Hero Fiennes Tiffin and Simone Ashley have trusted each other with advice before—so they must be good at giving it, right? Here, the stars of ‘Picture This’ tackle Cosmo Confessays, from the age-old question of who should pick up the check on a date to dodging the truth about a rug burn from a steamy night—some things are better left unsaid, while others deserve a much deeper discussion. Watch as Hero and Simone face tough calls, like choosing between friends-to-lovers vs. enemies-to-lovers, and deciding whether it’s better to run into your ex or your crush on a date—but why is our crush on a date with someone else!?
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00:00So the mum told you that he was cheating on you and he got the girl pregnant.
00:04That is awful!
00:07Hey, it's Simone Ashley.
00:09I'm Hero of Vines Tiffin.
00:10And this is If It Were Me with Cosmo.
00:14Today we're going to be going through some real-life confessions from Cosmo readers
00:18and telling you how we would handle them.
00:20I'd ask you for advice.
00:21I've trusted you with advice.
00:22There we go.
00:23We're both good at giving advice.
00:25Cosplay no way.
00:28My boyfriend recently got into cosplay and wants to incorporate it into our sex life,
00:32but it's such a turn-off for me.
00:34How do I break the news to him?
00:36I think if you're in a trusting, loving relationship,
00:39you should be able to express what you like and what you don't like.
00:42And it should be like a circle of trust.
00:44I mean, it might be an awkward conversation, but I feel like you've got to be true.
00:47And yeah, if they're your partner, I'm sure they'll understand.
00:50Exactly.
00:51Ring around the issue.
00:53God, I really don't know what this is going to be about.
00:56Okay, my fiancé just proposed with his mother's ring,
00:59but it's just not my style.
01:01I find it really ugly.
01:03How do I break the news without coming off as heartless?
01:06I'm not a really materialistic person.
01:08I'm just like, you know, that is a gesture of love.
01:11That is tough, though.
01:12You don't have to wear it.
01:13You can appreciate the sentiment.
01:15You can still love what the ring symbolizes.
01:17Yeah, you highlight that you love the gesture
01:20and that it's, you know, I would love to wear it all the time.
01:22And then you put it in the back of your cupboard.
01:26How bad is this ring?
01:27Like, it must be really bad.
01:28Yeah, how bad must it be?
01:30Check, please.
01:31The guy I've been seeing for months always pays when we go out,
01:34but recently he started asking to split the check.
01:37I know he makes significantly more money than me.
01:39Is it okay if I refuse?
01:42I think it really depends on your relationship.
01:45If you're going to refuse, do it before you have the meal
01:49or before the money is spent.
01:51Wait.
01:51To make it clear.
01:52I think this is a deeper issue.
01:54And I think it should just be a conversation of,
01:56hey, I make less money than you.
01:58If she's initiating the dinner...
02:00Yeah, so then you say...
02:00...and then refuses to pay,
02:02then I think the problem lies with you.
02:04Yeah.
02:06Excapades.
02:07I've been secretly hooking up with my sister's ex.
02:10It's turning into more than just a fling,
02:13but I'm drowning in guilt.
02:14Should I come clean?
02:15Carrying guilt is like,
02:17I will eat you up and horn you.
02:19Yeah.
02:19Just take responsibility.
02:21Just be like, the reason I didn't tell you at first
02:23is because...
02:25It all happened so fast.
02:26Yeah.
02:27Drunk in love.
02:29One night my girlfriend told me she loved me
02:31while she was super drunk.
02:32I've since started saying it to her regularly,
02:35but now she never reciprocates.
02:37Should I be concerned?
02:38Yes, you should.
02:40We should bring it up.
02:41Just be like, hey, you started it
02:43when you were really wasted.
02:46Why don't you have the confidence to say it when you're sober?
02:49I've said it and meant it quite quickly.
02:51It's just about meaning it, isn't it?
02:52But if neither of you have said it
02:54and you feel really strongly
02:55and you're going strong for a year
02:57and you haven't said it,
02:58it's just a few words.
03:00Honest to mum.
03:01I've been in a relationship for three years
03:03and my boyfriend's mum just told me he had an affair.
03:06Not only that, but the other woman is also pregnant.
03:09How do I confront him?
03:10So wait, your boyfriend's mum...
03:12So the mum told you that he was cheating on you
03:14and he got the girl pregnant.
03:16That is awful.
03:19I don't think we have enough time
03:20to really talk you through.
03:21That is awful.
03:23Yeah, what you should be doing here.
03:24I think you've got to confront him.
03:26And leave him.
03:27Yeah, probably end up leaving him.
03:29I can't think of how you excuse yourself from that.
03:32But well done, mum.
03:33Yeah.
03:33Well done, mum.
03:35The carry-on.
03:36I'm going on a family vacation with my boyfriend
03:38and I saw a ring in his luggage.
03:41I don't want to ruin the surprise,
03:43but I'm not ready to get married.
03:45Do I come clean?
03:46I just think don't keep it bottled up inside.
03:50You know, you've got community around you, hopefully.
03:52Don't you think you should say it to him directly, though?
03:55Yeah, yeah.
03:56That's the end goal.
03:58But I'm advising, don't bottle it up.
04:01If you can't bring yourself to say it directly to him,
04:03at least say it to him.
04:04Get someone to hype you up a bit and advise you.
04:06No?
04:07It could be a misunderstanding.
04:08The ring could be...
04:10I mean, I don't know what the misunderstanding could be.
04:11I think it's pretty obvious.
04:14Brush burn.
04:15Things got heated with the guy I'm seeing
04:17and we ended up hooking up on the carpet.
04:19At a family pool party, everyone asked...
04:21At a what?
04:22At a family pool party.
04:24Sorry, I'm so immature.
04:27Everyone asked about my massive rug burn.
04:31How do I explain?
04:33Oh, surely you just say you fell over
04:35or you did a knee slide or something.
04:36Yeah, it's not that deep.
04:37I don't know.
04:37Yeah, you just make up an excuse.
04:39That's so easy to make up an excuse for.
04:40Definitely don't come clean.
04:42Definitely don't tell the truth in this situation.
04:44Just say, you know, you were running to the door
04:47and you fell over and skidded.
04:49Yeah, the filthy talker.
04:52I asked this girl to talk dirty to me
04:54and she went full throttle
04:55saying things I've never heard in my life.
04:57It's throwing me off,
04:58but I don't want to embarrass her since I asked for it.
05:00How do I keep the vibe going without losing my cool?
05:03Just you can say to someone like,
05:04hey, you don't have to try so hard.
05:07Yeah, you could say, love what you're doing.
05:10Turn it down a little bit.
05:11Even with my mates, it's like if someone's trying too hard,
05:14you just go, hey, you're fine as you are.
05:16If you had the confidence to ask for it,
05:19I'm sure you've got what it takes
05:21to ask for a little bit less.
05:23And now it's time for the quickie.
05:25Okay, ready?
05:27Matchmaker or meet cute?
05:28Oh, meet cute, 1000%.
05:31Friends to lovers or enemies to lovers?
05:32Friends to lovers.
05:33I like enemies to lovers
05:34because you'll go and still be friends.
05:36I don't have time for the drama.
05:37Makeup sex or breakup sex?
05:39Makeup.
05:40Yeah, makeup.
05:41Long texts or voice notes?
05:42Voice notes.
05:43If it's long, voice notes.
05:44Post to close friends or go public?
05:46I'm close friends.
05:47Yeah, I go to close friends.
05:48Forget someone's name or call them by the wrong one?
05:51Forget someone's name.
05:52Yeah.
05:52Run into your ex on a date or your crush on a date?
05:55Run into your crush on a date.
05:57It's a bit more chill.
05:59Is it?
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