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00:00After her husband went to sleep...
00:07She's asleep!
00:09She's asleep!
00:10She's asleep!
00:11She's asleep!
00:12She's asleep!
00:13She's asleep!
00:14She's asleep!
00:15She's asleep!
00:16She's asleep!
00:17She's asleep!
00:18So today's guest is Chinen Nina!
00:21Thank you for having me!
00:23Thank you for having me!
00:24Chinen Nina graduated from Okinawa After School and made her debut as a singer at the age of 15.
00:29She won the Best Newcomer Award at the Precious Delicious Records Awards.
00:33I used to watch her a lot!
00:35Her face is so small and her singing is so good!
00:38Her dancing is amazing!
00:40Her dancing is amazing!
00:43Currently, she is a musical actress and has been in various works such as The Miserable.
00:49How old are you?
00:53My eldest son is 18 years old.
00:55My second son is 6 years old.
00:58He's 6 years old.
00:59Wow!
01:00He's the oldest.
01:01You don't look like an 18-year-old mother!
01:03You don't look like an 18-year-old mother!
01:04You haven't changed at all!
01:05Really?
01:06You haven't changed at all!
01:07What do you do when you're alone?
01:12I do my best!
01:14What do you do?
01:16You're so quiet!
01:17I do my best!
01:19What do you do for training?
01:22I go to the gym with my husband.
01:28We go to the gym together for an hour.
01:30We also watch what we eat.
01:34But the place we go to changes a lot.
01:38There are more places that we don't have to go.
01:41You're still fine, right?
01:43I want to lose weight.
01:45I want to lose weight.
01:46I want to lose weight.
01:47I want to lose weight.
01:48I want to lose weight.
01:49I want to lose weight.
01:50I want to lose weight.
01:52I feel like the bangs are necessary.
01:56But I don't understand.
01:59Is that okay?
02:03I don't wear down pants.
02:04Do I have a high back?
02:07Underwears make your waist stand out.
02:10Then it's comfortable.
02:12Underwears make your waist stand out.
02:13In September, Jiei Inoue joined K-Ballet Tokyo, a Japanese ballet troupe led by Tetsuya Kumakawa.
02:22Wow!
02:23It's been a while since I joined.
02:26I'm so happy!
02:27Do people fly like that?
02:29Do people come to see you perform?
02:31Yes, they do.
02:33That must be exciting.
02:35Yes, it's very exciting.
02:37You're 18, so is it easy to raise a child?
02:41It's easy to do everything by myself.
02:46But I'm not that old, so I don't get to spend a lot of time with my child.
02:53I have to wake up at 3 in the morning.
02:56At first, I have to wake up my husband at 6.
02:59When he comes home, I wake him up.
03:02My son comes home at 12.30.
03:06That's so late!
03:08Then I wake him up.
03:10Sometimes I do it myself, but I wash the clothes I want to wear the next day.
03:16I wash them, dry them, and go to bed.
03:18The next day, I have to wake up at 6.
03:23So physically, I can't sleep.
03:25How many children do you have?
03:28I don't think you have two children.
03:30That's right.
03:31So physically, you're tired.
03:35But mentally, what was the hardest part?
03:37The hardest part was when my son was in the second grade of junior high school.
03:43He was in the second grade of junior high school.
03:45He was in the second grade of junior high school.
03:47He's in the middle of his senior year.
03:49He's in the first year of junior high school.
03:51He was in the first year of junior high school.
03:53He was a boy.
03:57I really want to hear what it was like.
04:00But you've overcome it now, right?
04:02Yes, I have.
04:03The day will come when you can overcome it.
04:05This time, we're going to meet Ms. Chinen, who raised her son until he was an adult.
04:10We're going to do a special episode of the Yamaba Child Care Center.
04:13We're going to look back at the Yamaba Child Care Center that Ms. Chinen has overcome.
04:20He used to say, Mom, Mom, Mom.
04:22But now he suddenly calls me Mom.
04:25Mom?
04:26I'm a mom from today.
04:29Really?
04:32There was a hole in his wallpaper.
04:37All of a sudden?
04:38I didn't notice.
04:39You were hiding it.
04:40My son was getting bigger and bigger.
04:43How tall is he?
04:44He's 90 centimeters tall now.
04:46He's big.
04:47When he's angry, he's like this.
04:50I'm sorry.
04:51I'm sorry.
04:52I'm sorry.
04:59He used to say, Mom, Mom.
05:01There was a hole in his wallpaper.
05:03All of a sudden?
05:04I didn't notice.
05:05All of a sudden?
05:06All of a sudden?
05:07I've only heard that he's two years older than me.
05:09No way.
05:12I asked Shigeki Tanaka, who is a clinical psychologist.
05:16I want to ask him.
05:17I want to ask him.
05:18I can't stand up to him unless I call him a bitch.
05:27These are the two mountains that Chine-san will visit.
05:32The mountains in elementary school and junior high school.
05:35We haven't been to the mountains yet.
05:37No, we haven't.
05:38I'm scared.
05:39I thought we'd been to the mountains a lot.
05:43We haven't been to the mountains at all.
05:45I'm scared.
05:46I'm scared.
05:47You're kidding, right?
05:50These are the mountains in elementary school.
05:55He likes junior high school entrance exams, but he wants to quit ballet.
06:01How do you feel about junior high school entrance exams?
06:03I didn't do it.
06:04I didn't do it.
06:05My brother did junior high school entrance exams.
06:07How was it?
06:08Junior high school entrance exams are hard.
06:10But junior high school entrance exams are easier.
06:17I thought I could do it at that time, but I couldn't.
06:21I realized it was too late.
06:23I had a complex about my academic background.
06:26I came to Tokyo when I was 15 years old.
06:29I really wanted him to go to college.
06:32But he didn't study.
06:36I thought I wouldn't go to college if I didn't do it here.
06:40I wanted him to go to a place where he could go on an escalator.
06:43He went to a place where he could go on an escalator.
06:45When he was in the 4th grade, he went to a place where he had to take an entrance exam.
06:53Did he pass the entrance exam?
06:54He passed the entrance exam.
06:55I was surprised that he didn't study.
06:58He passed the entrance exam.
07:00But he didn't pass the entrance exam.
07:04I know where it is.
07:05What is it?
07:07It's not a drama world.
07:09I was told that I could go to a place where I could go on an escalator.
07:14Did he go to the back seat of the last class?
07:16He went to the back seat of the last class.
07:20I was afraid.
07:21I thought he couldn't go to a place where he could go on an escalator.
07:23So I changed the place to a separate school.
07:25But he went to a different school to go on an escalator.
07:29What is that?
07:31So you changed the place to a separate school.
07:33Yes, I changed the place to a separate school.
07:35But the tuition fee was very expensive.
07:40It was one tuition per class.
07:43If I didn't get good grades, I had to talk to my teacher.
07:46I told my teacher that I needed more money.
07:48I told my teacher that I needed more money.
07:50Did you have to add more tuition fee?
07:52I told my teacher that I had to add more tuition fee.
07:54Did you have to pay for it?
07:56That's right.
07:58But he didn't want to do it.
08:01He had a GPS.
08:03I called him and asked him what was going on.
08:06I called him and asked him what was going on.
08:08He said he wasn't there.
08:10I was wondering what was going on.
08:12He said he was watching a game at an electric store.
08:15He said he couldn't buy it.
08:17He said he was watching a game that people were playing.
08:21He was avoiding reality.
08:23I was wondering where he was going.
08:26He went to an electric store.
08:28He came back and asked me.
08:30He usually does what he wants to do.
08:33He went to an electric store and played.
08:35He came back and asked me.
08:37He came back to pick me up.
08:39He was wondering where I was.
08:41He said he wasn't in the dorm.
08:43Does he say such a thing?
08:45But he went to pick you up in the dorm.
08:47That's right.
08:49That's scary.
08:51We were talking about a lot of things.
08:53I often lie to him.
08:55What did you tell him?
08:57I told him I forgave him.
08:59It can't be helped, we have to keep doing it.
09:01That's true.
09:02It's not like we won't do it anymore.
09:04It's tomorrow, right?
09:05It's tomorrow.
09:06We have to do it tomorrow.
09:07We have to make bento.
09:08That's right.
09:09We have to make it every day.
09:11We have to keep spinning the wheels.
09:13We can't stop it.
09:14That's right.
09:15We have to keep spinning the wheels.
09:17We paid so much for it.
09:19We can't stop it.
09:21That's true.
09:22We can't stop it.
09:23We can't stop the wheels.
09:25If we started it.
09:26That's right.
09:27That's true.
09:28We can't stop the wheels.
09:32So that happened and we broke our hearts.
09:36But somehow we were able to get a bento to the university.
09:42Why do you think you didn't do it again even though you got it?
09:47Do you want to do it?
09:49We don't have to do it anymore.
09:50It must have been hard for you to be able to be so focused.
09:53It must have been hard.
09:54And there might be a rebellious phase, starting from elementary school.
09:58That's true.
09:59And in the middle of that, you have to make your own bento.
10:05That's tough.
10:07What would you like to say to your mom, who is trying to avoid the exam?
10:11She says she can't go on like this.
10:14I know.
10:15But I want to know her mental state.
10:17But in the end, she passed the exam.
10:20Well, we spent more time together.
10:24For example, in the car on the way home.
10:27I made her delicious bento.
10:30We communicated with each other.
10:32And I took the middle school exam with a lot of difficulties.
10:35But when I graduated from high school,
10:37I told her that I was really happy to be here.
10:40That's amazing.
10:41I believe there is such a reward.
10:44But that reward will come six years later.
10:47I don't know if I can say that.
10:49But he is a good son.
10:51He told me that.
10:53I have no choice but to believe.
10:55That's amazing.
10:56That's part of elementary school.
10:58What?
10:59There is a next theme.
11:00I see.
11:01I liked ballet, but I want to quit it.
11:04What does this mean?
11:05Did you say you wanted to do ballet by yourself?
11:09I was dancing a lot at home.
11:12I always thought that I could dance pop music or Western music.
11:18Based on my experience, I thought it would be better to learn classical dance.
11:23It's hard to learn classical dance now.
11:25I see.
11:26At that time, I fell in love with Kamen Rider.
11:29I loved it.
11:30When I was playing fighting games,
11:32I saw a ballet called Pirates by Tetsuya Kumakawa.
11:36It's a cool ballet that swings a sword.
11:40That's amazing.
11:41Do you go to the ballet school to learn ballet?
11:45There is a ballet school.
11:47I see.
11:48You have lived in the K-Ballet Club.
11:50That's right.
11:51I have been a member of the club since the beginning.
11:54I see.
11:55Did you want to quit ballet?
11:57That's right.
11:58All the boys in my class play soccer.
12:03I was told that ballet is for girls.
12:08I was wearing tight tights.
12:11I don't care about it now.
12:13I was worried about it for a moment.
12:16I was embarrassed.
12:18I see.
12:19When I was in the fourth or fifth grade,
12:22I was told that I wanted to take a break.
12:25But I didn't want to take a break.
12:28So I decided not to take a break today.
12:31I decided not to take a break.
12:33But when I said that, I didn't want to quit.
12:35I understand.
12:36Did you say that you didn't want to quit because you thought you wouldn't quit?
12:42Yes.
12:43It was a psychological battle.
12:44That's amazing.
12:45There are times when you really want to quit.
12:49But you don't want to quit.
12:51That's difficult.
12:53You really want to quit.
12:55But you don't want to quit.
12:57That's wrong.
12:58That's wrong.
13:00You don't want to quit.
13:02That's right.
13:04Did you stop saying that you didn't want to quit?
13:07Yes, I did.
13:08He concentrated on what I was good at.
13:13Even when I was eating at home,
13:16I was looking at my phone.
13:18I was looking at foreign dancers dancing.
13:23So I thought I should be careful.
13:27He was passionate about what he liked.
13:29He found what he liked.
13:32He started to do what he wanted to do.
13:34And he became a member of K-BARREDA.
13:35His dream came true.
13:37That's amazing.
13:39He showed Kumakawa at the beginning.
13:42That's right.
13:43It was like an art school.
13:45I was glad that he was a part of it.
13:51What would you like to say to your mother who wants to quit?
13:59I think it's okay to challenge yourself to be a child.
14:02Believe in yourself.
14:04You can quit.
14:06I believe in myself.
14:08So I don't want to quit.
14:10I see.
14:12You said a lot of things before you said you wanted to quit.
14:16I understand.
14:18You said you wanted to quit.
14:20But you only did ballet.
14:22You did ballet in junior high school.
14:24You did your best at that time.
14:26But if you want to quit, you can quit.
14:28That's a long time.
14:30You can finally quit.
14:32I thought about a lot of things.
14:35You said you wanted to quit.
14:38But you said you wanted to quit.
14:40It's okay.
14:42You have a bright future.
14:45You have overcome the mountain of elementary school.
14:48Next is the mountain of junior high school.
14:50It's a rebellious period.
14:52It's a rebellious period.
14:54It's a rebellious period.
14:56You have overcome the rebellious period.
14:58I'm angry.
15:00I'm angry.
15:02I'm angry.
15:04I see.
15:06I'm angry.
15:08I'm angry.
15:10I'm angry.
15:12I'm angry.
15:14I'm angry.
15:18You didn't say anything.
15:20You didn't say anything.
15:22You didn't say anything.
15:26Next is the mountain of junior high school.
15:28It's a rebellious period.
15:30It's a rebellious period.
15:32It's a rebellious period.
15:34You have overcome the rebellious period.
15:36I had a baby in my second year of junior high school.
15:38I had a baby in my second year of junior high school.
15:40I see.
15:42The reason why I used the word mum was because my mum called me mum.
15:46Are you mum?
15:48Is it still your mother?
15:50It's not a mother's face?
15:52It's not a mother's face.
15:54It's a mother's face.
15:56I was told I was a mother.
15:58I was like, I'm a mother from today.
16:00Really?
16:02There was a time like that.
16:04My mom and mom
16:06are rebellious.
16:08Mom, mom.
16:10I'm rebellious, but my mom
16:12says it's amazing.
16:14If you're so rebellious,
16:16I'm a mother.
16:18Isn't it strange?
16:20It's noisy.
16:22I can't keep up with it,
16:24so I'll call you mom from today.
16:26I think it's a mother.
16:28It's important how you call it.
16:30What else happened during the rebellious period?
16:32Anyway, my mouth number
16:34decreased.
16:36It's a type that decreases.
16:38If you're a little careful,
16:40I'm angry.
16:42With the sound of stepping up the stairs.
16:44It's like this.
16:46I know.
16:48Have you ever fought?
16:50With him?
16:52When I have to say it,
16:54Do you listen to him?
16:56I do, but my son
16:58is getting bigger.
17:00He's tall.
17:02He's 90 years old now.
17:04When he's angry,
17:06he's like this.
17:08It's cute.
17:10It's like this.
17:12He's a little cool now.
17:14I want him to sit down.
17:16I'll stand up.
17:18Have you ever fought?
17:20He's so big.
17:22Everyone is like this.
17:24Once in his room,
17:26when I was replacing the wallpaper,
17:28there was a calendar
17:30in the room.
17:32I took it all out
17:34and cleaned it up.
17:36There was a hole.
17:38Suddenly?
17:40Did you hide it?
17:42I hid it in the calendar.
17:44There was a hole like this.
17:46I could see the cotton inside.
17:48At that time,
17:50my husband and I were like,
17:52What is this?
17:54You didn't notice it until now?
17:56Was he angry?
17:58At that time,
18:00my husband was calmer than me.
18:02I think there was another hole.
18:04Wow.
18:06I think there was a hole in the door.
18:08It's hard to fix it.
18:10That's right.
18:12He's a genius.
18:14I don't like it.
18:16Don't you rebel against your husband?
18:18He's a little milder than me.
18:20I see.
18:22Is there anything you can't resist?
18:24He's like,
18:26This is the last fort.
18:28I think so.
18:30Do you fight?
18:32I fight and I don't fight.
18:34On the contrary,
18:36I don't stay in the room.
18:38I appeal my bad temper in the living room.
18:40I want to be with everyone.
18:42That's cute.
18:44I'm still a mother.
18:46How do you call it?
18:48I'll do it.
18:50On the contrary,
18:52I get angry and say,
18:54Stay in the room!
18:56Don't push the concept of rebellious.
18:58Stay in the room!
19:00When I'm in a bad mood,
19:02I want everyone to be careful.
19:04When I talk to my husband,
19:06he says, Shut up!
19:08But do you stay in the room?
19:10No, I don't.
19:12That's rebellious, too.
19:14That's cute.
19:16I want to be with him.
19:18I want to be with him.
19:20That's cute.
19:22I asked my mother
19:24what happened to her rebellious period
19:26and how she overcame it.
19:28Let's talk about the rebellious period
19:30of a boy.
19:32He is 20 years old.
19:34He is 16 years old.
19:36He is amazing.
19:38He is in the second grade of junior high school.
19:40He is a middle-aged man.
19:42Middle-aged man?
19:44I've only heard of a two-year-old man.
19:46No way.
19:48He doesn't talk much at home.
19:50That's the same.
19:52He eats a lot.
19:54That's rebellious, too.
19:56He is rebellious.
19:58When I am noisy,
20:00he doesn't talk much.
20:02He doesn't talk much.
20:04He doesn't talk much.
20:06He has been doing a lot of photoport.
20:08He is a teacher of nothing.
20:10Is that so?
20:12He is a teacher of nothing.
20:14I try to have a conversation
20:16with him.
20:18He is erotic.
20:20He likes meat.
20:22He likes rice.
20:24When I cook,
20:26I feel different
20:28when I don't take off my clothes.
20:30I feel different when I don't take off my clothes.
20:32He likes to cook.
20:36He is 25 years old.
20:38When he was in the second grade of junior high school,
20:40he kicked a plastic trash can
20:42because it was broken
20:44in the morning.
20:46He kicked a plastic trash can
20:48because it was broken
20:50in the morning.
20:52He said,
20:54he couldn't do anything
20:56if it wasn't hit.
20:58He said,
21:00he couldn't do anything
21:02if it wasn't hit.
21:04He said,
21:06he couldn't do anything
21:08if it wasn't hit.
21:12He said,
21:14he quit because I was
21:16too irresponsible.
21:18He said,
21:20he quit because I was
21:22too irresponsible.
21:24He never ignotes you.
21:26He never ignores you.
21:28He never ignores you.
21:30He is 12 years old.
21:32He had something
21:34a bit violent.
21:36He had something a bit violent.
21:38He had a wall-pillow.
21:40Wall-pillow?
21:42He has a wall-pillow
21:44like a cushion.
21:46He is horrible.
21:48I opened it right in front of me.
21:50Oh, in front of you?
21:52Yes, right in front of me.
21:54I was like,
21:56What are you doing?
21:58Of course.
22:00Do your homework.
22:02Take a bath.
22:04Stop playing games.
22:06I did that.
22:08I submitted this.
22:10I opened the door
22:12because I thought,
22:14as a child,
22:16I was told to do this.
22:18You have to listen to her.
22:20That's right.
22:22Your mom is right.
22:24I taught her.
22:26How many holes are there in the wall?
22:28There are only two or three rooms.
22:30It's not that big of a deal.
22:32That's amazing.
22:34There are more than just rooms.
22:36What are you doing with those holes?
22:38It's a poster.
22:40Memories.
22:42Something like a poster.
22:44There are a lot of holes.
22:46There were two or three in the room.
22:48There must be more in the other room.
22:50It's on TV.
22:52There must be more.
22:58It was hard.
23:00I think it was about 10 o'clock.
23:02I threw a chair from the living room
23:04on the floor.
23:06Why?
23:08I was asked if I was studying in front of the test.
23:10The switch came on.
23:12I see.
23:14You didn't want to be told.
23:16You were like,
23:18I'm going to do it now.
23:20I was told by my neighbor
23:22that I had an exam.
23:24I apologized
23:26for being rebellious.
23:32If I feel bad,
23:34I apologize.
23:36You apologize to your parents.
23:38I'm sorry for being loud.
23:40I think it's important to apologize.
23:46It's important to apologize.
23:54I'm 31 years old.
23:56You were rebellious for a long time.
23:58Was it a long time?
24:00When I was a kid,
24:02I thought my father was strong.
24:04But I was getting older.
24:06One day,
24:08I was beaten by my father.
24:10You were beaten by your father.
24:12You were beaten by your father.
24:16You were fighting a lot.
24:18Your father was fighting.
24:22My son is big.
24:24He is about 100 kg.
24:26He is training his body.
24:28I see.
24:30I want to do it again,
24:32but I'm afraid I'll get hurt.
24:34I want to say thank you
24:36to my father.
24:38Your father is strong.
24:40Shoji Uchida is training his body.
24:44He is training his body
24:46to win the rebellious period.
24:48He is training his body
24:50to win the rebellious period.
24:54What did your mother say to you?
24:56She said,
24:58I'm a parent,
25:00so I won't lose.
25:02She is strong.
25:04She is strong.
25:06She is big.
25:08If I get hurt,
25:10I will use my son's shoe.
25:12Cool!
25:14I thought I had to teach my son.
25:16I thought I had to teach my son.
25:18I was thinking that.
25:20I was being rude.
25:22He has calmed down.
25:24He has calmed down.
25:26Last year,
25:28he also used my son's shoe.
25:30He used my son's shoe.
25:32That's amazing!
25:34That's a good shoe!
25:36The senpais are really into it!
25:38They're really into it!
25:40But as a result, I got a pair of Celine shoes.
25:42Thank you!
25:44That's amazing!
25:46That's amazing!
25:48By the way, when it comes to the rebellious period,
25:50why does it happen?
25:52I asked Shigeki Tanaka, a psychiatrist
25:54who has been counselling his parents
25:56for more than 20 years
25:58who are worried about raising their children.
26:00I want to hear it!
26:02His parents will definitely say,
26:04Huh?
26:06What are you doing?
26:08No way!
26:10Can you hear me?
26:12Can you hear me?
26:14Are you kidding me?
26:26He has been counselling his parents
26:28for more than 20 years
26:30who are worried about raising their children.
26:32I asked Shigeki Tanaka, a psychiatrist
26:34who has been counselling his parents
26:36for more than 20 years.
26:38He said,
26:40The reason why it happens
26:42is that his parents know what's going on.
26:44He's kind enough not to
26:46use violence against his parents.
26:48He's kind enough not to
26:50use violence against his parents.
26:52He's kind enough not to
26:54use violence against his parents.
26:56What the heck?
26:58Don't we have books
27:00that suggest that it's the hormone's fault?
27:02Yes.
27:04I think I did it.
27:06Did you read the books?
27:08It's the hormone's fault.
27:10So, the child is not the cause of the disease.
27:12So, the child is not the cause of the disease.
27:14I see.
27:16It's not the cause of the disease.
27:18How cool.
27:20Shigeki Tanaka,
27:22When your child finds something
27:54But mom said that Kusobaba is no big deal.
27:56But when you said Kusobaba,
27:58I was thinking that if it's going to be like this,
28:00we have to go forward.
28:03My mentality is like metal.
28:06I said I'm okay because I don't want to be hurt.
28:08But you said you wanted to hurt it.
28:10I don't want to be hurt.
28:12It's impossible, I can't do that.
28:14We also asked an expert
28:16about the reason why you call it Kusobaba.
28:19Tell us!
28:20If you don't call me an old hag, I won't be able to deal with you.
28:25But I'm still a young hag, so I don't care if you call me an old hag.
28:29I sometimes act like this because I'm dissatisfied with my parents' attitude towards young children.
28:35Oh, so you're treating me like a kid.
28:37I'm an adult, you old hag!
28:40You're challenging me.
28:42I think I get it.
28:44Next, let's talk about the rebellious period of girls.
28:47I'm looking forward to it.
28:49I'm really looking forward to it.
28:54She's 22 years old.
28:57I was in junior high school.
28:59Oh, you were in junior high school.
29:01At that time, I was often told to die.
29:03I was told to die.
29:05Oh, I see.
29:07I was told to be disgusting.
29:09After all, it's a girl.
29:11The word die was popular at school.
29:14It's common to say, isn't it?
29:17I think the teacher was also careful.
29:21If I say, die, the boy will say, die.
29:25I think it's bad to give out an order.
29:34I was on a blind date, but I found out that it didn't make sense.
29:37I was trying to get to know each other.
29:39I was trying to get to know each other, but I quit.
29:43Then I didn't say anything.
29:48I don't say anything anymore.
29:50It doesn't make sense to say it.
29:52That's right.
30:01What do you think of when you hear the word rebellious period?
30:05I'm rebellious every day.
30:07I close the door.
30:10And there's a little bit of a snitch.
30:12It's not an attitude towards parents or the above.
30:21I see.
30:23It's an attitude.
30:27I don't think so.
30:29I don't think so.
30:31I don't want to fight.
30:33If I study for an hour, I'll get $ 250.
30:37I have to go to work, and I have to pay with cash and pay with PayPay.
30:42I have to go to work, and I have to pay with cash and pay with PayPay.
30:47I think I'll make some room for that.
30:51She's paying.
30:52She's like a client.
30:54She's like, I'm paying.
30:57It's not a reward, but...
31:00It's like a daily thing.
31:02But I'm also curious about the duration of that one hour.
31:05It's a one-hour session.
31:09This is interesting.
31:14If I tell her to study, she has to do it.
31:18If I tell her to shut up, she has to do it.
31:21If I tell her to shut up, she has to do it.
31:25Look, she's scared.
31:27She's scared.
31:29That's right.
31:32The entrance exam will start soon.
31:35My current grades are connected to the entrance exam.
31:39If I don't do it now, I'll have a hard time next year.
31:43I'd like to hear what the kids think.
31:46I'd like to hear it.
31:47What do you think?
31:50I have one.
31:52I got a low score on the test, but I didn't get a good grade.
31:59I have a plan.
32:01I want her to shut up.
32:03Her eyes are straight.
32:06I want her to shut up.
32:08I don't want her to talk.
32:10I want her to play games and watch TV for an hour.
32:16I want her to be kind to me.
32:20I want her to look at me.
32:22Let's practice.
32:24How?
32:26When?
32:27That's not it.
32:29Her eyes are straight.
32:31I want to ask her if she's motivated.
32:35If I knew she was motivated, I wouldn't have asked her.
32:40I would have waited.
32:42If you don't tell her, you won't make it in time.
32:45That's right.
32:47If you don't do it now, you won't make it tomorrow.
32:50She hasn't realized it's coming tomorrow.
32:54I want her to do it now.
32:59Girls are rebellious.
33:02They don't come into my room.
33:05But when I'm in trouble, they text me.
33:12I'm lonely.
33:17For example, I get a message from Amazon.
33:20I need this.
33:22I don't have money to buy it.
33:24I'm lucky.
33:26I want her to go.
33:28I want her to say it.
33:30But I don't want to say it to her face.
33:34She talks a lot.
33:38When I was in the first year of high school,
33:40she said she was coming home late.
33:42She told me to call her.
33:46But sometimes she didn't come home.
33:49I was worried.
33:52I'm in trouble.
33:54I'm worried.
33:56I'm in trouble.
33:58I was worried.
34:00There was a service to find out where the child was.
34:03It's like a GPS.
34:05Is it connected to the phone?
34:07That's right.
34:09The location information is not accurate.
34:13I was in the river.
34:16I'm worried.
34:19I'm worried.
34:22But I contact her.
34:31I don't think it's a competition.
34:33I think it's a competition.
34:35I think it's a competition.
34:37I have to accept it.
34:39I have to accept it.
34:41I have to accept it.
34:43That's part of growing up.
34:46When TSUJI came to my house,
34:48all the phones were turned off.
34:50all the phones were turned off.
34:52I was blocked.
34:54I was blocked and turned off the power.
34:56I was blocked and turned off the power.
34:58It's like a secret GPS.
35:00It's like a secret GPS.
35:02It's like a case.
35:04It's like a case.
35:06It's like a case.
35:08I used to fight with my mother.
35:12I used to fight with my mother.
35:20It's frustrating.
35:28They all started at the age of 12.
35:30They all started at the age of 12.
35:32I'm going to be 16 again.
35:34I'm going to be 16 again.
35:36I'm going to be 16 again.
35:38I'm going to be 16 again.
35:40I learned from Tholes at the age of 12.
35:42I learned from Tholes at the age of 12.
35:44My relationship changed from upper-lower to upper-elevated.
35:45My relationship changed from upper-lower to upper-elevated.
35:47I've learned a lot so far.
35:49I've learned a lot so far.
35:51Hardly I noticed the difference between my parents
36:04I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't
36:34know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know
37:04yeah
37:06it's Nacchan
37:08she's doing it
37:10I'm not doing it
37:12I really remember
37:14that I fought with my mom
37:16we were doing a christmas party
37:18with my family
37:20my video was the home video
37:22it's still there
37:24I haven't talked to her for a long time
37:26what?
37:28what?
37:30I'm so sad
37:32I'm sorry
37:34but at that time
37:36I was like, why do I have to fight with my family
37:38at the christmas party
37:40I was like, I'll join
37:42I was laughing
37:44and took a picture
37:46but at the christmas party
37:48you have to join
37:50but I couldn't do anything
37:52I still remember
37:54that's not good
37:56that's not good
37:58that's not good
38:00that's difficult
38:02the way to deal with rebellious period
38:04rebellious period
38:06think it's a practice
38:08and have a conversation
38:10you're still young
38:12but you're trying to think differently
38:14don't listen to everything
38:16it's important to have an equal conversation
38:18that's Buddha
38:20Buddha
38:22I wonder if I can have an equal conversation
38:24but it's true
38:26I was looking for words
38:28your feeling
38:30I was looking for
38:32frustrating words
38:34are you mad?
38:36yes
38:38Okay
38:40it was hurt
38:42you're feeling sorry
38:43but at the same time
38:45you think your parents are monk
38:47but you're feeling shy
38:49so you've to be gentle
38:51so your parents are strong
38:53you're better
38:55as you grew old
39:27There are people who say yes, but there are also people who say that it is a rebellious period and that it is better to have a rebellious period.
39:33Which one is it?
39:35Really
39:37But there are people who say that there was no rebellious period.
39:39It's a fine woman, isn't it?
39:41That's right.
39:43If you don't tell her it's better to have a rebellious period, she'll feel sorry for you.
39:47Do you think it was good to have a rebellious period?
39:51I think it was good.
39:53Why?
39:55I wanted her to show me her rebellious period.
39:57I thought it was cute.
39:59When I think about it now, it's cute.
40:01That's right.
40:03When I look back,
40:05I think I'm waiting for it.
40:07I have no choice but to get over it.
40:09What do you think, Nacchan?
40:11I think it's cute even if the wall is opened.
40:13I wonder if I can feel it.
40:15It's not cute at that time.
40:17It's not cute at that time.
40:19But when you get older, you'll be able to talk to each other.
40:23That's great.
40:25How did you deal with the rebellious period?
40:33I drank with my husband and took a break.
40:35At that time, I put up with it.
40:37I said,
40:39I'm going to do this and that today.
40:41After that,
40:43I looked back at the letter I got from my husband when I was a child.
40:49I wrote something very cute.
40:51I saw it.
40:53I took a picture of the letter.
40:55I'm happy.
40:57I'm a little embarrassed.
40:59I'm 18 years old.
41:01I got permission from my husband.
41:03To my mom.
41:0536 years old?
41:09Congratulations on your 36th birthday.
41:11My mom looks beautiful every time she gets older.
41:13I think she's beautiful.
41:15It's cute.
41:17No matter how much I get beaten up,
41:19When I see this,
41:21I want to say,
41:23You're beautiful.
41:25You look cute.
41:27I want to say this.
41:29When I was a child,
41:31I saw a picture.
41:33It doesn't change.
41:35It's like,
41:37Doesn't it make you sad?
41:39It's sad.
41:41I think the rebellious period is cute.
41:43It's cute.
41:45The rebellious period?
41:47I can't stand it.
41:49You're a girl, right?
41:51Girls are different.
41:53I think so.
41:55Girls are fast.
41:57I was born in 1934.
41:59I'm a boy.
42:01You're smart.
42:03What about you?
42:05I was born in 1934.
42:07My eldest son is in the rebellious period.
42:09I can't rebel now.
42:11You're smart.
42:13My eldest son is in the rebellious period.
42:15That means,
42:17When your eldest son is in the rebellious period,
42:19You're a girl.
42:21You're right.
42:23I'm scared.
42:25I'm scared.
42:27There are three of us.
42:29Three times.
42:31That's right.
42:33Where did you start the rebellious period?
42:35I started it in high school.
42:37Did you start it in middle school?
42:39I started it when I was a freshman in high school.
42:41Two years.
42:43That's a long time.
42:45It's too long.
42:47You didn't talk about what happened at that time, did you?
42:49No, I didn't.
42:51After the rebellious period,
42:53Did your parents change?
42:55That's right.
42:57I'm having fun with my friends now.
42:59They don't come to my family events.
43:01They don't come to my family events.
43:03They don't come to my family events.
43:05They don't come to my family events.
43:07They don't come to my family events.
43:09They don't come to my family events.
43:11They don't come to my family events.
43:13You guys are very friendly.
43:15Exactly.
43:17You're 18 years old, do you talk about love?
43:19Yes.
43:21Yes.
43:23When I first realized that I liked girls,
43:25When I first realized that I liked girls,
43:27She told me.
43:29I still like her.
43:31Isn't it amazing that you can talk about love to your mother?
43:33Isn't it amazing that you can talk about love to your mother?
43:35Isn't it amazing that you can talk about love to your mother?
43:37Yes, that's right.
43:39Your partner?
43:40Yes.
43:41Women are strict with women.
43:43That's right, that's right.
43:47When I first thought I might like a girl, she told me.
43:51Even now, I think she's a good girl.
43:54Wow!
43:55Isn't it amazing that you can talk about love to your mother?
43:58It's amazing.
43:59But in the first place, don't you think it's a little too much?
44:05Your partner?
44:07I don't think she's the type I like.
44:12Women are strict with women.
44:14That's right, that's right.
44:15I don't think she's the type I like.
44:18I don't think I'm on my level.
44:21So I don't have a partner.
44:24I'm just saying I like you.
44:26I'm just saying that.
44:28It's nothing.
44:29On the contrary, it's scary when you're on your level.
44:32It's scary.
44:33It's scary.
44:35You're getting better.
44:36You're getting better.
44:38That's what I've been thinking.
44:39But from now on, I'm sure you'll be an older brother.
44:42I'm sure you'll have someone you really like.
44:45I heard it as a love story.
44:48I see.
44:49It's fun.
44:50It's a story of the future.
44:51It's fun.
44:52It's fun.
44:54Please say a word to your mother who is about to go through a rebellious period.
44:59I'm going to have another child.
45:01I feel the same way as everyone else.
45:04I've been thinking about raising a child.
45:09It's a real trial.
45:11It's a real trial.
45:13I've been enduring it.
45:16But there are moments when I'm so happy that I can't believe it.
45:20There are a few years ahead of me.
45:24Let's believe in that and work hard together.
45:28I'm rooting for you.
45:30That's a great word.
45:31I'll do my best, too.
45:33That's great.
45:35There's a lot of trials I haven't seen yet.
45:39That's right.
45:41It's time.
45:43How was it today?
45:45I heard a lot of interesting stories.
45:47It was fun.
45:49Raising a child is really hard.
45:52But it's fun to be able to share this moment.
45:56I'll do my best tomorrow.
45:59It was a wonderful time.
46:01Thank you very much.
46:03I'm going to practice being fearless.
46:05That's right.
46:06Don't fight.
46:08Don't buy a fight.
46:10Don't get hurt.
46:12I'll get hurt a little.
46:18I want to see it again and again.
46:20Mom's treasure special.
46:22I want to see it.
46:24Will you be happy?
46:31I understand.
46:33I'm happy to see you here.
46:38What a good thing.
46:40It was fast.
46:42They're crying together.
46:44I want you to watch it on TVA after my husband goes to bed.
46:47You can also watch it during the housework.
46:50Don't miss it.
46:52Watch it on TVA.
46:54Pregnancy special.
46:58LINE Talk.
47:00Watch it on TVA.