Samahan ang veteran actresses na sina Tiya Pusit, Flora Gasser, at iba pa dahil paguusapan nila hindi lang ang pagkawala ng period nila, kundi pati na rin ang libido nila!
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00:00We walk hand-in-hand, we dream together We giggle and laugh like kids forever
00:11We're two different people, but we're having fun
00:15We talk about anything under the sun We are sisters, we are friends
00:22We've got magic that never ends
00:26I got you, sis, you got me
00:30The best of friends we'll always, always be
00:38We always have fun being together You know me the best, we're friends forever
00:45Through good times and bad, I'm here for you, sis
00:49Right by your side, hit or miss
00:52We are sisters, we are friends We've got magic that never ends
01:00I got you, sis, you got me
01:04The best of friends, the best of friends The best of friends we'll always, always be
01:12We are sisters, we are sisters
01:16Good morning, everybody. Good morning, sis.
01:24Good morning.
01:26You know the song by Ray Valera, Kahit Maputinan Ang Buhok Ko?
01:30Of course, it's like you're saying,
01:32Are you pregnant?
01:34Exactly, when I'm old.
01:36When you're old, when you get married,
01:38you'll have a lot of problems.
01:42You'll have a lot of problems,
01:44but a lot of changes will happen in life.
01:46Especially in the body, everything is going south.
01:48Yes.
01:50Of course, they say,
01:52love is when you're young,
01:56when you're old,
01:58it's just companionship.
02:00Is that so?
02:02That's what they say, of course, I do not know that yet.
02:04It's like, later on,
02:06the passion will fizzle out,
02:10then it's all companionship.
02:12Just tell stories.
02:16You're reminiscing about the past,
02:18about younger days.
02:20Is that so?
02:22Of course, this is the biggest issue.
02:24I mean, let's admit it.
02:26Of course, we're all wondering, we're thinking.
02:28Even if you're married,
02:30it's like, hey, we're excited.
02:32Of course, when you're married, you have sex.
02:34Yes.
02:36Why when you're old, you don't have sex anymore?
02:38As active, or
02:40especially when you're a girl,
02:42you go through menopause.
02:44Excitement, and different endurance, I guess.
02:46Different endurance.
02:48Is there an alternative to sex
02:50when you're already going through menopause?
02:52And what is it?
02:54Is your desire or
02:56your libido still the same?
02:58Yes.
03:00Right? That's what we know.
03:02You?
03:04You and Ariel, of course, you're still young.
03:06Later on?
03:08We'll find a way.
03:12You'll find a way?
03:14I'll find a way.
03:16I'm just saying that now.
03:18But I'll find a way. I'm sure by then,
03:20a lot of people have invented science.
03:22To help?
03:24To help. Right now, there's a lot, right?
03:26Yes, there's Viagra.
03:28So, you never know.
03:30In the future, a lot more things will happen.
03:32Brother, did you know that they say
03:34in the works, Viagra is for the male, right?
03:36Now, in the works,
03:38Viagra is for women.
03:40Actually, there are people who use Viagra
03:42for females.
03:44And it works for some people.
03:46It works for some people.
03:48But, of course, since it's not really made for women,
03:50a lot of people are reacting.
03:52So, it's not affecting the skin now?
03:54Before, it was just for the skin, right?
03:56The skin is to strengthen the nipples.
03:58The Viagra...
04:00It strengthens something else.
04:02Three to four years ago,
04:04she felt that her nipples were getting lower.
04:06Especially,
04:08when she felt the drive.
04:10Is this the drive of a car?
04:12She's now 69 years old.
04:14Now, let's welcome
04:16Berting Labra.
04:22She's 38 to 40 years old
04:24when she found out that she's already
04:26in the menopausal stage.
04:28She said that she's like a lizard,
04:30she's irritable, and so on.
04:32When she has an urge,
04:34and she can't do it,
04:36she just blows air.
04:38Flora Gasser.
04:40Hello.
04:42Is this an electric fan?
04:44She's blowing air outside.
04:46She's 66 years old.
04:48It's been five years
04:50since she lost her drive.
04:52She says that she misses some activities.
04:54She has an idea that men
04:56also have menopause.
04:58She still has a desire for women.
05:00Let's welcome Rod Navarro.
05:04Thank you very much.
05:06Do I have a mic?
05:08Yes, you do.
05:10I'll just add one thing.
05:12Nipples strengthen two hoods.
05:14Yes.
05:16Nipples strengthen one hood.
05:22Okay.
05:24We explained it well, right?
05:26In 1994,
05:28she experienced menopause.
05:30She said that sometimes,
05:32she can feel the drive.
05:34Chapucit.
05:36Good morning.
05:38I just look virginal,
05:40but I have menopause.
05:42That's why we have a clip of Chapucit.
05:44Okay.
05:46She's 69 years old, but her drive is still strong.
05:48She feels that she's always
05:50young at heart.
05:52She's always active.
05:54Don Pepot.
05:56Good morning.
05:58That's what I feel.
06:00No matter who I meet
06:02who's the same age as me,
06:04I feel that I'm
06:06younger than them.
06:08Because,
06:10I don't know,
06:12all the activities of young ones
06:14are what's on my mind.
06:16Let's find out what it is later.
06:18Right?
06:20Yes.
06:22We also have
06:24Janice, right?
06:26Yes.
06:28We also have our resource person for today.
06:30Professor and consultant
06:32on human behavior,
06:34Ms. Gigi Salandanan.
06:36Hello.
06:38Hello.
06:40Welcome to CIS.
06:42Okay, Angel.
06:44Mister and sisters,
06:46especially those who are at the peak of their age,
06:48if you didn't watch this,
06:50you wouldn't know what to do
06:52if you're already at your peak.
06:54CIS will be back.
07:20Yes.
07:22Did they notice
07:24all of a sudden?
07:26Did they feel and know
07:28that this is it?
07:30The afternoon delight is over.
07:34How did you feel
07:36when you felt menopause?
07:38Did you actually know that this is menopause?
07:40Let's start with the women
07:42because menopause is more obvious
07:44to women than to men.
07:46Tita Flora,
07:48I was late
07:50for my menstruation.
07:52I was late for my menopause.
07:54Menopause.
07:56I felt so bad.
07:58I thought I was going to pee
08:00but there was nothing inside.
08:02Did you know that it was menopause
08:04or you had to consult a doctor?
08:06You had to go to a doctor.
08:08I went to a doctor
08:10because I couldn't understand
08:12what was happening to me.
08:14How did you feel?
08:16I was looking for menopause
08:18but I couldn't find it.
08:20It was in Cebu.
08:22What did you do?
08:24I went to the bathroom
08:26because it was hard.
08:28I was bothered
08:30by the variety of emotions.
08:32It's like
08:34whatever you think
08:36you want to grab it.
08:38You want to grab it.
08:40Yes.
08:42This is about anything.
08:44Yes, ma'am.
08:46Let's say you want to eat this.
08:48It's like you're really peeing.
08:50It's like that feeling.
08:52Yes, ma'am.
08:54What about you, Chapucit?
08:56For me,
08:58I had profuse bleeding
09:00for 12 days.
09:02Why?
09:04I don't know why.
09:06It was bleeding.
09:08When I went to the doctor,
09:10I had a DNC.
09:12It was done by RASPA.
09:14After RASPA,
09:16I was scared.
09:18They did a biopsy.
09:20Maybe it was malignant or whatever.
09:22There was no mercy from God.
09:24That was the start
09:26of my menopause.
09:28It was a strong bleeding.
09:30After that, it was gone.
09:32Finished.
09:34He gave it all away.
09:36In short, he gave it all away.
09:38How about for men?
09:40I've never heard
09:42that men experience menopause.
09:46Earlier, Uncle Rod said
09:48that he really believed
09:50that men experience menopause.
09:52Why?
09:54Did you feel it?
09:56Yes and no.
10:00Actually,
10:02seriously,
10:04menopause
10:06is a gift from God.
10:08It's a gift from God.
10:10Like it or not.
10:12It's nature.
10:14We need to talk about it.
10:16It's a big deal.
10:18Especially now,
10:20the two men next to me
10:22have menopause.
10:24The five men in front of me
10:26have menopause.
10:28Fifteen percent of our audience
10:30have menopause.
10:32It's not just menopause here.
10:34It's all of you.
10:36Especially those with menopause.
10:38So that population control,
10:40family planning, etc.
10:42will not be affected.
10:44Think about it.
10:46If this were to happen
10:48now,
10:50before this,
10:52his son would be dead.
10:54That's your question to me.
10:56Well, I feel it.
10:58Just like my fellow men feel
11:00when we're together.
11:02It's not
11:04natural that it's gone.
11:06No, no.
11:08In a car,
11:10you need an additive
11:12to
11:14stimulate.
11:16So it has something to do with stamina.
11:18Your strength,
11:20the things you can do 20 years ago
11:22are no longer the things
11:24you can do today.
11:26Because you're no longer a spring chicken,
11:28my darling.
11:30It's the same with married couples.
11:32If you're married and old,
11:34it's the same.
11:36Before, you're the one who's in pain.
11:38Now, he's the one who's in pain.
11:40It's like that.
11:42When I felt that,
11:44maybe 3 or 4 years ago,
11:46the so-called
11:48body heat.
11:50But for me,
11:52I didn't know menopause.
11:54I didn't know menopause.
11:56But what I know
11:58is that it's also in practice.
12:00If it's in practice,
12:02maybe...
12:04Let's ask Don Pepo.
12:06I think it's in practice.
12:08No, for me,
12:10honestly,
12:12there's no plastic.
12:14I really don't feel anything
12:16about what we're talking about.
12:18Nothing?
12:20Nothing.
12:22As long as I'm active.
12:24I really feel
12:26like I'm young once.
12:28So, when it comes to that,
12:30if it's necessary,
12:32I'm there.
12:34He's always
12:36lying.
12:38No, because
12:40you wonder if what really
12:42disappears is the physical capabilities
12:44or is it from inside, the desire itself,
12:46the libido itself.
12:48The power is reduced.
12:50That's what menopause is.
12:52That's what menopause is.
12:54The body is not physically able to...
12:56Yes.
12:58Do you remember Bob Hope many years ago?
13:00He also clarified this program.
13:02Larry King.
13:04He said,
13:06Thy mouth should not promise
13:08what thy legs cannot fulfill.
13:12Let's ask our expert, sis.
13:14What are the
13:16symptoms of menopause?
13:18There are several
13:20symptoms of menopause, but before I answer
13:22that, let me just clarify
13:24what menopause really is.
13:26Yes, please.
13:28Menopause is the absence of menstruation.
13:30Okay.
13:32You don't have menstruation.
13:34You don't menstruate for months.
13:36For women, it's obvious.
13:38But for men, they don't menstruate.
13:40Menopause
13:42would come at the age
13:44that you are living
13:46the episode of your life
13:48when you're still young.
13:50You're already facing an episode
13:52when you're old.
13:54It's like what they say, over the hill.
13:56Yes.
13:58During that period,
14:00there's also a biological change.
14:02There's also a change in the human body
14:04whether it's male or female.
14:06For women, it's obvious
14:08because they don't have menstruation.
14:10Plus, there are changes in their body
14:12that brings her very irritable.
14:14She lacks
14:16hormones, the secretion of her body
14:18that gives birth.
14:20What hormones does a female lack?
14:22Estrogen.
14:24For now, there are therapies
14:26but you need an advice
14:28of a doctor before you do that.
14:30On the other hand, for men,
14:32since they're already at that age,
14:34just the same
14:36as the women, they also have
14:38biological changes.
14:40Of course, they're getting older,
14:42their body is getting weaker,
14:44all those things.
14:46There's what's called menopausal syndrome.
14:48Those are the signals.
14:50What do you feel?
14:52Exactly. For women, there are hot flashes.
14:54Depression.
14:56Yes, depression.
14:58That's why I get depressed
15:00because I'm old, my face is swollen.
15:02Those are the physiological changes.
15:04Yes.
15:06As for emotions, you're already worried.
15:08You are not as pretty as before.
15:10Your children are growing.
15:12Your husband is
15:14looking at other girls.
15:16So, you already have
15:18emotional anxiety.
15:20Physically,
15:22the hot flashes you mentioned earlier,
15:24that's biological.
15:26You can feel it
15:28when you're getting older.
15:30Thank you very much.
15:32What's a good substitute
15:34for warm hugs?
15:36Let's talk about
15:38contra-menopausal syndrome.
15:46We are sisters.
15:50Always be.
15:52We are sisters.
15:54We are sisters.
15:56We are sisters.
15:58We are sisters.
16:00The men,
16:02while they're getting older,
16:04they say they're getting better at discarding.
16:06As for the women, they're losing their energy
16:08because maybe
16:10we're the ones who are suffering
16:12because we're losing a lot of energy
16:14So, what would you do
16:16if you really can't
16:18anymore?
16:20Let's say, for your partner,
16:22or you can't attend
16:24the flag ceremony anymore?
16:28That's a good one, boss.
16:30Let's answer
16:32with a simple and decent answer.
16:34You know,
16:36for men,
16:38of course, you're looking for something new.
16:40You're looking for the heart of
16:42a Chinese sedan.
16:46And you don't want the heart to move.
16:48It's like you're standing still.
16:50When you see
16:52a Pasig River,
16:54it's like you're crossing three lanes.
16:56That's not right.
16:58Because the heart of
17:00our mothers
17:02and your husbands,
17:04those are the medals
17:06of greatness,
17:08of being true to yourself.
17:10That's where your children
17:12come from.
17:16I have a friend there.
17:18Now,
17:20he's my neighbor.
17:22The other day,
17:24he was called
17:26Charlie.
17:28One shot
17:30Charlie.
17:36Now, his name has changed.
17:38What's his name now?
17:40Let's call him Boy Papa.
17:42Boy Papa.
17:44How do you explain to your partner
17:46that it has changed?
17:48Of course, the cycle,
17:50you don't have menstruation anymore.
17:52Because not all men
17:54really understand that.
17:56They don't really understand that.
17:58How do you explain that?
18:00How do you explain to your partners
18:02that it has changed?
18:04The other day,
18:06I had a relationship.
18:08Now, it's gone.
18:10He doesn't understand.
18:14He doesn't understand
18:16why I'm refusing.
18:18It's like
18:20a little bit of love, a little bit of affection.
18:22I don't want it.
18:24I don't want it.
18:26Because I feel like
18:28I'm not capable anymore.
18:30I can't do it anymore.
18:32Why can't you do it?
18:34Why can't you do it?
18:36You're still strong. You're still young.
18:38That's not true.
18:40Our neighbor lied to us.
18:42That's not true.
18:44You can do it.
18:46We're passengers. They're the drivers.
18:48It's up to the driver.
18:50That's beautiful.
18:52That's true.
18:54You know, he's a passenger
18:56but he's a policeman.
18:58He's using a badge
19:00so there's no pay here.
19:02I can't explain it.
19:04My head is getting hot.
19:08It's irritating.
19:10Yes, it's irritating.
19:12What about you, Don Pepot?
19:14Oh, it's hard to say.
19:16It's confusing.
19:18What about you? Are you still okay?
19:20What if your partner
19:22refuses you?
19:24It's like you can't do it.
19:26No.
19:28For example, if you're chewing corn
19:30you'll have to kick it
19:32so it'll get hard.
19:34Oh, so you'll help.
19:36Yes, we'll help.
19:40Isn't there a song called
19:42Help Me Make It Through The Night?
19:44You know the two songs, right?
19:46Especially you.
19:48Your wife is a singer. She's a good singer.
19:50Isn't that right?
19:52Pepot is like that.
19:54Help me make it through the night.
19:56That's why he goes to a massage clinic.
19:58To be honest,
20:00when a husband and wife
20:02meet,
20:04that's the time
20:06when the husband and wife go shopping.
20:08Because sometimes,
20:10I'm not in the mood,
20:12I have a lot of things to do tomorrow.
20:14When that happens to them,
20:16they look for someone else.
20:18That's why
20:20a lot of men and women
20:22go shopping.
20:24Let's face it.
20:26When you go shopping, just remind him
20:28before he leaves the house,
20:30be a good rancher.
20:32Buy only a kilo of meat
20:34but don't bring home the cow.
20:36That's all.
20:38They need to have chainsaw oil.
20:40Like that.
20:42For you, it's really chainsaw oil.
20:44Because your pistons are weak.
20:48What about
20:50when women look for
20:52men
20:54and men
20:56lose their libido,
20:58what if your partner looks for you?
21:00Berting, can you do that?
21:02For men,
21:04be understanding.
21:06Because honestly,
21:08if you can't fulfill your obligation,
21:10what can you do?
21:12It's easy.
21:14What I mean is, the woman should endure.
21:16I'm not a constituent.
21:18Just be a sport.
21:20That's what will happen.
21:22That's what will happen.
21:24I said, okay, darling.
21:26Teach me.
21:28That's just a question.
21:30What can we do?
21:32Can you stop that woman?
21:34There's someone else
21:36who wants to ask you.
21:38Beth Carmona.
21:40Beth, what do you want to ask?
21:42How can I explain
21:44to my husband that
21:46I don't have a sexual drive anymore?
21:48You're still young.
21:50Is that your body?
21:52Go ahead.
21:54Let's ask the expert.
21:56How can a woman
21:58explain to a man
22:00that I'm sorry,
22:02but
22:04I don't want to anymore.
22:06I don't have the desire.
22:08How should that be done?
22:10You know, it is very hurting
22:12and very
22:14embarrassing to hear
22:16that your partner
22:18has no desire.
22:20Sometimes,
22:22you don't need to say a word.
22:24That's what a partner feels.
22:26However,
22:28you can be very eloquent.
22:30You can say,
22:32sweetheart,
22:34I'm
22:36not feeling well.
22:38But as much as possible,
22:40I hope that the partner
22:42doesn't make
22:44his partner feel that he has no desire.
22:46Because having no desire
22:48is a sign of losing love.
22:50It is losing passion.
22:52Because if
22:54the love is burning,
22:56there will always be passion,
22:58especially in sexual act.
23:00That's what I was wondering.
23:02In menopause,
23:04it is the absence of your period.
23:06Yes.
23:08What is missing?
23:10The desire or libido?
23:12Or the
23:14ability to
23:16perform?
23:18Most often, it is the same.
23:20The libido is gone,
23:22which is the urge.
23:24And the desire
23:26is also gone.
23:28Would you say that
23:30when a woman reaches the menopausal stage,
23:34both
23:36husband and wife should be
23:38counseled on menopause
23:40so that both of them will understand?
23:42Yes. Because many people,
23:44especially those who are not very much aware
23:46of this process in life,
23:48need to accept
23:50that this is what is happening in a person's life.
23:52Because if you don't
23:54accept that, you will be wondering.
23:56You will ask questions.
23:58Why is that?
24:00He has no appetite for sex.
24:02So it means that he doesn't lubricate
24:04the woman.
24:06But there are
24:08other ways that you can lubricate yourself.
24:10Of course.
24:12As you said earlier, science has so many
24:14discoveries.
24:16With the estrogen therapy, does that help?
24:18Yes.
24:20There are seminars that are
24:22now being conducted, especially for
24:24menopausal women, about
24:26therapy on this.
24:28It will help somehow
24:32to lessen this thing.
24:34Okay.
24:36We talked about searching.
24:38It depends on different alternatives
24:40like Viagra.
24:42Or you will avoid thinking that
24:44you can't do it anymore.
24:46Don't move
24:48because you will miss the secret
24:50of being a good girl
24:52when Z! returns.
25:10Will the heat of
25:12the past come back?
25:14Or will you just let it go and accept
25:16that the horse is tired?
25:18No.
25:20No.
25:22It's not true.
25:24If you use Viagra,
25:26you might lose.
25:28Because it's for
25:30building a one-hood.
25:32Okay. Let's go to
25:34the lifestyle change.
25:36Like they say,
25:38when you're older,
25:40you're the only one who enjoys
25:42long walks.
25:44You're the only one who talks,
25:46you're the only one who walks,
25:48picnics, etc.
25:50Uncle Berting?
25:52I think if you talk for a long time,
25:54nothing will happen.
25:56When the time comes
25:58that you should play
26:00or you know,
26:02you have to do it.
26:04If you just talk,
26:06nothing will happen.
26:08Like what Flora said,
26:10when you're in a car,
26:12it's like a recap.
26:14That's why you have to run.
26:16Chainsaw.
26:18In short,
26:20you have to practice.
26:22That's it.
26:24You have to practice.
26:26So that you don't get confused.
26:28You will get confused if you don't practice.
26:30And if you just talk,
26:32nothing will happen.
26:34When the time comes
26:36that you really have to do it,
26:38I don't know if I'm right or wrong.
26:40If you're like this,
26:42just talk.
26:44You're crazy.
26:46I'm just kidding.
26:48It's okay.
26:50Men are really like that.
26:52We have to accept this.
26:54This is a brutal truth.
26:56The Lord God,
26:58I told you again,
27:00He knows when we're too much
27:02and when we're too little.
27:04He knows when we should be reduced
27:06to your women.
27:08That's why,
27:10when you reach 45 years of age,
27:12it's your chance
27:14to give birth to a baby.
27:16The baby is pitiful.
27:18You won't be able to take care of it.
27:20It's easy to say you'll miss it
27:22because it's good for 3, 4, 5, 6 years.
27:24But now, the baby is only 6 years old.
27:26You already have a grandchild.
27:28As for the father,
27:30it doesn't matter if the father is gone,
27:32as long as the mother is there.
27:34The mother is important.
27:36That's why we're in a hurry.
27:38That's all.
27:40Janice,
27:42this is Monk Bert.
27:44Ask him.
27:46In his practice,
27:48he has a 2-month-old baby.
27:50He has a 2-month-old baby.
27:52You know,
27:54if there's an old man here,
27:56you'll be scolded.
27:58Miriam is angry
28:00with old men like you.
28:02That's why I'm saying this.
28:04Your son is 2 months old.
28:06Your son is 2 months old.
28:08This is a gossip.
28:10This is a gossip.
28:12I don't know what to say.
28:14If there's an alarm bell,
28:16I'll ring it.
28:18Wait.
28:20Wait.
28:22We said that
28:24our lifestyles are different.
28:26Is it possible
28:28to have no sex in a married life?
28:30Let's ask the most active one,
28:32Don Pepot.
28:34What?
28:36Continue.
28:38I can't say anything
28:40because I feel different
28:42from them.
28:44Don Pepot, where are you from?
28:46I'm not there yet.
28:48Okay, pass.
28:50In short, pass.
28:52That's what we're talking about.
28:54I feel like I'm always
28:56active when it comes to that.
28:58Why do you think?
29:00I don't know.
29:02I can't understand.
29:04That's why I can't answer
29:06what they're talking about.
29:08You're ugly.
29:10You know,
29:12our lifestyles are different.
29:14We have more lies
29:16in this world.
29:18This is the brutal truth.
29:20Sex, when you remove it,
29:22just like
29:24what Peregrina said
29:26when she died, do you remember?
29:28Eddie Peregrina.
29:30What am I living for?
29:32If not for you.
29:34That's it.
29:36When it's gone,
29:38you're like a weapon.
29:40In Bularet,
29:42there are 74 axes
29:44used on you.
29:46You remove the weapon.
29:48When it's gone.
29:50Can you do it when it's totally gone?
29:52Chapucit.
29:54Here we go again.
29:56In my case, I can do it.
29:58I can't do anything.
30:00I don't have a partner.
30:02You can't do anything.
30:04I can't just
30:06go to the street and pay.
30:08Actually,
30:10it's very different for men and for women.
30:12I don't know
30:14if it's part of our
30:16physiological makeup.
30:18Definitely, it's different
30:20for men and women.
30:22For women, there's a possibility
30:24that if there's a change,
30:26it's still okay.
30:28As long as the love, the affection
30:30is still there.
30:32But for men, sex is a very
30:34integral part of their lives.
30:36That's right.
30:38If you'll notice, in the basic needs of women
30:40and basic needs of men,
30:42for women, number one would be love.
30:44For men, number one would be sex.
30:46Yes, that's true.
30:48I approve of that, ma'am.
30:50Really?
30:52So here,
30:54would you be willing to go through therapy
30:56so that, let's say,
30:58if that really happens to you,
31:00what if there are ways
31:02to
31:04fix that problem?
31:06Let's say, you have Viagra or therapy.
31:08Are you willing
31:10to go through that?
31:12I'm okay with that.
31:14It's okay if there's no sex.
31:16Because when you're old,
31:18there's no sex.
31:20If you're in a coma,
31:22you'll learn later.
31:24What if it's your partner?
31:26What if it's your partner?
31:28That's right.
31:30What if he likes her?
31:32I'm okay with no sex.
31:34Even if we're next to each other,
31:36it's okay.
31:38It's okay.
31:40It's okay.
31:42What about you, Mr. Bertin?
31:44For me, it's okay
31:46if your partner still likes you.
31:48What if your partner still likes you?
31:50Now, I think
31:52if you're this old,
31:54it's impossible.
31:56I think if you're this old,
31:58you should be quiet.
32:00No.
32:02But if you're young,
32:04you can't say no.
32:06It's an obligation.
32:08You can't do it.
32:10You have to think of a way.
32:12But you have to
32:14not let it go.
32:16Don't let the fire go.
32:18It's up to you.
32:20But show your love.
32:22But as a man,
32:24would you be willing to take...
32:26I'm testing you.
32:32Would you be willing to take
32:34viagra?
32:36I think
32:38that's not true.
32:40It's like you're forcing him.
32:42Why? Aren't you tired of
32:44breastfeeding?
32:46If you're still going to use it.
32:48That's why they sometimes say,
32:50why do husbands
32:52think like that?
32:54Maybe he's not tired of breastfeeding.
32:56That's what he's been eating since then.
32:58But if you're eating different things,
33:00I don't think you can find
33:02someone this old.
33:04I don't believe in that.
33:06In viagra?
33:08For me, no.
33:10I know it's a medicine.
33:12It's not natural.
33:14Would you be willing to take that?
33:16Well, for me, therapy is okay.
33:18But then, you know,
33:20these things are educational.
33:22Here, let's face it,
33:24we have a lot of massage clinics.
33:26All kinds of roots
33:28will hit you.
33:30You know that.
33:32But you would not
33:34so you're not willing to take viagra?
33:36Or you're willing to die?
33:38Viagra? I don't take viagra.
33:40It's bad. It's dangerous.
33:42It's in the heart.
33:44The ecstasy,
33:46it's like you're walking on the floor.
33:48But this viagra,
33:50it will make you stand
33:52on your naked butt.
33:54But it doesn't mean
33:56that your butt is naked.
33:58It's not like that.
34:00That's not viagra.
34:02But Dr. Pepot,
34:04you said that you're still active.
34:06But what if the time comes
34:08that you're not active anymore?
34:10Are you still willing to take viagra?
34:12No, I don't want to.
34:14It's natural.
34:16Because I'm afraid of medicines,
34:18tablets,
34:20because it might affect my health.
34:22So what I feel
34:24now,
34:26at my age,
34:28it's like Rayuma.
34:30My strength is reduced.
34:34Let's ask our expert
34:36about those alternatives.
34:40I don't think I can answer that
34:42because the answers of our guests are so good.
34:44Thank you, Gigi.
34:46She's a professor at Ateneo.
34:48Maybe you don't know.
34:50Okay.
34:52In terms of alternatives,
34:54in terms of sex performance,
34:56our discussion is focused on that.
34:58Because in menopause,
35:00our number one idea
35:02is that we lose our sex appetite.
35:08If we think that you're sexy,
35:10you're beautiful,
35:12and you're strong.
35:14So it's still mind over matter.
35:16Of course.
35:18If you love your partner,
35:20go ahead.
35:22Don't hesitate.
35:24Don't hesitate.
35:26Don't think that you're old.
35:28That's why Don Pepot's answer,
35:30that he didn't understand what we're saying,
35:32because the heart doesn't really age.
35:34It's just the body.
35:36It's just the body.
35:38But I mean, I can ask the audience.
35:40Don Pepot is English.
35:42I'll explain it to him later.
35:44You can ask anybody here
35:46who's already in the menopause stage.
35:48But the feeling is really,
35:50he's still young.
35:52The feeling is still the same.
35:54Am I correct?
35:56Yes.
35:58Very, very much.
36:00Thou shalt not postpone your desire.
36:02Don't postpone it.
36:04If you want it, do it now.
36:06What if you don't have a partner?
36:08Then don't do it.
36:10You'll get sick.
36:12You'll get a mental case.
36:14When we come back,
36:16let's see what their views are
36:18on things that they can do
36:20and what their advice is
36:22if they can't do it anymore.
36:24Sis, don't leave.
36:46Menopause Sis Challenge
36:48Menopause Sis Challenge
36:50So even if you're already in menopause,
36:52there's still Sis Challenge.
36:54Let's start our Sis Challenge.
36:56One.
36:58I'll pick one here
37:00and you'll tell me
37:02what's the first thing that comes to your mind
37:04when you hear this.
37:06Okay?
37:08The first thing that comes to your mind
37:10is not the second or the third
37:12but the first.
37:14Be honest. Go!
37:16I can't.
37:2050th wedding anniversary honeymoon.
37:26Ah.
37:2850th wedding anniversary honeymoon.
37:30I can.
37:32If I still get a room.
37:34I think I can.
37:36I really can.
37:38Where will you go?
37:40You can go on a good time
37:42and eat at a restaurant
37:44So that you can stay away from children, so that there's no disturbance.
37:48It's possible.
37:49It's possible.
37:50It's possible.
37:51Next, for Tita Flora.
37:52Tita Flora.
37:57Fantasy at your age, even if it's not sex.
38:01Oh, there's a lot.
38:03Winning the lottery.
38:06That's also my fantasy.
38:08I think everyone has a fantasy like that.
38:11Tito Rod.
38:15Sex counselor.
38:18Oh, I'm good at that.
38:20Oh, you're the counselor.
38:22I'm good at that.
38:23I used to be a counselor.
38:25But I didn't get the counselor who fixed my problem, so I don't want that anymore.
38:32Next, Chapusit.
38:34Black bikini.
38:38That's what I usually wear during the day.
38:42Reminiscing.
38:44Don Pepot.
38:47Calabit sa madaling araw.
38:52Eh, pagka umi-aeral yung ano, talagang makangalabit ka.
38:59Basta may naramdaman ka, kalabitin mo na.
39:02Okay, now we go to our Sis Challenge 2.
39:06Sagutin niyo lang po itong mga tanong ni Sis.
39:08Okay.
39:09Kay Don Pepot muna.
39:10Pipili lang kayo, dalawa to, pipili lang kayo ng isa.
39:14Gagamitin mo pa ba o pagpapahingahin mo na?
39:19Eh, pagka kinakailangan gamitin, kinakailangan pumwede siya.
39:24Kinakailangan pumwede siya.
39:27Demand, upon demand.
39:29Sino pa ang gustong sumagot dyan sa tanong na yan ni Sis?
39:32Gagamitin pa ba o pagpapahingahin na?
39:35Walang pahinga yan.
39:36Pagpapahinga yan.
39:44Kung may magkagusto sa'yo, mas bata pa, anong sasabihin mo sa kanya kung may napause ka na?
39:52Try natin.
39:54Try and try until you die.
39:59Tito Rod, sa'yo to, naku.
40:02Ano ang iyong sikreto para maging maayos ang pagsasama, lalo na kung wala ng sex?
40:09Maging matapat ka.
40:11Galang mo yung kanyang karapatan.
40:14At manalangin ka na igagalang din yung karapatan mo.
40:18Sapagat love begets love.
40:20Without which,
40:22trust, yes, but love is necessary.
40:25Without love, trust is nothing.
40:28Period.
40:31Tita Flora, kanino dapat humingi ng tulong pag kinakailangan na?
40:37Eh, siyempre sa katunggalin mo na, please naman.
40:40Oh, please naman.
40:46Patayuin mo naman.
40:50Diyos ko!
40:54Tito Berting, hindi na kaya ni partner, paano ka magpipigil?
40:59Naku, mahirap yang magpigil talaga.
41:02Baka magkasakit ka.
41:04Kailangan talaga ilabas mo.
41:06Bahala ka na kung saan mo gustong ilabas.
41:10Lagyan ng eyes.
41:13Din sa sinabi ni Tito Berting, masama nga daw yung pinipigil.
41:17Is that true?
41:19Is that true?
41:20Yung sex?
41:21Yes.
41:22The urge.
41:23Yung urge.
41:24Yung urge.
41:26No, the urge in itself.
41:27Sabi nila kasi it has psychological effects.
41:32Yeah, meron din.
41:34Pero kasi kailangan minsan rin pinipigil.
41:38Kasi baka yung paglalabas mo, hindi pala maganda.
41:42I mean, it is not with your real partner.
41:45And once these things happen, merong mga kadoktong, merong mga kaakibat na problema yang nadarating.
41:51So once in a while, you have to control also yourself, especially so in sex.
41:57Because sex can bring so much trouble in life, especially to those married people.
42:02So it is also very important that you have to control yourself many times to avoid problems in the future.
42:11So would you say na meron pong nakakaproblema talaga sa sex pagdating ng age of menopause?
42:18Aye.
42:19Yan ba ang primary problem?
42:22Hindi naman lahat sa sex eh.
42:24Eh, companionship yung sinasabi mo.
42:26Eh, mga hipo-hipo dyan, tama na yun.
42:29Hindi naman sa lahat ganyan eh.
42:33Alam mo, pinakamagandang kombinasyon dyan na dinadakila natin.
42:37Eto na naman ako, baka maging pare ako bukas makalawa eh.
42:42Si Mother Teresa, hindi nakaranas na maramdaman ang menopause.
42:49Sapatkat natabunan ito ng kanyang paglilingkod all over the world.
42:53Galarito, galaron, galarito, galaron.
42:57Samantalang si Lady Diane, natakot magmenopause.
43:01Kaya sa kandungan ng isang makasalanan, nalagutan ng hininga.
43:06Period.
43:08Siya po, sit.
43:10Ang lalim yun.
43:11Oo.
43:12Hindi ba totoo?
43:14Totoo o hindi?
43:15Kayo?
43:16Ako ba'y nagsisinungaling?
43:18Bibigyan ko sa inyo yung bayad ko kung ako'y nagsisinungaling.
43:21It's focusing your energy on what is good.
43:25Siya po, sit.
43:27Ano po?
43:29Ano pa yung tanong natin?
43:30Ilimutak mo rin.
43:32Yung problema sa, yun ba talagang menopause,
43:36nagdadala ng problema patating sa sex?
43:40Apo.
43:42Ang tagal na gising.
43:46Bata pa yung isang.
43:48Hindi, hindi magugustuhan ng kapartner.
43:52Kayo don, Pepot.
43:53Ano?
43:58Muro komedyan itong kinuha ninyo.
44:00Kayo may kasalanan?
44:01Kaya naman.
44:02Diyos ko po.
44:04Nagbibigay po ba ng problema,
44:06ang menopause, when it comes to sex?
44:09Oo, malaking bagay yung ano,
44:11pagka talagang wala nang magagawa at wala nang silbi.
44:16Talagang kono-ano may isip mong paraan,
44:20nahandoong baka meron,
44:24marami naman paraan pagkain, hindi po pwede.
44:27Ayaw na magbibigay ng eksampo.
44:30Talagang gano'n, minsan talaga yung,
44:32ang iniisip mong agad yung mapahiya ka, di ba?
44:35Lalo kung meron kang sex partner,
44:37ay mapahiya ka, baka gawin kang parang basahan.
44:42Alam ba yung basahan kung ano?
44:43Yung parang ganito,
44:45papasok ka na lang sa basahan, gano'n,
44:47na wala kang kabuhay-buhay.
44:48Nakakahiya.
44:50Kaya kumisan, nakakaroon din yung effects sa ano,
44:52yung psychological,
44:54dahil baka mapahiya ka, gano'n.
44:57Kaya nakailangan condition kang firme.
45:01How about for our expert?
45:04Well, ang masasabi ko lang sa menopausal stage is,
45:07hindi lang yun sa pagtigil ng sexual performance,
45:12but it is also companionship,
45:14it is love for your family, for your partner.
45:17It is also conjugal property, conjugal ownership.
45:23It also speaks about your service to other people.
45:29Mapapatch yan yung mga hindi na natin nagawa dati,
45:34ngayon gusto natin gawin pero hindi na pupwede,
45:36mapapatch yan sa iba nating activities,
45:38like you go out together,
45:41you now have the time to smell the flower.
45:45You now have the time to travel.
45:48You now have the time to talk with one another.
45:50And let me tell you, ladies and gentlemen,
45:52ang mga nasa stage ng ganito,
45:54nagdadalawang isip na rin eh.
45:57They always want to be good with their partners,
45:59dahil baka kulang na ang panahon,
46:02magkasala pa sila,
46:03tapos wala ng pagkakataong magbago.
46:05So that's all that I can say. Thank you.
46:08Thank you very much.
46:09Thank you very much for being honest.
46:13Honest and so candid.
46:15So generous and candid.
46:17Thank you po. Thank you also.
46:18Thank you also.
46:19For helping us out.
46:20Naku matapos namin marinig lahat,
46:22ano naman kayaan comment natin dyan?
46:25Lalo na sa aming dalawang magsis.
46:28Kami naman ang magtatanungang dalawa.
46:30Pagbalik namin.
46:31Naku lagot ka sa akin.
46:44Congratulations Rod, Angelo, and Sean.
46:46Ikaw ang napiling Baby of the Week dito sa
46:48ang cute mo, baby ko.
46:49Nanalo ka ng 2,000 pesos.
46:51You may claim your prize at Sis Production Office,
46:538th Floor, GMA Network Center,
46:55at sa corner team magdiliman keson city.
47:11Sis would like to thank
47:12Bambi Fuentes, Salon de Manila,
47:15Chloe for Genisa's Eyewear,
47:17for Narina Vision for Jelly's Eyewear,
47:19F&H, Wayless Center, Optical Works,
47:23Play and Display, Balut Creations,
47:26Zed Zest, JBL Furniture,
47:29Luxaflex by Hunter Douglas for our vertical blinds,
47:32Grand Flora, The Barnyard,
47:35Wade Shoes, Janeline Shoes,
47:37Cal Computer School, 59 Blomen,
47:40and Union Square.
47:43Okay, sige.
47:45Anong lagot ka sis?
47:47O ano?
47:49O kita mo?
47:51Okay, Jelly.
47:52Hindi naman natin may iwasan
47:54na tatanda kayo ni Ariel.
47:58So, i-re-recommend mo ba
48:00if ever na siya may mag-Viagra?
48:05Given na hindi pa ako nag-memeno po.
48:07Diba?
48:08Well, just in case.
48:10Eto lang yan.
48:11Parang feeling ko parang
48:14kung gusto niya
48:15at okay pa ako,
48:17bakit naman hindi?
48:18Lalo na by that time,
48:20I'm sure alam na alam na nila
48:22ang side effect,
48:23kung ano ba talaga ang purpose.
48:25Mas napag-aralan na.
48:26Mas napag-aralan
48:27o baka mayroon pang mas maganda pa
48:29aside from Viagra.
48:31Ke babae, ke lalaki,
48:33I would be willing to try.
48:34Especially if I know that my husband
48:38still wants.
48:40Atsaka, syempre ma'am,
48:41alam mo naman na
48:42obligasyon mo pa rin yan sa asawa mo eh.
48:44Vice versa, I'm sure for him.
48:46Parang pag,
48:47kung alam mo kailangan pa niya yun,
48:49you will find ways to give it to him.
48:51Nagawa ko ng paraan
48:52na maibigay ko pa para sa kanya yun.
48:54E ikaw,
48:55kung sakasakaling
48:58magkaroon ka ulit ng partner in life,
49:00would you do the same thing?
49:03Ang hirap sagutin.
49:05Ang hirap sagutin,
49:06sinabi ko nga kanina
49:07kung binabasa ko,
49:08parang ang hirap ata sagutin.
49:09Siguro, I would do the same.
49:11Parang ikaw,
49:12kung andon pa rin yung need for both of you
49:14and if it's necessary,
49:15oo, why not?
49:16Of course,
49:17mas masarap sana
49:18kung hindi kakailanganin ng gamot.
49:20Pero syempre,
49:21di mo naman kontrolado
49:22ang physical maturity.
49:24Exactly.
49:25Pero kung kinakailangan,
49:27I guess, oo.
49:29Oo naman.
49:31Pero alam mo,
49:32inisip ko nga, sis,
49:33I think,
49:34totoo ay sinasabi ni Tito Rod
49:35that this is also partly a gift from God.
49:37Why?
49:38Because I believe that
49:41menopause is also a test of love
49:43for each other.
49:45Because, yun nga,
49:48will we enjoy the finer things in life?
49:50Hindi pa ba yun na test for the past how many years?
49:52Hindi ba kaya nga tayo tumatanda?
49:54Di ba?
49:55Bakit di naman,
49:56hindi na lang tayo maging
49:57forever beautiful,
49:58forever young,
49:59hindi,
50:00tumatanda tayo
50:01para malaman natin
50:02kung talagang mamahalin pa tayo
50:04pag pangit na tayo.
50:05Pag medyo puti-puti ng hair na,
50:06kulupot na tayo.
50:07Are you speaking from experience?
50:08Ha?
50:09Hindi naman,
50:10kasi ganoon talaga.
50:11Sa physical attributes?
50:12Yung kapag,
50:13doon mo malalaman kung talagang
50:14mahalin ka pala ng
50:15Oo.
50:16Kung nag-iba na ang
50:17physical attributes mo.
50:18I mean,
50:19yun na natin,
50:20the first attraction to a person
50:21is physical.
50:22Correct.
50:23Di ba?
50:24Tapos pangalawa na,
50:25secondary yung love,
50:26and later on.
50:27Eba,
50:28pwede doon sa lugar na yun.
50:29Exactly.
50:30Sa sexual part.
50:31Di ba?
50:32So,
50:33will you say faithful?
50:34So, kwento.
50:35Doon na,
50:36mau-uwiyon.
50:37Di ba yung ano,
50:38yun nga yung sinasabi nila na,
50:39it's your time to smell the flowers.
50:41It's your time to have long walks,
50:43to travel together,
50:44to talk more together.
50:46So it is,
50:47tama nga yung sinamin dito,
50:48Rod.
50:49Kung ganoon,
50:50it is really a gift.
50:51It's really a gift.
50:52But if you can find ways
50:53to help yourselves,
50:54why not?
50:55Yes.
50:56Di ba?
50:57Kung hindi,
50:58di,
50:59tama nga.
51:00E di,
51:01ano na lang,
51:02kwento na lang tayo.
51:03Oo, ganoon na nga.
51:04Kwento,
51:05kwento ng kwento,
51:06wala namang wenta.
51:07Okay.
51:08O, dali na,
51:09kwento tayo ng kwento dito.
51:10Dali,
51:11goodbye and thank you.
51:12See you again.
51:13Bye.
51:14We walk hand in hand,
51:15we dream together.
51:17We giggle and laugh
51:19like kids forever.
51:21We're two different people,
51:23but we're having fun.
51:25We talk about anything
51:27under the sun.
51:29We are sisters,
51:30we are friends.
51:32We've got magic
51:34that never ends.
51:36I got you sis,
51:38you got me.
51:40The best of friends
51:42will always,
51:44always be.
51:48We always have fun
51:50being together.
51:52You know me,
51:53the best were friends forever.