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Asr e Hazir aur Ahkam e Deen - EP 23

Topic: Aqeeqah Ke Ahkam

Speaker: Mufti Ahsan Naveed Niazi

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Transcript
00:00In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
00:30In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
00:32All praise is due to Allah, the Lord of the Heavens and the Earth.
00:34And peace and blessings be upon the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
00:36And upon his family and his companions, and upon his imam and his scholars.
00:39Respected viewers and listeners,
00:41once again we are at your service with the program Asr-e-Hadir and Ahqam-e-Deen.
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01:22Respected viewers, the topic we have chosen today,
01:25our topic today is Ahqam-e-Aqiqah.
01:29The word Aqiqah is commonly referred to as Haqiqah Haqiqah,
01:34with the letter H, whereas the correct word is Aqiqah with the letter Ain.
01:38Aqiqah.
01:39To do Aqiqah is Sunnat-e-Mustahabba.
01:42In our society, there is a lot of talk about Aqiqah.
01:46Some people consider it absolutely necessary.
01:48Like if someone doesn't do it, it will be a sin.
01:51And some people take it very lightly.
01:54They don't give it any importance.
01:55Both attitudes are wrong.
01:57Both ways of doing things are wrong.
01:59To do Aqiqah is Sunnat-e-Mustahabba.
02:02So Aqiqah should be given importance.
02:04It is not obligatory or compulsory, but it is Sunnat-e-Mustahabba.
02:07It is proven from the Holy Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him,
02:11that he did Aqiqah.
02:13The righteous people used to do Aqiqah.
02:15It is proven from the companions of the Holy Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him.
02:18It is proven from the followers of the Holy Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him.
02:20The Holy Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him,
02:23himself, the Imam Hassan Mujtaba, may Allah be pleased with him,
02:26and the Imam Hussain, may Allah be pleased with him,
02:29did Aqiqah.
02:30This is also proven from the Hadith.
02:32The Holy Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him,
02:34did Aqiqah.
02:35The commandment for Aqiqah has also been given.
02:38And at the same time, the Holy Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him,
02:41has also mentioned its superiority.
02:43And he has also mentioned how important Aqiqah is.
02:45So the Hadith is confirmed.
02:46It is stated in the Hadith Sharif,
02:48Kullu Ghulamin Murtahanun Bi Aqiqati Hi.
02:52Every boy is placed in Aqiqah.
02:56He is placed in Aqiqah.
02:59So what does it mean,
03:00that every boy is placed in Aqiqah,
03:02i.e. every newborn, every child is placed in Aqiqah?
03:05What does it mean?
03:06In its interpretation,
03:08there are different sayings of the Muhaddithin and the jurists.
03:12The most famous saying is that
03:14it means that a small child,
03:17if a small child passes away,
03:20then Allah Almighty gives him the right of intercession for his parents.
03:26He intercedes for his parents in front of Allah.
03:29So here it is stated that
03:31a boy is placed in Aqiqah instead of being placed in Aqiqah.
03:35So this is the meaning of Imam Ahmad bin Hanbal,
03:37may Allah have mercy on him, etc.
03:38among the Muhaddithin.
03:39Its meaning and meaning is that
03:41if a boy is not placed in Aqiqah,
03:44if a child passes away,
03:46then the right of intercession for his parents
03:50will be deprived of him on the Day of Judgment.
03:54He will be deprived of this privilege
03:56because he did not do Aqiqah.
03:58He had to get this right because he did Aqiqah.
04:00He did not do Aqiqah,
04:02so if this child passed away in childhood and did not do Aqiqah,
04:06then he will not intercede for his parents on the Day of Judgment.
04:10This is the meaning and meaning stated by the Muhaddithin.
04:12There are other sayings,
04:13but Imam Ahmad bin Hanbal, like Ajillah Muhaddithin,
04:16has a different opinion.
04:18According to him, this is the meaning.
04:20Then in the same hadith,
04:21the Holy Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him,
04:24said,
04:28that the boy should be slaughtered on the seventh day.
04:32That is, the day of Aqiqah has also been determined by the Holy Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him.
04:36He said,
04:37if you want to do Aqiqah, when do you want to do it?
04:39You have to do Aqiqah on the seventh day.
04:42He also said,
04:45and his head should be beheaded.
04:47The head will be beheaded.
04:48That is, the hair on the head will be removed
04:51and his name will be kept.
04:53Now, in this hadith,
04:54the Holy Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him,
04:56said on the seventh day.
04:57From here, the Muhaddithin and the jurists
05:00deduced that the time of Aqiqah is the seventh day.
05:05When the child is born,
05:06then on the seventh day after the birth of the child,
05:09Aqiqah will be done,
05:10and this is proven by the hadith of the Holy Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him.
05:13This is your command.
05:14So, Aqiqah should be done on the seventh day.
05:16On the same day,
05:17the hair on the head will also be beheaded.
05:19And the beheaded hair should be beheaded
05:21and the weight of the hair should be equal to silver or gold.
05:25Because the Holy Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him,
05:27himself commanded Hazrat Shahzadi-e-Konain Syeda Fatima Zahra,
05:30may Allah be pleased with her,
05:32for Hazrat Imam Hassan-e-Karimain,
05:34that when they were born,
05:35the beheaded hair should be beheaded
05:37and the weight of the hair should be equal to silver or gold.
05:40So, since the Holy Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him,
05:41himself commanded this,
05:42therefore, it is necessary that
05:43when the beheaded hair of the child is beheaded,
05:45the weight of the hair should be equal to silver or gold.
05:49And his name should be kept on the seventh day.
05:52This is a good thing.
05:54But I would also like to make it clear here
05:56that the command of Aqiqah
05:57or the commandments given after Aqiqah
06:00are not obligatory or compulsory.
06:03These things are compulsory.
06:05In other words,
06:06doing Aqiqah itself is a compulsory practice.
06:08It is not obligatory or compulsory.
06:09Because this is also proven by the hadith.
06:11This is the stance of the public.
06:12Other hadiths point to this
06:14that the command of Aqiqah
06:16given by the Holy Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him,
06:18is a preferential command.
06:20It is in the degree of preferential.
06:22It is not in the degree of compulsory or compulsory.
06:25Because in another place,
06:26the hadith itself is present.
06:28Arabic
06:33If a child is born and he wants to make a sacrifice,
06:36then he should make a sacrifice.
06:38So, the command of the Holy Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him,
06:41is to say that if he wants to make a sacrifice,
06:43that is, if he wants to do Aqiqah,
06:45then he should make a sacrifice,
06:46that is, he should do Aqiqah.
06:47This command is preferential.
06:49This is the degree of preferential.
06:51In the hadith in which it is stated
06:53that Aqiqah should be done,
06:55it does not mean compulsory.
06:57The command of the Holy Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him,
06:59is for compulsory.
07:00Arabic
07:02If there is no degree of preferential,
07:04if there is no degree of preferential,
07:06then the command of the Holy Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him,
07:08is not for compulsory.
07:09Because the degree of preferential is present here,
07:11that is why in other hadiths,
07:13due to the degree of preferential,
07:15the position of the district is that
07:17this Aqiqah,
07:19this Sunnat-e-Mustahabbah,
07:22is not compulsory or compulsory.
07:24So, when this is the Sunnat-e-Mustahabbah,
07:26now the day of the Sunnat-e-Mustahabbah,
07:28the seventh day,
07:30is also compulsory.
07:32This is the time of the Sunnat-e-Mustahabbah.
07:34It is not necessary that the Sunnat-e-Mustahabbah
07:36should be done on the seventh day only.
07:38If someone does it after the seventh day,
07:40then there will be no Aqiqah.
07:42If someone does it before the seventh day,
07:44then there will be no Aqiqah.
07:46If it is done with the intention of Aqiqah,
07:48then there will be Aqiqah,
07:50but the time of the Sunnat-e-Mustahabbah
07:52is dead.
07:54If it is not done on the seventh day,
07:56then it should be done on the twenty-first day.
07:58Similarly, the jurists have said that
08:00whenever it is done in life,
08:02it can be done at any time in life.
08:04This is the compulsory time.
08:06The Sunnat-e-Mustahabbah is that
08:08it should be done on the seventh day,
08:10but if for some reason it is not done at that time,
08:12then it can be done later in life at any time.
08:14But whenever it is done,
08:16it is compulsory that the seventh day
08:18of the birth should be taken into account.
08:20The easy way to keep the seventh day of the birth
08:22is to remember the day of birth of the child.
08:24The day on which the child is born
08:26and the day before that
08:28will be the seventh day.
08:30Like if the child is born on Friday,
08:32then Friday night will come on the seventh day.
08:34If a child is born on Sunday,
08:36then Friday will be the seventh day.
08:38If a child is born on Sunday,
08:40then the week will be the seventh day.
08:42So in this way,
08:44when it is done on any day in life
08:46that it should be done on the seventh day.
08:48However, if someone does not take into account
08:50the truth will be fulfilled, the right to the truth will be fulfilled.
08:55The only thing is that the right to the time has not been granted.
08:57The reward for not granting the right to the time,
09:00the reward for granting the right to the time will not be granted,
09:03but the reward for fulfilling the truth will be granted.
09:07And the excellence in the hadith, and the fact that it is in Giribi,
09:10and the glad tidings in other hadiths, will be granted by the truth.
09:14And there is a narration from Huzoor,
09:17that Prophet Muhammad PBUH himself, after the announcement of prophethood,
09:20had fulfilled his reality.
09:22Although at the time of his birth,
09:24his grandfather, Abdul Muttalib, had fulfilled his reality,
09:27but there is a narration from Imam Baha,
09:29that after the announcement of prophethood,
09:31Prophet Muhammad PBUH himself had fulfilled his reality.
09:34And on this basis, the jurists have also written that
09:37if someone wants to fulfill his reality later, he can do so.
09:40If it did not happen in his childhood, then it can be done later.
09:43It can happen in his lifetime,
09:45but after the death of his child,
09:47he cannot fulfill his reality.
09:50Because the reality is the gratitude.
09:53The blessing that Allah SWT has bestowed upon the child,
09:58is the gratitude for this blessing.
10:00And when the blessing is present,
10:02and when it is received,
10:03then the gratitude is paid for it.
10:05When the child died,
10:06then that blessing was wasted.
10:08Now there is no room for gratitude.
10:10There is no room for gratitude.
10:12If a child's reality has not been fulfilled,
10:14and he has died,
10:15then after his death,
10:17his reality cannot be fulfilled.
10:19Yes, his reality can be fulfilled in his lifetime.
10:22A person can also fulfill his reality,
10:24if it did not happen in his childhood,
10:26but in his lifetime.
10:28So, fulfilling reality is a prerequisite.
10:30It is a Sunnah.
10:31It is a good thing.
10:32It should be done.
10:33But one thing is that
10:34fulfilling reality is not obligatory or compulsory.
10:37The second thing is that
10:38fulfilling reality is a prerequisite Sunnah.
10:40So, what I said in the beginning,
10:42that those who think that
10:43it is obligatory or compulsory,
10:45and if they are not able to do it,
10:47and they do not have money,
10:48then they take out a loan,
10:49and sometimes,
10:50by the grace of Allah,
10:51they try to fulfill their dreams
10:53by taking out a loan.
10:55So, this type of practice is not correct.
10:57The Shariah did not make it compulsory
10:59for you to take out a loan for it.
11:01It was a prerequisite.
11:02If you are able to do it,
11:03then do it.
11:04It is a very good thing.
11:05Do it.
11:06But if you are not able to do it,
11:07then since the Shariah has not made it compulsory for you,
11:09then do not take out a loan for it.
11:12And you should not take out a loan for interest
11:14under any circumstances.
11:16The second thing is that
11:17what you have to do in reality,
11:19in that reality,
11:20it is a prerequisite.
11:21You have to do it.
11:22You have to do animal sacrifice
11:23and its meat.
11:24You cannot go.
11:25You can also distribute its meat.
11:26And the reality can be sent after it is cooked.
11:30Raw meat can also be sent.
11:32It can be sent after it is cooked.
11:34And you can also do Dawah or Ziafat.
11:36But it is not necessary
11:37that Dawah or Ziafat should be done
11:39and it should be done on a large scale
11:41and there should be a lot of excitement in it.
11:44So, for this kind of work,
11:46do not put yourself under the burden of a loan
11:48and do not do it for fame and glory.
11:51Do what you have to do in a legitimate way
11:53and do it for the pleasure of Allah.
11:55Do it to get closer to Allah.
11:57Do it for the sake of Allah's reward.
11:59Ladies and gentlemen,
12:00it is time for a short break here.
12:02We hope you will stay with us.
12:04Ladies and gentlemen, welcome back.
12:05Before going to the break,
12:06we were discussing that
12:07it is permissible to do Aqeeqah.
12:09It is not obligatory or obligatory.
12:11So, for this,
12:12do not put yourself under the burden of a loan.
12:15And Aqeeqah,
12:16in Aqeeqah,
12:17the way meat can be given,
12:19raw meat can also be distributed.
12:21Meat can also be cooked
12:23and Dawah or Ziafat can also be done.
12:26All three ways can be adopted.
12:28So, when the Shariah has given you the permission
12:30to adopt all three ways,
12:31then what is necessary
12:32is that you have to arrange for Dawah or Ziafat
12:34in such a way
12:35for which you do not have
12:37the appropriate expenses
12:39and you are doing it with a loan.
12:41So, do not do it for the sake of a nose,
12:42for the sake of a name or a title,
12:43for the sake of an exhibition.
12:44Do it for the sake of Allah's pleasure.
12:46And secondly,
12:47if you arrange for Dawah or Ziafat,
12:49then in this case also,
12:50keep Allah's pleasure in mind.
12:52Do not exceed the limits of the Shariah.
12:54Sometimes,
12:55the kind of programs
12:56that are arranged for Aqeeqah,
12:58it becomes a formal function
13:00and in it,
13:01there is dancing and singing
13:02and free mixing
13:04of strange men and women
13:05and all these
13:06are found to be wrong,
13:07which are things that
13:08make Allah angry.
13:09So, what benefit do you get from that?
13:11The reason for the benefit
13:12is that it is a work
13:13that earns the opposite of sin.
13:14So, adopting such a style
13:16or doing such a function
13:17that makes Allah angry,
13:19that makes the Messenger of Allah angry,
13:22that goes against
13:23the basic teachings of our religion,
13:25then such a style
13:26should not be adopted.
13:27Aqeeqah is an Aqeeqah,
13:29so if you are doing Aqeeqah,
13:31then you are doing it as a ritual.
13:33You are not doing it
13:34as worship
13:35or as the nearness of Allah.
13:37If you were to do Aqeeqah
13:38for the nearness of Allah,
13:39for the pleasure of Allah,
13:41if you were to do Aqeeqah
13:42in order to be present
13:43in front of Allah,
13:44as gratitude,
13:46then your style
13:47would also be
13:48what Allah likes.
13:50Your style
13:51would not make Allah angry.
13:53You would keep the Shariah boundaries.
13:56So, if you adopt such a style,
13:58then you are not doing it
13:59in that style
14:00and you are not doing it
14:01in such a way
14:02that Allah is angry.
14:03You are not doing it
14:04in that style.
14:05You are doing it
14:06to celebrate.
14:07You are allowed
14:08to celebrate.
14:09But to celebrate
14:10at any time,
14:11you are not allowed
14:12to keep the Shariah boundaries.
14:15So, a believer
14:16should always
14:17take care of this.
14:18And the one
14:19who is truly
14:20blessed,
14:21the one who is
14:22giving blessings,
14:23Allah,
14:24in giving thanks
14:25for his blessings,
14:26should always
14:27keep the Shariah boundaries.
14:29So, this was
14:30one angle,
14:31one angle
14:32that was
14:33found to be wrong.
14:35Now, let's come
14:36to the second angle.
14:37On the other hand,
14:38there are some people
14:39who do not give
14:40any importance
14:41to the reality
14:42at all.
14:43They adopt
14:44all kinds of
14:45unlawful
14:46rituals.
14:47They adopt
14:48those rituals
14:49but the reality
14:50which has been
14:51initiated,
14:52which has been
14:53kept by the Shariah,
14:54which Allah likes,
14:55which Allah's
14:56Beloved, peace be upon him,
14:57likes,
14:58which is the
14:59method of the
15:00righteous,
15:01the method of the
15:02companions,
15:03the method of the
15:04followers,
15:05which has been
15:06inherited from the
15:07Ummah,
15:08they do not give
15:09any importance
15:10to that method.
15:11So, they also
15:12have expenses.
15:13They are spending
15:14in other things
15:15and they are
15:16spending in such
15:17things where
15:18spending is
15:19a confirmed
15:20waste.
15:21That is,
15:22they are spending
15:23in unlawful
15:24places where
15:25they should have
15:26spent to please
15:27Allah.
15:28They are not
15:29spending there.
15:30So, it is
15:31right that
15:32it is not
15:33obligatory
15:34to perform
15:35aqeeqah.
15:36If someone
15:37does not perform
15:38aqeeqah,
15:39he will not
15:40be a sinner.
15:41But,
15:42that aqeeqah
15:43is a mustahab
15:44and it is
15:45a sunnah
15:46and it has
15:47rewards and
15:48rewards.
15:49So,
15:50one is
15:51deprived of
15:52those rewards.
15:53One does
15:54not want to
15:55be deprived
15:56of any benefit.
15:57So,
15:58if you have
15:59the ability,
16:00if Allah
16:01has given you
16:02the ability,
16:03then you
16:04must perform
16:05aqeeqah.
16:06Even though
16:07it is a mustahab
16:08and it is not
16:09obligatory,
16:10but you
16:11must do it
16:12so that you
16:13get the
16:14blessings of
16:15pleasing Allah
16:16and the
16:17Prophet.
16:18You will
16:19get other
16:20rewards.
16:21Glory to Allah!
16:22So,
16:23if you
16:24have the
16:25ability,
16:26if you
16:27have the
16:28ability to
16:29perform aqeeqah,
16:30if you
16:31have the
16:32ability to
16:33perform aqeeqah,
16:34if you
16:35have the
16:36ability to
16:37perform aqeeqah,
16:38if you
16:39have the
16:40ability to
16:41perform aqeeqah,
16:42if you
16:43have the
16:44ability to
16:45perform aqeeqah,
16:46if you
16:47have the
16:48ability to
16:49perform aqeeqah,
16:50if you
16:51have the
16:52ability to
16:53perform aqeeqah,
16:54if you
16:55have the
16:56ability to
16:57perform aqeeqah,
16:58if you
16:59have the
17:00ability to
17:01perform aqeeqah,
17:02if you
17:03have the
17:04ability to
17:05perform aqeeqah,
17:06if you
17:07have the
17:08ability to
17:09perform aqeeqah,
17:10if you
17:11have the
17:12ability to
17:13perform aqeeqah,
17:14if you
17:15have the
17:16ability to
17:17perform aqeeqah,
17:18if you
17:19have the
17:20ability to
17:21perform aqeeqah,
17:22if you
17:23have the
17:24ability to
17:25perform aqeeqah,
17:26if you
17:27have the
17:28ability to
17:29perform aqeeqah,
17:30if you
17:31have the
17:32ability to
17:33perform aqeeqah,
17:34if you
17:35have the
17:36ability to
17:37perform aqeeqah,
17:38if you
17:39have the
17:40ability to
17:41perform aqeeqah,
17:42if you
17:43have the
17:44ability to
17:45perform aqeeqah,
17:46if you
17:47have the
17:48ability to
17:49perform aqeeqah,
17:50if you
17:51have the
17:52ability to
17:53perform aqeeqah,
17:54if you
17:55have the
17:56ability to
17:57perform aqeeqah,
17:58if you
17:59have the
18:00ability to
18:01perform aqeeqah,
18:02if you
18:03have the
18:04ability to
18:05perform aqeeqah,
18:06if you
18:07have the
18:08ability to
18:09perform aqeeqah,
18:10if you
18:11have the
18:12ability to
18:13perform aqeeqah,
18:14if you
18:15have the
18:16ability to
18:17perform aqeeqah,
18:18if you
18:19have the
18:20ability to
18:21perform aqeeqah,
18:22if you
18:23have the
18:24ability to
18:25perform aqeeqah,
18:26if you
18:27have the
18:28ability to
18:29perform aqeeqah,
18:30if you
18:31have the
18:32ability to
18:33perform aqeeqah,
18:34if you
18:35have the
18:36ability to
18:37perform aqeeqah,
18:38if you
18:39have the
18:40ability to
18:41perform aqeeqah,
18:42if you
18:43have the
18:44ability to
18:45perform aqeeqah,
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19:38if you
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19:42if you
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19:46if you
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20:14if you
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20:18if you
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20:20aqeeqah,
20:21if you
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20:24perform aqueeqah,
20:25if you
20:26have the
20:27ability to
20:28perform aqeeqah
20:29because
20:30you
20:31will
20:32parents
20:33will
20:34support you
20:35Dong.
20:36DH-B.
20:37DH-B.
20:38DH-B.
20:39DH-B.
20:40benefits
20:41you,
20:42It is Sunnat-e-Mustahabbah for a girl to do Aqeeqah.
20:45And in Ahadith, there is mention of a girl and a boy.
20:49This is one thing.
20:50Now, let's come to the second thing.
20:52Is there a difference between a girl and a boy or is it the same?
20:57So, there is a difference between a girl and a boy.
20:59This is also proven by Ahadith.
21:01There was a Sahabiya, Hazrat Umm-e-Kurz, Khuzaiya Qabiya.
21:07We have a caller with us. Let me call him and then I will mention the Ahadith.
21:10Assalam-o-Alaikum.
21:11Wa-alaikum-o-Alaikum.
21:13Yes, tell me.
21:14Sir, I wanted to ask that I have done Aqeeqah of my grandson, two goats.
21:20Can we keep the meat at home or do we have to distribute it to the poor and relatives?
21:25Okay.
21:26What is the order?
21:27And?
21:28That is what I wanted to ask.
21:29I will tell you.
21:33Nazim, I was requesting if there is a difference between a girl and a boy.
21:39So, there is a difference between a girl and a boy.
21:42This is also proven by Ahadith.
21:43There was a Sahabiya, Hazrat Umm-e-Kurz, Khuzaiya Qabiya.
21:48She is with us.
21:51When there was an opportunity for the reconciliation of Hudaibiyah,
21:54she came and said that she wanted to ask a question to the Prophet,
21:58about Luhum-ul-Hajj.
21:59That is, about the sacrifice of Hajj and Umrah.
22:05To ask about that, the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him,
22:09accepted Islam at that time.
22:11So, she came to ask.
22:12I heard the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him,
22:15while he was speaking.
22:17He said the following words,
22:25that two goats will be sacrificed on behalf of the boy,
22:31and one goat will be sacrificed on behalf of the girl.
22:34So, this order was taken from this Hadith.
22:37This was the source of benefit.
22:41The Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him,
22:45said that two goats will be sacrificed on behalf of the boy,
22:48and one goat will be sacrificed on behalf of the girl.
22:51Now, the issue of Muqafiya-taan,
22:55I will talk about Muqafiya-taan later.
22:59First, let's talk about its wisdom.
23:01Why did the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him,
23:04say that two goats will be sacrificed on behalf of the boy,
23:06and one goat will be sacrificed on behalf of the girl?
23:08Allama Halimi, a famous Shafi'i jurist,
23:11explained its wisdom.
23:13Other Muhaddithin and jurists also supported him.
23:16They said that the sacrifice of the boy
23:21is done as a way of thanking Allah,
23:26and the purpose is to protect the life of the boy.
23:29The sacrifice of the boy is being done as a way of charity.
23:33The reason for this is that the prayers that are recited,
23:35the words that are used in those prayers,
23:36that the blood of this animal is for the blood of this child,
23:40the flesh of this animal is for the flesh of this child,
23:43the skin of this animal is for the skin of this child,
23:45means that it is done as a way of charity.
23:47They said that it is for the survival of the child,
23:50so it is similar to charity.
23:52And the principle of Shari'ah in charity is that
23:55the charity of a man is twice as much as that of a woman.
23:58Similarly, here also, the child is twice as much as that of a woman.
24:04For this, two animals will be sacrificed,
24:06and one will be sacrificed for the sake of the child.
24:07And some other Muhaddithin also added to this,
24:11that in inheritance, the share of a boy is twice as much as that of a woman.
24:16So, the share of a boy is twice as much as that of a woman.
24:18Similarly, in charity, the share of a boy is twice as much as that of a woman.
24:20And in some other things, the share is twice as much as that of a woman.
24:22So, here also, the share of a boy is twice as much as that of a woman.
24:27We have a caller with us, let's have him join us.
24:28Peace be upon you.
24:30Peace be upon you too.
24:32Yes, please go ahead.
24:34Mufti Sahib, there is a woman, she had two children.
24:38She took a divorce from her husband after marriage.
24:44Okay, next.
24:45After the divorce, she lived with a man,
24:48and that man left her.
24:50Okay.
24:52At first, her husband tried to convince her,
24:54but she did not agree to it.
24:55But now, she wants to reconcile with her husband again.
24:59Okay.
25:00Her first husband did not divorce her.
25:03She wants to reconcile with her first husband,
25:05but her first husband did not divorce her.
25:07Yes, he took a divorce from the court.
25:09He took a divorce himself, meaning he took a one-sided divorce.
25:12Yes.
25:12Okay, I will let you know.
25:14There is another caller. Peace be upon you.
25:16Peace be upon you too.
25:17Mr. Allama.
25:18Yes, please go ahead.
25:19Hello.
25:19Yes, please go ahead.
25:20I wanted to know, if a man steals a pencil, pen or any other ordinary thing,
25:25and if the other man is the same person who corrupts billions of rupees.
25:30Hello.
25:30Yes, please repeat the question.
25:32I could not hear you.
25:34I said, if a man steals a pencil, pen or any other ordinary thing,
25:39and if the other man corrupts billions of rupees,
25:43will they get the same punishment in the hereafter?
25:46He said, there will be a difference.
25:48Okay, I will let you know.
25:49Peace be upon you.
25:51Ladies and gentlemen, it is time for a short break.
25:54I hope you will stay with us.
25:56Ladies and gentlemen, welcome back.
25:57Before the break, we were talking about the difference between a child and a woman,
26:02and what is the wisdom behind it.
26:03Now, a question arises, is there a difference between a man and a woman,
26:06and a man and a woman, and a man and a woman, and a man and a woman, and a woman, and a man and a woman.
26:08So, this is the hadith that I have read,
26:10by Hazrat Umme Kurz Khudaiya Qavia, may Allah be pleased with her and grant her peace.
26:13In this hadith, there is a description of this matter,
26:15that the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, said,
26:18There is no harm for you, whether you are a man or a woman.
26:21There is no harm for you, whether you are a man or a woman.
26:26Whether you are a man or a woman,
26:28you can be called a man or a woman.
26:32A woman can be called a man or a woman.
26:36There is no harm in that.
26:40Now, let's come to what the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, said.
26:45First of all, let's understand the difference that has been made,
26:47that for a child, you have to have two animals, and for a woman, you have to have one animal.
26:51So, this commandment is also based on preference.
26:54Just as the reality itself has the status of preference,
26:58in the Sunnah of the Prophet,
26:59similarly, this difference is also based on preference,
27:02and it is not based on reason.
27:04It is not that if you have one animal for the child,
27:08then the reality will not be fulfilled.
27:09The reality will be fulfilled, and that is also proven by the hadith.
27:12Having one animal for the child is also proven by the hadith,
27:16which shows that the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him,
27:19said that for a child, you have to have two animals.
27:22This is a commandment based on preference, and not based on reason.
27:26So, it is better to have two animals for the child,
27:31and one animal for the woman,
27:33but if someone does not have two animals, but has one animal,
27:37and he has one animal for the child,
27:39then the reality will be fulfilled.
27:41Now, let's talk about the word Muqafiyatan in the Hadith.
27:46The word Shaitaan Muqafiyatan.
27:48Imam Udaud Rahimullah, who was a student of Imam Ahmad bin Hanbal,
27:52said that he heard Imam Ahmad bin Hanbal say that
27:55the meaning of Muqafiyatan is
27:57Mustawiyatani Aw Mutaqaribani,
28:00which means to be equal or close to each other.
28:03The interpretation of this has been explained by the Muhaddeseen.
28:08The meaning of Muqafiyatan is to be equal or close to each other.
28:16The second meaning is to be of the same sex.
28:18If one animal is slaughtered in the morning,
28:20then the other should also be slaughtered in the evening.
28:22The meaning of Muqafiyatan is to be equal or close to each other.
28:27It means to be slaughtered at the same time.
28:29It should not be that one animal is being slaughtered in the morning,
28:31and the other is being slaughtered in the evening.
28:34If both animals are being slaughtered in the morning,
28:36then both animals should be slaughtered in the evening.
28:39It is not necessary that the time should be the same,
28:41but the time should be close to each other.
28:43There should not be much difference in time.
28:45This is one interpretation.
28:47Another interpretation is that
28:48Muqafiyatan is to be equal or close to each other.
28:52It means to be of the same sex.
28:55What does this mean?
28:56It means that the conditions of slaughtering animals
28:59are the same as those of the same sex.
29:02Just as slaughtering animals can be of the same sex,
29:05the same conditions can be of the same sex.
29:10It is not possible for someone to say,
29:11I can invite a deer to a party,
29:14or I can invite a chicken to a party.
29:18No, it is not possible.
29:19The same animals can be sacrificed,
29:22and the same conditions can be met for the same animals.
29:24The same animals will be sacrificed.
29:28The second thing is that
29:29the conditions for the animals to be sacrificed
29:33are the same as those of the same sex.
29:35The third thing is that
29:36just as the conditions of sacrifice are different
29:39from the conditions of the same sex,
29:41the amount of animals will be sacrificed
29:43but the ones not sacrificed will not.
29:45The same conditions are also there in the case of the same sex.
29:47In the same way, the conditions of sacrifice should be the same
29:49and the quantity of animals to be sacrificed
29:51must not exceed the same quantity.
29:54There is another general misconception
29:57that the meat of the same sex
29:58cannot be eaten by children, parents, grandparents,
30:00or grandparents.
30:02This is a misconception.
30:03It is a misconception.
30:05Like we make a sacrifice, we can eat the meat ourselves,
30:08we can feed others,
30:10we can give it to our relatives,
30:12we can keep all of it ourselves,
30:14we can give all of it to others.
30:16It is the same in reality.
30:18We can share all of the meat,
30:20we can keep all of it ourselves,
30:22we can give all of it to our relatives.
30:24But it is better that,
30:26like three parts are made in a sacrifice,
30:28three parts are made in reality as well.
30:30One for us, one for our family,
30:32and the other for the poor.
30:34This is the best option.
30:36But if no one does this, then it is not necessary.
30:38This was a question from Sahil,
30:40so I answered it as well.
30:42The reality is that,
30:44parents can eat their children's food.
30:46We can use our own sacrifice.
30:48Similarly, the reality is that,
30:50if parents want to eat their children's food,
30:52they can eat it,
30:54grandparents can eat it as well.
30:56It is better to break the bone.
30:58It is better not to break the bone,
31:00but even if you break the bone,
31:02it is not unlawful.
31:04It will not affect the reality.
31:06Although it was better not to break the bone.
31:08Now let's come to the questions from the callers.
31:10The callers have asked us questions.
31:12One sister has asked a question,
31:14that during the specific days,
31:16the regular Wada'if that we are reciting,
31:18is it allowed to be recited?
31:20See, in the regular Wada'if,
31:22the verses that are recited,
31:24or the Surahs that are recited,
31:26if they are included in the meaning of prayer,
31:28if they are included in the meaning of prayer,
31:30if they are included in the meaning of prayer,
31:32then those verses that are recited
31:34in the regular Wada'if,
31:36they can be recited in these days as well.
31:38But the intention is not to recite
31:40the verse or the Surah,
31:42but the intention is to recite.
31:44The intention is to recite Allah,
31:46or the intention is to mention Allah,
31:48or the intention is to pray.
31:50For this reason,
31:52since their command is not in the Quran,
31:54for this reason you can pray,
31:56for this reason you can pray,
31:58for this reason you can mention Allah.
32:00But if you are reciting all four,
32:02then in reciting all four,
32:04the word Qul will be removed,
32:06because in reciting with the word Qul,
32:08its Quranic nature is determined
32:10that the Quran is being recited,
32:12then the intention is not active.
32:14So if you are reciting all four in these days,
32:16with the intention of Allah's recitation
32:18or the intention of prayer,
32:20then you will remove the word Qul
32:22and recite. Otherwise,
32:24if you are reciting with the intention of Allah's recitation
32:26or the intention of prayer,
32:28then you can recite with the intention of Allah's recitation
32:30or the intention of prayer.
32:32Otherwise,
32:34for things other than the Quran,
32:36ablution or purification is not necessary.
32:38For things other than the Quran,
32:40ablution or purification is not necessary.
32:42For things other than the Quran,
32:44for things other than the Quran,
32:46for things other than the Quran,
32:48for things other than the Quran,
32:50for things other than the Quran,
32:52for things other than the Quran,
32:54for things other than the Quran,
32:56for things other than the Quran,
32:58for things other than the Quran,
33:00for things other than the Quran,
33:02for things other than the Quran,
33:04for things other than the Quran,
33:06for things other than the Quran,
33:08for things other than the Quran,
33:10for things other than the Quran,
33:12for things other than the Quran,
33:14for things other than the Quran,
33:16for things other than the Quran,
33:18for things other than the Quran,
33:20for things other than the Quran,
33:22for things other than the Quran,
33:24for things other than the Quran,
33:26for things other than the Quran,
33:28for things other than the Quran,
33:30for things other than the Quran,
33:32for things other than the Quran,
33:34for things other than the Quran,
33:36for things other than the Quran,
33:38for things other than the Quran,
33:40for things other than the Quran,
33:42for things other than the Quran,
33:44for things other than the Quran,
33:46for things other than the Quran,
33:48for things other than the Quran,
33:50for things other than the Quran,
33:52for things other than the Quran,
33:54for things other than the Quran,
33:56for things other than the Quran,
33:58for things other than the Quran,
34:00for things other than the Quran,
34:02for things other than the Quran,
34:04for things other than the Quran,
34:06for things other than the Quran,
34:08for things other than the Quran,
34:10for things other than the Quran,
34:12for things other than the Quran,
34:14for things other than the Quran,
34:16for things other than the Quran,
34:18for things other than the Quran,
34:20for things other than the Quran,
34:22for things other than the Quran,
34:24for things other than the Quran,
34:26for things other than the Quran,
34:28for things other than the Quran,
34:30for things other than the Quran,
34:32for things other than the Quran,
34:34for things other than the Quran,
34:36for things other than the Quran,
34:38for things other than the Quran,
34:40for things other than the Quran,
34:42for things other than the Quran,
34:44for things other than the Quran,
34:46for things other than the Quran,
34:48for things other than the Quran,
34:50for things other than the Quran,
34:52for things other than the Quran,
34:54for things other than the Quran,
34:56for things other than the Quran,
34:58for things other than the Quran,
35:00for things other than the Quran,
35:02for things other than the Quran,
35:04for things other than the Quran,
35:06for things other than the Quran,
35:08for things other than the Quran,
35:10for things other than the Quran,
35:12I asked, one person steals a small amount,
35:14and the other steals billions of rupees.
35:16So, in the hereafter,
35:18is the crime of both equal?
35:20Look, there are two aspects to this.
35:22One aspect is that of Allah's disobedience.
35:24Whether the theft is small or large,
35:26Allah's disobedience is present in it.
35:28So, if someone does Allah's disobedience,
35:30and does it with the intention of Allah's disobedience,
35:32then it is a matter of concern.
35:34If Allah the Almighty wants,
35:36if He wants to punish both of them equally,
35:38then Allah the Almighty can punish both of them equally.
35:40If Allah the Almighty wants to punish both of them equally,
35:42then Allah the Almighty can punish both of them equally.
35:44So, in this respect,
35:46one should fear that
35:48theft is still theft.
35:50Whether it is a small amount of a pen,
35:52or billions of rupees,
35:54it is Allah's disobedience,
35:56and it is Allah's disobedience.
35:58One should beware of it.
36:00It is understood that
36:02if the theft of billions of rupees
36:04has a greater impact on the society,
36:06then its consequences are greater.
36:08If the theft of billions of rupees
36:10has a lesser impact on the society,
36:12then its consequences are lesser.
36:14But it is not free of consequences.
36:16It is a sin.
36:18It is a sin.
36:20It has consequences.
36:22So, it is not permissible
36:24to steal a small amount of a pen
36:26and say that you are stealing billions of rupees.
36:28I will steal a small amount of a pen.
36:30Someone's theft or someone's mistake
36:32is not justified for you.
36:34If someone is doing something wrong,
36:36then it is not right for you.
36:38May Allah be with us and all of you.
36:40Alhamdulillah.
37:06Alhamdulillah.

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