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00:00I am going to have to kill myself.
00:16I can't stay Image will go, yeah, but I've already
00:29I'm so stressed out.
00:31In the midst of all this cleaning,
00:33Miki's mom says,
00:35this is so common,
00:37and it's so annoying.
00:39What's going on with the
00:41pieces of erasers
00:43that the kids put out?
00:45I know, I know.
00:47Our table was
00:49all messed up.
00:51It's all clogged up.
00:53The pieces of erasers
00:55are stuck between the trees.
00:57Even if you're honest,
00:59it's hard to sit down.
01:01If someone steps on it,
01:03it'll fall to the floor.
01:05If you find it,
01:07you'll have to crouch.
01:09The kids put them
01:11all on the table,
01:13but the ones on the floor
01:15are like this.
01:17But that's the result
01:19of studying,
01:21so I can't say it strongly.
01:23What should we do?
01:25Miki's mom is worried
01:27about the pieces of erasers.
01:29What's going on in the world?
01:31Miki's mom is serious.
01:35The pieces of erasers
01:37that are stuck between the trees
01:39are thrown away by the kids
01:41in the trash bin.
01:43The daughter throws away
01:45all the tissues.
01:47If you drop it on the floor,
01:49the cleaning robot
01:51will clean it up.
01:55The housework
01:57and parenting
01:59are common in foreign countries.
02:01We asked the world's mothers
02:03about it.
02:07Did the Swedish mom
02:09have a way
02:11to play with the kids?
02:17We were shocked
02:19by the French mom
02:21who encouraged the independence
02:23of Japan.
02:27The Japanese mom
02:29was impressed
02:31by the Thai mom.
02:37We asked the world's mothers
02:39about their way
02:41to support their kids
02:43and found a way
02:45to make their life easier.
02:47In the World
02:49with Mom.
02:53We asked the world's mothers
02:55about their way
02:57to support their kids.
03:23We asked the world's mothers
03:25about their way
03:27to support their kids.
03:53We asked the world's mothers
03:55about their way
03:57to support their kids.
04:23We asked the world's mothers
04:25about their way
04:27to support their kids.
04:49We asked the world's mothers
04:51about their way
04:53to support their kids.
05:21We asked the world's mothers
05:23about their way
05:25to support their kids.
05:27I'm a little worried that I'm going to look it up.
05:29I thought I heard something good.
05:31So when I said it a little bit, I felt like I was going to do something.
05:33It's funny.
05:36How to get your husband to do housework.
05:38What is the world doing?
05:40The overseas mother is serious.
05:49I put a list of what my husband and children should do on the wall so that my mother doesn't have to do the housework alone.
05:55I'm looking at who's going to do what.
05:59This is the secret to distributing the housework in a balanced way.
06:04If I thought I couldn't do it, I told my husband to give up.
06:11Then my husband started to do it for me.
06:16First, I asked my husband to help me with housework and childcare for 30 minutes.
06:22Then I talked to him little by little and increased it.
06:27By doing so, I was able to take my own time.
06:32The husband and wife's housework.
06:34What is the world doing in a country where there are more families working together than in Japan?
06:40I visited my mother in the world.
06:43The first place I went to was Sweden, the king's country, which is about 8,000 kilometers away from Japan by plane for 18 hours.
06:52It is the birthplace of IKEA, the world's largest furniture store.
06:58The capital Stockholm still has old buildings, and it has become the stage for the movie The Witch's Delivery.
07:07Sweden is 2% of Japan, which is 29.9% of the total workforce.
07:16Everyone is working.
07:19I went to Sweden.
07:22I've heard that Sweden is a country where it's easy to raise children.
07:27I want to find out.
07:29What's the difference?
07:319-year-old son's mother, Abukawa Mihoko of Hokuyo.
07:37Speaking of easy to raise children, Abukawa's mother.
07:41Suddenly, there is a curious sight in the city.
07:44Let's go.
07:56Despite the weekdays, the father pushes the baby's face here and there.
08:04In Sweden, one child can take a 480-day maternity leave as a couple, and 80% of the pay is paid.
08:14Sweden is 90% in defense of 30% of men's pay.
08:23The public transport is also a first for raising children.
08:27The space of the baby car is also wide open, and there are few people standing there.
08:34Intercultural exchange with such a Swedish mother.
08:38The person who cooperated this time is...
08:44Hello.
08:47Five families working together as a couple.
08:52The job is a medical researcher.
08:55Greta, the mother, and Koshuten, the father.
08:59And...
09:01Max, the son.
09:03Max.
09:04Max.
09:05Abu.
09:06Abu.
09:07Abu.
09:08Abu, yeah, yeah.
09:09The twin brothers, Max and Malcolm, 8 years old.
09:12And the three-year-old, Roe.
09:17Let's take a tour of the room.
09:21Yes, welcome. Thank you.
09:25Wow, really.
09:26Wow, amazing.
09:30This is an IKEA showroom.
09:32This is how people in Sweden really live.
09:38This is the birthplace of IKEA.
09:41In Sweden, where winter lasts long,
09:43there are many people who are particular about furniture and interior design.
09:49Wow, it's so stylish.
09:53This is the dining room kitchen.
09:56There is something that interests me.
09:59What is this?
10:00This is the food we ordered online.
10:04There are so many orders.
10:08We usually order once every two weeks, so there are a lot of orders.
10:12Once a week, twice a week.
10:14They buy everything at once.
10:18In Sweden, where there are many couples working together,
10:21it's hard to shop on a daily basis.
10:24That's why they usually buy everything online and have it delivered.
10:31They take out the carrots from the food and put them on a plate.
10:37They even make a salad.
10:41It's beautiful.
10:42This is a children's snack.
10:45The children's snack in Sweden is a carrot.
10:51Here is the snack.
10:52I've been waiting for this.
10:54It's a cooking school.
10:58This is a children's snack.
11:00Is this a snack?
11:02She is a good girl.
11:03She has a great appetite.
11:06It's delicious.
11:10It's sweet.
11:12It may be sweeter than I thought.
11:16Don't you eat carrots in winter?
11:19I don't think I eat them as a snack.
11:22In Japan, we eat things like puzzle chips, chocolate, and cookies.
11:30Do you eat those before meals?
11:33That's right.
11:35I eat them before meals, so I can't eat them anymore.
11:40Carrots are good.
11:43While the carrots are being peeled, they prepare dinner with their dads.
11:49They are busy on weekdays, so the main course is to warm up the meal kit.
11:56Here is the Swedish mother's way of thinking.
12:01Before we had children, we cooked a lot of food.
12:05But after we had children, it became easier.
12:11Now, we don't have much time to raise our children.
12:16I see.
12:18I couldn't cook, but now that I have children, I have to cook better.
12:27I understand that.
12:28So, I don't have much time.
12:31So, I try to use a lot of time for my family.
12:40I think it's a very simple thing.
12:46It's past six in the afternoon.
12:48The dinner is ready in just 20 minutes.
12:52The meat sauce is poured over the pasta.
12:54The side dish is a boiled human.
12:57This is amazing.
12:59I think this is easy and good.
13:02This is ideal.
13:04I wish I could eat this much.
13:07The carrot is good.
13:09It's cute.
13:11I don't eat while watching TV.
13:14I don't eat while watching TV.
13:16In Japan, we eat while watching TV.
13:20We don't have time to watch TV.
13:22So, we don't have time to talk with children and adults.
13:26Swedish people value their time at home.
13:29They have a game to enjoy talking with children.
13:33We announce three events on that day.
13:37We mix a lie and a truth.
13:41We guess which one is a lie.
13:45Do you do that with your family?
13:48Marukomu is going to give a quiz.
13:51I'm going to start.
13:53Today, I played at the school building.
13:58Let me think about the second one.
14:03It's suspicious.
14:05I ate rice.
14:08It's definitely the second one.
14:10It's cute.
14:12The last one is a difficult math homework.
14:16Which one is a lie?
14:20I played at the school building.
14:22It's a math homework.
14:28The liar is my father.
14:31I didn't play at the school building.
14:33I didn't play at the school building.
14:35The liar is my father.
14:38If I ask them how was their day,
14:41they say it was good.
14:43Then, we can't continue the conversation.
14:46That's right.
14:48Especially, boys don't tell us what happened.
14:53Let's imitate them.
14:55Thank you for the meal.
14:57By the way, how about Gureta, who has a lot of family?
15:00What is she washing?
15:04It's amazing.
15:06It's a dishwasher.
15:08Can I leave the pasta as it is?
15:10It's okay if it's a little.
15:12You don't have to clean it so much.
15:15I sometimes clean that filter,
15:18so I can wash it cleanly.
15:23When Japanese mothers wash bowls,
15:26their hands get rough because of the soap,
15:29and the skin peels off.
15:31It happens a lot.
15:33Then, there is an easy way.
15:35In Sweden, you wash the dishes with this brush.
15:46It doesn't touch the detergent at all.
15:48It doesn't touch the detergent at all.
15:50You don't have to do that.
15:52You don't have to do that.
15:54It's amazing.
15:58You can get the same brush in Japan,
16:01so why don't you try it?
16:03I think this brush is good.
16:05My hands don't get rough.
16:07It's 8 o'clock at night.
16:09It's time for children to go to bed.
16:12In Japan, there are many mothers who have trouble sleeping,
16:16but Gureta's mother's method is very reasonable.
16:20It's dark.
16:22Oh, I see.
16:23They turn the room dark at eight o'clock.
16:27She turns the lights in the house gradually dark
16:30and puts the children in sleep mode.
16:33She's good at bringing them to bed.
16:37It's amazing.
16:38What kind of method is this?
16:41It's like everyone is going to sleep.
16:43They go to bed at 8.30 pm.
16:47The next morning.
16:50Good morning.
16:54Open sandwiches for breakfast are placed directly on the table without using a plate.
17:00Not only in Sweden, but also in Europe,
17:03they often use a table instead of a plate.
17:10With this method, they can reduce the number of things to wash
17:13and make it easier for their mothers.
17:16Japanese mothers find it troublesome to do the laundry.
17:21How do you do it?
17:23We sometimes do the laundry,
17:27but we do it during the dry season.
17:29Landry is at the top floor of the apartment,
17:33so we make a reservation on the weekend and do the laundry at once.
17:37There's a big one.
17:39There's a big laundry at the top floor of the apartment.
17:43The fee is included in the rent.
17:46It's hard to dry the clothes even if you dry them outside
17:49because the drying time is short in the North Pole,
17:52so if you use this dry closet instead,
17:55you can dry them in an hour.
17:58What is this?
18:00It's so full.
18:02It doesn't wrinkle.
18:03What is this?
18:05And when they say goodbye.
18:08I'd like to go to Tokyo with my kids in a few years.
18:13I'll visit you then.
18:16Please come.
18:17We'll be waiting for you.
18:24Abukawa's mother has a different view of values in Sweden.
18:29I think it's best to spend time with family
18:34and try to make housework as reasonable as possible.
18:45In Sweden,
18:46in a nutshell,
18:48we try to avoid housework
18:52and spend time with our kids.
18:56What do you think, Kintaro?
18:57I think it's a great idea to mix up lies
19:00and talk about what happened in a day.
19:02Even if you tell them you had a good time,
19:05they'll only reply with,
19:07I had a good time.
19:08I think you can develop the ability to make your own sentences.
19:12That's what I remembered.
19:15The food instructor,
19:17Jikiden Wadamama.
19:19She teaches kids how to be interested in food.
19:24I've been doing this for a long time.
19:26It's a quiz to guess the vegetables in today's meal.
19:30Oh, I see.
19:32I put five kinds of vegetables in today's meal.
19:35Oh, really?
19:36If you guess the vegetables correctly,
19:38you can learn how to cook vegetables.
19:40I want to guess the vegetables correctly, so I can eat them.
19:42There are three kinds of firewood,
19:44and sometimes you can use 10 kinds of firewood.
19:46It's a good idea.
19:47If I keep doing this,
19:49I'll be able to eat ginger and garlic,
19:51which I usually use.
19:54I'll be able to eat ginger and garlic.
19:56I'll be able to eat ginger and garlic.
19:57I'll be able to eat ginger and garlic.
19:59It would be fun if I was 2 or 4 years old.
20:01It would be fun.
20:02I want to try it.
20:04It's a very good job.
20:06Speaking in front of Mr. Wada,
20:08I don't know who said that I was 13 years old.
20:12Who said that?
20:13Come on out.
20:15When I look at food from overseas,
20:17there are only pasta and beans.
20:22There are only mashed potatoes and meat and bread.
20:26When I watch a movie that only uses meat,
20:30I think this is good.
20:32I feel like I can do my best in cooking.
20:35I think this is good today.
20:37I want everyone to do it in the same way.
20:41If it's just me, I can't do it.
20:44If you do a lot of retro things,
20:50your chest will hurt.
20:52I think you're a bad parent.
20:54I understand.
20:55I don't care about other people.
20:58It was a meal kit just to warm up.
21:00I ate it deliciously.
21:02Children are the same no matter what they eat.
21:05That's not true.
21:07I don't eat that.
21:10That's not true.
21:12Don't say that.
21:14That's not good.
21:16I'm sorry.
21:19They asked the mothers all over the country.
21:21If possible, I want to do it.
21:24Cooking rice.
21:27It seems that there are many mothers who are having a hard time thinking about the menu.
21:31If there is a recipe for cooking or WADAMAMA,
21:34I will make it.
21:36It's more delicious than seasoning.
21:40I have no idea.
21:44WADAMAMA anniversary.
21:46If there is a recipe for cooking, I will make it.
21:49I want to know how to make it.
21:54I often make sauce for a week and arrange it.
22:01Doesn't that get tired?
22:03It's the same taste every day.
22:05It's less seasoned, but it's helpful.
22:10I use seaweed and bonito flakes.
22:14How do you use bonito flakes?
22:16You can add seaweed to boiled broccoli and add olive oil.
22:21You can also add cheese.
22:23You can also add seaweed to tomatoes.
22:25You can also add sesame oil and salt.
22:28Seaweed is good.
22:29Seaweed is more delicious than bad seasoning.
22:33It will be delicious and fragrant at once.
22:35It will be fragrant with the oil you use.
22:40Bonito flakes are the same.
22:42Bonito flakes can be put in a plate.
22:46You can also put it in a salad.
22:49You can also add ponzu and olive oil.
22:52You can also use seaweed and bonito flakes.
22:57There is no idea to put bonito flakes in a plate.
23:00It's okay to put it in a plate.
23:02It's okay.
23:03It looks delicious.
23:04Next.
23:07I visited my mother and went to IN THE WORLD.
23:10I flew from Japan for 14 hours.
23:14France is about 9700 kilometers away.
23:18The rate of women's employment is more than 90%.
23:22The birth rate is the highest in the EU.
23:25Why is this possible?
23:28I visited the director of TAKEDA in his 30s.
23:36First, I went to the city to find out how women think about housework.
23:42Parisian women are fashionable.
23:47Being a mother is important.
23:50Being a woman is the most important.
23:53In France, housework is considered to be a job.
23:59Basically, housework is not free.
24:05When I got divorced, I was asked how much I did housework.
24:10It is common for children to feel responsible from an early age.
24:15In other words, it's independent.
24:18I was asked a lot about independence and individuality.
24:23It's cool.
24:26To find out more about my mother's situation,
24:30I went to a French-style house for over 100 years.
24:35It's 10 kilometers from the center of Paris.
24:40In France, there are many old houses like this.
24:45My mother cooperated with me this time.
24:49Hello.
24:54This is Marina, a wife who works with her husband.
24:59This is Johnny, a husband.
25:03This is Leandro, a 11-year-old son.
25:07This is Ruben, a 9-year-old son.
25:10This is Mireille, a 6-year-old daughter.
25:15What is the room that she usually asks for?
25:20The room is clean.
25:24The whole room has been renovated and cleaned up.
25:30The living room, the couple's room, and the children's room are all clean.
25:36What is this?
25:39I think the customer cleaned up the room.
25:42The house is always like this.
25:45No, that's not true.
25:48Takeda, who is not good at cleaning up, asked the children.
25:55I like it better when it's clean.
25:59But I like it.
26:02But how do you look at the children?
26:07Mireille, clean up.
26:14In any case, the items are thrown into the invisible place.
26:18The mother of France has a habit of storage.
26:23Ruben, the second son, seems to be in the storage shelf even though he is not told.
26:30The storage is messy, but I just need to put it in a fixed place.
26:36The eldest son, Leandro, is like this.
26:41I did this bed makeup.
26:44As it gets bigger little by little, it becomes independent.
26:48That's important.
26:50It's so easy.
26:54In addition, there is nothing in Japan that is so natural that there is not much garbage in each room.
27:04Do you know what it is?
27:07I don't know at all.
27:09Shelf?
27:10What? Decorative shelf?
27:13The correct answer is ...
27:16Isn't there a trash can?
27:19If there is something you want to throw away, throw it in the trash can on the first floor.
27:24But one number is reduced.
27:28How many trash cans are there in this room?
27:32One.
27:34One.
27:37Surprisingly, one trash can is common in France.
27:43Family members have to go to the first floor to throw it away.
27:47Therefore, they live in a way that there is no garbage.
27:53They do their own business.
27:55The idea is also for making a house.
27:59There is a hole in the closet on the second floor.
28:03What is this?
28:05I put my laundry here.
28:10It's a hole to throw the laundry.
28:15That's great.
28:17It must be something unnecessary.
28:19It continues to the underground laundry room.
28:22They throw the laundry into the basket and put it in the washing machine.
28:30They do their own business.
28:34Mom can take her own time, so she can spend time with her dad.
28:42Marina is wonderful as a woman before she is a mother.
28:45After becoming a mother, she shines even more.
28:52How did you feel when you heard that?
28:54I thought I was going to die.
28:58For me, a woman I love is always the same.
29:03Johnny Papa.
29:05It's love.
29:08Even during cooking time, she is independent and respectful.
29:12I saw such a scene.
29:16On weekdays, Marina's mom cooks super easy food.
29:22I want to do it, too.
29:25I want to do it, too.
29:27Children also join in.
29:30After work, Johnny Papa also joins in.
29:33Everyone eats together.
29:35It's just pizza and carrots.
29:37Is it good?
29:38Yes.
29:40Eat the carrots, too.
29:43No.
29:45Mirenu, who has a lot of likes and dislikes, does not force her to eat.
29:51I eat soup.
29:53I don't have to force myself to eat.
29:57But isn't she worried about malnutrition?
30:01Mirenu doesn't eat carrots, so I eat fruits.
30:05Is that okay?
30:06It's okay if I have time to eat.
30:10If you don't eat it, you can eat it.
30:14That's the French way to deal with likes and dislikes.
30:19On weekdays, she cooks super easy food.
30:22On weekends, she cooks super easy food.
30:26It's time for everyone to cook.
30:28Leandro, the eldest son, is in charge of the main dish.
30:35I think it's good.
30:37The patty bought at the butcher shop is wrapped in bacon and put in a frying pan.
30:43Leandro's special burger is complete.
30:50Is it successful to wrap the patty in bacon?
30:54Bacon and meat go well with cheese.
30:59It's really good.
31:02If you learn Japanese, you can open a shop in Japan.
31:09I'm looking forward to it.
31:13Even boys can do housework.
31:16They can cook naturally while playing.
31:21Do you eat crepe?
31:23Yes.
31:26It's really good.
31:27It's good.
31:28When they finish eating, they eat their own food.
31:33But, why do they become independent children?
31:38There is a French way of raising children that can't be thought of in Japan.
31:46How do you do that?
31:47I don't know.
31:48It's a lie.
31:51What is the French way of raising children?
31:55They clean up the dishes and put the toys on the shelf.
32:00I thought they were independent.
32:04I can't believe it.
32:06I think it's important to be independent.
32:10Leandro, the eldest son, has his own room for a week after birth.
32:16A week?
32:18A week after birth?
32:19A week after birth?
32:21One week?
32:22One week.
32:25In France, it is common to let a child sleep alone for a few weeks after birth.
32:32One week is a long time.
32:34It takes a lot of courage.
32:37I'm just worried about my child.
32:43This is the French way of raising children to be independent and to cherish the time spent as a couple.
32:53When it's time for children to go to bed, they go to their own rooms.
33:01Good night.
33:02Good night.
33:03It's different.
33:04Marina's family spends three days together.
33:07Takeda also says goodbye on this day.
33:13They are fine until the next time they meet.
33:15Good night.
33:16Good night.
33:17Good night.
33:20Takeda felt that having a family was a good thing.
33:25It's like sleeping alone for a week.
33:28Everyone in Japan is frustrated.
33:31Even if they cry, they let it go.
33:33That's right.
33:34The basic idea is to make them independent.
33:38That's right.
33:39It's important.
33:40But that's also for the sake of the child.
33:42You can do a lot of things by yourself.
33:44When that boy was vacuuming, I thought it was a shocking video.
33:53Mikiti's mother has a unique way of thinking about children's independence.
33:59We raise our students.
34:03That's right.
34:04When we tell them to prepare dinner, they start preparing.
34:08They bring chopsticks, plates, and water.
34:11When they stand still, we say,
34:13Is this your first dinner?
34:17You use chopsticks, plates, and water.
34:20If you think about it, you'll understand.
34:21Your teacher is strict.
34:25We raise our students.
34:27But it's important.
34:30Wada is also strict.
34:31That's right.
34:32I think it's strict.
34:33Do you listen to your teacher?
34:37Sometimes I do.
34:38Sometimes I hide and do what I want.
34:42I think it's good to raise my own students.
34:45That's cool.
34:47How do you get angry?
34:49I get angry easily.
34:53I get angry with a loud voice.
34:56That's right.
34:57I'm like that, too.
35:01I get angry.
35:05I'm still angry.
35:08Your wife is angry.
35:13She's angry.
35:14Your child will be angry.
35:15I know.
35:16How do you get angry?
35:18I'm angry, but my child thinks I'm playing a joke.
35:24I say,
35:25Who told you to do that?
35:27I'm playing a joke.
35:28I'm playing a joke.
35:29I'm angry.
35:30I'm scared.
35:31I'm scared.
35:33How do you get angry with your child?
35:36What do you do in the world?
35:38Foreigners are serious.
35:41Do you want me to talk in front of the children?
35:43I don't care.
35:45Children talk to each other and make each other understand.
35:51If it doesn't get better, I'll think of another way to deal with it.
35:56It's called a time-out.
35:58It's time to reflect on yourself in the room.
36:01Time is a number of minutes.
36:05It is said that the longer you think, the more you reflect.
36:11You'd better think a little more.
36:14First of all, we're going to do what we want our daughter to do as a model.
36:19And we're going to talk to each other, and we're going to talk to her about it.
36:24When it comes to children's independence...
36:27I asked all the mothers in the country.
36:29I'm in third place in the number of housework I don't want to do if I can.
36:35There were many main reasons.
36:37It's a pain in the ass to fix it.
36:41What is the technique of Mikiti Mama, which is practiced by Mada Mama?
36:48It's a pain in the ass to fix it.
36:53In fact, Mada Mama has practiced what Mikiti Mama used to say.
36:58Mikiti-san said, you can wash it as it is, right?
37:01He said, you can wash it as it is, right?
37:06I thought, that's right.
37:08I thought I'd do it.
37:10My son...
37:11This is the front, and this is the back.
37:15It's twisted.
37:16I take it off.
37:17It's hard.
37:18I can't take it off when I take it off.
37:20You're going to fix it in the end.
37:22That's right. I have to fix it.
37:24I think a lot of husbands do that.
37:26So you can do that to your husband, too.
37:29As it is.
37:30As it is.
37:31If it's curled up, you can put it in your socks.
37:35You have to stretch it out.
37:37Your husband will turn it over, too.
37:39That's right.
37:40There's a T-shirt on one side and a T-shirt on the other side.
37:43The socks were so small.
37:46You can say that.
37:47You can say, do it right.
37:49I can't fix it even if I say it once.
37:51What does that mean?
37:53I can do it right.
37:55Why don't you turn it over?
37:57I think you're the one who turned it over.
37:59I'll dry it as it is.
38:01I'll leave the hanger as it is.
38:03You can fix it yourself and wear it.
38:07If you turn one of the socks over and one of them is the front, do it as it is.
38:11If this is annoying,
38:13When you take it off, put it on the front and put it in the washing basket.
38:18Next,
38:20In the world with my mother.
38:23It's about seven hours by plane from Japan.
38:26It's 4,300 kilometers away.
38:30The country of smiles, Thailand.
38:33I'm going to...
38:35Sawadee ka.
38:37I'm Pei Ton-tan, the new president of Thailand.
38:39I'm Kyun.
38:41Kintaro, the mother of the rainbow.
38:45I'm going to get my mother's love.
38:51I want to eat Kappa.
38:54Okay.
38:55Thank you very much.
38:57It's an hour's drive from the center of Bangkok.
39:01It's a night in the suburbs.
39:03It's 7 a.m.
39:04It's time for the kids to go to school.
39:08By the way, what about Kintaro's mother's morning?
39:12It's a hard morning.
39:14It's a little late to go to bed.
39:16He's a sleepyhead in the morning.
39:18His daughter's face...
39:20Good morning.
39:22Wake up in the morning.
39:24That's what he says.
39:26Preparing breakfast for his father and children.
39:28Send out.
39:29Kintaro's mother is as busy as a battlefield.
39:33What about Thai morning?
39:35Sawadee ka.
39:38You're really going to do this for me.
39:40This is my father's bird.
39:4330 minutes to school.
39:45But the child is still sleeping.
39:48His mother is waking him up.
39:50Just now.
39:52That's the right timing.
39:55This is Thai's mother, Phan.
39:59He's the one who showed his face from the futon.
40:02His only son, Phum, is 8 years old.
40:05But his eyes are completely different from mine.
40:09Take a shower as soon as you get up.
40:12Change into your uniform.
40:15He doesn't seem to be in a hurry.
40:1730 minutes after waking up.
40:19Go on your father's bike.
40:23What?
40:24There was no natural scene in the morning in Japan.
40:27Did you notice?
40:31Thai children who wake up in the morning and go to school in a few minutes.
40:36Why is that possible?
40:38I haven't had breakfast yet.
40:41I haven't had breakfast yet. Is that okay?
40:45There's a cafeteria in the school.
40:48The staff will take care of the breakfast.
40:52That's really helpful.
40:54That's great.
40:56That's the best.
41:00I want everyone to do this.
41:03In fact, in Thai elementary schools,
41:05there are many schools that prepare breakfast for lunch.
41:11And it's about 60 yen per meal.
41:14That's cheap.
41:16You can also choose what your child wants to eat.
41:20And the mother, Kintaro, who is usually concerned about social media and the eyes of others.
41:27I saw a lot of comments on blogs and social media.
41:29For example, if a Japanese mother posted that she forgot to have breakfast,
41:34many people would say,
41:37that's a terrible thing to do.
41:39It's the other side.
41:41I'll let you know.
41:44Thai people don't have much habit of making lunch, not just breakfast.
41:50So what surprised them when they saw Japanese YouTube?
41:55In Japan, we make cute lunch boxes.
42:00That's really hard.
42:02I can't do that.
42:05Like a caravan.
42:07Japanese mothers are amazing for such a sparkling caravan.
42:15However, Kintaro's mother is also amazing.
42:19That's the basic style of everyday life.
42:24The kindergarten teacher prepares lunch every day.
42:27And she puts it on the caravan.
42:29So I told her, don't put it on the caravan.
42:32I can't do that.
42:33I'm not qualified to be a mother.
42:35I hurt myself.
42:38I'm the same.
42:40Thai people don't do that.
42:42They don't like to get tired.
42:45I read social media.
42:47But I've never used it as a reference.
42:49And I don't want to use it.
42:51I don't think I can compare myself to other people.
42:55She reads social media.
42:57But she doesn't care about what other people say.
43:01She's a firm mother.
43:03She goes to work on her father's bike.
43:05See you later.
43:08The last stop is a market in the evening.
43:11It's a place where you can buy lunch.
43:14She's tired after work.
43:17What's the menu for tonight?
43:19What's this?
43:25We're here to buy a side dish.
43:27What's this?
43:29What's this?
43:31This is tofu soup.
43:34It looks like meat and potatoes.
43:36It's tofu soup.
43:38In Thailand, where street food is popular,
43:41most of the meals are take-out.
43:44There are deep-fried food, stir-fried food, fresh salad, and dessert.
43:48There are a lot of freshly made flavors.
43:50There are a lot of variations.
43:53It's delicious.
43:55This is for three people.
43:57It's about 770 yen in total.
44:00It's the best.
44:02It's easy.
44:03I'm tired from work.
44:05This is the best.
44:07I'll try it.
44:09It's good.
44:11It's good. It's not spicy.
44:14Because she doesn't have a habit of cooking,
44:17there are many otakus who don't have a kitchen in their apartment in the city.
44:21I don't think they need a kitchen.
44:24In Japan, when you buy side dishes or order take-out,
44:30you feel guilty.
44:32You feel like you're being mistreated.
44:35I'm sick.
44:39I don't think I'm disqualified because I don't cook.
44:44I just need to use what's convenient.
44:47Besides, I don't think there's anything good or bad about it.
44:53She doesn't care about what others think.
44:57My neighbors ask me on the bike,
44:59like, what are we having today? Soup? Curry?
45:02They talk to me like that.
45:05When I was in the city,
45:07I was told not to go to the gym or watch it.
45:12I remember when I was in Aichi Prefecture.
45:17Ms. Kintaro felt that she was working too hard
45:21because she cared too much about others.
45:25Thank you for letting us know that you're a fan.
45:31When I see people posting perfect things,
45:35I feel like I'm sick.
45:39She was sick.
45:41Four years ago, when we had our first child,
45:44COVID-19 started to spread.
45:47I couldn't ask my friends.
45:50So I couldn't talk to anyone.
45:53I had to search on the Internet.
45:56On the other hand,
45:58when I think about how people feel when they post pictures,
46:01they do it just for their children.
46:03No one appreciates it.
46:05Even my husband doesn't watch it.
46:08I think it's great that people say it's amazing on social media.
46:12I think that's a good thing.
46:15But Miki-T has a thick skin.
46:18She only puts potatoes on her face and says,
46:20I'm having lunch today.
46:22Now that I've seen the world,
46:25I feel like I'm working too hard as a Japanese mother.
46:31I'm sorry that I'm complaining about it.
46:36I think it's a good idea for a couple to watch this show.
46:41I think so, too.
46:43If you want to see the technique of a foreign mother again,
46:47I'll be on TVer for a month.
46:51Please watch it.
46:53How do Japanese mothers in the world view Japanese mothers?
46:58I've been to Japan as a home stay,
47:01but my mother's hard work was amazing.
47:05Japanese mothers like us should rely more on their husbands.
47:11Mothers don't spend time anyway.
47:14I'll do it efficiently.
47:16I'll spend so many time.
47:18I visited my mother and talked to 28 Japanese mothers.
47:26Thank you very much.
47:29I support all Japanese mothers and dads.