Good Morning Pakistan | Aaliya Sarim | Amna Allauddin | 31 May 2024 | ARY Digital
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00:00:30This is a song that I wrote when I was a kid and it's a song that I'm still singing to this day and it's a song that I wrote when I was a kid and it's a song that I'm still singing to this day and it's a song that I wrote when I was a kid and it's a song that I wrote when I was a kid and it's a song that I wrote when I was a kid and it's a song that I wrote when I was a kid and it's a song that I wrote when I was a kid and it's a song that I wrote when I was a kid and it's a song that I wrote when I was a kid and it's a song that I wrote when I was a kid and it's a song that I wrote when I was a kid and it's a song that I wrote when I was a kid and it's a song that I wrote when I was a kid and it's a song that I wrote when I was a kid and it's a song that I wrote when I was a kid and it
00:01:00to me?
00:01:09Good morning.
00:01:19Good morning, Pakistan.
00:01:25Yaha.
00:01:28I talk about this every day because I believe that our parents have a lot of influence over us.
00:01:40No matter how hard we try to move forward, without their support, we are nothing.
00:01:46And for a certain time, they keep pointing fingers at us, telling us, teaching us.
00:01:54We know that if we make a mistake, our parents and siblings will stand behind us.
00:02:01But how long does this last?
00:02:04This lasts as long as they are alive, they have the ability to think and understand.
00:02:12They are physically fit.
00:02:14If they are physically fit, they try their best to help you.
00:02:23But I think the real and good parenting is that you make your children so capable, so strong, so strong
00:02:37that they support you in your life, in front of you, instead of you having to support them.
00:02:45A lot of parents, especially mothers, spoil their children so much that they don't even leave their dupatta even after marriage.
00:02:54That they don't understand anything.
00:02:57In every decision, they need advice from their parents.
00:03:02But it's not a bad thing to get advice.
00:03:04But you should have such a strong personality that you don't need anyone else.
00:03:12You don't need someone else's understanding, intellect and thinking.
00:03:15You should have this much intellect for yourself.
00:03:18But sometimes, we are very ungrateful.
00:03:22We feel that we couldn't succeed in a field of life that we have dreamt of.
00:03:29Or that we couldn't make a place in that field.
00:03:32It's like, why were we born?
00:03:35Why does this happen to us?
00:03:37We start cursing ourselves.
00:03:39That we are unfortunate.
00:03:41We don't think that what we have, maybe someone else has it or not.
00:03:46We always look at our bad side, our black side.
00:03:54But the light that Allah has given us,
00:03:57the things that we have been blessed with,
00:04:01that others don't have.
00:04:03We can't find our uniqueness.
00:04:05And because of this, we are very ungrateful.
00:04:08And we can't do anything in life.
00:04:10Do you know that to do anything in life,
00:04:12your willpower is very important.
00:04:15Hard work, willpower, luck.
00:04:17When all these things count together,
00:04:19then you become a great man.
00:04:21And everyone's definition of life is different for a great man.
00:04:27Some people say, earn money, earn fame, then I am a great man.
00:04:31Some people say, serve humanity, then I am a great man.
00:04:36Some people say, serve parents, then I am a great man.
00:04:40Some people say, become a good human being, then I am a great man.
00:04:43So this definition of a good man,
00:04:46it varies in everyone's life.
00:04:49What is your dream?
00:04:51What destination do you want to reach?
00:04:53It depends on you.
00:04:55And how you approach that destination,
00:04:57it depends on your upbringing.
00:05:00Today, I would like to introduce you to some people
00:05:10whose motivation is so high.
00:05:13And they look at life with so much positivity.
00:05:17No matter how God has made them,
00:05:19they are still thankful.
00:05:21And I think a young man will be able to learn something from their words.
00:05:28Because I think that
00:05:30the one whom God has given everything,
00:05:33he is the most ungrateful.
00:05:35And the one who has some shortcomings,
00:05:40maybe we are the ones who have shortcomings,
00:05:43but that person thinks that he is full.
00:05:46So thinking that I am full,
00:05:49this is a great blessing.
00:05:52Because we are human beings by nature,
00:05:55we are never happy.
00:05:57We have nothing.
00:05:58We don't have this, we have that.
00:06:00No matter what we have,
00:06:02we always look at people who are better than us.
00:06:04Why are we not like that?
00:06:06So today, after watching this show,
00:06:09that young generation,
00:06:11who sometimes thinks that
00:06:13there is nothing in this country,
00:06:15there is nothing in the degree I have done,
00:06:17there is nothing in the hard work I have done.
00:06:20Why should I follow the rules?
00:06:23Nothing happens here.
00:06:24I just go out.
00:06:26Or I leave this job.
00:06:28My dreams are not getting fulfilled.
00:06:30All these sentences,
00:06:32which hurt the parents,
00:06:34are your thoughts.
00:06:36I get messages and calls from so many mothers.
00:06:39And I will share an incident.
00:06:42A mother called me and said,
00:06:44that my son has come back from Saudi Arabia
00:06:48and he doesn't have that job of engineering.
00:06:51The position he was in,
00:06:53or the money he earned,
00:06:55he has been jobless for 4 years.
00:06:57And he doesn't have money to feed his children.
00:07:01And he tried to commit suicide.
00:07:03The mattress he was sleeping on,
00:07:05he set it on fire.
00:07:07Now he doesn't even have a mattress to sleep on.
00:07:10When you get used to luxuries,
00:07:12then it is very difficult for you to sleep on the floor.
00:07:15After a short break,
00:07:17a program,
00:07:19which is very necessary in today's world,
00:07:22because this is the fake world of social media.
00:07:25We are thinking about it.
00:07:27I don't know how beautiful life other people are living.
00:07:30And why did we come into this world?
00:07:33This thought has to change.
00:07:35We will try in this 2.5 hours.
00:07:37At least we can change a little.
00:07:39Good morning.
00:07:40Welcome. Welcome back.
00:07:52Good morning Pakistan.
00:07:54Today I feel like saying,
00:07:56a new day, a new hope,
00:07:58and with new dreams,
00:08:00good morning Pakistan.
00:08:02The day that starts,
00:08:04if we start it with hope,
00:08:06then there are a lot of children
00:08:08who are sitting with no hope,
00:08:10and they are not at fault.
00:08:12Situations sometimes get down,
00:08:14sometimes get better.
00:08:16But it is just a search for an opportunity.
00:08:19And if you get the opportunity at the right place,
00:08:22then your life gets set.
00:08:24And in search of this opportunity,
00:08:26so many young people
00:08:28are wandering around,
00:08:30and someone's motivation
00:08:32has become zero.
00:08:34So this show is for them.
00:08:36And after a long time,
00:08:38you will meet my favorite,
00:08:40Alia Sarim.
00:08:42Because when I listen to her,
00:08:44I get so motivated,
00:08:46and the public as well.
00:08:48So I thought I can't do this show
00:08:50without her.
00:08:52How are you?
00:08:54Today you,
00:08:56and me,
00:08:58and our other panelists,
00:09:00together,
00:09:02all the young people
00:09:04We can't do anything without you.
00:09:06No, we can do it.
00:09:08We will tell our children.
00:09:10Because they are very emotional
00:09:12teenagers,
00:09:14in their early 20s.
00:09:16They are very emotional.
00:09:18They think a lot.
00:09:20They are full of energy.
00:09:22Full of energy.
00:09:24Exactly.
00:09:26And with me is Amna Alauddin,
00:09:28a clinical psychologist.
00:09:30Hello.
00:09:32She is small,
00:09:34but with her education,
00:09:36she can do big things.
00:09:38Thank you.
00:09:40You do so many big things.
00:09:42You change people's lives.
00:09:44Thank you.
00:09:46If you help someone
00:09:48when they are in need,
00:09:50then there is no
00:09:52bigger duty
00:09:54and job than this.
00:09:56Thank you, Nida.
00:09:58So,
00:10:00I have found young people
00:10:02who are emotional.
00:10:04And just like her,
00:10:06there will be many more young people
00:10:08like her.
00:10:10I can't invite everyone here,
00:10:12but I can motivate everyone.
00:10:14We have designed this show
00:10:16to motivate everyone.
00:10:18With me is
00:10:20Muneeb Nasar.
00:10:22Muneeb,
00:10:24what have you studied?
00:10:26Hello, Muneeb.
00:10:28What is your education?
00:10:30I have done my Masters in Economics.
00:10:32Say it with confidence.
00:10:34I have done my Masters
00:10:36in Economics.
00:10:38For how long?
00:10:402 to 2.5 years.
00:10:422 to 2.5 years.
00:10:44Did you do any job
00:10:46during your Masters?
00:10:48No, ma'am.
00:10:50I was only
00:10:52concentrating on my studies.
00:10:54I wanted to complete my studies
00:10:56and after that,
00:10:58there are many opportunities
00:11:00in Pakistan.
00:11:02So, I will apply for a job.
00:11:04How old are you?
00:11:06I am 25.
00:11:08And you haven't got a job yet?
00:11:10Or you haven't got any job at all?
00:11:12Not at all.
00:11:14For 2 to 2.5 years,
00:11:16I have applied for jobs
00:11:18in different places.
00:11:20How many places have you applied?
00:11:22I have done my Masters
00:11:24in the Banking field.
00:11:26And
00:11:28in Teaching.
00:11:30There are many fields
00:11:32where there are good opportunities
00:11:34in terms of job.
00:11:36So, I haven't got
00:11:38any clue
00:11:40to get a job.
00:11:42What is your daily routine?
00:11:44What do you do?
00:11:46Do you get up in the morning?
00:11:48Do you get up in the morning
00:11:50or not?
00:11:52Do you get up in the morning?
00:11:54Believe me,
00:11:56I can't sleep at night.
00:11:58I am so disappointed.
00:12:00My father is a mechanic.
00:12:02My two elder brothers
00:12:04work with him.
00:12:06I was interested in studies
00:12:08from my school level
00:12:10to Alhamdulillah University level.
00:12:12But my father
00:12:14always told me
00:12:16to focus on my studies
00:12:18and get a job.
00:12:20It is not easy
00:12:22to get a job
00:12:24at a higher level.
00:12:26I had a lot of hope
00:12:28but
00:12:30I have been
00:12:32disheartened
00:12:34and disappointed
00:12:36for the past two and a half years.
00:12:38I don't see any sign
00:12:40that I can get a job.
00:12:42Do you want to get a job
00:12:44in a bank?
00:12:46I have already told you
00:12:48that I want to get a job
00:12:50in a bank.
00:12:52My experience
00:12:54tells me
00:12:56that I am better
00:12:58than other jobs.
00:13:00What can you say
00:13:02about your father?
00:13:04Do you have pressure
00:13:06from your family?
00:13:08I can't define
00:13:10in my words.
00:13:12My father
00:13:14always taunts me
00:13:16that he has a lot of talent
00:13:18and he earns a lot.
00:13:20But I am young
00:13:22and I have to take care
00:13:24of household expenses.
00:13:26Did your father teach you
00:13:28how to be a mechanic?
00:13:30No, I didn't learn it.
00:13:32My father
00:13:34comes home
00:13:36in the evening
00:13:38and his hands are black.
00:13:40So, I didn't have
00:13:42a mind for it.
00:13:44I was interested
00:13:46in studies.
00:13:48So, I was taking it
00:13:50and now
00:13:52I am very disheartened.
00:13:54So, you have been collecting CVs
00:13:56for 2 years and you are
00:13:58free for 2 years.
00:14:00You can't do anything.
00:14:02Recently,
00:14:04I have decided
00:14:06to listen to my father
00:14:08and his friends
00:14:10and tell them
00:14:12to help
00:14:14their friends
00:14:16and earn some money.
00:14:18So, I can't
00:14:20tolerate them.
00:14:22So, I have decided
00:14:24to open a small shop
00:14:26in Parchun.
00:14:28Whenever I wake up
00:14:30in the morning,
00:14:32I feel like crying.
00:14:34Sometimes, I feel like
00:14:36leaving my house.
00:14:38One time,
00:14:40I had decided
00:14:42that I can't tolerate them anymore.
00:14:44So, I left my house.
00:14:46I couldn't tolerate them anymore.
00:14:48So, my mother
00:14:52stopped me.
00:14:54I can't
00:14:56tolerate them anymore.
00:14:58Yes,
00:15:00talk to them
00:15:02but be careful.
00:15:04People die with words.
00:15:06I have been saying this for a long time.
00:15:08I didn't know that I have to
00:15:10tell my parents that
00:15:12your children are
00:15:14losing their courage with your words.
00:15:16Parents are an inspiration.
00:15:18But if you hadn't mentioned
00:15:20your mother,
00:15:22I would have asked you
00:15:24where your mother is.
00:15:26I have heard
00:15:282-3 things from you.
00:15:30Like you said,
00:15:32it is a good thing
00:15:34if your hands turn black
00:15:36when you ask for something
00:15:38or when you earn money.
00:15:40It is a good thing.
00:15:42If in life,
00:15:44you want to fly,
00:15:46then you can fly.
00:15:48But if you can't fly,
00:15:50then learn to walk.
00:15:52If you can't walk, then learn to crawl.
00:15:54Because you have to keep moving forward.
00:15:56This is called life.
00:15:58You will definitely achieve your goals.
00:16:00But you will see so many people
00:16:02in your life,
00:16:04who were educated,
00:16:06but they couldn't do it.
00:16:08When they came to practice,
00:16:10Allah gave them
00:16:12something else.
00:16:14The heart doesn't know how to say no.
00:16:16If you say no to the heart,
00:16:18it will trouble you and won't let you sleep.
00:16:20Don't say no to the heart.
00:16:22The heart wants options.
00:16:24If this is not right, then this is right.
00:16:26If you think about the
00:16:28store in Parchun,
00:16:30will your level come down?
00:16:32Remember,
00:16:34this chain is on the forehead.
00:16:36If you sit anywhere,
00:16:38the qualified people,
00:16:40the human beings,
00:16:42will sit with you.
00:16:44I always say,
00:16:46you should get education,
00:16:48no matter what your profession is.
00:16:50Education grooms.
00:16:52It is not just a piece of paper.
00:16:54It makes a person.
00:16:56But the family should understand
00:16:58that if there is some time left,
00:17:00you should be patient.
00:17:02If your child is crawling,
00:17:04he will walk, run and fly.
00:17:06Why is there no patience?
00:17:10There is a difference between patience and tolerance.
00:17:12The family is
00:17:14tolerating him.
00:17:16If we are patient,
00:17:18we become silent.
00:17:20Patience means to wait
00:17:22for the right time.
00:17:24When your son grows up,
00:17:26the world will see.
00:17:28Especially when a 25-year-old boy
00:17:30is sitting at home,
00:17:32two brothers are going to work,
00:17:34a father is going to work,
00:17:36when the boy is sitting at home,
00:17:38the parents don't like it.
00:17:40He doesn't have to sit.
00:17:42I have a problem with
00:17:44those young people who
00:17:46don't want to move forward.
00:17:48When he has given CVs
00:17:50and he has chosen Parchun's store,
00:17:52when he wants to move forward,
00:17:54we should help him.
00:17:56Those who don't want to move forward
00:17:58are an alarming situation for us.
00:18:00We should talk for them.
00:18:02Those who are moving forward,
00:18:04we should encourage them.
00:18:06They have given CVs,
00:18:08they can also teach tuitions.
00:18:10There are many options.
00:18:12If you keep in mind that
00:18:14you have to work in a bank,
00:18:16then you don't need a car.
00:18:18You don't even need transport.
00:18:20Now you know that
00:18:22there are online things for tuitions.
00:18:24You can make money
00:18:26by sitting at home.
00:18:28But these young people
00:18:30have become so patient.
00:18:32They have become so patient
00:18:34that they don't have
00:18:36the energy to teach
00:18:38and they don't have
00:18:40the passion to teach.
00:18:44I would like to add
00:18:46a small thing here.
00:18:48We need pressure as humans.
00:18:50Sometimes parents
00:18:52are right.
00:18:54Sometimes we use
00:18:56harsh words.
00:18:58We need pressure.
00:19:00If we don't give pressure,
00:19:02we don't pick up the direction.
00:19:04A healthy pressure is important.
00:19:06My advice to them is
00:19:08that sometimes in life
00:19:10we need to recognize
00:19:12that our passion and
00:19:14where we can earn money
00:19:16are two different things.
00:19:18Sometimes we achieve our passion
00:19:20which is a great deal.
00:19:22It's a big thing.
00:19:24This can count in their passion.
00:19:26Maybe their income
00:19:28is written from something else.
00:19:30Sometimes when you get stuck
00:19:32and we are sitting,
00:19:34we decide that whenever you
00:19:36get stuck in life,
00:19:38you need to redirect.
00:19:40Redirection means that
00:19:42I keep doing what I like.
00:19:44You are sitting at the
00:19:46perfume shop.
00:19:48You should have someone
00:19:50whom you love.
00:19:52So that when you are
00:19:54earning money,
00:19:56you don't give up.
00:19:58This is my passion.
00:20:00When you mix your passion
00:20:02with your work,
00:20:04you don't excel.
00:20:06Time changes.
00:20:08You may not get it in two years.
00:20:10I would advise you to
00:20:12maintain consistency.
00:20:14Don't give up.
00:20:16Learn to break your dreams.
00:20:18If you are thinking of
00:20:20running a perfume shop,
00:20:22when you get a job,
00:20:24you can have a son.
00:20:26When you earn a salary,
00:20:28you can have a son
00:20:30at a perfume shop.
00:20:32I want to say one thing.
00:20:34No work is small or big.
00:20:36You are saying that
00:20:38if I become an officer
00:20:40and sit in a bank,
00:20:42I will be respected.
00:20:44No work is small or big.
00:20:46You will be successful
00:20:48in whatever you do.
00:20:50You can switch anytime
00:20:52but don't disappoint yourself.
00:20:54As I told you,
00:20:56when a person crawls,
00:20:58he is happy that he is moving ahead.
00:21:00Keep this in mind and
00:21:02you will do better.
00:21:04To motivate,
00:21:06you should sit with people
00:21:08who are positive.
00:21:10We sit in a society
00:21:12where we are disappointed.
00:21:14Our parents are upset.
00:21:16People around us are upset.
00:21:18We watch news and they are upset.
00:21:20Then you sit with your friends
00:21:22who praise you.
00:21:24When you are demotivated
00:21:26and you are sitting with
00:21:28people who are
00:21:30doing their best,
00:21:32you should go to
00:21:34that company.
00:21:36Even if it's your best friend.
00:21:38One company is better
00:21:40than the other.
00:21:42It is Allah's company.
00:21:44It is Jannamaz.
00:21:46Believe me,
00:21:48our loved ones say harsh words
00:21:50but they are powerful.
00:21:52They never say harsh words.
00:21:54They just show mercy.
00:21:56You are in such a beautiful phase
00:21:58that you can't even think.
00:22:00Allah doesn't want to see anyone
00:22:02disappointed.
00:22:04A young man who worked
00:22:06for so many years and
00:22:08Allah is listening to you.
00:22:10Whatever you think,
00:22:12Allah will take you there.
00:22:14What should be the level of
00:22:16parents' compassion?
00:22:18Parents should know that
00:22:20because sometimes
00:22:22parents consider their children
00:22:24as their property.
00:22:26If parents have rights,
00:22:28then children also have rights.
00:22:30In Pakistan,
00:22:32in the West,
00:22:34there is an 18 year old
00:22:36who has to pay his own bills
00:22:38and find a place
00:22:40to live.
00:22:42Children have jobs
00:22:44and leave studies
00:22:46because they have to
00:22:48sustain themselves.
00:22:50In our country,
00:22:52as long as the father is alive,
00:22:54he will keep earning.
00:22:56He will get his child married
00:22:58if he doesn't settle.
00:23:00In our country,
00:23:02parents are like this.
00:23:04You can never measure
00:23:06the level of pressure.
00:23:08Parents should see
00:23:10when their child's physical
00:23:12health deteriorates.
00:23:14When you see that
00:23:16his health is deteriorating,
00:23:18you should stop no matter what.
00:23:20I tell my clients
00:23:22that when your level of problems
00:23:24is so high that you feel
00:23:26that you have a consistent headache
00:23:28and you can't get up,
00:23:30you can't sleep the whole night.
00:23:32Your child can't sleep
00:23:34and can't eat.
00:23:36When your child's physical health
00:23:38deteriorates,
00:23:40you should stop.
00:23:42Boys are not
00:23:44very expressive.
00:23:46Girls will say
00:23:48everything to their mother.
00:23:50Boys are not
00:23:52very expressive.
00:23:54It is a taboo in our country
00:23:56that if a boy
00:23:58says anything,
00:24:00it is a taboo.
00:24:02Even fathers don't like it.
00:24:04All these things are there.
00:24:06You should not fall behind.
00:24:08Everyone has a different capacity
00:24:10to take pressure.
00:24:12Parents know this.
00:24:14Many people say
00:24:16that as soon as the child
00:24:18sits down to eat,
00:24:20you break bread.
00:24:22These sentences are not
00:24:24meant to be spoken.
00:24:26You should make your child
00:24:28listen to advice 24 hours a day.
00:24:32If you keep
00:24:34advising a plant
00:24:36that you are ugly,
00:24:38it will also wither.
00:24:40It is a human being.
00:24:42It will feel everything.
00:24:44It is a trauma.
00:24:46You have to give it strength.
00:24:48Every pressure
00:24:50becomes a torture.
00:24:52Let it grow.
00:24:54I told you that
00:24:56the mind asks for options.
00:24:58Life asks for options.
00:25:00If you are a father or a mother,
00:25:02you are more experienced.
00:25:04You have more ways to live life.
00:25:06You show him the way.
00:25:08If he is not getting the way,
00:25:10you should embarrass him.
00:25:12Such broken children will not
00:25:14be of any use to you.
00:25:16Pray for them.
00:25:18God willing, they will succeed.
00:25:20But I want their parents to be a part of it.
00:25:22Who has earned,
00:25:24who has studied,
00:25:26why are you losing courage?
00:25:28We have more courage than the youth.
00:25:30We have spent time with them.
00:25:32But I still see
00:25:34that they have a lot of strength.
00:25:36They have the power of youth.
00:25:38But we have the power of experience.
00:25:40We have the power of our words.
00:25:42With our words and our courage,
00:25:44our youth moves forward.
00:25:46If we start pushing them down,
00:25:48we will only regret.
00:25:50There is no need to regret.
00:25:52We are taking a short break.
00:25:54Keep watching Good Morning Pakistan.
00:26:08Welcome back to Good Morning Pakistan.
00:26:10Why should we only talk about youth?
00:26:12Why should we only talk about men?
00:26:14Why should we talk about boys?
00:26:16We have to motivate
00:26:18the women sitting at home.
00:26:20They have daughters.
00:26:22Suddenly, they are burdened.
00:26:24They are not ready
00:26:26to bear it.
00:26:30They need motivation.
00:26:32We have seen so many families.
00:26:34There was a housewife.
00:26:36Her husband passed away.
00:26:38She developed a disease.
00:26:40She had to deal with
00:26:42her life.
00:26:44How did she survive?
00:26:46God has shown her
00:26:48a different path.
00:26:50She lived in a four-wall house.
00:26:52She didn't even know
00:26:54how to cross the road.
00:26:56God knows what strength she has.
00:26:58If He has given you time,
00:27:00you will be able to do it.
00:27:02May God give everyone
00:27:04as much time as they can bear.
00:27:06At that time, you realize
00:27:08your capabilities.
00:27:10When you live in a comfort zone,
00:27:12you don't know what you can do.
00:27:14You think you are dependent.
00:27:16Sometimes, you have to
00:27:18test yourself.
00:27:20You don't realize
00:27:22how talented you are.
00:27:24We have Parveen with us.
00:27:30She will share
00:27:32why she is
00:27:34motivated.
00:27:36Yes, Parveen.
00:27:38My name is Parveen.
00:27:40I am married.
00:27:42Parveen, say it loudly
00:27:44so that everyone can hear you.
00:27:46I got married at a very young age.
00:27:48Because of that, I couldn't
00:27:50get much education.
00:27:52My husband
00:27:54was very good.
00:27:56Our lifestyle was
00:27:58very good.
00:28:00He used to
00:28:02work in a private company.
00:28:04We had three children.
00:28:08All my children
00:28:10studied in a private school.
00:28:12We used to live in a rented house.
00:28:14My husband had
00:28:16rented a house in a good area.
00:28:18We used to live there.
00:28:20I asked my husband
00:28:22to buy a house
00:28:24for himself.
00:28:26But he
00:28:28used to ignore me.
00:28:30Life went on
00:28:32like that.
00:28:34Suddenly, my husband
00:28:36had a heart attack.
00:28:38He
00:28:40passed away.
00:28:42I took care
00:28:44of my children.
00:28:46Did you do any work
00:28:48when he was alive?
00:28:50No, I didn't.
00:28:52When he was alive,
00:28:54my life was very good.
00:28:56I had a maid in my house.
00:28:58My children studied
00:29:00in a private school.
00:29:02We were
00:29:04very well settled.
00:29:06When my husband
00:29:08passed away,
00:29:10we changed the area.
00:29:12I had to rent a room
00:29:14in a rented house.
00:29:16I had to arrange for advance.
00:29:18I had a sewing machine.
00:29:20I used to sew clothes on it.
00:29:22I had to pay
00:29:24advance and electricity bill.
00:29:26The bill was very high.
00:29:28I was helpless.
00:29:30I didn't have enough money
00:29:32to send my children to a private school.
00:29:34I enrolled my children
00:29:36in a government school.
00:29:38I rented a room in a rented house
00:29:40and shifted there.
00:29:42I didn't have enough money
00:29:44to pay advance.
00:29:46I sold everything
00:29:48I had.
00:29:50I paid advance
00:29:52and shifted there.
00:29:54I sewed clothes on it.
00:29:56I used to run my household
00:29:58with the sewing machine.
00:30:00I had to take care
00:30:02of my children.
00:30:04I couldn't do much
00:30:06with the sewing machine.
00:30:10The electricity bill
00:30:12was very high.
00:30:14I was worried
00:30:16about how I would pay the bill.
00:30:18I had to sell
00:30:20my sewing machine.
00:30:22I sold my sewing machine
00:30:24and paid the electricity bill.
00:30:26What could I do
00:30:28after that?
00:30:30I had to take care
00:30:32of my children.
00:30:34I didn't know what to do.
00:30:36I cried a lot.
00:30:38My neighbor,
00:30:40who is a good friend of mine,
00:30:42advised me
00:30:44to do household chores
00:30:46like washing utensils,
00:30:48washing clothes
00:30:50so that I could
00:30:52take care of my children.
00:30:56I had to take this step.
00:30:58There was a time
00:31:00when my husband
00:31:02used to work as a maid
00:31:04in my house.
00:31:06I used to make him do all the chores.
00:31:08Today,
00:31:10I am doing household chores
00:31:12like washing utensils,
00:31:14washing clothes
00:31:16for my children.
00:31:18I have to take care
00:31:20of my children.
00:31:22If I didn't have children,
00:31:24I would have killed myself.
00:31:26Children are like
00:31:28a pair of legs.
00:31:30I was helpless because of my children.
00:31:32I had to educate my children.
00:31:34My children were very young
00:31:36when their father passed away.
00:31:38When I used to do household chores,
00:31:40I used to cry a lot.
00:31:42There was a time
00:31:44when I was a maid in my house.
00:31:46Today, I am washing clothes
00:31:48in other people's houses.
00:31:50Everyone's time is different.
00:31:52Good times and bad times
00:31:54I tried to
00:31:56take care of myself.
00:31:58I broke down.
00:32:00How many children
00:32:02do you have now?
00:32:04My son is in 5th class.
00:32:06He is giving his
00:32:08matriculation exam.
00:32:10My elder son is
00:32:12in B.Com.
00:32:14When they get educated
00:32:16and get a job,
00:32:18God willing,
00:32:20their future will be better.
00:32:22As they say,
00:32:24if you don't have good days,
00:32:26you won't have bad days.
00:32:28Children are not a pair of legs.
00:32:30They are our motivation.
00:32:32They are our support.
00:32:34They are our goal.
00:32:36Your life is for a purpose.
00:32:38You can't have depression.
00:32:40People who are focused
00:32:42on their goals
00:32:44are like people
00:32:46who fall down
00:32:48and break down.
00:32:50I always tell them
00:32:52that we were going to
00:32:54give Zakat.
00:32:56Today, we are earning Zakat.
00:32:58This is God's system.
00:33:00Zakat is a system.
00:33:02Relatives play a role
00:33:04in this.
00:33:06Like you said,
00:33:08friends play a role.
00:33:10We look for people
00:33:12to help us.
00:33:14People are sitting
00:33:16in front of you.
00:33:18Don't give Zakat to those
00:33:20who ask for it.
00:33:22I know many people
00:33:24who join you.
00:33:26I hope they join you
00:33:28today.
00:33:30They will support you
00:33:32for a long time.
00:33:34They will support you
00:33:36for a long time.
00:33:38They will support you
00:33:40for a long time.
00:33:42Many people give Zakat
00:33:44for a month.
00:33:46Many people give Zakat
00:33:48for a month.
00:33:50Many people give Zakat
00:33:52for a month.
00:33:54Many people give Zakat
00:33:56for a month.
00:33:58Many people give Zakat
00:34:00for a month.
00:34:02Many people give Zakat
00:34:04for a month.
00:34:06Many people give Zakat
00:34:08for a month.
00:34:10Many people give Zakat
00:34:12for a month.
00:34:14Many people give Zakat
00:34:16for a month.
00:34:18Many people give Zakat
00:34:20for a month.
00:34:22Many people give Zakat
00:34:24for a month.
00:34:26Many people give Zakat
00:34:28for a month.
00:34:30Many people give Zakat
00:34:32for a month.
00:34:34Many people give Zakat
00:34:36for a month.
00:34:38Many people give Zakat
00:34:40for a month.
00:34:42Many people give Zakat
00:34:44for a month.
00:34:46Many people give Zakat
00:34:48for a month.
00:34:50Many people give Zakat
00:34:52for a month.
00:34:54Many people give Zakat
00:34:56for a month.
00:34:58Many people give Zakat
00:35:00for a month.
00:35:02Many people give Zakat
00:35:04for a month.
00:35:06Many people give Zakat
00:35:08for a month.
00:35:10Many people give Zakat
00:35:12for a month.
00:35:14Many people give Zakat
00:35:16for a month.
00:35:18Many people give Zakat
00:35:20for a month.
00:35:22Many people give Zakat
00:35:24for a month.
00:35:26Many people give Zakat
00:35:28for a month.
00:35:30Many people give Zakat
00:35:32for a month.
00:35:34Many people give Zakat
00:35:36for a month.
00:35:38Many people give Zakat
00:35:40for a month.
00:35:42Many people give Zakat
00:35:44for a month.
00:35:46Many people give Zakat
00:35:48for a month.
00:35:50Many people give Zakat
00:35:52for a month.
00:35:54Many people give Zakat
00:35:56for a month.
00:35:58Many people give Zakat
00:36:00for a month.
00:36:02Many people give Zakat
00:36:04for a month.
00:36:06Many people give Zakat
00:36:08for a month.
00:36:10Many people give Zakat
00:36:12for a month.
00:36:14Many people give Zakat
00:36:16for a month.
00:36:18Many people give Zakat
00:36:20for a month.
00:36:22Many people give Zakat
00:36:24for a month.
00:36:26Many people give Zakat
00:36:28for a month.
00:36:30Many people give Zakat
00:36:32for a month.
00:36:34Many people give Zakat
00:36:36for a month.
00:36:38Many people give Zakat
00:36:40for a month.
00:36:42Many people give Zakat
00:36:44for a month.
00:36:46Many people give Zakat
00:36:48for a month.
00:36:50Many people give Zakat
00:36:52for a month.
00:36:54Many people give Zakat
00:36:56for a month.
00:36:58Many people give Zakat
00:37:00for a month.
00:37:02Many people give Zakat
00:37:04for a month.
00:37:06Many people give Zakat
00:37:08for a month.
00:37:10Many people give Zakat
00:37:12for a month.
00:37:14Many people give Zakat
00:37:16for a month.
00:37:18Many people give Zakat
00:37:20for a month.
00:37:22Many people give Zakat
00:37:24for a month.
00:37:26Many people give Zakat
00:37:28for a month.
00:37:30When the situation is good,
00:37:32you sit in the middle of people.
00:37:34When the situation is bad,
00:37:36you change.
00:37:38When the situation is bad,
00:37:40you change.
00:37:42When people are not interested in you,
00:37:44you change.
00:37:46Few people are pure.
00:37:48Few people are pure.
00:37:50In society,
00:37:52we have what we need.
00:37:54If society understands
00:37:56that what we have
00:37:58is someone else's right.
00:38:00I am surprised that we Muslims
00:38:02don't understand this.
00:38:04We see non-Muslims doing charity.
00:38:06We also do charity.
00:38:08But people choose words.
00:38:10I always say
00:38:12that smiling is Zakat.
00:38:14Smiling is Zakat.
00:38:16If you are smiling,
00:38:18you are not spending money.
00:38:20But people are afraid of smiling.
00:38:22People are afraid of saying good words.
00:38:24If you respect someone,
00:38:26you respect him.
00:38:28If you respect someone,
00:38:30you respect him.
00:38:32But people don't respect you.
00:38:34If someone has a lot of money,
00:38:36he doesn't respect you.
00:38:38If someone is stingy,
00:38:40he doesn't respect you.
00:38:42So, you should make relationships
00:38:44based on humanity.
00:38:46You are a shelter home.
00:38:48But I have seen that
00:38:50you have done two things.
00:38:52You have done two things.
00:38:54You have done two things.
00:38:56You have done two things.
00:38:58You have done two things.
00:39:00You have done two things.
00:39:02You have done two things.
00:39:04You have done two things.
00:39:06You have done two things.
00:39:08You have done two things.
00:39:10You have done two things.
00:39:12You have done two things.
00:39:14You have done two things.
00:39:16You have done two things.
00:39:18You have done two things.
00:39:20You have done two things.
00:39:22You have done two things.
00:39:24You have done two things.
00:39:26You have done two things.
00:39:28You have done two things.
00:39:30You have done two things.
00:39:32You have done two things.
00:39:34You have done two things.
00:39:36You have done two things.
00:39:38You have done two things.
00:39:40You have done two things.
00:39:42You have done two things.
00:39:44You have done two things.
00:39:46You have done two things.
00:39:48You have done two things.
00:39:50You have done two things.
00:39:52You have done two things.
00:39:54You have done two things.
00:39:56You have done two things.
00:39:58You have done two things.
00:40:00You have done two things.
00:40:02You have done two things.
00:40:04You have done two things.
00:40:06You have done two things.
00:40:08You have done two things.
00:40:10You have done two things.
00:40:12You have done two things.
00:40:14You have done two things.
00:40:16You have done two things.
00:40:18Those who don't have everything that you have,
00:40:20those who don't have everything that you have,
00:40:22we don't give them.
00:40:24I am moving towards
00:40:26a younger girl.
00:40:28a younger girl.
00:40:30Asma Kashif is with me.
00:40:32If you listen to her life,
00:40:34you will feel that
00:40:36she is a small girl.
00:40:38She is carrying the burden of society.
00:40:40She is carrying the burden of society.
00:40:42She is carrying the burden of society.
00:40:44Asma, you will tell us.
00:40:46Speak a little louder.
00:40:48I have been
00:40:50fond of studying since childhood.
00:40:52I have been fond of studying since childhood.
00:40:54Ever since I
00:40:56joined school,
00:40:58I have always got an A grade.
00:41:00Four months ago,
00:41:02Four months ago,
00:41:04my father had a paralysis attack.
00:41:06my father had a paralysis attack.
00:41:08Because of which,
00:41:10he had a job
00:41:12in a good company.
00:41:14When he had a paralysis attack,
00:41:16he was discharged from the job.
00:41:18he was discharged from the job.
00:41:20The entire burden
00:41:22was on me.
00:41:24I am the eldest daughter in the family.
00:41:26I have three younger siblings.
00:41:28They are younger than 10 years.
00:41:30They are younger than 10 years.
00:41:32My mother does not have much education.
00:41:34My mother does not have much education.
00:41:36She is busy raising us.
00:41:38She is busy raising us.
00:41:40She is busy raising us.
00:41:42I left my studies in the middle.
00:41:44I did not have money.
00:41:46I did not have money.
00:41:48I did not have the means
00:41:50to continue my studies.
00:41:52I left my studies in the middle.
00:41:54I left my studies in the middle.
00:41:56I did not have much qualifications.
00:41:58I did not have much qualifications.
00:42:00I got a job as a receptionist.
00:42:02I did not have much income.
00:42:04I did not have much income.
00:42:06I had to manage my household expenses.
00:42:08I had to manage my household expenses.
00:42:10I had to manage my household expenses.
00:42:12I wanted my siblings to get education.
00:42:14I wanted my siblings to get education.
00:42:16I wanted my siblings to get education.
00:42:18I wanted my siblings to get education.
00:42:20I wanted my siblings to get education.
00:42:22I wanted my siblings to get education.
00:42:24I wanted my siblings to get education.
00:42:26I wanted my siblings to get education.
00:42:28I wanted my siblings to get education.
00:42:30I wanted my siblings to get education.
00:42:32I wanted my siblings to get education.
00:42:34I wanted my siblings to get education.
00:42:36I wanted my siblings to get education.
00:42:38My job required many hours.
00:42:40My job required many hours.
00:42:42I came late.
00:42:44I came late.
00:42:46I had only one desire in my mind.
00:42:48I wanted to cross this hurdle.
00:42:50I wanted to cross this hurdle.
00:42:52I wanted to cross this hurdle.
00:42:56I cannot do that.
00:42:58I cannot do that.
00:43:00I have just started.
00:43:02I have just started.
00:43:04And when I go home, I see my mother, and I feel even more sorry for her that she's looking after my father and my three younger siblings.
00:43:13So I don't want to put my own burden on her, that I'm worried, or how to take this thing forward.
00:43:19Because I have to take five other people along with me to look after their expenses.
00:43:25My siblings' school fees, my father's medicines, my mother's groceries, I have to take care of everything.
00:43:33And my income isn't that much, so I'm very worried about that.
00:43:39And now, because I wasn't able to manage before, I still can't.
00:43:46But now, if I'm living, then it's only because of my parents and siblings.
00:43:53Otherwise, I don't have any hope. I'm completely finished.
00:43:59Our situation is such that, obviously, a girl who was just entering school,
00:44:03she's so young, and if she's put so much burden, so much responsibility on her,
00:44:08then obviously, what you're thinking will happen.
00:44:12After a short break, we'll come back, and we'll try our best to give you the courage to do what we can do.
00:44:22We'll talk to you, or to many other girls like us, who are watching us right now,
00:44:27after a short break.
00:44:41Welcome, welcome back. Good morning, Pakistan.
00:44:45Right now, I have that personality with me, whose willpower is very strong,
00:44:53whose mind wants a lot for itself, he thinks a lot.
00:45:01And what he has reached here, after studying, he has reached through that same passion of his.
00:45:10And here, basically, this show, we have decorated it for him,
00:45:15who we just kept introducing to all of you.
00:45:19And basically, you're going to meet Moiz Shaukat, who is a young university student.
00:45:27He's doing BS, he's a motivational speaker, and along with that, he's a FOP warrior.
00:45:39What is FOP? It's a disease that he's going through.
00:45:43His mother is also with him, and Seemi Shaukat is his mother.
00:45:49We'll talk to her, and sometimes, a person helps himself, he helps himself all his life,
00:45:56because a person has to carry his own burden.
00:45:59But when he reaches that stage, where he needs the help of his loved ones and people,
00:46:06then he shouldn't back out of that.
00:46:09Because there is someone, who Allah has sent as a mediator, who will help him.
00:46:17And will keep his passions alive.
00:46:22Assalamualaikum. I welcome you both, Moiz.
00:46:25Assalamualaikum.
00:46:26How are you?
00:46:27I'm fine, Moiz. And Seemi, how are you?
00:46:30Thank God, I'm fine.
00:46:31Seemi, I would like to know, what is FOP?
00:46:35And I would like to ask you about Moiz from the beginning, when he was born.
00:46:41How many siblings does he have? I would like to ask all these questions to you.
00:46:45What happened to Moiz?
00:46:48He was born in Tehri.
00:46:50Okay, when he was born. How many children do you have?
00:46:55I have four daughters and one son.
00:46:56Four daughters and one son.
00:46:58And are the children bigger than Moiz or smaller than Moiz?
00:47:01No, they are in the middle. Two elder daughters and two younger daughters.
00:47:04Okay.
00:47:06So, when Moiz was born, did the doctors tell you that his legs were crooked?
00:47:11Not his legs, only his toes.
00:47:14His toes.
00:47:15At that time, there was no other problem?
00:47:18No other issue.
00:47:19Okay. Then when he grew up a little, did you feel any changes in him, which were not there in normal children?
00:47:25I had a doctor check him and he said that there was a bone on both his legs and there was none on his toes.
00:47:30Okay, the toe of his leg.
00:47:32So, I told him not to wear normal shoes, so that he does not fall.
00:47:35Okay.
00:47:36Since he started walking, it was summer vacation.
00:47:40Okay.
00:47:41So, he did not wear shoes.
00:47:43Okay.
00:47:43He used to fall when he ran.
00:47:45He used to get hurt on his forehead.
00:47:47Okay.
00:47:48And as he got hurt, his problem kept increasing.
00:47:52Okay.
00:47:53The problem kept increasing.
00:47:54As he grew up, what were the doctors saying?
00:47:56What was happening to Moiz?
00:47:58They just did a biopsy and they said that he has FOP.
00:48:03What is FOP?
00:48:05His muscles become hard and they take the shape of a bone.
00:48:10Okay.
00:48:10And the joint is not moving.
00:48:13Okay, so the body becomes stiff.
00:48:15Yes.
00:48:16The muscles help us in movement, so that our joints move and we can do all our work on our own.
00:48:22But this disease, the muscles take the shape of bones and become stiff.
00:48:27Okay.
00:48:28Because of this, you do not have the flexibility to walk or move.
00:48:34Okay.
00:48:35So, Moiz already had all these things.
00:48:39And despite that, he got an education.
00:48:42Tell us about his education.
00:48:43No, it has been two years that his problem has increased.
00:48:45He used to go by himself.
00:48:47He did A-Levels in Defence.
00:48:51Okay.
00:48:51He used to go by himself and come back by himself.
00:48:53He used to walk, but now he cannot walk.
00:48:55We are also sharing some videos of Moiz.
00:48:58People can see on the screen how Moiz studied.
00:49:03So, did you face any problem in getting him admitted?
00:49:07No, he was absolutely fine.
00:49:09He was very good in studies.
00:49:11And he used to do all the homework himself.
00:49:13Yes.
00:49:14Did he have any problem in writing?
00:49:16In A-Levels, his right hand did not work.
00:49:20So, he started writing with his left hand.
00:49:22Okay. So, he started writing with his left hand.
00:49:24So, when his right hand gave him the answer,
00:49:26he used to write with his left hand.
00:49:28Yes, he used to write with his left hand.
00:49:30His teachers used to tell him to write with his left hand.
00:49:32Okay.
00:49:33So, did Moiz give the exam through a computer?
00:49:36No, he gave it through a computer.
00:49:38He wrote it down.
00:49:40Okay.
00:49:42So, did Moiz complete his education in A-Levels?
00:49:46Yes, he completed A-Levels.
00:49:48Okay.
00:49:50And what were his dreams?
00:49:52He was very fond of studying.
00:49:54Yes.
00:49:56When he used to have pain in school,
00:49:58the principal used to tell him to go home.
00:50:00But he used to say that he does not want to go home.
00:50:02He wanted to study.
00:50:04He wanted to become something.
00:50:06Yes.
00:50:08Okay, Moiz, now I would like to talk to you.
00:50:10Your mother has asked everything about you.
00:50:12Yes.
00:50:14Basically, we have gathered here today
00:50:16because we have designed this program for Moiz.
00:50:20The reason for this is that
00:50:22Moiz's condition is such that
00:50:24his treatment is not possible in Pakistan.
00:50:28And for his treatment,
00:50:30he has to go to the U.S.
00:50:32And obviously,
00:50:34to go to the U.S.,
00:50:36there is a sum that we all have to collect
00:50:38for Moiz,
00:50:40so that he can fulfill his dreams
00:50:42and lead a normal life.
00:50:46So,
00:50:48can you give me an idea of how much is needed?
00:50:50I will ask Moiz.
00:50:52Moiz, you tell me.
00:50:54Yes, Ma'am.
00:50:56My U.S. experts have told me
00:50:58that you should come to us.
00:51:00First of all,
00:51:02you should get a medical examination.
00:51:04And the FOP trials
00:51:06are being conducted in the U.S.
00:51:08and many other countries.
00:51:10They have told me that
00:51:12there is a trial called Regeneron
00:51:14which is very successful.
00:51:16They have told me that
00:51:18you should participate in this trial.
00:51:20And the cost of this is
00:51:2217 crore rupees.
00:51:2470 crores.
00:51:2617 crores.
00:51:2817 crores.
00:51:30This is the cost.
00:51:32And they have told me
00:51:34that until the finances are stable,
00:51:36you cannot come to our country.
00:51:38You cannot come.
00:51:40Because you have to be financially stable.
00:51:42And this is a big ritual.
00:51:44And I,
00:51:46as you said,
00:51:48wish that I get my treatment
00:51:50as soon as possible.
00:51:52And I wish
00:51:54that I can live my life
00:51:56better.
00:51:58And I wish that I can
00:52:00live my life better
00:52:02as soon as possible.
00:52:04So,
00:52:06whatever the treatment is,
00:52:08from which condition
00:52:10are you going through now?
00:52:12What have the doctors told you?
00:52:14Sir, the doctors
00:52:16have told us that
00:52:18whatever we do, it is very risky.
00:52:20Now, the doctor has inserted
00:52:22a PET tube in my stomach
00:52:24which is used to make
00:52:26solid snacks.
00:52:28Now, that PET tube is broken
00:52:30and it is still in my stomach.
00:52:32It has been 6 to 8 months
00:52:34and it is still in my stomach.
00:52:36The third doctor
00:52:38has told me that
00:52:40if we take this risk
00:52:42and give you anesthesia,
00:52:44we are not sure
00:52:46whether you will regain your consciousness or not.
00:52:48The condition
00:52:50is getting worse.
00:52:52And the delay
00:52:54is making the condition worse.
00:52:56I also have breathing problems.
00:52:58I have air in my lungs
00:53:00and I have breathing issues.
00:53:02Okay.
00:53:04So, Moiz,
00:53:06can you gather some information?
00:53:08Because we have
00:53:10your band's account details here.
00:53:12Whoever is in Pakistan
00:53:14or outside Pakistan
00:53:16and wants to bring Moiz back to life
00:53:18because the condition
00:53:20that he is going through now,
00:53:22God forbid,
00:53:24the condition
00:53:26that he is going through now,
00:53:28there is only darkness.
00:53:30God has given us the strength
00:53:32to bring him back to life.
00:53:34For that,
00:53:36we will have to empty
00:53:38our vaults.
00:53:40We will have to withdraw money
00:53:42and we will have to help him
00:53:44to stay alive.
00:53:46First of all, Moiz, I salute
00:53:48your courage and your mother.
00:53:50We are mothers ourselves.
00:53:52The way your face is moving back and forth,
00:53:54it is very painful.
00:53:56But we are sitting here.
00:53:58Our people are sitting here
00:54:00who have a lot of courage.
00:54:02And no one's vault will be empty.
00:54:04God has given us a share.
00:54:06Give us a share of theirs.
00:54:08And the amount of courage you have,
00:54:10I am telling you,
00:54:12there are so many normal people
00:54:14who do not even have this much courage.
00:54:16You have a heart.
00:54:18May God keep this thing safe.
00:54:20May God keep you healthy soon.
00:54:22God can put this test anywhere.
00:54:24He can put it on normal people too.
00:54:26I am sitting here right now.
00:54:28I don't know what the next moment is.
00:54:30This is a courageous child.
00:54:32He is an educated child.
00:54:34Support him.
00:54:36He has collected something.
00:54:38And you will not even know a drop of it.
00:54:40Take out what you have.
00:54:42The amount of permission you have,
00:54:44if it becomes a drop of water,
00:54:46it becomes an ocean.
00:54:48We do the same in Shelter.
00:54:50Some give more, some give more.
00:54:52The system works.
00:54:54Some give less, some give more.
00:54:56And don't think that sometimes
00:54:58even a rupee is of such a blessing
00:55:00that it pulls so much money.
00:55:02What will we put in so much money?
00:55:04We have so much.
00:55:06If you give so much and everyone thinks so,
00:55:08then Moiz can live his life.
00:55:10Moiz is very happy to meet you.
00:55:12Many people are taking motivation
00:55:14by listening to you.
00:55:16But Moiz has to live a good,
00:55:18long life.
00:55:20For which we are all together.
00:55:22God has written your life, Moiz.
00:55:24He himself will make such a life
00:55:26that you will not even know.
00:55:28And God willing,
00:55:30you will reach.
00:55:32You will be treated.
00:55:34You will be fine and we will meet again.
00:55:36God willing.
00:55:38I have heard that he has also written a book.
00:55:40You are Born to Fly.
00:55:42When did you write this?
00:55:44How did you find time, Moiz?
00:55:46My mentor was Dr. H.U. Khan.
00:55:48He motivated me.
00:55:50He said,
00:55:52Moiz, look,
00:55:54if God has not given you health,
00:55:56then other than that,
00:55:58God has given you a lot.
00:56:00God has given you a son-in-law.
00:56:02God has given you the strength
00:56:04to think well.
00:56:06Do something different.
00:56:08If God has made you different,
00:56:10then do it differently.
00:56:12He said,
00:56:14Moiz, I want that
00:56:16whenever a person leaves this world,
00:56:18he should leave his legacy.
00:56:20Do something
00:56:22so that you leave your legacy here.
00:56:24I thought
00:56:26why not write a book
00:56:28in which
00:56:30my struggles and failures,
00:56:32how I moved forward,
00:56:34how I became a successful person.
00:56:36In that book,
00:56:38I have written everything.
00:56:40I have also given tips
00:56:42that if you want
00:56:44to be successful in life,
00:56:46then you have to
00:56:48work hard.
00:56:50We want that
00:56:52if we study,
00:56:54we earn money, we become successful.
00:56:56It's not like that.
00:56:58As long as we don't have a heart,
00:57:00we won't be successful.
00:57:02In life,
00:57:04every person's definition of success is different.
00:57:06For peace of mind,
00:57:08join Moiz.
00:57:10This is for you.
00:57:12This is for you
00:57:14so that we can contribute.
00:57:16Through this platform,
00:57:18you can see how Moiz
00:57:20has studied.
00:57:22A lot of kids lose their courage
00:57:24because they don't study.
00:57:26They don't know what to do.
00:57:28But the motivation,
00:57:30the willpower,
00:57:32is what is taking him towards life.
00:57:34If there are difficulties here
00:57:36and we can contribute,
00:57:38the bank details are
00:57:40on our bands.
00:57:42With a lot of credibility,
00:57:46we invite people
00:57:48so that we can
00:57:50support them.
00:57:52What will we do to support them?
00:57:54Allah has selected those people
00:57:56who
00:57:58can bring
00:58:00what Allah has sent to them.
00:58:02You can be a part of this person
00:58:04and take
00:58:06profit from them.
00:58:08Absolutely.
00:58:10How many days
00:58:12do we have to
00:58:14collect this money
00:58:16so that you can reach
00:58:18the doctors?
00:58:20The U.S. experts gave me
00:58:22last year.
00:58:24Last year,
00:58:26I had a lot of issues.
00:58:28My visa was a big issue.
00:58:30The financial assistance
00:58:32was a big issue.
00:58:34The doctors asked me
00:58:36to be informed on 1st July,
00:58:38so that we can
00:58:40start preparing
00:58:42for the trials.
00:58:44I should be in the U.S.
00:58:46before 7th November,
00:58:482024.
00:58:50The U.S. experts
00:58:52are gathering worldwide
00:58:54on 7th, 8th and 9th.
00:58:56I should be properly examined
00:58:58and enrolled
00:59:00in the successful
00:59:02trials.
00:59:04We have
00:59:062 to 3 months
00:59:08in which we have
00:59:10collected this money.
00:59:12The more we delay,
00:59:14the worse it gets.
00:59:16The end
00:59:18of anything
00:59:20is a respiratory failure.
00:59:22I have lung issues
00:59:24since
00:59:268 months.
00:59:28If I have breathing issues,
00:59:30I have severe breathing issues.
00:59:32It's difficult to control.
00:59:34I want to
00:59:36start treatment
00:59:38as soon as possible
00:59:40so that
00:59:42I don't have to
00:59:44bear the pain.
00:59:46I have just
00:59:48come back from Lahore.
00:59:50I have come here
00:59:52with severe pain.
00:59:54I am leaving
00:59:56because
00:59:58I don't want to
01:00:00bear the pain.
01:00:02It's not easy
01:00:04to come here
01:00:06with a flight.
01:00:08He is
01:00:10very confident.
01:00:12He knows
01:00:14about his illness.
01:00:16He knows what to do.
01:00:18Credit goes to Seemi
01:00:20and your daughters.
01:00:22I have seen pictures
01:00:24of how you take them.
01:00:26Moiz has come this far
01:00:28because of your support.
01:00:30I want to tell people
01:00:32who don't support
01:00:34their children
01:00:36and then say
01:00:38that they lost their heart.
01:00:40Moiz's confidence
01:00:42is so good
01:00:44because he has the support
01:00:46of his parents.
01:00:48Tell me, what did
01:00:50Moiz have to face?
01:00:52What kind of people
01:00:54were they?
01:00:56Because Moiz
01:00:58has such a good support
01:01:00based on his confidence.
01:01:02Whenever someone
01:01:04asked him about his health,
01:01:06he said that he is fine.
01:01:08He never said that he is ill.
01:01:10Everyone in the family
01:01:12has shown love
01:01:14to him.
01:01:16His principal,
01:01:18Madam Azra Majib,
01:01:20has supported him a lot.
01:01:22Did he get admission
01:01:24in the school?
01:01:26Many people say that
01:01:28he didn't get admission.
01:01:30He was fine.
01:01:32His problem
01:01:34is getting worse.
01:01:36His disease
01:01:38is progressive.
01:01:40Our average age
01:01:42is 20 years.
01:01:44In 20 years,
01:01:46your mobility
01:01:48increases.
01:01:50My mobility
01:01:52is restricted.
01:01:54Even if I want to move,
01:01:56I need support.
01:01:58I need support
01:02:00for every task.
01:02:02That's why
01:02:04my U.S. experts
01:02:06say that the more delay
01:02:08the situation gets worse.
01:02:10Exactly.
01:02:12Exactly.
01:02:14We have designed
01:02:16this program
01:02:18so that
01:02:20we can help him.
01:02:22We are running
01:02:24Mohit's account details
01:02:26on screen.
01:02:28You can help him
01:02:30as much as you can.
01:02:32He has told us
01:02:34that the more delay
01:02:36the situation gets worse.
01:02:38The more
01:02:40he has to fly
01:02:42to the U.S.,
01:02:44the sooner it can be done.
01:02:46If the money is used
01:02:48in the right place,
01:02:50it is worth it.
01:02:52If it is being used here,
01:02:54it is worth it.
01:02:56I would say
01:02:58that if you give a little,
01:03:00you will get a lot in return.
01:03:02God will fill the vessels
01:03:04you empty.
01:03:06Good morning, Pakistan.
01:03:16Welcome.
01:03:18Welcome back.
01:03:20Good morning, Pakistan.
01:03:22Basically,
01:03:24we have gathered
01:03:26money for Mohit.
01:03:28We have collected
01:03:30as much as we can.
01:03:32We have started
01:03:34from September 2023.
01:03:36We have not collected
01:03:38that much yet.
01:03:40We have to collect
01:03:4217 crore rupees
01:03:44to get Mohit treated.
01:03:46He has to go to the U.S.
01:03:48The dollar rate has increased.
01:03:50That is why
01:03:52we have to collect so much money.
01:03:54We have not been able to do that yet.
01:03:56As time goes by,
01:03:58the chances are decreasing.
01:04:00The sooner we can
01:04:02collect the money,
01:04:04the better for him.
01:04:06He will be able to
01:04:08come back to life.
01:04:10I have joined
01:04:12Syed Umair.
01:04:14We talked a lot
01:04:16during the break.
01:04:18Syed Umair is an IT specialist,
01:04:20a writer,
01:04:22a designer,
01:04:24a visionary speaker,
01:04:26and a wheelchair
01:04:28manufacturer.
01:04:30I cannot even
01:04:32pronounce his disease.
01:04:34I will ask him
01:04:36what it is.
01:04:38Tell us, Umair.
01:04:40Thank you for having me
01:04:42on your show.
01:04:44My disease is
01:04:46called Astrogenesis
01:04:48Imperfecta.
01:04:50Your body bones
01:04:52are like chips
01:04:54of pieces.
01:04:56Even if someone picks you up
01:04:58in the washroom,
01:05:00even if you lie down,
01:05:02your body bones will break.
01:05:04Your bones break?
01:05:06Yes.
01:05:0825, 20,
01:05:1040 fractures happen
01:05:12at one time.
01:05:14It is very painful.
01:05:18There are many reasons.
01:05:20But with time,
01:05:22after 20 years
01:05:24of my life,
01:05:26it started getting better.
01:05:28Thank God, it has recovered
01:05:30to 90%.
01:05:32I don't have many issues.
01:05:34But at that time, it was very painful
01:05:36to complete my education
01:05:38or go out.
01:05:40Even going to the washroom
01:05:42was very difficult.
01:05:44It is a very painful time
01:05:46to survive with this disease.
01:05:48How did you study?
01:05:50How did you become
01:05:52so successful?
01:05:54You are manufacturing
01:05:56a wheelchair on which you are sitting.
01:05:58It is made in Pakistan.
01:06:02Not only did he make it himself,
01:06:04he also designed
01:06:06a wheelchair for Moise.
01:06:08It was customized for him.
01:06:10The flight in which Moise
01:06:12came, the people of that flight
01:06:14broke the wheelchair.
01:06:16I would like to say
01:06:18through my program
01:06:20that it was customized for Moise.
01:06:22The airline people
01:06:24should pay the price
01:06:26of the wheelchair.
01:06:28They should pay
01:06:30because they broke it.
01:06:32They went here and there
01:06:34but no one
01:06:36listened to them.
01:06:38They said, this is not a luggage.
01:06:40We can't pay for the luggage.
01:06:42There is no packing.
01:06:46I would like to ask you
01:06:48how did you
01:06:50study and when
01:06:52you have to carry so many things
01:06:54and someone is taking you to the washroom
01:06:56your bones are breaking.
01:06:58How did you fight
01:07:00against this?
01:07:02There are difficulties
01:07:04in life.
01:07:06The main role
01:07:08is to be honest
01:07:10your mother played a very big role
01:07:12in your life.
01:07:14She knows how to
01:07:16treat her child.
01:07:18Is your mother educated?
01:07:20Yes, Alhamdulillah.
01:07:22We don't have an education
01:07:24institute
01:07:26where you can get admission.
01:07:28I applied for it
01:07:30but they said we can't give you admission
01:07:32because you are a special person
01:07:34and you don't deserve it in a normal school.
01:07:36I am worried about how it is possible.
01:07:38How can you
01:07:40consider me as a special person?
01:07:42You are an IT specialist
01:07:44but you don't have the brain
01:07:46of a normal person.
01:07:48You are differently able.
01:07:50You have your own identity.
01:07:52But Allah has
01:07:54many ways for you.
01:07:56Where did you study?
01:07:58My mother thought
01:08:00it would be better
01:08:02to arrange a teacher
01:08:04who will give you tuition daily
01:08:06so that you can apply for admission
01:08:08and get an exam.
01:08:10So she used to give me
01:08:12tuition at home for 10 years.
01:08:14I had only
01:08:16a yearly admission
01:08:18but she used to give me an exam.
01:08:20That's it.
01:08:22You didn't go to school
01:08:24but you used to get tuition at home
01:08:26and you used to go to school to give an exam.
01:08:28Yes.
01:08:30I used to give an exam
01:08:32for 6 months.
01:08:34I used to appear
01:08:36there.
01:08:38After 10th grade
01:08:40I got
01:08:42facilities
01:08:44and internet.
01:08:46Then I started online classes.
01:08:48I completed FSC
01:08:50and Bachelors.
01:08:52But my education
01:08:54is private.
01:08:56Along with that
01:08:58I developed a passion
01:09:00for IT.
01:09:02I spent
01:09:046-7 years
01:09:06in IT.
01:09:08I have been working as an IT specialist
01:09:10for 7 years.
01:09:12I worked with foreign embassies
01:09:14and clients.
01:09:16To be honest
01:09:18all the applications
01:09:20I have received
01:09:22are from foreign embassies.
01:09:24One of the
01:09:26best things I have learned
01:09:28from my life is
01:09:30that you don't know
01:09:32how to facilitate.
01:09:34You have seen a special person
01:09:36and he is also very good.
01:09:38You have seen a VJ user
01:09:40and he is very good.
01:09:42This is not a way to help.
01:09:44If you want to donate
01:09:46to someone
01:09:48what can I do for you?
01:09:50If you are educated
01:09:52you can give tuition for 10 minutes.
01:09:54If you have skills
01:09:56you can teach them.
01:09:58You can't do anything
01:10:00but talk to your dad.
01:10:02This is one of the best ways to teach.
01:10:04I met many people
01:10:06who taught me skills.
01:10:08My teachers supported me a lot.
01:10:12I have learned
01:10:14that when I met
01:10:16the German ambassador
01:10:18he published an article about me.
01:10:20The German ambassador
01:10:22read it and
01:10:24visited my home.
01:10:26He saw that I am skilled
01:10:28and I am a designer and writer.
01:10:30He used to write articles for many newspapers.
01:10:32He told me
01:10:34that I don't have an issue about money.
01:10:36If I give you a cheque
01:10:38of 10 or 20 lakhs
01:10:40I can provide you.
01:10:42But this is not a rule.
01:10:44You should
01:10:46prepare yourself.
01:10:48Every year
01:10:50Unity Day is celebrated
01:10:52on 3rd of October.
01:10:54I will provide you a platform.
01:10:56You can come there
01:10:58in 2 or 3 minutes.
01:11:00You should design
01:11:02a mug for me
01:11:04as a designer.
01:11:06A mug?
01:11:08A cup of tea.
01:11:10I want to see your skills.
01:11:12I designed it.
01:11:14He gave me 3 minutes
01:11:16to deliver
01:11:18my speech.
01:11:20He said that if you have talent
01:11:22then you will be known
01:11:24to the world.
01:11:26Foreign media, foreign embassies
01:11:28and high profile people
01:11:30will be present there.
01:11:32I delivered my speech in 3 minutes.
01:11:34It was a good experience.
01:11:36He was right.
01:11:38My links
01:11:40were provided from there.
01:11:44How do you earn money?
01:11:46Me?
01:11:48I have an IT business.
01:11:50I have a wheelchair business.
01:11:52I have started a transportation business.
01:11:58We have to learn
01:12:00how much donation and charity
01:12:02we should do.
01:12:04If you want to do something for a person
01:12:06you should be independent and powerful.
01:12:08If someone is in need
01:12:10you should do it for them.
01:12:16You can do it for them.
01:12:18First, you should see
01:12:20how you can make an independent,
01:12:22empowered and respectable life.
01:12:24I got a lot of links from there.
01:12:28I am working with all the IT workers
01:12:30in Pakistan and foreign embassies.
01:12:32I am working with all of them
01:12:34as an IT specialist.
01:12:36I got a lot of appreciation from them.
01:12:38They provided me with degrees
01:12:40and certificates.
01:12:42This is what I learnt from them.
01:12:44What is your mother's role
01:12:46in bringing you here?
01:12:48If my mother had not struggled
01:12:50and suffered
01:12:52I would not have been sitting here.
01:12:54This is very impossible.
01:12:56People ask why the western world
01:12:58is growing so much.
01:13:00When you value humans
01:13:02and humanity
01:13:04you have to grow.
01:13:06This is a part of our religion.
01:13:10They taught me
01:13:12how to promote and help people.
01:13:16I learnt a lot from them.
01:13:18They taught me
01:13:20that if you share what you have
01:13:22and learn from it
01:13:24God will give you a lot.
01:13:26I started in the UK.
01:13:28We have a misconception
01:13:30that
01:13:32a wheelchair is
01:13:34one size not fit for all.
01:13:36You cannot provide
01:13:38a wheelchair to everyone.
01:13:40If I make Moez sit on my wheelchair
01:13:42he will not be able to use it.
01:13:44You have to see
01:13:46who needs what.
01:13:48Whether it is a manual
01:13:50or a power wheelchair.
01:13:52Moez needs
01:13:54the money
01:13:56for his donation.
01:13:58We are running
01:14:00Moez's bank details
01:14:02on the screen.
01:14:04You can watch it
01:14:06whenever you want.
01:14:08The program is on YouTube.
01:14:10You can watch it whenever you want.
01:14:12You just have to pick up your phone
01:14:14and put your share in it.
01:14:20I have been making wheelchairs
01:14:22since 5-6 years.
01:14:24In Pakistan
01:14:26we have sponsored
01:14:28a lot of wheelchairs.
01:14:32I am not criticizing anyone.
01:14:34I have my own vision
01:14:36and style of doing my work.
01:14:38There are logos on the back
01:14:40with their numbers
01:14:42and promotions
01:14:44that we have made a donation.
01:14:46In Pakistan, people have
01:14:48our power wheelchairs
01:14:50made by our company.
01:14:52You will not see the logo of the company.
01:14:54The program
01:14:56that you are watching
01:14:58are all motivational
01:15:00speakers.
01:15:02They want to say
01:15:04that we should not give up.
01:15:06This is a war
01:15:08and everyone
01:15:10is fighting
01:15:12for their lives.
01:15:14Do you have anything to say?
01:15:16I think we should learn
01:15:18that we are not here
01:15:20to teach.
01:15:22I do not have
01:15:24any advice
01:15:26that I can give them.
01:15:28We should learn from them.
01:15:30These are the examples
01:15:32that tell us
01:15:34what problems we are facing
01:15:36and what problems we should
01:15:38complain about.
01:15:40I am only grateful
01:15:42that we should learn
01:15:44from them
01:15:46so that we can
01:15:48teach them something.
01:15:50This is a gift
01:15:52from God.
01:15:54When you give,
01:15:56God gives you the ability
01:15:58to give.
01:16:00I have not seen
01:16:02such a positive
01:16:04motivation
01:16:06from rich people.
01:16:08I have not seen
01:16:10such a positive
01:16:12motivation
01:16:14from people
01:16:16who have
01:16:18a positive
01:16:20life.
01:16:22A person should be
01:16:24happy and content.
01:16:26Only a happy person
01:16:28can be content.
01:16:30When I was
01:16:32in my area,
01:16:34I met paralyzed people.
01:16:36To be honest,
01:16:38I met people
01:16:40who have been in a room
01:16:42for 9-10 years
01:16:44and have not come out.
01:16:46I have been to Pakistan.
01:16:48If God has given you
01:16:50a heart and a mind,
01:16:52then you can
01:16:54conquer anything.
01:16:56What is Moiz's age?
01:16:5824.
01:17:00A young man
01:17:02of 24 is here.
01:17:04We can bring him
01:17:06back to life.
01:17:08As days go by,
01:17:10things are getting
01:17:12less and less.
01:17:14We are
01:17:16showing you the details
01:17:18of the bank.
01:17:20You will think
01:17:22whether to do it or not.
01:17:24Don't delay.
01:17:26When you realize
01:17:28that you should have given the money.
01:17:30The ticking of the clock
01:17:32may be a good news for us.
01:17:34The ticking of the clock
01:17:36may be a bad news for them.
01:17:38You have to deposit 17 crores.
01:17:40Do it soon.
01:17:42You have to save
01:17:44Pakistani Rupees
01:17:46so that they can
01:17:48go to the US for treatment.
01:17:50We are still sending
01:17:52a lot of prayers.
01:17:54We will keep going.
01:17:56We will keep reminding
01:17:58people again and again.
01:18:02Thank you very much for coming to the show.
01:18:04Good morning Pakistan.
01:18:06Khuda Hafiz.