Married at First Sight UK Season 9 Episode 19
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00:00Previously
00:02Be proud of me for what I've done so far
00:04Honestly, you've been brilliant
00:06Emma's efforts were welcomed by Casper
00:08But a fiery exchange
00:10Is it fine for you to lie?
00:12Shattered already fragile relations
00:14You're a fraud and I've seen through you
00:16I've lost all respect for you
00:18I am done
00:20And a retreat rumour
00:22She said to Orson, hold my hand, let's make him jealous
00:24Sharpened divisions for Hannah and Stephen
00:26Trying to get Orson to hold your hand
00:28Try and make me jealous
00:30She was flirting a little bit
00:32And opened opportunity for a new connection
00:34I got you
00:38Squeaky bum time
00:42Tonight
00:44Here's to lads day, no one
00:46As the group split
00:48I am walking into a lion's den
00:50For the girls animosity bruise
00:52This is your chance to explain yourself
00:54Well it's not because you've all made your minds up
00:56The only thing you want to do is get brave
00:58You're speaking to me like shit
01:00And she's going about things like a dickhead
01:02For the boys
01:04She's done certain things I think to get you jealous
01:06An admission
01:08I've had a conversation with Hannah last night
01:10Inflames tension
01:12She's trying it on with all the other guys
01:14I think that's a bit unfair
01:16It is done
01:18But it's revealing questions
01:20Stick with your current partner
01:22A twist
01:24Switch to Steven
01:26I'm getting better every week
01:28And you're still not happy
01:32It's just shit
01:34I don't want to lose him
01:48What sleep
01:50Proper sleep that wasn't it
01:52I'm sweet again
01:54But with you in there
01:58I made you a cup of tea
02:00Just the way you like it
02:02Thank you
02:06This is like a champagne breakfast
02:08Later today the couples will spend time apart
02:12Splitting into two groups
02:14To enjoy separate boys and girls days
02:16Casper
02:18He's going to teach me how to play backgammon
02:20Backgammon
02:22Like the ham
02:24It's like a chess game
02:26But you play with chicken pieces
02:34Coffee?
02:36Oat milk latte
02:38Oat milk latte would be lovely
02:40Retreat is going really well with Casper and I
02:42Thank you
02:44We are the friendliest
02:46And the softest
02:48To each other we've ever been
02:50I'm truly going to use this time
02:52Until the next commitment ceremony
02:54To relax
02:56Lean in
02:58And just be more vulnerable
03:02Emma how do I release this thing again
03:04Pull the lever up
03:06Emma's been brilliant this week
03:08I've completely seen a different side of her
03:10We finally got to a place
03:12Where we're both actually having fun around each other
03:14I'm the happiest I've been in the process
03:16Knowing that we are making progress
03:24I feel like with it being a boys day and a girls day
03:26I think the boys are going to have a sick time
03:28And there's going to be a lot of tension on the girls side
03:30About Hannah
03:32We'll have a ball but things are going to get stated today
03:34Because I think some things need addressing
03:36She's not giving a good impression to herself
03:38She's doing lots of little things
03:40To not help the position that she's in
03:42So if she thinks that she's genuinely done nothing wrong
03:44Then that's a problem
03:46You're not going to have a good dynamic with the girls
03:48If you're coming in saying you're going to steal people's man
03:50And rubbing it over
03:52David even said that she's not even bothered to text or ring him
03:54Since we've been here
03:56To say do you want to go for a walk
03:58Do you want to do this
04:00Do you want to come home
04:02Trying to get Austin to hold your hand to try and make me jealous
04:04We were taking the piss
04:06Since the last commitment ceremony
04:08Hannah's actions towards some of the husbands
04:10Has come under fire
04:12After the commitment ceremony
04:14When Stephen was walking towards her
04:16She said to Austin hold my hand let's make him jealous
04:18And she was rubbing Ryan's feet
04:20In front of Shannon
04:22She's been super flirty with you
04:24Do you think you would pull off on it
04:26Pretend to
04:30At the end of the day
04:32I don't like two faced people
04:34And I don't like fake behaviour
04:36I think today's a good chance
04:38For all the girls to get everything off the chest
04:40Just not in a horrible way
04:42Depends if she's going to be open
04:44To what we're going to say
04:46I would not want to get on the end of pollen hole
04:50I'm so excited to mingle with all the girls
04:52And get to know everyone a little bit better
04:54I feel like I've not really
04:56Had a chance to speak to everyone properly yet
04:58Is that because of Hannah
05:00A little bit
05:02I'm trying to protect her I think
05:04I'm not that kind of person to stare at the pot
05:06But then I notice things
05:08And I know her
05:10And Austin
05:12That might be something
05:14What do you think?
05:16I have got the vibe as well
05:18I feel like there is something
05:20Just the way he looks at her sometimes
05:24He looks at her in that kind of way
05:26A little bit
05:28I've only seen brief little glances
05:30Maybe a new connection
05:32Might form on this retreat then
05:34Talking of the devil
05:38Hey honey
05:40Thank you so much
05:44Hi Gorge
05:46There she is
05:48How are you feeling about spending time with the girls today?
05:50Really nervous
05:52Yeah
05:54I've got a feeling that everyone's now kind of
05:56Got it in for me
05:58Don't walk in with your guard up
06:00It's so much easier said than done
06:02Remember, calm
06:06I spoke to Austin last night
06:08And to be fair that was such a good chat
06:10He's so funny
06:12He was like you're amazing
06:14You need to rate yourself
06:16And you need to not let a guy bring you down
06:18Because you came into this so open
06:20And so confident
06:22And you need to bring yourself back to that person
06:24Which I massively appreciated him saying to me
06:26Half of me is like
06:28My relationship's done
06:30Is there an opportunity here for potentially
06:32A connection with someone else
06:34Me and Stephen
06:36I feel like I've kept trying
06:38I've been messaging him and trying to check in with him
06:40I've tried my absolute hardest
06:42And I'm being hit with a brick wall
06:44I feel like the combo with Austin last night
06:46Was really good
06:48He's a good guy, we get on really well
06:50And it's nice to have that vibe with someone
06:52Don't forget
06:54You've come into this to meet somebody
06:56Yeah
06:58I don't think I'm here to have a girl
07:00What is this a spa date
07:02What is this
07:04What's he going to do
07:06By going and chatting to the girls
07:08Yeah you're right
07:10I get it
07:18Oh hello
07:20I haven't seen Austin today
07:22It was never going to be a good retreat for us
07:24I don't really know
07:26What I'm supposed to do with somebody
07:28Who can't communicate
07:30Like one would expect
07:32Of a 41 year old
07:34You haven't seen Austin
07:36Well not since yesterday
07:38I just don't understand why he wanted to stay
07:42Talk me through how your week has been
07:44At the commitment ceremony
07:46Austin's honesty came as a shock to Rochelle
07:48She said like Austin
07:50You don't really stimulate me mentally
07:52I feel something in me
07:54That just maybe switched off a little bit
07:56I mean this is the first I'm hearing
07:58That me saying that
08:00Made him switch off
08:02You hadn't brought that up
08:04I do feel a little bit irritated
08:06With Austin
08:08I stayed in the process
08:10When he knew I didn't want to
08:12And I sacrificed my daughter's birthday
08:14For that cretin
08:16If he doesn't feel comfortable
08:18Communicating with me
08:20He waited until he got on the couch
08:22To say what he was feeling
08:24Now we're here and we've got a whole retreat
08:26To get through
08:28I found him to be disingenuous
08:30And that remains the same
08:32So I prefer to just keep my distance
08:34I'm definitely having a nice time
08:36By myself
08:38At least it's Girl's Day
08:40Yeah exactly
08:42How's it going with you and him?
08:44I've been
08:46You know I've been trying
08:50I've softened up to him a bit
08:52Yeah
08:54So you do fancy being intimate with him now?
08:56Yeah
08:58See if I can snug him
09:00So you want to give him a kiss?
09:02Well I do
09:04No we need to plan this
09:06Maybe a little compliment
09:08You're looking really handsome today
09:10I almost feel like kissing you
09:12Can I give you a little kiss?
09:14Yeah yeah
09:16I mean and if he says no
09:18Then the dream's over
09:20But I don't think he would
09:22I don't think he would
09:24Yeah okay I'll try and do it today
09:26Before you know it
09:28Come next commitment ceremony
09:30He'll be writing stay
09:32I feel like the relationship maybe could take a step
09:34Towards the intimacy level
09:36I feel like we're getting on really well
09:38And maybe he just needs to relax into it
09:48Well done
09:50There we go
09:52Can't wait for his day today
09:54I feel like no matter what gets thrown at us
09:56Positive or negative
09:58We're all really close knit group
10:00So I think we'll just respect everyone's opinions
10:02We'll have a laugh about it and we'll move on
10:04Cheers to lads day
10:06Cheers guys
10:12I am walking into a lion's den
10:14I feel absolutely on edge
10:16There's a lot of whistlers
10:18And there's a lot of people going behind my back
10:20And no one's actually come and said anything to my face
10:22Which is just pathetic to me
10:28Cheers
10:30So is everyone enjoying the retreat?
10:32It is stunning
10:34The venue is like perfect
10:36Little lodges
10:38Cozy
10:40The fire
10:42Good vibes
10:46Is it good vibes though?
10:48I wouldn't say it's all good vibes
10:52I mean I think we should just address the elephant in the room
10:56I'm not here for being two faced
10:58I'd rather just say things as they are
11:00We don't want you to feel excluded
11:02No
11:04I do but that's fine
11:06But you've done that to yourself though
11:08I just feel like the girls don't like me
11:10Yes I can handle it
11:12But I don't feel like this is going to go well for me
11:14You cannot be arsed with people not taking accountability for their behaviour
11:16Take accountability for your actions
11:20So this is your chance to explain yourself
11:34I mean I think we should just address the elephant in the room
11:36I'm not here for being two faced
11:38I'd rather just say things as they are
11:40We don't want you to feel excluded
11:42No
11:44I do but that's fine
11:46But you've done that to yourself though
11:52You cannot be arsed with people not taking accountability for their behaviour
11:54Take accountability for your actions
11:58So this is your chance to explain yourself
12:00Well it's not because you've all made your minds up
12:02No we haven't
12:04You have
12:06Look Hannah there's just been things that have been said
12:08And some comments that have been made
12:10It looks fucking shady
12:14Alex telling me that
12:16Like you knocked on
12:18When he was closing the door
12:20You like kind of leapt round the door and was like
12:22Alex you're my favourite guy
12:26Alex has actually been really supportive
12:28That's cute
12:30See what's the little snide comment
12:32It's just cute like I'm trying to address something with you
12:34But you've asked me a question and I'm giving you the answer
12:36Let me give you the answer then
12:38Do you want the answer or not
12:40We'll address everything that I feel like
12:42Is a threat
12:44And then we'll move from that
12:46I'm not going to sit here and get every single person to tell me
12:48What they don't like about me
12:50No I'm going to tell you
12:52If a girl
12:54Had come and sat in a room with me and my husband
12:56Rubbed his foot and told him his eyes were nice
12:58I'd be raging with you
13:00And had a riot
13:02You were stroking Ryan's feet
13:04I wanted to see if his ug had fluff in it
13:08Ryan said it wasn't his shoe you were touching
13:10You were stroking the bottom of his foot
13:12Can it touch his foot
13:14Fucking hell this shit is pathetic
13:16It all seems very playground to me
13:18Every single thing
13:20Is being misinterpreted
13:22And twisted
13:24And that's what's pissing me off
13:26Oh for fuck's sake
13:28This is pathetic
13:30I don't want to shoot
13:32Get a grip
13:34Everything has been done in like banter
13:36And like I'm trying to have a bit of a laugh with people
13:38I've had a shit experience from the day I got here
13:40I get that but you don't need to start doing that
13:42Just let me speak
13:44Nobody's letting me speak
13:46How do you think that makes me feel
13:48It's fucking horrible
13:50Don't start getting muggy then
13:52Do not start speaking to people like that
13:54The last thing you want to do is get brave
13:56You're threatening me
13:58I'm not threatening you
14:00The last thing you want to do when we're getting like this with you
14:02Is start being muggy to someone
14:04So let me speak then
14:06A conversation is two people speaking
14:08You're speaking to me like shit
14:10Hannah come back
14:18She needs to remain respectful to our marriages
14:20Us girls have a sixth sense
14:22And we know when a girl's being shady
14:24There's no way I'm sitting there and getting fucking attacked
14:26There's no way, I'm not doing it
14:28They're all speaking to me like shit, I'm not doing it
14:30That was a bit of an attack
14:34She can't sit there acting like an angel
14:36When she's the one that's isolating herself
14:38She's made people feel uncomfortable
14:40And she's going about things like a dickhead
14:42I ain't sitting in there, there's no way
14:44I couldn't even speak
14:46You're asking me questions and you're not letting me answer
14:48It's like three fucking
14:50Sisters of fucking Eastwick coming at me
14:52All sat in front of me
14:54I'm not doing that, there's no way I'm doing that
14:56I'm not sitting there being fucking attacked, I'm not
14:58She's not come to any of us to sort things out
15:00She might have got round to that if we hadn't have said
15:02Let's address the elephant in the room
15:04You've been flirting with all the husbands
15:06She hasn't done anything to help the situation that she's in
15:08We haven't given her a chance
15:10I'm surprised she didn't walk out earlier to be honest
15:12Like that was an attack
15:14If I was on the receiving end of that
15:16I would feel like these girls fucking hate me
15:18I'll speak to Hannah on her own then
15:20Yeah I think that's probably
15:22I'll speak to her
15:24It's a load of shit
15:26But we've all said we don't want her to be alienated
15:28And that is really alienating
15:30Why am I going out of my way to make sure she's alright
15:32When she's fucking cracking on with Orton and Ryan
15:34Why would I do that
15:36It's not on
15:38She can't act like that and expect us
15:40Not to have the reaction that we do with her
15:42I'm sorry but you can't
15:44I think it's just trying to give her an opportunity to apologise
15:46But instead of apologising
15:48All she does is get defensive
15:52Fucking swear at me
15:54And threaten me
15:56Fucking threaten me
15:58No way
16:00Maybe a conversation needs to be had
16:02One on one
16:04Hannah can I speak to you one on one
16:06So it doesn't come across like an attack
16:08Let me speak to you one on one then
16:10Well that's a bit exaggerated
16:12I want to speak to you as a woman
16:14So you're not in an intimidating situation
16:16Stay calm and make sure you stay and speak to her
16:18Yeah
16:20Obviously over the last few days
16:22Hannah as a new girl coming in
16:24You don't step on toes
16:26I don't think I have stepped on toes
16:28Right okay
16:30So obviously you've said to Orton
16:32Can I hold your hand to make Stephen jealous
16:34We were all having a bit of banter
16:36That's a little bit childish
16:38We're all grown women
16:40It's just like little things
16:42She's leaning round the door saying
16:44Like you're my favourite guy
16:48I just don't like disrespectful girls
16:50Like I have been in relationships
16:52You don't know me I'm not a disrespectful girl
16:54You don't know our situations are us
16:58But I've not been disrespectful I've had fun
17:00And I've tried to have some banter with some people
17:02I just don't mess around with girls
17:04That fuck with people's guys
17:06I'm not going to sit there and get attacked
17:08By a group of girls
17:10Okay
17:12I've got nothing more to say
17:14I'm wasting my time
17:16I don't like her attitude
17:18Or a face that screams attitude
17:20It's just sly behaviour
17:26You all right babe
17:28Yeah
17:30I've done I've said what I need to say
17:32Okay
17:34It's basically like
17:36It's all bullshit but now it's coming from somewhere
17:46Nath what's going on
17:48To be honest it's all been going quite the same as usual
17:50Just like dancing around the lodge and that
17:52You literally haven't had a single problem
17:54With Nacy yet
17:56No no no
17:58So not really like if I ever have any issues or whatever
18:00I'll just address it to her
18:02She listens
18:04And then it's reciprocated that's pretty much it
18:06Stephen where are you at
18:10My mindset right now
18:12What she did to me personally is disrespectful
18:14What have you done to try and get it to work
18:16It was constant conversations
18:18But every time we tried making it work
18:20It just turned into a toxic as hell argument
18:22I was willing to
18:24Try this week
18:26I called her out on the respect thing
18:28At the commitment ceremony
18:30A little bit after that
18:32We're hearing all this stuff about awesome
18:34And you
18:36Sounds like you did something
18:38She said she wants to stay and make it work
18:40When I said leave
18:42I said I'll try
18:44She's gone and done that again and disrespected me
18:46She's trying to antagonise you
18:48No one is perfect in life and we've all done things that we shouldn't have been done
18:50I do think she does like you
18:52Because she's done certain things I think to get you jealous
18:54Is there any possible way
18:56That you could sit down with her still
18:58And maybe have a conversation
19:00I get what you're saying
19:02I respect like people want to see it work out
19:04But what she did is disrespectful
19:06I've had a conversation with Hannah
19:08Had a conversation with her last night
19:12She's trying it on with all the other guys
19:14Putting the energy in with that
19:16Rather than the person she says she wants to make it work
19:18I think that's a bit unfair
19:20It's not mate
19:22No that's unfair
19:24It wasn't anything of her trying it on with me or whatever
19:26But given the disrespect thing that I called her out on previously
19:28She's still gone and done that
19:30This is an experiment
19:32Based on meeting someone
19:34And marrying them at first sight
19:36It's not a fucking swingers club
19:42I don't think at this point anything Hannah's done is with good intention
19:44After everything that's gone on
19:46She's not getting that time of day from me again
19:50It is fucking done
19:56It is
19:58It is
20:00It is
20:12You okay hun
20:14Sorry about that
20:16Thank you
20:18That was a lot
20:20I appreciate you coming out
20:22I've told them off for that
20:24I think I have a little bit
20:26But you're asking me questions and then you're not letting me answer it
20:28Let me answer it
20:30Because every single answer I've got for every single question
20:32Is this is pathetic
20:34If you're insecure about someone being around your husband
20:36That's your problem not mine
20:38Don't throw that at me
20:40That's not my problem
20:42The way you speak is quite sharp and very direct
20:46And that can come across to these girls
20:48As attacking
20:50The same way their language comes across as attacking to you
20:52Like it goes two ways
20:54I can see both sides of the story hun
20:56I do want to speak to Shannon
20:58Because I don't want to hurt Shannon
21:00Because I think Shannon's lovely
21:02I don't give a shit about the rest of them
21:04Look let's draw a line under it
21:06Let's have a nice girls day
21:08I'm not going to go in for a bit
21:10I'm going to just chill for ten minutes
21:12Just going to chill
21:14You do you have fun and then I'll come and cause a storm again
21:22Is she okay
21:24Yeah yeah she's alright
21:26Where is she
21:28Yeah she just feels like she's been attacked
21:30But
21:32Can we draw
21:34Like can we
21:36Maybe just be amicable to her
21:38I feel like her whole attitude's got to change
21:40If her attitude don't change and she sits there with her face up
21:42She's loosened up a bit
21:44It's going to be very difficult to sit here and try and be chirpy with her
21:52I saw how his date went yesterday with Emma
21:54Like how was that
21:56I heard you had a hot date
21:58Give me the tea
22:00We went bike riding which was really nice
22:02And then we had a picnic
22:04Chilling out
22:06Any kissing
22:08We're just getting to a place
22:10Which we haven't been in for weeks
22:12Because Emma's softened slightly
22:14And we actually have started having a bit more
22:16Sort of banter and laughs
22:18This week
22:20So I mean
22:22We'll see where we get to by the next commitment ceremony
22:24And we'll see where my head's at
22:26I'm just going to try and snog him at one point
22:28Yes
22:30Just grab him
22:32Maybe after the girls trip today
22:34Say come here you
22:36Bit of Dutch courage
22:38Are you aware of a motorboat
22:40Would like me to show you what one is
22:42I think you'd be ever so scared
22:44Have you never kissed then
22:46We've pecked on the lips but not since our honeymoon
22:48Is that it
22:50Yeah
22:52I feel like you need to do
22:54What I've done with Adam which is
22:56I understand that your head is where it's at
22:58However if we don't start doing this
23:00When it comes to it it's going to be weird
23:02Yeah
23:04You just need to do it
23:06Adam's only now
23:08Making progress from week two
23:10The sex thing's now over and done with
23:12Great
23:14Thanks fucking god for that
23:16But it's the PDA thing
23:18And that's what's making me get my emotional wall up
23:20But hopefully
23:22We can get there
23:30Can I just borrow you a minute
23:40You okay
23:42I'm good are you alright
23:44Not really
23:46Genuinely
23:48I think out of everyone here
23:50That I've hurt you actually kills me
23:52Genuinely I feel really bad
23:54I don't want you to feel bad
23:58I think it was just because
24:00It was just like fuck
24:02Like I don't want this
24:04I tried to just be like
24:06Whatever
24:08And then when people brought it to me
24:10That was what got my back up
24:12I'm okay with it
24:14But knowing that I hurt you
24:16Genuinely really upsets me
24:18For me
24:20Just to kind of put my point across
24:22So I can kind of put it to bed
24:24I don't see boys and girls differently
24:26But I can appreciate and I get
24:28That for some people that's wrong
24:30And I appreciate that
24:32And maybe I think that's something
24:34I maybe need to learn
24:36And I get that
24:38I would never try and take someone's husband off them
24:40Honestly babe that was all
24:42I was looking for
24:44She pissed me off a little bit honestly
24:46I'm so sorry
24:48I think most people would be annoyed
24:50That she was flirting with her man
24:52But she knows
24:54That she's done wrong
24:56And I have given her the benefit of the doubt
24:58Got my apology
25:00Back to girls day
25:02Goodbyes only
25:06The atmosphere is not pleasant for me at all
25:10I'm getting to a point where I don't feel like I can trust
25:12Anybody in this process
25:22What's this?
25:32Inside this envelope is a set of questions
25:34Designed to help you evaluate your own relationship
25:36And those of the rest of the group
25:40Answering these questions
25:42Openly and honestly
25:44Will help you to identify and overcome areas
25:46Of your vulnerability in your marriage
25:48Love Mel, Paul and Charlie
25:52Honesty guys
25:54Lads lads no cop out with these questions
25:56I want the honest truth from everyone
26:00Who do you think is the sexiest wife?
26:02Fuck that
26:04Sasha for me
26:10Haha
26:16Are you okay over there?
26:22Probably have to say Lacey
26:24But you probably knew that didn't you?
26:26That's fair
26:28I'd say probably Shannon
26:30She'd be my type outside of here
26:32I'll say Shannon
26:34I'll say Shannon
26:36I'm saying my own wife
26:42Sasha 100%
26:44Amy
26:46Yeah
26:48I'm surprised not many people said Amy actually
26:50More to say
26:52All the parts of the cow sell
26:54Some people like the tail
26:56Some like the hoof
26:58Because if everybody liked the fillet
27:00You'd waste half of the cow
27:02Every girl has her qualities in this group
27:04I think Amy
27:10For me easy Luke
27:12Is the sexiest thing I've ever seen in my life
27:14Like I could just
27:16Touch him all day
27:18Like his little face, his little hair
27:20His arms
27:22I love that
27:28My usual type would probably be Nathan
27:30Yeah
27:32He's a pretty boy isn't he?
27:36Obviously Nathan's fucking fit mate
27:38Like I've hit the jackpot there
27:40But you know the sexiest as well
27:42Is either Ryan or Luke
27:46I'm going to say Ryan
27:48He has got a gorgeous man
27:50I honestly think Ryan is the sexiest
27:52What about Hugo?
27:54Just looks at me with those blue eyes
27:56Black eyelashes
28:00I'm going to follow my husband
28:02The sexiest anyway
28:04And I know the game is
28:06But if you didn't choose your groom
28:08Who would it be?
28:10But I'm not going to play it
28:12Because if I find out that Ryan
28:14Said any of the other girls
28:16I'm flipping tables
28:30Ryan you love your man and that's all that matters
28:36Oh my god
28:38No I don't fancy Ryan
28:40Ryan was just at the forefront of my mind
28:42Because I've heard his name so much
28:44I didn't mean Ryan I meant Ross
28:46It's R&R
28:50I would probably say Alex
28:54We have a bit of a banter
29:00He's definitely my type on paper
29:02And his missus is coming back with all her bullshit
29:04And ruining my day
29:06So I'm just going to blindside you with a bombshell
29:10I mean that's fine babe
29:12But don't compete where you don't compare
29:20I would say Stephen
29:22Yeah I'd say Stephen's the sexiest
29:26You've known the guy for three days
29:28Whatever
29:30All this tit for tat
29:32It all just feels very pesky and very childish
29:34And it just feels like I'm in a playground
29:36Who do you think is the funniest husband?
29:38Hands down Kieran
29:40Kieran
29:42Completely agree
29:44I'm not going to lie I'm going to say Kieran
29:46He's funny with strumming his little thing
29:50I'm going to say Kieran
29:52But Nathan's my very very very close second
29:54And you your man or?
29:56I'm going to say Kieran
29:58Me and Kieran
30:00We literally can just look at each other
30:02And just erupt into laughter
30:04He's my guy
30:14What is the biggest weakness in your marriage?
30:18The biggest weakness in my marriage is that
30:20The respect has been lost
30:22And trust
30:24When those two things are gone
30:26It's a wrap
30:28Good night
30:30I think for me it's no initial spark
30:32And I think having that makes it a lot easier
30:34To get through a lot of the bumps and hurdles
30:36And stuff like that
30:40My biggest weakness is probably just the way I am
30:42As in like I don't express my feelings
30:44I don't talk about them
30:46I don't do PDA
30:48But that's just something I'm learning
30:50And it's just how I am at the minute
30:52Hopefully
30:54Takes time
30:58Name the husband who is making
31:00The least amount of effort
31:02And the husband who is making
31:04The most amount of effort
31:06And why?
31:08Let's just make a collective
31:10No no no wait
31:12Let's make a point of not
31:14Digging Stephen out because that's not fair
31:16Do you know what I mean?
31:18So let's not all bombard that
31:20I don't know who else to say
31:22Apart from Stephen
31:26I feel like maybe let's have an open discussion about it
31:28Does anyone here
31:30Feel like
31:32He should have made more effort or do you think he's right?
31:34I appreciate it's really
31:36Fucking awkward for you guys
31:38But I feel like
31:40If you both can just
31:42Give that little bit in
31:44Then I really hope that
31:46I've done that though
31:48I feel like Amy can probably vouch for me here
31:50I've tried every single day
31:54Even a couple of the boys have tried
31:56It's clear to see that she's
31:58Clocked out from Stephen as much as she's
32:00Trying to blag that she's not
32:02It's such a shame that such a good man has been brought into this
32:04And has been put with someone like Hannah
32:06I'm very much team Stephen
32:12Who in the group is the least genuine?
32:18It's no surprise
32:20I think Hannah
32:24I'm not going to sit here and lie to you about it
32:26There are some things that have made me question whether you're genuine
32:28The comments that have been made
32:30And obviously your behaviour towards some people
32:32I would say that you are
32:34The least genuine
32:36Hannah
32:38I'm not going to answer the question
32:40Just because I'm trying to keep my head down a little bit
32:42And I'm not comfortable answering it
32:44But part of the experiment is to be honest and genuine
32:46And say exactly how you feel
32:48I didn't really have an answer
32:50But the fact that Polly just said me
32:52I'd probably reiterate it back to you
32:58I question
33:00Orson's
33:02Authenticity from what I know
33:04Thank you
33:06Thank you Emma
33:08I am going to say Orson
33:10I'm also
33:12Going to say Orson
33:14What you said on the couch
33:16Would have been a massive red flag for me
33:18Finally
33:20Some validation
33:22Orson's a good guy, really good guy
33:24I don't like hearing people saying he's not genuine
33:26Because I've only ever had nothing but respect for Orson
33:28He's been really supportive of me
33:30He's had my back from the beginning
33:32So it feels quite unfair
33:34I think Rochelle is a little bit to blame as well
33:40What one thing do you wish you had in your own marriage
33:42That you might admire in another couple's marriage
33:44That's quite cute actually
33:46A husband that likes you
33:48Next
33:50Nathan and Lacey
33:52With the PDA
33:54Might be nice
33:56Nathan isn't scared to show you and tell you in front of people
33:58How he feels
34:00And show you that you're loved
34:02And that you're gorgeous
34:04And I wish that I had that
34:06I would say
34:08Roche and Sash
34:10The way they look at each other
34:12The way they bring out the best in each other
34:14It's what you want
34:16Yeah I love it man
34:18I'm here for it
34:20I think something that I admire
34:22You and Kieran just have this
34:24Radiance
34:26You just light up a room
34:28And I think it's the sweetest thing ever
34:30And I love watching us together
34:32Thank you
34:34Thank you, really appreciate that
34:38If you could stick with your current partner
34:40Or twist to another wife
34:42Would you stick or twist?
34:44If you would twist
34:46Who would it be and why?
34:48Spicy
34:50I wouldn't twist and go with somebody else's wife
34:52It's just not me
34:54Honestly
34:56I'd stick with where I'm at
34:58She's really trying this week
35:00I think I would stay as well
35:02If you're in it to marry one person
35:04Why would you switch to someone else?
35:06You've got to see it out to the end
35:08And if you don't work, leave
35:10Sounds bizarre, probably just stick it out
35:12Because all your relationships are class
35:14And I ain't going to attempt to twist any of that shit
35:16So I'd stick
35:18I would stick with mine
35:20I just feel like
35:22I give Christina what she needs
35:24She needs patience
35:26You two are suited very well
35:28She needs someone understanding
35:30But I'm the guy in here
35:32That's meant to be with Christina
35:34Absolutely
35:38I'm obsessed with my husband
35:40I think that's quite clear to see
35:42And I've never had a man try and understand me
35:44As much as Kieran has
35:46He has wanted to learn every inch about my mind
35:48Body and soul
35:50And no one has ever wanted to do that before
35:52So I'm so grateful for this man
35:54In my life
35:56Love that baby girl
35:58We love you Kieran
36:00I just want to answer mine
36:02Stick, easily
36:04I'm also a big stick
36:06He's my man
36:08I'm head over heels
36:10Oh baby girl
36:12100% stick, I'm in love
36:14Couldn't ask for any more
36:16We came here for love, we got it
36:18Love that
36:22I would stick
36:24Alex has shown me
36:26Our relationship is perfect
36:28We're going to have blazing rows
36:30But we're going to have good days as well
36:32How about you babe
36:34I'd probably say Alex
36:36So you'd twist with Alex
36:38Because on paper
36:40He's probably my type
36:42The way that he's tried to kind of take me under his wing
36:44A little bit
36:46And I think he's been really quite supportive
36:48So I would say Alex
36:52Hold, stick or twist
36:54Twist
36:56Really
37:00Steven
37:04It goes back to
37:06What he's like as a person
37:08His looks, his values
37:10His morals
37:14Yeah
37:16I feel like he could give me
37:18What I've wanted from Adam
37:20As much as I do adore Adam and respect Adam
37:22But at this moment in time
37:24Steven does
37:26Come across like he would be able to give me
37:28What Adam can't
37:32That is what is making me say twist
37:36Holly is getting a bit gobby
37:38She said that she would twist to Steven
37:40As opposed to sticking to her own husband
37:44Adam probably needs to watch his back a little bit
37:52So
38:02We want all the goss
38:04So do I
38:06Having spent the day apart
38:08The husbands and wives are reuniting back in their cabins
38:14Some wine?
38:16Yes, we've got some
38:18Evening
38:20Hello
38:22How was your day?
38:24Wild
38:26Tonight I'm looking forward to
38:28Chilling with Casper
38:30I'm ready to show my cute flirtatious self
38:34I bet you there was way more drama at yours than mine
38:38Tell me about yours first
38:40I mean the boys got on
38:42As you would expect
38:44Relatively tame
38:46The girls went in
38:48On Hannah
38:50It was like a lion's den
38:54So any surprising answers in yours then?
38:56Any surprising answers
39:00What do you think is missing in your marriage?
39:02What do you say?
39:06The original spark would have been really great
39:08Between us
39:10I'm ready for a kiss now
39:12We probably need a snog
39:14To take the intimacy further
39:18Try and like
39:20Ease my way in
39:22To see how it goes
39:24But we're developing this week
39:26We are developing, we are having a better week
39:28We are
39:30Little spark
39:32I think I've been a bit more fun this week
39:34Yeah, you've been in the country
39:36We've relaxed
39:38We've had a couple of drinks
39:40The mood lighting's here
39:42And the
39:44I feel like it's a bit more romantic
39:46You know?
39:48I've softened up to you Casper
39:50I'm ready, I'm yours
39:54As Rochelle said
39:56Just go in for it
40:00Casper, you're looking really good tonight
40:04Casper, I think you look really good tonight
40:08I'm wearing a jumper and jeans
40:10Thank you, you look really handsome tonight
40:18I'd really like to kiss you
40:20Would it be okay if I kissed you?
40:26What about a snog?
40:28I'll lean in a little bit
40:30Yeah
40:32See what happens
40:34I'll go from there
40:40Okay
40:48I didn't think Emma was the person for me
40:52However
40:54Now there is a chance
40:56And there's something there
40:58There is a snog on the cards
41:00Yeah, I think it could happen
41:02So what happened?
41:04Got ambushed, stormed her out
41:06She did actually get attacked
41:08It was a lot
41:10So Lacey, Holly and Holly
41:12Sat there like fucking opposite me
41:14And like went for me
41:16You've done this, you've done that
41:18You've tried it on with this husband
41:20You've tried it on with that husband
41:22Everyone came at me
41:24It was uncomfortable
41:26It was horrible
41:28Most of the guys were actually saying to Stephen
41:30That he should push and try to
41:32Do you feel like you got through to him?
41:34Well
41:36No
41:38I don't know
41:40I'm very open to having a conversation with Stephen
41:42But I've put in 100% effort for the last two weeks
41:44I've got nothing left, listen to me
41:46If he wants to talk to me
41:48I will 100% give him the time of day
41:50I am so open to having a conversation with him
41:52I have been for two weeks
41:54So if anyone can get through to him
41:56And he wants to sit with me and have a chat
41:58Let's leave it there
42:02Polly said
42:04If you could stick or twist
42:06She said I'd twist to Stephen
42:08Did she?
42:10Is she not happy?
42:12She's not getting enough from Adam
42:14I don't think
42:16I feel like Stephen's come in
42:18And she's had a conversation with Stephen
42:20And she's
42:22And she's also seen things in Stephen
42:24That he could give her
42:26That he doesn't give to her
42:34What were your questions?
42:36Who's the sexiest?
42:38Which was?
42:40I said Lacey
42:42Which you would know
42:46So down to the big question
42:48When you got asked
42:50What was it switch or switch?
42:52What did you two say first?
42:54I feel like
42:56Alex has actually shown me
42:58What a real relationship should work like
43:00What did you say?
43:02I said ain't no switching going on
43:04Because I'm not that guy
43:06Straight up
43:08What did you say?
43:10What do you think I said?
43:12You'd be silly to put twist wouldn't you?
43:14I did say twist
43:16No you didn't say twist
43:18I did
43:20No she didn't
43:22Yeah I did
43:24Stephen
43:26No you didn't
43:28Yes I did
43:30You said you'd twist to Stephen
43:32Why is that bad?
43:34Why would you twist?
43:36Because he would give me more than what you've given me
43:38Do you not think that's fair to say?
43:40Because he's had a little bit of flirty banter
43:42Yeah
43:44Because you don't get a fucking kiss in the street
43:46Or a hold in hand
43:48Fuck off
43:50No you don't swap husbands
43:52Because you don't get a kiss on the cheek in the street
43:54I'm not saying that I want to fucking
43:56Shack up with Stephen
43:58I want to be with you
44:00I've made that very clear
44:02I said if Adam was how Stephen was
44:04Adam would be perfect
44:06Like me saying if you looked like Lacey you'd be perfect
44:08That wouldn't upset you no?
44:10No it would upset me
44:12But I'm being honest
44:14I'm being honest
44:16You are everything
44:18I've said Lacey's the fittest
44:20But that doesn't mean I want to swap her for you
44:22Because I'm with you now
44:28You used to have a conversation
44:32I understand how you are
44:34And I understand your fucking thought process
44:36You don't understand it well enough because you want to switch
44:38The fact that in a group you've gone
44:40I'll switch to Stephen
44:42His mortgage is four
44:44That's just savage
44:46I've done everything for you
44:48It's been three fucking weeks
44:50I'm getting better every week
44:52And you're still not fucking happy
45:06That was a lot Paul
45:10Come here
45:16It's just
45:18It's just shit
45:28I'm really scared that that's going to put him off
45:30All that's going to do
45:32Is like fucking put him back
45:34To where he was like three weeks ago
45:36I don't want to lose him
45:38I don't want to lose him
45:44Next time
45:46I'm waking up by myself
45:48I haven't got a wife
45:50There isn't a fibre in my body that cares about
45:52As two marriages hit breaking point
45:54If she tries to host me at a dinner party
45:56I'm just going to ignore her
45:58Eyes begin to wander
46:00I've got 24 hours to enjoy myself
46:02I definitely could let my hair down tonight
46:04After you find Shannon unattractive
46:06Oh she's my type
46:08Stephen said if Ryan doesn't turn up tonight
46:10I'm going to shoot myself
46:12Leading to a clash of husbands
46:14If I wasn't here
46:16It'd crack on with her
46:18Fucking me
46:20This wasn't part of the plan
46:22And Adam's hurt feelings
46:24I'm sorry I'm fucking sorry Adam
46:26It's a fake sorry
46:28Spark renewed conflict with wife Polly
46:30The stuff that he said about me
46:32Is fucking hurtful