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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day, The Last Resort.

00:00:04Cheers everybody!

00:00:06No crying!

00:00:08Coming to this retreat,

00:00:10we are all here because we have serious issues.

00:00:15Let's try not to break up for at least the first few days.

00:00:20If we can get past these issues

00:00:22and she can understand where I'm coming from,

00:00:24I feel like, you know, she could be the one.

00:00:28Her man has been, like, messaging me on Instagram.

00:00:31What?

00:00:32Wait, wait, wait.

00:00:33He was, like, inviting me to, like, Vegas.

00:00:36This plan will fire.

00:00:38Because here we are.

00:00:41Look around at this ragtag bunch of failing marriages.

00:00:45I feel bad for the therapist.

00:00:47They got some work to do.

00:00:49I really want to have kids.

00:00:51Julia's telling me she no longer does.

00:00:53It's kind of, like, too much to talk about that.

00:00:56I don't think so, so...

00:00:59I feel like Florian's repeating patterns.

00:01:01One day, I noticed he had makeup on his shirt.

00:01:04Wow.

00:01:05From a dog, you're making an elephant, you know?

00:01:09I'm not your little bitch.

00:01:10Your wife wrote, listen, your wife...

00:01:12I don't know, I'm, like, embarrassed.

00:01:14Embarrassed for what?

00:01:15Because I feel like my own husband...

00:01:19Jasmine will go out until, like, the next morning

00:01:23and say, oh, I spent the night at my friend's house.

00:01:28I don't think that's acceptable in a marriage.

00:01:30You're saying you cheated on me?

00:01:32Answer the question.

00:01:35Good.

00:01:40I love him a lot, but I do have trust issues.

00:01:44So I just really want us to at least give it one last try

00:01:47before we really decide whether we're gonna work or we're not.

00:01:50I've made some mistakes in the past, but I've apologized,

00:01:52and I've really done everything in my power to make it right.

00:01:55But recently, I found out some information

00:01:57that just completely folded me.

00:02:00So if she's gonna hold me accountable for my lies,

00:02:03then she needs to reveal all of her secrets as well.

00:02:07He's gonna try to say that he hasn't been unfaithful,

00:02:11but I have all the evidence.

00:02:12Because you're a liar. You're a f***ing liar.

00:02:14Get the f*** out of this room.

00:02:17Oh, my God.

00:02:19I mean, the amount of disrespect that I get from him,

00:02:21it's unbearable.

00:02:22I had to leave my home with my son to get away from him.

00:02:52Oh, my God.

00:02:55Oh, my God.

00:02:58Oh, my God.

00:03:21Oh, my God.

00:03:27Oh, my gosh.

00:03:34That was an interesting day.

00:03:36Yeah, it was.

00:03:39I feel like it could be less awkward if...

00:03:44I'm the f***ing one guy I've been hitting on you for the last two months.

00:03:48Did you see? He didn't speak to me at all.

00:03:50He didn't?

00:03:51No.

00:03:52Would you ever message nicely and be like,

00:03:53you're not from Vegas with me?

00:03:55No.

00:03:56Yeah, no, that was weird.

00:03:58We're f***ing bad, but as bad as other people are.

00:04:02No, we're not the worst here.

00:04:04So, is the one girl Stacy or is she Darcy?

00:04:08I don't know.

00:04:10You should probably look up who Florian's married to.

00:04:13Oh, hold on. I'll double check that.

00:04:15Because Florian could be married to Darcy or Stacy.

00:04:19I just don't know.

00:04:21Hold on, let me see.

00:04:24Okay.

00:04:25All right, so from now on, that's Stacy.

00:04:28Okay.

00:04:30I think she's really sweet.

00:04:32Sounds to me like he's been out here hooking up with females.

00:04:36Coming home with makeup on his shirt.

00:04:38Yeah, I don't like him.

00:04:40She should leave him.

00:04:46What do you want to do?

00:04:48I'm hungry, maybe watch TV.

00:04:51What do you think about couples?

00:04:53What do I think about the couples?

00:04:55I think they're interesting.

00:04:57I think the stories are crazy.

00:05:02And I feel like they just have a lot going on.

00:05:08Tonight, at the first therapy session,

00:05:10I heard everybody else's major issues.

00:05:13Like a lot of cheating.

00:05:15Not having sex together.

00:05:17And, you know, Natalie and I, we're okay in that department.

00:05:20Our relationship, like 70%, it's sex.

00:05:25And 2% we fight.

00:05:28I feel it's actually 75% is fighting.

00:05:32And that kills everything.

00:05:35You're just too sensitive.

00:05:37You're just too sensitive.

00:05:42I think we both have, you know, issues that we can probably work out and make us better.

00:05:48What do you think would make us better, like a couple?

00:05:51I don't know, like that's what I'm trying to figure out.

00:05:54What do you mean?

00:05:56Well, like, you know, a lot of the times, you know, we'll get to a place,

00:06:01and then I feel a lot of pressure from you for certain things that I just can't deliver.

00:06:06And it makes me just, like, take steps back.

00:06:10I obviously want family.

00:06:15Like, I always wanted family and relationship.

00:06:20We're rushing everything here.

00:06:23But, you know, I mean, that's why we're here, to talk these things out.

00:06:28You know, like, listen, this is three weeks.

00:06:31And in that three weeks, we're going to know, yeah, we're going to do this,

00:06:34or no, we're not going to do this.

00:06:36We're not going to do this.

00:06:54How many socks did you pack for me?

00:06:58I have no idea. I'm telling you, pack your socks and panties.

00:07:02I'm not your mother, and I still take care of you.

00:07:05You packed everything else.

00:07:07I packed everything. Why didn't you pack your socks?

00:07:10Can you please hurry up?

00:07:12Okay. All right.

00:07:32You're lucky.

00:07:33I like being in front of you.

00:07:35Last night, I controlled it.

00:07:38Honestly, I just want to stay here.

00:07:40Well, I mean, we both were calling each other names.

00:07:42I'm sorry for saying all the nasty things I said last night,

00:07:46because I didn't mean to say those things.

00:07:49I was upset and frustrated.

00:07:51Because you were leaving the house and not telling me where you were going.

00:07:55We were arguing.

00:07:57I asked for your location. You didn't send me your location.

00:07:59By the second day, you told me you were with your friend.

00:08:01And that is a friend that we have in common.

00:08:03I told you, I am with Brandy.

00:08:06And that night, I was very mad, but I'm sorry that I made you worried.

00:08:12Let's be nice to each other in front of other people at least.

00:08:17Please. It is not too much to ask.

00:08:21When Jasmine left and went to sleep out,

00:08:25Anne mentioned she was just hanging out with Brandy at her house.

00:08:32I wasn't 100% sure, you know, is she, you know, being honest with me.

00:08:38Because sometimes she wouldn't respond at all.

00:08:41But I've had the night to sleep on things.

00:08:44And, you know, I'm feeling a little bit better about the fact

00:08:49that I don't believe that Jasmine is sleeping at a guy's house.

00:08:58Not gonna harp on yesterday. I'm in a good mood.

00:09:01I let it go.

00:09:03Just please be nice to me.

00:09:06Be nice.

00:09:08I know.

00:09:10Just...

00:09:27Hi.

00:09:28Hi.

00:09:29How are you doing today?

00:09:30Good morning.

00:09:31Good morning.

00:09:32I want to come in and check on you guys and see how you're doing.

00:09:36Yeah.

00:09:37Yeah?

00:09:38Yeah, you might want to do that.

00:09:39Okay, good.

00:09:40Vinny and I had our first group therapy session last night,

00:09:43and it did not go very well.

00:09:45The fact that we slept in separate rooms

00:09:47isn't exactly a great way to start a couple's retreat.

00:09:51Do you want to grab Vinny?

00:09:54He is not here.

00:09:55Okay, so is he able to come down here?

00:09:58Yeah, I can call him.

00:09:59Okay, let's do that.

00:10:03Our couples are illustrating a lot of difficulty

00:10:06in communicating right from the start.

00:10:08The first thing I want to do is check in on Ari and Vinny.

00:10:11Last night, you could tell that they're not in a good spot.

00:10:15Ari stated her concerns very concise,

00:10:18and Vinny responded with anger.

00:10:22So I'm a little concerned where they left off.

00:10:26Hey, Vinny.

00:10:27Yes?

00:10:28One of the therapists is here in our room.

00:10:30Would you be willing to come here now?

00:10:33Yeah, I'll come.

00:10:34All right, thank you.

00:10:36No problem.

00:10:37Bye.

00:10:39I really wish that Vinny and I were in a better place

00:10:41where we could share a room.

00:10:43I mean, in a perfect world, Vinny could have come in

00:10:46and been like, you know, I'm sorry, I'm sorry I hurt you,

00:10:49but the relationship at this point is broken,

00:10:51but, you know, broken things can be fixed.

00:10:55Knock, knock, knock, knock, knock.

00:11:09How are you?

00:11:10Hi, how are you?

00:11:11Hi, how are you?

00:11:12What's good?

00:11:15After last night, I feel like I'm very upset with Ari,

00:11:20but I'm hoping today we will be better,

00:11:24and then the therapy, she can help us communicate today,

00:11:29because every time we do a conversation,

00:11:31me and Ari, we're going to fight.

00:11:36So how are you doing today?

00:11:50Just, I need my eyes, like, open.

00:11:53I want my social media,

00:11:55that's the beginning for me, like, first step

00:11:58for next continuity.

00:12:02This is super frustrating because, once again,

00:12:04he insists that I give him back his social media passwords.

00:12:08I've been Vinny's manager for his career as a performer,

00:12:12but then I found out that he was cheating on me,

00:12:14and I changed all his passwords.

00:12:16I was just angry with him, and it was,

00:12:18I was sort of getting back at him.

00:12:20Maybe it was a little vindictive,

00:12:21but I don't regret it because I was so pissed off

00:12:25and so upset.

00:12:36Vinny, what do you mean by blackmail?

00:12:46Social media, everything, your email address,

00:12:48like, something, like, do whatever, what I say.

00:12:51Okay.

00:12:53You know, but for building trust,

00:12:55this is for me, like, in the trust, the beginning,

00:12:57she can give it to me, my trust back.

00:13:00I mean, how could I trust someone who cheats on me?

00:13:03So, with that being said,

00:13:04do you want this relationship to work?

00:13:08Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't.

00:13:10Okay.

00:13:11I mentally, I can't take it anymore.

00:13:13Okay.

00:13:14The circles.

00:13:15You have to jump off that merry-go-round in general,

00:13:17not just here.

00:13:18I have.

00:13:19I left for four months just to get away from the,

00:13:21you know, I had to leave for my own sanity.

00:13:25Has it helped?

00:13:27It's helped a lot.

00:13:31Has it helped you as a couple?

00:13:39No, it has not helped.

00:13:40It has not helped you guys.

00:13:42So, one thing is,

00:13:43is that if you both said last night,

00:13:46I want to be in this marriage,

00:13:48but your actions and the way you talk to each other

00:13:51doesn't say that.

00:13:52Exactly.

00:13:53So, the social media thing,

00:13:55I now understand why you want it back,

00:13:57but you have never once said,

00:13:59I want my wife back.

00:14:02What do you want in regards to this relationship?

00:14:05Do you want it at all?

00:14:08Yes.

00:14:09I want to fix this relationship.

00:14:13All right.

00:14:14So, if that's the case,

00:14:15you've got to do the work,

00:14:17and you've got to listen to each other.

00:14:19But we're not going to get through all of this

00:14:21right here in this session.

00:14:23We do have an activity,

00:14:24which I think this will lead us into that,

00:14:26where you guys can start to have some conversations

00:14:28about these issues,

00:14:29and to see if we can find a solution.

00:14:31So, let's go.

00:14:32Let's go.

00:14:33You guys can start to have some conversations

00:14:35about these issues,

00:14:36and to see if we can find any area

00:14:38where you guys can find a common ground,

00:14:40so we can build off of that.

00:14:42But let's put the internet and computer

00:14:45and social media and all that aside from today,

00:14:47because this process can't get going

00:14:50if we are stuck on the social media.

00:14:52We've got to get to trust.

00:14:56With Ari and Benny,

00:14:57they had a lot of problems in their communication styles,

00:14:59and I think they go to the fight routines.

00:15:02So, today, this exercise should give them tools

00:15:05to help them better communicate with each other

00:15:07in a different way than they're used to.

00:15:10So, let's get off campus and see what happens.

00:15:13I think you guys will really enjoy this activity.

00:15:32Maybe we can fix the situation.

00:15:35You're teammates. You're not enemies.

00:15:38So, go through this process with an open heart, okay?

00:15:42Okay.

00:15:58Hi, guys.

00:15:59Hi.

00:16:03Excuse my butt.

00:16:05Thought I was a little thinner.

00:16:10Well, let's just all have a good day today.

00:16:12Enjoy yourselves.

00:16:14We're doing this therapy to improve our relationships.

00:16:19Well, thanks for the positivity, Gino.

00:16:21Yeah. It's sunny outside. Beautiful.

00:16:25It's...warm.

00:16:29We left the resort, and we are driving,

00:16:31and now we're, like, in the middle of nowhere.

00:16:33We're, like, in the boonies.

00:16:36This is how horror movies start.

00:16:38We are, like, a very big, happy, dysfunctional family

00:16:43that is going on vacation,

00:16:45nowhere in the wilderness, to receive therapy.

00:16:49If we get lost in the desert,

00:16:51and we have to survive, and we are cannibals,

00:16:54I will eat Benny, for sure.

00:16:56Because...

00:16:57Oh, you like the muscle.

00:16:58The muscle.

00:16:59Maybe, like, that's going to, like, nourish my body.

00:17:02That would be my first victim.

00:17:07Okay, guys, be careful with scorpions and snake,

00:17:10because Brento... What kind of snake here?

00:17:13Well, rattlesnake.

00:17:14I think the Mojave rattler.

00:17:16I carry anti-venom in my purse, so I should be fine.

00:17:19Yeah?

00:17:27Okay, what is that?

00:17:30I see a pile of rocks.

00:17:34What are we doing?

00:17:37Be a little scared.

00:17:44You lied to me.

00:17:45When I was 14 years old.

00:17:47No, it's you lying about it.

00:17:48That's... Do you not get the difference?

00:17:50What I did when I was 14 years old,

00:17:52No, it's you lying about it.

00:17:53That's... Do you not get the difference?

00:17:55What I did when I was 14 years old.

00:17:56You don't get the difference.

00:17:57I have confirmation on the phone, clear as day,

00:18:00Sophie messaging Callum,

00:18:01Rex, don't tell Rob about us having sex.

00:18:05No, I'm not... I'm not doing that with you.

00:18:11With a... man like you,

00:18:12I will never get independence, Mameo.

00:18:14Let's go.

00:18:15I'm going to get my independence, Mameo.

00:18:16The only reason you brought me to this country, okay,

00:18:20with lies,

00:18:21that you were going to be an amazing husband,

00:18:24blah, blah, blah.

00:18:25Yeah, I have been amazing.

00:18:26You don't appreciate anything.

00:18:27No, you brought me here.

00:18:28That's the problem.

00:18:29You are the biggest scammer in the world.

00:18:31Right.

00:18:46Hi, guys.

00:18:47Welcome, everybody.

00:18:48Hello.

00:18:49How are you?

00:18:50A little scared.

00:18:51You're scared?

00:18:52Little.

00:18:53Well, there may be something to be scared of.

00:18:55What kind of therapy are you going to take us

00:18:58in the middle of nowhere?

00:19:00Snake therapy?

00:19:01I don't know.

00:19:02There's a huge pile of rocks,

00:19:03and I'm wondering, are we going to throw these at each other?

00:19:07You just read my mind.

00:19:09Welcome back, everyone.

00:19:10I hope everybody had a good night,

00:19:12got some sleep,

00:19:13and ready for some exercise today.

00:19:16We're about to embark through the trails,

00:19:18through the mountains.

00:19:19This is called Compromise Canyon.

00:19:22So for the first part of this exercise,

00:19:24I want you guys to really think about an issue

00:19:28within the relationship that you want to work on.

00:19:32I'm going to have you all go ahead and pick up a backpack,

00:19:35grab two rocks and a marker.

00:19:38You're going to write your issue on both of your rocks,

00:19:42and then you're going to give one of your rocks

00:19:45to your significant other.

00:19:47We will go ahead and put both of the rocks in your backpack.

00:19:51Let's head over, grab a backpack and a marker,

00:19:55and two rocks each.

00:19:58Today, this exercise should help them

00:20:00better communicate with each other

00:20:02in a different way than they're used to.

00:20:05It's so hard. I'm so different.

00:20:08It's like a pizza.

00:20:09They each essentially are carrying each other's problems,

00:20:12and so this kind of gives them a feel of how it feels

00:20:16to carry all this weight that is unnecessary.

00:20:20Can I pick this one?

00:20:23I want a thin one.

00:20:24Right, I'm picking the smallest one.

00:20:27I'm a Libra. I can't make a decision.

00:20:29What are you writing?

00:20:31I'll show you.

00:20:32Compassion. What does that mean to you?

00:20:35Like just taking into account how the other person feels

00:20:39and not just like, I think both of us struggle with that.

00:20:42Like me, I need to think of how he might feel

00:20:44and he'll think about mine.

00:20:45I think a lot of times we don't.

00:20:48You guys already have yours?

00:20:49Yeah.

00:20:50What did you put, access?

00:20:52Yeah.

00:20:53My problem is access to Josh's life

00:20:57because for now I'm kind of blinded.

00:21:00I don't understand because my boyfriend

00:21:03doesn't even invite me to his house.

00:21:06If he would take me to his house,

00:21:07he would show that he really cares for me

00:21:10and that he takes me really seriously.

00:21:15What are you guys going to put on your rocks?

00:21:17Transparency.

00:21:20Because I don't know a lot about what the f*** Sophie's been doing

00:21:23since she's been living her life without me.

00:21:25Okay, that's a really good one.

00:21:27I know exactly what I'm going to put.

00:21:32You want me to write it?

00:21:34For what?

00:21:35For respect.

00:21:37R.

00:21:40B.

00:21:43What's yours?

00:21:45Transparency.

00:21:50Tell me yours because I just told you mine.

00:21:55Look at my rock.

00:21:59Look at my rock.

00:22:00I just saw it.

00:22:05Writing compassion feels like that's funny

00:22:08when I know you've been lying to me for so long.

00:22:10Like, you'd f*** your ex, Callum,

00:22:13and you lied to me about that.

00:22:14And then you brought the guy to my face

00:22:16and you both stood there in the same room with me

00:22:18knowing that you'd had sex lying to me together.

00:22:23He thinks we're exes.

00:22:24We're not really even exes, right?

00:22:26It's barely anything.

00:22:27Yeah, I wouldn't even go as far as exes.

00:22:29You know, we were kids.

00:22:30We messed around as kids.

00:22:32So there is an attraction.

00:22:33You guys did like each other at some point.

00:22:35Call it what you want.

00:22:38If you knew what it was like,

00:22:39and I'm sure you've got it with friends

00:22:41where you, you know, kissed a couple times

00:22:43when you were kids.

00:22:44I appreciate your input.

00:22:46I'm gonna finish talking to her.

00:22:51You lied to me.

00:22:52I'm not talking about a situation

00:22:53that happened when I was 14.

00:22:54I'm not, I'm sorry.

00:22:55But you lied to me, though.

00:22:56You lied to me.

00:22:59Before this retreat, I got confirmation.

00:23:02Clear as day.

00:23:03Text messages in Sophie's phone

00:23:05that her and Callum,

00:23:06the guy that she brought all the way from England

00:23:08to meet me,

00:23:09swore that they were just friends.

00:23:10That they'd had sex before.

00:23:14I just found out this about you

00:23:15that you've been lying to me this whole time.

00:23:17That's what you want to think.

00:23:21Everyone has two rocks.

00:23:23The name of the game here

00:23:25is to be able to compromise

00:23:27through some of these issues.

00:23:29You're gonna come up to one checkpoint.

00:23:32And you're gonna think about

00:23:33how you can work on this as a couple.

00:23:37If you compromise through some of these issues,

00:23:39you can leave your rocks there.

00:23:42If you can't find any compromise,

00:23:44those rocks are staying with you.

00:23:47Let's leave the rock.

00:23:49Let's release the burden

00:23:50and be able to free ourselves

00:23:52so we can move forward.

00:23:53All right, let's break you guys up into groups.

00:23:56We'll start with Jasmine and Gino,

00:23:58Natalie and Josh.

00:24:02Gino and Jasmine are partners.

00:24:04I like Gino.

00:24:05You know, I have good conversation with him.

00:24:07Not having much conversation with Jasmine.

00:24:10She doesn't let him even speak.

00:24:12She doesn't.

00:24:13It's like a radio.

00:24:14She's switching on, like, nonstop.

00:24:16Yeah.

00:24:18Stacy and Florian

00:24:21and Benny and Ari.

00:24:25And then the other two, Rob and Sophie

00:24:27and Brandon and Julia.

00:24:30Ari and Benny, they're, like, experienced

00:24:32in hiking and stuff,

00:24:33so at least we'll be safe.

00:24:36Darci and I got lost in the wilderness once

00:24:39in high school.

00:24:41We were missing for, like, 12 hours.

00:24:42Our dad had to call the rescue.

00:24:45But we found our way out.

00:24:46There was, like, a horse trail

00:24:47that we followed the horse poop.

00:24:49You know, hopefully nothing like that happens.

00:24:51We don't get lost.

00:24:55This is a map of the trail.

00:24:57It's going to lead you there and back.

00:24:59Good luck with your journey.

00:25:00You guys got this.

00:25:01Whoo!

00:25:03When I was 14 years old...

00:25:05And you lied.

00:25:06Lying is lying.

00:25:07Lying is lying.

00:25:08You didn't lie when you were 14.

00:25:09You lied when you were 15.

00:25:10I don't think anyone here would care

00:25:11what their partner did at 14 years old.

00:25:13No, it's you lying about it.

00:25:14That's the...

00:25:15Do you not get the difference?

00:25:16What I did when I was 14 years old...

00:25:17You don't get the difference.

00:25:19As a therapist, I want to talk to you

00:25:20to make sure you guys are okay.

00:25:22Like, do you want to take a step back?

00:25:24Yeah, I actually don't want to be around him.

00:25:26And I'm, like, really annoyed.

00:25:30So let's think about

00:25:32how are we going to get through this moment

00:25:33during this hike.

00:25:35I can, but he's going to be horrible the whole time.

00:25:37Okay, let's... Rob, come over here.

00:25:39It's funny that she rides compassion on her rock

00:25:42and has zero for me.

00:25:44She's been lying to me about at least one thing

00:25:46this entire time.

00:25:47He's upset that I had sex with someone

00:25:48when I was 14 years old.

00:25:50It's not about the fact that she hooked up with him.

00:25:52It's about the fact she would

00:25:53lie to me the whole time.

00:25:56To my face, consistently.

00:26:01No, I'm not... I'm not doing that with him.

00:26:03I'm not doing it.

00:26:08We have no chance now

00:26:09because of some... when I was 14 years old.

00:26:13I'm just embarrassed

00:26:15because I chose this person to marry.

00:26:17I'm so sorry.

00:26:19You don't deserve that.

00:26:29If she wants something,

00:26:31she wants something by force.

00:26:33I can't pretend.

00:26:35I feel like I'm trapped.

00:26:431.4.

00:26:45Miles?

00:26:46Yeah.

00:26:47I just find it...

00:26:49crazy how much she's held against me,

00:26:52how hard she's came at me

00:26:54about anything that I've done.

00:26:56And she's lying to me the whole time.

00:26:59Today, we're here at the therapy retreat

00:27:01on a mountain in the middle of the desert,

00:27:03and Sophie's got the audacity

00:27:05to ride compassion on her rock.

00:27:07Meanwhile, she's lying to my face.

00:27:09I saw the messages.

00:27:10Clear as day.

00:27:11Sophie messaging Callum, her ex,

00:27:13don't tell Rob about us having sex.

00:27:16It's lie after lie after lie,

00:27:18and then she deflects and gaslights me

00:27:21and says, oh, well,

00:27:22that all happened when I was younger.

00:27:24No, you lying to me is now.

00:27:28What would you like her to say to you?

00:27:30Rob, I'm sorry, I...

00:27:32An apology.

00:27:33I just didn't want to talk about it.

00:27:35I didn't want to tell you that

00:27:37because I didn't want it to be a big deal.

00:27:39It didn't mean anything.

00:27:40Like, any type of actual...

00:27:42Okay.

00:27:43Instead of just acting like

00:27:45she just did nothing wrong.

00:27:47I need you to do some breathing

00:27:49and relaxing for a second

00:27:50just to kind of get yourself to this calm state

00:27:52to get through this,

00:27:53and I'll go talk to her.

00:27:54But exactly what you're asking for,

00:27:56we'll talk about that, okay?

00:27:57You got this.

00:27:58You can talk to her.

00:28:00I'm noticing the pattern here is

00:28:02Rob's getting really upset and worked up

00:28:04because he's not feeling understood.

00:28:06There's something that he needs to communicate.

00:28:08She then responds to how he's communicating

00:28:11in his tone and language,

00:28:13and she checks out.

00:28:16Can I talk with you?

00:28:17Yeah.

00:28:18You did your own hike.

00:28:20People react in different ways,

00:28:21and some of them are this concept of fleeing

00:28:24because they get so worried or anxious or scared,

00:28:27and we're seeing Sophie is fleeing these situations.

00:28:31She's taking off.

00:28:33Here we go.

00:28:34Here we go.

00:28:35Good luck, guys.

00:28:36See you later.

00:28:37Bye.

00:28:38Bye, y'all.

00:28:39Good luck.

00:28:40Bye, bye, bye.

00:28:41Let's go.

00:28:42Try to be with your person.

00:28:43It sounds like it's about a mile.

00:28:48Oh, my God.

00:28:50My sneakers.

00:28:52Oh, well.

00:28:53I'll just buy new ones.

00:28:54Let's go.

00:29:00We think we're going to see camels here.

00:29:03Camels?

00:29:04Yeah.

00:29:06No.

00:29:08What do you mean, no?

00:29:09We don't have them.

00:29:10It's a desert.

00:29:11Yeah, but not this desert.

00:29:12What kind of desert is that?

00:29:15Notice Rob and Sophie having a bit of a squabble,

00:29:17and next she storms away.

00:29:19This is only second therapy,

00:29:21and they already blow up that,

00:29:23and that is not a good sign.

00:29:25We've got the rocks weighing us down,

00:29:27and then we've got Rob and Sophie weighing us down.

00:29:30If you're not going to attempt the challenge,

00:29:32your relationship's never going to get better,

00:29:34and you're never going to get anywhere.

00:29:36So don't drag us down with you.

00:29:38You know what I mean?

00:29:44I really need to pee.

00:29:45Me too.

00:29:46Guys.

00:29:47There's no toilets out here.

00:29:48I mean, there are bushes.

00:29:49I'm holding it, and she also needs to pee.

00:29:51I'm going to protect her from the snakes.

00:29:53Yeah, we protect each other.

00:29:54There's no bushes over here.

00:29:55It's a human need.

00:29:56Are you going to air dry?

00:29:57Let's go.

00:29:58No.

00:29:59Go do it.

00:30:00Call the wild.

00:30:01Ah!

00:30:02I mean, if you have to go, you have to go.

00:30:05Oh, gosh.

00:30:06I need to pee like for real.

00:30:12Oh, it's raining.

00:30:13I'm such a gentleman.

00:30:14Oh, it's raining.

00:30:15My hair.

00:30:16No, stay.

00:30:17Wear this hoodie.

00:30:18Oh, God.

00:30:21Come on, guys.

00:30:22Rain is coming.

00:30:23Let's go.

00:30:24Come on, guys.

00:30:25There's nothing wrong with this.

00:30:26Because I want to protect my eyelash extensions

00:30:29and my hair extensions, babe.

00:30:30You and your eyelashes can do this.

00:30:32But you know what?

00:30:33Like, nice.

00:30:34Like.

00:30:35I don't have time to go to the salon.

00:30:36I don't want to get wet.

00:30:42I know, Rob.

00:30:43He's going to literally be in a horrible mood

00:30:45with me this whole time.

00:30:46He doesn't let things go.

00:30:47I can let things go.

00:30:48He's going to.

00:30:49He already was starting to be rude.

00:30:50He was like, I'm not the one.

00:30:51What I, what I, that's his history, right?

00:30:54His history makes him respond like that.

00:30:55And I think right now, we diffuse this with,

00:30:58I'm sorry, this is a lot of information for both of us.

00:31:01And I'm sorry that you're hurt.

00:31:03And I'd like, if he's here with him,

00:31:05I want him to be able to say that to you right now.

00:31:07I think you both need that.

00:31:08I would like to do this and continue

00:31:10with what we're supposed to do.

00:31:11Let's walk back.

00:31:13I understand that I was wrong to not be honest with Rob

00:31:16about the extent of me and Callum's relationship.

00:31:18But at the same time, the way he's acting now

00:31:20is exactly why I didn't want to tell him.

00:31:23But I have come here to work on myself

00:31:25and try and be better.

00:31:26So I am going to go back to Rob

00:31:28and try and sort things out

00:31:30rather than just running away from it.

00:31:38I wrote about, like, respect.

00:31:41What did you write?

00:31:42I wrote affection.

00:31:44Like, for example, you know, when I go to grab your hand,

00:31:48you know, like, sometimes you pull away

00:31:50or when you came to meet me,

00:31:52you just shook my hand, you didn't hug me,

00:31:54you know, but you hugged everybody else

00:31:56and I'm your wife.

00:31:57So, like, if you could just do

00:31:59just small things to show me more affection,

00:32:01that would make our relationship a lot better, you know?

00:32:14Yeah, that's why I'm telling you nicely,

00:32:16just like how you asked.

00:32:18One, two, three.

00:32:19One, two, three.

00:32:23Oh, God.

00:32:26Hey, baby, like that.

00:32:28Like, they're just playing and joking around.

00:32:30Will you do that for me?

00:32:32No, no, just I'm tired.

00:32:34Honey, see, like, for example, what they're doing, baby?

00:32:37That would mean a lot to me.

00:32:39Okay, you want to do this?

00:32:40Yeah, I want to do that.

00:32:42Whoa!

00:32:49I weigh, like, 50 kilos.

00:32:51You can handle, I'm sideways.

00:32:52Maybe I'm sideways, that's fine.

00:32:59Okay, let's fix it.

00:33:02Okay, come on, let's try it again.

00:33:04Okay, let's go, let's go, come on.

00:33:06No, I'm, no, I'll put the backpack on.

00:33:08It's fine, it's fine.

00:33:09No, I'm not going to continue.

00:33:10Give me the backpack.

00:33:11I don't want to do that, but I'm just tired,

00:33:13you know, just walking.

00:33:14No, this is what I'm talking about.

00:33:16This is ridiculous.

00:33:19Okay, well, guess what?

00:33:20You're a baby.

00:33:25It's not comfortable.

00:33:26Yeah, but you chose to carry the biggest stones.

00:33:28You didn't need to do that.

00:33:30I really feel that you're just using this as an excuse

00:33:33to not be anywhere near me.

00:33:34It just adds insult to injury, really.

00:33:38So, sorry, I feel like we started something.

00:33:40You didn't do anything.

00:33:41It's ridiculous.

00:33:43It's a form of protection.

00:33:44You know, you're trying to reconnect.

00:33:46I think that this is my thing.

00:33:50I'm so sorry.

00:33:51You don't deserve that.

00:33:55It's been a very hard five years.

00:33:57Oh, my God.

00:34:07And I'm just embarrassed,

00:34:08because I chose this person to marry.

00:34:11That's the problem.

00:34:12She forced me, just if I don't want something,

00:34:14just, you know, just...

00:34:16This is the one, like, control, you know?

00:34:19I don't know, like,

00:34:20how Ben is going to make it today, to be honest.

00:34:24Somebody going to run away, probably.

00:34:27We're good listeners.

00:34:28I feel like, you know...

00:34:30You know?

00:34:31We feel for other people.

00:34:33Kind of like...

00:34:34Like the mom and dad of the group.

00:34:40Going to adopt Ben and Ari.

00:34:42Yeah.

00:34:45Our kids.

00:34:55You should do this therapy, you know?

00:34:57Listen to her, everything,

00:34:58and Ari's going to listen to love.

00:35:00This is, like, day two, you know?

00:35:02It's had, like, many days, you know?

00:35:04Like, I don't think so maybe you understand it.

00:35:06Like, whatever she...

00:35:07If she wants something,

00:35:09she wants something by force, you know?

00:35:11You know what I'm saying?

00:35:12You don't need to look,

00:35:13you need to look like

00:35:14what you make you guys together, you know?

00:35:17To be you guys together.

00:35:18That you need to look.

00:35:19No, no, look like who's wrong, who's not wrong.

00:35:21That's why just we came here.

00:35:22We have a son.

00:35:24That is important.

00:35:25But for that, I need trust, you know?

00:35:28But, like, I can tell you that.

00:35:30Like, I love somebody.

00:35:32I can take everything shut down,

00:35:34I promise you.

00:35:35I give a f*** for f*** email.

00:35:37I don't give a f*** for f*** social media.

00:35:39I don't give a f*** for my Instagram.

00:35:40You know?

00:35:41You should try for your son, to be honest.

00:35:43You should try.

00:35:46I try to communicate with her for fix it,

00:35:50because of my son.

00:35:51But I can't move on from it,

00:35:53because that's my freedom.

00:35:55I can't pretend.

00:35:56Like, I don't know, just I can't pretend.

00:35:58You know, oh, everything is okay,

00:36:00just okay, we can move on.

00:36:01I can't pretend it.

00:36:03I feel like I'm trapped.

00:36:07I don't know, let's go, just...

00:36:11I don't know.

00:36:17What do you want to do?

00:36:23You know, we've been dealing with trust issues

00:36:25since you've been in America.

00:36:26I need help.

00:36:27I need help to figure out

00:36:29how to trust you.

00:36:31Huh?

00:36:32Keep it in your hands.

00:36:33No, I don't want it anymore.

00:36:34I don't want it anymore.

00:36:36You take it from me.

00:36:38I want to be free.

00:36:42Please.

00:36:54What do you want to do?

00:36:55You little son of a bitch.

00:36:56All right, let's go.

00:36:57You want to go with me?

00:36:58Yeah.

00:36:59Stick together.

00:37:00Definitely feel a connection with you,

00:37:02and I'm a mom, too, and I get it.

00:37:08I feel really bad.

00:37:09I almost feel, like, guilty for, you know,

00:37:11the piggyback.

00:37:12Florian wanted to do that,

00:37:13and I felt like that was

00:37:14a form of affection from him.

00:37:15That was cute.

00:37:16There was nothing wrong with that.

00:37:17We've been fighting since we've been here,

00:37:19and I feel like,

00:37:20oh, he's making some effort, you know?

00:37:22And I know you really wanted that,

00:37:25and he couldn't make any effort.

00:37:27It's just, it's not right,

00:37:29and you don't deserve that.

00:37:34Hey.

00:37:36You guys come here to, like,

00:37:38to be together, correct?

00:37:39Forget what happened.

00:37:41Like, we're, like, in a problem.

00:37:43In order to work on a problem,

00:37:46you need to have a partner

00:37:47to work on it.

00:37:48If someone's not willing to work on it,

00:37:50nothing is getting solved.

00:37:52Before when I'm coming here,

00:37:53I tell you,

00:37:54I swear it's not Avi's life.

00:37:56So many times,

00:37:57even when we started.

00:37:58Please don't swear on our son's life.

00:37:59Yes.

00:38:00Yeah, I swear it's not Avi's life.

00:38:01I'm not move on.

00:38:02If you not give it to me freedom,

00:38:04if you give it to me,

00:38:05give it to me.

00:38:06If you not give it to me,

00:38:07I don't know.

00:38:08Okay.

00:38:09We agreed that social media,

00:38:10that was off,

00:38:11the therapist asked you

00:38:12not to talk about social media

00:38:13for one day.

00:38:14I don't want to talk about

00:38:15anything.

00:38:16I don't want to talk about

00:38:17anything.

00:38:18Okay, so then continue.

00:38:19Let's go continue.

00:38:20Let's go, let's go, guys.

00:38:21Sorry, guys.

00:38:22No, no.

00:38:35I think it's this way.

00:38:45Yeah, but I mean,

00:38:46they're kind of in relationships

00:38:47having an implosion.

00:38:48So, I mean,

00:38:49if that was happening to us,

00:38:50we might be in the same boat.

00:38:51I don't know how focused

00:38:52you'd be on challenges.

00:39:04We wait you from all this time

00:39:06and you not come to us

00:39:07and say,

00:39:08hey, don't wait me,

00:39:09go alone.

00:39:10We wait him

00:39:11and now we are missing

00:39:13our therapy

00:39:14because of another couples.

00:39:16I'm not here for you,

00:39:17I'm here for us.

00:39:20Don't you have to pick

00:39:21such a big rock for my bag?

00:39:22Yes, I choose most heavy rock.

00:39:24Why would you do that?

00:39:25Why?

00:39:26I'm telling you why.

00:39:27Because you want me

00:39:28to compromise, don't you?

00:39:29I feel like we are lost.

00:39:32I think it's this way.

00:39:34No, I feel we are lost.

00:39:42I see some flags.

00:39:47Let's see if we can compromise.

00:39:49Or if we can't compromise,

00:39:50we have to keep the rock.

00:39:53It's a heavy one.

00:39:56It's killing me, this rock.

00:39:59So, I wrote on my rock,

00:40:00independence,

00:40:01with a broken heart.

00:40:05I feel unappreciated.

00:40:07I feel unvalued

00:40:11and unhappy.

00:40:13And to make it better,

00:40:16I need to feel

00:40:18that you support me

00:40:19as my partner.

00:40:24I support you

00:40:25by paying the bills

00:40:26every month in our home.

00:40:28I've been supporting you

00:40:29since you were in Panama,

00:40:30financially

00:40:31and with emotional.

00:40:33I've been supporting you

00:40:34since you've been in Michigan.

00:40:36That is total support.

00:40:37So, don't say I don't support you.

00:40:39I have a problem with that.

00:40:41The way I pictured things

00:40:42in my mind was like,

00:40:43okay, I'm giving up

00:40:44on my independence

00:40:46that I used to have in Panama

00:40:48by coming here.

00:40:49And I thought that it was

00:40:50going to be temporarily,

00:40:51you know,

00:40:53until my green card

00:40:54was processed.

00:40:55But now

00:40:57that I got my green card,

00:40:58reality has hit me

00:41:00and

00:41:01I still don't have

00:41:02any sort of independence.

00:41:03I'm still in the same

00:41:05situation.

00:41:08And the only difference is that,

00:41:09okay, now I have the green card.

00:41:12Even if I try to get a job

00:41:14on my own

00:41:15now that I'm able to,

00:41:16I don't even have

00:41:17a driver's license

00:41:18and I don't have any sort

00:41:20of support coming from you.

00:41:23That's not true.

00:41:24I don't have independence.

00:41:25That's not true.

00:41:26Everything, I rely on you.

00:41:29A lot of our arguments start

00:41:30because Juno doesn't want

00:41:31to drive me anywhere.

00:41:33So I don't have a car,

00:41:34I don't have a driver's license.

00:41:36I'm not asking for

00:41:37a lot of things like,

00:41:38hey, deposit like tons of money

00:41:41so I can have a car

00:41:42and use it as I want.

00:41:44I will be happy with any car.

00:41:46Crappy car, used car,

00:41:49you know, I don't care.

00:41:51To feel like I regain

00:41:52my independence,

00:41:54I need you to get me a car.

00:41:59I cannot live like this.

00:42:06I think this is,

00:42:07I think this is the one.

00:42:10We got it.

00:42:12Here we go.

00:42:14We made it.

00:42:15Oh my God.

00:42:16Let's do the honor.

00:42:17Let's open the bags.

00:42:19I think you guys

00:42:20do everybody couple,

00:42:21like separate and figure out.

00:42:24Okay, we'll give you guys

00:42:25some space and we'll be over there.

00:42:27Over here.

00:42:28Good luck.

00:42:29You too, good luck.

00:42:30Figure out our problems.

00:42:36So I wrote on my,

00:42:39I wrote on my rock affection.

00:42:42Affection means to give love.

00:42:45You can give affection

00:42:46many different ways.

00:42:47So before we talk about our rocks,

00:42:49we're going to hold

00:42:50each other's hands

00:42:51and we're going to look

00:42:52into each other's eyes.

00:42:53Okay.

00:42:54Okay?

00:42:55Do you want to do it?

00:42:56Okay, yeah.

00:42:57For how long?

00:42:58I don't know how long.

00:42:59Okay.

00:43:0030 seconds.

00:43:09Should I go first?

00:43:10Yeah, go for it.

00:43:11All right.

00:43:14Trust.

00:43:15That's right.

00:43:16I chose trust.

00:43:19You know, we've been dealing

00:43:20with trust issues

00:43:21since you've been in America.

00:43:22And since the cheating scandal,

00:43:24it was something

00:43:25that was very hard

00:43:27and still is very hard to forget.

00:43:30I don't want to have

00:43:31to worry about you

00:43:35girls and, you know,

00:43:36having side chicks and stuff.

00:43:37You know,

00:43:38I want to be able to trust you.

00:43:42I want to be able

00:43:43to grow old with you.

00:43:45I want us to reconnect

00:43:46and be back the way we used to be.

00:43:52I feel like

00:43:53I feel like we lost that.

00:43:54I want to get back

00:43:55to the way we used to be.

00:44:02This is for us to come here

00:44:03to work together on this.

00:44:04You don't need to cry, please.

00:44:05Enough.

00:44:06I need help.

00:44:07I need help to figure out

00:44:09how to trust you.

00:44:11Huh?

00:44:12You want to take this off of me?

00:44:13Yeah.

00:44:14You want to take it off of me?

00:44:15Shh.

00:44:17You want to take it off of me?

00:44:19What take it off?

00:44:20Keep it in your hands.

00:44:21Don't cry, please.

00:44:22No, I don't want it anymore.

00:44:23I don't want it anymore.

00:44:24You take it from me.

00:44:27What the hell?

00:44:28You take it from me.

00:44:29Stay, stay.

00:44:30I want to be free.

00:44:32I want to be free.

00:44:34Stay.

00:44:36What the hell is wrong with you?

00:44:39Stay.

00:44:43I put one word, access,

00:44:45being more part of your life.

00:44:47You know, I feel like

00:44:48I've been giving you

00:44:49a lot of access.

00:44:51Could it be possible

00:44:52we visit your house

00:44:53and just you make a tour for me?

00:44:56He doesn't want me

00:44:57to investigate his house.

00:44:59And I do want

00:45:00to investigate his house.

00:45:09I want to be free.

00:45:12I want to be free.

00:45:16What the hell is wrong with you?

00:45:18I'm releasing.

00:45:19I'm releasing.

00:45:20I'm releasing.

00:45:21Let me just release.

00:45:23Stay.

00:45:25Stay.

00:45:27I want us to release together.

00:45:29Give me a hug.

00:45:30Give me a hug.

00:45:31Okay.

00:45:32Okay, stop it.

00:45:38I need a hug.

00:45:40I can give you a hug

00:45:4110 times if you like.

00:45:44Stay.

00:45:45Stay.

00:45:49When you love somebody

00:45:50it's hard to see

00:45:51somebody struggling.

00:45:53I don't cry a lot

00:45:54but when I cry

00:45:55I know her.

00:45:56It's a big deal, you know.

00:45:59I know her like

00:46:00how many times

00:46:01she's breathed in a day.

00:46:04I know her very well.

00:46:07The one thing about Florian,

00:46:08he is a very committed person

00:46:10and he is committed to me.

00:46:12And this is what we need

00:46:14to make it through

00:46:15because

00:46:17I want to have a happy ending.

00:46:22How do you think

00:46:23you're going to trust me?

00:46:24How do you think I can work

00:46:25with this example?

00:46:26To leave this rock here, basically?

00:46:29I just need to see more action

00:46:31and not talk.

00:46:34You're going to see more action, okay?

00:46:37Not to try to go more out

00:46:38like late, you know.

00:46:40Every time you call

00:46:41I answer the phone.

00:46:43It's going to change many things

00:46:44step by step, you know.

00:46:45Little by little.

00:46:47You promise?

00:46:48I promise you.

00:46:49I can trust you for life.

00:46:51Yes, for life.

00:46:52Not for like part-time,

00:46:53so for life.

00:46:59What do you want to do

00:47:00with these rocks?

00:47:01I want to leave it here.

00:47:05Okay, leave it here

00:47:06and let's talk

00:47:07for the other rock.

00:47:10I'll leave it here.

00:47:12Okay.

00:47:27Okay, where do we go now?

00:47:31Can I pet your dog?

00:47:33Hi, my baby!

00:47:34Oh my goodness!

00:47:36Oh, hello!

00:47:38We love you.

00:47:39We absolutely love you.

00:47:40Okay.

00:47:41She's the happiest dog ever now.

00:47:44Have fun.

00:47:45Bye, Lucy!

00:47:46Have a great day.

00:47:48Hey guys.

00:47:49Look who's here.

00:47:50How are y'all doing?

00:47:51Everything going okay?

00:47:53Yeah.

00:47:55I was able to convince

00:47:56Sophie and Rob

00:47:57to move forward

00:47:58on this hike.

00:48:00I offered to go

00:48:01on the hike with them

00:48:02because I could see

00:48:03there's stress

00:48:04between the two of them.

00:48:05Maybe I can guide them,

00:48:06offer some support,

00:48:07give a little mediation

00:48:08just to keep facilitating it

00:48:09and moving it forward.

00:48:11But did you guys

00:48:12take a moment?

00:48:13I mean, look at this.

00:48:14Oh yeah, we did.

00:48:17Even though I'm still

00:48:18very upset about

00:48:19Sophie lying to me,

00:48:20her and James

00:48:21come up to me

00:48:22and we talk

00:48:23and I decide to

00:48:24continue to do the hike.

00:48:26We did not magically

00:48:27resolve the issue

00:48:28at all,

00:48:29but that's the whole

00:48:30reason we're here

00:48:31is to work through

00:48:32this stuff.

00:48:36We made it!

00:48:37Look at that!

00:48:38Yay!

00:48:39Thank God!

00:48:40We have a flag!

00:48:41Good job, guys.

00:48:42That is good.

00:48:44So this is what

00:48:45I think we need to do.

00:48:46Let's open up

00:48:47our backpacks.

00:48:48Let's take out

00:48:49one of those rocks.

00:48:50Yes.

00:48:51And let's talk about it.

00:48:53Let's pick what

00:48:54he wrote for you.

00:48:55Okay.

00:48:56Make sure we're

00:48:57reading each other's, right?

00:48:58You should not

00:48:59have your own.

00:49:00What's on your rock?

00:49:01It says parents.

00:49:02Okay.

00:49:03What does that mean?

00:49:04I'm talking about

00:49:05my parents.

00:49:06What about your parents?

00:49:08Help me make them

00:49:09apply together

00:49:10for visa.

00:49:14So this is what I'm hearing.

00:49:15We don't know what

00:49:16control we have

00:49:17over your parents,

00:49:18but what I'm hearing from you,

00:49:19you want Brandon

00:49:20to support you more

00:49:21when it comes to

00:49:22dealing with our parents.

00:49:25It may not look like

00:49:26it on the surface,

00:49:27but Julia and I

00:49:29have a lot of issues

00:49:30and we're just not

00:49:31dealing with them head-on.

00:49:33For example,

00:49:34Julia wants to bring

00:49:35her parents here

00:49:36to live in the U.S.

00:49:37permanently,

00:49:38but, you know,

00:49:39Julia's parents are divorced.

00:49:40They don't get along.

00:49:41It would just be

00:49:42chaos all around.

00:49:44With us being on such

00:49:45shaky ground right now,

00:49:46I think her bringing

00:49:48her parents here

00:49:49would be a disaster for us.

00:49:52Okay, that's perfect.

00:49:53We'll talk about that.

00:49:54I want to hear

00:49:55what he wrote for you.

00:49:56Julia, what do you have?

00:49:57Baby.

00:49:58Okay.

00:49:59What does that say to you?

00:50:00Do you know what that means?

00:50:02Yes.

00:50:03Okay.

00:50:04What he mean is like

00:50:05human baby.

00:50:06Okay.

00:50:08I mean,

00:50:09how do we compromise on that?

00:50:10Because...

00:50:11If you want,

00:50:12and I don't want like

00:50:13what point we are together.

00:50:16I mean,

00:50:17at a time you were,

00:50:18you said you,

00:50:19you know,

00:50:20were open to the idea

00:50:21of having kids and...

00:50:22I'm open to talking

00:50:23about that.

00:50:24Are we beyond that?

00:50:25Are we beyond talking?

00:50:26Are you still open

00:50:27to talking about it?

00:50:28I'm open to talking about it,

00:50:29but...

00:50:31do I want it?

00:50:32No.

00:50:36So we want to know

00:50:37where your brains are right now.

00:50:38Are we packing

00:50:39these rocks up?

00:50:40Do you feel like

00:50:41there's something around

00:50:42a compromise

00:50:43that can be had?

00:50:53In this moment,

00:50:54not at all.

00:50:56Okay.

00:50:57Let's pack it up.

00:50:59She's not going to

00:51:00compromise on the baby.

00:51:01I'm not going to make

00:51:02a compromise on parents.

00:51:05So we're going to

00:51:06pack this up.

00:51:07I guess I really

00:51:08don't want to,

00:51:09but yeah.

00:51:37Wow.

00:51:39Okay.

00:51:42I put one word,

00:51:43access,

00:51:44and I give you

00:51:45key words for that.

00:51:46Okay.

00:51:47Time.

00:51:49Family.

00:51:50Like,

00:51:51being more part

00:51:52of your life.

00:51:58Okay.

00:52:00So,

00:52:01I'm going to

00:52:02pack this up.

00:52:03Okay.

00:52:05You know,

00:52:06I feel like I've

00:52:07been giving you

00:52:08a lot of access.

00:52:09Financially,

00:52:10emotionally,

00:52:11spiritually,

00:52:12I've given you

00:52:13a lot of access.

00:52:16Natalie is trying

00:52:17to portray that

00:52:18I don't do anything

00:52:19for her,

00:52:20but I help out a lot.

00:52:22I help out a lot

00:52:23with her living situation,

00:52:24with groceries,

00:52:25with medicines,

00:52:26with gas,

00:52:27with hair,

00:52:29and even for her career.

00:52:31I mean,

00:52:32the list goes on and on.

00:52:35What would make me feel

00:52:37at least, like,

00:52:38you know,

00:52:39like, satisfied

00:52:40at this moment?

00:52:42Could it be possible

00:52:43we visit your house

00:52:44and just you make

00:52:45a tour for me?

00:52:46I don't even have to

00:52:47stay there or anything.

00:52:48I just walk in

00:52:49and I see where you live

00:52:50to understand

00:52:52more about you.

00:52:58I've been on and off

00:52:59girlfriend of Josh

00:53:00for almost

00:53:01three years.

00:53:03And it's weird for me

00:53:04because I haven't seen

00:53:06his house yet.

00:53:08It's, like,

00:53:09so mysterious.

00:53:11He doesn't want me

00:53:12to investigate his house.

00:53:15And I do want

00:53:16to investigate his house.

00:53:24We make this through this

00:53:25and you can have access

00:53:26and you can come over.

00:53:28You make it...

00:53:29Ah!

00:53:30Let's throw it away.

00:53:31Yes, we get rid of stone.

00:53:32Okay.

00:53:33I said...

00:53:34You heard what I said,

00:53:35correct?

00:53:36It was enough.

00:53:37It's enough.

00:53:38I don't care.

00:53:39We make it through

00:53:40three weeks

00:53:41and you come over.

00:53:42That's the deal.

00:53:43Okay, let's get rid

00:53:44of stones.

00:53:46Fine.

00:53:47Okay, let's do it

00:53:48magical way.

00:53:49Okay, by throwing

00:53:50these stones,

00:53:51we promise

00:53:52respect each other

00:53:53and give each other

00:53:54time,

00:53:55whatever it takes.

00:53:56One, two, three.

00:54:02Okay, let's go.

00:54:03Let's just get rid

00:54:04of stones.

00:54:05All right, yeah.

00:54:06We're a little bit lighter.

00:54:11We're going to hold

00:54:12each other's hands

00:54:13and look into

00:54:14each other's eyes.

00:54:15Okay, you ready?

00:54:16Okay.

00:54:32Hmm?

00:54:33Okay, go ahead.

00:54:59You say three seconds.

00:55:00Go ahead.

00:55:01Okay, then stop.

00:55:02Whenever you're ready

00:55:03to stop, you can stop.

00:55:04Okay, go ahead.

00:55:05I'm a very good eye gazer.

00:55:06I could gaze all day.

00:55:07Okay, good.

00:55:09Okay.

00:55:10I was going to ask you

00:55:11if there's some way

00:55:12that you can show

00:55:13affection to me.

00:55:16But I'm not sure

00:55:17if you want to do that

00:55:18because even with the eye,

00:55:19you don't want to hold

00:55:20my hands and even

00:55:21look in my eyes.

00:55:25When?

00:55:26Just now.

00:55:27Just we did it.

00:55:28Yeah, it's supposed

00:55:29to be an actual

00:55:30loving hold

00:55:31and you look lovingly

00:55:32into each other's eyes

00:55:33and you wanted

00:55:34as little time as possible.

00:55:35So we did.

00:55:36You want more?

00:55:38Well, the point of

00:55:39what I wrote on my rock

00:55:40is that I asked you

00:55:41to show more affection to me.

00:55:43I'm your wife.

00:55:44We've been together

00:55:45five years.

00:55:46So is there something

00:55:47you think you can do

00:55:48to show me affection today?

00:56:00I want to feel free again.

00:56:03I want to be with you

00:56:07having the freedom

00:56:08to still be myself.

00:56:12I need you to get me

00:56:13a car and a driver's license

00:56:15so I am able

00:56:16to drive my car.

00:56:22It's not that

00:56:23I'm not buying you one.

00:56:24It's because I can't afford it.

00:56:25There's a difference.

00:56:26No, you can anything.

00:56:27You're not capable

00:56:28of anything in life.

00:56:29No, I can't afford it.

00:56:30And you don't appreciate

00:56:31anything anyway,

00:56:32but keep going.

00:56:34You're exhausting.

00:56:35I know that you...

00:56:36You know what?

00:56:37With a man...

00:56:38You don't appreciate anything,

00:56:39so let's put the rock in the bag.

00:56:40Let's keep going.

00:56:42With a f****** man like you,

00:56:43I will never get

00:56:44independence, Mameo.

00:56:45Let's go.

00:56:46I'm going to get

00:56:47my independence, Mameo.

00:56:48The only reason

00:56:49you brought me to this country,

00:56:50okay, with lies,

00:56:52with empty promises

00:56:54that you were going to be

00:56:56an amazing husband,

00:56:57a father to my children,

00:56:59blah, blah, blah.

00:57:00Yeah, I have been amazing.

00:57:01You don't appreciate anything.

00:57:02No, you brought me here.

00:57:03That's the problem.

00:57:04You are the biggest

00:57:05scammer in the world.

00:57:06Right.

00:57:08Keep your f****** rock.

00:57:13Because you never...

00:57:14You never wanted

00:57:15your f****** independence.

00:57:17You never want...

00:57:18And you know what?

00:57:19F****** do you know?

00:57:20I'm going to do it

00:57:21all by myself.

00:57:23Keep your rock.

00:57:24All right.

00:57:25Let's let him take a second.

00:57:26Let's take a second.

00:57:27You, you know, you're great.

00:57:29You made your point.

00:57:30That's it.

00:57:31You know, like,

00:57:32stay confident.

00:57:33That was pretty intense.

00:57:34Yeah.

00:57:45Sophie, what's your rock say?

00:57:47Transparency.

00:57:49I mean, I don't know

00:57:50how to prove it now.

00:57:51I guess just...

00:57:52saying that I really will

00:57:53be more transparent

00:57:54about how I feel.

00:57:55What's that like

00:57:56to hear her say that to you?

00:57:57I haven't been able

00:57:58to feel or hear

00:58:00that Sophie's willing

00:58:01to put any effort

00:58:02towards the relationship.

00:58:17Sophie, what's your rock say?

00:58:19Transparency.

00:58:20Okay.

00:58:21And when you think about

00:58:23compromise with that,

00:58:25what do you think about?

00:58:27Being more open

00:58:28about how I feel.

00:58:29Okay.

00:58:30Is there a compromise for you?

00:58:32Yeah.

00:58:33I mean, I'll just try harder at it.

00:58:35I mean, I don't know

00:58:36how to prove it now.

00:58:37I guess just

00:58:38saying that I really will

00:58:39be more transparent

00:58:40about how I feel

00:58:41and not, like,

00:58:42run away from things.

00:58:43Rob, is there something

00:58:44she's saying

00:58:45she's willing to try

00:58:46and she's going to do her best

00:58:47to be transparent

00:58:48and compromise with that

00:58:49to be transparent

00:58:50and compromise with this topic?

00:58:51What's that like

00:58:52to hear her say that to you?

00:58:55It's a big...

00:58:56It means a lot

00:58:57and it says a lot

00:58:58just because I honestly

00:58:59haven't been able

00:59:00to feel or hear

00:59:01that Sophie's willing

00:59:02to put any effort

00:59:03towards the relationship

00:59:04for a long time.

00:59:05It's kind of like

00:59:06I'm the only one.

00:59:07That's amazing.

00:59:08Let's stay with that.

00:59:09It means a lot.

00:59:10It means a lot to you

00:59:11that she would say that.

00:59:15You hear him?

00:59:16Yeah.

00:59:17I think we can

00:59:18put that rock down.

00:59:21Ta-da.

00:59:24Rob?

00:59:26My rock says compassion.

00:59:28Okay.

00:59:29When I wrote it,

00:59:30I kind of just mean, like,

00:59:32I think a lot of the time,

00:59:33you know,

00:59:34it feels like

00:59:35he does just see, like,

00:59:36how he feels

00:59:37and he throws it at me

00:59:38and, like,

00:59:39the past at me a lot

00:59:40and I think, like,

00:59:41seeing...

00:59:42I guess feeling

00:59:43how I feel,

00:59:44maybe feeling, like,

00:59:45why is she so triggered?

00:59:46Why is she running away?

00:59:47Why is she, like,

00:59:48you know,

00:59:49kind of just having

00:59:50some, like, compassion for me

00:59:51and just make me feel like

00:59:52I believe it,

00:59:53that he really...

00:59:54Understood.

00:59:55I understand.

00:59:56I want to be understood by him.

00:59:57Yeah.

00:59:58Can you help be empathetic

00:59:59when she's talking to you?

01:00:00Can you listen

01:00:01in a certain way

01:00:02that she needs?

01:00:09Yeah.

01:00:10I mean, honestly...

01:00:11Honestly,

01:00:12I just want to figure out

01:00:13how to give her

01:00:14what she wants

01:00:15so that she...

01:00:16Can you tell her that?

01:00:17I've been trying to figure out

01:00:18how to give you

01:00:19what you want.

01:00:25That's a huge step.

01:00:26Sounds like we're

01:00:27leaving that rock, Rob.

01:00:29What do you think?

01:00:33Oh, I should've

01:00:34threw mine.

01:00:35Go for it.

01:00:41It's unfortunate

01:00:42that she lied

01:00:43and that the can of worms

01:00:44that that opens up

01:00:45of what else

01:00:46did she lie to me about.

01:00:48But at the same time,

01:00:49you know, in the past,

01:00:50if I would've gotten

01:00:51into an argument with her,

01:00:52Sophie would just run away.

01:00:54She'd be gone for days, weeks.

01:00:56But today, you know,

01:00:58she did come back.

01:00:59She's here.

01:01:00I guess that's a sign

01:01:01that she's not so ready

01:01:02to walk away.

01:01:06Listen, guys,

01:01:07we did great work here.

01:01:08You guys all did

01:01:09an amazing job.

01:01:10The mere fact that we're able

01:01:11to have these conversations

01:01:12and start talking about them,

01:01:13that's a win to me.

01:01:14Right?

01:01:15You're still carrying a rock,

01:01:16but it's a win

01:01:17that we're going to continue

01:01:18these conversations.

01:01:20Let's go.

01:01:33Is there something

01:01:34that you think

01:01:35you can do today

01:01:36to show me affection?

01:01:40Maybe you can show me.

01:01:42You sure?

01:01:43Sure.

01:01:44Okay.

01:01:49Oops.

01:01:51Okay.

01:02:00Okay, so you wrote

01:02:01respect on the rock,

01:02:02so tell me how I can

01:02:03do something today

01:02:04to give you some respect.

01:02:13Just talk to me.

01:02:25Okay.

01:02:29So the last thing

01:02:30that we have to do

01:02:32is we have to decide

01:02:33if we're going to

01:02:34carry the rocks

01:02:35or if we're going to

01:02:36throw them away.

01:02:37And that is the decision

01:02:38is based off of,

01:02:40do you feel like you

01:02:41I understood you

01:02:42and I gave you the respect

01:02:43by speaking respectfully to you?

01:02:45Do you feel that I did that?

01:02:47Yeah, it was better.

01:02:49I can leave the rock.

01:02:50Okay.

01:02:51So you leave your rock then.

01:02:52Okay.

01:02:56Okay, so...

01:03:08So in my case,

01:03:10I feel that I have to

01:03:11continue to carry the rock

01:03:15because I feel that

01:03:16you were not able to show me

01:03:18any kind of affection today.

01:03:20I don't know,

01:03:21just I did what I did.

01:03:23If he doesn't feel,

01:03:24just you can carry him.

01:03:29I think emotional repair

01:03:31definitely goes along

01:03:32with physical repair.

01:03:33Like one of my love languages

01:03:34is touch, sex,

01:03:36and so both Bini and I

01:03:38have to hold on

01:03:39to the affection rock

01:03:40because Bini still won't

01:03:42show me any affection

01:03:43and he's using it

01:03:44as a form of punishment

01:03:45to deprive me of affection.

01:03:50You looked at me

01:03:51for less than three seconds

01:03:52and you said,

01:03:53I'm done, it's not affection.

01:03:54None of what you did today

01:03:55is affection.

01:03:57I don't have hope

01:03:58in this moment.

01:04:09I literally walked

01:04:10all the way to the driveway.

01:04:11I was about to start

01:04:12hiking down the road

01:04:13and leaving.

01:04:14I wanted to go home.

01:04:15Oh, wow.

01:04:17I feel like you love her

01:04:18more than she loves you.

01:04:21Natalie,

01:04:22she doesn't even know me

01:04:23so I'm like,

01:04:24I don't understand

01:04:25why out of nowhere

01:04:26she's just sending for me.

01:04:27I could just air out

01:04:28her whole business

01:04:29about her man messaging me.

01:04:30I said what I said, so...

01:04:40Ah...

01:04:47Listen time.

01:04:51You see, like,

01:04:52I put the interact,

01:04:53listen, correct?

01:04:54Basically, like,

01:04:55listen, basically, like,

01:04:56I want to finish

01:04:57full my thoughts.

01:04:59You know, you need to, like,

01:05:00listen is about, like,

01:05:01respecting each other.

01:05:03To listen,

01:05:04to listen your thoughts,

01:05:05you listen my thoughts,

01:05:06not to cut you over,

01:05:07you cut me over,

01:05:08you know my point?

01:05:10I ain't gonna lie,

01:05:11I do tend to talk over Florian

01:05:14and I don't know if it's just

01:05:15me trying to help him

01:05:17because I kind of know

01:05:18what he's going to say

01:05:19and I'm just trying to help him

01:05:21get it out, you know,

01:05:22get out the words.

01:05:24I don't like it.

01:05:25I don't like when people

01:05:26talk over me, so I get it.

01:05:28Obviously, it's a trigger for him

01:05:30and it's something, I guess,

01:05:31I kind of always did

01:05:32but now it's becoming an issue.

01:05:35This feels so heavy

01:05:38and not physically

01:05:39but also mentally

01:05:41and I feel like

01:05:42I'm willing to do

01:05:43whatever it takes

01:05:44to make us work.

01:05:46Okay, you trust,

01:05:47you give your words to me,

01:05:48I keep your words,

01:05:49I'm going to leave

01:05:50the rock here basically.

01:05:51It's up to you.

01:05:54Yeah, I think to throw away

01:05:55the rocks,

01:05:56you can keep the trust.

01:05:57You want to throw them?

01:05:58Let's do it together.

01:05:59Yeah.

01:06:00Let's do it together.

01:06:01Alright.

01:06:02Alright.

01:06:03You go first.

01:06:05Woo!

01:06:06Get out of here!

01:06:09Get out of here, the trust.

01:06:10Let's do this one together.

01:06:11This is a big one.

01:06:12Ready?

01:06:13We trust each other, right?

01:06:14Yeah.

01:06:16Woo!

01:06:17Wow, I just got chills.

01:06:20When we decided

01:06:21to throw our rocks,

01:06:22we had a moment

01:06:23where we were like,

01:06:24I don't know,

01:06:25I don't know,

01:06:26I don't know,

01:06:27I don't know,

01:06:28I don't know,

01:06:29I don't know,

01:06:30we had a moment,

01:06:31we had a beautiful moment

01:06:32and I felt our relationship

01:06:34growing closer together

01:06:35in that moment,

01:06:36like we were bonding again

01:06:38and I'll never forget that moment.

01:06:42It was beautiful.

01:06:44It was really beautiful.

01:06:46You have the map, right?

01:06:47I'm not quite sure

01:06:48where we're supposed to go.

01:06:53Oh my goodness gracious.

01:06:54We made it.

01:07:01Alright guys,

01:07:02see you later.

01:07:03Bye.

01:07:04Bye.

01:07:05Bye.

01:07:06Oh my gosh,

01:07:07so many rocks.

01:07:09It's crazy.

01:07:18We have never had

01:07:19a moment like that together

01:07:20and I feel like

01:07:22it was a blessing.

01:07:23That's amazing.

01:07:24It was a blessing

01:07:25after last night,

01:07:27you know,

01:07:28felt like if we held on

01:07:29to the rocks

01:07:30we really wouldn't be

01:07:31making any improvements

01:07:33and it's just like

01:07:35that's why we're here,

01:07:37you know,

01:07:38to take the baby steps

01:07:39to get there.

01:07:40I feel like baby step

01:07:41is better than nothing.

01:07:42Yeah.

01:07:43Yeah.

01:07:45Did you get rid

01:07:46of any rock, Rob?

01:07:48We got rid of both of them.

01:07:50Yeah, we got rid of both of us.

01:07:51Oh my, really?

01:07:53That's awesome.

01:07:54We were fortunate

01:07:55to have the therapist

01:07:57with us the whole time.

01:07:58The whole time?

01:07:59Yeah, that's why maybe

01:08:00Oz is cheating a bit

01:08:01because he was,

01:08:02he had to be there

01:08:03because I literally,

01:08:04I walked off,

01:08:05like I wanted to go home.

01:08:06Oh wow.

01:08:07I literally walked

01:08:08all the way to like

01:08:09the driveway,

01:08:10like I was about to start

01:08:11hiking down the road

01:08:12and like leaving.

01:08:13Why did you want to leave?

01:08:14Just because.

01:08:15That's how Sophie reacts.

01:08:17No, I just run away

01:08:18from stuff like

01:08:19when I get upset,

01:08:20I don't like to cry,

01:08:21I'll be sad,

01:08:22I'll just leave.

01:08:23Yeah, you're not confrontational.

01:08:24Yeah, no,

01:08:25if I feel that's happening,

01:08:26I'm just going to dip

01:08:28because like Rob is the opposite.

01:08:30I'm like, I fly

01:08:31and he like fights

01:08:32so like he'll be like,

01:08:33we need to talk about this now

01:08:34and I'll be like,

01:08:35no, I need to leave.

01:08:36Well, good job on getting past that.

01:08:37Yeah, thanks.

01:08:44I feel like you love him

01:08:46more than she loves you.

01:08:52I feel like you are the one

01:08:53who is pulling your couple.

01:08:57Natalie definitely has

01:08:58mean girl energy

01:08:59and I've dealt with girls

01:09:01like her in school.

01:09:02I'm not going to let her

01:09:03disrespect me

01:09:04and like s*** on me.

01:09:05It makes sense if she was

01:09:06maybe feeling jealous

01:09:07because of the Josh thing

01:09:08but I don't see how

01:09:09she could possibly know

01:09:10about that

01:09:11and if Natalie did know

01:09:12that Josh was DMing me,

01:09:13then she should be

01:09:14putting that on Josh,

01:09:15not me.

01:09:19I feel like you deserve

01:09:20to have someone equal,

01:09:21like the most cool love

01:09:23is like both love each other.

01:09:29This is the issue

01:09:30because she's ready

01:09:31to give up any time

01:09:32and just leave

01:09:33and you keep going and going.

01:09:34Yeah, but I think

01:09:35we're both trying.

01:09:37You know, he's hurt me

01:09:38and I'm a bit more easily

01:09:39more so ready.

01:09:40Well, you should

01:09:41concentrate on him more

01:09:42and you don't

01:09:43and I see it.

01:09:44I mean, I am, I'm here.

01:09:45You came here to work

01:09:46on this relationship

01:09:47that you have.

01:09:48And I am.

01:09:49Yeah.

01:09:50Just like everyone else.

01:09:52Okay.

01:09:56Natalie,

01:09:57she doesn't even know me

01:09:58so I'm like,

01:09:59I don't understand

01:10:00why out of nowhere

01:10:01she's just sending for me

01:10:02when what is she

01:10:03even talking about?

01:10:04If I was a lesser person

01:10:05and stooped down

01:10:06to her very immature level,

01:10:07I could just air out

01:10:08her whole business

01:10:09about her man messaging me

01:10:10and trying to fly me

01:10:11out to Vegas

01:10:12but I don't need to do that

01:10:13because I'm clearly

01:10:14more mature than her

01:10:15even though she's

01:10:16three times my age.

01:10:18I said what I said

01:10:19and I check it already.

01:10:20So...

01:10:29Right now,

01:10:30we have a sexless marriage.

01:10:32It's just I have to be

01:10:33in the right mood.

01:10:34You're never in the right mood.

01:10:36I have to have

01:10:37emotional connection

01:10:38with someone

01:10:39and not be fighting

01:10:40with someone every day

01:10:41in order to get to that point.

01:10:42You know what, you know?

01:10:43I'm getting the f***

01:10:44out of this resort.

01:10:46This is it.

01:10:48Yeah.

01:10:49See ya.

01:10:50Psycho.

01:10:52Mr. Cheetah is a psycho.

01:11:17Good morning.

01:11:18Good morning.

01:11:37Come on.

01:11:38Let's do push-ups

01:11:40before we go.

01:11:42Do you want to do

01:11:43push-ups with me?

01:11:45Let's do push-ups.

01:11:48Come on.

01:11:53I'm done.

01:11:54I'm done with push-ups.

01:12:10Compromised Canyon

01:12:11took an emotional toll

01:12:12on us yesterday

01:12:14and now Rob.

01:12:15He thinks he can't trust me

01:12:16even though

01:12:17he's literally the one

01:12:18that's cheated on me

01:12:19in the past.

01:12:20And then when

01:12:21Nasty stands for me

01:12:22on the bus

01:12:23and he doesn't stick up for me

01:12:24that like hurt me.

01:12:25So yeah,

01:12:26I'm just feeling

01:12:27totally unsupported

01:12:28by Rob this morning.

01:12:39So,

01:12:40I feel like after

01:12:41the first day

01:12:42nobody really likes you.

01:12:43Tell me who's not like me.

01:12:44Uh,

01:12:45a lot of the girls.

01:12:47Julia,

01:12:48at least she likes you.

01:12:49Jasmine.

01:12:51I'm confused

01:12:52for Gina and Jasmine

01:12:53to be honest with you.

01:12:54Yeah.

01:12:55I don't know what's wrong

01:12:56with that girl.

01:12:57Cry too much.

01:12:58I don't know,

01:12:59seriously.

01:13:00Emotional.

01:13:01Emotional.

01:13:02It's no cemetery here.

01:13:03It's like to figure out

01:13:04things together

01:13:05to be happy, you know?

01:13:06But I see where

01:13:07Jasmine's coming from.

01:13:08He's married to the ghost.

01:13:09It's hard for me

01:13:10to pick and choose.

01:13:11And please don't embarrass me

01:13:12because I like these girls.

01:13:16I'm sorry.

01:13:22I'm sorry.

01:13:29Oh, good.

01:13:30You made up your bed.

01:13:31Yeah.

01:13:32Proud of me?

01:13:34Um, yeah.

01:13:36Jasmine and I

01:13:37had a tough day

01:13:38at Compromise Canyon

01:13:40and that's very disappointing

01:13:42because

01:13:43I feel like

01:13:44not going anywhere.

01:13:45Like this therapy sessions have not helped us yet.

01:13:49And, you know, I'm really worried

01:13:53about our relationship right now.

01:13:55It's rapidly going down the drain.

01:14:02So thank you very much for, you know,

01:14:06having this agreement and share the bed.

01:14:10I wish we could, like, both of us,

01:14:13like, enjoy it at the same time.

01:14:16Well, who knows, maybe by the end of the retreat,

01:14:19we might be able to get to that point.

01:14:20Yeah.

01:14:21I want to rescue, like, a few positive things.

01:14:24But our intimacy is, like, going down the drain.

01:14:28Like, it's getting worse.

01:14:29Right now, like, we have a sexless marriage.

01:14:33And that's pretty awful.

01:14:35Just strange, you know?

01:14:36It's like we don't even kiss very much anymore,

01:14:39like, not like we used to, or hug each other,

01:14:41or be affectionate with each other.

01:14:46You know why I stopped kissing you and hugging you?

01:14:50Because of the rejection.

01:14:54I am scared of taking the initiative,

01:14:57because every time I was approaching,

01:15:00like, getting close to kissing you, you will do this.

01:15:02You will push me away.

01:15:04It's just I have to be in the right mood.

01:15:06Yeah, but you are, you're never in the right mood.

01:15:10Well, what does that tell you?

01:15:13He doesn't want to be intimate with me.

01:15:16He rejects me.

01:15:18If I hug him, if I cuddle, if I try to snuggle,

01:15:22he push me away.

01:15:23It makes me feel like I have to beg for attention.

01:15:26I have to beg for love.

01:15:29Why?

01:15:30Why did you marry me?

01:15:33You can't go from not sleeping with each other

01:15:37to having sex.

01:15:38It has to be slowly getting to that point.

01:15:41I have to have an emotional connection with someone

01:15:43and not be fighting with someone every day

01:15:45in order to get to that point.

01:15:47You're an emotional person,

01:15:49and you're okay with watching pornography,

01:15:52with their, you know that they are actors.

01:15:55Pornography has nothing to do with it.

01:15:58I don't, I'm not with a woman that's kind to me,

01:16:00and nice to me, and gentle with me.

01:16:03I don't have that kind of girl.

01:16:04Like, everyone here has a girl.

01:16:07I don't like that.

01:16:12Maybe we should even not even stay in the same room.

01:16:16You know what, you know?

01:16:17I'm getting the out of this resort.

01:16:21I cannot deal with this anymore

01:16:23because you are a person that constantly insults me.

01:16:28You never make me feel special, and I'm tired.

01:16:31Yeah, I'm tired too.

01:16:32I deserve to be loved.

01:16:34I deserve happiness.

01:16:37Yeah.

01:16:38See ya.

01:16:47Psycho.

01:16:50That's what she is, a psycho.

01:16:53I can't do this anymore.

01:16:59How can I make it work?

01:17:01If the person that I love, you know,

01:17:03just push me to my, push my buttons,

01:17:07and get the worst out of me.

01:17:12I don't know what to do.

01:17:13Should I stay here?

01:17:15Should I just go back?

01:17:34♪ That's wrong, that's wrong ♪

01:17:37Right this way, your majesty.

01:17:38Let me pull the chair for you.

01:17:41You're welcome.

01:17:45Anything for you.

01:17:47This is after therapy, you nice.

01:17:53Yeah, I see somebody.

01:17:55Hey, guys.

01:17:56Yellow team.

01:17:57Yeah, oh, you're yellow too.

01:17:59Look at that.

01:18:00Yes.

01:18:01May I sit?

01:18:02Absolutely.

01:18:04Of course.

01:18:06Where is your husband?

01:18:07I don't know.

01:18:12Hey, buddy.

01:18:13Hola.

01:18:14Morning.

01:18:16Do you team in the morning?

01:18:19Coffee or what do you say, how do you say?

01:18:21Tea?

01:18:22Hi.

01:18:26Good morning.

01:18:27Good morning.

01:18:27Hello.

01:18:29You gonna sit with us?

01:18:30Yes.

01:18:31That's okay.

01:18:34You are so lucky, Brendan, today.

01:18:36You have a sweet, beautiful girl near you.

01:18:40Yeah.

01:18:42Sophie and I really got into it yesterday.

01:18:44And, you know, today we're not in a good place.

01:18:46To see Sophie walk right past me, though,

01:18:48after her being outed as a liar and she's mad at me,

01:18:52it's just stupid.

01:18:54Sophie's also upset.

01:18:56Natalie did call Sophie out for not trying as hard as I am.

01:19:00She's right.

01:19:02Sophie isn't trying when it comes to our relationship.

01:19:08What's up, Daniel?

01:19:09How's it going?

01:19:10Do you mind if I sit with you?

01:19:11Please do, so I don't look so depressed.

01:19:16Are you doing okay?

01:19:18Or going down or what?

01:19:19Going down.

01:19:20Going down?

01:19:22No.

01:19:22Today, same with me.

01:19:23Really?

01:19:26Today, everybody have a day off from therapy

01:19:29and we glad we have a little break.

01:19:31Yeah, it looks like we're the only couple

01:19:33eating together today.

01:19:34I know there are a lot of issues brought up yesterday,

01:19:37but I didn't know there were so many in such a bad place

01:19:39they won't even eat together.

01:19:41Doesn't matter how much we fight,

01:19:43I never gonna miss a meal.

01:19:45You could eat a burger every day.

01:19:47It's true.

01:19:48It's true, right?

01:19:50No, I mix with pizza sometimes.

01:19:51Okay.

01:19:59Hey, Benny.

01:20:00Hey, how are you?

01:20:01How you doing?

01:20:02It's good.

01:20:03Hey, guys.

01:20:06How are you?

01:20:07Good morning.

01:20:07How are you?

01:20:08I wanted to dress up a little bit, feel good.

01:20:11You stole my husband.

01:20:12He wants to sit with you guys.

01:20:13I can feel it.

01:20:14Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:20:15Well, maybe I'll sit over there.

01:20:17How's Jasmine?

01:20:19Oh.

01:20:19Uh-oh.

01:20:20We got in a big fight.

01:20:21Oh, no.

01:20:23So that's why I came here by myself.

01:20:25I hope you guys stick it out to the end

01:20:26and work it through.

01:20:27I mean, it's not easy.

01:20:30Hi.

01:20:31How are you?

01:20:32Hi.

01:20:32Nice to see you.

01:20:33Oh, look at you.

01:20:34You're a queen.

01:20:35What are you having?

01:20:37I've never been a big breakfast person,

01:20:39but this looks good.

01:20:40Let's eat together.

01:20:41Yes, I feel that.

01:20:42I feel like we need some girls.

01:20:44Yeah, we need some.

01:20:45Yes.

01:20:55June and I had a very bad fight this morning.

01:20:58We had a very bad fight this morning,

01:20:59and he said very hurtful things,

01:21:02and he made me very mad.

01:21:05It makes me feel like I'm all by myself.

01:21:07I'm alone.

01:21:08I'm anxious and tense.

01:21:10I just need someone to listen to me right now, honestly.

01:21:22Jasmine, how are you?

01:21:23I want to go home.

01:21:24I don't want to be here.

01:21:28Right.

01:21:29I'm just going to try to calm down.

01:21:32I don't know why your letting him bother you.

01:21:34He doesn't take accountability of his sexuality problems,

01:21:38and the way he makes me feel, it's like I am the problem.

01:21:41Like no one will ever love me.

01:21:44Jasmine.

01:21:46Come on.

01:21:47Don't let him trigger you.

01:21:51Who are you on the phone with?

01:21:54Matt is a friend.

01:21:55He was one of my best friends in Michigan.

01:21:58I met him at the gym,

01:22:00and we started working out together,

01:22:03and after spending some time, we became friends.

01:22:07Does Gina know about Matt?

01:22:10No, Gina doesn't know about Matt

01:22:13because I know he's going to think

01:22:15that it's more than a friendship,

01:22:17and I know it is not.

01:22:18I never done anything with him, nothing,

01:22:21but at the same time, he's a person

01:22:23that in a short period of time has shown me

01:22:26that he cares about me, and he wants me to be happy,

01:22:29and that's how I ended up being his friend.

01:22:34I love him, I want to be with him,

01:22:35but at the same time, how can I make it work

01:22:38if the person that I love, you know,

01:22:40just push me to my, push my buttons

01:22:44and get the worst out of me?

01:22:48I don't know what to do.

01:22:49Should I stay here?

01:22:51Should I just go back?

01:22:53I don't really know the answer to that.

01:22:55I don't really know the answer,

01:22:56but I think you guys should do some therapies together.

01:23:00I think you should try to work these things out with him.

01:23:03You know, you guys do have love for each other.

01:23:05But I don't know if love is enough, Matt.

01:23:09I don't know.

01:23:10You went out there to work on your marriage,

01:23:13and I think you should give each other a chance,

01:23:17but you can't sit there and love kids forever.

01:23:20So eventually, you're going to have to

01:23:22do what makes you happy.

01:23:25But, Jasmine, at the end of the day,

01:23:28you know, he doesn't realize that

01:23:30there is literally probably hundreds of thousands of men

01:23:33that would jump in three seconds to be with you.

01:23:41What's up, guys?

01:23:42Next time on 90 Day The Last Resort.

01:23:45I can't tell you.

01:23:46She told me you have a plastic eye.

01:23:48What?

01:23:49Why is she talking about my body?

01:23:52Let's go, guys!

01:23:53Woo!

01:23:54Hey!

01:23:56Get the party started.

01:23:57Hell, yeah!

01:23:59Please, calm down.

01:24:00Please, calm down.

01:24:04That's just time to do some dance.

01:24:07Julia.

01:24:10Too much.

01:24:12Seriously, you can see your penis.

01:24:14I mean, I have fun.

01:24:16There's a million ways in the world to have fun.

01:24:19I can have fun without showing my penis to people, you know?

01:24:22Bye.

01:24:25Woo!

01:24:26Hey!

01:24:27Look at me!

01:24:29Where's your husband?

01:24:30He's next to you.

01:24:31Oh, he won't talk to me.

01:24:32Oh, wow.

01:24:34It's embarrassing.

01:24:35Like, you know, as a husband, like,

01:24:37you don't treat your wife like that.

01:24:40Now I have to worry about, like,

01:24:41oh, I'm at this bar with this person who I'm married to,

01:24:43won't even acknowledge that I exist.

01:24:45All right, can you say something so we know that you're OK?

01:24:50How's your night going?

01:24:52Good.

01:24:53How's yours?

01:24:54I think that Josh likes Sofie.

01:24:58He likes Sofie.

01:25:01He was inviting Sofie to his wedding.

01:25:05Yeah.

01:25:06I'm so glad.

01:25:08Oh.

01:25:08Oh, my God.

01:25:09Oh!

01:25:11Oh.

01:25:13Bitch is out of control.

01:25:15You throw a glass on my feet, and you are going to apologize.

01:25:20You are going to apologize.

01:25:22You are going to apologize right now, Natalie.

01:25:24If you want to meet with crazy, I'm crazy.

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