It's Showtime: Ang mga rebelasyon nina Ogie at T’yang Amy bilang mga magulang! (EXpecially For You)
Aired (August 16, 2024): Inilahad nina Ogie Alcasid at Amy Perez ang mga sakripisyo bilang isa mga magulang para sa kanilang mga anak.
Transcript
00:00What if, this is just a hypothetical,
00:03what if Ron left and his family moved to another house?
00:11How would you face that day?
00:15It would be sad if that happens, but from my experience,
00:20from what I've been through, I can handle it.
00:25When he moves to another house, I know that they're still there for me.
00:34It's sad to think about it, but you can't control it, right?
00:39It hurts too, when your child is flying,
00:44you see your child's bird is flying,
00:47but when you look at it, you're alone in the nest.
00:51What's nest in Tagalog?
00:53Pugad.
00:54You're all alone in the nest.
00:56Before, you're all alone in the nest.
01:02In psychology, what do you remember?
01:04Emptiness.
01:05Emptiness.
01:06It's like, little by little,
01:09the child bird leaves and the parents are left behind.
01:15That's the greatest sacrifice of parents.
01:18To let go of the child,
01:20to let it fly, to let it grow.
01:24But even if it goes wrong, the parents are still there,
01:27the mother is still there, ready to accept and give advice, right?
01:32Is it more painful for the mother than for the father?
01:35I think it's the same.
01:37I think it's the same.
01:40Because he's the one who experienced it, right?
01:44Your name became independent.
01:47Yes, Addy.
01:48When he was studying, he lived in a boarding house or something?
01:52He lived closer to the school.
01:55How did you feel when that happened?
01:57Your first child.
01:58Yes.
01:59That's why it was the first time you experienced your child leaving your house.
02:03I cried so much, right?
02:05It's like, all of his questions,
02:09you're giving him all the answers.
02:12No, son, you're better here, right?
02:14This is how it should be here, right?
02:16But at one point, as a mother,
02:18it was the hardest thing to accept,
02:21to let him go.
02:22And now, when I see him,
02:24I'm very proud that I can see him.
02:27Before, I used to tell him,
02:29this is how it should be, this is what you should do.
02:32He's fine.
02:33He's okay.
02:34And he's living properly.
02:36He's not being bothered by other people.
02:39And we still see each other regularly.
02:41Like what Mommy Rosana said, you have a date.
02:44We have a Sunday date, if we call it that.
02:48I go around with the kids.
02:50I have a Sunday date with Addy,
02:51I have a Sunday date with Kyle,
02:53I have a Sunday date with Seiya.
02:55And all of your children are sons.
02:57Yes, all of them are sons.
02:59That's our routine.
03:01And until now, I'm happy that
03:03all of the things I planted with Addy,
03:05I can see it now.
03:07Because you're the ones who helped him fly.
03:09Yes.
03:10Because you're the ones who helped him fly,
03:13you can hope that he'll fly back to you.
03:17Every now and then.
03:19And I'm happy that when you're free,
03:21when you're free for lunch,
03:23or when he's free for his grandparents,
03:25I'm happy that you're able to show them
03:30that I want to be like that too.
03:34At that time, I was alone.
03:36But it turned out,
03:38you know, my son was so kind.
03:40So kind.
03:43Because you're also a good mother.
03:45Why am I crying?
03:46Mommy should be the one crying.
03:48Mommy, I know how you feel.
03:50Because this feeling is so universal.
03:52Right?
03:54It's so universal.
03:56You, as a father,
03:58you also experienced that
04:00your daughter,
04:02she's not with you anymore.
04:04And she wants to be
04:06not with you anymore
04:08because she can.
04:10Well, this is an open question.
04:12My eldest, actually,
04:15I was so angry
04:17that I told
04:19both of them,
04:21her boyfriend,
04:23why didn't you tell me?
04:25You know how young people are.
04:27They won't tell you.
04:29And if you try to stop them,
04:31they'll still do it.
04:33Until I told them,
04:35you know,
04:37I feel bad for you
04:39that you did that.
04:41But even so,
04:43it's up to you.
04:45Because, as a parent,
04:47you can't stop your child.
04:49No matter what you do,
04:51they'll do it.
04:53So, we, as parents,
04:55we're always waiting for them.
04:57Whenever they want to go home,
04:59for example,
05:01something happens to them
05:03that they can't continue,
05:05you're still there waiting.
05:07That's our role.
05:09You're so lucky, right?
05:11Ron is lucky for you.
05:13Rosanna is also lucky for Ron.
05:15You deserve each other.
05:17God bless you both.