Aired (August 24, 2024): Ayon kay Maro, kaya sila naghiwalay ng ex niyang si Pat ay dahil sa mga sad posts nito sa social media.
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00:00The issue is that he's always looking for someone to talk to when we have a fight.
00:06When we have a fight, it's just minor issues.
00:10Then I see him posting on social media.
00:13That's his style before.
00:16How does he look for someone to talk to on Facebook? What's his post?
00:19It's like a gay story.
00:21For example, you had a fight. What did he put on the wall?
00:25I don't remember exactly.
00:28But he said, talk to me.
00:32It's like a cryptic message.
00:34There are also sad emojis.
00:36Oh, sad emojis.
00:40So when you have a problem, he makes you feel like you have a problem on social media.
00:46Then he rants.
00:48First, when we have a fight, it's just minor issues.
00:51Then he adds things like that.
00:53What's wrong with him looking for someone to talk to on social media?
00:56Is he looking for a man to talk to?
00:58What's wrong with that?
01:00I don't do that.
01:02Because I know I'll hurt him if I do that.
01:05But you already know him. That's his personality, right?
01:09Yes.
01:10We talked about that.
01:12But there were times when he repeated it.
01:15Let's ask Pat.
01:17Why do you do that?
01:19Maybe he has a deep reason why he does that.
01:22Why do you look for someone to talk to on social media?
01:24Don't you have a family or friends to talk to?
01:28I do have friends.
01:30But I don't talk to a lot of people because I'm busy.
01:34When I want to talk to someone, he gets mad.
01:39I can't talk to anyone.
01:41I go back to posting things like that.
01:44But he's not the type to flirt.
01:47But if I want to talk to someone, I do.
01:50You seek comfort.
01:52You look for someone to talk to.
01:54Yes.
01:55And you get mad when he talks to someone you don't like.
01:59Is that so?
02:00Yes.
02:01You get jealous.
02:02Who do you talk to when you post things like that?
02:06My friends.
02:07Boys or girls?
02:08I also have boys.
02:09But as a public servant, I'm open to everyone.
02:16If someone chats with me, I'll reply to them.
02:20But in your post, it's not about your public service.
02:24It's personal.
02:26It's not about public service.
02:27If your topic is public service, I'm sure he wouldn't mind.
02:30Is that right?
02:31But it's personal.
02:32And you're talking to guys in your post
02:35who you're not talking to.
02:37It's not about public service.
02:39I feel like that's where he'll take offense.
02:41Is that right?
02:42Yes.
02:43Is that right?
02:44If you're talking to someone and he's jealous,
02:47he'll take offense because you're talking to a guy
02:50who's not talking about public service.
02:52In our situation, that hasn't happened yet.
02:57I haven't had a boyfriend yet.
03:00It's just my friends who are guys.
03:05I'm just comforting them.
03:07But they're just friends.
03:09That's right.
03:11Of course, guys will think,
03:14why do you have to do that?
03:16Why do you have to?
03:17It's like you're looking for attention
03:24from other people.
03:26Of course, if you're going to fight,
03:27you're the only one who's going to fix it.
03:29But let's look at social media.
03:32A lot of people are getting attention.
03:35That's why a lot of people are posting their status.
03:39They're posting their status
03:41where they're not being noticed.
03:43That's where they're being noticed.
03:46They're writing what they're feeling
03:49because what they're feeling is not
03:51that they don't care about their friends at home.
03:53That's where they get comfort.
03:55That's where they're being noticed.
03:57That's why Maru and I talked about
03:59not doing that anymore.
04:00Is that right, Maru?
04:01Yes, that's true.
04:02But why did you still do it, Pat?
04:04The situation is still the same.
04:06When we fight,
04:09he doesn't talk to me.
04:11He's angry.
04:12It's like he's missing something.
04:13It's like that.
04:15I'm thinking,
04:16where am I going to get...
04:20Where am I going to...
04:23Do you feel bad?
04:26You need a shoulder to lean on.
04:28But you're an SK, right?
04:30Why don't you go to the barangay?
04:33If people have a problem,
04:34go to the barangay.
04:36That's where you'll complain.
04:37But I don't want to talk anymore.
04:39I just shared it.
04:41But Pat is crying.
04:43He's hoping that it's Maru.
04:45But he's not there.
04:46He'll be noticed by Maru.
04:48But it's true.
04:50Maybe he's posing for the universe to see.
04:54But it's for you to react.
04:57To realize.
04:58Let's fix this.
04:59I get Pat.
05:01But I don't want to talk anymore.
05:05So, that's how it is.
05:07That's how it is.
05:11So, you didn't realize that, Maru.
05:14It's my nature.
05:17I need to calm down before I talk.
05:20But of course, it's like this.
05:22I was surprised when he said that.
05:24I was a bit scared too.
05:25But I don't want to talk anymore.
05:26He's like, calm down.
05:29I need to downgrade.
05:31I need to downgrade.
05:34Is your anger upgraded?
05:37I want to downgrade.
05:39Because if you're angry, you'll be more pitiful.
05:42That's true.
05:43You know, as partners, we need to learn that.
05:47That sometimes, not talking or bickering with our partners
05:53or their hesitation to go away
05:55doesn't mean that they don't like us.
05:58Or that they don't love us.
06:00They just need time out.
06:02That's valid.
06:03They just need time out.
06:05Because if you force them to talk,
06:07it will only make it worse.
06:09The fight will only get worse.
06:11And you can't get back what you said.
06:14Sometimes, we have to respect each other's silence.
06:17Yeah.
06:19So, you just need time out.
06:20Didn't you know that he's like that too?
06:22He just needs time out, that's why he doesn't bicker.
06:25I know that.
06:27I know that too.
06:28But it's like, when we fight,
06:32he gets angry right away.
06:34It's like, he doesn't want to talk properly first
06:39so that we can fix it right away.
06:41Because I don't want the fight to last long.
06:43They're not stubborn.
06:44When he's angry, he doesn't want to talk properly first.
06:48You, when you have a problem, you want to talk properly right away.
06:51You confront the problem right away.
06:53It won't work.
06:55You need to adjust.
06:56You need to give.
06:59You need to give.
07:00And you need to accept what's the truth between the two of you.
07:05He's like that.
07:06I'm like that.
07:07So, how do you make it work?
07:09Your differences.
07:11Because those are the stages of a relationship.
07:15First, you play, you flirt, and you're in love.
07:18Yes.
07:19After you're in love,
07:21you're being serious.
07:23You're being serious, right?
07:25What happened to you?
07:26You're flirting in love.
07:27You're being serious.
07:29When you're being serious,
07:30you don't flirt anymore.
07:33But you're being serious, right?
07:35You still want to be together.
07:36Yes.
07:37And third,
07:38you discover what you don't like about each other.
07:43That's it.
07:44After that, there are more stages.
07:46Others stop there.
07:48Yes.
07:49When they discover what they don't like about each other,
07:52they say,
07:53I don't like that.
07:54I'm out of here.
07:56No one adjusts.
07:57But there's a next stage.
08:00Yes.
08:01After you discover what you don't like about each other,
08:03the next stage,
08:05you will try to make it work.
08:07Because you're important to each other,
08:10and you love each other.
08:12The next stage is,
08:14you'll make a decision.
08:16Even if you have a lot of differences,
08:19you're still choosing each other.
08:22Commitment or commitment.
08:25A lot of people stop at the third stage.
08:28After learning and realizing the differences,
08:31the things like,
08:32Oh, that's not very handsome.
08:35Oh, that's not very beautiful.
08:37Oh, that doesn't make sense.
08:39That's confusing.
08:40I'm out.
08:44You don't study the differences,
08:48how do we make it work?
08:52There's no two people who are the same.
08:55You're right.
08:57Plus, the age.
08:59Sometimes, when you're young,
09:01it's hard.
09:02When you make a decision,
09:03you can't think straight.
09:05Of course, when you're mature,
09:07you can still think,
09:09Oh, it's a waste if I give up.
09:14How old were you then?
09:16I was 25.
09:17He was 21.
09:18Can you say that when you were 25 and 21,
09:21you weren't mature about love?
09:24I can say that we weren't that mature.
09:28We had a lot of flaws at that time.
09:31How about you, Pat?
09:32Yes.
09:33Because there's an age.
09:35Maturity is important.
09:37There's an age where you force the other two,
09:41you're really learning how to work.
09:44There's also an age where you'll fight
09:47even if you don't have a story.
09:50If you love each other,
09:51you'll find a way to fix it.
09:53Like them,
09:54they said that they'll just build issues
09:56when they fight.
09:58Then, they'll go home.
10:00Correct.
10:01Do you know what their issue is?
10:02What's their issue?
10:03Candy crush.
10:05That's too much.
10:08What's higher,
10:09sweet or divine?
10:11But what's the reason that they broke up?
10:13Of course, it's just an issue.
10:15It recurs every now and then.
10:17But what's the reason that they split up?
10:20Who can tell us?
10:24I'll go first.
10:25I'm the one who broke up.
10:26Why?
10:29First of all,
10:30I'm with his brother
10:32and his father.
10:34I'm also with his best friend.
10:35Because you're always with Bandy.
10:36Yes.
10:37They're so cute.
10:38They're drinking together.
10:39Right, Bandy?
10:40Your story.
10:41I don't like this.
10:43Then,
10:44I brought them home.
10:46Yes, because you went out.
10:48You brought his father
10:49and his brother home.
10:50Right?
10:51Your story.
10:52Then,
10:53when I got to their house,
10:54I brought...
10:55Him.
10:56He was there.
10:57Right?
10:58Yes.
10:59He was surprised by you.
11:00You went out with his father and his brother.
11:02Bandy and you.
11:03You brought him home.
11:04Yes.
11:05Pat was there.
11:06You brought him, right?
11:07Yes.
11:08What happened?
11:09Your story.
11:10I don't like this.
11:11Your story.
11:12I managed to make a video call
11:13with his ex-MU.
11:14Ex-what?
11:15Ex-MU?
11:16Ex-MU.
11:17Ex-MU.
11:18I also know the guy.
11:20You know the guy?
11:21Just by name.
11:23Just by name.
11:24You're also from Parangay?
11:25I'm also from there.
11:27Are you also from Kagawa?
11:28No.
11:29No.
11:30And of course,
11:31Yes.
11:32The blood boiled.
11:33Yes.
11:34What did you do
11:35when you saw
11:36the video call
11:37with the ex-MU?
11:39Yes.
11:40What did you do?
11:41What did you tell him?
11:42I told him
11:43to lower his voice.
11:44Because...
11:45Lower his voice?
11:46Yes.
11:47He got angry
11:48and lowered his voice.
11:49Oh, he lowered his voice.
11:50Yes.
11:51Were his father and brother there?
11:52Did they hear that?
11:53No.
11:54They went upstairs at that time.
11:55His father didn't see that.
11:57Oh, okay.
11:58You can't blame Pat
12:00if he lowered his voice.
12:01Yes.
12:02Because they were like that.
12:03They were singing.
12:06His father told him
12:07not to lower his voice.
12:08They've been singing for 3 hours.
12:09He's like a charger.
12:10I thought he's not there.
12:11So, he lowered his voice.
12:13But, confirm.
12:14Did you confirm
12:15that your ex-MU
12:16was the one you talked to?
12:17Yes, my ex-MU.
12:18What were you talking about?
12:19Were you playing around?
12:21No.
12:22Was it a public service topic?
12:23Yes.
12:24How will they clean the canal?
12:26What were you talking about?
12:27He suddenly called
12:29in the early morning.
12:30So, I got curious.
12:33Oh.
12:35You can't imagine
12:36that your ex-MU
12:37would call you
12:38in the early morning.
12:39Was it a beauty call?
12:40Yes.
12:41Beauty.
12:42Right?
12:43Yes.
12:44It was a drunk call.
12:45Yes.
12:46Beauty call.
12:47Where are you?
12:48Oh, okay.
12:49Because
12:50he's a public servant.
12:51Yes.
12:52Talk to me.
12:53Open.
12:54Wait.
12:55Put down the phone.
12:56Talk to me.
12:57Where are you?
12:58I asked him.
12:59Why?
13:00Why?
13:01What do you want?
13:03Nothing.
13:04Nothing.
13:05I came from the bar.
13:06I was about to go home.
13:07Suddenly,
13:09I felt sad.
13:10And I thought of you.
13:14It's late.
13:15I have a boyfriend.
13:18It's nothing.
13:19I just want to talk to you.
13:20It's like
13:21we're not together.
13:24What do you want to talk about?
13:25Where's your boyfriend?
13:27He's with my dad
13:29and my sister.
13:30Your boyfriend is not there.
13:32What do you want to talk about?
13:34Nothing.
13:35I just
13:36I just missed you.
13:40Don't be like that.
13:42Are you drunk?
13:44Yes, but just a little.
13:46Just three bottles.
13:49Just three bottles.
13:50But because
13:51he put all the alcohol.
13:53So,
13:54I laughed hard.
13:57Why?
13:58Why?
13:59Because
14:00Why are you calling me?
14:02It's late.
14:03You.
14:04Tell me honestly.
14:06It's late, right?
14:07You have a boyfriend, right?
14:09Why did you answer?
14:13Because
14:14I'm a public servant.
14:15Public service above all.
14:17I love it.
14:18Public service above all.
14:22What do you want?
14:23What do you need?
14:24Do you need an ID?
14:25Tell me the truth.
14:26Tell me the truth.
14:27You missed me, right?
14:31I'm so happy.
14:34Wait, let me explain.
14:36No, I didn't say that's her story.
14:38I said there are people like that.
14:40Yes, there are people like that.
14:41Yes, there are people like that from Tipsy Pig.
14:44I don't want to promote you.
14:46Sometimes, they just dare.
14:47In Tipsy Pig,
14:48we will be there at 2 o'clock.
14:50Those who are there,
14:52who wants to watch
14:53so they can call their ex-boyfriends?
14:56To what ifs.
14:57Tell us what happened
14:58in your story.
14:59I was curious
15:01that he called at that time.
15:03Actually, my ex-boyfriend
15:05is a brother of my ex-colleague.
15:08His family is also close to me.
15:11Curious?
15:12What do you mean by curious?
15:14I thought it was an emergency
15:16or something like that.
15:18Do you need anything?
15:19That's what I thought.
15:23Why does Paro look like that?
15:25Paro!
15:26I want to know.
15:29I want to know your honesty.
15:30I want to know, Maro.
15:33When you caught them,
15:34what was it like?
15:35Did you hear anything?
15:36Did you hear that it was an emergency?
15:38Yes.
15:39Was it a public service?
15:41And what was his position?
15:43Where was he?
15:44Was he like that?
15:45Was he on the sofa?
15:46Yes.
15:47Or was he like that?
15:49Oh, yes.
15:50Or was he hugged?
15:52Hugged.
15:53What was the situation?
15:54Do you want me to demonstrate?
15:55Yes, go ahead, Paro.
15:56It was something like that.
15:57No, you were there.
15:59What was his position?
16:01I was there.
16:02Where was he?
16:03What was he like?
16:04He was sitting there.
16:05Demonstrate.
16:06You too, Pat.
16:07You too, Pat.
16:08Demonstrate, Pat.
16:09You too, Pat.
16:10It's hard to talk to him.
16:13Maro, ask Pat.
16:14What was Pat like?
16:15What did he look like when you saw him?
16:16He was sitting like that.
16:17Huh?
16:18I'm Pat.
16:19You're Pat.
16:20You were there earlier.
16:21Maro, ask him.
16:22Oh, I know now.
16:23Why?
16:25Why?
16:26Why did you look for someone to talk to?
16:28I can't blame Pat.
16:31Why did he look for someone to talk to on Facebook?
16:34He called his exes.
16:37I can't blame him.
16:38It's okay.
16:41Okay.
16:42What did you hear him talking about?
16:44I didn't hear much.
16:46But I know it was him.
16:48Because when the call went down,
16:49I looked at who it was.
16:51You saw the name.
16:52Why did you get nervous when he saw you?
16:53If you didn't talk about anything bad.
16:55No.
16:56That's why I deleted the call.
17:00Because I heard that he was angry.
17:04I just wanted to explain.
17:06So if he's not angry,
17:07you will continue talking to the guy?
17:09No.
17:10But he said he was sitting like that.
17:13Were you saying anything at the door?
17:15No.
17:16I just heard him.
17:18I heard that he had a video call.
17:20I heard that he was sitting like that.
17:21I heard that he was sitting like that.
17:23If he's like that,
17:25Whenever I see you.
17:27Is it Separation?
17:29I think it was in September.
17:31I don't know.
17:34Yes.
17:35And he was angry.
17:36It's okay.
17:37But something happened.
17:38Shopee, Shopee, Shopee.
17:40Shopee, Shopee, Shopee.
17:42That's the main thing.
17:43That's the main thing.
17:44This is a serious question.
17:46You answered the call
17:47because you were curious
17:48that it might be important.
17:49It might be an emergency.
17:51When you found out,
17:52was the call an emergency?
17:54When you found out,
17:55was the call an emergency?
17:57No.
17:58That's why I killed him.
18:00His anger came at the same time.
18:02Yes.
18:04How long did you talk
18:05before he came?
18:07We just called him.
18:09He really came.
18:12That's it.
18:14No further questions, Your Honor.
18:15For my client,
18:17do you agree
18:18with what Pat said?
18:21I agree.
18:23Okay.
18:25You found him,
18:26but he said it's nothing.
18:27Why did you still separate?
18:29Do you have any proof?
18:30I went to the guy's house.
18:32Yes.
18:33I didn't hide.
18:34Yes.
18:35When I woke up,
18:37I was frustrated
18:38and hurt.
18:40Then he came
18:41to talk to me.
18:42Then he came
18:43to talk to me.
18:44Then he came
18:45to talk to us.
18:47The guy came
18:48to talk to Pat.
18:49Yes.
18:50To talk to me.
18:52When I woke up,
18:53it happened.
18:55I told him
18:56I have his cell phone.
18:58Then he notified me
18:59on Instagram.
19:01I saw that
19:02he was talking
19:03to the person
19:04who likes him.
19:06Are you a call center, Pat?
19:11What did you see
19:12in the notification?
19:13He's just friendly.
19:14He notified me.
19:15I read the message
19:16a little bit.
19:17What did he say?
19:18He was still talking
19:19about...
19:20It's like...
19:22It's like
19:23he was giving me
19:24an interpretation.
19:25It's like he was
19:26giving me comfort.
19:27But...
19:28You know,
19:29when you're
19:30interpreting,
19:31at that time,
19:32it's like
19:33you're giving
19:34comfort.
19:35At that time,
19:36I was frustrated.
19:37Then,
19:38another frustration
19:39and disappointment
19:40was added.
19:41So,
19:42it's clear here.
19:43Even if he's your boyfriend,
19:44you talk to your ex.
19:46You...
19:48You chat.
19:50You're chatting
19:51with guys
19:52who like you.
19:53But I'm not saying
19:54that you're talking about
19:55anything.
19:56You're just entertaining them.
19:58With my ex,
19:59it was just once.
20:01You entertained him.
20:02Yes.
20:03So,
20:04it was just once
20:05when he was courting you.
20:06No, he wasn't courting me.
20:07He was courting someone
20:08who likes you.
20:09Yes.
20:10It was just once.
20:11It was just once.
20:12It's like
20:13my friend
20:14who likes me
20:15was just saying
20:16that I can adjust
20:17to him.
20:18So,
20:19I went to him.
20:20Why?
20:21What right does he have
20:22to give you
20:23such advice?
20:24It's like
20:25we were just
20:26chatting.
20:27So,
20:28you were chatting
20:29when you already
20:30had a prior topic.
20:31Yes.
20:32So,
20:33when he saw you,
20:34that was the first time
20:35he messaged you.
20:36That was not the first time.
20:37No.
20:38You really messaged each other.
20:39Yes.
20:40He might post something
20:41on the wall.
20:42We've been friends
20:43for a long time.
20:47Okay.
20:48Because we don't really know.
20:49They're the only ones
20:50who know
20:51what they're talking about.
20:52If he's really wrong.
20:54When is being friendly
20:55not okay?
20:58When is being friendly
21:02not okay?
21:05It's like you're
21:06on the boundary.
21:07Yes.
21:08You're crossing the line.
21:10Right?
21:11When can we say,
21:12ah,
21:13this is not okay.
21:14Please tell me.
21:15Because
21:16there are times
21:17when
21:19we know
21:20that there are
21:21simple
21:23how are you?
21:24Those simple
21:25things.
21:26Right?
21:27But we don't know him.
21:28I'm not saying
21:29that's what happened
21:30to Pat.
21:31But you,
21:32at that point,
21:33you feel
21:34there's something
21:35that's not okay.
21:36So, goodbye.
21:37Yes.
21:38What did you feel
21:39after saying goodbye?
21:40Did you feel good
21:41that
21:42what I did was right?
21:43Did you not blame him?
21:45At first,
21:46frustrations
21:48and disappointment.
21:49Of course,
21:50I was disappointed
21:51because
21:52I experienced that.
21:53And so,
21:54I was frustrated
21:55with what happened.
21:56Then,
21:57I felt
21:58that it's time
21:59to let go.
22:00Because,
22:01I feel like
22:02it's repeating
22:03and increasing.
22:04Until
22:05that scenario
22:06came,
22:07I felt
22:08that we won't
22:09grow together.
22:10Don't you have
22:11a point that
22:12when you let go
22:13of your frustration,
22:14it's a waste
22:15if you let it go first?
22:16Because
22:17I didn't prove
22:19that Pat
22:20is no longer there.
22:21Don't you have that?
22:22I don't have that.
22:23I don't.
22:24Until the end,
22:25you feel
22:26your decision
22:27was right.
22:28Yes.
22:29How about you,
22:30Pat?
22:31How did you feel
22:32when she let go
22:33because of...
22:34At that time,
22:35she didn't want to
22:36anymore.
22:37That's why
22:38she let go.
22:40I even begged her.
22:41I even cried.
22:47I said,
22:50it's a waste
22:51what we did together.
22:56What we did together,
22:57I mean,
22:58it's just
22:59a waste.
23:02It's just
23:03a waste
23:04in a situation
23:05where
23:06there's no proof
23:07that
23:08we really
23:09had an affair.
23:10Maybe,
23:12I also had
23:13a lot of problems
23:14at that time.
23:15So,
23:17my emotion
23:18was like,
23:20I want to let it out.
23:22That's all.
23:23My mistake
23:25was that
23:26I talked to others
23:27even though
23:28I didn't have
23:29something or what.
23:31Maybe,
23:32I made a lot of mistakes.
23:33But,
23:34I know that
23:35I love him.
23:57I love you.