Aired (June 27, 2024): Puno ng pagmamahalan ang 7-year relationship ni Cheng sa kanyang EX, pero sa isang iglap ay nagwakas na lamang ito. Ano kaya ang dahilan?
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00:00But how long did it take for your family to find out that you're already together?
00:05I think it was around 4 p.m.
00:08No, it was 2 months.
00:13It was 2 months, but it was legal in his family.
00:182 months before his family found out.
00:19Didn't your parents scold you?
00:22They were very angry.
00:25Especially my older brother.
00:28Your older brother was super angry with you?
00:30Super mad.
00:32Super happy, super mad.
00:34What's your boyfriend's name? Super Ingo?
00:38His name is Russell.
00:40He really took care of you?
00:42Because he asked me.
00:44Of course, he'll answer.
00:48Of course, he'll take care of you.
00:52For sure.
00:54The girl has an amount.
00:56You're right, I'm right.
00:58This is a different kind of trauma.
00:59It's nice to have a friend.
01:01Of course, one is also scary.
01:05What happened when your parents found out that they didn't allow you to continue?
01:11We were stopped.
01:13We were stopped to the point that we will be banned from our page.
01:20You were banned from your barangay?
01:22Yes.
01:23He's not in the village.
01:27He's in Phase 1 and Phase 2.
01:28She's arrogant.
01:30You should've made it clear.
01:31She's not in the barangay village.
01:33She's arrogant.
01:34You should've made it clear.
01:39What does Phase 1 look like?
01:41It's the same as Phase 2.
01:44You look alike.
01:46In Phase 1, do you guys talk on FaceTime?
01:48In Phase 1, do you need to wear a face mask?
01:51Yes.
01:52Face shield?
01:55If you're going to blame someone, join us.
01:59You want to share?
02:01If you're going to talk like this, I'm going to back out.
02:04I thought you were going to enjoy it.
02:06You're making a mistake.
02:08I'm only thinking about Facebook.
02:10She's on Facebook.
02:12She's only on Facebook.
02:14She's only on Facebook.
02:18Village?
02:19Yes, village.
02:21What happened when you were banned from the village?
02:24He wanted to go away.
02:27He went away one night.
02:31Wait a minute.
02:32Do you live in the same village?
02:34Yes, Phase 1.
02:35How did you get banned?
02:36Did you go away from where you live?
02:38No, I'm not allowed to go to Phase 1.
02:41You have different phases.
02:44You're in Phase 1.
02:45I'm in Phase 2 and Phase 3.
02:47I'm in Phase 5 because of the village.
02:50The village is big.
02:51There are a lot of phases.
02:53What are you guys talking about?
02:54Face crackers?
02:56No, that's not a face cracker.
02:59There's only one thing there.
03:01Faceball.
03:04Light on, light on.
03:06Faceball.
03:11Faceball.
03:13Faceball.
03:15Respect to Chen.
03:16Do you want to join us?
03:17Faceball.
03:20That's good.
03:21Faceball.
03:22You'll miss this place.
03:25You'll have a lot of entries.
03:27Anyway, you're not allowed to cross each other's paths.
03:33In his and your phases.
03:35But,
03:37he went away.
03:38You followed him.
03:39Where did you go?
03:41We hid.
03:43In our place, there's a field.
03:45It's called Forever.
03:47It's called Forever.
03:49He cried.
03:50We cried because we didn't want to be separated.
03:54So, you guys camped there?
03:56It's like a park.
03:58It's a field.
04:00It's open.
04:02So, even if your parents didn't want you to be together,
04:04you didn't stop your relationship?
04:06No.
04:07Where did you reach?
04:09I mean, what was the most important thing that happened in your relationship?
04:13That was the first problem we had.
04:17That's what we cried about.
04:20It took a lot of time for my family to accept him.
04:27They didn't have a problem with it.
04:30His mother is open.
04:33She doesn't want us to live in another house.
04:38She wants us to live with them.
04:40That's it.
04:42How did you overcome the challenge of your parents' acceptance?
04:47Maybe, they thought that they can't stop us.
04:51After how many years?
04:53He was accepted when I was 17.
04:57That's when my brother asked me why I didn't invite him to my birthday celebration.
05:06Your birthday, and he was already found?
05:09Yes.
05:11So, that's when you realized that he was already found.
05:15What other sweet moments happened in your relationship?
05:19In my life, I don't look at it as a bad thing.
05:30I mean, it's like heaven and earth created us.
05:33That's what people think when I talk about my life.
05:37I was 10 years old when my mom passed away.
05:4110 years old?
05:42Yes.
05:43So, when you had a girlfriend, your mom passed away?
05:45Yes.
05:47So, who was against it? Your dad?
05:50No, it was my brothers.
05:53Ah, okay.
05:55You didn't have a mom who supported you?
06:00Just your dad and your siblings?
06:02Yes.
06:04In 2017, my dad passed away.
06:08I was the only person in the house.
06:11At that time, my ex-husband's mom adopted me.
06:19That's where I lived with them.
06:22How old were you then?
06:2415 years old.
06:26You were 15 years old when you were adopted?
06:28Yes.
06:29Where were your siblings?
06:30My two brothers were in Manila.
06:34My other brother was also in Manila.
06:39But, he lived with his girlfriend at that time.
06:43So, he couldn't go home?
06:45He could go home, but it was usually late at night.
06:50So, they agreed to let you live with your boyfriend?
06:53Yes.
06:55Because they got to know my boyfriend's parents.
07:00His brothers were in Manila, so he couldn't meet them.
07:06He was 15 years old.
07:09It was just like...
07:11It was a big fight.
07:13For example, your brother was 15 years old.
07:16It was different.
07:18His siblings were also not at home.
07:22I'm sure they would say,
07:24he's just going to run away.
07:26Yes, he's going to rebel.
07:28How would he run away?
07:30He would stay at home.
07:32Where would he go out?
07:34Oh, it's open.
07:36I'm just alone.
07:41You're alone at home, but you're forced to run away.
07:44They would say, stay at home, don't go out, don't go there.
07:47But, of course, they couldn't see it.
07:49But, what happened when I was there,
07:52it's like we're not...
07:55His mother thinks that we're not dating anymore.
08:00It's like I'm their daughter.
08:02Because they're all men.
08:04Sometimes, when I introduce myself,
08:07they would say, I'm his daughter.
08:09So, your parents are okay,
08:12because they raised you.
08:14Yes, their parents are okay.
08:16No, the second one.
08:18No, this one.
08:20The mother of her ex-boyfriend.
08:22Yes, it's okay.
08:24Didn't your brothers offer you to live with them?
08:29Because, personally, my sister is turning 15.
08:32I can't imagine that...
08:34That would happen to her.
08:36Yes, my sister is in another house.
08:38Even if she's still in Canada,
08:40I would let her stay here in the Philippines.
08:42Didn't your brothers do that?
08:45They offered me.
08:47They got mad at me.
08:49They chatted with me.
08:51But, I don't know.
08:52It's not their fault.
08:54It's my decision.
08:56They have their priorities.
08:59I understand.
09:01They still won't let me go,
09:03even if I'm not in their power.
09:06In your story,
09:08it's like you're the one who's followed in your life.
09:10Yes.
09:12It's like you don't have a guardian.
09:14Because you're a minor,
09:16you're already a dead man.
09:18Even if they offered you to live with them,
09:20you don't want to.
09:22I want to be in that house.
09:24I want to be with them all the time.
09:26That's it.
09:28Did your partner reach the age of...
09:30You're not a minor anymore.
09:32You're already 28.
09:34Yes.
09:36What are your plans for that?
09:38A lot.
09:40Especially when we started working,
09:42we wanted to achieve a lot.
09:44But, when...
09:46Of course, when we started,
09:48we prioritized saving.
09:49When we were young,
09:51we didn't have money for allowances.
09:53When we had to eat out,
09:55it was a big deal for us.
09:57When we could go to other places.
09:59I have a question.
10:01Of course, you're a minor.
10:03I've been thinking about this.
10:05What's running through your mind
10:07when you're a minor,
10:09and your first boyfriend
10:11will take you home?
10:13What's running through your mind?
10:15What's the concept of saving?
10:18What's your concept of a relationship
10:20at that time?
10:22What are your expectations of a relationship?
10:24What are your fears
10:26as a young girl
10:28entering that situation?
10:30Actually,
10:32when we got divorced,
10:34I talked to her mom
10:36before everything was settled.
10:38She told me
10:40that it's okay for her
10:42that we have a relationship
10:44as long as I love her.
10:45As a woman,
10:47I should prioritize myself.
10:51I shouldn't just focus on love.
10:54That's why I stayed there.
10:56What's running through my mind
10:58is that I'm happy with them.
11:00I'm happy that I'm with them.
11:02I'm happy that I have a mother
11:04who takes care of me.
11:06I'm happy that I have someone
11:08who cooks for me.
11:10I'm happy that I'm taught
11:12how to do housework.
11:13Aren't you aware
11:15or are you not aware
11:17that it's too early
11:19for you to be together?
11:21No.
11:23I'm not aware of that.
11:25I don't understand
11:27why the two of us
11:29just want to be together
11:31even if we don't do anything
11:33or even if we're just lying down
11:35or watching TV.
11:37As long as we're together,
11:39that's what's important to us.
11:41At that time,
11:43you were already married
11:45and had your own child.
11:47She was already 15 years old.
11:49She told you that
11:51she wanted to live with you.
11:53Will you let her?
11:55She'll live with her boyfriend.
11:57To be honest,
11:59no.
12:01Actually, I thought about it
12:03when I was older.
12:05But there's a reason
12:07why we're so eager
12:09to be together
12:11at that age.
12:13I know there's a reason.
12:15So you won't let her?
12:17No.
12:19But if she told you,
12:21why didn't you do it before?
12:23Why can't I do it?
12:25I can't explain
12:27because I'm not in that situation.
12:29But I will try my best
12:31that even if I can't let her,
12:33I'll find a way
12:35to make her feel better
12:37so that she won't think about it.
12:39That's it.
12:41I think at that point,
12:44she's looking for a family.
12:46That's right.
12:48You're missing something.
12:50You're not with her at home.
12:52You don't have a mother.
12:54And your boyfriend's mother
12:56gave birth to you.
12:58She's also your mother.
13:00You saw her,
13:02but you're not with your siblings.
13:04She has siblings
13:06who are okay with you
13:08and treat you like family.
13:10That's why I feel
13:11she has a whole family there.
13:14Even if she's not
13:16entertaining you.
13:18This is just based on
13:20my opinion on your story.
13:22She doesn't think
13:24if I'm still too young or not.
13:27This is my home.
13:29Right?
13:31This is my home.
13:33This is my family.
13:35That's why I want to be with them.
13:37It's not solely
13:39or the main reason
13:41why she wants to stay there.
13:43She wants to stay there
13:45not just because of her boyfriend.
13:47She wants to stay there
13:49because of her mother,
13:51her siblings,
13:53her family,
13:55the love I feel,
13:57the care they give me.
13:59Aside from that,
14:01there are a lot of bonuses.
14:03She started with a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship
14:05and there are a lot of bonuses.
14:07You have a mother,
14:09a sibling,
14:11she has a feeling
14:13that she's happy to hear
14:15that you're being scolded.
14:17She's looking for a family.
14:19That's why maybe
14:21the viewers might say
14:23that she's romanticizing
14:25her child
14:27that she's living in.
14:29No, we do not encourage that.
14:31We don't encourage that
14:33and tell the children
14:35that it's okay.
14:37If you're living in,
14:38we give that kind of message
14:40to the viewers.
14:42But when we hear the story,
14:44we try to understand
14:46where the people are coming from.
14:48We're trying to listen to them
14:50with empathy
14:52and compassion.
14:54For example,
14:56you're in a situation
14:58where you don't have a family.
15:00You don't feel like you have a family.
15:02There's a family that supports you
15:04and makes you feel this.
15:06We also think
15:08or consider
15:10if we should make them our family.
15:13Because all of us,
15:15aside from our true blood family,
15:17we can find a family in other people,
15:19in other houses,
15:21in other places.
15:23In the farthest place
15:25that even if we're not blood related,
15:27we're not neighbors.
15:29Because sometimes,
15:31when we're together at home,
15:33we don't feel like a family.
15:35We feel like we're close to each other.
15:37But when people are far away,
15:39no matter the distance,
15:41they connect with us.
15:43And it gives us that strong sense of family.
15:45I feel like that's what happened to you.
15:47Yes.
15:49Maybe you got the words
15:51that I wanted to say.
15:53That's why you said earlier
15:55that you want to be open to other people.
15:57Yes.
15:59Because she's not with you
16:01when you open your heart.
16:03So, I get it.
16:05What happened?
16:07How many years have you been together?
16:09Seven years.
16:11Did you plan to talk about
16:13how you want to be together for the rest of your life,
16:15until you grow up,
16:17until you have a family?
16:19We haven't really talked about it.
16:21But we're sure
16:23that we're already a family.
16:25We don't need to talk about it anymore.
16:27We don't need to talk about it anymore.
16:29Should I ask him
16:31if he's already with me?
16:32No,
16:34because it's your feeling.
16:36And what they said
16:38that we're going to save money.
16:40That's it, right?
16:42We can save money
16:44and split it up.
16:46I have two heads.
16:49Because she's a mother, right?
16:51It's like her boyfriend's mother
16:53took care of her.
16:55It's so hard.
16:57I will defend this
16:59that they didn't make a mistake
17:00in their decision.
17:02Yes, they did.
17:04They really love each other.
17:06They really do.
17:08He loves his family.
17:10He loves his boyfriend.
17:12He loves his boyfriend and their son.
17:14It's really them.
17:16But why didn't they get together?
17:18Why aren't they together now?
17:20What happened?
17:22Last,
17:24March 23,
17:27he passed away.
17:31It was in his heart.
17:33It was just a normal day.
17:36It was weird
17:38because we've been through a lot.
17:41We had a lot of plans.
17:43And then,
17:45in our 7 years,
17:47we didn't have a problem
17:49that we couldn't solve.
17:51It was just us.
17:53And then,
17:55one day,
17:57suddenly,
17:58he passed away.
18:00What happened that day?
18:02It was a normal day.
18:04You were at home?
18:06Yes, we were at home.
18:08It was his day off.
18:10Russell,
18:12he likes to tickle
18:14and then,
18:16he fixed his bumblebee.
18:18That day,
18:20he did a lot of things
18:22from morning to night.
18:24He didn't want to rest
18:26because he was doing something
18:28in the morning.
18:30He was with my friend.
18:32They told me,
18:34it was just between my room
18:36and my brother's room.
18:38My friend said,
18:40he shouted,
18:42he said,
18:44Sel, what's happening to you?
18:46They did that.
18:48When I looked at him,
18:50he was laughing at me.
18:52I didn't notice him
18:54because he was happy
18:56that I was coughing.
18:58He said,
19:00Sel, what's happening to you?
19:02They were joking
19:04that something happened to Russell.
19:06My friend was with him.
19:08They were joking
19:10that something happened to Russell.
19:12To get Chen's attention,
19:14you were pranked.
19:16Yes, I was pranked.
19:18What happened to him?
19:20Nothing.
19:22He fell or something.
19:24I told them,
19:25stop doing that.
19:27At 8 p.m.,
19:29I was surprised
19:31because they were cleaning.
19:33He was the one who spoke.
19:35He said,
19:37he fell.
19:39What was he doing?
19:41He was fixing a bulb.
19:43He was fixing a light?
19:45Yes, a light.
19:47When I went out,
19:49he was standing.
19:51When he saw me,
19:53he fell.
19:55He had a different color.
19:57I can't explain
19:59how I felt.
20:01I don't want you to think
20:03what's in my mind
20:05because who would want
20:07to think that he's gone?
20:09He was different.
20:11So your boyfriend
20:13noticed?
20:15That's what we thought.
20:17But in the...
20:19In the autopsy?
20:21Yes, in the autopsy.
20:23What do you call it?
20:25Cardiac arrest.
20:27Cardiac arrest.
20:29That's it.
20:31We picked him up.
20:33I held him because
20:35there was no ambulance.
20:37We were in the patrol
20:39in the barangay.
20:41I held him.
20:43I didn't know if it was CPR
20:45or anything.
20:47I gave him air.
20:49He responded.
20:51But I know,
20:53I feel,
20:55I can't say it in my mind
20:57because I love you.
20:59I keep telling him
21:01that I can't pray anymore.
21:03When he arrived at the hospital,
21:05was he still alive?
21:07He was gone.
21:09Dead on arrival.
21:11So when he fell,
21:13you didn't hear
21:15anything from him?
21:17No.
21:19When you heard the last word,
21:21he didn't respond to your words
21:23or react to your I love you?
21:25I know that
21:27when a person is gone,
21:30the last thing they lose
21:32is their hearing.
21:34So I kept telling him,
21:36I love you, I love you,
21:38I love you so much.
21:40I told him not to forget me.
21:43Actually, when he was gone,
21:45I wasn't hurt
21:47because he left me.
21:49I was hurt because
21:51I didn't know
21:53what would happen to him
21:55if he's still there.
21:57If he's still there.
21:59Because he has a lot of dreams
22:01not just for us,
22:03not just for his family.
22:05He has a lot of dreams.
22:07That's why it hurts
22:09to think that
22:11he really wants to live.
22:13For all of us,
22:15we always say
22:18if that's the plan of the Lord,
22:21then it's right.
22:23Right?
22:25If that's the plan of the Lord,
22:27then there's nothing we can do.
22:29We have to accept it.
22:31And the Lord has a good reason
22:33why He allows it.
22:35We cannot always understand
22:37why other people
22:39come to us.
22:41What's the reason?
22:43Or why them?
22:45Or why at that time?
22:47Why not just another day,
22:49another year?
22:51Why Him?
22:53We will never know.
22:55From the Lord.
22:57I feel that Russell
22:59left me
23:01so much.
23:03Because even if he's not here,
23:05his family is still there.
23:07They're still there for me.
23:09He's still part of the family.
23:11He's still like a son to his mother.
23:13He's like a brother to his sister.
23:15In fact, Russell's mother is here.
23:17Let's call
23:19Mother Viviana.
23:20Hello.
23:22Hello, Mother Viviana.
23:24Hi, Mother Viviana.
23:26Welcome to Showtime.
23:28Please accompany
23:30Cheng.
23:32Please put him aside.
23:36Hello.
23:38Please fasten your seatbelts.
23:40It's a rollercoaster.
23:42It's a rollercoaster.
23:44He's telling us
23:46how you gave birth to him.
23:48Is that true?
23:50Yes.
23:52I've been taking care of him
23:54since he was a minor.
23:56Yes.
23:58To save him as a woman,
24:00I adopted him.
24:02What did you tell him
24:04when he was a minor
24:06and he was with you?
24:08I told him that I'm ready
24:10to face anyone,
24:12brother or sibling,
24:14who wants to demand
24:16something from me about him
24:18because they're minors.
24:20I told him,
24:22you're already formal at home.
24:24Don't do something
24:26you shouldn't do
24:28because you're still young.
24:30I told him,
24:32you can stay here at home
24:34because I don't have a daughter.
24:36Treat him as your sister.
24:38That's not safe.
24:40Especially if you're a minor
24:42and you don't have parents.
24:44You have a guardian,
24:46right?
24:47Yes.
24:49Yes.
24:56When Russell passed away,
24:58that's when I realized
25:00that's why we're in such a hurry.
25:02That's why I want to be with him
25:04because
25:06we've been together
25:08for such a short time.
25:10That's why we met
25:12so early
25:14because we're not together
25:15and we're old.
25:18So now that your son is gone,
25:20are you still taking care of him?
25:23He's still open at home.
25:25He still visits us.
25:28He's welcome.
25:30He's welcome.
25:32Do you still go out?
25:34Yes, always.
25:36We watch movies.
25:38Mother Viviana,
25:40how is Russell?
25:42Russell is like
25:43a brother to all of us.
25:45He's a kind person
25:47who's helpful,
25:49hardworking,
25:51and caring.
25:53That's how he is
25:55to our son.
25:57He's what his father saw
25:59in him.
26:01He's his father's body
26:03because he's able to live.
26:05He does everything
26:07even when he has work.
26:09He always reminds us
26:11when he comes home,
26:13what did you eat?
26:15He's like that to me.
26:17How was it
26:19when you saw their relationship
26:21inside your house?
26:23How was their relationship?
26:25It was fun.
26:27I felt better when they were at home.
26:29Did you see that their relationship
26:31became real?
26:33Their love for each other is deep
26:35even though they're still young.
26:37Yes.
26:39My son takes care of me
26:41even when he's at home.
26:44I heard you're scolding him.
26:46No, I'm not.
26:48I heard you're scolding him.
26:50He's angry.
26:52That's just natural.
26:54He's just a minor.
26:56Does he do anything in your house?
26:58Sometimes.
27:00That's why I'm saying this.
27:02He's busy.
27:04He's hardworking.
27:06How many years
27:08before Cheng moved
27:10to their house?
27:11We're just close.
27:13How many years?
27:15I mean,
27:17he moved there
27:19when my son passed away.
27:21Oh, he came back.
27:23Okay.
27:25It's been a few months.
27:41I'm sorry.
27:43I'm sorry.
27:45I'm sorry.
27:47I'm sorry.
27:49I'm sorry.
27:51I'm sorry.
27:53I'm sorry.
27:55I'm sorry.
27:57I'm sorry.
27:59I'm sorry.
28:01I'm sorry.
28:03I'm sorry.
28:05I'm sorry.
28:07I'm sorry.
28:09I'm sorry.