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00:00:30Hey!
00:00:30Yeh subhaha jo aayi hai
00:00:38Ru tu tu, ru tu ru tu ru
00:00:40Ru tu tu, ru tu ru tu
00:00:42Yuh gun guna rahi hai woh
00:00:44Sabko jaga rahi hai woh
00:00:47Haan phool leke choch mein
00:00:49Jo chidiya chah chahai hai
00:00:52Dhuli dhuli, khuli khuli
00:00:59Hai usme dhuli dhuli
00:01:02Zara zara chil puli
00:01:04Shararaton mein hai ghuli
00:01:07Subhaha jo aayi hai
00:01:14Ru tu tu, ru tu ru tu ru
00:01:16Ru tu tu, ru tu ru tu tu
00:01:19Morning Pakistan
00:01:23Assalam-o-Alaikum
00:01:24Good morning, good morning Pakistan
00:01:27Kya haal hai?
00:01:28Kaise hai aap?
00:01:29Theek thaak hai?
00:01:30Maze mein hai?
00:01:31Acha jo relationship develop hota hai na
00:01:34Humara jaise mohabbat, pyaar, aitmaat ka
00:01:37Relationship itne saalon se develop hua hai
00:01:39Uske reason yeh hai
00:01:40Ki main har cheez aapke saamne
00:01:42Dil khol ke bata deti hun
00:01:44Apni bhi baate bata deti hun
00:01:45Aur jo pate ki baate hai
00:01:46Woh bhi bata deti hun
00:01:47Aur ussi tarah aap bhi messages par
00:01:49Mujhse apne dil ki baate share kar dete
00:01:51Mere personal insta pe
00:01:52Itne mere saari viewers ke messages aate hain
00:01:55Aur usse mujhe andaaza hota hai
00:01:57Ki aap log kitna apna mujhe samajhte hain
00:01:59Aur uski reason yeh hai
00:02:00Ki humara rishta aise hi built hua hai
00:02:02Aap jis tarah rishton ko built karte hain
00:02:05Rishta, rishte ussi tarah hote jaate hain
00:02:07For example, bachpan se hi
00:02:09Amma ke paas, yaani apni maa ke paas jaake
00:02:12Hum sakoon isli mehsoos karte hain
00:02:14Kyuki woh rishta humara uss tarah built hona shuru hota hai
00:02:17Humari amma humari
00:02:18Choti choti cheezon ka khayal rakhti hain
00:02:21Aur darane ke liye
00:02:22Humesha abbu ka naam leti hain
00:02:24Agar yeh battameeji ki
00:02:25To abbu ko bataa dungi
00:02:26So, abbu se ek rishta
00:02:28Amma humari develop kar aati hain
00:02:30Aksar gharon mein aapne dekha hoga
00:02:32Ki abbu se bachche darte hain
00:02:34Aur ammi dhamki bhi bachon ko
00:02:36Abbu ki hi deti hain
00:02:38Kuch gharon mein abbu ammi ki dhamki bhi dete hain
00:02:40Ammi ko bataa dunga
00:02:42Lekin, aksar aapne dekha hoga
00:02:44Ki abbu ki dhamki di jaate hain
00:02:46Aur isliye, aksar aap apne dil ki baate
00:02:48Badi se badi, choti se choti baat
00:02:50Ammi se share karte hain
00:02:52Abbu se share hi nahi ki jaate hain
00:02:54Patani kya hota hai
00:02:56Haan, tab tak aapke abbu ka relation aisa hain
00:02:58Na ho ke aap unse
00:03:00Aksar gharwale abbu se share karte hain
00:03:02Ammi ki bachahein
00:03:04Woh depend garta hai
00:03:06Ki kis ke saath kaisa relationship built hua hai
00:03:08Phir bahot saare gharon mein
00:03:10Ammi abbu ke bachahein
00:03:12Behen bhaiyon ka sahara lete hain
00:03:14Aap apne behen bhaiyon se sibling se
00:03:16Itna close hote hain
00:03:18Ammi se grace nahi karte hain
00:03:20Magar aisa bhi time hota hai
00:03:22Ke jab aap apne aapko lonely feel karte hain
00:03:24Choti si ghalti karein
00:03:26Ya badi si ghalti karein
00:03:28Share karne mein sharmaate hain
00:03:30Gabraate hain, parishaan hote hain
00:03:32Aur apni baat dilme rakhte hain
00:03:34Magar dilme baat rakhne ke nukhsanaat kya hain
00:03:36Sabse pehle to aapki health pataasar hoti hain
00:03:38Aapki mental health pataasar hoti hain
00:03:40Phir aap koi bada kadam utha lete hain
00:03:42Aksar humne kabren dekhi hain
00:03:44Usne falana ne khud khushi kardi
00:03:46Usne falana ne khud khushi kardi
00:03:48Number kam aa gaye to khud khushi kardi
00:03:50Bibi chod ke chali gayi to khud khushi kardi
00:03:52Khareebi thi to uska mukabla karne ke bajah
00:03:54Bachon ko liye aur train pe koot gayi
00:03:56Aur khud khushi kardi
00:03:58So aisi news aap dip mein kai dafaa
00:04:00Mahine mein kai dafaa
00:04:02Saalon mein kai dafaa sunte hain
00:04:04Aur aapko takleef aur dukh hoti hain
00:04:06Ke kash mein dil ki baat kisi se keh dete
00:04:08Bache choti choti cheezon ko le kar
00:04:10Ek certain age pe aapko
00:04:12Badi, choti baat
00:04:14Choti baat bahot badi lagri hoti
00:04:16Aur pe jib aap mature ho jate hain
00:04:18Aur aapko cheezein handle karna aata hai
00:04:20To aapko badi baat choti lagri hoti
00:04:22Chahe wo apni ho, chahe kisi aur ki ho
00:04:24Magar share karna
00:04:26Apne dil ki baat
00:04:28Kitni zaruri hai
00:04:30Apne pyaaron se, apne apno se
00:04:32Is baat ka andaaza aap nahi laga sakte
00:04:34Humare hain wo mahal, humare hain wo culture nahi hain
00:04:36Humare hain wo respect ka
00:04:38Jo level hai
00:04:40Itna zyada hota hai parents aur bachon ke darmiyan
00:04:42Ke bache bohot saari baate share nahi karte
00:04:46Aaj hum yehi baat
00:04:48Aapko batana chahatein
00:04:50Ke sharing kitni zaruri hai
00:04:52Apne dil ki baat
00:04:54Zabaan tak laana, kitni zaruri hai
00:04:56Bohot saari cheezon se aap bat sakte
00:04:58Timing ka game hai
00:05:00Zindagi guzarna actually timing ka game hai
00:05:02Kaunsi baat kap batani hai
00:05:04Iska aapko pata hona chahiye
00:05:06Aur kaise batani hai
00:05:08Aaj hum aapko help karenge
00:05:10Good morning Pakistan
00:05:12Ek chudi se break ke baad
00:05:14Rahiye humare saath apne dil ki baat
00:05:16Zabaan tak laane ke liye
00:05:28Welcome, welcome back
00:05:30Good morning Pakistan
00:05:32Aur aaj yeh zara akalmandi ki baatein karni hoti hai na
00:05:34Toh hume sheh aisa celebrity dhoonti hoon
00:05:36Jiske baare mein
00:05:38Jiska image bhi acha banawa hai
00:05:40Aur jiske baare mein
00:05:42Aap sab jaantein ke jab bhi wo bolti hain
00:05:44Toh kuch acha hi bolti hain
00:05:46Beauty with Brains, Vaneeza Ahmed humare saath
00:05:48Assalam-o-Alaikum
00:05:50Kuch zyada hi bolti hain
00:05:52Matlab like sahi hai na, bate ki baatein jab karni hain
00:05:54Toh yeh guest hum chunte hain
00:05:56Yeh bhai inko bulao, inko pata hai duniya jahan
00:05:58Aur yeh maza bhi aata hai aaj
00:06:00Aankhen gappe marne ka
00:06:02Aur saath humare expert ka hona bohot zaruri hai
00:06:04Aaj dil ki baat zubaan tak laayein kaise
00:06:06Sabke alag-alag tariqe hote hain
00:06:08So uske hawale se hume
00:06:10Professional help ki zarurat hai
00:06:12Aur humare saath Dr. Madiha Lateef Clinical Psychologist
00:06:14Maujood hai
00:06:16Assalam-o-Alaikum
00:06:18Kaisi hain?
00:06:20Main Allah ka shukar
00:06:22Sabse pehle toh aap dono mujhe khud bataein
00:06:24Ke kya aap apni baatein dil mein
00:06:26Rakhne walon mein sumaar hote hain
00:06:28Aap bataa dete hain
00:06:30Dil se
00:06:32Jo dil mein rakh leti hoon
00:06:34Main itni expressive nahi ho
00:06:36Aur main apne aapko
00:06:38Iss saal toh nahi
00:06:40Pichre saal ki resolution thi
00:06:42Ke main apne aapko badlungi
00:06:44Isliye dil mein rakhne se baatein
00:06:46Resolve nahi hoti
00:06:48Aur andar hi kud-kud ke
00:06:50Bimari hi paida hoti
00:06:52Aur kuch nahi hota
00:06:54Toh main ab
00:06:56Express karna shuru kar diya
00:06:58Bada mushkil hai
00:07:00Bachpan se humein yeh baat sikhayi nahi jati
00:07:02Express karna
00:07:04Roh kyu rahi ho? Chup ho jao
00:07:06Rona nahi aaya, yeh nahi karna
00:07:08Humein woh emotion sikhate hi nahi hain
00:07:10Toh woh maine seekhe hi nahi
00:07:12Toh aista aista communication
00:07:14Main seekh rahi ho
00:07:16Ke apne aapke andar na rakho
00:07:18Usko bahar nikalo, tariqe se bahar nikalo
00:07:20Apne bachon mein kaise daal rahi ho?
00:07:22Bachon ko bhi yeh hi sikhari ho
00:07:24Bachon bhi mere upar gaye hain
00:07:26Maa jab itni expressive nahi hogi
00:07:28Sofiya ke saath main yeh karti hoon
00:07:30Woh roh rahi hoti hoon
00:07:32Mujhe batao kyu roh rahi ho
00:07:34Let's figure it out
00:07:36Ke kya hai yeh emotion
00:07:38Woh mere se bhi zyada non-expressive hai
00:07:40Mere bachon toh bahar zyada dil mein rakhte hain
00:07:42Kabhi kaur bachon ko nahi pata hota
00:07:44Ke woh kyu roh rahi ho
00:07:46Woh kyu sad hai
00:07:48Bachon ko nahi pata hota
00:07:50Unko khud apne aapko tatolna padta hai
00:07:52Bache ko kya pata
00:07:54Hum se nahi ho raha toh sochon bachon ka kya pata
00:07:56Maa ki tarbiyat yeh hoti hai
00:07:58Jab maa hi unaware ho
00:08:00Jab mujhe hi apne emotions ko nahi pata
00:08:02Toh main apne bachon ko kya sikhaungi
00:08:04Toh pehle humein apni parenting karne ki zaroorat hai
00:08:06Maaon ko zaroorat hai
00:08:08Bade hain ghar mein
00:08:10Unko zaroorat hai
00:08:12Ke woh expressive hoon
00:08:14Woh apne emotions ko samjhen
00:08:16Lekin aurton ke saath toh bachpan se yeh hua raha hota hai
00:08:18Ke hum expressive hoi nahi sakte
00:08:20Aur aadmiyon kehte hai woh nahi ho sakte
00:08:22Because they are too emotional then
00:08:24Yeh beter
00:08:26Zara batayenge ki kya hota hai
00:08:28Needa ghar aapne mera personally
00:08:30Pooche hai toh main toh bahot expressive ho
00:08:32Toh jaisi humein lagta hai na
00:08:34Ke agar koi expressive hai
00:08:36Woh apne emotions ko express kar raha hai
00:08:38Toh woh bahot maze mein hai
00:08:40Lekin kabhi kabhi is tarah ki situation hoti hai
00:08:42Ke kya aapke jo around log hai
00:08:44Woh good listener hai
00:08:46Woh aapke saath baith ke
00:08:48Agar ek expressive insaan hai
00:08:50Toh hum chahate hain ke koi saath humare baithe
00:08:52Hum apne feelings ko express karein
00:08:54Toh woh agar se validate bhi karein
00:08:56Aur usko sunen bhi
00:08:58Aur agar aapka spouse
00:09:00The people around you
00:09:02Agar woh itne good listener nahi hai
00:09:04Empathy show nahi karte hain
00:09:06Toh wahan aap aur emotional dysregulation mein bhi chale jaate hain
00:09:08Lekin jaisi agar hum bachpan se aate hain
00:09:10Toh jo bachche hote hain
00:09:12Woh aksar maaon ke saamne aak express karte hain
00:09:14Woh pura din batate hain
00:09:16School mein yeh hua
00:09:18School mein woh hua
00:09:20Wahat saare bachche
00:09:22Agar aap generally dekhe
00:09:24Toh woh apne maaon se
00:09:26Un saare feelings ka izhar karte hain
00:09:28Bilkul
00:09:30Agar I don't know uske baad phir woh kyun
00:09:32Aista izhar karna khatam kar dete hain
00:09:34Kya aisi wajuhaat hoti hain
00:09:36Toh apne dil mein hi rakhne lagte hain
00:09:38Dekhi jo common si wajuhaat
00:09:40Hum samjhte hain na
00:09:42Ke jab maa bohot masroof hoti hain uswag
00:09:44Jab dupahr ko bachcha school se wapis aata hai
00:09:46Aur uska dil hota hai
00:09:48Toh woh puri ek story bataaye
00:09:50Ke aaj subah se leh ke dupahr tak school mein kya hua hai
00:09:52Toh kabhi kabhi maa apni masroofiyat ki wajah se
00:09:54Ya overwhelmed hain
00:09:56Apne doosre emotions mein
00:09:58Ya jo bhi uski life mein cheezein chal rahi hain
00:10:00Woh usko nahi properly sun paari hoti
00:10:02Toh isse bhi kabhi kabhi
00:10:04Bachcha emotionally thoda sa hurt bhi hota hai
00:10:06Ke you know ke mujhe proper suna nahi jaara
00:10:08Ya ami mer saath eye contact maintain nahi kari
00:10:10Doosra yeh
00:10:12Ke kabhi kabhi parents jo hai
00:10:14Woh judge bhi karte hain
00:10:16Toh kisi taraf evaluation jo hai na
00:10:18Woh hum sab ke andar kahi na kahi hota hai
00:10:20Ke agar main apni baat kisi doosre shags ke saamne kar raha ho
00:10:22Toh kya doosra kahi mujhe judge toh nahi karega
00:10:24Toh agar kisi ki
00:10:26Apne bachche ko thoda sa you know judge karo
00:10:28Ya criticize karo uske act par
00:10:30Toh uski wajah se bhi bachche
00:10:32Bohot zyada you know introvert hone lagte hain
00:10:34Woh apni baatein aur apni feelings ko
00:10:36Hide karne lagte hain. Unhe yeh lagte hain
00:10:38Ke shayad agar main yeh baatein aur apni feelings share karunga
00:10:40Toh uspar mujhe hi galat theraya na jaara ho
00:10:42Mukhli situation mein
00:10:44Mukhli bajuhaat ho sakte hain
00:10:46Ke bachche aista aista kam kar dete hain
00:10:48Doosra yeh ke jab woh teenage ki taraf jaate hain
00:10:50Toh unki apni social life develop ho jaate hain
00:10:52Apne friends ban jaate hain
00:10:54Toh unke paas aur bohot saare you know
00:10:56Woh hote hain ke jahan woh apni feelings share kar sakte hain
00:10:58Doston se baat karte hain
00:11:00Toh phir woh jo unka pehla connection hota hain
00:11:02Ke woh jo school mein hote hain
00:11:04Like primary school mein toh woh daily ghar aake
00:11:06Mother ke saath unka woh jo hota hain
00:11:08Agar wahan par mother unko achha sa healthy
00:11:10Maintain kar wahi is cheez ko
00:11:12Toh unke saath yeh hota hain ke poora din
00:11:14School se waapsi pe
00:11:16Woh mein usse puchun ki school mein
00:11:18Aaj kya kya nothing
00:11:20Anything interesting happened nothing
00:11:22Lekin maine unko dono ka dekha
00:11:24Toh unke saath yeh hota hain
00:11:26Toh unke saath yeh hota hain
00:11:28Toh unke saath yeh hota hain
00:11:30Toh unke saath yeh hota hain
00:11:32Toh unke saath yeh hota hain
00:11:34Toh unke saath yeh hota hain
00:11:36Toh unke saath yeh hota hain
00:11:38Toh unke saath yeh hota hain
00:11:40Lekin maine unko dono ka dekha hai
00:11:42Sote waqt
00:11:44That is the time
00:11:46Jab woh poore din ki
00:11:48Unko lagta hai
00:11:50Unki adat ban gayi hai
00:11:52That's when they tell me kya hua
00:11:54Kya nahi hua
00:11:56Sote waqt I feel
00:11:58Mere saath mujhe shuru shuru mein
00:12:00Then I had to call a therapist
00:12:02To find out
00:12:04Mere saath hi rona hai
00:12:06Mere saath hi nakhra karna hai
00:12:08Then I realised
00:12:10She made me realise
00:12:12Maein ek safe space hoti hain
00:12:14That's where they don't feel judged
00:12:16Toh woh raat ko
00:12:18Poore din ki struggle karke aa rahe hote
00:12:20Isre ke unhone apni emotions
00:12:22Roki hoti hain
00:12:24Ke rona nahi hai
00:12:26You have to act strong
00:12:28Aapko betar dikhana hai logon ko
00:12:30Toh woh end mein aa ke meri beti hain
00:12:32Sote waqt unko sari gappe marne
00:12:34Ek toh sona nahi hai
00:12:36Toh ussok woh khulasa hota hai
00:12:38Poore din ka
00:12:40Woh mujhe batati hain
00:12:42Toh I think woh maaun ka kaam hai
00:12:44Safe space dena
00:12:46Ab mein seekh rahi hoon
00:12:48Itna ustani na bano
00:12:50Ke jo bachche mujhe cheezein nahi bataye
00:12:52Woh yeh jo unhone abhi baat ki
00:12:54Mujhe yeh lag raha tha
00:12:56Yeh main aapke baat yahan se pakrungi
00:12:58Itni ustani na bano
00:13:00Yeh ek aam baat hai
00:13:02Jo mein sari maaun ko batana chahati hoon
00:13:04Humme ustani banna
00:13:06Kabhi kabhaar bachche ko sirf sunana hai
00:13:08Aur woh relation build karne ke liye
00:13:10Humme kabhi kabhaar ustani banna
00:13:12Kyunki hum log maain
00:13:14Girgit ki tarah rang badalna
00:13:16Unko padhta hai
00:13:18Zaroorat hai ke hum aisa karein
00:13:20Because har waqt mujhe yeh lag raha tha
00:13:22Abhi meri
00:13:24Inaya bhi baara saal ki hoyi hai
00:13:26Toh meri bhi yadat hogi thi
00:13:28Har baat pe lecture na
00:13:30Khaate waqt bhi usko keh rahi hoon
00:13:32Ek roli ja rahi hoon
00:13:34Ek chudayal uski zindagi mein bani rahi hoon
00:13:36Ke yeh na karo, woh na karo
00:13:38And then I realized
00:13:40Ki yeh main kya kar rahi hoon
00:13:42Woh toh mujhe kabhi bhi aake cheezein nahi batayegi
00:13:44Because woh toh
00:13:46Ino ne jo baat ki main judge kar hi ja rahi hoon
00:13:48Aur kyun main judge kar rahi hoon
00:13:50Toh baara saal ki pehli dafai yeh zindagi mein yeh cheezein kar rahi hoon
00:13:52Toh agar woh dekhege ki main yeh kar rahi hoon
00:13:54Toh she'll become so judgemental
00:13:56And start doing it
00:13:58Woh maine dekha ki woh apni choti bhain ke saath yeh kar rahi thi
00:14:00Toh aaya toh hold on
00:14:02Aur maine dekha ki nahi
00:14:04Ab maine isko lecture nahi dena
00:14:06Ab us din usne pehli woh keh rahi thi ke mujhe
00:14:08Stick on nails chahiye
00:14:10Maine itna lamba usko lecture dedi
00:14:12Aapko pata hai woh glue se kya hota hai
00:14:14Phir teen din baad maine dekha
00:14:16Accha chalo appointment karo
00:14:18Main aapke saath chali jaati hoon
00:14:20Mahine mein ek dafai karwaa lete hain
00:14:22That's when I realized ki nahi
00:14:24Become a friend and not a teacher
00:14:26This is not the time to become a teacher
00:14:28Lekin unhone sunna hi nahi hai
00:14:30Psychology toh batati hai
00:14:32But science also
00:14:34Chahiye teenage years mein
00:14:36Dost banke chalaki se maa banna padayega
00:14:38Bilkul aisa hi
00:14:40Unko yeh pata nahi lagna chahiye
00:14:42Ke hum unki maa hai
00:14:44Woh be itne smart hote hain
00:14:46Chalaki jo thodi si hum karte hain
00:14:48Human nature hai
00:14:50Main bas Khalida ke ek baat pe
00:14:52Jaise unhone kaha na
00:14:54Kabhi kabhi as a mother
00:14:56Toh isse humein yeh bhi
00:14:58Psychology mein samajh mein aata hai
00:15:00Ke bacha apni cognitive abilities
00:15:02Yeh uske andar maujood hai jo skills
00:15:04Woh use karni ban kar deta hai
00:15:06Kyunki isse pehle ke ek situation aayi hai
00:15:08For example koi guest saamne aaya hai
00:15:10Abhi woh khud se sochhe
00:15:12Ke maine isko kaise greet karna hai
00:15:14Toh jo ek instructions hai
00:15:16Say hello, say bye, sit down, stand up
00:15:18Itna zyada shayad hum uncheezon ko
00:15:20Discipline karne ke liye bolna shuru kar dete hain
00:15:22Ke main apni clinic mein yeh bhi
00:15:24Abode bandh
00:15:26Woh phir apni abilities ko use hi nahi kar rahe hote hain
00:15:28Aur humein hoti hai ability
00:15:30Agar hum unka IQ assess karein
00:15:32Toh unke paas bahut acha IQ hota hai
00:15:34Woh hi sab normal social skills
00:15:36Develop kar sakte hain
00:15:38Wikin hum shayad bol bol ke unko block kar dete hain
00:15:40Abilities ko
00:15:42Toh isliye bhi bachon ko bati umar mein
00:15:44Itna zyada instructions jo hain woh humein nahi de
00:15:46Aaj kal ke bache hain na
00:15:48Jab tak unko bolo na wo salam nahi karenge
00:15:50Kisi ko aake
00:15:52Woh apne mobile hi nahi chhodte hain
00:15:54Humein unko batana padta hai
00:15:56Salam karo
00:15:58Inse milo yeh tumhari falana falana rishtedar hain
00:16:00Unki shakal se lag raha hota hain
00:16:02Unko koi interest nahi hain
00:16:04Lekin Nidha humare saath bhi toh yeh hua tha
00:16:06Yeh toh mera khal
00:16:08Generation se hota jayega
00:16:10Ke bachon ko hum force karte hain
00:16:12To act like grown ups
00:16:14Woh toh bacha hai
00:16:16Unka toh prefrontal cortex
00:16:18Abhi banna hi nahi hain
00:16:20Woh toh 25 saal ki umar mein reasoning wali
00:16:22Woh cheez banegi
00:16:24Woh se pehle toh seekh rahe hain
00:16:26Haan humara kaam hai
00:16:28Bachon ko batana ki badon ki izzat karo
00:16:30Woh I think woh constant woh cheez
00:16:32Maa ki
00:16:34Woh rahegi
00:16:36Aur aaj kal ke bachon ke saath
00:16:38Jo I think humare saath bhi hua hoga
00:16:40Humari maa baap ne bhi yeh kaha tha
00:16:42Mujhe yaad hai main kehti thi
00:16:44Maini nahi aapke doston ke ghar jana
00:16:46Udhar kya hum bore honge
00:16:48Unko social media bachon ko mil gaya
00:16:50Ab toh woh kahin pe bhi bore nahi hote
00:16:52Unko phone woh kahengi
00:16:54Acha kahengi jaungi
00:16:56Acha phir phone pakda dena
00:16:58Toh I think yeh toh issue humein zindagi bhar rahega
00:17:00Lekin agar
00:17:02Inko beter pata hai
00:17:04But this is what science says
00:17:06Ke agar aap pehle saath saal
00:17:08Bacche ko jo sikha doge
00:17:10Woh uske subconscious mein
00:17:12Bhaet jayega
00:17:14Aur uske baad
00:17:16Continue karte rahe
00:17:18Lekin jab ek jee sikha di hai
00:17:20Woh phir tarbiyat hai
00:17:22Acha mere saath iss waqt maujood hain
00:17:24Nimra
00:17:26Nimra jo hain woh apne bachche ke hawalat se
00:17:28Kuch batana chahti ho
00:17:30Nimra ji
00:17:32Assalam o alaikum
00:17:34Walaikum assalam
00:17:36Being a mother main apni story
00:17:38Aap sab ke saath share karna chahungi
00:17:40Aur main as a working woman
00:17:42Kaam karti ho
00:17:44Aur jis tarah mujhe proper apni family ko
00:17:46Apne bachche ko time dena chahiye
00:17:48Yeh meri neglency hai ke main nahi de paati ho
00:17:50Jab main office se
00:17:52Kaafi zyada thakkar ghar aati ho
00:17:54To matlab bachchein
00:17:56Mera beta chahata hai ke main uski baad sunu
00:17:58Usko school mein kisi ne bully kiya hai
00:18:00Uski daily routine hai
00:18:02Uski jo daily ki chat-chats hain
00:18:04Woh usse share karna chahata hai
00:18:06Lekin somehow main usko abhi baat nahi karte
00:18:08Thodi dir baad baat karte hain
00:18:10Acha theek hai main yeh kaam karloon
00:18:12Mujhe andaaza nahi tha
00:18:14Meri neglency ka uske upar itna zyada
00:18:16Bura effect hoga
00:18:18Ke woh mental disorder ki taraf jayega
00:18:20Aur uske andar aggression bohot zyada
00:18:22Develop ho jayega
00:18:24Is cheez ka andaaza mujhe jab hua
00:18:26Jab uske school se call aayi
00:18:28Aur mujhe pata chala ke usne wahan par kisi bachche ka
00:18:30Sar bhar diya
00:18:32Aur jab main school gahi to mujhe pata chala
00:18:34Ki woh kaafi severe condition mein hai bachche
00:18:36Aur uske parents kaafi zyada wahan par
00:18:38Shout kar rahe the
00:18:40Ki hum aap ke upar case kar denge
00:18:42Aur hum is tariqa se kar denge
00:18:44Hum yeh karenge bachche ko
00:18:46To main bohot zyada uswaq parishan ho gayi
00:18:48Ki yeh kya kar diya meri bachche ne
00:18:50Aur woh raat mere liye kis qadar mushkil guzri thi
00:18:52Yeh sirf main jaanti hun
00:18:54Ke ab kya hoga meri bachche ke saath
00:18:56Ya yeh kya ho gaya
00:18:58Mujhe khud samajh mein nahi aara tha
00:19:00Main just trauma mein thi
00:19:02Ki yeh bachche ke saath mere kyun ho raha hai
00:19:04Ya meri bachche ne is tarah si kyun kiya
00:19:06Yeh aggression yeh behaviour yeh stress
00:19:08To main sab ko yeh hi kehna chahungi
00:19:10Ke main yeh behaviour yeh timely uske saath
00:19:12Develop hota gaya
00:19:14Achanak nahi hua
00:19:16Lekin main us cheez ko nahi foran cover up kar sakhi
00:19:18Yeh meri nglansi thi ki uska behaviour
00:19:20Main nahi samajh sakhi
00:19:22Ya main usko time proper nahi de sakhi
00:19:24Jo uska mental disorder is hat tak badh gaya
00:19:26Main ne psychologist ko bhi dikhlaaya
00:19:28Usko proper treatment uska karwaya
00:19:30Aur ab jab main usko time dena chahati hu
00:19:32Aur main usse baat karna chahati hu
00:19:34Main usko kahin lekar jaana chahati hu
00:19:36Ke aao hum baithin
00:19:38Hum baat karen
00:19:40Hum discussion karen
00:19:42To wo mujhe bilkul neglect kar deta
00:19:44Wo mujhe bilkul nahi baat karna chahata
00:19:46Ke nahi mujhe nahi baat karni aap se
00:19:48Ya theek hai main ab aap se nahi baat karna chahata
00:19:50Theek hai meri paas abhi time nahi hai
00:19:52Aur wo aap kitne saal ka ho gaya
00:19:5412 years ka mera bachcha hai
00:19:56To wo je ye cheez bahut zyada feel hoti hai
00:19:58Ke main ne wo time usko nahi diya
00:20:00Jo mujhe dena chahiye tha
00:20:02Aur wo age aisi thi ki us time pe
00:20:04Mothers ko bahut zyada apne saath interaction karna chahate hain
00:20:06Humka time maangte hain
00:20:08To wo meri galti thi ke main usko nahi de sakhi
00:20:10Aur main usko kis tariqa se overcome karte hain
00:20:12Aur main bachche ka wo mental disorder
00:20:14Kis tarah se wapas recover kar sakun
00:20:16To main zaroor baaki mothers ko kahungi
00:20:18Ke us age ke upar
00:20:20Iss cheez ko zaroor focus karein
00:20:22Bachche ko time dene, bachche ki sunne
00:20:24Kyunki wo time nikal jata hai phir aapka
00:20:26Aur aap nahi phir samjh paate
00:20:28Aur bachche phir us cheez ko dimaag mein bitha lete hain
00:20:30Aur us cheez ko nahi cover up kar paate
00:20:32Ji aap kuch kehna chahenge
00:20:34Ab wo kaise
00:20:36Apna relationship baithar kar sakte
00:20:38Bilkul
00:20:40Is baare mein bhi hum batate hain
00:20:42Kaise baithar kar sakte hain
00:20:44Aur kuch inspectors phir bhi baat karne ki zaroorat hai
00:20:46Ki yeh aise ikdham se to nahi hua na
00:20:48Ke bachche ka aggression ka yeh level
00:20:50Jo school mein uske saath hua hai
00:20:52Isme yeh dekha jata hai ki
00:20:54Bachche uske saath emotionally connect karta hai
00:20:56Agar ek chote bachche ki mother
00:20:58Utke us kamre se bahar jati hai
00:21:00Ab jo mother job karte hai
00:21:02Wo jaise subah job par jati hai
00:21:04Aur raat ko wapas
00:21:06To uski wajah se
00:21:08Woh bachcha bohot akelapan mesoos karta hai
00:21:10Zahir hai wo apni maa ko miss karta hai
00:21:12Uski wajah se uske andar frustration
00:21:14Develop ho rahi hoti hai
00:21:16Aur us frustration ko kam karne ke liye
00:21:18Dekhein job karne bhi zaroori hai
00:21:20Zahir hai hum sab working hai
00:21:22Hum bhi kaam pe jaate hain
00:21:24To yeh hai ki jab wapas aap aate hain
00:21:26To aakar aap apne bachche ko jo time de
00:21:28Usme aap uske jo emotions hain
00:21:30Usko express karne ki opportunity de
00:21:32Jaise ki bhi Baniza ne bhi kaha tha
00:21:34Hum emotions jo hain wo dabha dete hain usko
00:21:36Ki agar koi bachche ko gussa aara hota hai
00:21:38To usually in our culture
00:21:40We said ki nahi nahi gussa nahi karte hain
00:21:42But gussa ek emotion hai
00:21:44Jo hum sab ki andar hai
00:21:46Hum bhi apne bachche ko yeh bataana hai
00:21:48Ki ek natural emotion hai
00:21:50But aapne isko express kaise karna hai
00:21:52Kyuki hum expression nahi jab sikhayenge
00:21:54To phir zahir hai wo kisi na kisi unhealthy form me
00:21:56Ki kisi bachche ko jaise usne maara
00:21:58Koi bhi aur aisa act wo bachcha karne lag jaata hai
00:22:00To jis age me inka bachche hai
00:22:02Usme to bahut zyada
00:22:04Humme help milti hain
00:22:06Emotions ko express karwane me
00:22:08Agar aap yeh bataayen
00:22:10Us bachche ko kaise bataayen
00:22:12Ke gusse ki expression ko kaise wo express kare
00:22:14Bilkul do se teen cheezein ho sakti hain
00:22:16Ek cheeze to yeh hai ki
00:22:18Art therapy bahut help karte hain
00:22:20Colors ke through hum usko
00:22:22Drawings hoti hain na
00:22:24Emotions ko express karte hain
00:22:26Ek to is tarah ki art therapy ke saath
00:22:28Uske behavior ko, anger ko manage karate hain
00:22:30Dusra physical activity hai
00:22:32Kyuki bachcha jis age me hai na
00:22:34Uswa counselling ka itna zyada role nahi
00:22:36Ki adult ki tarah aap baithenge
00:22:38Usko theories ke saath samjhayenge
00:22:40Usse betar yeh hota hai ki
00:22:42Hum usko physical activities me engage karte hain
00:22:44Kyuki jab physical activity me engage hota hai
00:22:46To uski energy jo hai wo channelize hoti hain
00:22:48Constructive way me
00:22:50To usse wo bahut calm down ho jaata hai
00:22:52Art therapy hain physical activity hain
00:22:54Aap bhi kuch keh rahi thi
00:22:56Dekho
00:22:58Is bachche ki problem yahi ho rahi hai
00:23:00Emotional management
00:23:02Jo hum kisi ko bhi nahi aata
00:23:04How to
00:23:06Emotion har ek hota hai
00:23:08Hussa bhi aayega, dar bhi lagega, khushi bhi hogi
00:23:10Isko manage kaise karein
00:23:12To gusse ko manage karna zaroori hota hai
00:23:14Khushi ko manage karna itna mushkil nahi hain
00:23:16Gussa management is very important
00:23:18Aur in bachari ke saath jaise hua
00:23:20Yeh already ino ne keh diya wae
00:23:22Ke woh jo time hai na bachche ko
00:23:24Ke woh cheez
00:23:26Jo emotional regulation hai
00:23:28Ja jo connection hai
00:23:30It's not just ke wo maa ki need hai
00:23:32Ke usne wo cheeze sikha nahi hain
00:23:34Hum energetically maa aur bachcha connected hai
00:23:36To woh bachche ko disconnection feel hota hai
00:23:38Leke usko aur kuch nahi pata
00:23:40Usko sirf apni maa ka pata hai
00:23:42To jab wo maa hi nahi uski baat sun rahi
00:23:44To frustration to uski zindagi me
00:23:46Aayega na
00:23:48Usne to kahin aur se seekhna
00:23:50Usne to kahin aur se nahi seekhna
00:23:52To is bachare bachche pe
00:23:54Ilke baara saal is when
00:23:56Aapke waise emotions as a preteen
00:23:58Itne zyada gussa hota hai
00:24:00Ke jo ghar normal bhi ho
00:24:02Aur in yeh baar baar karen thi
00:24:04Ke usko mental disorder hai
00:24:06Us bachare ko mental disorder bilkul bhi nahi hai
00:24:08It's not a disorder
00:24:10Usko sirf bachare ko zara attention chahiye
00:24:12Jo ka har insaan ko chahiye hoti
00:24:14Har insaan ko pyaar chahiye hoti
00:24:16That's all he's requiring
00:24:18And that's all he needs
00:24:20Ke wo ek insaan jo aapki maa hai
00:24:22Uski attention usko chahiye
00:24:24Aur usko nahi mil rahi
00:24:26To aap ghar se baapas
00:24:28Aap jitni bhi thakki nahi hai
00:24:30Aap apne bachchon ko zaroor time de
00:24:32I think wo agar aap usko aada ghanta bhi de dengi na
00:24:34Bachche bade
00:24:36I mean they want very little from you
00:24:38Choti si cheez hai
00:24:40Mujhe pata hai bohot mushkil life
00:24:42Hoti hai aurton ki
00:24:44Aapne maa bani hai na
00:24:46Toh mushkila keeche rahe jaati hai
00:24:48Kitchen mein aap khana bana rahi hai
00:24:50Slab pe bachche ko bitha de
00:24:52Aap kitchen mein khana banati rahi hai
00:24:54Usse baate karte rahi hai
00:24:56Aap matar cheel rahi hai
00:24:58Mujhe pata hai
00:25:00Yeh bohot burden hota hai
00:25:02Ek working lady jo ghar ke kaam bhi kar rahi hai
00:25:04Wo sari cheezein ek saath manage karna
00:25:06Magar yeh time bachchon ka
00:25:08Jo nikal gaya na
00:25:10Wapas palat kar nahi aata
00:25:12As he gets older
00:25:14Woh aur mushkil hoga
00:25:16Aur uski zindagi mein
00:25:18Yeh uska childhood trauma rahega
00:25:20Aap jaise woh keh rahi hain
00:25:22Yeh koshish kar rahi hain
00:25:24Woh nahi paara
00:25:26Aisa nahi ho sakta
00:25:28Thodi aur koshish karengi
00:25:30Toh na ho connection
00:25:32Hogi tariqe alag alag dhundne padenge
00:25:34Zahir hai yeh har bachche aur maa ka relation alag hota hai
00:25:36Alag alag tariqe hai
00:25:38Uske liye kuch acha bana lo
00:25:40Mujhe yaad hai
00:25:42Main badi ho gayi thi
00:25:44Mere bachche ho gayi thi
00:25:46Mere maa mujhe apne haath se khana khilati thi
00:25:48Koi bhi aise khana pakka hai
00:25:50Jiska taste acha nahi hai
00:25:52Agar ammi ne apne haath se khila diya
00:25:54Toh wo ek treat thi
00:25:56Hum line se bet jati thi
00:25:58Teenon baine mujhe yaad hai
00:26:00Shadi ke baad bhi
00:26:02Chalo bhi yaad wo session hai
00:26:04Ammi ne haath se khana khilana hai
00:26:06So aap budde bhi ho jaye
00:26:08Lekin wo amma ki ek
00:26:10Wo jaa nahi sakti
00:26:12Aapko raste khud dhundne padenge
00:26:14Ke wo kaise aapne apne bachche ko
00:26:16Dubaara patana hai
00:26:18Ek choti se break ke baad
00:26:20Main wapas aati hoon
00:26:34Welcome, welcome back
00:26:36Good morning Pakistan
00:26:38Aaj hum baat karein ke apne dil ki baat
00:26:40Zubaan tak kaise laayen
00:26:42Ya phir aapke pyaare jo
00:26:44Bahot saari baatein express nahi kar paate
00:26:46Wo bimaariyon mein
00:26:48Tabdeel ho jati hain
00:26:50Wo nafrat
00:26:52Wo quran
00:26:54Wo jalna
00:26:56Aur andar hi andar dil mein baatein dabaa ke rakhna
00:26:58Wo phir cheezein
00:27:00Spread ho ke bimaariyan ban jati hain
00:27:02Toh kaise hum
00:27:04Aapne bachchon ko uss tana train karein
00:27:06Ke wo apne dil ki baat express karein
00:27:08Zubaan tak laayen
00:27:10Aur bahot saari bachche
00:27:12Jaise mein keh rahi thi
00:27:14Young age mein jab hum bhi chote the
00:27:16Toh hum choti si cheeze ko
00:27:18Humare liye wo bahot badho
00:27:20Agar humne koi choti si galti kardi hai
00:27:22Toh humne lagta tha ke humne bohot badhi galti kari
00:27:24Aur jab mature age mein
00:27:26Hum sochtein ke yaar wo toh itni choti si baat thi
00:27:28Wo toh koi itni galti nahi thi
00:27:30Itni badi cheeze toh nahi thi
00:27:32Aisi cheeze jaise meri beti ke saath hua
00:27:34Jab covid ke zamane mein
00:27:36Mujhe aur badhi wali Inaya ko
00:27:38Dono ko kathe covid hua
00:27:40Inaya ko hua usne mujhe de diya
00:27:42Toh hum meri ghar mein basement thi
00:27:44Toh basement mein chale gaye
00:27:46Covid tha itni badi baat thi
00:27:48Toh meri choti wali
00:27:50He was only maybe 6 at the time
00:27:52Apne baba ke saath thi
00:27:54Phir uske baad usko bhi covid hua
00:27:56Usko feel hua
00:27:58So she was in this room
00:28:00Mama se wo mil nahi sakhi wo
00:28:022 hafte
00:28:04Aur un 2 hafton me
00:28:06Jo usko raat ke
00:28:08Nightmares usko aaye hain
00:28:10Usko separation anxiety
00:28:126 saal wali thi
00:28:14Aapki sahi hone ke baad usko covid hua gaya
00:28:16Mere covid hone ke duran
00:28:18Wo jo 2 hafte
00:28:20Us bachari ko akela deal karna wada
00:28:22Apne un emotion
00:28:24Wo aaj tak mein feel kar rahi hu
00:28:26Because us 2 hafton me
00:28:28Mujhe lagta hai usko itna change ki hai
00:28:306 saal ki bichchi ko kya samajh aayi
00:28:32Uski maa nahi usko mil rahi
00:28:34Wo dhaade maar maar ke ro rahi hai
00:28:36Ke mujhe mama chahiye
00:28:38Mere kamre se bhaar khadi hui hai
00:28:40Uswaq mene nahi realise hua
00:28:42Usko kitna trauma hua hoga
00:28:44Aaj mujhe pata chal raha hai
00:28:46Usko raat ko abhi bhi nightmares aate hain
00:28:48Aur usko yeh dar hai
00:28:50Uswaq se separation anxiety
00:28:52Ke meri maa kahin chali jaayegi
00:28:54Toh you know this thing
00:28:56Mujhe uswaq nahi laga
00:28:58Mere paas jo shamim apa thi
00:29:00Wo uska khayal rakhti thi
00:29:02But it wasn't enough
00:29:04Toh abhi aapne kaha choti si baat bhi
00:29:06Unke liye bohot badhi ho jati hai
00:29:08Aur main aaj tak usko deal kar rahi hu
00:29:10Us problem ko
00:29:12So it could be something so tiny
00:29:14Ke bachcha kahin aap school se lene nahi gaye
00:29:16Wo thodi der ghante baad aap chale gaye
00:29:18Uska usko jo trauma mil raha hai
00:29:20Aapko wo baad mein samajh jaati hai
00:29:22Kitna zyada trauma hota hai
00:29:24Bachpan mein ek dafa
00:29:26School se lena meri choti behen ko bhool rahi ho
00:29:30Aur aaj tak meri choti behen ke bachche ho gaye
00:29:32Hum badhe ho gaye itne
00:29:34Aaj tak unko wo regret hai
00:29:36Ke main
00:29:38Kaise bhool gaya
00:29:40Wo damaag mein meri behen ke nahi itni rahi
00:29:42Jitna unko guilty rahi
00:29:44Hamisha se ke main usko school se lena
00:29:46Kaise bhool gaya
00:29:48Aapne bilkul sahi misaal di
00:29:50Wo choti si cheez
00:29:52Humare saath
00:29:54Yaha maujood hai
00:29:56Saud aur Saud
00:29:58Hum se kya share karna chahenge
00:30:00Confession box pe
00:30:02Salaam
00:30:04Mera naam
00:30:06Saud Javed hai aur
00:30:08Main 18 saal ka hoon aur
00:30:10First year ka main student hoon
00:30:12Asal mein meri story kuch
00:30:14Is tariki ki hai ke
00:30:16Saud thoda sa zor se bolo beta
00:30:18Asal mein meri story
00:30:20Asal mein meri story kuch
00:30:22Is tariki ki hai ke
00:30:24Mera padhaayi ki
00:30:26Bilkul bhi dil nahi lagta tha
00:30:28Aur jo mere baba hai
00:30:30Woh mujhe bahot zyada force
00:30:32Karte the
00:30:34Tum padho padho padho
00:30:36Woh isi tariki se
00:30:38Manipulate karte the
00:30:40Woh isi tariki se
00:30:42Manipulate karte the
00:30:44Woh isi tariki se
00:30:46Manipulate karte the
00:30:48Woh isi tariki se
00:30:50Manipulate karte the
00:30:52Woh isi tariki se
00:30:54Manipulate karte the
00:30:56Woh isi tariki se
00:30:58Manipulate karte the
00:31:00Woh isi tariki se
00:31:02Manipulate karte the
00:31:04Woh isi tariki se
00:31:06Manipulate karte the
00:31:08Woh isi tariki se
00:31:10Manipulate karte the
00:31:12Woh isi tariki se
00:31:14Manipulate karte the
00:31:16Main ek din outing pe gaya hoon
00:31:18Aur outing pe jaane ke baad
00:31:20Aur outing pe jaane ke baad
00:31:22Wahaan pe mujhe police walo ne pakad liya
00:31:24Police walo ne jab pakada to
00:31:26Woh mujhe thaane leke chade gaye
00:31:28Aur wahaan pe mere father aayen
00:31:30Aur wahaan pe mere father aayen
00:31:32Aur jab mene apne matab
00:31:34Baap ka chehra dekha hai to
00:31:36Woh asliyat mein matab
00:31:38Mere niye bahot heart touching tha
00:31:40Aur bahot ajeeb sa scene tha
00:31:42Ke main salakho ke peeche tha
00:31:44Mere baap meri nazro ke aayen khadha wa tha
00:31:46Mere baap meri nazro ke aayen khadha wa tha
00:31:48Mere baap meri nazro ke aayen khadha wa tha
00:31:50Mere baap meri nazro ke aayen khadha wa tha
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00:32:00Mere baap meri nazro ke aayen khadha wa tha
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00:32:30Mere baap meri nazro ke aayen khadha wa tha
00:32:32Mere baap meri nazro ke aayen khadha wa tha
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00:32:36Mere baap meri nazro ke aayen khadha wa tha
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00:32:40Mere baap meri nazro ke aayen khadha wa tha
00:32:42Mere baap meri nazro ke aayen khadha wa tha
00:32:44Mere baap meri nazro ke aayen khadha wa tha
00:32:46Mere baap meri nazro ke aayen khadha wa tha
00:32:48Mere baap meri nazro ke aayen khadha wa tha
00:32:50Mere baap meri nazro ke aayen khadha wa tha
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00:33:00Mere baap meri nazro ke aayen khadha wa tha
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00:36:28Mere baap meri nazro ke aayen khadha wa tha
00:36:30Basic education
00:36:32Basic education
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00:36:58She doesn't like reading
00:37:00She doesn't like reading
00:37:02She doesn't like reading
00:37:04She doesn't like reading
00:37:06She doesn't like reading
00:37:08She doesn't like reading
00:37:10She doesn't like reading
00:37:12She doesn't like reading
00:37:14She doesn't like reading
00:37:16She doesn't like reading
00:37:18She doesn't like reading
00:37:20She doesn't like reading
00:37:22She doesn't like reading
00:37:24She doesn't like reading
00:37:26She doesn't like reading
00:37:28She doesn't like reading
00:37:30She doesn't like reading
00:37:32She doesn't like reading
00:37:34She doesn't like reading
00:37:36She doesn't like reading
00:37:38She doesn't like reading
00:37:40She doesn't like reading
00:37:42She doesn't like reading
00:37:44She doesn't like reading
00:37:46She doesn't like reading
00:37:48She doesn't like reading
00:37:50She doesn't like reading
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00:37:54We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:37:56We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:37:58We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:00We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:02We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:04We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:06We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:08We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:10We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:12We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:14We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:16We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:18We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:20We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:22We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:24We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:26We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:28We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:30We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:32We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:34We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:36We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:38We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:40We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:42We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:44We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:46We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:48We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:50We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:52We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:54We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:56We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:38:58We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:00We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:02We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:04We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:06We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:08We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:10We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:12We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:14We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:16We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:18We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:20We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:22We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:24We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:26We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:28We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:30We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:32We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:34We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:36We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:38We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:40We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:42We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:44We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:46We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:48We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:50We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:52We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:54We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:56We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:39:58We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:40:00We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:40:02We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:40:04We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:40:06We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:40:08We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:40:10We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:40:12We all want our kids to have a borderline IQ
00:40:14Hello, my name is Aliza
00:40:16Hello, my name is Aliza
00:40:18I am an Intermediate student
00:40:20My story is that
00:40:22I became friends with a guy on Facebook
00:40:24I started getting a lot of messages
00:40:26I started getting a lot of messages
00:40:28So I started chatting with him
00:40:30I think he is a well-educated guy
00:40:32So I think he is a well-educated guy
00:40:34So for a while, we used to talk
00:40:36So for a while, we used to talk
00:40:38So for a while, we used to talk
00:40:40So for a while, we used to talk
00:40:42So for a while, we used to chat
00:40:44So for a while, we used to chat
00:40:46So for a while, we used to chat
00:40:48So for a while, we used to chat
00:40:50So for a while, we used to chat
00:40:52So for a while, we used to chat
00:40:54So for a while, we used to chat
00:40:56So for a while, we used to chat
00:40:58So for a while, we used to chat
00:41:00So for a while, we used to chat
00:41:02So for a while, we used to chat
00:41:04So for a while, we used to chat
00:41:06So for a while, we used to chat
00:41:08So for a while, we used to chat
00:41:10So for a while, we used to chat
00:41:12So for a while, we used to chat
00:41:14So for a while, we used to chat
00:41:16So for a while, we used to chat
00:41:18So for a while, we used to chat
00:41:20So for a while, we used to chat
00:41:22So for a while, we used to chat
00:41:24So for a while, we used to chat
00:41:26So for a while, we used to chat
00:41:28So for a while, we used to chat
00:41:30So for a while, we used to chat
00:41:32So for a while, we used to chat
00:41:34So for a while, we used to chat
00:41:36So for a while, we used to chat
00:41:38When I meet them, they
00:41:40talk to me in a weird way
00:41:42and show me pictures
00:41:44and tell me that these are their demands
00:41:46I get scared
00:41:48and when I come home
00:41:50I am in a state of extreme stress
00:41:52that I don't understand
00:41:54how to share this with my mom
00:41:56I have never told this to my mom
00:41:58nor to my friends
00:42:00I have never shared this with anyone
00:42:02I have never shared this with anyone
00:42:04I don't understand
00:42:06how to share this with my mom
00:42:10that they are blackmailing me
00:42:14If you don't share,
00:42:16then you will be trapped even more
00:42:18If you tell your parents
00:42:20and obviously if mom is not working
00:42:22or not out
00:42:24then mom will definitely tell dad
00:42:26and he will have to include them
00:42:28and do cyber crime or something like that
00:42:30you won't be able to do it alone
00:42:32you will have to take the support
00:42:34of your parents
00:42:36and right now, I am telling you the truth
00:42:38for the sake of your child
00:42:40the parents
00:42:42become a team
00:42:44even if they scold you
00:42:46or say anything
00:42:48but they will be a team
00:42:50to support you
00:42:52this has always happened in our family
00:42:54we have seen our family
00:42:56like this
00:42:58you can say whatever you want
00:43:00Absolutely, Nida
00:43:02this problem cannot be solved
00:43:04without communication
00:43:06if we talk about the age group
00:43:08in this age group
00:43:10the friendship with parents
00:43:12the more open you are
00:43:14the more children are saved from these problems
00:43:16like in their case
00:43:18I understand that
00:43:20there is no open communication
00:43:22so they have not shared their personal things
00:43:24but if you want to solve this problem
00:43:26then you have to tell your parents
00:43:28and for parents
00:43:30it is important
00:43:32that when you bring such things
00:43:34to your child
00:43:36they have to listen to it
00:43:38with patience
00:43:40because it can harm the child
00:43:42and it is difficult
00:43:44being a parent
00:43:46when your child
00:43:48tells you that he is in trouble
00:43:50you get emotional
00:43:52but as a parent
00:43:54you have to provide
00:43:56a safe environment
00:43:58a safe environment
00:44:00where he feels protected
00:44:02we all know
00:44:04that we all make mistakes
00:44:06in our childhood
00:44:08that we do not understand
00:44:10certain things
00:44:12like social media
00:44:14we have to talk to our children
00:44:16to use it
00:44:18we cannot expect
00:44:20that our children will not use the screen
00:44:22they will not be on social media
00:44:24but we have to tell them
00:44:26as a parent
00:44:28that to what extent
00:44:30you can post
00:44:32and how you can
00:44:34set a limit
00:44:36and boundaries
00:44:38in front circle
00:44:40we have to guide our children
00:44:42and when you talk to them
00:44:44parents should not criticize them
00:44:46because usually
00:44:48I have seen in clinics
00:44:50that if children are not listened to
00:44:52it leads to severe depression
00:44:54and suicidal attempts
00:44:56they feel
00:44:58that there is a mental block
00:45:00that there is a problem in life
00:45:02and there is no solution
00:45:04if there is no one
00:45:06with her
00:45:08she will feel
00:45:10that her life is over
00:45:12nothing can be done
00:45:14at this time
00:45:16children can take different steps
00:45:18many things
00:45:20that parents will ask
00:45:22we can solve this problem
00:45:24and obviously
00:45:26as soon as possible
00:45:28that boy
00:45:30should be kept
00:45:32in this darkness
00:45:34that his demands
00:45:36will be fulfilled
00:45:38don't tell him
00:45:40that you have come here
00:45:42call your father
00:45:44call the police
00:45:46and surround him
00:45:48like he has surrounded you
00:45:50we have to do this
00:45:52this is the first thing
00:45:54that all the children
00:45:56are listening to
00:45:58online chatting
00:46:00it could be a bot
00:46:02it could be anyone
00:46:04sitting somewhere
00:46:06on the internet
00:46:08it has become easy to chat
00:46:10don't get involved in these things
00:46:12relationships are not made like this
00:46:14we have a good understanding
00:46:16what understanding
00:46:18you have gone to meet him
00:46:20what did he say
00:46:22those are talks
00:46:24not actions
00:46:26don't get involved in these things
00:46:28how can there be a relationship
00:46:30on the chat
00:46:32there can be no understanding
00:46:34we are talking
00:46:36now when it is done
00:46:38no, no, no
00:46:40you have to tell your parents
00:46:42immediately
00:46:44but don't let it get there
00:46:46communication
00:46:48heart talks
00:46:50who are you telling heart talks
00:46:52it's just another person
00:46:54it's a voice
00:46:56you have trusted him so much
00:46:58you have gone to meet him
00:47:00something else would have happened
00:47:02he would have called 10 more people
00:47:04so please for God's sake
00:47:06don't chat
00:47:08this is all a lie
00:47:10because I can say anything to you
00:47:12and you will listen to me
00:47:14she is naive
00:47:16she is naive
00:47:18and you have listened to her
00:47:20and she did a drama with you
00:47:22and she said
00:47:24I blocked you
00:47:26and as soon as you picked up the phone
00:47:28she ran away
00:47:30so no, first of all prevent her
00:47:32and if such a thing happens
00:47:34if you feel like going
00:47:36tell someone
00:47:38take someone with you
00:47:40for God's sake don't go alone
00:47:42if you feel like going
00:47:44if you are dying to go
00:47:46if you are in love
00:47:48and you see Shahrukh Khan
00:47:50and nothing else
00:47:52don't make that mistake
00:47:54we will come back after a break
00:47:56good morning
00:48:08welcome, welcome back
00:48:10good morning Pakistan
00:48:12today we will talk about
00:48:14how important it is to bring your heart to your tongue
00:48:16but how did you bring that expression
00:48:18are we teaching those people
00:48:20who need to learn
00:48:22are we telling them
00:48:24who need to learn
00:48:26I will teach Vinny
00:48:28he will get one
00:48:30next we have in the confession box
00:48:32Sidra
00:48:34Sidra is a worried mother
00:48:36a worried parent
00:48:38let's share her worries
00:48:40Assalamualaikum
00:48:42Assalamualaikum Sidra
00:48:44Assalamualaikum
00:48:46I am a mother
00:48:48and I am very worried
00:48:50because of my daughter
00:48:52I don't know
00:48:54who to share my problems with
00:48:56the problem is
00:48:58that my daughter
00:49:00is a teenager
00:49:02and mobile
00:49:04is a necessary thing
00:49:06because
00:49:08a lot of things are needed
00:49:10for kids
00:49:12but I have noticed that
00:49:14she is using her mobile a lot
00:49:16there is no time
00:49:18she takes her mobile
00:49:20and chats
00:49:22I got a little worried
00:49:24then I checked her mobile
00:49:26she is talking to a boy
00:49:28she is friends with a boy
00:49:30she is talking to him
00:49:32she didn't share this with me
00:49:34I am so worried
00:49:36that she shares it with me
00:49:38but when I saw it
00:49:40I asked her
00:49:42but she didn't give me
00:49:44an answer
00:49:46I am more worried
00:49:48my problem is
00:49:50that I can't share it with my husband
00:49:52that
00:49:54otherwise
00:49:56it will come to the mother
00:49:58that why didn't you see it
00:50:00when I keep a check
00:50:02she didn't share it with me
00:50:04I didn't ask her
00:50:06she didn't give me a clear answer
00:50:08she told me
00:50:10but she didn't do it
00:50:12I am worried
00:50:14that I will be strict with her
00:50:16so she won't tell me
00:50:18I will be soft
00:50:20and gentle
00:50:22so that she won't take
00:50:24an unfair advantage
00:50:26I don't know
00:50:28how to handle this situation
00:50:30my husband
00:50:32will be very angry
00:50:34if he gets to know
00:50:36so I want to know
00:50:38how to handle this situation
00:50:40why are you telling this to your husband?
00:50:42how is the environment of the house?
00:50:44environment
00:50:46my husband
00:50:48is outside
00:50:50he is in the office
00:50:52he doesn't know much
00:50:54I see everything
00:50:56he is very strict
00:50:58he won't listen to me
00:51:00he will scold me
00:51:02children
00:51:04I don't want
00:51:06it to reach there
00:51:08I want to solve
00:51:10this situation
00:51:12most of the times
00:51:14mothers
00:51:16involve their husbands
00:51:18for a long time
00:51:20till they can handle it
00:51:22they do it
00:51:24men are
00:51:26like that
00:51:28what should we do?
00:51:30many mothers
00:51:32we daughters
00:51:34have a close relationship
00:51:36with their father
00:51:38we appreciate him
00:51:40if there is a healthy relationship
00:51:42the daughters grow
00:51:44their self esteem
00:51:46increases
00:51:48the environment of the house
00:51:50we have to see the reasons
00:51:52it is very important
00:51:54if they are
00:51:56talking to a child
00:51:58what are the reasons?
00:52:00a child needs attention
00:52:02when she is not at home
00:52:04if the parents
00:52:06have a good emotional bond
00:52:08the child grows
00:52:10healthy
00:52:12if the father is angry
00:52:14when girls are young
00:52:16you see
00:52:18the environment
00:52:20they have friends
00:52:22it happens
00:52:24the age is like that
00:52:26the hormones are like that
00:52:28you have to like the boy
00:52:30the boys have to like the girl
00:52:32thank God
00:52:34in today's world
00:52:36it is normal
00:52:38it happens
00:52:40they like the boy
00:52:42the girl likes the boy
00:52:44there is no sharing
00:52:46why?
00:52:48it is a common thing
00:52:50the main thing
00:52:52that the child
00:52:54did not share with the mother
00:52:56because the mother will judge
00:52:58the mother did not share
00:53:00the same thing with her husband
00:53:02he will judge me
00:53:04that my parenting is not right
00:53:06the child has different emotions
00:53:08but the fear of evaluation
00:53:10is on both sides
00:53:12so we have to be
00:53:14non-judgmental
00:53:16with each other
00:53:18when the third child
00:53:20talks to us
00:53:22we have to give
00:53:24empathy
00:53:26we have to understand
00:53:28what situation
00:53:30he is going through
00:53:32we cannot solve
00:53:34every problem alone
00:53:36if we become a team
00:53:38as a husband and wife
00:53:40we can deal with the problem
00:53:42the child has a sense of security
00:53:44he understands
00:53:46that his parents love him
00:53:48and they are trying to solve the problem
00:53:50what should he do?
00:53:52he has to tell his husband
00:53:54because
00:53:56he has to judge
00:53:58he has to change his behavior
00:54:00shouldn't we explain
00:54:02to the father
00:54:04what should we tell the father
00:54:06that your daughter is talking to a boy
00:54:08tell him that the girl needs attention
00:54:10connect emotionally
00:54:12connect the girl
00:54:14connect emotionally
00:54:16but the aggression of the father
00:54:18he is always angry
00:54:20the family is not able to talk to him
00:54:22even if the father is not angry
00:54:24the mother does not tell this to the father
00:54:26this is what happened
00:54:28the relationship
00:54:30the environment of the house
00:54:32the mother is afraid of the father
00:54:34the child has to be afraid
00:54:36there are very few in our country
00:54:38the relationship between
00:54:40mother, father and daughter
00:54:42is very formal
00:54:44it's not so informal
00:54:46many daughters
00:54:48tell their fathers
00:54:50that they are friends
00:54:52absolutely
00:54:54my father
00:54:56told me
00:54:58some feminine things
00:55:00my mother never told me
00:55:02because
00:55:04we had a relationship with my father
00:55:06same here
00:55:08when I was in college
00:55:10when he came to pick me up
00:55:12he said
00:55:14a male member was talking to me
00:55:16I was quiet
00:55:18I didn't know how to answer
00:55:20he gave me a conference
00:55:22to talk with confidence
00:55:24your class fellows
00:55:26why aren't you responding
00:55:28then I realized
00:55:30I can talk in front of you
00:55:32with another male member
00:55:34so from there
00:55:36what is his answer
00:55:38I want to come to him
00:55:40I want to ask him
00:55:42how can he
00:55:44take his daughter
00:55:46in confidence
00:55:48can he be her confidant
00:55:50I am asking you
00:55:52friendship with your daughter
00:55:54what messages
00:55:56can he send
00:55:58can he be involved
00:56:00so that the expertise of a mother
00:56:02that she has seen the world
00:56:04how the boy
00:56:06deals with his daughter
00:56:08can he do this
00:56:10how can he handle that situation
00:56:12in any healthy relationship
00:56:14mother daughter
00:56:16as I said back bone is friendship
00:56:18so if he
00:56:20does friendship with his daughter
00:56:22so that she opens up
00:56:24when she opens up
00:56:26she will share things with him
00:56:28then only she is mature
00:56:30she can guide him
00:56:32if you have a friendship
00:56:34there should be a limit setting
00:56:36and boundary setting
00:56:38and if there is something inappropriate
00:56:40she can guide him
00:56:42as long as they are open
00:56:44they can solve the problem
00:56:46and if the mother
00:56:48doesn't want to
00:56:50talk to the boy
00:56:52then what steps will she take
00:56:54either for professional help
00:56:56or for counselling
00:56:58so that
00:57:00the boy doesn't talk so openly
00:57:02he can express his feelings
00:57:04openly in front of a professional
00:57:06and he can share
00:57:08all his personal things
00:57:10so counselling sessions
00:57:12can help the boy
00:57:14people don't go for counselling
00:57:16they can't get counselling
00:57:18it is so difficult for me
00:57:20to get counselling
00:57:22people don't think of kids
00:57:24but after covid
00:57:26online counselling and therapy sessions
00:57:28are also there
00:57:30this is evidence based practice
00:57:32I will cut you off
00:57:34and come to my daughter
00:57:36as a mother
00:57:38I am going through
00:57:40my daughter is going to be 12
00:57:42she is going to be 13
00:57:44I have done this
00:57:46I tell all the mothers
00:57:48to be friends from the beginning
00:57:50I have started teaching her
00:57:52from now
00:57:54my work is
00:57:56to teach her
00:57:58what are relationships
00:58:00how to judge people
00:58:02how to talk about the heart
00:58:04or how to understand
00:58:06her friends
00:58:08how are your friends
00:58:10like
00:58:12she goes to a co-ed school
00:58:14of course she has male friends
00:58:16I fought with my husband
00:58:18and put her in a co-ed school
00:58:20and told her that
00:58:22she has to deal with men
00:58:24when she grows up
00:58:26I will teach her
00:58:28how to deal with male energy
00:58:30integrate your kids
00:58:32like she said
00:58:34she was not able to talk to her class fellows
00:58:36what is this
00:58:38how will you talk to your husband
00:58:40so we have to teach them
00:58:42how to interact
00:58:44with their opposite sex
00:58:46that is the first thing
00:58:48teach your kids
00:58:50don't scare them
00:58:52teach them to thrive in that relationship
00:58:54I think friendship is the key
00:58:56I try to
00:58:58teach my daughter
00:59:00how men should be
00:59:02how friends should be
00:59:04if I am a mother
00:59:06how should I be
00:59:08I ask my daughter
00:59:10tell me what I need to change
00:59:12how do you want me to be a better mother for you
00:59:14what do you think
00:59:16do you like other mothers
00:59:18her mother is cool
00:59:20your mother is not cool
00:59:22I learn from them also
00:59:24I listen to them
00:59:26what do I lack
00:59:28what am I not
00:59:30what should I do
00:59:32communication I think
00:59:34the lady sitting here
00:59:36she should be her daughter's friend
00:59:38I think you should be her friend
00:59:40it's not so late
00:59:42the conversation is between a boy and a girl
00:59:44she should jump in
00:59:46and if she feels
00:59:48that she is crossing the line
00:59:50then she should stop her
00:59:52let me give you an example
00:59:54of my mother
00:59:56when she met my brother-in-law
00:59:58she said
01:00:00you like him
01:00:02if you want to meet him
01:00:04let me know
01:00:06she told her parents
01:00:08my brother-in-law's parents also knew
01:00:10so when she
01:00:12wanted to meet him
01:00:14she used to say
01:00:16come to my house
01:00:18she used to see the timing
01:00:20and we were taught
01:00:22how to take care of ourselves
01:00:24you should teach your daughter
01:00:26you should teach her
01:00:28your morality
01:00:30your ethics
01:00:32relationship is important
01:00:34in life
01:00:36friendship is also a relationship
01:00:38if you are friends
01:00:40with a female
01:00:42it's a relationship
01:00:44you have to teach your children
01:00:46how to maintain relationships
01:00:48that is my advice to them
01:00:50so with me
01:00:52in the next confession box
01:00:54is Maryam
01:00:56let's ask her
01:00:58Assalam-o-Alaikum
01:01:00Assalam-o-Alaikum
01:01:02what would you like to say?
01:01:04my problem is
01:01:06my husband
01:01:08I fought with him
01:01:10and fought with my family
01:01:12and
01:01:14I got my parents angry
01:01:16and got married
01:01:18it's been a year
01:01:20since we got married
01:01:22but
01:01:24he hit me
01:01:26in the second month
01:01:28he slapped me
01:01:30hard
01:01:32the door was open
01:01:34and there was a water tank
01:01:36as soon as he entered
01:01:38he got hurt
01:01:40so he asked me
01:01:42who did this?
01:01:44why did you keep it here?
01:01:46I said give me 5 minutes
01:01:48I will empty it
01:01:50he slapped me hard
01:01:52because he got hurt
01:01:54yes
01:01:56but he is emotional
01:01:58but his nature
01:02:00slowly increased
01:02:02he used to hit me
01:02:04on small things
01:02:06he used to mark my body
01:02:08oh my god
01:02:10he used to hit me
01:02:12on small things
01:02:14he used to hit me
01:02:16on small things
01:02:18he used to hit me
01:02:20on small things
01:02:22he used to hit me
01:02:24on small things
01:02:26he used to hit me
01:02:28on small things
01:02:30he used to hit me
01:02:32on small things
01:02:34he used to hit me
01:02:36on small things
01:02:38he used to hit me
01:02:40on small things
01:02:42he used to hit me
01:02:44on small things
01:02:46he used to hit me
01:02:48on small things
01:02:50he used to hit me
01:02:52on small things
01:02:54he used to hit me
01:02:56on small things
01:02:58he used to hit me
01:03:00on small things
01:03:02he used to hit me
01:03:04on small things
01:03:06he used to hit me
01:03:08on small things
01:03:10he used to hit me
01:03:12on small things
01:03:14he used to hit me
01:03:16on small things
01:03:18he used to hit me
01:03:20on small things
01:03:22he used to hit me
01:03:24on small things
01:03:26he used to hit me
01:03:28on small things
01:03:30he used to hit me
01:03:32on small things
01:03:34he used to hit me
01:03:36on small things
01:03:38he used to hit me
01:03:40on small things
01:03:42he used to hit me
01:03:44on small things
01:03:46he used to hit me
01:03:48on small things
01:03:50he used to hit me
01:03:52on small things
01:03:54he used to hit me
01:03:56on small things
01:03:58he used to hit me
01:04:00on small things
01:04:02he used to hit me
01:04:04on small things
01:04:06he used to hit me
01:04:08on small things
01:04:10he used to hit me
01:04:12on small things
01:04:14he used to hit me
01:04:16on small things
01:04:18he used to hit me
01:04:20on small things
01:04:22he used to hit me
01:04:24on small things
01:04:26he used to hit me
01:04:28on small things
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01:04:32you are not cattle
01:04:34you are not cow
01:04:36you are not an animal
01:04:38you are not an animal
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01:18:40today i would like to introduce
01:18:42the two personalities
01:18:56which not only affects the physical appearance but also affects the mental health
01:19:03because obviously when your physical appearance is not the same
01:19:08so the pain that you are going through, that is what it actually knows
01:19:14so I would like to introduce you to those who are present with me
01:19:19Dr. Syed Farhan Shah, who is the CEO of Licoderma Centre Private Limited
01:19:26and with me is Danish Rao, who is the Marketing Manager of Licoderma Centre
01:19:35You have also received an award from the Government of Pakistan
01:19:39Best Treatment for Vertigo
01:19:42and I would like to ask you some questions about that
01:19:45For example, there is a myth among people that if you drink milk with fish, you get full berry or burs
01:19:59so what is the truth in this and how do you treat it?
01:20:02For this, Vitiligo, which is also known as Licoderma, also known as white spots
01:20:07White patches on the body, that is, white spots appear
01:20:12and this is pigmentation in the body, the color-making process is called pigmentation
01:20:16in which the cells stop working, due to which it starts appearing on your skin
01:20:23it starts appearing on different parts
01:20:25so it is curable, but if you get it treated on time, it is completely curable
01:20:29So is this story of fish and milk true or not?
01:20:34See, the story of fish and milk is to some extent correct
01:20:36but this problem does not come due to drinking milk after eating every fish
01:20:39There is a special type of fish, if you eat it, then milk, milkshake, ice cream, cream, kulfi, dahi, lassi, khoya
01:20:45I have heard that there is a special type of fish, that fish has eaten a plant under the sea
01:20:51See, you are right, but mostly the fish that has eggs in its stomach, if you use egg fish
01:20:58which is off-season, in June, July, there is a feeding of fish
01:21:01If you eat fish in this season, then milk, milkshake, ice cream, cream, any dairy product
01:21:08then there are chances of your skin to get wrinkles in at least 1 hour or 1 month
01:21:13I have seen many women, this happens even during pregnancy
01:21:17Absolutely
01:21:18I have seen many women, that their hormones change, so during pregnancy they get vertigo
01:21:24Yes, absolutely, see, it happens that during pregnancy, you are using high antibiotics
01:21:30C-Roids are also given to you by gynecologists, C-Roids are also given to you
01:21:35or you are using antibiotics a lot, you are also suffering from excessive use of antibiotics
01:21:39Antibiotics are not allowed during pregnancy
01:21:41See, you are right, but there are some things, I have told you that such doctors
01:21:46who are not able to face the problems properly, they give you antibiotics
01:21:50C-Roids are also given to you, often we get clients who say that this thing happened during pregnancy
01:21:5570-80% of our clients say that this thing happens during pregnancy
01:22:00Ajay, please tell me, how do you treat this?
01:22:03See, the treatment of Viterligo is, we have medicines, organic medicines
01:22:10in the form of powder, means you have a box, it has 30 sachets
01:22:16Daily you have to take out 1 sachet, put it in a glass of water and leave it
01:22:19In the morning, you have to filter it, drink its water and have breakfast after 1 hour
01:22:23Along with that, there is an almond cream, which you have to use on a daily basis at night
01:22:27The visible area, the area outside the clothes, you don't have to use it inside the clothes
01:22:31because sometimes there are patches all over the client's body
01:22:34You have seen many people, where you can apply the cream
01:22:37So, only the visible area, like the face, hands, feet, there we give almond cream for that
01:22:43Along with that, we give medicines to you
01:22:45With this, Insha Allah, the recovery starts
01:22:48For this, there are lasers also, but is there a treatment with laser also?
01:22:52The laser treatment, you can say that it is temporary
01:22:56Because the laser treatment is, when the laser treatment is applied on your skin
01:23:00So, you see, your skin burns from there
01:23:02So, after 4-5 sessions, the results come
01:23:05The results also don't come, but the skin burns from there
01:23:08And your skin starts to get dark from there
01:23:10Means, the original skin color, the skin gets darker than that
01:23:13But, it comes temporarily, as soon as you leave it
01:23:16As I told you in the beginning, this problem is of pigmentation
01:23:20So, when you apply laser treatment on the skin
01:23:24So, temporarily, your skin turns black
01:23:26The client gets satisfied, he thinks that he is getting cured
01:23:29But, temporarily, as soon as you leave it, the scar starts to come back
01:23:32Is there any age limit in this?
01:23:35From which age and to which age can we take this medicine?
01:23:41See, there are two signs in this, if you are present in the client, then it is 100% curable
01:23:45There should be two signs, one is the age of the patient
01:23:49Means, the age of the disease should be less than 40 years
01:23:52Means, the age of the disease should be less than 40 years
01:23:55And, instead of white patches on the body, skin color
01:23:58Means, it is necessary to have skin color on your body
01:24:01If these two signs are present, then it is 100% curable
01:24:04Okay, how long does it take to see the results?
01:24:08See, the results are, we have such clients in this
01:24:12Who got cured in 22 days, we have such clients
01:24:15Who took 4 months, 3 months, 2 months, every client takes different time
01:24:20Okay, and where are your clinics present?
01:24:25Our clinic is present in Multan and Karachi, two cities
01:24:28And, soon, we are going to open in Lahore and Islamabad
01:24:32Okay, is it necessary to do physical checkup for this medicine?
01:24:39Or, the medicine can be taken in this way also?
01:24:42See, the way is that we have such clients present
01:24:45Like in Karachi and Multan, we have physical clinics present
01:24:48If someone wants to visit, then he can visit
01:24:51If he cannot visit, he is in some other city
01:24:54Then, he can share his pictures on WhatsApp
01:24:57Share his history, then we can give him the medicine
01:25:02Okay, how can we take timings and appointments?
01:25:06Please share all those things
01:25:09In Karachi, we have our clinic in Bahadurabad, near I-Crowd
01:25:12And, we are present there from 1st to 10th of every month
01:25:17Okay
01:25:18And, for this appointment, you can call us
01:25:21You can take it through our website also
01:25:23Okay, and if you want to take medicines from some other city
01:25:28Like, if someone is your relative in Karachi
01:25:31And, you want to take medicines from Lahore
01:25:34What is the procedure?
01:25:35The procedure is that, we will contact the doctor
01:25:38We will contact him on the number given to us
01:25:40After that, he will tell us his address
01:25:43In Pakistan, through COD, through cash on delivery
01:25:46All over Pakistan, we are delivering
01:25:48Like, in cities, we use courier services
01:25:52Like, in villages, there are no courier services
01:25:56There, we use Pakistan Post Office
01:25:58Okay
01:25:59So, we can easily deliver, there is no issue
01:26:02Like, if a patient has come to you once
01:26:05And, he has checked you
01:26:08So, if he has written his address to you
01:26:11So, if the medicines are over
01:26:13Yes, through home delivery, we deliver
01:26:15Okay, is there any side effect of this medicine?
01:26:18See, this medicine is verified by the biggest laboratory of Pakistan
01:26:21And, this is an organic medicine
01:26:23There are no side effects of organic medicine
01:26:25Okay
01:26:26There are no steroids in this, steroids are free
01:26:28And, Inshallah, you will start getting positive results in 30 to 45 days
01:26:31So, your clinic is in Karachi
01:26:34Outside that, it will be written, Leukoderma
01:26:38Leukoderma Center
01:26:39It will be written like this
01:26:40Yes, yes
01:26:41Will it reach, or is it just the name of your product?
01:26:43Yes, our clinic is under the name of Leukoderma Center
01:26:46Leukoderma Center
01:26:47Yes, yes
01:26:48Leukoderma Center
01:26:49Okay
01:26:50So, it will be visible there
01:26:51In Bahadurabad, in Karachi
01:26:52Yes
01:26:53And, where is it in Multan?
01:26:54Our clinic is near Chowk, Shishidabad in Multan
01:26:56Okay
01:26:57And, soon, we are going to Lahore and Islamabad
01:27:00By the way, our medicine is also delivered internationally
01:27:02We also have international clients, Alhamdulillah
01:27:03Okay
01:27:04Yes
01:27:05In that also, the situation is that you share your pictures with the patient
01:27:08Okay, through WhatsApp
01:27:09And, after that, we deliver the medicine through international DHL
01:27:12Okay
01:27:13But, in Pakistan, we provide cash on delivery
01:27:17Yes
01:27:18Because, it is domestic
01:27:19For international, payment methods and other delivery methods are different
01:27:23They guide the patient
01:27:24Thank you very much for coming on the show
01:27:26Yes
01:27:27So, this was our show today
01:27:28We hope that you would have enjoyed the show
01:27:30You would have understood and learnt
01:27:32How to bring your heart's message to the tongue
01:27:35And, how to express it
01:27:37This was today's topic
01:27:38Good morning, Pakistan