Relationships: Quick Ways to Show Him Your Appreciation
Relationships: Quick Ways to Show Him Your Appreciation - as part of the expert series by GeoBeats. Thriving relationships have at least a five to one ratio of appreciations to criticisms. So, I would like you to start with making at least five appreciations a day, and then building on that so you get to a 500 to one ratio. So here are some of the things that you can appreciate. Something about your partner’s appearance that you really love and it maybe something you really appreciate. Two, is a skill that they have, a skill that they contribute to the relationship. A third would be an attitude that they have, that they express to others, or they express to your children, that you really value. A fourth would be something about their essence, something about who they really are at the core that is unique to them, that you could reflect back to them. It could be something about their spirit, or something about their generosity, a quality about them. So, for example, I have experienced, from the time I first met Gay, loving his generosity and how he gives his time and expertise and presence away to people wherever he is. A fifth, that I really want to recommend, is you appreciating something about your partner that maybe they do not even appreciate about themselves. So, you kind of surprise them with something they could grow to appreciating about them.