Gypsy Rose: Life After Lock Up Season 2 Episode 5
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00:00I know that Ken is interested in blondes.
00:02I'm sorry, baby girl.
00:04I want a divorce.
00:06I'm gonna be with Ken.
00:10You know, we're newly reconnected.
00:12Unexpectedly expecting.
00:15It's healthy.
00:16It's healthy.
00:17There's a heartbeat.
00:19I've never been in this situation before.
00:21He broke up with me.
00:23He left because the pressure was too much.
00:25Six months ago this was not my life at all.
00:27I don't want him to stay because of the baby.
00:29I want him to want this relationship to work.
00:34The one in Metairie, it's three bedroom, two baths.
00:38Moving into a new house is a very big priority of mine right now.
00:44She's lying.
00:45She didn't even try it because she's afraid.
00:48I'm in love with a gypsy that's no longer there, I guess.
00:52But do I, some days do I wish my phone would ring?
00:55Yeah.
00:59What's here that's left of Gypsy's?
01:18There's little remnants around.
01:20Yeah, show it.
01:21Like, she made this for me on the Valentine's.
01:23And she wrote her name, Gypsy Anderson.
01:25By her, like, if people were like, if I have some of my friends come over, I'll just do the hat.
01:29I mean, I could do that, but I don't mind leaving it like that.
01:32She made that for me.
01:33Um, that blanket's hers.
01:35Pixie likes it, so I keep it for Pixie too.
01:38I know Gypsy hadn't seen Pixie since March, but, I mean, I still consider Pixie Gypsies.
01:44We decorated this together, so, like, a lot of this is hers.
01:50Like, our pillows that we have, Ryan and Gypsy.
01:53And that pillowcase, I always liked that pillow.
01:59Like, for a while I wanted her to come by it, you know?
02:03For a while I did.
02:05But there's nothing I can do about it.
02:09You know, like, I've thought of driving over and just showing up, but I wouldn't want that done to me.
02:18Stay up.
02:20That was good, baby.
02:23I gave my whole heart to her.
02:25But she's not my wife anymore.
02:28There's a picture that somebody drew of Gypsy.
02:31Like, I saw it the other day, and I was like, that was my wife.
02:34The girl who did it was a fan, and she did it right before she got out.
02:42We were married at that time.
02:49We were together at that painting.
02:52So that's my wife.
02:54There's days where I do want her back.
03:01And then there's days where I'm like, you chose that?
03:04That's what you wanted?
03:05That's what you got?
03:07Do you want a cigarette?
03:09I mean...
03:10I don't know.
03:11Do you want my honest opinion?
03:12I don't know.
03:13Do you want my honest opinion?
03:14I don't know.
03:15Do you want my honest opinion?
03:16I don't know.
03:20I was hoping to get like a quote to set up moving services.
03:27When we were at dinner, I didn't want to eat the fancy stuff.
03:48And he told the waiter, like, she lied, like, she didn't eat any of this crap.
03:55She's lying.
03:56She didn't even try it.
03:57Because she's afraid.
03:58That embarrassed me.
03:59I wasn't going to say at dinner and like ruin the night.
04:00Like, hey, you embarrassed me.
04:01You hurt my feelings.
04:02Okay.
04:03To me, that was just like a humorous, like lighthearted sarcasm.
04:04But that really offended her.
04:05And I'm not saying that it shouldn't have, you know, that's how she felt.
04:10She was upset.
04:12Just makes me think about, you know, what I say, how I say it, and just try to be more sensitive.
04:29makes me think about you know what i say how i say it and just try to be more sensitive are you
04:34excited about the house i think it's going to be a good place for you and the baby what about you
04:42my problem is i internalize her problem is she retaliates so we're trying to work on that
04:48together to just be in a healthier communication place call you three to five days before and
04:56go over all the details with you of course i did all right thank you i made eggs at home but i can't
05:03make them here on this janky ass stove did you put like butter or pam or anything in there no oh my
05:10god you gotta grease the pan before you make eggs every time also it's way too hot would you put it
05:16on high yes no what is this teach you how to make eggs i know how to make eggs i made them at home
05:25this stove it's just it's not the stove i'm telling you it's you
05:31the therapist explained that it's not healthy not to verbalize when my feelings are hurt
05:37because if i don't say anything and you don't say anything nothing gets said nothing gets solved
05:42screen make sure you keep it from sticking you keep keep moving it around is that good yeah thank
05:49you we are in this for the long haul there's nothing that is so wrong that can't be fixed or worked on
05:57how is it good it's very good and now i know how to make eggs
06:12i don't know what i'm gonna do about like when the cars pass a little people are starting to
06:22zoom and i know what's up yeah you know i'm glad that shady and i'll put the fence
06:29because that's where the the paparazzi was where is she right now gypsy's uh still in new orleans
06:37where her and uh canada are just so happy yeah you can't take the smile off her face when he's
06:44around no they got good chemistry and that's what you need yeah and i told them people wait their
06:50whole lives for that yeah as long as you keep the communication going you're safe right kiss them
06:58and tell them you love them before you go to sleep whether you're upset angry
07:02well you can go to bed angry you just have to tell them you kiss them you kiss them and you tell them
07:06you love them
07:18all right what's a mexican coca-cola so it just has real sugar in it and not um
07:25all right um just act natural okay you can't act naturally
07:34i hate it so much
07:39uh wait what was your question again now you're just distracted so distracted
07:46okay so
07:47this is so awkward because they're like an inch away from me
07:57thank you thank you i'm ready to add this apartment i'm so excited it's the last 10 days
08:03of being in there starting to feel cluttered with all the boxes now are you excited yes i'm ready i'm
08:10going to start helping you box and stuff up and everything i'm so excited for the yard for parker
08:16the yard oh yes and finally having sidewalks and we can walk parker on yes all right
08:23sorry buffalo cauliflower and that's a cashew ranch okay awesome thank you i'm open to trying things like
08:29this things that wasn't a lie get some of that
08:33that's good so um brian texted me and
08:56so um brian texted me
08:59and i blocked his number
09:08make you feel anything no i was so proud of him it had been a month since he like tried to text me and
09:18i'm like maybe he's doing good like maybe he's moving on maybe he has a girlfriend like i'm proud
09:24of him for moving on and then he texted me like damn it i thought he was making progress
09:31i'm sure he is i'm sure there are just moments people have but i think you did the right thing
09:37for yourself and for him yeah
09:41separating from somebody who's been a part of your life for many years is always tough
09:45so i understand and i get it all right i can't eat anymore i'm not sure where he's at the divorce is
09:52supposed to be final in october but it could be january we can finally start making moves to
09:58put this in the past and start focusing more on the present and us as a couple and us as
10:04welcoming a child and us moving forward with our family
10:20where's christy she's probably not far from here do you have a dental appointment yeah what are you
10:25doing so they're giving me a new upper denture and they're giving me the final molars like the
10:32final caps on the molars it's a big new big step my mom told the dentist that my teeth were tripping
10:40away and that i was experiencing tooth pain so what they did was they decided to extract my teeth
10:49i mean when i look in the mirror and i see my smile i mean i see like messed up teeth
10:56i can't imagine how she's felt about that all these years you know having lost all her teeth from
11:01the abuse that her mother put her through i really think that she's at a place now where she feels
11:05more a part of the regular crowd she doesn't feel like she stands out as much and uh just finding that
11:11love within herself which i'm always cheering for and it's happy i'm happy to see probably not excited
11:17about the drive three and a half hours but um we're gonna stay overnight in lafayette so okay
11:24let me go grab my shirt going back to lake charles is difficult because that's where i had started a
11:32life with ryan what drawers would be mine if you want this whole thing it's yours okay who do you
11:43think is gonna take up more space not even up for debate all right i love you be safe text me when you
11:53get off too all right all right bye parka you'll be good boy you'll be good boy you'll be sweet boy
12:00okay you'll be sweet boy bye i love you i'll never be the same look at this mess we made
12:31your appointments at two yeah weirdest part of it because it's like six but it's like two three
12:39minutes away and there's ryan's apartment and six minutes away is the dental place it's awkward
12:48definitely like me coming home to lake charles that feels like a lifetime away so how often would you
12:54drink this um i drink it like every other day or so or at least twice a week you really expect me to
13:02drink this come on things you do for love cheers i love you
13:09now that i've had some time to process the events that took place in our marriage there's some things
13:18that i have regrets about what are you texting i'm i'm just texting my sister honey
13:24okay okay so relax
13:31sometimes i just think that i would be happier somewhere else okay
13:42i could have come at things in a more empathetic way he has a place in my heart but
13:54just not a place in my life
14:04so ryan texted me out of the blue girl i know he was doing so good i didn't respond
14:10i'm just leaving it be thank god he doesn't know that way no he doesn't know we're here here no he
14:17doesn't know we're here what did he say you know i miss whenever you used to say like go tigers for
14:25the lsu games i miss when you say who dat for the saints games like that that's basically all the message
14:31was basically like i miss you he may never stop until you're legally divorced because he likes to you
14:39know say oh she's still my wife which technically you are technically i am i mean i understand that
14:48everybody moves on and accepts in their own time yeah i understand that he's always had a selfishness
14:56about him where he doesn't think about the full picture like the last phone call we had right before
15:02we had our last court i called him the night before remember right he's like basically leave ken come
15:11back with me i get i know that it's ken's baby but i will raise the baby as if it was my own i'm like
15:19and what happens to ken he just disappears in thin air he's saying that it's about one day
15:23he might grow hate because it's a constant reminder of ken i'm just like i'm happy and i want you to move
15:35on to be happy and he keeps himself in this bubble of like waiting to see what happens with me and he's
15:42preventing himself from meeting somebody that could be the love of his life it could be the perfect person
15:47for him right there's still that lingering hope that i will go back to him and we can pick up where
15:55we left off even with the pregnancy and too much has happened for that
16:17so this is it they're so pretty isn't it
16:21so this is such a big step yes today i'm going to be getting my new upper partial because all of
16:30the silvers have come off already i didn't have a choice of if my teeth were extracted or not back
16:37then i've always had silver caps even when i was like nine and ten years old and you know the
16:42insecurity that comes with that we're putting in your bottom teeth here gonna make them bright white
16:49and beautiful through the course of january to current times i have been distancing myself from
16:57my old physical appearance perfect open up i really want to put as much distance as i can between the
17:05old me and the new me i'm wrapping up this overall life in lake charles all right you ready bottom teeth
17:12here the divorce about ready to be finalized that allows me to fully move on and go where i want to
17:19go with my life and forge my own path wow gyps oh my god oh my goodness it's so beautiful i've been
17:33blessed to get back together with the love of my life we're expecting a child i'm in a really good
17:39place right now and i don't want guilt or shame or resentment to hold me back
17:55me you know if gypsy was here i'd love to walk this with gypsy like you know it's one of those things
18:00this is great sunday's a day for like a stroll with with your partner man that would be cool right now
18:07what you want to come back up here with daddy or me moving on is just me continuing to keep living
18:15i lived without her before i can live without her again and i can rest easy knowing that i gave my
18:20vows everything i had remember that you run up in the middle of them birds huh tear them up
18:28i haven't done anything to prevent the divorce from moving along i've signed paperwork but it's hard
18:35hard it'd be hard for anybody whose wife leaves and a month later she's pregnant with somebody else's
18:42baby it hurts come up maybe i'll see the piece of paper and i'll be like i'm free i never had to
18:51mess with her again i'm done forever you know like i don't know you know everybody's like you need to find
19:00picture your stepmom and i'm nowhere i hadn't even thought about that i'm still figuring it out
19:19i got this baby doppler you can detect the heartbeat on one of these so
19:25they want to do the honors i don't know what i'm doing okay so come on let down okay nurse mia
19:36sure you don't have to tell me twice i feel like the top of okay so how it goes it's two finger
19:44breaths above you're the nurse every week once you get to so many weeks i don't remember sure you're going
19:52to the nursing foot will be so come on i know her feet are down here they are because she was kicking
20:00me a little while ago this is your nanny come on give me a kick it's going to be awesome when you feel
20:10her kick because she's not she'll kick it certain foons yeah certain foons
20:19aurora move try lower
20:26you have it
20:30that's it heartbeat with a kick
20:32is it amazing you're doing good it's amazing to hear cool there's a good job
20:44and give me some toilet paper she needs to start talking to her like when mommy says no it's no
20:51uh-huh thank you i usually do that about once a week it was awesome it's like you're growing
21:02something inside of you that is like completely relying on you and the fact that she has opportunity
21:07to to do this when i didn't know she would ever be able to have kids with everything that happened and
21:12you know i'm glad that she's able to experience this and do better for her child than she had
21:19okay i'm gonna bring you let me get your leash
21:27so this is the situation i want to ask you about okay so ken has been making like comments here and
21:37there well just like when we're mushy when we're snuggling and stuff like that he's like you know
21:43you're gonna like be my wife someday like i love you this is our family nothing matters more to me than
21:51our family um he's like you know you're the only woman that i've ever truly given my heart to
21:58and i'm kind of like it's just like is this pillow talk like you know what i'm saying like and so
22:04like when we reconnected it was the hormones man the hormones made move so fast um do i regret it i
22:18don't regret the choices i've made with him what i regret is how i went about it and you warned me about
22:29that the week that we reconnected you warned me about that now like i said i wouldn't take it back
22:37right but i wish it would have been different for ryan's sake um because people got hurt
22:45and i recognize that a lot more now so you know the last thing i want to do is just again make another
22:53hasty decision and like i said he hasn't proposed he has hinted around to proposing he's just making
23:02big statements of love right and with an upcoming baby with my divorce about to be finalized that's
23:12when we move into like unknown territory that i am i'm free i'm not married to ryan anymore i'm not held
23:21down by that anything can happen everything that happened back in april with the can and ryan
23:31situation and how quick she went about it i think she learned she learned her lesson um but uh hope she
23:38learned it good enough my sister has been dubbed the wisest one in the family she has given me life
23:50advice in the past and i have ignored it now i feel more inclined to ask her advice and really kind of
23:57let that soak in i have loved this man for seven years i am so happy and content is everything raised
24:07moses and sunshine hell no but i feel like we've gotten to a place that we can be open with each
24:14other about the time that we were separated we're able to handle things in a more mature way now
24:21are you doing better with communicating i'm doing a lot better with communicating
24:27i think about what you would think i think about what dad would think
24:31because i feel like i acted selfishly with reconnecting at the end of the day it's not
24:38it's not my life my dad's life it's not mom's life it's not their relationships it's yours so
24:45you could have done it differently but look what like it is what it is it happened it's fine yeah it's
24:50just being smarter about your decisions moving forward and if you have that love for ken if he loves you
24:58like that there's no point in rushing it because what's going to change nothing y'all are still
25:04going to love each other with a wedding ring or without like it there's no point in we need to get
25:09married or we need to get engaged right after my divorce is finalized y'all are going to have a
25:15baby soon y'all are going to be stressed out with that you don't want to be planning a wedding let
25:19it right let life just flow yeah like let it just be i don't know i think you seem a lot happier
25:26mm-hmm and um i think this is definitely a better relationship for you and i don't want
25:33you just to be like oh i'm pregnant i have to get married now yeah and like enjoy each moment
25:40you won't be able to fully enjoy being engaged or having a wedding because you're pregnant or
25:46because you have a newborn and you're stressing about that or y'all don't even live together yet
25:51or you're so important like it's just one thing at a time yeah i just want her to be smart i don't
25:58want her to just think short-term happiness like she does sometimes i understand everybody else around
26:05her has had the time to grow up and you know make these decisions make these mistakes and learn from
26:11their actions and their consequences and she didn't get that so she's doing that now knowing about your
26:18relationship i do think there are things that y'all could work on and it's like tackle those things
26:23first and just you know see what happens yeah
26:29look at our beautiful new neighborhood it's very mr rogersy
26:49all right this is it all right so couch here okay coffee table tv there okay dining room table
27:09here watch your head well maybe you don't have to yeah you're good
27:14it's your bathroom i thought i'll pick the big one oh you want the bigger one
27:22i think that the house is beautiful it's what i envision for us to have more space um i love the
27:30chandeliers i still have another like eight months on parole and so my home isn't cut off right now
27:38however i will be visiting and like this also will be where our child is going to grow up part-time
27:45so it's nice to think about when i am off parole linen closet this will be your room
27:53lay out in there and then this will be my room i feel like the crib should go here
27:59crib's gonna go where up here it's here yeah okay i've always wanted like that american dream
28:04situation with like the big house and you know a couple of kids and the dog and the fan you know
28:09all that typical stuff definitely like was crazy fast i think that both of us everyone involved would
28:15have wanted to wait a little bit longer but you know life has its miracles we're going to start
28:22bringing some of the diapers we got from the gender reveal over diapers and wipes uh-huh
28:26free up some space in the garage check out the attic oh god there's an attic
28:38that's gonna creep me out don't open it no why not so many scary movies have an attic okay
28:47i don't feel like i have to run anymore i've been running for the last 10 months since i got out
28:53we're not married we are going to be parents together eventually we'll live together but i'm not going
29:02anywhere he's not going nowhere so i do kind of want to take it a little slow my mom and i had one in
29:09our habitat house and i gave the cat a haircut in the bathtub and i ran the jets we can never run them again
29:23i better save that i feel like you throw a bitch fit if i threw away a good salad
29:47now this pizza that we had like last week that could go
29:53we're packing up the movers come tomorrow and all major furniture will be moved so this is like
30:01this is the tedious stuff right here i don't like clutter i also don't like hoarding and i don't like
30:08empty stuff like recycle it throw it away get rid of it this is how i am though men are very different
30:16like ryan and ken are a lot alike in that department i'm just saying
30:24i have a history of living with a hoarder and so this kind of stuff irritates my soul
30:31growing up with my mom there was a whole room that was just like this junk room with piles and piles of
30:39clothes that needed to be washed like it was traumatic in a way that it makes me where i don't like clutter
30:46well it's always good to find the brush of an ex-girlfriend
30:59i'm just sick of finding things all the same time like what just like old pictures and old greeting
31:15cards and you know what i'm saying like i have nothing of ryan's nothing
31:23when i was in prison ken and i we dated for two years we broke up in the five years that we were
31:29separated i had it in my mind that he left me for another woman and the fame everything all the noise was too much
31:40i am still grappling with having to retrain my mind and my heart not to hold that resentment anymore
31:48i'm not mad it's just
31:51ugh you know like no one wants to keep being reminded that he was in another relationship
32:02while i was crying my eyes out at night he was happy with her
32:10what's going on here hey i have this small box that i tried to put all the bathroom stuff in but it
32:17wouldn't fit so i do have that you want some salad you don't know
32:26i'm gonna stay on eat
32:36the bedroom like it's all your clothes you set up one of these boxes take them off the hanger and then
32:43just drop them in sometimes it's also nice to you know sort out what you need versus like what you
32:49don't want anymore we're not sorting right now we're just moving we're on borrowed time we only
32:55have today to pack yes all that can come later so did you do that when you moved here no i didn't
33:02because i don't throw clothes away you take it out the box and you just shove it places
33:08even if it's like empty what are you talking about like stuff like stuff in general like
33:14no i don't hoard like random objects i just just for clothes it's like well not specifically a good
33:20shirt like like bottles and stuff like empty bottles empty bottles of what i don't know just
33:26like empty bottles you might have like an empty bottle yeah like if you just like yeah like why don't
33:31show me one empty bottle that i have laying around this house somewhere that i reused
33:41okay you're going to the trash room
33:45i'm looking at what we have here it's in the trash can oh because i put it there what is this
33:51a soap bottle is it empty it is was it on the counter it was and it was empty what is this shaving
33:58cream that's there's still a little bit left in there it's empty there's still a little bit
34:03left in there oh and what is this the hairbrush of an ex-girlfriend that's actually mine i used to
34:11that with blonde hair oh i mean maybe someone else used it that's what i thought whatever uh-huh
34:18uh-huh it was blonde
34:32so
34:38what
34:39something should be disregarded in the past
34:49i don't know why you're creating this scenario that didn't exist oh yeah oh yeah
34:52we're gonna pack some more stuff
35:09well here's the thing i'm always finding stuff of his ex-girlfriend all around i mean they were together
35:16for four and a half years so i guess i could understand that hey nate this is uh ken calling
35:35you back i just uh it's been about 40 minutes i haven't heard from anybody i don't know if there's
35:40an eta of movers okay let me let me check and see mr ken hold on well i'll call you back okay thank you
35:51nobody in louisiana calls you back i know you want to go do something else
35:56you don't have to endure this with me i can handle all this well i do want to go check out that um
36:05baby boutique again so i can take a second look around well what do you want to get it's not a crib
36:10is it i am a prep person i prep i'm nesting not having anything bought for the nursery as far as
36:22furniture is stressing me out i know you're gonna go in there and spend like two grand on a crib that we
36:29just no i'm not gonna spend two grand on a crib the baby's not even going to sleep in the crib
36:34the first few months that she's born by the time she's off parole but you won't have to worry about
36:39wait by the time she's off parole i'm sorry by the time you're off parole why don't we move into the
36:44house first then we can focus on the nursery we have everything but the crib we have everything we
36:52have the bassinet we have the clothes the sheets the blankets all that is for my room and cut off
36:58we have what do we have okay no no no we are not going to buy two of everything no i'm not saying
37:04buy two of everything we can transport the items when the baby comes to my house we can take the
37:08bassinet with us no we are not doing that yes we are we're definitely not buying two of everything
37:13that's just ridiculous i'm not saying we're buying two of everything for the first four months
37:17shouldn't need a crib shouldn't need a reclining chair shouldn't need all the extra stuff that can
37:21come later where am i gonna breastfeed her we have a pretty good couch do you need a special
37:26breastfeeding chair no no you don't need it you can do it on that chair you can do it on the floor
37:34all you have to all you need is two arms to hold her up to your boob that's it
37:40i'm a first-time dad so like when i look around and i see we have a bassinet we have sheets and blankets
37:46and clothes and diapers and wipes i'm like i think we're good but then it's like oh there's
37:51also this thing and there's also that thing we need a crib sure but like not i mean not like immediately
37:57from what i understand the baby's not going to sleep in the crib until a few months later
38:03why does everything have to be your way
38:05come here buddy come here on a bit chill
38:25there is no cookie cutter way to live or to raise your child i had hoped to
38:31be married have a house have a car and have like all the check boxes knocked off before having kids
38:40it did not happen that way um just don't worry about it i'll just take these myself in my car
38:46there's only like five of them anyway so it's not a big deal we got unexpectedly pregnant while i'm
38:52going through a divorce like that is not cookie cutter
39:10that's the truck so the paper's gonna go here right here because this is at like head level
39:17yeah you want to go see your new yard buddy what do we got oh what we got i got back with the man
39:25that i truly love go explore mark it up boy you want to make sure that whoever you're with you you're
39:33happy with you're in love with you feel like you can stick it out with this isn't even screwed in it's
39:38just like running on a rope did you pack the duffel it's in the jeep okay so now what uh well they're gonna
39:46unload and then we're done all right you could hope the best for yourself but you have to also
39:54appreciate that the road to happiness is not always easy oh it's so heavy
40:06i have the pleasure of going to be a speaker to talk about you know prison reform i'm like whoa that's
40:25a lot of pressure
40:29i felt really confident until i went on social media a couple of students they were just like talking
40:36oh look at all the people did they say your name i don't know yeah i knew it maybe she's going
40:45through a moment i don't know i'm gonna mix the cards