Hôn Nhân Tuyệt Vời 7 Vợ mang bầu TIỄN chồng ra tiền tuyến suốt 8 năm không một bức thư

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00:00The Vietnam War

00:05Vietnam War

00:08The Vietnam War

00:10was a great sacrifice.

00:12The Vietnamese Party

00:14launched the first ship.

00:16It meant that the age of the war was not important,

00:18and we could not go back.

00:20The Vietnam War

00:22My mother said that

00:24if her husband went to Vinh Phuc,

00:26near the house,

00:28she would stay there to wait for him

00:30to liberate Vinh Phuc.

00:32If he came back, it would be good,

00:34but if he didn't come back,

00:36it would be bad.

00:38But in my heart,

00:40if he came back or not,

00:42I would raise my two children.

00:44Because my parents passed away early.

00:46If my mother passed away,

00:48my children would suffer a lot.

00:50The Vietnam War

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01:29They say that

01:31the old need to find their happiness.

01:33The most important thing for adults

01:35is health.

01:37So, every 5 in the morning

01:39we went to exercise,

01:41exercise in fresh air.

01:43As I did that,

01:45my children had serious

01:47conversations with friends

01:49about the memory of their past.

01:51I think that

01:53is a very fortunate thing.

01:55Busy children often have to go to work.

01:58Because they love their children,

01:59they share the housework with each other.

02:01Helping the children while talking

02:03is also a way to make themselves stronger

02:05and feel more useful to the family.

02:08Working from home is also a way to take care of your health every day.

02:12Cooking, sometimes alone, is fine.

02:15But with help, I still feel warmer.

02:19Just think of the children going to school,

02:21going to work, having a delicious meal,

02:23a sweet soup,

02:24you feel warm.

02:26With you, a family meal is very important,

02:28so I always hope that my children,

02:30no matter how busy they are,

02:31will come home to eat.

02:35It's been a long time.

02:37Many years of hard work to raise children.

02:39Fortunately, at the end of life,

02:41I see that the children grow up

02:42and you find a little joy

02:45when you watch football matches together in the evening,

02:48sing and discuss about each match.

02:50Maybe that's just great.

02:53Cherish every moment you have.

02:55Enjoy life in your own way

02:57is the secret of Grandpa.

03:05Please introduce yourself to the audience.

03:09Hello everyone.

03:11My name is Nguyen Duc Tran.

03:14My wife is 79 years old.

03:17Yes.

03:18She is 2 years younger than me.

03:26How long have you been together?

03:28It's been 59 years.

03:29Wow.

03:30One more year is 60 years.

03:31Yes.

03:32Prepare for 60 years.

03:33That's a long time.

03:3459 years.

03:35Wedding?

03:36Diamond?

03:37Diamond.

03:38Diamond.

03:41How many children do you have?

03:43We have 4 siblings.

03:46Yes.

03:47The second and the third are all boys.

03:50The last one is...

03:51Thao.

03:52Princess Thao.

03:53Yes.

03:54How old was your first son?

03:5659 years old.

03:5759 years old.

03:5859 years old?

03:59We got married on the 15th.

04:021965.

04:041965.

04:05At the wedding.

04:11Let's go back in time.

04:13Do you know how we met?

04:16It's very simple.

04:18I graduated from school.

04:20I went to find a job.

04:22It was a hard time.

04:23But I was happy.

04:25When I graduated,

04:26they gave me a paper.

04:27I had to go back to my hometown.

04:29I got the paper.

04:30There were 20 years gap in my graduation.

04:32I had to go back to my hometown.

04:34I had to go back.

04:35My wife also graduated.

04:37She was in the youth guard.

04:39It was a big place.

04:41She needed young workers.

04:44She needed young workers.

04:46She needed young workers.

04:47We went to the same factory.

04:50It was a big place.

04:52Why did you meet someone else?

04:55We went to the same factory.

04:57There were more than 100 people.

04:59It was a big place.

05:01We went to the same factory.

05:03We didn't know each other at first.

05:06We just got to know each other.

05:09We didn't know each other.

05:12We were in the same group.

05:14We were in the same field.

05:16We were in the same field.

05:18My class didn't have boys.

05:21We were all girls.

05:23My class didn't have boys.

05:25We were all girls.

05:27We were all girls.

05:29There were many girls.

05:31Why did you notice girls?

05:35I was a poet.

05:37There was a wall.

05:39You had to draw a poem.

05:41It was a poem.

05:43It was a poem.

05:45I thought it was good.

05:47I was a poet.

05:49I got a lot of girls.

05:51I found someone.

05:53I found someone.

05:55I found someone.

05:57That poem was a good one.

05:59Why did you have that poem?

06:01Why did you have that poem?

06:03I couldn't believe it.

06:05I couldn't believe it.

06:07I went to work at night, and the lights were dim.

06:10I was working on the stove.

06:12You probably know what a stove is.

06:14A stove is used to cook iron.

06:15I was working on the stove,

06:17and there were hundreds of stoves.

06:20Half of them were lit.

06:21Then, I passed by a factory

06:24where the workers were working.

06:26There was a child sleeping there.

06:28Suddenly, I was touched.

06:30I wrote a song to give to the child.

06:34The song was called Du Con.

06:36It was about the hard work of a creative person

06:39who had to work hard to build a steel factory.

06:43It was probably the biggest factory at that time.

06:46I was at the level of a soldier.

06:49I was in the South for 8 years.

06:51When I was a child,

06:53I always listened to that song to put the child to sleep.

06:56I don't know why,

06:57but when I heard the song,

06:59the child fell asleep right away.

07:01I can only remember a part of it.

07:03I only read a part of it.

07:04It's a bit long.

07:05Ah, my child, sleep well.

07:07There is a fire in the night outside.

07:09The rain falls on the side of the wall.

07:11I'm all alone.

07:13Can you see it in the rain?

07:15The tall trees are blooming.

07:17The sky is full of steel.

07:19Vietnam has steel, my child.

07:21Let me become a person.

07:22The steel factory of my life.

07:24I wish I had a strong heart.

07:26Stronger than the steel stream.

07:27Stronger than this.

07:28It's very long.

07:29Very good.

07:30My child, raise your hand.

07:31Raise your hand.

07:32I will never forget it.

07:33There is a fire in the night outside.

07:35The rain falls on the side of the wall.

07:37Can you see it in the rain?

07:39The tall trees are blooming.

07:41Vietnam has steel, my child.

07:43Very good.

07:44The girls read it all.

07:46I wrote that song to put on the wall.

07:49To put on the wall.

07:50I put it on the wall for everyone to see.

07:51So many girls must pay attention to you.

07:55No, I don't pay attention to anyone.

07:57She doesn't like it.

07:58She doesn't like it.

07:59But many girls like it.

08:01Many girls like it.

08:03I even love you, but they still like you.

08:06Oh, Van keeps saying that.

08:08Van keeps saying that.

08:10It suits you because you are a poet,

08:12but she is a singer.

08:14But you are a person who only works.

08:17You think about the future of the party.

08:19That's why you fall in love.

08:20I was only 19 years old.

08:22My parents passed away.

08:24My family was very miserable.

08:25I didn't think about love.

08:32But you were born in a big family.

08:35In the countryside.

08:36In the countryside, you were poor.

08:38Yes, I was poor.

08:39I was always poor.

08:40I went to Hanoi to study.

08:41You wore a lot of fancy clothes.

08:44I like poor people.

08:47You like poor people.

08:48Why?

08:49Because you were poor.

08:50I was very poor.

08:51When I came back from work,

08:53I only had one suit of clothes.

08:55I knew that the suitcase was very big.

08:57But I only had one suit of clothes.

08:59I only had one suit of clothes.

09:01I always wore it.

09:03Some girls were as old as me.

09:06They said,

09:07I was so ugly.

09:08But I was very beautiful.

09:11But at first,

09:13I noticed that you were simple,

09:15lonely, and poor.

09:17You even read my poems.

09:19I don't know why you love me.

09:21I love you because of this.

09:23My father said,

09:26If you love someone,

09:27you will be as poor as you.

09:29Then people will sympathize.

09:31Later,

09:32when a couple has a daughter-in-law,

09:34they will have a daughter-in-law.

09:35If you are poor, you will enjoy it.

09:36If you are poor, you will do it.

09:37If you love a rich person,

09:38later,

09:39if you don't ask me,

09:41you can't do anything.

09:43You are still young.

09:44So,

09:45first, you have to be healthy.

09:47You can be in any shape.

09:49Second,

09:50you have to be in the same situation as me.

09:52Then people will sympathize.

09:53When I met you,

09:54you were very poor.

09:55You were poor?

09:56Yes, you were poor before.

09:57It was before I met you.

09:58I was only 15 years old at that time.

09:59Then what did you wear when you took a bath?

10:01What did you do after taking a shower?

10:03I had no one to help me.

10:04You had only a costume for performing?

10:05Yes, I had a costume for performing.

10:06So you only needed to wear a costume?

10:07I traveled a lot.

10:08Ah

10:09And people gave me a dress for the labor.

10:12You had no one to help you?

10:13Yes.

10:14I had only a dress for performing.

10:15Not only a dress.

10:16I did not dress up.

10:17Do you only have a costume for weddings?

10:20No.

10:21But people always look at me.

10:23We came together because we were poor.

10:26My wife and I both like being poor.

10:30It's easy to understand.

10:31We want to develop ourselves.

10:33No one is easy to anyone.

10:34Yes, that's right.

10:35Now we have to look good.

10:37Now we have to be rich.

10:39But your wife is very rational.

10:40She's also human.

10:41Yes.

10:41I used to call him on the phone.

10:45If it was bad, I would turn it off.

10:46If it was bad, I would turn it off.

10:48He liked it.

10:50He would pick up my phone when it was bad.

10:53We were like brothers.

10:55Why didn't you love me?

10:57Who was the first person to confess?

10:59Who confessed?

11:00It was me.

11:01One day, on Saturday,

11:04my wife and I went out to play.

11:07She was sitting on the chair.

11:08She was sitting on the chair.

11:09She was sitting on the chair.

11:10I sat next to her.

11:11I sat next to her.

11:12I sat next to her.

11:13I sat next to her.

11:14They went out to play.

11:15They went out to play.

11:16I got out and asked them.

11:17I got out and asked them.

11:18So we decided to go together.

11:20You went with him?

11:22Yes, I did.

11:24He left a letter for me.

11:26So I asked him to go with me.

11:28It was the first time we went together.

11:30He left a letter for me.

11:32He left a letter for me.

11:34Did he say anything to you?

11:36No, he didn't.

11:38He just talked to me.

11:40He just talked to me.

11:42He just talked to me.

11:44He just talked to me.

11:46Did you buy him any food or drink?

11:48We did!

11:50We bought him a drink.

11:52So did he tell you anything about his friend?

11:54So did he tell you anything about his friend?

11:56Didn't he ask your girlfriend to buy him a drink?

11:58Didn't he ask your girlfriend to buy him a drink?

12:00If there was a gift like that,

12:02then I would have fallen in love.

12:04then I would have fallen in love.

12:06There was no gift.

12:08There was no gift.

12:10This place was not like this before.

12:12I knew this place.

12:14So I got a stamp.

12:18A stamp like this?

12:20I saw it.

12:21I bought it for my uncle.

12:23Oh, I see.

12:25I got a stamp.

12:27Oh, I'm so happy.

12:29Now people can do it.

12:32Everyone can do it.

12:34So you can buy a stamp.

12:36If it has meat, it's a meat stamp.

12:38I bought it for...

12:4010 cm?

12:43It's 10 cm.

12:4510 cm?

12:47It's not 10 cm.

12:49It's 10 cm.

12:51It's 10 cm.

12:53It looks so strange.

12:55No, it's not.

12:57How can I get it?

12:59Do I have to pay for it?

13:01You have to pay for it.

13:03You can't imagine how small it is.

13:05You can't imagine how small it is.

13:07You can put it here.

13:09Did you give it to her?

13:11No, I didn't.

13:13I bought it for my uncle.

13:15I bought him a green T-shirt.

13:17I bought him a green T-shirt.

13:19I don't know where it is now.

13:21Did you give it to him first?

13:23No, I didn't.

13:25I didn't buy him a T-shirt.

13:27You're so great.

13:29Did you take him to the bookstore

13:31to buy a gift?

13:33Did you take him to the bookstore to buy a gift?

13:35Did you take him to the bookstore to buy a gift?

13:37Did you tell him that you love him?

13:39Did you tell him that you love him?

13:41No, I didn't.

13:43No, I didn't.

13:45Did you hold his hand?

13:47No, I didn't.

13:49I walked on a tube.

13:51It's very slippery.

13:53It's very slippery.

13:55So I had to hide.

13:57I didn't fall down.

13:59You walked on the tube, right?

14:01I walked on the tube, right?

14:03I walked on the tube, right?

14:09When you hugged,

14:11you fell in love.

14:13When you hugged,

14:15you fell in love.

14:17I kissed him a little

14:19and then fell in love.

14:21You kissed on the tube?

14:23When I felt

14:25love,

14:27when I felt love,

14:29we kissed.

14:31It was not like now.

14:33It was not like now.

14:35I kissed his mother.

14:37I like him a lot.

14:38He's a very happy man.

14:43He's a very gentle man.

14:44That's right.

14:45So why did I accept his invitation?

14:47I knew that he and I were very close to each other.

14:52Before I accepted his invitation,

14:54I asked him the address of his house.

14:57I went to his house.

14:58I went there alone to see how his family was doing.

15:01Really?

15:01I went there alone and told him that

15:04I was a friend of his.

15:08I just wanted to visit his family.

15:11I was a farmer, so I could do everything.

15:17So I prepared everything for him.

15:20Then he told me that

15:21his friend had sent him to Dai Phai.

15:24I saw that his father passed away early and his mother was old.

15:28It was very hard for her to raise him.

15:32I was very poor, so I accepted his invitation.

15:38You were very careful.

15:39I had to know his family name.

15:40I had to know his family name.

15:43I didn't let him know.

15:45I told him that I had found his family.

15:48His father was very happy.

15:50Did you find your family?

15:53When he asked me, I told him that

15:55I took my mother there, but I didn't tell her.

15:57I went to her house, but I went to the wrong house.

15:59I went to her house, but I went to the wrong house.

16:02So you took your mother there, but you didn't tell her.

16:05Why was her house so far away?

16:07She had a 4-horse chicken.

16:09It was very old, but it was still healthy.

16:13So we went to the chicken coop near her house.

16:18We didn't know which chicken was which.

16:20So we went there and asked people.

16:21If we wanted to go back to our hometown, we had to go to this chicken coop.

16:24They told us to go to this chicken coop.

16:27This chicken coop was 30 km away.

16:29So we went to this chicken coop.

16:30We went to the wrong house.

16:32So we went to the wrong house.

16:35So we had to walk back to our hometown.

16:37You had to walk?

16:38Yes.

16:38My mother was very tired.

16:40So we went back to our house.

16:41At night, my mother and I were very scared.

16:44We didn't know what to do.

16:45We had to organize a dinner party.

16:48We had to call the police in time.

16:50We had to go back to work in the morning.

16:52It was very difficult.

16:54I had to go to the police station.

16:56I had to go to the police station.

16:57So we went back to our hometown.

16:58That's the memory I want to tell you.

17:06How long did you get married?

17:082 years.

17:092 years.

17:10In order to have a wedding,

17:12we didn't have any money.

17:14My parents were poor.

17:16My brother was poor.

17:18So we decided to have a dinner party.

17:23So we decided to have a dinner party.

17:26So we could have money to organize a wedding.

17:28We didn't have to ask my parents for money.

17:32So we decided to have a dinner party.

17:34So we decided to have a dinner party.

17:35We bought a couple of cauldrons.

17:36We bought a couple of cauldrons.

17:37Thank you.

17:38Thank you.

17:39Thank you.

17:40There were 3 levels.

17:42We had breakfast and dinner.

17:44We didn't have lunch.

17:45If we didn't feel hungry,

17:47we ate half of the food in the morning.

17:50We ate half of the food in the morning.

17:52We ate half of the food in the morning.

17:54We took the rest of the food to the factory.

17:56It took us 2 years to save money.

17:59We got married.

18:00I'm so emotional.

18:01We got married.

18:02There were a lot of people in our hometown.

18:05We organized a wedding.

18:07We organized a wedding.

18:09We didn't have a wedding.

18:11We didn't have a wedding.

18:13How was the wedding?

18:15There was no wedding.

18:17What?

18:18There was no wedding.

18:20We were given a bag of medicine.

18:22We had to distribute it monthly.

18:24If we got more medicine,

18:26we would buy more.

18:28If we got more medicine,

18:30we would buy more.

18:31We got the medicine here.

18:33We got the medicine here.

18:35We had to live with it.

18:38We used the Indian flour

18:44to make Banh cuy.

18:48It's like the cakes sold at the market.

18:53There was a plate of cakes like that.

18:56What did you give your daughter-in-law?

18:58Nothing.

19:00Nothing?

19:03You just stood there and laughed?

19:05I was just following her.

19:07I didn't do anything else.

19:09You just followed her.

19:10She was dancing and singing.

19:12Singing?

19:13Why didn't you dance?

19:15She was dancing and singing.

19:16So you didn't do anything else?

19:18You didn't do anything else?

19:20You didn't give her anything?

19:22The most important thing was that

19:24Mr. My Thu and Mr. Son Truong

19:27stood up and congratulated

19:29and recognized the two of them.

19:31From now on, they are husband and wife.

19:33It's not the police or the government

19:35that will come.

19:37They will recognize them.

19:39Isn't that great?

19:41You didn't give her anything?

19:43You didn't give her flowers?

19:45No flowers.

19:47You just gave her a shirt.

19:49You gave her a white shirt.

19:51That's it.

19:53You gave her a black shirt.

19:55Did you give her any presents?

19:59No one gives me presents these days.

20:03First, I was studying.

20:05He gave me a tray.

20:07Then, he gave me a tray of happiness.

20:09On June 15, 2015,

20:13I was studying.

20:15He put a table around the tray

20:17so that I could eat.

20:19I was studying.

20:21I gave him 4 trays of happiness.

20:23He said it was very precious.

20:253-4 days later,

20:27the army came in.

20:29The tray was still there.

20:31I was shocked.

20:33Second, he gave me a set of knives.

20:35When I got married,

20:37I gave him a set of knives.

20:39He said he wanted to cut the rice.

20:41I gave him a set of knives.

20:43Third,

20:45he gave me a set of water bottles.

20:47Here it is.

20:49Here it is.

20:51Here it is.

20:53This is just a copy.

20:55I think it's the same.

20:57It's not as beautiful as this.

20:59It's not as beautiful as this.

21:01He gave me a bowl of rice.

21:03He gave me a bowl of rice.

21:05He gave me a bowl of rice.

21:07He gave me a bowl of rice.

21:09He gave me a bowl of rice.

21:11All the presents were bad.

21:13All the presents were bad.

21:15No, it was a note.

21:17He didn't even give any notes.

21:19He didn't even give any notes.

21:21Why didn't he give me a note?

21:23He gave me 5 meters of cloth.

21:25If he bought it,

21:27he should have given it to me.

21:29After our wedding,

21:31he gave me one.

21:33He never gave it to me again.

21:35First, there was no money to buy it for me.

21:37It's like when you give a bottle of water, it's used to save money for other people's weddings.

21:42Oh, that's right.

21:43For example, if you give 4 bottles of water to someone, they will give you another 4.

21:49Do you have your own room?

21:51Oh, yes, but it's in Nha Tranh.

21:56In the past, the house was made for the workers to build the structure.

22:09The workers had to live in a house like that.

22:11The house that is currently being built is the house of the factory workers.

22:16After that, the factory workers took over the factory.

22:18Did they give you a house as a wedding gift?

22:21No.

22:22They gave me a house that the workers built.

22:25Is it a collective house?

22:26Yes, it is.

22:27It's an old house.

22:28But I like this one.

22:29It's comfortable to look at.

22:31Each couple lives in the middle of the field.

22:35Oh.

22:36That's it.

22:37For example, if you build a house on this side, you can see everything from here.

22:38It's just a staircase.

22:39Oh, I see.

22:40The kitchen is small.

22:41Oh, I see.

22:42You can see everything from here.

22:43Oh, I see.

22:44So how can you get married?

22:45In the past, the kitchen was so small that I had to build it.

22:50Are there many people around when you get married?

22:52There are people in each house.

22:53In my house, there is no one who gives me a hug.

22:55There are people on both sides.

22:56So what if people see you?

22:58Then I'll just sit in the picture frame and sit here.

23:03So you live together.

23:05Do you share a room?

23:08No.

23:09You never have a separate room?

23:10No.

23:11How many years have you lived there?

23:12I don't know.

23:13When I gave birth to my first child.

23:15Did you give birth there?

23:16Yes, I did.

23:17But where did you leave your child?

23:18In the hospital?

23:19Yes, in the hospital.

23:20You left your child in the hospital?

23:21Yes, in the hospital.

23:22Did your child stay in the room?

23:23Yes, in the room.

23:24In the hospital, there was no modern hospital.

23:27Especially compared to now.

23:29Back then, the hospital was big.

23:30The war started.

23:32Now is the most difficult time for me.

23:35I thought we couldn't be together anymore.

23:43It started in 1968.

23:45There was a self-defense movement in the South.

23:49The National People's Party was the first to take action.

23:53The first order was that

23:56cooperation was not important.

23:58I didn't say anything.

24:01One of my brothers was in the war in Laos.

24:04He had a missile.

24:06He had just returned from Russia.

24:08He was in the missile field.

24:10My second brother was in the artillery field.

24:13In the North, there were A, C, and K.

24:17But in the South,

24:19my brother was in the South.

24:23My brother left when

24:25my sister was 6 months pregnant.

24:38My second brother was 1 month pregnant.

24:43Were you shocked?

24:44No, I was not.

24:46I asked my sister-in-law

24:48to give me some sugar to feed my baby.

24:51I went to see my husband.

24:53I didn't know if he was coming home.

24:55When I got home, I couldn't see him.

24:58I was so young.

25:00I had to cook for my parents and friends.

25:04I couldn't see him.

25:06It was dark.

25:08I had to go home.

25:10I was 1 month pregnant.

25:12I had to go home.

25:14My younger brother,

25:16who was 4 or 5 years younger than me,

25:18hid the key.

25:20He didn't know if he was coming home.

25:23I couldn't see him.

25:25I couldn't stay with him for long.

25:28I told him to try.

25:30He told me to call him.

25:32It was 10 p.m. when I got home.

25:3610 p.m.?

25:38Yes, 10 p.m.

25:41When I got home,

25:43there were so many people.

25:45It was so crowded.

25:47I cried.

25:49I cried so much.

25:51I couldn't stop crying.

25:53We broke up.

25:55I was 24 years old at that time.

25:59I was 26 years old.

26:01I was too young.

26:03I told my husband

26:05to try to take care of me.

26:07If I live with my mom,

26:09how could I take care of myself?

26:11If I had to go home,

26:13it would be better.

26:15If I didn't, it would be up to me.

26:17I was too young.

26:19We cried together.

26:21One of us left,

26:23the other came back.

26:25I was 30 months pregnant.

26:27I told my mom to let me go home.

26:29I was a good girl.

26:31I didn't cry.

26:33I told my mom to let me go home.

26:35I didn't know what to do.

26:37I thought we could live happily together.

26:39But in the end, we broke up.

26:41When I was 10 days old,

26:43there were a lot of soldiers

26:45who went to fight against the enemy

26:47and sang the song,

26:49the song of Trần Sơn.

26:51My parents and I cried.

26:53We stood on the hill.

26:55At that time, there was a war.

26:57We had to flee to the mountains.

26:59My parents and I cried.

27:01We took a train from Thái Nguyên station

27:03to Nga Vinh station.

27:05From Nga Vinh station to Tây Ninh station,

27:07it was about 3,000 km.

27:09We walked from Nga Vinh station

27:11to Tây Ninh station.

27:13It was quite a long journey.

27:15There were about 2 teams.

27:17When we arrived at Tây Ninh station,

27:19I was injured.

27:21But I had to support my teammates.

27:23When you left,

27:25you must have been sad.

27:27No.

27:29I didn't think about my parents.

27:31I didn't think about my parents.

27:33I only thought about

27:35where I would sleep tonight.

27:37And how many people

27:39would be left.

27:41Did you ever think

27:43that you would never come back?

27:45Yes.

27:4790% of the time,

27:49I thought that I would live here.

27:51But I didn't.

27:53But I didn't.

27:55But I didn't.

27:57But I didn't.

27:59But I didn't.

28:01I didn't think about it.

28:03I didn't think about it.

28:05So I just left.

28:07One day,

28:09I met a group of soldiers

28:11who were injured.

28:13They were fighting.

28:15They were walking.

28:17They were walking.

28:19I wrote a letter.

28:21I had everything in my backpack.

28:23But I had to write a lot of letters.

28:25I wrote a letter.

28:27I lived in

28:29a place called

28:31Dien 559.

28:33In Truong Son.

28:35There were 3 borders.

28:37The north, the south,

28:39and Laos, Cambodia.

28:41I wrote a letter.

28:43I didn't have a pen.

28:45People who went there

28:47were injured.

28:49They said that they would die if they got injured.

28:51I held a pen.

28:53It wasn't a small pen.

28:55It was this big.

28:57I wrote a letter.

28:59I had a pen.

29:01I just left it there.

29:03I didn't need a pen.

29:05I went to 3 or 4 places.

29:07I met a group of soldiers.

29:09I wrote a letter.

29:11I didn't have a pen.

29:13If I wrote a letter,

29:15I had to go home.

29:17I went the wrong way.

29:19I wrote a letter.

29:21I wrote a letter.

29:23I wrote a letter.

29:25The next day,

29:27I was afraid that I would lose the letter.

29:29I went to a meeting.

29:31I gave the letter to B and C.

29:333 or 4 days later,

29:35I was afraid that I would lose the letter.

29:37I received the letter.

29:39Some people sympathized with me.

29:41They asked me why I had to go to Vietnam

29:43to write a letter.

29:45Maybe someone wrote it for me.

29:47Maybe someone wrote it for me.

29:49I didn't have a husband.

29:51I didn't have time to write a letter to my wife.

29:53You kept receiving letters,

29:55but within a year,

29:57you stopped receiving letters for 7 years.

29:59After that,

30:01I was in the most dangerous situation.

30:03You couldn't go out.

30:05I couldn't go out.

30:07I couldn't go out.

30:09When I went out,

30:11I was very lucky.

30:13At that time,

30:15Phuc Tau was on the highland.

30:17I was resting there.

30:19There was an order

30:21from the headquarters.

30:23It was an order

30:25for all the soldiers

30:27to come here

30:29to support the South Vietnam.

30:31Those who were in the middle,

30:33high, or university level

30:35had to focus on

30:37new missions.

30:39I was called up.

30:41The unit was added

30:43to the 5th and 9th battalions

30:45that were fighting in Saigon.

30:47I went to the headquarters

30:49and did

30:51all the missions.

30:53They transferred me

30:55to a film studio.

30:57It was a film studio.

30:59I filmed there.

31:01In general,

31:03you didn't have to fight.

31:05On the contrary,

31:07in Hau Phuong,

31:09she waited for you to write a letter.

31:11I only received a letter for a year.

31:13After that, I stopped receiving letters.

31:15Why couldn't you go out?

31:17After that,

31:19I received a letter from you.

31:21It was from the time

31:23I wrote to the time

31:25I held your hand for 8 months.

31:27It was wet with blood.

31:29It was raining.

31:31I thought

31:33that it was the guy

31:35who wrote the letter.

31:37The blood got into the letter.

31:39How did you raise your two children?

31:41At home,

31:43it was hard

31:45because there were only two of us.

31:47I raised

31:49bananas,

31:51vegetables,

31:53three pigs,

31:55and two dogs.

31:57When I got home,

31:59I could feed my children

32:01with milk and flour.

32:03I didn't have to eat anything.

32:05My two children were still healthy.

32:07They were in good health.

32:09They studied well.

32:11One thing is that

32:13my mother-in-law

32:15told me that

32:17I should go to Vinh Phuc.

32:19It was near my house.

32:21I told her that

32:23I would stay there to wait for her.

32:25If I could go back,

32:27it would be good.

32:29In my heart,

32:31if I could go back,

32:33I would raise my two children.

32:35My mother-in-law lost her father.

32:37It was hard for her to raise her children.

32:39I was determined to wait for her.

32:41I raised my children.

32:43I didn't think about anything else.

32:45Did anyone

32:47think about you?

32:49Of course,

32:51some people said that

32:53I couldn't go back.

32:55I was too young.

32:57I had to work to raise my two children.

32:59I had to take care of my husband,

33:01my dogs,

33:03and my neighbors.

33:05Why didn't you contact him after 7 years?

33:07I couldn't contact him.

33:09Did you worry about him?

33:11No, I didn't.

33:13How long did it take?

33:157 years.

33:177 years.

33:19Was it a secret?

33:21No, it was a secret.

33:23I couldn't tell anyone.

33:25But I found out

33:27that there was a time

33:29when I could tell her

33:31that there was a team of heroes

33:33who competed in a race.

33:35Some heroes fought

33:37and there was a man

33:39who was filming in Hanoi.

33:41I sent him a letter

33:43and he told me

33:45to go to Gang Thep.

33:47I didn't know

33:49if he would let me go

33:51or not.

33:53So I went to Gang Thep

33:55and I saw

33:57a team of heroes.

33:59All of them

34:01were invited

34:03to join the team.

34:05I was the last one.

34:09After 8 years,

34:11did you return to Vietnam?

34:13No,

34:15I returned in 1975.

34:17I returned in 1976.

34:19All the heroes

34:21who were in the same level

34:23as me

34:25were sent

34:27back to Vietnam.

34:29The military

34:31was sent back to Vietnam.

34:33Did you know

34:35that you would return?

34:37No, I didn't.

34:39But every 7 years,

34:41I received a letter

34:43that said

34:45that I would return

34:47after 8 years.

34:49I promised

34:51that I would return

34:53to Saigon

34:55safe and sound.

34:57I was allowed

34:59to stay in Saigon.

35:01I didn't want to go back.

35:03My parents-in-law

35:05thought that I would return

35:07during Tet holiday.

35:09They prepared

35:11cakes for me

35:13so that I could cry.

35:15My father-in-law

35:17was worried

35:19that I wouldn't return.

35:21My brother-in-law

35:23said that

35:25if I returned,

35:27I would have to

35:29buy a motorbike.

35:31If I returned,

35:33I would have to ride a bike.

35:35My parents-in-law

35:37thought that I would return

35:39in 1976.

35:41I lost my way

35:43because I had to

35:45leave my house at 3pm

35:47and return at 6pm.

35:49When I returned,

35:51my children

35:53came to see me.

35:55They didn't dare to recognize me

35:57because they didn't know

35:59who I was.

36:01When they saw me,

36:03they asked me

36:05if I was their father.

36:07I said yes

36:09and ran to them.

36:11They asked me

36:13if I was their father.

36:15I said yes

36:17and ran to them.

36:19They asked me

36:21if I was their father.

36:23I said yes

36:25and ran to them.

36:27They just cried.

36:29I was so sad

36:31because I didn't know

36:33if my husband would return.

36:35But when he did,

36:37my children thought

36:39that I was their father.

36:41They didn't ask me

36:43if I would return.

36:45They just asked

36:47if I would return.

36:49They didn't ask

36:51if I would return.

36:53On my 60th birthday,

36:55all the young men

36:57couldn't give me anything.

36:59Even on my birthday,

37:01I couldn't remember.

37:03They didn't want to sell flowers

37:05and I didn't have money to buy flowers.

37:07But I had a book

37:09called The Blood of a Poet.

37:11So I wrote a poem

37:13for them.

37:15Today,

37:17I wrote a poem

37:19about the gift

37:21of life and marriage.

37:23How old is the poem?

37:25Here it is.

37:27It was written 20 years ago.

37:2920 years ago.

37:31I'm 59 years old now.

37:33Here it is.

37:35It's easy to read.

37:37It's too old to read.

37:39I'll read it for you.

37:41Poems and flowers

37:43for my wife on my birthday.

37:45I brush my hair

37:47and wash my hands.

37:49I miss those days

37:51when I was young.

37:53I've been waiting for 5 months

37:55but I still can't get old.

37:578 years away from the battlefield.

37:59The road is hard

38:01and I'm worried.

38:03I came back with a silver uniform

38:05except for a wound

38:07in my head.

38:09This is the only gift I have.

38:11But why am I so happy

38:13like the day I fell in love?

38:15Time flies

38:17and I miss you so much.

38:19I miss you so much

38:21that I miss you so much.

38:23I miss you so much

38:25that I miss you so much.

38:27I miss you so much

38:29that I miss you so much.

38:31I miss you so much

38:33that I miss you so much.

38:35I miss you so much

38:37that I miss you so much.

38:39I miss you so much

38:41that I miss you so much.

38:43I miss you so much

38:45that I miss you so much.

38:47How many strands of hair on my head

38:49and how many strands of silver

38:51have changed color for you?

38:53You're strange and familiar

38:55half in the pillow

38:57half in the bed.

38:59You've given me all your shoulders

39:01to be sad and happy

39:03for the rest of my life.

39:0525th September, 2004

39:07That's great.

39:0920 years.

39:11You're strange and familiar.

39:13When you came here,

39:15you said you had nothing

39:17but a poem.

39:19Actually, I have nothing.

39:21When I married you,

39:23I didn't have any gift for you.

39:25I only have this poem.

39:27You gave me a shirt.

39:29A hat.

39:31A strange hat.

39:33Now let's watch

39:35a video clip of a girl.

39:37As an Australian girl,

39:39I would like to thank

39:41my parents

39:43for giving birth to us

39:45and raising us

39:47to have a life like today.

39:49For me,

39:51I also want to thank my parents

39:53for choosing a long way

39:55to come here

39:57to live with us.

39:59Maybe my parents will have

40:01more fun and more friends in their hometown.

40:03But my parents also chose

40:05Ho Chi Minh City

40:07as their home

40:09and I hope they will have

40:11a lot of fun.

40:19I love you so much.

40:21Let me see.

40:23We don't have flowers for your wedding

40:25so we prepared

40:27flowers for you.

40:29I didn't have flowers

40:31for my wedding when I was 8 years old.

40:3360 years ago, we didn't have flowers.

40:35Now we will hold a wedding again.

40:37My daughter-in-law is so beautiful.

40:41She is so beautiful.

40:43She is wearing a wedding dress

40:45and a flower.

40:47I used to be a rich man.

40:49I was so poor.

40:51Now I wear a wedding dress

40:53to experience

40:55the feeling of many years ago.

40:57This is a wedding invitation.

40:59We didn't have it in the past.

41:01But now we have it.

41:03Oh my god.

41:05It's like the old days.

41:07Let's take a photo.

41:13You two look like a couple.

41:15How do you feel now?

41:17I feel so happy.

41:19Don't cry.

41:21I want to cry.

41:23Don't cry.

41:25Because

41:27it's so hard.

41:29Your tears remind me of the old days.

41:33Hoang Thao, how do you feel

41:35when your parents told you that?

41:37I've heard that story 100 times.

41:39I was born in the future.

41:41I'm an Australian girl.

41:43But what my parents went through

41:45are the memories

41:47that I will never forget.

41:51They lived in that time

41:53and felt more than me.

41:55Through their stories,

41:57I learned a lot.

41:59Of course,

42:01I know that

42:03my parents went through a lot.

42:05I told them that

42:07I tried my best to make them proud.

42:09I hope that

42:11they will have

42:13a happy time

42:15in the future.

42:17This is the name of the show.

42:19This is the best gift

42:21for Thai.

42:23Thank you.

42:25I wish you good health.

42:27Thank you for coming.

42:29Thank you.

42:31Thank you.

42:33We've just watched

42:35a touching story.

42:37There are many lessons

42:39for couples who are in love.

42:41How to overcome

42:43those difficulties?

42:45How to love and care for each other

42:47for the rest of your life?

42:49There's no more suffering.

42:51They've been through everything

42:53to get to where they are today.

42:55Don't forget

42:57to turn on VLAN at 9.15 pm

42:59every Saturday

43:01on Vietnam National Television

43:03to listen, sympathize

43:05and transmit positive energy

43:07from wonderful marriages.

43:09From there, we'll have more faith

43:11and love in life, marriage and family.

43:13Thank you for watching.

43:15Goodbye and see you again.

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