A woman says trolls call her “selfish” for being a DINK - but parents are worse for having children in world with 'climate change and police brutality '.
Amber Guttilla, 30, makes a six-figure salary on her own, before combining it with her fiance’s, Bryce, 32.
She says she wants to “decentre” her life goals from motherhood - and her life’s purpose isn’t providing for “little humans”.
After taking inspiration from one of her high school teachers, Amber uses her spare income and time to travel, furnish her home, and set her own daily routine.
She also doesn’t mind being called “selfish” for not wanting kids - and insists people could be labelled “selfish” for having children “in this day-and-age.”
Amber Guttilla, 30, makes a six-figure salary on her own, before combining it with her fiance’s, Bryce, 32.
She says she wants to “decentre” her life goals from motherhood - and her life’s purpose isn’t providing for “little humans”.
After taking inspiration from one of her high school teachers, Amber uses her spare income and time to travel, furnish her home, and set her own daily routine.
She also doesn’t mind being called “selfish” for not wanting kids - and insists people could be labelled “selfish” for having children “in this day-and-age.”
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00:00People like to talk a lot on this app about why they're not having kids, and there are some really
00:04great reasons, I'm not gonna lie. Mine is infinitely more simple. My junior year of college, I took a
00:10class which was biology for future teachers. I was not a future teacher, I was a theater major though,
00:17so I needed something really easy, and our professor, Professor Megan, told us something that
00:25has never left me. She told us and said, do you know why they call it the miracle of childbirth?
00:30To which most people said, oh it's because, you know, you get a baby out of it, and it's a little
00:34miracle. Wrong. Apparently the miracle is that you, as the mother, don't die. Yeah, so, never forgot that one.