90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days Season 7 Episode 6 Paradise Lost (Oct 4, 2024) Full Episode HD
90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days Season 7 Episode 6 Paradise Lost (Oct 4, 2024) Full Episode HD
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00:24Baby, I need to get up.
00:27I'm so tired, all my body hurts.
00:32I don't even know how I'm going to walk to the car today.
00:38Last night, we had a wedding day, like a big party.
00:44We were feeling so good, but also so tired because so much dancing there.
00:50We had to leave for our honeymoon.
00:53But Tiger Lily only has three days left in Jordan.
01:01So today, we're going to honeymoon to Petra.
01:05It's very important to me to show my wife my beautiful country before she going back to America.
01:13You will be ready after 30 minutes?
01:1730 minutes? No, baby.
01:20Why?
01:23I have to have a bath, I have to do my makeup, Chris is coming over to do my hair.
01:30Baby, we're sitting in the car for hours. Why do you want to make your hair done?
01:35I always do my hair.
01:37You can do it there.
01:39No, no, no.
01:41I think that this whole husband and wife thing is very new for Adnan.
01:46And there are things that he needs to get used to.
01:50Taking a long time to get ready is just a part of who I am.
01:56But he'll learn.
01:57He'll learn.
02:10Cruz and Shay, they're coming to Petra to help my wife.
02:14So my brother is going with me on this trip because when I'm tired, when I'm driving, he's helping me.
02:20He can do anything I ask him.
02:23He loves me. This is my brother.
02:27He's coming after me.
02:39I'm going to catch it.
02:41How long will it take you?
02:43Whenever I want to go out, I have to wait 4 hours.
02:46It's okay, you're going out anyway, so you have to pull hard.
02:50You don't want to lose the rope.
02:52But if you want to keep holding on to the rope, you'll have to wait a long time.
03:00You're a man.
03:10Baby, this is so annoying.
03:12What, baby?
03:14Every time I'm going anywhere, I have to wait for you for 5 hours.
03:18Baby, I have to get my hair done.
03:19You have to wait 4 hours to get your hair done?
03:22I can't. I can't wait every day.
03:25Baby, you have a wife now. Are you ready?
03:29I'm ready. I'm ready in just 5 minutes.
03:31Let's go.
03:33And Cruz makes her hair like 5 hours, 4 hours, 3 hours every day.
03:38Baby, you're a guy. Listen, you're a guy. You can get ready in like 5 minutes.
03:42It's okay. You can find a way.
03:44Do you want me to look ugly?
03:46You are always cute. I know that.
03:47If you wanted someone that only takes 5 minutes…
03:51How are you?
03:53Hi. Good. How are you?
03:56These clothes are not good in Jordan.
03:59But next time…
04:02This is not your business. This is my business.
04:04Okay, but…
04:06I don't feel comfortable. I'm not a table man.
04:09Okay, okay. But I'm just giving you advice.
04:12I'm just giving you advice.
04:14I'm just giving you advice.
04:20I'm completely annoyed.
04:22I spent all this time getting ready for him.
04:26But Adnan's not being patient with me.
04:29Do you want to fix these things?
04:31No. Why?
04:33You'll have to get used to it, baby.
04:35On top of Adnan yelling at me, I have his brother, Thayer, complaining about my outfit.
04:40While Adnan has his shirt and button to his belly button.
04:46It is completely ridiculous.
04:49Are you going to be in this bad mood for the rest of this trip?
04:55I don't know.
04:59It makes me nervous that we have only been married for 3 days and we are already arguing like this.
05:11Just got back from the clinic. So, 7 straight days of fun pills.
05:17I never thought getting a ****** was going to give me gonorrhea.
05:21But here I am with an STD and a leaky penis.
05:24I reached out to Faith this morning, but nothing back yet.
05:28This could be the end of everything.
05:29This could be the end of everything.
05:43Now we get to Matilda.
05:46I know I'm putting a lot into this.
05:48If this were to not work out, it will devastate me. It will hurt.
05:53Here I come, Matilda.
05:56Sunday.
05:57I don't see.
05:59Because I am a man. I have blood running all over me.
06:02You're just not ready for me.
06:04Before the 90 days, all new, Sunday at 8 on TLC.
06:13Just got back from the clinic. I have gonorrhea.
06:16But you know, mistreatable.
06:19I think those for the next week. So, 7 straight days of fun pills.
06:27One day out.
06:37I never thought that getting a ****** from my friend was going to give me gonorrhea.
06:44I really did not expect that to happen.
06:47I feel like I wasn't doing anything unsafe because she gets tested regularly and she seemed okay.
06:53But here I am with an STD and a leaky penis.
06:58I really hope that after all this, you know, I get cleared up.
07:03We have some time to think, some time to talk.
07:06And that me and Faith can go back to trying to have a future together.
07:13She's the one upset. So, ultimately, she's in control of all of it.
07:19The last I left off with Faith, she said she wanted space.
07:23And I haven't seen her or spoken to her since yesterday.
07:28She's very upset and I don't know if she'll ever even talk to me again.
07:32And so now I'm getting worried that I came all the way out here and this could be the end of everything.
07:49Hey, Esther.
07:53Hello.
07:54Hello.
07:56How's jet lag?
07:58It's fine. I expected to have a lot of jet lag and I didn't.
08:01Me and Esther are very open about everything.
08:04We're like best friends. So she knows how important this relationship is to me.
08:10Tell me. Tell me what happened when you first met Faith.
08:14First day was good and I started to get some sense of humor.
08:17A little back and forth, a little chit chat.
08:20We're not really talking right now. Yeah.
08:24Why aren't you talking to her?
08:27So yesterday, Faith planned this lovely day out.
08:30And then I decided it was a great moment to tell Faith I have gonorrhea.
08:36Which kind of just shot the whole day, the rest of the night.
08:40Wait a minute. Wait a minute. Rewind.
08:43How do you know you have gonorrhea?
08:46Well, I got the text message from a Halloween date.
08:49And then I'm like, wow, I do have discharge coming out of my penis.
08:53That's one way to start the morning.
08:57Wow.
08:59And it turns out when I told her I'm sleeping with people,
09:03she was under the impression that only meant sleeping.
09:06I guess that didn't translate properly.
09:10So she's a little pissed.
09:13She needs some space. She doesn't want to see me right now.
09:16Any reasonable person would be upset, you know.
09:23But what are you going to do?
09:26I don't know.
09:28Well, I got to find a way to explain to her that she is my other half.
09:32Yeah.
09:34If Faith is your one true love, like you say,
09:38and she wants to be exclusive and that's a deal breaker,
09:42are you going to be okay not exploring other people
09:47and just being exclusive with her?
09:53Before I came to the Philippines,
09:55I was hoping I could convince Faith to have a non-monogamous relationship.
10:00I feel like if you love each other enough and your relationship is strong,
10:04then sleeping around shouldn't be an issue for each other.
10:06But at this point,
10:08I can tell that Faith sees monogamy as a very serious thing,
10:12and I don't want to lose her.
10:14This is everything you wanted, everything you dreamed of.
10:18Faith is perfect for you.
10:22Yeah.
10:24I can do it.
10:26I'm just going to change my life a little bit.
10:29I know you can do it.
10:31But she has to know that.
10:32I'm just going to change my life a little bit.
10:34I know you can do it.
10:36But she also was really upset last night.
10:38You didn't see it.
10:40So it's going to be a total battle.
10:42Not everything comes easy.
10:44You know you have to fight a little.
10:47Yeah.
10:49Now I just kind of have to hope that Faith
10:51gives me any kind of sign that it's okay to come back and talk to her about anything.
10:57I love Faith more than anything,
10:59and so if I don't want to lose Faith,
11:00I have to give up the idea of non-monogamy.
11:03The only thing I care about now is getting back to Faith
11:06and showing her that I'll do anything to make sure that I don't lose her.
11:09I just hope she gives me a second chance.
11:17One last flight.
11:19Oh, there it is.
11:21B-24.
11:23Last stop before the tour.
11:30I have the title of the poem I will write for Matilda.
11:33The distance.
11:35Now I imagine she's a metric system kind of girl,
11:38so translate that for her just in case.
11:41I'm just one very long flight away from meeting my girlfriend Matilda
11:46for the first time in Ghana.
11:49I'm probably going to run to her arms, not walk.
11:53Imagine a child running to go get ice cream.
11:56That's what's going to happen.
11:57I have butterflies in my stomach,
11:59but also I'm anxious about what is she going to think of me?
12:03You know, Matilda has already told me that she's accepted my disability.
12:08However, it could be different once we're in person.
12:12To quote the great Mike Tyson,
12:14everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face.
12:17Yeah, I'm on the exit, bro.
12:19If you think that I have to be a superhero, who knows?
12:22Why am I less nervous about that than being with children?
12:24Why am I less nervous about that than being with children?
12:27The final stretch.
12:28The final stretch.
12:49I am very excited because my baby now is coming to Ghana to see me.
12:58Before coming back to Ofenso to get married,
13:02we are staying together in Accra for a few days.
13:16We want God to bless this relationship.
13:19So, me and now says we are not going to have sex until we get married.
13:24But, to be honest, I don't know I can resist
13:28because this guy is so cute.
13:33She's my baby.
13:36She's my baby.
13:41I'm happy.
13:43I can't wait to see your husband.
13:45I can't wait to see him.
13:47I hope that I'm coming with you.
13:50Yes.
13:52It's going to be fun.
13:54I'm going with Matilda because I know Naz has autism.
13:58And I don't really know until I meet him in person
14:01that he can take care of Matilda.
14:03So, I will check out.
14:05If he's a good guy, then I will leave Matilda
14:08for us to spend some time together.
14:22Finally, we are at the airport.
14:25I'm very happy to meet my baby.
14:26Babe!
14:28Hug him.
14:30When I see Naz, I will run and hug him.
14:34And I'm going to kiss him.
14:36I will say, Daddy, welcome to Ghana.
14:39And Naz will say, Babe, you look sexy.
14:47We're finally here.
14:53We're moving.
14:54Slowly but surely, we are moving.
14:57Now we get to Matilda.
14:59We're going to find her.
15:02I can't believe that I'm about to finally meet Matilda.
15:06I know I'm putting a lot into this.
15:09And if she doesn't turn out to be who I think she is,
15:15it will devastate me.
15:17It will hurt.
15:19But I can't sit here and worry about it anymore.
15:25Where is he?
15:43Here I come, Matilda.
15:51Matilda!
15:54Matilda!
16:12Welcome to Ghana.
16:19Oh my goodness.
16:21This is a fairytale story.
16:22I'm with the woman that I love.
16:24I can finally see her.
16:26I can finally feel her.
16:28Be with her.
16:30Talk to her.
16:32There's nothing like being able to see it for yourself.
16:35Wouldn't you say, Matilda?
16:39I know.
16:41I know you can't.
16:43Hey, what are you doing?
16:45How are you?
16:47Baby!
16:49Hey, hey, hey.
16:50Hey, hey, hey.
16:51Don't pass out now.
16:52Don't pass out yet.
16:54Don't pass out yet.
16:55Let me help you.
16:58Actually, you know, you can pass out.
16:59I can carry you.
17:14Hey, no one's shooting from the waist down, are they?
17:17We are in public.
17:18You know this, right?
17:21Welcome to Ghana.
17:24I'm so happy to be here.
17:26This is what happiness feels like.
17:30All I can say is, wow.
17:50It's a good story.
18:20It's not me.
18:22You wanna lick my ice cream.
18:24My sugar, sugar too sweet.
18:27My sugar, sugar too sweet.
18:29Wanna lick my ice cream.
18:32My sugar, sugar too sweet, too sweet.
18:36Baby.
18:38I need to get up.
18:40I'm so tired.
18:41Oh, my body hurts.
18:45I don't even know how I'm going to walk to the car today.
18:51Last night, we had a wedding day, like a big party.
18:56We are feeling so good, but also so tired because so much dancing there.
19:02Congratulations on your honeymoon.
19:05Yeah.
19:06But Tiger Lily only has three days left in Jordan.
19:10Good start biking.
19:11Okay.
19:13So today, we're going to honeymoon to Petra.
19:17It's very important to me to show my wife my beautiful country before she going back to America.
19:26You will be ready after 30 minutes?
19:2930 minutes?
19:30No, baby.
19:34Why?
19:35I have to have a bath.
19:37I have to do my makeup.
19:39Chris is coming over to do my hair.
19:43Baby, we're sitting in the car for hours.
19:45Why do you want to make your hair done?
19:48I always need my hair done.
19:49You can do it there.
19:51No, no, no.
19:53I think that this whole, you know, husband and wife thing is very new for Adnan.
19:59And there are things that he needs to get used to.
20:03Taking a long time to get ready is just a part of who I am.
20:09But he'll learn.
20:16Welcome to the wedding! Welcome to the wedding!
20:20What is this? Why is the button like this?
20:23Cruz and Shay are coming to Petra to help my wife.
20:26So my brother is going with me on this trip.
20:29Because when I'm tired, when I'm driving, he's helping me.
20:32He can do anything I ask him.
20:34He loves me. This is my brother.
20:37We're late so we can't leave.
20:39Where's Tiger Lily?
20:40She's right behind me.
20:46I'm going to catch her.
20:48How long are you going to take her?
20:50Whenever I go out, I have to wait for her for four hours.
20:53She's fine. You're going out with her.
20:56You have to be strong.
20:58You don't want to miss the rope.
21:00But if you don't let go of the rope,
21:04you'll stay here forever.
21:06You'll wait.
21:08You're a man.
21:10Get out of here, man.
21:12I'm going to catch her.
21:13You're a man.
21:15Don't worry.
21:18She's here.
21:23Baby, this is so annoying.
21:25What, baby?
21:27Every time I go anywhere, I have to wait for you for five hours.
21:31Baby, I have to get my hair done.
21:33Four hours to get your hair done?
21:35I can't. I can't wait every day.
21:38Baby, you have a wife now.
21:40Are you ready?
21:41I'm ready. I'm ready.
21:43Just five minutes and I'll be ready.
21:45And the crews make her hair like five hours, four hours, three hours every day.
21:50Baby, you're a guy.
21:52Listen, you're a guy.
21:54You can get ready in like five minutes.
21:56It's okay. You can find a way.
21:58Do you want me to look ugly?
22:00You are always a queen. I know that.
22:02If you wanted someone that only takes five minutes…
22:04Wait.
22:06Hi.
22:08How are you?
22:09Things are not good in Jordan.
22:11Hey, stop it.
22:13But next time…
22:15This is not your business. This is my business.
22:17Okay, but…
22:19I don't like him.
22:21I don't like him. He's not my type.
22:23Okay, okay. I'm just giving you advice.
22:25I'm just giving you advice.
22:27Shut up for a second.
22:33I'm completely annoyed.
22:35I spent all this time getting ready for him.
22:39Not being patient with me.
22:42You want to fix these things?
22:44No.
22:46Why? Every time, four hours?
22:48You'll have to get used to it, baby.
22:50On top of Adnan yelling at me,
22:52I have his brother, Thayer,
22:54complaining about my outfit.
22:56While Adnan has his shirt
22:58unbuttoned to his belly button.
23:00It is completely ridiculous.
23:02Ugh.
23:04Are you going to be in this bad mood
23:06for the rest of this trip?
23:08I don't know.
23:12It makes me nervous
23:14that we have only been married
23:16for three days
23:18and we are already arguing like this.
23:24Just got back from the clinic.
23:26So, seven straight days of
23:28fun pillows.
23:30I never thought getting a ***
23:32was going to give me gonorrhea.
23:34But here I am with an STD
23:35and a leaky penis.
23:37I reached out to Faith this morning,
23:39but nothing back yet.
23:41This could be the end of everything.
23:56Now we get to Matilda.
23:58I know I'm putting a lot into this.
24:00If this were to not work out,
24:02it will devastate me.
24:03It will hurt.
24:05Here I come, Matilda.
24:09I don't see.
24:11Because I am a man,
24:13I have blood running all over me.
24:15You're just not ready for me.
24:25Just got back from the clinic.
24:27Don't have gonorrhea.
24:29But you know, mistreatable.
24:30I think pillows for the next week.
24:32So, seven straight days
24:34of fun pillows.
24:46One down.
24:49I never thought that
24:51getting a ***
24:53from my friend
24:55was going to give me gonorrhea.
24:57I really did not expect that to happen.
24:59I feel like I wasn't doing anything unsafe
25:01because she gets tested regularly
25:03and she seemed okay.
25:05But here I am with an STD
25:07and a leaky penis.
25:11I really hope that
25:13after all this, you know, I get cleared up,
25:15we have some time to think,
25:17some time to talk,
25:19and that me and Faith can go back
25:21to trying to have a future together.
25:25She's the one upset.
25:26So ultimately, she's in control of all of it.
25:30The last I left off with Faith,
25:32she said she wanted space.
25:34And I haven't seen her
25:36or spoken to her since yesterday.
25:39She's very upset
25:41and I don't know if she'll ever even talk to me again.
25:43And so now I'm getting worried
25:45that I came all the way out here
25:47and this could be the end of everything.
25:56Hey, Esther.
26:00Hello.
26:02How's jet lag?
26:04It's fine.
26:06I expected to have a lot of jet lag
26:08and I didn't.
26:10Me and Esther are very open about everything.
26:12We're like best friends.
26:14So she knows how important
26:16this relationship is to me.
26:19Tell me.
26:21Tell me what happened
26:23when you first met Faith.
26:24First day was good
26:26and I started to get some sense of humor.
26:28A little back and forth,
26:30a little chit chat.
26:32We're not really talking right now.
26:34Yeah.
26:36Why aren't you talking to her?
26:38So yesterday,
26:40Faith planned this lovely day out
26:42and then I decided
26:44this is a great moment
26:46to tell Faith I have gonorrhea.
26:48Which kind of just shot the whole day.
26:50The rest of the night.
26:52Wait a minute.
26:54Rewind.
26:56How do you know you have gonorrhea?
26:58Well, I got the text message
27:00from my Halloween date
27:02and then I'm like,
27:04wow, I do have discharge
27:06coming out of my penis.
27:08That's one way to start the morning.
27:10Wow.
27:13And it turns out
27:15when I told her I'm sleeping with people,
27:17she was under the impression
27:19that only meant sleeping.
27:21I guess that didn't translate properly.
27:22So she's a little pissed.
27:26She needs some space.
27:28She doesn't want to see me right now.
27:32Any reasonable person
27:34would be upset.
27:36You know?
27:38But what are you going to do?
27:41I don't know.
27:43I have to find a way
27:45to explain to her that
27:47she is my other half.
27:49Yeah.
27:50Faith is your one true love.
27:52Like you say,
27:54and she wants to be exclusive
27:56and that's a deal breaker.
27:58Are you going to be okay
28:00not exploring other people
28:03and just being
28:05exclusive with her?
28:09Before I came to the Philippines,
28:11I was hoping I could convince Faith
28:13to have a non-monogamous relationship.
28:16I feel like if you love each other enough
28:18and your relationship is strong,
28:20sleeping around shouldn't be
28:22an issue for each other.
28:24But at this point,
28:26I can tell that Faith
28:28sees monogamy as a very serious thing
28:30and I don't want to lose her.
28:32This is everything you wanted,
28:34everything you dreamed of.
28:36Faith is perfect for you.
28:40Yeah.
28:42I can do it.
28:44I'm just going to change my life
28:46a little bit.
28:48I know you can do it.
28:50You didn't see it,
28:52so it's going to be a total battle.
28:54Not everything comes easy.
28:56You know you have to fight a little.
28:59Yeah.
29:01Now I just kind of have to hope that Faith
29:03gives me any kind of sign
29:05that it's okay to come back and talk to her
29:07about anything.
29:09I love Faith more than anything
29:11and so if I don't want to lose Faith,
29:13I have to give up the idea of non-monogamy.
29:15The only thing I care about now
29:17is getting back to Faith
29:18and showing her that I'll do anything
29:20to make sure that I don't lose her.
29:22I just hope she gives me a second chance.
29:29One last flight.
29:31Oh, there it is.
29:33B-24.
29:35Last stop before the turn.
29:42At the title of the poem,
29:44I will write coming to the distance.
29:46Now I imagine she's a metric system kind of girl,
29:49so translate that for her just in case.
29:52I'm just one very long flight away
29:55from meeting my girlfriend Matilda
29:57for the first time in Ghana.
30:00I'm probably going to run to her arms,
30:02not walk.
30:04Imagine a child running to go get ice cream.
30:07That's what's going to happen.
30:09I have butterflies in my stomach,
30:11but also I'm anxious
30:13about what is she going to think of me
30:14and, you know.
30:16Matilda has already told me
30:18that she's accepted my disability.
30:20However,
30:22it could be different once we're in person.
30:24To quote the great Mike Tyson,
30:26everyone has a plan
30:28until they get punched in the face.
30:30Yeah, I'm on the exit, bro.
30:32In the event that I have to be a superhero,
30:34who knows?
30:36Why am I less nervous about that
30:38than me and Matilda?
30:40Final stretch.
30:45♪
31:00I am very excited
31:02because my baby Niles
31:04is coming to Ghana to see me.
31:06Who is the sexy party?
31:08Come on, come with me.
31:10Before coming back to Ofenso
31:12to get married,
31:14We are staying together in Accra for a few days.
31:28We want God to bless this relationship.
31:30So me and now says we are not going to have sex
31:34until we get married.
31:36But to be honest, I don't know I can resist
31:40because this guy is so cute.
31:45Look at you, my baby.
31:48Look at you, my baby.
31:53I'm happy.
31:56I can't wait to see your husband.
31:57I can't wait to see you.
31:59I hope, Shareda, I'm coming with you.
32:02Yes.
32:03It's going to be fun.
32:05Yeah.
32:06I'm going to Monterey because I know Nas has autism
32:10and I don't really know until I meet him in person.
32:13He can take care of Matuda.
32:15So I'll check out if he's a good guy.
32:19Then I will leave Matuda to Nas to spend some time together.
32:34Finally, we are at the airport.
32:37I'm very happy to meet my babe.
32:39All the way from...
32:40I'm very soon I will hug him and say, oh God.
32:42When I see Nas, I will run and hug him
32:46and I'm going to kiss him.
32:48I will say that, daddy, welcome to Ghana.
32:51Nas will say, babe, you look sexy in the huts.
32:59Finally here.
33:05We're moving.
33:06Slowly but surely, we are moving.
33:10Now we get to Matilda.
33:11We're going to find her.
33:14I can't believe that I'm about to finally meet Matilda.
33:19I know I'm putting a lot into this.
33:22And if she doesn't turn out to be who I think she is,
33:28it will devastate me.
33:29It will hurt.
33:30But I can't sit here and worry about it anymore.
33:33Where is he?
33:34Oh.
33:50Here I come, Matilda.
33:54Oh, baby!
33:56Oh, my God.
33:57Oh, my God.
33:58Oh, my God.
33:59Oh, my God.
34:00Oh, my God.
34:01Oh, my God.
34:02Oh, my God.
34:23Finally.
34:24Welcome to Ghana.
34:25Sorry, sorry, sorry.
34:26Oh, my goodness.
34:33This is a fairy tale story.
34:36I'm with a woman that I love.
34:38I can finally see her.
34:39I can finally feel her, be with her, talk to her.
34:44There's nothing like being able to see it for yourself.
34:48Wouldn't you say, Matilda?
34:51I don't know right now.
34:52I know.
34:53I know you can't.
34:55Hey, what are you doing?
34:56I'm fine.
34:57How are you?
34:58Baby.
34:59Hey, be careful.
35:02Hey, hey, hey, hey, don't pass out now.
35:04Don't pass out yet.
35:06Don't pass out yet.
35:07Let me help you.
35:08I'm missing my brother-in-law.
35:09Yeah, my brother-in-law.
35:10Well, actually, you know, you can pass out.
35:12I can carry you.
35:13My heart is pumping.
35:17Oh, I'm very happy.
35:20Daddy?
35:22You wanted me to call you daddy?
35:26So, daddy.
35:27Hey, no one's shooting from the waist down, are they?
35:29We are in public.
35:30You know this, right?
35:34Welcome to Ghana.
35:36I'm so happy to be here.
35:39This is what happiness feels like.
35:42All I can say is, wow.
35:49My God.
35:52It's really cool to be here with him.
35:54But at the same time, you have to be careful.
35:58My story is also not simple.
36:00He's a drug dealer.
36:01I didn't find a good story to tell.
36:06There's more in Before the 90 Days.
36:08Watch the full episode Sunday at 8 on TLC.
36:11Sunday.
36:13I don't see the issue with you being alone with me.
36:16Because I am a man, I have blood running all over me.
36:19You're just not ready for me.
36:22Before the 90 Days, all new, Sunday.
36:25I work less, but I know that I can be richer by working for many people.
36:34I chose to be honest with myself.
36:37As the rich father said, thinking is not different, it's the opposite.
36:43At the age of 20, I started to think in the opposite direction of my family's way of thinking.
36:50To retire early and be rich.
36:53Everything I do is to become wider, not more greedy.
37:00I started to think of my family as greedy.
37:05I'm 35 years old.
37:15In my book, I write about different types of people in the world.
37:22They are described as stars.
37:24The world describes different realities.
37:35A person who wants to go to the corner of the 4th dimension, or wants to be in the 2nd dimension, or has a lot of money, asks for change in reality.
37:48For example, from the group E, Employee, which means people who work for a living, is a group that sees the world from reality.
37:57It's a stable job.
37:59The group S, Small Business, or Self-Employee, is a group that sees the world from an independent working group.
38:07In their minds, they always have their own point of view.
38:13When comparing the group S and the group B, Business, the group of company owners, you will see the difference in the use of capital.
38:23The main difference between small business owners and large companies is in the number of people they serve.
38:33A large company owner does everything to build a system that serves as many people as possible.
38:42A small business owner serves the ability of individuals to serve many people.
38:49The problem of the group S is that the small business owner spends a lot of time and cannot serve many people as much as a large company owner.
39:00Therefore, the difference is that the small business owner serves everyone with his ability, and the company owner uses a system to serve as many people as possible.
39:19For more information, visit www.FEMA.gov