Do you marvel at how some people are always able to get their way? These are people who have extremely high manipulative tendencies. The reason they are hard to identify is that they employ rather innocent tactics. However, any innocent act when used with ill intent turns into a tool for manipulation.
DISCLAIMER: Please note this is for educational purposes. If you find yourself relating to one, two, or any of the following signs, it doesn’t automatically classify you as a master manipulator. Please note this is not meant to discredit anyone. This video is not a substitute for professional advice or self-diagnosis. We advise you to seek professional help if you can relate to any disorders mentioned.
source: Psych2go
DISCLAIMER: Please note this is for educational purposes. If you find yourself relating to one, two, or any of the following signs, it doesn’t automatically classify you as a master manipulator. Please note this is not meant to discredit anyone. This video is not a substitute for professional advice or self-diagnosis. We advise you to seek professional help if you can relate to any disorders mentioned.
source: Psych2go
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00:15 Hi, Psych2Goers.
00:16 Do you marvel at how some people
00:18 are always able to get their way?
00:21 These are people who have
00:22 extremely high manipulative tendencies.
00:25 The reason they are hard to identify
00:27 is that they employ rather innocent tactics.
00:30 However, any innocent act when used with ill intent
00:34 turns into a tool for manipulation.
00:36 We would like to emphasize that
00:38 just because you may believe one way or another,
00:41 you are not automatically characterized
00:42 as a master manipulator or a manipulator at all.
00:46 These are simply trends, not hard and fast rules.
00:50 So with that said, here are 10 signs
00:52 that someone could be a master manipulator.
00:55 Number one, they don't always seem intimidating.
00:58 Did you know that many manipulators
01:00 don't come off as intimidating?
01:01 In fact, a classic characteristic
01:04 of a master manipulator is their charm.
01:06 Who knew?
01:07 According to a study, master manipulators
01:09 often use their charm to perpetuate a cycle of abuse.
01:13 Though charm is often associated with a first impression,
01:16 master manipulators use their trait to their advantage
01:19 to reel someone back in or to mask negative thinking.
01:23 Number two, they assume that humans are inherently evil.
01:27 Mirror, mirror on the wall,
01:29 do you believe all humans are naturally good
01:32 or naturally evil?
01:34 According to psychologist Susan Whiteparton,
01:37 many master manipulators tend to believe the latter.
01:41 Master manipulators tend to believe
01:43 that humans are inherently dishonest
01:45 and are likely to take advantage of each other.
01:47 Number three, they find a practical necessity
01:50 for manipulation, bending ethics.
01:53 Misleading others or taking advantage of others
01:56 for a greater benefit.
01:57 Sound familiar?
01:59 Master manipulators tend to justify
02:01 a practical need for manipulation,
02:03 which could manifest in a number of ways.
02:05 With their line of thinking,
02:07 they are able to find justifications
02:08 for their misdemeanors with ease.
02:11 Providing reasoning or justification
02:13 doesn't necessarily make someone manipulative,
02:16 but it's a good indication
02:17 that they aren't strongly opposed to the idea.
02:20 Number four, they like to embellish stories.
02:23 Do you know someone who likes to exaggerate
02:25 or embellish details when they tell stories?
02:28 Maybe they add in dialogue or moments
02:30 that never really happened.
02:31 Embellishment is pretty common
02:33 and usually not ill-intentioned.
02:35 However, at its core, it's still a form of manipulation.
02:39 Often manipulators use this embellishing technique
02:42 to sway their audience to feel a certain way
02:44 or to gain empathy.
02:46 Number five, their phrasing is ambiguous.
02:49 Do they use phrases such as, "Your choice, but..."
02:53 Paying attention to the language of a master manipulator
02:55 can help you glimpse into their true intentions.
02:58 While these phrases are not usually used
03:00 with manipulative tendencies,
03:02 they do tend to sway others
03:04 into a different thinking pattern.
03:06 You are unconsciously steered into doing it just their way
03:09 because such expressions elicit an accommodating attitude
03:12 on the receiving end.
03:13 Number six, they use passive aggressiveness.
03:17 Has anyone ever used the silent treatment on you?
03:20 It makes you wanna do anything possible,
03:22 even against your will,
03:24 to get them to talk to you again, right?
03:27 It might be considered agonizing at best
03:29 and painful at worst.
03:31 The silent treatment is one of the examples
03:33 of passive aggressiveness contributing to manipulation.
03:36 It might seem less invasive, but is equally potent.
03:40 Some people tend to use such passive aggressive actions
03:43 to guilt or shame others into compliance.
03:45 Other common examples of passive aggressiveness
03:47 are snide comments and even gossip.
03:50 Yikes.
03:51 Number seven, they often use others for personal gain.
03:55 Do you know someone who tends to always use others
03:57 as a shield in the face of even the slightest adversity?
04:01 If so, it's a kind of coping mechanism that they employ.
04:05 The underlying mental disorder
04:06 causes potential effects on their moods,
04:08 which encourages manipulative behavior in them.
04:11 And if their maladaptive coping mechanism
04:13 to the underlying disorder is to use people
04:16 and take advantage of them,
04:17 they may come off as a master manipulator.
04:20 Number eight, you're scared to say no to them.
04:23 Are you good at saying no?
04:26 Except when it comes to certain people?
04:29 Are you scared of the way they may react?
04:31 When you say no to a master manipulator,
04:33 you might be afraid of the pressure
04:34 they'll put on you to change your mind.
04:36 If this is the case,
04:38 know that you aren't weak for feeling the way you feel
04:40 and that the most important thing
04:41 is to prioritize your own peace.
04:44 Being manipulated is never your fault,
04:46 no matter how you're made to feel.
04:48 Number nine, they talk in circles.
04:51 Does it feel like any sticky conversation with them
04:54 simply goes nowhere?
04:55 That's because they're never gonna take you there.
04:58 Master manipulators dodge questions
05:00 they don't wanna answer,
05:01 change the subject a little too quickly,
05:04 or deceive you into thinking you're wrong
05:06 just to avoid admitting fault or compromising.
05:09 They tend to be very intentional and precise
05:11 with their language in these situations
05:13 to avoid answering a question directly,
05:16 while at the same time,
05:17 trying to cover up and make the conversation progress
05:20 as it naturally would, all in one go.
05:23 And number 10,
05:24 they're diagnosed with a personality disorder.
05:27 Did you know that manipulation, more often than not,
05:29 can be a sign of a range of personality disorders?
05:32 Psychologists suggest that in addition to Machiavellianism,
05:35 personality disorders such as
05:37 borderline personality disorder,
05:39 obsessive compulsive personality disorder,
05:41 bipolar disorder, and antisocial personality disorder
05:45 can all increase someone's tendency to be manipulative.
05:48 However, it's important to note
05:50 that acting on these tendencies is still a choice,
05:53 and having a personality disorder
05:54 does not automatically make anyone a master manipulator.
05:58 Although it's common to want everything to go your way,
06:01 this might get in the way
06:03 of healthy long-term relationships.
06:05 It's always a good approach to seek professional help
06:07 in assisting you to explore the reasons
06:09 for your exhibiting manipulative tendencies,
06:12 or to heal from its experience.
06:15 It helps to recognize reasons preventing you
06:17 from making meaningful and healthy relationships
06:18 and friendships with others.
06:20 Do any of these describe your experience?
06:22 Leave a comment down below
06:23 about your encounters with them if you'd like.
06:25 Please feel free to share any thoughts you have as well.
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06:29 be sure to hit the like button
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06:32 in the clutches of manipulation.
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