Sina Charlie Davao, Elvie Pineda, Vic Vargas, Claire de la Fuente, at Tiya Pusit, ang mga lovers over 40, ay papatunayan na mainit pa rin ang kanilang pag-ibig kahit sila’y matanda na!
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00:00We walk hand-in-hand, we dream together We giggle and laugh like kids forever
00:12We're two different people, but we're having fun
00:16We talk about anything under the sun We are sisters, we are friends
00:23We've got magic that never ends
00:27I got you sis, you got me
00:31The best of friends we'll always, always be
00:39We always have fun being together
00:43You know me the best, we're friends forever
00:47Through good times and bad, I'm here for you sis
00:50Right by your side, hit or miss
00:54We are sisters, we are friends
00:57We've got magic that never ends
01:01I got you sis, you got me
01:05The best of friends, the best of friends
01:09The best of friends we'll always, always be
01:14We are sisters, we are sisters
01:20Good morning!
01:21Jerry, wine tastes better as it ages, right?
01:27Correct.
01:28Paintings?
01:29Paintings.
01:30As it ages, it becomes more expensive.
01:32It becomes more expensive.
01:33Is it a human heart?
01:36I don't know.
01:37Let's find out today.
01:39Yes, that's what we're going to find out in our discussion today.
01:42We're going to talk about love and quirky.
01:45And above.
01:46And above.
01:47And above.
01:48So, don't leave.
01:49When we come back, that's what we're going to talk about.
01:51Of course, that's only up to Sis.
02:06Love at 40 and above.
02:08Is it just companionship or is there still love?
02:12We're going to find out in our panel today.
02:14She's happily married for 30 years.
02:17And now, it's just companionship that they're chasing after.
02:20Charlie Davao.
02:23Good morning to the two of you and to our guests here in the studio.
02:28And of course, to you, the guests.
02:30Good morning.
02:31And he's happy and contented in his love life.
02:34Let's ask Mommy why.
02:36Ms. Abby Tanaga.
02:37Good morning.
02:38Thank you for welcoming us again.
02:41He's still very passionate in his relationship and he's still active in his sex life.
02:46Vic Vargas.
02:53Married for 23 years.
02:55Their passion for each other is still very much alive.
02:58Claire De La Fuente.
03:01Good morning.
03:02And I'm a guest here again.
03:04Welcome back.
03:05Welcome back.
03:07He's going to the gay bar to get high and meet his new dad.
03:12Chapu Sis.
03:14Good morning.
03:17This is exciting.
03:20At your age, what do you look for in a relationship?
03:24Is it still love, especially for those who are single?
03:27Is it love?
03:28Or is it something more than that?
03:30Companionship?
03:31I don't have love anymore.
03:33I just want companionship.
03:35There's someone I can talk to.
03:37There's someone you can be with?
03:38Yes.
03:39When I go to the market, I have someone I can go with.
03:41There's someone you can go with.
03:43I'm still a boy.
03:44I don't need to be a boy.
03:45I need to be a boy.
03:47It's like you're waiting for something to happen.
03:53Vic, in your case, you just got married a year and a half ago?
03:57Yeah, but I was living with her for about 15 years.
04:0115 years?
04:03So why after 15 years, you decided to get married?
04:07Is it for love or companionship?
04:09We had a son.
04:10And I had a problem about enrolling him in Catholic schools.
04:16I needed a marriage license and all that.
04:18That's right.
04:19But the thing is, I studied my situation well.
04:24In other words, we talked about it earlier.
04:27I said, he's such an idiot.
04:30You will commit the same mistake.
04:32I was a divorcee.
04:34I was married for about 24 years.
04:38And then, I got divorced.
04:4024 years?
04:47Now, I got married to a younger woman.
04:51In fact, she's just going to be 40.
04:54And I'm going to be 65.
04:56So I'm older by 25 years.
05:01So, I have gone through, before the divorce procedure,
05:06I've gone through a lot of marriage counselors.
05:09And one thing stuck in my mind.
05:12I think I said this before, right?
05:14In any relationship, the only successful factor would be the willingness to adjust.
05:19That's what the marriage counselor told me.
05:22The willingness to adjust.
05:23That is the only successful factor.
05:25Whether it's going to be between an employee, employer, mother, children, between friends, right?
05:31There's always a willingness to adjust.
05:33Otherwise, if it's lost in one part, there's no bond.
05:36Yes, that's right.
05:38There's no relationship.
05:39Right?
05:40Jenny's eyes are rolling.
05:43Right?
05:45Charlie, what about you?
05:46Do you look for companionship now, in your marriage?
05:49Well, at this point of time, my age right now,
05:51I'm more on companionship.
05:54But it doesn't mean that I don't have sex.
05:56I don't love my wife.
05:57Of course, I still love her.
06:00But the love is on a different level.
06:03Yes, it's different.
06:05Even going back to sex, even if I wanted to.
06:12Everything has an end.
06:14What is that?
06:15I would say, I retired too early.
06:17I started at a very young age.
06:19I was only 16 when I started.
06:21And would you believe, this is a bit arrogant.
06:24I think I have, what, 300 women in my life.
06:27Wow.
06:28That's a lot.
06:29That's a lot.
06:30It's an exaggeration.
06:31That's why we have a one-day affair.
06:33Is it the same with our numbers?
06:35I have a two-days affair.
06:36And there are times, two at the same time, three at the same time.
06:39You're so busy.
06:42Our schedule is so hectic.
06:43And no regret.
06:45No regret.
06:46I'm happy with my wife right now.
06:48So, Tito Charlie, you said, there's no sex at all?
06:52I don't know.
06:53Is this because of health reasons?
06:56I have friends who try this modern medicine.
06:59They call it Viagra.
07:00I'm going to try it.
07:02It might be able to help me sexually.
07:04I hope it can help me.
07:05You're not pregnant.
07:08Of course not.
07:13Tita Elvie, how about you?
07:14What are you looking for at this point?
07:16Well, I've seen it, in fact.
07:18Congratulations.
07:19Yeah, thank you.
07:20Yay!
07:21Yay!
07:22You're next to Obama.
07:25It's like that.
07:27No, because when I got married at the age of 17,
07:31it's like I was forced.
07:32Because the mother, they're from Manjikan.
07:35I wasn't ready yet because I was still young.
07:38Now, then I had a second, the British.
07:40And then this time, the Filipino.
07:44I saw what he taught me.
07:47There's a new dimension of love.
07:49He taught me how to love.
07:51Because I didn't know love before until I found him.
07:55That's beautiful.
07:57I might cry.
07:58No.
07:59Is this beautiful?
08:00No, right?
08:01Because he taught me how to give and take.
08:04In fact, you noticed that before,
08:06four years ago,
08:08my hair was so big when I came to the Philippines.
08:10Right?
08:11Until he said,
08:13You know, it's so beautiful.
08:14You haven't seen your beauty yet.
08:16Remove your hair.
08:17Remove your eyes.
08:18You'll look different.
08:20Until I said,
08:21My head is so light when you do that.
08:24Right?
08:25Not too much.
08:26You know, Vic, I don't know.
08:28I thought I was beautiful then.
08:31So, our reduction of our hairdo
08:34is because of him.
08:36Because he was able to give.
08:39He had a partner who was sensible.
08:41Correct.
08:42That became his.
08:44And it became true.
08:45Exactly.
08:46Love and friendship depends on the relationship
08:49that you are in at the moment.
08:51Of course.
08:52And this one,
08:53it complements your character,
08:55your personality also.
08:56Love.
08:57It's beautiful for us.
08:59When we met,
09:00I felt like I already had a soulmate.
09:02Tita Elvy, would you say it's because
09:04you've learned a lot through the years
09:06and you've experienced a lot of things.
09:09That's why you're open to that.
09:10Yes.
09:11If he had come into your life 20 years ago,
09:14would you be more open?
09:15Maybe not.
09:16Maybe I'm not like this.
09:17Because when I was young,
09:19I didn't know what I wanted.
09:20Now, I'm…
09:22Settled.
09:2340.
09:24I already know.
09:25Why are you laughing?
09:26You already agreed.
09:29And now,
09:31I already know what I want.
09:33Okay, okay, okay.
09:34Let's go to Ms. Cruz.
09:38How was your 23-year marriage?
09:40What's your status now?
09:42Is that three levels?
09:44That's a lot.
09:45It's like you're studying in school.
09:47Correct.
09:48Every day is a new day.
09:49Every day is a new experience.
09:51Every day is a new beginning.
09:53It's always like that.
09:54You'll always learn.
09:55And then,
09:56Tito Vic said,
09:58I'm like a young girl.
10:01You really need
10:03willingness to adjust
10:05to a certain situation.
10:07To all situations.
10:08To all situations.
10:09To all situations.
10:10You need to have that.
10:12If you don't have that,
10:13your marriage will really fail.
10:15How's our sex life?
10:18It's the same.
10:19Is sex better?
10:20Actually, it can be adjusted.
10:25In my case,
10:27the longer the period of marriage,
10:30you'll discover more.
10:32You'll enjoy more.
10:34Really?
10:35Of course.
10:36How?
10:37It depends on your mind.
10:39It depends on...
10:40It's like you shouldn't talk about it.
10:42You might get frustrated.
10:44You'll feel like...
10:45After 23 years.
10:46Maybe you can go into some details.
10:48Like the willingness to adjust.
10:50It really struck me.
10:52Because,
10:53let's say she wants a certain thing.
10:55We're talking about sex.
10:56That you cannot do.
10:57Then maybe you can
10:58talk about the next best thing.
11:02That's right.
11:03So,
11:04let's adjust.
11:05I don't know why we make so much fuss about age.
11:14Exactly.
11:15I think,
11:16at this point in time in my life,
11:18I'd like to think that
11:19age is not a matter of time.
11:21I'm sure Elvie will agree with me.
11:24It's not a matter of time?
11:26It is the quality of imagination.
11:29The quality of imagination.
11:30The quality of relationship.
11:32Your quality of imagination.
11:34Your mind should be ready for everything.
11:37Open to everything.
11:38You can't hide it.
11:39But if you're younger,
11:40I don't think you're going to be that open, right?
11:43No, because for example,
11:44I told my husband last night,
11:47our negatives should be positive.
11:50It should be nothing.
11:51It should always be positive.
11:52Yes, even if it's negative.
11:54Let's make it positive.
11:56So that there's no...
11:58So that there's no negative.
11:59It should always be positive.
12:00Yes, always.
12:01Everything should be beautiful.
12:03Beautiful aura.
12:05And you should be transparent.
12:07Tell your problems.
12:08It's like you're not fighting.
12:10What about Chapucit?
12:11How are the gay bars?
12:15Where are you the most fabulous?
12:17I'm just a watch.
12:19Watch?
12:21The question there is,
12:24what's there that fascinates you?
12:27Or nothing?
12:28Nothing.
12:29Is this just a trip?
12:30Because what I watch on TV,
12:32it's just me.
12:33It's like,
12:34what's really happening inside?
12:36I just want to see.
12:37Curiosity.
12:38Curiosity for yourself.
12:39It's just that.
12:40Didn't you say before,
12:41you celebrated when you were with Gordon?
12:44Do you still celebrate?
12:45Until now.
12:46Up to now.
12:47When you were with Gordon,
12:48did you celebrate?
12:49Celebrate.
12:50Celebrate.
12:51Celebrate.
12:52That's wrong.
12:53Celebrate.
12:54Celebrate.
12:55Invite friends.
12:56Invite your ex.
12:57I thought...
12:58That's what I was saying.
12:59I thought you were the secretary of tourism.
13:01Don't be jealous.
13:05Okay.
13:06We still have a lot to talk about.
13:22We're back.
13:23And of course,
13:24we're still with them.
13:25It's a hot topic about mature love.
13:27Mature.
13:28Mature.
13:29Sure.
13:30Would you say at this point,
13:31you are all in perfect control
13:33of your relationships,
13:34yourselves,
13:35your emotions?
13:37Is there ever a time
13:38that you really are in perfect control?
13:41Is there really such a thing?
13:42No.
13:43I don't believe.
13:44There's no such thing.
13:45Compared to before.
13:46That's it.
13:47Compared to when you were younger.
13:49Maybe the best thing
13:50that you can allow to happen
13:51is to make God in control.
13:53Yeah.
13:54And I think God allows us
13:56to break our heart.
13:59So that he can step in and mend it.
14:02Okay.
14:03That's beautiful.
14:04Quotation King.
14:06Yes.
14:07It means that you've been married for four years.
14:09You've been through a lot.
14:11I'm speaking from experience.
14:13A lot.
14:14A lot.
14:15A lot.
14:16You've been through a lot.
14:21I told you
14:22to prepare yourself.
14:24You've been on stage for four years.
14:27That's a long time.
14:28That's a long time.
14:30That's a long time.
14:31That's a long time.
14:32Uncle Vic said it's been 50 years.
14:3450 years.
14:35That's the hardest part.
14:37The hardest part of the relationship
14:39is the first 50 years.
14:41Can you imagine that?
14:42Can we still make it?
14:44Uncle Charlie was a widow
14:46at a young age, right?
14:48Yeah.
14:49I was a widow
14:50when I married my second wife.
14:51Let's speak in Tagalog.
14:53My first wife died early.
14:55Isn't that because of your consumption?
14:58Because you're so busy.
15:00You know,
15:01I think, I guess so.
15:09Because at that time,
15:10you're my height.
15:11Left and right.
15:12You know what I mean, right?
15:13Left and right.
15:14And there was a time.
15:15You let go of her emotions.
15:17The trouble with somebody.
15:18Her emotional aspect.
15:19But would you believe
15:20that she doesn't fight?
15:22I won't mention the name
15:24of that person.
15:25She invited him.
15:26She's her friend.
15:27Next time,
15:28if it's someone else,
15:30she won't do it.
15:31That's how it is.
15:33The secret is
15:34to befriend other women.
15:36That's how it should be.
15:38Hey,
15:39you can't have other women.
15:40That's not how it should be.
15:42That's not how it should be.
15:43That's not how it should be.
15:44That's not how it should be.
15:45That's not how it should be.
15:46What we should always do
15:47is to be beautiful
15:48and always
15:49be attentive to her.
15:50Exactly.
15:51Especially when she's looking for someone else.
15:53That's right.
15:54That's right.
15:55Uncle Charlie is right.
15:58Maybe.
15:59Because when a woman
16:00is really clingy,
16:01she hides it from herself.
16:03That's true.
16:04It's hard.
16:05It's harder.
16:07It will explode.
16:08And that's it.
16:09She's dead.
16:10That's the truth.
16:11I would share.
16:12That's why I feel guilty.
16:14Because I also have a daughter
16:16who died
16:17of a freak accident.
16:19I know that.
16:20What happened to her?
16:22I thought,
16:23maybe this is my fault.
16:27I was crazy.
16:29I fooled my wife.
16:30Why are these innocent people
16:32who pay?
16:35Why not me?
16:36Right?
16:37There was a time
16:38when I cursed God.
16:39You know?
16:40Why?
16:41Okay, let us be more specific
16:43going to the Bible.
16:44One thing struck me there.
16:46You said that
16:47when you are married,
16:51when you are married,
16:53you are one.
16:55So, if you do not love your wife,
16:57if you don't love your wife,
16:59you don't love yourself.
17:00Are you sure that you are not a pastor?
17:03Like Charlie.
17:05I used to have that kind of life before.
17:08You said that.
17:09Immoral.
17:10Immoral.
17:11Illegal.
17:12Illegal.
17:13That's what he said.
17:16Chapusit,
17:17have you stopped looking
17:19for somebody?
17:21Are you content
17:22that you are alone at the moment?
17:25For now, yes.
17:26They say that alone
17:27is not necessarily lonely.
17:29No, not really.
17:30I am happy.
17:32She is a survivor, sister.
17:34I am happy when I am alone.
17:36I am always alone.
17:38There are so many happy families.
17:40But I still like her.
17:42Of course.
17:43Sister, she is a survivor.
17:46I think marriage has many pains.
17:48But,
17:49she has no pleasure.
17:51Yes.
17:52What is celibacy?
17:53The one who refuses.
17:58The one who refuses.
17:59The one who refuses does not break up.
18:01And the one who breaks up does not refuse.
18:03That's a sweepstakes.
18:09Our interview is not working.
18:11Janice, you are already in the mood.
18:13Yes, because I am so happy.
18:16So, is this love at 40?
18:19More knowledge,
18:20more knowledge,
18:22more willing to adjust.
18:24Yes.
18:25What else can you say?
18:26I think it comes with the knowledge
18:27and the wisdom.
18:28Of course, wisdom.
18:29That's why everything is better.
18:32If you desire to have more dignity,
18:35like now,
18:36when I pray,
18:37I just pray for one thing.
18:39I ask God to...
18:41He is really a pastor.
18:42He is not a pastor anymore.
18:44I am a big sinner.
18:46I was a big sinner.
18:47And I just pray that
18:48to make my intentions pure.
18:51Can you be a marriage counselor?
18:53Yes, I can.
18:55He is good at speaking.
18:57Maybe you can teach our husbands.
19:02What is the telephone number?
19:04Can I get your telephone number?
19:05He is the most difficult man in the world.
19:08Before we met,
19:09you weren't like that.
19:10You don't talk this way.
19:12Now, you become a priest.
19:14Now, we can talk.
19:16It's only because of the topic.
19:19Like I said,
19:20I am married to a much younger woman now.
19:23I just pray that
19:24if I make a mistake in the beginning,
19:26she doesn't want to go back.
19:27I don't do anything in the beginning.
19:28Can you imagine,
19:29he was married for 24 years,
19:30and then,
19:31you thought of me.
19:32I said,
19:33maybe I am safe for 25 years.
19:3524 years,
19:36he is still alive.
19:37Right?
19:38I mean, you know,
19:39that's why he speaks like that.
19:40I'm so happy for him
19:42because he was able to really see life as it is
19:45at the moment.
19:46And he's still willing to learn.
19:48Exactly.
19:49I think the greatest virtue
19:51a man could ever have
19:52is self-control.
19:54It makes you more of a man.
19:58So, you're controlling yourself now
20:00because you can see that he's ugly.
20:03Going to control,
20:04I have that now.
20:05I just look at it.
20:07Just look at it.
20:08Just appreciate it.
20:09Just appreciate it.
20:12Not because,
20:13that's what you want to do.
20:15If it's not because of you,
20:16you're giving up your body.
20:18That's it.
20:20That's what you said.
20:24You guys,
20:25you're still cleaning up.
20:26No, no, no.
20:28Clear, clear.
20:30You should know me better, you know.
20:32You don't know me,
20:33but I've been in show business
20:34for 45 years now.
20:36And,
20:37no regret.
20:38As I said,
20:39I just look at it.
20:40But, if there's somebody
20:41who can help me
20:42to arouse my emotions
20:44and feelings towards sex,
20:46I would be willing.
20:48I don't mind.
20:49I'd love to do it.
20:50But, outside the home, you mean?
20:52Outside the home?
20:53Outside or inside the home.
20:56You could paint the picture.
20:57That's really good.
20:58That's the color.
21:01As long as it is possible.
21:03I don't deny that.
21:05Aunt Elvie,
21:06what makes you happier?
21:07You've experienced,
21:08you've met a lot of boys.
21:10Yes.
21:11Boys or men?
21:13Older or younger?
21:14You said, Aunt Elvie,
21:15you want someone you can talk to.
21:18What is really your preference?
21:21Your age?
21:22A little younger?
21:23A little older?
21:24A little older than me.
21:25Because, at least,
21:26when we talk,
21:27it's sweet, right?
21:28That's what they say.
21:29Right.
21:30Because,
21:31when I was young,
21:32I also experienced
21:33when I was 19 years old,
21:34we talked about
21:35nothing but
21:36Is this a cell phone?
21:37Texts, cell phones,
21:38or,
21:39let's eat.
21:40It's like,
21:41it's far away.
21:42And when we go out,
21:43people think that
21:44it's either
21:45he's a jiggle
21:46or I'm his sugar mommy.
21:48I don't think I want that.
21:49Right, Vic?
21:50What I want now is
21:52our love to grow every day.
21:54That's what I see.
21:55You grow together?
21:56Yes.
21:57I want to grow old and gray
21:58with this guy.
21:59We'll make him bully me.
22:00With my husband now.
22:01Because,
22:02he's really beautiful.
22:03Like this morning,
22:04he said,
22:05Okay,
22:06be simple.
22:07Because,
22:08it's a morning show.
22:09I want you to be simple
22:10so that people can see
22:12the different LV.
22:14Can you introduce your husband?
22:15I don't want to.
22:16He's selfish.
22:17You're so selfish.
22:19And we'll share.
22:20He's so spoken to me,
22:22but he's witty.
22:23He always tells me
22:25that,
22:26wow,
22:27this is really mind-boggling.
22:28Because,
22:29I just saw a guy
22:30that I want to be
22:31a partner in life.
22:32And I'm so happy
22:33because every day,
22:34I ask the Lord
22:35that He gives me.
22:37If you had,
22:38especially to the wives,
22:39Aunt Claire,
22:40Uncle Vic,
22:41and Uncle Charlie,
22:42if you were,
22:43if you were,
22:44if you were given a choice,
22:45would you have
22:46stayed single?
22:48Knowing what you know now,
22:49Aunt LV is still looking for you.
22:51If you were given a choice,
22:52would you have stayed married?
22:54Knowing what you know now.
22:56But before you answer that,
22:57we'll be back.
23:04Always be
23:05We are sisters
23:07We are sisters
23:11We're back.
23:12And we'll go back to
23:13our hanging question earlier.
23:15Would you have
23:17chosen to stay
23:18single?
23:21And for Aunt LV
23:22and Uncle Vic,
23:23would you have chosen
23:24to stay married?
23:26Knowing what you all know now.
23:28If you're single,
23:30if you haven't found
23:31the right guy for you,
23:33don't waste your time.
23:35But if you find,
23:36because we all have
23:37someone who's right for us.
23:38We were born with someone
23:39who's right for us.
23:40I believe in that.
23:41Now, when you find
23:42someone who's right for you,
23:43you should give
23:44all of your love.
23:46Because he might not
23:47come back.
23:48You might not see him again.
23:49So open your door.
23:51You should really love him.
23:53But seriously,
23:54there's no way of knowing
23:55that he's right for you.
23:56Because sometimes,
23:57you think he's right for you.
23:58No.
23:59Open your eyes
24:00and open your heart.
24:01You'll see it.
24:02I have someone who's right for me.
24:06Sir, you still have someone
24:07who's right for you.
24:08What are you saying?
24:09What about you?
24:11For me,
24:12it's not good
24:13if you're alone.
24:15I've been married twice.
24:16I've lived with my first wife
24:17for 10 years.
24:19I've been here for 30 years.
24:21No problem.
24:22Left and right.
24:23It's natural.
24:24Why?
24:25If you're single,
24:26you're alone.
24:27No problem.
24:28Now, when you're married,
24:29you live with somebody
24:30who cares for you.
24:31You share everything in life.
24:33Perfect.
24:34Problem is always there.
24:36But they say,
24:38if you're not happy alone,
24:40you can never be happy
24:41with another person.
24:43Uncle Charlie,
24:44if you were single,
24:45if you were also single,
24:47would you still be
24:49busy with the chicks?
24:53Not anymore.
24:54Not anymore.
24:55Not as busy.
24:57Because I have read a lot
24:59and I've learned from experience.
25:00And I think
25:01that would be the best teacher.
25:03It's important
25:04that you're complete.
25:06As a person,
25:08you're complete with yourself.
25:09Because there's a lot
25:10to consider.
25:11You have kids.
25:12You have a wife.
25:13You have kids.
25:14You have a wife and kids.
25:15You have a relationship
25:16that you nurture.
25:17You have kids that you raise.
25:18You raise them.
25:19And you know,
25:20if a person
25:21wants to be alone
25:23with himself,
25:28and he doesn't have
25:29someone to be his mate,
25:31I feel like he's selfish.
25:34I'm not saying it's you,
25:36but you know.
25:38I know one day.
25:40I know one day.
25:42Janice, is this your episode?
25:44This is your episode
25:45so shut up.
25:46One day,
25:48I'm sure you'll find somebody.
25:50And I'm sure you're willing
25:51to gamble again.
25:52Because you know,
25:54the challenge of life
25:56is very important
25:57to a person.
25:58Claire, excuse me.
25:59Claire,
26:00you have a good idea
26:01about family,
26:03together.
26:04Yes.
26:05What if your children
26:06are married already?
26:07They have their own lives.
26:08That's different.
26:09It doesn't matter
26:10if you have teenagers
26:11in your care.
26:12That's okay.
26:13But we're mellowing
26:14as you're...
26:15You know,
26:16just like what Tito Vic said,
26:17when we're getting older,
26:18our brain becomes
26:19a different preoccupation.
26:21Our...
26:22We're maturing.
26:23We're maturing.
26:24The things that were important
26:25are no longer important.
26:26Yes,
26:27just like what Tito Vic said.
26:29What did you say?
26:30You said that
26:31three things are important to you.
26:33What are they?
26:34When I was younger.
26:35When you were younger.
26:36Immoral.
26:37Illegal.
26:38Fattening.
26:39Look,
26:40it's not like that now.
26:41Because when you're fattening,
26:42it attacks your heart.
26:43It's good.
26:44Right?
26:45It's like that.
26:46So, I mean,
26:47as you go on,
26:48I'm sure
26:49your mind will mature.
26:51The relationship
26:52will mature.
26:53So,
26:54a person
26:55will know the path
26:57that they're really running.
26:59Going back to what
27:00Tita Elvy said,
27:02that growing together...
27:04Tita Elvy is my aunt.
27:05Tita Elvy.
27:06Tita Elvy.
27:07Tita Elvy.
27:08Tita Elvy.
27:09Tita Elvy.
27:11Tita Elvy, right?
27:12And growing, right?
27:13I think there are
27:15two aspects of growing.
27:16Again,
27:17there are two.
27:18Growing old
27:19and growing up.
27:20Yes.
27:21Well, growing old
27:22is mandatory.
27:24It's really going to happen.
27:25We can't avoid that.
27:27Growing up is...
27:28Optional.
27:29Optional.
27:30It shouldn't be optional.
27:32I like that.
27:33It's a feeling, right?
27:35So, you shouldn't
27:36pass up on that option.
27:39Right?
27:40But,
27:42it's a pity
27:43that a lot of people will remember
27:44that they never grew up.
27:46They just grew old.
27:47They just grew old.
27:48They didn't grow up.
27:49They didn't grow up.
27:50That's why.
27:51Life is a waste.
27:52That's right.
27:53It's nice to talk to Vic
27:55because,
27:56for a woman,
27:57it's nice to hear
27:58what he's saying.
27:59From a man.
28:00From a man.
28:01That's what we're waiting for, right?
28:02Give me your number.
28:03So that our wives
28:04and men in Asia
28:05don't have to reach us.
28:08I think the most immature,
28:10the most immature men
28:11in the world
28:12are Filipinos.
28:13Are Filipinos.
28:14And he admits that.
28:15Yeah, yeah.
28:16Because I used to...
28:18Be like them.
28:19That's why you can
28:20really understand that.
28:21No, no.
28:22Actually,
28:23you know,
28:24we can't ask Jenice
28:25because she has a lot of ideas.
28:26You know,
28:27you know,
28:28Jelly and Jenice.
28:29It's nice to hear.
28:30That's why
28:31we heard it right
28:33that women are from Venus
28:35and men are from Mars.
28:37We're really different.
28:38We're different.
28:39Emotionally.
28:40I think emotionally.
28:41Our perspective is different.
28:42It's different.
28:43Women,
28:44we women,
28:45when we have,
28:46like what Tita Elves said earlier,
28:49that when we're...
28:51Are we hurt?
28:52No, no.
28:53When we're courting
28:54a 19-year-old,
28:56our feeling is,
28:57why?
28:58It's like
28:59we're not making her happy.
29:01Correct, correct.
29:02But men,
29:03when someone approaches
29:04a 19-year-old,
29:06they talk about it.
29:07It's like,
29:08hello.
29:10I'm the winner.
29:11I'm the winner.
29:12Their perspective is different.
29:14Their thoughts are different.
29:15It's like,
29:16the perspective
29:17of attacking a problem.
29:19When they reach that age,
29:21let's say 50,
29:22and then,
29:23sometimes men,
29:24they want to prove
29:25to themselves
29:26and to everybody
29:27that I can do it
29:28and I'm young.
29:29It's just ego.
29:30It's just ego.
29:31I'm that old,
29:32right?
29:33It's ego.
29:34They're different.
29:35But when they're facing
29:36a woman they like,
29:38even if she's older than them,
29:40it's still different.
29:41Because that's what love is.
29:43It's not the macho
29:45kind of macho.
29:46It doesn't mean anything.
29:47Do you agree with me?
29:49That's why I have
29:51a great respect for women.
29:53And I've come to realize
29:55that I will just adjust to them.
29:57Because I don't make a mess.
29:59I don't get pregnant.
30:00That's right.
30:01There's even,
30:03going back to what he said,
30:05there's even a big question
30:07on who is the stronger sex.
30:09Because what women go through
30:11is not what men go through.
30:14And I'll tell you more
30:15why I have a great respect for women.
30:17You know, a woman
30:19takes about 20 years, right?
30:21To make a man out of his son.
30:23And it only takes another woman
30:2620 minutes to make a fool of him.
30:28Right?
30:29So now, who's the stronger sex?
30:31That's right.
30:32It's because he's beautiful.
30:33That's what he loves.
30:34It's because of Eva and Adam.
30:36You know, Uncle,
30:37do you agree with me?
30:39That when you're separated from your wife,
30:41you, the man,
30:43when you're separated from your wife,
30:44or even if you're not yet separated from your wife,
30:46what's on your mind,
30:48you want your kids,
30:50your pets.
30:52But when the time comes
30:54when it's serious,
30:56you're still thinking
30:58that you want your level.
30:59Because kids' mindsets are different.
31:01Their mindsets are different.
31:03Your wavelength doesn't match.
31:06But again, Claire,
31:07the adjustment is still there.
31:09You, Uncle Charlie.
31:11I don't know.
31:12I haven't tried having an affair
31:14with a young girl.
31:18One-time deal.
31:19Yeah, before.
31:20See, that's what I'm trying to say.
31:21Right?
31:22One-time deal.
31:25She don't want.
31:27She don't want when one is done.
31:30I have about 300 women in my life.
31:34One day affair,
31:35two days affair.
31:36You're still young.
31:37I'm still young.
31:38You don't know what you want now.
31:39You know what you want.
31:40You're already choosing
31:42what you want.
31:44That's what I can do.
31:46And the understanding,
31:47and willingness,
31:48and respect,
31:49that's already there.
31:50But that has also come with
31:52experiencing a lot of things
31:54before you realize that.
31:56So you need to go through
31:58what you've been through
31:59before you have
32:00a mindset like this now.
32:02Before we go to the next level,
32:04we need to go through this first.
32:07Let's give them a round of applause.
32:22Today, we have a Sis Challenge.
32:25Of course, the discussion is hot.
32:27Let's make it hotter.
32:28What's Sisling Challenge?
32:33Sisters Challenge.
32:35This is what we'll do.
32:37We'll give you a situation.
32:39Then, let's say,
32:40I'll give the situation to Uncle Charlie.
32:42He'll answer how he'll handle
32:44this situation.
32:46And you, his companions,
32:48will give him a score.
32:5240 will be the highest score.
32:54Okay? Fine?
32:55Are we okay?
32:56We're fine.
32:57Okay, who wants to be first?
33:01Okay, Uncle Charlie.
33:03Age before beauty.
33:04Age before beauty.
33:05Right.
33:06This is our scenario.
33:07This is the situation.
33:08Let's say,
33:10what if, okay?
33:12You won't be able to
33:14attend your son's graduation.
33:16What would you do?
33:18Wish.
33:19How would you deal with that?
33:21With your,
33:22how many,
33:23like,
33:24the last 10 years
33:25that you've had.
33:27You know,
33:28Jeremy,
33:29that really happened in my life.
33:31Yeah.
33:33You cried for Uncle Charlie.
33:35Every time,
33:39when I remember your accident,
33:41her name is Maimai.
33:43She was only 5 years and a half.
33:45And she was running.
33:47And in my driveway,
33:49one morning,
33:51December 23 of 1968,
33:53and she stumbled
33:55and that empty bottle of mayonnaise
33:57broke into her stomach.
33:59I think she was playing with Ricky
34:01or I can't remember anymore.
34:03But anyway,
34:05before that,
34:06they had a rehearsal,
34:08the St. Teresa's program
34:10for December 25.
34:11And we would,
34:12my wife and I would go there
34:13and wait for her
34:14after the rehearsal.
34:15And we were watched.
34:16To make the story short,
34:19the management postponed the program,
34:22I can't remember anymore,
34:23in honor of my late daughter.
34:25So we were there,
34:26sitting in front.
34:27And when the curtain opened,
34:30of course,
34:31the kids came out.
34:35I couldn't see anything.
34:37I ran all the way out.
34:41And I cried.
34:42I was vomiting all the way.
34:46And a lot of parents approached me
34:48and they comforted me.
34:50Charlie,
34:51there were more worse things that happened to her.
34:54She had a father
34:55and she lost her own child.
34:57Which is even worse.
34:58But then,
34:59going back to my daughter,
35:01when she died,
35:02my wife,
35:03she was really,
35:05I was quiet.
35:08That's what we were talking about earlier.
35:11If I had committed a sin,
35:13why
35:15took the innocent one?
35:17You know?
35:18I said,
35:19earlier,
35:20I would curse God about that.
35:23But it's life.
35:26So,
35:27nothing happened.
35:29I don't know.
35:30I was
35:31out of this world.
35:32I didn't know what to do.
35:33And then,
35:34my wife,
35:36after a year,
35:37she followed.
35:38Probably,
35:39that's also one cause
35:40of her
35:41pain.
35:42Plus,
35:43there's foolishness.
35:44Left and right,
35:45the cheeks, etc.
35:46You know?
35:48And,
35:49my wife,
35:50I would understand it.
35:51Because she got sick for a while.
35:52She was hospitalized for about
35:54more than a month.
35:55And she died.
35:56And,
35:57I prayed.
35:58I called everyone.
36:00And I even promised
36:01somebody up there
36:02that I won't do this again.
36:03Just
36:04let my wife live.
36:06Nothing happened.
36:08So,
36:10that's the story of my
36:12life in question.
36:13That's why I was touched
36:14every time
36:15when I remember
36:16that scene.
36:17So, I'm sorry.
36:18But it will happen.
36:19You know?
36:21Should I score this?
36:22Perfect.
36:23Guys,
36:24let's perfect this.
36:25Let's not do that.
36:26Don't do that.
36:2741.
36:29Okay.
36:32Okay,
36:33next question.
36:35Opposite.
36:36Don't cry.
36:37Wait.
36:39Because,
36:40either a man or a woman,
36:41I don't know,
36:42Matrona,
36:43what do you think of others?
36:44How do you face people
36:45who talk like this?
36:48There.
36:49How?
36:50Believe.
36:51Opposite.
36:52No.
36:53You're so brave.
36:54Matrona,
36:55what do you think of me?
36:56How do you face people?
36:57So what?
36:58There.
37:01What's wrong?
37:03What's wrong?
37:04Huh?
37:05What does it mean?
37:06All of us
37:07go through
37:08this
37:09life.
37:11No one
37:12grows up.
37:13Correct.
37:14Just by looking.
37:15We really grow up.
37:16Just by looking.
37:18But growing up
37:19and growing up
37:20gracefully,
37:21that's what I can
37:22grow up to be.
37:23There.
37:24That's why if someone
37:25says to me,
37:26I'm a matrona,
37:27huh.
37:29Huh.
37:30Huh.
37:33Let's score that.
37:35That's for me.
37:36It's necessary.
37:37You know,
37:38for me,
37:39a woman,
37:40when she has
37:41a claim
37:42to what she's doing,
37:43so be it.
37:44Right?
37:45That's what I like.
37:46That's what makes me happy.
37:47That's where you're happy?
37:48That's where I'm happy.
37:49Support me.
37:50Okay.
37:52I'm right.
37:53Forty-forty.
37:54Forty.
37:55Forty.
37:57You didn't get it right.
37:58Okay, okay.
37:59I forgot.
38:00That's a good thing.
38:01There's another answer.
38:04Wow.
38:05Forty-five.
38:06That's my waistline.
38:12Okay, Tito Vic.
38:13You need to
38:14protect your sweetheart
38:16from a bunch of
38:18jerks.
38:19How are you
38:20going to protect her?
38:26If I can leave,
38:27I'll leave.
38:29I'll convince
38:30my sweetheart.
38:31That's harder.
38:32Because,
38:33again,
38:34coming to my mind,
38:36there's a saying,
38:38a moment of humility
38:40can save a lifetime of regret.
38:41Oh, my God.
38:42That's amazing, Tito Vic.
38:44Right?
38:45That's the man out of you.
38:47You're the one who's going to
38:48make all the fights.
38:49You're going to make it happen.
38:50No, no.
38:51If I can avoid it,
38:52I'll avoid it.
38:53Because it's hard.
38:54If I'm fighting,
38:56I'm not going to make
38:57my Judo champion big.
39:00I'll be facing
39:01a guy next to me
39:02who's going to hit me.
39:03Here, here.
39:04The score is?
39:05He is mind-boggling.
39:06I feel good.
39:08One hundred and...
39:10One.
39:11I feel good and wanted.
39:12Ah, ah, ah.
39:13I feel good and wanted.
39:14Yes.
39:15That's why,
39:16your score is one hundred.
39:18Mine is one hundred and ten.
39:19One hundred and ten.
39:20Of course.
39:21I want a sensible man.
39:22Because,
39:23you know, that's true.
39:24If you're not thinking.
39:25The guy who's not thinking
39:26will give up the fight.
39:28Correct.
39:29But if the guy is thinking,
39:30he avoids the fight.
39:31Chapusin.
39:32Yeah.
39:33For Vic Vargas.
39:34For Vic Vargas.
39:35For Vic Vargas.
39:39Forty.
39:40Forty.
39:41Why?
39:42Tito Charlie,
39:43you're a man.
39:44How do you score?
39:45What do you think
39:46is the kind of
39:47thinking of a man?
39:49That's also what I'll do.
39:50Wow.
39:51Fifty.
39:52I want to jump to the conclusion right away
39:53that I'll really follow him.
39:54But that is now.
39:55If for example,
39:56you're sixteen years old.
39:57Ah, you might have,
39:58you might have
39:59reacted differently.
40:02Oh, that's different.
40:03You're still two years old.
40:04But we're talking about him now.
40:06Yes, right?
40:07Next question.
40:08Tita Claire.
40:09Yes.
40:10Where is it?
40:11There.
40:12If you're mistaken,
40:13your grandmother
40:14in the PTA meeting
40:15that you did.
40:16You know,
40:17my grandmother was right
40:18in the PTA meeting
40:19that I did.
40:20Our PTA meeting.
40:21Yes.
40:22That's right.
40:23Our beautiful grandmother.
40:24You know,
40:25if sometimes it really happens
40:26that you're mistaken.
40:27The wrong guess.
40:29If the guess is wrong.
40:30You know,
40:31Tito Vic was right.
40:32I thought my grandson was right.
40:33You know,
40:34you know,
40:35Tito Vic was right.
40:36You know,
40:37the virtue of a person
40:39is to try
40:40in situations like that.
40:41Like that.
40:42You know,
40:43that's very trivial.
40:44It's just a small thing.
40:45Yes, it's trivial.
40:46But it's like,
40:47it fits your personality.
40:48That's right.
40:49I won't say
40:50that I won't get plastic surgery.
40:51I'll get hurt.
40:52But you know,
40:53it depends on how you handle it.
40:56How you handle the situation.
40:58And after that,
40:59you can't die in the parlor.
41:00Yes,
41:01after that,
41:02you'll suddenly face the mirror.
41:03Wait a minute,
41:04there's a difference.
41:05But that's a nice point.
41:07You know,
41:08a person
41:09can suffer inside.
41:11You need to
41:12express yourself
41:15to other people.
41:16Your aura
41:17should be good.
41:18You can't just...
41:20Because,
41:21my grandmother said,
41:22I remember,
41:23a person,
41:24when he says something,
41:25he can't get it back.
41:27Yes.
41:28You already said that.
41:29Exactly.
41:30Even if you say sorry,
41:31you'll get hurt.
41:32Right, you'll get hurt.
41:33So that means,
41:34we need to be careful
41:35in what we say.
41:36Because of us,
41:37people grade us
41:39on how we talk,
41:41how we move,
41:42how we face people.
41:44I should've asked that.
41:45That's why I promised.
41:46That's why I promised.
41:48I just wrote it down.
41:5042,
41:51you'll be a grandmother.
41:54She said I'll be a grandmother at 42.
41:55Agreed.
41:56Uncle Charlie,
41:5850,
41:59you're not plastic.
42:02Auntie Ellie,
42:03Claire,
42:04she is sexy,
42:05witty,
42:06and
42:07beautiful
42:08inside.
42:0940.
42:11There's a reason for this.
42:12This isn't over yet.
42:1445,
42:15you're right!
42:19Last,
42:20Auntie Elvie,
42:22honey,
42:23I'm in love with your son.
42:25Your boyfriend,
42:26wife,
42:27everything.
42:28Maybe,
42:29I'll think three times
42:30and tell him,
42:32you need to leave this house.
42:36That's what I said!
42:37You're so thick-skinned.
42:38Shut up!
42:39That's what you said to me.
42:41Even if you're in love,
42:42even if you're in love,
42:43even if you're in love,
42:44if you're going to be a prostitute,
42:45and you're going to be in love with your son,
42:47why don't you be patient?
42:48You better find another one
42:50who will love you
42:52and respect you.
42:53What is this?
42:54A prostitute?
42:55Right?
42:56But,
42:57Auntie Elvie is trying to be so
43:00civil,
43:01so
43:02beautiful.
43:03You need to leave this house.
43:06That's okay.
43:07That's what she said.
43:08You can't say anything.
43:10Grace,
43:12I give you
43:15fifty.
43:17You just need to jump.
43:19You just need to jump.
43:22Uncle Charlie,
43:23what's that?
43:24Fifty.
43:25You're right.
43:26I'll do the same.
43:30Miss Claire.
43:31Miss Claire.
43:33This is Uncle Vic.
43:35Yeah!
43:36Fifty.
43:37There.
43:38That's what's important.
43:39Yeah.
43:40That's what's important.
43:41That's what's important.
43:44Thank you for joining us this morning.
43:46We had a lot of fun.
43:47We learned a lot.
43:48We learned.
43:49We learned.
43:50We learned from you.
43:51She sat down.
43:52Yes.
43:53It's different.
43:54It's really different.
43:55You know,
43:56it's not just by age.
43:58It's different.
43:59Is that experience?
44:00Experience.
44:01And willingness to learn.
44:02And learning your lessons.
44:05That's it.
44:06We need to learn.
44:07And willing to impart those lessons to others.
44:08Thank you so much.
44:09Thank you very much.
44:10We'll be back.
44:28No one will take care of me.
44:30What if,
44:31they already have a husband.
44:32They have golden anchors.
44:35If they already have a husband.
44:36You know,
44:37I'm not a selfish mother.
44:39If they already have a husband,
44:40I will support them.
44:41I will give them the wisdom
44:43that I learned from my mother.
44:45I'll give it to them.
44:46I'll pass it on to them.
44:53I don't have that in my mind anymore.
44:55Because it's already happening.
45:00Just let it be.
45:01If no one comes.
45:02Fine.
45:03That's okay.
45:04I'm happy because
45:06I'm busy with my grandchildren.
45:08Wow, okay.
45:09Second,
45:11I really don't want to try.
45:12I have a lot of friends.
45:16In and out of showbiz.
45:18Most especially,
45:19I'm close to people like you.
45:23That's one of my dreams.
45:24Third,
45:27I hope.
45:29I hope to think about it.
45:30I'm not pregnant anymore.
45:31I'm crying.
45:35We are sisters.
45:37We are sisters.
45:39I just hope that
45:40one of my children,
45:41if later on,
45:42they just ask me,
45:44somebody would approach me,
45:45Lolo, can I be of help to you?
45:47And I'm hoping that
45:48my mom is here.
45:50And I hope my mom can do that for me later on.
45:52I hope not.
45:53But,
45:54I think for my children,
45:55because this is still a baby,
45:56I think,
45:57what I can see is
45:58she's the one.
45:59She's the one.
46:00Yes.
46:01Until now,
46:02her mom is still alive.
46:04Yes.
46:05Do this, do that.
46:06This is your background.
46:07This is what you're like.
46:08Imagine them telling me on my own.
46:10You know?
46:18If the time comes
46:19when you'll see a woman like Chapuset.
46:21When I was younger,
46:22of course,
46:23the first thing that
46:24comes to my mind,
46:26or would come to my mind
46:28whenever I meet an attractive woman
46:30is,
46:31how would it be,
46:33how does it feel
46:34to be in bed with her?
46:35Is that how it comes to your mind?
46:37Yes.
46:40It begins with a thought,
46:43and then,
46:44follows the act.
46:45So, if it's just a thought,
46:46it's a bit...
46:47It's a bit tense,
46:48situation.
46:55I'll do everything
46:56to be beautiful
46:57in my partner's eyes.
46:59I'll make everything beautiful
47:00for him.
47:01And when the time comes
47:02that I'm really wrinkled,
47:04I'll make sure
47:05I'll be beautiful inside,
47:06emotionally.
47:07Very good.
47:08Very most important
47:09is spiritually.
47:11I am so happy
47:12that the men that we had today
47:14were very honest
47:15and true.
47:16Yes.
47:17And their willingness
47:18to...
47:19Admit.
47:20To own.
47:21To own up to their mistakes.
47:22To own up to their mistakes.
47:23It feels good, right?
47:24And that's very rare.
47:25But maybe...
47:26Admit it.
47:27We really learned a lot today.
47:28A lot.
47:29I learned a lot.
47:31Of course, I cried again.
47:32Of course,
47:33we can't really
47:34stop you from crying.
47:35Well, anyway,
47:37that was the first of our
47:39Valentine Week special.
47:41Correct.
47:42So tomorrow,
47:43is our second day
47:44of our Valentine Week special.
47:45So,
47:46you shouldn't miss it.
47:48You can't miss that.
47:50Okay?
47:51Bye!
47:52Bye!
47:55Sis would like to thank
47:56Dami Puente,
47:58Mossimo,
47:59F&H,
48:00Chloe for our eyewear,
48:02Optical Works,
48:04Adidas,
48:05Janeline Shoes,
48:07Wade Shoes,
48:08Bayo,
48:09Under the Sea Pet Shop,
48:11Salon de Manila,
48:12La Germania,
48:14680 Home Appliances,
48:16Jurastar,
48:17Mano Mano,
48:19Play and Display,
48:21JBL Home Furniture Enterprise,
48:23The Barnyard,
48:24Grand Flora,
48:26Our Home,
48:27Wayless Center and Spa,
48:28Color My Hair,
48:30and Union Square.
48:32Really,
48:33now that I've tried it,
48:34I have a lot of friends.
48:37In and out of showbiz.
48:39Most especially,
48:40I'm close to people like this.
48:43It's like no one will take care of me.
48:45It's like,
48:46they already have a husband.
48:48There's Golden Acres.
48:51I just hope that
48:52one of my children,
48:53my grandchildren,
48:54when they're there,
48:55they just invite me.
48:57Somebody would approach me,
48:58Lolo,
48:59can I be of help to you?
49:00And I'm hoping that
49:01my Mai is here,
49:03and I hope my Mai can do that for me later on.
49:05I will do everything
49:06to be beautiful
49:07in my partner's eyes.
49:09I will make everything beautiful
49:10for her.
49:11Whenever I meet
49:12an attractive woman,
49:13it's just,
49:14how would it be,
49:16how does it feel to be in bed with her?
49:18Is that how it gets into your mind?
49:20Yes, that's how it is.