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00:00:00So I did a little bit of research this morning about gonorrhea to see what I got to do to
00:00:12make sure that she doesn't get it.
00:00:16So it turns out I can kiss Faith and give her gonorrhea.
00:00:28So good thing we haven't done that yet.
00:00:32So after getting the text that my friend in Las Vegas has gonorrhea and the fact that
00:00:36I've been having gunk spew out of my penis, I'm like, well, this will all make sense now.
00:00:44So the person who gave me this fun little gift told me that her treatment just started
00:00:51and the doctor said seven to 10 days.
00:00:53So I assume it'll be the same for me in like a week, week and a half, we'll be hunky-dory.
00:00:59Because gonorrhea has a treatment, it's curable, and people get it all the time, like for me
00:01:04it's not a big deal.
00:01:06It's like food poisoning, but I'm a little bit nervous.
00:01:10I have told Faith that I spend the night with people, so I feel like it's kind of implied
00:01:15that we've been having sex, but we haven't had like a real clear conversation about it.
00:01:19And now I really have no choice but to be completely honest with her.
00:01:26So I'm definitely going to tell Faith, but she's got a fun day planned, so I'm not just
00:01:29going to like spring it on her very first thing.
00:01:33So I'm going to let us do some fun stuff and hopefully this gonorrhea thing doesn't ruin
00:01:38the day.
00:01:50Hello.
00:01:52Hi.
00:01:53Wow.
00:01:54Do I look good for my animal print?
00:01:56Oh yeah.
00:01:57Leopard style.
00:01:58Are you ready?
00:01:59Mm-hmm.
00:02:00For more adventures and, you know.
00:02:01In the Philippines.
00:02:02Yes.
00:02:03Let's go.
00:02:04Come on.
00:02:05When I'm around Lauren, I feel the new feelings because, you know, I've never been in love.
00:02:13I think we're getting closer and connected to each other.
00:02:19Today, I planned a fun getaway for the two of us in Wawadap.
00:02:24It's a beautiful place.
00:02:26There is fresh water, beautiful views.
00:02:29I hope today will be, you know, a romantic day and a girlfriend and boyfriend moment.
00:02:38What do you say to my makeup today?
00:02:43Yum, yum.
00:02:45Yes, you look good.
00:02:48Bathing suit?
00:02:49I don't have.
00:02:50Oh, okay.
00:02:51Naked?
00:02:52Just a t-shirt, a short.
00:02:53I'm not sexy to do that.
00:02:54Come on.
00:02:55You're not alone.
00:02:56Yeah.
00:02:57Sexiest.
00:02:58Being a ladyboy has never been easy.
00:02:59People judge and ridicule me for being different.
00:03:00Sometimes, I am insecure about my body.
00:03:01So, I'm not always comfortable wearing a swimsuit.
00:03:02I don't know.
00:03:03I don't know.
00:03:04I don't know.
00:03:05I don't know.
00:03:06I don't know.
00:03:07I don't know.
00:03:08I don't know.
00:03:09I don't know.
00:03:10I don't know.
00:03:11I don't know.
00:03:12I don't know.
00:03:13I don't know.
00:03:14I don't know.
00:03:15I don't know.
00:03:16I don't know.
00:03:17But Lauren makes me feel confident and beautiful.
00:03:22For the first time, it feels like a man really cares about me.
00:03:27But after last night with Mama Ding, I know we still have some things to discuss.
00:03:36Last night, together with Mama Ding.
00:03:39Yeah.
00:03:40You say that you're planning to stay in the Philippines.
00:03:43Yeah.
00:03:44Forever.
00:03:45Because if you're going to stay here, you must also remember I want to get to know each other.
00:03:51Then we are.
00:03:52Yeah.
00:03:53We take it slow.
00:03:54This is our first meet.
00:03:55A foreign, you know.
00:03:56Yeah.
00:03:57A foreigner.
00:03:58Mm-hmm.
00:03:59I feel sometimes, is this you?
00:04:02Is this the real you?
00:04:04So far, I do okay.
00:04:06It depends on what we are going through every single day.
00:04:09That's right.
00:04:10So, maybe in two weeks, in one week, I can say, oh, you can stay here.
00:04:14You can stay with me because, you know, I feel you.
00:04:17Right.
00:04:19I just want to understand you.
00:04:21Yeah.
00:04:22I'm invested.
00:04:23I'm ready to do it.
00:04:27So, I know she still wants time to really get to know each other.
00:04:30But I'm excited that Faith seems open to the idea of me moving to the Philippines.
00:04:35The relationship is progressing in the direction I want.
00:04:38So, now I'm getting a lot more nervous and anxious to tell her about the STD.
00:04:43All that progress could go out the window.
00:04:45Everything I came out here to accomplish could be over.
00:04:48So, I'm really worried.
00:05:13A few days ago, I married Adnan on the first day that we met.
00:05:17And tonight is the big wedding celebration.
00:05:25When you finally arrive at the wedding, how are you feeling?
00:05:30Confused.
00:05:31When you finally arrive at the wedding, how are you feeling?
00:05:36Confused.
00:05:46A typical wedding in Jordan, just a small celebration.
00:05:51But my wedding is different.
00:05:53It's huge.
00:05:54Oh, my gosh.
00:05:55So beautiful.
00:05:58My wife likes real life, like expensive things.
00:06:01So, I want to make to her like big wedding, big party.
00:06:05Everything is special.
00:06:08I ordered flowers from Thailand.
00:06:12And I'm so excited.
00:06:14I'm so excited.
00:06:15I'm so excited.
00:06:16I'm so excited.
00:06:17I'm so excited.
00:06:18I'm so excited.
00:06:19I'm so excited.
00:06:20I'm so excited.
00:06:21I'm so excited.
00:06:22I'm so excited.
00:06:23All the best food, music, DJ.
00:06:27I'm working so hard to make this day so special.
00:06:32The people with the golden mask.
00:06:35Is there any cultural meaning or cultural significance?
00:06:39This does not mean anything.
00:06:41Just I like them.
00:06:42I like the golden mask.
00:06:43It's just Adnan.
00:06:45That was so amazing.
00:06:47It's way bigger than anything that I could have ever dreamed of.
00:06:52You did so good, baby.
00:06:55I do all of these things for my wife.
00:06:58With love, I do everything.
00:07:10After we coming in the beginning with the music,
00:07:13the wedding tradition in Jordan,
00:07:15they will announce to everyone that we are husband and wife.
00:07:20And after that, the party is starting.
00:07:37Adnan told me that we need one look to first enter the party.
00:07:42And then we need to change into our second look
00:07:44so that we can present ourselves to everyone
00:07:47as a married couple for the first time.
00:07:50I don't really know if this is a Jordanian thing
00:07:54or an Adnan thing.
00:07:57Jordanian wedding, normally groom and bride,
00:08:00they have one outfit.
00:08:02If they have more than one outfit,
00:08:04it's more special.
00:08:08We're almost there.
00:08:13You are so pretty today, baby.
00:08:16She's pretty every day.
00:08:17I know.
00:08:18Baby, I'm going to take my shirt off
00:08:20since you have yours off.
00:08:21You should have got his shirt off.
00:08:24I'll take my shirt off so we're matching.
00:08:31I go swimming.
00:08:32Okay, I'll wear a bikini.
00:08:33Could she wear a bikini?
00:08:35Then put your shirt back on.
00:08:39I was trying not to get annoyed
00:08:41in the middle of our wedding celebration,
00:08:43but this is definitely a double standard.
00:08:46He's like shirtless in our changing room
00:08:49with Shay here.
00:08:51And it's okay because he's a guy,
00:08:54but it's not okay for me to be alone
00:08:58in a room with men fully clothed.
00:09:01Shouldn't his body be only for me, too?
00:09:05That's good.
00:09:06You have a shirt on now, honey.
00:09:10Okay, so now you have to get undressed.
00:09:12Okay, I have to get undressed.
00:09:14There's, like, four guys in here.
00:09:16They need to have, like, two different...
00:09:18They need to have, like, a girl and a guy.
00:09:20Yeah.
00:09:21We need a girls and a guys thing.
00:09:28Hurry, hurry, baby.
00:09:33It's already been, like, ten minutes.
00:09:35I haven't done anything.
00:09:37There are three people helping Adnan
00:09:39get into his suit.
00:09:41A suit.
00:09:42Meanwhile, I have this complicated dress.
00:09:45There are ties and a million buttons
00:09:50and clasps and hooky things.
00:09:52But Adnan's in here with his guys,
00:09:55and there are these rules that I have to adhere to.
00:10:00So I'm just waiting.
00:10:02I'm gonna go sit down.
00:10:04We're not gonna do anything.
00:10:07Is this how it is in Muslim culture
00:10:13where women are just supposed to wait
00:10:16and this is their place below the man?
00:10:19Guys, I can't change.
00:10:21It's moments like this
00:10:23that make me think
00:10:25that this is what our future
00:10:27as a married couple will look like.
00:10:30And that will definitely not fly with me.
00:10:33Can you do that?
00:10:34Can you do that out there?
00:10:36All right, have a good flight.
00:10:38Thank you, sir.
00:10:40I'm finally going to Ghana to meet Matilda.
00:10:43Don't be able to just squish her cheeks.
00:10:45Squishy, squishy, squishy, squishy.
00:10:47It's my first time being alone in the airport.
00:10:50I usually have my family here with me.
00:10:52Traveling across the world is not easy
00:10:54for someone who's neurodivergent.
00:10:57The reality's starting to set in.
00:11:00It's now in God's hands.
00:11:02Last night, I explained to Ingrid about my past.
00:11:05I did not expect her to react the way that she did.
00:11:08I'm worried that she might not recover
00:11:10from what she's learned.
00:11:12I want to spend more time with you.
00:11:16I want to be more relaxed.
00:11:18Nothing heavy.
00:11:20I want to spend more time with you.
00:11:22I want to be more relaxed.
00:11:24Nothing heavy.
00:11:26âȘâȘ
00:11:28âȘâȘ
00:11:30âȘâȘ
00:11:32âȘâȘ
00:11:34âȘâȘ
00:11:36âȘâȘ
00:11:38âȘâȘ
00:11:40âȘâȘ
00:11:42âȘâȘ
00:11:44âȘâȘ
00:11:46âȘâȘ
00:11:48Okay, one, two.
00:11:50Two bottles of soap is good.
00:11:52One, two, three.
00:11:55Three bottles of fabric softener.
00:11:57One, two, three, four.
00:11:59Laundry pods.
00:12:01Counting all of my items,
00:12:03taking inventory,
00:12:05it helps me feel like I'm in control,
00:12:07which is really important,
00:12:09because after two years of talking
00:12:11on social media,
00:12:13I'm finally going to Ghana
00:12:15to meet Matilda for the very first time.
00:12:17Shampoo, conditioner.
00:12:19Please be in there.
00:12:21Okay, got my toothbrush.
00:12:23Traveling across the world,
00:12:25it's not easy for someone who's neurodivergent.
00:12:27It's overwhelming for me.
00:12:29Okay, one,
00:12:31two,
00:12:33three. Okay.
00:12:35But it'll all be
00:12:37worth it because I'm finally going
00:12:39to be able to talk to Matilda in person.
00:12:41Gonna be able to just squish her cheeks.
00:12:43Squishy, squishy, squishy,
00:12:45squishy, squishy, except there'll actually be
00:12:47a face in my hands.
00:12:49This is for her.
00:12:51It's a little, it's a gift for her.
00:12:53It's a necklace.
00:12:55It's not much, but it's what I can do right this instant.
00:12:57Did you get her a ring at all?
00:12:59No.
00:13:03And I am gonna need to sit down and talk to her
00:13:05about this.
00:13:07I haven't been as straightforward
00:13:09with Matilda as I need to be
00:13:11about the wedding that she's already planning.
00:13:13The truth
00:13:15is I would really like
00:13:17to get to know her better and to see
00:13:19if Matilda understands just what it's
00:13:21truly like to live with someone
00:13:23who has autism.
00:13:25Alright.
00:13:27And also, I really want
00:13:29my family to be there when
00:13:31we get married.
00:13:33Right now,
00:13:35they don't support my relationship
00:13:37with Matilda.
00:13:41My family is most concerned
00:13:43about me being taken advantage
00:13:45of, me being
00:13:47talked into something that
00:13:49I may not be able to get myself out of.
00:13:51And if I came back home
00:13:53a married man,
00:13:55they would probably have a hard
00:13:57time accepting that.
00:13:59I do
00:14:01feel like
00:14:03there comes a point where you have to
00:14:05let the love take a backseat and say,
00:14:07okay, well, I'm gonna respect him
00:14:09as an adult. I'm going to trust that he
00:14:11can make good decisions.
00:14:14Does it hurt you that they're not fully
00:14:16on board?
00:14:22A lot.
00:14:24What do you think?
00:14:38It
00:14:40really does hurt.
00:14:42I would have liked for them to have been
00:14:44here with me, to have
00:14:46supported me in this.
00:14:48I really would have.
00:14:53I couldn't bear to tell Matilda
00:14:55that my parents didn't
00:14:57really support this
00:14:59relationship.
00:15:01That's another thing I'm gonna have to break to her.
00:15:05I hate holding back the truth from Matilda,
00:15:07but I really just
00:15:09don't want to hurt her.
00:15:12I'm
00:15:14all over the place right now,
00:15:16to be honest with you.
00:15:18There's so many feelings,
00:15:20excitement,
00:15:22fear.
00:15:30Have a good flight.
00:15:32Thank you, sir.
00:15:36How are you doing today, sir?
00:15:38Great. How about yourself?
00:15:40I'm doing all right, as well as I can be.
00:15:42Accra, Ghana, is your final
00:15:44destination? That's it.
00:15:46Long day ahead of you.
00:15:50I imagine.
00:15:54The reality's starting to set in.
00:15:56I mean, I'm here. There's no turning
00:15:58back. It's now in God's hands.
00:16:02It's my first time
00:16:04being alone in the airport. I usually have
00:16:06my family here with me.
00:16:08But time for me to start, you know,
00:16:10pursuing my destiny,
00:16:12whatever that is.
00:16:14I have so many
00:16:16thoughts buzzing around in my head right now.
00:16:18What is she gonna think of me?
00:16:20What is she gonna think about my mannerisms?
00:16:22Am I gonna smell funny?
00:16:24And, of course,
00:16:26how am I going to tell
00:16:28Matilda straight out that there
00:16:30is no wedding on this trip?
00:16:32It is difficult
00:16:34because I never thought love
00:16:36was something that could happen to me.
00:16:38And here I am
00:16:40about to go across the pond
00:16:42to meet somebody who could love me,
00:16:44who could give me that love and compassion
00:16:46that I've been seeking my whole life.
00:16:50I don't want to ruin it.
00:16:54Well, here it goes.
00:16:58Boarding the plane.
00:17:02Here I come, Matilda.
00:17:06This is the day
00:17:08when Matilda
00:17:10would take me
00:17:12away from here
00:17:14and fly me there.
00:17:18I had never seen
00:17:20a landscape
00:17:22so complete
00:17:24at sea
00:17:26or at land,
00:17:28but now
00:17:30I finally
00:17:32got to experience
00:17:34it.
00:17:36I've been in Brazil for two days and it's our first day in Ingrid's hometown of Guarupi.
00:17:52Last night I had explained to Ingrid about my past.
00:17:55I felt judged right away when I started to tell my story.
00:18:04At the end of the night, things were very tense.
00:18:07We slept in the same bed, but very cold.
00:18:10We both gave our backs and just turned around and went to sleep.
00:18:14I did not expect her to react the way that she did.
00:18:16It shows a lack of compassion and it makes me look at her in a different way.
00:18:23That's not a good feeling.
00:18:24The plan for today was for Ingrid to go home to spend some time with her son, but we really
00:18:51need to talk and put everything on the table.
00:18:57We have a very strong connection.
00:18:59I feel it.
00:19:00It's just, I'm worried that she might not recover from what she's learned.
00:19:03It's a miracle that the car is working, it's a miracle that there's rubber on the tire.
00:19:10God bless.
00:19:11It's going to melt everything.
00:19:12Are you hungry?
00:19:13Yes.
00:19:14There's a nice place over there.
00:19:15Yesterday I discovered a lot of things about Brian.
00:19:16He was a drug dealer, he lied about his age, that his wife set up a trap to steal his
00:19:32car.
00:19:33Can you do it?
00:19:34Yes.
00:19:35I want to believe in Brian, that he has good parts beyond his past, but I don't know how
00:19:44to move forward.
00:19:45He wants an açaà with granola and banana.
00:19:46I'll get this one.
00:19:47The sundae.
00:19:48Perfect.
00:19:49How much is it?
00:19:50How much is ready for you?
00:19:51Okay.
00:19:52Okay.
00:19:53Okay.
00:19:54Okay.
00:19:56Let's go.
00:19:57It's okay.
00:19:58It's on the table, okay?
00:19:59You're hungry.
00:20:00Stay there a little bit.
00:20:01It's warm.
00:20:02How are you?
00:20:03Are you feeling okay?
00:20:04Okay.
00:20:05I'm okay.
00:20:06There's a lot of things to be processed in such a short time.
00:20:07I don't want to stay for too long.
00:20:08Should I install the camera?
00:20:09Yes.
00:20:10Here we go.
00:20:11Okay.
00:20:13It's done.
00:20:14Okay.
00:20:15Okay.
00:20:16It feels great.
00:20:17It's done.
00:20:18Let's go then.
00:20:19It's cold.
00:20:20It just feels really good.
00:20:21So many things to be processed in such a short period of time.
00:20:27Ah, it's here.
00:20:31Yes, yes, thank you.
00:20:32Here.
00:20:34I saw the car and I said something heavy.
00:20:37And I felt like you were judging me.
00:20:39Like, for me it was like saying,
00:20:41ah, you're not selling drugs today,
00:20:43sell it because you don't drive.
00:20:48Stop.
00:20:49You hurt me.
00:20:58You hurt me, I'm sorry.
00:21:01But I still don't know if you're feeling that I've spent my life not wanting this anymore.
00:21:10I need you to understand.
00:21:12I'm never going back to selling drugs.
00:21:14I'm never going back to selling drugs.
00:21:18Ah, because of what you explained?
00:21:22That's what I wanted to say, that I knew it was...
00:21:25I know it's a lot, I know.
00:21:26I'm not, how do you say it, blind to it.
00:21:31OK.
00:21:36I want to spend more time with you.
00:21:38And maybe I'll meet your son, talk to you more.
00:21:43It's easier, nothing heavy.
00:21:52I need more time.
00:21:57To process it, go home, think about it.
00:22:01Stopping.
00:22:11We always talked about how important it is for me to get to know her kids.
00:22:15So, I'm a little disappointed in the fact that I won't be meeting her son right away.
00:22:21It feels like she's taking a step back and it's not a good sign.
00:22:26Don't.
00:22:27Don't.
00:22:28Don't.
00:22:31I realize that Brian is being truthful, but I'm very confused.
00:22:38I have to think more before introducing someone I'm going to tell my kids, who are my partners.
00:22:46I think it is.
00:22:47It's my house.
00:22:50I was waiting for Brian's apologies, to hide his past, but he didn't try to explain himself.
00:22:58You're welcome.
00:22:59At this point, I don't know if we can put our past behind us
00:23:05and we can move forward with this relationship.
00:23:15I can remember vividly how we talked so much about sex
00:23:19and I remember that I made you so many assurances.
00:23:24I came all the way over here to feel the love from Chitty.
00:23:27And I feel hurt and betrayed that Chitty's misguided by his faith.
00:23:31Looking back, are you ashamed of even flirting with me and loving me in that way?
00:23:38It's my dream to marry someone just like you.
00:23:40So sweet.
00:23:41Things are finally starting to get romantic, but now I have to tell her this terrible news.
00:23:46So, we can't kiss.
00:23:48Hmm?
00:23:49I have gonorrhea.
00:23:58Yeah!
00:24:11Do you have this kind of places in New Mexico?
00:24:15In certain areas, but these trees are different, obviously.
00:24:18That's nice.
00:24:20Your beauty, such words, the whole atmosphere, it gives me life.
00:24:25Okay.
00:24:28What's the problem?
00:24:30Nothing.
00:24:32Finally, yesterday I revealed my vow of celibacy to Renee.
00:24:37And since then, she seems a little distant.
00:24:40Here's a bigger spit.
00:24:41Okay, thank you.
00:24:43Knowing Renee's temperament, I am thankful that she's still speaking with me.
00:24:49But it hurts me greatly to see that something I said hurts someone I love so much.
00:24:55Oh, it's a pretty pond.
00:24:56It's here on your right.
00:24:59Oh, there's fishies down there.
00:25:02Big ones or small?
00:25:04No, there's like goldfish, but they're like that big.
00:25:07Like, they're not big, big.
00:25:11So, how am I doing guiding you?
00:25:14How you guide me?
00:25:16It's awesome.
00:25:18It's awesome.
00:25:22Do you think these fishies can survive without the water?
00:25:26No.
00:25:28You said no?
00:25:29Nope.
00:25:30You know what?
00:25:32That would be my life without you around me.
00:25:38I love you so much.
00:25:44I've been thinking about our conversation at the market a lot.
00:25:47And I feel hurt and betrayed that Chitty's changed his mind about premarital sex.
00:25:51But despite how misguided Chitty is by his faith, I still love him.
00:25:56I can't help it.
00:26:00You know, that was really, really sweet words you just said.
00:26:04You surprised me a lot.
00:26:08I must say, I didn't mean to get a little angry at the market.
00:26:13It just shocked me because all I wanted was the, like, love and cuddle on each other and actual just love and connection.
00:26:20You know what I mean?
00:26:21Like, I wasn't looking for just sex.
00:26:24I wanted, like, the physical attention and just to be alone with you and go for walks and hang out.
00:26:29And that's all I wanted.
00:26:34Of course, I would have wanted more, but...
00:26:38But I respect your decisions.
00:26:43But I'll be waiting.
00:26:47Wow.
00:26:52I appreciate your profound understanding.
00:26:59I am surprised that Renee apologized for getting angry at the market.
00:27:04In fact, we've had some fights and this is the first time for the five years Renee ever apologized to me.
00:27:12For anything.
00:27:31Meeting me at that point, looking back that far now, are you ashamed of even flirting with me and loving me in that way?
00:27:37Are you ashamed of it now?
00:27:43Who I was at that time, but we are all human beings and we are going to change.
00:27:50But, you know, I love you and will forever love you.
00:27:53And I want to do it with you, but I just want to do it at the right time.
00:27:59And which I believe is not fair.
00:28:04I understand where you're coming from, but I really honestly would like affection.
00:28:10That's all I'm asking.
00:28:13Here, I promise to be more affectionate.
00:28:19So you can count on me. Right?
00:28:22Yes.
00:28:27I'm not a sex-crazed person. I didn't come all the way over here just for that.
00:28:31I came all the way over here to feel the love from Chitty specifically, so...
00:28:35Him telling me that he's going to start touching me more and rubbing, like cuddling, that's all I want.
00:28:43Now come to me.
00:28:47Don't throw me over.
00:28:56Oh my God. I think we're near. I'm so excited.
00:29:00I know. Beautiful landscape, beautiful girl. Perfect day.
00:29:12Let's go.
00:29:22Finally. Thank you, Lord. We're here.
00:29:36Looking good, right?
00:29:37Yes.
00:29:38Go down right here?
00:29:39Super nice.
00:29:40Yeah.
00:29:43Let's go. I'm so excited. Oh, be careful.
00:29:48I'm excited Faith organized this trip today. The Wawa Dam is beautiful.
00:29:52We can go down there, touch the water.
00:29:56We're only 35 kilometers from Manila, but this countryside is exactly what I imagined the Philippines to be.
00:30:03Take me a bit further. Just like a mermaid.
00:30:07Get those feet together, right? Mermaids don't have feet.
00:30:12It's really good that Faith has totally just opened up, and I'm so happy she finally seems so at ease around me.
00:30:17I really hope we keep building our chemistry today before having a fun conversation about STDs and monogamy.
00:30:27Do you want to swim?
00:30:28Yeah, we're going to swim. That's why we're here, right? Water.
00:30:31Yeah.
00:30:32I really love swimming. It's so nice. It's so cold.
00:30:36Are you ready?
00:30:37I'm ready.
00:30:39Yeah. Let's go. You have a big muscle.
00:30:44Sexy.
00:30:54Let's go now.
00:31:03So nice.
00:31:06It's very nice to be swimming together with Lauren, because being in the water gives me confidence as a woman.
00:31:15My hair is flowing. I'm graceful. I'm glad Lauren can see me like this.
00:31:21I know Lauren's not perfect, but his recent honesty about his finances and plans show me he is serious about our relationship.
00:31:31And I dream about having a connection with him forever.
00:31:36You know what?
00:31:37What?
00:31:38The famous mermaid in the Philippines is Jezebel.
00:31:41Jezebel?
00:31:42Jezebel. She's cute, beautiful, sexy.
00:31:47Even before I met you, I said I loved you.
00:31:49Right. You know, you're beautiful. You're from the Philippines.
00:31:52Yes.
00:31:53Hardworking, right? And you're serious, yeah, I think, about us.
00:32:00You're a ladyboy.
00:32:02My dream?
00:32:04Dreaming.
00:32:05It's my dream to marry someone just like you.
00:32:07Yeah.
00:32:08And I want to marry someone just like you.
00:32:11My dream?
00:32:13Dreaming.
00:32:14It's my dream to marry someone just like you.
00:32:18She's so sweet.
00:32:21We just had this amazing time together. Things are finally starting to get romantic.
00:32:25But now I have to tell her this terrible news.
00:32:29I can't put this off any longer, and she deserves to know the truth.
00:32:34Time to go.
00:32:35No.
00:32:37Did you really enjoy it?
00:32:38I really enjoyed it.
00:32:41So, yeah.
00:32:44Feel like kissing energy?
00:32:49So we can't kiss.
00:32:52We can't kiss.
00:32:53Why can't you kiss?
00:32:59Well, I have gonorrhea.
00:33:02Well, I have gonorrhea.
00:33:06Gonorrhea?
00:33:07It's a sexually transmitted disease.
00:33:17I have gonorrhea.
00:33:21Gonorrhea?
00:33:22It's a sexually transmitted disease.
00:33:25Are you serious?
00:33:26Yeah.
00:33:32When did you get this kind of, you know, disease?
00:33:37Remember I sent you the picture on Halloween of the girl from Thailand?
00:33:41Oh, I thought you were talking and helping her.
00:33:43I did.
00:33:44So she spent the night.
00:33:45With you?
00:33:46Yeah.
00:33:47Did you have sex together?
00:33:50Yeah.
00:33:53I never expected for that.
00:33:56So what did they say to you?
00:33:59They said, I have gonorrhea.
00:34:01And that means maybe you have it too.
00:34:03So you need to get checked before I give to somebody.
00:34:05And I said, oh my gosh.
00:34:08I'm so shocked.
00:34:10We are dating for how many months?
00:34:12Online.
00:34:13Yes, online.
00:34:14Well, I haven't met you yet.
00:34:15It don't count as cheating until I meet you, right?
00:34:17Yeah.
00:34:18It's still cheating.
00:34:19You think so?
00:34:20Because we are talking about you go here to meet.
00:34:23In that part, it's cheating.
00:34:25You think so?
00:34:26Yeah, I know.
00:34:27It's cheating.
00:34:30Six months of chatting together with Lauren,
00:34:33I thought that, you know,
00:34:35he is so faithful on me and our relationship.
00:34:39I know that he sleep at other houses,
00:34:42but he never told me that I'm sex with the other girls.
00:34:45And I was never suspicious because I trusted him.
00:34:49That really hurts.
00:34:53It just makes me shocked.
00:34:55I know.
00:34:56But it's treatable.
00:34:57You get one shot, it's over.
00:35:03So back to Manila?
00:35:05Yeah.
00:35:09For me, it was just meaningless sex.
00:35:11But I don't think Faith fully understood
00:35:13that I was sleeping with other people.
00:35:15So I do kind of feel guilty about what I did.
00:35:19My hand is super shaky.
00:35:21And my heartbeat goes faster because he lied on me.
00:35:28I don't know how to move forward in this news.
00:35:31And I feel that I don't know him.
00:35:34I feel betrayed.
00:35:49Okay, long trip back.
00:35:51Nice and awkward.
00:36:04Do I have everything?
00:36:05Probably *** not.
00:36:06I really just got to sort all this ***
00:36:08and then I'll feel better.
00:36:09I mean, I did bring some crackers.
00:36:12There's so much *** that's just disorganized.
00:36:15I'm really freaking overwhelmed.
00:36:17A lot of things are going through my head and my heart right now.
00:36:22I don't know what it's going to be like
00:36:24to touch and hold Sonny for the first time.
00:36:26And I have mixed feelings about leaving the country.
00:36:29I don't know if I'm going to be able to do it.
00:36:32I don't know if I'm going to be able to do it.
00:36:34I don't know if I'm going to be able to do it.
00:36:36I don't know if I'm going to be able to do it.
00:36:38And I have mixed feelings about leaving the country
00:36:41because I'm just really unprepared
00:36:43for a lot of things to be different.
00:36:46And so I guess the change is kind of making me a little nervous.
00:36:51And then the long flight.
00:37:09Tell me what's going through your head right now.
00:37:14I have to fly for several hours,
00:37:17and I didn't really sleep,
00:37:20so I just feel like I'm an emotional wreck.
00:37:23Maybe it's the nerves or the anxieties, you know,
00:37:26every time I travel,
00:37:27but this is not how I want to meet him for the first time.
00:37:31I have two full days of traveling internationally to South Africa
00:37:34before I can be with Sonny.
00:37:37He's worth it, but this is a lot for me.
00:37:40Cab for Vea?
00:37:42This is exactly why I'm glad I'm not doing it by myself.
00:37:54My ex-boyfriend Rory is traveling with me,
00:37:57but I haven't told Sonny
00:37:59because he gets very jealous at times.
00:38:02He's not super happy about me being friends with my ex,
00:38:05and it's definitely caused fights between us.
00:38:08As crazy as this sounds,
00:38:09if I didn't have Rory going with me,
00:38:10I wouldn't be brave enough to get on the plane.
00:38:13I'm comfortable with Rory. Rory knows me.
00:38:15And so I'm hoping that when I get there
00:38:17and I explain that to Sonny,
00:38:19he'll be understanding.
00:38:20Ready to go to the airport?
00:38:21Yeah, I was just about to say that.
00:38:23Jinx.
00:38:24Yeah, Jinx, you owe me a Coke.
00:38:28Do you have everything packed?
00:38:29I think so. I hope so.
00:38:32Do you know what we're doing when we land in South Africa?
00:38:35What's our game plan? What's going on?
00:38:38I was thinking that you could go to your hotel.
00:38:40Yeah.
00:38:41And that I could...
00:38:42Sonny's going to pick me up, and I could go with Sonny.
00:38:45And then I was thinking I would tell him then
00:38:48about you being there.
00:38:51I want you guys to meet in the first couple days,
00:38:53but I don't... I don't know.
00:38:56I'm just nervous. I'm scared.
00:38:58I don't want him to flip the... out and break up with me.
00:39:01He's going to have to control himself.
00:39:03I'm just here to make sure you're safe and comfortable.
00:39:06So if he's got an issue,
00:39:08he's going to have to just... get over it.
00:39:10Like, I don't want him to say something stupid to you,
00:39:13because at that point, I'm going to have to step in.
00:39:16I'm not going to put up with him being disrespectful.
00:39:22I don't know, talking about it's making me anxious again.
00:39:26Like, I'm literally going there in hopes that he's going to propose.
00:39:31And I don't want this to be a setback of him not proposing to me.
00:39:35You really hope he's...
00:39:36You really think he's going to propose to you?
00:39:39I don't know. He said something about that.
00:39:42Don't you think that's kind of soon?
00:39:45No, because we've been on video chat for the past year.
00:39:48That ain't... though. That's video chat.
00:39:52I'm all about making dumb decisions,
00:39:54but God damn, that's one of them.
00:39:58Three weeks of knowing somebody in person, that's way too soon.
00:40:02My biggest concern, based off what I've heard in the past from his behavior,
00:40:06is how he's going to treat her.
00:40:09I think it's important, if I meet him, just to get a feel for him,
00:40:13and if I think he's a scumbag, then he'll hear about it.
00:40:20There's the airport, and there's a plane taking off.
00:40:24This is crazy.
00:40:27Is there food in my teeth?
00:40:29No, you're good.
00:40:32This is it. Here we go.
00:40:34Lead the way. Follow me.
00:40:36What the f*** did I get myself into?
00:40:39Alright, hey.
00:40:41Oh, is... you have your passport and stuff, Bridget?
00:40:44Make sure you can access it at all times.
00:40:52You need to sign your passport.
00:40:54You didn't sign your passport, Bridget.
00:40:56Oh my God.
00:40:58You rookie.
00:40:59Where do I sign?
00:41:00You sign right there.
00:41:02Yeah, sorry about that.
00:41:05That's such a rookie mistake, man.
00:41:07That was so embarrassing.
00:41:08You are such a... such a nerd.
00:41:14Are you ready?
00:41:15I am as ready as I'll ever be.
00:41:18We...
00:41:21Yeah, we better run.
00:41:25Run like the wind.
00:41:27Now that I'm getting closer to meeting Sonny for the first time, it's really getting real.
00:41:31Like, I'm like, oh wow, this is going to happen.
00:41:35We're a little bit about to step onto the airplane.
00:41:41Oh wow, this plane is like bigger than usual planes I've been on.
00:41:45Wow.
00:41:46This is where we're at.
00:41:48Oh, and we found our seats.
00:41:51I'm excited just for all our first moments together.
00:41:53Like, the first time we kiss, the first time we hold hands, the first time we hug,
00:41:57the first time we get to sleep in the same bed together.
00:41:59Wow.
00:42:01This is nice.
00:42:03But at the same time, there's so much going through my mind.
00:42:06I'm on the plane, and I still haven't told Sonny that Rory's here with me.
00:42:10Like, holy freaking crap, am I making the right decision?
00:42:13Like, what if Rory and Sonny just end up fighting and don't get along?
00:42:17I'm scared that this is going to be messy as f***.
00:42:38You believe that I was brought here by God himself as a miracle,
00:42:42because your blindness is just not a normal occurrence.
00:42:46What?
00:42:47Like, the whole thing is spiritually connected, because if you could see, I wouldn't be here.
00:42:53I love her deeply, but Renee lives in alternate reality,
00:42:57and conversations like this gives me a great deal of worry and concern.
00:43:11Oh.
00:43:35After our walk in the park yesterday, I think Chitty is really trying to be more affectionate towards me.
00:43:39I think he's trying.
00:43:42Entrance is over here.
00:43:44Yay, we get to see monkeys.
00:43:47Today, Chitty brought me to a beautiful nature conservatory,
00:43:50and it's so perfect because he knows how much I love to be around animals.
00:43:54Okay, I'm going to turn here as a step.
00:43:56This is what I flew all the way to Nigeria for,
00:43:58to spend all these moments with Chitty and to always have him to myself.
00:44:02Like, that's all I want is 24 hours a day to never leave his sight again.
00:44:05Ooh, it's a pretty walkway.
00:44:09There's, like, a swamp.
00:44:11Everywhere you turn is green.
00:44:13Wow.
00:44:15Oh, it's so pretty.
00:44:19Like, what do you see now? Can you, like, see any light at all?
00:44:22Like, what do you see?
00:44:24Well, um, everywhere is blurry.
00:44:28Is it gray or black?
00:44:30Gray.
00:44:31Gray.
00:44:32And sometimes I feel sparks of different colors.
00:44:38But I can still sense the beauty of the place.
00:44:41Hearing these trees clap and the sound of the birds and the water floating.
00:44:50I mean, it's awesome.
00:44:57I feel bad for Chitty,
00:44:58I feel bad for Chitty,
00:44:59especially knowing that he got to see the beauty and then it was taken.
00:45:03Broken board coming up.
00:45:05Step over there.
00:45:08That would definitely be hard,
00:45:09knowing that you're missing out on so much.
00:45:14Oh, a monkey.
00:45:16Oh, there's a monkey there?
00:45:17There's a monkey.
00:45:20Yes.
00:45:22He's right here.
00:45:24Hey, buh-bye.
00:45:26Look at a monkey.
00:45:27Say hi.
00:45:29Wow.
00:45:30How does he look like?
00:45:31Oh, he has tiny, tiny little eyes and a cute little mouth.
00:45:34He's a little fatty.
00:45:36Okay, I almost had a stroke.
00:45:39Wow.
00:45:40I wish we had come with a banana.
00:45:43I've been waiting my whole life to touch a monkey.
00:45:45Really?
00:45:46My entire life, as far back as I could think.
00:45:48Wow.
00:45:49I love him.
00:45:53Look, look, look.
00:45:54We're at the top now.
00:45:55At the top?
00:45:56Yeah.
00:45:57So it's so far.
00:45:58It's really high.
00:45:59Yeah, it's high.
00:46:01Like, the water's under this one.
00:46:03Is it the same?
00:46:04Water's under the lower one.
00:46:05Yeah, it's just right now.
00:46:06You're, like, above some of the trees,
00:46:08and then the other trees are still, like, way surpassing us.
00:46:10Okay, wow.
00:46:11I wish you could see it.
00:46:13Yeah.
00:46:15You mentioned the apple hitting you on the forehead.
00:46:18But I'd like to know exactly, like, how you went blind.
00:46:22Like, what happened?
00:46:24Um, I had a cousin.
00:46:26They have this apple tree.
00:46:29He climbed the tree.
00:46:32I was on ground, catching it.
00:46:34All of a sudden, a worm just fell off from and hit me.
00:46:39On this right eye.
00:46:43The pain was so excruciating.
00:46:45But that night, the pain subsided.
00:46:48Everything became normal until a year later.
00:46:51I began struggling to see.
00:46:54The doctor, they told me I had a white coma.
00:46:57It's a kind of eye disease that is caused as a result of pressure in the eyes.
00:47:05I don't know if the root cause of the coma was the apple
00:47:08or something that came naturally.
00:47:11But they told me that even if they operate on it,
00:47:14that it won't get better.
00:47:21Then, because of the impairment on the right eye,
00:47:25I fell, hit these left eyes on a wooden bench.
00:47:32And I was taken to the hospital, and they just couldn't help.
00:47:36I couldn't see what they came.
00:47:41Sorry.
00:47:43If I could pay for some surgery to help you see again,
00:47:46I would do everything for you just so that you could live your life again.
00:47:49Aw, thanks so much for being the light.
00:47:54But you know the whole thing about being blind.
00:47:56Like, do you believe that you became blind spiritually?
00:48:02What?
00:48:03Like, the whole thing is spiritually connected,
00:48:05because if you could see, I wouldn't be here.
00:48:12When I met Chitty, after he told me he was blind,
00:48:15I felt kind of relieved, like,
00:48:16oh my God, I don't have to be so self-conscious anymore.
00:48:19It allowed me to feel closer to him than anybody I had ever been with.
00:48:24It's crazy how it happened with him losing his eyesight on two different incidents.
00:48:27I definitely don't think that's no coincidence.
00:48:30I think something spiritual happened to him that made him lose his sight
00:48:33so that we could come together.
00:48:35It's just adding up to, like, the perfect thing.
00:48:38Do you believe that I was brought here by God himself as a miracle?
00:48:41Because your blindness is just not a normal occurrence.
00:48:45I mean, we've all been smacked in the face countless times.
00:48:54Well, of course.
00:48:57I believe.
00:49:00Honestly speaking, Renee's interest in my condition
00:49:04is one of the things that makes me love her the most.
00:49:08But she says bizarre and weird things,
00:49:11like that my blindness is for a purpose,
00:49:14which is outlandish and kind of insulting.
00:49:20Sometimes it seems like she lives in alternate reality.
00:49:24And conversations like this gives me a great deal of worry
00:49:28on how such a person could, you know, guide me through the future and through life.
00:49:34I know that Ingrid asked for space,
00:49:36but I need to stop by and let her know that I care about her.
00:49:47This could have been a really bad idea.
00:49:51Are you finished?
00:49:52We are so late.
00:49:53I'm sorry.
00:49:54I'm sorry.
00:49:55I'm sorry.
00:49:56I'm sorry.
00:49:57I'm sorry.
00:49:58I'm sorry.
00:49:59I'm sorry.
00:50:00I'm sorry.
00:50:01Are you finished?
00:50:02We are so late.
00:50:03We should be going.
00:50:04Baby, I couldn't start until you were done.
00:50:07She should have gotten dressed first before you.
00:50:10Babe, I am stressed because it's not OK to keep 200 people waiting.
00:50:17Go away!
00:50:18Oh la la!
00:50:31Oh la la!
00:50:53This morning, I dropped Ingrid at home so she can be with her son,
00:50:57but it feels really weird being apart from Ingrid
00:51:00because I really don't know what she's thinking.
00:51:14I know that Ingrid asked for space,
00:51:16but I need to stop by and let her know that I care about her.
00:51:19I want to make this work.
00:51:30I want to make this work.
00:51:46Hi.
00:51:47Hi.
00:51:48Good evening.
00:51:49How are you?
00:51:50Can you open the gate for me?
00:51:57Are you in front of the house?
00:51:59Yes, I'm in front of the house.
00:52:04I'm a little nervous because I know that I'm taking a chance
00:52:07showing up at her place.
00:52:16This could have been a really bad idea.
00:52:35Help me here.
00:52:36With what?
00:52:37This is important.
00:52:38Is it important?
00:52:39Yes.
00:52:40Oh my God.
00:52:41This is for you.
00:52:45I love you, Rosa.
00:52:46I love you, Rosa.
00:52:53I have something for your son.
00:52:55Do you accept it?
00:53:00Yes, I do.
00:53:02You can come in.
00:53:05Can you help me?
00:53:08I loved the flowers.
00:53:09I love roses.
00:53:12But I was really moved that he brought a gift for my sons.
00:53:16It was nice.
00:53:17It was a nice attitude.
00:53:20Do you want to go to the mine?
00:53:21Do you want me to walk you back?
00:53:22Let's go.
00:53:24I've thought about this a lot.
00:53:26And I believe in people's retention.
00:53:33I'm worried about this.
00:53:34No, don't worry.
00:53:35About this sidewalk here.
00:53:37Let's see.
00:53:39So, despite his past, I still make myself available to introduce him to Arthur.
00:53:57Let's go.
00:53:58Hold this for me.
00:53:59And we'll get in here.
00:54:01I'll pass a bit here to get some strength.
00:54:03To get some strength?
00:54:04To run.
00:54:05To run.
00:54:06Why did you choose this side?
00:54:07To run.
00:54:09You can't fall.
00:54:13Easy.
00:54:14Easy, Brian.
00:54:15Easy.
00:54:16Go, go, go.
00:54:19Go to the left side.
00:54:20No, go back.
00:54:21Go back, Brian.
00:54:22Go to the left side.
00:54:23Oh my God.
00:54:25Ingrid's house was not built with wheelchair accessibility in mind.
00:54:29If anything, it looks like it was against wheelchair accessibility.
00:54:41Hello.
00:54:55No, it's yours.
00:54:56You can keep it.
00:54:57You can keep it.
00:54:58This is Arthur.
00:54:59Come.
00:55:00Can you get in there?
00:55:01Yes.
00:55:02Yes.
00:55:03Can you get in there?
00:55:04I can.
00:55:05I can.
00:55:06Oh, calm down.
00:55:07Look.
00:55:08This is my house.
00:55:09Do you like cars?
00:55:10Do you like cars?
00:55:12Yeah?
00:55:13So, let's open this.
00:55:14Open it for him.
00:55:15Let's open it together.
00:55:16It's cool.
00:55:17I like cars a lot too.
00:55:21How beautiful, my God.
00:55:22Look at the lights.
00:55:23Look at the lights.
00:55:24Brian gave him a car.
00:55:27Let's ask Mom to help.
00:55:29Okay, I'll help.
00:55:32How beautiful, Mom.
00:55:33What do you say to Uncle?
00:55:35Thank you, Dad.
00:55:36You're welcome.
00:55:37Thank you, Uncle.
00:55:38You're welcome.
00:55:40I'm really glad I came.
00:55:41Meeting Arthur is a joy.
00:55:43He's just a perfect little boy.
00:55:45And it stays in my mind a little bit that there's a possibility that this could be it.
00:55:51This could be my family.
00:56:24Thank you for the flowers.
00:56:26Thank you for the gift from my son.
00:56:32Great.
00:56:36I think it's nice of him to be nice to my kids.
00:56:44But now I don't erase the things that Brian did, butâŠ
00:56:50Bye.
00:56:51Bye.
00:56:54I think we have a long way to go.
00:57:10Can you do that out there?
00:57:12Can you do that outside?
00:57:13This is going to take a long time.
00:57:15Okay, yeah.
00:57:17Shay and I are trying as fast as we can to get into my second wedding dress,
00:57:23but I'm waiting for Adnan to finish getting ready.
00:57:26We have everything?
00:57:27Yeah, but if I'm going to have only five minutes, then it's not enough time.
00:57:31Baby.
00:57:32Okay, baby.
00:57:33Adnan, everybody has to leave real quick.
00:57:35I need toâŠ
00:57:36Guys, get out.
00:57:38Get out.
00:57:43He's leaving.
00:57:44So now I only have five minutes, which is just pretty much impossible.
00:57:57Is this tight enough?
00:57:58Yeah, a little bit tighter.
00:58:03Go away.
00:58:05Wow, this is so gorgeous.
00:58:09I am stressed because this is such a big day.
00:58:12I know it takes a long time to get ready,
00:58:16but it's not okay to keep 200 people waiting.
00:58:21Okay, let's find my foot.
00:58:22Yeah.
00:58:23Okay, one at a time.
00:58:24Maybe.
00:58:26Are you finished?
00:58:27I need Cruz to do my veil and myâŠ
00:58:29Cruz?
00:58:30Yeah, he's coming.
00:58:31Okay.
00:58:32Wow.
00:58:33We are so late.
00:58:34We should be going.
00:58:35Baby, I couldn't start until you were done.
00:58:38Baby, you're always late.
00:58:40She should have gotten dressed first before you.
00:58:44Don't worry.
00:58:46Oh, wow.
00:58:47So pretty, baby.
00:58:51I know.
00:58:52Let my queen get ready.
00:58:56Okay?
00:58:58I'm sorry.
00:59:00It's okay.
00:59:02It's okay.
00:59:03It's okay.
00:59:05I love you, honey.
00:59:06I love you so much.
00:59:07I love you so much.
00:59:09I am stressed, but I see her and I forget everything.
00:59:14I can't believe this is my wife.
00:59:16She is so pretty and beautiful.
00:59:18I'm so lucky to have a wife like this.
00:59:21You're so beautiful, baby.
00:59:25It's okay.
00:59:26It's okay?
00:59:27Yeah.
00:59:28Even though there are some things that we need to work on,
00:59:32I know that Adnan is the love of my life.
00:59:36When the love is there,
00:59:37then there's not going to be anything that would be a deal breaker.
00:59:42Like, if I found out that Adnan was like a serial killer or something,
00:59:51as long as he didn't want to like turn me into a skin suit,
00:59:55then that would be okay.
00:59:57We would find a way to stop his serial killing because I love him.
01:00:06Are you ready to meet all of them?
01:00:09Yeah.
01:00:10To meet all the people?
01:00:11My family, my cousin, my friend?
01:00:13Yeah.
01:00:22It's like Aladdin.
01:00:24I am just speechless.
01:00:28Adnan has done everything to make this wedding celebration
01:00:32just like a fairy tale,
01:00:34and I am so proud to be Adnan's wife.
01:00:38I really feel like royalty right now.
01:00:49I feel now I am a king.
01:00:52I am a king.
01:00:53I am a king.
01:00:54I am a king.
01:00:58I feel like I'm the queen.
01:01:02I feel like I'm the queen.
01:01:03I am the queen.
01:01:05I am the queen.
01:01:06I am a king, with my queen, Tiger Lady.
01:01:14Oh, my God.
01:01:16Are you ready?
01:01:29In the Jordanian wedding,
01:01:31the man and woman, they're dancing separate.
01:01:34The man, they are, like, so jealous.
01:01:36He didn't need to be touching and to make a problem,
01:01:40so they didn't dance together.
01:01:45I'm having so much fun because everyone here is looking to me,
01:01:49singing to me, and my family calling my wedding
01:01:53Maharajan Adnani.
01:01:55Festival Adnani.
01:01:57But shouldn't it be called
01:01:59Maharajan Adnan and Tiger Lily?
01:02:02Just Adnan.
01:02:03Because they just called the man name, you know?
01:02:11So fun.
01:02:17This is the biggest, outrageous wedding I've ever been to.
01:02:20As far as them being in love, I'm seeing it now.
01:02:27Well, there's really good energy that surrounds the both of them.
01:02:31But I get a vibe where it is more about him.
01:02:36Yeah.
01:02:37If this relationship may not last,
01:02:40it's still a badass wedding.
01:02:51It's so good, baby, planning everything.
01:02:54I'm so happy to be here.
01:02:55I'm worried about the wedding.
01:02:59I think this is nothing to you.
01:03:01You did, like, better than I could have ever imagined.
01:03:04Yeah.
01:03:06All your life, I've been making you laugh so hard.
01:03:09I love you so much, man.
01:03:10I love you so much.
01:03:21It's a big airport.
01:03:23Autism really hampers me in social situations.
01:03:26I'm concerned about stepping into a new culture.
01:03:35Oh!
01:03:36People in Ghana doesn't understand autism.
01:03:39So I'm worried that it's going to be hard for him.
01:03:51White one, damn.
01:03:53White one, damn.
01:04:02It's a big airport.
01:04:03I'm on my way to meet my girlfriend, Matilda, in Ghana.
01:04:07And I don't think I've ever been so nervous,
01:04:09but I've also never been this excited either.
01:04:13The duality of man, wouldn't you say?
01:04:20Travelling in general is overwhelming for me.
01:04:22Traveling in general, we consider it to one's very own life...
01:04:26The noise, the lights, the new surroundings,
01:04:29around a lot more people than you're used to.
01:04:32Good feelings.
01:04:34In stressful moments like this, I do try to work through it.
01:04:37I do self-soothing gestures called stimming.
01:04:41Yes, there's a little more of me in there.
01:04:44Speaking to myself aloud,
01:04:46rubbing my temples, rubbing my face,
01:04:49constantly looking around, looking away.
01:04:53It soothes me, it gives me a minute to just really reorient myself.
01:05:02All right.
01:05:06Aside from my problems with travelling,
01:05:09autism really hampers me in social situations.
01:05:12So I'm concerned about stepping into a new culture
01:05:15because I barely understand the culture that I was born to.
01:05:19Don't get our... get ourselves together.
01:05:22There's going to be so many expectations,
01:05:24so many things I'm supposed to do,
01:05:27so many situations I'm going to be expected to handle.
01:05:31But it's going to be worth it to meet Matilda.
01:05:34Flight number two.
01:05:36I might think about writing a poem if I get inspired.
01:05:43Matilda, here I come.
01:05:45I just have to wait a little longer.
01:05:52MATILDA, SOUTH AFRICA
01:06:14My name is Matilda.
01:06:15I'm 23 years of age.
01:06:17I'm from Ofenso, Ghana.
01:06:20I have lived in Ofenso my whole life
01:06:23with my mum, my three sisters and two brothers.
01:06:27When I was a little girl, I wanted to be a soldier.
01:06:31We should come to Ofenso.
01:06:33We are disciplined.
01:06:36Right now, I don't have a good job,
01:06:38so I help my mum at the market.
01:06:41We sell plantain.
01:06:44OFENSO, GHANA
01:07:01To me, Ofenso is a boring place.
01:07:04They don't have clubs,
01:07:06they don't have big restaurants.
01:07:08I want to move from Ofenso to the US
01:07:10to start my future life there.
01:07:15What do you think about being an American boyfriend?
01:07:18I like it.
01:07:19I like it too.
01:07:22And that is about to happen
01:07:24because I am getting ready to marry
01:07:26my amazing American boyfriend, Niles.
01:07:31Niles is a sweet guy, very sensitive,
01:07:35and he always makes me laugh.
01:07:38We have been knowing each other for the past two years
01:07:41and I have been talking to him on the phone every day.
01:07:44He is a little bit peculiar,
01:07:46but all the same, I love him
01:07:48and I am excited to meet him in real life.
01:07:53I think my mum will fall in love with me.
01:07:56Oh, my God!
01:07:57I have never met a man like you.
01:07:58I am so happy to meet you.
01:08:00I have never met a man like you.
01:08:02You are a good man.
01:08:03You are the best man I have ever met.
01:08:06I am so happy to meet you.
01:08:09You are a good man.
01:08:10I have never met a man like you.
01:08:11I am so happy to meet you.
01:08:14What did he say?
01:08:17He said that you are a sweet guy.
01:08:19I was so surprised.
01:08:20Yes, he said that.
01:08:22He said you are a cute man.
01:08:26He said that?
01:08:27Yes, he said that.
01:08:30You have never met a man like me.
01:08:33You have never met a man like me.
01:08:35No.
01:08:37I have never met a man like you.
01:08:40I have never met a man like you.
01:08:43Oh!
01:08:46A lot of people in Ghana don't understand autism.
01:08:50And some people believe it's a curse.
01:08:53Niles told me that he is high-sensitive.
01:08:57He doesn't like noise.
01:08:58And he can become overwhelmed easily.
01:09:02So, I'm worried that when Niles comes to Ghana,
01:09:05it's going to be hard for him.
01:09:08I'm going to the market.
01:09:09Oh, I see.
01:09:11I'm going to the market.
01:09:15It's hard to make money.
01:09:19My father was a carpenter.
01:09:21But he passed away.
01:09:23Seventy, eighty, ninety, hundred.
01:09:26Since then, I helped my mom to sell the plantain.
01:09:30But right now, the market is not good.
01:09:32Sometimes, now,
01:09:35I won't get even half of the money.
01:09:37So, I'm worried for my family.
01:09:42I'm going to the market.
01:09:44Okay.
01:09:47I'm going to the market.
01:09:49Okay.
01:09:50Okay.
01:09:51Where are you going?
01:09:52I'm going to the market.
01:09:56Niles is flying to the capital city of Accra.
01:10:00And that's six hours away by bus.
01:10:03So, we are staying in Accra for a few days
01:10:06before coming back to Ofenso for our wedding.
01:10:10I'm going to the market.
01:10:13I'm going to the market.
01:10:15I'm going to the market.
01:10:17I'm going to the market.
01:10:20I'm going to the market.
01:10:23I'm going to the market.
01:10:25Before I got married,
01:10:27Niles has to pay my bride price.
01:10:30My family will give me a list.
01:10:32Like, clothes for the mom, clothes for the dad,
01:10:35suitcase,
01:10:36schnapps,
01:10:39earrings, slippers, shoes,
01:10:42and money
01:10:44to seek for permission for the girl's parents.
01:10:48Niles, what are you doing?
01:10:51I'm going to the market.
01:10:52I'm going to sell the plantain.
01:10:54Okay.
01:10:55I'm going to the market.
01:10:57I'm going to sell the plantain.
01:11:01When Niles and I are together,
01:11:04I think my life will change.
01:11:06And I am excited.
01:11:09But this wedding and everything we need to do
01:11:13in these few weeks is a lot.
01:11:16And I'm a little bit afraid
01:11:18that Niles will be overwhelmed
01:11:21because of his autism.
01:11:23I just hope that he will be able to handle this situation.
01:11:31So, how many times you did sex?
01:11:34How many times?
01:11:35I thought you're serious of me.
01:11:37But you're cheating, lying.
01:11:39I had to have known that I'm having sex the whole time.
01:11:44Because I feel like I'm being fooled.
01:11:56Why are you smiling?
01:11:58Why are you smiling?
01:12:15I can't believe what Lawrence told me.
01:12:18Having, you know, sex with others.
01:12:22And STD.
01:12:29Because I'm ready to kiss him.
01:12:34Gonorrhea, STD.
01:12:36Sexual Transmitted Disease.
01:12:38It is, yes.
01:12:40That's what we call TULO.
01:12:42And if you can get this one,
01:12:44it's having a chance to have your AIDS.
01:12:47No.
01:12:49No, no, no.
01:12:51You don't, it's not the same.
01:12:53Am I the first person you know who get gonorrhea?
01:12:57I don't have friends like that.
01:13:02The only thing that I can do for you is to pray.
01:13:06It's okay.
01:13:07This doctor gonna fix.
01:13:10Dito sa Pilipinas, kapag nagkaroon ka ng TULO,
01:13:14ang unang reaction ng tao sayo ay kadidik.
01:13:19Pangalawa, nakakahawa.
01:13:23It would be devastating and embarrassing to become infected.
01:13:30The girl who has this is how many times dead sex?
01:13:35How many times?
01:13:40I thought you're serious of me,
01:13:42but you're cheating, lying.
01:13:44No, you didn't ask if I was sleeping with people,
01:13:47but you have to know.
01:13:49You had to have known that I'm having sex the whole time.
01:13:52Because I trust you.
01:13:54I trust you so much.
01:13:56So I didn't ever know with all the people
01:13:58that you're having sex together.
01:14:00Well, I didn't think it mattered
01:14:02if I sleep with someone or not.
01:14:04But I haven't meet you yet,
01:14:06so I didn't think it was cheating.
01:14:08We're talking about for six months.
01:14:11Even we are talking just a minute,
01:14:13it's still a cheating.
01:14:24It's alarming.
01:14:31Bilang isang trans woman,
01:14:34mahira para samin na makahanap na tunay na nagmamahal.
01:14:39Kaya hindi ako nang jowa, kasi alam ko in the end,
01:14:43iiwan lang din kami, wala maki seryoso.
01:14:50Thank you, kuya.
01:14:53Kasi feeling ko talagang niluloko ako.
01:15:04You're gonna come all the way in or talk from there?
01:15:09I'm stay here. I'm tired.
01:15:13Okay.
01:15:16Actually, I want to say to you that I need some time now.
01:15:21Whatever you want.
01:15:23Okay.
01:15:24Okay?
01:15:26Okay.
01:15:28Okay.
01:15:30Okay.
01:15:31Okay?
01:15:33I'm shocked.
01:15:35I know.
01:15:36So let me think of it, okay?
01:15:39Mm-hmm.
01:15:52I really messed up.
01:15:56We're probably breaking up.
01:16:02I feel bad that Faith is so hurt.
01:16:04And, you know, I'm realizing that I should have been clear from the start.
01:16:09She sees what I did as betrayal.
01:16:11And I don't know what I can do to make it right.
01:16:14South Africa now.
01:16:18I'm freaking out because I'm going to meet my boyfriend for the first time,
01:16:21but I have my ex-boyfriend here with me.
01:16:24I wish I could see her right now.
01:16:27Rory, come over here more.
01:16:28We're fine.
01:16:29Are you sure? Because I can literally see out that door.
01:16:31If Sonny sees Rory right now, it'd be the end of us.
01:16:34We're fine.
01:16:35We're fine.
01:16:36We're fine.
01:16:37We're fine.
01:16:38We're fine.
01:16:39We're fine.
01:16:40We're fine.
01:16:41We're fine.
01:16:42If he sees Rory right now, it'd be a complete **** show.
01:16:44Everything could go south.
01:17:07Today, my beautiful American girlfriend is going to arrive in South Africa.
01:17:11And we're going to have three weeks together.
01:17:14That's the amazing thing.
01:17:16Finally, I get a chance to see my girl in real life, holding her hand together.
01:17:20I'll kiss her, I'll hold her.
01:17:22It's like Christmas.
01:17:24I booked a hotel for us because I have a roommate, Ali.
01:17:28So I thought it's a good idea.
01:17:29Both of us could have privacy and we can get to know each other more better.
01:17:34I've been not into relationships for a long time.
01:17:38And that's why I'm kind of trying to make everything perfect.
01:17:42I never get a chance to date a lot of women.
01:17:45I had only one girlfriend and I had a first kiss when I was 21.
01:17:51These are roses.
01:17:52She loves black roses.
01:17:54It is kind of weird because normally we use these black roses for funerals.
01:18:00So we use it in a romantic time.
01:18:02But it's okay.
01:18:03If that makes her happy, I'll do it.
01:18:07I'll do it.
01:18:16I just traveled for 36 hours across the world to meet Sunny for the first time.
01:18:20Like, this is it. This is everything I waited for.
01:18:24Rory, I'm tripping.
01:18:33I have a mix of emotions.
01:18:34I'm so excited that I'm like, I don't know how this is going to work out.
01:18:37Like, I just want to go out and meet Sunny.
01:18:39I don't want Sunny to see Rory.
01:18:41But we don't have a plan yet of how this is all going to go down.
01:18:45I feel like it kind of is a messy situation that hasn't got figured out.
01:18:48I'm freaking out.
01:18:49I'm literally about to meet Sunny.
01:18:51Let's do one thing at a time.
01:18:52Let's get our bags.
01:18:54Come up with a freaking code word.
01:18:56Something I can text you to know that you can exit the building.
01:19:00Because I do not want to chance Sunny seeing you.
01:19:02I'm freaking out.
01:19:04So much anxiety.
01:19:11I'm about to see her there and there's a lot that's going on in my mind.
01:19:14Everything is excitement because if things go well, when she's here, I want to propose and make my girl.
01:19:23I know that we have a fight and trust issues, but I really love her.
01:19:27I feel like she's the perfect and right woman for my life.
01:19:33Hey.
01:19:36Sunny just texted me and he's here.
01:19:39He's here.
01:19:40We're in the same building.
01:19:42We're literally in the same building right now.
01:19:46I can't believe it.
01:19:51I'm honestly just flipping out on the inside.
01:19:53I don't know what to do.
01:19:54I'm going to meet my boyfriend for the first time, but I have my ex-boyfriend here with me.
01:19:59I feel so anxious and so nervous.
01:20:03I wish I could see her right now.
01:20:06Rory, come this way. Come over here more.
01:20:08Where from?
01:20:09Are you sure? Because I can literally see out that door.
01:20:12Right after baggage claim, there's glass doors right here.
01:20:16And I'm just thinking Sunny could walk up to them and easily see Rory.
01:20:22It'd be a complete show. Everything could go south.
01:20:25Our relationship could be over before it even begins.
01:20:28Come this way a little bit more.
01:20:29Rory, I can literally see out those doors.
01:20:31He cannot see you.
01:20:33Is that Chin?
01:20:38Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:20:52When I told her I'm sleeping with people, she was under the impression that only meant sleeping.
01:20:56So she's a little pissed.
01:20:58If fate wants to be exclusive, are you going to be okay not exploring other people?
01:21:05I feel like if you love each other enough, then sleeping around shouldn't be an issue for each other.
01:21:17Right now, I'm just enjoying my time with Matilda.
01:21:20But I know I'm going to have to come clean tonight concerning postponing the marriage.
01:21:25Don't hide anything from Matilda.
01:21:27Matilda has a big temper.
01:21:34This is crazy.
01:21:36I don't want a big explosive situation right now.
01:21:41Wait till we exit.
01:21:42You're stressing me out.
01:21:45A grown ass man hiding in the airport from this kid.
01:21:49What the f*** am I doing?
01:21:54He feels me in his heart.
01:21:55I feel like we're soulmates.
01:21:57So deep and spiritual.
01:21:58God ordained.
01:22:00Why do you look so angry?
01:22:02Throughout this whole time, you've been looking real angry.
01:22:06I've been getting some weird vibes off Victoria.
01:22:09It's kind of like a real dark energy that vibrates throughout my body.
01:22:13When we look at each other in the eyes, there's something there.
01:22:16When I don't get along with people, I move on.
01:22:18I don't linger.