Women for Injustice
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00:30Cardinal Elie Weiss, thanks for joining us.
00:49Good to be here.
00:50Yeah, it's been a couple of weeks.
00:52Yeah.
00:53Yeah.
00:54We missed you.
00:55I know.
00:56Been busy.
00:57Well, I'm glad you made it back.
00:58Okay.
00:59Thank you.
01:00Thank you.
01:01Yeah.
01:02This is an important topic here.
01:03It is.
01:04Very much so.
01:05There's a lot of injustice in the world, and a lot of it occurs with families.
01:08Yeah.
01:09Unfortunately, men are on the receiving end of the injustice, and they're not benefiting
01:17from it at all.
01:18Neither are the children.
01:20Unfortunately, only one side seems to be benefiting from this, and it's not even the legal system.
01:25It's women.
01:26Yeah.
01:27Who are benefiting from this.
01:29And most of this stems from how, like me too, and all these slot movements have manipulated
01:38the very justice system, so that women who think they're so self-entitled are able to
01:46try and get what they want from the system.
01:51Luckily, if you have some good judges to see through that, to see past that, then justice
01:58can be done for the guy instead of the girl.
02:02And the thing is, there have been so many cases now where a woman will take a guy to
02:10court thinking they're going to get more money out of the guy, and then it backfires.
02:16Yeah.
02:17Well, that's not the common occurrence.
02:21It's very rare, and you happen to find...
02:24Very few.
02:25Yeah, you found one in particular where justice actually is served.
02:29Just always for men, but where justice is deserved.
02:33And oftentimes it is with men.
02:35It is.
02:36That's not to say that all women are evil, but this show reveals that the majority are,
02:45and that's the truth of it.
02:48But like you said, a lot of these women are getting away with it, and that is what's common
02:53in at least where I'm from, and I'm from the Seattle area of Washington State, and I've
03:00had to go through family court myself, and the whole system is geared towards women.
03:09And men are immediately portrayed as the bad guy, and it's not even a guilty till proven
03:17innocent.
03:18It's guilty the whole way through.
03:19You cannot even prove innocence in anything.
03:23Men are responsible for everything that happens, even what happens within their partner's mind
03:29the man is responsible for.
03:32I was accused of abuse when there was no evidence of it, and she even admitted to the judge
03:41that she felt threatened.
03:45And the judge was like, okay, so what did he do?
03:48And she's like, well, we argued a lot.
03:51And the judge was like, was he yelling at you?
03:53And she's like, yeah.
03:55And then the cross-examination came from my attorney, and he's like, well, weren't you
03:58both yelling at each other?
03:59And she said, yeah.
04:02So you're saying it was mutual.
04:04And then her attorney objects on the count of relevance as if it wasn't relevant, and
04:14the judge sided with her attorney to say that it wasn't relevant that we were both arguing
04:19with one another.
04:20I mean, couples do argue.
04:21It's a fact.
04:22In fact, if you don't argue, it's not normal.
04:23But it's because you've got a passion about how things should be within the relationship,
04:24and you want things to go well.
04:25But there's a lot of women, you know, you can't just say, oh, well, I'm a woman.
04:26I'm a man.
04:27I'm a woman.
04:28I'm a man.
04:29I'm a man.
04:30I'm a man.
04:31I'm a man.
04:32I'm a man.
04:33I'm a man.
04:34I'm a man.
04:35I'm a man.
04:36I'm a man.
04:37I'm a man.
04:38I'm a man.
04:39I'm a man.
04:40I'm a man.
04:42There's a lot of women who use that, and they'll use that as, oh, the guy's been an aggressor.
04:48Now, the thing is, some women don't even say that unless they're also advised to say it
04:57by their attorney.
04:58Yeah.
04:59Say he's aggressive.
05:00He's this, he's that, he's the other.
05:02Because really, let's face it, a lot of the time, a lot of women haven't got a leg to
05:06stand on.
05:07But they're advised a lot by the system.
05:11Do this.
05:12Do this.
05:13Do this.
05:14Say that.
05:15You know?
05:16Yeah.
05:17Make him out to be the bad guy.
05:18I don't know.
05:19I mean, when I was a kid, there was a poem-type thing that was always said, and I remember
05:25even now, about girls are made of sugar and spice, and all things are nice.
05:30Yeah, I've heard that.
05:31And what little boys are made of, snobs and snails and puppy dog's tails.
05:36And I'm thinking, you know what I mean?
05:37That's not a very nice contrast at all, to say about the lads, you know, it's not fair.
05:43No.
05:44But, you know, some women will take that and say, well, you know, guys are horrible, and
05:49you know, they just get this perception from a very early age.
05:53And if they're brought up by women more than the guys, they're going to start using that,
05:59start being, becoming, I hate to say this word, but bitches incarnate, because they
06:04will.
06:05Yeah.
06:06Well, we've, uh, we've got this video that you wanted me to bring up.
06:13There's a few videos you wanted to talk about.
06:17And just as a, I guess you could say like a preamble, or introduction, if you will.
06:31These court proceedings are not the norm in America.
06:34This is an exception.
06:36This is where you might actually see some justice.
06:38And quite frankly, I wonder if it's even real, because it's so ideal circumstances that justice
06:48is brought towards families.
06:51So I want people to keep that in mind, but they do showcase good example, or accurate
06:56examples of the way these family dynamics occur.
07:00I mean, it took me ages to try to find something that actually, where a woman would actually
07:09lose out because of the fact that she was trying to play the system, and keep coming
07:14back on her face.
07:16And to just find like a few little bits, you know, a few little ones out of hundreds of
07:22videos.
07:23Yeah, the best one, it seems, is the one that you found here.
07:25It's called Support Court with Judge Vonda B.
07:29She's amazing.
07:30Justice.
07:31Okay, Ms. Adams.
07:32So tell me about, so this story that he told, he actually, you know, you wanted to be it,
07:41or he wanted to be it.
07:42Well, I think that tells you everything you need to know about his view of relationships
07:46is very transactional.
07:47Oh, yeah.
07:48That's the word I was looking for.
07:49That's it.
07:50Transactional.
07:51Yeah.
07:52Okay.
07:53So I do this, and you do that, and I think the fact that he didn't even bother to mention
08:00our children's names should tell you everything about our relationship.
08:03Well, he told me the ages.
08:05Yeah, well, that's great.
08:07Robert and Madison, that's with a Y.
08:09But she didn't ask for the Q.
08:10Okay, yeah, I get it.
08:11Oh.
08:12Anyway, so going back to, evidently, I'm just going to Florida for a permanent vacation.
08:18I'm actually going for a job.
08:20All right.
08:21So what's that job?
08:22I'm going to be a marine biologist.
08:24That's a good job.
08:25So when did this dream come apart?
08:26Because you ain't had this dream when we met.
08:27See, exactly.
08:28Do you want to listen?
08:29Ms. Adams, Ms. Adams, I need you to talk directly to me, okay?
08:33Yes, ma'am.
08:34And Mr. Morris, I'm giving you an opportunity to speak.
08:36Let me hear what she has to say.
08:37You're right, Judge, I'm sorry.
08:38And people can change dreams.
08:39I mean, depending on how long you guys have been apart, a lot could have changed in our
08:42life.
08:43It's just, you're taking my kids, Judge.
08:44Okay, well, let's hear what she has to say.
08:45You're right, you're right.
08:46She said marine biologist, right?
08:47Yes.
08:49And I want to hear about it.
08:50See how much money she makes, all right?
08:51She just having random dreams, Judge, but it's all good.
08:52Okay, that's great, but I need to see how much money she's making, okay?
08:56I'm sorry.
08:57I'm sorry.
08:58All right.
08:59Less talking, more listening.
09:00And you do the same thing.
09:01All right, ma'am.
09:02Continue.
09:03Jesus.
09:04So I'm taking the kids to Florida because I have a greater job opportunity.
09:08Okay.
09:09And, you know, it's so interesting to me that he says that he sees the kids four times a
09:14week.
09:15And he's talking about maybe a FaceTime call or seeing them on his phone screen because
09:19I certainly don't see him picking up the kids and taking them to the doctor and cleaning
09:23up vomit in the middle of the night.
09:26So it's great that he thinks that he's paying for the right to see his kids and that there
09:33are people who don't pay child support and who see their kids a whole lot, Judge.
09:37That tells you everything you need to know about the transactional nature of relationships
09:42to Mr. Morris.
09:44So look, the fact of the matter is, I guess he doesn't realize that his children are going
09:50to need to eat, whether they live in Texas or they live in Florida, and they're and they're
09:54going to need new tennis shoes and new clothes.
09:57And I guess he just thinks that kids like money goes on trees or that kids moving their
10:02kids all the way out to work.
10:04This isn't TGI Fridays.
10:07So she's very kind to hire in Florida.
10:10All right.
10:11What are we looking at?
10:13So my rent is going up from two thousand dollars a month to twenty eight hundred dollars
10:16a month.
10:17OK.
10:18Because I have to have a three bedroom because Robert and Madison need their own bedrooms.
10:23And of course, I have to pay for for flood insurance and other things like that.
10:30OK.
10:31All right.
10:33And you mentioned food.
10:35Yeah.
10:36So the kids eat organic.
10:40OK.
10:41And they're vegan.
10:42And so my grocery bill for them is already close to eight hundred dollars a month.
10:46OK, so his opinion that eight hundred and eighty dollars is too much for the kids is
10:50wrong.
10:51It is a wrong opinion because your children deserve the nutrition they need to grow up
10:56big and healthy and strong so they can be college athletes like you want them to.
10:59OK, so, Miss Adams, you said that your rent is going up eight hundred dollars.
11:03You have to pay flood insurance.
11:05They're vegan college athletes.
11:07They eat organic food and they're vegans.
11:10OK, so are you using the child support for flood insurance and rent, too, or are you
11:16using it to feed the kids?
11:17I just want to make sure I'm clear on what it is that you're saying in regards to his
11:22request to get a reduction.
11:23Yes, your honor.
11:24So the thing is that if I was living in a one bedroom because I was by myself, my rent
11:29would be a lot lower.
11:30All right.
11:31I have to get a three bedroom because I have a boy and a girl and I don't want them sleeping
11:34in the same bedroom.
11:35Yeah, I can see that.
11:37So I have to get a three bedroom.
11:39And so it's not just that it's my electric bill, it's cell phones because our five year
11:44old has a cell phone.
11:45So now I have to make sure that we've got her a phone line so you can talk to her dad
11:49so you can see her four times a week.
11:50No, I mean, yeah, she's the queen of good parenting choices.
11:53He said that he sees the children now four times a week.
11:57And you're saying that's not true except for like a FaceTime video or something like that.
12:01He sees the kids on an inconsistent basis.
12:03That's a lie, your honor.
12:04OK, OK.
12:05When you say inconsistent right now, do you operate under a standard order where it's
12:09like first, third and fifth?
12:11We have every he has every weekend and I have during the week.
12:15OK, so every weekend he has.
12:17Right.
12:18OK.
12:19During that every weekend is inconsistent is what you're saying.
12:22I mean, it's just all over the place.
12:23He just comes and goes and sees the kids whenever it's convenient to him or maybe his girlfriend
12:26like turns him down for a date or whatever.
12:28OK.
12:29So that was petty.
12:30What girl are you talking about?
12:31We didn't have to go there.
12:32We didn't have to go there.
12:34So is that what the issue is, like you're still mad at him about that story that he
12:37told?
12:38Well, OK, so he put in a bid for an upgrade or the upgrade, put in a bid for him or whatever.
12:44And now he has to I have to explain to our son why our family fell apart.
12:48Oh, so it's some hurt feelings there.
12:51Other issues.
12:52I understand.
12:53Yeah.
12:54So have you already moved to Florida or is this something that you're intending on doing
12:58pretty soon?
12:59Well, I took the job offer and I've already found it.
13:03So the answer is, yes, you pretty much already everything but the U-Haul, your honor.
13:07OK, so in your court order, do you have a geographic restriction because dad lives here?
13:12Yes, but he.
13:14That's it right there.
13:15Yeah.
13:16Geographic restriction on the court order.
13:18Exactly.
13:19This whole thing about her moving to Florida.
13:23It's against a court order.
13:25Yep.
13:26And she thinks that she justified in doing this because of all these petty arguments
13:32she has about his relationship choices and all this other crap.
13:37Fortunately, she should have actually made a point of reading the conditions first.
13:44Yeah.
13:45Before that, and it just shows how ignorant she really is as well.
13:50And entitled.
13:51And entitled.
13:52Yeah.
13:53She thinks that the whole system bends to her will because of her petty arguments.
13:56Yeah.
13:57She's about to find out the hard way.
13:59That's not how it works.
14:00Yeah.
14:01And he moved just outside of of Ellis County, so he's just outside of the geographic restriction.
14:05So it's technically lifted, your honor.
14:08OK.
14:09And technically is what you said.
14:11But is that what your court order says?
14:12Well, the court order says Dallas and continuing counties.
14:15And he moved like a mile on the on the other side of the Ellis County line.
14:18OK.
14:19And I do have a copy of your court order here.
14:21And it doesn't mention that it's automatically lifted.
14:24Oh, OK.
14:25Yeah.
14:26I was just thinking it was the one that.
14:28O is right.
14:29O is right.
14:30I'm sorry.
14:31O is right.
14:34Because you can't just leave.
14:36You can't just do that.
14:37You actually have to ask permission to modify this order like he did.
14:41Well, can I modify the order to move to Florida?
14:45Did you file anything for today?
14:48I mean, I.
14:49It's a yes or no.
14:52No.
14:53OK.
14:54So you're moving without asking the court, can you move?
14:59And your dad is still living here.
15:01Well, I guess I just didn't understand the way the order was written because I had I
15:06had heard that if he moved outside of where it said, then I couldn't.
15:09Who did you hear that from?
15:10Did you Google you?
15:11You did one of those Google searches.
15:13One of the Google lawyers told you that.
15:15Yeah, I guess.
15:17Oh, OK.
15:18Because they told you wrong.
15:19And that's the problem with Googling everything.
15:21You should have actually consulted with an attorney who would have interpreted this order
15:25properly to you.
15:26You can't just move.
15:28So let me tell you what we're going to do, because I think this is the fair thing to
15:31do, regardless to whether you say his visits are inconsistent.
15:36He say they're consistent.
15:37The reality of it is, is when you move to Florida, he can no longer have access to those
15:41kids.
15:42So even if he were coming this day, this day, this day and did every weekend, he won't be
15:46able to do that anymore now that you are going to move to Florida.
15:49So what I'm not going to touch is your custody arrangement.
15:51I'm not going to touch that at all.
15:53This is a child support court that has nothing to do with us.
15:56OK, so I'm not going to touch it at all.
15:57You are free to move to Florida.
15:59However, he's coming off child support.
16:02So then he can use the money, the eight hundred and eighty or so dollars that he would give
16:06you for child support.
16:07He can use that to travel to actually see the kids.
16:09But what if he doesn't, Your Honor?
16:11Well, if he doesn't, then after some time of him not doing it consistently and when
16:15I say consistently and consecutively, it needs to at least be about six months or something
16:19like that.
16:20Right.
16:21Then you can come back and let me know, Judge, he's not exercising regularly.
16:23I need some support for these two kids.
16:26Right.
16:27If he's not exercising anything like that, I believe that's in the best interest of the
16:29children.
16:30And quite frankly, that's fair.
16:31You're moving without permission, right, which is a violation of your court order.
16:36So it's only fair that he stops paying child support.
16:38So beyond a reduction, he's coming out of child support today.
16:41Now, you will have to keep maintaining the health insurance.
16:44OK, that's fine.
16:45All right.
16:46So that what is it?
16:47Three sixty two.
16:48You'll still continue to pay the health insurance, but there will be no child support paid from
16:52him to you.
16:53Hopefully you guys can come to an agreement.
16:56That's the plan, Your Honor.
16:57Once we leave, I plan on giving her a call so we can talk about things and kind of get
17:01on a good level with each other.
17:02Yeah.
17:03I think that can work.
17:04And who knows?
17:05Your job may transfer up here and you may end up being back in Dallas anyway.
17:08Now, if that happens, you all would need to come back because then we need to look at
17:11something different about what child support.
17:13Yeah.
17:15So she's backed into a corner and now she has to deal with him.
17:18Now she has to negotiate and compromise.
17:23This notion of equality is rearing it's ugly head.
17:26I just love the way it backfired on her because she thought she can get more money off him,
17:32etc.
17:33No, no, we're equal here.
17:36Equal opportunity.
17:37Exactly.
17:38Yeah.
17:39And that's why I like this judge because she has actually put that lady in her place.
17:44And I say lady loosely because she shouldn't have actually brought this to court.
17:52She was already with all her face piercings and arm tattoos.
17:55She couldn't even cover up.
17:56She wasn't ready to go into that courtroom that day.
18:03Not in any way, shape, nor form.
18:09So there was another video that you posted to me.
18:19How do we introduce this one?
18:22This is the this is the one with the attorney with the drinking problem.
18:27Yeah.
18:28Yeah.
18:29And it's not the man, no.
18:34She makes quite a bit of money and she's looking to get some child support.
18:38Do you think she will be Williams?
18:44You brought this case before the court.
18:45What's going on?
18:46You would think she knows better.
18:47Yeah.
18:48Three children together.
18:49Obviously, I have not received any child support.
18:53We our children go to private school.
18:55They play sports, dance lessons, singing lessons.
18:58They're very active and it's very expensive.
19:01We do share custody and time, but I pay for private school.
19:05He pays for health insurance and that's all I pay for everything else.
19:08What kind of money you make to be paying all of it?
19:10I'm an attorney.
19:11Oh, OK.
19:12But I'm used to a certain lifestyle.
19:15I mean, I can't even afford to get my nails done, my hair done.
19:18It's embarrassing.
19:19You're an attorney.
19:20Yes, ma'am.
19:21And you can afford tuition, but not to get your nails done.
19:24Because all my money is going to the tuition and all of their extracurricular activities.
19:29I've been sacrificing the things that I'm used to, that I was able to do before when
19:33we were still together and we had that combined income.
19:36And now all my money is going to the kids and I don't have any money left for the lifestyle
19:41that I've been accustomed to and getting my nails done and my hair and massages and things
19:45like that.
19:46It's still not making sense to me, but.
19:49OK.
19:50Is it just me or does she look like she's on the verge of tears?
19:53I can't get my nails done or my hair done.
19:57Make this make sense.
20:00You know, although she makes more money, she has an extravagant lifestyle.
20:04A neck is broken.
20:05It's like a major event.
20:06Like, oh, my nail's broken.
20:07Oh.
20:08But she didn't tell you about the personal stuff that made that she has come clean the
20:11house every week.
20:12So now it's making sense, OK.
20:14And let alone the drinking problem that you have.
20:16Drinking problem?
20:17He stops to the liquor store to have a curbside pickup.
20:22Come on now.
20:23He's telling the truth, isn't he?
20:25Well, you know, after being in court all day.
20:27That wasn't my question.
20:28He's telling the truth, isn't he?
20:29I do like to have a cocktail now and then.
20:30So the answer is yes.
20:32Yes.
20:33OK.
20:34So now we're getting somewhere about.
20:37And you brought him to court?
20:39Yes.
20:40For child support?
20:41Yes, ma'am.
20:42How much money do you make?
20:44$70,000 a year.
20:46I make $100,000 less than she does.
20:51But again, I pay for pretty much everything.
20:54The only thing he pays for for the kids is the health insurance.
20:57I pay for everything.
20:58Health insurance is pretty important.
20:59You'd agree with me, right?
21:00It is.
21:01And I appreciate that.
21:02I do.
21:03But I don't want to pull my kids from private school or, you know, take them out of the
21:07things that they love to do because I can't afford it.
21:11Right.
21:12And don't say that again because you can't afford it.
21:15If what he's saying is true, you're getting these your nails done, you're going on trips,
21:20you're doing all of these other things, you know, especially going to the liquor store.
21:25Alcohol is not cheap.
21:27You can't afford it.
21:28You're just choosing to do something other than what you should be doing, which is taking
21:32care of these children.
21:34Now, how often are you all I'm assuming you don't live together anymore, right?
21:39All right.
21:40How often are you all exchanging the children?
21:44We have them equally.
21:46So there'll be two weekends a month.
21:47OK.
21:48Sure.
21:49Right.
21:50Yeah.
21:51You came in here to waste my time.
21:52I'm not getting ready to play with you.
21:53I am not going to make him pay you child support when you make one hundred thousand dollars
21:58more than he does.
22:00You didn't object when he said you make one hundred thousand dollars more than him.
22:05So he's telling the truth, right?
22:06Yeah.
22:07You.
22:08What kind of lawyer are you?
22:09Never mind.
22:10So this is what we're going to do.
22:12I am going to base child support.
22:15That's right.
22:16Of what's called an offset.
22:18OK, so I'm going to do the child support calculations for the both of you and subtract it.
22:24And the difference is going to go to the person who makes more, which is you.
22:28All right.
22:29So with two thousand two hundred thousand, excuse me, and seventy thousand.
22:36Is that correct?
22:37OK, so for mom, I have your gross.
22:42You actually cap out.
22:44So your gross is about twelve thousand three hundred and twenty five dollars and thirty
22:48five cents that your gross is five thousand eight hundred thirty three dollars and thirty
22:55three cents, bringing your net to ninety two hundred for you, four thousand six hundred
23:02and sixty four dollars and sixty seven cents for you.
23:05Health insurance.
23:06You pay it.
23:07How much is it?
23:08It's one hundred dollars a month.
23:09OK, you're going to split that.
23:10So fifty dollars for you.
23:11Fifty dollars for you, mom.
23:14Your child support obligation comes down.
23:17Well, hold on.
23:18How many children?
23:19Two children.
23:20Right.
23:21We have three children between us and four total.
23:23Three children, four total.
23:25Who has the other child?
23:27OK, thank you for telling me that, because that reduces your child support obligation
23:34and increases yours.
23:36So the difference and adding the health insurance, it comes out to one thousand five hundred
23:43and thirty three dollars per month.
23:46And this is Williams.
23:47That's what you're going to be ordered to pay to him.
23:51Maybe she shouldn't have that cocktail before going in the courtroom that day.
23:54OK.
23:55Do you have any questions about anything?
23:57Whoops.
23:58No, ma'am.
23:59OK.
24:00Well, if there's nothing further, you all are dismissed.
24:03Yeah.
24:04Dismissed.
24:06I love the smile on his face as well, because he realizes justice.
24:10Well, he's now he's now within the hundred thousand dollar a year bracket for income.
24:16He now has a six figure income.
24:18Exactly.
24:19Thanks to his ex.
24:20Yeah.
24:21He's getting child support.
24:22You might as well call that alimony.
24:23Yeah.
24:24But that's basically what that woman was seeking.
24:27She was looking for alimony.
24:28She's calling it child support.
24:30But when she was listing all the things that she wanted to do that she couldn't do because
24:34she couldn't afford it.
24:35That's alimony.
24:36That's not child support.
24:37Mm hmm.
24:38She's in the wrong courtroom for that.
24:39Yeah.
24:40I think she's done it to try and sway the system by using the children as a means of
24:48her hammering her ex-husband.
24:51And like I said, it's backfired because, yes, alimony is one thing, but child support has
24:57a bit of an asset because you're trying to say your children need some more support for
25:02some reason.
25:03Mm hmm.
25:04But she's failed miserably because all she's done is show the court how greedy and self-centered
25:13she truly is.
25:14Especially, oh, I can't get my nails done.
25:15Can't get a shave done.
25:16I'm sorry.
25:17I'm getting flashbacks.
25:18I'm going to try and get away from these traumatic experiences.
25:27I'm sure there's a lot of people out there that can relate to some of this stuff, but
25:32very few, if any, could relate to the justice actually being served.
25:37Yeah.
25:38But that is something that we anticipate will happen in the New Kingdom.
25:42Not only will justice be served, but certain types of people won't be allowed to have children.
25:49Yeah.
25:50It will be physically impossible for people to have children without permission.
25:54Right.
25:55Yeah.
25:56And I think that that is a good introduction towards our next case that we're going to
26:01bring up here, because there's a there's a prime example here of why people shouldn't
26:05be having kids.
26:06Oh, definitely.
26:07And she should not definitely not have any kids.
26:12She's very, very immature with her attitude.
26:18She obviously thinks she's still young enough to party or whatever.
26:22Yeah.
26:23But yeah, let's let her let's let her speak for herself.
26:27I mean, they'll say, shouldn't we?
26:29I mean, OK, here we go.
26:32You all may be seated.
26:35OK, Mr. Sanchez, you brought this case before the court.
26:41What's going on?
26:42OK, Your Honor, I'm one of two for child support because, you know, my kids are always with
26:49me and she's always at work.
26:52You know, she's always working for the hospital.
26:54You know.
26:55Yeah.
26:56We said back then that we could do this together as one.
26:59I wouldn't.
27:00I wouldn't so much as far as switching, swapping complete schedules.
27:04I started doing overnight shift now just so I can be there for my kids and everything.
27:09And she was supposed to be working for mornings, which she was, but she volunteered for more
27:15hours.
27:16And and even when she's not at work, she's just never home.
27:20I don't know where she is.
27:22She doesn't call us.
27:23She doesn't call our kids.
27:25My kids are always wondering where she's at.
27:27And, you know, I myself, sure, she can do what she wants as long as she lets me know
27:32where she is for her own safety.
27:34But my kids always wonder where she's at.
27:36They always for days at a time.
27:38She's never home.
27:40And we broke it off several weeks ago.
27:43And only with my income alone, I can't really just do it with just me and my kids, especially
27:50that one has autism.
27:51I've always got to take her to the doctor and whatnot.
27:54And she and for these past few weeks, I have not seen or heard from her even as so much
28:00as trying to help out with the kids or anything like that.
28:04So I just I can't get it.
28:05I'm surprised she's even here at court today.
28:08OK, when you say kids, how many I have to to.
28:12All right.
28:13I mean, we like you know, I have to.
28:16Ma'am, I'm addressing him.
28:19So he answered appropriately and you have your opportunity to speak.
28:23OK.
28:24OK.
28:25Thank you.
28:26All right.
28:27So you say you changed your job to now you work overnight.
28:30Yes.
28:31What is it that you do?
28:32I drive an 18 wheeler.
28:33I drive locally.
28:34I deliver hospital supplies.
28:35OK.
28:36So I'm assuming that's how you all met beforehand.
28:39But we had the same interest in the medical field.
28:42OK.
28:43All right.
28:44And how long has this how long has it been since you all stopped living together?
28:48It's been, I want to say, a month and a week already.
28:52OK.
28:54All right.
28:56Is there anything else you want me to know before I move over to her?
29:00She just for as long as I can remember, about two years now, she's just never been wanting
29:08to come home, really.
29:09And honestly, I've caught her having some painkillers that I would I would only assume
29:14she's taken from the hospital she works at.
29:19She's either on painkillers or sometimes I'll find needles around and and whatnot.
29:24So I know she works at a hospital, so she's got to get the drugs from there.
29:28OK.
29:30Is there anything else you want me to know?
29:32I just hate that it's really around the kids.
29:34The kids find it before I do most of the time.
29:37Oh my.
29:38Yes.
29:39Ma'am?
29:40I mean, I'm not sure where he's getting this intel from, but obviously the kids.
29:46I mean, I mean, are you saying your kids are liars?
29:51I mean, they could be.
29:52I mean, I'm not sure.
29:53I mean, you're not sure because you're not around that much.
29:58I am around.
29:59I just.
30:01I just have to work all the time.
30:02I mean, it's not my fault that, you know, saving lives isn't important to him.
30:06No, I believe it is important to him.
30:08I don't think that's what he's saying.
30:10He's saying that you're not contributing anything.
30:15I mean, I am, though, like I feed them or sometimes and or I feed you.
30:22You'd agree with me that that's your responsibility, right?
30:25She brings them fast food and leaves.
30:27OK, but it's food, though.
30:29Fast food.
30:30So you don't sit there and spend quality time with your kids.
30:32You say, here, here's food and leave.
30:35I mean, the tablet works just fine.
30:37They can just eat and watch the tablet.
30:40Like why is that a problem?
30:42So you want to raise a child off of a tablet?
30:45You think that's OK?
30:46I mean, they have educational stuff.
30:48I don't see what's wrong with it.
30:49I need to go to sleep at some point in time.
30:53Interesting.
30:55Me personally, myself, I sit there with my kids and I open a book with them
30:59and I help them with their homework.
31:01I feed them.
31:02I'm not much of a good cook, but I do what I can to put food on the table and spend time with them.
31:07Yeah, nobody's there denying what he's saying.
31:09It doesn't matter if I lose sleep over it.
31:10I mean, that's why I went to overnight, because I want to spend time with my kids.
31:13He changed his shift to spend more time with the kids.
31:17As you should, you're a mom.
31:18The audacity.
31:20I mean, but I have a more important thought.
31:23I mean, how many times are you going to say that?
31:25I mean, you have the audacity to say that he's a dad and he should do these things.
31:33But you're the mom and not doing these things.
31:36He changed his shift.
31:37Why can't you?
31:39Because it's inconvenient to me.
31:40I've actually heard a couple of times to where she says, I gave birth to him.
31:44It's your job to take care of him.
31:46You believe that?
31:47Yes.
31:48Interesting.
31:49Wow.
31:50No, that's not how this works.
31:51That's not how any of this works.
31:54Her family must be so embarrassed by her behavior.
31:56You are going to financially support these children, and I'm going to make sure of it today.
32:01And you may want to look into trying to do a shift change yourself.
32:06So you can spend some time with the kids.
32:07I mean, obviously, I can't co-order you or force you to spend time with them, but you should want to spend time with the kids.
32:15And I mean, considering that one of them has autism, you should want to spend more time with your kids.
32:23I mean, I get it, but it's too much work having a kid with autism.
32:28That's why I just leave it to him because he's better suited for that.
32:33Right.
32:33Yeah.
32:34No, I'm not about to do this game with you.
32:37Since you left a month and a week ago, have you given him any money for the children?
32:44I don't need an explanation either.
32:45It's a yes or no.
32:46No.
32:47Okay.
32:47Thank you.
32:49All right.
32:49She's actually asked for money instead of giving.
32:54And then you have the nerve to ask for money and the kids are with him?
32:57I mean, he has an obligation to give me support.
33:01You have...
33:02You know what?
33:03I'm not about to play with you.
33:04You came here to waste my time because you have the same obligation to your kids.
33:09He should not be paying you anything if the kids are with him majority of the time,
33:15if they're living with him.
33:17If he is the primary parent, he is tasked with the daily duties of caring for these kids.
33:23He shouldn't pay you anything, ma'am.
33:26And it is ridiculous that you believe that he should.
33:33Yeah.
33:33No, we're not doing that.
33:34This is what we're going to do.
33:35How much money you make a year?
33:36$60,000.
33:37Okay.
33:38$60,000.
33:40All right.
33:41Health insurance?
33:43That's about the...
33:45I just have the individual.
33:47He has a family one under his plan.
33:49So I just pay 80 every two weeks.
33:52Okay.
33:52Health insurance.
33:53Is it private health insurance?
33:55It's the children under Medicaid?
33:56What are we doing?
33:57It's Medicaid.
33:57Medicaid?
33:58Okay.
33:59So you're going to have to pay that back to Medicaid, just FYI,
34:03unless you want to put them on private health insurance,
34:05which I don't see why you would have a problem with it.
34:08You're a nurse.
34:10You have access to private health insurance, right?
34:12Yes.
34:13So why did you just get an individual plan when you have a family?
34:19That was a question.
34:20Because it's his job to take care of them, and I shouldn't have to spend money.
34:23You know what?
34:24Don't say that again about what his responsibilities are and what his job is,
34:28because you're a mom, period.
34:30I mean, but I didn't sign up for it.
34:32Countless times I've told her, yes, it is my job to take care of our children.
34:36And I'm doing well beyond.
34:39She's not disputing that you're doing that.
34:42Yes.
34:42But you're not doing your part.
34:44I feel like I'm always not doing enough for my kids.
34:46It's only because I don't have my kids.
34:47The difference of being a progenitor and a parent, you know?
34:52I mean, like, I was pregnant.
34:54I told him I didn't want him because I wanted to support him.
34:56Biological parent and a caregiver, you know?
34:58Yeah.
34:59I mean, I-
35:00She just held it in her womb for nine months, and then that was it.
35:03He's absolutely amazing.
35:04She's bloody awful.
35:06Because, like I said about the contrast, he's an amazing guy.
35:11He knows his responsibilities as a parent.
35:17He is a decent man.
35:19She, she's an awful woman.
35:22I'm glad that he has the kids, because she is detrimental to those children.
35:31The fact that she's taking drugs from her workplace, and the kids are finding them.
35:37So, you know, I think that there should be more to this.
35:44Just the fact that she needed a court to tell her that she needs to be a responsible parent.
35:51Yeah.
35:51Or what it means to be a responsible parent.
35:57I'm so glad that there's only royalty and ability that will be able to have the children in the New Kingdom.
36:09Because, let's face it, there's been, with the human race the way it is, when you look,
36:17come on guys, when you look at, say, your local area,
36:23and you know about the women that are in those areas that are having the children.
36:32They are irresponsible.
36:33They're like kids themselves.
36:35They are very, very immature.
36:37And you wonder why, in society, the children have gone to become like luchador kids,
36:45that they are out there committing crimes.
36:49It's because they haven't got that nuclear family as it's supposed to be.
36:56That hierarchy of the parents being in charge, and the main person being in charge is the man.
37:07Yeah, that family dynamic's been utterly destroyed in Western culture.
37:11And what little remains is being strongly discouraged by the system itself.
37:15Yeah.
37:17Very few people, if any, are standing up against that.
37:20And it's set to be a large contributor to the destruction of American society.
37:27So that's happening.
37:30The fuse is already lit, and the bomb's about to explode, if it hasn't already in some ways,
37:36which it kind of has.
37:39But it's showing us an example of how things can be,
37:45how things shouldn't be, what will need to change, and why.
37:51And that kind of brings us into a topic where you had a point of discussion for next week.
37:57Yeah, certainly.
37:58We were going to talk a little bit about narcissistic manipulation.
38:03Yes.
38:04And this is, again, about relationship dynamics.
38:07Particularly, it does apply to both, it does apply to both genders,
38:13but particularly, it applies majority with women.
38:18So, I mean, we're not deliberately misogynistic here,
38:24but it might seem like we are, because men get the raw end of the deal quite often.
38:32They certainly do.
38:33The thing is, with narcissistic behaviors,
38:40in my opinion, from what I have known throughout my life,
38:45with experiencing men and women, the way that they are characteristic-wise,
38:53being in relationships myself, where I've had to deal with people that are narcissistic,
39:00I find that the women are actually more narcissistic than the men.
39:07Yeah.
39:07In my opinion.
39:08I think we can kind of see where that comes from.
39:13And it's sort of like the princess mentality to think like
39:20that they're brought up being, as though they are noble by default,
39:25like the Cinderella syndrome.
39:27Yeah.
39:27Someone's going to come rescue them from their shitty lifestyle
39:32that they've been a part of for generations, that somehow they are worthy of better.
39:38Yeah.
39:39Simply by virtue of a shoe fitting them.
39:43Yeah.
39:43Or something ridiculous like that.
39:47But it's not the truth of it.
39:49It's a pure fantasy.
39:50And it's a fantasy that's imposed upon them by a giant media conglomerate.
39:57And giant media conglomerates have an agenda.
40:01Yeah.
40:01I mean, just for example, I call it the black widow syndrome,
40:08because a black widow will create that layer and allow the prey to come in.
40:16Yeah.
40:17Now, with women that are narcissistic, they're using their femininity
40:23beyond a certain level to lure men in.
40:28They're victims.
40:30It's like, look at me, look at me, look at me, look at me attitude.
40:33Yeah.
40:33And they'll lure it in.
40:35And then once they've got that person ensnared, they'll start to do the abuse syndrome.
40:41And there's this particular tactic.
40:44Correct.
40:45You wanted to show it as like a preview for next week.
40:46Yeah.
40:47Because I find that this is going to be a very, very important issue to bring up,
40:51particularly, probably not just next time, but the time after that as well,
40:56because it's very, very important.
40:58All right, let me bring this up real quick and see what this nice lady has to say.
41:06Your form of psychological abuse known as reactive abuse.
41:11Reactive abuse happens when the victim of a narcissistic abuse
41:16has a reaction to the abuse they're being exposed to.
41:20The narcissist will try to convince the victim that they are the actual abuser
41:26because of their reaction.
41:28They do this to use as proof that the victim is mentally ill or unstable or crazy.
41:34And if it's successful, the true abuser is actually able to convince the victim
41:40that the abuse they are being subjected to is their fault.
41:44Over time, the victim will become more and more dependent
41:47on their abuser's interpretation of reality
41:51instead of their own perceptions and experience.
41:54It grooms and conditions the victim to feel deep levels of guilt and shame about themselves.
42:01All narcissists subject their victims to a very severe form of psychological abuse
42:07known as reactive abuse.
42:09Reactive abuse.
42:11Okay.
42:12So I suppose that's one of the main topics we're going to be discussing next week.
42:16Exactly, yes.
42:17But not just reactive abuse, but some of these other tactics that they use.
42:21Other tactics as well.
42:23And this is to help people to identify these things if they happen in their own lives
42:29and how to deal with them in a healthy way.
42:31Correct.
42:31Hopefully in a way that can bring some kind of resolution in their relationship.
42:36Yes, hopefully.
42:36And not just simply running away from it.
42:38Yeah.
42:39I think, from my personal experience, and being a narcissist myself,
42:47in recovery, I hope, God willing,
42:51is the self-actualization, the self-realization,
42:57seeing myself clearly and seeking knowledge about what I've done wrong
43:05so that I can change for the benefit of other people,
43:10I think is the most important part of recovery
43:13for anything that's going on within a person psychologically, emotionally, and spiritually.
43:18Exactly, yes.
43:19And narcissism is a symptom of a spiritual malady
43:24that is occurring within a majority of people across the entire planet.
43:31The problem is, is they don't realize it.
43:34They are in denial of it.
43:37And hopefully, we can help each other to recover from this plague of narcissism.
43:43Yeah, I hope so, because there are many out there that don't even realize they're narcissistic
43:48as well.
43:49They put it down to something else.
43:50This might be the most important topic that we've ever covered on the show.
43:56And so, I look forward to working with you on this.
43:59And hopefully, we can go into greater depth in ways that will help people
44:04to be better to each other, to love God, and to love each other.
44:08Exactly.
44:09Yeah.
44:10Yeah.
44:10It's awesome.
44:11So, thank you again for joining us.
44:13Thank you for having me.
44:14And if we don't see you Sunday, which I hope we do, we've got an important topic on Sunday,
44:20I hope you get to see you there.
44:22But we'll also see you next week on Thursday.
44:25Yes, excellent.
44:25God willing.
44:26Yep.
44:28All right.
44:29Thank you.
44:29All right.
44:30Thank you, everyone, for joining us.
44:33It's been an enlightening experience.
44:36Thanks to Sister Ellie.
44:37And thank you for joining us.
44:39Love God.
44:40Love each other.
44:41In the name of the returned Christ, Lord Rao.