Come Out 256 _ Kiếm hơn 100tr mỗi tháng, TikToker Spicy Kim vẫn chưa đủ tự tin COME OUT với gia đình

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NỘI DUNG:   Spicy Kim trải qua quá khứ cơ cực, sớm bươn chải vì gia đình khó khăn. Kim từng làm nhiều công việc khác nhau để kiếm sống và lo cho gia đình như: kinh doanh online, shipper, phụ việc ở tiệm bánh… Bén duyên với tiktok, Kim xem như "đổi đời" từ đó. Kim chia sẻ có tháng thu nhập lên đến 100 triệu đồng. Dù vậy nhưng Kim vẫn chưa đủ tự tin về kinh tế để come out với bố mẹ và dẫn người yêu 8 năm về nhà ra mắt. Kim và người yêu hiện chỉ muốn tập trung cho sự nghiệp là chính.  #ComeOut256 #comeout ​​ #mcvmedia #minhtuan #lgbt #SpeedCouple #Matchthatsechiathat #lgbtcomeout #chuyengioi #CO256 CO_256  Come Out 256 | Kiếm hơn 100tr mỗi tháng, TikToker Spicy Kim vẫn chưa đủ tự tin COME OUT với gia đình   GIỚI THIỆU CHƯƠNG TRÌNH: COME OUT - BƯỚC RA ÁNH SÁNG là một chương trình truyền hình thực tế Talkshow giữa MC và nhân vật có câu chuyện đặc biệt. Mong muốn của chương trình đem đến cho cộng đồng LGBT có thể tâm sự những nỗi niềm của bản thân, chia sẻ câu chuyện của chính mình về quá trình trải qua những nỗi đau và đấu tranh nội tâm để nhận được sự cảm thông từ gia đình và được xã hội công nhận và sống thực với chính mình. ► Playlist COME OUT BƯỚC RA ÁNH SÁNG: http://bit.ly/PlaylistCOMEOUT  ​ ⭐ THÔNG TIN MC:  ​Lê Minh Tuân: http://bit.ly/Facebook-LeMinhTuan  ​  KHUNG GIỜ PHÁT SÓNG: 8H Thứ Hai hàng tuần trên kênh youtube MCVMedia.    Giới thiệu kênh MCVMedia: MCVMedia là thiên đường giải trí với các chương trình truyền hình thực tế, talkshow hài hước, các phim sitcom - tình huống hài vui nhộn để mang đến những tiếng cười giải trí sau giờ làm việc, học tập căng thẳng.    Cập nhật thêm nhiều thông tin hấp dẫn tại: https://www.facebook.com/MCVCorp.Network  ​ MCVMedia cập nhật nhanh chóng và chính xác các chương trình truyền hình do MCV Corporation sản xuất, được MCV Network trực thuộc MCV Group bảo vệ bản quyền, quản lý, vận hành và khai thác nội dung. ✅ Đăng kí theo dõi/Subscribe MCVMEDIA: http://mcvnetworks.net/MCVMedia  ​   ► Xem chương trình yêu thích sớm nhất - nhanh nhất - không quảng cáo chỉ trên NETLOVE https://netlove.com.vn/  ►► Xem thêm: https://www.tiktok.com/@mcvnetwork.mcv

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00:00 How do you feel about the change in your life?

00:03 TikTok has changed my life a lot.

00:06 I can live, I can earn money to take care of my family.

00:13 It has changed a lot.

00:15 It's 90% of my life.

00:17 I only hear that boys and girls are not allowed to date.

00:23 Why?

00:25 My mom just said it and let it go.

00:30 She doesn't yell at me every day.

00:34 I remember the most.

00:36 I remember the time I delivered the goods to my friend.

00:41 It was raining heavily.

00:43 I remember that moment.

00:45 I felt like there was someone always by my side when I was in trouble.

00:53 - Polo. - And Minh Tuan.

00:55 Welcome to Come Out.

00:58 We have a special guest today.

01:00 She owns a very famous TikTok channel.

01:05 She has a big influence in the book bank in Vietnam.

01:08 She is a very spicy food lover.

01:11 She is Pacey Kim.

01:14 First of all, hello to you and everyone watching Come Out.

01:22 My name is Kim.

01:24 You know I'm Pacey Kim.

01:26 I'm a content creator.

01:28 I make book bank clips, food reviews,

01:32 raw and spicy food.

01:35 The fish I bought today is very fresh.

01:44 But it's a bit spicy because of the chili.

01:46 It has a strong smell of wasabi and chili.

01:48 I rate it 8 points.

01:49 But it's quite spicy.

01:51 If you follow this, you should reduce the chili.

01:53 I also have a job.

01:56 I sell food.

01:57 - Rice paper. - Rice paper.

01:59 I'm currently living and working in Ho Chi Minh City.

02:01 What is your fate that made you come to TikTok

02:04 and become so popular?

02:07 It's been a long time.

02:10 In 2019, TikTok was just launched in Vietnam.

02:13 It was a short time.

02:15 It was already popular.

02:18 But I was thinking that

02:21 this platform is popular now.

02:23 I should do something to try it.

02:26 I really like that job.

02:29 So when I was living with my friends,

02:33 they suggested me to try filming eating and drinking.

02:37 Because my friends have a habit of

02:40 watching mukbang every time they eat.

02:44 They told me to try it.

02:46 At first, I was scared.

02:48 I was afraid that no one would watch my videos.

02:50 At first, I didn't want to be seen.

02:53 I was afraid that people would see my face.

02:56 But luckily,

02:58 no one watched my first videos.

03:01 But when my videos started to get popular,

03:03 people started to know about me.

03:06 I started to do it since then.

03:09 Was it a coincidence or a method?

03:16 It was a coincidence. I just filmed and uploaded.

03:20 I didn't do it often.

03:22 Actually, I watched many of your videos.

03:26 The first videos I watched 3-4 years ago.

03:31 I wanted to watch them because

03:34 first, you eat spicy food.

03:35 Second, your way of speaking is very simple.

03:39 You don't use any words.

03:41 You watch many videos.

03:46 I think that's what makes your videos popular.

03:49 During your time doing TikTok,

03:51 I also do TikTok, I find it very difficult.

03:54 Do you find it difficult?

03:57 If it's difficult, I think it's very difficult.

04:00 I have to think about the content.

04:03 Although I review food,

04:04 I have to make it new.

04:07 People have to watch it every day.

04:10 My first challenge is to be creative.

04:13 I have to find a dish to eat every day.

04:16 I have to cut the video to make it suitable.

04:18 It has to be based on the content of the platform.

04:24 It's not just uploading and uploading.

04:27 Aqua Sailing, no-smell, from Europe.

04:29 No smell, dry for a few days.

04:32 What are the difficulties that you faced?

04:37 First, I think it's about finance.

04:41 At that time, my job was not stable.

04:44 Each dish cost 300,000-500,000 VND.

04:48 I earned 5-10 million VND a month.

04:53 But it was a bit difficult for me.

04:57 I had to do many jobs at the same time

05:00 to have money to buy food to film.

05:03 After you invested a lot,

05:06 time and effort,

05:08 is it the time you are struggling?

05:12 Yes, it is.

05:14 I want to share that TikTok changed my life a lot.

05:19 I have a way to live, income,

05:21 and I have money to take care of my family.

05:26 It changed a lot.

05:28 It's 90% of my life.

05:29 As far as I know, TikTok hasn't started making money.

05:33 Your videos are very popular.

05:36 Do you use it to make money?

05:41 I make money from ads.

05:43 When my videos are watched and interacted a lot,

05:47 the brands will contact me to book me

05:50 to show their products on my videos.

05:53 I make money from that.

05:55 To motivate people to work with you,

05:58 can you tell people how much you earn every month?

06:02 My income is not stable.

06:07 But I can share that my highest income is 100 million.

06:15 But it's not stable.

06:16 Because I earn a lot this month, but not next month.

06:20 I have my own job.

06:23 I sell food.

06:25 I don't have ads.

06:27 I have money to sell goods.

06:31 I sell goods.

06:32 You said that you had to do other jobs

06:35 to make money and buy food.

06:39 What are the jobs you do outside?

06:42 I deliver food on technology apps.

06:47 I help in the studio.

06:50 I sell food and rice paper.

06:52 I do everything by myself.

06:53 I go to work in the morning.

06:55 In the afternoon, I stay home to practice,

06:58 receive orders, and deliver them.

07:01 When I have free time, I deliver food.

07:05 What is the most difficult moment in your life?

07:09 With the current situation,

07:12 I think your family knows about your gender.

07:14 When did you come out?

07:18 It's not right to say come out.

07:21 Because I have never talked to my parents.

07:25 My parents only felt it.

07:30 Now they just say, "How do you live now?"

07:35 "As long as you live well, work hard,

07:38 and benefit the society."

07:40 My parents don't interfere with my personal life.

07:45 They say, "You're old now."

07:47 "So you should understand yourself."

07:51 When you discover yourself,

07:54 do you feel anxious?

07:56 No.

07:57 When you discover yourself,

07:59 do you feel any barriers or disagreement from outside?

08:04 I only hear that

08:08 boys and girls are different.

08:11 But my mom only said it.

08:17 She doesn't shout at me.

08:22 When did you discover yourself?

08:24 I was 14 years old.

08:25 I started to play social media.

08:27 I met some friends like me.

08:30 We played together and I discovered myself.

08:33 I only knew that I liked people with the same gender as me.

08:38 I didn't know what it was.

08:40 How did you know?

08:41 When I was 8 or 9,

08:43 I only liked to hang out with older girls.

08:47 I liked to hang out with the girls who were born.

08:49 I was so young.

08:55 In your life,

08:57 do you feel any difficulties with your appearance and gender?

09:04 I'm normal now.

09:12 I don't know if I'm a man or a woman.

09:17 I made a video and people asked me

09:20 why I had a feminine voice but a man's face.

09:22 People kept asking me.

09:24 I explained it on my live stream.

09:27 I explained it on my live stream.

09:29 But people kept asking me.

09:33 I've been asking them for years.

09:36 Who do you like more, your boyfriend or me?

09:39 I think I'm easy-going.

09:43 I can call anyone I want.

09:45 As long as they respect me.

09:47 I don't care if they call me brother or sister.

09:50 So you respect them.

09:52 When you first discovered yourself,

09:55 did you think you were a lesbian or a trans guy?

09:59 I didn't understand it.

10:01 I thought I was just a girl.

10:04 I knew the word lesbian.

10:07 But at that time, it was called lesbian.

10:11 I knew it was like that.

10:13 I found out later that it was a trans guy.

10:18 So you think you're a trans guy.

10:21 When you knew you were a trans guy,

10:24 did you want to share this information with your parents?

10:27 I did.

10:29 I talked to my mom.

10:31 I told her that I was dating a girl.

10:35 My mom thought I was just bored.

10:39 So she wanted to date a girl.

10:41 My mom always thought like that.

10:43 Sometimes, I talked to my parents.

10:45 They said I was old and should get married.

10:48 I was suffering.

10:50 I talked to them like that.

10:52 You said you had a boyfriend.

10:54 How long have you been dating him?

10:58 We've been dating for 8 years.

11:02 How old were you when you were born?

11:04 I was born in 1996.

11:06 Wow.

11:08 I thought you were born in 1999.

11:10 You've been dating since you were a kid.

11:12 I dated him when he was preparing for university.

11:15 Is he your first love?

11:19 No.

11:21 You've been dating for 8 years.

11:23 Do you want to keep that relationship for the next 8 years?

11:27 Have you thought about it?

11:30 Yes.

11:32 We've been dating for a long time.

11:38 We've been thinking about living together.

11:42 But we have to take care of our family.

11:46 We're not doing well financially.

11:50 We've been dating for a long time.

11:54 We'll think about moving in together.

11:58 How did you meet him?

12:01 I dated him through a friend.

12:04 We hung out together and met.

12:06 We dated again.

12:08 But we didn't date for 2 years.

12:11 We started dating 2 years later.

12:13 You dated him before and started dating him 2 years later.

12:16 Did you lose him or did you become friends?

12:19 We became friends and talked normally.

12:22 I had a boyfriend.

12:24 I broke up with him 2 years later.

12:26 I started dating again.

12:30 What was your first impression of him?

12:35 I didn't have a good impression of him.

12:40 I thought he was a bit boring.

12:45 I didn't like him.

12:47 I just talked to him.

12:50 I didn't intend to date him.

12:53 But he changed.

12:56 I found him more adorable.

13:00 I decided to date him.

13:02 I was lucky to have him as my friend.

13:06 We became friends.

13:10 How long did you date him?

13:16 About 1 month.

13:19 That fast?

13:20 Yes.

13:21 Good job.

13:23 You had a bad impression of him.

13:27 When did you change your impression of him?

13:30 I started dating him.

13:32 I changed my impression of him.

13:34 Why did you date him?

13:37 He was like that.

13:40 But he wasn't like that.

13:42 I talked to my friend.

13:46 She said he was a good person.

13:49 He didn't trust me.

13:54 We got to know each other.

13:56 We realized that we were good to each other.

14:02 Do you remember the most memorable moment in 8 years?

14:12 I remember the most memorable moment.

14:15 When I was delivering the goods to my friend.

14:19 It was raining.

14:21 I remember that moment.

14:23 I felt that there was someone who was always by my side when I was in trouble.

14:28 Do you understand that moment?

14:30 You two were delivering the goods together.

14:33 It was raining.

14:34 I was waiting for my friend.

14:37 There was someone by your side.

14:38 Yes.

14:39 You realized that he was always by your side when you were in trouble.

14:42 Yes.

14:43 You dated him for 8 years.

14:44 Do you have any memories of jealousy?

14:47 You must have had it in 8 years.

14:49 He was jealous of me.

14:52 I was jealous of him but I didn't say it.

14:55 I told him that I wasn't jealous of him.

14:58 I was jealous of him.

15:00 How did you know that you were jealous of him?

15:04 I thought I would choose the moment when we were comfortable.

15:08 He was shy.

15:09 He would understand if I told him.

15:11 I see.

15:12 Can you tell me the specific reason of jealousy?

15:15 For example, you.

15:16 You are a KOL.

15:19 Many people want to approach you.

15:21 Are you jealous of Facebook, TikTok or something else?

15:24 He wasn't jealous of them.

15:27 He was jealous of me.

15:29 I used to date many people.

15:32 I was in my 20s.

15:34 I was a teenager.

15:35 I used to date many people.

15:38 He was jealous of me.

15:41 I wasn't jealous of him.

15:43 We had mutual trust.

15:45 What did you tell him?

15:49 He was jealous of my love.

15:52 He would tell me about his love.

15:57 I was jealous of him.

16:00 Did he tell you something that made you jealous?

16:03 He was honest.

16:05 I was far away from him.

16:08 Many people liked my lover.

16:12 I was jealous of my lover.

16:17 You imagined it, right?

16:20 I imagined a lot.

16:23 How was your family when you were in a relationship?

16:27 We never talked to our friends or siblings.

16:33 Our parents understood.

16:36 We didn't talk seriously.

16:40 We didn't have confidence.

16:44 We planned to talk about it later.

16:47 Did your parents know about it?

16:49 No, but they told me.

16:51 When did you plan to meet your parents?

16:55 I haven't thought about it yet.

16:57 It's been 8 years.

16:59 You should have a family reunion.

17:02 Like a dinner together.

17:05 I planned to go on a trip with my parents.

17:11 It's just in my mind.

17:15 You took your friend to your family reunion, right?

17:19 Not a reunion, but a family trip, right?

17:23 No.

17:25 My mom knew my friend.

17:28 I just didn't take her home.

17:33 Why didn't you take her home?

17:35 I didn't have confidence.

17:39 About what?

17:40 Our life was not stable.

17:45 I wanted to be a good friend to my family.

17:50 We thought about it later.

17:53 Maybe it's a bit far.

17:55 You're a positive person.

17:58 You think a lot.

18:01 Why did you decide to use TikTok as a channel to show yourself?

18:06 I was selling rice paper at that time.

18:10 I had few orders.

18:12 I thought I should try it.

18:15 I thought I was lucky.

18:18 I thought I could sell more if I did it.

18:23 I could earn more money.

18:26 I started to do it because it was just at home.

18:30 I didn't have to go out.

18:33 I felt more comfortable.

18:35 I'm a positive person.

18:39 So I always ignore negative comments.

18:47 I just read positive comments.

18:50 I just do it.

18:52 I don't care what people say.

18:54 Did your lover support you?

19:01 At first, my lover was against it.

19:04 She was a bit of a pervert.

19:07 She didn't like my lover to show her face on social media.

19:11 She was a bit annoyed.

19:14 I don't know why but I really like to be famous.

19:21 It's the truth.

19:23 I started to like it when Facebook was popular.

19:27 I just did it.

19:30 Did those negative comments make you want to change your content?

19:36 No.

19:37 I can't please everyone.

19:39 Maybe they just look at me.

19:42 They don't like me.

19:44 They might have some negative comments.

19:47 I have some friends who like me.

19:50 They message me and encourage me.

19:52 They say I should do it.

19:54 They say I'm good at it.

19:56 Some people message me and say they watch my videos everyday.

20:01 They want me to upload more videos.

20:03 It makes me motivated.

20:06 I watched many of your videos.

20:10 I know what people are talking about.

20:13 Your appearance, gender, and words.

20:17 I'm really curious about this.

20:19 Why do you have such a beautiful skin?

20:21 At first, my skin was terrible.

20:24 I read comments and people said I always appeared on your videos.

20:28 Why didn't you hide it?

20:30 I started to get acne.

20:32 I started to go to the doctor regularly.

20:34 I went to school about skincare.

20:37 I didn't know anything about skincare.

20:40 I asked people for advice.

20:42 I started to learn about skincare.

20:45 I asked my lover.

20:47 My skin is better now.

20:49 It's not that beautiful.

20:51 But I think it's better than before.

20:53 I'm surprised.

20:55 There are things you can change.

20:57 But there are things that are hard to change.

20:59 For example, your words.

21:01 When you say something, there are some incorrect pronunciations.

21:04 Yes.

21:05 Do you change it?

21:07 Or do you think it's you?

21:08 I think I've been advised a lot about my words.

21:15 I think people are right.

21:19 Sometimes, I hear the wrong words.

21:22 I started to learn how to correct my mistakes.

21:27 I was advised by my teacher.

21:30 I can say it.

21:31 But I have a habit since I was a kid.

21:34 I have a habit of saying things too fast.

21:37 Sometimes, I can't say it.

21:39 So I'm trying to practice at home.

21:41 I go to school and practice to say things faster.

21:45 I can say it clearly to make myself less confused.

21:48 You're a social media model.

21:50 You're a tool to change the situation.

21:53 Do you have any message for young people

21:56 who want to be a content creator?

21:58 I think if you're determined to do it, you should do it.

22:03 I was afraid at that time.

22:05 But I was determined to do it.

22:07 I told myself to do it.

22:09 I had to think about whether I could do it or not.

22:11 I had to test whether I could do it or not.

22:14 If I couldn't do it, I wouldn't be suitable for it.

22:17 I just changed.

22:19 I tested myself and put my heart into it.

22:23 If I'm lucky, I'll succeed.

22:25 I think it's not about luck.

22:27 But after hearing Kim's story,

22:29 I didn't think I had to go through so much to build a TikTok channel.

22:33 I just thought I just had to post it and I would be successful.

22:37 So when I heard that I had to do other things

22:39 to make money, buy food and invest in it,

22:43 I saw that my success was a natural thing.

22:45 I worked hard and invested in what I love to do.

22:49 I'm very responsible for it.

22:51 What do you think Kim lacks?

22:53 Kim will go to school,

22:55 to improve and make more money for herself.

22:58 Now you're making money on TikTok.

23:01 Do you have any other plans for the future?

23:03 I think I'm still creating content.

23:07 I'm working hard to create good content

23:09 that is beneficial to everyone.

23:11 I don't have any other plans.

23:14 She's still chasing her dream.

23:17 I have the same thought as Kim.

23:21 I will do my best in everything I do.

23:24 When I open my eyes,

23:27 I will seize the opportunity.

23:29 I will do my best for tomorrow.

23:31 Right?

23:33 Thank you for coming to the show today.

23:36 I hope that after all the negative comments you've been through,

23:42 you will be the most comfortable person.

23:46 I wish you success in the future.

23:49 Thank you for the opportunity to share your story.

23:55 Thank you very much.

23:57 She's a very positive person.

23:59 Thank you for watching Come Out.

24:02 Don't forget to watch the show at 8pm every Tuesday

24:06 on MCV Media's YouTube channel.

24:08 Goodbye and see you again.

24:10 Bye.

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