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00:00♪
00:13Did you give me the sweet O-O?
00:16O-O.
00:18With G-D.
00:19O-O-G-D.
00:21I'm sweating.
00:22But the solitude that we felt didn't last and it became true.
00:27Let's listen to the full story here on
00:32Especially For You.
00:35He went to a story where he promised himself to love
00:40but ended up breaking his heart again and again.
00:47That's sad.
00:49A searcher has the opportunity to be with our searcher
00:53at Indus Modern Indian Kitchen in BGC.
00:58He received marriage proposals but never got married.
01:06Let's welcome our special guest for today.
01:09Come on, tell us.
01:11Hello, welcome to Especially For You, Diana.
01:15Hello, good to see all of you.
01:17I was surprised when I looked at the board.
01:19It said, Diana, you're 40 years old?
01:22Yes.
01:22It looks like you're not.
01:24It looks like you're only 29.
01:26Thank you, thank you.
01:28But the reality is that I'm 40 years old.
01:33That's how it is these days.
01:35You don't look your age anymore.
01:37You don't look like you're 40 anymore.
01:39You need to look young.
01:41Hello.
01:43Standing in front of you is a 48-year-old stand-up
01:47from Tambuting Street in Taos, Manila.
01:49It's so nice to be able to say it.
01:53Let's go to the glow up.
01:55I believe in the saying,
01:57I feel like I'm the most beautiful in our batch.
02:01You had a high school reunion, right?
02:04College reunion.
02:06You went there with a glow up.
02:08Yes, because I'm the most handsome in our batch.
02:10But now, I feel like the world is turning.
02:14Just kidding.
02:15How are you, Daniela?
02:17I'm good.
02:18I'm feeling very excited to share some stories.
02:22She's so excited.
02:24How long have you been in the BPO?
02:26In the BPO? Excited.
02:28Excited.
02:30She's excited.
02:32So, in our intro to your story,
02:37it's so interesting.
02:39You experienced a lot of proposals,
02:42marriage proposals,
02:44that didn't work out.
02:46It didn't work out.
02:48But before we get into the details of your life,
02:50of course, you need to have something
02:52related to the story
02:54and the story of your life.
02:57Who will be with Diana for today's video?
03:00Here she is.
03:01Her mother.
03:03Mother.
03:05Madeer.
03:07Let's call Mommy Marilyn.
03:09Hello.
03:11Hi.
03:12Hello, Mommy Marilyn.
03:14Good afternoon.
03:15There.
03:16Welcome to Showtime.
03:18Where's your group that will sing tonight?
03:21Hello.
03:22No.
03:23You saw Mommy, right?
03:25Very groovy.
03:2640.
03:27Diana.
03:28108.
03:31108.
03:32We're at 108, right?
03:34She still has friends like Jeje.
03:36No.
03:37And Tatter Jeans.
03:38Huh?
03:39Tatter Jeans.
03:40And heels.
03:41And Aquamarine.
03:44And nail polish.
03:45Right?
03:46Mother is beautiful.
03:47They're both beautiful.
03:48Youthful.
03:49Yeah, very youthful.
03:50Mommy Marilyn is 70 years old.
03:52Hello.
03:53It's obvious.
03:54Thank you so much.
03:55Hello.
03:56You accompanied us today.
03:57Of course.
03:58You're the one who wants to show off.
03:59Oh, it's you.
04:00It's you.
04:01It's you.
04:02It's you.
04:03Wow.
04:04I saw Aquamarine.
04:05Hi.
04:07I feel sorry for you.
04:08You're the ones chatting on Facebook.
04:11I saw that you guys have DMs on Messenger.
04:13Sorry.
04:14The reunion was advanced.
04:16So, are you and your daughter Diana super close?
04:19Mommy Marilyn?
04:21Please raise your mic.
04:22We're close, but sometimes, there are times
04:25when we don't understand each other.
04:27Oh.
04:28When it comes to love life.
04:29To love life.
04:31Does Mommy have a lot of say about your love life?
04:36Does she know about it?
04:38A little.
04:39She's a little like that.
04:41Even if Diana is already 40,
04:44or especially because she's already 40,
04:46you want to make sure that she's 40
04:49and that it's okay for her to go to you.
04:52I really want her to get married.
04:54But the problem is,
04:57she won't be able to find somebody
05:00who's really serious,
05:01who she can truly love.
05:04Pressure.
05:05How do you find the pressure
05:07that your mom wants?
05:09I want her to get married.
05:11Does that pressure stress you?
05:14Honestly, I don't feel the pressure
05:17that she wants me to get married
05:20or settle down.
05:21It's the other way around.
05:23What do you mean?
05:24You're the one who's pressuring her
05:25to get married?
05:27You're already 70 and you want to get married?
05:29My daddy.
05:31No, I just feel like
05:34she doesn't want to.
05:36It's her being protective of me.
05:38She's picky.
05:39That's why you don't want to, mommy.
05:41She's picky.
05:42She doesn't want to.
05:43It's like she doesn't want anything.
05:45No, I want what's right.
05:47What's right for you?
05:50Somebody who's really loved
05:55plus someone who's established
05:58when it comes to everything,
06:00especially the finances.
06:02That's true.
06:03You don't want to leave your parents
06:05because you want your son to get married
06:07to someone who can give him a decent life.
06:10A comfortable life.
06:14You have a lot of marriage proposals.
06:16How many men have proposed to you?
06:18How many times have you experienced
06:20someone propose to you or get engaged?
06:23I've been engaged three times.
06:25Three relationships.
06:28I've been engaged three times.
06:31Three relationships,
06:33and I've been engaged each time.
06:36You have been engaged for three times.
06:38That's a lot.
06:40I'm so lucky.
06:42She's the type of woman
06:44who doesn't want men to propose to her.
06:46There are a lot of women
06:48who are waiting for a chance to propose.
06:51They're like,
06:52will I get married to him?
06:53We've been together for so long.
06:54He hasn't proposed to me.
06:55Will he propose to me?
06:56But she,
06:57she's experienced three times
06:59to propose and get engaged.
07:01But what hurts is
07:03all three of them didn't work out.
07:07What happened,
07:09Diana?
07:10You don't know either.
07:12The first one.
07:13The first one.
07:14The first one.
07:15You'll be surprised.
07:16Who was the first one
07:18to propose to you?
07:20And who was the first one to get engaged?
07:23The first man in my life
07:25was the late Keith Martin,
07:28the singer of that song.
07:30Because of you.
07:32Keith Martin,
07:33the singer of Because of You.
07:35He really lived here.
07:37Yes, for a long time.
07:38Because of you,
07:39he lived here?
07:40Yes, because of you.
07:41Because of you,
07:42my life has changed.
07:44He's the one I'm talking about
07:45in the song Because of You.
07:47Because of you.
07:49There,
07:50it's Diana.
07:51My life has changed.
07:52Thank you for the love
07:54and the joy you bring.
07:57Because of you,
08:00I feel no shame.
08:02I'll tell the world
08:05it's because of you.
08:08That's the theme song
08:09of Magyujowa.
08:10Yes.
08:11That's the theme song
08:12of Napakarapa.
08:13Yes, my school.
08:14When you hear that,
08:15what do you feel?
08:16I feel like crying.
08:17Like, I don't know.
08:19One more.
08:20Of course,
08:21there's no more singing.
08:23Hey, that's enough.
08:24Why?
08:25I feel like crying.
08:26Crying.
08:27One more.
08:28Wow!
08:29Crying.
08:30Just kidding.
08:31Last one.
08:35Right?
08:36That's the first man
08:37who made you feel
08:38that this is how
08:39someone proposes.
08:40This is how it feels.
08:42How long have you been
08:43with Keith Martin?
08:45We've been together for 8 years.
08:47It was a long relationship.
08:49Wow!
08:50Wow!
08:518 years.
08:528 years.
08:53We broke up
08:54a couple of years ago.
08:55We broke up for a couple of years
08:57and then we got back together.
09:00And,
09:02what's the best gift
09:04that Keith Martin gave you
09:06before you left?
09:07What's the best thing
09:08that he left in your memory?
09:10He went to heaven.
09:12I'm crying.
09:14The greatest gift of Keith,
09:16I would say,
09:17that boy over there.
09:19Our son.
09:20Where?
09:21Oh, you have a son!
09:23Hi!
09:24What's your name?
09:25Hi, Dion.
09:26Dion.
09:27Hi, Dion.
09:29Hello.
09:30Oh, you have a big voice.
09:31Wow!
09:32You're an NBA player.
09:33That's the kind of players
09:34that NBA players watch.
09:35He's so handsome.
09:36Hi, Dion.
09:37His last name is Dion.
09:39What's his name?
09:40Christian.
09:41Christian Dio.
09:43Hi, Dion.
09:44Do you know how to speak Tagalog?
09:46Yes.
09:47Oh, good.
09:49Do you sing also?
09:51Yes.
09:52Can you do us a sample?
09:53It's okay.
09:55He's shy.
09:56Just a little.
09:58No pressure.
09:59How old is he?
10:01He's 16.
10:02That's too much.
10:03He's already 16 years old.
10:06He's 16 years old.
10:08He just graduated grade 10.
10:10Wow.
10:11Congrats on the movie.
10:12Is he aware that his dad is very famous?
10:16Growing up,
10:17we didn't really emphasize
10:19that he's famous.
10:20We didn't emphasize
10:22that your dad is a celebrity
10:24or anything.
10:25But he just knows
10:26that he's known
10:27because of his song.
10:29It's really rare
10:30that a song is that famous.
10:31It's a massive hit.
10:32A lot of people gave their versions.
10:34Kyla also has a cover of that song.
10:36Yes, a lot.
10:37The impact of
10:38Because of You by Keith Martin
10:40back then was amazing.
10:42So he's the one
10:43who left you.
10:45Yes, the greatest gift.
10:47Because he's a product of love.
10:49And even though we're separated,
10:52we really did our best
10:54to raise him together.
10:56Even though he's far away.
10:57Of course,
10:58there are shortcomings.
10:59But he grew up
11:00knowing that
11:02both my mom and dad are there.
11:04They love me.
11:07Keith and you have been together for 8 years.
11:09But how many years
11:10were you engaged
11:11to be married?
11:13It was just for a short time.
11:15His story is funny.
11:16When he proposed to me,
11:18the ring didn't fit.
11:21The ring didn't fit.
11:23Maybe it's really for your mom.
11:25So you couldn't wear it?
11:27I couldn't wear it.
11:29He said he'll have it
11:31resized.
11:33But he didn't come back.
11:35So I forgot.
11:36Until I forgot.
11:38Something like that.
11:40And then,
11:41I was very young then.
11:42I just graduated from college.
11:44So,
11:45of course,
11:46you have certain expectations
11:48in life.
11:49And then,
11:50you have a child.
11:51You're more focused
11:52on raising your child.
11:55And then,
11:56Keith also became busy
11:58because he's an artist.
12:00So, if there's an opportunity
12:02to work abroad,
12:04abroad.
12:05So, I was one of those
12:06who encouraged him.
12:07It's okay.
12:08Until,
12:09you know,
12:10the plans of the marriage
12:11were over.
12:13There was also a little conflict.
12:15Until,
12:16it didn't continue.
12:18Oh.
12:20As a case,
12:22you didn't think about
12:24the wedding.
12:25You didn't prioritize.
12:26Life happens.
12:27Oh, the wedding.
12:28And I think,
12:29those cases,
12:30for example,
12:31you have a baby
12:32or you got pregnant,
12:33your parents would normally
12:34pressure you.
12:35You should get married.
12:37They didn't pressure me.
12:39I think their priority
12:40at that time was me.
12:42You should fix your career first
12:44because you're still young.
12:45You just graduated.
12:46You're still building your life.
12:48So,
12:49you don't need to.
12:50That's not the priority.
12:51So, it didn't happen.
12:53When Keith left,
12:54were you still together?
12:55We weren't together
12:56for a long time.
12:57Oh.
12:58But you were there
12:59when he left?
13:00Yeah, I was there.
13:02In fact,
13:03his remains are with us.
13:05Oh, okay.
13:06At home.
13:07Because Keith doesn't have
13:08a family.
13:09We're his only family here.
13:11So,
13:12the wedding didn't last.
13:16You separated.
13:17A new person came into your life
13:19and he proposed again.
13:21Yes.
13:22He proposed again.
13:23After,
13:24how long did it take
13:25for the second one to propose?
13:26The second one,
13:27five years.
13:28Five years.
13:29And when he proposed,
13:30how long were you engaged?
13:31When he proposed,
13:33after two weeks,
13:35he had to go to the States.
13:38It was locked down.
13:40So, he came back
13:41after almost one year.
13:45Show us how engaged you were.
13:46Show us how engaged you were.
13:47After one year.
13:49You were engaged,
13:50you proposed after one month.
13:52After one month,
13:53it was locked down.
13:54Oh, after two weeks,
13:55it was locked down.
13:56So, you didn't see each other.
13:57You only saw each other
13:58after one month.
13:59After one year.
14:00After a year,
14:01what happened?
14:02We were happy to see each other.
14:03Maybe after one month,
14:05we broke up.
14:06Oh, my God.
14:07I think the realizations
14:09came from the pandemic,
14:11right?
14:12We were different.
14:13And then, you broke up.
14:14You didn't see each other.
14:15A lot of things will change for him.
14:17A lot of things will change for you.
14:18Especially,
14:19in a situation like that,
14:20when there's a pandemic,
14:21we all have a lot going on
14:22in our minds.
14:23Yes.
14:24Right?
14:25When the pandemic ended,
14:26we were all different people.
14:28Yes.
14:29We're not like before.
14:30Pre-pandemic,
14:31we're all different people
14:34just like the people
14:35we were before the pandemic.
14:37So, when you saw each other,
14:38you were different people.
14:40We're different.
14:41We're different.
14:42And then, it didn't last.
14:44It didn't last.
14:46Did you have a fight?
14:48We had a fight.
14:49We had a fight,
14:50but it was in the corner.
14:52We had a fight in the corner.
14:53That's when they realized,
14:54Oh, my God.
14:55This is a sign.
14:56That's us.
14:57Realization.
14:58Parallel.
14:59And you were so happy.
15:00That's us.
15:01Why did you break up?
15:02Because you had a fight in the corner.
15:04Can I know why you had a fight?
15:06I think also,
15:07because you haven't seen each other for a long time.
15:09So, the plans were delayed.
15:12For us,
15:13when it comes to,
15:14that's the point
15:15that you're talking seriously.
15:17Like when you're together,
15:18in a relationship,
15:20you're dreaming together,
15:21you're working together.
15:23Once you get engaged,
15:25your conversation,
15:26your talks,
15:27it leveled up.
15:29This is serious, right?
15:30Yes.
15:32We talked about wedding plans.
15:34Because we were both busy.
15:37So, I said,
15:38this day,
15:39I'm free.
15:40Let's sit down.
15:41Let's plan the wedding.
15:43Like that.
15:44So, there were some guests.
15:46When it comes to expenses,
15:49maybe,
15:50because of the pandemic,
15:51people's pockets are limited.
15:56I think,
15:57the expenses became a concern.
16:01Then,
16:02it's easy to fight
16:04when you're already there.
16:06Like, why?
16:07Are you ready?
16:08Are you ready or not?
16:09Are you serious?
16:10And then, you start questioning.
16:12I'm sensitive.
16:13You start questioning,
16:14does he really want to get married?
16:18Or,
16:19is he just doing other things for a reason?
16:21You start questioning
16:24his seriousness.
16:27You felt like,
16:28he's not that serious.
16:30It's like that.
16:32So,
16:33it's like,
16:34he went to a fight.
16:35What's the name of the fight?
16:37The bell.
16:38Oh,
16:39the bell.
16:40Gasoline.
16:41While preparing for the wedding,
16:42he used gasoline.
16:43Actually,
16:44I heard a lot,
16:45when the wedding is near,
16:47while the wedding is getting closer,
16:49there's a conflict.
16:51Because the pressure
16:52rises in their minds.
16:54That's true.
16:55The pressure to prepare for the wedding.
16:57So,
16:58that's true.
16:59The pressure to prepare.
17:01The pressure of post-wedding.
17:03Expenses.
17:04After the wedding.
17:05Travel.
17:06The house.
17:08Because of the pressure,
17:09the stress,
17:10there's a lot of conflict
17:11that reaches the point
17:13of not getting married.
17:15Yes.
17:17Because Angeline,
17:18when I was with her,
17:19I was like,
17:20I'm going to tell a story.
17:22She always fought with Non,
17:24her husband.
17:26Yes.
17:27I don't know why,
17:28it's like her head is on fire.
17:31Pride.
17:32Yes, they always fight.
17:34I think that's how it is
17:35when you're getting married.
17:36They always fight.
17:37Pressure.
17:38What about you, Karil?
17:39Before you got married?
17:40I kept it a secret
17:41because I know the pressure
17:42of everyone.
17:43What are you going to wear?
17:44What are you going to wear?
17:45Where are you going to go?
17:46So, they thought at the time,
17:47that maybe,
17:48what do they call it?
17:49Shotgun wedding.
17:50Yes.
17:51Because,
17:52why was the announcement
17:53so quick
17:54and they got married right away?
17:55So, there's less pressure,
17:56there's less pressure.
17:57But you, Yael,
17:58did you fight with Non
17:59during the time
18:00that you were preparing for the wedding?
18:01No,
18:02because we didn't announce it right away.
18:03So, there were less questions,
18:06the expectations of other people.
18:08So, you didn't fight?
18:09We didn't fight.
18:12Who's next?
18:13Oh, it's Juggs.
18:15I'm just quick.
18:17I'm just a yes ma'am.
18:18Oh, really?
18:19Yes, ma'am.
18:20You want me to get red?
18:21Yes, ma'am.
18:22That's great.
18:23Shoutout to Boss Andy.
18:26Shoutout to Boss Andy.
18:31Boss Andy,
18:32you might get hired there.
18:33We can be a family.
18:35That's why
18:36we've been together for 18 years.
18:38Wow.
18:39Yes, ma'am.
18:40Yes, ma'am.
18:41So, that's your secret,
18:42Juggie?
18:43No, not you.
18:44I fought with him
18:45when it was over.
18:46Oh.
18:47Because it was a surprise for you.
18:48Surprise.
18:49When it was over,
18:50he said,
18:51what's that?
18:52What's that?
18:53Because,
18:54girls want
18:55their best look
18:56for their wedding.
18:57But,
18:58suddenly,
18:59he said no.
19:00And his dress,
19:01it's not what he wants.
19:02It's his dream dress.
19:03His dream
19:04is not totally.
19:05After our surprise,
19:06that's when I fought.
19:07But,
19:08it was good.
19:09It was live on TV.
19:10What about you, Chang?
19:11Before you got married?
19:13Well,
19:14we didn't really fight.
19:15Because,
19:16you know,
19:17there are men
19:18who can't handle
19:19that much pressure.
19:20And they can't
19:21plan things like that.
19:22So,
19:23sometimes,
19:24it's good to talk
19:25when the man says,
19:26oh, I can't do that.
19:27You do it,
19:28girl.
19:29But, I fought
19:30during the wedding.
19:31Because,
19:32the pictorials,
19:33you know,
19:34Papa Carlo,
19:35he doesn't like those.
19:36Yes.
19:37They will look for
19:38a lot of photos.
19:39Yes.
19:40And the ones you order
19:41to post.
19:42Yes.
19:43And a lot of dramas.
19:44For example,
19:45this or that.
19:46Then,
19:47while we were smiling,
19:48we were pictorialing,
19:49he said to me,
19:50these are the parts
19:51that I really like
19:52that I'm doing.
19:53Things like that.
19:54Yes.
19:55But sarcastic.
19:56But,
19:57they will do that
19:58because they love you.
19:59Correct.
20:00There's pressure
20:01in the beginning.
20:02You.
20:03You.
20:04You.
20:05You.
20:06When you got married.
20:07That was in Las Vegas, right?
20:08Yes.
20:09That was in Las Vegas, right?
20:10You fought.
20:11We fought.
20:12We were so happy
20:13at that time.
20:14That's why my mom
20:15got mad.
20:16She said,
20:17let's get married.
20:18My mom didn't know
20:19what was happening.
20:21My daughter was running.
20:24We were fast.
20:25We decided right away.
20:27Come here.
20:28Then,
20:29we were running.
20:31We were running
20:32to the chapel.
20:33We were running
20:34to the chapel.
20:35We were running
20:36to Las Vegas.
20:37We were running
20:38in our video.
20:39Then,
20:40we were laughing
20:41in Limusin.
20:42So happy.
20:43We were buying
20:44H&M clothes.
20:45Zara.
20:46Even our ring.
20:47Our ring is Aldo.
20:48We didn't have
20:49any preparation.
20:50We didn't have anything.
20:51So,
20:52our ring is the same
20:53as Aldo's.
20:54It's from the department store.
20:56Then, we were like,
20:57let's go.
20:58So happy.
20:59More pressure.
21:00More happiness.
21:01It all happened
21:02within 2 hours.
21:04We bought clothes.
21:05We bought the ring.
21:06We went to the chapel.
21:07We went out.
21:08We wanted to do it
21:09and finish it right away.
21:11We fought
21:12yesterday.
21:13Yesterday.
21:14Yesterday?
21:15Yes.
21:16Why?
21:17We played basketball
21:18and there's a game tomorrow.
21:20For Team Showtime.
21:21Anyway.
21:22So, it's been 2 years.
21:24It's the 3rd year.
21:26There's a 3rd year.
21:27You met
21:28a new man.
21:30But before you met him,
21:32what did your mom
21:33tell you?
21:34There were 2 proposals.
21:36There were 2 engagements
21:37that didn't continue.
21:38Did you get mad at him?
21:40Did you say anything
21:41to him?
21:42Yes, a lot.
21:43I told him.
21:45I like mother.
21:46Yes.
21:47What did you tell him?
21:48I told him,
21:49son, I hope you'll be chosen
21:50by someone else.
21:51That's someone
21:53who's ready to get married.
21:57When I asked the guy,
21:58the 3rd,
22:00I told him,
22:01I told him,
22:02when are you going
22:03to get my son married?
22:05He answered me.
22:08It's just the beginning.
22:09What happened?
22:10Isn't it scary
22:11to be with your mom?
22:12Your mom can overshare.
22:13It's nerve-racking.
22:14He answered me,
22:16auntie,
22:17it's been 5 years.
22:18What?
22:19You're not even young.
22:21You're still young.
22:22My son is not.
22:23So if you're really going
22:24to get my son married
22:25and you're ready,
22:27maybe it's about time
22:28that you get married.
22:30You're pre-measuring, mother.
22:31No, no.
22:33It's just that
22:34it's a reverse psychology.
22:36I just told him
22:37because I know
22:38my son loves him so much.
22:39He loves him so much.
22:41For me,
22:42the 2 relationships failed.
22:45I hope this 3rd one
22:47will be successful.
22:50Really?
22:51She said, really?
22:52Why?
22:53Is she the one who's broken?
22:54She said, really?
22:55Do you really want to be successful?
22:57Is she really approved?
22:58Diana?
22:59I'd say,
23:00the 2nd one,
23:02just like the 2nd one,
23:03there's a clear reason.
23:06I'm not confused
23:07as to why.
23:08When we got separated,
23:10when we finalized,
23:11his reason was
23:13he didn't want to be
23:14the breadwinner.
23:16So, those conversations,
23:18I think,
23:19you had a serious conversation
23:21before you got married,
23:22which I learned
23:24my lesson now.
23:25You should be talking about
23:26those things early on.
23:28What do you want to set up?
23:30Are you the kind of man
23:31who's willing to be the provider?
23:33Are you ready?
23:35Or what do you expect from me
23:37as your partner,
23:39as your wife?
23:40What happened with the 2nd one,
23:42that's his reason.
23:44He's not ready to be the breadwinner.
23:46He doesn't want to.
23:47He doesn't want to be the breadwinner?
23:49Double income.
23:50How old is he?
23:51Maybe 2 years?
23:52He's 16.
23:53Why?
23:54Underage?
23:55Underage to get married?
23:56What does he want?
23:57A double income
23:58for your household?
23:59Or...
24:00Or your own expenses?
24:01He didn't specify
24:02how.
24:03He wants a cakewinner.
24:05He doesn't want a breadwinner.
24:06I want a cakewinner.
24:08Breadwinner.
24:09From the beginning,
24:11in a relationship,
24:12I'm just being real all the time.
24:14I don't expect anything.
24:15But I share with you
24:17what I want,
24:19what I think is ideal.
24:22And I think added pressure also.
24:25No offense
24:26to my parents or to my mom.
24:28Parental pressure is added.
24:31Even if he doesn't
24:33directly
24:34care about the relationship.
24:37Growing up,
24:38the pressure of
24:40you have to be this,
24:41you have to be this way,
24:43or your partner...
24:44You've done a lot, Mom.
24:45Hi, Mommy.
24:46I did that.
24:48I'll face my son
24:49when I go home later.
24:51What did you say
24:52on that TV?
24:54Just kidding.
24:55I know it's out of love.
24:57It's all out of love.
24:58But I think,
24:59personally,
25:00it affected me
25:01on how I treated my partners.
25:04It's necessary
25:06for us to be good
25:08to our mom.
25:10If it's like this,
25:11or like that.
25:12So, there's that.
25:13It really has an influence.
25:15Your family,
25:16your friends,
25:17what you see in society.
25:18Our decisions
25:20are influenced
25:21by so many factors.
25:23Family, outside world,
25:25society,
25:26religion,
25:27all of that.
25:28Yes.
25:29So, there's another one.
25:30Someone proposed again.
25:31How did the third one propose?
25:33The third one?
25:34Where?
25:35Because it's only recent.
25:37Where did he propose?
25:38Recent?
25:39Like last month?
25:40Yes.
25:41March.
25:42We broke up in March.
25:44This year?
25:45You broke up in March.
25:46Yes.
25:47He proposed last year,
25:48in October.
25:49Where?
25:50At the Ferris wheel,
25:52in Moa.
25:53It was sunset.
25:55It's evening.
25:56No, it's 430.
25:58It's so hot.
25:59What?
26:00It's so hot there.
26:02It's so beautiful there.
26:04On a sunny day,
26:06the heat index was 75.
26:08It's so hot there.
26:09He was invited to the Ferris wheel.
26:11He was so hot.
26:13He was swimming up there.
26:14He was given a ring.
26:16Do you know what happened?
26:17It fell.
26:18How did you find it?
26:20How?
26:21At the Ferris wheel.
26:22There's an air conditioner there.
26:23But in the movie,
26:24it's like a suite.
26:25Yes.
26:26It's so beautiful there.
26:27We also had a Ferris wheel dinner
26:29for our anniversary.
26:31Where?
26:32Where?
26:33At EK.
26:37Go to EK.
26:38Enchanted Kingdom.
26:39Do you know what EK is?
26:40Enchanted Kingdom.
26:41What's EK?
26:42Eat Kulaga.
26:46Eat Kulaga.
26:50Go to the other station.
26:52Celebrate here.
26:57So there.
26:58Very sweet.
26:59You proposed there.
27:00You accepted the proposal.
27:01Until October.
27:03You accepted the proposal.
27:04But sadly,
27:05I'll make your story easier.
27:06But sadly,
27:07it didn't work out.
27:08After 5 months.
27:09Why didn't it work out?
27:12With the 3rd one,
27:13because it's a long distance.
27:15It's based in the US.
27:18The 1.5 time that we were there,
27:22he only went home 4 times.
27:24That's a lot, I think.
27:25He went home 4 times here.
27:27So the challenge there was
27:29the distance.
27:31And ultimately,
27:33I think the communication problem
27:35was our problem.
27:37We weren't aligned.
27:39Yes.
27:40Because you don't always
27:42see each other.
27:43Long distance.
27:45So you realized,
27:46before you got married,
27:47we weren't really swag.
27:48There were a lot of things
27:49that weren't swag for you.
27:50That's why you didn't continue.
27:52I thought we were.
27:53You fought a lot, right?
27:55A lot.
27:56But honestly,
27:57I thought we were.
27:58Not everything was ideal.
28:00But I thought we were perfect.
28:02But what happened?
28:03If you thought
28:04it was perfect.
28:05Because
28:07I'm already 40,
28:08or 39.
28:09At that point,
28:10there's no such thing as perfect.
28:12There's no such thing as perfect.
28:13Why did you break up?
28:15If you thought it was perfect.
28:16You said you thought
28:17it was perfect.
28:18The communication issues
28:19that I thought
28:20could be fixed.
28:21But it wasn't.
28:22I say some things
28:24that I'm just being realistic.
28:26Like,
28:27maybe it's not going to work
28:28because we're going to be apart.
28:30Yeah, that's why
28:31you realized
28:32that you weren't swag.
28:33Yeah.
28:34Who did I say earlier?
28:37Who should adjust?
28:39Are you going to stay here
28:41or there?
28:42That's what we didn't
28:43make a decision on.
28:44It's NDR.
28:45It's hard.
28:46Their wants
28:47weren't swag.
28:48They realized that.
28:49That's why they always
28:50fought until
28:51their last fight.
28:53They let you break up
28:55and you called.
28:57Right?
28:58Let's ask Ed.
28:59Where's Ed?
29:00Oh, he already left.
29:02He went to the bathroom.
29:03He went to the bathroom.
29:04He said he wants to
29:05rest more.
29:07He went to the restroom.
29:08I asked him,
29:09where's the restroom?
29:10Then I taught him.
29:11If you think he's sleeping,
29:12what are you doing?
29:13It's the restroom.
29:16Okay.
29:17Before we open the curtains
29:19and introduce you
29:21to the mothers behind the curtains,
29:23I have a question.
29:25What is the effect
29:26on a woman
29:28who has three proposals
29:30and engagements
29:31but it doesn't last?
29:33What is the effect
29:34on you,
29:35on your womanhood,
29:36on your personality,
29:37on your thoughts,
29:38on your beliefs
29:40about marriage?
29:41Because you might get in trouble.
29:43I don't want this anymore.
29:44I'm already in trouble.
29:45I don't want any more
29:46proposals.
29:47I'm just traumatized
29:48by this.
29:50Amazingly,
29:51I still believe in it.
29:52I still believe in love.
29:53I still believe in
29:56marriage.
29:57I still believe that
29:58one day,
29:59I'll find that man
30:00for me.
30:01But of course,
30:02it's tiring.
30:03Especially the last one.
30:04I was thinking,
30:05what is this?
30:06Is this a joke?
30:07Is this a joke?
30:09This is the third one.
30:11What's wrong?
30:12Am I like...
30:13Is it me?
30:14How did you face that?
30:16Do you get depressed
30:17whenever things don't go your way?
30:19Do you just take it?
30:20Huh? It doesn't go my way?
30:21Okay, I'll work first.
30:22Next.
30:23Thank you, next.
30:24Right?
30:25How do you deal with it?
30:26Do you get depressed?
30:29Of course, a lot.
30:31Not...
30:32It's more on...
30:34Because you broke up,
30:35you don't have the person
30:36you love anymore.
30:37It's not like,
30:38I won't get married anymore.
30:39It's less like that.
30:40It's more like,
30:41this is the person
30:42that you're ready
30:43to spend the rest of your life with.
30:45And then,
30:46you broke up.
30:47I was really depressed.
30:50And how do you announce
30:52that the wedding didn't go your way?
30:54Especially if
30:55a lot of people know about it.
30:56Yes, you posted it
30:57on social media.
30:58You posted a ring.
30:59Yes.
31:00And then,
31:01you posted a ring
31:02and then you deleted the post.
31:04No, I didn't delete it.
31:05Because for me,
31:06that's part of my story.
31:08And people will be confused.
31:09Her ring is different.
31:10It's three.
31:12And people will be waiting for you.
31:14Seriously?
31:15It's a long story.
31:16The ending,
31:17she didn't get married
31:18but she became an alahera.
31:20She made a lot of money.
31:21She had a jewelry business.
31:24But the second one,
31:26I brought it back, right?
31:27Yes, you brought it back.
31:28The third one,
31:29she took it.
31:32She took it,
31:33which was surprising.
31:35That's why,
31:36it's good that
31:37you didn't develop
31:38anger towards men.
31:40Especially the people
31:41that you love
31:42that you thought
31:44you'll get a good life.
31:45They gave you a ring.
31:47You liked it.
31:48One of them gave you a ring
31:50but he couldn't give it back.
31:52He said he'll resize it.
31:54It's good that
31:55it didn't affect you.
31:56And then,
31:59there was a lot of crying.
32:01Yes.
32:02The second one,
32:03the first one,
32:04it was a breakup.
32:07You were going to get married
32:08because there were wedding preps.
32:10So,
32:11it took a few months
32:13before I recovered.
32:15I developed
32:18a panic attack.
32:19It was like that
32:20for the first time in my life.
32:22The second one,
32:23maybe because I learned it,
32:25I just cried.
32:26I didn't have a panic attack.
32:27She's so brave.
32:28When I looked at her,
32:29I was like,
32:30she's so brave.
32:31The only engagement
32:32that was a call-off,
32:33it's like,
32:34it's crushing.
32:35There were two,
32:36there were three.
32:37But she was like,
32:38when did you break up last?
32:39March?
32:40April?
32:41May?
32:42She's here.
32:43Who's the searcher number one?
32:46What's your pick-up line,
32:47searcher number three?
32:48She's different.
32:51She's different.
32:53She's brave.
32:54She's brave.
32:55People are different.
32:57Women,
32:58there are women
32:59who will cry for a long time.
33:01There are women
33:02who will cry for a time.
33:03There are women
33:04who will say,
33:05I'll get up right away.
33:06Thank you.
33:07Next.
33:08But that doesn't mean
33:10you didn't cry.
33:12I just want to speak
33:13for other women too
33:14who might be the fastest.
33:16For me,
33:17the gap in the relationship
33:18is long.
33:19Like the second one,
33:20almost two years
33:21before the next one.
33:23What I meant was,
33:24now,
33:25it was only March
33:26when you broke up.
33:27And then,
33:28it's not a normal relationship
33:30where you broke up
33:31with a person
33:32you're engaged with.
33:33It's like,
33:34there's a wait.
33:35It was just March,
33:36still,
33:37two months,
33:38May, June.
33:39But my heart is still there.
33:41It's just that,
33:43I've just learned enough
33:45that you have to move on
33:47and you have to open the world
33:48for yourself.
33:49Because no one else
33:50will do it for you.
33:51And you,
33:52you're that kind of woman.
33:54You're the kind of woman
33:55who doesn't last long.
33:56Right?
33:57You don't last long.
33:58You cry,
33:59you get up,
34:00thank you, next.
34:01And maybe,
34:02the long-distance relationship
34:03helped
34:04so that there's always
34:05a gap.
34:06You don't see each other.
34:07And you only saw each other
34:08four times.
34:09And inside,
34:10there's anger.
34:11Yes, there's anger.