No, no, no, no, no, no.

00:46:34 It's quite the opposite. Women are dressing because society, I mean, so I watched a video

00:46:42 the other day of, there was this crazy guy who was starting to get really aggressive,

00:46:48 I think it was in England on the subway or on the tube as they would call it, right?

00:46:53 And when this guy began yelling and jumping up and down, all the women around started pulling

00:47:00 their shorts down and started pulling their tops down and covering up their skin.

00:47:04 It's a very common phenomenon that a woman who feels suddenly under threat

00:47:15 from a male will cover up her skin.

00:47:20 Hard times make clothed women clothed women. Make good times, good times make unclothed women.

00:47:25 And you can either, listen, men, tell me if I'm right, tell me if I'm wrong.

00:47:37 You can either build and or maintain a civilization or you can walk around in a

00:47:45 constant state of semi-sexual arousal. But you can't do both. Because for men to concentrate,

00:47:54 they need to not be distracted by sexual stimuli. Tell me I'm wrong.

00:47:59 So if you want to maintain a society, you can't have

00:48:05 TNA floating around you like moon's opening Jupiter.

00:48:09 The welfare state also is a form of "makeup" because it adds value to women

00:48:23 who don't have to add morality to their value.

00:48:28 Can't cut lumber straight when you're thinking about the other wood.

00:48:36 Yeah, you can have a civilization or you can have permanent semi-jubbies. You can have a culture or

00:48:43 you can have demirections all the time. Demirections all the time. That's just the way of the world.

00:48:49 Jordan Peterson touched on sexual tension at the workplace. He was pilloried for that.

00:48:55 Yeah.

00:48:56 Yeah. I mean those who want to destroy civilization

00:48:59 subject the males to constant sexual stimuli.

00:49:06 Right? It's on your phone, it's in ads, it's in women all around. It's like

00:49:13 constant sexual stimuli. And men, you know what you feel like if you're surrounded by

00:49:20 constant sexual stimuli, you get the mindset of a guy who's in charge, like the sultan of a harem.

00:49:26 Yeah, 1984 had a department for pornography specifically focused on the lower classes, right?

00:49:34 Yeah.

00:49:38 And you can see this at the time of greatest expansion of a culture is the time of greatest

00:49:44 sexual restraint and lower sexual stimuli.

00:49:46 Now, if you think of the 19th century Victorians, you think of the early to mid Romans, you think of

00:49:55 Sparta versus Athens, you think of Rome versus Carthage. If you want to take down a culture,

00:50:04 lure women into hypersexualization.

00:50:19 I mean, come on guys, you're working on a tough abstract problem and

00:50:26 some woman comes into your office to ask a question, she's got a low-cut top,

00:50:32 maybe she's showing half her belly and so on. What happens to your concentration?

00:50:35 Oh, but men should be able to control their blah, blah, blah. Of course, well, we can control,

00:50:40 but we can't control the, we can control what we do, we can't control the autonomous nervous system,

00:50:44 right? What is sexiness supposed to translate into?

00:50:53 Yeah, sexiness is supposed to translate into family.

00:51:02 And that's how, right, so physical attraction, if it's downplayed, means that you have to have

00:51:13 greater compatibility of values, right? If you get hit with the tsunami of sexual stimulation,

00:51:20 you don't care as much about values, right? Is that fair to say? And again, maybe I'm talking

00:51:25 man to man here, but whatever, right? I mean, it happens the other way. I know it happens for women,

00:51:32 right? It happens for women, how do I know that an excess of sexual stimulation

00:51:39 destroys the requirement for moral values? How do I know that?

00:51:42 What book revealed all this?

00:51:53 Yeah, Fifty Shades, right? So James Dornan was known as the body, I think he's Irish,

00:52:04 right? He's Irish. He was known as the body. He's got an almost perfect physique, great charisma,

00:52:10 he's a very talented guy, very handsome guy. And women, because in the movie he's portrayed as

00:52:20 dominant, high status, successful, fabulously wealthy, super handsome, and emotionally

00:52:27 completely broken, the result of semi-pedophilic or hebophilic experiences inflicted upon him by

00:52:36 older women. He's completely tortured and broken and effed up beyond the ability of a team full of

00:52:45 hyper-Freud's to fix. And she loses her reason because his beauty and his resources, Justin

00:52:54 Bieber, oh, Justin Bieber, not a big expert on the Beliebers, but I can save him, yeah, for sure.

00:53:02 If he's good looking enough, if he's high status enough. See, it used to be, it's funny because,

00:53:09 and sorry, hit me with a why if you find this stuff interesting, because I obviously,

00:53:13 it's a live stream, I'm not doing a solo show, I want to make sure that I'm offering stuff of

00:53:18 value and you perfectly well understand, no, I'm not sensitive about this stuff, I want to provide

00:53:23 value for you guys. Okay. I can save him. So it used to be that women would choose men

00:53:38 who were high status relative to what? A woman wants a high status man. Now what did he have to

00:53:47 be high status to, sorry, what did he have to be high status relative to? Status is a hierarchy,

00:53:53 right? It's a relative to, higher or lower. What did he have to be high status to for women to

00:53:59 find him the most valuable? Other men, exactly. Other men. Why was it important that he be high

00:54:07 status relative to other men? Why did he have to be? To bring home the cheese.

00:54:21 Well, he had to be high status relative to other men because he was competing with other men,

00:54:29 and if he was high status relative to other men, that meant that he could win against other men.

00:54:34 Does that make sense? Like, let me sort of give you the typical example, right? You're a kid,

00:54:42 you're in a lot, there's a baseball game, two captains are choosing, right? The women like

00:54:49 the men who would choose, the boys who were chosen or the men who were chosen first, right? Because

00:54:54 those men or boys, those males are high status relative to the other males. They don't like the

00:54:59 men who get chosen last. Make sense? So the woman used to look for males who were high status

00:55:08 relative to other males. In other words, she let men, in a sense, judge the quality of her mate

00:55:15 because he was going to be competing with other men. So if they judge him as high quality,

00:55:21 it means he's very good at competing, he's going to bring home the bacon. She outsourced

00:55:26 is the man of high quality to other men. Do you follow? Right.

00:55:37 What has that changed to now? Do women still choose men based upon their status among men?

00:55:55 Yes, that's right. Women to women's thoughts. That's right. Now, it's what will my girlfriends

00:56:03 think of him? And you say, "I met a new guy." What does the girlfriend, what do the girlfriends

00:56:07 immediately say? What do the girlfriends immediately say when a woman says, "I met a new guy"?

00:56:11 What do they say? Nope, they don't ask what he does. Nope.

00:56:16 What do they ask? Is he hot? Is he pretty? Is he cute? How tall is he?

00:56:24 Yeah, they may get, you know, what does he do or whatever it is.

00:56:27 I don't think women, I don't know, maybe some women at that course, but I don't really see that.

00:56:32 Is he, yeah, is he cute? Is he funny? Did he vote for Trump? Right, so women are choosing men based

00:56:40 upon their status among other women, not among men. Why has this shifted? Why have they shifted

00:56:50 from choosing men based on what other men think to what their girlfriends think? Why has that shifted?

00:57:00 Well, it's not just the welfare state. I mean, it's the whole income transfer from men to women

00:57:10 through the agency of the state, right? It's the whole income transfer. It's not just the welfare

00:57:15 state. It's free health care, which women consume much more than men. It's free education, which

00:57:20 moms need more than dads. It's government jobs, which are inordinately populated by not slender

00:57:29 women. It is old age pensions because women live longer than men. It's health care, of course,

00:57:34 in the old age and so on, right? So the reason that they would choose a man based upon his status to

00:57:40 other men is that they needed a man to provide resources. Now they force the state to provide

00:57:45 largely male resources to them so they don't need. A man doesn't have to be high status

00:57:50 relative to other men because she gets the money from the state. Does it make sense?

00:57:56 So when what you need the most is provided automatically,

00:58:14 your standards become shallower and shallower and shallower.

00:58:18 So you think of the rock star, who's going to get women to sleep with him?

00:58:25 Like, women will sleep with him and he'll have, you know, 20 women after the show or 50 women

00:58:31 after the show who want to sleep with him. So he's just going to choose. Who's he going to choose?

00:58:36 Who's he going to choose of the 50 women who want to sleep with him? That's guaranteed. What he

00:58:40 wants most is going to be provided, no question. How is he going to choose?

00:58:45 Yeah, the best looking, the hottest, the prettiest, whatever his particular

00:58:51 preferences happen to be. If he's a leg guy, it's the woman with the great pair of getaway sticks

00:58:56 or whatever it is, right? So if you have an excess of supply, you have to make a decision.

00:59:04 You can't evaluate each person, so you just choose based on the shallowest, most obvious,

00:59:11 and visceral, and lowest, and most mammalian, and base of the spine preferences.

00:59:16 Does it make sense? So if you flip it, because women are rock stars, like women in the modern

00:59:27 West are rock stars, because they can get all the resources they need from men.

00:59:33 Whereas a rock star can get all of the sex he needs from women,

00:59:38 and it's not just rock stars, of course I'm just finishing up this biography of Marlon Brando,

00:59:44 who could sleep with anyone, and he was a complete sex addict. I mean, he said, you know,

00:59:48 the first thing I think of in the morning is who am I going to F even if there's a woman next to me.

00:59:57 So the women

01:00:03 have to choose shallower values because they don't need men for resource provision.

01:00:10 So how have men responded to women shallowing out their dating preferences? And you see this.

01:00:25 Have you seen this meme? It's been floating around forever, and it goes something like this.

01:00:29 The woman says to the man, "How tall are you?" and he says, "I'm six foot one," and she says,

01:00:37 "Well, you know, a lot of guys kind of lie about that, so, you know, I really want to be sure of

01:00:43 that. Like, maybe you can stand next to a doorway, or you can whatever it is, like, or you can go to

01:00:48 one of those grocery stores or convenience stores where they have the height thing for the guys

01:00:52 running out with the money from the till, the thieves. Just go and stand. I just need some

01:00:56 proof, right?" And he says, "Yeah, listen, I'm perfectly happy to provide that," and she's like,

01:01:02 "Great, I really, really appreciate that," and then he says, "I need you to show me a short

01:01:06 video of you stepping on a scale." And what does she say? "I need a full-body picture with you

01:01:20 holding the current day's newspaper," or something like that, right? Right.

01:01:26 She gets really, really angry, because she's in a position of choosing, and

01:01:35 she can get the male's resources, so who are you to be picky, right?

01:01:40 So this would be like the woman throwing herself at the rock star, but before they

01:01:47 end up sleeping together, she says, "Yeah, I'm gonna need a commitment. I'm gonna need, like,

01:01:54 you're gonna have to be my boyfriend, and, you know, you've got to take me out for dinner at

01:01:58 least three times, and buy me some nice jewelry, and I can really get in. I need to marry you.

01:02:02 I need to meet your family. There has to be some path forward for us to

01:02:06 be permanent, maybe leading to marriage." Now, what's the rock star gonna say?

01:02:14 "Yeah, I need to see you fresh out of the shower. I need to see you without makeup, all right?"

01:02:17 What does the rock star say if the woman demands commitment?

01:02:27 You take one step to the left, and there's 10 other women coming in.

01:02:38 So when women get resources through the state, and when they hyper-stimulate men's sexual response,

01:02:46 they can lower the moral quality of what they need.

01:02:54 They don't need a man's loyalty, right? A woman needs to know that the man is truly devoted to

01:03:01 her, really cares for her, and is willing to make sacrifices for her so she can fall in love,

01:03:06 pair bond, and have children, knowing he's not going to run off. Does that make sense?

01:03:10 So she needs maturity, responsibility, morals, pair bonding, love, devotion,

01:03:20 deferral of gratification, suppression of sexual impulses,

01:03:30 so that she can feel that the resources—because a woman who throws herself into a ridiculously

01:03:36 vulnerable position when—I'm not talking like Kama Sutra style—but a woman throws herself into a

01:03:45 ridiculously vulnerable position, as we all know, when she has kids, right? Because she's now going

01:03:50 to be dependent on a man throughout history. She'll be dependent on a man for the next 20,

01:03:56 30 years, and really for the rest of her life. The moment she decides to have a child,

01:04:00 she's dependent on a man for the rest of her life, because she's going to have a bunch of kids,

01:04:04 then she's going to be a grandmother, and if he leaves her, she can't get another man

01:04:10 because she's already got kids. So another man, especially a man who's got quality and

01:04:15 resources provision, is not going to want to date a woman who's got kids. He's not going to throw

01:04:19 all of his resources into raising another man's children, or at least men who had that preference,

01:04:23 those genes died out pretty quickly, right? Yes, that's true. Some of these women are special

01:04:30 effects masters with their makeup. Oh man, it's wild watching a basic thick-necked human turnip

01:04:37 turn into Jennifer Lopez over the course of industrial light and magic rearrangement of

01:04:42 the molecules around her face. It's wild. It's wild. Is that why women push out children to

01:04:51 the 30s because my life ends when kids come along? I'm not sure I follow that, sorry.

01:04:55 So how have men responded to women shallowing out their demands?

01:05:09 Oh, you've got to watch makeup tutorials. Like, as a man, basic, I mean, you know,

01:05:18 Sernovich is all like, "You've got to get to BJJ and you've got to learn Aikido and you've got to..."

01:05:23 Basic self-defense is like, "No, yes, sure, fine." But the basic self-defense

01:05:27 is watching makeup tutorials. Like, that's like mask off, literally mask off, right?

01:05:35 It's witchcraft, yes. If the church, if the men find out that we can shape-shift,

01:05:44 they're going to call the church. They're going to tell the church. Yeah, the makeup stuff is

01:05:48 straight up witchcraft, yeah. They shallow themselves out, signal vanity and compliance.

01:05:53 So what happens is the minority of men who can achieve high status pour heart, mind, body,

01:06:00 and soul into achieving high status, right? They go to the gym, they tan, they get teeth whiteners,

01:06:06 they get plugs, hair implants, or whatever it is that they do to get super stimuli with regards

01:06:13 to women. And then what do the bottom 80 to 90 percent of men do? They give up.

01:06:19 They give up, right? They retreat to basements and pornography and they just, they give up.

01:06:24 Dentures at 40 scares me? Ow! Yes, dentures at 40 are definitely scary. Hit me with a Y if you have

01:06:34 to wear a night guard. Hit me with a Y if you have to wear a night guard. I have to wear a night guard.

01:06:42 Oh, for 20 plus years. Um, have to. Well, if you don't want your teeth drifting all over like a

01:06:47 bunch of Bedouin... Oh, what is that? A night guard is something that you put in to keep your teeth in

01:06:53 place. Like if you... I didn't know this because I didn't really wear braces much as a kid, but

01:06:57 apparently if you get braces you have to wear a night guard for the rest of your life, otherwise

01:07:00 your teeth will drift back to their original position, right? I feel like giving up with dating,

01:07:06 yeah. I have one for grinding, right? I have one for bumping grinding, but that's for donors only.

01:07:14 I grind during my sleep, don't need it? Yes, you do.

01:07:19 Yeah, you do, because if you grind your teeth at night, I would guess, I'm no dentist, right? But

01:07:25 isn't that going to crack your teeth? And then you've got all kinds of

01:07:27 problems and replacements and all that, so.

01:07:34 So, yeah, it flattens them and all that.

01:07:35 I know you've been busy on the Peaceful Parenting book, do you still plan on the dating series? Yes.

01:07:41 So, the top men enhance their appearance

01:07:49 in order to date around,

01:07:54 and the bottom three quarters or four fifths of men

01:08:02 largely give up. Do you think church going makes a difference for seeking mates? It used to,

01:08:06 but the church has been swallowed up by the inevitable estrogen leviathan, hasn't it?

01:08:12 It's all about feels, and it's all about immigration, and it's all about, oh, just

01:08:21 all of the woke stuff. I mean, hasn't the church been swallowed up by the estrogen whale?

01:08:28 True, not my church. Yeah, yeah, not every church, obviously.

01:08:30 So, I mean, I think it used to. Now, FDRdating.com, not an endorsement, I'm just telling you it exists.

01:08:41 No one's interpretation is wrong about God. You know, we don't judge, not too many rules, and make

01:08:47 sure you don't make people feel bad for any sins that they may or may not be committing or thinking

01:08:51 about or actually have done. Boyfriend Jesus. Yeah, women can't compete with pornography, and

01:08:58 men can't compete with boyfriend Jesus. He's perfect. He always listens. He never has any

01:09:03 needs of his own. Hit the like button, share the stream, and don't forget to donate, my friends.

01:09:09 Please, please, please. I would really appreciate it.

01:09:18 All right, I think we've done enough dating. Hit the like button, share the stream. Quite right.

01:09:24 All right, should we switch to entrepreneurial stuff? Money making. We've done the sex.

01:09:34 Should we do the money? The money making. Shake your money maker. All right, question. Boy,

01:09:42 patient guy. Hey, Steph, I've started working at a startup selling a product. I think this product

01:09:47 is going to revolutionize the industry I'm working in. Despite this, my prospective clients can be

01:09:52 dismissive and outright rude when I'm trying to explain how it'll benefit them. How do you deal

01:09:55 with rejection as an entrepreneur? Do you take rejection personally? What do you guys think?

01:10:00 Do I take rejection personally? Do I take rejection personally? No, not usually, but I'll

01:10:11 tell you this, man, I'll tell you this. Would I have pretty much the most excuse on the planet

01:10:19 to take rejection personally? Would I have the greatest possible excuse on the planet

01:10:25 to take rejection personally? Why? Why would I have the greatest excuse on the planet to take

01:10:31 rejection personally? Hey, you see anyone else in the studio here? You see anyone else? It's me,

01:10:43 baby. It's me. It's me. And it's not just me, like, it's not just me, like, if you're a model

01:10:51 and, you know, you just might not have the right look or whatever it is, right? Or maybe you're

01:10:54 just not quite handsome enough, but it's not you the essence, but, you know, holy Hades on a stick,

01:11:01 you know, I literally turn myself in inside and out every single show. Do you know what I mean?

01:11:06 Like everyone, I just, I turn myself inside out. I mean, how many boundaries and filters do I have

01:11:19 in this show? Boundaries and filters in this show. I think they all went out the window when I talked

01:11:27 about women ejaculating on male eyeballs. Yeah, like I give it every fiber. I, you know, there's

01:11:33 a few things that I, you know, fools rush in where angels fear to tread, but... So if I, turning

01:11:43 myself inside out for the world's perusal, cannot take it personally, then you selling a product

01:11:49 that is not you, like, what's the product? Of course it's philosophy, but it's me doing the

01:11:53 philosophy stuff, right? The what on eyeballs? If you can't keep up, I'm afraid there's no rewind.

01:12:01 There's no rewind. Now, don't worry about it. Okay. Are you still in the chat? Just hit me

01:12:12 with a why if you asked this question and you're still in the chat. You are. Okay. Well,

01:12:22 first of all, one way to solve rejection is to stop being a victim. Oh, man. If there's

01:12:31 one thing I could scrub, it would be victimhood. All right. Question.

01:12:37 How many ads or requests for things do you think you see a day?

01:12:46 Just out of curiosity. You probably see hundreds of ads a day.

01:12:51 You probably see hundreds of ads a day.

01:12:55 How many products do you buy from those ads every day? Yeah, none on here. That's right. By design.

01:13:05 It's virtually zero, isn't it? Isn't it virtually zero? Because, you know, it takes like 17

01:13:14 impressions for you even to think about buying something from an ad and then you have to be in

01:13:17 a state of needing it and you actually have to follow through in it and so on, right? Now,

01:13:20 every now and then, you know, I use the products and if I get, "Oh, if you renew, it's cheap,"

01:13:26 I'll do that, right? Because, you know, I'm going to buy it anyway. I might as well get it cheaper,

01:13:29 right? So here's the thing. When you're out there in the world selling stuff and you're like, "Man,

01:13:36 most people are saying no," and you feel like it, do you feel like a victim? "Oh, they're just

01:13:39 rejecting me and they don't listen and they're being kind of rude." Do you feel like a victim,

01:13:43 right? Damn. Damn. How self-blind do you have to be when you spend almost all of your time

01:13:52 rejecting others to just feel so sensitive when someone rejects you? Yeah, you reject 99.999%

01:14:01 of advertisements, right? So you understand. 99.999% of what people are trying to sell you,

01:14:08 you don't want, don't need, don't understand, will never buy. Does that make sense? Yeah.

01:14:16 Do you like Adblock? Do you use Adblock? Do you pay whatever to not get ads on your videos or

01:14:22 whatever, right? So all these people are like, "Oh, it's so terrible when people reject when

01:14:28 I want to sell them," when you've just waded through an entire day of rejecting everyone

01:14:32 who's trying to sell you something. You're just part of the game. And part of the game is most

01:14:37 people will say no. Most people will say no. What percentage of my listeners donate? You noble,

01:14:51 beautiful, sun-kissed, God-levitated heroes. What percentage of my listeners donate?

01:15:05 On local streams, 100%? Not true. Not true. I won't tell you the number,

01:15:12 but I will tell you that in general, freemium, you're lucky to get 2-3%.

01:15:18 I'm not going to give you my number, but I'll just give you the general,

01:15:23 right? A freemium, which is stuff's free, but you can pay for blah, blah, blah.

01:15:30 2-4% is pretty good. So it's very funny to me, and I genuinely find this funny. And this is going

01:15:44 to sound mean. I don't mean it that way. It's going to sound mean, but it's genuinely funny to

01:15:49 me. When people complain to me, I'm not talking about this caller or this writer. When people

01:15:58 call me or ask for advice because they feel rejected and they've never donated,

01:16:05 do you know how funny that is? Again, I genuinely find it funny.

01:16:10 Right? It is funny. It is funny because it's understandable. I understand it. We're all the

01:16:22 heroes in our own mind. We're all the protagonists, and other people are secondary supporting

01:16:26 characters or whatever. But it is very funny when people are like, "Steph, I'm really sensitive

01:16:33 to rejection. I'm asking people for things and they're just not providing them.

01:16:37 And I can look, I can check pretty easily. I got emails. Hey, have you ever donated?"

01:16:41 You're very sensitive to when people don't support you, and you're very sensitive when

01:16:51 people don't say yes. And people literally, I've had emails where people are like, "I've been

01:16:56 listening to your show for 15 years and I can't handle rejection." "I've been listening to your

01:17:03 show for 15 years. I can't handle rejection. And I go look it up and they've never donated."

01:17:07 Now, I get it. Look, I know this sounds mean. I don't mean it that way. It is

01:17:16 funny. This sort of lack of reciprocal empathetic self-awareness.

01:17:20 Lawyers charge the time just on a phone call. Oh yeah, you talk to lawyers, you're like, "Nope,

01:17:28 don't have any time for small talk. I'm sorry, straight to business, hanging up."

01:17:40 So let me ask you this. They need to pay you for your time, no excuse really.

01:17:50 By donation, do you mean other than subscriber fee? I mean anything, anything, anything.

01:17:57 All right, let me ask you this. When you don't click on, we all see ads, we notice ads. When

01:18:09 you don't click on an ad, do you hate the person who's making the product? Is it personal? Do you

01:18:16 know them? Are you rejecting them as a person, as an individual, based on their morals, their ethics,

01:18:21 their eye color? Right? Is it personal when you reject the thousands, hundreds of thousands of

01:18:30 people you reject a day? I mean, good lord above. You go up the grocery, go up and down the grocery

01:18:36 aisle. What percentage of products do you buy in the grocery store when they're right there in

01:18:41 front of you, blaring with their colors? How many products? So you go to the grocery store,

01:18:50 you buy 20 products.

01:18:54 I run advertising and excellent return is one call per 100 ads, 0.5 sales. Yeah.

01:19:04 Somebody give me this number. I don't want to type in all, if you don't mind, if you,

01:19:10 it's pretty easy. Give me, how many, how many different products are in your average

01:19:15 supermarket store? Is it 10,000?

01:19:22 Okay, numbers are varying here. I guess it depends in the store. I don't think it's 80,000.

01:19:30 It's huge though. It's, let's say, let's say 5,000, right? So there are 5,000 products,

01:19:35 including fruit, in the grocery store. Five in Cuba, yeah.

01:19:40 And you go up and down these aisles and you walk blithely past all these people who are desperate

01:19:46 for you to buy their what? Their mouthwash, their cookies, their licorice, their tampons, you know,

01:19:53 like, and even when you buy a jug of milk, boy, you must hate those other jugs of milk you reject.

01:20:00 If it's Walmart Superstore, 30,000, yeah, it could be. I once knew a guy in the business world who

01:20:06 was like, who had grown up in running grocery stores and man, going to a grocery store with

01:20:10 that guy was completely fascinating. He knew everything about everything. It was wild.

01:20:14 The profit on everything, the loss, the risk, the, even per 100 grams of everything, right?

01:20:20 It was amazing. So when you walk past something and don't buy it, is it personal?

01:20:28 I just can't seem to get men to buy my tampons.

01:20:32 Off topic, I went to the grocery store yesterday and there are starting to be gaps in the shelves

01:20:40 where the products are out of stock. Yeah, I don't disagree with that and I wrote a whole

01:20:47 book about that. All right, so it's not personal. It's not personal to you. Don't take it personally.

01:20:52 Why? Because it's not about you. It's about the product. They're rejecting the product. Now,

01:20:57 either they're rejecting the product because it doesn't need, they don't need the product,

01:21:00 in which case it's not personal to you, or they're rejecting the product because they

01:21:04 don't understand the value of the product, in which case maybe you can spend a bit of time

01:21:07 educating them, but if they just don't want to learn or they're too busy or they're too dumb

01:21:10 to understand the value of the product. How would I rank this show among all the products of humanity?

01:21:19 I'll be straight up with you guys. I'm not going to lie. NGL. How would I rank this show

01:21:28 in all the products of humanity? Top 1%. That's very close. You're just one symbol too many.

01:21:39 Yeah, of course number one. For me, no, not 0.1%. No, that would be

01:21:45 hundreds of thousands of other things. Well, I'm somewhere in the... No, for me, this show is the

01:21:52 top product of humanity. And, you know, it's us, it's the call-ins, it's the interviews, it's these

01:21:56 great conversations, it's, you know, some of it's solo stuff and all of that, but this is a community

01:22:00 and we're producing something which I think is the greatest thing in the world.

01:22:08 No, honestly, how am I going to do the best show without aiming for the very top?

01:22:15 How am I possibly going to do the very best show without aiming for the very top?

01:22:20 And I think that we pull it off. I do. I think we pull it off.

01:22:27 I mean, that's being produced right now. I'm not going to say all throughout history,

01:22:34 but it's being produced right now. All right, so how do I deal with rejection as an entrepreneur?

01:22:39 Okay, let's say you have the most valuable painting in the universe. You have somehow

01:22:50 the Mona Lisa. Maybe you say, "I think that's the most valuable painting in the universe," right?

01:22:57 All right. Now, let's say that you're offering someone to buy the Mona Lisa

01:23:04 for a hundred thousand dollars. Obviously, it's worth tens of millions. It's virtually priceless,

01:23:08 right? So you're offering someone a hundred thousand dollars, you can have the Mona Lisa, right?

01:23:12 Why would people say no? Why would people say no to you selling the Mona Lisa for a hundred

01:23:25 thousand dollars? Come on, give me some rejection metrics. They have no clue why they think it's a

01:23:36 scam. Yep. They don't understand the value of it. Maybe they're blind. Maybe they never studied

01:23:41 anything other than rap videos or something. They wouldn't believe you. They don't need it.

01:23:47 They're not interested in it. They can't judge value. She took off her makeup. That's funny.

01:23:52 Yeah. So they don't understand the value. They don't have a hundred thousand. Yeah,

01:23:57 they don't have a hundred thousand, and maybe they don't have the intelligence to know

01:24:00 anybody will lend you a hundred thousand dollars to buy the Mona Lisa, right? Everybody, right?

01:24:05 So there could be any number of reasons to reject the very highest quality, right?

01:24:12 Yeah, some people... Well, no, but even if you don't care about that painting, you'd rec... even

01:24:19 if you just wanted to buy it to sell it, you'd recognize it as a superlative investment, right?

01:24:23 A hundred thousand dollars, you could sell it for a hundred million dollars, right?

01:24:25 Or it could be that they're dying. It could be that they've just had the worst news of their

01:24:30 life and they don't have any bandwidth to handle it. It could be any number of things, right? They

01:24:33 just got some bad medical news. Their girlfriend just left them. It could be any number of things

01:24:37 where they're saying no, but you don't know. So philosophy, what is philosophy about? Don't fake

01:24:46 knowledge. Don't fake knowledge. If you take things personally, you're jumping to a conclusion

01:24:53 called mind reading that they're rejecting me as a person, not the product. You follow?

01:24:59 Don't fake knowledge. When you jump to the conclusion that it's about you personally,

01:25:09 you're faking knowledge. You're lying. Hey, we've got a theme here. You're lying.

01:25:15 You're lying because you're claiming knowledge. You're claiming facts,

01:25:18 not in evidence. Have you ever seen that? You've seen that in the courtroom dramas, right?

01:25:22 Right? The defendant is, the prosecution is claiming facts, not in evidence.

01:25:28 Hearsay, right? Hearsay is when the witness is testifying to something that he or she did not see

01:25:38 or experience directly. Does this make sense? Don't assume stuff. And here's the stupid thing.

01:25:50 Sorry, this is stupid. It's just, it's ridiculous.

01:25:52 Here's the wild thing. If you are going to make up stuff, please, for the love of God,

01:26:05 if you're going to make up stuff, make it up to your advantage. Don't make it up to your detriment.

01:26:10 That's really bad because then you're claiming facts, not in evidence to prosecute yourself.

01:26:15 Does this make sense? I got a spittle on my monitor here. But just like, okay, first of all,

01:26:24 don't make up things. Be empirical. But if you are going to make up things, make

01:26:28 them up in positive to yourself, not negative to you.

01:26:34 It's almost enormously narcissistic, says John, to assume it's all about you. Well,

01:26:38 there's an insecurity I get all of that. But you have to view yourself as other people see you.

01:26:44 To be happy in this life, you must see yourself as other people see you.

01:26:50 You must. I know this sounds odd. You must see yourself as other people see you.

01:27:00 Do you know why? Because if they hate you and they're wrong, you don't want to spend time with

01:27:06 them because they will try to destroy you. If they love you, but they're wrong, then they're lying to

01:27:13 you and they're deluded and they're going to hurt you and you're going to hurt them.

01:27:16 If they hate you and they're right, they're going to stay away from you. That's done for you.

01:27:24 If they hate you and they're right, they're going to stay away from you. That's done for you.

01:27:30 If they love you and they're right, you want to bind them to you with hoops of steel and loyalty

01:27:36 and love and all of that good stuff. You must see yourself as other people see you.

01:27:40 Now, my life is very important to me. I assume that what I do is somewhat important to you,

01:27:48 less important than it is to me. And it kind of goes out in radiating waves to people who

01:27:52 hold on, some see you as the second coming of your bad guy. I get all of that.

01:27:59 So I need to see myself as they see me so that I'm empathizing with how malevolent they are.

01:28:05 Do you follow? So that I can steer clear of them or I can fight them or whatever, right?

01:28:09 Right. Do you understand why does the baby zebra survive when the lion pounces? Because the baby

01:28:17 zebra sees what the lion sees, which is a meal. That doesn't mean the baby zebra is innately a

01:28:23 meal, but you have to see yourself as other people see you. Now, if you're a salesman and you're out

01:28:31 there in the world trying to sell something, yes, you're going to be an annoyance. And how do you

01:28:34 know that? Because most people who come up to sell something to you don't have what you need.

01:28:38 They're kind of intrusive. They can be kind of pushy. And you're just kind of like Glen Ross,

01:28:43 kind of annoying, right? Like you ever been to those? Oh man, I did this once. It's not a stupid

01:28:48 thing to do. I have no excuse. It's a stupid thing to do. You ever do this thing where it's like,

01:28:53 "Hey, I'm on vacation and someone's offering me a free breakfast." Oh my God, you ever done this?

01:29:01 Oh man. Oh man, it's horrible. It's horrible. And wow, a free breakfast from like a really,

01:29:09 seems like a really nice person. Free Disney tickets. It's free. It's just free.

01:29:15 What excuse do I have as a guy who started the economy and there's no such thing as a free lunch,

01:29:20 but free breakfast. Wow, it costs this much to be on a timeshare, but you can knock it down to this.

01:29:29 That's fantastic. Man. And the buyer's regret from people who do this kind of stuff is not quite 100%

01:29:38 because it's actually about 140%. Even people who didn't buy it regret buying it. So yeah,

01:29:44 no excuse. No, I mean, you know, but you know, whatever. And there are the carpets.

01:29:48 Thank you, young lady, for bringing that back up.

01:29:54 Unrolling that with the body of my former bad decisions rolling all over the dinner party.

01:30:00 Oh, he called me. Yes, that's right. I never regretted donating to FDR. No,

01:30:10 I'm not saying all purchasers have regrets. Obviously, if there's one thing that you will

01:30:14 never regret, it's supporting this show. Free $20 breakfast with a room charged at 500% markup.

01:30:22 Yeah. I was in Toronto not too long ago, stayed at a hotel and they're like, free breakfast.

01:30:32 You got sold at a multi-level marketing, not my proudest moment. Yeah, my mom dragged me to a

01:30:39 whole Amway thing. And it's like, free breakfast. My daughter was very excited. Wow, free breakfast.

01:30:47 And I'm like, okay, let's not get our hopes up too much. This is Toronto, after all. And there's

01:30:52 been a lot of inflation, right? They've inflated the money supply in Canada by like a third over

01:30:55 the last three years, right? And so we go down in the morning. My daughter, you can't pry her out

01:31:01 of bed early, except if there's free breakfast. And then she's like, are you awake? Can we go

01:31:06 get breakfast? Are you up? Are you awake? Can we get breakfast? And what did we go downstairs to

01:31:11 see? And what did we see at this not cheap hotel? What did we get to enjoy and peruse? Well,

01:31:20 no, cereal would have been dry eggs and toast. No, it was giant vats of low rent coffee

01:31:26 and soggy sugar muffins in plastic. And that's it.

01:31:33 And that's it. Not as bad as when I used to take the train in England and British Rail gives you

01:31:38 sandwiches that they've already put through the laundry ahead of time. It's very nice. Free jam

01:31:42 packets? No. No. Ah, muffins. Because trying to get people to eat cake without icing would just be

01:31:50 crazy. Oh, well, facts. What can I tell you? What can I tell you? So yeah, it's not. It's not about

01:31:58 you. It's not even about your product. It's that most people don't want to have what you want to

01:32:06 sell them. And they don't want to take the time to figure it out, just as you don't want to take

01:32:11 the time to figure it out. Let me ask you this. You go to the grocery store and there's somebody

01:32:22 trying to overcome their introversion by offering you free samples of Belgian whipped cranberry

01:32:30 "cheese" on some cracker, right? Ever try Costco double chocolate chip muffins?

01:32:39 No, I would just, I think, inject the cane sugar straight into my brain.

01:32:49 The continental breakfasts in the US aren't bad even at the cheap hotels. Yeah, well, it's Canada,

01:32:55 right? So yeah, it's not. Of course, it's not about you. It's just basic empathy. Put yourself

01:33:06 in the other person's shoes. Because here's the thing. If you want to sell, you better get

01:33:12 really good. Flattery will get you everywhere. Well, thank you, young. You look younger by that

01:33:18 tip amount, even as we speak. Hey, you want to get even younger? I appreciate that. That's a lot of

01:33:24 youth you're laying on me. I feel the need to roll up my shorts and show you some hair. But yeah,

01:33:33 it's wild. What the hell was I talking about? It was something great. I got distracted.

01:33:40 Free corn syrup put straight into the veins. No, it was pasta. It'll come back. Oh yeah,

01:33:46 Costco samples. Yeah, that's right. So you go past, and it's a sample that you don't want

01:33:49 anything off. You don't want it, right? You don't want it. Maybe it's a Coke versus Pepsi taste test,

01:33:55 and you're off soda. It's not personal. It's just like, oh, I've evaluated this person,

01:33:59 and they're sold. It's not personal. If you want to be a good salesman, you have to, have to, have

01:34:04 to put yourself in the other person's shoes. And how do you feel when someone approaches you to buy

01:34:10 something? I remember when I was in the business world, people call me up to sell me stuff all the

01:34:16 time. It was really annoying. You'd be waiting for some big call from a client. Somebody called

01:34:19 you up. Hey, we've got this great new network printer, which you can get available on purchase.

01:34:22 It's like, get off my phone, right? So you have to, have to, have to. Because all this old,

01:34:33 and yeah, I get that they're a pushy salespeople. But the reason why they're pushy is you're putting

01:34:38 off signals that you can be pushed, right? They've read you like the back of a cereal box. You know,

01:34:44 when you're a kid, and it's like, when I was younger, before phones and tablets, you're at

01:34:47 the breakfast, and you're eating alone. It's like, hey, let me see if I can decipher this in French,

01:34:51 because I'm kind of bored, and magazines are a bit far away. So, so no, you, you have to learn

01:35:00 to read people so that you can find the people. What do you need? You need to find people who show

01:35:04 interest and can actually buy. Because some people will show interest just because, like, they're

01:35:09 kind of bored, and they want to chat with you, but they're never going to buy anything, right?

01:35:11 All right. Quick question. What creates sex addiction? Me taking my shirt off, obviously.

01:35:22 I don't know that there could be any other cause in the known universe. And this is not just for

01:35:26 men or women. It is for most primates, a surprising number of fruit bats, in particular Venus fly

01:35:38 traps, without a doubt. They just thirst me like it's insane. And obviously ostriches, because they

01:35:45 want to sit on my head and hatch my thoughts. So yeah, sex addiction is, well, you're, you know,

01:35:53 it's a burden that we have to bear, and you're, you're looking at it. You're just, I, I, I and I

01:36:03 alone am responsible for all the sex addiction. And it's really weird, too, because not only is it

01:36:07 cross species and even down to the plants, sometimes it's geology. The, the continents

01:36:18 are drifting towards me because they want to mate with me. And not many people understand that that

01:36:23 whole magma thing, the sun burns because it wishes to warn me. Because when the sun burns, burns

01:36:30 hotter, and I get warmer, I take off my shirt so that, you know, you can all thank me, like, for

01:36:34 the seasons and all of that, because the sun only burns, so that I will take my shirt off. Also,

01:36:41 it's not just cross species and across the universe, it's also back through, through time,

01:36:46 that in the anticipation of creating the sex god known as me,

01:36:51 well, first single-celled organisms came into being, protozoa mated, and it all has been one

01:36:58 march towards my ostrich egg speckled forehead perfection. So, yeah, men controlled fires of

01:37:05 women would take their furs off, yeah. Yeah, the ice age ended in the anticipation of your coming,

01:37:12 absolutely. "Mine eyes have seen the glory of the coming of the stave." All right, taking time

01:37:20 stamps to make a clip of this. Yes, that will never be taken out of context in any way, shape,

01:37:26 or form. All right, uh, someone reboot Steph, he's stuck in sex god mode. Yes, but when you reboot me,

01:37:36 I come back even sexier, and people are like, damn, Plato has finally ejected the essence

01:37:43 of male 57-year-old hypersexuality. It is material form, yet also platonic perfection form,

01:37:53 all wrapped into one. Aristotelianism and idealistic new-middleism have finally

01:38:00 come together in the form of the big chatty forehead.

01:38:05 This is the perfect platonic dome, and it is here. Yes, absolutely, absolutely. I can't join

01:38:16 OnlyFans, despite the fact that it would actually be quite glorious to get kicked off OnlyFans.

01:38:22 I can't join OnlyFans because I will get the OnlyFans. Like, everything and every-- it would

01:38:29 all just be cancelled, and it would all flow to me, and I just can't handle that that amount of power.

01:38:33 So, yeah, it's, uh, it's something else. No, what creates sex addiction is instability in parental

01:38:41 environment. Instability in parental and social environment creates sex addiction. Your lust

01:38:48 escalates with randomness and trauma, and you can-- for more on this, you can-- because me talking

01:38:55 about myself as a sex god is doubtless deeply traumatic to everyone in the audience, except

01:39:00 my wife, of course. I'm positive of that. So, yes, I have just escalated your sex addiction by

01:39:05 traumatizing you by talking about how sexy I am. So, well, you know, I'm an empiricist, and

01:39:14 I'd hit that. All right, so, yeah, you can look at R vs K. You can look at Gene Wars,

01:39:20 G.E. Ne Wars, at FDRpodcast.com. Somebody says, "I just signed on to learn about your position on

01:39:31 the global conflict. I was concerned by supporting Dave Rubin's neocon pro-war position. Do you have

01:39:37 any advice on supporting these platforms today when they appear to be supporting 2001 George

01:39:42 Bush pro-war positions?" Well, I mean, look, we're--

01:39:49 Steph doesn't want-- doesn't run ads because the only reason that advertising industry exists is

01:39:57 Steph's sexual market value. Yes, I mean, I hate to say it, ladies, but everyone else,

01:40:03 even if you were to reanimate the statue of David with the brain of Einstein,

01:40:10 you know, I just hate to say it, but empiricism is empiricism. Maybe you can get second best,

01:40:18 but first is taken, I'm afraid. Yeah, so, you know that the age of the individual is over now,

01:40:25 right? Like, it's done, that's passed, there's dominance, evolved, fallen. The age of the

01:40:28 individuals is past, and we're back to the default position of human history. And you know what? The

01:40:32 default position of human history is the age of the tribe. It's the individual who thinks it's

01:40:38 the tribe who conforms and fights. So, postmodernism destroyed people's ability to think.

01:40:46 When you destroy people's ability to think, the individual becomes the enemy and becomes powerless

01:40:53 because he can't convince anyone else through reason. And so we now have tribalism. Tribalism

01:40:59 is the default position throughout almost all the human history, and we're just referring--

01:41:03 we're turning back to tribalism after a brief hiatus of maybe 200 years,

01:41:08 post-Renaissance, post-Enlightenment, age of reason stuff, right?

01:41:13 So, I mean, you say neocon, pro-opposition, I mean, it's just straight up tribalism, right? I mean,

01:41:25 our side good, their side evil, our side virtuous, their side immoral, our side best, their side

01:41:31 animals, you know, it's, you know, the usual thing. And of course, that region, the Middle East,

01:41:35 has been going on for thousands of years, and it's a tragedy, and it's very sad, but yeah, we're just--

01:41:41 we're back in the age of tribalism. Again, if I'm wrong, I mean, this is why I don't do politics

01:41:46 anymore, because it's just tribal now. There's no-- where's the reason, right? Where's the facts?

01:41:50 Where's the evidence, right? It's just back to tribalism. And tribalism is sophistry for the

01:41:58 most part, and I don't really get involved in sophistry, particularly when it's a cover for

01:42:02 violence. All right, did I get all the questions? I think I might have. I might have. How's the show

01:42:11 going for y'all? How's the show going for y'all? It's pretty fine. Did a good show this morning,

01:42:20 and I hope that you will check it out. It's for donors at freedomand.locals.com,

01:42:26 and it was the value-- the great value of the word mysticism.

01:42:29 More likes, please, so I can donate at the end. Yes, you know, I gotta tell you,

01:42:39 had a long day. Had a long day. Got up, did some paperwork,

01:42:49 and then we had something to celebrate. Took the family out for lunch. We went to a Greek restaurant,

01:42:56 and then I edited Peaceful Parenting and read in the audiobook half of the next chapter.

01:43:05 Played about half hour of Baltus Gate. Got ready for this show.

01:43:11 So I've been working basically for, I mean, not quite 12 hours, but close on 12 hours.

01:43:19 I love grape leaves. So bad for me, but love 'em.

01:43:22 Well, yeah, grape leaves are good, right? Just ate some baklava. Yeah.

01:43:28 Don't ask me why, but I was curious if Stas does home improvement or woodworking. I guess I

01:43:34 imagined he would make a sweet birdhouse. I don't do any-- home improvement a little bit. Not much.

01:43:44 I'm not particularly skilled in that area. Woodworking, no. No, if I have a chance,

01:43:51 if I have some free time, I'm ripping off some philosophy. 'Cause it's a dark house, it's mighty,

01:43:58 mighty. All right. High-staffed. Does parenting ever stop? In other words, once Izzy is an adult,

01:44:04 how will your relationship with her change? No, parenting doesn't stop. It goes to adult advice

01:44:10 and then morphs into grandparenting. So no. Once you have the kids, man, that's it. I mean,

01:44:14 you're never the same. You're never back. You'll never return to where you came from. It's a one

01:44:17 way trip to Blissville. So no, it doesn't end as far as that goes. So any last tips, support? You

01:44:31 can, of course, go to freedomain.com/donate. And you know what I can give you guys? Such a beautiful

01:44:37 crew here tonight and such, you know, I know like you're such a lovely audience, you know,

01:44:41 I know this is a bit cheesy, but honestly, I mean, it's real for me. Absolutely real for me. Let me

01:44:45 give you the peaceful parenting audio book link. What do you think? What do you think?

01:44:51 Oh, this is the computer where, yes, I remember now.

01:45:06 All right, let's see here. What do we got? I need to get it from some other place.

01:45:10 Ah, yes, here we go. Here we go. Satellite radio, you'll get hit with the boom, boom. All right,

01:45:20 here you go. I mean, check out the book. I think it's coming along really,

01:45:23 really well. What a great stream today. Thank you, my friend.

01:45:26 You can take this feed, you can just copy and paste it into any feed catcher, and it's all

01:45:32 yours. I hope you love the book. It's obviously not done, but I'm about a fifth of the way through

01:45:40 it. Great stuff. Also like those listener call shows. Yeah, we've got some of those

01:45:44 coming up as well. Thank you for the tips. I hugely appreciate that. And don't forget,

01:45:51 almost novel, novel.com, justpoornovel.com, and tgoanovel.com. No, let's just do fdrurl.com/tgoa

01:46:13 for the God of Atheists. Some great books. If you haven't hit me with a why, have you done my

01:46:20 ever played Goose Goose Duck? Oh, yes. My daughter can give you several thousand hours,

01:46:26 conservative speaking, of rants on the differences between Goose Goose Duck and

01:46:32 What Went Wrong with Among Us. If you ever, you know, if you want to get my daughter really riled

01:46:39 up, you can talk about teenage female obesity, you can talk about ducks, obviously, and you can talk

01:46:46 about what happened with the font changes in Among Us and their utter lack of provision of new maps.

01:46:53 She can also talk about how Goose Goose Duck went all ADHD, overcomplicated.

01:46:58 So is TGOA in Mobai format? I think it is. Yeah, I think it is. The fonts! Yes, that's right, James.

01:47:03 There are certain things that are just tripwires. What are your tripwires? Let's just close off this

01:47:08 way. What are your tripwires, my friends? What is it that you feel the surge of rant almost impossible

01:47:15 to resist? Like, what is it? Is it Linux? Is it... Oh, oh, that reminds me! Okay, you don't think you

01:47:21 should tell me? Here's the thing. I owe two apologies to listeners. Oh, yes, I almost forgot

01:47:28 about this. Well, you guys, I'll get back to this in a sec, right? So two apologies to listeners.

01:47:34 Now, fortunately, obviously, every time you watch the live stream, when you don't watch the live

01:47:41 stream, when you listen to me, when you don't listen to me, alive, dead, awake, asleep, you see

01:47:46 endlessly sexy Steph. There's nothing you can do about that. It's just the way that it is.

01:47:50 But fortunately, you've never, ever, ever met Petty Steph. That is a great hidden secret that I keep

01:47:58 in one of my left lower bowel movements. And you've never met Petty Steph. But if you were

01:48:02 to have met Petty Steph, he would have said something like this. I was talking on my last

01:48:07 live stream about on Wednesday, about my annoyance trying to get hold of a file from a file sharing

01:48:14 service. And somebody said, you should turn on a VPN. And I said, Oh, Petty Steph, not me. Petty

01:48:22 Steph is the guy that they write about on Wikipedia. But I said, Oh, great, let's throw another variable

01:48:29 into the mix. I'm sure that's going to help. Just use a VPN. Anyway, that wasn't me, obviously,

01:48:35 demonic possession by Petty, Wicky Steph, but Evil Twin, he morphs in and out, it happens.

01:48:40 Funny thing. And have you ever been told something to fix something and

01:48:46 you then have the impulse to try it? And you're like, but I don't want to try it,

01:48:55 because I already mocked this person. And what if it works? Anyway, I valiantly overcame that.

01:49:03 And I turned on a VPN and tried to access the file. And quick question, what do you think

01:49:11 happened? Hit me with a why if you think it worked perfectly, and I owe someone an apology.

01:49:15 Yes, got file. Now I was mixed, of course. Would I rather get a file essential for my peaceful

01:49:26 parenting book or or would I rather not be wrong? Save the world through peaceful parenting or

01:49:33 not be wrong about something unimportant that I marked someone for? Tough call.

01:49:39 Tough call. I couldn't find my double-headed coin to flip it. So I actually flipped a real coin.

01:49:44 Fortunately, for the future of parenting and the pacifity, the peace of the world and all of that,

01:49:48 I did end up turning on the VPN. And I was like, don't give me the file. Don't. Oh, man.

01:49:59 And the file and the humiliation and the fundamental bottom of the canyon interstellar

01:50:06 being wrongness was delivered unto me. So why I was wrong about VPNs? You were right.

01:50:17 I was completely wrong. And not only was I wrong, I was wrong in an annoying,

01:50:22 slightly insulting and petty way. I know it was kind of funny and all of that. But

01:50:27 I was wrong. And because of the continuity of time, I remain wrong. But in the past,

01:50:35 you helped me enormously. I thank you for it. I apologize for the petty sniping. And I will,

01:50:44 for the moment, take ownership of the alternate personality, petty Steph, and say that we

01:50:50 collectively, not you, but we, me, noble, sexy Steph, and rigid, petty Steph, we collectively

01:50:57 apologize to you for the pettiness. I thank you, thank you, thank you for the suggestion of the

01:51:02 VPN. And probably six to eight years from now, I'll be happy that it worked out that way. Obviously,

01:51:08 it's going to take a little time. I've got to adjust and all of that to the novel experience

01:51:12 of being wrong. But I really know in all seriousness, thank you so much. But thank you,

01:51:19 thank you, thank you. I appreciate it. I was totally wrong. Thank you for overcoming my petty

01:51:25 annoyance and slight insults. And you were right. I was completely wrong. I thank you for it. It

01:51:30 simplified my life. I don't understand why it works. Don't tell me about flushing the DNS cache

01:51:35 where I'm going to go and take a dump right here in the chair. But it did work. And you're totally

01:51:41 right. And thank you for that. And I appreciate it. The other one goes back a little bit further

01:51:45 in that, I don't know if you remember me talking about how incomprehensible it was

01:51:49 that you wash your plates before putting them in the dishwasher. Well, apparently,

01:51:53 Patty Staff was wrong about that one too. No at all staff was wrong about, as he often is.

01:52:01 So I got a number of emails from people who service dishwashers.

01:52:11 So apparently, it's really important to rinse things before you... You can't tell my wife this.

01:52:17 Like I can handle apologizing and being wrong with regards to listeners. But no, not my wife. No. So

01:52:22 I actually explained this to my wife. And I said I was mocking your desire to have me rinse things

01:52:27 before putting them in the dishwasher. So apparently, there's just stuff that gets caught

01:52:30 in the dishwasher if you don't clean it out. Like there's just detritus and crap. And you might as

01:52:34 well just set fire to it and get a new dishwasher, which you can't do if it's actually running.

01:52:39 I don't have a sauna. And I don't have a face steamer. But what I do have

01:52:43 is the low intelligence to continually open the dishwasher, even though it's running.

01:52:48 And the only reason I can say that is I grew up without a dishwasher other than my own two arms.

01:52:53 And also, have you ever had that dishwasher that sounds like they're detonating a swimming pool in

01:52:57 the local vicinity or exploding a whale on the beach? You know, those...

01:53:00 It sounds like you're strapped to the engines of a Suez Canal barge attempting to break into

01:53:09 low orbit with the strength of its motors. So I had one of those. So I'm used to there being a sound.

01:53:17 And now, for whatever reason, we have a dishwasher that is a sound eater. And it basically is in

01:53:22 another dimension. And so you open it, and then suddenly it's like steam death, right? So yes,

01:53:28 it is happening. But yes, you do need to rinse things or your dishwasher breaks.

01:53:33 Try not to break your dishwasher. The last one that I installed turned into a six-hour nightmare

01:53:39 task. Well, I like installing things. Because what I do is I get... I have... Does everyone have this?

01:53:50 It can't just be me who has this. A special pair of plumber's pants. Do you have those?

01:53:53 You know what I'm talking about, right? See, women who wear low-rise, low-cut jeans often

01:54:01 look fantastic. But if you really want a fantastic look, get a 57-year-old guy

01:54:07 into a pair of low-rise plumber's pants. And man, it's... You know what it is?

01:54:18 Think of the most beautiful sunrise you've ever seen and replace it with two slightly hairy moons,

01:54:25 and you're there. I mean, I think we've joined together in a fairly unholy mental imagery

01:54:31 that I will probably apologize for in the next show for implanting in everyone's minds.

01:54:36 The crack is deep and wide.

01:54:37 I just don't wear pants. Less laundry that way. Yes, although you do end up doing more laundry,

01:54:46 but in prison, because you have more pants out there in the world. So that could... You know,

01:54:50 but of course, if you don't wear pants, you might fit in very well at prison. So the butt crack of

01:54:54 dawn. Yeah, no, I mean, it's like the original Star Wars movie where the two moons are over

01:55:00 Tatooine... Or the two suns are over Tatooine. I'm like, yeah, that's like me and my lowriders. So

01:55:05 yeah, Plamas pants is just... It's wonderful. It's like a giant spear of glory

01:55:12 arising from a denim horizon of perfection.

01:55:16 All right. Thank you everyone so much for your kind time and attention tonight. Does it feel

01:55:27 like two hours? I'm telling you, it just seems to blur by. So go into this alternate fugue state of

01:55:33 near infinite language generation. And so yes, thank you. And thank you again for the very kind

01:55:41 fellow who donates based on likes. Any last things coming in? I'm gonna stretch it out here just a

01:55:48 little bit. Time flies when you're having fun. Thanks, Steph. Thank you, Autumn. It's always a

01:55:51 great pleasure. And thanks everyone for the great jokes that you make. I obviously try and keep up

01:55:56 because the collective hive mind of comedy is vastly outstripping mine. So I really do appreciate

01:56:00 that you guys really do make me laugh. And that is a beautiful thing in a challenging world. So

01:56:07 I really... Oh, we need 10 more likes. Get us to 67. Come on, baby. There are a number of people

01:56:13 here and it's not a small number. Give us some likes. Where do you do the like anyway?

01:56:19 Where do you do the likes? I think if you give my nose the finger, that's kind of a like.

01:56:30 You click the thumb. I feel it should be that obvious. Maybe I don't see it because I'm the

01:56:36 host. I don't know. The thumb clicks you. Lower right on the iPad. There's me. Giant thumb.

01:56:44 Steph, I wanted to upgrade my Freedom Inn annual subscription. So I contacted good folks at Locals.

01:56:49 They told me I had to cancel my current subscription, wait till it expires, and then

01:56:52 subscribe again under a different tier. I'll do that. But I'm a bit bummed out.

01:56:55 Yeah, I appreciate that. I really do. People do send me emails with, "How do I do this? How do

01:57:05 we do that?" I don't handle any of that stuff. The stuff you do on my site, I can have a little bit

01:57:09 more to do with, but the local stuff is all handled by them. So support@locals.com. But I

01:57:15 appreciate that. Thank you, Chris. That is very kind. Very kind. I appreciate it.

01:57:24 Under the window. Or beside chat in Android. Yeah, I don't have that.

01:57:27 I mean, seriously, how can I not like myself? That's just weird, man. Just weird.

01:57:35 All right. Do you know it's odd to work out covered in butter? Have you ever noticed that?

01:57:46 Unless you have a heat lamp and you're broiling yourself, you get like a little musty,

01:57:51 slightly alpaca on the grill kind of smell. But working out drenched in butter,

01:57:57 it's nice. I should probably save that for subscribers.

01:58:04 In other words, I won't post it. It's a surprise if you don't get that video.

01:58:09 So that, you know, it's like, "Well, that's worth my subscription." So don't watch

01:58:12 glistening peanut butter and butter stiff exercising.

01:58:18 What is it when you go see Las Tango at the Paris? You simply can't order no butter

01:58:22 on your popcorn. It's just, there was a rule. Boy, there's an obscure joke for you.

01:58:25 Butter. Maybe if my feet were in scuba flippers and leather gloves.

01:58:29 Like, comment, share, and subscribe. The entrepreneur tips are worth it alone. 69.

01:58:34 We got 69 likes at 4.20 in the afternoon somewhere. Somewhere in the world,

01:58:39 it's probably 4.20 in the afternoon. We got 69 likes. Excellent.

01:58:45 How many of you would rank the call-in shows near the top of what it is that I do? I just want to

01:58:50 sort of get that. Hit me with a "Y" if you would rank the call-in shows near the top of what it is

01:58:54 that I do. Number one. Yes, yes, yes, yes. All right. All right. Good. So listen, if you guys

01:59:02 here, I'm going to give you, right, call in. You can't in at freedomain.com. You know, I had a guy

01:59:10 call in. It's not release, not releasable. But he called me in, and he's like been listening to the

01:59:20 show forever. And basically, he waited until it was a real disaster, like a real disaster. And

01:59:25 then he called in, and I'm like, "I wish it would have been earlier." So don't wait for a disaster.

01:59:31 Don't wait for a disaster that's kind of hard to recover from. Call in at freedomain.com.

01:59:36 I love doing the call-ins. It's kind of unique for what it is that happens on the web. And so if

01:59:46 you have something, don't wait for it to get bad. And call in at freedomain.com. An ounce of

01:59:54 prevention is worth a pound of cure. Absolutely, completely, and totally right. So Steph Clips is

01:59:59 going nuts. All right. Well, everyone, thank you so much for a delightful evening. I hope that you

02:00:07 had fun. And freedomain.com/donate if you're listening to this later. I would really, really

02:00:14 appreciate it. Love you guys back as well. A little late to ask whether you should join in

02:00:19 as a scheme to commit fraud the day before you're being sent to prison for 20 years. Yeah, yeah.

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02:00:59 You can cancel. You don't pay a penny. The Haitian mama? When is that? I can't remember.

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02:01:11 should be over the next couple of days. We just have a lot of material. As you know, I hired two

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