Ano ang mga isyu ng babae at lalaki sa isa’t isa? | SiS (Stream Together)
Ano kaya ang mga ugali na kinaiinisan ng boys at girls sa opposite sex? Alamin ang saloobin nina Mon Confiado, Rita Avila, at iba pang mga artista rito sa video!
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00:00We walk hand in hand, we dream together. We giggle and laugh like kids forever.
00:12We're two different people, but we're having fun. We talk about anything under the sun.
00:19We are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
00:27I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends we'll always, always be.
00:39We always have fun, being together. You know me the best, we're friends forever.
00:47Through good times and bad, I'm here for you sis. Right by your side, hit or miss.
00:54We are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
01:01I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends, the best of friends.
01:09The best of friends we'll always, always be. We are sisters, we are sisters.
01:24It's beautiful.
01:28It's different, right? Look at us today.
01:30It's different because it's the second day of our Valentine's week special.
01:37Is it over?
01:39Yes, tomorrow we're going to Arcadia.
01:42We're going to a different place for our Valentine's celebration.
01:47Hurry up.
01:48Sis, what are we going to talk about today? Of course, Valentine's.
01:52Of course, what else? There's no end to love.
01:55There's no end to the issue of men and women.
01:58Of course, when it comes to love, there's an issue, there's Valentine's, there's someone in love, there's someone fighting.
02:03Let's not talk about fighting.
02:05Why are you fighting?
02:06Because they say that men and women are different.
02:11Obviously, they're different.
02:13They have different opinions on each other.
02:15So that's what we're going to talk about today.
02:17It's going to be a long discussion.
02:19It's going to be full of opinions.
02:21What else?
02:22It's going to be full of arguments.
02:25There.
02:26We're going to learn about those things.
02:28Yes.
02:29And we're going to get used to women and men.
02:32Let's see who's going to win.
02:34Is there anyone who's going to win?
02:36Stay tuned.
02:37We'll be back here in...
02:39Sis!
02:42We can be text mates now, sis.
02:45It's time for the Valentine's season.
02:47We are opening our text lines.
02:49Send a Valentine's greeting to your loved one.
02:52To mother, father, brother, or sister.
02:55Or text a love message to someone you love.
02:58Whether he knows you or not.
03:00Anything.
03:01As long as there's a connection between love and being loved.
03:04It's exciting, right?
03:05Using your cell phone, type in the message window...
03:08I write, space, sis, space, and your message.
03:12For Globe subscribers, send to 2344.
03:16And for smart users, send to 4627.
03:20This is your chance to let him know how you feel.
03:24Join STAY's Love Text.
03:27Text now, sis.
03:28Hurry!
03:43Okay, let's discuss.
03:45Practicality.
03:46The man is cool.
03:48The woman is too detailed.
03:50Is that true?
03:51The woman has to choose her clothes for a long time.
03:55She's afraid of window shopping.
03:57She can't buy anything.
03:59As for the man, of course.
04:01As long as I know my size, we're done talking.
04:04If I buy what I want, let's go home.
04:07Okay, let's heat up the situation.
04:10Okay, let's heat up the situation.
04:12Go, Jelly!
04:13Let's start this debate.
04:15Let's not play around.
04:18Let's start.
04:19Stella Ruiz!
04:20Hello.
04:21Good morning.
04:22Hi.
04:23You know what I don't like about men?
04:25Lying.
04:27Oh, that's deep.
04:29Next, Smoky Manolotto!
04:33I don't understand women.
04:36It's hard for them to understand.
04:39Oh, that's safe.
04:41Next, Stella Ruiz.
04:43That's safe.
04:46Mai Mai Davao!
04:48I don't like men lying.
04:51I hate that.
04:52Next.
04:53We all hate that.
04:57Next, Nino Alejandro.
05:00Okay, I don't like women who have bad intentions.
05:07For all of a sudden, for the smallest reason,
05:11it's like a volcano, it will explode for no reason.
05:14It's like you don't understand.
05:16That's deep.
05:18It's like an experience series.
05:20Rita Avila!
05:22I don't like men who have bad intentions.
05:27And who don't have a good mind.
05:30Personally.
05:33Juan Confiado!
05:35For me, I'm really busy.
05:39I'm really busy.
05:41I have a problem but I don't want to say it.
05:43I don't want to say what the problem is.
05:46He's hiding something.
05:48I hope I can say it.
05:50I don't want to say it.
05:51Are you ready?
05:52Are we ready to debate today?
05:54Let's go.
05:55This is a debate, right?
05:57Who is the pool of men and women?
06:00Of course, men.
06:02Women.
06:03Okay, why?
06:05Why men?
06:06Smokey.
06:08Ask her.
06:10Why are you making it a safe bet?
06:12You know, this is a safe bet.
06:14Ask her.
06:15No, it's not like that.
06:16It's like there's too much artiness in the body.
06:20Can you go home, Juan?
06:21That's what you want from us.
06:23We're arty.
06:24But don't overreact.
06:25Because sometimes, for example, in the car,
06:28you're retouching.
06:29It's like...
06:31Sometimes, especially if...
06:34You've been fixing your house for two hours.
06:36When it comes to the car, you're still retouching.
06:38When it comes to your house, you go to the bathroom.
06:42And you fix it so that you don't feel insecure about yourself.
06:45Why are you making it a safe bet?
06:47Maybe he doesn't enjoy your company.
06:50He doesn't enjoy your company, that's why.
06:53That's insecure.
06:54No.
06:56You don't trust yourself.
06:58What about men?
07:00Men don't go to the bathroom.
07:03They don't...
07:04Hey, hey!
07:06Hey, hey!
07:07You're in there, Ate.
07:09Ate Janice, she's in there.
07:10Yes.
07:11No, men are...
07:13Like what I said earlier,
07:15they pretend to be like that.
07:17But at home, or if the woman doesn't look good,
07:20they fix it.
07:21Don't pretend that you're not fixing it
07:23because you're fixing it.
07:24I've had a date before
07:26where he was a super CR.
07:28He was always in the CR.
07:29That's good.
07:30He was discovered.
07:32He was a super CR.
07:34Did you check if he ate properly?
07:36Yes.
07:37Maybe he's a panis.
07:38Yes.
07:39Wait, wait, wait.
07:41Women, when it comes to gimmicks,
07:42they don't join right away.
07:44You need to have a plan before you join.
07:47That's right.
07:48You need to explain everything.
07:50Where you're going.
07:51It's like you're always getting raped.
07:53No, Ash.
07:54We need to have a plan.
07:56We need to know where we're going.
08:00We need to know if we're wearing the right attire
08:03where we're going,
08:04or the time.
08:05Yes, and of course,
08:06we'll say goodbye to our parents
08:08when they ask us,
08:09where will you go?
08:10It's more exciting.
08:11I'll say goodbye to them.
08:13I'll say goodbye to them.
08:14I have to know the plan.
08:16I have to tell,
08:17Dad, I'm going to be here.
08:18Mom, I'm going to be here.
08:19If you need to call me,
08:20I'll be in the cell.
08:21Sometimes, it's more exciting
08:22if you don't have a plan.
08:23Let's go.
08:24We'll go there.
08:25It's more exciting.
08:26I hope we'll just be men.
08:28That's why we're girls.
08:29You're a snooker.
08:31Why are you saying that?
08:33I'm saying what I want to say.
08:36That's what I want to say.
08:37He's a quiet type.
08:38He's a snooker.
08:39He's like a girl.
08:40You were loud earlier.
08:42He's in love with girls.
08:44No, he's a guy.
08:45This is the only thing
08:46that I don't understand about girls.
08:48When they go out,
08:49right?
08:50There's a chaperone.
08:52Look at him.
08:53He's going to say,
08:54I'm leaving.
08:55I'm leaving.
08:56He's going to say,
08:57but you know,
08:58that's how we are.
08:59We need a partner
09:00so that we can relate.
09:01Sometimes,
09:02it's finicky.
09:03You don't know.
09:04For example,
09:05you're going here.
09:06No, let's not go there.
09:07I'll think of something else.
09:08Let's go here.
09:09I thought you wanted
09:10to spur the moment.
09:12That's right.
09:13You changed your mind.
09:14You should be game.
09:15You're not game.
09:16We're okay with spur.
09:17Why?
09:21It's like we're just comics
09:22that we don't like.
09:24Do you like that?
09:25Also,
09:26you're okay with that.
09:27No.
09:28But it's not the same.
09:29No.
09:30What I'm saying is,
09:31you're always thinking
09:32of new things.
09:33Sometimes,
09:34you're here in a place
09:35that you don't like.
09:36So,
09:37for a guy,
09:38to please the girl,
09:39he should enjoy it.
09:41That's right.
09:42It's irritating.
09:43It's irritating.
09:44Also,
09:45why should a guy
09:46be free
09:47when he's on a date?
09:48Is that how it should be?
09:49No.
09:50Of course, it's a date.
09:51Of course.
09:52Then,
09:54you should just get a guy
09:55that you like.
09:56Right?
09:57So, you're game.
09:58Right?
09:59It's irritating.
10:00It's not the money.
10:02That's not the issue.
10:03It's not the money.
10:04But,
10:06your initiative
10:07to go out
10:08and get to know people.
10:09What's wrong with that?
10:10You want to get to know people.
10:11That's right.
10:12This is it.
10:13This is it.
10:14Now,
10:15let's talk about
10:16the deeper
10:18issues
10:19that men and women
10:20have to deal with.
10:22Women are from Venus
10:24and men are from Mars.
10:25It's different.
10:26It's different.
10:27It's different.
10:28It's different.
10:29It's different.
10:30It's different.
10:31It's different.
10:32So,
10:33when it comes to guys,
10:34when it comes to
10:36women,
10:37in a relationship,
10:38how should they communicate?
10:39What can you say about that?
10:41Stella,
10:42me?
10:43Well,
10:45for me,
10:46I've experienced
10:47guys who are
10:48very talkative.
10:49That's how it is.
10:50You made plans
10:51for the weekend.
10:52For example,
10:53you're going out.
10:54When it comes to that,
10:55you're like,
10:56let's do something else.
10:57That's how guys are.
10:58No,
10:59women are like that.
11:00Women are like that.
11:01Really?
11:02Women are like that.
11:03You're here.
11:05It's too generalized.
11:07The statements are too small.
11:10Sometimes,
11:11we don't understand.
11:12That's how it is.
11:13Do you really like it?
11:14Sometimes,
11:15it's too short.
11:16Guys,
11:17our mentality
11:18must go with the flow.
11:20Because,
11:21at the time
11:22when we invite,
11:23maybe that's our trip.
11:25When the time comes,
11:26I'm not saying
11:27that it's correct every time
11:28that guys do this.
11:29But usually,
11:30it could be on the day.
11:32You have a different trip.
11:33Do it.
11:34That's okay.
11:35Just say it.
11:37Right there and then,
11:38the plan will be different.
11:39Like what Rita said,
11:40so that we'll know what to wear.
11:41Right?
11:42That's how simple it is.
11:43If it's just a plan,
11:44my God,
11:45it's just a plan.
11:46How do you look at the heart?
11:47At what you're feeling?
11:48That's the problem.
11:49Sometimes,
11:50the women
11:51are too accepting.
11:52It's like I'm too…
11:54It's like you're hurt.
11:55No,
11:56it's like the courtesans
11:57are too accepting.
11:59It's like they're too…
12:00Why not?
12:02No.
12:03Right?
12:04Especially if you're single,
12:05you don't have a boyfriend,
12:06we're not made.
12:08No,
12:09it's like you already have someone you like.
12:10You haven't answered yet.
12:11It's like
12:12you're just accepting
12:13the courtesan
12:14so that you have a lot of choices.
12:15That's what we're missing.
12:17We really like you.
12:19At least,
12:20we're straightforward.
12:21That's why you're not saying
12:22that you'll go out with him.
12:23No,
12:24not really.
12:25You're the one who doesn't have a girlfriend.
12:26You're the one who's always…
12:27That's the point.
12:28That's the point.
12:29That's why you're still going out.
12:30No,
12:31it's different.
12:32He already has a wife.
12:33He's just chasing.
12:34He's just chasing.
12:35Is that so?
12:36He's just chasing.
12:37He's just smoking.
12:38He's just smoking.
12:39You're right.
12:43That's what's difficult
12:44with women.
12:45Even if they already have someone they like,
12:47they're still accepting
12:48the courtesan.
12:49Maybe,
12:50guys are like that too.
12:51You're already married
12:52and you're still chasing girls.
12:53Why would a guy chase a girl?
12:54There's a reason.
12:55Maybe,
12:56he's just chasing.
12:57Of course,
12:58he's just chasing.
12:59Maybe,
13:00he's just chasing.
13:01Maybe,
13:02he's just chasing.
13:03Maybe,
13:04he's just chasing.
13:05Maybe,
13:06he's just chasing.
13:07Maybe,
13:08there's a reason.
13:09You're committed.
13:10You should stick to your commitment.
13:11Maybe,
13:12the whole girl is clinging to him.
13:14Tell him to talk to him.
13:16It happens to him sometimes.
13:17Tell him to shampoo his hair.
13:20Applying shampoo
13:21is 위rz I think.
13:22Okay.
13:23I'll say
13:24shampoo his hair.
13:27share conditioner.
13:28What he's saying
13:30is like that,
13:31if it comes to loyalty,
13:33I believe in women
13:34who can prove
13:35that they're loyal
13:36to their guys.
13:37If the guy is really loyal,
13:39he's straight and he won't cheat on you.
13:41How about you?
13:42Because sometimes, there are women who really make mistakes.
13:45Sometimes, you just can't accept it.
13:46Of course, you can't accept it because...
13:48Because you're not saying it.
13:49Yes.
13:50And the girls are trusty.
13:52We trust each other.
13:53I shouldn't be here.
13:54No.
13:55The girls are the ones who are quick to trust.
13:57Yes.
13:58So if the trust is broken,
13:59you're so devastated.
14:00In other words, out of all of you,
14:02and you're the one who was chosen,
14:03you should take care of the choice of the woman.
14:07Because you like her too.
14:08You were saying earlier that there are many choices for women.
14:11Why don't you just choose one?
14:13Why don't you respect that and take care of the choice?
14:17Why, Maimai?
14:18Because she wasn't beautiful before.
14:20When she got married,
14:22she had children that she didn't take care of.
14:24Why? Because the woman is all out.
14:26The man is secretive.
14:28The woman is all out.
14:30The man is secretive.
14:31Oh, my.
14:32What is that?
14:33On the return of Sis.
15:01Text.
15:02Text now, Sis.
15:03Hurry.
15:20That's what we were saying earlier.
15:21The woman is all out.
15:23The man is secretive.
15:25The woman is all out.
15:26All the details that she did for the day,
15:29all the secrets,
15:31she kept it to herself and shared it with the man.
15:33The man,
15:34remember,
15:35is that how it is?
15:37The comments are selfish,
15:39the opinions are selfish,
15:41the stories,
15:42he doesn't want to share.
15:43How is this?
15:44Because you should admit what happened in the past.
15:48How many boyfriends you had,
15:50how many…
15:51What?
15:52Be honest.
15:53Of course, we should know the background because…
15:57Let's say,
15:58we're interested in how many girls you brought to bed.
16:01Because he's a man.
16:02Yes.
16:03He's a man.
16:04He's a man.
16:05He's a man.
16:06Be honest.
16:07You're asking us how many boyfriends we had.
16:10It's like you're asking how many guys we brought to bed.
16:12Right.
16:13Yes.
16:14Anybody who were in the year 2000,
16:17that's when you gave it to us.
16:18Huh?
16:19Huh?
16:20I was already in 2002.
16:21I'm still in the Philippines.
16:25What's your problem?
16:26What's your problem?
16:27You don't know?
16:28No.
16:29You know what?
16:30Clueless.
16:31Clueless.
16:32It's not that men are bad,
16:34it's just that men are not easy to deal with.
16:36Women are more talkative.
16:37Excuse me.
16:38Of course she is.
16:39You're here, Nino.
16:40Nino, are you here, Nino?
16:42I'm just listening.
16:43Share your opinion.
16:45It's true.
16:46Women are more talkative.
16:47Women say more.
16:49Men are more on their own.
16:51They say more when you need to say something.
16:53Is it?
16:54No.
16:55We're just apprehensive.
16:56We'll say something when something needs to be said.
16:59Yes.
17:00You're apprehensive.
17:01Yes.
17:02Women are like a sign of love.
17:05We share with you what happened to us for the day.
17:08So it's okay for you to say,
17:09Hey, honey, how are you?
17:11Yes.
17:12You don't want to.
17:13You don't want to.
17:14No.
17:15When you hear that from a woman,
17:16it's wrong.
17:17Even in text, right?
17:21Even in text,
17:23it's easier for men to text.
17:25Sometimes, it's just two or three words.
17:27One letter is okay.
17:28Okay.
17:30For them, it means that we're not gentle or expressive.
17:36Women are already suspicious.
17:37Right?
17:38Because it's not a novel that we texted.
17:41It's hard for women.
17:43Women are already suspicious.
17:45They're already thinking.
17:47Women are not suspicious.
17:50If there's history,
17:51if there's history,
17:52is it like that?
17:53No.
17:54It's because it's retained in women's minds
17:56that men are very polygamous.
17:59Right?
18:00Right?
18:01No.
18:02What?
18:03We're in the new millennium.
18:04What?
18:05We're in the…
18:06Ouch!
18:07We're in the…
18:08Hello?
18:09Hello?
18:10Hello?
18:11Hello?
18:12We're in the new millennium.
18:14We always thought that all men are playful.
18:18Not all.
18:19We're just like Mon.
18:21Here, here, here.
18:23Women, when they have a boyfriend,
18:26most of them,
18:27so that you don't have to say too much,
18:30most women, when they have a boyfriend or a husband,
18:34they don't stare too much.
18:36They don't flirt.
18:38Why do men do that?
18:40Because of all the flirts.
18:42Right?
18:43All of them.
18:44All of them flirt.
18:46I'm not one of them.
18:48But when it comes to flirting,
18:50especially when you're together,
18:52you have a boyfriend or a girlfriend,
18:54whatever situation it is,
18:56what do you call it?
18:57Men don't flirt.
18:59He's still the spokesman for your partnership.
19:04So it's still up to him to be PR,
19:06especially at work, anything like that.
19:09PR is different.
19:11Come on, come on.
19:12You two go ahead.
19:13I know that Stellar has an agency.
19:15That's why they say that girls flirt when they're entertained.
19:19At least we're entertained when we don't have a boyfriend.
19:24If you're committed, we're committed.
19:27And you, while you're committed.
19:29No, that's not it.
19:31Hello, we're in the year 2000.
19:33There's a girl coming up to you.
19:35You say, no, there's a girl flirting.
19:37No, that's true.
19:39We will agree.
19:41But not so much.
19:43They don't have a meaning.
19:45Some just want to be friends.
19:47We're talking about relationships.
19:49That's what we're talking about.
19:51It's not that it's annoying to men.
19:54Yes, it's annoying to us.
19:56No, look at that.
19:58What you're saying is that only men flirt.
20:02Even if we have a relationship, even if we have a wife.
20:05No, it's women.
20:06It's true.
20:07It's true.
20:08It's double standards.
20:09And if you have sex, your eyes won't get bigger.
20:13It's just appreciated.
20:15It's appreciated.
20:16But even if you're with your girlfriend, she'll look at you.
20:19It's disgusting.
20:20Okay, you're irritated.
20:21No, okay.
20:22For example, we became boyfriends.
20:24If there's a pretty girl, I'll say, wow, that guy is pretty.
20:26Yes.
20:27That's bad.
20:28You want that.
20:29You want that.
20:30That's it.
20:31That's it.
20:32We're done talking.
20:33We're done talking.
20:34Okay, I'll take another point.
20:37For some reason, the single guys, I noticed,
20:41when you're single, you don't notice the girls that you like.
20:46Usually, you text them, you call them, you don't notice them.
20:49But when other girls know that you're committed,
20:53all of a sudden, you're a magnet to other girls.
20:56They're the ones approaching you.
20:58You've been hanging around with the wrong crowd.
21:02No, you've been hanging around with the wrong crowd.
21:04Right?
21:05Why are you afraid?
21:06Why are you afraid?
21:07No.
21:08Because why are you—
21:09It's true.
21:10It's true.
21:11Right?
21:12The women attract the men...
21:13Who are attached.
21:14Responsible.
21:15Right?
21:16When it comes to being responsible, they approach them.
21:17Because when you're committed, they know, wow, that guy's the one.
21:20Willing to commit.
21:21Respect.
21:22Just like all of a sudden, it's appealing.
21:25Yes.
21:26Right?
21:27No.
21:28You'll buy them cellphones.
21:29They're not for cellphones.
21:30No, we also have money now.
21:33It's a beautiful day.
21:35So, let's go.
21:37Let's go, Ate.
21:39Yes, she's the one who invited me to her party.
21:41Look, there's a partner.
21:43Hello.
21:45You know, the women who are working now,
21:47we can afford it.
21:49But the women,
21:51they love all out.
21:53They will give everything.
21:55The men,
21:57how is that?
21:59The men,
22:01when it comes to beauty and sexiness,
22:03they love all out.
22:05Because it's all physical.
22:07Time out.
22:09Take a knee.
22:15It's like this.
22:17Let's be honest.
22:19In a new relationship,
22:21or if you're single,
22:23and as a guy,
22:25you want to date someone.
22:27And as a woman,
22:29it starts physical.
22:31Why would you call someone?
22:33Why would you introduce someone
22:35that you're not attracted to?
22:37For example, I'll approach someone
22:39that I don't know,
22:41that's not beautiful.
22:43That's not for me.
22:45Everybody has their opinion
22:47of what's beautiful and what's not.
22:49What's beautiful to me
22:51could not be beautiful to someone else.
22:53Exactly.
22:55But the thing is, the only reason
22:57why you fall in love in the first place
22:59is because of a physical attraction.
23:01That's where it starts.
23:03It all starts physical.
23:05You suddenly find out that
23:07it's not beautiful,
23:09that's where you'll go.
23:11Compared to us,
23:13you're more physical.
23:15Because before a woman
23:17falls in love with a man,
23:19all of that has an attraction.
23:21It makes sense.
23:23We love him.
23:25But compared to us,
23:27it's just superficial.
23:29It's just the beginning.
23:31Let's say you're not like that.
23:33And you're good at it.
23:35Maybe they weren't breastfed
23:37when they were young.
23:39Maybe they weren't raised
23:41in a good environment.
23:43Maybe the upbringing
23:45of a person isn't good enough.
23:47Or maybe the background isn't good enough.
23:49No, it's not like that.
23:51There are people like that.
23:53Not really.
23:55There are people with a good
23:57family background.
23:59There are people who were raised
24:01like this.
24:03There are still a lot of girls on the side.
24:05I think it's like this also.
24:07Swokey really doesn't want to talk.
24:09Wait a minute.
24:11Let her talk first.
24:13Let me be quiet.
24:15It's faster for women
24:17to mature.
24:19It's faster for them
24:21to understand women.
24:23It's faster for them
24:25to grow.
24:27I'm not saying that men
24:29don't have growth in their inner self.
24:31I'm just saying that
24:33women mature faster.
24:35Do you agree?
24:37Women mature faster
24:39but it's easier to be senile.
24:41Because you mature early.
24:43Let's say a woman is pregnant.
24:45Why a man?
24:47It's because of the anesthesia.
24:49That's why.
24:51That's why.
24:53Why a man?
24:55Sometimes you feel
24:57that kind of pain.
24:59I don't have an opinion.
25:01I don't have an opinion.
25:03Right?
25:05We also feel emotional pain every month.
25:11At least I'm done.
25:13He's just starting.
25:17Text to your loved one.
25:19Or text a love message
25:21to someone you love.
25:23Use your cell phone
25:25to type
25:27I write
25:29and your message.
25:31For Globe subscribers,
25:33send to 2344
25:35and for smart users,
25:37send to 4627.
25:39Join STAY's Love Text.
25:41Text now, sis.
25:43Hurry up.
25:47We are sisters.
25:49We are sisters.
25:51It's always been.
25:53We are sisters.
25:55We are sisters.
25:59Here it is.
26:01This is the woman.
26:03First kiss on the first date.
26:05It's just the first date.
26:07But suddenly,
26:09I really like him.
26:11Or maybe I love him already.
26:13I hope it's always like that.
26:15Romantic.
26:17This is the man.
26:19Achievement.
26:21First kiss.
26:23It's just the first date.
26:25Another day and another date.
26:27It's like a home run.
26:29Just follow her.
26:31You've been hanging out with her.
26:33You're wrong.
26:37It's very special for us.
26:39We have something
26:41good going.
26:43Why do you talk to each other
26:45when you're on a boat?
26:47When you're on a boat,
26:49you're like,
26:51I'm in the first place already.
26:53I'm sorry.
26:55I don't kiss and tell.
26:57He's lying.
26:59The truth is,
27:01when you're on a boat,
27:03you're like,
27:05nothing happened.
27:07It's just my imagination.
27:09But the guys are quiet.
27:11Is that how it is?
27:13Yes. Silent waters run deep.
27:17But you get the night,
27:19there are guys
27:21who really kiss and tell.
27:23Just like what I said earlier.
27:25Why do girls
27:27kiss and tell?
27:29It's true.
27:31I'm not buffing you.
27:33For example,
27:35if you kiss
27:37on your first date,
27:39the girls will call you
27:41for a conference call.
27:45Do you know where it usually happens?
27:47It usually happens in the washroom.
27:49The girls, by group,
27:51always kiss and tell.
27:53It's like,
27:55what should I do?
27:57What's your advice?
27:59The girls have panel of advisors.
28:03We're not like that.
28:05I heard you say,
28:07what should I do?
28:09What?
28:11We're not like that.
28:13We're not like that.
28:25I don't know if you'll agree with me.
28:27I don't know if our boys will agree.
28:29Girls can't decide
28:31if their girlfriends won't agree.
28:33It's a whole sex in the city
28:35to decide what to do.
28:37But we have different
28:39intentions.
28:41If we're asking for advice
28:43from our siblings,
28:45we just want to know
28:47if what we feel is right
28:49because sometimes
28:51the point of view of siblings is different.
28:53Like earlier,
28:55the girl has a panel of advisors.
28:57Every move of the girl
28:59in the relationship,
29:01all her best friends know what she's going to do
29:03and what her strategy is.
29:05Sometimes,
29:07girls don't really get influenced
29:09by those kinds of advice.
29:11For guys,
29:13even if they say,
29:15I don't believe in that.
29:17I don't believe in that.
29:19But you invite them.
29:21Because, guys,
29:23we don't go through a panel of advisors.
29:25We go with what our gut feeling is.
29:27It's like,
29:29is he my boyfriend?
29:31Hold on.
29:33Let me bring this up.
29:35Of course, guys have drinks
29:37or friends
29:39you go out with.
29:41Or sports.
29:43You go out with guys.
29:45Here's the girlfriend.
29:47She's calling.
29:49Is that a check?
29:51What is this?
29:53Is this a scam?
29:55So the guy
29:57gives her a call on the phone.
29:59I love you.
30:01I'll call you later.
30:03I love you.
30:05What's going on?
30:07What's going on?
30:09It's like a check.
30:11Wait a minute.
30:13We have the right to check.
30:15No, she's enjoying with her friend.
30:17Of course, she gives it sometimes.
30:1924-7.
30:21Of course, she needs time.
30:23You should have your friends with you.
30:25Not like that.
30:27It's not like that.
30:29She's calling.
30:31She doesn't want her friends with her.
30:33It's like a check.
30:39Of course not.
30:41You're all in the middle.
30:43Wait a minute.
30:45I need to sue you.
30:47You're too much.
30:49I love you.
30:51Of course not.
30:53You're too much.
30:55You're all criminals.
30:57I don't care.
31:01It's not true.
31:03You get ideas about us guys.
31:05It's a caveman mentality.
31:07It's like a stone age.
31:09So you're saying that you've evolved.
31:11We've evolved.
31:13So you admit it before?
31:15No.
31:17We have a big leap.
31:19I just went through that process.
31:21It's not true.
31:23It's not a problem
31:25if a woman is more expressive than a man.
31:27No.
31:29Men are also expressive.
31:31You're the only one who knows that.
31:35The way you express,
31:37it's just a little but you feel it.
31:39Sometimes you let go
31:41but you feel it.
31:43Less talk, more actions.
31:45For women,
31:47it's affirmation.
31:49You need to hear it.
31:51Women are auditory.
31:53We can't sign language.
31:55Because we can't guess.
31:59Guys can also not read women's minds.
32:01But,
32:03when it's shown to you,
32:05it changes your mind.
32:07I'll show it to you slowly.
32:11You used to be a man.
32:15Up next,
32:17this is the last round.
32:19Needs for men.
32:21Demands for women.
32:23We'll be back.
32:49This is a cis love text.
32:51It's a cis text.
33:11This is an issue.
33:13The usual source of conflict
33:15is behavior.
33:17Sometimes,
33:19a woman's perception
33:21is different from a man's.
33:23Let's say,
33:25a woman has a need
33:27that she's asking for.
33:29Sometimes, a guy feels
33:31that it's a demand.
33:33And vice versa.
33:35Another thing is,
33:37if a woman doesn't get what she wants,
33:39she'll get angry,
33:41she'll get mad,
33:43but she'll still talk.
33:45That's true.
33:47That's the problem.
33:53It's a demand.
33:55You need to call her.
33:57If you don't call her, she'll get mad.
33:59She'll say,
34:01you're a woman,
34:03you did something wrong.
34:05Sometimes,
34:07you're out with your friends,
34:09and you're laughing.
34:11The woman will call you
34:13and say, I can't just leave my friends.
34:15I'm having fun.
34:17She'll get mad.
34:19Sometimes,
34:21her reaction
34:23is ridiculous.
34:25She'll cry on the phone.
34:27She'll say, you're there
34:29with a lot of girls.
34:31You're just having fun.
34:33She's just trying.
34:35She's trying again.
34:37Jelly understands
34:39the side of men.
34:41That's why.
34:43If you really love the girl,
34:45if you want to secure her,
34:47secure her.
34:49If you miss her,
34:51you want to see her,
34:53show her.
34:55It's a base-to-base case.
34:59If you're in a relationship,
35:01that's how good you are.
35:03You have to put your best foot forward.
35:05Why can't you put
35:07your best foot forward all the time?
35:09If you can.
35:11If you have a reason.
35:13For example, you don't have a low-battery phone.
35:15We all know.
35:17What year is it?
35:19It's the new millennium.
35:21There's a car charger.
35:23There's no load.
35:25There's something
35:27you don't know.
35:29Sometimes, it's hard
35:31to affirm all the time.
35:33It's hard to repeat.
35:35Sweetie, you're the only one I love.
35:37You don't have to worry.
35:39After a few weeks,
35:41you'll adjust.
35:43You're always like that.
35:45If you have a problem,
35:47if you're always in doubt,
35:49that means you're doing something.
35:51Or the men,
35:53they have insecurities.
35:55I think both men and women
35:57have their own insecurities.
35:59Is it really up to the woman
36:01or is it up to the men?
36:03That's the problem.
36:05If you like someone,
36:07you don't like her.
36:09You can't live without us.
36:11You can't live without us.
36:13You can't live without us.
36:15Again, it becomes a gender issue.
36:17Again, right?
36:19When a woman talks,
36:21it's like,
36:23she's too aggressive.
36:25She's a stranger, right?
36:27That's too much.
36:29Can she be an example?
36:31Can she be the mother of my children?
36:33That's not true.
36:35Most of the time,
36:37it happens because you assume things.
36:39If you think of something
36:41as a demand,
36:43it means
36:45it's negative.
36:47I don't want to give.
36:49If you don't want to give
36:51what she needs,
36:53you think of it as a demand.
36:55That's how it is.
36:57She resists the pressure.
36:59She doesn't want it.
37:01She doesn't want it.
37:05It's not like that.
37:07Sometimes,
37:09the need of a girl
37:11doesn't mean
37:13you don't want to give it to her.
37:15You just can't right now
37:17for whatever reason.
37:19It doesn't mean...
37:21Let's be clear about
37:23you can't right now.
37:25Maybe tomorrow.
37:27I can buy it for you.
37:29Right now.
37:31Correct.
37:41Men and women are really different
37:43from each other.
37:47It will be forever an issue.
37:49The differences of men and women
37:51are the very reasons
37:53why they like to be together.
37:55That's how it is.
37:57Love?
37:59What is love?
38:01Love? Let's compromise.
38:03That's it.
38:05Be friends.
38:09Girls will own up
38:11to the fact that
38:13we lack something
38:15that's not right for us.
38:17Let's give them credit.
38:23One, each one of you
38:25should give a rose
38:27to each of them.
38:29One rose per person.
38:35I'll give this to you.
38:39For me,
38:41I admit that I'm a bit naughty.
38:43I guess women are.
38:45We keep on checking on them.
38:47That's just a sign that
38:49we care so much about our partner.
38:51That doesn't mean anything
38:53to make you feel bad.
39:01I'll give this to Stella.
39:03It's okay.
39:05Own up to it.
39:07Actually,
39:09what they're saying is true.
39:11Stella said that
39:13earlier,
39:15men are really
39:17playful.
39:19I don't know.
39:21They're not content
39:23with their girlfriend or husband.
39:25That's why men should love
39:27their girlfriend or husband.
39:29Let's stick to them.
39:33For me, I'll give this to Smokey.
39:37Are you mad?
39:39Yes, I'm mad.
39:41Smokey is my brother.
39:43But I agree with Smokey.
39:45You know,
39:47I'm a bit of a fighter.
39:49I don't give up easily.
39:51But it's true.
39:53Sometimes, women are really
39:55stubborn.
39:57It's hard for me to admit it.
39:59Most of the time,
40:01it's a mistake.
40:03So, when we're the ones who
40:05make mistakes,
40:07I'll try to fix it.
40:09Sometimes, I get annoyed
40:11and I don't want to give up.
40:13I admit it.
40:15I'll give this to you.
40:17You're older.
40:21I agree.
40:23I agree with what you said.
40:25Men are
40:27very hard to understand.
40:29It's hard to understand
40:31men because
40:33the mere fact that
40:35men are
40:37not smart
40:39or can't accept women
40:41that you're saying
40:43is not because they have children.
40:45There are men like that.
40:47But not all men are like that.
40:49I still believe that
40:51a woman who has a child
40:53adds more character to a man.
40:55It's not that easy.
40:57Only women can do that.
40:59Men are hard.
41:01So, I agree with you.
41:03Men will love women more.
41:07Are we crying?
41:09I'm a good person.
41:11Did I make sense?
41:13It's already ended.
41:15Okay.
41:17Nino has a good sense.
41:21I'll give this to him.
41:23I believe that
41:25not all men are liars
41:27physically.
41:29He's right.
41:31It's just a debate.
41:33It's supposed to be a debate.
41:35Okay.
41:37I'll give this to Rita
41:39because she's the only one who doesn't have one.
41:41I appreciate
41:43that kind of mentality
41:45that it's a
41:47give and take situation.
41:49Not all men are perfect.
41:51We're not saying that we're perfect
41:53because we're far from it.
41:55It's a good thing
41:57that you still love us
41:59even though we're like this.
42:01Because there are times when we're really clueless.
42:03Like what the girls were saying.
42:05We're really clueless in situations.
42:07Not because we want to hurt you
42:09but sometimes we really just do not know.
42:13It's really true that a guy can be looking at something like that
42:15and a girl will ask,
42:17so what are you thinking about?
42:19A guy can really be honest in answering.
42:21Nothing.
42:23Girls are always thinking about something all the time.
42:25It's really possible for guys just to
42:27be dumbfounded like that sometimes.
42:29I'll give this to you.
42:31I agree.
42:35Thank you very much.
42:39Thank you for being such good sports.
42:43Bottom line is,
42:45let's not force ourselves to understand them.
42:47Let's stop analyzing.
42:49Let's just accept and love them.
42:53Let's just love one another
42:55even if it's hard to believe.
42:57One at a time.
42:59And enjoy each other.
43:01Yes, my papalito ponsis.
43:03Send a valentine greeting
43:05to your loved one.
43:07Or text a love message
43:09to someone you love.
43:11Whether he knows you or not.
43:13Using your cell phone,
43:15type in the message window
43:17I write, space, sis, space,
43:19and your message.
43:21For Globe subscribers,
43:23send to 2344.
43:25And for smart users,
43:27send to 4627.
43:29Join the Sis Love Text.
43:31Hurry up!
43:49It's chaotic.
43:51Yes, but like I said,
43:53there's no winner here.
43:55Yes, there's none.
43:57It's an issue forever.
43:59Let's not make it an issue.
44:01Let's just accept that
44:03men and women are different.
44:05And the best is to just give your best
44:07in a relationship.
44:09And try to be more accepting.
44:11Accept the person for who she is,
44:13or who he is.
44:15Let's not force ourselves to change.
44:17And it's not just men who make mistakes.
44:19Of course, women make mistakes too.
44:21So the best is,
44:23if you know you made a mistake,
44:25I'm sorry, I admit your mistake,
44:27amends, and move on.
44:29For me, let's not plant
44:31the seed.
44:33No, because last year,
44:35this is what you told me.
44:37Yes, because earlier.
44:39But it's really hard to do that.
44:41It's really hard not to plant.
44:43It's really hard to compromise.
44:45But I guess that's how life is.
44:47We need to get along.
44:49Somehow, someway,
44:51somewhere. Is this a song?
44:53Yes, that's how it is.
44:55That's what makes love exciting.
44:57That's what makes life exciting.
44:59Exactly, because we have the same thoughts.
45:01Boring.
45:03So I hope you weren't bored with our debate today.
45:05Tomorrow, you will be more
45:07excited.
45:09Yes, tomorrow.
45:11It's really Valentine's Day.
45:13And we will party.
45:15So we'll see you again here at
45:17SIS!
45:25Ultra Bikes Cafe, Pasig, Philippines.
45:27Catch Nino Alejandro's
45:29Twin Hearts Valentine Concert
45:31at Gillespie Exa Plaza,
45:33Shangri-La, 8pm, February 14.
45:35SIS would like to thank
45:37Bambi Fuentes,
45:39Mossimo, F&H,
45:41Chloe for our
45:43eyewear, Optical Works,
45:45Adidas,
45:47Janeline Shoes, Wade Shoes,
45:49Bayo,
45:51Under the Sea Pet Shop,
45:53Londe Manila,
45:55La Germania, 680 Home Appliances,
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45:59Mano Mano,
46:01Play and Display,
46:03JBL Home Furniture Enterprise,
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46:09Wayless Center and Spa,
46:11Balloon Creation,
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46:15and Union Square.
46:17For me, I admit that I'm a bit
46:19nosy, but I guess
46:21as women are, we keep on checking
46:23on them, but that's just a sign
46:25that we care so much about our partner.
46:27That doesn't mean
46:29anything like you're a snob
46:31or something like that.
46:33Men, let's just love
46:35our girlfriend or husband.
46:37Let's stick to them.
46:39There you go.
46:41It's true that sometimes women
46:43are really nosy.
46:45For me, it's hard
46:47to admit because
46:49it's really hard to make a mistake.
46:51It's hard to admit.
46:53So when we're the ones looking for a mistake,
46:55it's like, no, we'll go back and forth.
46:57So, I will try to change.
46:59Sometimes, I get annoyed and I don't want to do it.
47:01I believe that
47:03not all men are liars
47:05and even physically.
47:07We're just counting
47:09because it's different.
47:11It's different.
47:13There you go.
47:15Are we crying?
47:17Did I make sense?
47:19It's like it's already
47:21one and done.
47:23Okay. Because Nino
47:25really made sense.
47:27He said everything.
47:29I'll give him a rose.