ウチ、“断捨離”しました！2025年1月28日 「満たされない子育てママ 見つけだせ！私の居場所」
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00:01Now, let's choose a new life.
00:06Leave the useless things in the house,
00:09throw away the unnecessary things,
00:12and leave the attachment to things.
00:16Choose a new life and way of life with your own decisions.
00:21That is Danshari.
00:25Hideko Yamashita, the founder of Danshari, is the one who makes the decision.
00:33He is a master of Danshari and life, who has guided countless people.
00:40The shape of a couple, the shape of a marriage,
00:43these are the Danshari I believe in.
00:46Taking care of things means using them.
00:51Choose a new life and way of life with your own decisions.
00:56Now, the door of life opens.
01:01Are you afraid of being separated from yourself?
01:04What is this feeling?
01:07Why am I crying?
01:13The three sisters are full of energy.
01:16Even though it is a newly built house,
01:21they are full of things and have nowhere to go.
01:28What they found is the things of the girls who can't be thrown away.
01:33When I look at this, I remember.
01:37When I was told to throw away the children's things,
01:40I started to cry.
01:43It's not a feeling of loneliness, but a feeling of helplessness.
01:47After going through a difficult time of raising children,
01:50the feeling of helplessness attacks the mother as the daughters leave.
01:56In the end, I don't have confidence in myself.
01:59If I don't have a sense of being useful to someone,
02:03I can't stand up.
02:07Can you say goodbye to yourself, who has no confidence in herself?
02:16I want him to acknowledge me, but he doesn't.
02:20I want him to help me, but he doesn't.
02:26I want him to praise me, but he doesn't.
02:29In order to smile from the tears that fall over and over again,
02:32the struggle of a mother begins.
02:41I took a train to my house in Yamashita-Hideko.
02:45Find me, a mother who can't be satisfied with her children.
02:48Find my place.
02:51Find my place.
02:59It's a quiet day before noon.
03:09She is standing alone in a cafe in Tokyo.
03:12She is the main character, Yurika, 39 years old.
03:21It's a time when she can take a break from work once a week.
03:29Do you feel like this at home?
03:32No, I don't.
03:35I feel like I'm done cleaning up.
03:40Even if there is a table at home,
03:43there are things around here that I have to clean up.
03:47So I can't take a break.
03:51I see.
03:53What kind of house is it?
03:57Ms. Yurika lives with her 4-year-old husband,
04:009-year-old, 7-year-old, and 5-year-old daughter.
04:08When she visits her house...
04:11Hello.
04:13Nice to meet you.
04:16Oh, it's been two years since you moved in.
04:19It's beautiful.
04:23I had a lot of ideas about the shape of the house.
04:28So I left it to my husband.
04:32Her husband's ideas are everywhere in the house.
04:39This is the family closet.
04:42All of our clothes are here.
04:49All of her clothes are hungers.
04:52Her husband came up with the idea
04:55so that she doesn't have to fold the laundry.
04:59I don't have to fold the laundry anymore,
05:02so it's a lot easier now.
05:05But I have to do it by myself,
05:08so it's a little difficult.
05:13What's more...
05:15This is where I hang my clothes.
05:20I hang my dry underwear and shirts here.
05:27I see.
05:29The shelves are connected to the laundry room.
05:34If you put your laundry here,
05:37you can take it out right after you take a bath.
05:41I see.
05:43That's a good idea.
05:47Her husband is very particular about the details.
05:51He keeps his own tie like this.
05:59What does Ms. Yurika think?
06:03It's amazing.
06:05This is my workbench.
06:13I wanted to iron or draw something here,
06:17but it's a little messy now.
06:22What's in the back of the family closet?
06:27What's in the ironing space?
06:31This is a bag for washing children's clothes.
06:38I thought I'd throw it away when I was a kid,
06:43but it's still here.
06:47There's a lot of stuff in here.
06:51There's a cable, too.
06:53When I'm cleaning up,
06:55I clean it up like this.
06:58But I don't have much time,
07:00so when I think it's time to finish,
07:03I put things that I haven't sorted yet in here.
07:10While working,
07:12she does housework and babysitting by herself.
07:15She doesn't have enough time,
07:17so she ends up here.
07:21Looking out the window,
07:23the first floor is the bedroom for this closet and the couple.
07:27The second floor is the living room, kitchen, and husband's study.
07:33And on the third floor, there are two children's rooms.
07:37She doesn't have a room just for her mom.
07:40This ironing space is a precious place,
07:43but she's worried about not cleaning it up.
07:50So, what's on the second floor?
07:55This is the second floor.
08:01It's a nice kitchen and living room.
08:07This place is clean, isn't it?
08:16The drawers are also very tidy.
08:20There's a plate here.
08:22I put it here and there,
08:24and now it's in this shape.
08:29Even looking at the shelves above,
08:32it looks like they're organized in a storage box.
08:39Well,
08:41the husband is...
08:44He looks clean, doesn't he?
08:47I want to keep it clean,
08:49so I want to use the storage box to organize it.
08:53But if you look inside...
08:57There are a lot of things that I don't use.
09:01I bought this because my husband said it's good for storage,
09:05but I don't know where to use it yet.
09:07Oh, there's a storage box left over.
09:11I want to keep it clean,
09:14so I want to live like a hotel.
09:19In addition,
09:20Ms. Yurika's concern is
09:23in the third-floor children's room.
09:28Which one should I start with?
09:35There are a lot of boxes here, too.
09:38It's full of toys and dolls.
09:42There's a box on the other side, too.
09:45How many are there?
09:489, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16.
09:52There's a box around here, too.
09:5417, 18, 19.
09:56Is it about 19?
09:5820, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25.
10:00It's 25.
10:02My husband hides things like this,
10:08and he wants to put them in here
10:11and make it look clean.
10:16But he hasn't done that yet.
10:21Her husband wants to use the storage box to keep it clean,
10:29but she can't use it,
10:31and she can't even make time to clean up.
10:37That's true.
10:39Ms. Yurika's daily life is a mess.
10:44Let me know when you're done.
10:461.
10:47What?
10:48What's after 1?
10:502.
10:52Please continue.
10:54How do I do this?
10:56Did you do it?
10:57From 1 to 10.
10:59You finish at 5.15.
11:02Then you do this and that.
11:05Sometimes, I finish at 6.
11:10Sometimes, I finish at 5.30.
11:14Every day, she goes to the kindergarten to pick up her three daughters.
11:20Right after she gets home, she prepares dinner.
11:25What's for dinner?
11:27What's this?
11:29A hat.
11:30A hat?
11:33Okay, let's eat.
11:35When I say,
11:37I'm done eating,
11:39I have to finish within 60 seconds.
11:43I have to sit down.
11:48Sometimes, she can't eat with her busy dad at work.
11:55I'm done eating.
11:58Everyone is in a hurry.
12:02I'm done eating.
12:04I'm done eating.
12:07I'm done eating.
12:09Cut.
12:14I'm done eating.
12:16I lied so much that my nose grew.
12:20What did you lie about?
12:22Did you say it was good?
12:26Ms. Yurika.
12:28After dinner, she goes to do the laundry.
12:33Even though the closet and children's room are messy,
12:37she can't even clean up.
12:44What do the children think about the room full of things?
12:51It's dirty.
12:53Do you want to clean it up?
12:54I do.
12:55You do?
12:56I want to clean it up.
12:58My dad scolded me.
12:59How can you clean it up?
13:03Let's do it together.
13:04Together?
13:05I think we can do it together.
13:07Somehow.
13:08Somehow.
13:11She seems to have the will to clean up with everyone.
13:17Ms. Yurika is the only one to help.
13:22Ms. Yurika, please help me.
13:24What should I do?
13:29It's easy.
13:33In fact, there was one more thing in the children's room that was in the way of Ms. Yurika's cleaning up.
13:45What should I do with these clothes?
13:49I can't throw them away.
13:51I used to wear them when I was a kid.
13:55What should I do with these cute clothes?
14:01I feel like I used to wear them.
14:09They remind me of the time when I was small and cute.
14:16When I was told to throw away my children's clothes, I cried.
14:21My husband was busy with work and wasn't at home.
14:25I was a full-time housewife, so I had to face it one-on-one.
14:36Ms. Yurika, who is from Fukushima, got married 10 years ago.
14:41She is the eldest daughter in Sendai, where her husband works for a famous company.
14:49She is the second daughter in Hyogo, where her husband works.
14:53She has three daughters in Tokyo.
14:58Her husband works hard to raise his three sisters.
15:02Ms. Yurika has devoted herself to raising her daughters.
15:07She has overcome the most difficult time in her life,
15:12and is now working to support her children who are in need.
15:19I started working because I couldn't stand being alone.
15:24I think I have a stronger sense of helplessness than loneliness.
15:38She has a strong sense of helplessness because she can't throw away her daughters' clothes.
15:48Ms. Yamashita asks Ms. Yurika for advice.
15:59Hello. Nice to meet you.
16:03I'm Yamashita.
16:06Nice to meet you.
16:09This is a new house, isn't it?
16:11Yes, it is.
16:13Let's take a look at the first-floor family closet.
16:19It's full of things.
16:22So this is how you make a house.
16:26My husband thought of everything.
16:28I see.
16:30This is an islander's space.
16:35I see.
16:37It's a big house now.
16:39Yes, it is.
16:40It's an islander's space, and it's where I live.
16:43Isn't it a little sad to live here?
16:46I like spaces.
16:50Is that so?
16:51So I wanted to make a lot of spaces.
16:55But you can't hang an islander here.
16:59Let's take a look at the second-floor house.
17:05It's a nice design.
17:08It's stylish.
17:10What made you apply for this show?
17:15I was wondering where I should live.
17:23There is a children's room on the third floor.
17:27Let's take a look at it.
17:31And here is the problem children's room.
17:36It doesn't feel clean.
17:38And this is another room.
17:44What is this?
17:45This is a children's room that I can't throw away.
17:49You can't throw it away?
17:52No, I can't.
17:54You don't want to throw it away?
17:55No, I don't.
17:57You don't want to throw it away, but you want to keep it?
18:00I don't want to throw it away, but I want to keep it.
18:05You want to keep it because it's meaningful, right?
18:10What does it mean?
18:12What would you feel if it disappeared?
18:16I would be sad.
18:18What kind of sadness?
18:20I don't know.
18:22I don't know how I would feel.
18:28Why are you crying?
18:32I don't know why I'm sad.
18:34Do you want to wear it?
18:38I want it to get smaller again.
18:44So you don't want it to get bigger.
18:49That's why you're sad.
18:51Maybe.
18:54Are you afraid that it will leave you?
18:59Maybe.
19:07Ms. Yurika has been taking care of her three sisters on her own.
19:12It was very difficult,
19:15but she felt that her daughters needed her.
19:24However, as they grew apart,
19:29she began to feel helpless that she was not needed.
19:40That's why she says it's scary to throw away things from her childhood.
19:47For us, our existence is a source of energy and happiness.
19:57If we don't have it now,
20:00we won't have confidence in ourselves.
20:06Right?
20:08Yes.
20:10If you don't have the feeling that you are useful to someone,
20:16you can't stand up.
20:20You can't stand up on your own.
20:25If you think your place is over there,
20:30you can make your own place there.
20:35That's how you can say goodbye to things like this.
20:39Regardless of the past,
20:41she wants to take care of herself more and be more confident.
20:47First, she decides to make a comfortable place.
20:51She decides to say goodbye to the baby clothes she left behind.
21:01You shouldn't look at it.
21:05You shouldn't look at it.
21:07Should I not look at it?
21:08Yes, that's what I decided.
21:13I'm going to close the bag now.
21:15She decided to throw away all the clothes she left behind.
21:22With that in mind,
21:24she starts ironing the ironing board.
21:33You know how it feels when you don't know where to start, right?
21:37Yes.
21:38Let's put it on the floor.
21:41Let's see what we have.
21:43Let's see what we can say goodbye to and what we want to take away.
21:52I thought I had to clean this place up,
21:55so I packed it up and forgot about it.
22:00What came out were handkerchiefs and gold bags.
22:04Most of them were for the girls.
22:09Then, what caught Yamashita's attention was...
22:14I was organizing the winter clothes.
22:19A small bag with a zipper.
22:23You shouldn't do such small things.
22:26No, I shouldn't.
22:27The more you do, the more difficult it gets.
22:35Where should I start?
22:37Right in front of you.
22:41But...
22:44What should I do?
22:49What should I do?
22:51If you're so worried, let's do it later.
22:53It's still hard to decide what to do.
22:57The relationship between the couple and the family is important.
23:02You know that, right?
23:04It's a space for the couple and the family to be in a good mood.
23:10You know that, right?
23:15You're the one who's in a bad mood, right?
23:18Yes, I am.
23:19You have to do something about it.
23:22Like this.
23:24It's for you.
23:32Give it to me.
23:34I'll put it in.
23:37Please put it in.
23:43What should I do?
23:45You don't have to do anything.
23:48Okay.
23:51She can't decide what to do.
23:55Good luck, Yurika.
24:03Should I put it in a bag?
24:05There's no one here who knows how to do it.
24:07Do you know how to do it?
24:08But you don't need it, right?
24:09No, I don't.
24:14It's getting faster.
24:15It's getting faster.
24:17Like this?
24:18Yes.
24:21Oh, the iron space is starting to show up.
24:27Yamashita-san pointed out a problem.
24:30There are too many small items inside.
24:35She decided to talk to Yurika-san and say goodbye.
24:39There are too many small items inside.
24:42If you focus too much on the details,
24:47you won't be able to tell what's inside.
24:52There's a bag with a lid inside.
24:59It's hard to take it out.
25:01It's hard to put it away.
25:04I don't know how to use the bag.
25:06And I'm trying to put it in here.
25:09It's getting weird.
25:11I wanted to hide it because I could see it.
25:13So, I looked for a lid.
25:14So, it's better to leave it like this.
25:19Even if there's no lid, it looks good.
25:22It's a good way to fold it.
25:25The shirt is folded in three
25:27and pushed into the gap on one side.
25:29It's beautiful even if you put it in a case without a lid.
25:36If you turn the socks over and put them together,
25:38it looks like this.
25:45You put it in a case like this,
25:52and put it on a shelf.
25:57She stopped using the lid, which was hard to take out.
26:02This will make it easier to manage and put things away.
26:10The shelf on top was full of storage boxes because it was a waste of space.
26:18By reducing the number of things and opening the gap,
26:21it was easier to take things out.
26:24So, I hid it.
26:29And the iron space, which was full of important things for the girls,
26:37is clean and clean.
26:39Nothing is left.
26:45There was a nice chair under this.
26:49Only around the iron space,
26:51there are things that can be disposed of this much.
26:59Above and below the desk.
27:07It looks easy to use.
27:11Immediately, a new place has been created.
27:15What do you think?
27:17I think I can put an iron here.
27:22It's a space where I want to be alone.
27:25If it's a hideout, it's necessary.
27:28But this is not the end.
27:31I want to make a comfortable place for myself.
27:35I want to make a comfortable place for myself.
27:39Reducing the number of clothes so that they can't be buried by things is the next task.
27:47Your expression has changed.
27:49I'm glad.
27:50I have a lot of homework to do.
27:52Please do your best.
27:54Thank you very much.
27:57Thank you very much.
28:02Now, to make a comfortable place for herself,
28:06the girls also start to work.
28:11I hope she can do her best and be confident.
28:28The next day.
28:36It's Sunday, the 4th day since the construction started.
28:43Ms. Yurika is reducing the number of clothes in the family closet.
28:51I'm going to divide the clothes I wore this summer into clothes I didn't wear.
28:57I didn't wear anything.
28:59I don't think I wore anything.
29:01I think I wore this one.
29:06She's getting rid of her own clothes.
29:10But the problem is the clothes of the three daughters.
29:16Ms. Yurika can't let go of the clothes she wore when she was a child
29:20because she's worried that she's not needed in the process of growing up and moving on.
29:32So, the nine-year-old daughter, Sumire, started to choose the clothes to be disposed of.
29:40This is my mom's favorite.
29:44This is my mom's favorite.
29:46This is cute.
29:48No, it's fluttering.
29:50I want to put this on Mahiro.
29:52I like this kind of fluttering.
29:54I like this kind of fluttering.
29:56I like this kind of fluttering.
29:58No, I don't like it.
30:00Even if she buys clothes according to her mom's taste,
30:03her daughter already has her daughter's taste.
30:09The seven-year-old daughter, Mahiro, too.
30:16I don't need this.
30:19There are a lot of colors.
30:21I don't need this.
30:25I need this.
30:27You like it.
30:28This, too.
30:33I don't need this.
30:35You don't wear this often?
30:37Do you want to wear this?
30:39I don't need this.
30:40You don't wear this, either?
30:42The colorful clothes that her mom likes are all men's.
30:45Is it over?
30:47Yes, it's over.
30:48Bye-bye.
30:50Ouch!
30:54The five-year-old daughter, Honoka, also decided to wear clothes according to her taste.
31:00Do you want to wear this?
31:02Yes.
31:04Do you want to wear this?
31:06Yes.
31:08I don't wear this.
31:09You don't wear this?
31:11I don't wear this.
31:12You don't wear this?
31:14I don't wear this.
31:15The daughters are so reliable and determined.
31:20Thanks to them, the bicycle ride is going well.
31:25The leftover hangers are also disposed of like this.
31:32Then, Yurika.
31:36I can't throw away the clothes I wore when I was a kid.
31:41I'll put them here.
31:43I can't throw away the clothes I wore when I was a kid.
31:51What about the baby clothes?
31:54Baby clothes
32:02The clothes that the daughters wore in turn.
32:08The clothes that they wore when they were having a hard time or having fun.
32:13It reminds me that I was a necessary existence.
32:20It's like a treasure.
32:33Yurika chose the baby clothes.
32:38She cut the baby clothes by herself.
32:46With the bicycle ride on this day, Yurika was able to take a break in the closet.
32:56Even in the bathroom on the first floor,
33:00the drawer was full of fashionable tools of the mothers and daughters.
33:07It's cute.
33:09Did you make it specially?
33:11Yes, I took a picture.
33:14One of the world's hand creams that the daughters made when they were little.
33:20She used this as a gift for her children.
33:26She chose what she would leave behind.
33:36Lipstick, eye shadow, cheek.
33:42As a result of decorating it cutely and storing it,
33:49the inside of the drawer, which was cluttered,
33:54was so clean that only the things she liked were in the space.
34:02Yurika's smile is getting bigger.
34:07However, the last obstacle is the children's room, which is in a terrible state.
34:16I'm wasting money and time.
34:25Sunday at the end of the bicycle ride.
34:30At last, she arrived at the children's room on the third floor, where the most things were overflowing.
34:39Inside the box, there was a small toy that was a bonus to the restaurant.
34:47This is a lot of stuff.
34:50It's a lot of stuff.
34:55Oh, it's great that Mahiro, the second daughter, is going to help.
35:05Yurika will carry everything to the second floor for the time being,
35:09and I'm going to have the children choose what to dispose of.
35:20I wonder if everyone will let go of their toys.
35:26Then...
35:28I think it's better to throw away the Mac.
35:40As expected, Yurika is a good daughter.
35:44I can't do it.
35:48As expected, she starts the bicycle ride with her sister's voice.
35:54Eleven, twelve, twelve.
35:56The same number as Mahiro.
35:58Oh, this guy left a lot.
36:00Each of them decided to leave a case or a box.
36:09Yurika is cycling on the third floor.
36:14I left one case, so I thought it was okay to have it.
36:19After that, I thought it was okay to have this.
36:22I was able to reduce the number of things.
36:25So I thought it would be better to have one of these toys.
36:31I really played with this a lot.
36:34Here, too, it's a charity operation.
36:38The daughters leave what they played with when they were babies,
36:42and the others are disposed of.
36:45At that time...
36:47Mom, get married!
36:52The voice calling for mom from the second floor...
36:55I don't want to get married.
36:58I don't want to get married.
37:03The two below are arguing.
37:06Mom said she was worried about the feeling of helplessness that was not needed.
37:14But when I look at it like this, it's not helpless at all.
37:20And when she returns to the bicycle lane...
37:24Gratitude to Mom.
37:26Gratitude to Mom.
37:28This is when I was in the fifth grade.
37:31I think it was when I was in the second grade.
37:34Gratitude to Mom.
37:38It's a kind word, isn't it?
37:45Mahiro, the second daughter, said,
37:48You're better at cooking than me.
37:51Mom, you're loved.
37:55I decided to keep my gratitude.
37:59On this day, I gave her so many toys.
38:06Now, the bicycle lane is full.
38:09I thought I'd feel better.
38:13Baby!
38:15That's English.
38:20What I decorated was a souvenir from my dad.
38:25Yurika's hidden true feelings are coming out.
38:36One month after the bicycle lane.
38:44Hello.
38:47How is the children's room in Shanghai?
38:51It's beautiful.
38:53It's so beautiful.
38:57The room was filled with toy boxes.
39:03In a clean and spacious space.
39:10The child's bed was a mountain of toys.
39:15It looks like she's going to sleep well.
39:23There were 25 boxes.
39:28I narrowed it down to 10.
39:30I came to choose a small toy.
39:36My dad bought me a stuffed animal on a business trip abroad.
39:42It was decorated with care.
39:45And...
39:47This is so pretty.
39:54The room next door was occupied by baby clothes that couldn't be thrown away.
40:02There are still boxes left, but the floor is visible.
40:11There were selected baby products everywhere in the house.
40:24The girls say they've been helping out a lot.
40:29That's great.
40:33But...
40:37How do you feel about this child?
40:41I don't think I'm confident yet.
40:45People around me always praise me and tell me that I'm doing a good job.
40:56Who do you want to be praised by?
41:04My husband.
41:07I want to be praised by my husband.
41:14I want him to acknowledge me, but he doesn't.
41:27I want him to help me.
41:32I want him to praise me.
41:35But only the people around me praise me.
41:40I can't count how many times I've been praised.
41:48But I'm doing my best.
41:52I want to be praised by my husband.
41:58In a notebook, she wrote down her wishes for her husband.
42:05She couldn't say it directly, but she wrote down her wishes for her husband.
42:12They may have been separated by marriage,
42:17but I'm sure they will be able to understand each other
42:22if her husband has designed a house for her to live in.
42:32I feel like I'm building myself up
42:37so that I can fill something.
42:43I don't want to be separated from my husband.
42:48I want to fill a hole in my heart.
42:53I want to be praised by my husband.
42:58I want him to acknowledge me for what I've done.
43:03I don't have that in my wife's heart.
43:08I want to fill a hole in my heart.
43:13I want to fill a hole in my heart.
43:18I feel like I've filled it up once, but I haven't.
43:23I want to be praised for raising three children by myself.
43:28I want to be praised for raising three children by myself.
43:33I want to be praised for raising three children by myself.
43:38I want to be praised for raising three children by myself.
43:43I want to be praised for raising three children by myself.
43:48But I don't feel like being praised
43:53because I have a house in my heart.
43:58I can say that I'm proud of myself,
44:03but I feel like I'm not.
44:08I want to be praised for what I've done.
44:13I want to be praised for what I've done.
44:18I want to be praised for what I've done.
44:23I want to be praised for what I've done.
44:28I want to be praised for what I've done.
44:33I want to be praised for what I've done.
44:38On this day,
44:40Ms. Yurika spent her time in the iron space.
44:46Like this.
44:49It's good to do this once in a while.
44:56I feel like I can do it one more time.
45:02With the ironware she made with her childhood memories,
45:07she was able to find a place in the space.
45:16Now, as Ms. Yamashita said,
45:20she should be able to praise herself
45:25for raising three children by herself.
45:37I feel calm.
45:39I feel calm when I don't have anything.
45:45She should be able to find a place in her heart
45:49where she can be confident.
45:52I'm rooting for you.
46:15I'm rooting for you.