Uso pa ba ang ugali at kasuotan ng isang Maria Clara sa modern age? Alamin ang sagot nina Beth Tamayo, Mymy Davao, at iba pang kababaihan dito sa video!
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00:00We walk hand in hand, we dream together. We giggle and laugh like kids forever.
00:12We're two different people, but we're having fun. We talk about anything under the sun.
00:19We are sisters, we are friends. It's our magic that never ends.
00:27I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends we'll always, always be.
00:38We always have fun, being together. You know me the best, we're friends forever.
00:46Through good times and bad, I'm here for you sis, right by your side.
00:52Hit or miss, we are sisters, we are friends. It's our magic that never ends.
01:01I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends, the best of friends.
01:09The best of friends we'll always, always be. We are sisters, we are sisters.
01:23Good morning mga sis!
01:25Good morning talaga sa inong lahat. Good morning sis.
01:28Good morning.
01:29Ano ba Jelly? Ano bang meron ngayon? Summer kasi vacation na diba?
01:33Siyempre, vacation.
01:35Okay. So, ano meron?
01:40Summer! Pag summer, walang pasok.
01:43Correct. Vacation.
01:44Pero kapag may pasok, ano ba ang ginagawa natin pag may pasok?
01:48Naalala mo ba ng high school, pinagadala ng mga books, Jose Rizal, patula ng Florenti at Laura.
01:56Nolly Metangere.
01:58Yon! Diba? Si Nolly Metangere. Yung mga characters dyan, si...
02:03Sisa?
02:06Si Sisa.
02:07Si Sisa.
02:08Sige na nga.
02:09Si...
02:10Maria Clara!
02:11Uy! Maria Clara at Year 2002. Nauso pa ba si Maria Clara?
02:16Hindi ko alam. Ewan ko, hindi ko talaga alam. Tanungin nga natin sa kanila kung uso pa ba si Maria Clara.
02:21Tanungin natin sa mga estudyante dito. I'm sure may mga school.
02:23Okay. Sabi ni Myra Laureta. She's 13 years old. Ay!
02:28Si Ira nalang muna.
02:29Si Ira pala. Okay. Kailangan pa rin daw si Maria Clara sa mga panahong ito.
02:33By the way, Kam!
02:34Hi!
02:36Anong year ka na sa high school?
02:38First.
02:39Sa pasokan?
02:40Yes.
02:41Ah! Incoming freshman.
02:42Napakatalong niya ba?
02:44Oo nga. Sige. Baka hindi pa. Pero malamang napalitaan na niya.
02:48Bakit sabi mo kailangan pa si Maria Clara itong mga panahong ito?
02:51Kasi imagine na lang natin kung wala na si Maria Clara ngayong panahong ito.
02:56Ano na lang tingin ng mga tao sa ibang bansa sa atin.
02:59Nasanay na merong Maria Clara at hindi lahat ng Pilipina moderno.
03:04Ano ba para sa'yo si Maria Clara?
03:08She's a model.
03:11Model ng para sa'kin.
03:13Modelo siya na kaya kong tularan.
03:16Ah! Dahil sa kanyang pagiging niya.
03:20Pagiging.
03:22Pagiging.
03:23Pagiging ng batibo.
03:25Eh pero si Myra hindi yan ang tingin niya eh.
03:28Masa si Myra?
03:29Yan. Si Myra. Kita-kita mo naman nasa striped shirt niya.
03:34Myra bakit ka nababaduyang ka daw kay Maria Clara?
03:39Kasi po hindi po nababagay yung panahon noon sa panahon ngayon.
03:43Sa outfit na lang ano.
03:45Tsaka sa diba?
03:46Nginit ngayon.
03:47Alam ka naman ako.
03:49Ayak ka na nung sinong patungpatong diba?
03:52Bakit ano pa?
03:53Ano pa ang dahilan na hindi siya nababagay sa panahon natin ngayon?
03:56Tulad na lang po ng pananamit niya.
03:58Diba si Maria Clara?
03:59Baduyong pananamit niya eh.
04:01Baduy talaga.
04:03Eh ngayon po, yung espagueti tapos yung kahit ano po ang tura ng bohok,
04:11marami na po para pong practical na yung mga kababaiyan ngayon.
04:15O, dapat maging practical. Ang init no?
04:18Oo ka na mamawi sa pinipili mo sa aba-aba ng bohok niya.
04:21Correct!
04:22Tapos pinupusog naman niya.
04:23Oo nga.
04:24Diba? So di dapat magpa-short hair na si Maria Clara?
04:26Pwes, para tulungan tayong pag-usapan ng mga bagay-bagay na ito.
04:32Kamustahin naman natin ang makakasama this morning.
04:35Beth Tamayo.
04:36Hi, good morning.
04:38Ako masasabi ko, ang mga babae ngayon, mga pinais ngayon,
04:42mas palaban na.
04:44Maymay Davao.
04:47Hello, good morning po.
04:49At ako naman masasabi ko, mga babae ngayon, wiser na.
04:56Lara Morena.
04:57Good morning.
04:58Ako naman, siguro for me,
05:00yung panahon ngayon ng mga kababayan ngayon,
05:04more aggressive than before.
05:08Lina Ritchie Alagao.
05:11Yes, good morning.
05:12Ako naman naman masasabi ko, mas intact pa rin ang values ng modernong pinay.
05:17Okay.
05:20Olan Lin.
05:22Magandang umaga sa inyong lahat.
05:24Ako masasabi ko lang, go girl power.
05:27Ayan.
05:28Is spice girls ba ito?
05:31Isang oras ng usapang pinay.
05:34Moderno ka ba?
05:35O Maria Clara.
05:36Mainit na usapan at awayan ngayon umaga.
05:38Ang di sumali magiging sisa.
06:05Okay.
06:06So, Maria Clara, uso pa ba siya?
06:10O uso na mas maganda ang modern women?
06:14Feeling ko, hindi na masyadong uso.
06:17Kasi nga diba, we have always pictured Maria Clara as someone na,
06:21yung nga parang pinag-usapan natin earlier, parang piba,
06:23hindi nagsasalta, laging nakaganyan.
06:25Parang kung sasabihin lang ng kasama niya,
06:27tsaka kung kailan lang siya magsasalta, something like that.
06:29So, I guess if pinays na are more confident,
06:33mas ano sila, yun nga, sabi ni My My kanina,
06:36wiser, aggressive, so yun.
06:38Hindi na uso for me.
06:40Kung sa physical aspect ni Maria Clara na yung pagbibihis niya?
06:45Kung gagawin pa natin yun?
06:46Hindi, ay sabihin yung talagang balot, balot na balot parati.
06:49Ayan, kagaya ko.
06:50Sorry.
06:51Eh, nipis naman yun eh.
06:53Kasi ngayon daw, parang the modern women are always dressed in either
06:56parating kita yung balikat, kita yung likod.
07:00Well, it's a matter of going with the times kasi.
07:02Siyempre, you know, nowadays, hindi na pwede magsuot ka ng saya,
07:05ng meron pang, you know, sobrang mainit nga.
07:08You know, we have to be very, very, kumbaga eh,
07:11reasonable with the times or to go with the times.
07:13So, meron talagang mga pagbabago.
07:15Okay, for the single women,
07:17how much of you is still medyo parang
07:20Maria Clara attitude pa rin?
07:23Kasi diba, not only physically, nandoon yung pagka-conservative,
07:27yung makaluma pa rin ang mga beliefs niya,
07:30like a wife should always stay at home,
07:32parang puro submit lang, diba?
07:35More or less, ganun ang picture of Maria Clara.
07:38How much of you is still Maria Clara?
07:40Siguro, I don't want to say na 50-50, masyado naman yun.
07:43Siguro, mga 70-30 na lang.
07:4670 more on the modern and 30 na lang doon sa conservative side.
07:49Kasi mahirap nga eh.
07:51That's why you have to go with the time talaga
07:54na hindi naman pwedeng yung ginagawa dati,
07:57e gagawin mo ngayon, diba?
07:58Or yung mga, yung beliefs nila before,
08:00gagawin mo pa rin today.
08:01Parang baka pagtawanan ka na lang sa ibang tao, diba?
08:05Nina?
08:06Ako ano ba, siguro yung medyo na-retain pa rin ng konti,
08:09yung pagka-religious.
08:10I guess it goes for like a lot of Filipinas, diba?
08:13Parang no matter how modern we get,
08:15parang andoon pa rin yung pagiging malapitin,
08:18malapit natin sa Diyos.
08:19Pagiging religious.
08:20Yes.
08:21My, my.
08:22Ganun rin, like Nina and Beth, no?
08:26You have to go with the times,
08:27pero meron eh.
08:28Meron at merong sa sarili mo.
08:30Siguro, like I was talking to the writer yesterday nga na,
08:33something like,
08:35alam ko lahat tayong babae,
08:36kahit gano'n tayo kamodern,
08:38there's a Maria Clara thing in us.
08:41Hindi pwedeng,
08:42pwedeng hindi siya lumabas sa pananamit,
08:45pwedeng sa pag-iisip, sa values,
08:47katulad what you were saying, Janice, nga na,
08:49yung pagiging pag, kunyari,
08:52pag mother ka na, medyo ganito dapat.
08:54You stay home.
08:55Meron eh.
08:56Meron at meron tayong Maria Clara.
08:57Pero siguro, tayo ngayon,
08:59kasi nga iba na yung age natin,
09:01iba na yung way natin.
09:02But I think,
09:03doon rin naman nag-originate yun eh.
09:05Doon naman tayo lahat nang galing.
09:07So it's nice that we have a basis.
09:09Diba?
09:10Okay.
09:11Jelly, ikaw, kumusta ka naman dyan?
09:13Okay naman ako dito.
09:14Kayo.
09:18Dali, Jane, alika.
09:19Kwentong mo sa amin.
09:20Si Jane is 17 years old,
09:22incoming first year college.
09:24Si Jane, sa palagay niya,
09:26eh, dapat naniniwala siya
09:28na ang mga Pinay ngayon,
09:29eh, palaban na.
09:31Bakit? Bakit?
09:32Kasi sa tingin ko,
09:33sa panahon ngayon,
09:34yung mga kababayan,
09:35may sarili lang decision
09:36kung ano yung tama o mali.
09:38Tapos nagagawa na nila yung
09:39nagagawa ng mga lalaki.
09:41Katulad ng pagkatrabaho.
09:43Magkatrabaho.
09:45Magkatrabaho ng babae sa mga kumpanya.
09:48Sa pamilya, diba?
09:49Sa mga ganyan.
09:51Jane.
09:53Tama.
09:54Work it.
09:55Si Maria Clara kasi, diba?
09:57Sa bahay, magsisimbang,
09:59ganyan, mamamaypay ganyan.
10:01Tatago sa likod ng pamaypay.
10:03Kayo na. Dali, wag mo siya sa akin dyan.
10:05Mag-record mo kasi sa release date.
10:06Alam mo, nag-release date niya.
10:08Mag-record mo kasi sa release date.
10:10Pero katulad na sinabi niya,
10:11diba, yung parang,
10:12it's modern times.
10:14So, hindi na-applicable masyadong
10:16yung ginagaya natin si Maria Clara
10:18paminsan-minsan.
10:19Ano ba yung qualities ni Maria Clara
10:21na dapat i-preserve?
10:23Si Maria Clara kasi ngayon,
10:25alam ko, nasa libro na lang siya.
10:27Nasa history.
10:29Doon na lang siya.
10:31Ano pa ang dapat i-preserve?
10:33Siguro, katulad lang ganina ni Nina.
10:35Religious, diba?
10:36Yung pagiging religious, Nina.
10:37O kaya, siguro, pagdating sa...
10:38Siguro, yung pagiging magala.
10:39...pagdating sa courtship, siguro.
10:41Magalang, tama.
10:43Hindi nagpapaligaw sa labas ng bahay.
10:46Kailangan sa loob lang.
10:48Ay, gano'n.
10:49Tsaka siya pa rin yung nililigaw.
10:51O, yung tipo minaharana ka.
10:53Ay, gusto ko ba yun?
10:55Kaya nga, nung Nina.
10:56Yung harana ngayon,
10:58iba na, modern, ano na siya.
11:00Sing-along na yun.
11:01Live band.
11:02Band na.
11:03Magkantahan.
11:04Di-jockey na ito.
11:06Alam mo, bakit kami nahihirapan,
11:08I think, to think,
11:09kung ano si Maria Clara.
11:10Kasi, hindi ba, parang,
11:11wala naman libro ni Maria Clara.
11:13Di ba?
11:14The Lives and Times.
11:15Wala naman talaga.
11:16It's just ideal of, you know,
11:18whoever wrote.
11:19Hindi ba?
11:20Sino ba sumulat sa kanya?
11:21So, you know,
11:22the idea of, you know,
11:24that person at that time.
11:26So, you know,
11:27reflections of the persons at that time.
11:29So, yun ang iniisip namin.
11:30Actually, it's not really Maria Clara per se.
11:32Pero kung ano bang iisipin namin
11:34kay Maria Clara,
11:35siguro, you know,
11:37baka it's really more of
11:38a little bit being conservative
11:40as Pinoys.
11:41Dahil yun ang kinagisnan.
11:43Pero to think whether it's tama or not,
11:45that's another whole episode.
11:47O, kasi I think,
11:48pag sabi mo Maria Clara,
11:49it's more the attitude, e.
11:51It's really more the attitude,
11:52like conservative.
11:53Yun ang nga, conservative,
11:54yun na, sa conservative na lang na yun,
11:55buo na yun, e.
11:56Parang, okay,
11:57mahinhin, yung pagbibihin.
11:59Parang wala siyang opinion.
12:01O, parang yung quiet lang siya parate.
12:03O, okay.
12:04Parang we have to.
12:05Submissive nga, di ba, tama?
12:06Kaya kami nahirapan,
12:07dahil di kami tahimik lahat.
12:08Siguro, let's define.
12:09Siguro, let's define ang
12:11ano bang Maria Clara.
12:12Kasi, let's say,
12:13ang definition natin ng Maria Clara,
12:15somebody who is prim and proper,
12:17very shy, timid,
12:18kahit nasasaktan,
12:19hindi magsasalita,
12:20hindi ako Maria Clara.
12:22I can say now,
12:23I am not like that.
12:24Hindi ganoon ang ugali ko.
12:25Kung ganoon nga.
12:26Kung ganoon,
12:27ang definition natin.
12:28But if we say conservative,
12:29conservative,
12:30religyosa,
12:32hindi maghimik,
12:34I have both.
12:35Pwede rin ganoon, di ba?
12:36Pwede.
12:37O, may pagkakonservative ako.
12:38In some ways,
12:39I'm also liberated in some ways.
12:40Walang panghimik noon.
12:41Pero sure ba tayo?
12:42Hindi siya gumimik.
12:44Ano ba ang mga traits ni Maria Clara
12:46sa palagay natin,
12:47hindi natin masyadong dapat
12:48ini-impived na ngayon?
12:49Ayan.
12:50Katulad na sinabi nating submissive siya,
12:53sinabi nating mahinihin,
12:55sinabi nating tahimik.
12:56Sa akin, siguro,
12:57yung hindi siya nagsasalita
12:58kung hindi niya gusto
12:59kung ano yun dapat na,
13:00you know, sabihin niya.
13:01Sa akin,
13:02kung ayaw mo, sabihin mo.
13:03Correct.
13:04That's what I want.
13:05I don't like people to be a victim.
13:06I don't like women to be victims.
13:08Ayan.
13:09Ayaw ako ng gano'n.
13:10Siguro, ano ba,
13:11one thing I don't like about Maria Clara,
13:13yung paiging maritwal niya.
13:15Kasi, di ba, siyempre,
13:16napaka-religyosa ni Maria Clara.
13:18Well, primarily because
13:19tinuruan din siya ng tita niya
13:21ng gano'n name.
13:22At that time kasi, yun yun.
13:23Yes.
13:24Na minsan, parang na-alter na yung,
13:26yung, yung,
13:27halimbawa nagkamari si Maria Clara,
13:29sabihin ng tita niya,
13:30o kailangan mag-pray ka
13:32ng ganitong ganyan,
13:33tapos magsindi ka talaga ng kandila.
13:35Okay.
13:36Lumaki siya.
13:37Siguro yung tita niya.
13:38Okay.
13:39Kita mo, puti nga siya.
13:40Love you.
13:41So yung mga ganyan,
13:42medyo,
13:43may research ba?
13:44So medyo, parang,
13:45nakakalimutan niya yung totoong meaning
13:46ng prayers,
13:47nakakalimutan niya yung totoong meaning
13:48ng communication.
13:49Kasi litanya eh, di ba?
13:50Right.
13:51Yes.
13:52Everything is just a routine.
13:53Correct.
13:54It's true.
13:55It's true.
13:56So, is it safe to say na
13:57men should not look for
13:58Maria Clara qualities anymore in us?
14:00Siguro, half and half.
14:01Or,
14:02half and half pag ako,
14:03lumalabas pa rin yung
14:04pag-ikot salbatibo ninyo.
14:05Alam mo,
14:06gusto niya yun,
14:07hanapin niya.
14:08Kung makahanap siya.
14:10Good luck sa kanya.
14:12Yun naman ang akin, di ba?
14:13Siguro lang, di ba?
14:14Mga tatlo siguro.
14:15Made over Maria Clara.
14:16Ayan.
14:17Di ba yung medyo,
14:18modernized.
14:19Modernized na siya.
14:20New and improved.
14:21Nagpam-improve na siya,
14:22di ba?
14:23After all the information
14:24that we see on TV,
14:25on the net,
14:26pwede pa ba naman tayo
14:27maging gano'n?
14:28Di na nakakayani
14:29ng powers nating mga girls?
14:30Kapag gano'n pa rin tayo,
14:31kawawa naman tayo.
14:33Patay na ba talaga
14:34si Maria Clara
14:35ang makipag-chismisan sa iba?
14:37Patay sakin!
15:00Ayan.
15:01Magsis-challenge tayo.
15:02Dali!
15:03Okay.
15:04Ang question is,
15:06if you had a daughter,
15:09how would you explain
15:10blank-blank?
15:11Okay?
15:12Yung mga topic nandito.
15:13Kung may anak kayong baba.
15:15Of course, medyo madali
15:16for Ms. Olin
15:17tsaka Ms. Lara
15:18dahil meron sila mga daughters.
15:20Okay.
15:23Takot ako!
15:24Ay!
15:25Nagulat naman ako.
15:28If you had a daughter,
15:29how would you explain
15:30virginity,
15:31premarital sex?
15:33Okay.
15:34So how?
15:35You're talking about it?
15:36It's easier said than done talaga.
15:38Ako have a pamangkin already.
15:40She's um,
15:4212 years old.
15:44She had her period already
15:45so lahat kami parang,
15:46ah!
15:48Big deal!
15:49Oo, big deal talaga.
15:50Paano pa kaya?
15:51Tas magdadalaga na siya.
15:52Well, ako siguro,
15:55at a certain age,
15:56slowly,
15:57I will tell her
15:58about it.
15:59And I'm sure naman,
16:00by that time,
16:01How will you tell her
16:02and what will it be?
16:04What will you tell her?
16:05What will you say?
16:07Hirap, no?
16:09Magyarin si Maya may anak mo.
16:11Nak.
16:14Nako ka-babayag agad.
16:15Biglang gano'n na rin.
16:16Hindi,
16:17pag siguro,
16:18ano lang,
16:20yung consequences
16:21na pwedeng mangyari sa kanya
16:23kung gagawin niya yun,
16:24diba?
16:25I think siguro,
16:26lahat ng precautions,
16:28bibigay ko sa kanya.
16:30So, okay.
16:31How was virginity
16:32and premarital sex
16:33explained to you?
16:34It was not actually explained
16:36by my parents
16:37or something,
16:38my mom.
16:40Sa school,
16:41tinuturo,
16:42meron na nun,
16:43konti.
16:44And then,
16:45It's never that clear.
16:46Oo, never that clear.
16:47Siguro,
16:48lagi lang sinasabi
16:49ng mom ko nun,
16:50it's not the time yet,
16:51parang,
16:52masyado ko pang bata.
16:53Asa nagtatanong ka?
16:54Oo.
16:55Tsaka,
16:56usually,
16:57yung mom ko nun,
16:58parang,
16:59she would always
17:00avoid the topic.
17:01Kasi parang,
17:02siguro,
17:03hindi siya gano'n karedy
17:04na parang,
17:05eh,
17:06nag-iisa akong babae,
17:07bunso pa ako.
17:08So, parang,
17:09Actually,
17:10minsan,
17:11talagang parang,
17:12tsaka na lang,
17:13diba?
17:14Parang,
17:15wag muna ngayon.
17:16O,
17:17pa'no,
17:18pa'no,
17:19pa'no.
17:20Sometimes,
17:21I think,
17:22the reason why
17:23they try to avoid it
17:24is because
17:25I have three kids.
17:26Dalawang babae.
17:27I have three.
17:28Isa lalaki.
17:29So,
17:30by age 12,
17:31sasabihin mo pa lang sa kanya
17:32how to correct,
17:33how to wear the correct
17:34napkin.
17:35Yun muna,
17:36eh,
17:37hindi pa naman nagde-date.
17:38So,
17:39hindi ko muna
17:40ipi-preempt,
17:41diba?
17:42Then,
17:43when she starts
17:44meeting boys,
17:45that's why,
17:46step-by-step.
17:47Kasi,
17:48yung pagsuot pa lang
17:49ng proper napkin,
17:50baka hindi niya
17:51maintindihan.
17:52Binarrange mo na
17:54with all the information
17:55sa TV.
17:56Ano kaya?
17:57The leak.
17:58Fake.
17:59Pumuntang kampus.
18:02Okay.
18:04Yes,
18:05you are the daughter.
18:07Pa'no may papaliwarag
18:08sa kanya
18:09ang tukol sa?
18:10Annulment.
18:11Okay.
18:12Taman-tama.
18:14Okay.
18:15Taman-tama,
18:16kanino?
18:18Kanino?
18:19Eh,
18:20kung si Janice
18:21ang anak mo.
18:22Pa'no may explain
18:23sa kanya
18:24ang annulment?
18:25Why all the time,
18:26me?
18:27Love ka talaga,
18:28Janice.
18:29Okay,
18:30kung may anak ako,
18:32explain sa kanya
18:33annulment,
18:34it's,
18:36this is kung
18:37may anak ko.
18:38I don't know,
18:39no?
18:40Kasi sometimes,
18:41it's really easier
18:42said than done.
18:43Dalaga ka pa,
18:44hindi mo paalam
18:45masyadong concept.
18:46Hindi ko paalam,
18:47e.
18:48Kung,
18:49pamangkin,
18:50marami ang pamangkin,
18:51it's different.
18:52Pero siguro,
18:53ang nakikita ko,
18:54hearing it from people
18:56who are married,
18:57who have kids,
18:58I think I'll be honest.
19:00Yung tipong magiging diretso ako.
19:03Annulment,
19:04I'll talk to my kid.
19:05Kung,
19:06like,
19:07kasi my,
19:08when my dad married my mom,
19:09my dad was a widower.
19:12So,
19:14it's different,
19:15no?
19:16Walang annulment na nangyari
19:17kasi my dad could
19:18marry right away.
19:19Pero,
19:20when my parents,
19:21my mom talked to me,
19:22I knew,
19:23I was growing up,
19:25na,
19:26daddy ko yan,
19:27half ko sila.
19:29Pero,
19:30hindi pinaramdam
19:31sa buong family
19:32yung half,
19:33half,
19:34half.
19:35You know what I mean?
19:36Buo pa rin.
19:37Buo pa rin.
19:38Kahit half,
19:39half lang,
19:40kumbaga,
19:41ganun lang.
19:42Yeah,
19:43exactly,
19:44legal terms.
19:45Pero,
19:46hindi.
19:47So,
19:48siguro,
19:49guys,
19:50kunyari,
19:51may anak siya na,
19:52gusto niya na,
19:53think about it.
19:54You know,
19:56it's not easy,
19:57definitely.
19:58What are the consequences?
19:59You have kids,
20:01you have to work hard
20:02for your marriage,
20:04why are you giving up?
20:06Ano ba ito gusto ko?
20:07Okay,
20:08so if you have a daughter,
20:09paano mo ipapaliwanag sa kanya
20:10ang?
20:11Long engagement.
20:13Okay.
20:14Sus Mariose.
20:15Mga dalawang taon,
20:16isan taon,
20:17na-engage.
20:18Para hindi ko na-experience
20:19ang long engagement.
20:22Bigla akong tumalon ka agad.
20:24Well,
20:26well,
20:27actually maganda yung
20:28long engagement,
20:29no?
20:30Mas,
20:31the more na,
20:34matagal yung pagsasama ninyo,
20:35the more na,
20:37magkakaintidyan kayo
20:38at malalaman nyo
20:39yung isa't-isa.
20:40Less say kung anong
20:41ayaw mo sa kanya,
20:42kung anong
20:43ayaw mo sa akin,
20:44diba?
20:45Ganun yun.
20:46So,
20:47okay yan?
20:48Okay sya.
20:49Game na.
20:51Okay.
20:54If you had a daughter,
20:55paano mo ipapaliwanag
20:56sa kanya
20:57ang?
20:58Ang pills and other
20:59birth control methods.
21:00Okay.
21:01Ayan.
21:02Exciting yan.
21:03Just because you're explaining
21:04things to her naman,
21:05doesn't mean you're
21:06taking any side,
21:07diba?
21:08Hindi,
21:09hindi ibig sabihin,
21:10porkay na-explain mo yung
21:11pills,
21:12hindi ibig sabihin,
21:13oh anak,
21:14gumamit ka ng pills
21:15someday,
21:17i-explain mo lang sa kanya
21:18siguro in an informative
21:19and educational way,
21:20just like the way
21:21it's explained in schools.
21:22Best time to explain it?
21:25Yun na nga,
21:26sabi ko nga kanina
21:27sa kanila,
21:28parang siguro,
21:29hindi pa,
21:30kahit yung during the time
21:31na magkaroon sya,
21:32she first gets her period,
21:33parang hindi pa yun
21:34yung time eh.
21:35Siguro when she starts
21:36dating and meeting boys
21:37and finding them cute,
21:38you know,
21:39so I guess it's all
21:40a matter of
21:41bringing them up
21:42in a good way,
21:43na parang nag-encourage
21:44ka ng openness
21:45between you.
21:46So when the time comes,
21:47parang hindi mo na
21:48kailangan ikaw na rin
21:49yung mag-open,
21:50baka she would
21:51come up to you
21:52and ask you.
21:53So yun.
21:54Okay.
21:57Galay!
21:59Miss Ollen has
22:00daughters already.
22:02Pero paano mo
22:03ipapaliwanag ang?
22:04Live in relationship.
22:05Okay.
22:06Okay.
22:07So,
22:08I think, you know,
22:09pag sinabi niya sa akin,
22:10na,
22:11when,
22:12kung kailan sila
22:13serious with
22:14someone,
22:15okay,
22:16and they're
22:17probably
22:18considering it,
22:19I would just
22:20probably give them
22:21what is real
22:22and what is,
22:23you know,
22:24kung ano yung idea
22:25or concept
22:26ng maganda lang.
22:27Okay.
22:28So sa akin,
22:29magiging totoo lang ako
22:30sa explanation ko,
22:31na you can hurt,
22:32you can be happy,
22:33but it can be this
22:34and it can be that.
22:35Because ayoko yung,
22:36you know,
22:37for a time na,
22:38kasi maraming mga taong
22:39lumaki na,
22:40you know,
22:41puro magaganda lang
22:42yung in-explained
22:43or kung ano yung gusto
22:44ng magulang,
22:45yun lang yung in-enforce.
22:46Sa akin is,
22:47I will try and explain
22:48always yung dalawang sides,
22:50yung pros and cons,
22:51and then I will leave
22:52for you to decide
22:53what you want.
22:54Ano ba ito?
22:55Should we wait
22:56for them
22:57to ask us,
22:58or dapat ba
22:59unahan na natin sila?
23:01To explain all of this,
23:02ha?
23:03Right.
23:04Marital sex,
23:05virginity,
23:06live-in,
23:07birth control,
23:08long engagement.
23:09Siguro from time to time,
23:10mas magandang dinidiscuss
23:11kahit paman.
23:12Kaya ako unahan ko na.
23:13Kahit pato,
23:14early age pa,
23:15kahit hindi pa siya
23:16nagkakaroon na period.
23:17It comes instinctively,
23:18e.
23:19Paradigmal.
23:20Alam mo,
23:21ang tawag doon,
23:22timing.
23:23Diba?
23:24May timing yan, e.
23:25Kasi minsan nagkagulat
23:26sila, e.
23:27So kahit pa pano,
23:28magkaroon lang
23:29yung subtlety,
23:30para medyo na-introduce
23:31na sa kanila ng konti,
23:32tapos through time,
23:33they know better about it.
23:34So will,
23:35kailangan,
23:36ano tayo,
23:37aware tayo,
23:38tsaka on the lookout
23:39for signs.
23:40Right.
23:42Of course,
23:43mayroong ibang parents na,
23:44sabi ng mama ko kasi,
23:45ganto ro yan, e.
23:46Sabi niya,
23:47e, hindi,
23:48kasi ganto naman
23:49ang pagkakain.
23:50Diba?
23:51Magkakaroon sila
23:52ng confusion.
23:53So mas maganda yung
23:54sayo rin talaga
23:55manggagaling.
23:56Yung explanation
23:57about these things,
23:58diba?
23:59So kahit pa pano,
24:00konti-konti,
24:01o.
24:02Or baka mami,
24:03ibang interpretation.
24:04Unti-unti.
24:05Para hindi rin naman
24:06siguro mahilo
24:07kung one blow
24:08mo'y bibigyan.
24:09Kaya.
24:10So sa amin,
24:11bawal ang old-fashioned,
24:12magbabalik pa ang sis.
24:37Okay.
24:38Nowadays,
24:39kahit na may woman,
24:40kahit na may asawa siya,
24:41nagtatrabaho siya,
24:42or kahit na may mga anak siya,
24:43nagtatrabaho siya.
24:44Especially,
24:45pag single parent siya.
24:46Okay.
24:47In your opinion,
24:48should a woman
24:49work,
24:50kahit na kaya siya
24:51ang buhayan
24:52ng kanyang asawa?
24:53It's your choice,
24:54talaga.
24:55You're talking about it.
24:56Choice naman yan,
24:57kung medyo nababoard
24:58na siya siguro
24:59sa bahay,
25:00diba?
25:01Kahit pa pano,
25:02pagtrabuhin naman.
25:03Or siguro,
25:04sana meron kayo
25:05yung little business
25:06na pwede mong
25:07pagkakabalahan.
25:08Kaya parang,
25:09diba?
25:10If you look at it,
25:11na imagine mo nga,
25:12magdamag kang nasa bahay
25:13sa linggo,
25:14tas andon ka lang talaga,
25:15wala kang magluluto-luto ka lang.
25:16Medyo nakakaboard
25:17pa rin yan,
25:18diba?
25:19Especially,
25:20kung nasani ka sa lifestyle
25:21na medyo mabilis,
25:22diba?
25:23Katulad natin.
25:24Ika,
25:25would you?
25:26Would you still work?
25:27Ako kasi,
25:28I told myself
25:29na pag kinasal na ako,
25:30pwede na ako magquit.
25:31Parang,
25:32pero,
25:33pahinga ako.
25:34Hindi,
25:35parang,
25:36pero,
25:37pahinga ako.
25:38Hindi na yung ganitong,
25:39diba?
25:40Lagi kang nagt-taping
25:41or nagshooting
25:42or whatever.
25:43Pamilya na lang muna talaga.
25:44Kung merong ano,
25:45mga invitation,
25:46mga ganitong talk show,
25:47bakit ba hindi?
25:48Diba?
25:49Pero,
25:50yung iiwanan mo talaga
25:51yung pamilya mo.
25:52Medyo,
25:53medyo hindi.
25:54My,
25:55my.
25:56Ayoko nun iwanan yung pamilya,
25:57pero,
25:58I'd like to work.
25:59I mean,
26:00even if my husband
26:01can support me.
26:02Kasi,
26:03diba?
26:04Let's say,
26:05kunyari,
26:06bumuli ako ng lipstick
26:07the week before.
26:08Tapos,
26:09the next week,
26:10gusto ko ng bagong lipstick eh.
26:11Pero,
26:12parehong
26:13brown pa rin yun.
26:14Iba lang yung shade.
26:15Makahurt kasi ako.
26:16Eto,
26:17ugali ko to.
26:18Makahurt ako,
26:19kunyari,
26:20i-call yung attention ka na,
26:21oh,
26:22bumuli ka na naman.
26:23Tapos,
26:24kunyari,
26:25well,
26:26hindi ako nagtatrabaho,
26:27so,
26:28pera niya yun.
26:29Diba?
26:30Yung parang ganyan.
26:31Makahurt ako eh.
26:32Eh kung,
26:33if we have our own money,
26:34pangsayo.
26:35Pangsayo.
26:36Kasi,
26:37I don't think naman na
26:38pagiging materialistic
26:39ang ibig sabihin nun.
26:40Hindi naman,
26:41minsan lang may
26:42luho ang mga babayan ko,
26:43hindi,
26:44yun,
26:45simple lang lipstick na
26:46capricha na.
26:47I think we need that eh.
26:48Okay,
26:49tanungin naman natin
26:50ang mga kasama ni Jel.
26:51Ay,
26:52kabayo.
26:53Ay,
26:54naapakan ko yung bata.
26:55Sorry.
26:56Ah,
26:57Anamie.
26:58Si Anamie,
26:5914 years na married.
27:00Okay?
27:01Wow.
27:02Okay na,
27:03mayroon talaga yung
27:04magkatwang ang magasawa.
27:05Especially nowadays,
27:06medyo mahirap ang buhay natin.
27:07Kailangan na,
27:08especially,
27:09ang pag-aaral,
27:10especially yung
27:11pag-aaral ng mga ba,
27:12tuition fee,
27:13tuition fee,
27:14napakataas.
27:15Baon.
27:16Kaya kailangan,
27:17kahit papano,
27:18ang babae,
27:19ang mother,
27:20pwede rin talagang
27:21maghanap buhay,
27:22magkatwang.
27:23Kung maaaralin,
27:24tama.
27:25Para,
27:26magipraktikal na tayo,
27:27diba?
27:28Iba na kasi ngayon
27:29ng panahon,
27:30tama.
27:31For practical reasons,
27:32more is better,
27:33diba?
27:34Para,
27:35happy everybody,
27:36diba?
27:37Correct.
27:38Okay,
27:39sa inyo ba,
27:40do you think,
27:41insulto sa lalaki,
27:42kung,
27:43you're working,
27:44okay?
27:45When you're working,
27:46mas malaki yung kinikita mo,
27:47kesa sa kanya,
27:48compared to him.
27:49I don't think,
27:50gano'n,
27:51I don't think,
27:52maging,
27:53dapat maging,
27:54well,
27:55issue yun sa karamihan
27:56ng mga couples,
27:57diba?
27:58But I don't think
27:59it should be an issue.
28:00Well,
28:01for work entails,
28:02mas malaking earning,
28:03kumpara sa asawa niya,
28:04diba?
28:05Parang gano'n,
28:06so dapat hindi na nila
28:07pinagtatalunan.
28:08Kasi,
28:09yun pa,
28:10aside from that,
28:11mag-asawa naman sila eh.
28:12So parang tulungan,
28:13whatever I earn,
28:14whatever my husband earns,
28:15mukha pasok dun sa family.
28:16Matawa na lang siya for the wife.
28:17Yes.
28:18Happy.
28:19Happy ka lang for the wife.
28:20Tsaka dapat,
28:21that should serve as an inspiration
28:22for him to work harder
28:23and get better earnings.
28:24Okay,
28:25Miss Lara,
28:26supposing,
28:27sa inyong mag-asawa,
28:28anong gagawin mo?
28:29Would you,
28:30sacrifice your job,
28:31para hindi ma-feel insulted yung partner mo?
28:35Or,
28:36explain mo nalang sa kanya?
28:38I explain kasi,
28:39and besides,
28:40walang competition
28:41pag husband and wife
28:42na kayong dalawa eh.
28:43Kapag tulungan kayo eh,
28:44the more na,
28:45mas marami kayong kinikita,
28:47the more na magiging happy kayo,
28:49and then pwede kayo mag-travel,
28:50kung sa'yo gusto,
28:51diba?
28:52Hindi lang yung,
28:53siya lang ang puro trabaho
28:54ng trabaho,
28:55you have to help him also.
28:56Misalim.
28:57Well,
28:58yan yung mga sinasabi niya
28:59na lahat,
29:00everybody's saying,
29:01dapat,
29:02diba?
29:03But in reality,
29:04naku,
29:05ang damay dyan ayaw.
29:06Totoo naman,
29:07mga lalaki,
29:08they really feel,
29:09some of them really feel insecure.
29:10Sana nalang kung makakita kayo
29:11ng asawa or partner na
29:12who's very comfortable
29:13with themselves,
29:14that they wouldn't really mind,
29:15you know?
29:16Pero,
29:17ang realidad dyan,
29:18maraming naiinis,
29:19maraming naiinsecure,
29:20kasi dapat feeling nila
29:21they should provide,
29:22and all of that,
29:23so,
29:24ganun yun.
29:25Talagang maraming nagkakagulo
29:26dahil din dyan.
29:27Ay,
29:28so,
29:29yun yung usual
29:30na ginagamit na reason,
29:31baka yung mga bata,
29:32hindi na maalagaan mo sya.
29:33O,
29:34yung rason nila yun,
29:35kasi nga,
29:36hindi nga nila kaya.
29:37Ano ba?
29:38Yaka.
29:39Mama,
29:40okay,
29:41jelly.
29:42Nanat si Aling Lloyda.
29:43Naku,
29:44parang kilala ko to
29:45si Aling Lloyda.
29:46Nakakansulto po
29:47sa mga kalalaki yan,
29:48dahil po,
29:49masasaktan po
29:50ang kanilang ego.
29:51Yan.
29:52Masasaktan ang kanilang ego.
29:53Ang pride ng lalaki,
29:54parang tinapakan mo,
29:55dahil,
29:57mas malaki ang sweldo mo
29:58kesa sakay niya.
29:59Actually,
30:00it is a reality.
30:01I am not saying,
30:02tama yun,
30:03I am not saying in general,
30:04but I am saying,
30:05some,
30:06di ba?
30:07Which is really some.
30:08Hindi mo maaali
30:09sa machismo
30:10ng lalaki yun,
30:11eh,
30:12because,
30:13ganun ang kinagisnan.
30:14Because that is our culture
30:15and that is what dictates.
30:16So,
30:17tama yun,
30:18tama si Robin yun,
30:19nakakainsulto yun,
30:20and marami talaga nakaka-feel
30:21yun.
30:22Hindi man nila tanggapin,
30:23openly,
30:24hurt sila.
30:25So,
30:26umpisa,
30:27okay,
30:28okay,
30:29tas eventually,
30:30medyo,
30:31di ba?
30:32Nagbamanifest
30:33ang kanilang,
30:34ano,
30:35protest.
30:36Correct.
30:37Actually,
30:38kung minsan kasi,
30:39they belong to the same
30:40company pa,
30:41di ba?
30:42Yung parang ganun.
30:43So,
30:44di ba?
30:45Pag narealize mo,
30:46boss yung asawa ko,
30:47tapos ako.
30:48You report to the wife?
30:49Ako.
30:50Medyo.
30:51Sa kanila,
30:52insulto yun,
30:53kasi ilulukulukuin sila.
30:55Let's not be ruled by society,
30:56di ba?
30:57Because we can,
30:58eh,
30:59naku,
31:00parang naman,
31:01yes.
31:02Eh,
31:03makalalaki naman na
31:04nakitakan,
31:05tsawon sa ganyan eh.
31:06Okay,
31:07sa issue pa rin ng career,
31:08ano ba ang tamang order
31:09ng mga sumusunod?
31:10A,
31:11opinion ni mister,
31:12B,
31:13needs of the family,
31:14financial needs of the family,
31:15or C,
31:16yung gusto mo?
31:19Okay.
31:20Ako?
31:21Ako muna,
31:22sige,
31:23siguro,
31:24number one,
31:25alam mo,
31:26baka tawagin nyo akong selfish,
31:27pero,
31:28um,
31:29I've always believed na,
31:30I will always consider first
31:31kung ano yung gusto ko,
31:32then I will think
31:33if it's also good for my family,
31:35then I will ask my husband.
31:37So,
31:38pag nagwo-weigh ka ng things,
31:39ganun,
31:40ganun ang tingin.
31:41Or,
31:42I will like,
31:43really find out,
31:44kung di ako makadesign,
31:45I will ask my husband,
31:46and then I will always consider
31:47if it's good for my family.
31:48I will not even consider it
31:49kung hindi maganda sa pamilya ko.
31:50Definitely.
31:51Pagka nag-fail na sa pangalawa,
31:52o,
31:53pagka hindi naman talaga sya good for my family,
31:54I will not even consider.
31:55Yun na yun.
31:56Ako naman,
31:57siguro,
31:58first,
31:59I will respect my husband,
32:00syempre.
32:01Opinyon nya yun.
32:02Kung baga sya yung,
32:03ah,
32:04ang tawag doon,
32:05head of the family.
32:06Pero,
32:07second,
32:08syempre,
32:09yung sarili ko rin.
32:10Kung makakatulong din ako,
32:11why not?
32:12Okay.
32:13Now,
32:14supposing,
32:15yung opportunity nyon,
32:16okay,
32:17ngayon ha,
32:18given your three,
32:19ano,
32:20yung tatlong,
32:21binigay mo yung order,
32:22what if the work needed,
32:23is magu-work ka abroad?
32:24Oh,
32:25okay.
32:26Let's say,
32:27you belong to a family,
32:28na talagang nasa,
32:29medyo mahirap talaga,
32:30really hard up,
32:31okay?
32:32And,
32:33their only other option,
32:34if you like to work,
32:35to help,
32:36eh,
32:37magpunta sa ibang mansa,
32:38mag-overseas worker.
32:39Nako,
32:40maraming ganyan sitwasyon sa mga tao ngayon,
32:41and I know a lot of people has been doing a lot of sacrifices,
32:42really,
32:43to provide for the needs of the family.
32:44So,
32:45I will not consider.
32:46Okay.
32:47Okay.
32:48Okay.
32:49Okay.
32:50Okay.
32:51Okay.
32:52Okay.
32:53Okay.
32:54Okay.
32:55Okay.
32:56Okay.
32:57Okay.
32:58Okay.
32:59Okay.
33:00Okay.
33:01Okay.
33:02Okay.
33:03Okay.
33:04Okay.
33:05Okay.
33:06Okay.
33:07Okay.
33:08Okay.
33:09Okay.
33:10Okay.
33:11Okay.
33:12Okay.
33:13Okay.
33:14Okay.
33:15Okay.
33:16Okay.
33:17Okay.
33:18Okay.
33:19Okay.
33:20Okay.
33:21Okay.
33:22Okay.
33:23Okay.
33:24Okay.
33:25Okay.
33:26Okay.
33:27Okay.
33:28Okay.
33:29Okay.
33:30Okay.
33:31Okay.
33:32Okay.
33:33Okay.
33:34Okay.
33:35Okay.
33:36Okay.
33:37Okay.
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40:37Self-expression, meaning to say, body piercing.
40:38Just to give you an example.
40:39Because my daughter has body piercing.
40:40So, when I saw that on Chan, I said, I have a feeling that you have one.
40:41No, when I saw it on Dila, I would say, so, you have one on Chan.
40:42I'm just assuming, okay?
40:43So, mommy, you have one.
40:44Okay.
40:45So, I said, isn't it painful?
40:46That's what I asked.
40:47So, look.
40:48It's painful.
40:49It's painful.
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40:55It's painful.
40:56It's painful.
40:57It's painful.
40:58It's painful.
40:59It's painful.
41:00It's painful.
41:01I keep on going like that.
41:02So, hey, that's self-expression.
41:03Okay?
41:04But I say, you know, you just better be careful where you do that.
41:05How you do that.
41:06And, you know, I feel.
41:07It needs to be clean, okay?
41:08Because I don't want you to go to me and do that.
41:09Okay?
41:10You know what I'm saying?
41:11Yes, yes.
41:12You see, you have one.
41:13Yes, I saw one.
41:14Because when she was talking, I saw this thing.
41:15Someone was flashing a metal.
41:16I said, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
41:17I said that.
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