‘The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives’ stars Taylor Frankie Paul and Mayci Neeley are no strangers to wild situations. In our new series, "If It Were Me," watch as the duo weigh in on real-life scenarios from Cosmo readers and share how they'd handle them. From their partner wanting a threesome with their best friend to getting invited on a sexcation , Taylor and Mayci offer their advice on some steamy topics, revealing if they *had* to choose—Fruity Pebbles or Cap'n Crunch? Plus, keep an eye out because these #MomTok influencers get a crash course on the Irish exit.
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00:00You're going to get sand in your coochie,
00:01and it's not going to be fun.
00:02You're going to get a UTI,
00:03and then you're going to wish you did it inside.
00:07Hi, it's Taylor, Frankie, Paul.
00:08And Macy Neely.
00:09And this is If It Were Me with Cosmo.
00:12Today, we're going to be going through
00:13some real-life scenarios from Cosmo readers.
00:16And telling you how we would handle them.
00:18Let's jump in.
00:19Okay.
00:20A helping hand.
00:22My best friend told me that she and her husband
00:24are planning on taking fertility tests.
00:26Her husband refuses to get the job done
00:28while she's out of town and asked me to lend a hand.
00:32How should I respond?
00:36I'm shocked.
00:37I would say no.
00:39That is so weird.
00:40Could you imagine your friend asking you
00:42to do that for your spouse or something?
00:44Your partner?
00:44Oh, that's what that meant.
00:45Lend a hand.
00:46That's how I read it.
00:47Yeah.
00:48She's asking her friend to jerk him off.
00:50Oh my gosh.
00:51I mean, I would say no to that,
00:52but that's not saying what's coming for me.
00:55I would definitely say no.
00:56That is so awkward.
00:57Yeah.
00:58Oh my gosh.
00:59If my partner ever asked anyone to help them out,
01:02he would be dead to me.
01:02He'd be gone.
01:03I was going to say, yeah, I'd probably leave.
01:05Oh, his ass would be grass.
01:07So let's just put it that way.
01:09The third party.
01:11After a long talk, my man and I are open to having a threesome.
01:15When we discussed who could be our third,
01:17he suggested my best friend.
01:19Should I be worried they end up falling for each other?
01:22Absolutely.
01:23Should be worried.
01:24I mean, I've kind of experienced this myself.
01:27So when you open those doors, you can create feelings.
01:30So absolutely.
01:31I would be worried.
01:32I agree.
01:33I would be worried too.
01:34And also offended.
01:35Like, why are you choosing my best friend?
01:37Yeah, the fact that they're doing that as well.
01:38Yeah, there's something going on there.
01:40If you're married, I would say no.
01:42Just be content with where you're at or don't get married.
01:44Because obviously it can destroy lives.
01:48The sandy session.
01:50My wedding crush asked me to go for a walk down the beach
01:53right before my friend's toast is about to start.
01:56Do I risk missing the toast for a steamy stroll?
01:59Oh, so it's like a steamy stroll.
02:02Do you know what I mean?
02:03No.
02:04No, you don't do that at your friend's wedding.
02:07It depends how close the friend is.
02:10This might take a while.
02:11You know, you're going to miss the toast.
02:13Your friend's going to be like, where are you are?
02:14It's going to cause more drama by missing it.
02:16Again, it depends how close the friend is.
02:17Honestly, they might not even know you're missing.
02:20If it's Macy, I'm not doing that to her.
02:21But if it's someone I haven't seen in 10 years
02:22and she invited me and I went to support her,
02:24I feel like that's more of...
02:26I don't want to disrespect you,
02:29but I don't care to hear any of the toast.
02:31But again...
02:32You know, I don't know. Am I wrong?
02:34The logistics of going for a walk on the beach,
02:38does that seem even remotely appealing?
02:40You're going to get sand in your coochie
02:42and it's not going to be fun.
02:43You're going to get a UTI,
02:44and then you're going to wish you did it inside.
02:45Oh, I missed that part.
02:46Yes, that's what I was saying.
02:48That's why I'm confused why you're so like, I don't care.
02:50No, no, no. Okay.
02:50I was thinking walk on the beach with your crush.
02:53No, I said it's going to be steamy.
02:55I was trying to give you the hint.
02:56Oh, okay.
02:58Yeah, that's different.
03:00No.
03:01No, my answer is...
03:04The family affair.
03:06I'm spending the summer with my best friend
03:08and her family in Spain,
03:10and her dad and I may have made out
03:12after one too many margs.
03:14Do I tell my friend and risk ruining the entire trip?
03:19That's a good one.
03:20I'd probably be too scared to tell her.
03:23Take it to the grave, baby.
03:24Take it to the grave.
03:27That's just more of an uncomfortable,
03:28it's like her dad.
03:30Yeah, no.
03:30It's like her significant other,
03:32so it's like, oh, that sucks.
03:33I would take that one to the grave.
03:35Yeah.
03:36100%.
03:37Is it necessary to say anything?
03:39No.
03:41Hide and peek.
03:42My crush is coming over for a game night with friends.
03:45How do I get him alone and turn the night
03:47from innocent to sinful?
03:49Oh my gosh.
03:50Oh.
03:52These are very...
03:53How do I get him alone?
03:54This might be a better one for you,
03:55because you guys...
03:56Actually, never mind.
03:57I shouldn't say that.
03:58Because if a bunch of friends are there,
04:00it's like, how do you turn it into something more?
04:02You just start, yeah.
04:03It starts innocently.
04:04Like, you could be like, let's play spin the bottle.
04:06Yeah, like, never have I ever.
04:08Or like, something like that.
04:10Blindfolds.
04:11Subtle flirting, maybe.
04:12A little flirting here and there.
04:14Give them the hint.
04:15You got to give them the hint.
04:16Yeah.
04:16And then it'll get sinful
04:17when all the other friends leave, I think.
04:20Yeah.
04:22The birthday gift.
04:24For his birthday, my guy friend is asking me
04:26to hook up with his friend in his bed.
04:29Should I try and find a way to Irish exit?
04:33What is it?
04:34What's Irish exit?
04:35Irish exit is like when you just get up and leave.
04:36Don't say anything, you just get up.
04:38Oh, I like that.
04:39Yeah?
04:40Yeah.
04:40Yeah.
04:41I think it's weird to ask someone for that
04:43for a birthday gift.
04:44Like, that's weird.
04:46Like, I don't like that.
04:46That doesn't sound like a good friend either.
04:48I mean, maybe he's trying to be like a bro for his friend.
04:51Yeah.
04:51And his friend might be like telling him like,
04:53hey, like try to get her for me in a way.
04:56But I still think that's really weird for him to do it.
04:57And I feel like then the guy is like
04:59just scared to do it himself, you know?
05:02So I don't know.
05:02I'd feel uncomfortable and it'd be a no for me
05:03and I would exit.
05:05Yeah, this is some fishy stuff.
05:07How do you feel about the Irish exit
05:08versus like coming up with an explanation?
05:10Oh, yeah.
05:11I like it.
05:12Ghost him, baby.
05:13Leave him.
05:14Leave his ass.
05:17The extra miles.
05:19The guy I only talk to online
05:21asked me to fly to Europe for a sexcation.
05:22Should I start packing my bags?
05:24If he wants you to go to him,
05:25then is he paying for your flight?
05:26But it's the only one for sex.
05:29It's a sexcation.
05:30But if she's down for that, then yeah.
05:32But this man better be treating her right
05:34rather than just keeping her in the room all day.
05:36So I want a real vacation
05:37and then the sex is the added benefit.
05:41It's time for the speed round.
05:43So we have one minute to choose what we'd rather do.
05:46Be the breadwinner in the relationship
05:47or be taken care of.
05:48Be taken care of.
05:49A man who does house chores or buys a designer gifts.
05:52House chores.
05:53I'll buy myself gifts.
05:54Swap phone passcodes or keep things private.
05:58Swap passcodes.
05:59Give up soda or give up sex.
06:02Give up soda, sadly.
06:04Fruity Pebbles or Captain Crunch.
06:06Fruity Pebbles.
06:10Wait for a guy to hit you up or make the first move.
06:13Wait for the guy to hit me up.
06:14Sell vibrators door to door
06:16or do a brand deal for diapers.
06:18Do a brand deal for diapers.
06:20Pack on the PDA or save it for behind closed doors.
06:23Pack on the PDA.
06:24Get a lap dance from a Chippendale
06:27or from your best friend's man.
06:29Oh, Chippendale.
06:31Date someone addicted to video games
06:33or a full-blown Disney adult.
06:36I'll say Disney adult because I like Disneyland.
06:39Oh, we did it.
06:40Yeah, we did.
06:40Okay.
06:41Okay, that was good.
06:42That was fun.
06:43That got me nervous because I'm like,
06:44what is in here?
06:44I'm going to choose one of these.
06:46I regret it.
06:47Okay, what was the Fruity Pebbles?
06:48That was so good.
06:50Thank you for watching us on Cosmo.
06:52And make sure to watch the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives
06:54on Hulu.
06:55So to start, I'm just going to have you do an intro.
06:58I'm Taylor Frankie-Paul and I'm Macy Mealy.
07:00Hi, I'm Taylor.
07:02And I'm Macy.
07:05I can't do it now.
07:07Okay, I'm ready.
07:08All right.
07:08Hi, it's Taylor Frankie-Paul.
07:12Are we embarrassing you guys, our managers?
07:15I feel like I'm on drugs right now.
07:17Do I comfort my husband?
07:19Confront.
07:20Did you say confront?
07:21Sorry, I'm waking up.
07:23My man and I are open to having a three...
07:25This is a long talk.
07:27Oh my God.
07:29Are you cutting this up?
07:30It's embarrassing.