90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days Season 7 Episode 8
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00:00One why must I choose? No, I love everyone
00:06I am had broken
00:20I want to throw up
00:26Painful
00:28Neglectful
00:30Just played out hurtful
00:33in every way
00:36But I'm used to the pain so I won't hurt for long
00:40But I'm tired of going through the same thing with people
00:45I'm just sick of people in the way like they are in general, but I still try to give hope and smile to the next
00:54You
00:57Even though he couldn't see me he could hear my heart and no no matter what I said or done
01:04Nothing still wasn't enough
01:17Previously on before the 90 days
01:19Look baby. He has long eyelashes like me
01:24I'm just worried about what happens whenever you go back to the state that could potentially cause trust issues
01:31Oh, don't make me my wife worried now
01:35There are some cracks in our relationship, and it's scary thinking about facing those thousands of miles apart
01:49It's really amazing to be a sunny, but I feel really bad and guilty because he has no idea
01:55I brought my ex-boyfriend South Africa
01:58This is our bedroom. Oh, this is nice. I really want to build a relationship before I tell him about Rory being here
02:07I'm sorry. I cheated on you. I want to be in a relationship with you. It's hard for me to think of it
02:15We're going to later tomorrow to meet my family how I can't tell them that you are my boyfriend
02:23It's a more than 200 people's coming to our ready, it's gonna be really hard to cancel that I don't know how I'm gonna navigate this
02:31Just looking at engagement rings. I've already proposed to Matilda over the phone, but when I present this ring to her
02:38I'll tell her that we need to postpone the wedding
02:41Just hope she can understand that ring is a promise for me to come back and marry her
02:51This is exactly what I've been waiting for but I know that being with someone in my situation will be a total different experience
02:57I
03:00Don't think
03:02you
03:05Don't do something to know that
03:07She made it clear that she was ready to have sex, but I didn't have a condom
03:11So I decided to offer oral sex
03:13But once I went to go kiss her stomach, she basically panned in the face like no stop
03:19For her to shut everything down. There has to be something else going on
03:25The adventure begins
03:27I am going to Croatia to meet Bozo in real life. Oh butterflies. I'm just gonna call Bozo real quick
03:37But I have a bad feeling because of what happened in the past
03:41He wouldn't pick up the phone and it came out that he was seeing someone else
03:47I'm getting scared. What if I have invested all this time and energy and it's not going anywhere
03:57Oh
03:59Oh
04:24It's our last day in Accra
04:26And I know for a fact that I have a lot to do today
04:32Whenever I'm stressed out something that I like to do is my morning workout routine
04:40Matilda told me that she wanted to get up to get a flat stomach. She wanted to you know, get in shape
04:44I can help her with that
04:50I'm not doing this to you. I'm doing this for you. I
04:53Don't think I can continue doing the morning workout. Give it a few days. You'll love it
05:01We're gonna get your shower now. Mm-hmm. I will see you. Okay, okay
05:16Should have a shuttle arranged right here it is
05:20I'm happy that you are taking me out. It's a little surprise for me, right? Yeah, and it's gonna remain a surprise
05:32Today I'm taking Matilda to the memorial of the first president of Ghana to propose
05:42The city is actually beautiful
05:44I
05:46Am excited to give Matilda the engagement ring
05:49However, before I do that, I do have to make it clear that the wedding will not be on this trip. I
05:57Am worried about having that confrontation because due to my autism
06:01I just don't know how to be tactful and I'm worried that I'm gonna hurt her so much
06:07But whether she can handle it or not, it has to happen now
06:11Let's get it over with
06:15I
06:22Love this place
06:31He was a nice man first president, yes
06:36One increment was the first president of Ghana. He fights for
06:41Independence from Great Britain in the 1950
06:46This is where they buried him, man
06:50It means a lot for now's coming here to learn our culture. I
06:57Love this place. If you go if you go back to us, you will miss our Ghana our motherland, right?
07:03That's a that's an understatement. Mm-hmm. I
07:07Feel like I'm in my natural environment here
07:11Right now I am a Ghanaian man
07:14Love your beautiful. Yeah
07:23So those 20 maximums I sent you did you ever read them now?
07:30Well, go ahead
07:32Go ahead and read them right now. Yeah right now
07:36You want to sit down first?
07:38Yeah
07:40I sent Matilda my 20 maximums because I want her to see the rules that I myself live by I
07:46Really? Hope that she takes some of these lessons to heart
07:50She's gonna need them when I break the wedding news to her
07:55Okay, so maximum number one never do something in anger
08:00Next
08:02Slow is right. Right is fast the time in which it shall happen is always on time
08:10Do you understand that now
08:18And that's what number nine
08:20Failure is not an option. It is mandatory and required to learn number 15 number 19
08:26Now number 20 is pick your battle. So to speak
08:32Right now I don't understand I don't understand what
08:38Isn't that 20 maxim I use these 20 maximums every day to help me approach important situations
08:45And I wanted to share that knowledge with you
08:55You know why I wrote all this whole entire list
08:58No, I know I still have to sometimes
09:02Have crazy opinions. Sometimes I make crazy requests
09:07But that's not me saying that I did that. I hate you or that. I don't love you
09:13Okay, I still love you. I still am gonna be your husband
09:19okay, and
09:21With that being said Matilda. I want you to know something
09:30I love you, and you know
09:37What maybe
09:52Yeah
09:59Will you marry me
10:02Of course I will
10:07Mm-hmm
10:08You surprised me
10:11I know I really love it, baby. I really love it and I will marry you hundred times. Okay, Perry
10:19They also consider this a symbol of my promise to come back to you. I really love it. I
10:25Really love it. Okay, let's make sure it fits you
10:37I
10:43Love you
10:53I
10:56Love you, too
10:58I'm so excited and I didn't know that
11:02You will propose to me now, I didn't know I'm very happy
11:13Let's finish exploring before I get overwhelmed
11:18Damn man, I
11:21Got so caught up in the moment
11:24That you know, I just I didn't break the bad the bad news to her
11:31I
11:33Really wish I could just be allowed to savor this moment, but I can't let this day go by without telling her
11:41That we have to postpone the wedding
11:43I
11:55Am most comfortable when I'm making jokes
11:58But the difference between me and Eddie Murphy is that I live at my mom's place
12:04Molin sana Sveta Bogorodice
12:07We are definitely praying for me to find wife and my mom would be thrilled about Vanya
12:13But she doesn't know that Vanya exists
12:20It was just being so sweet so now I just feel really bad and really guilty
12:24I'm feeling like today has to be the day that I tell Sonny that Rory's here. He's gonna feel
12:31Disrespected but Sonny just gets so jealous and out of control of his feelings. I just really need to get off the phone right now
12:37I don't want
12:40I
12:41Am totally freaking out because I'm on my way to meet the love of my life and I only have ten minutes
12:47to make the connecting flight
12:50and
12:51Connecting gates are not close to one another
12:53So this means I have to book it from one end of the airport to the other and five inch heels
13:01This way this way
13:04To make matters worse, I still haven't heard from Bojo. So I'm just hoping that when I get there
13:09He is going to be at the airport waiting for me, and I'm not doing all this for nothing
13:13There's a bulldozer
13:25No
13:31This is crazy
13:43Oh
14:07Come on defend me man
14:10My name is Bojo, I'm 38 years old and I live in Split, Croatia
14:19For you, baby
14:21I am NOT even six feet tall, but I play three-on-three basketball and five-on-five basketball
14:27semi-pro
14:31Here you go
14:33All day long I like that
14:36If you're short, you gotta be fast strong versatile
14:42I'm not all of that. But at least I have good smack talk Jacob. You can go home
14:48My aunt will play instead of you. Okay, and she has bad hip
14:53And your defense is worse than my haircut
15:05You
15:36You
15:43Dark and I'm hopelessly romantic I
15:49Want relationship with my soulmate that's the thing that everybody should aim for
15:56I
16:05Had beautiful moments times in relationship there was a girl we had the biggest love
16:13Unfortunately, I put the sport first. I never took her on any on any trip. I never took her special occasions
16:22So she left me and broke my heart, but it was my fault
16:31We were together for six years and since then I didn't have a serious relationship
16:37But eight months ago I was swiping swiping swiping and then I met Vanya
16:48Vanya from Orlando
16:50Her photos were so
16:53Versatile every single photo has a story the beach
16:57Dancing smiling her photos are shaking from the energy when you look at it like your phone starts to move a little bit
17:09Then we meshed and then when we started text I was like wow there is bigger ocean of beautiful things about that lady I
17:16I
17:18Was excited like I'm gonna meet her that's great
17:21But unfortunately she passed to split only and then we missed each other
17:26Almost a romantic movie and it became sad drama
17:33We can be talking like eight months it was really nice even when we
17:39froze our
17:42Texting's and and connection for some time. It was like always nice smooth
17:52Because I was trying to get back with my ex-girlfriend
17:56We were giving each other another chance. It didn't happen, but it's for the best
18:11I
18:22Am most comfortable when I'm making jokes
18:26But the difference between me and Chevy Chase team Martin Martin short Eddie Murphy Martin Lawrence is that I live at my mom's place
18:42Then I see it meets a drop I suppose on the press with a missile
18:47Living here with them sometimes. It is nice thing you hear all the gossips about
18:54Neighbor old lady she did this she did that her husband this he has that is great actually
19:01But not married not having kids and living with my mom and then I am old rusty Cadillac
19:09Don't you patch of my small it
19:12They play everywhere in the kitchen the bedroom while sleeping while walking dog
19:19They are definitely praying for me to find the wife and to move out
19:24We know it's a easy and a door has way to the amen
19:30Dragon posted a donation or one of us are is that
19:33It
19:38Is hard for my mom that I am alone
19:42She wants somebody in my life that will fulfill me and Vanya has all the qualities that is really really nice
19:50So probably my mom would be thrilled about Vanya
19:54but honestly
19:55She doesn't know that Vanya exists
19:59Why not
20:03I will try to explain. Yeah, it's gonna be interesting
20:10There's more before the 90 days watch the full episode Sunday at 8 on TS 1 why must I choose
20:16No, I love everyone
20:20I am had broken
20:33I want to throw up
20:40Painful
20:43Neglectful
20:45Just played out hurtful in every way
20:50But I'm used to the pain so I won't hurt for long
20:55But I'm tired of going through the same thing with people
21:00I'm just sick of people in the way late. They are in general, but I still try to give hope and smile to the next
21:11Even though he couldn't see me he could hear my heart and no matter what I said or done
21:19Nothing still wasn't enough
21:30I
21:39Just worried about what happens whenever you go back to the state that could potentially cause trust issues
21:47Don't make my wife worried now
21:50There are some cracks in our relationship and it's scary thinking about facing those thousands of miles apart
21:59I
22:04Really amazing to be a sunny, but I feel really bad and guilty because he has no idea
22:10I brought my ex-boyfriend South Africa
22:12This is our bedroom. Oh, this is nice. I really want to build a relationship before I tell him about Rory being here
22:22I'm sorry. I cheated on you. I want to be in a relationship with you. It's hard for me to think of it
22:30We're going to later tomorrow to meet my family. How I can't tell them that you are my boyfriend
22:38It's a more than 200 people's coming to our ready, it's gonna be really hard to cancel that I don't know how I'm gonna navigate this
22:45He's looking at engagement rings. I've already proposed to Matilda over the phone
22:50But when I present this ring to her, I'll tell her that we need to postpone the wedding
22:56Just hope she can understand that ring is a promise for me to come back and marry her
23:05This is exactly what I've been waiting for but I know that being with someone in my situation will be a total different experience
23:12I
23:14Don't think
23:16about you
23:19Don't do something to my breath
23:21She made it clear that she was ready to have sex, but I didn't have a condom
23:25So I decided to offer oral sex
23:28But once I went to go kiss her stomach, she basically panned in the face like no stop
23:33For her to shut everything down. There has to be something else going on
23:39The adventure begins
23:42I am going to Croatia to meet Bozo in real life. Oh butterflies. I'm just gonna call Bozo real quick
23:51But I have a bad feeling because of what happened in the past
23:55He wouldn't pick up the phone and it came out that he was seeing someone else
24:02I'm getting scared. What if I have invested all this time and energy and it's not going anywhere
24:12Oh
24:14Oh
24:39It's our last day in Accra
24:41And I know for a fact that I have a lot to do today
24:46Whenever I'm stressed out something that I like to do is my morning workout routine
24:54Matilda told me that she wanted to get up to get a flat stomach. She wanted to you know, get in shape
24:59I can help her with that
25:04I'm not doing this to you. I'm doing this for you. I
25:07Don't think I can continue doing the morning workout. Give it a few days. You'll love it
25:15We're gonna get your shower now. Mm-hmm. I'll see you. Okay, okay
25:20Mm-hmm
25:31Should have a shuttle arranged right here it is
25:35I'm happy that you are taking me out. It's a little surprise for me, right? Yeah, and it's gonna remain a surprise
25:42Today I'm taking Matilda to the memorial of the first president of Ghana to propose
25:52The city is actually beautiful
25:56I am excited to give Matilda the engagement ring
25:59However, before I do that, I do have to make it clear that the wedding will not be on this trip
26:11I am worried about having that confrontation because due to my autism
26:15I just don't know how to be tactful and I'm worried that I'm gonna hurt her so much
26:21But whether she can handle it or not, it has to happen now
26:25Let's get it over with
26:30Thank you
26:35Thank you
26:37I love this place, it's very very beautiful
26:39I know
26:46He was a nice man first president, yes
26:50I'm in Kuma was the first president of Ghana. He fights for
26:56independence from Great Britain in the
26:591950
27:00What's this? This is where they buried him, man
27:05It means a lot for now's coming here to learn our culture I
27:11Love this place. If you go if you go back to us, you will miss our Ghana our motherland, right?
27:17That's a bad. That's an understatement. Mm-hmm. I
27:21Feel like I'm in my natural environment here. Now you are a Ghanian man, right now. I am a Ghanian man
27:34So those 20 maximums I sent you did you ever read them now?
27:42Well, go ahead
27:44Go ahead and read them. I know yeah right now. You want to sit down first? Mm-hmm. Yeah, I
27:52Sent Matilda my 20 maximums because I want her to see the rules that I myself live by I
27:59Really hope that she takes some of these lessons to heart
28:01She's gonna need them when I break the wedding news to her
28:07Okay, so maximum number one never do something in anger
28:11next
28:13Slow is right right is fast the time in which it shall happen is always on time
28:21Do you understand that?
28:32And as for number nine
28:35Failure is not an option. It is mandatory and required to learn number 15 number 19
28:41The number 20 is pick your battle. So to speak
28:47Right now I don't understand I don't understand what
28:52Isn't that 20 maximum? I use these 20 maximums every day to help me approach important situations
29:00But I wanted to share that knowledge with you
29:10You know why I wrote all this whole entire list
29:13No, I know I still have to sometimes
29:17Have crazy opinions. Sometimes I make crazy requests
29:21But that's not me saying that I did that. I hate you or that. I don't love you
29:28Okay, I still love you I still am gonna be your husband
29:33Okay, and with that being said Matilda, I want you to know something
29:44I love you, and you know
29:54Maybe
29:57I
30:13You marry me
30:16Oh
30:23He surprised me
30:26No, I really love the baby. I really love it and I will marry you hundred times. Okay, Perry
30:33They also consider this a symbol of my promise to come back to you. I really love it. I
30:39Really love it. Okay, let's make sure it fits you
30:46Wow
30:55I really love you. I love you
31:08I
31:10Love you, too
31:13I'm so excited and I didn't know that
31:16He will propose to me now. I didn't know I'm very happy
31:27Let's finish exploring before I get overwhelmed
31:32Damn man, I
31:36Got so caught up in the moment
31:38that
31:40You know, I just I didn't break the baton but the bad news to her
31:45I
31:47Really wish I could just be allowed to savor this moment, but I can't let this day go by without telling her
31:55That we have to postpone the wedding
31:57I
32:09Am most comfortable when I'm making jokes
32:13But the difference between me and Eddie Murphy is that I live at my mom's place
32:18Molly's Anna Sveta Bogorodice
32:21We are definitely praying for me to find the wife and my mom would be thrilled about Vanya
32:27But she doesn't know that Vanya exists
32:35It was just being so sweet so now I just feel really bad and really guilty
32:39I'm feeling like today has to be the day that I tell Sonny that Rory's here. He's gonna feel
32:45Disrespected well, Sonny just gets so jealous and out of control of his feelings. I just really need to get off the phone right now
32:52I don't want
32:55I'm
32:56Totally freaking out because I'm on my way to meet the love of my life and I only have 10 minutes
33:02to make the connecting flight
33:04and
33:06Connecting gates are not close to one another
33:08So this means I have to book it from one end of the airport to the other and five inch heels
33:15This way this way
33:18To make matters worse. I still haven't heard from Boja. So I'm just hoping that when I get there
33:24He is going to be at the airport waiting for me and I'm not doing all this for nothing
33:45This is closed
34:11My my my my
34:14Yeah
34:25My name is Bojo, I'm 38 years old and I live in Split, Croatia
34:33For you, baby, I
34:36Am NOT even six feet tall, but I play country basketball and firefly basketball
34:42Semi-pro
34:48All day long I like that if you're short you gotta be fast strong versatile
34:56I'm not all of that. But at least I have good smack-talk Jacob. You can go home
35:02My aunt will play instead of you. Okay, she has bad hip
35:07Your defense is worse than my haircut
35:11You
35:41You
35:57Dark and I'm hopelessly romantic. I
36:03Want relationship with my soulmate
36:06That's the thing that everybody you should aim for
36:13Well, I
36:19Had beautiful moments times in relationship there was a girl we had the biggest love
36:27Unfortunately, I put the sport first. I never took her on any on any trip
36:33And I would took her special occasions
36:37So she left me and broke my heart, but it was my fault
36:45We were together for six years and since then I didn't have serious relationship
36:51But eight months ago, I was swiping swiping swiping and then I met Vanya
36:57I'm losing my mind
37:02Vanya from Orlando
37:05Her photos were so
37:07Versatile every single photo has a story the beach
37:12Dancing smiling her photos are shaking from the energy when you look at it like your phone starts to move a little bit
37:20And
37:23Then we matched and then when we started text I was like wow there is bigger ocean of beautiful things about that lady I
37:33Was excited like I'm gonna meet her that's great
37:35But unfortunately she passed to split only and then we missed each other
37:41Almost romantic movie and it became sad drama
37:45We
37:47Can be talking like eight months it was really nice even when we
37:54froze our
37:57Texting's and and connection for some time. It was like always nice smooth
38:07Because I was trying to get back with my ex-girlfriend we were giving each other another chance it didn't happen
38:15But it's for the best
38:36I am most comfortable when I'm making jokes
38:40But the difference between me and Chevy Chase team Martin Martin short Eddie Murphy Martin Lawrence is that I live at my mom's place
39:02Living here with them sometimes it is nice thing you hear all the gossips about
39:08a
39:09Neighbor old lady she did this she did that her husband this he has that is great actually
39:15But not married not having kids and living with my mom, and then I am old rusty Cadillac
39:24Don't you patch of my small it?
39:27They pray everywhere in the kitchen the bedroom while sleeping while walking dog
39:33They are definitely praying for me to find wife and to move out
39:38We know it's a you see now you do her sweater. God. I'm
39:44Dr. Bush and I don't know
39:53It is hard for my mom that I am alone
39:56She wants somebody in my life that will fulfill me and Vanya has all the qualities that is really really nice
40:04So probably my mom would be thrilled about Vanya, but honestly she doesn't know that Vanya exists
40:14Why not
40:17Haha, I will try to explain. Yeah, it's gonna be interesting
40:24There's more before the 90 days watch the full episode Sunday at 8 on Tia but the new
40:34Nobody can a wife
40:50He didn't jump in quote I am
40:52So that's another one. Oh, man, but you're new here. I don't go to be transferred. I don't think I'll find
40:57Kota
41:00Home
41:02No, but I don't want them
41:05But I don't know that I don't want them. Hey, man
41:11And I'll say sure I'll do more
41:17You know
41:20To come up time to book a deal you know
41:52Don't
41:55Come here
42:00You didn't hope I'll hope that I'm not gonna be
42:05He had like a cook who can get in your team now
42:07Don't you have anything that I hope I'm gonna tell her. I don't think I'm gonna get it. What am I hope?
42:12they are more
42:14when my cat
42:16You see me with a cop took off who has seen me run
42:22You don't have to say that
42:24Kota, Kota, I'm a mother of a limbo chin-up. I'm a pretty thing
42:28But you know, I say that I'm gonna make good new home. Hey
42:34Talk me up now. I'm gonna sing me a man. Tell me
42:38what I'm sorry
42:46I