Married at First Sight UK S9 Episode 20
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00:00So, I can't even have banter and try and make friends while I'm here.
00:03Previously...
00:04She said to also not hold my hand, let's make him jealous.
00:07She's been super flirty with you.
00:08She's trying it on with all the other guys.
00:10It's not a swingers club.
00:12Rumours at the retreat put Hannah in the firing line.
00:15It looks f***ing shady.
00:16I'm not going to sit here and get every single person to tell me
00:19what they don't like about me.
00:20No, I'm going to tell you.
00:21Oh, I'm not f***ing...
00:22You're speaking to me like shit.
00:24She's going about things like a dickhead.
00:25While a candid confession...
00:27Stick with your current partner or twist...
00:30Twist...
00:31Steven.
00:32..threw Polly's marriage into turmoil.
00:35The fact that you've gone, I'll switch to Steven,
00:37is muggy as f***.
00:38I'm getting better every week and you're still not f***ing happy.
00:43It's just shit.
00:44I don't want to lose him.
00:46F***.
00:49Tonight...
00:50I'm waking up by myself.
00:52I haven't got a wife.
00:53There isn't a fibre in my body that cares about Dawson.
00:56As two marriages hit breaking point...
00:59She tries to talk to me at the dinner party.
01:00I'm just going to ignore her.
01:02..eyes begin to wander.
01:03I've got 24 hours to enjoy myself.
01:06I definitely could let my hair down tonight.
01:10So you find Sian unattractive?
01:11Oh, she's my type.
01:13Steven said, if Ryan doesn't turn up tonight,
01:15I'm going to shoot myself.
01:17Leading to a clash of husbands.
01:19If I wasn't here, I'd crack on with her.
01:21Muppet.
01:23F*** me.
01:24This wasn't part of the plan.
01:25And Adam's hurt feelings.
01:27I'm sorry. I'm f***ing sorry, Adam.
01:29There you go.
01:30It's a fake sorry.
01:32Like, don't cut it.
01:33Spark renewed conflict with wife Polly.
01:35The stuff that he's said about me...
01:38..is f***ing hurtful.
01:51You do look very handsome today, must say.
01:54Thank you, darling.
01:55Don't you worry, I'll be looking handsome as well
01:57when I get all dressed up.
02:00The couples are waking up to their final day at the retreat.
02:07What are you making?
02:08Coffee.
02:09I need one.
02:10Knackered.
02:16Oh, dear, Kasper.
02:18Funny.
02:19I got my way, I got my wicked way.
02:21You got a snug?
02:23Yes.
02:25I'm going with a yes to that.
02:27Yeah.
02:29There was mood lighting around the fireplace,
02:32a carafe of red on the side.
02:35I'd removed the pillows between us to snuggle on in,
02:38and then I finally said,
02:40close your eyes, Kasper.
02:43Oh, dear.
02:45People are going to be very excited for us.
02:48Oh, dear.
02:51Emma and I have been getting on really, really, really well.
02:53We got a little bit tipsy last night.
02:55I gave in after a few glasses of wine.
02:58It was a good kiss.
03:02You're getting your hair cut today.
03:03I'm getting my hair cut today.
03:05Finally, let him loose.
03:14I have not seen Rochelle for the whole of this retreat.
03:18I'm waking up in my bed by myself, you know,
03:20I haven't got a wife.
03:24I can't see no way back from my marriage.
03:28I don't see any point in us staying together
03:30while on this retreat.
03:32After a dispute over the previous commitment ceremony.
03:35You sat on the couch and you said that how,
03:37when I said about not being mentally stimulated,
03:40you said that caused you distress.
03:42We had ample opportunities to talk about it in private.
03:44You never mentioned that to me.
03:45It's fine for you to say you bore me.
03:48It's fine for you to say you don't mentally stimulate me.
03:51But you could have addressed it,
03:52but you could have addressed it at the time.
03:54It's fine for you to have arguments and then just walk out.
03:56Is it fine for you to lie?
04:00Let me just say... As much as you have.
04:01Let me just say this.
04:03What about your lies?
04:04I'm not going to actually sit here and talk to you.
04:06Let's talk about your lies, Orson.
04:07I don't want to be in the same space as you.
04:08You don't like asking certain questions?
04:10You're a little liar.
04:11You're a fraud.
04:12Rochelle and Orson decided to spend
04:14the rest of the retreat apart.
04:17I am done.
04:19It's good to be in this setting alone.
04:22There isn't a fibre in my body that cares about Orson.
04:26That's the reality of it.
04:28I don't have any intention of going into the dinner party
04:30with him tonight.
04:36Good morning.
04:37Good morning, honey, all right?
04:38Did you sleep well?
04:40Erm, not really.
04:41Give us a spud.
04:42Yes.
04:43I'm tired today.
04:44I just feel like every day I'm walking into a lion's den
04:46and I'm just attacked, and then I have to, like, get over it,
04:49and then it's just like, whoa, it's a lot.
04:53On Girls' Day yesterday, I felt completely ambushed
04:56and it was horrible.
04:57I'm kind of getting a bit bored of having to justify
04:59every single thing I do and say.
05:01I feel like you cope with it very well.
05:03Do you think you'll be walking into the dinner party separate?
05:06100%.
05:08Waking up this morning, I feel like I've had a really shit week.
05:12I feel a bit drained of the whole thing,
05:14and even my husband's gone.
05:15I feel a bit drained of the whole thing,
05:17and even my husband's pied me off.
05:19But I came on this retreat, like, for this marriage, so I'm still here.
05:23We were actually matched really, really, really well,
05:26and I've never felt the connection that me and him felt instantly
05:29in a long time.
05:30Like, I've not felt that with someone in a long time.
05:32I would love to get through to Stephen and just say,
05:35what do you want from me?
05:36Like, what do you want me to do?
05:40How's things going?
05:42Could be better.
05:43Are you looking forward to sitting next to Hannah tonight?
05:47I won't talk to her.
05:49I'm so out of it.
05:50There's no words left to be said, in my opinion.
05:52Last week, I went into the commitment ceremony
05:54with the attitude of, I'll give it a go.
05:58I don't think I'm the person she needs.
06:00The next set I have with Hannah will be in front of the experts.
06:04If she tries to talk to me at the dinner party,
06:06I'm just going to ignore her.
06:08If she tries arguing, she'll be arguing with herself.
06:10I'm just not here for it anymore.
06:11I've got no energy left for her.
06:13I seen Shannon on her own last night.
06:17She was with her suitcase going to her new apartment.
06:19Something must have been brewing for her to just end up in a room on her own.
06:23I saw Ryan last night, quite late,
06:25and Ryan was just like, oh, yeah, I'm just getting to bed now.
06:29Shannon is my type outside of here.
06:31Like, completely, yeah.
06:32Tat and... Everything. Right.
06:34Even without a tat, it's just the face.
06:36She might be single now, bro.
06:38No, no.
06:44Ryan and I had our first little fall-out last night.
06:47He kind of thought I was hiding things from the girls' day.
06:50So we just decided it was best to spend the night apart.
06:55I feel like the argument was totally blown out of proportion.
06:58Like, it was just minor things.
07:00I don't know what I'm supposed to do.
07:02Like, I've not done anything wrong.
07:08Last night, Shannon came in, climbed on bed.
07:11She was like, so, what questions did you lads get asked?
07:14So I said, what questions did the girls get asked?
07:17She's like, oh, I can't remember now.
07:19And they sat the other blah, blah, blah, just, like, tried to bat it off.
07:22So I said, I'm not going to answer what's been said.
07:25What's been said to have used, like...
07:26Lacey came in, she was like, hi, Ryan, you all right?
07:29Shannon gets up, she goes, no, we're not all right, and walks out.
07:33She's stalled elsewhere last night.
07:34I don't even know where she is.
07:36Hopefully, you sorted it today, like, the dinner party.
07:38We'll see, we'll see.
07:41I'm feeling calm just going to the dinner party.
07:43I didn't really want to go in on my own, because I knew it was nothing.
07:47But, yeah, we need to work on communication.
07:49I'm not here for no other woman.
07:57I really needed this.
07:58But the wife's happy, you've got free reign, just go mad.
08:01Do whatever you think's going to make me look good, mate.
08:03I think I like the idea as well that we haven't got a mirror,
08:06so you can't see what I'm doing.
08:08You can't see what I'm doing. I could be doing anything.
08:11How are you?
08:12Erm...
08:13Yeah, well, when I got back to my lodge last night with Alex,
08:17I found out that Holly had said she'd switch to Stephen.
08:21That's got to hurt.
08:22Yeah, it was a bit of a kick in the teeth.
08:24Her reasons behind it was,
08:26is because Stephen's in touch with his emotional side,
08:28he talks about his feelings and he's very open.
08:30Yeah.
08:32But I've just said to her, like, I think it's disrespectful
08:34and I feel like you've kind of mugged me off in front of everyone.
08:38I got really pissed off and I walked out.
08:40I'm a little bit nervous going into the dinner party today.
08:43Me and Polly haven't really spoken this morning,
08:46so God knows what's going to happen.
08:52Good morning.
08:54You OK? Yeah.
08:56Waking up this morning, I still feel really upset
08:58because things between me and Adam still haven't been resolved.
09:02Adam left this morning, there was no kind of,
09:05like, there was no reassurance from him.
09:08I woke up really early,
09:10give him a spoon, give him a kiss on the back,
09:12but then not got anything.
09:15Yes, I shouldn't have said twist straight away.
09:20I should have said stick.
09:21However, there are tendencies in Stephen that I want from Adam.
09:26That was it.
09:28Adam has said a lot of stuff that I've had to take on the chin.
09:30He says things sometimes, in the moment,
09:32that he doesn't necessarily mean,
09:34and then he has to explain himself.
09:35I've done exactly the same as he's done,
09:37and I got what I got, which is really unfair.
09:41What on earth makes him think that that's acceptable?
09:44I agree. I don't deserve that.
09:46I do not deserve to go in there tonight to be made feel like shit.
09:50Woe betide Adam. I'm bored of it.
09:53Here we are, guys, the fourth dinner party,
09:55and, of course, this time,
09:57all our couples are away on their luxury retreat.
10:00It's a very different environment, of course,
10:02because it's much more relaxed for our couples.
10:04Hopefully, they can let their guards down a little bit
10:06and really deepen those connections.
10:08And recently, we've had three new couples join the group.
10:11It'll be interesting to see how they've been integrating.
10:14I'm going to be the first one to go,
10:15and I'm going to be the second one to go.
10:17I'm going to be the third one to go.
10:19I'm going to be the fourth one to go.
10:20I'm going to be the fifth one to go.
10:22I'm going to be the sixth one to go.
10:24So, it's going to be interesting to see how they've been integrating.
10:30Oh, it's looking fabulous.
10:32Isn't it? Should we grab a drink?
10:33First in...
10:34Emma and Casper.
10:35And Casper's hat.
10:37What's going on there?
10:38Hopefully, he's going to reveal something fabulous.
10:40Really? Yes.
10:41Let's hope.
10:42Whoop!
10:43Last time we saw this couple, Casper said leave,
10:46and we really asked Emma to lean into that more vulnerable,
10:49Oh, she's done that.
10:50Do you want to see it?
10:52Oh, yes.
10:53Yeah, let's see the hair.
10:54Whip it off.
10:54Oh, fabulous.
10:59Wow, a different looking Casper.
11:01Woo.
11:02I like it.
11:03I really like it.
11:04He hasn't gone too drastic.
11:05He hasn't gone too drastic.
11:06No, no, no.
11:07Not at all.
11:09To a new Casper.
11:13Oh, yes it is one of our beautiful friends.
11:16Hello, gorgeous people.
11:18Oh, look at his short fucking sides.
11:20Hello.
11:21You look amazing.
11:22Hello, hello, hello.
11:24We've got some bubbles open.
11:25Here you are, darling.
11:26Toast us with the millsteaks.
11:28Thank you so much.
11:29Cheers, Casper.
11:30Cheers.
11:31Do you want to sit together?
11:33Yeah, yeah.
11:36How are you feeling about Casper's new haircut?
11:38I really like it.
11:38I think it's way more subtle than I thought it would be.
11:41Have you planned a vacation?
11:43We did have a snog last night.
11:45I did plan a kiss.
11:45I said I was going to, didn't I?
11:48Oh, wow.
11:50This is real progress from the last commitment ceremony.
11:53Casper was saying leave, and now they're snogging.
11:56That's a good start.
11:57That's a good start.
11:59Once you break the ice, now it becomes a bit more
12:01less of an awkward thing.
12:02Because once you've opened the fridge,
12:03you might as well put your hand in and grab something.
12:08Have you heard about any sort of what's
12:10going on with the couples?
12:11The guys around, I think it was Alex, Adam,
12:15and Orson.
12:16Alex asked, did Polly say twist?
12:19Like, is this true?
12:20And I was like, yeah.
12:21I had Adam round to mine this morning to cut my hair,
12:24and he's really disappointed with Polly.
12:26Is he gutted?
12:26He was surprised, because he said, stick.
12:30Well, that's quite a shock, because Polly and Adam
12:33have been getting on so well.
12:34So I wonder what's going on there.
12:41Oh, there they are.
12:44And here come Polly and Adam, walking in together.
12:48So this is quite a surprise, because we know
12:50that something has happened.
12:51Looking fire once again.
12:53Thank you, my love.
12:54And it looks like Adam doesn't want to be there.
12:58How are we, Casper?
13:00Gorgeous girl.
13:01Hello.
13:01How are you?
13:02You OK?
13:03Good, you?
13:04Good.
13:05Me and Polly are going into the mixer together.
13:07I think she just wanted to lean calm, so I just let her do it.
13:10But I'm still pissed off, and I don't want to speak to her yet.
13:15Our verdue is getting a little bit.
13:17Yeah.
13:17Yeah.
13:18Jeez.
13:21But do you not sometimes look at her?
13:22She's a gorgeous woman.
13:23Look at her.
13:24She's up there.
13:25It's nice.
13:26Touching her a week ago was like, no fucking way.
13:29And now she's like, let's jump into bed together.
13:31And I'm like, whoa.
13:32It's like from here to there.
13:34Yeah.
13:35And the more she pushes like this,
13:36the more I'm going to withdraw.
13:37It's trying to find that balance.
13:39These two clearly feel very differently about intimacy.
13:43Casper feels awkward about it all.
13:45And we know he's a guy with high privacy settings.
13:48But Emma feels that the floodgates have opened.
13:51She needs to be careful not to push too hard.
13:53Otherwise, she might well push him away.
13:58We had that big argument last night when everyone left.
14:01It's not that deep, is it?
14:02It's not.
14:03It isn't.
14:04And I feel like it's just bruised his ego a little bit.
14:06And I feel like if that's what it needed to take
14:07to get you to admit that you want more than you're letting on,
14:10then fucking show me that.
14:12He hasn't spoke to me all day.
14:15He said that he wants space and that he
14:17wants to sort his head out.
14:18I've respected that.
14:19He was like, I've never got so angry.
14:20This has never happened in a relationship before.
14:22And I thought, what?
14:23Because I haven't had a fucking backbone.
14:24Sorry, are you forgetting some of the shit
14:25that you said about me on the couch
14:27in front of all of our friends that you
14:28don't think has embarrassed me?
14:30Fuck off.
14:32Fuck off.
14:33Fuck off.
14:35Interestingly, over the last few weeks,
14:38Polly has tried different tactics
14:40to get Adam to see her and to be attracted to her.
14:43And I do wonder whether this is like another tactic
14:47so that Adam can be a bit jealous.
14:48And if that's the case, that is the worst way
14:52to get your partner's attention.
14:54Still pissed off, to be fair.
14:55If someone said someone's good looking, so what?
14:59I don't care.
14:59Yeah, so what?
15:00But it's the idea of switching that's such a big thing.
15:04You've said this.
15:05You're lying.
15:05You're trying to get out of it.
15:07You're trying to turn it on me.
15:09It's like, just own it.
15:11At the last commitment ceremony,
15:12Adam gave permission for Polly to cheat.
15:15And here he is, upset, because she
15:17has now said, I want a twist.
15:19I suspect here Polly is wanting to punish
15:22Adam for some of the nasty things that he's said to her.
15:26But as we know, two wrongs don't make a right.
15:28This couple are in danger of slipping
15:30into that point scoring dynamic.
15:33And no one's going to win.
15:37Oh, wow.
15:38Orson's alone.
15:47So where is Rochelle?
15:49Have you seen her?
15:49I'm guessing not.
15:50The last time I saw Rochelle is the day when we got here.
15:56I've been compromising, compromising.
16:00I'm doing, I'm doing.
16:01Nothing's coming back.
16:02You're not even opening up to me emotionally
16:05so I could maybe help you.
16:07Nobody live with us, so nobody knows what I have
16:10to deal with on a daily basis.
16:13Like, I've really tried.
16:15I genuinely tried.
16:18At the last commitment ceremony,
16:20Orson and Rochelle both said stay.
16:23I do wonder if some of Rochelle's feedback
16:25about him not being good enough for her
16:28has really played a part in him walking in today by himself.
16:32Ah, there's the team.
16:34Hello.
16:35Hello.
16:36Hi.
16:37Hi, guys.
16:38Oh, my god.
16:39Look at you beautiful girls.
16:41Here in a Christina.
16:42All smiles, high energy.
16:44Here we are.
16:45The party can start.
16:48How was boys day?
16:49Mint.
16:50Was it?
16:51Bill said you were the funniest.
16:53I think I said I'd avoid you as a husband
16:56because I think your energy is too much for me.
16:59Are you fucking joking?
17:01Me?
17:02I think you're too optimistic.
17:09Hello.
17:10Oh, hey!
17:12Hello, you there.
17:13Oh, I love your hair.
17:14Thank you, darling.
17:15How are you?
17:16You look really well.
17:17Well, you're close, Ruth.
17:18Listen, listen.
17:19Mambo.
17:20Here she is.
17:21Hiya.
17:22And mademoiselle.
17:23Aw, look at you.
17:25Has anyone else had an argument over them questions?
17:27I don't know, but I know Shannon and Ryan
17:30spent the night apart last night.
17:32Really?
17:33Yeah.
17:34Why?
17:35Don't know.
17:36That's a big change.
17:38I mean, we need to understand what's happened
17:40between the last commitment ceremony and today.
17:42Hopefully, it's not too serious.
17:45Amy.
17:46Why did Shannon and Ryan spend the night apart last night?
17:49Do you know?
17:50Shannon and Ryan did, though.
17:52Yeah.
17:53Don't lie.
17:54No, they did.
17:56Hi, guys.
17:59You're looking amazing.
18:01Thanks, babe.
18:02You look gorgeous.
18:03Hello, my darling.
18:04You all look so nice.
18:06Why did she invite her, then?
18:08I don't know.
18:09Apparently, she stopped on her own last night.
18:11She looks upset.
18:12Are you OK, first of all?
18:14Yeah, I'm OK.
18:15Like, Ryan, I was asking questions about girls, then,
18:17and he thought that I was hiding stuff from him.
18:20And then Lacey came in and asked if I was all right,
18:22and I was like, no.
18:23And that just totally set him off.
18:34Hey, guys.
18:36I'm walking in.
18:37I feel pretty nervous.
18:38I don't really know who's mad at me,
18:40so I don't know really what I'm walking into.
18:43Hello, Sunshine State.
18:44You all right?
18:45What would a cat strike, then?
18:47Oh, no, you didn't.
18:49Yeah, that wasn't very kind.
18:52I'm not even acknowledging who's just walked in.
18:54So it sounds like Holly and Hannah have had a bit of a run-in.
18:57It makes you wonder what Hannah actually did
19:00to make Holly and Polly so angry.
19:03Smuggy.
19:04You OK?
19:07You all right?
19:11Hello.
19:12You OK?
19:13Are you saying hi? No?
19:14No, not really.
19:15OK.
19:16You OK?
19:17Yeah.
19:22Polly.
19:24Why? Just say hello.
19:25Why the fuck should I say hello?
19:27Fuck her.
19:30Fuck her.
19:32You've rubbed me the fucking wrong way now.
19:40There he is.
19:41Hello.
19:42Hello.
19:43Hello.
19:44Oh, he looks really smart.
19:45Hello, hello.
19:46He looks really nice.
19:47You all right?
19:48Stephen's walked in.
19:49He actually, annoyingly, looks quite fit.
19:51You look very bright.
19:52Thank you so much.
19:54OK.
19:55Yeah, you.
19:56Hopefully we can both enjoy the dinner party as a couple.
19:59Looking gorgeous.
20:00Hello, darling.
20:01How are you?
20:02Yeah, good.
20:03Good.
20:04Oh, wow.
20:05Are you actually not going to say hi to me?
20:07No, I'm done talking to you.
20:10Jesus Christ, that was fucking frosty.
20:14No matter what you do...
20:17No matter what she has done, at least hello.
20:20Sure.
20:21At least an acknowledgement.
20:22Yeah, it's disrespectful.
20:23You all good?
20:24Yeah, you.
20:25Why don't you say hello?
20:26Huh?
20:27Just say hello.
20:28You good?
20:41Looking gorgeous.
20:42Hello, darling.
20:43How are you?
20:44Yeah, good.
20:45Oh, wow.
20:46Are you actually not going to say hi to me?
20:47No, I'm done talking to you.
20:50Jesus Christ, that was fucking frosty.
20:55No matter what she has done, at least hello.
20:58Sure.
20:59At least an acknowledgement.
21:00Yeah, it's disrespectful.
21:01You all good?
21:02Yeah, you.
21:03Why don't you say hello?
21:04Huh?
21:05Just say hello.
21:06You good?
21:08When we saw Hannah and Stephen at the commitment ceremony,
21:12things were rocky.
21:13Stephen felt betrayed by Hannah,
21:16and Hannah was trying really hard to prove to him,
21:19I'm not like that.
21:20He's not able to get past that.
21:23She's a fucking idiot.
21:25She's a fucking idiot.
21:26Who?
21:27Hannah.
21:28She was like, oh, well, we're not saying hello.
21:30No, not really.
21:31I don't even want to breathe in your direction.
21:33I wouldn't even piss on you if you was on fire.
21:35Go away.
21:36The thing that really annoys me
21:37is the fact that she actually looks really nice.
21:39What?
21:40She actually looks really nice,
21:41and that's what's pissing me off the most,
21:43because I really like that jumpsuit.
21:45I really like that jumpsuit, and it's annoying me,
21:47because I want to be like, where's your jumpsuit from?
21:50I mean, in many ways, this is classic deflection, isn't it,
21:53on Polly's part.
21:54Things are not going well between her and Adam,
21:56so she's shifting the focus onto another person.
22:03Why are you looking at me like that?
22:05I really like you today.
22:07She likes me every day.
22:09No, you look really good.
22:11So do you.
22:12I like this.
22:13Aw.
22:14Here's her kit.
22:16No, we are good at the minute, aren't we?
22:18Yeah, yeah, we're good, man.
22:19These arguments that happen,
22:20as long as you're both willing to stay and fight
22:22for what you've got, you always come back stronger,
22:25because every time me and Harley butt heads,
22:28when we resolve it, I learn something about her.
22:31We've come such a long way,
22:33and you will hit so many obstacles,
22:35but it's how you deal with them
22:37and how you come back together is what will make you progress.
22:40They sound like they know what they're talking about.
22:43I think the two of them have been listening to us.
22:46So this is progress.
22:53Is Ryan coming today?
22:55She moved out last night.
22:57I said, is it done?
22:58She's like, we'll see if he turns up.
23:00So if he turns up, it's not done?
23:03Better be quick.
23:11This is awful news for Ryan and Shannon.
23:14Mm-hm. It is. It's sad.
23:17Would you pull up for a chat now if he don't turn up?
23:22Got to be fast, bro.
23:25It's an easy question.
23:27Only if I knew he wasn't turning up full stop.
23:30I think you take your time, take a deep breath, see what happens.
23:33Yeah.
23:34Right.
23:39So this here is a definition of cut and run.
23:42I don't know what he's playing at.
23:44He's new to the experiment.
23:46They've come up against one hurdle,
23:48and he's already thinking about looking outside of his own relationship.
23:53Holly.
23:57Hello.
23:59Need to find out the crack between those two.
24:02Between who two?
24:03Shannon and Ryan.
24:05Basically, Ryan doesn't believe she had his back on Girls' Day.
24:09I don't know when she stayed apart from him.
24:11So is he coming today?
24:12Don't have a clue. She's been here a while.
24:17If he doesn't come in, would she stay with Stephen?
24:20What? Who?
24:22SHE LAUGHS
24:24Oh, shit. What did he say?
24:26He said, if he doesn't come in, would he stay with Stephen?
24:28Wow. He just said it.
24:31If he doesn't turn up...
24:33You find Shannon attractive.
24:34Oh, she's my type. She's absolutely gorgeous.
24:36She's my type.
24:37Let's take this straight up.
24:39Do something and tell her for me.
24:41OK.
24:45Here they are.
24:47Hello!
24:49Oh, yeah, it's Posh and Beck.
24:51You all right? How you doing?
24:53How are you?
24:57Sian, I need to talk to you. Yeah.
25:02This is something that needs to be a bit DL.
25:04OK. How are you? You look beautiful.
25:07Oh, God, Sian.
25:11OK, so, basically, you've just seen that Stephen called me over.
25:15He said, what's going on with Shannon and Ryan?
25:17Do you think they're done?
25:19And I said, I don't think they are.
25:21And he said, if Ryan doesn't turn up tonight,
25:23I'm going to shoot my shot.
25:26Cos she is just my type.
25:28He went, so does that mean Shannon's not the same with Stephen?
25:31No! I went, you've misworded that.
25:33He went, do you think she'll be the same with Stephen?
25:35I was like, woo-woo! No, no.
25:37I just wanted to give you the heads-up, though.
25:39He's not my type. I don't want anyone else but Ryan here.
25:42I know you don't. Like, I literally don't want anyone else.
25:51Hello!
25:53Hello, guys!
25:55How are you, mate?
25:57You good, you good? Yeah, you?
25:59Oh, it's my girls!
26:01All the girls, all the girls!
26:07Here he is, talking to devil.
26:09Here's Ryan now.
26:18Awkward.
26:24Stephen looks disappointed.
26:26Well, Stephen looks a bit uncomfortable.
26:32Fuck me.
26:34This wasn't part of the plan.
26:36It's Ryan!
26:50Awkward.
26:54Stephen looks disappointed.
26:56Well, Stephen looks a bit uncomfortable.
27:02Awkward.
27:04Right.
27:06This wasn't part of the pun.
27:08Let's roll!
27:15Oh, what's here now? Ramen.
27:17Don't say that, please. No, no, no, no.
27:20Respectfully.
27:21So here he is trying to control the narrative with Holly,
27:26essentially redesigning what he said,
27:29because, of course, he didn't say it respectfully.
27:31Come here, my G.
27:37You all right?
27:38I'm all right.
27:42I missed you.
27:43I missed you, too.
27:44You did?
27:45Yeah.
27:47I'm so glad I finally got my big hug off of Ryan.
27:50I knew that we would be friends.
27:52Yay!
27:58I love this guy!
28:00Yay!
28:02Yay!
28:06It's nice to hear both Ryan and Shannon saying they've missed each other.
28:10Hopefully, this is just a blip for the two of them.
28:13But what does this mean for Stephen?
28:20Double parts, mate.
28:21Very good.
28:22Double parts.
28:23Double parts, mate.
28:24You all right?
28:25I'm good, are you?
28:26Yeah, mate.
28:27How you doing, Ryan?
28:28I'm chilled now, mate.
28:33How are you?
28:34I'm all right.
28:38So...
28:41You know what, Hannah?
28:43I grabbed a tape to you.
28:45I like you.
28:47You're no-nonsense chick.
28:49She says what she feels, fiery.
28:51These are all the personalities I asked for when I wanted my wife, you know?
28:55I like that about you.
28:57Other things we were sure.
28:59No, no, no, I haven't seen her.
29:06What's Orson really saying here?
29:08Sounds a lot to me like you're the wife I wish I had.
29:12Listen, I've got 24 hours to enjoy myself.
29:16I like Hannah.
29:18I definitely could let my hair down tonight knowing that Rochelle's not here.
29:22The boy band look is a look.
29:24It is a look.
29:26The boy band look is a look.
29:28It is serving.
29:30What is it serving?
29:31Fresh out of Backstreet Boys.
29:33Is there a black guy in Backstreet Boys?
29:35There fucking is now.
29:39Ultimately, I suppose, of Orson and Hannah,
29:41both of them have been rejected by their partners,
29:44so they're looking to each other for the affection and affirmation
29:47they're not getting in their own marriages.
29:49Although it sounds like Orson might want to take it a little bit further.
29:57FYI...
29:59..I'm going to explain to Ryan when I can get him on his own.
30:06Just so... No, no, I respect...
30:08I don't want it to get out of proportion for what it is.
30:11You know what I mean?
30:12I'm just going to grab him now.
30:20Can I have a quick chat with you? Yeah, yeah, sure.
30:24Well, here we go. Phase two of damage control.
30:27This is fear, deer in the headlights.
30:35You good? Yeah.
30:38What's up with Steven?
30:40Oh, I just thought he was telling her about Backstreet.
30:47So, I'm putting it out with you now, while we're in here,
30:50I lost, and Adam's told me to let myself in.
30:53Everyone said,
30:57Well, I was like, I said she was a sexist, of course.
31:00I was like, I'm not going to make it a thing.
31:03If Ryan walks in, especially, and we've walked in,
31:06but everyone's spoken about it.
31:08But that's all it was.
31:14I'm not that guy.
31:16I didn't want to make it into a big thing.
31:18I didn't want it to come across disrespectful
31:20that I'd done it behind your back.
31:23It looks like Ryan sees right through Steven.
31:26I think the fact that Steven is rewriting history,
31:30he knows what he said before was wrong.
31:33Holly's spoken to her, the fucking whispers go round,
31:35but I'm not the type.
31:37Steven's definitely broke world code.
31:39He's here for the wrong reasons.
31:41I've got nothing to say to him.
31:49music plays
31:55Oh, man.
31:57Oh, you're going to get too hot there.
31:59Shall we swap?
32:01That's cool.
32:03Casper and Emma!
32:05This is fun!
32:07Hello, hello, hello!
32:13Wow.
32:15You could still see the tension between Polly and Adam.
32:18They're still not talking to each other.
32:24You two have got some fucking faces on you, man.
32:27You can't sit there like that all night. Come on, man.
32:29I've given him his time and his space.
32:31It's not done for me to go to him.
32:33I've done enough.
32:35You say you've done enough, but you haven't tried to speak to me today.
32:37You haven't spoken to me.
32:39Why would I initiate a conversation with you?
32:41I think with Polly and Adam,
32:43we find that they find themselves
32:45in these types of conflicting situations,
32:47and they can't seem to get their way out of it.
32:50They both want to be heard,
32:52but they're both not listening to one another.
32:55I've said one thing.
32:57Do you not think the things that you've said in the past have hurt me?
33:00That makes it OK, does it? We're going back down that route.
33:02What do you mean, does it not make it OK?
33:04There's been a lot of things that you've said that you shouldn't have said.
33:07Yeah, I know, but mine was just wording it wrong.
33:09You didn't word this wrong.
33:11Based on the qualities Stephen has in you...
33:13You said twist.
33:15Listen, I've said that I was sorry.
33:17I said that I fucking worded it in a wrong way.
33:19What else do you want me to say apart from,
33:21I'm sorry, I should have worded it differently?
33:23I don't know, but do you expect me to just be like,
33:25yeah, cool, let's get on there and let's be happy?
33:27So do you think that I should have been like,
33:29oh, OK, yeah, cool, after you said it's minimal attraction there?
33:31I thought it was over that, but let's keep bringing that up.
33:33We're not over it, though.
33:35This is why we're going in circles.
33:37In a nutshell, this is what you're doing.
33:39You did this and you did that.
33:41Childish, man.
33:43I have to say Adam has a point here.
33:45Polly knows she needs to apologise,
33:47so she does so,
33:49but then backs it up with
33:51but, but, but, but, but.
33:53Yeah, an apology is worthless
33:55unless it is done
33:57in the proper manner.
33:59The fact that you're turning this on me is a fucking joke.
34:01I'm turning it on you.
34:03You are turning it on me because I've said sorry,
34:05I've apologised, I've owned it.
34:07Sorry, Adam. There you go.
34:33Right now my worry is
34:35going to be to Ryan about what I said about Shannon.
34:37I'm worried it's just going to escalate into something
34:39it doesn't need to be, it doesn't need to happen.
34:43Ryan, do you want a chat?
34:47I'll walk round.
34:55Right, guys.
34:59So, I will tell you what
35:01you've said to me tonight.
35:03So, Stephen said,
35:05what's the crack going for Ryan and Shannon?
35:07Because she's coming on her own.
35:09And I said, I just know that they had an argument last night.
35:11So, I said, if Ryan comes through that door,
35:13I think they're going to be absolutely fine.
35:15He said, if Ryan doesn't turn up tonight,
35:17I'm going to stick it on Shannon.
35:21Fuck me. He lied to me tonight
35:23and I don't respect that.
35:25Did he word it like that to you?
35:29I just remember you saying,
35:31I don't think it's come from anyone else.
35:33I don't think he touched on that part.
35:35He was banging on yesterday.
35:37Bro-code.
35:39It's not a swingers club.
35:41That's what he said.
35:43He's making it a swingers club.
35:45I will keep my enemies
35:47very close to my chest.
35:49And he's my enemy.
35:53Shannon minding. Brilliant.
35:55So, when I saw him walk in
35:57and then I saw everyone whispering,
35:59I'm not letting this get out of hand.
36:01Someone said that if
36:03Shannon walks in by himself,
36:05that you're going to shoot Shannon.
36:07On the stick and twist question, I said,
36:09fucking stick? I'm loyal to my boys
36:11to that extent.
36:13His story to me is different
36:15to what he said to Holland.
36:17It weren't the truth.
36:19You can't say it's not a swingers club
36:21and then the day after, if I don't come,
36:23I'm going to jump on to her because
36:25your relationship's peppered.
36:27It was like...
36:29If I wasn't here,
36:31they'd crack on with her.
36:37He's a muppet.
36:39Muppet, muppet, muppet,
36:41muppet, muppet.
36:43He best not talk to me.
36:45MUSIC
36:47MUSIC
36:49MUSIC
36:51MUSIC
36:53MUSIC
36:55Cheers to doing a lot of
36:57growing this week at the retreat.
36:59I think we've both grown a lot from this retreat.
37:01Aww.
37:03Who's growing?
37:05You can't grow no more.
37:07I've hit me maximum.
37:09Still got your console?
37:11Oh, it's horrible, isn't it?
37:13God, it's been ages as well.
37:15It's been since the honeymoon.
37:17That's the only thing that's missing
37:19in our life at the moment, isn't it, darling?
37:25How are you?
37:27Are you OK? Tired.
37:29I feel a little bit gutted
37:31because Stephen
37:33hasn't spoke to me all day,
37:35but I'm really trying.
37:37What are you doing today?
37:39I'm done talking to her.
37:41I'm done talking to her.
37:43What do you mean?
37:45I feel like every time we talk, it just gets intense
37:47and I can't be arsed with it.
37:49Why did you want to stay in driving?
37:51I've explained this to you.
37:53I can't be arsed with arguments on it any more.
37:55I'm sorry it's worked out like this.
37:57I genuinely am, because I came into it
37:59with the right intentions, but I'm out.
38:01It's interesting
38:03that he's checked out,
38:05but yet he has so much animosity
38:07towards her.
38:09He doesn't engage or talk to her.
38:11Why is that? It's so sad
38:13because he is just quitting
38:15before our eyes.
38:17There's really nothing more Hannah can do with this situation.
38:19Can you not accept my apology, though,
38:21and realise that I made a mistake?
38:23I can't accept that apology.
38:25Please, I'm just asking.
38:27I get that, but please, let's just not go there again.
38:29Yeah, but I want to be friends with you.
38:31I don't want to leave her on this bad...
38:33You don't need to be a friend. I came here to marry you.
38:35She lost all my trust.
38:37You said you wanted to stay with me,
38:39but you're cracking on to all the other men.
38:41She's lost my respect.
38:43Why would I want a friend like that in my life?
38:45Don't want her in my life, full stop.
38:47I know we've been through this experiment together,
38:49but that is what it is to me.
38:51I'm just being honest with you.
38:53I'm sorry I fucked up, I'm sorry.
38:57It's pathetic.
39:03I respect Stephen being honest,
39:05but he's basically said,
39:07I don't even want to have a friendship with you.
39:11I'm upset, but there's nothing I can do.
39:25Awesome.
39:27How are you, coach?
39:29You OK?
39:31I probably need to be honest with myself
39:33because he isn't willing to work with me,
39:35so I'm going to do what I want to do.
39:37She's going to the hot tub.
39:41I have always got on well with Orson.
39:43He's a really good guy.
39:45He's had my back in here since day one.
39:47Just make out right now in front of everyone.
39:51Wow.
39:53That is some pretty, full-on flirting.
39:55Stop it.
39:57I haven't said anything.
39:59I feel undressed.
40:01You look at that and you say,
40:03OK, here's someone who's got to the point now
40:05where she feels she'll never be able
40:07to get through to Stephen.
40:09The marriage is a lost cause,
40:11and she's seeking attention
40:13from one of the few people in the room
40:15she's connected with.
40:17Cheers.
40:19Cheers.
40:21Cheers.
40:23So how are you doing?
40:25Are you good?
40:27I think after the ceremony,
40:29it was like a big night.
40:31Just getting a bit closer to Amy,
40:33just putting everything on the table.
40:35And I think it was nice.
40:37Especially when you came up
40:39and you put your arms around me
40:41and she said, like, you'll be OK.
40:43It wasn't like a judgmental thing.
40:45Can you reach your arms all the way around him?
40:47The neck bit, yes.
40:49Do you have an impression of Luke?
40:51Later.
40:53It's a quick learn, isn't it?
40:55Do you prefer him with that accent?
40:57Yeah.
41:07Oh, the honesty box.
41:13Oh, my God!
41:15We had a bath together
41:17this week.
41:19Which part of my body did you enjoy
41:21washing the most?
41:23Part of your body that I enjoyed
41:25washing the most?
41:27I like your bum.
41:31I really like your bum.
41:33Thanks.
41:37Christina,
41:39if I was an animal,
41:41what would I be and why?
41:43I would really like you to be a koala
41:45so you just cling to me all the time.
41:47Aww!
41:53It is very cute
41:55because essentially she's saying cute and cuddly.
41:57Yes.
42:01What do you foresee will be
42:03the biggest challenge in our marriage?
42:07I think the biggest challenge that I can see
42:09with you, Amy, is we're both very
42:11slow burners.
42:13You are.
42:15Emotionally, I am.
42:17So, I think because things are going
42:19so well, we might be a slow burner
42:21but we might end up in a big bonfire,
42:23baby.
42:37How would you sum up our time in the retreat?
42:39The retreat
42:41has been
42:43the most positive week
42:45we've ever had.
42:47I have leaned in.
42:51Since the commitment ceremony,
42:53I had a job to do and that was to show
42:55Casper that I can change and I can take
42:57feedback because he didn't think I could take it before.
42:59So, I have taken on the feedback,
43:01I've changed, I've leaned in, I've relaxed
43:03into it and we got snogged.
43:11How do you
43:13feel about how far we've come
43:15since our first dinner party?
43:17I mean, we were not in a good place in our first dinner
43:19party, let's be honest. We've put a lot of effort in this week.
43:21We've definitely grown as people.
43:23We've come a long, long way.
43:25We're so much more comfortable around each other.
43:27It's definitely moved
43:29in the right direction.
43:31Andy!
43:33Well done, Casper!
43:35Well done, Casper!
43:39It's great
43:41to see that Emma has really stepped up.
43:43I think there's hope for these two.
43:45This is progress.
43:47Ryan,
43:49how committed are you to our marriage?
43:51I'm very committed to this.
43:53I've only had eyes for you.
43:55I've got no eyes for nobody else.
43:57And if it wasn't you,
43:59I'd leave her.
44:05Ryan, with the clever delivery there,
44:07talking, of course, to his wife,
44:09Shannon, but also to Stephen,
44:11making it clear that he's
44:13not down with the wife swap.
44:25Why do you think
44:27we've had such a difficult week?
44:31I think we've had such a difficult week
44:33because you haven't let your guard
44:35down, you haven't let me in, and I
44:37still don't know how you feel about me
44:39wholeheartedly, and that's
44:41why I feel like we've had a hard week.
44:43I thought we was having a good week until the girls
44:45and boys date. But I feel like you
44:47haven't shown me how
44:49you think and how you feel about me.
44:51I am
44:53getting better and better at doing that, and the fact that
44:55everyone else can see I'm putting the effort in.
44:57We was actually having a really good week
44:59until yesterday, with the question.
45:01OK. I'm not doing this now.
45:03And agreeing to disagree.
45:05God, I can't talk to you, honestly.
45:11What else do you want me to do?
45:15What the fuck else does he expect me to do?
45:21I will say, Adam,
45:23Adam, she did have some
45:25lovely things to say about you at the girls' night,
45:27I do promise you that.
45:29Yeah, but then she also said some shit things.
45:31One shit thing
45:33about the qualities that he's got that I wish
45:35that you had is... It was little comments like, oh, I wish
45:37she was more like Stephen, and...
45:39Because he can fucking talk about how
45:41he feels, and you don't.
45:43You can't compare me to someone else.
45:45Especially when we're mates, man. OK.
45:47If you would have even given me a bit of reassurance before you left
45:49this morning, which was a cuddle,
45:51do you not think that that would have made me feel a lot better?
45:53I needed that, and you didn't do that.
45:55I was in my own fucked up headspace. No offence, I wasn't
45:57thinking about you, not going to lie. No, but you don't
45:59think about me. You don't.
46:01What did you need this morning?
46:03Space. Which is what I've given him
46:05all day. But it's still not good enough.
46:07What the fuck do you want me to do?
46:09Move to Timbuktu? Where the fuck do you expect
46:11me to go?
46:15Don't just say, sorry,
46:17I've told you how it is. It's a fake
46:19sorry. That don't cut it.
46:21Do you not think that I've given him
46:23enough time for everything else? Absolutely,
46:25Polly. Fuck that comment, Holly.
46:27It's bullshit. All I've
46:29given that boy is fucking time.
46:35You've made a mistake. Own it.
46:37Don't keep saying I've on this, man.
46:39Maybe you should have said stick.
46:41I know that. I've said
46:43I should have done that. But he has
46:45said some shitty things on that couch.
46:47He has. The stuff that he's said about
46:49me, for me to then
46:51sit there and take
46:53how I am,
46:55it's fucking hurtful.
46:57Do you know what I mean?
46:59I'm sorry, no.
47:01It's fucking hurtful.
47:09Next time.
47:11I want to spend the rest of my life with you.
47:13She's finally seeing who I
47:15actually am. The impact of
47:17the retreat hits home. I felt
47:19betrayed. My head's been scrambled.
47:21It almost felt like sex
47:23was a sales pitch. Pushing some marriages
47:25This is going to be hard to hear. This is why
47:27I prepare myself for the
47:29worst. to breaking point.
47:31At that moment, I knew I could not
47:33stand him. Just like
47:35squeezing blood from a stone.
47:37Were you trying to make Stephen jealous?
47:39You can't make a guy jealous of you that doesn't give a fuck about you.
47:41Why do I want to even speak to this girl?
47:43But it's a shocking revelation.
47:45Have they not been sneakily kissing?
47:47They've what?
47:49You consider what you did an act of
47:51infidelity. That delivers
47:53the biggest blow of the evening.
47:55She deserved to know. I think it's bullshit.
47:57Snakey.
47:59Don't tell me to shut up.
48:01You're a sly guy. You're talking
48:03fucking shit. It is very clear that
48:05this relationship is done.
48:21You
48:23You
48:25You
48:27You
48:29You
48:31You
48:33You
48:35You
48:37You
48:39You