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00:00I really want to tell Matilda tonight about postponing the marriage, but right now the
00:10courage is kind of leaving me here.
00:13Can I get some kiss?
00:15Me and now are not going to have sex until we get married, but I don't think I can keep
00:21my hands off him.
00:24I just got back from the clinic, do you have gonorrhea?
00:31I don't have gonorrhea.
00:34I don't have gonorrhea.
00:37I don't have gonorrhea.
00:40I just got back from the clinic, do you have gonorrhea?
00:53I need some space, she doesn't want to see me right now.
00:59What are you going to do?
01:02I don't know.
01:03The only thing I care about now is getting back to Faith.
01:06I just hope she gives me a second chance.
01:10Whenever you shake another girl's hand in front of me, I'm not allowed to.
01:14You are next to me.
01:15I am not alone.
01:17I'm not shaking Shay's hand, it's a complete double standard.
01:21You make me so angry and so stressful.
01:24I'm not going to be in a relationship with someone that doesn't respect me.
01:29Where are you going?
01:30She's pissed.
01:34Why do you look so angry?
01:36I've been getting like a real dark energy off Victoria.
01:39My gut is never wrong.
01:41Never wrong?
01:43I was just wondering if you would feel comfortable to like stay in a hotel room with me?
01:47I live in a society where there are norms.
01:51Hey!
01:52You care more what people and your family think versus us.
01:56It's all about belief.
01:57Well, I'm far beyond your little beliefs.
02:06Music
02:28Babe!
02:30Babe!
02:32Are you okay?
02:34Yeah.
02:36Okay.
02:38I think that's your first time eating the fufu.
02:42Next time I will get better.
02:45I'm waiting for you, okay?
02:46Okay.
02:47Love you.
02:48Okay.
02:50Yesterday, after a year of waiting, Nas has finally come to Ghana so that we can meet for the first time.
02:58And I'm very happy that finally I have the man I love.
03:03But the first night didn't go as I hoped.
03:07Music
03:11American food and real food, obviously I'm finding out is two totally different things.
03:16Music
03:20You told me yesterday.
03:21Say again?
03:22You told me I wanted to have sex with you but you refused.
03:25Music
03:30So no sex last night?
03:31No sex last night.
04:01Music
04:28Music
04:47Almost but ultimately no.
04:50What is almost?
04:51Music
04:55We have started getting our clothes off.
04:57I can see Matilda was displeased by the fact that I stopped us before things got too hot and heavy.
05:04But when push came to shove, somebody had to be responsible.
05:08It was about to get heated.
05:11Really, really heated.
05:13Let's say I didn't keep a cooler head.
05:18Cooler head.
05:19Head.
05:22I'm going to use a different word than head, okay?
05:25Um, Matilda, I have a confession to make.
05:29I've made mistakes in the past in relationships.
05:32And your ex-girlfriend?
05:35Yes, we did have sex as soon as we could.
05:38And that, and then she kept wanting more of my attention and more.
05:42She got very possessive of me.
05:45I've only had one serious relationship before Matilda.
05:51And you know, dad, mom, dad, please cover your ears.
05:56Can we put that part in before we start talking about this?
05:59Okay.
06:00With my ex-girlfriend, the sexual aspect became the only aspect of our relationship after a while.
06:07And again, I'm only human.
06:10No, I cannot go six rounds every single day.
06:13We are not designed, I don't think we men are designed to do that.
06:17I don't think we men are designed to do that.
06:20We're designed to do that maybe twice a week.
06:24With Matilda, there's more to her than just sexually.
06:28I do want to spend the rest of my life with her.
06:32Our life is not going to be all 100% in the bedroom.
06:39With my ex, we jumped into the sex too early.
06:43It can change you, you know?
06:45I understand.
06:46So let's get married first before we can have sex.
06:51That would probably be best.
06:54Sometimes I'll be worrying you that, babe, I need some sex but don't give it to me.
06:58Okay?
07:00And I'll say, okay, let me actually stop and think about this.
07:04Okay.
07:06But do you know one thing?
07:07What?
07:08I love you.
07:10I love you more.
07:17How are you doing?
07:19We've got a beautiful country, I have to say.
07:22Ladies first, right?
07:23Yes, that.
07:24Thank you, daddy.
07:26You're very welcome, mommy.
07:31This morning, Hayford is heading back to Kamasi, giving me and Matilda some alone time in Accra.
07:37And we're just going to explore, roam around, get to really know each other.
07:44I love you.
07:45I love you more.
07:47I'm glad that Matilda agreed to wait until marriage to have sex.
07:51Now, the question is, how difficult does this become for her when she realizes that I don't want to get married right this instant?
08:00What is that?
08:02Sea urchin.
08:03Poisonous.
08:04That's poisonous.
08:06It's not poisonous.
08:07Yes, it is.
08:08No, it's not poisonous.
08:09Yes, they are.
08:11Please listen to me.
08:12You are a man, so you have to take it.
08:14No, no, no.
08:17No.
08:18Look, look.
08:19Come on, put it in the sea, all right?
08:21No, it's really soft.
08:23It's really, really soft.
08:26You're beautiful, don't you see it?
08:28Yeah, I do.
08:30Maybe it's not poisonous, but I don't want my head to swell up to the size of my head for me to find out whether it was or wasn't.
08:39Nothing will happen to you.
08:40I am a man.
08:41You're like a man.
08:42I am a man, but that doesn't mean I have to be stupid.
08:46Let's not disturb that, all right?
08:50I believe that you don't have to take unnecessary risks to be a man.
08:55Be very, very careful here.
08:57I'm fine.
09:02I'm happy that very soon I'll get married to the man I love, right?
09:08That's right.
09:09There's a lot of people coming.
09:12It's more than 200 people over there.
09:15It's a whole lot.
09:17My mom's family, friends, pastors, they are coming to our wedding.
09:24Tell me, what exactly is the marriage process over here?
09:28The first thing you have to do is the knocking ceremony.
09:32The knocking?
09:33Uh-huh.
09:35You have to come with your people and seek permission from my family, right?
09:41Right.
09:42And after that, the traditional marriage.
09:45In Ghana, we have knocking ceremony before two people can get married.
09:51The groom knocks at the bride's door to seek permission to get married to her.
09:57And the family of the bride give a list of items for the groom to bring on the day of the traditional marriage.
10:08So how much is the bride price?
10:11What part of that is the bride price?
10:13I don't know, babe. I don't know.
10:16But don't worry, I've told my mom and my uncle to do that.
10:19After we get to Kumasi, you will know, okay?
10:23Interesting. Okay.
10:25I'm going to dance that day.
10:27Because I'm getting married, so I will dance.
10:30For my friends to see that.
10:32Right now, I'm out of market.
10:34And now, Daniel Valenta is now my husband.
10:38Right?
10:39Right.
10:41As Matilda is explaining the knocking ceremony, and that there are 200 people plus showing up for the wedding,
10:48I think we're past the point of snowballing here.
10:51At this point, it's turning into an avalanche.
10:55The kind that swallows all of the skiers up, and there's no survivors.
11:01It's going to be really hard to cancel that.
11:04I don't know.
11:06I just honestly don't know. I don't know how I'm going to navigate this.
11:13Sunday.
11:15I feel like an intruder.
11:16I feel like an intruder.