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00:00I didn't go to school until I was in 8th grade.
00:04I was bullied.
00:06My dad told me not to worry about my mom.
00:13The theme of this episode is...
00:16I didn't go to school until I was in 8th grade.
00:21I wasn't good at group activities.
00:25I didn't know the meaning of going to school.
00:27It's closed.
00:29It's a private school.
00:32I didn't know where to go.
00:34The number of students who don't go to school is increasing.
00:39According to the latest survey,
00:41the number of elementary and junior high school students who don't go to school has increased by 11 years in a row.
00:44The number of students who don't go to school has increased by 11 years in a row.
00:48So, the theme of this episode is...
00:51I didn't go to school.
00:53This girl didn't go to school until she was in 5th grade.
00:57Everyone goes to school in the morning, but I can't get up.
01:01Everyone can do it, but I can't.
01:03I blamed myself.
01:05I was worried about it.
01:07My teacher told me to take it easy.
01:12I'm waiting for you.
01:15I was under a lot of pressure.
01:17I didn't want to go to school.
01:21As a teacher, I'm afraid I'm going to say it.
01:23The family's response is even more painful for her.
01:27It was painful to be told to go to school.
01:32I didn't want to go to school because I wanted to go.
01:39It's hard to be a decent adult.
01:42What is decent?
01:44It's my life.
01:46I don't have to decide whether to go to school or not.
01:52So, tonight, we're going to talk about not going to school.
01:57Uyotora! Deep Night!
02:02This program is a deep theme.
02:04It's a talk show for adults.
02:06Did you ever go to school when you were a student?
02:09I've been going to the same school since I was a kid.
02:11I had a childhood friend.
02:13But he stopped coming to school.
02:15I didn't know how close I could get to him.
02:19I went to talk to him.
02:22But I ended up going to a different school when I was in junior high school.
02:27I see.
02:28You don't know how to deal with people around you.
02:32That's right.
02:33I'd like to learn about that today.
02:36Today, we have a person who has experienced not going to school.
02:40It's not strange at all.
02:43What's wrong?
02:45I've never talked this deeply in front of Mr. Okubo and Mr. Ueda.
02:48I was nervous when I told my parents that I was coming out.
02:53I'm nervous now.
02:54You can say anything.
02:56I'm not angry at all.
02:58I didn't get along well with people in elementary school.
03:02I didn't go to school until I graduated from junior high school.
03:06I was bullied.
03:08I was bullied quite a lot.
03:12It was painful.
03:14I thought I couldn't be bullied if I was more excited about the bad things people said.
03:23But I was so excited that I couldn't go to school.
03:28I was so tired.
03:30I couldn't go to school.
03:32I thought I couldn't be bullied if I went to school.
03:34But I couldn't go to school.
03:37When did you not go to school?
03:39I was in high school.
03:41Since I was in elementary school, I had a question about group activities.
03:47There were many groups of girls.
03:50I was told,
03:52If you want to get along with that group, don't get along with me.
03:57I didn't understand the meaning.
03:59I couldn't talk to my parents about my health.
04:02I didn't want to go to school.
04:04I had no choice but to go to school.
04:06I was in a bad mood, so I went to the infirmary.
04:09When I was in high school, I thought I could decide on my own.
04:13I skipped school without permission.
04:15I didn't pretend to go out of the house.
04:18I see.
04:19I was bullied when I was in the third grade of junior high school.
04:23I was bullied.
04:26I had a loud voice since I was a child.
04:30My classmates said,
04:32Isn't that girl's voice weird?
04:34Isn't she a bully?
04:36I was bullied.
04:38I was bullied little by little.
04:42I talked to my teacher in a tone that I couldn't hear.
04:51It was hard.
04:54When I tried to go to school, my legs became heavy like lead.
04:59I couldn't move.
05:01I cried to my parents.
05:03I asked them to let me rest today.
05:07I told my parents many times.
05:09Since then, I haven't been able to go to school.
05:12I see.
05:13How about you, Sudou?
05:15When I was in the sixth grade of elementary school, I was a girl.
05:19My classmates were boys.
05:21I was bullied by my classmates.
05:25I was bullied little by little.
05:28My classmates started to steal things.
05:31After school, I was bullied.
05:33My classmates kicked me from behind.
05:36I was bullied little by little.
05:38I couldn't stand it anymore.
05:40So I chose to go to high school.
05:42I told my teacher.
05:43Can't I change the classroom to a different classroom?
05:49If I didn't have my classmates, I could go to school.
05:52My teacher said.
05:53Both the bullied and the bullied students are important students.
05:59The bullied students didn't say they didn't want to go to school.
06:03The bullied students didn't say they didn't want to go to school.
06:07If you can't go to school, I respect you as a teacher.
06:13So I chose high school.
06:19I was also bullied by my classmates.
06:23You were bullied.
06:25I was a little surprised.
06:29I didn't think there was a problem with the bullied students.
06:34I thought the bullied students had a weakness.
06:40I'm actually close with the bullied students.
06:44You got along well with them.
06:46Yes.
06:47After I graduated from high school, I gathered with my classmates.
06:51I was told that I regretted what I did at that time.
06:54I heard a lot of things.
06:56She had a hard time at home.
07:02I heard that she had a lot of depression.
07:05I thought she was doing it because her mental state was unstable.
07:10I thought it would be better to take care of her mental state.
07:14I thought it would be better to take care of her mental state.
07:17I thought it would be better to take care of her mental state.
07:20Some people say that there is a cause for being bullied.
07:25Even if there is a cause for being bullied, it is not good to bully.
07:30I think so.
07:32There is a questionnaire asking why elementary school students who were bullied had a hard time going to school.
07:38There are 25% of students who were bullied.
07:41There are 25% of students who were bullied.
07:48Is it because they don't want to go to school because they don't want to be bullied?
07:52I understand that.
07:53I understand that.
07:54I was bullied, but I didn't get along with the teacher.
07:59I couldn't run away because I was a teacher.
08:02I was a gym teacher.
08:04I was a male teacher.
08:06Basically, I was a teacher who obeyed everyone.
08:12Basically, I was a teacher who obeyed everyone.
08:15I was a teacher who obeyed everyone.
08:22I told my mother that I didn't want to go to school because I was in pain.
08:27My mother helped me.
08:29My teacher was a nice teacher.
08:34I was a gym teacher.
08:37When I was in high school, I was called out in front of everyone.
08:41I was called out in front of everyone.
08:44I started saying,
08:47I started saying,
08:50I started saying,
08:53I started saying,
08:55I started saying,
08:56I started saying,
08:58I was recognized as a bully.
09:03I was often seen as a bully in high school.
09:07I was worried about how the teacher would respond.
09:11I was worried about how the teacher would respond.
09:13When I was a nurse,
09:16My mom took the kids to the room
09:17When I was a nurse,
09:19My mom took the kids to the room
09:22and made a place for them to make up.
09:25For me, it was a bit of a nuisance.
09:29And those kids were in front of the teacher, so I was like,
09:32Are you okay? What's wrong? Cheer up!
09:35Well, that's the only way to put it.
09:37I was like, what kind of joke is this?
09:41But now that I think about it, I think it was a pretty tough one.
09:45I understand the teacher's feelings.
09:47The teacher thought it was a good idea, too.
09:51I think it's really hard to get 30 to 40 people together.
09:59And SNS is so advanced that you can't see it.
10:03I'm sure there are a lot of teachers who are wondering what to do.
10:10By the way, we've received a letter from a 40-year-old woman who has a child who doesn't go to school.
10:15I don't know what to say when a child says he doesn't want to go to school.
10:20I understand that it is better to let him rest when he wants to respect his parents' feelings,
10:25but I understand that he wants to go to school.
10:28I can understand the parents' feelings.
10:31I don't know if the child is simply spoiling him or if there is a fundamental cause that makes it difficult for him to go to school.
10:39I don't know if he's telling his parents.
10:42There are children who don't tell their parents.
10:44How did you respond when the teacher said she didn't want to go to school?
10:48It was my first time, so it was the first time for me, too.
10:54So I was worried at that time.
10:57Now that I look back, I think I talked to him because I wanted him to go somewhere in my heart.
11:07So now, rather than the purpose of going to school,
11:12for example, if you have to study or want to play with your friends,
11:17if you have a stronger reason not to go,
11:22you don't have to force yourself to go.
11:24I've come to think that it's only for a moment in my long life.
11:30What kind of response did your parents give you?
11:34They never forced me to go to school.
11:39But I still felt sorry for my parents.
11:44There are more and more books about bullying at home.
11:51My dad told me not to worry about my mom because she was holding my chest.
11:59But my parents respected me.
12:04They were both worried about me.
12:08I think I can tell them how I feel when I'm with them.
12:12I can't force them to go to school,
12:16but I can tell them that I'm going to try my best today.
12:21So I got in the car and went to the front of the school.
12:26But I couldn't go because I felt like I was taking a huge step.
12:31So I said, I can't go.
12:33On my way home, I went to McDonald's and bought some fries.
12:38I said, let's eat together.
12:40On my way home, while everyone was eating lunch,
12:44I was watching the lunch variety show while eating McDonald's fries.
12:49I still can't forget that time.
12:55I made a song out of it.
13:01It became a tie-up with McDonald's.
13:07Here is the song.
13:10I ate those fries while watching TV in the afternoon.
13:16I can't move from this room, so I run away from reality.
13:22I can go to school a lot,
13:27but there are a lot of things that I can see and feel because I went to school.
13:32For example, the time I spent with my mom.
13:35I think a lot of moms don't know what to say.
13:39Even if you don't have a conversation, you can feel it.
13:44So I think you don't have to try to solve it.
13:48My mom definitely knew what I was worried about.
13:54But she didn't rush me to tell me what was going on.
14:00I was bullied by my mom naturally.
14:05She said I had a strange voice.
14:07I was able to talk to her while crying.
14:11Then my mom said,
14:13I love your voice.
14:16I'm sorry, I'm about to cry.
14:18I'm sorry.
14:20You're not bad at all.
14:22There will be a lot of people who will need you someday.
14:28My mom definitely knew what I was worried about.
14:34But she didn't rush me to tell me what was going on.
14:39Even when I was in my room,
14:41she said,
14:42Lisa, there's a delicious apple, let's eat it together.
14:45She invited me to the living room.
14:48Then naturally,
14:50I was bullied by my mom.
14:54She said I had a strange voice.
14:56I was able to talk to her while crying.
15:00Then my mom said,
15:02I love your voice.
15:05I'm sorry, I'm about to cry.
15:07I'm sorry.
15:08I really love you.
15:10You're not bad at all.
15:12There will be a lot of people who will need you someday.
15:18So don't think about dying or giving up.
15:24She kept telling me every day that she loved me.
15:30That saved me, too.
15:34She didn't force me, she didn't rush me.
15:38She just kept waiting for me and stayed by my side.
15:42That was a great support for me.
15:46Your parents must be proud of you.
15:49I feel like I'm a mother.
15:52When I think about it, I get really nervous.
15:55I don't know why.
15:56I don't know why it's not going well.
15:58My mom is like a mother to me.
16:03I have three siblings.
16:05I have an older brother.
16:07He was more strict.
16:10I was watching him.
16:12I couldn't tell my mom that I didn't want to do this or that.
16:17I was too scared to tell her.
16:20I wanted to talk to her more.
16:24But I didn't have the courage to tell her.
16:28Your mom didn't tell you to go to school?
16:32She didn't tell me to go to school.
16:35I always wanted to study and get a good job.
16:39But I didn't have the experience of getting a job.
16:44That's why I'm doing this job.
16:49If I could talk to my parents and go to school,
16:54I wouldn't be where I am now.
16:56So I want to make good use of that experience.
17:00I think it's important to create a new place for them.
17:05For students, school and home are two big things.
17:11If you don't want to go to school,
17:14you can take good care of your family.
17:17That's what I learned.
17:21I don't think school is a bad thing.
17:27Even if I look like I'm having a hard time,
17:30it means I'm going in a different direction.
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17:51I don't think you should go to school if you want to.
17:56But I don't think you should go to school.
18:01There are many other worlds.
18:04If you have something you like,
18:07you can learn more about yourself.
18:12Even if you look like you're having a hard time,
18:21it means you're going in a different direction.
18:26So you don't have to rush.
18:31For example, running away from bullying.
18:34You may run away from the world,
18:37but I think it's a start for a new world.
18:41Running away is not only a negative thing.
18:44It's a positive thing.
18:46You can go to a different environment.
18:49I think running away is also an activity.
18:53It takes a lot of courage and power,
18:56but I hope you can admit it yourself.
19:02I think your position is a source of encouragement and hope.
19:06You're doing well and having a good time.
19:11I think you can say,
19:13I'm fine and so is my child.
19:16This is a message from Nagao.
19:18The movie is released on April 4th.
19:23It's a sad love story of 30 years
19:26where a first love, a sudden breakup,
19:29and a painful breakup.
19:31Please watch it.
19:32Next time, we'll talk about one-off takes.
19:36The bath was really hard.
19:38I had to take a long bath,
19:40then a short one,
19:41and I was naked for about an hour.
19:43What am I doing?
19:45Look forward to it.