Married at First Sight UK S9 Episode 20
Category
😹
FunTranscript
00:00So, I can't even have banter and try and make friends while I'm here.
00:03Previously...
00:04She said to also not hold my hand, let's make him jealous.
00:07She's been super flirty with you.
00:08She's trying it on with all the other guys.
00:10It's not a swingers club.
00:12Rumours at the retreat put Hannah in the firing line.
00:15It looks f***ing shady.
00:16I'm not going to sit here and get every single person to tell me
00:19what they don't like about me.
00:20No, I'm going to tell you.
00:21Oh, I'm not f***ing...
00:22You're speaking to me like shit.
00:24She's going about things like a dickhead.
00:25While a candid confession...
00:27Stick with your current partner or twist...
00:30Twist...
00:31Steven.
00:32..threw Polly's marriage into turmoil.
00:35The fact that you've gone, I'll switch to Steven,
00:37is muggy as f***.
00:38I'm getting better every week and you're still not f***ing happy.
00:43It's just shit.
00:44I don't want to lose him.
00:46F***.
00:49Tonight...
00:50I'm waking up by myself.
00:52I haven't got a wife.
00:53There isn't a fibre in my body that cares about Dawson.
00:56As two marriages hit breaking point...
00:59She tries to talk to me at the dinner party.
01:00I'm just going to ignore her.
01:02..eyes begin to wander.
01:03I've got 24 hours to enjoy myself.
01:06I definitely could let my hair down tonight.
01:10So you find Sian unattractive?
01:11Oh, she's my type.
01:13Steven said, if Ryan doesn't turn up tonight,
01:15I'm going to shoot myself.
01:17Leading to a clash of husbands.
01:19If I wasn't here, I'd crack on with her.
01:21Muppet.
01:23F*** me.
01:24This wasn't part of the plan.
01:25And Adam's hurt feelings.
01:27I'm sorry. I'm f***ing sorry, Adam.
01:29There you go.
01:30It's a fake sorry.
01:32Like, don't cut it.
01:33Spark renewed conflict with wife Polly.
01:35The stuff that he's said about me...
01:38..is f***ing hurtful.
01:51You do look very handsome today, must say.
01:54Thank you, darling.
01:55Don't you worry, I'll be looking handsome as well
01:57when I get all dressed up.
02:00The couples are waking up to their final day at the retreat.
02:07What are you making?
02:08Coffee.
02:09I need one.
02:10Knackered.
02:16Oh, dear, Kasper.
02:18Funny.
02:19I got my way, I got my wicked way.
02:21You got a snug?
02:23Yes.
02:25I'm going with a yes to that.
02:27Yeah.
02:29There was mood lighting around the fireplace,
02:32a carafe of red on the side.
02:35I'd removed the pillows between us to snuggle on in,
02:38and then I finally said,
02:40close your eyes, Kasper.
02:43Oh, dear.
02:45People are going to be very excited for us.
02:48Oh, dear.
02:51Emma and I have been getting on really, really, really well.
02:53We got a little bit tipsy last night.
02:55I gave in after a few glasses of wine.
02:58It was a good kiss.
03:02You're getting your hair cut today.
03:03I'm getting my hair cut today.
03:05Finally, let him loose.
03:14I have not seen Rochelle for the whole of this retreat.
03:18I'm waking up in my bed by myself, you know,
03:20I haven't got a wife.
03:24I can't see no way back from my marriage.
03:28I don't see any point in us staying together
03:30while on this retreat.
03:32After a dispute over the previous commitment ceremony.
03:35You sat on the couch and you said that how,
03:37when I said about not being mentally stimulated,
03:40you said that caused you distress.
03:42We had ample opportunities to talk about it in private.
03:44You never mentioned that to me.
03:45It's fine for you to say you bore me.
03:48It's fine for you to say you don't mentally stimulate me.
03:51But you could have addressed it,
03:52but you could have addressed it at the time.
03:54It's fine for you to have arguments and then just walk out.
03:56Is it fine for you to lie?
04:00Let me just say... As much as you have.
04:01Let me just say this.
04:03What about your lies?
04:04I'm not going to actually sit here and talk to you.
04:06Let's talk about your lies, Orson.
04:07I don't want to be in the same space as you.
04:08You don't like asking certain questions?
04:10You're a little liar.
04:11You're a fraud.
04:12Rochelle and Orson decided to spend
04:14the rest of the retreat apart.
04:17I am done.
04:19It's good to be in this setting alone.
04:22There isn't a fibre in my body that cares about Orson.
04:26That's the reality of it.
04:28I don't have any intention of going into the dinner party
04:30with him tonight.
04:36Good morning.
04:37Good morning, honey, all right?
04:38Did you sleep well?
04:40Erm, not really.
04:41Give us a spud.
04:42Yes.
04:43I'm tired today.
04:44I just feel like every day I'm walking into a lion's den
04:46and I'm just attacked, and then I have to, like, get over it,
04:49and then it's just like, whoa, it's a lot.
04:53On Girls' Day yesterday, I felt completely ambushed
04:56and it was horrible.
04:57I'm kind of getting a bit bored of having to justify
04:59every single thing I do and say.
05:01I feel like you cope with it very well.
05:03Do you think you'll be walking into the dinner party separate?
05:06100%.
05:08Waking up this morning, I feel like I've had a really shit week.
05:12I feel a bit drained of the whole thing,
05:14and even my husband's gone.
05:15I feel a bit drained of the whole thing,
05:17and even my husband's pied me off.
05:19But I came on this retreat, like, for this marriage, so I'm still here.
05:23We were actually matched really, really, really well,
05:26and I've never felt the connection that me and him felt instantly
05:29in a long time.
05:30Like, I've not felt that with someone in a long time.
05:32I would love to get through to Stephen and just say,
05:35what do you want from me?
05:36Like, what do you want me to do?
05:40How's things going?
05:42Could be better.
05:43Are you looking forward to sitting next to Hannah tonight?
05:47I won't talk to her.
05:49I'm so out of it.
05:50There's no words left to be said, in my opinion.
05:52Last week, I went into the commitment ceremony
05:54with the attitude of, I'll give it a go.
05:58I don't think I'm the person she needs.
06:00The next set I have with Hannah will be in front of the experts.
06:04If she tries to talk to me at the dinner party,
06:06I'm just going to ignore her.
06:08If she tries arguing, she'll be arguing with herself.
06:10I'm just not here for it anymore.
06:11I've got no energy left for her.
06:13I seen Shannon on her own last night.
06:17She was with her suitcase going to her new apartment.
06:19Something must have been brewing for her to just end up in a room on her own.
06:23I saw Ryan last night, quite late,
06:25and Ryan was just like, oh, yeah, I'm just getting to bed now.
06:29Shannon is my type outside of here.
06:31Like, completely, yeah.
06:32Tat and... Everything. Right.
06:34Even without a tat, it's just the face.
06:36She might be single now, bro.
06:38No, no.
06:44Ryan and I had our first little fall-out last night.
06:47He kind of thought I was hiding things from the girls' day.
06:50So we just decided it was best to spend the night apart.
06:55I feel like the argument was totally blown out of proportion.
06:58Like, it was just minor things.
07:00I don't know what I'm supposed to do.
07:02Like, I've not done anything wrong.
07:08Last night, Shannon came in, climbed on bed.
07:11She was like, so, what questions did you lads get asked?
07:14So I said, what questions did the girls get asked?
07:17She's like, oh, I can't remember now.
07:19And they sat the other blah, blah, blah, just, like, tried to bat it off.
07:22So I said, I'm not going to answer what's been said.
07:25What's been said to have used, like...
07:26Lacey came in, she was like, hi, Ryan, you all right?
07:29Shannon gets up, she goes, no, we're not all right, and walks out.
07:33She's stalled elsewhere last night.
07:34I don't even know where she is.
07:36Hopefully, you sorted it today, like, the dinner party.
07:38We'll see, we'll see.
07:41I'm feeling calm just going to the dinner party.
07:43I didn't really want to go in on my own, because I knew it was nothing.
07:47But, yeah, we need to work on communication.
07:49I'm not here for no other woman.
07:57I really needed this.
07:58But the wife's happy, you've got free reign, just go mad.
08:01Do whatever you think's going to make me look good, mate.
08:03I think I like the idea as well that we haven't got a mirror,
08:06so you can't see what I'm doing.
08:08You can't see what I'm doing. I could be doing anything.
08:11How are you?
08:12Erm...
08:13Yeah, well, when I got back to my lodge last night with Alex,
08:17I found out that Holly had said she'd switch to Stephen.
08:21That's got to hurt.
08:22Yeah, it was a bit of a kick in the teeth.
08:24Her reasons behind it was,
08:26is because Stephen's in touch with his emotional side,
08:28he talks about his feelings and he's very open.
08:30Yeah.
08:32But I've just said to her, like, I think it's disrespectful
08:34and I feel like you've kind of mugged me off in front of everyone.
08:38I got really pissed off and I walked out.
08:40I'm a little bit nervous going into the dinner party today.
08:43Me and Polly haven't really spoken this morning,
08:46so God knows what's going to happen.
08:52Good morning.
08:54You OK? Yeah.
08:56Waking up this morning, I still feel really upset
08:58because things between me and Adam still haven't been resolved.
09:02Adam left this morning, there was no kind of,
09:05like, there was no reassurance from him.
09:08I woke up really early,
09:10give him a spoon, give him a kiss on the back,
09:12but then not got anything.
09:15Yes, I shouldn't have said twist straight away.
09:20I should have said stick.
09:21However, there are tendencies in Stephen that I want from Adam.
09:26That was it.
09:28Adam has said a lot of stuff that I've had to take on the chin.
09:30He says things sometimes, in the moment,
09:32that he doesn't necessarily mean,
09:34and then he has to explain himself.
09:35I've done exactly the same as he's done,
09:37and I got what I got, which is really unfair.
09:41What on earth makes him think that that's acceptable?
09:44I agree. I don't deserve that.
09:46I do not deserve to go in there tonight to be made feel like shit.
09:50Woe betide Adam. I'm bored of it.
09:53Here we are, guys, the fourth dinner party,
09:55and, of course, this time,
09:57all our couples are away on their luxury retreat.
10:00It's a very different environment, of course,
10:02because it's much more relaxed for our couples.
10:04Hopefully, they can let their guards down a little bit
10:06and really deepen those connections.
10:08And recently, we've had three new couples join the group.
10:11It'll be interesting to see how they've been integrating.
10:14I'm going to be the first one to go,
10:15and I'm going to be the second one to go.
10:17I'm going to be the third one to go.
10:19I'm going to be the fourth one to go.
10:21So, it's going to be interesting to see how they've been integrating.
10:27Oh, it's looking fabulous.
10:28Isn't it? Should we grab a drink?
10:30First in, Emma and Casper.
10:32And Casper's hat.
10:34What's going on there?
10:35Hopefully, he's going to reveal something fabulous.
10:37Really? Yeah. Let's hope.
10:39Last time we saw this couple, Casper said leave,
10:42and we really asked Emma to lean into that more vulnerable,
10:46fragile side, because that was really what Casper was wanting to see.
10:50Do you want to see it?
10:51Oh, yes. Yeah, let's see the hair. Whip it off.
10:54HE LAUGHS
10:56Oh! Fabulous!
10:59Wow, a different-looking Caspar.
11:01Woo!
11:02I like it. I really like it.
11:04He hasn't gone too drastic.
11:06No, no, no. Not at all.
11:08To a new Caspar.
11:13Aw! Yes, it is one of our musical friends!
11:16Hello, gorgeous people.
11:18Oh, look at his short fucking sides!
11:20Hello. You look amazing.
11:22Hello, hello, hello.
11:23I like the green. We've got some bubbles open.
11:25Here you are, darling. Toast us with the meal sticks.
11:28Thank you so much. Cheers, Caspar.
11:30Cheers.
11:31Do you want to sit together? Yeah, yeah.
11:34HE LAUGHS
11:35How are you feeling about Caspar's new haircut?
11:38I really like it. I think it's way more subtle
11:40than I thought it would be.
11:41Have you planted a kiss?
11:43We did have a snog last night.
11:44I did plant a kiss. I said I was going to, didn't I?
11:48Oh, wow.
11:49This is real progress from the last commitment ceremony.
11:53Caspar was saying leave, and now they're snogging.
11:56That's a good start. That's a good start.
11:59Once you break the ice,
12:00now it becomes a bit more or less of an awkward thing,
12:02cos once you've opened the fridge,
12:03you might as well put your hand in and grab something.
12:05THEY LAUGH
12:07Have you heard about any sort of...
12:09What's going on with the couples?
12:11The guys around, I think it was Alex, Adam and Orson.
12:16Alex asked, did Polly say twist?
12:19Like, is this true? Oh, yeah. And I was like, yeah.
12:21I had Adam round to mine this morning to cut my hair,
12:24and he's really disappointed with Polly.
12:26Is he gutted? He was surprised.
12:28You know, cos he said, stick.
12:30Well, that's quite a shock,
12:32because Polly and Adam have been getting on so well,
12:34so I wonder what's gone on there.
12:41Oh, there they are! Hello!
12:44And here come Polly and Adam, walking in together.
12:48So this is quite a surprise,
12:49because we know that something has happened.
12:51Looking fire once again.
12:53Thank you, my love.
12:55And it looks like Adam doesn't want to be there.
12:58How are we, Kasper?
13:00Hello, beautiful. How are you? You OK?
13:03Yeah, good, you? Yeah.
13:05Me and Polly are going into the mixer together.
13:07I think she just wanted to link on, so I just let her do it.
13:10But I'm still pissed off, and I don't want to speak to her yet.
13:14Our verdue is getting a little bit...
13:16Yeah.
13:18Jesus.
13:20But do you not sometimes look at her?
13:21She's a gorgeous woman. Look at her. She's... That's nice.
13:25Touching her a week ago was like, no fucking way.
13:28And now she's like, let's jump into bed together,
13:30and I'm like, whoa!
13:31It's like from here to...
13:33There. Yeah.
13:34And the more she pushes like this, the more I'm going to withdraw.
13:36It's trying to find that balance.
13:38These two clearly feel very differently about intimacy.
13:42Kasper feels awkward about it all,
13:44and we know he's a guy with high privacy settings.
13:47But Emma feels that the floodgates have opened.
13:49She needs to be careful not to push too hard,
13:52otherwise she might well push him away.
13:57We had that big argument last night, when everyone left.
14:00It's not like that, is it?
14:01It's not. It isn't.
14:03And I feel like it's just bruised his ego a little bit,
14:05and I feel like if that's what it needed to take
14:07to get you to admit that you don't want more than you're letting on,
14:09then fucking show me that.
14:11He hasn't supposed to be all day.
14:14He said that he wants space and that he wants to sort his head out.
14:17I've respected that.
14:18He was like, I've never got so angry,
14:19this has never happened in a relationship before,
14:21and I thought, what, because I haven't had a fucking backbone?
14:23Sorry, are you forgetting some of the shit that you said about me
14:25on the couch in front of all of our friends
14:27that you don't think has embarrassed me?
14:29Fuck off.
14:31Fuck off.
14:34Interestingly, over the last few weeks,
14:37Polly has tried different tactics to get Adam to be more open
14:41to see her and to be attracted to her,
14:44and I do wonder whether this is, like, another tactic
14:47so that Adam can be a bit jealous.
14:49And if that's the case,
14:51that is the worst way to get your partner's attention.
14:54Still pissed off, to be fair.
14:56If someone said someone's good-looking...
14:58Yeah, I don't care. So what? Yeah, so what?
15:01But it's the idea of switching that's such a big thing.
15:04You've said this, you're lying, you're trying to get out of it,
15:07you're trying to turn it on me.
15:09It's like just, oh, no.
15:11At the last commitment ceremony,
15:12Adam gave permission for Polly to cheat,
15:15and here he is, upset,
15:17because she has now said, I want a twist.
15:20I suspect here Polly is wanting to punish Adam
15:23for some of the nasty things that he's said to her,
15:26but as we know, two wrongs don't make a right.
15:29This couple are in danger of slipping into that
15:32point-scoring dynamic, and no-one's going to win.
15:35Oh, wow. Orson's alone.
15:45So, where is Rochelle? Have you seen her? I'm guessing not.
15:48The last time I saw Rochelle is the day when we got here.
15:54I've been compromising, compromising.
15:58I'm doing, I'm doing, nothing's coming back.
16:00You're not even opening up to me emotionally.
16:03Nobody lives with us, so nobody knows what I have to deal with
16:06on a daily basis.
16:08Like, I've really tried.
16:11I genuinely tried.
16:14At the last commitment ceremony, Orson and Rochelle both said stay.
16:18I do wonder if some of Rochelle's feedback about him
16:21not being good enough for her has really played a part
16:25in him walking in today by himself.
16:27Ah, there's the team.
16:28Hello! Hello!
16:31Hi! Hi, guys!
16:32Oh, my God! Look at you, beautiful girls!
16:35Kieran and Christina, full smiles, high energy.
16:39Here we are, the party can start.
16:43How was boys' day?
16:44Lent. Was it?
16:45Bill said you were the funniest.
16:47Yeah, cool. I think I said I'd avoid you.
16:50I think I said I'd avoid you.
16:52I think I said I'd avoid you.
16:53I think I said I'd avoid you.
16:55I think I said I'd avoid you as a husband
16:57because I think your energy is too much for me.
17:00Are you fucking joking?
17:02Me? I think you're too optimistic!
17:10Hello!
17:11Oh, hey!
17:13Hello, you there. Oh, I love your hair.
17:15Thank you, darling. How are you?
17:17You look really well.
17:18Are you closed, Ruf?
17:19Listen, Mambo...
17:21Here she is.
17:23Hiya.
17:24Look at that tinkerbell.
17:25Aw, you, you.
17:26Has anyone else had an argument over them questions?
17:28I don't know, but I know Shannon and Ryan
17:31spent the night apart last night.
17:33Really? Yeah.
17:34Why? Don't know.
17:38That's a big change.
17:39I mean, we need to understand what's happened
17:41between the last commitment ceremony and today.
17:44Hopefully, it's not too serious.
17:47Amy.
17:49Why did Shannon and Ryan spend the night apart last night?
17:51Do you know?
17:52Shannon and Ryan did, though. Yeah.
17:54Don't lie. No, they did.
17:58Hi, Gak.
18:01You're looking amazing.
18:02Thanks, babe. What's she wearing?
18:04You look gorgeous. Hello, my darling.
18:05You look so nice.
18:08Why is she like her, then?
18:09I don't know. Apparently, she stopped on her own last night.
18:12She looks upset.
18:14Are you OK, first of all? Yeah, I'm OK.
18:16Like, Ryan, I was asking questions about girls, then,
18:19and he thought that I was hiding stuff from him.
18:22And then Lacey came in, and I was like,
18:24I was all right, and I was like, no.
18:25And that just totally set him off.
18:37Hey, guys!
18:39I'm walking in, I feel pretty nervous.
18:41I don't really know who's mad at me,
18:42so I don't know really what I'm walking into.
18:45Hello, Sunshine State.
18:46You all right?
18:47What were the cats dragged in?
18:50Oh, no, you didn't.
18:51Yeah, that wasn't very kind, Holly.
18:53I'm not even going to acknowledge him.
18:55Who's just walked in?
18:56So it sounds like Holly and Hannah have had a bit of a run-in.
18:59It makes you wonder what Hannah actually did
19:02to make Holly and Polly so angry.
19:05Smuggy.
19:06You OK?
19:09You all right?
19:13Hello. Hello. You OK?
19:14Are you saying hi? No?
19:16No, not really. OK.
19:17I got you.
19:18Are you OK? Yeah.
19:24Polly.
19:26Why? Just say hello.
19:28Why the fuck should I say hello?
19:29Fuck her.
19:32Fuck her.
19:34You've rubbed me the fucking wrong way now.
19:42There he is!
19:43Hello.
19:44Hello.
19:46Hello.
19:47Oh, he looks really small.
19:48You all right?
19:50Stephen's walked in.
19:51He actually, annoyingly, looks quite fit.
19:53You look very bright.
19:54Thank you so much.
19:55OK. Yeah, you.
19:58Hopefully, we can both enjoy the dinner party as a couple.
20:01Looking gorgeous. Hello, darling.
20:03How are you? Yeah, good.
20:04Good.
20:05Oh, wow. Are you actually not going to say hi to me?
20:08No, I'm done talking to you.
20:11Jesus Christ, that was fucking frosty.
20:16No matter what you do,
20:17no matter what she has done, at least a hello.
20:21Sure. At least an acknowledgement.
20:22Yeah, it's disrespectful.
20:24You all good? Yeah, you.
20:25Why don't you say hello?
20:26Why don't you say hello?
20:27You good?
20:41Looking gorgeous. Hello, darling.
20:43How are you? Yeah, good.
20:44Good.
20:45Oh, wow. Are you actually not going to say hi to me?
20:47No, I'm done talking to you.
20:51Jesus Christ, that was fucking frosty.
20:55No matter what she has done, at least a hello.
20:59Sure. At least an acknowledgement.
21:00Yeah, it's disrespectful.
21:02You all good? Yeah, you.
21:03Why don't you say hello?
21:04Why don't you say hello?
21:05You good?
21:12When we saw Hannah and Stephen at the commitment ceremony,
21:15things were rocky.
21:16Stephen felt betrayed by Hannah,
21:18and Hannah was trying really hard to prove to him,
21:22I'm not like that.
21:23He's not able to get past that.
21:26She's a fucking idiot.
21:27She's a fucking idiot. Who?
21:29Hannah.
21:31She was like, oh, we're not saying hello.
21:32No, not really.
21:33I don't even want to breathe in your direction.
21:34I wouldn't even piss on you if you was on fire.
21:36Go away.
21:37The thing that really annoys me is the fact
21:38that she actually looks really nice.
21:40What? She actually looks really nice.
21:42And that's what's pissing me off the most,
21:44because I really like that jumpsuit.
21:46I really like that jumpsuit, and it's annoying me,
21:47because I want to be like, where's your jumpsuit from?
21:50I mean, in many ways, this is classic deflection, isn't it,
21:53on Polly's part?
21:55Things are not going well between her and Adam,
21:57so she's shifting the focus onto another person.
22:03Why are you looking at me like that?
22:05I really like you today.
22:08She likes me every day.
22:09No, you look really good.
22:11So do you.
22:12I like this.
22:13Aw, he's her kid.
22:16No, we are good at the minute, aren't we?
22:18Yeah, yeah, we're good, man.
22:19These arguments that happen, as long as you're both willing
22:21to stay and fight for what you've got,
22:23you always come back stronger,
22:25because every time me and Harley butt heads,
22:29when we resolve it, I learn something about her.
22:31We've come such a long way,
22:33and you will hit so many obstacles,
22:35but it's how you deal with them
22:37and how you come back together is what will make you progress.
22:40They sound like they know what they're talking about.
22:43I think the two of them have been listening to us,
22:46so this is progress.
22:54Is Ryan coming today?
22:55She moved out last night.
22:57I said, is it done?
22:58And she's like, we'll see if he turns up.
23:00So if he turns up, it's not done?
23:04Better be quick.
23:11This is awful news for Ryan and Shannon.
23:14Mm-hm. It is. It's sad.
23:17Would you pull up for a chat, though, if he don't turn up?
23:22Got to be fast, bro.
23:25It's an easy question.
23:27Only if I knew he wasn't turning up full stop.
23:30I think you take time, take a deep breath, see what happens.
23:32Yeah.
23:33Right.
23:34LAUGHTER
23:39So this here is a definition of cut and run.
23:42I don't know what he's playing at.
23:43He's new to the experiment.
23:45They've come up against one hurdle,
23:47and he's already thinking about looking outside
23:50of his own relationship.
23:53Holly.
23:57Hello.
23:59Need to find out the grub between those two.
24:02Between who two?
24:03Shannon and Ryan.
24:05Basically, Ryan doesn't believe she had his back on Girls' Day.
24:09I don't know when she stayed apart from him.
24:11So is he coming today?
24:12I don't have a clue.
24:13She's been here a while, hasn't she?
24:17If he doesn't come in, would she stay with Stephen?
24:20What? Who?
24:24Oh, shit.
24:25What did he say? She just said it.
24:26If he doesn't come in, would he stay with Stephen?
24:28Wow. He just said it.
24:31If he doesn't turn up...
24:33You find Shannon attractive?
24:34Oh, she's my type.
24:35She's absolutely gorgeous.
24:36She's my type.
24:37Let's take this straight up.
24:39Do something to help me.
24:41OK.
24:45Here they are.
24:47Hello!
24:49Oh, yeah, it's Posh and Beck.
24:51Hello.
24:52You all right? How are you doing?
24:53You look nice.
24:54How are you?
24:57Shannon, I need to talk to you.
24:59Yeah.
25:01This is something that needs to be a bit DL.
25:03OK.
25:04How are you? You well?
25:05I'm good, thanks. You look beautiful.
25:06Oh, God, Sian.
25:10OK, so, basically, you've just seen that Stephen called me over.
25:14He said, what's going on with Shannon and Ryan?
25:16Do you think they're done?
25:18And I said, I don't think they are.
25:20And he said, if Ryan doesn't turn up tonight,
25:22I'm going to shoot my shot.
25:24Cos she's just my type.
25:26He went, so does that mean Shannon will be staying with him?
25:29And I went, you've misworded that.
25:30He went, do you think she'll be staying with Stephen?
25:32And I was like, woo-woo!
25:33No, no.
25:34I just wanted to give you the heads-up, though.
25:36He's not my type.
25:37I don't want anyone else but Ryan here.
25:39I know you don't.
25:40Like, I literally don't want anyone else.
25:49Hello!
25:50CHEERING
25:51Hello, guys!
25:52How are you, mate?
25:53Ah...
25:54You good? You good?
25:55Yeah, you?
25:56Yeah.
25:57Oh, it's my girls!
25:58All the girls, all the girls!
26:05Here he is.
26:06Talking to the devil.
26:07Here's Ryan now.
26:14Awkward.
26:20Stephen looks disappointed.
26:22Well, Stephen looks a bit uncomfortable.
26:25Fuck me.
26:26This wasn't part of the plan.
26:29It's Ryan!
26:40Awkward.
26:46Awkward.
26:47Awkward.
26:48Awkward.
26:49Awkward.
26:50Awkward.
26:51Awkward.
26:52Awkward.
26:53Awkward.
26:54Awkward.
26:55Awkward.
26:57Awkward.
26:58Awkward.
26:59Awkward.
27:00Awkward.
27:01Awkward.
27:02Awkward.
27:03Awkward.
27:04Awkward.
27:05Awkward.
27:06Awkward.
27:07Awkward.
27:08Awkward.
27:09Awkward.
27:10Awkward.
27:11Awkward.
27:12Awkward.
27:13Awkward.
27:14Awkward.
27:15Awkward.
27:16Awkward.
27:17Awkward.
27:18Awkward.
27:19Awkward.
27:20Awkward.
27:21Awkward.
27:22He was trying to control the narrative with Holly,
27:26essentially redesigning what he said,
27:29because, of course, he didn't say it respectfully.
27:31Come here, my G.
27:41You all right?
27:42I'm all right.
27:45I missed you.
27:46I missed you too.
27:47You good?
27:48Yeah.
27:50I'm so glad I finally got my back hug off of Ryan.
27:53I knew that we would be friends.
27:54Yeah!
28:00I love this, guys!
28:02Yeah!
28:07It's nice to hear both Ryan and Shannon
28:08saying they've missed each other.
28:10Hopefully, this is just a blip for the two of them.
28:13But what does this mean for Stephen?
28:20Double parts, mate.
28:21Very good.
28:22Double parts?
28:23Double parts, mate.
28:24You all right?
28:25I'm good, are you?
28:26Yeah, mate.
28:27How are you doing, Ryan?
28:28I'm chilled now, mate.
28:37How are you?
28:38I'm all right.
28:42So...
28:45You know what, Hannah?
28:48I grabbed a tape to you.
28:50I like you.
28:51You're no-nonsense chick.
28:53She says what she feels for Harry.
28:55These are all the personalities I asked for
28:57when I wanted my wife, you know?
28:59I like that about you.
29:01How many things do you wish you had?
29:03Don't.
29:04No, no, no. I haven't seen them.
29:11What's Orson really saying here?
29:13Sounds a lot to me like you're the wife I wish I had.
29:17Listen, I've got 24 hours to enjoy myself.
29:22I like Hannah.
29:23I definitely could let my hair down tonight
29:25knowing that Michelle's not here.
29:27The boy band look is a look.
29:29It is serving.
29:31What is it serving?
29:32Fresh out of Backstreet Boys.
29:33Is there a black guy in Backstreet Boys?
29:35There fucking is now.
29:40Ultimately, I suppose, of Orson and Hannah,
29:41both of them have been rejected by their partners.
29:44So they're looking to each other
29:45for the affection and affirmation
29:47they're not getting in their own marriages.
29:50Although it sounds like Orson might want to take it
29:53a little bit further.
29:57FYI, I'm going to explain to Ryan
30:02when I can get him on his own about the Shannon thing.
30:06All right.
30:07Just so... No, no.
30:08I respect... I don't want it to get out of proportion
30:10for what it is... You know what I mean?
30:13I'm just going to grab him now.
30:16Can I have a quick chat with you?
30:18Yeah, yeah, sure.
30:20Well, here we go. Phase two of damage control.
30:23This is fear dearing the headlights.
30:32You good? Yeah.
30:35He's not with you, then?
30:36No.
30:37Oh, I'd fucking tell him if I faked it.
30:39Yeah.
30:42I'm going to go and get him.
30:43Yeah.
30:46So, I'm putting it out with you now while we're in here.
30:49I lost and Adam's told me to let myself in.
30:52Everyone said,
30:54Shannon came in running, Ryan never came back in.
30:56Well, I was like, I said she was a sexist, of course.
31:00I was like, I'm not going to make it a thing.
31:02If Ryan walks in, especially,
31:04then we've walked in, but everyone's spoken about it.
31:08But that's all it was.
31:09I'm not that guy.
31:11I didn't want to make it into a big thing.
31:13I didn't want it to come across disrespectful
31:15that I'd done it behind your back.
31:18It looks like Ryan sees right through Stephen.
31:21I think the fact that Stephen is rewriting history,
31:25he knows what he said before was wrong.
31:28Holly's spoken to her, the fucking whispers go around,
31:31but I'm not the type.
31:33Stephen's definitely brought me down.
31:34I'm not the type.
31:36I'm not the type.
31:37Stephen's definitely brought me on cold.
31:38He's here for the wrong reasons.
31:40I've got nothing to say to him.
31:54I've heard that. Oh, man.
31:56Oh, you're going to get two up there.
31:58Shall we swap?
31:59Oh, that's cool.
32:00Kasper and Emma!
32:03This is fun!
32:04Hello, hello, hello!
32:06Hello!
32:14Wow.
32:15You could still see the tension between Polly and Adam.
32:18They're still not talking to each other.
32:25You two have got some fucking faces on you, man.
32:27You can't sit there like that all night.
32:29Come on, man.
32:30I've given him his time and his space.
32:31It's not done for me to go to him.
32:33I've done enough.
32:35You say you've done enough, but you haven't tried to speak to me today.
32:38You haven't spoken to me.
32:39Why would I initiate a conversation with you?
32:42I think with Polly and Adam, we find that they find themselves
32:45in these types of conflicting situations,
32:48and they can't seem to get their way out of it.
32:51They both want to be heard,
32:53but they're both not listening to one another.
32:56I've said one thing.
32:58Do you not think the things that you've said in the past have hurt me?
33:01That makes it OK, does it? We're going back down that road.
33:03What do you mean, does it not make it OK?
33:05There's been a lot of things that you've said that you shouldn't have said.
33:07Yeah, I know, but mine was just wording it wrong.
33:09You didn't word this wrong.
33:10I said I want the qualities that Stephen has in you.
33:13You were just sticking a forceful twist. You said twist.
33:15Listen, I've said that I was sorry.
33:17I said that I fucking worded it in a wrong way.
33:19What else do you want me to say apart from I'm sorry
33:20I should have worded it differently?
33:21I don't know, but do you expect me to just be like,
33:23yeah, cool, let's get on, then, and let's be happy?
33:25So do you think that I should have been like,
33:26oh, OK, yeah, cool, after you said it's minimal attraction there?
33:29I thought it was over that, but let's keep bringing that up.
33:31We're not over it, though.
33:32This is why we're going in circles.
33:35In a nutshell, this is what you're doing.
33:36I shouldn't have said that. I worded it wrong.
33:38But you did this and you did that.
33:41Childish, man.
33:44I have to say Adam has a point here.
33:46Polly knows she needs to apologise, so she does so,
33:50but then backs it up with but, but, but, but, but.
33:53Yeah, an apology is worthless unless it is done in the proper manner.
33:58The fact that you're turning this on me is a fucking joke.
34:01I'm turning it on you?
34:02You are turning it on me because I've said sorry,
34:04I've apologised, I've owned it.
34:05I'm sorry, I'm fucking sorry, Adam.
34:08There you go.
34:32Right now, my worry is Polly is going to speak to Ryan
34:34about what I said about Shannon.
34:36I'm worried it's just going to escalate into something
34:38it doesn't need to be, it doesn't need to happen.
34:42Ryan, do you want to chat?
34:46I'll walk round.
34:55Right, guys.
34:58So, I will tell you what you've said to me tonight.
35:01So, Stephen said, what's the crack going for Ryan and Shannon?
35:05Because she's coming on her own.
35:06And I said, I just know that they had an argument last night.
35:09So, I said, if Ryan comes through that door,
35:11I think they're going to be absolutely fine.
35:13He said, if Ryan doesn't turn up tonight,
35:16I'm going to stick it on Shannon.
35:19Fuck me.
35:20He lied to me tonight, and I don't respect that.
35:24Did he word it like that to you?
35:27I just remember you saying, I didn't want it to come to you,
35:30I didn't want it to come from anyone else.
35:32I don't think he touched on that part.
35:35He was banging on yesterday.
35:38Bro called, it's not a swinger's club.
35:40No, it's not a swinger's club.
35:42That's what he said.
35:43He's making it a swinger's club.
35:46I will keep my enemies very close to my chest,
35:49and he's my enemy.
35:52Shannon minding, brilliant.
35:55So, when I saw him walk in, and then I saw everyone whispering,
35:58I was like, nah, I'm not letting this get out of hand.
36:01Someone said that if Shannon walks in by himself,
36:04that you're going to shoot him.
36:05I wouldn't do that.
36:06On the stick and twist question, I said, fucking stick?
36:09I'm loyal to my boys to that extent.
36:12His story to me is different to what he said to Holla.
36:16It weren't the truth.
36:18You can't say it's not a swinger's club,
36:20and then the day after, if I don't come,
36:22I'm going to jump onto her, because your relationship's peppered.
36:26What's he said to you?
36:27He lied.
36:30If I wasn't here, they'd crack on with her.
36:37He's a muppet.
36:39Muppet, muppet, muppet, muppet, muppet.
36:43He best not talk to me.
36:56Chairs to do a lot of growing this week at the retreat.
36:59I think we'll both grow a lot from this retreat.
37:01Aw!
37:04Who's growing?
37:05You can't grow no more.
37:06LAUGHTER
37:08I've hit me maximum.
37:10Still got your console?
37:12Oh, it's horrible, isn't it?
37:14Bloody, it's been ages as well.
37:16It's been since the honeymoon.
37:17Honeymoon? Yeah.
37:18That's the only thing that's missing in our life at the moment,
37:20isn't it, darling?
37:26How are you?
37:28Are you OK? Tired.
37:31I feel a little bit gutted,
37:32because Stephen hasn't spoke to me all day.
37:37But I'm really trying.
37:39What are you mending today?
37:41I'm done talking to you.
37:43What do you mean?
37:44I feel like every time we talk, it just gets intense
37:46and I can't be arsed with it.
37:48Why did you want to stay in driving?
37:51I've explained this to you.
37:53I can't be arsed with the arguments any more.
37:54I'm sorry it's worked out like this.
37:56I genuinely am, because I came into it with the right intentions.
38:00But I'm out.
38:02It's interesting that he's checked out,
38:04but yet he has so much animosity towards her.
38:08He doesn't even want to engage or talk to her.
38:10Why is that?
38:11It's so sad, because he is just quitting before our eyes.
38:15There's really nothing more Hannah can do with this situation.
38:19Can you not accept my apology, though,
38:20and realise that I made a mistake?
38:21I can't accept that apology.
38:23Please, I'm just asking. It's frustrating.
38:25I get that, but please, let's just not go there again.
38:27Yeah, but I want to be friends with you.
38:29I don't want to leave her on this bad...
38:31You don't need to be a friend. I came here to marry you.
38:34She lost all my trust.
38:36You said you wanted to stay with me,
38:38but you're cracking on to all the other men.
38:40She's lost my respect.
38:42Why would I want a friend like that in my life?
38:44Don't want her in my life, full stop.
38:47I know we've been through this experiment together,
38:48but that is what it is to me.
38:50I'm just being honest with you.
38:51I'm sorry I fucked up. I'm sorry.
38:56It's pathetic.
39:01I respect Stephen being honest, but it does feel a bit shit
39:04that he's basically said,
39:05I don't even want to have a friendship with you.
39:10I'm upset, but there's nothing I can do.
39:12There's nothing I can do.
39:24Awesome.
39:25How are you, coach?
39:27You OK?
39:29I probably need to be honest with myself and say that my husband
39:32isn't willing to work with me, so I'm going to do what I want to do.
39:36She's going to the hot tub.
39:38I have always got on well with Orson.
39:40He's a really good guy. He's had my back in here since day one.
39:43Just make out right now in front of everyone.
39:48Wow.
39:50That is some pretty full-on flirting.
39:53Stop it. I haven't said anything.
39:56I feel undressed.
39:58You look at that and you say, OK, here's someone who's got to the
40:01point now where she feels she'll never be able to get through to
40:04The marriage is a lost cause, and she's seeking attention from one
40:08of the few people in the room she's connected with.
40:13Cheers, Amy.
40:14Cheers, hi.
40:15Cheers, Lacey.
40:17Cheers, monsieur.
40:18So, how are you doing? Are you good?
40:20OK, yeah.
40:22Yeah, I think after the ceremony, we had a big, like, a big night.
40:26Like, just getting a bit closer to Amy and just putting everything
40:29on the table. Yeah.
40:30Yeah, it was great.
40:31Especially when you came up and you put your arms around me,
40:33and she said, like, you'll be OK.
40:35Like, it wasn't, like, a judgmental thing.
40:37Can you reach your arms all the way round him?
40:39No. The neck bit, yes.
40:40Is that fine?
40:42Babe, do you have an impression of, er, Luke?
40:44Er, later.
40:46No!
40:47It's a quick learn, isn't it?
40:48No.
40:49Do you prefer him with that accent?
40:51Yeah!
41:01Oh, the honesty box.
41:05There.
41:06There!
41:08Oh, my God!
41:10It was.
41:11We had a bath together this week.
41:13Which part of my body did you enjoy washing the most?
41:17LAUGHTER
41:18Part of your body that I enjoyed washing the most...
41:22I like your bum.
41:23LAUGHTER
41:25I really like your bum.
41:26I like your bum.
41:28I like your bum.
41:29I like your bum.
41:31I really like your bum.
41:32Thanks. Really, really like your bum.
41:33Thanks.
41:34CHEERING
41:37Christina, if I was an animal, what would I be and why?
41:42I would really like you to be a koala,
41:44so you just cling to me all the time.
41:46Aww!
41:47APPLAUSE
41:52Aww.
41:54It is very cute, because essentially she's saying,
41:56cute and cuddly. Yes.
41:57APPLAUSE
42:01What do you foresee will be the biggest challenge in our marriage?
42:07I think the biggest challenge that I can see with you, Amy,
42:10is we're both very slow burners.
42:12You are!
42:14I think emotionally I am.
42:16So I think because things are going so well,
42:19we might be a slow burner,
42:21but we might end up in a big bonfire, baby.
42:23CHEERING
42:30Oh, God!
42:32LAUGHTER
42:34There's a song in my mouth!
42:36How would you sum up our time in the retreat?
42:42The retreat has been the most positive week we've ever had.
42:47I have leaned in.
42:50Ooh! What?
42:51Since the commitment ceremony, I had a job to do,
42:54and that was to show Casper that I can change
42:56and I can take feedback,
42:57because he didn't think I could take it before.
43:00So I have taken on the feedback, I've changed, I've leaned in,
43:02I've relaxed into it, and we got snogged!
43:05CHEERING
43:07APPLAUSE
43:12How do you feel about how far we've come
43:15since our first dinner party?
43:17I mean, we were not in a good place in our first dinner party,
43:19let's be honest. We've put a lot of effort in this week.
43:21We've definitely grown as people.
43:23We've come a long, long way.
43:25We're so much more comfortable around each other.
43:27It's definitely moved in the right direction.
43:30CHEERING
43:31Emma! Go on, Casper!
43:33Go on, Casper!
43:34Well done, Casper!
43:36CHEERING
43:40It's great to see that Emma has really stepped up.
43:44I think there's hope for these two.
43:46This is progress.
43:48Ryan, how committed are you to our marriage?
43:52I'm very committed to this.
43:53I've only had eyes for you.
43:55I've got no eyes for nobody else.
43:58And if it wasn't you, I'd leave her.
44:00CHEERING
44:05Ryan, with the clever delivery there,
44:07talking, of course, to his wife, Shannon,
44:09but also to Stephen,
44:11making it clear that he's not down with the wife swap.
44:25Why do you think we've had such a difficult week?
44:30I think we've had such a difficult week
44:32because you haven't let your guard down,
44:34you haven't let me in,
44:36and I still don't know how you feel about me wholeheartedly.
44:40And that's why I feel like we've had a hard week.
44:42I thought we was having a good week until the girls and boys date.
44:45But I feel like you haven't shown me how you think
44:49and how you feel about me.
44:52I am getting better and better at doing that,
44:53and the fact that everyone else can see I'm putting the effort in.
44:56We was actually having a really good week until yesterday,
44:59with the question.
45:00OK, I'm not doing this now.
45:02We're going to agree to disagree.
45:03God, I can't talk to you, honestly.
45:10What else do you want me to do?
45:13What the fuck else does he expect me to do?
45:20I will say Adam. Adam!
45:22Adam, she did have some lovely things to say about you at the girls' night.
45:26I do promise you that.
45:27Yeah, but then she also said some shit things.
45:30One shit thing about the qualities that he's got that I wish that you had is...
45:34It was little comments like, oh, I wish she was more like Stephen.
45:38Because he can fucking talk about how he feels, and you don't.
45:42You can't compare me to someone else, especially when we're mates, man.
45:45OK, if you would have even given me a bit of reassurance
45:47before you left this morning, which was a cuddle,
45:50do you not think that that would have made me feel a lot better?
45:52I needed that, and you didn't do that.
45:54I was in my own fucked-up headspace.
45:55No offence, I wasn't thinking about you, not going to lie.
45:58No, but you don't think about me. You don't.
46:01What did you need this morning?
46:02Space.
46:03Which is what I've given him all day.
46:05But it's still not good enough.
46:07What the fuck do you want me to do? Move to Timbuktu?
46:10Where the fuck do you expect me to go?
46:15Don't just say, sorry, I've told you how it is.
46:18It's a fake sorry. I don't cut it.
46:21Do you not think that I've given him enough time for everything else?
46:24Absolutely, Polly boy.
46:25Fuck that comment, Holly. That is bullshit.
46:28All I've given that boy is fucking time.
46:35You've made a mistake, own it.
46:37Don't keep saying I've on this, man.
46:39So maybe you should have said stick.
46:41I know that. I've said I should have done that.
46:44But he has said some shitty things on that couch.
46:47He has.
46:48The stuff that he's said about me...
46:50For me to then sit there and take how I am...
46:55It's fucking hurtful.
46:57Do you know what I mean? I'm sorry, no.
47:01It's fucking hurtful.
47:10Next time...
47:11I want to spend the rest of my life with you.
47:13She's finally seeing who I actually am.
47:16..the impact of the retreat hits home.
47:18I felt betrayed. My head's been scrambled.
47:22It almost felt like sex was a sales pitch.
47:24Pushing some marriages...
47:25This is going to be hard to hear.
47:27This is why I prepare myself for the worst.
47:29..to breaking point.
47:31At that moment, I knew I could not stand him.
47:34Just, like, squeezing blood from my spine.
47:37Were you trying to make Stephen jealous?
47:39You can't make a guy jealous of you that doesn't give a fuck about you.
47:42Why do I want to even speak to this girl?
47:44..but it's a shocking revelation.
47:45Have they not been sneakily kissing?
47:47They've what?
47:49You consider what you did an act of infidelity.
47:52That delivers the biggest blow of the evening.
47:54She deserved to know.
47:56I think it's bullshit.
47:57Snake.
47:58Hannah, zip it.
47:59Don't tell me to shut up.
48:01You're a sly guy.
48:02You're talking fucking shit.
48:03It is very clear that this relationship is done.