90 Day - The Last Resort S2 Episode 9
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00:00You ready?
00:01Let me in.
00:02Let's do it.
00:03Previously on 90 Day The Last Resort.
00:05Oh my God!
00:08Tonight we are going to stay in the honeymoon suite.
00:12I can just have a little, you know, pre-party.
00:15I promise we'll have some sexual stuff after our party's done,
00:19but now we need to be ready for party.
00:20Darling.
00:21I promise.
00:22I mean, I was hoping tonight we would get some intimate time,
00:26but it looks like we're going to have a party instead.
00:31In our relationship, Sophie's mom never wanted to see me
00:35as someone worthy, someone good enough.
00:40Sorry, just one second.
00:42The way I was brought up definitely has an effect on me now
00:45and relationships.
00:48It's hard when someone struggles with addiction
00:51and, like, affected my life as a baby and then not my marriage.
00:55And it's just difficult.
00:58Welcome to our castle.
01:00Let's go, guys.
01:01Come on, sweetie.
01:02Too late.
01:03Too late.
01:04Florian gets a little butthurt at times when, you know,
01:07he's not personally invited,
01:09but he's acting way over the top once again.
01:11For me, in my life, my father teaches me to respect people.
01:15Respect people!
01:17You're the most disrespectful people on earth.
01:19Shut the f*** up!
01:21Shut your f***ing mouth!
01:22I just hope that Stacy lifts your ass.
01:27You want a drink? You want a drink?
01:29I'm f***ing Jasmine and I'm crazy, dude.
01:34We had a conversation this morning and Josh said,
01:36in his life, he needs stability.
01:39And you're a little all over the place.
01:41What does it mean?
01:42Like, you're crazy.
01:45I don't know what to believe anymore.
01:47Josh is going around and says different things
01:49about our relationship.
01:50Behind my back, it's a really bad sign.
01:56I don't know what to believe anymore.
02:27To every each of you, he says different stories.
02:29Yeah, it's always negative and you are always a problem.
02:32Exactly.
02:35When I talk to him, he loves you
02:37and he wants to build more confidence with you.
02:41Okay, thank you for that. It's good, you see?
02:44Okay, Gino's version of Josh.
02:46One out of ten.
02:47One out of ten.
02:48One out of ten.
02:49One out of ten.
02:50One out of ten.
02:51One out of ten.
02:52One out of ten.
02:53One out of ten.
02:54Okay, Gino's version of Josh.
02:55One out of four. That's not bad.
02:57One out of four.
02:58We're getting somewhere warm.
03:00What, Gino, what information do you have?
03:03Well, actually, I didn't talk to Josh about you.
03:08But, you know, I don't think he would have came here for nothing.
03:13I know, but we were supposed to work on our relationship
03:16and, like, I don't know where he is.
03:18Have anyone seen him today?
03:20Has he been here?
03:22No.
03:23No.
03:30Hi.
03:31Hey.
03:32How are you?
03:33What's up?
03:34What is Sophie?
03:35What's up?
03:36My boy.
03:37Get on over here.
03:38Oh, this has been rough without you, bro.
03:40What is Sophie?
03:41Oh, check this out.
03:42Check this out.
03:43What up, brother?
03:44Yeah.
03:45So I'm showing up to this party tonight because, you know,
03:47after sandbox therapy, I feel like Sophie needs some time
03:50to just, like, process things.
03:52I think Sophie has a lot of emotional baggage that comes from
03:55the way her mom raised her and their relationship.
03:58So I would hope that she is taking time to process
04:01and is reflecting and is working through some stuff.
04:06Baby!
04:07We met!
04:09Sorry.
04:10It's okay.
04:11I'm sorry.
04:12You deserve an apology.
04:13I'm so sorry.
04:14Stop apologizing.
04:15Again, to talk to you like that, it's just...
04:17Stay safe.
04:18Welcome to house.
04:20Welcome.
04:21I'm so sorry.
04:22Stop apologizing.
04:23You don't have to.
04:24You don't have to.
04:25You don't have to.
04:26It's okay.
04:27What is him?
04:28He's back home, I guess.
04:29You know, he walked in.
04:30I said, I'm leaving.
04:31I don't know what time I'll be back.
04:32You look dead inside.
04:33Yeah.
04:34You look empty.
04:35I do.
04:36I feel like I don't even know what I'm feeling anymore.
04:37You have life inside you.
04:38I feel so bad for you, Stacey.
04:40That is not how your life should be.
04:47Honestly, like, I'm really hoping this toxic cycle can end.
04:50I want a breakthrough.
04:51I really want us to be happy and get along.
04:54But this is my last chance.
05:21We're here for you.
05:22Like, I don't know what else to do.
05:23We're here for you.
05:24I miss feeling empowered, and I feel like he takes that away from me.
05:28Okay, let's give her a dose of power back.
05:31Let's give her power back.
05:32I want to celebrate me.
05:33Celebrate you.
05:34Celebrate her goddess.
05:35Yes.
05:36Celebrate queen.
05:37Celebrate you.
05:38You are a long come.
05:39Yes.
05:40Big step for you.
05:41You deserve to treat like a queen.
05:43Yeah, because that's what you are.
05:44You're a goddess.
05:46When Florian gets fired up and gets angry like that, I just...
05:52I'm embarrassed.
05:53I just...
05:54I don't want to be around it.
05:55No one wants to be around that.
05:56This is a perfect example why he needs anger management.
05:59It's a blessing that we're here.
06:01And if we can make it out of this together, that's great.
06:04But I don't really see that happening right now
06:07because he's not making improvement.
06:09Cheers to the queen.
06:11Cheers to the queen.
06:13This is Natalie.
06:15Hey.
06:19Are you okay?
06:20Yeah, I'm good.
06:25It's a little bit awkward seeing Benny here tonight
06:28because the last time I saw Benny
06:30was when he flipped me off at the Western bar.
06:37It's a beautiful room.
06:40And honestly, seeing him still pisses me off.
06:43Hopefully, Benny is not going to fight with me
06:45or embarrass me or anything.
06:47And we can both be here and just talk to people
06:50and just enjoy our time here.
06:53Rob, Rob, come on.
06:55Where you at, my boy?
06:56I see your ass, Brandon.
06:58And your left ball.
06:59And your left ball.
07:00You haven't seen my ass.
07:02Now you're about to see my ass.
07:04Oh, my gosh.
07:05It's so pale.
07:06I already saw it.
07:07What do you want to do tonight?
07:09I want to have sex.
07:11Yay!
07:12Gina!
07:13Gina!
07:14Gina!
07:15No.
07:16Uh-uh.
07:17No?
07:18No, no.
07:19Gina, why no?
07:20I'll tell you what.
07:21Because we fight every f***ing day.
07:23I know.
07:24Plus, she doesn't listen to me.
07:25Those are the two reasons why we are not going to...
07:27So I'm the problem.
07:29This morning, we had a very bad argument
07:32just because I was trying to hug Benny.
07:36I was trying to hug and kiss him
07:38with no intention whatsoever to have sex.
07:41And he told me that I lost him already.
07:44No, you were trying to be intimate with me
07:46and I wasn't ready yet.
07:47I was trying just to hug you.
07:48And I told you no, and you got super pissed off.
07:52We have had multiple days without fighting
07:56and nothing is enough.
07:57No, we haven't.
07:58That's a lie.
08:00We have no emotional connection any longer
08:02and I'm not going to.
08:03Gina, I know you're upset, but...
08:05I don't know.
08:06Just take it down a notch.
08:09Gina, would you hear me?
08:11Would you come sit here?
08:12We're all here to make progress.
08:14We're all here to better our relationship.
08:15You want to do it?
08:16Here's your chance.
08:18Gina, come up.
08:21Here's our opportunity.
08:22All right.
08:24This is not going to work.
08:25No.
08:26It agitates me because I can feel your love for each other.
08:30What is really going on?
08:32Do you think that it is fair
08:34while we work in our relationship
08:36that it is okay for you to watch porn,
08:40to masturbate?
08:41Once in a while, yeah.
08:42Of course I do.
08:43Okay, but you're okay with that dynamic in your life
08:46to satisfy your sexual needs?
08:48Yeah.
08:49Yeah.
08:50But for me, I need a real person.
08:53Yeah, but don't sit there and say,
08:54oh, Gina, you have to have sex with me.
08:56No, not you.
08:57If you cannot give it to me,
08:58let me find a different person.
09:00Let me find it in someone else.
09:06And accept the deal of having an open marriage.
09:12Damn.
09:13It's so twisted and not cool and not fair
09:16for her to ask for an open marriage.
09:18She might not get it,
09:20but that will mess with a dude's head really bad.
09:26No, no, I don't go that route.
09:28No.
09:31How am I supposed to satisfy my sexual needs?
09:34Because I need sex.
09:35I haven't had it in nine months.
09:36Masturbate.
09:37I'm not okay with masturbating.
09:40I need a real person.
09:43No, no, I'm not going to be in an open relationship.
09:45That's not the kind of relationship I want.
09:47And then what am I supposed to do?
09:48I'm not okay with masturbating.
09:50It doesn't satisfy my needs.
09:51Well, then it sounds like
09:52we're not going to be able to be together.
10:00We're not going to be able to be together.
10:20Did you see how he is?
10:21Yeah, he's treating me like s***.
10:23I totally relate.
10:24You saw that real Gino just now.
10:26Yeah, he's withholding sex and affection.
10:28Vinny would do the same thing to me.
10:29It's punishing you.
10:30It's punishing.
10:33I am with you.
10:34Like, if he can't give you what you need,
10:36then you should be able to have an open marriage.
10:40If I don't see effort on her part
10:42to try to fix our core problems,
10:44it's not going to work.
10:46I am not interested in having an open marriage whatsoever.
10:50I mean, if the tables were turned
10:52and I proposed to Jasmine
10:55this open relationship with some girl that I meet,
10:58do you think she'd take that lightly?
11:00Absolutely not.
11:01She'd freaking blow up.
11:03But the fact that Jasmine won't let this go
11:06after I've told her repeatedly,
11:07I'm not for this,
11:09this really worries me.
11:11I feel you on that.
11:12But at the same time,
11:13this isn't a one-person story.
11:17You got to do your damnedest to push yourself.
11:20I know this s*** isn't easy.
11:21Trust, because at the end of the day,
11:23this is your marriage.
11:25And you do get to a point where you're done giving.
11:27But we have a very unique opportunity
11:29to be here with therapists and everything.
11:31You do what you can, bro.
11:46But the thing is that love is not enough.
11:48You have to work hard.
11:49Love is not enough.
11:50You can't live in a sexless marriage.
11:52And if he's not willing,
11:54then there's nothing you can do.
11:56And you're gorgeous.
11:57Let me have your back.
11:58You know?
11:59Let me have your back.
12:03It really breaks my heart to hear Gino saying
12:05that we might not end up together.
12:08I'm being very patient when it comes to
12:10being in a sexless marriage.
12:12But I'm tired of waiting for something
12:14that might never come.
12:16I love him, and I don't want to leave him,
12:18but I'm not getting what I need from him.
12:22Right now, I feel completely stuck
12:24in my marriage with Gino.
12:26Okay, guys, guys.
12:27Okay, everybody.
12:28Everybody get out.
12:29Go home.
12:30Go home.
12:31Time to go, everybody.
12:33I gotta go back to Florian.
12:35F*** Florian.
12:37Gino.
12:38Talk to her.
12:39Talk to Jasmine.
12:40Please.
12:41Please.
12:42I really wanted to help Gino and Jasmine,
12:45but I think their problems are beyond
12:47my therapeutic abilities.
12:49Maybe that's his new role.
12:50It's like Dr. Brandon.
12:52Therapist Brandon.
12:54I can be a therapist,
12:55as long as I still wear my silk robe.
12:57I hope you have a penis under.
13:00Never know.
13:02We let it all hang out in my therapies.
13:07Good night, guys.
13:13Wait.
13:14What does this mean now?
13:17It's just you and me.
13:23What?
13:43Watch him.
13:44Roll the door in.
13:49Let's go.
13:51I promise you this time.
13:55So here I am.
13:56Yeah?
13:57Let's make out.
13:58Why don't you hop on that bed?
14:07Go close, Findo.
14:08Yeah?
14:09Yes.
14:15I promise you this time.
14:17We're actually going to?
14:19If you're not going to fall asleep in a second.
14:21I'm not going to fall asleep.
14:36Yummy.
14:49Oh, my God.
15:20Oh, my God.
15:24I'm taking the bed.
15:25What do you mean you're taking the bed?
15:26You had the bed the last three nights.
15:28I don't give a ****.
15:29And I was nice enough to let you sleep in it for three nights.
15:36Tonight was another disaster.
15:39Not only have Gino and I made zero progress,
15:41but when other couples tried to help us,
15:44Gino acted like a total ass.
15:46Being here with the other couples has been good and bad.
15:49It is nice to have their support,
15:52but I think that Gino is more focused on fitting in with his new friends
15:56instead of fixing our marriage.
15:59I'm tired.
16:00I'm upset.
16:01I'm hurt.
16:07When we came here, you said I could have the bed every night
16:10and you were going to sleep on the couch.
16:12I changed my mind.
16:13I don't share my bed with people who disrespect me.
16:16Oh, is that right?
16:17This friendship that you have developed with your brother Florian,
16:21you see the way he treats Stacy and all the other women.
16:25Now you want to be Florian too.
16:27Take the bed.
16:28Crying baby, go.
16:30Is the bed is yours.
16:31Go ahead.
16:32It's yours.
16:34I...
16:38She has been bringing up this crazy idea of open marriage
16:43and sex with another guy.
16:45Why doesn't she put her effort into making our relationship work?
16:49Or does she not care about our relationship?
16:51Does she not love me?
16:55It's not good.
16:56I can't keep going like this.
17:04You guys will be camping out here overnight.
17:06Tana, I don't want to have them as neighbors.
17:09You're all adults here.
17:11No, there are people that are adults but behave like little kids
17:14because their wife baby them.
17:16The last I want is another fight and argument.
17:18You know, if somebody wants to make a jab or say something,
17:22just let it roll off your shoulder.
17:24Let's go. I'm ready, man.
17:34You need to think about what you did last night.
17:38Really think about it deep.
17:39Oh.
17:49Gross.
18:03Mmm.
18:22Gino.
18:23Hmm?
18:24There is something there on the table.
18:27Letter.
18:29Letter?
18:34It says, Good morning, Jasmine and Gino.
18:37I hope this letter finds you well.
18:39As we continue to delve deeper,
18:41we're thrilled to introduce an exciting addition to our program,
18:44an overnight trip.
18:46Led by Sarah, this excursion will provide a unique opportunity
18:49for you to disconnect from the distractions of everyday life
18:53and immerse yourselves in the beauty of nature.
18:56We truly believe that this will be a transformative
18:59and memorable part of the retreat.
19:03This is such a much-needed activity experience
19:08because I am so overwhelmed.
19:11Sometimes I feel like on this therapy trip,
19:16like we sometimes take two steps forward
19:18and then we go two steps back.
19:20I thought we'd be further ahead.
19:22Yes. I just wanted to tell you, you know, like...
19:25If there is any sort of love left,
19:31I need it to be a good day.
19:34I'm about to give up.
19:36I've been saying it, like, I am so drained.
19:43Jasmine and I, we've argued a lot
19:46before we came to this retreat and ever since we've been here.
19:50But these past few days,
19:52hearing Jasmine bringing up this open marriage
19:55and sex with another guy over and over,
19:58this is the worst that things have ever been.
20:00So I'm hoping the overnight trip can stop the bleeding
20:04and repair our relationship somehow, someway.
20:11Yes, I don't know.
20:13This is... I'm tired.
20:23OK, guys, we're going to have a girl band and boys band.
20:26Oh, great.
20:27Lance is going to have a friend.
20:29Yeah, I like that idea.
20:30Hasta la vista, baby.
20:31Let's do it that way.
20:32Bye!
20:33Bye!
20:34We're not going to miss you guys.
20:36No.
20:40After I did the sign tray therapy,
20:42I felt, like, very emotionally drained.
20:44Rob and I talked about some really difficult things
20:47and we really haven't been able to communicate
20:50like that in a long time,
20:52so I hope me and Rob just keep making small progress.
20:55But I'm also nervous.
20:56I don't need half the s*** in here.
20:58I don't know what I...
20:59Oh, jeez!
21:00You look... It's going to be going overnight.
21:02Why bring so much?
21:03I said I didn't know what to do.
21:04I just threw everything in there.
21:05I was like, I don't know what we're doing.
21:07That's fine.
21:08I don't want to, like, get there and miss something or...
21:16Oh, who's that?
21:17Hey!
21:18Joy!
21:19Joy!
21:20Joy, it's f***ing beautiful.
21:21Oh, it's my car.
21:22Woo!
21:23Oh!
21:24Wow!
21:25Ooh.
21:28We're leaving for group therapy
21:30and all of a sudden, like, we hear a zhoom, zhoom, zhoom, zhoom.
21:33And somebody says,
21:34oh, look at that, it's Josh coming back.
21:37And I was like, here we go.
21:39Ugh!
21:40And I was happy and not, him coming back,
21:44because on one side, it means he wants to work on relationship,
21:48on another side, like, I'm not happy to see him
21:51because I'm still mad for what happened,
21:53for him leaving me alone at retreat.
21:56You know, I couldn't help but wonder
21:58that Josh is coming in and off of therapy exactly the same,
22:02like, he comes in and off out of my life.
22:06And I'm sick of him treating me as a disposable convenience
22:10that he can toss aside anytime he wants.
22:15He's definitely showing off.
22:18Yeah.
22:20Who the **** car is this?
22:21Did he leave just to come back in a nice car?
22:24Yeah, right.
22:25Mr. Main.
22:27He left for one night.
22:29That car is probably as much as my house.
22:32It's not going to cost so much money.
22:33It's not a Lamborghini.
22:35It's a rental.
22:38Sorry I'm late, guys.
22:39I'm sorry.
22:40I'm sorry, guys.
22:41Look who's here!
22:42Hello!
22:43Hey, the guys came!
22:44Yes!
22:45Mr. Playboy.
22:46All right!
22:48It's Mr. Playboy.
22:49Back in the game.
22:50Sorry, guys.
22:51Nice to see you.
22:52Nice to see you, brother.
22:53I thought you left.
22:54I did.
22:55You did?
22:56I did.
22:57I left last night.
22:58I had our first individual therapy session yesterday,
23:02and it was quite rough.
23:06We went into it and we started talking about sex.
23:10Then she all of a sudden said that she wants a baby
23:14and she wants a family and she wants this and that.
23:17I was like, well, honestly, I'm not putting a baby in anybody right now.
23:21Literally, she was screaming at the therapist.
23:25Screaming at her?
23:27Yes.
23:28It was wild.
23:31I said I was one blow-up away from getting out of here,
23:35and we had that blow-up.
23:37Who's bringing you here?
23:39We'll bring you back.
23:40You guys, man.
23:42I'll drink to that.
23:47Last night I just needed some time away from Natalie
23:50to just kind of disconnect.
23:54There's parts of me that say, give up, walk away,
23:59she's not going to change.
24:02And then there's also parts of me that miss her.
24:07There's also parts of me that miss her.
24:10But I did make this commitment to Natalie to go through this retreat,
24:15and I'm not just going to give up.
24:19You're here.
24:20Yeah, and I worked really hard on my relationship.
24:22And he's coming and going and showing up like a comet.
24:24He goes and you never know when he's going to come back.
24:26Yeah.
24:27I just don't know what I'm going to do.
24:29I don't want to talk to him.
24:30God bless.
24:31I wish him all the best.
24:32I don't know.
24:33So, Julia, did you have sex or not?
24:36No, he fall asleep.
24:38We start kissing, we start like, hey.
24:41And he just going to between my legs and just go fall asleep.
24:46And later he wake up and go throw up.
24:51Last night I'm ready to have a sex with Brennan.
24:54And that guy, he's trying to doing something romantic time.
24:58And next is like after a couple of seconds, he's done.
25:02Just fall asleep.
25:04That's the baby.
25:05I need to sing some lullaby.
25:11Why did you stay with me last night?
25:13Well, I wanted to go to the party, you know.
25:15Because I'm going through misery with Jasmine anyway every day.
25:18Bro, you have to have sex with this girl.
25:20No.
25:21You have to.
25:22Take that pill, Gino.
25:24Take that pill.
25:26Make the boys proud.
25:29You know, those pills, man, give me a great orgasm.
25:32I'll take them by myself if I have to.
25:34Take it by yourself.
25:35Hey, that man said he'll take it by himself.
25:37Gino, I'm sorry what I'm saying to you.
25:39But you no feed her, I promise you.
25:42Somebody going to feed.
25:46I think we should all do a female sex therapy session.
25:49How to please yourself with the sex therapist.
25:51Yeah, absolutely.
25:53Yeah, do it, do it.
25:57How was last night?
26:00Yeah, how was last night?
26:02I mean, I was kind of hammered.
26:05You guys weren't intimate last night?
26:07No.
26:08I just want all my boys to be getting some.
26:11Beep.
26:12Yeah, and most of us are not.
26:15No, this man is sexually aggressive.
26:17This man is sexually frustrated as **** up in here.
26:29Here we go.
26:39Welcome to Lake Pleasant, guys.
26:41Go ahead and find a pack.
26:44Any pack you want.
26:46I feel like it looks like all of us are going on an overnight camping trip.
26:49And I like camping, so I'm okay with this.
26:52I think.
26:54It's a little desolate, maybe a little creepy.
26:58I don't know, it could be good.
26:59Or the therapist could just be planning to dispose of our bodies somewhere around here
27:04because they're just tired of our whining and our problems.
27:10Go ahead and partner up with your couples, guys.
27:12We don't have partners.
27:14My partner told me that I already lost him.
27:17For the purposes of today, let's try to work this out.
27:20We have some unusual things today.
27:23Something a little bit different than what you guys have been doing so far.
27:27Just trust me.
27:29Can we?
27:30Yes.
27:32Yeah?
27:35Trust me.
27:39Love it.
27:40We're in nature again.
27:44Exciting.
27:48Since we've gotten here, Natalie won't even make eye contact with me.
27:52I wasn't expecting for her to just completely ignore me.
27:56But, you know, I'll take this over her screaming at me.
28:05You don't have to say anything.
28:23So I feel like I'm not alone at my misery.
28:28Oh, hey. How are you?
28:33Hi, how are you? I'm Josh.
28:36Nice to meet you.
28:38Nice to meet you.
28:40Well, welcome to Lake Pleasant, everyone.
28:43I am Sarah. I am a clinical hypnotherapist, a spiritual healer and teacher, and a life coach.
28:50I have met some of you yesterday during sand tray therapy.
28:54Today we are doing things a bit differently.
28:58You guys will be camping out here overnight until tomorrow.
29:04Where you'll be challenged not only physically, but mentally and spiritually as well.
29:09Does anyone have questions, comments, concerns?
29:13Is there a snake here and scorpions?
29:16Is there always potential for wildlife in these types of environments?
29:21Are you ready to go camping?
29:23Yeah, I never camped, to be honest, first time I'm camping, you know.
29:27You know, I don't know about being dropped off in the middle of nowhere.
29:30It's not bad to be honest.
29:32I was going to sleep on this, like, dirt floor.
29:33I kind of like it, I don't know. I kind of like it, to be honest.
29:35Where do we go pee and poop?
29:38Upside.
29:41Great.
29:42The reason we brought you out here today is to take you away from the resort a bit.
29:47Into nature.
29:49And I invite you to really focus in and turn your attention inwards here to yourselves and your partner.
29:55So we're going to start with putting up your tents together.
29:59Sarah, I don't want to have them as neighbors.
30:02I love you, Stacy.
30:04I get it.
30:05This person here is a bad influence to my husband.
30:08Does this person have a name? Second world?
30:10Like, we have our own problems, and I'm not willing to deal with what Stacy has to deal.
30:16I'm sorry, Stacy.
30:21The last I want is another fight and argument.
30:24In order for me to move on from last night, I definitely need Florian to forget about everybody else.
30:29You know, if somebody wants to make a jab or say something, just let it roll off your shoulder.
30:35Be honest.
30:37Uh, no.
30:40Wow.
30:45You're all adults here?
30:47No, there are people that are adults, but we have, like, little kids because their wife baby them.
30:52Somebody f***ing baby me.
30:53Baby them.
30:54Somebody f***ing baby me.
30:56Oh, my gosh.
30:57Oh, my gosh.
30:58Oh, my gosh.
30:59Oh, my gosh.
31:00Somebody f***ing baby me.
31:01We f***ing have a problem here.
31:02Let's go.
31:03I'm f***ing ready, man.
31:10Please don't walk away when I tell you that.
31:14This has hurt me for four years.
31:19I feel betrayed right now.
31:22Um, I feel like divorce has become a stronger possibility.
31:25I'm so angry at Julia.
31:39Let's go.
31:40I'm f***ing ready, man.
31:41I'm ready for f***ing divorce and f***ing everything.
31:44This is why I don't want to be there.
31:48The f*** is wrong with this dude?
31:51Florian is like a bad apple.
31:53Gets everything around him rotten.
31:58All the tents are going to be set up right here.
32:00And we're going to start that.
32:02We're going to start that right now.
32:04Let this be kind of like the first team activity that you do together.
32:08And after those are set up, we'll start our therapy.
32:12Part of the process of the tent building is I want to see how these couples work together.
32:16It also helps them to come together with a common goal.
32:19So they can focus their energy on something positive.
32:22Adi, let's be neighbors.
32:23Yeah, I love you.
32:24I don't want to be neighbors with that f***ing ass.
32:28One second.
32:30Keep going.
32:33Okay, wait.
32:35What should I do after?
32:38Undo those orange ones.
32:39See these ones right here?
32:41Straighten these out.
32:49What was that?
32:52It bit me.
32:53Are you bleeding?
32:55Be careful because if you pull it, it comes back and bites your heart.
33:01Are you okay?
33:02Yeah.
33:03Is he bleeding?
33:04No.
33:05Okay.
33:08There's definitely tension between Natalie and I.
33:11But as soon as they say, go, build your tents.
33:15She's like, okay, what do I do?
33:17And I'm like, okay, grab that, do this.
33:18And we get the tent up the fastest.
33:21Want to scoot over?
33:24There we go.
33:25If we could just use all that energy to always have the same common goals,
33:31I think we'd be a great couple.
33:38You going to help?
33:41I don't want to help.
33:43I mean, if I help, that's going to cause a problem.
33:48He thinks that he can handle everything himself.
33:53Well, I can tell you this.
33:54He's not going to be able to set that tent up by himself.
33:57It's a two-person job.
34:00So if you guys are going to sleep under shelter tonight, he's going to need you.
34:07Otherwise, you're going to be out here with the elements.
34:14I'll hold it.
34:15Perfect. No, I'll hold it. I don't want your hands to be involved.
34:17Do you want me to do it?
34:18No, that's fine.
34:20I want to do something.
34:23I want to be involved.
34:25Can I be involved?
34:26Yeah.
34:28Look at the directions and see how many of these, are they connected?
34:31Yeah, they're connected.
34:33Did you ever think we're going to have a camp with scorpions, snakes and Natalie?
34:41Are you going to help out or what?
34:46I can't get these in the ground.
34:48That's cute.
34:50Wait, that's not how you do it.
34:52Stay, stay, stay, stay, stay, stay, stay, stay, stay, stay, stay.
34:54No **** with this ****.
34:58Oh!
34:59Home sweet home.
35:01Wow.
35:03This looks fantastic.
35:04Yeah.
35:05Well, it looks like you guys have done a great job.
35:07Yeah.
35:08Vinny, great job.
35:10Great job, both of us.
35:11Yeah.
35:12It's team effort, right?
35:13Yeah.
35:16I think we're doing pretty good with setting up the tent compared to some of these other couples.
35:20It could be nice to share a tent together.
35:22It may be a little awkward because one second Vinny here,
35:25and the other second he hates me, but he hates me a little bit less.
35:27So, we'll see.
35:28We'll see what happens.
35:30Good job.
35:35Let me help you, Gino.
35:37Gino, boy.
35:41I don't want to do nothing with him.
35:42You're a couple.
35:43Florian and Gino.
35:44I don't want to do nothing with him.
35:47I'm tired.
35:48You know what's funny?
35:49Yeah.
35:50I'm tired.
35:51I'm tired.
35:52I'm tired.
35:53I'm tired.
35:54You know what's funny?
35:56I know.
35:57He came here to make friends and have fun, not to do therapy.
36:00Yeah.
36:01I wasn't thinking that was funny.
36:03What I think is funny is who's helping you build your home right now.
36:07I'm not going to sleep there if Florian does it.
36:10It's good?
36:11Yeah, it's okay now.
36:12One second, one second, one second.
36:13Stay like that.
36:17Gino and Jasmine came in in a very rough spot.
36:19There's a lot of tension and discord within the relationship.
36:23To an extreme level where it may detract from the therapy.
36:28So we really want to address this and keep an eye on it.
36:32I'm actually quite impressed.
36:33Yeah, I'm very impressed.
36:34Yeah.
36:39Winner.
36:40Winner.
36:41Josh, we won because we went first.
36:43We did first.
36:44All right.
36:45As long as you two are growing in your relationship, you're winning.
36:49In a relationship, we don't really grow.
36:52Yeah, when it comes to teamwork and leadership, she lets me lead.
36:57And she knows to follow.
37:01And we do very well.
37:02We do very well in anything.
37:04It's when she likes to take charge and doesn't let me lead us, we do fall short.
37:13But don't we agree together?
37:14Don't we work as a team?
37:15Yes.
37:16You wouldn't win without my help.
37:17For sure.
37:18I agree.
37:19I think that pretty much.
37:20I need acknowledgement, too.
37:21Absolutely.
37:22Yeah.
37:23You did a great job.
37:24And I always tell you, you do a great job.
37:28In my perspective, honestly, like yesterday, sex therapy was bringing a lot of underground stones that we should solve and talk through.
37:37But sometimes, like, you cannot solve certain situation in your life.
37:41You have to put it aside and keep going.
37:44Yeah, she's been mad at me before.
37:46And she just, like, snapped and been, like, happy with me.
37:49Like, it's happened.
37:50Because if I understand it's more beneficial for our couple, for you and I, why would I, like, I'm not an idiot.
37:56Thank you, appreciate that.
38:06Jasmine disappeared.
38:09Where is she?
38:14Do you think she doesn't want to do this?
38:16I don't know. Is she running up the mountain?
38:20Oh, I hope not.
38:26I think so.
38:32Or the bathroom.
38:35Bathroom? Or I don't think she's up there.
38:49It's on your mind to prefer to go into this poisonous snake, not stay with Gina.
38:54But maybe coyotes not make her angry like Gina does.
39:00Where's Jasmine? Jasmine?
39:15Jasmine disappeared.
39:19Where is she?
39:23Is Jasmine in that tent?
39:24That's what I was wondering.
39:25Inside.
39:26Oh.
39:27Baby.
39:29Baby, baby, baby.
39:30Oh, is she in there?
39:31Is she in her new sleep?
39:32My baby.
39:34I'm sleepy.
39:39Okay, you guys, if we could all just gather around here in front of your tents.
39:44Looks like everyone's set up. This is amazing.
39:49We're going to roll into our first therapy for this camping trip.
39:53I would like to ask all of you to leave your phones behind, put them in your tent, and then we'll head out to our first therapy.
40:02You don't even have your phone, do you?
40:03No, I'm head-to-toe legit.
40:07You ready?
40:10Okay, you guys can follow me.
40:20Beautiful view.
40:23Throw a rock in the water, make a wish.
40:30Welcome to your session for today.
40:33We're going to take some time to experience something completely different than what you've experienced so far.
40:39We're going to do some group hip-hop.
40:41We're going to take some time to experience something completely different than what you've experienced so far.
40:47We're going to do some group hypnosis.
40:51Yes.
40:54Have you ever been hypnotized?
40:57I'm scared to be hypnotized.
40:59Why?
41:00I have never been hypnotized. I'm scared to be hypnotized because what if I start talking about one of my deep, dark secrets or something?
41:08You have deep, dark secrets?
41:12Kinda.
41:15Yeah, like, Sarah, let's start this s*** right now.
41:20The reason that we're doing this is to reconnect you with parts of your mind that you may not have connected with before.
41:29And hypnosis allows us to get to the core of what's really driving some of these behaviors that may be causing friction or discontentment in your relationships.
41:41So who's ready to be hypnotized?
41:44Wow.
41:47Sure.
41:50Actually, I know hypnosis myself. I studied hypnosis.
41:55She's a witch. Nelly's a witch.
41:57Yes, I am.
41:59I can do a few things. I just do tarot. I could read certain things. I could see certain things. I see dreams.
42:08But I'm not, like, almighty or anything like that, and I'm totally normal and sane.
42:13Sometimes she says some s*** where I'm like, what are you talking about?
42:20But she'll, like, be, like, spot on. She's just a witch.
42:24Now, what I want all of you guys to do, hold your hands out in front of you.
42:29Fingers should be pressed tightly together.
42:33Go ahead and close your eyes on down.
42:38When I click my fingers, your hands will feel like two strong magnets, two very strong magnets.
42:44Pulling and drifting it together, you'll feel your hands pulling and drifting together, pulling and drifting, pulling and drifting.
42:49Pulling and drifting it together, you'll feel your hands pulling and drifting together, pulling and drifting, pulling and drifting.
42:53You'll feel your hands pulling and drifting together.
42:58There are so many benefits to hypnotherapy, and specifically for couples.
43:03The most profound part is when one partner is able to witness their partner going to a level of vulnerability that they may not have been able to see them do before.
43:13And they get to see their partner on a new level, maybe for the first time.
43:19Your hands are locked and sealed shut completely, like they're one solid brick and block.
43:26Now, I will touch you and say sleep now.
43:29When I touch you and say sleep now, you drift into the deepest state of relaxation you've ever been before.
43:37Sleep now.
43:39Drifting and floating, relax here.
43:41Drifting and floating, let the sound of my voice relax you even more.
43:44Here we go, sleep now.
43:46Drifting and floating, drifting and floating.
43:48Deeper down, all the way down now, all the way down.
43:50Drifting and floating, drifting and floating.
43:52Let the sound of my voice carry you deeper and deeper into relaxation.
43:56Sleep now.
43:58Drifting and floating, drifting and floating.
44:00Sleep now.
44:02Relaxing, floating, deeper down, relaxing your shoulders.
44:05In a moment, I'll count from three down to one.
44:10When I say the number one, you remember a specific time.
44:15A time when you've hurt your partner.
44:18Three, two, one, grab it.
44:25And allow yourself to go back into that moment in time.
44:29Live it the way it really happened.
44:35Feel what you felt.
44:47What I want you to do is to replay that moment.
44:54But this time, play it in slow motion.
44:59The way you would have liked it to happen.
45:08In a moment, I'll count up from one to five.
45:12When I say the number five, your eyes will open.
45:15You'll feel energy come through your body.
45:17You'll awaken with vibrance and a new perspective.
45:22Number one, just becoming aware of your surroundings.
45:26Number two, taking a nice deep breath in here.
45:29Number three, feeling like a cool, clean water has been bathed over your eyes.
45:33You feel refreshed, revitalized, and renewed in every way.
45:36Number four, this next breath in comes with energy, vibrance.
45:42Number five, opening your eyes.
45:45Coming back here to the present moment, even though you never really left.
45:55Welcome back.
46:00I definitely feel like Florian thinks this is like a little hocus pocus, hokey pokey.
46:07But I got hypnotized, for sure.
46:10It's odd. I can't explain it.
46:12It's like a feeling I've never felt before.
46:14So what I want to do at this time is just kind of go down the line
46:18and hear your feedback on what the moment was for you,
46:21how you would have liked to do it differently,
46:24and also if there's anything you'd like to say to your partner in response to it.
46:29In response to that experience.
46:32Brandon, we'll start with you.
46:35So, my moment was when I thought I was doing a nice thing,
46:40giving my mother a gift, a house key, to our home.
46:44And did that without asking you.
46:47And because of that, of course we had a fight about it.
46:51But, yeah, to alter it, I should have come and talked to you about it first.
46:56And, yeah.
46:59So...
47:01That is not important.
47:03This is not something that has really hurt me.
47:06No? I thought it did.
47:08Well, sometimes it's not about really the moment that means the most to you.
47:12In hypnosis, it could be random, completely random,
47:15that his subconscious mind finds as an example to build off of.
47:19So the fact that he's found one is really the important part, really, of the ownership.
47:23Because your hypnosis was totally different than his, right?
47:27What was yours?
47:35Yeah.
47:36Yeah.
47:53Yeah.
48:07Yeah.
48:20That's cheating.
48:22Kiss is cheating.
48:37And now the impact that infidelity is gonna have on us.
48:44I feel like divorce has become a stronger possibility.
48:47I'm so angry at Julia.
48:49Just angry. Very angry.
48:58Gino, did you find a moment that you remember hurting Jasmine?
49:03Uh, yeah.
49:04Next time on 90 Day The Last Resort.
49:07Are you open to sharing it with us?
49:09Uh...
49:11I'd rather not.
49:13The first thought that comes to my mind is, like,
49:16did you f***ing cheat on me?
49:21Our relationship is toxic.
49:24I don't know. We're here for the truth.
49:27I'm just, like, too angry to want to, like, look at you.
49:30Listen, I'm not gonna tell you what to do, Natalie.
49:34But Josh, he doesn't look at you as a partner.
49:38All you want is to have a family.
49:41You wanna get married.
49:43This guy give you, like, the leftovers.
49:45You act like a puppy, so desperate.
49:50I didn't sleep that well yesterday
49:52because a lot of things have been happening with Rob.
49:56I basically saw in his face
49:57I basically saw in his phone.
49:59Look, I found this.
50:05Mm-hmm.
50:07A**hole.