90 Day Fiance Before the 90 Days Season 7 Episode 2
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00:00:00In my life, I've never experienced romance.
00:00:02But then, five years ago, the man of my dreams fell in my lap.
00:00:06When he said he was blind, it just hit me,
00:00:09like I wanted this guy forever.
00:00:10So the attraction is that he's blind?
00:00:13I was never looking for a blind man,
00:00:15but I'm very self-conscious.
00:00:16So knowing that Chitty fell for my heart and my mind
00:00:19is a huge turn on for me because I'm going to be so free.
00:00:24I love the costume behind you.
00:00:28Faith is my perfect lady boy.
00:00:29She's perfect pretty much in every way.
00:00:31Wow.
00:00:33How much did you pay for these?
00:00:34Like $50.
00:00:36And that's pretty much all I can afford.
00:00:38But Faith doesn't know that I'm broke
00:00:41and that my plan is to go to the Philippines
00:00:43and stay there forever.
00:00:44So I don't know how Faith is going to react.
00:00:51I was in a 10-year marriage that was very controlling.
00:00:56I told myself that I would never get married again,
00:00:59but then I met Adnan.
00:01:04I do have plans to visit, and the day that I meet him,
00:01:10we're getting married.
00:01:14You're kidding, right?
00:01:15No, I'm serious.
00:01:26I didn't tell her that I would not be having sex.
00:01:29My concern is that Renee is highly temperamental.
00:01:32She's getting angry?
00:01:34Yes.
00:01:38When I was 27, I was carjacked and shot.
00:01:41That left me a quadriplegic.
00:01:42And I thought that maybe real love just
00:01:44wasn't in the cards for me.
00:01:46But then I met Ingrid.
00:01:51But Ingrid had no idea what all this entails.
00:01:54She will.
00:01:57Ingrid knows that I'm in a wheelchair,
00:01:58but she doesn't know details, bathroom stuff, sexual stuff.
00:02:03And on top of that, Ingrid doesn't even
00:02:04know how I ended up in a wheelchair in the first place.
00:02:07My carjacking was not some random event.
00:02:11Amazing.
00:02:11My nerves are just so...
00:02:25I know.
00:02:28Here's your diaper, Tippi.
00:02:30You're going to keep me company, OK?
00:02:32Because I'm going to miss you.
00:02:34You're going to be my helper.
00:02:37OK?
00:02:45Stay there.
00:02:47I can't believe the day is finally here.
00:02:48I'm packing to leave to Nigeria to hopefully meet the man
00:02:52that I'm going to meet.
00:02:53OK.
00:02:54I have a perfume that I really, really, really like.
00:02:57So I'm definitely going to put this in the carry-on bag
00:02:59because I'm going to want to spray
00:03:00myself right before I see him.
00:03:03Chidi is my Nigerian Prince Charming
00:03:06that I met about five and a half years ago on social media.
00:03:09I had already fallen hard for him.
00:03:11And a few months into our relationship,
00:03:13I found out he was blind.
00:03:16His impairment might have scared off some people,
00:03:19but it's not going to stop him.
00:03:23But it just makes me fall so much more harder for him.
00:03:26I can't wait to see him.
00:03:28After five years finally getting to be physical with a man
00:03:33that you love that much and intimate,
00:03:35it's just going to be like, it's going
00:03:36to take me out of this world.
00:03:37It's going to be so amazing.
00:03:41And I'm prepared.
00:03:42I got underwear.
00:03:43I got some underwear.
00:03:46It's not like dirty, dirty, but it's real cute, soft,
00:03:49and something at least for him to feel like when
00:03:51he touches down the side.
00:03:53He'll be able to feel that.
00:03:55Being intimate with Chidi will be a whole new experience.
00:03:59He won't see me, so I could be me.
00:04:02I could just, I don't have anything to worry about.
00:04:11I feel like it's going to be a love-making, not just sex.
00:04:14Never have I been involved with love-making, so I can't wait.
00:04:19OK, I got all my stuff, and I'm excited.
00:04:23Are you going to miss me?
00:04:24Yeah.
00:04:25So Nana will be here, and then don't forget
00:04:29to collect the rest of the eggs.
00:04:30I already got some this morning, so.
00:04:32Yeah.
00:04:32OK.
00:04:35The hardest thing about leaving is saying goodbye to my kids.
00:04:38Even though my mom will look after them,
00:04:40this is the longest I've ever been away from them.
00:04:42OK, hugs, I'm off.
00:04:45You be a good boy.
00:04:47I'll see you in three weeks.
00:04:48OK.
00:04:49OK.
00:04:54I'm definitely proud of her for willing to go that far.
00:04:58I feel like my mom, after all these years,
00:05:00she deserves somebody to take care of her.
00:05:02We'll see you later.
00:05:04I agree.
00:05:05And I hope she stays safe, because I love my mom a lot.
00:05:16I feel nervous, anxious.
00:05:20I feel nervous, anxious.
00:05:22This is my first trip outside of the US.
00:05:26I don't even leave the house, not even to go to the store,
00:05:28unless I absolutely have to.
00:05:30Here I am, about to fly all the way across the world,
00:05:33and I absolutely know nothing about Legos, Nigeria.
00:05:38I'm definitely terrified of coming back with ass worms
00:05:41and a rash.
00:05:43Ass worms?
00:05:44Is this something that you've heard about?
00:05:46Oh, yeah, because of the food and the flies
00:05:49and just how dirty a lot of the things are.
00:05:52I believe deep down I have a strong immune system,
00:05:55so I should be able to handle a lot.
00:05:56But yeah, definitely afraid of the worms.
00:06:02When it comes down to Chitty, I just see him as my last hope.
00:06:06Because at this point in my life,
00:06:08I have just given up on men completely.
00:06:10Like, I'd rather date, like, an alien or a high-tech monkey.
00:06:16I'm ready.
00:06:22Feeling very anxious, excited.
00:06:24I can't wait to plant my lips on him
00:06:26and give him a great big hug.
00:06:29Good morning.
00:06:30Are we going international or just domestic?
00:06:32Nigeria.
00:06:33I'm getting more and more nervous.
00:06:35I got goosebumps now.
00:06:40I just went through TSA.
00:06:43Yay, I'm free!
00:06:45I'm free!
00:06:46I'm free!
00:06:47I'm free!
00:06:48I'm free!
00:06:49I'm finally going to Africa.
00:06:54My goal is to go see what my Chitty has to offer me.
00:06:57I know he's real sweet with his words.
00:06:59I just want to see how he is with his ways.
00:07:01I expect lots of hugs and kisses.
00:07:10This will be a new chapter for me
00:07:12because it's like being reborn again.
00:07:14You have a whole new excitement, a whole new meaning,
00:07:16a whole new purpose.
00:07:17Like, I know I have my kids and my family.
00:07:19But it's not until you have true love
00:07:20that you really truly feel like you're complete.
00:07:24Ta-da!
00:07:26I'm excited.
00:07:27I'm ready to see you, Chitty.
00:07:29You better be ready for me.
00:07:31I'm coming.
00:07:33And you can't run.
00:07:50I can't wait to go to the airport.
00:07:52Look at this!
00:08:05Today, I am leaving for Jordan.
00:08:07And I'm going to be meeting my fiancé, Adnan, in person
00:08:12for the first time.
00:08:14And right after I land, Adnan and I are going to be married.
00:08:19And I can't wait.
00:08:23My kids are with their dad.
00:08:25And it was pretty hard saying goodbye to them.
00:08:28This is the first time that I've ever left them.
00:08:32But I know that it's worth it because this is their chance
00:08:36at having a family and being happy, too.
00:08:42Got a lot of bags.
00:08:43Yeah.
00:08:44Are you moving?
00:08:46No, I'm just going on a trip for a week.
00:08:51Oops, I'm sorry.
00:08:52It's okay.
00:08:53Some people might think that I'm an overpacker.
00:08:56But I need everything that I've packed.
00:09:01I'm bringing three huge wedding dresses
00:09:03for the big wedding celebration.
00:09:05And I have at least 12 to 18 fully-accessorized outfits
00:09:11for my six days in Jordan.
00:09:13I just hope these bags make it to Jordan with me.
00:09:16What if something goes wrong?
00:09:18I would just die.
00:09:22I have not slept yet.
00:09:25I thought that I would feel really tired.
00:09:28But I'm actually so excited about just meeting him first.
00:09:39Thank you so much.
00:09:44Hey!
00:09:46You got a lot of luggage.
00:09:48Oh my goodness.
00:09:50You're packing a lot of lingerie in that.
00:09:53My closest friends, Cruz and his partner, Shay,
00:09:56are coming with me on this trip.
00:09:58They are my glam squad.
00:10:01And I know that I can trust them to make sure
00:10:04that I look perfect for my wedding.
00:10:08So as soon as we land, you're going to go get married, huh?
00:10:12Yeah.
00:10:13Are you excited? Nervous?
00:10:15What are your feelings right now?
00:10:17I'm not nervous at all.
00:10:19I just want to get on the plane already and go.
00:10:23Like, I want to be landing in Jordan.
00:10:27Tiger Lily is being so willy-nilly about everything.
00:10:31We got to hurry. We can't be late.
00:10:34It's going to be, hi, nice to meet you.
00:10:37Let's go sign our marriage contract.
00:10:39Yeah, pretty much.
00:10:40It doesn't make sense why they're rushing it.
00:10:43All right, this is our first flight.
00:10:48She's never met him, doesn't know what she's walking into,
00:10:51and she's not even nervous.
00:10:53Any normal person, even knowing the person
00:10:57before their wedding, would be nervous.
00:11:00All right, this is happening.
00:11:10It's happening.
00:11:40What I'm about to do.
00:11:42♪♪
00:11:47Hi, ladies.
00:11:48Hi, ladies.
00:11:49My name is Adnan.
00:11:51I am 22 years, and I'm from Jordan, Amman,
00:11:55and I love my life.
00:11:57♪♪
00:12:02It's important to me to feel special all the time.
00:12:05And today, my friend and my brother and my cousin
00:12:09bring me to Hammam.
00:12:11The tradition here in Jordan,
00:12:14they make a ceremony and dance for me
00:12:17because tomorrow, I will get married.
00:12:20One, two, three!
00:12:25Also, they will wish me,
00:12:28I will be so comfortable and so clean.
00:12:30You can't touch my body.
00:12:32It's so sexy, you know?
00:12:34♪♪
00:12:37My work is, I am a model.
00:12:40People love to photograph me.
00:12:42My best model look is my side like this.
00:12:47And the straight one.
00:12:49I love it.
00:12:52I got to be with girls because I am handsome.
00:12:57It is attack on me all the time.
00:12:59Send me a message and stop me in the street
00:13:02and give me your number.
00:13:04But I'm not going with every girl
00:13:06because now I have met Tiger Lily.
00:13:12♪♪
00:13:16First time when I am looking to Tiger Lily,
00:13:19her eyes, maybe magic do something with me.
00:13:23It's like different.
00:13:24She is so beautiful girl.
00:13:26♪♪
00:13:30Cute body, long hair,
00:13:32and care about her outfit all the time
00:13:35because I am a model.
00:13:36I can't go in with a woman like ugly outfit.
00:13:39I can't.
00:13:41But it's not just because she is so beautiful.
00:13:45When I say to Tiger Lily,
00:13:47I love you and she loves me.
00:13:49Inside my heart, my mind, my everything is complete.
00:13:52This is my woman. This is my future wife.
00:13:56What did you do to me?
00:14:08I believe in Islam.
00:14:10Because my belief, I don't respect sex before marriage.
00:14:15So I'm now a virgin.
00:14:21It's so important to me to get married
00:14:24and the same day Tiger Lily coming
00:14:26because we are only have a sex day together.
00:14:30And after we get married,
00:14:31I can make sex and it's halal, acceptable by God.
00:14:39I'm so excited to be with my wife
00:14:41and start to build my future with her.
00:14:44This is all life forever.
00:14:46Tiger Lily
00:15:02When I'm going to airport tomorrow,
00:15:04I will make sure to be so cute and so handsome
00:15:07when I meet the first time with Tiger Lily.
00:15:16Someone you love for the first time in real life.
00:15:21How did you decide to marry her so fast?
00:15:24How did you feel?
00:15:27She is so sweet, so kind, so nice.
00:15:30Honestly, I was in a hurry.
00:15:32But when you love someone,
00:15:34you don't think that you are in a hurry.
00:15:37You don't think about the time.
00:15:42Honestly, when Adman came to me and said
00:15:44that I was going to marry someone from America,
00:15:46I said OK, but I was surprised.
00:15:49It's very difficult to understand.
00:15:53But for Adman,
00:15:55I'm not worried about Adman
00:15:57because he is young, ambitious
00:15:59and I will have a chance with him.
00:16:03I want to ask you a question.
00:16:05Since you want to marry a foreign girl,
00:16:09what is the difference between an Arab girl and a foreign girl?
00:16:14Honestly, I'm used to wearing clothes.
00:16:16But it's difficult for me
00:16:18because sometimes when I wear clothes,
00:16:22she accepts my words,
00:16:24she accepts what I ask of her.
00:16:26Little by little, we learn from her
00:16:28and we teach her our traditions.
00:16:31I'm her husband,
00:16:33so I have a word for her.
00:16:35You have to listen to my word.
00:16:37What if she refuses?
00:16:38She won't refuse.
00:16:39We haven't had any refusal so far.
00:16:42I'm scared about a lot of things from American women
00:16:45because their clothes are different
00:16:47and their mind is different.
00:16:50I'm not like Jordan.
00:16:52In my religion,
00:16:54they don't want a wife to shake hands with other men
00:16:57and talking with other men.
00:16:59And she should cover everything
00:17:02because this is my wife,
00:17:03all this body is for me.
00:17:06I hope I have a wife's respect in my world.
00:17:09If she doesn't,
00:17:10we will have a lot of problems.
00:17:12But I don't know, I love her.
00:17:14I am sure 100%
00:17:17to get married with Tiger Lily tomorrow.
00:17:20I need the rings in my finger.
00:17:29I'm very comfortable with who I am,
00:17:31but it's difficult to date here in the Philippines
00:17:35because I'm a ladyboy.
00:17:37Red is sexy.
00:17:39You're like a rose.
00:17:41But now, I meet a special someone, Loren.
00:17:45And if I move to the U.S.,
00:17:47it's a lot of opportunities.
00:17:49She has a good life.
00:17:51She has a safe life.
00:17:52We'll see.
00:17:53I don't know what's going to happen.
00:18:00We hope that you enjoy the flight.
00:18:02Thank you and have a good day.
00:18:04Oh yeah, let's go.
00:18:08C3.
00:18:09I'm pretty sure we're transferring, right?
00:18:11I've never really been in an airport.
00:18:13If I ever do this again,
00:18:14I'll know more of what to do.
00:18:28I smell just terrible.
00:18:30That's why I kept us.
00:18:31I'm like, this is great for cleaning humans.
00:18:34After 20 hours of flying,
00:18:36I'm just one short flight away
00:18:38from meeting my girlfriend, Faith, in the Philippines.
00:18:41Land by 12.30.
00:18:43One o'clock, I'll probably be seeing Faith for the first time.
00:18:46Didn't lose the ring between airports.
00:18:49I've been dreaming of a relationship with a ladyboy
00:18:52like Faith for my whole life,
00:18:54so I'm going all in on this.
00:18:56But me and Faith have a lot to figure out.
00:18:58My finances, my desire for an open relationship.
00:19:02These are not easy things for someone to accept,
00:19:05but I have a deep love for Faith,
00:19:07and I hope we can work through it.
00:19:33My name is Faith.
00:19:35I am 30 years old, and I live in Manila.
00:19:41I am officer-in-charge in the housekeeping department
00:19:44in the hotel.
00:19:46My job is checking all the rooms,
00:19:48and I do also events coordinator,
00:19:51maintenance, kitchen staff.
00:19:54In my rest days,
00:19:56I make sure that everything is in order.
00:20:00In my rest days, I work as a magician,
00:20:04a puppeteer, makeup artist,
00:20:07and I love performing.
00:20:17I really love working at the hotel
00:20:19because I have a stable job,
00:20:21and I live there for free.
00:20:23And because of that,
00:20:25I'm able to send money to my family.
00:20:30Good luck! Good luck!
00:20:38I am lucky because here at the hotel,
00:20:40they accept me for who I am.
00:20:44In birth, I am a male,
00:20:46and my name is Rodney.
00:20:49But when I was young, I feel that I'm a little girl.
00:20:54The law here in the Philippines are very conservative,
00:20:57so you cannot change your gender.
00:20:59But there's a lot of beautiful ladyboys
00:21:02and transwomen here in the Philippines,
00:21:05and the city has a prestigious transbeauty pageant.
00:21:11When I was 15 years old,
00:21:13I joined my first ever pageant,
00:21:15and I won Miss Shining Hair.
00:21:20After that, I knew I wanted to live my life as a ladyboy.
00:21:25For my explanation,
00:21:27a ladyboy can look like a girl,
00:21:29but not operated.
00:21:31So no surgeries.
00:21:33Right now, I'm not taking any hormones
00:21:35because it's very expensive,
00:21:37and I don't have a plan to cut my, you know, my friend.
00:21:46If I have a surgery, I just want to have boobs.
00:21:50Left and right, you know.
00:21:55What?
00:22:01I'm very comfortable with who I am,
00:22:03but it's hard to date here in the Philippines
00:22:07because I'm a ladyboy.
00:22:10So that's why I'm single for 30 years.
00:22:18But now, my life has changed
00:22:20because I meet a special someone from the U.S.
00:22:25My special someone is Lauren,
00:22:28and we first met in a dating app, actually.
00:22:34Me and Lauren are in love together,
00:22:36and Lauren is different because she's respectful.
00:22:41This relationship is very important for me
00:22:43because this is my first boyfriend, actually.
00:22:54Hi!
00:23:04I'm very happy that I have friends here
00:23:06that is part of LGBT community.
00:23:09And I know that they are so happy to meet
00:23:13because finally, I have a boyfriend.
00:23:24When Boa arrives, we'll be ready to kiss.
00:23:30I want you to be fresh. I have a gift for you.
00:23:32Here.
00:23:34Oh, it's for me?
00:23:35Yes.
00:23:37Your lipstick is like that, right?
00:23:39I don't wear it often, right?
00:23:41You look like a rose when you open it and look at it.
00:23:45Lauren will stay in the Philippines almost a month
00:23:48to meet my family, to meet my friends.
00:23:51I'm very excited, but it's very overwhelming.
00:23:55You know, it's moving very fast.
00:24:22I already signed it. Of course, it's only for me.
00:24:24I don't want to show it to you.
00:24:26You should.
00:24:27Of course, it's only for me. It's privacy.
00:24:32Lauren and I have sent some sexy pictures to each other,
00:24:38and I'm open to sleeping with him during this trip.
00:24:42But I told Lauren,
00:24:44I want to make sure I love him enough before we go to sex.
00:24:51What if you ask them out?
00:24:55If they give me a chance, I'll grab it just in case.
00:24:59So, is his life okay?
00:25:01Is his life okay in the U.S.?
00:25:03Is it okay? Is it beautiful?
00:25:08He's a rocker. He has a lot of rockers.
00:25:12I don't know what his main hobby is.
00:25:18We'll find out.
00:25:20When we chat, he has a lot of work.
00:25:23He's not stingy.
00:25:29The Philippines is a very poor country,
00:25:32and the U.S., it's a lot of opportunities,
00:25:35so you can earn more money.
00:25:37So, if I move to the U.S.,
00:25:40I think that Lauren and I will make a successful life together.
00:25:45It's beautiful what you said about your gender.
00:25:49A lot of guys, when they find out that I'm a ladyboy,
00:25:52they think I'm just a character.
00:25:55I have to be careful about who will accept me.
00:26:00It's my first time.
00:26:07I fell in love, but it wasn't...
00:26:12If he loves me,
00:26:15I'm not sure if...
00:26:17Because the fear is still there.
00:26:20No one has ever loved me before.
00:26:24I'm scared to have my heart broken.
00:26:27So, I really hope that Lauren is who I think he is.
00:26:32We're here for you. Just support us.
00:26:34Yes, Ma. We love you so much.
00:26:36No matter what happens...
00:26:40This is it.
00:26:42This is gonna be life-changing.
00:26:45My nerves are starting to creep in a little bit.
00:26:49Okay, we're doing this.
00:26:51Like, I'm gonna be married by the end of the day.
00:26:55I just hope that I'm making the right decision.
00:27:04All right, it's just a little over an hour
00:27:08before I'm meeting the love of my life.
00:27:12And I can't wait.
00:27:23Are you ready for your glam squad?
00:27:26I am.
00:27:29After 20 hours of travel,
00:27:31I am finally about to land in Jordan
00:27:34and meet Adnan for the first time.
00:27:38I have major butterflies.
00:27:41Like, I'm gonna be married by the end of the day.
00:27:45It's a lot.
00:27:47Glam squad, put me back together.
00:27:50I cannot go meet Adnan like this.
00:27:53I'm hoping that when I see Adnan in person,
00:27:56the love that I've been feeling for him
00:27:59will continue in real life.
00:28:02But, you know, like, in the back of my mind,
00:28:05I'm like, this is too good to be true.
00:28:08I just hope that I'm making the right decision.
00:28:11Oh, my gosh.
00:28:14Surprisingly, these plugs work really well.
00:28:36After four months, today is the day
00:28:39I will meet Tiger Lily, my fiancée,
00:28:42in person for the first time.
00:28:45My favorite brother, Thayer, is coming with me
00:28:48to make me not stressful and make me comfortable
00:28:51because I have many things to do,
00:28:53like pick up Tiger Lily, going to the hotel to get ready.
00:28:56But the most important thing today,
00:28:59we all need to get married.
00:29:01This is a big deal.
00:29:03Ah.
00:29:20I feel like I'm a bit nervous
00:29:22because it's the first time I see her in person.
00:29:25And in my religion, I can't touch her and kiss her.
00:29:28But it is so hard when you love someone.
00:29:31I don't know what I do.
00:29:52Almost done.
00:30:02Let me see this ensemble.
00:30:04Oh, my goodness.
00:30:06Does it pull up more?
00:30:08Well, it's got a strap,
00:30:10but I can't get this button to change.
00:30:15Ah.
00:30:24Okay, I just want everything to cover
00:30:26so you don't feel my heart.
00:30:32This is it.
00:30:34This is going to be life-changing.
00:30:38I have been waiting forever to meet him,
00:30:42and I'm so glad that this moment is finally here.
00:30:48I just... I'm ready.
00:30:52I'm so excited.
00:30:54I'm so excited.
00:30:56I'm so excited.
00:30:58I'm so excited.
00:31:00I'm ready.
00:31:03Okay, we're doing this.
00:31:20Hi, Olivia.
00:31:22Hi, baby.
00:31:25Oh.
00:31:27Finally, you're with me now.
00:31:29Finally.
00:31:30I miss you, baby, so much.
00:31:31I miss you so much.
00:31:37You look so cute, baby.
00:31:39I can't breathe.
00:31:41Are you pinching your cheek?
00:31:43You're so cute.
00:31:45When I saw Tiger Li the first time,
00:31:47I feeling something fire inside me.
00:31:54There was a little kiss.
00:31:58So I don't know.
00:32:00Is that, like, allowed or not allowed?
00:32:17Baby, is my outfit okay for Jordan?
00:32:25What do you mean, outfit set?
00:32:35I want to introduce you to Cruz and Shay.
00:32:38Cruz, how are you?
00:32:39How are you, my man?
00:32:41Good to meet you.
00:32:42Nice to meet you, too.
00:32:43It's a pleasure.
00:32:44Hi, Shay, how are you?
00:32:45Nice to meet you.
00:32:46Nice to meet you, too.
00:32:47Yes.
00:32:49Both laugh.
00:33:07How does it feel to finally be with your man
00:33:10that you've been waiting for so long?
00:33:12Well, not that long, but you know what I mean.
00:33:14Both laugh.
00:33:18I can't have guy friends.
00:33:20It's not acceptable to me.
00:33:23All right.
00:33:24Let's go.
00:33:25Let's go.
00:33:26You will be my wife today.
00:33:28Are you sure?
00:33:29I'm sure.
00:33:30Both laugh.
00:33:32Don't wait.
00:33:34Meeting Adnan in person, he's so handsome,
00:33:38and he's everything I've ever dreamed of.
00:33:41But my nerves are starting to creep in a little bit.
00:33:46I am putting all my trust into him.
00:33:50If I find out that I was wrong,
00:33:52then it will already be too late.
00:33:56We'll already be married, so it's a little nerve-wracking.
00:34:03Kiss my hand.
00:34:10Sometimes I like to show off.
00:34:11Sometimes I like to fly through the airport,
00:34:13pass everybody, let them know, like, I got this.
00:34:16I liked Brian in a positive way, the way he sees life.
00:34:20But I've had contact with well-known athletes,
00:34:23except for him.
00:34:25What about me and your family?
00:34:27Have you told your family about him?
00:34:29My mom knows, you know?
00:34:31But my dad...
00:34:33I never told him, no.
00:34:35My dad...
00:34:36I've never been so nervous before.
00:34:38I don't know if I would feel comfortable
00:34:41being with someone my parents don't accept.
00:34:46Any moment from now, you'll connect with her.
00:34:49I can't wait, man.
00:34:51I will know when Renia is here.
00:34:53We are going to connect emotionally,
00:34:55not with eyes, but with hearts.
00:34:57Going to baggage.
00:35:00I'm going to know it's Chitty.
00:35:02When I approach him and I see that sexy smile lit up,
00:35:05I'm going to go find Chitty.
00:35:07And I'm going to get what I want.
00:35:15CHITTY
00:35:30So, just landed.
00:35:31Sao Paulo.
00:35:3310-hour flight.
00:35:35Hungry, anxious, happy.
00:35:39Just everything.
00:35:42Just touched down in Brazil.
00:35:44I got one more flight to catch
00:35:46before I meet Ingrid, my girlfriend of two years.
00:35:49This is the first time we're meeting in person,
00:35:51and it doesn't feel real.
00:35:53It's strange going through the airport in a wheelchair sometimes
00:35:56because people are staring all the time.
00:35:59People are wondering, how the hell is he doing it?
00:36:01Sometimes I like to show off.
00:36:03Sometimes I like to fly through the airport.
00:36:05Pass everybody, you know?
00:36:07Let them know, like, I got this.
00:36:12Taking these long trips definitely is hard on me,
00:36:15hard on my body.
00:36:17Don't fall down. I'm trying not to hit that.
00:36:19There we go.
00:36:21But it's so worth it
00:36:23because I really feel that
00:36:25Ingrid is the perfect person for me.
00:36:27And I hope there's nothing about my chair
00:36:29or my past that changes that.
00:36:32This is surreal. This is surreal.
00:36:41INGRID, BRAZIL
00:36:59My name is Ingrid.
00:37:01I'm 32 years old.
00:37:03I live in the city of Gurupi,
00:37:05in the state of Tocantins.
00:37:08I really like the countryside.
00:37:10In the woods, it's where I am,
00:37:12in the sky and on the ground.
00:37:16It's wonderful to live here, you know?
00:37:20But it's not always easy.
00:37:25Let's go to the supermarket to buy some donuts?
00:37:28Donuts?
00:37:29Yeah, donuts.
00:37:32I'm the mother of Arthur,
00:37:34who is 2 years and 9 months old.
00:37:37Ah, you cleaned me up!
00:37:40And Italo, who is 12 years old.
00:37:43I separated from Italo's father when I was 25.
00:37:49And a few years later,
00:37:51I met Arthur's father and got pregnant.
00:37:56Two months after the pregnancy,
00:37:58he abandoned me when I needed him the most.
00:38:02INGRID, BRAZIL
00:38:04You're home!
00:38:10Go play!
00:38:13I had a person by my side,
00:38:15and there was a pandemic.
00:38:19I became unemployed
00:38:21when he was 7 months old.
00:38:25I was a baby,
00:38:277 months old,
00:38:29with no one to help me financially.
00:38:37It was a very drastic phase in my life.
00:38:45Let's take a bath.
00:38:48How nice!
00:38:52I got over it, thank God.
00:38:56But being a single mother
00:38:58is a very difficult thing.
00:39:05So I really wanted to find
00:39:07someone who really cared about me,
00:39:10about my children.
00:39:15And then I found Brian.
00:39:21I met Brian on a website.
00:39:25When I saw his pictures for the first time,
00:39:28I thought they were beautiful, interesting.
00:39:31He was 45 years old and charming.
00:39:34A good age.
00:39:36We started talking,
00:39:38and at first he said he was a wheelchair user.
00:39:42Man, I was shocked by that,
00:39:45because I had never had contact
00:39:48with known wheelchair users,
00:39:50except him.
00:39:52But I liked Brian.
00:39:54His positive attitude,
00:39:56the way he sees life.
00:39:58He travels, does things,
00:40:00he's independent,
00:40:02and he shows that he's very happy.
00:40:05He would be a good companion.
00:40:07And tomorrow Brian is coming here,
00:40:09he's flying and he's coming to see me,
00:40:12and this will be the first time
00:40:14we'll be seeing each other.
00:40:16I've never been so nervous before.
00:40:19Oh my God.
00:40:25Hello!
00:40:27How are you?
00:40:29I'm fine, and you?
00:40:31I'm fine.
00:40:33How was the tour?
00:40:35It was good.
00:40:37I'm visiting my friend Vilane,
00:40:39who has a beautiful ranch.
00:40:41She always comes when I need her
00:40:43to relax.
00:40:45And I needed that.
00:40:47Hey, are you excited?
00:40:50I'm excited.
00:40:52Are you excited to see Brian?
00:40:54I'm excited, yes.
00:40:56What are you going to do with him?
00:40:59There's nothing to do here.
00:41:01We're going for a walk.
00:41:03Are you taking him to Praia do Peixe?
00:41:06Yes.
00:41:08If he can handle it,
00:41:10we'll go.
00:41:12Is he going to get tired?
00:41:15No.
00:41:17I didn't tell you.
00:41:19Why?
00:41:21Is he a wheelchair user?
00:41:24No.
00:41:29Have you ever dated a wheelchair user?
00:41:32Do you have any experience?
00:41:34No.
00:41:36How are you going to be a woman?
00:41:39I don't know.
00:41:42What I know about his condition
00:41:44is that he does everything
00:41:46a normal person would do.
00:41:49He just doesn't walk.
00:41:51What he says.
00:41:53I wash, I cook, I walk, I drive,
00:41:55I go out.
00:41:57My legs are the chair.
00:41:59That's it.
00:42:01But seriously,
00:42:03if it works,
00:42:05are you going or is he coming?
00:42:07I never asked him that.
00:42:10You're going, because I know
00:42:12you're dying to leave.
00:42:14That's why you're looking for a foreigner.
00:42:18Leave my Brazil.
00:42:20Maybe I'll go.
00:42:22Have you told your family about him?
00:42:25Do they know?
00:42:29My mom knows.
00:42:31But my dad,
00:42:33I never told him.
00:42:35He's a stubborn person.
00:42:37Are you going to introduce him
00:42:39to your parents?
00:42:41To your family?
00:42:43Or not?
00:42:45Or when he arrives,
00:42:47I'll try to convince my parents
00:42:49to want to see him.
00:42:55I'm a little afraid
00:42:58my parents won't accept him.
00:43:01They won't have a very pleasant reaction
00:43:04if they happen to meet Brian.
00:43:07I don't know if I'd feel comfortable
00:43:10being with someone my parents don't accept.
00:43:14But most importantly,
00:43:16I need to be sure
00:43:18that the next partner I bring
00:43:20to be close to me
00:43:22is a good and honest man.
00:43:24Who will stay close to me,
00:43:26my children, in difficult times?
00:43:29I've broken my heart
00:43:31in the past,
00:43:33and I don't want to go through it again.
00:43:43Hey, hey, hey!
00:43:55All right, easy.
00:43:59All right, that's good.
00:44:01I'm done.
00:44:03Today is a great day indeed,
00:44:05and I am rejoicing
00:44:07to go out with the love of my life.
00:44:10Oh, my God.
00:44:12I can't just wait to get to that airport.
00:44:16What a great day, Jim.
00:44:18Indeed.
00:44:20Bennett, my brother-in-law, is going with me
00:44:22because I need assistance
00:44:24when it comes to mobility.
00:44:26Everything is just like a dream.
00:44:29You know, the first time we started chatting,
00:44:32I was nervous,
00:44:34and I can see it resulting again.
00:44:36Yeah, because, you know,
00:44:38she has not been with a blind person before,
00:44:41and it's going to be
00:44:43a different experience entirely.
00:44:47So what's going to be your first response
00:44:49now when you meet her?
00:44:51You'll jump on her? You'll hug her?
00:44:53I will feel like fainting.
00:44:57Yes, that's it.
00:45:00Renee, of course, has told me
00:45:02how she looks like.
00:45:04She has long hair,
00:45:06brown in color.
00:45:08She has a deep
00:45:10and big eyeball.
00:45:12She has a hip,
00:45:14but her body size is slim and skinny.
00:45:17When she's here, I can't wait
00:45:19to have a first-hand feel
00:45:22with my other senses.
00:45:24Just feel the whole beauty.
00:45:28Oh, I'm so nervous.
00:45:31Hey, why are we here?
00:45:35I've landed in Lagos,
00:45:37and I'm about to meet Chitty.
00:45:39I had goosebumps, I felt faint,
00:45:41I feel like having a stroke, a heart attack,
00:45:43everything all at once.
00:45:45Oh, my God, I'm overwhelmed.
00:45:48It's so fun to be home.
00:45:52I'm feeling very overwhelmed in the airport
00:45:54by how busy and chaotic
00:45:56and everyone's just, you know,
00:45:58busy and chaotic,
00:46:00and everyone just seems like they're just
00:46:02going in every direction,
00:46:04which is kind of scary.
00:46:06I'm used to being around hundreds of chickens,
00:46:08not people.
00:46:12It is so hot in here.
00:46:14I'm getting sticky.
00:46:16I'm about to see Chitty,
00:46:18and I'm, well, I guess good thing
00:46:20he can't see me, huh?
00:46:22Oh, my God, he can smell me.
00:46:24Gotta fix that.
00:46:29I can't wait, man.
00:46:31Let me see if she will recognize me.
00:46:34I will know when Renia is here,
00:46:36because I will feel it.
00:46:38I don't need to see.
00:46:40We are going to connect emotionally,
00:46:42not with eyes, but with hearts.
00:46:44The heart will do more of the speaking.
00:46:53I'm going to know it's Chitty
00:46:55when I approach him and I see
00:46:57his smile lit up.
00:46:59He calls himself my soulmate.
00:47:01We're meant to be.
00:47:03Therefore, he's mine.
00:47:05Oh, my God.
00:47:07I'm going to go find Chitty.
00:47:09That's what I want to go do.
00:47:11I'm going to go find him,
00:47:13and I'm going to get what I want.
00:47:28Can you give me a space?
00:47:30So I'll just be behind you.
00:47:32All right, there's no problem.
00:47:34I'm here.
00:47:43My heart is beating, man.
00:47:59Chitty?
00:48:01Sir?
00:48:03She's here.
00:48:05Where?
00:48:07A bit away from you.
00:48:09Are you Renia?
00:48:11Uh-huh.
00:48:13How are you?
00:48:15Good, and you?
00:48:17I'm good.
00:48:19What is behind you?
00:48:21Okay.
00:48:23Let me help you around.
00:48:39She's here.
00:48:41She's here. Your friend.
00:48:45Oh, my God.
00:48:47It's not a dream.
00:48:53It's a reality, man.
00:48:55Oh, my God.
00:48:57Yeah, I'm sorry.
00:49:01Oh, God.
00:49:05I love you so much.
00:49:07Love you, too.
00:49:11Come on.
00:49:13Oh, my God.
00:49:15Sure you can't see?
00:49:17Yeah, I can see,
00:49:19but my heart sees you.
00:49:21Aw.
00:49:23You're so sexy.
00:49:25You're beautiful, too.
00:49:29I like your hair.
00:49:31So soft.
00:49:33I like your hair,
00:49:35and you're a bee.
00:49:37Huh?
00:49:39You're a bee.
00:49:41I'm almost the height of you.
00:49:43But you're a bee.
00:49:45I like your statue.
00:49:47You're not sneaky.
00:49:51Yeah.
00:50:15All right, guys.
00:50:17He's so beautiful.
00:50:19I can see that.
00:50:21I can see why your heart always skip.
00:50:25That's good.
00:50:27So let's move on, guys.
00:50:29You're a new guy here.
00:50:31I felt like I've known him
00:50:33in another life,
00:50:35so meeting him is just, like,
00:50:37feeling like at home.
00:50:39You look so sexy.
00:50:41I can't wait to put my hands
00:50:43all over him and kiss those
00:50:45juicy lips of his and his eyes
00:50:47and give him back rubs
00:50:49and get him just used to physical touch
00:50:51with me.
00:50:55The chemistry between us
00:50:57is undeniable,
00:50:59but that makes it even more difficult
00:51:01to tell Rene that we'll not be sleeping
00:51:03in the same room tonight.
00:51:05I hope she doesn't get
00:51:07too much mad about this.
00:51:09This way, this way, this way.
00:51:11I'm gonna put my hand here.
00:51:13All right.
00:51:17How many kids
00:51:19do you want?
00:51:21Five.
00:51:23Wait, so five?
00:51:25You didn't even tell me, baby.
00:51:27This is things that you talk about
00:51:29prior to setting
00:51:31a wedding date or even an engagement.
00:51:33It is clear
00:51:35that they're rushing into this marriage.
00:51:43My brother
00:51:45is going with a taxi to hotel
00:51:47to bring your luggage
00:51:49and your stuff.
00:51:51Awesome. This is a lot of luggage.
00:51:55Is it all gonna fit?
00:51:57I don't know.
00:52:03Yeah!
00:52:05Here we go!
00:52:13I hate it.
00:52:15I know, baby.
00:52:17I know, but I can't have anything
00:52:19happening to you.
00:52:21You're gonna be my husband, baby.
00:52:23Mmm!
00:52:25Ah!
00:52:27Ah!
00:52:29Ah!
00:52:31Good morning!
00:52:33After four months of phone calls,
00:52:35I am finally with Adnan
00:52:37and we're getting married.
00:52:39I'm so excited.
00:52:41I am finally with Adnan
00:52:43and Jordan in person.
00:52:45We are headed to the hotel
00:52:47to drop off Cruz and Shea
00:52:49because they're not joining us
00:52:51to sign the marriage contract tonight,
00:52:53but they will be there with us
00:52:55for the big wedding celebration
00:52:57that Adnan has been planning
00:52:59in a couple of days.
00:53:05Oh, my gosh.
00:53:07I might need some Dramamine.
00:53:12Baby, I want to sign a book.
00:53:14Don't you be my wife.
00:53:16I can't wait.
00:53:18Love you so much.
00:53:20I love you so much, honey.
00:53:34So how far is the airport
00:53:36from the city?
00:53:38How far? Uh-huh.
00:53:41To the city, maybe 20 minutes.
00:53:43Okay.
00:53:58Oh, that's cool.
00:54:04All right.
00:54:06When Tiger, Lily, and Adnan
00:54:08first met,
00:54:10there was these fireworks
00:54:12and there was love in the eyes
00:54:14and then we get in the car
00:54:16and now there's complete silence.
00:54:20You would think they're about to get married.
00:54:22They would have so much to talk about.
00:54:26And it's just crickets.
00:54:30So do you live in Amman?
00:54:32Yeah.
00:54:34Do you have any sisters?
00:54:36I have five sisters.
00:54:38Five sisters?
00:54:40And nine brothers.
00:54:42There's 14 of you guys?
00:54:44It's 14. With me, it's 15.
00:54:46Oh, wow.
00:54:48How many kids do you want?
00:54:50Baby boy?
00:54:52Five.
00:54:54Wait, so...
00:54:56five?
00:54:58You didn't even tell me, baby.
00:55:00I didn't know yet.
00:55:02Oh, man.
00:55:06Y'all better get busy.
00:55:08Yeah.
00:55:10Have you ever lived
00:55:12anywhere else besides Jordan?
00:55:14All my life, I am traveling.
00:55:16I live in Egypt.
00:55:18But every time
00:55:20I come back to Jordan
00:55:22because I have many people,
00:55:24many family,
00:55:26I can't leave them all of the time.
00:55:32So what are you gonna do
00:55:34when you live with me
00:55:36in the U.S.?
00:55:38I'm just coming one week in one year.
00:55:40From where?
00:55:42Here.
00:55:44So you're okay to live in the U.S.
00:55:46and just come back?
00:55:48I can't live in the U.S.
00:55:50I'm just coming and go back like this.
00:55:52Yeah.
00:55:54It seems like Adnan
00:55:56is going to want to spend
00:55:58a lot more time in Jordan
00:56:00than I thought.
00:56:02And I'm a little bit shocked
00:56:04that he's saying that
00:56:06he wants five more kids
00:56:08considering my age.
00:56:10But since we're getting married
00:56:12in a few hours,
00:56:14we don't really have time
00:56:16to get on the same page.
00:56:18Welcome to Jordan, guys.
00:56:20Wow.
00:56:22I am just hoping
00:56:24that since we love each other so much,
00:56:26that will be enough
00:56:28for us to work out
00:56:30everything together.
00:56:32Are we good to check in?
00:56:34Yeah?
00:56:36Yeah.
00:56:38We have a lot of things to do today.
00:56:40You have to go get married.
00:56:42We want to get married today.
00:56:44Okay.
00:56:46You don't want to maybe wait a day?
00:56:48No, I can't wait.
00:56:50Go on a first date.
00:56:52You want to meet his family first,
00:56:54see where he lives, how he lives.
00:56:56I want to make sure you guys are sure.
00:56:58Yeah, are you sure, baby?
00:57:00Of course I'm sure, baby.
00:57:04It is clear that they're rushing into this marriage.
00:57:06I mean,
00:57:08Adnan wants five kids
00:57:10and Tiger Lily had no idea.
00:57:12She didn't even know.
00:57:14This is just things that you talk about
00:57:16prior to setting
00:57:18a wedding date or even an engagement.
00:57:20All right, give me one last hug
00:57:22as a single lady.
00:57:24Single lady.
00:57:26When I see you again,
00:57:28you're going to be married.
00:57:30She already has two kids.
00:57:32She
00:57:34just finished going through
00:57:36a rough divorce,
00:57:38so there's a lot more
00:57:40for her to lose
00:57:42than she's willing to think about.
00:57:44This whole thing
00:57:46just doesn't feel right to me.
00:57:48Bye.
00:57:50This is crazy.
00:57:52She's really going to do it.
00:58:00I finally landed in Palmas.
00:58:02I'm about to meet Ingrid.
00:58:04Feeling nerves, excitement.
00:58:22This morning,
00:58:24I will go to the airport
00:58:26to pick up Lauren.
00:58:28This is my first time meeting
00:58:30my special someone,
00:58:32so I'm nervous and shaky.
00:58:44I'm just doing my make-up
00:58:46in 20 minutes
00:58:48from his to her.
00:58:50I can't believe
00:58:52this day is finally here.
00:58:54I'm just praying
00:58:56that Lauren is real
00:58:58because this is the first time
00:59:00that I'm very excited
00:59:02to meet a man.
00:59:04I'm just contouring my face
00:59:06to make it smaller
00:59:08from forehead to cheeks
00:59:10to jawline.
00:59:16I do this corset
00:59:18to make my waist smaller.
00:59:24Let's go.
00:59:28Yes!
00:59:30Slay!
00:59:32Good luck, girls!
00:59:34Bye!
00:59:38Lauren and I have been
00:59:40talking for months.
00:59:42I'm so nervous
00:59:44for him to see me
00:59:46because they are very different.
00:59:48It's a lot of filters.
00:59:50So, let's see.
01:00:02Just landed in the Philippines.
01:00:04Having faith that
01:00:06faith will show up at the airport
01:00:08so I can meet faith.
01:00:10In a matter of minutes,
01:00:12I'm going to see her
01:00:14In a minute,
01:00:16I see Lauren.
01:00:18And I'm so excited
01:00:20and nerve-wracking.
01:00:22I have a blue towel
01:00:24because I'm sweaty all the time.
01:00:26Very nervous.
01:00:30All right, I got through customs.
01:00:32Got my backpack.
01:00:34Passport looks good.
01:00:36Let's go.
01:00:38All right, I got through customs.
01:00:40Got my backpack.
01:00:42Passport looks good.
01:00:44And now I got a few more steps
01:00:46and I'm in the Philippines for real.
01:00:52My nerves are overwhelming right now.
01:00:54Meeting with faith for the first time
01:00:56is going to be amazing.
01:00:58This is it, right? This is the big moment?
01:01:00The end of the old life,
01:01:02beginning of the new life?
01:01:04I'm not coming to the Philippines
01:01:06to meet my girlfriend.
01:01:08I'm coming to finalize a long-term relationship
01:01:10which will lead to marriage.
01:01:12This is a really big deal.
01:01:14And if I definitely wasn't serious about faith,
01:01:16I wouldn't literally throw away
01:01:18my entire life
01:01:20to make this work.
01:01:36Darren!
01:01:42Oh, yeah.
01:01:48Yeah.
01:01:54Finally.
01:02:02How are you?
01:02:04I'm good.
01:02:14I'm so happy to see you.
01:02:16Yeah.
01:02:18I love you.
01:02:20I love you, too.
01:02:24Before I left the U.S., she told me
01:02:26she's not ready to have her first kiss yet.
01:02:28Hugging faith for the first time
01:02:30was perfect. It's what I've been waiting for
01:02:32for months.
01:02:54Okay.
01:02:56Okay.
01:02:58Okay, I'm ready.
01:03:00Okay.
01:03:08This is for you.
01:03:10And magic roses with love
01:03:12and surprise.
01:03:14Magic.
01:03:16Magic.
01:03:18No, you're magic. Come on.
01:03:22100% energy.
01:03:24That feels good,
01:03:26but I just want to be consistent
01:03:28and not be changed at all.
01:03:32She's got her eye on you.
01:03:58Oh, yeah.
01:04:28Yeah.
01:04:58Yeah.
01:05:28Come on.
01:05:36I finally landed in Palmas.
01:05:38I'm here. I'm about to meet Ingrid.
01:05:40Feeling nerves,
01:05:42excitement.
01:05:44I want to give a good first impression,
01:05:46and it's how I roll my chair.
01:05:48It's how I present myself.
01:05:50I want to make sure
01:05:52I'm upright, I'm pushed strong.
01:05:54Look at her in her eyes.
01:05:56They say the first 15 seconds
01:05:58are some of the most important
01:06:00seconds of your life sometimes,
01:06:02and I want to make sure it goes right.
01:06:04I mean, if this works out for me,
01:06:06it would just change
01:06:08dramatically my life.
01:06:26It's all black.
01:06:30I don't know what's going to happen
01:06:32when we see each other.
01:06:34Let me see.
01:06:36This goes here.
01:06:40I'm feeling very anxious.
01:06:42Come on, Ingrid.
01:06:44Strength and courage.
01:06:46Oh, my God.
01:06:50I lost the wheel on the suitcase,
01:06:52so I got the broken suitcase
01:06:54on the cart.
01:06:56So that's bothersome,
01:06:58but I feel good. I'm ready.
01:07:00Came a long way. It's boat time. I'm ready.
01:07:24I didn't know he was a wheelchair user,
01:07:26that he was in the wheelchair.
01:07:28And I had talked to him
01:07:30on video calls and messages.
01:07:32And now the time has come
01:07:34for me to see him
01:07:36face to face in front of me.
01:07:38I'm scared.
01:07:42Very nervous.
01:07:54Oh, my God.
01:08:00Very nervous.
01:08:06Oh, my heart.
01:08:20What?
01:08:22Hello.
01:08:24Hello, hello. Hello, hello.
01:08:26I want to jump the gate.
01:08:52I don't know.
01:08:54Oh, my God.
01:09:02It worked.
01:09:04I see.
01:09:06I'm blown away. I'm blown away.
01:09:08I'm happy.
01:09:10Soft, smelling nice.
01:09:12We waited two years
01:09:14for this, and now
01:09:16finally I can touch, smell,
01:09:18feel. Oh, my God.
01:09:20It's unbelievable.
01:09:50Hi.
01:09:52Ingrid didn't seem to blink an eye about the wheelchair.
01:09:54Sometimes you never know how someone's going to react
01:09:56to that, so I'll take that as a win.
01:09:58But I know
01:10:00there's a lot more to learn about Ingrid
01:10:02and a lot for her to learn about me.
01:10:04So I hope tonight goes well
01:10:06and our chemistry continues to grow.
01:10:08Wow, wow, wow.
01:10:12Wow.
01:10:20We get everything
01:10:22out of the ground.
01:10:24And we get everything
01:10:26in the sun.
01:10:36I like the way it looks over here.
01:10:38I was surprised there was not green moss
01:10:40growing in the airport, because it's so humid.
01:10:42Yeah.
01:10:44I just arrived in Nigeria, and I'm so excited
01:10:46to be walking with Chitty,
01:10:48because I get to be the one to finally lead him,
01:10:50and it just feels so natural.
01:10:52Wait, wait, you're going to step down.
01:10:54Watch out, because it's an awkward curve right there.
01:10:56Look.
01:10:58I used to get really jealous off of his sister,
01:11:00his brother, anybody who was out there helping him.
01:11:02I'd get like, that's not fair.
01:11:04I want to do it.
01:11:08I'm here now, Chitty.
01:11:10Yeah.
01:11:12Right here, Chitty.
01:11:14Chitty, I'm right here.
01:11:16I cannot believe my luck.
01:11:18Rene is finally here with me.
01:11:20He's beyond imagination.
01:11:24What was that?
01:11:26A chicken.
01:11:28I want to talk to a little Nigerian chicken.
01:11:36He's taking a sunbath.
01:11:38Maybe she's carrying something on her head.
01:11:40That's cool. I got to do that.
01:11:42It's nice and green over here.
01:11:44It is Rene's personality
01:11:46to constantly feel the silence
01:11:48with the sound of her own voice.
01:11:50Oh, my God, he heard us hanging out.
01:11:52He was paying.
01:11:54He was just standing there hanging out with us.
01:11:58But I love hearing her perspective
01:12:00and experiencing the world through her eyes.
01:12:04All right.
01:12:06Welcome home.
01:12:08The queen herself.
01:12:10So far,
01:12:12meeting Chitty has been everything
01:12:14I had dreamed for it to be.
01:12:16Come in, guys. We are home.
01:12:18Step up.
01:12:20But at the same time,
01:12:22I'm starting to feel really, really anxious
01:12:24about staying at his sister's house.
01:12:26She can't wait to meet you.
01:12:28To be honest,
01:12:30I've always had a strange feeling
01:12:32about, like, meeting or being around
01:12:34my man's sister.
01:12:36Wow.
01:12:38I've talked to his sister a little bit here and there.
01:12:40I have nothing against her
01:12:42as a person, but ever since
01:12:44I was young, I've always had this
01:12:46feeling about some sort of drama
01:12:48or something in the future
01:12:50with the man's sister.
01:12:52Where does this feeling come from?
01:12:54I don't know.
01:12:56There was never an issue in my past.
01:12:58It's just an intuition that I have.
01:13:00And most things that I feel deep within
01:13:02for that long period of time
01:13:04end up coming to fruition.
01:13:06All right. Victoria.
01:13:08Wow!
01:13:10Look who is here!
01:13:12And you all come.
01:13:14Hey.
01:13:16Sweet Rene.
01:13:18I like your hair.
01:13:22Welcome home.
01:13:26Come right in.
01:13:28Welcome. Please come in.
01:13:30Can I see how beautiful she is?
01:13:32So beautiful. More beautiful than I imagined.
01:13:36Welcome.
01:13:38Thank you for coming.
01:13:40Thank you for inviting me.
01:13:42They look extremely happy.
01:13:44Chidi is happy.
01:13:46Chidi is happy, yes.
01:13:48Let me take you around.
01:13:50I want to see where Chidi lives.
01:13:52I feel excited.
01:13:54And I will do everything
01:13:56to make her comfortable.
01:14:00This is my room.
01:14:02I don't have much,
01:14:04but it's like a paradise to me.
01:14:06Oh, yeah. That's nice.
01:14:08You can see my wardrobe.
01:14:10Chidi's things.
01:14:12Check this out.
01:14:14Oh, sexy smile.
01:14:16I like those.
01:14:20Having Rene right here with me
01:14:22is surreal.
01:14:24I would almost say that the chemistry between us
01:14:26is magical.
01:14:28Then this is my
01:14:30sister's room.
01:14:32But the truth is that I must remain
01:14:34steadfast in my vow of celibacy.
01:14:36My sister
01:14:38and her husband, because of you,
01:14:40they vacated the room
01:14:42so you have all the comfort.
01:14:44They didn't have to do that.
01:14:46Well, we're going to have fun.
01:14:50But Rene is not even aware
01:14:52that we will not be sleeping in the same room.
01:14:54So I need to tell her tonight
01:14:56before we go to bed.
01:14:58I just hope she doesn't get upset.
01:15:02I'm so sticky.
01:15:04I'm going to shower.
01:15:06Yeah, of course.
01:15:10That's better.
01:15:20Nice start, Chidi.
01:15:22You got a fresh smell.
01:15:24That's great.
01:15:26Once more,
01:15:28I want to appreciate you
01:15:30for coming.
01:15:32I love you so much.
01:15:34I love you too.
01:15:38Your sexy little
01:15:40strong arms there.
01:15:42Nice and strong.
01:15:44You have such a very nice skin.
01:15:46Wow, soft and tender.
01:15:48But...
01:15:52I have something to tell you.
01:15:56If there is anything
01:15:58I crave and pray for every day,
01:16:00it's to sleep together with you,
01:16:02wake up together with you.
01:16:06But I believe
01:16:08it should be done at the right time.
01:16:12So,
01:16:14not sleeping on the same bed with you
01:16:16and in the same room with you.
01:16:18I hope you understand.
01:16:24Before I bid you goodnight,
01:16:26I want to make something
01:16:28point clear to you.
01:16:30Even as I sleep on that bed,
01:16:32my spirit, my thought
01:16:34is still with you.
01:16:38I know.
01:16:48I'm trying to be respectful,
01:16:50but I gotta admit,
01:16:52I feel totally rejected.
01:16:547,000 miles and five and a half
01:16:56years later and he's putting two doors
01:16:58between us, that hurts.
01:17:00That's like stabbing me in the heart.
01:17:02I love you so much.
01:17:06I'll let him have his space,
01:17:08but I'm hoping he just needs some time
01:17:10to adjust to me being around.
01:17:12Because I didn't come all the way over here
01:17:14just for me to be alone.
01:17:16Goodnight.
01:17:22I can't believe, baby,
01:17:24after maybe 30 minutes,
01:17:26you will be my wife.
01:17:28And my mother will be there.
01:17:30Wait, why?
01:17:32Now I'm more nervous.
01:17:34Adnan keeps bringing
01:17:36this new information on me.
01:17:38It is really starting
01:17:40to hit me that I am
01:17:42marrying someone that
01:17:44I just met a few hours ago.
01:17:46And I'm
01:17:48panicking.
01:17:50We gotta hear it.
01:17:52Oh my gosh.
01:18:14Tiger Lily?
01:18:16Yes, baby.
01:18:18Hurry up.
01:18:20Hold on, I'm not ready yet.
01:18:22You want some help?
01:18:24Do you know how to do
01:18:26makeup, honey?
01:18:28No, but I will
01:18:30teach you.
01:18:32It's okay, I'm almost done.
01:18:34It's pretty surreal
01:18:36that it's only been
01:18:38a few hours since I
01:18:40arrived in Georgia
01:18:42to meet Adnan for the
01:18:44first time. And now
01:18:46I'm getting ready for the ceremony
01:18:48where I legally become his wife.
01:18:50It's all just happening
01:18:52so fast.
01:18:54Come on, let me see
01:18:56what you wear.
01:18:58Because Adnan has his brother
01:19:00living with him, we are staying
01:19:02at a hotel in Jordan so
01:19:04we can have some privacy.
01:19:08How is this, baby?
01:19:10How is this, baby?
01:19:32I don't know why
01:19:34Adnan's hesitating. I mean, I think
01:19:36that I'm completely covered.
01:19:40It's tight.
01:19:44It's tight?
01:19:46Yeah.
01:19:48See, I don't know these things.
01:19:50I know. You should learn, baby.
01:19:52Okay.
01:19:56I can't believe, baby.
01:19:58After maybe 30 minutes,
01:20:00you will be my wife, honey.
01:20:02And after this, I can
01:20:04kiss you and can hug you
01:20:06and can sleep with you.
01:20:08I can't wait.
01:20:10So, baby,
01:20:12what's going to happen
01:20:14when we get there?
01:20:16We're going to a sheikh,
01:20:18like a religion person.
01:20:20He will tell you
01:20:22to say his things
01:20:24and you will sign a book
01:20:26and you will be my wife.
01:20:28Are you excited?
01:20:30Yeah. I'm super excited.
01:20:32I'm just a little bit
01:20:34nervous.
01:20:36You're nervous, baby. Don't worry.
01:20:38I am nervous
01:20:40because I don't know, like,
01:20:42the cultural traditions.
01:20:44Like, am I going to, like,
01:20:46understand what
01:20:48they're saying or...
01:20:50We have translator
01:20:52to tell you everything
01:20:54in English.
01:20:56And don't worry.
01:20:58My mother will be there.
01:21:02Wait. Why?
01:21:04Because, baby, this important
01:21:06moment.
01:21:08I'm going to meet your mom.
01:21:10Like, I wish I would have known.
01:21:12I had no idea she was going to be coming.
01:21:14And my brothers.
01:21:16Maybe I didn't know
01:21:18anyone was going to be there.
01:21:20Now I'm more nervous.
01:21:24Adnan has always
01:21:26just said it was going to be the two
01:21:28of us and his brother
01:21:30as the witness.
01:21:32I can only handle one important thing
01:21:34at a time. Now I'm stressed.
01:21:36I'm...
01:21:38panicking.
01:21:40This changes so much.
01:21:42Meeting your mom
01:21:44is a huge deal
01:21:46for me.
01:21:48When I meet them,
01:21:50how do I greet them?
01:21:52What do I do?
01:21:54You can shake hands with my brother.
01:21:56It's okay. But not hug them.
01:21:58You'll be okay.
01:22:00It's okay. Everything is fine.
01:22:04You're nervous about it.
01:22:05I am.
01:22:06I know, baby.
01:22:08I forget to tell Tagorelli about
01:22:10my family there, because I have
01:22:12many things to do. I make all the plans,
01:22:14make a wedding.
01:22:16It's a lot of things. It's not easy.
01:22:18But it's normal to have
01:22:20my family there with us.
01:22:24It's a lot of questions. Everything is okay.
01:22:26Trust me, baby.
01:22:30Since landing in Jordan a few hours ago,
01:22:32Adnan keeps bringing
01:22:34this new information on me
01:22:36with how many kids he wants
01:22:38to have, where he's
01:22:40planning on living, and now
01:22:42meeting his mom for the first time
01:22:44with no notice at all.
01:22:46It's a lot.
01:22:48We gotta hit it.
01:22:50Oh, my gosh.
01:22:52It is really
01:22:54starting to hit me that I
01:22:56am marrying someone that I
01:22:58just met a few hours ago, and
01:23:00what I'm about to do is
01:23:02super permanent.
01:23:04This could be
01:23:06the biggest mistake of
01:23:08my life. I mean,
01:23:10maybe I don't want to do it.
01:23:12Are you ready?
01:23:22Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:28Yes, yes.
01:23:32Sex is very important for me
01:23:34in a relationship, but Ingrid's never had
01:23:36sex with someone in a wheelchair, so
01:23:38I hope she can keep an open mind about it.
01:23:40I took the blue. Half the blue.
01:23:42You never know.
01:23:44And I don't want to be unprepared.
01:23:48I grew up in Bangladesh,
01:23:50but living in South Africa in Durban.
01:23:52I'm a really shy person.
01:23:54I had one girlfriend, but
01:23:56it didn't work out. Luckily, I met
01:23:58Evia.
01:24:00I'm going to his country to meet him,
01:24:02but I'm kind of freaking out a little bit.
01:24:04We have had
01:24:06communication issues, and if we got into
01:24:08a fight, who am I going to have there?
01:24:10You know, nobody.
01:24:12So I ended up inviting Rory.
01:24:14You're your ex?