Aired (June 9, 2024): Inamin ni Andi Eigenmann na nanghihinayang siya sa hindi natupad na planong pagpunta ng kanyang inang si Jaclyn Jose sa Siargao at ang planong pagpapakasal nila ng kanyang partner na si Philmar Alipayo para sa taong 2024.
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00:00Earlier, you said that one of your regrets was that 2024 was supposed to be the year
00:06that your mom would go to Siargao,
00:10and 2024 was supposed to be the year that you and Philmar would get married.
00:15Now, looking back and living in 2024, what are your thoughts?
00:21That was a bit heavy for me because I don't live every day of my life thinking
00:28my mom can die tomorrow.
00:30Yeah.
00:31Which I don't know if that was a mistake, right?
00:33Is that wrong? I don't know.
00:35That's what I think.
00:37I don't pray or dream that my mom's life will be cut off right away.
00:43And I expect a lot of things to happen this year that involves her.
00:48Because after all, Philmar and I are getting married, it's also mostly more for her.
00:54Because Philmar and I, even if we don't get married,
00:56we're already husband and wife.
00:59For me, that's what's important.
01:01But I know that my mom will be happy when we get married.
01:05It can't be like I get married and she's just a guest.
01:08No, right?
01:09To me, she's my most important guest at that wedding, supposedly.
01:15And it's also a big deal for me for her to come to Siargao
01:18because I learned a lot when I went to Siargao.
01:21I dream a lot that when she gets there, I want her to realize this too.
01:29I want her to see this too.
01:31I want her to have a chance to make certain changes in herself, in her life.
01:37That maybe when she goes to Siargao, that will happen too.
01:42What she's saying is, let me build a house first.
01:45Yes!
01:46I wanted her to experience drinking beer in Cloud 9.
01:48Yes!
01:49Walking on the beach.
01:51You know, and you imagine that she would have enjoyed Siargao.
01:55I knew, I knew.
01:56A lot of regrets that you didn't pick up your mom and she flew to Siargao.
02:00Yeah, yeah.
02:02But the marriage, the wedding, would you still do it?
02:06Not this year, right?
02:07Yeah, we can't.
02:09We don't want to do it this year, but yes, of course, we still are going to get married.
02:16We're still in the planning.
02:17It's something that we want.
02:18And you wanted to do it also for her?
02:20Yeah, I wanted to do it for her, but of course, that's not the only reason.
02:27You know, that's not the only reason.
02:29You know, it's just a bit sad because that's a big milestone in anybody's life is to get married
02:36and my dad is not around anymore and neither is she.
02:41Right.
02:42So, it's hard for me to think about it because these are the important people in my life.
02:50They are slowly disappearing and I thought they were just there.
02:55I thought they were just there.
02:58I thought it was just a moment.
03:01Maybe all of us are thinking about that, right?
03:05We don't know when it will end.
03:10And what is the lesson that you continue to learn?
03:13When Anastasia's dad is not there, mom is gone.
03:16For me, the biggest lesson for me is to learn how to make the people you love feel it the way they want to.
03:26It's not just about the best way.
03:29You know how.
03:31Also, make an extra effort to make them feel it the way they want to feel love.
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