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How to know if a guy likes you? Are you interested in someone and perhaps keep missing the signs he is interested too? If you’re wondering how to interpret his subtle clues and signals, but you just aren’t able to decode his behavior, you're not alone. Many people find it quite challenging to figure out if someone is actually into them. In fact, research has shown your own personal biases and desires can shape the way you interpret the words, actions, and romantic intent of others.

So, how can you tell if your crush likes you? To be honest, learning how to know if someone is attracted to you is somewhat of an art. But, it's quite simple actually. You just need to pay close attention to the many facets of their behavior, instead of overestimating or underestimating their true intent. Consider your feelings when you're around this person, their reactions and the signs of interest before making up your mind that there is a possibility that this person is interested in you.

There are certain psychological signs when someone likes you, and they are usually quite evident. You just need to learn what they are, so you can recognize them. When you know what to look for, it's really NOT that difficult to interpret. So, you really like this guy, but is he into you as much as you’re into him? Well, watch this video and find out if he likes you back.

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00:00 Brainy Dose Presents, How To Know If A Guy Likes You – 10 Signs He Is Interested
00:06 While men tend to be more forthcoming in general when they like someone, we all know that some
00:10 guys can be obnoxious douchebags, and they have no problem shouting across a busy street
00:15 to let you know just how fine your ass looks.
00:17 However, chances are that the type of guy you're interested in doesn't behave this
00:22 way.
00:23 In fact, you find yourself wondering if he likes you at all.
00:26 Well the good news is that there are subtle clues and signals that you can decode quite
00:30 easily.
00:31 So to find out if a guy truly is into you, just pay close attention to the many facets
00:35 of his behavior.
00:36 When you know what to look for, it's really not that difficult to interpret.
00:41 Number 1 – Facial Cues
00:43 If you want to know if a man is truly into you, the first step is to look closely at
00:47 his facial expressions during your interactions.
00:50 Specifically his pupil dilation, as this can be a major indicator of interest and arousal.
00:55 If you notice his pupil's dilate when he's looking at you, this can be a definite sign
00:59 that he likes you.
01:00 Additionally, if he raises his eyebrows, licks his lips when he's talking to you, or smiles
01:05 in a way that reveals all of his front teeth, then you can bet he's into you.
01:10 Number 2 – Body Language
01:12 Another indicator that a guy likes you is revealed by his body language when he's
01:16 around you.
01:17 If his movements and hand gestures seem to be more overstated and exaggerated, specifically
01:22 by drawing attention to himself in a way that shows that he's powerful, sturdy, and takes
01:27 up a lot of space, he's hoping to capture your interest and fully entice you.
01:32 If his feet are pointed towards you during your interactions, this can also be a sign
01:36 that he's interested, as this type of stance demonstrates that he's making himself completely
01:41 approachable and non-threatening.
01:43 Another unspoken action that speaks volumes is when he sits with his legs widely apart,
01:48 also known as manspreading.
01:50 By sitting with his legs wide open, he's really showing that he's open and available
01:54 to you, and a lot more than you would think.
01:57 Number 3 – His Gaze
01:59 If a guy likes you, he will look for opportunities to bring himself closer to you.
02:03 While this can simply be found in his tendency to lean in close when you're talking, it
02:07 can also be evident in his desire to maintain eye contact with you.
02:11 And that's a pretty good sign, since most guys just prefer looking at your breasts.
02:16 Number 4 – Listening
02:18 When a guy is highly interested in you, he listens to you without interruptions or distractions.
02:23 This can give him the opportunity to show how much he likes you.
02:26 I mean, let's face it, some girls have the tendency to just ramble on and on.
02:30 So, if he's actually listening to you, you can take that as a pretty good sign.
02:35 In addition, if he can recall tiny details from your past conversations, then he's
02:39 definitely into you.
02:41 Number 5 – Compliments
02:43 Another way a man lets you know that he's interested in you, is by complimenting you
02:47 at every opportunity he gets.
02:50 When he takes the time to compliment you, he's probably saying he likes you, without
02:54 having to actually say it.
02:55 However, it's important to listen to the type of compliment that he gives you.
02:59 While a compliment about your appearance is a clear-cut sign that he's into you, another
03:04 indicator can be found when he compliments you on an emotional level, rather than a physical
03:08 one.
03:09 For example, when he praises your kindness, your sincerity, or your devotion to a friend,
03:14 he's surpassing the superficial and is hoping to show you just how much he likes you as
03:18 a person.
03:20 Number 6 – Personal Questions
03:22 If you're still wondering whether he likes you, another definitive sign is the personal
03:26 questions he asks.
03:28 As opposed to only engaging in casual small talk with you, or only asking about school
03:33 or work-related topics.
03:35 By asking a lot of questions, he's not only hoping to get to know you better, but he's
03:39 also looking to create a bond between the two of you.
03:42 Plus, asking you questions, gives him an easy and stress-free way to initiate and sustain
03:47 a conversation with you, so he can keep the dialogue flowing and hopefully create some
03:51 sparks.
03:53 Number 7 – Initiating Plans
03:56 Another indicator that he's into you, is that he makes plans with you.
04:00 He takes the lead and will follow through in order to spend more time with you.
04:03 A man who has feelings for you will likely respond to your texts and calls with rapid
04:08 speed.
04:09 Also, he'll more likely just take the lead and keep the communication going.
04:13 But it's important to pay close attention to what kind of plans he's making though,
04:16 and when.
04:17 If a guy initiates plans in advance that involve more conventional date-like activities, he
04:22 truly wants to spend quality time with you.
04:25 On the other hand, if he initiates last-minute plans with you, he's not showing very much
04:29 interest or investment in you.
04:31 In fact, it's highly probable that he's just looking for a booty call.
04:35 Number 8 – Doing Nice Things
04:37 If a man truly cares about you, he goes out of his way to do nice things for you.
04:42 Whether it's bringing you coffee, giving you a ride, or offering to fix your computer.
04:47 When he makes a dedicated effort to give you his attention, he's actually showing his
04:50 affection for you.
04:51 And he wants to do these things for you out of the goodness of his heart, because he really
04:55 likes you.
04:57 Number 9 – He Introduces You To His Friends And Family
05:00 This is a big one.
05:01 When a guy introduces you to the important people in his life, he's looking to get
05:05 their impression of you.
05:06 And since the opinions of his friends and family can be quite meaningful, he's clearly
05:10 into you if he's choosing to include you in various gatherings, events, and occasions.
05:15 He also wants to see how you interact with those people, in order to determine if there's
05:20 potential for you to have a real future together.
05:22 After all, if you don't get along with his friends and family, it's possible that his
05:26 hopes for a relationship with you may sink.
05:29 Number 10 – He Tells You He Likes You
05:32 Sometimes the best way to figure out if a guy's into you, is simply by listening to
05:36 the things he says.
05:37 And while he may not directly say, "I really like you," there are other key expressions
05:41 that can clue you in.
05:43 For example, if he tells you that he misses you, he's really telling you that you're
05:46 a significant and meaningful person in his life, and that he really wants to have you
05:50 in it.
05:52 In addition, if a man really likes you, his words will indicate just how much he cares
05:56 about you and your overall well-being.
05:58 For instance, he might ask you to let him know when you arrive home, simply because
06:02 he wants you to be safe.
06:04 And by showing his interest and concern for you, he's actually letting you know that
06:08 he's really into you.
06:09 In closing, if he doesn't give you any of these signs, then he's most likely not interested
06:14 in you.
06:15 However, if he does give you these signs, chances are that he's just trying to figure
06:19 out how to approach you.
06:20 What do you think?
06:21 Does he like you?
06:23 Which of these clues were you able to pick up on so far?
06:26 Let us know in the comments below!
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