Mea culpa S1E8x10
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00:00The children are the most exposed to sexual abuse.
00:02The minors are the most exposed to sexual assault.
00:06The other thing that appears here, interesting,
00:08that the lieutenant emphasized and showed,
00:11is that, unfortunately, most of these events
00:13occur in close people who are relatives of the same children,
00:18who, when taking this as a game,
00:19do not really understand the seriousness of this issue.
00:22And at other times, the child does not dare to denounce these events either.
00:26Sometimes, the stepfathers, all the members that make up the couple,
00:30threaten the pressure by making them feel
00:32that the child accepts this game,
00:34the family relationship is maintained,
00:36which is quite serious.
00:38On the other hand, there is everything that is the victimology of the woman,
00:42which I would also like to make a point of.
00:44Unfortunately, these women are publicly stigmatized
00:47and that is why it is very difficult for them to denounce.
00:49That is, when we talk about this figure,
00:51we are talking about figures that are not real,
00:53not much less.
00:54That is, there is a percentage, and I point out,
00:5690% of people who do not denounce these facts,
00:59precisely because, even society,
01:02has a tendency to accuse the woman
01:04as if she had provoked or incited a violation.
01:07What we here, at least, do not fit,
01:09absolutely, if you think about it.
01:11As much as the woman could wear a miniskirt,
01:13whatever you want to say,
01:14it could eventually encourage a pseudo-conquest or something similar.
01:19But that does not justify the barbarity
01:21that means using force to subjugate,
01:24in the sexual background and aggressively, a woman.
01:27In addition, another thing that I am going to mention,
01:29which may be surprising here,
01:31we are talking about rape and we always suppose the woman.
01:33No, there is also eventually stupor with respect to men,
01:37especially if they are minors.
01:39There are even cases of some people who have been drugged
01:42and have been raped by women, in quotation marks.
01:44But what happens at home when the father, the uncle, the grandfather
01:49are capable of becoming rapists?
01:52That is how it is expressed in what we have discussed.
01:55It is much more difficult, let's say, to point out a prevention
01:58when the sexual aggressor, the sexual abuser,
02:01we have it within the family.
02:03The guideline is in a very close communication with the children,
02:07in a family union,
02:09where the fundamental basis within the family is affection,
02:14where our children communicate in confidence,
02:19in a truly family environment.
02:22Families who do not discuss these issues,
02:25who do not deal with them, cannot prevent it.
02:28It is absolutely necessary that people assume
02:32a dominance over these phenomena,
02:34and for that they have to verbalize it, they have to objectify it.
02:37With that, they remove the anguish that everyone carries
02:40in front of the issue,
02:42a form of control of the issue begins,
02:45and finally the situation can be resolved
02:47if at some point there is an aggression.
02:49On the other hand, if we stay with all that inside,
02:52it is impossible.
02:54That is why, for those who have made this observation
02:57of dealing with such difficult issues,
02:59we have to tell them that it is necessary,
03:01because for their safety, for their quality of life,
03:04it is necessary that these issues are put on the table,
03:07that they talk calmly, serenely,
03:09before having to suffer so dramatically
03:13a situation for which they are not prepared.
03:15There is one last issue that I would like to address,
03:17and it is the case of this man who appears in the program as innocent,
03:20who is accused of being the rapist,
03:22and who, well, turned out to be completely innocent.
03:25Carlos, what new background can you give us about him?
03:28Well, I thank you for your question, Cecilia,
03:30because I had the opportunity to meet Gabriel Montesinos,
03:33that's his name,
03:35exactly five years ago,
03:37just a few months after this event.
03:40And on that occasion, obviously, I was very impressed
03:43by the effect of having lived for freedom,
03:46with this sentence in the middle,
03:49he saw it very close, I understand that legally he was not so close,
03:52but he saw himself shot, right?
03:55However, as the years went by,
03:57we had the opportunity to interview him again,
03:59and then I understand the strength of that drama,
04:02because even after all this time,
04:05he still has the weight and the burden of that trauma present,
04:09so present that he says he divides his life
04:12into the before and the after of having been accused,
04:15to the point that he is writing a book, I would say,
04:18which is called, in some way, I don't know,
04:21Accused, Guilty or Innocent.
04:24This is one of the most violated rights in Chile,
04:27which is the right to presumption of innocence,
04:29which is the basic principle of the right to justice,
04:32and unfortunately, among us, it is violated every day,
04:35and it happens to take, and it is condemned,
04:38before the judge reaches to make contact with the cause,
04:41before the police deliver their reports,
04:44the community has already unjustly condemned someone,
04:47and has led him to live an atrocious drama like this.
04:50Well, I would really like to thank all of you
04:52who have accompanied us on this occasion,
04:54to you, Lieutenant, with special emphasis,
04:56because it seems to us that your recommendations
04:58and having told the population what you are doing
05:00to prevent and help victims of sexual crimes
05:03is really very important.
05:05Well, we are really left with the reflection
05:08that in this type of crime the best thing is to prevent,
05:11because the damage that comes next
05:13is really serious for anyone
05:16who is a victim of sexual abuse,
05:18and we believe that if you stay reflecting
05:20at home, with your family,
05:22it is perhaps the most preventive thing you can do,
05:25for the same reason that all of our guests here were telling us.
05:29We would like to thank you for tuning in,
05:31and invite us next Wednesday to another Media Culpa.
05:33Thank you very much and good night.
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05:53Luego, en televisión nacional, sin protocolo.
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