90 Day - The Last Resort S2 Episode 10
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00:00I
00:02See your ass Brandon previously on 90 day the last resort
00:11Do you think it is okay for you to
00:15Watch porn. Yeah, but for me I need a real person. I'm not okay with masturbating
00:22It doesn't satisfy my sounds like we're not gonna be able to be together
00:24I got it
00:29We're going to do some group hypnosis
00:32There are so many benefits to hypnotherapy sleep now
00:36Remember a specific time when you've hurt your partner
00:40But this time play it the way you would have liked it to happen
00:45Remember when you come to visit my family in Russia
00:48Mm-hmm because I meet my ex in the end we plan to be thinking to go back to each other
00:55To share it be kissing
00:58And that's cheating
01:00feel betrayed right now
01:03I feel like divorce has become a stronger possibility
01:18I
01:48Feel like divorce has become a stronger possibility
01:54Kisses sitting
02:02We have just relationship in a long distance
02:05We don't see each other for months for like three four four four months, and I think it is nothing serious
02:10We meet couple times, and I think you you never come back and that's it
02:18I
02:20Right now I'm feeling betrayed that the person you know my wife I
02:26Feel like she is you know broken the ultimate like thing. She's admitted to the one thing
02:32I can't like handle hearing you know that she's cheated. That's to me. That's
02:38That's just the worst thing she could do and it just it hurts
02:42It's like physically hurts me inside just to think about that
02:46I don't really want to think about it
02:52This is long just for five years five years ago
02:55and I think in brand not serious relationship is gonna be just
03:00Just dating can anything can and I never think and I will be moved to here. I think this is just nothing serious
03:06So
03:15In the session, how did you do it differently I never gonna meet and never don't do this again
03:23We here for honest
03:26And I feel like if I never gonna tell him this hurt me more and more and more
03:31But this moment was not about how it hurt you though
03:34And no, but now I heard him because I tell this but if I'm not so this is hurt me inside. Mm-hmm
03:44We did come here to be honest
03:47This has been bothering you for so long Julia why now I after all this time why after like five years
03:54It's making me feel
03:57Feel guilty and
03:59Because we start trying to save our relationship and talk of this therapist when I'm trying to go into deeply and
04:06Trying to figure out every problems. That's what make me like want to be opening if he doesn't gonna fix this
04:13What point we come here?
04:17We will focus on this in private with you too
04:23Brandon
04:25Thank you
04:26The really beautiful thing about hypnotherapy is that the subconscious mind will not allow us to do or say anything
04:32It doesn't actually want to do so this tells me that Julia won't be able to move forward
04:39Internally until she gets this off of her chest
04:42But at the same time Brandon seems a little bit overwhelmed to have this information coming up for the first time in a group
04:50session
04:51This could accelerate or accentuate has already pre-existing anxiety
04:55So we really want to address this and keep an eye on it, okay
05:00Sophie
05:01What was the moment that you found in your session? And how did you do it differently the second time?
05:11Mine was a time when I
05:14Was having an argument with Rob
05:17in front of like my friend and I brought up some really
05:22Personal things that Rob had told me in front of her
05:27Completely disregarding the fact that that probably like it did betray his trust because he told me this in confidence
05:34And you know, I blurted out in front of my friend and I feel like that really did hurt Rob and when I played it
05:40Back, I just you know
05:42I would choose to just not like that's not my place to ever share Rob's personal
05:47Business with anyone and I would have just chose to be a bit nicer to him in that moment
05:53I
05:55I'm sorry, cuz I could tell that really hurt your feelings
05:59Thank you
06:04Rob what was your moment?
06:06I went back to when we were long-distance and
06:10Those you know the first girl to reach out to me and sending me inappropriate things
06:23I'm really sorry that I
06:27Started that because I
06:30Feel like it changed everything
06:33And when I look back, I really just even when we were it we were long-distance and everything was new
06:39I really did want to be the right guy and do the right thing
06:43And then I and then I put it all up when I did that
06:48So, I'm sorry
06:51Thank you
06:56Roberts apologized to me so many times about the online cheating, but this time I believe that he regrets it
07:03I think
07:05You know, it's genuine
07:07It feels nice because honestly it feels like he's trying
07:12Thank you Stacy
07:17My moment was
07:21At home we were having a big fight
07:25We've been arguing a lot and it was the first time I
07:32Told Florian I wanted a divorce and
07:35I couldn't do this anymore and I wanted to leave
07:39Obviously doesn't like when I say those words. It really cuts deep. I
07:46went back to that moment and
07:49It I didn't even say it I just
07:52We were happy we were smiling I just
07:56Replayed the whole moment and we were just happily married
08:01Yeah, I felt it. I love that. Yeah, I love that
08:05Florian what was your moment?
08:07my moment is
08:10What I cheat to her
08:14How did you do it differently when you replayed it
08:19Different I wish I know can do it. I wish I never happened, you know
08:23Never met her or never happened. You know, I never reply examples
08:30Should I coulda you know I
08:35Asked you before we got married
08:36Was there anything else and then this new video pops up you guys were laughing and joking around in the bed like
08:44Doing sex positions and she was like moaning. How many times did you see her?
08:51To two times I understand I don't do it no more. That's it. I don't do it no more
09:02Twinsie, I apologize. Sorry, and I love you. I love you, too
09:07I
09:17Was honestly trying to find a moment where like, you know, Natalie's been hurt
09:23Like I couldn't really think of anything that I like couldn't justify the actions that had happened
09:32So, I don't really have a moment
09:38Do you feel as though you've never done anything to hurt Natalie I
09:43Mean, I don't either intentionally or unintentionally even if it's unintentional. Sometimes we do things unintentionally that I mean
09:49the only like time that she's like really been upset recently is
09:54you know this whole Sophie and Vegas and
09:57Then I like replay it and what I
10:00You know do something different there. I
10:03I
10:05Mean
10:08No
10:12Okay
10:15I'm just saying like there's never been a time like I've felt personally since we've been together at all that I've been like I'm
10:20So sorry that I did that. Yeah. Hey, I believe you
10:24Natalie is very lucky with this angel
10:27I
10:30Just because it was harmless and like a group of us were going and my only fault was I didn't invite her but I honestly
10:37Like at the time, I don't know if we were on the level where I would want to you know, go
10:43with her I
10:46Don't feel like it's not true. I
10:49Feel like there are things that he definitely have to apologize in front of me and he owns me an apology for me
10:56Like you're saying that he's not
10:59Feeling like he hurt me ever. It's a little bit self-involved and
11:03It's offending me as a person as a woman. I don't know deserve to be treated this way
11:11We are gonna move on to Natalie I remember the moment
11:17When
11:19We fought
11:22Because he was leaving and I didn't want him to call and
11:26I was so mean and
11:30Now when I had the exercise I apologized for that moment
11:35Because I feel when I hold to someone who is not into me
11:40I miss someone who would love me for real and this was I feel
11:51Thank you, I love your honesty
11:54Jasmine what was your moment, hon?
11:57It was actually something that happened a long time ago
12:03It was supposed to be our first Christmas in the United States and as a married couple and
12:10We have a very bad argument that day and I ended up
12:14Spending Christmas by myself on a cheap hotel room
12:18and
12:19I was going through a lot of emotional pain because it was my first Christmas
12:26away from my family and my country
12:30So what I did differently was that I opened my heart to him and I let him know like what would make me feel
12:37less sad
12:39in a nice way
12:46You know, I am
12:50I am very sorry, you know
12:59Because I have been not the person that you wanted me to be, I'm so sorry
13:05It's okay
13:08I'm so sorry that I hurt you in the past. I'm so sorry for everything that I said
13:13I'm so sorry for everything that I have done so far. I'm so sorry if I hurt you
13:20So
13:22Even if we end up together or not, I am begging you to please forgive me for everything
13:39That's beautiful, that's beautiful, thank you
13:50Gino, did you find a moment in the visualization that you remember hurting Jasmine?
13:59Yeah, okay
14:04Are you open to sharing it with us?
14:10I'd rather not
14:15Sorry
14:18Say it, Gino
14:23I think like this hurts in itself
14:26Not open like, you know
14:28He's right
14:30It only hurts you. You came here to participate
14:37It will mean a lot to me if you share it
14:39I
14:45Can't believe Gino right now. I went with my best attitude to this hypnotherapy.
14:52I really opened up to him to save our marriage and he is giving me nothing back and
14:59the common denominator in all this therapy is
15:03Everybody cheating and you know, I have Florian talking about cheating, Rob and even Julia
15:09Julia and she's a sweetheart. So the first thought that comes to my mind is like did you cheat on me?
15:18Are you serious what else could it be?
15:33Gino
15:38Keeping it in your mind only helps you. It doesn't help your partner and maybe she does need to hear something from you
15:48Or maybe she deserves it
15:51What what is it like I have heard like all the cheating apologies and I haven't heard from my husband
15:58I'm like, okay now I want to know Sarah like come on, you know, I'm a very insecure jealous person. I
16:07Need to know
16:09Come on, you know
16:14I
16:16Felt bad, you know, you know and sometimes Jasmine and I will fight and I
16:23Said we'll just go back to Panama
16:28I think it's make it up. So I'm sorry for that. I
16:35Didn't mean
16:39As much as I want to believe my husband that that's what he really wanted to apologize for I know him so well
16:47Like the palm of my hand and I know
16:51It is not what he wanted to say initially by not sharing what it really was
16:58You know, you're not putting in the same effort
17:00That is not fair
17:08Ari are you open and ready to share?
17:11I
17:13Was sort of trying to follow the instructions that I was more like also coming in like in that of like I guess
17:18Dream state consciousness state so I was more able to think about like just something that I've done in the past like in general
17:27Basically just using negative words to describe Vinny
17:32So if I yelled at you in the past or said I'm kind things. I'm sorry about that and
17:39Also, it's helpful for me to realize that it's not something I ever have to do again in the future
17:44Yeah, that's exactly the point of this to take ownership of your own state of being
17:51Vinny
17:57After
17:59Five years ago before when I meet an Ari just I met another girl
18:05And then after when I didn't know Ari
18:08Then I didn't stop was sending message
18:12Then because of she find out and then I hurt
18:16so bad
18:18And then I'm thinking I don't want hurt the other one girl, but same thing just I hurt
18:24I hurt them both of them like what I did mistake. Who are you talking about?
18:30About for free. It's a god-like her mean you when you
18:34Read it anything
18:38Because we met
18:41So you were in a relationship with with that girl when you were with your ex-wife because we met three months after with your ex-wife
18:48I
18:52I'm trying to understand it because you're you're saying of something really big. Just say just accept and sorry just so who cares
19:01You know, so very one like something if he doesn't know just forget it just I'm sorry for what I heard you
19:06What does I say? So I'm sorry
19:08Well, the problem is that I'm he's actually lying. He's lying about the dates
19:12He's lying about the whole thing. And so it's not an apology
19:16I'm talking about for day even tomorrow. It's yesterday. Just I want to say I apologize. Okay
19:22Benny hates looking like the bad guy
19:24And so he's trying to soften the story by turning it into like oh in the very beginning of a relationship
19:29I was talking to another woman. No, that's not true. There was no other woman in the beginning of a relationship
19:34He was talking to another woman and more than just talking when I was very very pregnant with our son and after I had our
19:40son, maybe it's his way of
19:42indirectly saying he's sorry for
19:45The actual infidelity that occurred much later. I don't know. I don't know
19:51Exactly, but I feel like he's apologizing and still trying to protect himself at the same time
19:57What I want to make clear is when you give someone an apology
20:00Because now she's detective, you know, she won't Pacific like something like in the like or CIA or something
20:06That's why she want to do is by this day by this day in the day
20:10I just I just
20:11Just I want to say I'm sorry what I have to just I want to say. I'm sorry. I just need to finish
20:16Okay, that's all. Sorry. I'm talking to you right now
20:19so I think that a lot of these moments have been challenging to
20:25bring up and and own up to and I think just starting that process of
20:31Apologizing and owning up for things is a good start
20:34But I do think it will lead to more expansion
20:40So guys the purpose is of today was really twofold right number one show you the power of your own mind
20:47but I also want to point out the second part of the
20:49Important part of this was instead of the you did this you did that and always it's our partners problem
20:56Come back to yourself own
20:58Your part in it and once you take ownership of that watch your relationship change
21:06Okay, we're gonna go camp and enjoy the rest of our evening, thank you I
21:17Feel betrayed right now, and I don't know how to deal with this, you know, I
21:23Really at the moment don't want to feel these feelings that I have and I kind of wish that she had just never told me
21:31Maybe I could have gone on living my life never known this
21:36Do you want talking about it
21:44You can't see how that statement hurts our relationship because now that's on my brain and before that was not on my radar
21:53Don't know we here for so it's true
21:57Yeah, but maybe if the truth is beneficial
22:01And that is like good opportunity for saying to talking to
22:09Make our relationship better and is not this toxic. Let all toxic go outside from us
22:15We have toxic inside us. We have how I didn't I didn't I didn't have a relationship is toxic
22:22Everything could happen minute have a sex. We're not talking with each other
22:26That's your sex things on you because my brain you're creating the toxicity when she say going to this door
22:34I can't because I'm stuck at this door
22:36Everything my brain I can't listen to her. I don't even hear what you say
22:40I can I can can can we just do this another time?
22:43I'm because right now when you're gonna hit me with that information, I'm just really too angry to want to like look at you
22:55I
23:16Start with
23:17Rods, yeah start with the rods
23:20How you doing?
23:22Better I think you're smart to at least take the night and just be alone. I
23:28Love camping. I was really looking forward to a fun camping trip with my wife, but
23:33Julia blindsided me today and
23:36It's not good right now between us. I
23:39Don't even want to be around her right now. I don't know what Julia can do to make this better
23:43I don't know if there's anything I
23:46If I can't get the past this I might just need time
23:52Hey, hello looks good good work. Yeah
23:59Vinny the fire eater. Hey guys
24:07It does feel like Josh doesn't give appropriate effort towards our issues
24:14But there is a part of me that want to get it
24:17Leave it alone tonight and be playful
24:20Next to the fire at the end of the day. He's still here tonight, and he hasn't left me yet
24:27Careful there brother. I used to it. I'm fire personally like this. Yeah, I do the circus on the fire
24:47Here
24:50So what's going on with you and Brandon he make a turn right now for this night or sleep alone and I blame him I
24:58thought that Ari and Benny were gonna have separate tents before you and
25:02Brandon
25:07You got it yeah, yeah. All right. Got you home sweet home right there. Yeah, man. Yeah me
25:13How you feeling about right about now?
25:16Emotionally drained honestly, but I think I'd rather not have known that
25:22Maybe she should have mentioned it before but it sounds like it was in the beginning
25:26And I and she sounded like she was unsure whether or not it was between you and her would amount to something
25:31I mean we were definitely dating and we were already filing k1 visa when that happened
25:40You were doing the k1 visa we had already filed the k1 visa
25:45so I
25:47Mean that to me. We were committed at that time I
25:52Feel for Brandon and you know before Sophie's visa got accepted. I kind of was thinking dumb like Julia because
26:00The government hasn't even approved anything
26:03I'm I don't know if I can even be with this person
26:05Then there's some of us that they're dumb enough to kiss a guy like she did or respond to randoms like I did but
26:13For her to blindside him with that information years later in front of everybody after they're already married
26:18I don't know what Julia's thinking right now
26:22All right, I guess we go drink the others
26:24I
26:39Think it's more. Yeah, can you make me one? Yeah. Actually, I want to make my own one
26:43Yeah, it's all about making them how they taste. I want to make mine. It's small
26:48I'm gonna make one to be honest. I never make a s'mores. Really? I don't think I have I see
26:54It's like an American thing. Yeah, I don't think we have s'mores in England now that you want a potato. Yes
27:00What we supposed to do this thing
27:03Bake it roast it and just eat it like this
27:07Is that what is that that is a potato that's a potato yeah, you're gonna cook it I'm so confused
27:17When I was a child I used to boil potatoes on the fire
27:21So I eat a lot of potatoes that I will actually make this way
27:24I honestly don't feel like trying none of the other food like mush
27:29Mush but much man much
27:32Marshmallow, I feel like I'm into potato because it felt like home when I was a child
27:51No, this is the best way this is the best one that is disgusting you're too crazy, you don't know what a s'more is them
27:57It's burnt. No, it's not. That's what you want. You want it to be nice and all kind of a little bit crispy
28:02Look at that
28:05I'm gonna be hot. Give it a second. No, it's a bunny Bernie Bernie Mac
28:14S'mores are not my thing. We don't really have anything like that in England
28:19Which I thought I'd really like it, but it's honestly disgusting
28:23It's like gooey and crunchy and like not in a good way. It was just gross
28:27It's not for me, but a burnt potato is definitely grosser than a s'more. I'd rather eat the s'more
28:37That damn thing you're cooking Natalie is cooked
28:49I
28:54Think
28:57You people something girl, yeah felt like I was like floating out my body
29:01You didn't were you like knocked out? No, like no, no instantly asleep. No, I don't know
29:08I did serious. I was like conked out
29:12Hey
29:14Hello, hi beautiful. I really like this thing. Look
29:18I
29:21Know
29:23Can I say with you guys? Yeah, you don't have to ask
29:28Yeah, you're we're family now I
29:32Don't talk to Jasmine
29:35Since that fight happened, you know, I don't have nothing to say to her
29:38I hope Jasmine come like a girl woman and talk like in peace. I don't want to fight with her
29:44Somebody like come nice. I'm going to be nice
29:49Somebody come bad, I'm gonna make nightmare
29:53All this, you know process like I
29:58Don't know have me like very vulnerable
30:00Sensitive. Yes, and oh my gosh. I know for him. I
30:07Love Stacy, so we have something in common
30:12And I feel bad because
30:15I
30:16Feel like I have
30:19Indirectly like cost tension between you guys. I
30:23Don't want to say that. Oh, it's Florian fault is my fault like but I'm taking accountability for what I did
30:31Today's therapy had me reflecting on my own behavior since I've been here and a lot of the frustration that I live in my
30:38Marriage, I've been projecting to others and that includes Florian and that is not fair
30:44The hypnotherapy really
30:46internalized into me that there is nothing wrong with making mistakes, but the important part of it is
30:54recognizing them
30:55apologizing and moving forward I
30:58Want to apologize to you Florian because I want me to be honest with you
31:04Thank you for apologizing I
31:07Don't have nothing personal. I don't hate you personal. I hate things like you know having fun. You know my one
31:12I know you need to fix the issues for it. You come here. Well, they lose some nights
31:16I'm not talking every night, you know
31:17Yeah, sometimes I know you turn to try to hurt him sometimes think about before thinking you had
31:24You think it's good. You can say to him you sing. Oh somebody say to me
31:27I'm be going to be bad. No say to him. You know my point think about before you talk, you know my point
31:33I'm pretty surprised to be honest. I'm shocked. Yeah, I'm surprised that Jasmine came over and wanted to just
31:39Make amends. She was being the bigger person. She gave her a nice person and that up for all the drama and everything
31:48I respect her for that so that I respect for that that I'm going to talk like a doll with her
31:55You know like a doll like a doll like adult the doll
32:00When June and I got married, you know
32:03Honestly, I will never thought that we will end up in a place like this to be honest with you
32:09I like I like to talk to him. I'm going to talk to him, you know, thank you
32:12I'm not going to say to you right now what I'm going to talk to him. But like I'm going to talk to him
32:16I want things to work. I am desperate and don't feel pressure. But no, no
32:22Honestly feel at this moment that you are my last hope because he's not being honest to me
32:28He's not being honest to the therapist like at least if I can get him to
32:33Open and being honest to one person like that's gonna be like a first step
32:40Jen and I have been here for two weeks and we have made absolute no progress and ever since I came with the idea
32:48About an open marriage. We are just going backwards
32:51If Lauren is the only person Gino is gonna listen to maybe Florian can talk to you
32:56No, and make him being vulnerable and express how he feels about it
33:01It might be a way to get to the way we were before
33:06all this mess
33:11Natalie don't eat that
33:15Well, man, some people don't even have this I'm blessed that a potato that's that yeah potato
33:25You did not want him
33:31I
33:43Was he living I'm going to enjoy probably he didn't want to lose anybody so I
33:55Mean do I need to talk with him right now or in this moment? I have to leave him alone
34:01I think if it was me, I think give him space for right now. Okay right now and give him some space. Yeah
34:13Today's been a lot. I'm emotionally drained and I'm just I'm ready to sleep. Honestly, I can't take any more. I
34:22Feel like I've lost some trust in Julie today
34:26I've never done this. I've never cheated. Why is this fair? Why is this fair to me?
34:32I don't know
34:40Hi, yeah, oh wow
34:47I'm blind now. Oh
34:51My gosh, it feels so good. Oh my gosh
34:55What the hell you do
34:58It's so much
35:05Some people don't have a means that I'm respectful
35:10You know, I mean like it's support of people who do not have a means
35:14Her mouth is turning black
35:25Listen Josh
35:28I'm still thinking about this therapy session that we have. How is it possible that
35:33You were the only person that didn't have anything to apologize for
35:37Maybe it's not that I didn't have anything to apologize for but I think it was more of like
35:44Major issue like I'm not have like a major thing where I've been like, oh, I need to call Natalie and I'm like
35:51It's really sorry for that. Do you think that it has to do with the fact that you don't see this woman as your partner?
35:58But I do not feel like it's there is a need for that right now because we're happy we enjoy in a moment and
36:04I feel like she's provoking me right now. She doesn't want to deal with your own problems with your husband
36:21I
36:27Josh do you love Natalie? I've been caring for Natalie our entire relationship
36:33Care for Natalie, but you know, I love Natalie
36:37This is not a game. This is serious therapy and being married is a serious
36:53You say like I have nothing to apologize for and
36:57Do you think that it has to do with the fact that you don't see this woman as your partner? I
37:05Think we're trying to work on a committed relationship. That's where we're at
37:09We were trying to be in a committed relationship together. Are you sure like million person? Well, that's why we're here, right?
37:16I'm not gonna tell you what to do Natalie. I'm here because I have my own
37:21But he doesn't look at you as a partner. Well, that's not what I said. That's what I understood
37:28All you want is to have a family you want to get married even your attitude like when this guy
37:34Give you like the leftovers you act like a puppy so desperate
37:40Guys, like I have a strong feeling to him and I'm here fix it. If you think I'm a puppy, that's fine
37:46I'll be so nice. I like puppies. No, you're not getting it. I'm not like it's a metaphor
37:53whatever
37:55Can I have my wine
37:57If you're gonna insult me at least I'm gonna be drunk
37:59Natalie I'm saying this because last night at the party you were so hurt
38:06You were so pissed because Josh was gone
38:14Do you love Josh I do I only involved if I love
38:20So Josh do you love Natalie
38:23I've been caring for Natalie non-stop for our entire relationship. And that is true
38:32See what I hear is you're saying you care for Natalie, but do you love Natalie?
38:39Do you think I would do all these things if I didn't love her is it good enough
38:44kind of
38:46sadistic type
38:48And
38:50It's I'm sorry for being honest like I like to sometimes make pain and I like to get so you like the drama
38:57Well, yeah, I can't be like a doll. I always feel I feel when I have feelings I feel alive
39:04If you don't have something to feel
39:06I die. It's boring. I mean, it's a game laugh. It's a game who wins. It's great
39:12I mean, it's like a chess. Do you play chess? I like to play
39:16This is not a game, this is serious therapy like this isn't your life and being married is a serious
39:25I just do not understand their relationship
39:28All the couples are trying to participate and get something out of it
39:33But if they are not taking the rest of this retreat seriously, I don't want them here
39:39This therapy should be directed to any of the other couples that are still trying
39:44Not them. It's a waste of time and time is
39:50Priceless right now because most of these marriages in here
39:54Might not end up in the best terms
40:00Why don't we talk about me let's talk about someone else
40:03No, but we don't wanna open ourself in front of people that don't take this seriously. That's okay
40:10I'm opening myself anymore. Come on
40:15Come on
40:16Come on
40:17So they can open up. Well, let's go why because we don't need we don't need to we can let them
40:23We can let them open up for themselves open up. We love you
40:26Bye. Good night. I
40:31Feel
40:32Natalie being calm is actually scarier than Natalie blowing up because I've come to be used to seeing Natalie blow up
40:41but Natalie being stoic is like
40:44What is this I don't know what's about to happen it's creepy. Yeah, it's creepy. Yeah
40:49Maybe she's still hypnotized
40:51She hasn't snapped out of it yet
41:03I didn't sleep that well yesterday because a lot of things have been happening with Rob. I basically saw on his phone
41:12Look I found this
41:36She's insane
41:37But I also feel like I don't want Natalie to think that we're piling on her what we're trying to tell her she doesn't
41:43That won't play games with her that she can actually have a family with that
41:46She could be serious, but I don't think she and Josh is not that she doesn't care, but I just can't take any more drama
41:52We live it like this. It's okay. I got it. So let's just say
41:59Because I don't know how to handle the fire let's go inside
42:08Do you want me to spend some time in your tent? Yes, I'm not sure I want you want to van we can go in my
42:16Yeah, so let me tell you no, do you know?
42:18If you don't mind I'll join you later. I she can stay you'll need some
42:26Ten minutes and I send her back to you. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Oh
42:33God ouch ouch
42:36My knees
42:59So, where is your husband
43:02Yeah
43:05She I have never seen Brandon like he looks like a ghost yeah
43:15But if you need hell or anything just let me know
43:24To be alone with myself in this tent, that's not how I expected this would turn up. I appreciate Jasmine support
43:31I'm worried rest of the street will be look like challenge big challenge for us. It's first time being here
43:38I'm not sure about future
44:02These are horny donkeys
44:04I
44:25Don't see us
44:27You up?
44:29No pillow the donkeys didn't you hear the donkeys they were so loud. I'm glad they didn't knock our tent down. I
44:39Have a very restless night on this stand because there were so many weird noises like
44:46Animals and Gina was farting and the tennis at closest face. So there were so many external factors
44:54I didn't get a good night of sleep
44:57Yeah, I was farting but they were silent ones and they really
45:01Like the silent farts are the most toxic ones they're deadly
45:13Well, yeah right now
45:16I
45:24Morning good morning. Do you mind we take a moment with Julia off to the side?
45:31Okay, I'll go get her
45:35Coming into the campground this morning
45:37My main focus primarily is to go right to Brandon and Julia and make sure that those two are
45:42Okay, and we can come to some sort of resolution after what we experienced yesterday
45:47the biggest challenge with infidelity really is gaining trust back especially if there's been a long period of time since the infidelity their
45:54Mind can go to a place of how much of what I experienced with this person. Were we actually in love?
45:59How come I didn't know about this sooner?
46:01So to build trust back is the foundation of what we really want to focus on in couples therapy
46:08What's up boys
46:10Morning honored to be called the boy. I'm one of the boys and Ari good to see you guys. How was your sleep?
46:19Rough yeah, Natalie like
46:22she's tossing and turning and
46:25I was feeling hot and it was just I just didn't sleep. Well, yeah
46:30Did she do you guys like have trouble sleeping together usually like? Yeah. I mean, yeah, I do we do
46:36I need somebody that's kind of just still I
46:39Don't know I'm the opposite. I'd love to be held. I sleep. Oh, yeah. No, I can't do that
46:45How about you Rob? How'd you sleep buddy? Uh
46:48I mean the camping side. I loved it
46:51Sophie was
46:53Super weird to me this morning though
46:55Like she's pissed off of me. It's for some reason. I don't even know why well
46:59What happened last night to make her pissed off at you today? Nothing. Nothing. I know of well
47:03I thought we had a good day. I thought she was I don't know. I thought she was
47:08Better place campers. What's up, Stace?
47:11Actually really chipper this morning. Yeah, I see that. I woke up real stiff and
47:18Maybe camping is your thing
47:21Knock knock
47:23Good morning, beautiful
47:26You're not joining us for breakfast
47:29no, it's feeling it's like I didn't sleep that well yesterday because
47:34Basically like a lot of things have been happening with Rob
47:39That like no one is really getting to see because he's like nice to everyone
47:44But I basically saw on his phone
47:47That he's been texting women the whole time
47:51during this resort
47:54He's not taking it seriously, yeah, he's still all that that I left him over he's still doing it during therapy
48:02Like how he's not he's not trying still doing all that he apologized yesterday for that
48:07Yeah, and then look also I found this
48:17Swipe he's not trying to be with me
48:24You're down to be adventurous
48:26You're down to be adventurous, let's explore
48:33So
48:37Is it possible to move forward with this new circumstance for you Brandon next time on 90 day the last resort
48:46you're the only safe space I have here and the only thing I know and
48:52For trying to want to want to feel like I want to push you away it makes all this harder
48:57I
48:59Spent very difficult for me with my marriage with Rob and you've done so much
49:04To me and I've kept it to myself because I do care about you
49:07You was cheating very clear. You want to use that you want to put me in the corner? I'm done
49:16You know you had a real one
49:21Guys I want you all here. What are you saying? I didn't say anything. I said I don't like to be touched
49:27Open more your mouth about my body. I
49:30Feel very like call out and I just explore
49:38Are you everything okay?
49:40No, it's not. Okay. I mean today was very traumatic for me because everything Sophie's going through I went through all that
49:47I don't understand how everyone could see that Rob treats Sophie's so poorly
49:51But being sure to me the exact same way and nobody cares I want to do it, okay, all right
49:59All right what she would
50:01Just can't do it anymore
50:05With the high not therapies, you know, like
50:09Honestly, I don't think that that's what you were
50:16Apologizing for
50:18What was it?
50:20All right, I'll tell you