Good Morning Pakistan 26 Jun 2024

ARY Digital

Good Morning Pakistan is your first source of entertainment as soon as you wake up in the morning, keeping you energized for the rest of the day.   Host: Nida Yasir   #goodmorningpakistan  #nidayasir  #arydigitalshow  #arydigital   #aroobamirza #zainabraza #danishnawaz #newyearcelebration

Transcript

00:00:30It's hard to play a dirty deck.

00:00:32It's hard to play a dirty deck.

00:01:00Ruh-duh-duh, dut-dur-ruh-duh-ruh.

00:01:03Ruh-duh-duh, dut-dur-ruh-duh.

00:01:05She's humming like that.

00:01:07She's waking everyone up.

00:01:10Yes, with flowers in her hair.

00:01:12The way a bird is fluttering.

00:01:20Dirty, dirty, open, open.

00:01:22It's all dirty, dirty.

00:01:25A little bit of mischief.

00:01:27A little bit of mischief.

00:01:30The morning has come.

00:01:37Ruh-duh-duh, dut-dur-ruh-duh-ruh.

00:01:39Ruh-duh-duh, dut-dur-ruh-duh-ruh.

00:01:42Good morning, Pakistan.

00:01:45Assalam-o-Alaikum.

00:01:47Good morning, good morning.

00:01:49I'm saying Assalam-o-Alaikum with so much fun.

00:01:51And I'm having fun.

00:01:52I know you're not having fun.

00:01:54You're sweating from here and there.

00:01:56And some people don't even have a light at home.

00:01:58Especially now.

00:01:59And then the light goes off early in the morning.

00:02:01And then I know my show gets missed.

00:02:03The heat is different.

00:02:05Frustration is different.

00:02:07And I'm your rightful mother.

00:02:09I can understand your pain.

00:02:10I said today, early in the morning,

00:02:12I will definitely tell you something like this.

00:02:14I will tell you some miraculous things.

00:02:16Is the dupatta straight or is it upside down?

00:02:17Oh, I wore it upside down.

00:02:19Yes, so I will tell you such miraculous things

00:02:21because of which your heat.

00:02:24See, this heat, the light going off.

00:02:26And it's not in my hands.

00:02:28What's in my hands?

00:02:29I do whatever I can to help you.

00:02:30Can I go there?

00:02:31Director, is there an order?

00:02:33Okay, now you see that.

00:02:35I'll give you an idea.

00:02:37My kids don't eat watermelon.

00:02:39I know.

00:02:40This is the problem of all mothers.

00:02:42See this.

00:02:44This is such a good idea.

00:02:46You'll have to work a little.

00:02:47I'm making you work a little even in this heat.

00:02:49Give them this.

00:02:51They will definitely eat.

00:02:52Have a little fun.

00:02:54Give the kids this watermelon.

00:02:57There is so much water in the watermelon

00:03:00that your children will not be dehydrated.

00:03:03Then next step.

00:03:05Sisters are for you.

00:03:07Because if the mother of the house gets sick,

00:03:10then the house will be loose.

00:03:12That's why this purza of the car,

00:03:14the main purza,

00:03:16the main engine is you.

00:03:19My dear friends, sisters.

00:03:21This is cucumber raita.

00:03:24Do eat this.

00:03:26I'm not hungry.

00:03:27I don't feel like it.

00:03:28Take curd.

00:03:30Put raita in it.

00:03:31Coriander, mint.

00:03:33Whatever salt and spices you want.

00:03:36Whip it and eat 4-5 spoons of it quickly.

00:03:40Before you go to the kitchen and start cooking.

00:03:43And see, I know we are hot.

00:03:47Because of this light.

00:03:49Or because of this weather.

00:03:52We feel hot.

00:03:54Because of the talks of the husband.

00:03:56Because he has the burden of the office.

00:03:59We still stay at home.

00:04:01And are under the roof.

00:04:03They are going out in the sun.

00:04:05And transportation.

00:04:06The way they take bus, bike, car,

00:04:09walking, etc.

00:04:11So it is obvious when they go out in this heat.

00:04:14And after that there is 10,000 work in the office.

00:04:18Then they don't feel like taking care of themselves.

00:04:21That they drink some water.

00:04:23Believe me.

00:04:24Most of the time I see.

00:04:26More men than women are suffering from dehydration.

00:04:29The reason is that if women were at home.

00:04:31They would drink water.

00:04:32They would remember.

00:04:33They would see it in front of them.

00:04:35They don't feel anything while working.

00:04:38So what you do.

00:04:39The lunch box you are making.

00:04:41Before going to sleep at night.

00:04:44This is coconut water.

00:04:47Coconut water.

00:04:49The coconut water.

00:04:52Wherever there is a cart.

00:04:54You buy it from there at night.

00:04:57Freeze it.

00:04:58It will become ice.

00:04:59You pick up the bag.

00:05:01With your husband.

00:05:02Put it in the lunch box packet.

00:05:04They will drink coconut water in the afternoon.

00:05:06Do you know what will be the benefit of it?

00:05:08There are electrolytes in it.

00:05:10The electrolytes of the body.

00:05:13When they come out in the sweat.

00:05:15Because of that.

00:05:16The mind also gets confused.

00:05:17Seriously.

00:05:18If you want to keep your husband's mind right.

00:05:21On the right path.

00:05:22Then it is very important to give him coconut water.

00:05:24So do this.

00:05:26So I have told you a few ways.

00:05:29To get rid of the heat of your children and your husband.

00:05:34It is a matter of SMS.

00:05:36Tell me how to do it right.

00:05:37I am taking a pill.

00:05:39It is not affecting me.

00:05:41This whole disease.

00:05:45I went there and prayed.

00:05:47In the Kaaba.

00:05:48I am not sick.

00:05:50Whatever happens later.

00:05:51I don't know why I said this.

00:05:53And as soon as I am in the plane.

00:05:55This throat is bad.

00:05:56This voice is not coming out.

00:05:58Now it is not coming out.

00:06:00But I have become very crazy.

00:06:02I don't know how I am speaking.

00:06:04So you also send me some tips.

00:06:06It should be a little different.

00:06:08Family members together.

00:06:09What are we doing today?

00:06:10I mean.

00:06:11I started like this.

00:06:13If the engine of the car at home is damaged.

00:06:16Means you.

00:06:17Then how will that car run?

00:06:19Similarly.

00:06:20Husband and wife are also two wheels of the car.

00:06:23And if you see.

00:06:25So both are running the house as a team.

00:06:28Very proud.

00:06:30We are shown in our parents' house.

00:06:32But after that.

00:06:33The burden of all responsibilities comes on our shoulders.

00:06:35As a woman.

00:06:36We are a part of the car.

00:06:39We handle a part.

00:06:40A wheel.

00:06:41To balance the car of this life.

00:06:43And one wheel is handled by our husband.

00:06:45Now whether.

00:06:47We have to earn that money.

00:06:49He has to do all the expenses of his house.

00:06:52And what is the woman in making the house?

00:06:55Woman.

00:06:56If she.

00:06:57The money earned.

00:06:58Or the things that are there.

00:07:00The woman will not channelize it.

00:07:02Which the husband will bring and give.

00:07:04Then the house cannot run.

00:07:06Not a single person can do both the work.

00:07:08That the woman should earn.

00:07:09The woman should run the house.

00:07:10Or the man should earn.

00:07:11The man should run the house.

00:07:13Give food to the child.

00:07:14Send to school.

00:07:15All this becomes very difficult.

00:07:17Means.

00:07:18The balance of life is out.

00:07:19So to maintain the balance of life.

00:07:22Both of them together.

00:07:24Teamwork is very important.

00:07:26But.

00:07:27God forbid.

00:07:28Here the husband got sick.

00:07:30Here the wife took care of everything.

00:07:32That is, if he fell.

00:07:34Then she handled it.

00:07:36That is, the woman handled it.

00:07:38If God forbid.

00:07:39The woman got sick.

00:07:40Or any other vice versa thing.

00:07:42She had to do anything.

00:07:44Which she.

00:07:45The duties.

00:07:46She is not able to do them well.

00:07:48So that thing too.

00:07:50Her husband takes care of it.

00:07:52Because it's a teamwork.

00:07:54When there is a team.

00:07:55Sometimes 20%.

00:07:57Sometimes 80%.

00:07:58Sometimes 60%.

00:07:59Sometimes 40%.

00:08:00So this team.

00:08:02This is its work.

00:08:04This relationship.

00:08:05If I was in the 20s.

00:08:07If I was in the teens.

00:08:09Then I would have said.

00:08:10Marriage is a relationship of love.

00:08:12Relationship of love.

00:08:13No.

00:08:14As you get mature.

00:08:15You come to know.

00:08:17That this relationship of husband and wife.

00:08:19This.

00:08:21Love is much higher than love.

00:08:23Much bigger.

00:08:25That is, the whole universe.

00:08:27Running.

00:08:28This is because of these pairs.

00:08:29Running.

00:08:30So how they are.

00:08:31Running with the balance of their home.

00:08:33If someone falls.

00:08:34One falls.

00:08:35He falls.

00:08:36So the first one takes care.

00:08:38So.

00:08:39Today we.

00:08:40Present.

00:08:41Celebrity couples.

00:08:43Will ask.

00:08:44At what time.

00:08:46You know.

00:08:47A lot of learning.

00:08:48You get to learn a lot by listening.

00:08:50So different eras.

00:08:52Or different years.

00:08:53The married couples.

00:08:55They can give you a lot of tips.

00:08:57Who fell at what time.

00:08:59And who took care of whom.

00:09:01This.

00:09:03Is the backbone of marriage.

00:09:05When you fall.

00:09:07And your spouse takes care of you.

00:09:09This is basically.

00:09:11The people who ask.

00:09:13What is the secret of a successful marriage.

00:09:15This is the secret of a successful marriage.

00:09:17Love.

00:09:18Love.

00:09:19Respect.

00:09:20All that later.

00:09:21First.

00:09:22For how long you stand for each other.

00:09:24Stay together.

00:09:26Stay in control.

00:09:28This is the definition of marriage.

00:09:30Good morning Pakistan.

00:09:31After the break.

00:09:32Let's learn from our couples.

00:09:34A lot of tips.

00:09:36To take care of your spouse.

00:09:38Strong.

00:09:49Welcome.

00:09:50Welcome back.

00:09:51Good morning Pakistan.

00:09:52Today.

00:09:53It's a little important program.

00:09:55Take out your notebook very carefully.

00:09:57You can also note on your mobile notebook.

00:09:59We have couples here.

00:10:01We will give you tips.

00:10:03According to your life experiences.

00:10:05Who took care of whom.

00:10:07And what are the things.

00:10:09With which each other can be taken care of.

00:10:11Because in life.

00:10:13No one can walk on a straight line.

00:10:15Always.

00:10:16Someone's lows and highs come.

00:10:18Someone falls.

00:10:19Someone takes care.

00:10:20Someone is successful.

00:10:21Sometimes someone gets stuck.

00:10:23Someone needs to cheer up.

00:10:25So at that time.

00:10:27Your companion.

00:10:29Your brother.

00:10:30Your parents.

00:10:31Or any other relationship.

00:10:32Even your child.

00:10:33Is not with you at that time.

00:10:35But the closest relationship at that time.

00:10:37Is your husband or your wife.

00:10:39And at that time.

00:10:41There is a great need for them.

00:10:43Sometimes some couples don't even know.

00:10:45What to give if we give together.

00:10:47Sometimes.

00:10:49Some couples are also like this.

00:10:51They are also a burden on each other.

00:10:53That is, if one is sick.

00:10:55The other does not know how to help him out.

00:10:57So right now.

00:10:59The three celebrity couples we have.

00:11:01They will give you.

00:11:03Guidelines from their life experiences.

00:11:05And I hope.

00:11:07Whatever they have told.

00:11:09You will get a chance to fill something.

00:11:11In this puzzle in your life.

00:11:13So let's meet.

00:11:15The first introduction will be.

00:11:17Fazeela and Kaisar.

00:11:19Assalamualaikum.

00:11:21How are you?

00:11:23Since you are coming to my show.

00:11:25Mr. and Mrs. Kaisar.

00:11:27No, Fazeela and Kaisar.

00:11:29Fazeela and Kaisar.

00:11:31Nowadays it is women's.

00:11:33First of all, congratulations on the Hajj.

00:11:35You and Yasir.

00:11:37I have become a pilgrim.

00:11:39Mashallah.

00:11:41Lucky you.

00:11:43Congratulations.

00:11:45Inshallah.

00:11:47The second couple.

00:11:49We are going according to seniority.

00:11:51Mr. and Mrs. Kaisar.

00:11:53Mr. and Mrs. Kaisar.

00:11:55Like my husband.

00:11:57He has some problems.

00:11:59Mr. and Mrs. Kaisar.

00:12:05I don't know what they think.

00:12:07I will say both.

00:12:09Asma Noman and Noman Habib.

00:12:11Mr. and Mrs. Noman Habib.

00:12:13Mr. and Mrs. look good.

00:12:15Assalamualaikum.

00:12:17How are you?

00:12:19I will talk a lot.

00:12:21I will introduce you to the third couple.

00:12:23This is a chill couple.

00:12:25This is a yo couple.

00:12:27They don't have so many responsibilities.

00:12:29They don't have so many responsibilities.

00:12:31They are in the yo phase.

00:12:33Maham and Faizan.

00:12:35Can I say Maham and Faizan?

00:12:37Yes.

00:12:39You can say Faizan.

00:12:41How are you?

00:12:43How are you?

00:12:45Alhamdulillah.

00:12:47Is the chill game going on in this heat?

00:12:49Absolutely.

00:12:51I haven't seen a dance number

00:12:53made by husband and wife.

00:12:55I am getting bored.

00:12:57Actually both are going on shoot.

00:12:59Everyone will say that they have done hajj.

00:13:01No problem.

00:13:03Both are going on well.

00:13:05I am not feeling well.

00:13:07Everything is going on well.

00:13:09This is the theme of our program.

00:13:11Sometimes we meet each other

00:13:13in the drawing room.

00:13:15We learn a lot from each other.

00:13:17We learn a lot from each other.

00:13:19I think whenever you meet someone

00:13:21in a social gathering,

00:13:23instead of gossiping,

00:13:25we should learn something from each other.

00:13:27That can never end.

00:13:29Today's practice is the same.

00:13:31The screen will help me

00:13:33with the questions.

00:13:35What is the first slide?

00:13:37Constant struggle with relationship.

00:13:39Let's start with both of you.

00:13:41MashaAllah.

00:13:43Your marriage

00:13:45is more than ours.

00:13:47We have been married for 22 years.

00:13:49MashaAllah.

00:13:5130 years.

00:13:53And we got married

00:13:55in 1994.

00:13:57As a couple,

00:13:59there are different stages.

00:14:01What bad things do you find

00:14:03about Yasir?

00:14:05Yasir and you

00:14:07are alike.

00:14:09If you think

00:14:11there is something good about you,

00:14:13then there is something good about him.

00:14:15If you think there is something bad about you,

00:14:17then there is something bad about him.

00:14:19We have been together for 22 years.

00:14:21It is good that we are together.

00:14:23You interview everyone.

00:14:25You know everyone.

00:14:27The viewers want to know about you.

00:14:29I always

00:14:31talk about myself.

00:14:33Today, I want to talk about you.

00:14:35I am here.

00:14:37You must have understood the answer.

00:14:41Struggle with the relationship.

00:14:43Let me tell you.

00:14:45I will

00:14:47divide this question into parts.

00:14:49On the first days of marriage,

00:14:51there is a different struggle.

00:14:53When children are born,

00:14:55there is a different struggle.

00:14:57When children grow up,

00:14:59there is a different struggle.

00:15:01I will divide it into three stages.

00:15:03Please tell us one by one.

00:15:05Will you tell us first?

00:15:07My children are my cars.

00:15:09I am coming from there.

00:15:11I used to have a motorcycle.

00:15:13Now I have a jeep and cars.

00:15:15They are my children.

00:15:17That is all I can say.

00:15:19This is maintenance free.

00:15:21I do my own maintenance.

00:15:23I don't need anyone's help.

00:15:25I solve my own problems.

00:15:29Struggle.

00:15:31Any relationship is a constant struggle.

00:15:33Struggling is not a bad thing.

00:15:37Mentally,

00:15:39psychologically,

00:15:41when you live with your parents,

00:15:43your siblings,

00:15:45your spouse,

00:15:47or your children,

00:15:49you have to do constant work.

00:15:53That work continues from the beginning of life

00:15:55to the end of life.

00:15:57Every relationship has its own

00:15:59intricacies.

00:16:01You have to live with it.

00:16:05There is a constant struggle

00:16:07in relationship goals.

00:16:09When you get married,

00:16:11you get married out of love.

00:16:13When you get married,

00:16:15you spend 2-4 years

00:16:17in love.

00:16:21My point is that you do everything

00:16:23in love.

00:16:25You do everything in love

00:16:27when you have your parents' property

00:16:29so that you don't get tensed.

00:16:33When I got married to Kaisar,

00:16:35I lost my job.

00:16:37When I got married,

00:16:39I thought if it was someone else,

00:16:41I would have lost my job.

00:16:43But that didn't happen.

00:16:47A week or 10 days before marriage,

00:16:49Kaisar printed a card

00:16:51and everything was done.

00:16:53I couldn't get married.

00:16:55I didn't have money.

00:16:57I asked him if he was okay.

00:16:59He said it was his responsibility.

00:17:01I think men get nervous.

00:17:03I have been explaining this

00:17:05to everyone for a long time.

00:17:07I was caught.

00:17:0910 days before marriage,

00:17:11a guy would say that everything

00:17:13was done.

00:17:15He was a handsome guy.

00:17:17Kaisar was waiting

00:17:19for a widow.

00:17:23When I got married,

00:17:25I didn't have much stability.

00:17:27But still, you do a lot in love.

00:17:31The first phase is in love.

00:17:33In the second phase,

00:17:37you respect each other.

00:17:41You respect each other.

00:17:45You develop a bond for each other.

00:17:47In the second phase,

00:17:49you fight.

00:17:51But you are with each other.

00:17:53In the second phase,

00:17:55do you support each other?

00:17:57If the husband is doing something,

00:17:59the wife should support him

00:18:01in a different way.

00:18:03I have done it.

00:18:05In the beginning,

00:18:07we both worked.

00:18:09We are self-made people.

00:18:11In the beginning,

00:18:13we both worked.

00:18:15When Ahmed was born,

00:18:17we managed.

00:18:19When Zorain was born,

00:18:21it became difficult

00:18:23to work with kids.

00:18:25Kaisar told me that

00:18:27kids are alone at home.

00:18:29I don't like it.

00:18:31I feel uncomfortable.

00:18:33Kaisar said that

00:18:35his kids are orphans.

00:18:39I supported him.

00:18:41I left my work.

00:18:43I told him that

00:18:45we both were working.

00:18:47He said that

00:18:49I will give you whatever you want.

00:18:53I left my career.

00:18:55I was leading characters.

00:18:57I took a break from my career.

00:18:59Kaisar was leading at that time.

00:19:01Hero, Marvi, etc.

00:19:03Kaisar was leading.

00:19:05We went to production.

00:19:07Earnings were good.

00:19:09We worked hard.

00:19:13Kaisar gave us everything.

00:19:15He facilitated us.

00:19:17I took my kids to school.

00:19:19I taught them.

00:19:21I was their driver.

00:19:25These things help

00:19:27to maintain a relationship.

00:19:29Obviously.

00:19:31You help each other.

00:19:33You share responsibilities.

00:19:35You settled in life.

00:19:37Your kids studied.

00:19:39Now that stage has come.

00:19:41Relationship.

00:19:43Now,

00:19:45small kids have small problems.

00:19:47Big kids have big problems.

00:19:49You think about kids.

00:19:51You think about their careers.

00:19:53You think about their new lives.

00:19:55You are doing something.

00:19:57Big kids have big problems.

00:20:01You have to take care of

00:20:03the smallest kid.

00:20:05What are you saying?

00:20:07When I started production,

00:20:09Baba had a famous play.

00:20:11Kashkul.

00:20:13You had a new Japanese car.

00:20:15With extended bumper.

00:20:17I don't remember the name of the car.

00:20:23When we were going to NTM,

00:20:25Baba came in the car.

00:20:27Tanveer and I

00:20:29bought a Mercedes.

00:20:31We had black Mercedes.

00:20:33Baba came in the new car.

00:20:35He looked at us.

00:20:37He said, where are you coming from?

00:20:41I said, brother,

00:20:43you are an employee.

00:20:45You can't come openly.

00:20:47We are not employees.

00:20:49We are enjoying.

00:20:51You love each other.

00:20:53Even though you are seniors.

00:20:55We respect each other.

00:20:57Where did your father

00:20:59come from?

00:21:01We were watching

00:21:03our wedding album.

00:21:05Your father,

00:21:07Hassan Jahangir,

00:21:09Shabbir Jaan,

00:21:11Ayaaz Khan,

00:21:13Mishri.

00:21:15Hassan Jahangir

00:21:17sang a very nice song

00:21:19on my mehendi.

00:21:21He said, don't get married.

00:21:23He sang this on your wedding?

00:21:25Yes.

00:21:27He was giving a message.

00:21:31He gave a message.

00:21:33Now, second tip.

00:21:35Show the slide.

00:21:37Children handling.

00:21:39Take care of

00:21:41the children.

00:21:43This is also a tip.

00:21:45This is art.

00:21:47I was listening to

00:21:49so many experiences.

00:21:51Small problems, big problems.

00:21:53We didn't go on the stage.

00:21:55Both our daughters are small.

00:21:57Our small things.

00:21:59Thank God,

00:22:01daughters

00:22:03do whatever they are told.

00:22:05They don't insist.

00:22:07If I don't have a son,

00:22:09I don't know.

00:22:11This doesn't happen in every family.

00:22:13I don't have the experience

00:22:15of what sons do.

00:22:17My daughter is not mischievous.

00:22:19Today's girls

00:22:21are very mischievous.

00:22:23But if you tell them,

00:22:25it won't happen.

00:22:27If you go to your father,

00:22:29he will scold you.

00:22:31She will make an image

00:22:33to scare me.

00:22:35Don't tell your father.

00:22:37I don't scold her.

00:22:39I don't scold her.

00:22:41If I scold her,

00:22:43she will say,

00:22:45I don't know where

00:22:47your mother came from.

00:22:49She is very small.

00:22:51Don't scold her.

00:22:53She scolds me.

00:22:55Noman doesn't say anything.

00:22:57There are many

00:22:59conflicts between

00:23:01husband and wife

00:23:03regarding the upbringing

00:23:05of children.

00:23:07There are many conflicts.

00:23:09Which school to put them in?

00:23:11Which school not to put them in?

00:23:13There are many small issues.

00:23:15You don't know

00:23:17that they are damaging

00:23:19your relationship.

00:23:21What should be done to avoid it?

00:23:23It is every person's desire.

00:23:25Mother and father are different.

00:23:27Children don't know what to do.

00:23:29Every person has to

00:23:31guide them.

00:23:33She wanted her daughter

00:23:35to study in this school.

00:23:37My daughter goes to a school.

00:23:39She should study in that school.

00:23:41I got her admitted in another school.

00:23:43She said, no, study there.

00:23:45I tried my best.

00:23:47I even called the ministers.

00:23:49I tried my best.

00:23:51But I didn't get admission.

00:23:53I told her to get admission

00:23:55in the third school.

00:23:57I told her that I won't get her admitted

00:23:59before 3.5 or 4 years.

00:24:01She said she won't get it.

00:24:03I told her that I won't get it.

00:24:05You said that

00:24:07you won't send your daughter

00:24:09to school before 3.5 or 4 years.

00:24:11You tried

00:24:13to get her admitted

00:24:15in the school where her mother wanted.

00:24:17Nanyal and Daryal

00:24:19are not in our scene.

00:24:21All of them are in Lahore.

00:24:23Only Nanyal is here.

00:24:25She never refuses me.

00:24:27Who will refuse you?

00:24:29I don't know.

00:24:31I have never

00:24:33stayed at home

00:24:35for 30 years.

00:24:37In 30 years,

00:24:39she hasn't stayed at home

00:24:41even for a single day.

00:24:43You are right.

00:24:45If I talk about my marriage,

00:24:47we are very poor.

00:24:49Nanyal and Daryal

00:24:51were very close.

00:24:53Yasir wanted her to be

00:24:55closer to me than Daryal.

00:24:57Whether she was close or not,

00:24:59she wanted to be connected.

00:25:01We were very close

00:25:03to Nanyal.

00:25:05She was my aunt.

00:25:07When my parents used to go to office,

00:25:09she used to take care of us.

00:25:11We were very close.

00:25:13She wanted her children

00:25:15to be closer to her.

00:25:17Nanyal and Daryal

00:25:19are very close to each other.

00:25:21They love each other.

00:25:23There is nothing special

00:25:25about it.

00:25:27Nanyal used to take care

00:25:29of her children

00:25:31when she used to work.

00:25:33Our children are

00:25:35connected to each other

00:25:37but they are only

00:25:39attached to their parents.

00:25:41We have a system

00:25:43that they are our friends.

00:25:45If you are

00:25:47Nanyal's aunt or uncle,

00:25:49I don't have a sister.

00:25:51Our children are connected to us

00:25:53but they are only

00:25:55attached to their nanny.

00:25:57That happens.

00:25:59Show me the slide

00:26:01after the break.

00:26:03I will ask her the solution.

00:26:05She is our third couple.

00:26:07She couldn't say anything.

00:26:09Show me the slide.

00:26:15Hadia and Maham's Panic.

00:26:19Let's hear her views

00:26:21after the break.

00:26:23Be ready. Good morning.

00:26:39Welcome. Welcome back.

00:26:41Good morning Pakistan.

00:26:43Before the break,

00:26:45I will show you the slide again.

00:26:47Maham and Faizan's

00:26:49tips.

00:26:51Hadia and Maham's

00:26:53Panic.

00:26:55This is our topic.

00:26:57If one falls down,

00:26:59the other takes care of it.

00:27:01If the mother is weak,

00:27:03the father becomes strong.

00:27:05If the father is weak,

00:27:07the mother becomes strong.

00:27:09I think I really want to start

00:27:11with that.

00:27:13The word panic is probably

00:27:15used by Faizan.

00:27:17Honestly,

00:27:19I am one of those

00:27:21who are very concerned

00:27:23about everything.

00:27:25Why is this happening?

00:27:27Why is this not happening?

00:27:29Not that I am always in a race

00:27:31because I am never in a part of the rat race.

00:27:33Ever.

00:27:35But maybe

00:27:37my personality is

00:27:39that I am very careful

00:27:41about everything.

00:27:43I overthink a lot.

00:27:45I think about things that are not happening.

00:27:47I think about things that are not happening.

00:27:49I think about things that are not happening.

00:27:51Maybe that is called panic.

00:27:53I think that is called panic.

00:27:55I think that is called panic.

00:27:57I will call it focus.

00:27:59Ever since Maham

00:28:01became a part of our life,

00:28:03Maham's focus is on everything.

00:28:05I keep reminding Maham

00:28:07as a partner

00:28:09that okay, you have a child.

00:28:11It's very good.

00:28:13But you have to take care of yourself.

00:28:15When you start

00:28:17focusing on your child's health

00:28:19and you are not well,

00:28:21you are taking care of him.

00:28:23You are taking care of his medicines.

00:28:25You don't even know about your own medicines.

00:28:27It is said that you should wear

00:28:29the oxygen mask first.

00:28:31This is a good example.

00:28:33I try to constantly remind Maham

00:28:35that she should also focus on herself.

00:28:37I have seen that

00:28:39Maham's entire focus

00:28:41whether it is clothes, food,

00:28:43health, schools,

00:28:45everything is on Hadiya.

00:28:47The first question, the first answer is Hadiya.

00:28:49Which is a good thing.

00:28:51Maham is also working.

00:28:53When we decide our dates,

00:28:55we always try to have one of us

00:28:57at home.

00:28:59When we are scheduling,

00:29:01we always make sure that Hadiya is in focus.

00:29:03We are always at the same house.

00:29:05Although there are grandmothers,

00:29:07grandmothers, sister-in-laws,

00:29:09everything is there.

00:29:11As a parent, one of us should be there.

00:29:13Obviously, as I told you earlier,

00:29:15when I started working again

00:29:17after Hadiya, I was 3 months postpartum only.

00:29:19In the third month,

00:29:21when Hadiya was about to turn 3 months,

00:29:23I went back to work.

00:29:25I made a commitment

00:29:27that I won't be able to work

00:29:29because I was working throughout my pregnancy.

00:29:31I was not at home at all.

00:29:33When I was about to go to work,

00:29:35I started having drawbacks.

00:29:37How can I go?

00:29:39She is so small.

00:29:41Mom guilt, I think,

00:29:43gets attached to your life.

00:29:45At least, it is with me.

00:29:47No matter how perfect everything is,

00:29:49when I go to work every day,

00:29:51I say, I am leaving her.

00:29:53I am such a cruel mother,

00:29:55I am leaving her.

00:29:57I think the biggest support was

00:29:59when Faizan said,

00:30:01I don't want to hear this.

00:30:03I don't want you to say later

00:30:05that I didn't work because of this.

00:30:07Or I was focusing on this.

00:30:09Because I really love what I do.

00:30:11Faizan said, no, it is important to go to work.

00:30:13So, I think, as a partner,

00:30:15this is a big support.

00:30:17To understand that your partner

00:30:19may not be able to see things

00:30:21the way you are seeing.

00:30:23So, this support of Faizan

00:30:25with Hadiya.

00:30:27I don't leave Hadiya with my mom.

00:30:29And she is with Faizan.

00:30:31So, I go very easily.

00:30:33I know Faizan manages everything.

00:30:35If I come to general couples,

00:30:37which is my observation.

00:30:39For example,

00:30:41your children are small.

00:30:43The problems of that time

00:30:45during couples.

00:30:47What are the fights and quarrels

00:30:49between couples?

00:30:51Look, her child is so fat.

00:30:53You don't feed him.

00:30:55The whole blame game starts.

00:30:57You don't feed him.

00:30:59You don't take care of him.

00:31:01You sleep during the day.

00:31:03The child is in pain.

00:31:05Or you don't pay attention to him.

00:31:07In studies,

00:31:09my brother's child has more marks.

00:31:11I was very surprised, Nida.

00:31:13Sorry to interrupt you.

00:31:15I came to know from a very close relationship

00:31:17that when you give the child

00:31:19mother feed in this situation.

00:31:21I am bringing this up because

00:31:23in our religion,

00:31:25as we were discussing,

00:31:27it is not the responsibility of the mother

00:31:29to feed the child.

00:31:31In this also,

00:31:33you will get fatwa on me.

00:31:35But it is true.

00:31:37So, husbands and fathers

00:31:39have this problem.

00:31:41You can't give the child top feed.

00:31:43No matter what happens,

00:31:45you keep it on the mother's feet.

00:31:47There are such problems in husband and wife.

00:31:49You are absolutely right.

00:31:51Even after coming here,

00:31:53there is a break.

00:31:55That's why.

00:31:57We have kept this rule of thumb

00:31:59that we never compare.

00:32:01Because every child

00:32:03and household is different.

00:32:05Every child has a different pace.

00:32:07As you know,

00:32:09I have a lot of children in my family.

00:32:11But we never compare

00:32:13anybody with anybody.

00:32:15We don't even compare

00:32:17other children with elephants.

00:32:19It's unrealistic, honestly.

00:32:21Because everyone has different genes.

00:32:23Everyone's brought up is different.

00:32:25Training is different. Education is different.

00:32:27Background is different.

00:32:29Thoughts are different.

00:32:31Why should I judge my child

00:32:33for no reason?

00:32:35So, we have kept this rule

00:32:37that we never compare.

00:32:39I would like to add

00:32:41one thing to our first slide.

00:32:43We had a constant struggle.

00:32:45We had a rule of thumb

00:32:47that it's a constant effort

00:32:49in a relationship.

00:32:51Take any relationship in the world.

00:32:53If there is no effort,

00:32:55it won't work.

00:32:57If we convert struggle into effort,

00:32:59it's positive.

00:33:01Struggle is also a positive word.

00:33:03Struggle seems like a force.

00:33:05You have to work hard.

00:33:07It's one plus one.

00:33:09Struggle asks for effort.

00:33:11You will work hard only when you are in trouble.

00:33:13We had a rule of thumb

00:33:15that we will always put effort.

00:33:17No matter what,

00:33:19how much work we are doing,

00:33:21how busy we are,

00:33:23what age we are,

00:33:25what social class we are coming from,

00:33:27XYZ, we will make sure

00:33:29that we will have our own time.

00:33:31We will still go out on dinners.

00:33:33Do you guys dialogue, discuss?

00:33:35Always.

00:33:37A lot of couples say,

00:33:39yes, we know.

00:33:41I don't think we need to discuss.

00:33:43Do you think that talking

00:33:45will solve a lot of problems?

00:33:47Of course.

00:33:49Look at the world,

00:33:51everything ends with dialogue.

00:33:53There are so many wars,

00:33:55everything ends with dialogue.

00:33:57Everyone wants to sit at the table and talk.

00:33:59I think this should happen in all relationships.

00:34:01It's not just for husband and wife.

00:34:03It's for everyone.

00:34:05But in a couple,

00:34:07sometimes the husband thinks

00:34:09that you don't want to talk to him.

00:34:11You don't understand anything.

00:34:13When I start thinking,

00:34:15you stop thinking.

00:34:17Then it's over.

00:34:19Relationship is a relationship

00:34:21between a husband and wife.

00:34:23If the partner is not supportive,

00:34:25then the relationship should be respectful.

00:34:27The answer to this question is,

00:34:29it's called a couple because

00:34:31it should stay together.

00:34:33If you don't stay together,

00:34:35then there's no point.

00:34:37So always,

00:34:39keep in mind that

00:34:41people are not used to listening.

00:34:43We tell them to listen to us.

00:34:45Only a good listener

00:34:47can give a good answer.

00:34:49He can also talk.

00:34:51We discuss a lot

00:34:53from day one till now.

00:34:55We talk about everything.

00:34:57Thank God, we don't face any problem.

00:34:59It's important to walk together.

00:35:01It's important to put

00:35:03constant effort in a relationship.

00:35:05Sorry,

00:35:07A husband and wife

00:35:09get to know about a relationship

00:35:11when they have kids.

00:35:13Things are different after that.

00:35:15We have two kids.

00:35:17You have three kids.

00:35:19When a third person

00:35:21comes in a relationship,

00:35:23all the attention goes to that person.

00:35:25At that time,

00:35:27husband and wife

00:35:29need to be on the same page.

00:35:31We have a strange norm.

00:35:33I want to address it.

00:35:35Only men should know everything.

00:35:37We should take it out of ourselves.

00:35:39Men should take it out of themselves.

00:35:41Absolutely.

00:35:43Our norm is that

00:35:45father sets the rules.

00:35:47Sometimes, single parents also do it.

00:35:49Sometimes, mothers set very good rules.

00:35:51Sometimes, single parents also do it.

00:35:53It depends on the personality of husband and wife.

00:35:55Whose personality is it?

00:35:57If your father is not at home

00:35:59or he is out,

00:36:01then how will you go?

00:36:03You should give equal respect

00:36:05to your wife's opinion.

00:36:07You should listen to her.

00:36:09If she has a good opinion,

00:36:11you should not be egoistic.

00:36:13In a group,

00:36:15the leader is the one

00:36:17who thinks

00:36:19that he has leadership qualities.

00:36:21It is not necessary

00:36:23to have leadership qualities only in a man.

00:36:25Sometimes, a woman is a good administrator.

00:36:27Absolutely.

00:36:29The rules set by the family

00:36:31are very important.

00:36:33For example,

00:36:35my mother was a very good administrator.

00:36:37She used to make the rules of the house.

00:36:39My father used to earn more than my mother.

00:36:41He used to run the house more.

00:36:43But my mother used to make the rules.

00:36:45So, it is not necessary

00:36:47that a man should set the rules of every house.

00:36:49A woman can also do it.

00:36:51It is not necessary

00:36:53that a man always says the right thing

00:36:55or a woman always says the right thing.

00:36:57If one person does not say the right thing,

00:36:59he can support her and tell her.

00:37:01It is very important to understand this.

00:37:03If my partner says something to me,

00:37:05instead of being offended,

00:37:07I should understand it.

00:37:09I should not judge her.

00:37:11In a partnership,

00:37:13if there is a judgment,

00:37:15then the matter is over.

00:37:17It is not necessary

00:37:19that we do not have a conflict.

00:37:21Sometimes, Maham does not understand my opinion.

00:37:23I do not understand Maham's opinion.

00:37:25We should convince her.

00:37:27Let's talk about the future.

00:37:31Future planning for kids.

00:37:35We are not getting out of it.

00:37:37Parents, husband and wife

00:37:39are like children's parents.

00:37:43You have shared your experience.

00:37:45We have shared our children's experience.

00:37:47You have three children.

00:37:51How will I become a host today?

00:37:53How many live transmissions

00:37:55have you done?

00:37:57You tell me.

00:37:59How is the experience of three children?

00:38:01You do one thing.

00:38:03Sit there.

00:38:05It is very good.

00:38:07How do you manage?

00:38:09The third one reminds you

00:38:11that you are young.

00:38:13When you are young,

00:38:15you stand in front of the young children.

00:38:17We are also young.

00:38:19You are also young.

00:38:21The experience of three children is amazing.

00:38:23I was saying the same thing to you.

00:38:25We are not agreeing.

00:38:27Let's adopt a child.

00:38:29I have adopted a child.

00:38:33I cannot afford it.

00:38:35There is a lot of work.

00:38:37There is no end to it.

00:38:39They do their own work.

00:38:41My children do their own work.

00:38:43This is amazing.

00:38:45Maham has trained both the children

00:38:47to do their own work.

00:38:49They are very independent.

00:38:51They are not at home.

00:38:53They don't have to worry

00:38:55about how to eat.

00:38:57I have adopted a child.

00:38:59The problem is that

00:39:01I come home at night.

00:39:03I take out the food from the fridge.

00:39:05I serve them.

00:39:07I keep it in front of them.

00:39:09I don't put a spoon in their mouth.

00:39:11I have to feed them.

00:39:13I have been coming since morning.

00:39:15I have a guilt.

00:39:17I have a guilt that I am leaving my husband.

00:39:19When I come home at night,

00:39:21I ask my husband,

00:39:23did you eat?

00:39:25No, I am not hungry.

00:39:27I didn't eat yesterday.

00:39:29I have come home at night.

00:39:31I ask him, did you eat?

00:39:33No, I have to serve food.

00:39:35I eat rice and lentils at night.

00:39:37I say, it's 11.

00:39:39I say, I will order.

00:39:41I say, order in the night.

00:39:43I say, it's hot.

00:39:45I say, it will be ready in half an hour.

00:39:47We had lentils and rice in an hour, so Mr. Kaisar ate it at 11.30.

00:39:50The whole day, there's a record of him eating from my stomach.

00:39:54He'd say, oh, my husband didn't eat.

00:39:56My husband didn't eat.

00:39:57All my life, Baizan, one day, I'm telling you.

00:39:59I don't know if he cooked fresh food or not.

00:40:01No, I'm telling you, this is an experience for everyone.

00:40:03One day, I went to work without having breakfast.

00:40:07So he called me.

00:40:09He was crying.

00:40:10I said, it's not like that.

00:40:11I said, no.

00:40:12No, I'm going to make food and bring it to the set.

00:40:14I said, no, brother, I'm working.

00:40:16No, no, I said, how can you go without eating?

00:40:18I didn't have this problem.

00:40:19Now you've pampered a man like this.

00:40:22And we've spent 30 years like this.

00:40:24And all of a sudden, I come and ask for rice.

00:40:26No, no, don't heat it up.

00:40:28OK.

00:40:29I'll make it.

00:40:30Food is a 15-minute job for me.

00:40:32Food is not an issue for me.

00:40:34I say, eat it.

00:40:35No, it should be presented.

00:40:36It should be presented.

00:40:37The Lord is at your service.

00:40:39But I got this problem from my mother.

00:40:42My mother was very caring.

00:40:43She said, when I go, have tea and food all your life.

00:40:46I said, what's your problem?

00:40:47No, no, no.

00:40:48It's a good thing.

00:40:49It's a good thing.

00:40:50One day, her mother said, I'm going to make food.

00:40:52The selection of words may be a little different.

00:40:54But the point is, this is my favorite problem.

00:40:57The conversation should end here.

00:40:59It's quiet now, right?

00:41:00I think this relationship, then,

00:41:02in the course of time, this cute joke

00:41:04also starts coming after 30 years.

00:41:06If this doesn't happen, you'll get bored.

00:41:07Exactly.

00:41:08I think this is very necessary.

00:41:09It's necessary.

00:41:10It's a spice.

00:41:10I go in a different direction.

00:41:12The table's off, isn't it?

00:41:13Yes.

00:41:14Sorry, I'm coming back to the slide.

00:41:15Let's come back to the slide.

00:41:17Show the slide again.

00:41:18Because we forgot.

00:41:19No, I remember.

00:41:20I remember.

00:41:20Kids, future planning for kids.

00:41:22Now we have a break.

00:41:23Now we have a break.

00:41:24Let's talk later.

00:41:25It's okay, so this future planning for kids.

00:41:26Come, let's cut the breaks.

00:41:27What?

00:41:28Come, let's cut the breaks.

00:41:29It's not like that.

00:41:29How will I get my salary?

00:41:30Oh, no.

00:41:31And how will I give you a cheque?

00:41:32Good morning, Mr. Parthi.

00:41:33Stay with us after the break.

00:41:34Future planning for kids.

00:41:36Even here, who falls, who takes care,

00:41:39whose decisions are made,

00:41:40we have to know all of this after a short break.

00:41:42Good morning.

00:41:52Welcome.

00:41:52Welcome back.

00:41:53Good morning, Pakistan.

00:41:55So, the tip we need right now is,

00:41:57this couple is going to tell us,

00:41:59about the future planning for kids.

00:42:01Now, about the future planning for kids,

00:42:03there are fights between couples.

00:42:05Not fights, difference of opinion.

00:42:06In difference of opinion,

00:42:07there are fights too, somewhere.

00:42:09Some people feel bad about it.

00:42:10Yes.

00:42:11It's okay, it's normal.

00:42:12Yes.

00:42:13For example, father wants his daughter to become a doctor.

00:42:15Daughter says, I can't study.

00:42:17I can't study so much.

00:42:20Here, mother says,

00:42:21I want my child to become a doctor.

00:42:23Casser says, no.

00:42:24Let him do whatever he wants to do.

00:42:25For him, it's up to us.

00:42:27My father was a doctor.

00:42:28He tried a lot to become a doctor.

00:42:31He couldn't.

00:42:32He repeated the exam.

00:42:33He couldn't.

00:42:34C grade, D grade, C grade,

00:42:36I'm going to pass.

00:42:37I'm not lying.

00:42:38Because our priorities were to fly kites,

00:42:41to play marbles,

00:42:42to play football,

00:42:44to play cricket.

00:42:45Education was secondary.

00:42:46And father said,

00:42:47do whatever you want.

00:42:48Just pass.

00:42:50Your class will keep changing.

00:42:51I said, alright.

00:42:52Father said, I don't care.

00:42:54Now, with kids,

00:42:55I'm saying something,

00:42:56so you guys,

00:42:57you're not angry, right?

00:42:59No, no.

00:42:59When we got the kids admitted

00:43:00in an English school,

00:43:03and when they were in class 3 or 4,

00:43:04I saw their pants were coming down,

00:43:06their pockets were coming down.

00:43:08I said, this is wrong.

00:43:09No, even I thought it was wrong.

00:43:11It's fashion.

00:43:12I saw the famous Umar Sharif's

00:43:13burger coming down.

00:43:14I thought it was wrong.

00:43:15It's not like that.

00:43:16Thanks to that school,

00:43:18where I never got admission,

00:43:20can I take your name?

00:43:21Yes, why not?

00:43:22It's a public school.

00:43:22Yes, it's a public school.

00:43:24I know your kids are studying there.

00:43:25It's okay.

00:43:26When both the kids went there,

00:43:28the boys were being punished

00:43:32in the ground.

00:43:33They were being kneeled down.

00:43:35My kids have come from an English school.

00:43:37And it was such an English school,

00:43:39let me add,

00:43:40it was such an English school,

00:43:41where the AC was on,

00:43:43the seats were soft,

00:43:44and the kids used to sit comfortably

00:43:46and pass with good marks.

00:43:48And the teacher used to say,

00:43:49the English of the kids has improved a lot.

00:43:51But the teacher used to say,

00:43:52it's okay.

00:43:52If they can't match anything,

00:43:54it's okay.

00:43:55They will learn.

00:43:56It was such an easygoing school.

00:43:58They didn't see the heat or the sun.

00:44:00When they went there,

00:44:00it was scorching heat,

00:44:02and the kids were being kneeled down,

00:44:03and they were being kneeled down.

00:44:05Ahmed, my elder son and younger son,

00:44:08said, we have to come here.

00:44:10I said, yes.

00:44:11My father said, no.

00:44:13I said, okay, now you have to come here.

00:44:16I did the same thing with him,

00:44:17that I took him off the Cadillac

00:44:18and put him on the camel.

00:44:19And I used to send him to school by bus.

00:44:20I said, the bus will come.

00:44:21Thank God.

00:44:24Who made the decision,

00:44:26that the English school?

00:44:27Both.

00:44:28It was a comfortable school.

00:44:29Because the school I studied from

00:44:31was a convent.

00:44:33And there,

00:44:34the hair was short,

00:44:34and everything was fine.

00:44:36This is a jail.

00:44:37My kids won't come here.

00:44:38I said, we did the matriculation from here.

00:44:39Nowadays, this has also happened.

00:44:41There is a lot of show-off.

00:44:42There is a lot of competition.

00:44:43Okay, that has become your status symbol.

00:44:44Which school are your kids studying in?

00:44:45Which school are your kids studying in?

00:44:46Where are they studying?

00:44:47The one who is giving the most money,

00:44:49that has become a status symbol.

00:44:51So, I didn't have anything like that.

00:44:52I just had a way,

00:44:54which is popular in the world,

00:44:55that the English of the children

00:44:57should be good,

00:44:58because all the education is in English.

00:45:00So, it's not that I'm status conscious

00:45:02or something like that.

00:45:02But no, it was that

00:45:03the English should be good,

00:45:04the grammar should be good,

00:45:05which was not possible in our schools.

00:45:08So, that was the difference.

00:45:09Yes, they learned,

00:45:10but then when I saw that

00:45:11this kid has become 60 kg

00:45:14by sitting in an English school.

00:45:16There is no school in the bungalows,

00:45:17no exercise,

00:45:18no sports.

00:45:19I mean, it's the boys' thing.

00:45:21So, when I picked him up

00:45:23and put both of them in Habib Public,

00:45:25they say, our first year was very bad.

00:45:26But after that, they say,

00:45:27no, now we have become street smart.

00:45:29They learned to deal with children

00:45:32from every area.

00:45:32The children from every area are their friends.

00:45:34So, they made me very happy.

00:45:35They have friends from every area of Karachi.

00:45:36My eldest son has lost 10 kg

00:45:38after going there,

00:45:39because of sports.

00:45:40I must add that,

00:45:41they have one of the most well-behaved kids.

00:45:44I have worked a lot with them.

00:45:46So, both the kids come to the set

00:45:47and you will not feel at all

00:45:49that I am the producer's son.

00:45:51No, we have not given them

00:45:52any celebrity status.

00:45:53They work hard,

00:45:54they come and ask too.

00:45:55You will feel that they have

00:45:56really come to work.

00:45:57The learning thing,

00:45:58I have seen in both the kids.

00:46:00They come and add things too.

00:46:02I have observed Zorain very closely.

00:46:06He is more into editing and camera.

00:46:08Ahmed is more into management.

00:46:10So, he used to manage things like that.

00:46:12And Zorain, you know,

00:46:13he used to look at technical things.

00:46:14He used to look at the monitor.

00:46:15He used to look at the lens.

00:46:16He still does the editing

00:46:17of my cooking show.

00:46:19I am telling you,

00:46:2010 years ago,

00:46:21I observed both the kids 10 years ago.

00:46:23But they are very well-behaved.

00:46:25If we talk about the general public,

00:46:27there is this difference

00:46:28between husband and wife.

00:46:29There is one thing left.

00:46:30Yes, yes.

00:46:31There is one important thing.

00:46:32Your kids are young.

00:46:33That is career counselling.

00:46:35Okay.

00:46:36What is career counselling?

00:46:38It should be in our universities

00:46:40and colleges.

00:46:41We have learnt these things

00:46:42from outside universities.

00:46:44Either in our families

00:46:45or by looking at each other.

00:46:47Kids have their own personal…

00:46:50Grooming.

00:46:51No, not grooming.

00:46:52There is a desire.

00:46:53There is an interest too.

00:46:54Interest.

00:46:55What they want to do.

00:46:56You give them that field.

00:46:57See,

00:46:58a degree makes you a good person.

00:47:01Employment gives you talent.

00:47:04True that.

00:47:05So, give the kids

00:47:06any degree that is of talent.

00:47:09So, we told the kids

00:47:11to become doctors.

00:47:12I said, make them.

00:47:13I said,

00:47:14you guys become lawyers.

00:47:16It will be fun.

00:47:17Then they saw

00:47:18a very big lawyer's speech

00:47:20on TV.

00:47:21So, Zorain said,

00:47:22Baba, he is a lawyer.

00:47:23I said, son, he is a lawyer.

00:47:24Real lawyer.

00:47:25Real lawyer.

00:47:26This is how I became one.

00:47:27And secondly,

00:47:28I feel that

00:47:29we should live

00:47:30according to the country

00:47:31we live in.

00:47:32Unfortunately,

00:47:33in our country,

00:47:34you can live properly

00:47:35only when you know

00:47:36your rights.

00:47:37A lot of people

00:47:38don't know their rights.

00:47:39So, when my kids said

00:47:40to become lawyers,

00:47:41I said, okay,

00:47:42they will know their rights.

00:47:43At least no one

00:47:44will be able to hurt them

00:47:45like this.

00:47:46They won't come

00:47:47into any problem.

00:47:48So, this was also the reason.

00:47:49Although, my heart wanted

00:47:50to become a doctor.

00:47:51My father wanted me

00:47:52to become a doctor.

00:47:53So, a Dr. Fazila

00:47:54was named after me

00:47:55by my grandfather.

00:47:56But, after entering

00:47:57the medical pre-medical

00:47:58field,

00:47:59when I came into

00:48:00the acting field,

00:48:01I became an actor.

00:48:02Because, obviously,

00:48:03at that time,

00:48:04you have a new hobby.

00:48:05So, the desires

00:48:06of our own hearts,

00:48:07we say,

00:48:08let's take it out

00:48:09on our kids.

00:48:10But, if the kids

00:48:11don't have that interest,

00:48:12then we shouldn't do this.

00:48:13So, we used to

00:48:14discuss among ourselves.

00:48:15And many times,

00:48:16it used to happen

00:48:17that they used to say

00:48:18this and that.

00:48:19But, when the end result

00:48:20is good,

00:48:21then those fights

00:48:22also become worthwhile.

00:48:23So, basically,

00:48:24it was a discussion.

00:48:25So, like these two

00:48:26were talking,

00:48:27Maham and Faizan,

00:48:28that communication

00:48:29is very important.

00:48:30Like, when our kids

00:48:31were young,

00:48:32I had learned

00:48:33one thing.

00:48:34At that time,

00:48:35the parents didn't

00:48:36see these things

00:48:37in us.

00:48:38We didn't have

00:48:39this training

00:48:40that you shouldn't

00:48:41fight in front of

00:48:42the kids,

00:48:43shouldn't misbehave.

00:48:44Or, if there is

00:48:45any such thing

00:48:46in your heart,

00:48:47then separate it.

00:48:48I had said this

00:48:49to Kaisar,

00:48:50when my kids

00:48:51used to sleep

00:48:52after the fight,

00:48:53if there is any

00:48:54problem,

00:48:55it will be solved.

00:48:56So, at night,

00:48:57we used to communicate

00:48:58among ourselves

00:48:59that you did this

00:49:00wrong,

00:49:01I felt bad,

00:49:02you said this,

00:49:03I felt bad.

00:49:04So, these things

00:49:05are very important.

00:49:06It makes a big difference

00:49:07in your relationship

00:49:08and in the environment

00:49:09of your house.

00:49:10My kids,

00:49:11until they didn't

00:49:12come to 9th,

00:49:1310th,

00:49:14until we used to

00:49:15put them to sleep,

00:49:16they didn't know

00:49:17that their parents

00:49:18also fight.

00:49:19Yes, when they

00:49:20put us to sleep

00:49:22In reality,

00:49:23credit goes to mother.

00:49:25Fazila took care

00:49:26of the kids

00:49:27very well,

00:49:28all three kids.

00:49:29I am telling you

00:49:30the truth,

00:49:31both the kids

00:49:32roaming,

00:49:33their studies,

00:49:34everything

00:49:35is done by

00:49:36this woman.

00:49:37Thank you.

00:49:38That's fine,

00:49:39you facilitated me

00:49:40financially,

00:49:41so, I said

00:49:42Son, you have

00:49:43met Katrina

00:49:44and Sakina.

00:49:45Yes.

00:49:46You have met

00:49:47Katrina and Sakina

00:49:48together.

00:49:49Package.

00:49:50You scratch

00:49:51my back,

00:49:52I scratch yours.

00:49:53We are no less

00:49:54than anyone.

00:49:55She is a hero,

00:49:56he is a hero.

00:49:57I am a hero,

00:49:58what do you mean?

00:49:59That's why

00:50:00we have met

00:50:01the heroines.

00:50:02He has also

00:50:03done international

00:50:04dramas.

00:50:05Let's go to

00:50:06international dramas.

00:50:07What else?

00:50:08Slide.

00:50:09What is the

00:50:10story of

00:50:11knee surgery?

00:50:12Who took

00:50:13care of

00:50:14whom?

00:50:15This period

00:50:16is very bad.

00:50:17During a

00:50:18shooting,

00:50:19the ACL was

00:50:20broken.

00:50:21Oh.

00:50:22I didn't know

00:50:23what ACL is.

00:50:24I didn't know

00:50:25what ACL is.

00:50:26I don't know.

00:50:27I don't know

00:50:28what it is.

00:50:29Basically,

00:50:30there is a

00:50:31ligament

00:50:32between

00:50:33our bones

00:50:34that doesn't

00:50:35allow it to

00:50:36move forward.

00:50:37And it

00:50:38doesn't

00:50:39allow it to

00:50:40move backward.

00:50:41The one

00:50:42that moves

00:50:43forward

00:50:44was broken.

00:50:45Sometimes,

00:50:46I used to

00:50:47twist it

00:50:48while playing

00:50:49cricket.

00:50:50I used to

00:50:51play cricket

00:50:52a lot.

00:50:53One day,

00:50:54after six

00:50:55years,

00:50:56I threw

00:50:57the ball

00:50:58from the

00:50:59boundary and

00:51:00my foot

00:51:01stopped there

00:51:02and I

00:51:03fell down.

00:51:04And my

00:51:05foot was

00:51:06locked.

00:51:07And there

00:51:08was a

00:51:09sound.

00:51:10My foot

00:51:11was locked.

00:51:12It

00:51:13wasn't

00:51:14straight.

00:51:15There was

00:51:16a meniscus

00:51:17and I

00:51:18asked him

00:51:19what it

00:51:20was.

00:51:21I was

00:51:22with Imran

00:51:23and he

00:51:24told me

00:51:25that he

00:51:26would

00:51:27fix it

00:51:28right now

00:51:29but it

00:51:30would be

00:51:31a problem

00:51:32in the

00:51:33future because

00:51:34it can't

00:51:35be fixed.

00:51:36It can only

00:51:37be fixed

00:51:38through

00:51:39surgery.

00:51:40Otherwise,

00:51:41there is

00:51:42no option.

00:51:43After that,

00:51:44he said

00:51:45something

00:51:46like

00:51:47if there

00:51:48is any

00:51:49bone problem,

00:51:50they come

00:51:51to us.

00:51:52Friends,

00:51:53I want to

00:51:54clear this

00:51:55to you.

00:51:56It will

00:51:57be useful

00:51:58in life.

00:51:59He said

00:52:00that we

00:52:01are not

00:52:02just

00:52:03bone doctors

00:52:04but

00:52:05joint

00:52:06doctors.

00:52:07We

00:52:08are not

00:52:09experts.

00:52:10There are

00:52:11many

00:52:12experts.

00:52:13He referred

00:52:14a doctor

00:52:15to me

00:52:16and he

00:52:17said that

00:52:18this

00:52:19will

00:52:20be

00:52:21operated.

00:52:22We

00:52:23heard this

00:52:24from our

00:52:25childhood

00:52:26that the

00:52:27operation

00:52:28is over.

00:52:29Dr.

00:52:30Umar

00:52:31was not

00:52:32here.

00:52:33He

00:52:34came from

00:52:35outside.

00:52:36He

00:52:37came for

00:52:38some time.

00:52:39We

00:52:40were thinking

00:52:41that my

00:52:42cricket is

00:52:43over.

00:52:44I

00:52:45will

00:52:46ruin

00:52:47your

00:52:48career.

00:52:49I

00:52:50will

00:52:51give you

00:52:52interviews.

00:52:53He

00:52:54operated

00:52:55very well.

00:52:56We

00:52:57did the

00:52:58operation

00:52:59in Lahore.

00:53:00I

00:53:01stayed

00:53:02at my

00:53:03in-laws'

00:53:04house for

00:53:053 months.

00:53:06I

00:53:07remember

00:53:08that.

00:53:09I

00:53:10was in

00:53:11pain.

00:53:12I

00:53:13remember

00:53:14everything.

00:53:15My

00:53:16in-laws,

00:53:17my

00:53:18wife,

00:53:19my

00:53:20mother-in-law,

00:53:21my

00:53:22mother-in-law

00:53:23took care

00:53:24of me.

00:53:25My

00:53:26leg was

00:53:27swollen.

00:53:28I

00:53:29was in

00:53:30pain.

00:53:31I

00:53:32was in

00:53:33pain.

00:53:34I

00:53:35was in

00:53:36pain.

00:53:37I

00:53:38was in

00:53:39pain.

00:53:40I

00:53:41was in

00:53:42pain.

00:53:43I

00:53:44was in

00:53:45pain.

00:53:46My

00:53:47leg was

00:53:48swollen.

00:53:49I

00:53:51asked my

00:53:52mother-in-law

00:53:54not to

00:53:55walk

00:53:56for one

00:53:59month.

00:54:00I

00:54:01asked a

00:54:02talker

00:54:03not

00:54:05to walk

00:54:06for a

00:54:07month.

00:54:08I

00:54:09stopped

00:54:10jogging

00:54:11Let the meat come. Eat the meat.

00:54:13Oh God, what will I become?

00:54:15Will I get up from my bed? What will I do?

00:54:17I said, Noman, there is a little time.

00:54:19You have to take medicines as well.

00:54:21It's very difficult.

00:54:22No, you recover and then try whatever you want.

00:54:24But if you eat, it will take longer to eat and drink.

00:54:27That's why in my in-laws,

00:54:29you know, I couldn't do it alone.

00:54:32Seriously, it was very difficult for me.

00:54:34If I was here, my mother was here.

00:54:36Poor mother, what would she do?

00:54:38I couldn't do it alone.

00:54:39I couldn't even get up for small things.

00:54:41But why was the importance of the family so much?

00:54:43They used to scream.

00:54:44The importance of the family was there.

00:54:46Taking care of the child.

00:54:48And Zara, she couldn't sleep without them.

00:54:51Now those poor legs are also sitting.

00:54:53She used to say, I have to sleep on your stomach.

00:54:56I will sleep.

00:54:58What did you do?

00:55:00And at night, the poor mother used to scream.

00:55:03In sleep.

00:55:05That too in sleep.

00:55:08We had a fight once in the middle of it.

00:55:10He talked to the doctor.

00:55:12Yes, tell me that.

00:55:14There was a fight in the middle.

00:55:16It's not such a crisp fight.

00:55:18It was light.

00:55:20He is talking to the doctors.

00:55:22He is saying that it will happen like this.

00:55:24It will take some time.

00:55:26His physio things.

00:55:28I said, no matter what anyone does,

00:55:30I will get the surgery done.

00:55:32I didn't want to get it done.

00:55:34I will fix it like this.

00:55:36I said, no.

00:55:38I went to the doctor's meeting without asking.

00:55:40He did everything.

00:55:42His card kept working.

00:55:44He did it himself.

00:55:46After that, tickets.

00:55:48I said, we are going this day.

00:55:50To get the surgery done.

00:55:52I was very confused.

00:55:54Sometimes you have to take this tough decision.

00:55:56Whether it is a child or a woman.

00:55:58For betterment.

00:56:00I was very confused.

00:56:02Because I was very scared of the operation.

00:56:04How to get the surgery done.

00:56:06There are many norms.

00:56:08Technology has advanced.

00:56:10A person should be decisive.

00:56:12I think this is an issue.

00:56:14Men are confused.

00:56:16As soon as their partner is supportive.

00:56:18He supported me.

00:56:20He gave me courage.

00:56:22I said, what will happen now?

00:56:24She is a woman.

00:56:26She said, whatever happens.

00:56:28I am married now.

00:56:30I will support you.

00:56:32One break.

00:56:34After one break.

00:56:36We will come back.

00:56:46Welcome, welcome back.

00:56:48Good morning Pakistan.

00:56:50Basically, to live a practical life.

00:56:52When I used to watch talk shows.

00:56:54I used to say, I want tips.

00:56:56To live a practical life.

00:56:58People talk a lot.

00:57:00They lie a lot.

00:57:02Fake things.

00:57:04They don't tolerate.

00:57:08There are many things.

00:57:10When you watch talk shows.

00:57:12You don't know what to learn.

00:57:14How to answer our questions.

00:57:16When you talk about practical life.

00:57:18Your own life experiences.

00:57:20I will say one more thing.

00:57:22You will start.

00:57:24I will say one thing.

00:57:26People think.

00:57:28Ideal couple.

00:57:30What is the definition?

00:57:32People think.

00:57:34Ideal couple.

00:57:36Is perfect.

00:57:38I don't think.

00:57:40Ideal couple is not.

00:57:42We wear the same color clothes.

00:57:44And say yes to each other.

00:57:46This is not ideal couple.

00:57:48When two different people.

00:57:50Live together.

00:57:52Compensate each other.

00:57:54Respect each other.

00:57:56Live with love.

00:57:58Let them be.

00:58:00Don't try to change each other.

00:58:02You are me.

00:58:04They feel sad.

00:58:06They used to say.

00:58:08What is this?

00:58:10Sir, you are a compulsory subject.

00:58:12You are the focus.

00:58:14You are the center of my attention.

00:58:18They used to say.

00:58:20I talk to you.

00:58:22No.

00:58:24I will not say yes.

00:58:26I will say yes.

00:58:28I will not say no.

00:58:30When you.

00:58:32Don't try to change each other.

00:58:34Then you are an ideal couple.

00:58:36I ask this to all couples.

00:58:38Does a person know.

00:58:40About himself?

00:58:42What are my strengths?

00:58:44How is it?

00:58:46Or do you have to convince yourself?

00:58:48No.

00:58:50I think.

00:58:52We know.

00:58:54But even after knowing.

00:58:56We don't want to show it.

00:58:58To ourselves.

00:59:00I know what my weakness is.

00:59:02But I will say no.

00:59:04I know.

00:59:06But we pretend so well.

00:59:08That we overlook it.

00:59:10When does your spouse.

00:59:12Know about your weakness?

00:59:14For how long?

00:59:16I think.

00:59:18I think he knows.

00:59:20I think he knows.

00:59:22I think he knows.

00:59:24In a few days.

00:59:26Everyone is working.

00:59:28Not just one person.

00:59:30I am not 100 percent.

00:59:32No one is 100 percent.

00:59:34Self-realization is very important.

00:59:36If you know.

00:59:38That I accept it.

00:59:40Then your relationship will be better.

00:59:42If your spouse knows.

00:59:44After marriage.

00:59:46That this is my weakness.

00:59:48Then.

00:59:50What should that partner do?

00:59:52We both.

00:59:54I will ask everyone.

00:59:56What happens.

00:59:58I think.

01:00:00The male member in the spouse.

01:00:02He.

01:00:04Female member.

01:00:06His wife.

01:00:08To make his personality.

01:00:10Strong.

01:00:12Helps a lot.

01:00:14If the husband.

01:00:16Is not supportive for his wife.

01:00:18Then the wife's personality.

01:00:20Will be under shadow.

01:00:22Will never be strong.

01:00:24Sometimes.

01:00:26Some women's personality.

01:00:28Is dominating.

01:00:30And some are submissive.

01:00:32Being strong is different.

01:00:34What is the difference.

01:00:36Domination and strong.

01:00:38Domination families.

01:00:40Will never work.

01:00:42If you.

01:00:44Give the wife.

01:00:46The title of head of the house.

01:00:48Inside the house.

01:00:50You are the boss.

01:00:52Whatever you say.

01:00:54We will agree.

01:00:56We will agree to everything you say.

01:00:58We agree to everything.

01:01:00If a working woman.

01:01:02Like Fazila.

01:01:04We have to be.

01:01:06The role model for them.

01:01:08If my wife is strong.

01:01:10Her personality is strong.

01:01:12Personality is strong.

01:01:14Because of family.

01:01:16Because of academics.

01:01:18Because of market experience.

01:01:20But on the back.

01:01:22Father.

01:01:24Brother.

01:01:26Husband.

01:01:28She knows.

01:01:30Someone is behind her.

01:01:32My question is.

01:01:34If I talk about weaknesses.

01:01:36What are the weaknesses.

01:01:38For example.

01:01:40If husband is earning.

01:01:42Wife is running the house.

01:01:44And her hand is open.

01:01:46She doesn't know.

01:01:48How to divide the expenses.

01:01:50Or spread her legs in the sheet.

01:01:52These days it is difficult.

01:01:54Electricity bills are coming.

01:01:56But still there are very smart women.

01:01:58Who can survive in that too.

01:02:00For example.

01:02:02Your grandmother.

01:02:04That time was different.

01:02:06Now everyone earns together.

01:02:08But if you see.

01:02:10Wives complain.

01:02:12Husband doesn't keep money on my hand.

01:02:14Husband says.

01:02:16I don't keep money on my hand.

01:02:18Because money doesn't stay in my wife's hand.

01:02:20Trust is very important.

01:02:22Here it is.

01:02:24Half a month ago.

01:02:26Fazila knows my account.

01:02:28I don't have a credit card.

01:02:30She has a debit card.

01:02:32Thank God.

01:02:34I don't have a credit card.

01:02:36Because Kaisar is so open.

01:02:38I go shopping with him.

01:02:40Then I ask him.

01:02:42Kaisar is looking good.

01:02:44Kaisar does a lot of shopping.

01:02:46I don't go with him.

01:02:48Why are you laughing?

01:02:50Kaisar is very open hearted.

01:02:52Whatever money Kaisar has.

01:02:54If you say anything.

01:02:56I want it.

01:02:58Fazila.

01:03:00It's a blessing.

01:03:02It's a blessing.

01:03:04A woman should be open hearted.

01:03:06A man should be open hearted.

01:03:08I don't have money.

01:03:10From the beginning.

01:03:12Kaisar never refused.

01:03:14Never.

01:03:16Whatever money Kaisar used to earn.

01:03:18He used to put it in my account.

01:03:20I used to do Kaisar's account.

01:03:22I used to do Kaisar's account.

01:03:24Once I went to the bank.

01:03:26I asked the bank to make a certificate.

01:03:28They didn't see.

01:03:30They made it in my name.

01:03:32They said it's my husband's account.

01:03:34I said I have never seen him.

01:03:36We don't go to the bank.

01:03:38We pay income tax.

01:03:40Kaisar never stopped me.

01:03:42No matter how much money I spend.

01:03:44I am so used to it.

01:03:46No one asked me.

01:03:48I am very careful.

01:03:50I don't waste money.

01:03:52But no one asked me.

01:03:54I asked everyone a tip.

01:03:56I forgot the question.

01:03:58It's weakness.

01:04:00It's not weakness.

01:04:06It's a package.

01:04:08It can't be finished.

01:04:10Opposite attracts.

01:04:12To fulfill my shortcomings.

01:04:14My husband has qualities.

01:04:16He has qualities.

01:04:18God has made it like this.

01:04:20Why do you say couples should be equal?

01:04:22They should be balanced.

01:04:24They should be equal.

01:04:26Opposite attracts.

01:04:28I don't understand.

01:04:30How can they be equal?

01:04:32If they are equal, it won't work.

01:04:34If they are equal, it's necessary.

01:04:36Brother and sister's thinking is also equal.

01:04:38No.

01:04:40How can husband and wife be equal?

01:04:42Opposite attracts.

01:04:44One's shortcomings are fulfilled by the other.

01:04:46That's why they go together.

01:04:48That's why it's a couple.

01:04:50That's why it's an ideal couple.

01:04:52Two people living with each other.

01:04:54Like they said.

01:04:56One is going to spend.

01:04:58One is going to control.

01:05:00Everyone knows that we both spend.

01:05:02We have a hole in our hands.

01:05:04Tell us something else.

01:05:06I am not talking about spending.

01:05:08There are many other things.

01:05:10Spending is the biggest problem these days.

01:05:14Maham told in the beginning.

01:05:16What I observed in Maham.

01:05:18She over thinks.

01:05:20I start from there.

01:05:22Then how do we cater to it?

01:05:24Now Faizan will start doing it.

01:05:26There will be something that is not happening.

01:05:28In your couple,

01:05:30Faizan comes up with a solution.

01:05:32We both come up with a solution.

01:05:34Obviously, I have a lot of shortcomings.

01:05:38But sometimes,

01:05:40One of the husband and wife

01:05:42is very good at concluding.

01:05:44That's it.

01:05:46We have done this and that.

01:05:48Now if we collect things like this.

01:05:50It's a way to collect things.

01:05:52That's Faizan.

01:05:54We discuss everything.

01:05:56Because there are many things

01:05:58that I will say that

01:06:00it can't be done further.

01:06:02Basically, if I say in slang,

01:06:04someone is going to spread the mess.

01:06:06I spread the mess.

01:06:08Because I over think.

01:06:10I go ahead a lot to over think.

01:06:12I think women over think.

01:06:14I don't know.

01:06:16My husband over thinks.

01:06:18My husband over thinks.

01:06:20He spreads the mess.

01:06:22I have to collect.

01:06:24I would say,

01:06:26Faizan is

01:06:28my partner.

01:06:30I think I have told you before.

01:06:32For me, he is the go-to.

01:06:34For everything.

01:06:36Faizan, this is done.

01:06:38Faizan, this is done.

01:06:40Now I have such a bad habit.

01:06:42Your car will run for many years.

01:06:44Then there will be departments.

01:06:46Faizan will have to come to you

01:06:48for some things.

01:06:50It still happens.

01:06:52It still happens.

01:06:54Faizan has really spoiled me.

01:06:56Because I have been working

01:06:58since before marriage.

01:07:00This is a very silly example.

01:07:02I manage my dates with Faizan.

01:07:04I make a schedule.

01:07:06Faizan says, you keep me as a manager.

01:07:08Listen, check these dates.

01:07:10I am standing in the scene.

01:07:12Faizan says, you manage these dates.

01:07:14I have a habit of spoiling.

01:07:18He is my go-to for everything.

01:07:20Even I do negotiation.

01:07:22We have the opposite here.

01:07:24We also have the opposite.

01:07:26I am the manager.

01:07:28I am doing the negotiation.

01:07:30Thank God, everyone knows.

01:07:32When my phone rings,

01:07:34they say, why are you calling?

01:07:36I say, I will talk to him.

01:07:38I don't have time after Maham.

01:07:40Then I manage.

01:07:42Both of you tell us.

01:07:44Like he said,

01:07:46people think

01:07:48what a perfect couple is.

01:07:50No one has the same mindset.

01:07:52Girls have a different upbringing

01:07:54in their homes.

01:07:56Boys have a different environment.

01:07:58When there is a wedding,

01:08:00the girl leaves her home.

01:08:02She has her own lifestyle.

01:08:04She has to adjust.

01:08:06In my opinion,

01:08:08the perfect couple is

01:08:10those who can understand each other.

01:08:12And understand each other quickly.

01:08:14It shouldn't be that they understand each other

01:08:16after 10-20 years.

01:08:18Then they will talk to each other.

01:08:20We still fight.

01:08:22They say, women are a riddle.

01:08:24I don't understand.

01:08:26Men usually want

01:08:28us not to fight.

01:08:30They say,

01:08:32talk less.

01:08:34Women are waiting

01:08:36since morning.

01:08:38I am talking about the house.

01:08:40It is important to understand each other.

01:08:42We have a lot of problems.

01:08:44You tell us.

01:08:46I am coming.

01:08:48I am punctual.

01:08:50I am very punctual.

01:08:52I am very dangerous.

01:08:54If you give me time,

01:08:56I will be there half an hour earlier.

01:08:58What is the scene here?

01:09:00I am very calm.

01:09:02I am a Nawab.

01:09:04I have spent a month

01:09:06to get this money.

01:09:10It hasn't been two days.

01:09:12I have been sitting in the dorm

01:09:14with the kids.

01:09:16I fight at the end.

01:09:18If it is too much,

01:09:20I will pay you next month.

01:09:22I am very demanding.

01:09:24I always shout,

01:09:26Ayesha, tell daddy,

01:09:28you should have been in the army.

01:09:30I like this a lot.

01:09:32If this is your place,

01:09:34why are you here?

01:09:36What is your caste?

01:09:38I am Vargo.

01:09:40Leo is Vargo's caste.

01:09:42All three of us are the same.

01:09:44I relate to these problems.

01:09:46I am Leo.

01:09:48No, he is Vargo's caste.

01:09:50Leo is Vargo's caste.

01:09:52I am Vargo's caste.

01:09:54Leave Leo and Shio.

01:09:56What is this?

01:09:58Leo and Dio.

01:10:00I like it in one place.

01:10:02When I go out to look for it,

01:10:04I punctual a lot.

01:10:06I have a punctuality.

01:10:08I have a timing.

01:10:10I don't reach there at that time.

01:10:12I have all the time.

01:10:14I feel sad that I am doing everything perfectly.

01:10:16Why is this not in its place?

01:10:18I like such things.

01:10:20Asma has a different style.

01:10:22She will think at that time.

01:10:24Once the clothes are out,

01:10:26let's wear this.

01:10:28I have taken out anything.

01:10:30The clothes are ironed.

01:10:32I will wear another one.

01:10:34What difference does it make?

01:10:36They won't match.

01:10:38I did the same at night.

01:10:40Nothing happens.

01:10:42The clothes are out at night.

01:10:44They should be separate.

01:10:46I asked him what he wants to wear.

01:10:48He said he is hangover.

01:10:50I asked him to wear white.

01:10:52He said he will wear purple.

01:10:54I asked him why do you get into this.

01:10:56He said it is normal.

01:10:58I have to go for a show.

01:11:00It is true.

01:11:02Nothing happens.

01:11:04Tell me after the break.

01:11:06Okay.

01:11:18Welcome.

01:11:20Welcome back.

01:11:22Good morning.

01:11:24Pakistan is an interesting topic.

01:11:26I don't think anyone

01:11:28who is watching at home

01:11:30can't relate.

01:11:32The couple who is watching

01:11:34must have gone through all this.

01:11:36I am going to talk about

01:11:38an important topic.

01:11:40When you are on a journey,

01:11:42like this is a journey of your life,

01:11:44there are good and bad days.

01:11:46There are good days in your life

01:11:48when you are happy.

01:11:50There is happiness and sadness.

01:11:52This is the graph of life.

01:11:54Sometimes there is happiness and sometimes there is sadness.

01:11:56I told you

01:11:58that the straight line

01:12:00is the line of death.

01:12:02This is the line of life.

01:12:04Sometimes there are

01:12:06good and bad days.

01:12:08How to tackle

01:12:10those times?

01:12:12Everyone has their own experiences.

01:12:14Please share your experiences.

01:12:16Our worst experience was

01:12:18when we were

01:12:20both working.

01:12:22There was a time

01:12:24when we were stable.

01:12:26Our business was flourishing.

01:12:28We were earning well.

01:12:30Suddenly,

01:12:32the channel we used to work for

01:12:34got shut down.

01:12:36NTM got shut down

01:12:38or collapsed.

01:12:40NTM

01:12:42filed bankruptcy.

01:12:44We had nothing.

01:12:46At that time,

01:12:48there was a senior actor

01:12:50Mr. Mehmood Siddiqui.

01:12:52He was in debt.

01:12:54At a certain age,

01:12:56when a person

01:12:58is in debt,

01:13:00it becomes very difficult.

01:13:02No one recovers.

01:13:04At that time,

01:13:06all our money

01:13:08got lost.

01:13:10I told him

01:13:12that I don't want anyone

01:13:14to come to my door.

01:13:16Some people

01:13:18are famous in our field.

01:13:20They discuss people's money.

01:13:22Alhamdulillah, we never

01:13:24kept anyone's money.

01:13:26I told him that I don't want

01:13:28anyone to come to my door

01:13:30and say that you didn't give me

01:13:32my money.

01:13:34We sold our cars and assets

01:13:36and cleared the market.

01:13:38At that time,

01:13:40in 1998-99,

01:13:42it was a big amount.

01:13:44We sold our assets

01:13:46and cleared the market.

01:13:48It was a difficult time.

01:13:50I told Kaisar that I am selling

01:13:52his car. He said, no problem.

01:13:54We bought a small car worth

01:13:56one lakh rupees.

01:13:58We used to drive it.

01:14:00It was a sports car type.

01:14:02I used to leave my kids at school

01:14:04in that car.

01:14:06People used to feel it.

01:14:08At that time,

01:14:10we understood that

01:14:12it was a difficult time.

01:14:14What else

01:14:16did we face?

01:14:18They were from Karachi.

01:14:20I was shooting with a producer

01:14:22in Malaysia.

01:14:24You were acting?

01:14:26Yes, I was acting.

01:14:28While crying,

01:14:30he called me and said that

01:14:32his car wasn't starting.

01:14:34I called the mechanic from Malaysia

01:14:36and told him to go to his wife.

01:14:38I told him not to ask for money

01:14:40and that I will pay him back.

01:14:42In Malaysia,

01:14:44I didn't have anything.

01:14:46I didn't have a single rupee.

01:14:48The assistant and associates

01:14:50were being paid in dollars.

01:14:52I didn't even get

01:14:54an advance.

01:14:56When you feel bad,

01:14:58people do this to you?

01:15:00I am telling you this now.

01:15:02For the very first time in my life,

01:15:04I went out of Pakistan

01:15:06and couldn't even get a biscuit.

01:15:08I didn't have anything.

01:15:10How long was that?

01:15:12I think it was

01:15:14two years.

01:15:16I used to tell my kids

01:15:18that we kept them with us

01:15:20even though they weren't that old.

01:15:22I told them that

01:15:24they can't go out

01:15:26and eat every day.

01:15:28We can't afford it now.

01:15:30Both husband and wife

01:15:32get jealous of their kids.

01:15:34If a mother

01:15:36educates her kids

01:15:38that this is the right time,

01:15:40it will pass.

01:15:42I told them that

01:15:44this can't happen now.

01:15:46When the time comes,

01:15:48we will make it happen.

01:15:50It was a difficult time

01:15:52but we both supported each other

01:15:54and God blessed us.

01:15:56What would you two say?

01:15:58Our basic concept is

01:16:00to be thankful in good times

01:16:02and be patient in bad times.

01:16:04That's the basic concept

01:16:06We constantly

01:16:08remind each other.

01:16:10Even when we eat

01:16:12at a good place,

01:16:14the mother starts saying

01:16:16God bless you.

01:16:18Our daughter also

01:16:20learns from this.

01:16:22She has made a saying

01:16:24that God bless you,

01:16:26fill your stomach.

01:16:28When she eats,

01:16:30it's a sign that her stomach is full.

01:16:32God bless you, fill your stomach.

01:16:34We should constantly remind

01:16:36ourselves that things won't

01:16:38always be the same.

01:16:40A lot of people in my family

01:16:42are from this field.

01:16:44I have seen it.

01:16:46I think

01:16:48the one who falls

01:16:50is the one who is sitting

01:16:52on the tree.

01:16:54We always stay on the ground.

01:16:56It's God's grace.

01:16:58We don't deserve to be a star.

01:17:00We stay humble.

01:17:02When you talk about health,

01:17:04someone said

01:17:06that we should

01:17:08take risks in our youth.

01:17:10Sometimes

01:17:12it upgrades you.

01:17:14It's a game of subsidy.

01:17:16You learn from it.

01:17:18If you don't take risks,

01:17:20you will stay on the ground.

01:17:22You said that

01:17:24it's a sign of life.

01:17:26Sometimes things come from

01:17:28health point of view.

01:17:30I had COVID-19.

01:17:32I couldn't talk to the doctor

01:17:34because it's difficult

01:17:36to get an appointment

01:17:38from the hospital I was in.

01:17:40They didn't know

01:17:42that I had COVID-19.

01:17:44I was working.

01:17:46When I found out

01:17:48that I had COVID-19,

01:17:50everyone said that

01:17:52I should come out.

01:17:54Faizan's brother

01:17:56discussed it with him.

01:17:58I didn't want him

01:18:00to stay with me.

01:18:02He was negative.

01:18:04I was positive.

01:18:06He said that he won't

01:18:08go out of the room.

01:18:10He said that he will get COVID-19

01:18:12even if he doesn't get it.

01:18:14I said that COVID-19 is a bad condition.

01:18:16I was pregnant for 6 months.

01:18:18I couldn't take any medicine.

01:18:20It was the worst time.

01:18:22I couldn't take medicine.

01:18:24My body ached.

01:18:26Faizan said that

01:18:28he won't go out of the room.

01:18:30This is a part of the relationship.

01:18:32Faizan got COVID-19

01:18:34after a week.

01:18:36It happened after 5-6 days.

01:18:38We didn't get COVID-19 before that.

01:18:40We checked it.

01:18:42It was confirmed.

01:18:44I was quarantined.

01:18:46Faizan was quarantined.

01:18:48We were quarantined for 24 days.

01:18:50Faizan made sure that I won't

01:18:52get COVID-19.

01:18:54Are you sure you want to stay inside?

01:18:56I would assume that you are positive as well.

01:18:58He didn't leave me.

01:19:00He didn't leave me.

01:19:02He was inside with me.

01:19:04I got sick on the 5th day.

01:19:06You must have felt better.

01:19:08Yes.

01:19:10I came here.

01:19:12I heard two stories.

01:19:14As you said that life is a graph.

01:19:16When I came here,

01:19:18I saw that

01:19:20our profession is

01:19:22a jobless profession.

01:19:24I saw the condition

01:19:26of our senior actors.

01:19:28They are in a very bad condition.

01:19:30They didn't save when it was peak.

01:19:32I noticed this at that time.

01:19:34I told them that they have to save.

01:19:36When you are getting a job,

01:19:38you have to save.

01:19:40I took this thought and left.

01:19:42Then I got married and saved.

01:19:44Then COVID-19 came.

01:19:46Then COVID-19 came.

01:19:48When COVID-19 came,

01:19:50there was no work in COVID-19.

01:19:52We had to leave the house.

01:19:54We used to pray for COVID-19.

01:19:56We used to pray that everything will be fine.

01:19:58But nothing happened.

01:20:00The savings got over.

01:20:02At one point,

01:20:04we had to sell our car as well.

01:20:06We had to sell our car as well.

01:20:08We had to sell our car as well.

01:20:10We had to sell our car.

01:20:12We didn't have a car for a long time.

01:20:14We didn't have a car.

01:20:16We bought a car like you.

01:20:18What did you do as a spouse?

01:20:22I saw many women.

01:20:24Most of the women leave their parents' house.

01:20:26Most of the women leave their parents' house.

01:20:28When you get a job,

01:20:30call me.

01:20:32But we didn't leave each other.

01:20:34Many things were wrong for me as well.

01:20:38We don't have a perfect life.

01:20:42She didn't leave me at that time.

01:20:44Neither she didn't leave me.

01:20:46If you want to live with someone, you have to pay up and down for such a small thing.

01:20:50Then there was a surgery.

01:20:52It happened in Covid.

01:20:54It happened when the surgery was done.

01:20:56There were so many financial problems in Covid.

01:21:00Then when the surgery was done,

01:21:02he was the only person to earn.

01:21:04What to do?

01:21:06Then there was a lot in that too.

01:21:08But thank God for the kids.

01:21:10Like you said, we didn't let the kids struggle.

01:21:12We didn't even tell the kids.

01:21:14We are small now.

01:21:16But so many of them know.

01:21:18Even if they go to buy toys,

01:21:20I buy my own clothes.

01:21:22I don't wear toys.

01:21:24I buy clothes for them.

01:21:26Now Ayesha mama doesn't have money.

01:21:28Yes, mama.

01:21:30Then when daddy will give, we will buy again.

01:21:32I mean, such a small child.

01:21:34There should be a feeling in the children.

01:21:36He knows that onions and tomatoes didn't come today.

01:21:38The stove is not cooked.

01:21:40There is a problem.

01:21:42Whatever you do for your children,

01:21:44this is also a tip.

01:21:46Bless your children.

01:21:48After you, we will say goodbye.

01:21:50The conclusion is that

01:21:52everyone in the entertainment industry

01:21:54should have been born in rich families.

01:21:56Their parents should have been rich.

01:21:58They should have bungalows.

01:22:00So this time is not difficult for them.

01:22:02So we were not born with our choice.

01:22:04But okay.

01:22:06Thank you, God.

01:22:08The conclusion is that

01:22:10In today's world,

01:22:12whether it is a girl or a boy,

01:22:14every person in the family should

01:22:16do something.

01:22:18Relationship is also good.

01:22:20Because there is nothing useless in the mind.

01:22:22In your mind, it is that I have to do this.

01:22:24Because now is not the time

01:22:26that one person is ten members of the family.

01:22:28Normally there are only ten members.

01:22:30I was expecting that Kaisar bhai will say

01:22:32that husband and wife are two wheels of the car.

01:22:34There is an example of a car in it.

01:22:36If one wheel doesn't sit, there will be a problem.

01:22:38This car is very big.

01:22:40I am a small man.

01:22:42Is this a wheel of a tractor or a wheel of a cycle?

01:22:44I am a small man.

01:22:46Last week we were making a paper

01:22:48that let's start saving.

01:22:50Because other things, expensive things,

01:22:52everything is happening.

01:22:54There is a bell.

01:22:56Sister, your order has come.

01:22:58What are you doing?

01:23:00I will save here and there.

01:23:02You are ordering something there.

01:23:04My time is not saved.

01:23:06Thank you.

01:23:08With your experiences,

01:23:10many couples

01:23:12must have solved their problems.

01:23:14There are people who don't tell.

01:23:16It feels strange to ask.

01:23:18How to ask someone?

01:23:20So many things

01:23:22must have been understood.

01:23:24If you have understood, then apply it in life.

01:23:26Because you make your life quality

01:23:28bad and good.

01:23:30Remember this.

01:23:32Good morning Pakistan.

01:23:34Good morning.

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