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00:01 [MUSIC - "MAGKANANG SINANDAL"]
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00:32 Especially for him.
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00:37, by us.
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01:22 By Arca Yard Gastropub and Restaurant,
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01:34 Let's welcome our X-Special Visita for today.
01:38 Hello.
01:39 Welcome to X-Specially for you, Van--
01:42 Shane.
01:43 Shane.
01:44 Good afternoon.
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01:47 Hello, po.
01:48 Hi.
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01:52 the friend that is Vanessa.
02:16 Vanessa.
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02:18 Friend, Vanessa.
02:19 Vanessa, the friend.
02:20 The friend that is Vanessa.
02:21 Hi, Vanessa.
02:22 Hi.
02:23 Welcome to X-Specially for you.
02:25 You may sit down, girl.
02:27 Hi, Vanessa.
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02:29 Good afternoon, madam people.
02:31 Good afternoon, po.
02:32 Hi.
02:32 Good afternoon, Vanessa.
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02:50 Oh, yeah.
02:50 Is that for real?
02:51 Yeah.
02:52 For real?
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02:54 Is that for real?
02:55 Is that for real?
02:56 Yes.
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03:56 It's only 5 months, but in total, it's 8 to 9 months.
04:01 Where did those 3 months come from?
04:02 In the court.
04:04 In the courting stage.
04:05 In the courting stage.
04:06 Oh, you were in a situationship with him, and it wasn't official?
04:10 Yes.
04:10 There you go. So he's the one who replaced you.
04:13 Yes.
04:14 Is he also the reason why you two broke up?
04:16 No.
04:17 He's not a third party?
04:18 No.
04:19 How long was the interval before you became Shane's ex-boyfriend?
04:25 They broke up in June, so we met in July.
04:29 One month?
04:30 Yes.
04:30 That's a long interval.
04:32 One month.
04:33 He got hurt.
04:35 He got hurt.
04:37 He got hurt.
04:39 It was so painful.
04:41 It was so painful.
04:41 So within a month, he found you.
04:43 It was hard for him to move on, right?
04:45 Yes.
04:47 But your ex-boyfriend was serious about courting you.
04:52 What?
04:53 When he was courting you, was he serious?
04:55 When you were drinking, he was telling you a story, and he got you drunk while you were still not done.
04:59 Yes.
05:00 So were you serious?
05:01 He was in the middle.
05:03 It was like he was chasing you.
05:05 He was trying to match you.
05:07 So were they serious?
05:09 After Shane, did he not rebound on you?
05:13 I don't think so because he moved on.
05:16 I mean, he also moved on.
05:18 He was a moving up student.
05:20 From grade 7 to grade 9.
05:22 He was already moving on, moving forward.
05:24 He was already moving up.
05:26 How many months did it take for him to move on?
05:28 There's an equation.
05:30 How did he figure it out?
05:32 There's a competition.
05:34 Maybe it's not true.
05:36 There's a 3-month rule in the law, but it's not always true.
05:38 Do you believe in that?
05:40 Do you believe in forever?
05:42 James Reed said.
05:44 I believe in forever, but I don't believe in the 3-month rule.
05:46 I mean, if you're okay,
05:48 and you feel ready to date,
05:50 then go.
05:52 Even for a day?
05:54 That's too much.
05:56 For a big theater?
05:58 A big venue?
06:00 Yes.
06:02 Do you want to talk to Oggy?
06:04 Vanessa?
06:06 Maybe I'm not that good.
06:08 Even for a day, he moved on.
06:10 Is that acceptable?
06:12 Maybe not for some people,
06:14 but for you.
06:16 For me,
06:18 it's not.
06:20 It's too soon.
06:22 Don't do that.
06:24 What are we talking about?
06:26 Moving on?
06:28 Moving forward?
06:30 It's possible.
06:34 If we break up,
06:36 I'll have a boyfriend.
06:38 Especially if I'm not serious about you.
06:40 I'm not serious about you.
06:42 And while we're still together,
06:44 I have a prospect.
06:46 I have a prospect.
06:48 You're not hurt.
06:50 But moving on or moving forward,
06:52 It will take time.
06:56 It will take time.
06:58 Because there are stages of moving forward
07:02 or moving on.
07:04 The grief,
07:06 the acceptance,
07:08 denial,
07:10 depression,
07:12 anger.
07:14 Once you've gone through all those stages,
07:16 you'll be able to go back.
07:18 Yes.
07:20 Returning to the land called
07:22 "Paraiso".
07:24 Returning to the land called "Paraiso".
07:26 Return to the land called "Paraiso".
07:28 Return to the land called "Paraiso".
07:30 After one month,
07:32 your connection started
07:34 right there.
07:36 You haven't been in a relationship yet.
07:38 Not yet.
07:40 How is he?
07:42 What happened to you
07:44 when you were together?
07:46 We were okay at first.
07:50 But
07:52 on our first anniversary,
07:54 he was just there.
07:56 Because he's older than me.
08:00 He's used to
08:02 these problems.
08:04 What problems?
08:08 Like, women.
08:10 So, I was like...
08:12 He's used to the problems of women.
08:14 I mean...
08:16 He's a gay.
08:18 Yes, he's a gay.
08:20 He said he won't do it anymore.
08:22 He's a graduate.
08:24 Yes, he's a graduate.
08:26 I forgot
08:28 how to be a woman
08:30 from the first day
08:32 I met you.
08:34 In my heart,
08:36 your kiss
08:38 and your beating
08:40 are unbearable.
08:42 I kissed your hands
08:44 and your cheeks.
08:46 So, from now on,
08:48 you and I
08:50 will love each other.
08:52 I love you.
08:54 It's like
08:56 only two of us know the rap.
08:58 Only two of us.
09:00 Who rapped?
09:04 Oh my God.
09:06 It's Elvis Presley.
09:08 He rapped.
09:10 He did his last performance in Las Vegas.
09:12 He was in the hospital.
09:14 Yes.
09:16 Elvis is also a Hannah King.
09:18 Yes.
09:20 I love you.
09:22 My heart is beating.
09:26 Sweet jam.
09:28 So, he's a graduate.
09:30 Yes.
09:32 When men graduate
09:34 from women's college,
09:36 some of them get their first honors.
09:38 He's the first honor in women's college.
09:40 He's the valedictorian here.
09:42 But they're just
09:44 usual graduates.
09:46 I already took back
09:48 what I said.
09:50 So, your boyfriend,
09:52 when he graduates from women's college,
09:54 what will he get?
09:56 Honor student distinction?
09:58 Loyalty award.
10:00 That's a compliment.
10:02 You got it?
10:04 The first
10:06 one year,
10:08 I had trust
10:10 in him.
10:12 I thought he wouldn't do it.
10:14 Even if he looked at me, I didn't care.
10:16 I was confident.
10:18 I had trust in him.
10:20 He had trust in me.
10:22 Not until January.
10:24 We became a couple in January 2021.
10:26 Then,
10:28 December that time,
10:30 30 minutes
10:32 before Christmas,
10:34 he spent Christmas Eve with us.
10:36 Then,
10:38 So, it was around 11.30.
10:40 December 24.
10:42 Yes.
10:44 Then,
10:46 he sang
10:48 with my father.
10:50 He sang "Lips of an Angel".
10:52 With us?
10:54 We were there.
10:56 Yes.
10:58 What occasion?
11:00 Before Christmas Eve.
11:02 You were at home.
11:04 They sang "Lips of an Angel".
11:06 Yes, he sang "Lips of an Angel".
11:08 Lips of an Angel.
11:10 I'll start.
11:12 I hear your voice
11:14 saying my name.
11:16 It sounds so sweet.
11:18 Lips of an Angel.
11:20 Lips of an Angel.
11:22 Sounds so sweet.
11:24 Sounds so sweet.
11:26 Oh God,
11:28 the love that they give to us.
11:32 The love that they give
11:34 to us.
11:36 Oh, baby.
11:38 The lips of an angel.
11:44 We don't know what the chorus starts with.
11:46 But we only sang
11:48 "Lips of an Angel".
11:50 Yes, we only sang
11:52 "Plematic Singing".
11:54 But it's in the key.
11:56 It's okay.
11:58 So they sang "Lips of an Angel".
12:00 What happened?
12:02 He sang there.
12:04 I was in my room.
12:06 I saw his watch.
12:08 I said I'll charge it first.
12:10 But I'm not from...
12:12 Watch?
12:14 iPhone watch?
12:16 Apple watch?
12:18 Apple watch.
12:20 Wow, MC.
12:22 He doesn't know.
12:24 He's so happy.
12:26 I know that.
12:28 I saw your reel.
12:30 You're a robot.
12:32 You're a robot.
12:34 You're giving it away on Christmas.
12:36 I know that because I've been
12:38 given a lot of gifts.
12:40 Christmas party.
12:42 Apple watch.
12:44 And then, what happened?
12:46 Come on, tell us.
12:48 So,
12:50 you forgot, right?
12:52 I was not a techie
12:54 in the watch.
12:56 Then, I saw...
12:58 You were just pretending
13:00 that you saw something.
13:02 I was pretending.
13:04 Like someone poked me.
13:06 No, it's not like that.
13:08 I was going to the messages.
13:10 Someone poked you?
13:12 "Lips of an Angel"
13:14 "Lips of an Angel"
13:16 Then,
13:18 I saw that he's talking
13:20 to another girl.
13:22 On the iPhone?
13:24 Yes, he didn't delete it.
13:26 What did they talk about?
13:28 When is our graduation?
13:30 Maybe,
13:32 at the University of Pambabaeku.
13:34 Just kidding.
13:36 Just kidding.
13:38 Just kidding.
13:40 The foul words?
13:42 Yes, so much.
13:44 There's a foul.
13:46 It's not common.
13:48 What do you do?
13:50 Do you eat?
13:52 Sometimes, you'll be flirted.
13:54 When you see a text like that,
13:56 you'll ask, "Why is this girl flirting with you?"
13:58 But there's a clear text.
14:00 Yes, it's very clear.
14:02 It's clear.
14:04 What's the text?
14:06 "What's the garter of your lips?"
14:08 That's painful.
14:10 So, you got caught?
14:14 What did you do when you got caught?
14:16 Christmas Eve?
14:18 Christmas Eve.
14:20 You faced him?
14:22 I said, "Come here."
14:24 You're so scary.
14:26 You bit his Apple Watch.
14:28 You sliced his Apple Watch.
14:30 I don't want to ruin Christmas.
14:34 The moment.
14:36 I understand. I feel you.
14:38 It's very special.
14:40 It's very hard, especially during those times
14:42 when you were just there to enjoy
14:44 and celebrate.
14:46 Right?
14:48 So, what did you do? Come on. Tell us.
14:50 I asked him
14:52 if it's true.
14:54 He admitted
14:56 that he wanted to go home that time.
14:58 But I said, "No."
15:00 It's weird if you suddenly go home.
15:02 My parents will ask.
15:04 So, I just
15:06 put it aside.
15:08 We celebrated Christmas.
15:10 It's hard, right?
15:12 Why did he want to go home?
15:14 Because he was so shy.
15:16 But you're
15:18 a very patient woman.
15:20 Imagine,
15:22 you booked a room,
15:24 and you admitted, "Let's just do it tomorrow."
15:26 But it was sweet.
15:28 You were very firm.
15:30 It was sweet because it was Christmas.
15:32 I don't remember much.
15:34 I just remember that moment.
15:36 But it's awkward.
15:38 You're celebrating,
15:40 you're sitting at the table,
15:42 and you don't know what to do.
15:44 You're giving him food,
15:46 you're putting food on the plate,
15:48 and you're giving him a punch.
15:50 Did you even cheers?
15:52 And then, "Merry Christmas."
15:54 You're kissing. "Merry Christmas, please."
15:56 "I'm going home."
15:58 And when you gave him a gift,
16:00 did you even receive it?
16:02 I don't remember what the gift was
16:04 at that time.
16:06 What year was this?
16:08 It was just a year ago.
16:10 It was around 11 months ago.
16:12 How many years has it been?
16:14 It was around 2021.
16:16 It's been a long time.
16:18 2020.
16:20 2019, 5 years.
16:22 2018, 6 years.
16:24 It's not Christmas yet.
16:26 You're delaying it for a year.
16:28 We'll give you the computer.
16:30 Just delay it.
16:32 Retract your message.
16:34 Yes.
16:36 You're delaying it.
16:38 So...
16:42 So...
16:44 Our first anniversary
16:46 wasn't that special
16:48 because
16:50 it happened in December.
16:52 And our anniversary was January 20.
16:54 So we just
16:58 celebrated it.
17:00 Because it was still fresh.
17:02 So it was just a continuation.
17:04 It was just a continuation.
17:06 It wasn't a relationship yet.
17:08 You didn't talk about it.
17:10 You just admitted it.
17:12 You just moved forward.
17:14 We talked about it.
17:16 I was just sad.
17:18 But I always remember
17:20 in my memory
17:22 why I didn't ask him
17:24 because he didn't have
17:26 a good reason to hear
17:28 why he did it.
17:30 I just admitted it.
17:32 He always told me
17:34 that I was the only one who could help him.
17:36 Every time I broke down,
17:38 he would always disappear.
17:40 I was the only one
17:42 who helped myself
17:44 to be okay.
17:46 But why did you forgive him?
17:48 You loved him so much.
17:50 Yes. I thought I could fix him.
17:52 I thought it would be okay.
17:54 It's like a missionary complex.
17:56 Yes.
17:58 We're always stuck in hope.
18:00 We're stuck in a point.
18:02 I don't want to anymore.
18:04 You're the one who will save him.
18:06 How many times have you been like that?
18:08 Another chance.
18:10 Another chance.
18:12 When did you leave?
18:14 I couldn't take it anymore.
18:16 It was our second anniversary.
18:18 It was another anniversary
18:20 that wasn't good.
18:22 So on our second anniversary,
18:24 I don't know.
18:26 He always tried to make a way
18:28 for us to fight.
18:30 But he gave us a chance
18:32 that we should be together.
18:34 He was with me
18:36 when he celebrated
18:38 his girlfriend's birthday.
18:40 It was a different girl.
18:44 But he was handsome.
18:46 So it's confirmed that
18:48 he was with a different girl.
18:50 He wasn't with her.
18:52 But he was in a relationship.
18:54 He was with a girl.
18:56 Did they have a relationship?
18:58 No.
19:00 He was with a girl twice.
19:02 Yes.
19:04 They were together twice.
19:06 Because they were together.
19:08 It depends.
19:10 If one of them doesn't have a boyfriend,
19:12 the other one was with a girl twice.
19:14 If they were in a relationship,
19:16 they were together twice.
19:18 But if one of them was in a relationship,
19:20 the other one was with a girl twice.
19:22 He was with a girl twice.
19:24 He wasn't the cheater.
19:26 He was the other one.
19:28 It's hard to be with a girl twice.
19:32 Yes.
19:34 But you had time
19:36 to schedule it.
19:38 I don't know about him.
19:40 How did you book him?
19:42 He was there when you lost him
19:44 to celebrate his girlfriend's birthday.
19:46 He was there with an Apple Watch.
19:48 I saw this in a story
19:50 about his friend.
19:52 So, his friend was there too.
19:54 Yes.
19:56 They were in a group
19:58 for a birthday celebration.
20:00 It was okay.
20:02 But you didn't have a relationship
20:04 on his birthday?
20:06 We didn't have a relationship at that time.
20:08 But I gave him some gifts.
20:10 But I couldn't reach him at that time.
20:12 Because he was fighting.
20:14 He was planning
20:16 to fight
20:18 on our anniversary.
20:20 He was sabotaging
20:22 our relationship.
20:24 Sabotage?
20:26 He was sabotaging.
20:28 He was trying to
20:30 break you up.
20:32 It was an organized
20:34 sabotage.
20:36 But I discovered
20:38 that
20:40 on our second anniversary.
20:42 I discovered it on January
20:44 2023.
20:46 June.
20:48 Last year. June 2023.
20:50 Yes, because it's 2024 now.
20:52 So, it was last year.
20:54 You're so good.
20:56 It was two years ago.
20:58 It was 2021.
21:00 Yes.
21:02 You're so good.
21:04 I can calculate that.
21:06 You're really different.
21:08 You're a calculator.
21:10 So,
21:12 how do you fight?
21:14 Can you imagine?
21:16 It was Christmas.
21:18 It was so noisy.
21:20 It was so noisy.
21:22 You didn't...
21:24 You were using your phone
21:26 because you were jealous.
21:28 Right?
21:30 There are different
21:32 levels of jealousy.
21:34 There's cognitive jealousy,
21:36 behavioral jealousy,
21:38 emotional jealousy.
21:40 Cognitive jealousy, like what he said,
21:42 you can't see anything but
21:44 something is playing in your mind.
21:46 Cognitive?
21:48 It's in your mind.
21:50 You're overthinking
21:52 or it's causing you to overthink.
21:54 You're thinking about something
21:56 that's not good
21:58 even though you can't see anything.
22:00 That's cognitive jealousy.
22:02 Is that the one that makes you panic?
22:04 It's causing you to panic
22:06 especially if you're always feeling it.
22:08 Who's with you?
22:10 Yes, that's it.
22:12 In the Philippines,
22:14 it's called "tamang hinala."
22:16 You're feeling something
22:18 because it's in your mind.
22:20 Then,
22:22 you're calculating something.
22:24 Right?
22:26 Behavioral jealousy.
22:28 Behavioral.
22:30 You're calculating something.
22:32 Others are doing it.
22:34 They're thinking about
22:36 so many things.
22:38 Sometimes, they'll suddenly come
22:40 to their boyfriend.
22:42 That's his boyfriend.
22:44 He's at a party.
22:46 You'll suddenly come there.
22:48 It's surprising.
22:50 First, it's happening in your mind.
22:52 Second, your body is doing something.
22:54 It's becoming a stalker.
22:56 Yes.
22:58 So,
23:00 if you're fighting,
23:02 how are you?
23:04 Are you good?
23:06 Yes. I've adapted to it.
23:08 Before, I always
23:10 calm myself down.
23:12 I've adapted to
23:14 being shouted at.
23:16 We're shouting.
23:18 That's how we fight.
23:20 You're not fighting.
23:22 No.
23:24 So, that's your last meet.
23:26 It's your anniversary.
23:28 You're still with a girl. Is that enough?
23:30 Yes, that's enough.
23:32 Is it enough because it's painful?
23:34 Is it enough because
23:36 you don't feel that
23:38 your love and patience are gone?
23:40 It's gone.
23:42 When I saw him for the second time,
23:44 I confirmed that
23:46 he's still talking to someone.
23:48 I know the difference
23:50 when I felt it.
23:52 I caught him on the second time.
23:54 The second time,
23:56 it's gone.
23:58 It's enough.
24:00 Vanessa,
24:02 he went to you, right?
24:04 Yes.
24:06 How was it when you met him?
24:08 When you met him,
24:10 was he that type?
24:12 Yes. He's also loud.
24:14 When we fight.
24:16 He's also shouting at you?
24:18 Yes.
24:20 Especially during the first
24:22 three months of our relationship.
24:24 But because I'm calm,
24:26 I don't really answer
24:28 when we fight.
24:30 It's just his way
24:32 of handling our relationship.
24:34 He doesn't talk.
24:36 If we're together for 3-4 days,
24:38 he doesn't talk to me.
24:40 It's a silent treatment.
24:42 Is he also like that?
24:44 He doesn't leave you?
24:46 Is that his nature?
24:48 Well,
24:50 when we fight,
24:52 I'm the one who's triggered.
24:54 He's gone.
24:56 Number black.
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25:08 [BLANK_AUDIO]

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